Full Video: The effect of your lover on your life || Acharya Prashant, on Vedanta (2020)
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00:00Is your lover enfeebling you,
00:03enslaving you or empowering you?
00:06Ask yourself. Somebody who limits you,
00:09cages you, mostly in the name of care,
00:12cannot be your friend, let alone lover.
00:15Somebody who allows you to comfortably
00:18exist with your weaknesses, cannot be
00:21a worthy lover. Somebody who doesn't
00:24challenge your falsenesses, cannot be your lover.
00:27Somebody who says, oh I love you as you are,
00:30just cannot be your lover. Run away.
00:33Your lover has to be somebody who keeps
00:36refusing you 40 times a day.
00:39Because you deserve to be refused, don't you?
00:41What do you think of yourself?
00:43Don't we deserve to be corrected again and again?
00:46Don't we deserve to be shown the light again and again?
00:49How can you be with someone who says no,
00:52I like you as you are, dull, gloomy,
00:55ignorant?