Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 7

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Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 7
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00:00I'm doing it, this is it.
00:02Previously.
00:03I'm ready to meet the love of my life.
00:07Sixteen singles said I do to a stranger.
00:13While some enjoyed a blissful beginning to married life.
00:16So grateful I've been matched with you, honestly, buzzing.
00:20Others had a more turbulent start.
00:21We were intimate on the wedding night and now it hasn't happened all week.
00:25It has made me feel like shit.
00:27Today was breaking point.
00:29But I did find it really difficult.
00:31So how do you feel about me?
00:33I think I'm done here.
00:34You're in the f***ing Maldives and you want a f***ing job.
00:35Who the f*** are you swearing at?
00:36Don't swear at me.
00:37I'm leaving it at that.
00:38You left me alone again.
00:39I don't like being shouted at.
00:40I don't respect anything I say.
00:41I'm up for some of this.
00:42I'm a size 14.
00:43I'm not a f***ing monster.
00:44It's a shame that I'm not attractive to the person I've married.
00:53I want love and it's nowhere f***ing close.
00:57Tonight, the newlyweds are reunited at the first dinner party of the experiment.
01:06What's happened?
01:07Where's Rochelle?
01:08Oh, she left.
01:09I'm going to make a toast to everyone.
01:11Please raise your glass.
01:12As the couples discuss marriages.
01:14I've never been attracted to you.
01:17Perfect.
01:18You're not f***ing Daniel Craig yourself, darling.
01:21A game of ranking.
01:22One being hater guts, ten being I f***ing love you.
01:25What was your number?
01:26What?
01:27Four?
01:28Jesus Christ.
01:29Oh.
01:30Oh.
01:31Leaves Polly reeling.
01:32I actually can't do this.
01:34But it's a revelation from the stag do.
01:36He's made a comment that he would swap wives.
01:39Ross told me that.
01:40When I start seeing things I don't like, time's up.
01:42That causes the biggest eruption of the night.
01:45I'm not coping with someone who's so f***ing disrespectful.
01:48Never would a man be around my kids who speaks like that.
01:51Let me tell you.
01:52Let me f***ing tell you.
01:53You need to walk straight out the door, mate.
01:55You need to walk straight out the door, mate.
02:06Are you buzzed?
02:07Are you buzzed?
02:08I am buzzed.
02:09Woo!
02:10Let's grab the bags.
02:11Welcome home, honey.
02:13With our couples returning from their honeymoons,
02:16it's time for them to embrace the next big landmark in their married lives.
02:20Moving in together.
02:22Three, two, one.
02:28I need a key.
02:29You're going through.
02:30Oh, wow.
02:31This is so nice.
02:35Some couples might have hit the ground running.
02:40That's lush.
02:41Feel your hand.
02:42While others may have experienced early blips in their relationships.
02:46Look at this.
02:47Our happy little faces there.
02:50Oh, dear.
02:52And although living together can sometimes compound the challenges faced,
02:56it also offers the chance to start again afresh in a new environment.
03:01Are you excited to be living with me?
03:03Yeah.
03:04Yeah, man.
03:05Let's do it.
03:14I was stressed because we were going to have to share a bed.
03:18I thought, I do feel at home already.
03:20I think I'd feel at home anywhere with Ross.
03:23I don't know, I'd feel lost without him now.
03:25We've come so far.
03:27I don't believe you're buying it.
03:31Steena, come here.
03:33So, I've got two jumpers, matching, cos I knew you'd want to pinch mine.
03:37Super excited to be getting in the apartment with Christina.
03:40It's a new life together, which I'm double buzzing about.
03:43Well matched you up.
03:45We're going to be snuggling on that sofa,
03:48watching TV with hot chocolate.
03:51What more could you want from married life?
04:01I'm moving into our apartment alone
04:04because my honeymoon was a rollercoaster of emotions.
04:11Since the honeymoon, we haven't seen each other.
04:13I'm just gutted that it's turned out like this.
04:16I just didn't...
04:17From how amazing things were at the wedding
04:20and the connection that we had, I just didn't see this happening.
04:23That's very cute, isn't it?
04:30Despite having an instant connection on their wedding day...
04:33I am literally in love!
04:35..on their honeymoon,
04:37Eve's need for time apart from Charlie...
04:39She wants to be by herself, she won't talk to me.
04:42..caused a series of conflicts for the couple.
04:44I think you're sappy with me again, I don't know why.
04:46You did exactly what you said you weren't going to do again,
04:49which was walk out on me.
04:50I'm not doing this.
04:51You can't f***ing deal with it, can you?
04:54You just shut down when someone else tells you how they're feeling.
04:57I know you're going to do exactly the same thing again.
05:01Yep, yep, yep.
05:03I'm going to throw away my earrings.
05:06I'm going to enjoy my evening, alone,
05:08like I have done the whole honeymoon.
05:21I'm hoping that Eve comes back.
05:24You know, I'm desperate for her to move in.
05:27But regardless of what's happened,
05:29my feelings are still well and truly there.
05:31Yes, I've fallen quick and I like her
05:34and, yeah, she's just in my head.
05:36Like, I'm thinking a lot about her and I just wish she was here.
05:43Have you ever lived with a partner before?
05:46I've never lived with a partner properly.
05:48I've done, like, a few nights a week for a few hours kind of thing.
05:51It's lucky that I'm a delight to live with then, isn't it?
05:54Mm, I hope so.
05:56I'm not, let's say, sexually attracted to Polly.
05:59It's not really got to that stage yet,
06:01but it's something that we're taking steady and just seeing what happens.
06:05That's a nice colour.
06:07Adam is going a little bit slower than what I'd normally like.
06:10Obviously, hearing on the wedding day that I wasn't his initial type,
06:14it's in my mind a little bit that he might not like me.
06:17It'll be nice to know where I stand
06:19now we've had a little bit more time together.
06:25You sure you don't want a cuppa?
06:27Yeah, I'm all good with my squash, thanks.
06:32Feeling all right?
06:34Not where I'd hoped to be, but I'm glad that I'm here now
06:37and we're moving in together.
06:39Yeah.
06:40And then we'll go from there. Yeah.
06:46On their wedding day, Caspar felt his bride was a little too familiar.
06:51She very much reminds me of my sister.
06:55And on the honeymoon, his comments about Emma's appearance...
06:59I rarely have gone for the curvier person.
07:02You don't think I'm sexy? No.
07:05Wow.
07:06..pulled the couple even further apart.
07:09Do you think you could have phrased it better
07:11without bringing fucking size and shape into it?
07:14Right, I want a cup.
07:16I don't know if we can move past this.
07:20My biggest worry is we're going to be in each other's pockets
07:23in here all the time and we don't get that chance to reflect.
07:27I'd say there's a worry that we could be on top of each other,
07:31but hopefully we get a key to the outdoor at some point
07:34and I can get some quiet.
07:36Where are you at with where we're at?
07:38I'm genuinely feeling good. I feel like we could live in this space.
07:42We can have some chill time.
07:44Look, we both know the stuff that we need to unpack. Mm-hm.
07:47We might as well wait for three experts who can really help us.
07:51Yeah, cool. Agreed.
07:54So I'm absolutely sugar-coating things
07:56and probably how I'm really feeling.
07:59I'm just focusing on smaller targets
08:01rather than, you know, a happily ever after right now.
08:05Positive vibes, we've moved in, that's what we're going to have.
08:09We're in a much better place now
08:11that we've moved into this lovely apartment together.
08:14We're fine, we're going to be fine.
08:24Today I'm moving into the apartment alone.
08:27It doesn't feel like a home
08:30because I haven't got my wife by my side.
08:35Wow.
08:37I have no idea where our future lies.
08:40I don't know if it's going to go up
08:42or if it's going to fall flat on its face.
08:47How much space we shall need?
08:49I can't answer that.
08:54Are you ready yet?
08:56Honey, you can wait.
08:58Now the couples are settled in their new homes,
09:01it's time to get ready for the first dinner party of the experiment.
09:07Me and you, we're in an amazing place.
09:09We bounce off each other, do you know what I mean?
09:11We're both strong characters. Yeah.
09:13Me and Alex did have a fight on the honeymoon
09:15but we've dealt with it and we've moved on.
09:17I have no worries, no bad vibes.
09:19I mean, look at us.
09:21We're bringing the fire.
09:23And I think the reason we get on is because you're so real
09:26and I'm so real.
09:27That's probably a great position now, I think.
09:29You know when you have that feeling inside?
09:31You know we're going to be all right. I know we're going to be all right.
09:34Right, I'd better go and get my dress on.
09:36Go and make myself look...
09:38..stylish. You already do.
09:40Well, I can't rock up in a bloody dressing gown, can I, babe?
09:44Me and Charlie, the communication has broke down.
09:48I'm staying in a spare apartment because at the minute I need space.
09:52But I think I'm ready to see her.
09:55Do you know, I don't know if she's willing to change or adjust.
10:00So if that doesn't happen, it's not going to work.
10:07I'm just not sure how it's going to work.
10:10I'm just not sure how it's going to go.
10:15But I'm just hoping that we can work things out.
10:18Distance makes the heart grow fonder.
10:20My heart's definitely grown fonder.
10:22So how are you feeling?
10:24I'm good.
10:29We really upset each other, Charlie.
10:31We really upset each other.
10:33You know, I got frustrated when, for instance, you'd walk off.
10:36I'm a really good person, I promise.
10:38Show me.
10:42I just want to leave it in Mexico.
10:45I am sorry for the way that it ended up.
10:47I'm sorry, too.
10:48And, like, I genuinely am.
10:50I never, ever intended for that to happen.
10:52And I didn't either. Definitely not.
10:54I feel like we just maybe just went a bit too quick.
10:57I agree.
10:58It's about us not being so hot-headed a little bit, I think.
11:03And just, you know, thinking about the other person.
11:06I agree.
11:07I will respect the space that you need if you need it.
11:10I will respect...
11:11You know, I just want to work with you and not against you.
11:15I just want to just enjoy your company again and just...
11:18Me too, I think.
11:19Tonight's going to be fun.
11:20I think we really need tonight to be fun.
11:22Yeah.
11:23You know.
11:24I agree.
11:28She seems a little...
11:31She seems lighter.
11:32She seems like a totally different person.
11:34She honestly does.
11:35I am wiping the slate clean completely.
11:38You know, I'm not going to bring it up unless it happens again.
11:42And then...
11:44Then I'm going to... I'm going to worry.
11:56Are you excited?
11:57So excited!
11:58So excited!
11:59Nerves have, like, started to kick in.
12:04I'm just glad that we're in a good position.
12:07So no matter what happens, we're in our bubble.
12:14I didn't expect to be walking into the dinner party on my own.
12:18Me and Michelle, it's too much to lose.
12:21Where we go from here, I don't know.
12:24So we're going in together, yeah?
12:26United.
12:29Yeah.
12:34I'm interested to see how you are in a group.
12:37I think you'll be pleasantly surprised
12:39until I see how you are in front of the other girls
12:41and see who you think's fit.
12:43There might be a couple of girls that he's maybe interested in
12:46or might think's a bit easy on the eye.
12:48Hopefully his head won't be turned.
12:54MUSIC PLAYS
13:00Well, here we are.
13:01The first dinner party for the experiment.
13:04And, of course, our couples have been married,
13:06they've had their honeymoons, they've moved in together,
13:09and tonight they meet each other for the first time.
13:11Yeah, it'll be fascinating to see how they show up.
13:16Oh, my God!
13:19First up, we have Kieran and Christina.
13:21What an entrance!
13:22It's like our wedding.
13:24High energy, the giggles, the excitement and the dancing.
13:30Oh, I love it.
13:31I feel like you're not close enough.
13:36I can't go.
13:37It just gets better and better.
13:38This is it now.
13:39Back off our honeymoon, straight into the dinner party.
13:43I know.
13:44What more could you want?
13:48Oh, my God!
13:50There they go, we're married!
13:52Holly and Alex.
13:53Big smiles on their faces.
13:55Looking very comfortable with one another.
13:57Have you had a good time?
13:59Bro...
14:00Genuinely, couldn't have asked for a better person to go with.
14:03I feel like I've known her 20 years.
14:05It's just an effortless click.
14:07You're really lucky, aren't you?
14:09Yeah. What about you, though, man?
14:11Same. Yeah. Same.
14:12Just as happy as a pig in shit.
14:14You just look so good together.
14:16It's giving us static, babe.
14:18It's giving us statically pleasing.
14:21Not obsessed.
14:24Yeah.
14:26One of the most important questions, have you had sex yet?
14:29Have you?
14:31My man delivered.
14:33A whole package.
14:35Oh!
14:38Nice!
14:39Shit, man, I'm a whole.
14:40No, you are not.
14:45Oh, Santa!
14:48Ross and Sasha.
14:49Look how excited Sasha is to be here.
14:51Yeah.
14:56Slept in the same bed, yeah, yeah.
14:57What about you?
15:00Sweater on.
15:09Yeah, OK, that's nice.
15:10So it says a lot about you, bro, and you're a good guy, bro.
15:12Isn't it great to see such a strong show of respect
15:15so early in the relationship here?
15:17Sasha has drawn very clear boundaries around her sexuality
15:20and I'm going to sleep on the couch.
15:24Yay!
15:26Even Charlie.
15:27Holding hands, looking very united.
15:29Wow.
15:31I was so excited.
15:32Hello, Charlie.
15:37This is great.
15:38There is so much energy in the room tonight.
15:40I love this.
15:41What a positive start.
15:43Our wedding day was spectacular.
15:45Like, I actually genuinely think it was the best day of my life.
15:48Aw, stop now.
15:50There's a huge statement from Charlie.
15:52We do know that she's someone that falls in love quite quickly,
15:55so I'm hopeful that she'll take her time with this.
15:58Yeah, we just clicked.
16:00Like, sexual chemistry, everything was there.
16:06I don't kiss and tell.
16:07Yeah, the hockey monkey!
16:09You're a wife now, girl.
16:10You've got to get down and dicky on it.
16:12Right, I feel like I need to join in.
16:14I know.
16:15I mean, I've heard so much about all of you girls
16:17cos Eve just sung your praises so highly.
16:20Really?
16:21Yes.
16:22Let me come.
16:23Let me get in.
16:24I'm coming in.
16:26With the girls.
16:28Right.
16:29Ready for this.
16:30Are we ready for it?
16:31I'm not going to go in too deep today,
16:33but we are not living together.
16:35We only spent wedding night together
16:38and it's just been a lot of pressure for the both of us.
16:41That's an entirely different perspective
16:44than what Charlie just gave.
16:46I just wonder if she's actually talking to Charlie about it.
16:49Mm.
16:50Yeah.
16:51It's just, you know, some people can be, like, snappy.
16:54I'm not like that.
16:55But listen, I'm so...
16:56See, if you're rude to someone or something,
16:58you embarrass me, and I'm like, oh, my God.
17:00I just get really uncomfortable.
17:02After the honeymoon, I wasn't sure.
17:04But, no, I do want to make things work.
17:08This is one of the things we know about this couple,
17:10is Eve is definitely conflict avoidant.
17:13But Charlie leans right into it.
17:15And, you know, she's very emotive in the way that she expresses it.
17:18So this is going to be an interesting challenge
17:20for this couple to navigate.
17:21Yes.
17:23We had to please him around the first night.
17:26Right, OK.
17:27I mean, we're God, we can't.
17:29Mm.
17:30He makes me laugh.
17:31He makes me feel prayer.
17:32What he does, sir, is shit.
17:35You know, at this guy, do you?
17:37Charlie and Holly's had a bigger...
17:39Ross told me that.
17:42I didn't say he'd swap.
17:46What?
17:48He said he wants to...
17:49Oh, well, well...
17:50Yeah, no, no, no, I agree.
17:51I agree.
17:52I didn't hear this.
17:53No, no, no.
17:54Apparently.
17:55Oh, no, fuck.
17:56Given Holly's past of hurt,
17:58this is something that she's not going to take well.
18:01So he's made a comment that he would swap wives.
18:05Now it's all ringing a fucking alarm bell.
18:07That's a red flag for me.
18:09I've seen this shit before.
18:11He's basically sat me off before he's even met me.
18:14It's giving sly behaviour.
18:16It feels like you're here for something other than love.
18:19Do you know the way I see it?
18:20You've come into this experiment open-minded,
18:22you don't know who you're going to get,
18:24but you make it dry before you run.
18:25So don't disrespect me before you've even met me.
18:29Do you know the way I see it?
18:31You've come into this experiment open-minded,
18:33you don't know who you're going to get,
18:35but you make it dry before you run.
18:37So don't disrespect me before you've even met me.
18:39I'm going to have to speak to him.
18:41I'm not wasting my time with a guy who's going to lie to me.
18:44Pfft!
18:48Oh!
18:49You're going to have to speak to him.
18:51I'm not wasting my time with a guy who's going to lie to me.
18:55Oh!
18:56Yo!
18:57Oh!
18:58Oh!
18:59Oh!
19:00Oh!
19:01Oh!
19:02Oh, God!
19:03What the hell?
19:04He's done his awesome.
19:05What the fuck?
19:06Austin's come alone.
19:07Oh, wow.
19:08Yes, he has.
19:09No, Rochelle.
19:10You know, his smile really was,
19:12I'm embarrassed as hell, but I'm going to smile.
19:15Babe, what's happened? Where's Rochelle?
19:17She just needs some time.
19:18It's just a process.
19:21I would 100% feel so much more comfortable
19:25if Rochelle was by my side.
19:27I miss her terribly.
19:31Why is she not here?
19:32What has happened to make her not be here?
19:34On the honeymoon, I said to this girl,
19:37I'm getting feels.
19:39Swear down?
19:40Swear down.
19:42However, though, I think she probably might have felt like
19:45maybe that is too much, too early.
19:47She's like, Orson, I can't do this.
19:50She goes, this is a lot.
19:52So she literally just left.
19:55I'm not sure if I'll see her tonight.
19:57I'm holding on to this little bit of hope
20:01that she might just be like, you know what, yeah,
20:04like, I could do this.
20:05You know, what's most concerning to me here
20:08is that Orson admits that he's unsure
20:11if she's going to come.
20:13So the fact that he doesn't know
20:15indicates that there is a problem between the two of them.
20:19It's not just the process.
20:21Yeah.
20:26We do need to have a chat.
20:28OK.
20:30Erm...
20:33So, do you know the comment that was made at the stag day
20:36about who would switch wives?
20:40Yeah.
20:41What was your reply?
20:44I said, if I don't like my wife...
20:49..then I'm not going to pursue something with somebody I don't like.
20:53Let me finish what I'm saying.
20:55If I don't like my wife...
20:58..then...
21:00..I'll let that be known to her.
21:04And if there was a connection with somebody else, then...
21:08The whole point is to let it be known to somebody.
21:10Yeah, but that hasn't happened, so what's the point?
21:12Yeah, I get it, but it's just showing a little bit of disrespect
21:15before you've got to know me.
21:17Cos that answer only matters
21:19if I didn't like the person that walked down the aisle.
21:22I can sympathise with this point of view,
21:25but you can also see why Holly might think
21:27it demonstrates a lack of commitment to the process.
21:30They're not acknowledging how each other felt in the moment.
21:34Right.
21:35I feel like it's disrespected me a little bit.
21:37You're going, like I said, I don't like you.
21:39But can you understand what I'm saying?
21:41If I had said on my hen do, or I'd happily switch partners,
21:44then that's already setting a bad vibe and bad energy
21:47towards my outlook on a relationship or you.
21:51You're coming at me sideways.
21:53Because I'm fuming, wouldn't you be?
21:55No, because when I ask that question...
21:57If you don't...
21:58If you're going to keep talking over me, the conversation's done.
22:01OK.
22:02Crack on.
22:04What is that?
22:09No, it's never going to work with me and you
22:11if you've got an attitude like that, let me tell you.
22:13The point is, for me, you've come into it with the wrong energy.
22:17If you're going to be fake, I can't be with you.
22:19No, no, no.
22:20If you aren't ready to commit yourself to someone,
22:22then you shouldn't be in this experiment, Alex.
22:24Maybe go and see your wife.
22:26Nah, bro.
22:27Maybe just go and get it off your chest, just go.
22:30Maybe just go and get it off your chest, just go.
22:32I'm not addressing it. I've been over.
22:34Like, he should really be coming to you.
22:36To me, when a woman starts doing things that's unattractive,
22:42you lose it. You lose the attraction.
22:45You lose the...
22:46To me, the way she just came at me then was sideways.
22:50She could have came at me a lot better.
22:52Why address it with everyone around?
22:54And that's what I don't like, bro.
22:56I'm not with that shit, bro.
22:58I don't need it. Don't want it.
23:00Won't have it. Will never have it.
23:04When I start seeing things I don't like, that's it.
23:07Time's up.
23:08I suspect the biggest issue that Alex has is his ego.
23:13He walked in thinking that they had a solid relationship
23:17compared to the others, perhaps the strongest relationship.
23:20And now he realises the rest of the group sees them as being weak
23:25and he does not like to be perceived as someone who's weak.
23:36He's Emma and Casper.
23:38Casper's looking incredibly awkward walking in.
23:42Hello.
23:43Casper, nice to meet you.
23:45Very formal. Yes.
23:47Whereas, of course, Emma, who is so socially confident and relaxed,
23:51is so excited to be here.
23:53Have you had a nice time?
23:55Where did you go? We went to Thailand.
23:57Oh, lovely.
23:59Are you well-matched?
24:01No.
24:03I'm not sure.
24:05It's not been all sunshine and roses.
24:07Yeah, of course.
24:08I had some nights apart from Emma. Did you?
24:10On her honeymoon.
24:11So, I mean, it's going to be a bumpy ride, this.
24:14We've got to find ways of working
24:16and talking and communicating that work for all of us, you know?
24:19Of course.
24:20But we'll have to see and wait and see what happens.
24:22We didn't stay together on honeymoon,
24:24but we moved in together today,
24:26and we've kind of used that as a fresh slate.
24:33So, there's no romance between them at all at this point?
24:37Hi, hello, as I keep saying. Hi, hello.
24:45Hello. Hello!
24:47Polly and Adam. Polly and Adam.
24:49Polly holding on to Adam's arm.
24:51Adam, hands down, I'm not even holding.
24:54Yeah, it's like a one-sided cuddle.
24:56Wow. Yeah.
24:58Great hug. I know.
25:02Are you all right?
25:04Wedding was really good.
25:06So, we're all getting on? Good.
25:08Happy. Yeah.
25:10Yeah.
25:11It's just that little, I haven't got that,
25:13I don't want to reveal, but it's not a vibe.
25:16OK.
25:18There's something missing.
25:20But we are getting on, and...
25:22And if it makes you feel any better, I have that hard to leave,
25:25but we argued, like, fucking... Yes.
25:27Fucking hell.
25:29She's a good-looking girl, she's just not what I'm used to.
25:32Really? What would be your, like, typical...?
25:35Well, my typical type's normally like brunette, petite.
25:39Right. And she obviously knows this,
25:41because she keeps doing the little jokey digs,
25:43like, oh, I'm the complete opposite to your type.
25:45It's one of my greatest frustrations in this experiment,
25:48when someone comes in with a very prescriptive list
25:51of what they're looking for.
25:53Petite and brunette, you know,
25:55this is not what makes a good relationship,
25:57and Adam really needs to put that aside
25:59if he's going to be open to a relationship with Polly.
26:04Bear in mind that we haven't kissed or anything
26:07since the wedding or the final day,
26:09that, like, the physical touch hasn't been there,
26:11and the fact that he's not very complimentary,
26:13they are worries.
26:15At least give me a little kiss here and there.
26:17I just hope it comes, cos I don't want it to get to a point
26:20where it's Polly, and I don't want to be like your best mate.
26:23Have you not had sex yet? We did on the wedding night.
26:26I haven't since.
26:28I'm confused. Adam just said,
26:30I don't want to rip her clothes off.
26:32Essentially he's saying, I'm not attracted to her,
26:34yet I had sex with her. Yes.
26:36Quite a confusing message.
26:40He said multiple times, he likes petite brunettes.
26:42We've just described Polly and Lacey.
26:44She would never, but Lacey, I just look at her and think,
26:47you are just what he wants.
26:49So I'm fucking dreading it when Lacey walks in.
26:54Hello! Oh, Nathan and Lacey.
26:57Looking very comfortable together in their matching outfits.
27:01Hey!
27:03Oh! Wow! Wow!
27:05And Adam's reaction.
27:07Maybe Polly's onto something here.
27:09Oh, Lacey! This is Adam.
27:11This is Lacey, yeah.
27:13I don't know why I'm asking this.
27:17Hello. Adam, nice to meet you. Nice to meet you, Adam.
27:19Who are you with? Polly.
27:21Oh, I love Polly. Oh, do you?
27:23Hello. How are you? You look good.
27:27Are you happy with your man? Yeah, really happy.
27:29Same, I'm really happy. But you are what he's asked for,
27:31and I've said the only person I'm worried about is Lacey.
27:33Really? Cos, yeah, you are his type to a T.
27:35To be fair, my man did say that.
27:38I'm really happy with my man.
27:41Have you double-deed? No.
27:43Oh, fair play. Double-deed? No.
27:45We started off as mates, so, like, no pressure. Yeah, love that.
27:48And then, you know, if that's to come, that's to come right now.
27:51I don't want to do that.
27:53How was your honeymoon? Yeah, it was pretty cool.
27:55I was in swimming shorts every day. I walked sports.
27:57Going in a bikini, then.
27:59We were playing, like, volleyball and that on the beach.
28:01And she was, like, doving on the floor and that.
28:03Really? Like, pop and get stuck in, yeah.
28:05Little fun bikini and that. Yeah.
28:07Now she's wearing shorts now, but it was really good.
28:11You all right? Hi. You good?
28:13You missing me? Yeah, yeah, well...
28:15Do you want to sit there? Do you want to sit there?
28:17Come meet her. Come meet the boys.
28:19Missing each other already. Hello. You all right?
28:21How was your wedding? Yeah, it was good, yeah.
28:23It was a good day. Both the families got on. Yeah.
28:25So... And we had a laugh as well.
28:27I'm definitely keeping a bit of a sharp eye on Adam.
28:30Lacey would be his type.
28:32I'm trying to keep positive about the whole situation.
28:34But it's hard.
28:38I've got a bad lip, haven't I? I've got a bad lip.
28:40I just kissed him a little bit hard.
28:54Find where we're sitting.
28:56Sasha, Ross, Eve, Charlie.
28:58I'll stay here.
29:00Thanks, babe. Thank you.
29:02Hello, hello, hello.
29:08How are you feeling? You OK?
29:10Yeah, I'm good. I wish Rochelle was here.
29:12We can have you. We'll look after you.
29:18CHEERING
29:20That was a good toast.
29:22Can I...? Orson, can you see...?
29:24No, he probably can't.
29:26Orson, can you see us? I can, actually, yeah.
29:28I'm going to make a toast to everyone.
29:30Everyone, please raise your glass.
29:32This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity
29:34to be met by experts
29:36with, hopefully, our lifelong partners.
29:38There's going to be some fallout.
29:40It's normal.
29:42But this is a big part of our lives
29:44and we need to embrace it.
29:46And one thing to remember is be where your feet are.
29:48CHEERING
29:50Love yous all.
29:52Cheers, mate.
29:54Cheers, babe.
29:56Cheers.
30:00You good?
30:02You look really beautiful.
30:04It's our one-week anniversary today.
30:06Oh, congratulations!
30:08We've made it so far.
30:10It feels a lot longer, doesn't it?
30:12Like a week feels like a month, I think.
30:14Yeah.
30:18I want to say for the last time,
30:20the comment that I made,
30:22it was made before I knew of your existence
30:24and it was made of
30:26if I was unhappy
30:28with my wife.
30:30This feud between them is clearly not going away.
30:32A simple
30:34I'm sorry that you've been made to feel like this
30:36would have really squashed all of this.
30:38But instead, unresolved,
30:40and now it's going to fester.
30:42So maybe taking yourself away from each other
30:44for a bit, another few days away from each other
30:46might do you a lot of good.
30:48You don't need someone that's fucking about like this
30:50and isn't in it for what you want.
30:52You do not have time to fuck about.
30:54You don't. That's what we're all here for.
30:56Are you for fucking real?
30:58People just need to mind their business,
31:00sort your own situations out
31:02before you start getting involved.
31:04Trying to make me look like the bad guy.
31:06That is a form
31:08of betrayal.
31:10Go fucking to hell.
31:16He needs to grow up, mate.
31:18Why are you moving your chair?
31:20Why are you moving your chair?
31:22I said. Alex.
31:24Excuse me, I'm talking to you.
31:26He seems annoyed with me
31:28over his own shit.
31:30I'm embarrassed because of Alex's behaviour.
31:32He has completely changed.
31:34I don't even know who he is.
31:36Why are you moving your chair?
31:38Are you ten?
31:40You're behaving like a child.
31:44I'm not going to sit next to Holly
31:46and try and play happy families.
31:48Just jog on.
31:50Whatever.
31:55BELL RINGS
31:58BELL RINGS
32:09You got your hands full, boy.
32:11I think you got your hands full.
32:15The best advice I could give you,
32:17you're always going to hit these hurdles.
32:19The thing is, bro, when I get around people
32:21that start acting up for crowds and shit,
32:23that doesn't wash well with me, bro.
32:25Mm.
32:26And I can't unsee them treats.
32:28Especially when that's the person
32:30that's meant to be in your corner.
32:32And then, are you going to switch up when a crowd comes?
32:35Nah. That's not solid, bro.
32:37Alex has gone with,
32:39she's doing this on purpose to humiliate me,
32:41she's blindsided me,
32:43but I don't think he's listening to the fact
32:45that actually she's hurt.
32:48What were the best parts of your two's honeymoon?
32:51Just absolutely everything that we've done.
32:53Absolutely everything.
32:54I just feel really grateful, Sasha.
32:56What about you guys?
32:58Well, I was freaking out because I was like,
33:00I don't want to feel pressured to share a room or anything.
33:03That's just not me.
33:04And I thought I was going to think I don't like him there.
33:07But you just took the soul for anyway, didn't you?
33:09Yeah, I did, yeah.
33:10Did you feel, like, really comfortable inside?
33:12Yeah, it made me feel really safe and really comfortable.
33:15It made me feel really safe and really respected.
33:24I mean, that's music to my ears,
33:26someone saying I feel safe in this relationship.
33:28That's all about that emotional comfort and I'm here for it.
33:31Yes.
33:34You all right?
33:35Yeah, I'm really good.
33:37I can't believe that you and Eve
33:39had such a tough honeymoon from what I've seen.
33:41This morning we had a good chat
33:43and we've, you know, we had space
33:45and we took some time away from each other
33:47and I feel like that's what we both needed
33:49and it was the hardest three days.
33:51What, just being apart?
33:52Just being apart.
33:53Like, I missed her, I've obviously fallen for her
33:55and so it was really hard for me.
33:57But I feel like it was the best thing we could have done.
33:59How are you feeling, though, Caspar?
34:01Are you all right?
34:02Because you're definitely not...
34:03I'm not getting the same Caspar that I saw at the statue.
34:07I'm frustrated because I don't understand how I've ended up here.
34:14Oh.
34:15It's just a bit much.
34:17Yeah.
34:18I don't feel comfortable in me
34:20and that's playing out in my relationship.
34:22I'm not finding her attractive.
34:25I don't see why we are matched.
34:27Right.
34:29I want to talk to you.
34:30I need to understand the match.
34:32I need to understand where the next stepping stone is going to be.
34:36Caspar, look, don't worry, right?
34:38We will let you know soon enough.
34:39I think Caspar is very much leaning
34:41into his preferred way of thinking,
34:43which is the very logical, practical style,
34:46and he wants the stats
34:48as opposed to actually letting his walls down
34:51and getting a sense of where this relationship could go.
34:54Right now, he just needs to trust the process.
34:56Yeah.
34:59Night one of the honeymoon.
35:01Yes, yes.
35:02Oh, you're not really my type.
35:04And I was like, well...
35:06Yes, yes.
35:07Yeah, I'm just never even attracted to her.
35:11Ouch.
35:22Especially with the things that you would be wearing,
35:24bikinis, dresses.
35:32Yeah, absolutely.
35:34Lose punch in any way, so...
35:36I find it quite hard to swallow Caspar making a comment like that
35:39to Emma on the honeymoon about her size,
35:41when he's a person who we know
35:43has struggled with his own body image.
35:45So he knows how difficult it would be
35:48for her to hear that information.
35:50Yeah.
35:51Yeah.
35:52No, yeah.
35:58No.
35:59You know fucking Daniel Craig yourself, darling.
36:04I'm in the same position with you,
36:05apart from the fact that he hasn't voiced out how Caspar has.
36:07I'm like, I'm comfortable in my body,
36:09I know that I look good, I dress for my body,
36:11so I don't care that I'm not your type
36:13and I don't care that I'm not a fucking size six,
36:15because what I look like is not who I am as a person.
36:21I've always been like, I meet girls and date girls,
36:25I think, fuck me, you are peng.
36:27Yeah, yeah.
36:28You know what I mean?
36:29It's hard, man.
36:30I want what you two have got.
36:31I want to be, like, touchy and all that shit.
36:33Yeah.
36:34Because I'm an affectionate guy,
36:35so I feel like I can't give her that yet.
36:37Yeah.
36:38I need to proper fancy someone before I make that move on them.
36:41Yeah, sometimes it has to grow, though, right?
36:43She's told me I'm literally like...
36:45I'm everything she's after.
36:47Do you think they give you what you need?
36:49I've got half of it.
36:50Right.
36:51I've got attraction,
36:52they haven't given me what I normally like,
36:54and then everything else is tick, tick, tick, tick, tick.
36:57In itself, do you not find that attractive,
36:59or does it have to be for you to grow?
37:01A bit, yeah.
37:02I do find that attractive, of course,
37:04but for me to want to rip someone's clothes off,
37:06I've got to look at them and think,
37:08I'm going to rip your clothes off.
37:10Would you say you're, like, quite superficial, then?
37:13Like, go for the looks?
37:15Not really, like.
37:16That was a challenging question.
37:18Nathan, on the question!
37:19Go, Nathan!
37:20But the response...
37:22Not really.
37:23I'm 33 now, I know what I want,
37:26and I'm not going to settle unless I've got perfection.
37:30Whoa!
37:31Did he just say that?
37:33I'm not going to settle unless I've got perfection.
37:37What we're seeing here is someone
37:39that is so attached to their old style
37:42that they cannot see what's in front of them.
37:49I wanted someone who's going to add to my life, not piss me off.
37:52You can't judge somebody that quick.
37:54Somehow, I'm the bad guy now.
37:56I know.
37:57Why?
37:58Seriously?
37:59I wouldn't even bother doing that and leave him watching.
38:01He likes me back.
38:02It's a fucking embarrassment.
38:03It's not, it's not. It's an experiment.
38:05But she's not like this behind closed doors.
38:07War came out today with me when I was with the girls and I thought...
38:10Do you want to go in there for a chat?
38:12Yeah, of course.
38:14I'm going in there for a chat, you coming?
38:18It is a masterclass in how not to communicate as a couple.
38:22Mmm.
38:23Just for a little debrief away
38:25from people looking at me over the room.
38:28I'll see you, my love.
38:29Bye, darling.
38:30Just sitting there listening to him fucking meep, meep, meep.
38:32She was hoping for you to apologise and say,
38:34look, OK, I'm going to sort myself out.
38:36Yeah, and you went back with strength, yeah?
38:38Yeah.
38:39And that meant that she's blown up.
38:41Listen, I don't care what positives you can bring.
38:43If you bring me stress, I don't want it.
38:45I deserve better than this.
38:46Alex just presented how he doesn't listen.
38:48If you're listening, I'll take it in, I'll think about it,
38:51I'll then constructively break it down and then give you back.
38:54That's listening.
38:55He's not listening, he's only hearing.
38:58He is grating my fucking tits.
39:01And it's his face, he sits there and looks at you.
39:04It's kind of like Alex's way or the highway kind of thing.
39:06Yes, literally.
39:08I come into this open-minded, I cleanse my soul
39:10before I come on this experiment.
39:12To give someone the real me.
39:13It's like you came here for the real deal.
39:15I come here for love.
39:16You need to sleep on this, babe.
39:18Walk into that room and fucking head out high.
39:20Yeah.
39:21And don't fucking give him time of day tonight.
39:23No.
39:24I do definitely need sleep on it,
39:25cos right now I'm feeling very uneasy.
39:40You know what, you two look, like, so close already.
39:44Yeah.
39:45Do you know what it is? We're, like, best friends.
39:47But I do fancy him a lot, I do like him, I do.
39:50What is his best characteristic?
39:53He's goofy like me, he brings out my goofy side.
39:56I love that I can be myself. Yeah.
39:58Has he given you the ick at all?
40:00Never.
40:01Have I given you the ick?
40:03No, no, you haven't. No, no, you haven't.
40:05I'm asking, you know, I'm asking.
40:08No, he actually hasn't. No.
40:10In bed last night, he said he loved me.
40:12Oh, did you? Oh, did you now?
40:15On a scale of one to ten, where do you feel you're at
40:19in terms of that L word coming out?
40:22On a scale of one to ten.
40:24No, that's not coming out yet, that's not coming out.
40:27Ten being I'm in love with you, where are you on the scale?
40:30No, could you fall in love with me?
40:32Anything's possible, innit?
40:34Wow!
40:36One being hate her guts, ten being I fucking love you,
40:39what are you on the scale? Exactly.
40:41I think she's really cool, I've known her a week.
40:43Oh, mate, Jesus Christ, I'm nervous.
40:45What's your number? My number?
40:48Four.
40:50Whoa!
40:52Four.
40:54Cos I'm nowhere near in love because I haven't got that attraction.
40:58I don't know if Adam has realised what he's just said,
41:01but Adam just said the scale.
41:03It is I absolutely hate your guts is what he said was a one.
41:06He's saying I'm basically... On the hate side.
41:09I hate you, yeah.
41:10That's incredibly disrespectful to say, period,
41:13but then also he's saying it to everyone. Yeah.
41:17I need to be honest with you about something.
41:20When we was, like, obviously talking over there,
41:22like, what's his name? Oyster. Oyster.
41:24He was, like, saying, like, ten that you love them to one,
41:28like, whatever, and he said, you know, like, we're a four,
41:32I'm missing the attraction.
41:34What the fuck?
41:36What the actual fuck?
41:38Ten being I love that girl.
41:40And four being kick her to the curb or something like that.
41:43Sorry, can someone just check we've got dickheads written
41:46on our fucking head?
41:47Polly? No. No.
41:49He has said he's not sure.
41:51We're not here to make best friends with the men we're married to.
41:55You don't have to be anybody's type,
41:58cos you are fucking Polly.
42:01I'm not going to change for anyone.
42:03And if you don't like me, then you don't like me,
42:05but I'm not going to go out of my way to make you like me.
42:09So, I'm just going to tell you now,
42:11I'm just about to go and sit down now,
42:13cos I need to be right involved with that conversation
42:15that's going on behind your back.
42:17Polly and Holly, with our little Lacey Lou,
42:19don't fuck with boys who are fake.
42:21Oh, for fuck's sake.
42:25Can I just have a chat with Adam, please?
42:27Yes. Thank you.
42:28Is that grilling you've been waiting for?
42:30It's not a grilling if it's facts, is it?
42:32Come on, talk to me, talk to me.
42:34Where is your head at?
42:35We get on, but there is that little bit of something missing.
42:41I'll be real wide.
42:42You know, earlier, when he was, like, four, you know,
42:46I did tell her, to be straight.
42:52Yeah, but you know you're not a four.
42:54I know I'm not a four.
42:55It's the fact that I'm not having a fucking man
42:57that I've let me sit here singing his praises
42:59while he's fucking calling me a four to his mate.
43:05Oh, what a dickhead.
43:06I'm not a dickhead.
43:07Oh, my God. No, I am such a dickhead.
43:11It's now shown me that I'm not going to...
43:13I'm not... Fuck. Honestly, fuck this.
43:15Is this a joke?
43:17All I've done is fucking sat here tonight
43:19and said everything that I've wanted to say.
43:23Do you know what I'm thinking?
43:25Babes, babes, babes.
43:27It's really clear that Polly's been so let down by men in the past.
43:32You can see that this is really cutting deep.
43:36I'm just used to being so fucked over
43:38that I'm just genuinely fucking over it.
43:40I'm a fucking good person.
43:42I've been brought up with fucking good people.
43:44And I fucking... Do you know what I mean?
43:46Come on, then. Come on.
43:51This is such bollocks.
44:05It's really heartbreaking to see,
44:07because I think she has a lot of hope in this relationship.
44:10Polly needs some reassurance here.
44:12Yes, she does.
44:13She's a four out of ten. Are you serious?
44:15Do you know if I'm in trouble cos of your stupid question?
44:18And I'm not.
44:20I'm not.
44:21I'm not.
44:22I'm not.
44:23I'm not.
44:24I'm not.
44:25I'm not.
44:26I'm not.
44:27I'm not.
44:28I'm not.
44:29I'm not.
44:30I'm not.
44:31I'm not.
44:32I'm not.
44:33I'm not.
44:35Adam is really showing emotional immaturity right now.
44:38It's despicable, actually.
44:40It is the epitome of being unkind.
44:42Yeah.
44:43Guys, let's not laugh about her. Come on.
44:45Let's not laugh about that, Adam.
44:47She's crying.
44:48Is she crying?
44:50It's all Chinese whispers.
44:52It's got background that she's a four out of ten.
44:54It's not saying she's a four out of ten.
44:56Are you trying to tell me he's 40% in love with her?
44:58Cos that doesn't make sense, either.
45:00No! No, no, no.
45:03It's fucking slag.
45:06Are you crying cos of me?
45:09What's upsetting you? Tell me what's upsetting you.
45:11The fact that I'm apparently a four.
45:13What the fuck is that?
45:15What an appearance.
45:16That is not the comment, yeah?
45:18It's fucking boring now, do you know what I mean?
45:20I know that I'm not your usual type.
45:21If people are going to ask me, I'm going to tell them.
45:23It shouldn't have been brought to the dinner table.
45:25Honestly, don't get upset.
45:27I've just been told that I've got a fucking four.
45:29Listen to me. That's bullshit, man.
45:31I'm not doing this.
45:32Listen to me.
45:33We was asking, as a joke to Nathan,
45:35ten, you're in love with her,
45:37zero or one, you hate her.
45:39I said, I'll answer it.
45:40I said, probably about a four.
45:42So I feel like I'm halfway,
45:43because we're missing that attraction, which she knows.
45:49I get it, I get it.
45:50Whatever, it is what it is.
45:51If something's pissing you off, don't ask me.
45:53No, I just didn't appreciate hearing it how I did.
45:57It's just quite upsetting to me,
45:59the fact that he's 33 and that that's kind of what he's doing.
46:03It's just not nice to hear that you're that low down.
46:07All this drama.
46:08Babe.
46:09Mental.
46:10Babe.
46:13You're all gorgeous.
46:14You know what it is, though?
46:15We were fine coming into this,
46:17but there are things I don't like.
46:21Karl.
46:22What?
46:23Talk to me.
46:24The thing is, the comment was so...
46:27..small and insignificant.
46:29And I'm really not into that.
46:32What he's trying to do is make it...
46:34He's trying to word it like he hasn't said it.
46:37It's just a bit backwards, really.
46:39Like, it's just...
46:40It's giving...
46:41Fake.
46:42Because you've been rude, you've been disrespectful,
46:45and you've made her feel like shit.
46:47I can tell him.
46:49I need to know what the fuck's been going on.
46:52You've been quite rude.
46:54How am I in the wrong?
46:56You're coming into this not fully open
46:58to who you're going to be put with,
47:00which is the whole point of this.
47:02There's two sides to every story, and then there's the truth.
47:04Don't get defensive about it.
47:06I have to, though, because I feel like you're coming at me quite strong.
47:08You don't. I'm not.
47:09I'm good.
47:10If I was coming at you, you'd know I was coming at you.
47:12I'm not.
47:13I'm not.
47:14I'm not.
47:15I'm not.
47:16I'm not.
47:18So why have you come over here for, then?
47:20Cos I feel like you've come over to give me some kind of grilling,
47:23but you've come over sideways, allow it,
47:25leave the conversation, be done.
47:27Honestly, just go over there or something, man.
47:29This is done. Conversation's over.
47:31Oh, whatever. I actually can't get off. Fuck this.
47:33See you later.
47:34Stop being rude.
47:35I'm not coping with someone who's so fucking disrespectful.
47:38Do you know what?
47:39I don't want someone like that when I've got two children at home,
47:42cos never would a man be around my kids who speaks like that.
47:45Let me tell you.
47:46Let me fucking tell you.
47:47Cool, yeah, walk on. Walk on, man.
47:49Never mind walk on. You need to walk straight out the door, mate.
47:52I'm being accused of something I haven't done.
47:54It's embarrassing and I just want no part of this, man.
48:10Just mediate with me right now.
48:12I think because that thing has been brought up,
48:14that you said that on the stag day.
48:16Just wish you'd not made that comment,
48:18because it's giving me, like...
48:20If I'm not happy where I am, then I'll leave.
48:24My answer only matters if I didn't like my wife.
48:28The fact of the matter is, I do like my wife.
48:31That's why I feel like my answer is irrelevant.
48:36It's just not what I wanted to hear.
48:41Can you understand how it made me feel?
48:45Yeah.
48:50That makes me feel like I'm on a trial.
48:52Like, if I fuck up, then something else is going to be better
48:55and that's not how I want to work.
48:57I want someone who's going to work through this shit with me.
49:04If something better comes along... It's not about that.
49:07..then do I just get shoved to the side like I always have?
49:10It's not... It's not... Yo, stop doing that, man.
49:13It hurts, Alex.
49:15Like, I've always been second best.
49:17I just want to be that girl that a guy does it for.
49:24And I've been trying to prove to you that you are worth it,
49:27have I not?
49:28We've spoken about this, Holly.
49:30We've spoken about this.
49:32I thought I'd reassured you enough that I am happy.
49:36Oh, my God! Come here, man.
49:39Come here.
49:44SHE SOBS
49:46Alex may be telling me the things I want to hear,
49:49just so I feel reassured.
49:51I'm definitely going to spend the night away from Alex tonight.
49:59This whole situation has opened my eyes.
50:04I don't think I can move past this.
50:08Next time...
50:09Welcome to your very first commitment ceremony.
50:12..the newlyweds come face-to-face with the experts.
50:15The end of the honeymoon was tumultuous for you both.
50:18We had a really big fight and we haven't kissed since that day.
50:22I am scared of rejection. I'm scared of losing her.
50:25I'm sorry. I just hate all this stuff.
50:27Two couples still struggle to bond on a deeper level.
50:31It's not going to be attractive because they don't like us.
50:34It's not going to be attractive because he doesn't like her.
50:37The girl's attractive.
50:38We're so different on so many levels and I don't get it.
50:42This is my life, if I can win it.
50:44I know that I'm not what he'd normally go for.
50:46I'm not forcing it.
50:47But if I've got to force it, then it's not there.
50:49If I'm affectionate with her, I don't want to give her the wrong idea.
50:52But you're married and you've had sex.
50:54Ooh!
50:55And the rift between Holly and Alex persists.
50:58You speak to me like I'm a boy in the street.
51:00If this was not this process, you would have been ghosted.
51:03Oh...
51:04And that's why I hate the situation I'm in.
51:33I'm in.
51:34I'm in.
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