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00:00Badr, Shahada-e-Badr, they were people of great trust.
00:08This is the time of wise people like me and you.
00:12Wise people are disobedient to Allah.
00:17And they try to, they even give advice to Pir Sahib.
00:22And a wise person is not satisfied all his life.
00:27That is why Hazrat-e-Rumi said that Allah gave people wisdom to use.
00:34And people used their wisdom all their lives.
00:38So all their lives they were in confusion, how was this? Why was this?
00:44The first lesson of the life of Shahada-e-Badr is to remember it.
00:49The first lesson of the life of Shahada-e-Badr is not to look at wisdom.
00:53You have to look at the commandment of Rasool-Allah.
00:57That person is saved.
01:00Allah said, O love, your charity.
01:05O love, your charity.
01:08It means a view on which you feel like sacrificing yourself.
01:12We are in great fun.
01:14O love, your charity.
01:16The fire that will extinguish is the fire that has been lit.
01:20I said, we are crazy people.
01:24There is no need for a Fakir.
01:27Hazrat-e-Saad bin Ubadah said, when Huzoor gathered people to take advice.
01:31Huzoor gave some arguments, some suggestions.
01:35Now when people left for Badr,
01:38You have heard a lot, read a lot.
01:40I have to give a hint.
01:42Then I will say a few things about Syeda Pak.
01:45So he said,
01:46He said, Huzoor was not going for war.
01:50There was a plan to stop the caravan.
01:53There was a plan to warn.
01:56Now that the atmosphere has become of war,
01:59Put a little burden on the mind.
02:02Today when we talk about Jihad to our governments,
02:05Despite having atomic power, they get scared.
02:08And first they claim something else.
02:12After that, they look for ways very quickly.
02:14They try to escape.
02:17Look, there are 313 people.
02:20And they also have 6 shields and 8 swords.
02:24I mean,
02:26Pay attention to what I am saying.
02:29Have you ever seen anyone leave the battlefield like this?
02:32Look, a man comes to the street with a gun.
02:35Doesn't he kill the whole neighborhood?
02:38All the people.
02:40I don't know if you remember or not.
02:41A man came to Islamabad with 2 guns.
02:44And he destroyed everything.
02:47A lonely man.
02:49So what was the situation there?
02:51There were 1000 disbelievers in Mecca.
02:53These 313 were 1000.
02:55Look at this comparison.
02:57Then each person has 3 types of weapons.
03:00There is a sword.
03:02There is a spear.
03:04There is an arrow.
03:06And there are 6 shields and 8 swords.
03:09Allahu Akbar.
03:11Hazrat Sa'd bin Ubadah says,
03:13When Mahbub-e-Karim asked for advice,
03:16The Prophet said,
03:18Now that the situation is like this, we have to fight.
03:20If they were wise, they would have said,
03:22Let them gather.
03:24Let them make a program.
03:26O Messenger of Allah, there are children behind you.
03:28There is everything.
03:30The Prophet said,
03:32O Messenger of Allah,
03:34O Messenger of Allah,
03:36Do not give too many arguments.
03:39If you want to give us guidance,
03:41Then, O Prophet, give us orders.
03:45Tell us, who do we have to fight?
03:48Do we have to fight humans?
03:51O Prophet, we are even ready to fight Jinn.
03:55And O Messenger of Allah,
03:57Not only drought,
03:59We will also fight in rivers.
04:01Because we have never looked at a drop,
04:04Nor have we seen a river.
04:06We have only seen your glimpse,
04:08And we have drowned there.
04:10All our life, we have been running our horses,
04:12And we have been tired.
04:14Till today, we have not understood,
04:16How was the victory in Badr?
04:18Till today, we have not understood.
04:20O Brother, the victory was bound to happen.
04:22When the younger brother, who is 12-13 years old,
04:24Says to the elder brother,
04:26You have been selected.
04:28Come on, do me a favor.
04:29Give me a chance.
04:31Have you ever seen this?
04:33That the children are not fighting
04:35To ask for a burger.
04:37Nor are they arguing with their father
04:39For a ticket to Maryland.
04:41In fact, the younger brother is saying to the elder brother,
04:43You have been selected.
04:45My height is also small, and my age is also small.
04:47Come on, give me a chance.
04:49Isn't it a strange sight,
04:51That the eyes of the sky have seen?
04:53At a young age,
04:55I fell in love with the game of sports.
04:56I used to cry, but I have forgotten.
04:58I used to feel shy to look at my lover.
05:01Then I used to cry in his memory,
05:03But I have forgotten.
05:05Haider Shah never used to cry.
05:07But now he cries, he cries,
05:09He has forgotten.
05:11So he started wrestling with the elder brother.
05:13When the matter started,
05:15He said in his ear,
05:17As soon as it started,
05:19You have been selected,
05:21Come on, do me a favor.
05:23When people come out in this way,
05:24This is an emotion.
05:26The love of the companions,
05:28Their slavery,
05:30Let me tell you one thing,
05:33There is so much debate in our society,
05:36There is so much debate.
05:38Now a person like me,
05:40Gets scared and runs away.
05:42I say, these two people who are in the public,
05:44Let them have a say in their debate.
05:46That is, a common man,
05:48Who has nothing to do with it,
05:50He is also arguing, giving arguments.
05:52And he is confused for no reason.
05:54He did not argue, he acted.
05:56He acted.
05:58My noble Prophet,
06:00As the Prophet said,
06:02Those people acted.
06:04The companions went to the battlefield of Badr.
06:07Then they fought.
06:09This is one scene.
06:11And the second,
06:13Which I want to point out,
06:15They should also understand.
06:17The way of the disbelievers was that,
06:20They slaughtered camels all night.
06:22They decorated the gatherings of the wine kebabs.
06:26They kept drinking wine.
06:28They kept eating meat.
06:30And Abu Bakr said,
06:32He is my beloved.
06:34He sat on the prayer mat all night.
06:36And the Prophet kept praying all night.
06:39He kept asking for the help of Allah.
06:41Remember,
06:43Some successes are also due to the blessing of the prayer mat.
06:46The weapon of prayer,
06:49It also creates a revolution many times.
06:50Our weapon has become very weak.
06:53The weapon is very weak.
06:55If you call for a chat,
06:57You should sit for six hours.
06:59And if you give someone a tasbih,
07:01I was present at one place.
07:03There was a program.
07:06There were a lot of people in it.
07:08A meeting was being held.
07:10So the meeting went on until the last minute.
07:12All the people sat.
07:14These religious people will pay attention to what I say.
07:18The meeting went on until the last minute.
07:20So everyone sat and talked.
07:22When it was time for the call to prayer,
07:24Many of them remembered their work.
07:26And some said,
07:28We will not go and read in our own mosque.
07:30So I requested them.
07:32I said, I think,
07:34What we have decided,
07:36If we pray together,
07:38Then Allah will bless us.
07:41So try.
07:43Try in your life.
07:45The Prophet gave us a lesson.
07:47Straighten the pages.
07:49Complete the preparation for Jihad.
07:51Complete the hard work.
07:53And when you do everything,
07:55Then call for Allah's help.
07:57Then you sit in prayer.
07:59Then do worship.
08:01I said two things to you.
08:03I will come back.
08:05The love of Ahl-e-Bayt-e-Labubbat
08:08Is one of the necessities of religion.
08:12Do you know what is our problem?
08:13People love each other.
08:15But they think that
08:17Love is fulfilled only after
08:19Disagreeing with one or two people.
08:21However,
08:23The beloved wants the whole world
08:25To love his beloved.
08:27This is what the lover wants.
08:29The lover wants the whole world
08:31To love his beloved.
08:33Now there are some lovers in the field
08:35Who gather the opponents of their beloved.
08:38This is also an opponent.
08:40This is also an opponent.
08:41This is also an opponent.
08:43There is no benefit.
08:45Sayyeda Tayyaba Tahira Hazrat-e-Fatimat-e-Zahra
08:48R.A
08:50There are four daughters of my beloved.
08:53And he is the fourth.
08:56She is the youngest.
08:58Do you know what the Prophet said?
09:00He said,
09:02He said,
09:04This is not separate from my existence.
09:06This is a part of my heart.
09:08Hazrat-e-Fatimat-e-Zahra
09:09When Hazrat-e-Fatimat-e-Zahra opened her eyes,
09:12This is the era
09:14The sons of the saints are the princes.
09:16The sons of the rich are the princes.
09:18When Bibi Sahiba opened her eyes,
09:21The servant of the universe said,
09:23I have not seen that ease
09:25Which is found in ordinary houses.
09:27I have seen stones coming towards my house.
09:30I have seen my father in pain.
09:33I have seen him in trial.
09:35Inside the house,
09:36She asks small questions.
09:38She asks questions.
09:40She asks small questions from Sayyeda Khatidat-ul-Kubra.
09:43There are questions.
09:45When the Prophet comes home,
09:47He puts Hazrat-e-Fatimat-e-Zahra in his lap.
09:49She asks small questions.
09:51She answers the questions.
09:53A little time passed.
09:55Then Hazrat-e-Khatidat-ul-Kubra passed away.
09:57She said,
09:59I do not forget that day.
10:01When my mother passed away.
10:03Hazrat-e-Khatidat-ul-Kubra passed away.
10:06Someone came home and told me.
10:08Someone told me.
10:10On the holy head of the Prophet,
10:13The disbelievers have put a big camel.
10:17The Prophet was in prostration.
10:19Do you know what happened?
10:21We have gathered so much ease in our bedroom.
10:25And our children have so much ease.
10:28When a person sleeps in such a cold room,
10:31Then you say to him,
10:33If you do Jihad in the field,
10:34It becomes difficult for him.
10:36Sayyeda Pak said,
10:38At a young age.
10:40Someone told me.
10:42Someone has put a big camel on the holy head of the Prophet.
10:45She said, I ran.
10:47And I went and
10:49I took off the camel from the holy head of the Prophet.
10:52Then I held the blessed hand of the Prophet.
10:55I took it near the well.
10:57The beloved sat down.
10:59I took out the water and washed the Prophet's hair.
11:03She said,
11:05When the Prophet was free, I said,
11:08O Allah, destroy those who hurt my father.
11:12He said, what did I pray for?
11:14The Prophet also raised his hand.
11:16You will be surprised.
11:18Hazrat Zaid bin Haritha said,
11:22When the Prophet returned from Taif,
11:24O Messenger of Allah, pray that he is destroyed.
11:26And the Prophet prayed for his guidance.
11:29In the field of Uhud,
11:30Hazrat Abu Bakr Siddiq said,
11:32O Messenger of Allah, pray that he is destroyed.
11:34But the Prophet said,
11:36If they do not believe, then their future generations will believe.
11:39But here,
11:41When Sayyeda Pak said,
11:43O Prophet, pray that he is destroyed.
11:45First they prayed.
11:47Then my beloved raised his hand.
11:49And the Prophet prayed,
11:51O Allah, destroy them.
11:53Fatima said,
11:55They were chosen and killed in Badr.
11:57They were chosen and killed in Badr,
12:00Who used to cause pain.
12:02In all this environment,
12:04Fatima Tazahra continued to grow up.
12:07When you pass through such an environment,
12:09Then you become a mountain of patience.
12:11Then you become a mountain of courage.
12:14Then you become generous.
12:16Then inside you,
12:18My daughter is very dear.
12:20My daughter is very dear.
12:22Then after every day and a half,
12:24Complaints come from her family.
12:25Because we have made her dear.
12:27Hazrat Fatima Tazahra says,
12:29From the beginning,
12:31Can anyone be as dear as my beloved has made his daughter dear?
12:35Can anyone be as dear as my beloved has made his daughter dear?
12:38Seerat Nigar says,
12:40Whenever Sayyeda Fatima used to come to the Hujra-e-Mubarakah of the Prophet,
12:43The Messenger of Allah would stand up and welcome her.
12:46The Prophet would kiss her forehead,
12:48Kiss her hand,
12:50And make her sit in his place.
12:52But along with that,
12:53There were many difficulties.
12:55That environment also continued.
12:58My friends, understand this.
13:00One day, she was passing through the street.
13:02Abu Jahl said something about the Prophet,
13:05Maazallah, summa maazallah,
13:07Naqal-e-kufr, kufr,
13:09He said something.
13:11So even if she is my daughter,
13:13She does not tolerate it.
13:15A father's real guardian is his daughter.
13:17The real guardian.
13:19If you knock on the door,
13:21The first daughter will come running.
13:23It is her interest.
13:25It is her hobby.
13:27It is her nature.
13:29When Fatima Zahra was passing by,
13:31She said something.
13:34The wife could not tolerate it.
13:36She was very patient.
13:38She used to talk less.
13:40When she could not tolerate it,
13:42She said, Abu Jahl, you are very rude.
13:44Allah has given my father a lot of respect.
13:47She got angry.
13:49And Maazallah, she hit Fatima Zahra.
13:52Please pay attention to what I am saying.
13:54If a person is thrown out of the house,
13:57With a small hammer,
13:59He is thrown out like a dog.
14:01He enjoys living.
14:03We have become fond of
14:06Easy things.
14:08It means that in our country,
14:10There are hundreds of thousands of people
14:12With depression and tension.
14:14Because we can tolerate even a little pain.
14:16No. The one who is being chased,
14:18He is his own.
14:19He is his own.
14:21The one who criticized a little,
14:23That matter is over.
14:25He is no longer ours.
14:27When he hit Fatima Zahra,
14:30Fatima Zahra came home crying.
14:33Sayyeda Khadijatul Kubra says,
14:35I have never seen Huzoor so worried
14:37As I am worried today.
14:39Huzoor got up.
14:41He never complained to the community.
14:43He did great atrocities.
14:45He never complained.
14:47But when he hit the princess,
14:49He said, go to the princess.
14:51And tell her that she has done this.
14:53And tell her that you are the elders of the community.
14:56If you take notice, it is fine.
14:58Otherwise, I will talk to her myself.
15:00Fatima Zahra says,
15:02When I went, Huzoor loved me a lot.
15:04He loved me a lot.
15:06He picked me up.
15:08He took me to Abu Jahl.
15:10He said, don't you feel ashamed?
15:12Look at your age and the age of the girl.
15:14Don't you feel ashamed?
15:16He bowed his head.
15:17Huzoor slapped him on the face.
15:19At a young age, Fatima Zahra said,
15:21No, no.
15:23My Wali has taught me how to forgive.
15:26These people take revenge.
15:28They take revenge.
15:30They take revenge and remain restless.
15:32If you want to enjoy something,
15:34Then try to forgive.
15:36Taking revenge makes you restless.
15:38By forgiving,
15:40By forgiving, the heart, the sea, the oceans drown.
15:42Who has given the heart?
15:44I don't know.
15:45Try to bear it.
15:47This is the fun of forgiving.
15:49Not taking revenge.
15:51Fatima Zahra said,
15:53Huzoor has given the order to forgive.
15:55Abu Sufyan raised his hand.
15:57He held the hand of the wife.
16:00He held the hand of Sayyeda Pak.
16:02He slapped Abu Jahl 2-3 times.
16:04She said, when he slapped, I started laughing.
16:06And I came back very happy.
16:08When I returned,
16:10I entered through the door.
16:12What a scene!
16:13What a unique love!
16:15From where will she find the date?
16:17This is also a passion.
16:19She said, when she came crying,
16:21Huzoor had to cry again.
16:23And when she came laughing,
16:25Huzoor had to cry again.
16:27Beloved cried.
16:29He hugged me.
16:31Son, what happened?
16:33O Messenger of Allah,
16:35He was telling me to hit.
16:37I was refusing,
16:39But he hit me holding my hand.
16:41Holding my hand.
16:43I prayed.
16:45O Allah,
16:47Abu Sufyan has loved my daughter.
16:49May Allah make you understand what I am saying.
16:52O Allah,
16:54Abu Sufyan has loved my daughter.
16:56Do not leave her empty.
16:58The scholars say,
17:00Abu Sufyan did not go to Badr,
17:02Not to Uhud,
17:04Not to Hudaibiyah.
17:06He kept coming with his sword.
17:08But now Kareem said,
17:10Run as much as you want.
17:11You have to give him the opportunity to recite the Kalima.
17:13Because you have loved Sayyeda Fatima.
17:16You have to give him the opportunity to recite the Kalima.
17:18Because you have loved Sayyeda Fatima.
17:20He kept coming till the end.
17:22He said, Abu Sufyan, run as much as you want.
17:24Run as much as you want.
17:26So all the other brothers died.
17:28And Abu Sufyan had the opportunity.
17:31He recited the Kalima.
17:33My Messenger of Allah gave him the reins of his horse in a battle.
17:38And when he had to prove his faith,
17:41Abu Talib said,
17:43Do you read the narration that
17:45Prophet Kareem said,
17:47I am a Prophet.
17:49This is not a lie.
17:51And I am the grandson of Abdul Mutalib.
17:53This is also not a lie.
17:55So the narrator of this hadith is also Abu Sufyan.
17:57He himself would have narrated this.
17:59So my brother,
18:01Whoever loved Sayyeda Fatima,
18:03As much as he loved her,
18:05In whatever form he loved her,
18:07Araf-e-Rumi has written,
18:08He says,
18:10One day Hazrat Bilal-e-Abshi was sitting.
18:12I hope you are understanding what I am saying.
18:15He says,
18:17One day Hazrat Bilal-e-Abshi was sitting.
18:19And some other slaves were also sitting.
18:21So Hazrat Bilal-e-Abshi said,
18:23O Messenger of Allah, any order?
18:25He said, no, all the work is done today.
18:27Huzoor, permission to leave?
18:29He left with permission.
18:31So a companion said,
18:33O Messenger of Allah, they often take permission.
18:35Where does Bilal go?
18:36Hazrat Bilal-e-Abshi said,
18:38Go and see where he goes.
18:40Finish the matter.
18:42By the way, this is also a fun,
18:44If you ever take it.
18:46Some people understand only through experience.
18:48The more arguments you give,
18:50The more they understand.
18:52Hazrat Bilal-e-Abshi said,
18:54Go and see.
18:56Hazrat Araf-e-Rumi says,
18:58He went and saw and came back.
19:00He said, he went to Sayyeda Fatima's house.
19:02Hazrat Bilal-e-Abshi said,
19:04Bilal understood the matter.
19:06When he is free, he goes to her house.
19:08When he is free, he goes to her house.
19:10He goes there and does his duty.
19:12He has understood that
19:14The Beloved has said,
19:16This is the piece of my heart.
19:18Whoever loves it, he loves me.
19:20And whoever hates it,
19:22He hates me.
19:24O Messenger of Allah,
19:26The slaves of the head of the universe,
19:28With Sayyeda Fatima Zahra,
19:30The relationship of love.
19:32Shall I tell you something?
19:33The one whom a person loves a lot,
19:35He is given things
19:37Which he likes a lot.
19:39If Ramadan Sharif comes,
19:41We will buy two types of clothes from the market.
19:43One to wear
19:45And one to give.
19:47Who are those who give?
19:49Those who don't wear.
19:51Women go on the occasion of marriage.
19:54They say,
19:56Now show me those who give.
19:58Does it happen or not?
20:00So I always say,
20:01Who are those who give?
20:03Why? It is like this.
20:05So those who give,
20:07Are those who wear.
20:09So when you love someone,
20:11When you love,
20:13Then you look for it.
20:15You look for it.
20:17You spy on it.
20:19Allah gave me a chance with my Beloved.
20:21So I came to Madinah Sharif.
20:23So I said to a Sanghi,
20:25I have to come for a while.
20:27So when should I come?
20:29So he said,
20:31I will call you.
20:33He said, call me.
20:35So I went to the market.
20:37I started looking for a stick.
20:39From the streets of Madinah Sharif.
20:41I said,
20:43There are some things that take pleasure.
20:45I kept searching.
20:47So he called me once or twice,
20:49To come.
20:51So when I reached there,
20:53He said,
20:55Where were you?
20:57So I said,
20:59I was looking for a stick.
21:01He said,
21:03If you want to give it to someone,
21:05You should have brought it.
21:07So this scene was something else.
21:09Here the attitude is a little different.
21:11It is written in Iqdan-e-Shawar,
21:13He said,
21:15I left after performing ablution.
21:17So I took my wife's dupatta,
21:19To clean my face.
21:21So the wife said,
21:23I just washed it in the morning.
21:25If I had gone two steps ahead,
21:27The towel was still lying inside.
21:29He said,
21:31When I performed ablution,
21:33I took my mother's dupatta.
21:35Mother said,
21:37Son, wait a little.
21:39It is not washed.
21:41It is still washed inside.
21:43I will give it to you.
21:45Now there is a difference between the two.
21:47He said,
21:49It is still washed inside.
21:51I will bring it to you.
21:53Now when you go home and tell me,
21:55Don't make the whole atmosphere against me.
21:57But this attitude,
21:59I was telling my friends,
22:01Don't give Eid on time to your daughters.
22:04Don't give it on time.
22:06Do you know what is the reason?
22:08You give Rs.100,000 to your wife,
22:10For shopping.
22:12On Eid.
22:14So she says,
22:16I don't give you anything.
22:18The whole world gives.
22:20My sister also says the same thing to her husband.
22:22She says,
22:24The whole world gives.
22:26Who doesn't do it for their children?
22:28But you have given your sister a pair of 600,
22:29If she doesn't show it to her neighbors,
22:31She doesn't get peace.
22:33And she will wear that one.
22:35And she will wear it and say,
22:37Brother, it is very good.
22:39It comes on time.
22:41And she will tell the whole world.
22:43And in the fist of a Pir like me,
22:45If I hold a Rs.5000 note and say,
22:47Azra sahib, please pray for me.
22:49Then the prayer is remembered.
22:51Allah bless you.
22:53Allah bless you.
22:55And my friend,
22:57Sometimes Azra-e-Muhabbat used to say,
22:59I have remembered the prayers of many Pirs.
23:01Because Allah bless you,
23:03Even if they do something, it is just a prayer.
23:05One said to me,
23:07Our Azra sahib doesn't give a speech.
23:09He doesn't do it.
23:11I said, he doesn't do it because he is not a believer.
23:13Otherwise,
23:15Not giving a speech is not knowledge.
23:17Giving a sermon is the way of my Prophet.
23:19This is the way of the Prophet.
23:21So I said,
23:23If you meet a Pir sahib,
23:25Give him some books.
23:27Tell him to read them.
23:29He will pray for you.
23:31So Pir sahib,
23:33The traditional people,
23:35If you give Rs.5000 or Rs.2000,
23:37They will pray for you.
23:39Similarly, if a person says to his sister,
23:41It is difficult to pray.
23:43She will start crying.
23:45O Allah, take care of my brother.
23:47She is sitting across the seven seas.
23:49So,
23:51This is a relation.
23:53This is a relation.
23:55The special thing you give,
23:57The special thing,
23:59My Prophet,
24:01The Prophet,
24:03Married his princess.
24:05Hazrat Usman-e-Ghani also married her.
24:08He was a rich man.
24:10A rich man.
24:12But Maula Ali,
24:14Who can reach the city of Allah,
24:16The city of Allah's personality.
24:18But the apparent situation was that,
24:20Hazrat Ali didn't even have his own house.
24:23How much property did Hazrat Ali have?
24:26How many houses did he have?
24:27How many wives did he have?
24:29So, my beloved,
24:31The philosophy that was given to the Ummah,
24:33To see the religion and get married.
24:35The Prophet forbade it.
24:37He said, if a woman is beautiful,
24:39But if she is immoral,
24:41Then avoid her.
24:43She will destroy you.
24:45She will make it difficult for you to live.
24:47If she is immoral.
24:49So, my Prophet,
24:51He taught the Ummah,
24:53For his princess,
24:55For his most beloved daughter.
24:57He married all the princesses.
24:59But for Sayyeda Fatima Taz-Zahra,
25:01There were many other messages.
25:03There was a message from Umar.
25:05But the Prophet married Maula Ali.
25:08Why?
25:10Because he said,
25:12I am marrying you to those
25:14Who are very dear to Allah
25:16And very dear to the Messenger of Allah.
25:18Righteousness,
25:20Honesty,
25:22Justice,
25:24The Prophet married them.
25:26We give a lot to our daughters.
25:28And Allah has made it easy for us today.
25:30Is there anyone so poor in this gathering,
25:32Whose daughter works so much,
25:34That she gets scars on her hands?
25:36Is there anyone so poor?
25:39By the way, if you hear us cry in the morning,
25:42Then every fourth person will cry,
25:44That there is no one as poor as me,
25:46My daughter is very sad.
25:48But Sayyeda Fatima Taz-Zahra,
25:51Used to work so much,
25:53That she got scars on her hands.
25:55There was not much difference between
25:57The age of Hasanain and Karimain.
25:59She used to take care of both.
26:01She used to knead the dough,
26:03She used to sweep the house,
26:05She used to grind the chakki,
26:07And despite all this,
26:09She used to save time,
26:11And she used to pray at night.
26:13And she used to please her Lord all night.
26:15And despite all this,
26:17She used to be kind.
26:19I was reading some books of Seerat.
26:21From Al-Badaya,
26:22Till now,
26:24I have read a lot of books.
26:26And I was surprised to see
26:28That all the Seerat writers have written,
26:31That Sayyeda Fatima Taz-Zahra,
26:34Did not have a stove in her house,
26:36For months.
26:38For months.
26:40It is very easy to say this.
26:42And it is very difficult to do.
26:44In the afternoon,
26:46When she gets food,
26:48In the evening,
26:50She gives it to the children,
26:52In the afternoon,
26:54She gives it to the children,
26:56And in the month,
26:58She does not have a stove.
27:00In every book,
27:02You will find,
27:04That she spent months,
27:06On vinegar,
27:08On dates,
27:10On milk.
27:12For months,
27:14She did not have a stove.
27:16And the interesting thing is that,
27:18In the next page of the same book,
27:20It is written that,
27:22The rich are generous,
27:24And the generous are rich.
27:26But here and there,
27:28The generous are not poor.
27:30This is also a fact.
27:32That he can be poor,
27:34We have taken this oath,
27:36That the MPA will be generous.
27:38What will that poor man do?
27:40It is the month of Ramadan.
27:42So at nine in the morning,
27:44The wives will go to take Zakat.
27:46They will find out,
27:48That Seth Sahib is having breakfast.
27:50Then after a while,
27:52The servant has gone to get hot water.
27:54And then after a while,
27:56The news will come,
27:58That he is reading the newspaper.
28:00Then he will come out,
28:02And he will say,
28:04You people come early in the morning.
28:06You do not even let me sleep.
28:08And this kind of exaggeration happens,
28:10That Seth Sahib is saying,
28:12To a burqa-clad woman,
28:14Sister, you are not the same,
28:16Who took a bag of flour earlier.
28:18What do you find in a burqa?
28:20You are not the same.
28:22So he made a giver.
28:24Look at the carelessness of the beloved.
28:26Where no one is present,
28:28Those who are present,
28:30Cry bitterly.
28:32And make the bed of the bride.
28:34Beloved, if someone gets a bed,
28:36Someone should say,
28:38Let him come empty.
28:40Be careful,
28:42If Allah has made a giver.
28:44Someone said to Imam Shafi,
28:46That I wish to give something,
28:48But I do not get a worthy person.
28:50If I get someone, I will give.
28:52He smiled a little.
28:54He said, I am thinking,
28:56Whatever Allah has given you,
28:58You were worthy of it.
29:00You were worthy.
29:02When Allah has given with His grace,
29:04You are looking for people of Allah.
29:06You are wandering.
29:08So understand this a little.
29:10We have put the responsibility of the rich people.
29:12If my worthless son does not study,
29:14And my sister's son is worthy,
29:16Then why don't I spend on him?
29:18Why don't I pay attention to him?
29:20The poor child of Darul Umar,
29:22Who has a lot of talent.
29:24He is very worthy.
29:26But he does not have the capital
29:28With his father.
29:30To take him forward.
29:32So why don't we hold his hand?
29:34Why don't we take care of the expenses of one or two children?
29:36Why don't we pay attention to him?
29:38Why don't we think about him?
29:40A woman came to Sayyeda Fatima Az-Zahra.
29:42She said,
29:44Bibi Sahiba, I want to ask you a question.
29:46Sayyeda Pak said,
29:48Ask.
29:50She said, I have 40 camels.
29:52She smiled.
29:54She said,
29:56If I had 40 camels,
29:58I would have given more orders.
30:00Now that you have 40 camels,
30:02I have more orders.
30:04She said,
30:06Give me one of the 40 camels.
30:08And if I had 40 camels,
30:10I would have given charity to all.
30:12I would have given charity to all.
30:14Look at their lives.
30:16Now understand this a little.
30:18Sayyeda Fatima Az-Zahra,
30:20There is a narration that
30:22there was a discussion
30:24and some said that
30:26Hazrat Ali,
30:28said,
30:30Fatima, let's go.
30:32I am tired of working.
30:34There are two types of women
30:36who work in our small house.
30:38The one who washes utensils is different.
30:40The one who washes clothes is different.
30:42And even after this,
30:44if you meet a housewife,
30:46she will look very sad.
30:47And in the next 30 minutes,
30:49she will have to cry.
30:51In the next 30 minutes,
30:53she will have to cry.
30:55My father used to say,
30:57Look for a place
30:59where the wives will stop crying.
31:01They cry a lot
31:03and the man gets worried
31:05about how to make them happy.
31:07Is there no arrangement for women here?
31:09May Allah give you a good reward.
31:11You don't narrate a lot in the future.
31:13Even if Allah gives you a car,
31:15there is no harm.
31:17May Allah keep you safe.
31:19Since we are talking about
31:21the woman of paradise,
31:23that is why I am mentioning it again and again.
31:25And I am saying this for training.
31:27My brother,
31:29think a little.
31:31Hazrat Ali, the lion of Allah said,
31:33Fatima, let's go.
31:35Let's bring a maid.
31:37She will help you in the household chores.
31:39To whose door did she come?
31:41To the messenger
31:43from whose door
31:45no one has ever left.
31:47Many people were sitting
31:49and she returned without saying anything.
31:51May she be sacrificed.
31:53My beloved himself went with her.
31:55He said, Fatima had come
31:57and wanted to say something.
31:59He said, O Messenger of Allah,
32:01Ali had said
32:03that a few girls
32:05have come to the Prophet in a war.
32:07So if I get a maid,
32:09she will help me in the household chores.
32:11My beloved said,
32:13Fatima, listen,
32:14love is so much
32:16that it is a part of the heart.
32:18But what is the color of training?
32:20The Prophet said,
32:22Fatima, the companions of the Prophet
32:24have not been arranged yet.
32:26They need more.
32:28These girls, these maids,
32:30these slaves will be useful to them.
32:32Yes, my son, you have come,
32:34you have said,
32:36I have asked a question,
32:38so I do not return you empty handed.
32:40You recite Subhanallah 33 times.
32:42Recite Alhamdulillah 33 times.
32:44This slave will give more reward
32:46than freeing.
32:48Maulana Ali Sher-e-Khuda said,
32:50Fatima's face was filled with happiness.
32:52And she said,
32:54look, the Prophet has given me
32:56such a big gift.
32:59Look,
33:01after saying this,
33:03the Prophet put a seal on one thing.
33:06He said, Fatima, go and read Wazaif.
33:08You have to grind the mill yourself.
33:10You have to knead the flour yourself.
33:12Now your wives ask,
33:14Maulana, tell me,
33:16is it our responsibility to serve the father-in-law?
33:18Is it our responsibility to serve the mother-in-law?
33:21I said, I wish you had the opportunity.
33:24So you go and ask Sayyeda Fatima bint Asad.
33:27What job did Sayyeda Fatima Tazahra do?
33:31What style did she adopt?
33:33In what way did she serve her mother-in-law?
33:35My beloved said,
33:37Fatima, you have to do the work yourself.
33:39Friends, remember,
33:40love is not about
33:42spoiling someone's habits.
33:44And spoil them so much
33:46that they are not worthy of anyone.
33:48They should not be able to maintain a relationship with anyone.
33:50They should not be able to spend time
33:52with their children at home.
33:54Rather, love is that you train them.
33:56You make them understand.
33:58You make them.
34:00The Prophet went for Jihad.
34:02He came back.
34:04It was the habit of the beloved.
34:06When he used to come,
34:08he used to come to Sayyeda Fatima's house first.
34:10When he used to leave,
34:12he used to go to Sayyeda Fatima's house last.
34:14That day, the Prophet
34:16had to come.
34:18Maulana Ali Sher-e-Khuda said,
34:20I had some money,
34:22so I gave it to Sayyeda Fatima.
34:24Do you pay attention to what I say?
34:26Are you not tired?
34:28May Allah reward you well.
34:30Listen.
34:41May Allah reward you well.
34:44May Allah give you blessings.
34:52I do all the speeches without slogans.
34:55May Allah keep you happy.
34:57And your faces are smiling.
34:59You look enthusiastic.
35:01May Allah always keep you smiling.
35:03And may Allah make you prosperous and happy.
35:05Listen.
35:07When the Prophet came back from Jihad,
35:08Sayyeda Fatima Az-Zahra,
35:10may Allah be pleased with her,
35:12came to Sayyeda Fatima's house.
35:14Maulana Ali Sher-e-Khuda said,
35:16I had some money,
35:18so I gave it to Sayyeda Fatima.
35:20Hazrat Fatima put a gold chain
35:22around the Prophet's neck
35:24and some curtains were hung in the house.
35:29The matter is not about
35:31how many compulsions are there.
35:33The matter is that
35:35we have created more problems than means.
35:37And we have brought the daughters
35:39to a place where they compare.
35:41They say, if she has this,
35:43why don't I have this?
35:45In this cold, beautiful,
35:47and sweet time of Ramadan,
35:49do pay attention to what I say.
35:51When we listen to these advice,
35:53we go and tell it to the wife.
35:55Although these are things
35:57to be told to the daughter,
35:59which will have an immediate effect.
36:01These are things to be told to the sister.
36:03If we talk about this to our daughter,
36:05the Prophet came and
36:07took the first step
36:09in Sayyeda Fatima's house.
36:11The Prophet saw the gold
36:13around her neck.
36:15It is permissible for a woman
36:17to wear as much as she wants.
36:19The Prophet saw the gold,
36:21saw the curtains hanging,
36:23and came back.
36:25Fatima started crying.
36:27When Maula Ali came,
36:29he said, why are you crying?
36:31She said, I have understood.
36:32The Prophet did not like the curtains.
36:34The Prophet did not like the curtains.
36:36Take them off and
36:38take them to the house of the Prophet.
36:40And say, O Prophet of Allah,
36:42wherever you want,
36:44you can spend.
36:46Ali al-Murtaza said,
36:48when Maula Ali actually
36:50came to the house of the Prophet,
36:52he said, Ali,
36:54my daughter has fallen in love
36:56with the gold.
36:58She has started paying attention
37:00to the wealth of the world.
37:02I have told her.
37:04If you are the daughter of a poor man,
37:06then do not cry.
37:08She is the daughter of the king of the world,
37:10but I have still given her
37:12the rank of poverty.
37:14This poverty,
37:16this poverty is the authority of the Prophet.
37:18This is the like of the Prophet.
37:20This is the desire of the Prophet.
37:22My friends,
37:24in your house,
37:26with great simplicity,
37:28with great dignity,
37:30and with great comfort,
37:32it is not necessary
37:34that every person agrees with everything.
37:36And when a person lives in a place,
37:38there is also a difference of opinion.
37:40It is a different matter
37:42that we make the difference of opinion
37:44as opposition.
37:46Hazrat Maula Ali,
37:48the lion of God,
37:50says,
37:52for some reason,
37:54there is a difference of opinion
37:56between me and Janab-e-Fatima.
37:58I often say that
37:59you are staring at me.
38:01I am saying this
38:03because a woman is intelligent.
38:05Mian Sahib is intelligent.
38:07So who was supposed to control?
38:09Even if you do not say,
38:11it is fine.
38:13Who was supposed to control?
38:15He says,
38:17I have to answer with a stone.
38:19So how will the work work?
38:21He should have controlled.
38:23He should have said,
38:25this heart increases.
38:27But Mian Sahib says,
38:29if someone has the courage,
38:31he should say,
38:33this is possible.
38:35This is a place where
38:37you should think a little.
38:39Maula Ali says,
38:41if there is a difference of opinion
38:43in something,
38:45then the matter is a little big,
38:47so I am jealous.
38:49Hazrat Maula Ali says,
38:51the lion of God,
38:53these are big people
38:55who say big things.
38:57Hazrat Ali says,
38:59today it is
39:01a very difficult thing
39:03to believe that
39:05I made a mistake.
39:07It is a very difficult thing
39:09of the universe.
39:11And I have seen very strange people
39:13who are not ready to say
39:15that we forgot.
39:17Very intelligent people.
39:19When Imam Abu Malik asked
39:21a question,
39:23he said,
39:25I do not know the answer.
39:27He said,
39:29I will see,
39:31I will investigate,
39:33then I will tell you.
39:35And Hazrat Ali is the lion of God.
39:37He used to say,
39:39he is a great scholar.
39:41If he does not know the matter,
39:43he should not say.
39:45He said,
39:47I will ask and tell.
39:49The scholars of Allah
39:51are afraid of Allah.
39:53That is why Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Masood
39:55used to say that
39:56the one who is more afraid of Allah
39:58is a great scholar.
40:00How much he is afraid of Allah,
40:02he is a great scholar.
40:04Hazrat Ali says,
40:06the matter has increased
40:08because of me.
40:10When the Prophet was informed,
40:12his beloved came.
40:14The Prophet heard the matter.
40:16Allah gave his beloved
40:18the keys of the treasures of the unseen.
40:20Allah gave the keys of the unseen
40:22to his beloved.
40:24When the Prophet heard the matter,
40:26he understood that
40:28the matter has increased
40:30because of Ali.
40:32The matter has increased
40:34because of Ali.
40:36Hazrat Ali says,
40:38the Prophet heard everything
40:40and then he prayed.
40:42He prayed for love.
40:44We are right and left.
40:46Let me say one more thing.
40:48If we want,
40:50husband and wife can live happily.
40:52The Prophet cursed that person
40:53who instigates wife against husband
40:55or husband against wife.
40:57You become on the side
40:59by saying a sentence.
41:01Those poor people have to live
41:03for 24 hours.
41:05You destroy their life.
41:07And if you show a little mercy
41:09and say that your wife is very good.
41:11And I have seen that
41:13in the houses where husband and wife
41:15love each other,
41:17the children are also very happy.
41:19But if there is no quarrel here,
41:20what did your beloved say?
41:22Do you pay attention to what I say?
41:24This is a very big method
41:26of making a house.
41:28This should be used by the parents
41:30of the child as well as the child.
41:32My beloved,
41:34the Prophet said,
41:36I am already saying
41:38that the matter has increased
41:40because of me.
41:42The Prophet also prayed
41:44and then took Sayyeda Fatima
41:46in the corner.
41:48And the Prophet said,
41:50I hope you understand
41:52that the father of the daughter
41:54should understand this
41:56and the father of the son
41:58should understand this.
42:00He said, it is not necessary
42:02that everything you say should be accepted.
42:04He is your husband.
42:06If you say something to anyone,
42:08listen to it.
42:10She was also Sayyeda.
42:12She did not say,
42:14father, listen to my opinion.
42:16You did not say anything.
42:18I said, okay,
42:20but when I heard this,
42:22I started crying.
42:24I came running
42:26and held the Prophet's hand
42:28and placed it on my chest.
42:30I said, my beloved,
42:32I will sacrifice myself for you
42:34and sacrifice myself for your
42:36beautiful upbringing
42:38and sacrifice myself
42:40for your princess.
42:42He said, O Prophet of Allah,
42:44do not say anything to Fatima.
42:46Ali promises that
42:48there will be no complaints
42:50from the outside.
42:52A friend called me
42:54from outside.
42:56He said,
42:58I want to talk to you.
43:00He did not eat for three days
43:02and did not drink water.
43:04So, a person's health
43:06does not tolerate so much.
43:08So, how can he stay hungry and thirsty?
43:10I said, tell me,
43:12if there is practice since childhood,
43:14can a person live again or not?
43:16He said, yes, he can live again.
43:18So, I said,
43:20Imam Hassan said,
43:22we also fasted.
43:24It is a long story,
43:26but I am giving a hint.
43:28He said, Maulana Ali,
43:30Sayyeda Fatima,
43:32Imam Hassan,
43:34Imam Hussain also fasted.
43:36And he said,
43:38my mother made some rotis
43:40and cooked them herself.
43:42It is a very difficult job.
43:44It is very difficult.
43:46To snatch a bite from your
43:48child's mouth
43:50and to
43:52eat from its mouth.
43:54So,
43:56I did not get the taste.
43:58But I got the taste.
44:00I am telling you.
44:02When I ate the rotis and
44:04the onions,
44:06I did not get the taste.
44:07So, I ate the rotis and
44:09the onions by myself.
44:11I didn't get the taste.
44:13So,
44:16I went to Abu Bakr
44:18and he said,
44:20This Karbala incident was not an accident.
44:23Sayyeda Pak taught the princes to stay hungry and thirsty for three days.
44:28So when such people are standing in the field,
44:31then no Yazid of the time can make them bow their necks.
44:35Learn from their character.
44:39My opinion is that the house in which a wise woman enters,
44:43that house becomes a paradise.
44:47The character of a housewife is very important.
44:50Today, on this blessed occasion, in this beautiful gathering,
44:54sitting in this center,
44:56do pay attention to the few requests I have made.
45:00See, if our children remain immoral,
45:04then their immorality will break a lot of people from them.
45:09Their own will be separated from them due to their habits.
45:14If our children become habitual of doing easy things,
45:17then I have seen that even in the big centers, the princes could not do anything.
45:21But the capable people, they had nothing.
45:25But they had the capability.
45:26Hazrat Umar bin Abdul Aziz,
45:28when it was time to leave,
45:30his wife said to him,
45:32you did not make anything for the children.
45:35What will they think?
45:36He said, call my sons.
45:39When he called the children, he sat in front and said,
45:41Son, your father was a coward.
45:44He could not make anything for you. He got scared.
45:47What does it mean?
45:48He said, there was a way in front of me,
45:50that I would not have cared about hell.
45:53Then, God forbid, I would have made a lot of things.
45:55Son, I was a coward. I got scared.
45:57I could not make anything.
45:58Forgive me.
45:59Now the children said,
46:01Father, people have passed before,
46:03rich people have passed, kings have passed,
46:05but no one greets their children.
46:07But the way we pass,
46:09people leave shops and come to salute.
46:12So we think,
46:14here Allah is blessing us because of you,
46:16so in the Day of Judgment,
46:17Allah will bless us because of you.
46:19Look at their character.
46:21Our wealth, our children.
46:24If they are well-off, a lot will be saved.
46:27And if they are not well-off,
46:29a lot will be ruined.
46:31They belong to Ali's house.
46:33They listen to Ali.
46:35And they belong to the house of the Prophet.
46:37They listen to the Prophet.
46:39The one who honoured the family.
46:42The one who nurtured Hussain.
46:45In your life,
46:47do think about these two things.
46:49In the beginning,
46:50what was said for the martyrs of Badr,
46:52do think about it.
46:53Do not think too much.
46:55Concentrate on the instructions of the Lord and the Messenger.
46:58Never let reason come against it.
47:00And in the light of Fatimah, may Allah nurture her daughters.