Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 21
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00:00:00Oh
00:00:02The cat's dragged in previously
00:00:06Frosty after Hannah faced the wrath of the group
00:00:11You've rubbed me the wrong way now
00:00:14One groom offered a welcome distraction. I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself
00:00:19But it was an indiscreet proposition from Steven. So you find Shannon attractive
00:00:24Oh, she's my type do something so funny that prompted outrage. Diva said if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight, I'm gonna shoot myself
00:00:33Look at steamers definitely broke roll called and Polly's attempts at damage control. I'm sorry
00:00:39I'm sorry, Adam. There you go fell short of Adam's expectations
00:00:45It's a fake. Sorry, I don't put it the stuff that he said about me
00:00:54Tonight I want to spend the rest of my life with you. She's finally seeing who I actually am
00:01:00The impact of the retreat hits home. I felt betrayed my head's been scrambled
00:01:06It almost felt like sex was a sales pitch pushing some marriages. This is gonna be hard to hear
00:01:11This is why I prepare myself for the worst to breaking point at that moment
00:01:16I knew I could not stand him just like squeezing blood from a stone
00:01:22Were you trying to make Steven jealous you can't make a guy jealous of you that doesn't get why do I want me to speak
00:01:26To this girl, but it's a shocking revelation
00:01:29How have they not been sneakily kissing?
00:01:32They've watch
00:01:33You consider what you did an act of infidelity that delivers the biggest blow of the evening deserve tonight
00:01:39I think it's bullshit snake
00:01:45You're a sly guy so you're talking shit it is very clear that this relationship is done
00:01:51I
00:02:02Is that all of you was it just love I
00:02:05And I'm up to you. Don't you point it wouldn't you just say I'd love you
00:02:13As the couple's settle back into apartment life
00:02:21I
00:02:23They're reflecting on their time away
00:02:29The retreat down our skirt because obviously a lot of the other couples weren't getting on it just makes you realize what you do have
00:02:36we've come back and
00:02:39I
00:02:40Feel cured and now that we're understanding each other better. I don't see us clashing as much
00:02:45I say we're in a good place now the best place we've ever been in
00:02:51She was really nice wasn't it definitely
00:02:54Me and Karen. We had a lovely time of retreat
00:02:57It's really difficult being around me when I have PMDD
00:03:03But we are in a good place, and he's been really supportive
00:03:08the bumps that we have like
00:03:11We can sort it out. I'm just pleased like
00:03:15actually speaking
00:03:21I
00:03:31Do feel like me and Adam still have some things to resolve
00:03:34I shouldn't have said I twist with Stephen on the retreat. I hold my hands up
00:03:39I up, but he isn't understanding my point and why I said the comment that I made
00:03:46And unfortunately, I feel like the Stephen comment
00:03:49It was a step back on it like I felt like a bit of a kick in the teeth
00:03:53You know I mean yeah, but there's been stuff that you've said. That's been a huge kick in the teeth for me
00:03:59I was fuming not gonna lie
00:04:01He disrespected me made me look muggy in front of all the other girls. I have done one thing
00:04:07One whereas you've done
00:04:10Multiple little things I know and that's what was annoying me at a dinner party because
00:04:14The things I've done we've kind of got past and got over so that a dinner table for you to be saying to me
00:04:21But you did this you did that
00:04:23Say I wouldn't say that they have been gotten over. We're just gonna argue if we keep talking about it
00:04:27I think we just need to forget it
00:04:32I don't really know where me and Polly stand at the moment
00:04:35Going into the commitment ceremony. I've got a really hard decision to make
00:04:40we're kind of just waiting for me to either get over this comment or
00:04:45move on
00:04:50We've had a pretty good week. We've had a really good week best week. We've had in ages
00:04:54We've had a snog
00:04:56We've you know tested the waters there. It was almost like you went. I'm leaning in it's got to be everything all at once
00:05:03To me it moved really quickly
00:05:06in a week
00:05:10I
00:05:11Think there are traits been really good for Emma and I but
00:05:14They look at other couples in the process, and they're falling in love and they've got these really strong relationships
00:05:20So we know we've made progress, but have we made enough progress?
00:05:24I'm not sure is the answer
00:05:30The effect like the retreat would be for us to go and like listen to the birds chirping go for walks
00:05:34We did none of that all we did I felt I felt was we sat consoled Hannah with her
00:05:40Tantrums, and you know her issues. I know this and Oh Stephen that Stephen that just get on with it like she drained me
00:05:46I'm sorry, but Hannah drained me
00:05:48She sucked the fun out of me from the morning till the evening till the good night. I can feel that you stressed. Yeah
00:05:56So
00:06:06Move back into the apartments obviously Stephen isn't here. He doesn't even have any of his stuff here
00:06:11He hasn't spent a night in the apartment
00:06:14In my heart. I'm like come on. Let's just try. We've got this I
00:06:17Don't feel like I've had the opportunity to be a wife. I still care about the boy
00:06:23I don't just wake up and not give a crap about someone there is still some care there. I loved the guy I married and
00:06:30I am gutted I have tried and tried and tried from day one. I've kept my ring on I've told everyone
00:06:36I've still got a husband
00:06:38I'm proud of how I've held my own. I'm proud Oh
00:06:41I
00:06:46Can't make up I'm going to the thing. I'm proud of myself. I'm proud of how I felt myself and I've tried my best and
00:06:54sometimes you take a risk and it doesn't pay off and I
00:07:00Tried and that's all you can do
00:07:12That Stephen is here for the wrong reason I just wish you could have seen my reaction when Holly told me the minute
00:07:19We have a tiff
00:07:20He's trying to jump in
00:07:23Embarrassing like he's shown himself up massively. He blatantly lied
00:07:28You know what I've kept my cool with him, but this man thinks he's better than what he is
00:07:33I do not understand where he thought
00:07:36He was gonna ever shoot a shot with me like I just shot him right back down and you know that I
00:07:48Have a few things to get off my chest today the commitment ceremony
00:07:51I do know that something went down at the retreat between Orson and Hannah
00:07:59He literally wants to stay in the process by any means necessary I
00:08:03Thought he had a little bit more shame than this
00:08:07But clearly he doesn't so he's shown himself
00:08:11I've lost so many brain cells since being married to Orson. I'm actually a little bit embarrassed. I married him. I
00:08:18Actually pity him a little bit
00:08:21pity the fool
00:08:23I
00:08:32Have no idea if we shall is gonna turn up today. She didn't turn up for the dinner party
00:08:37She didn't turn up for the mixer. She didn't turn up for this relationship
00:08:42but there's rumors knocking about and
00:08:45I would want to show to come and sit and say her piece
00:08:49Because I'm ready for her
00:09:20Welcome everyone to your fourth commitment ceremony. Look at the person next to you
00:09:28And think about what they're giving you and you're giving them
00:09:34Today we want you to lay it all out on the table
00:09:41No secrets, no shame
00:09:46Now with that in mind, let's begin
00:09:49first
00:09:52Up on the couch today is
00:09:55Holly and Alex
00:10:04Hello and
00:10:06Why the different couple sitting on the couch? We did a free sex day. Wow, you did Holly
00:10:14One of the things we talked about with you was
00:10:17Addressing those issues as they come up in the moment rather than allowing them to percolate. How's that been going for you this week?
00:10:24a lot better, right I felt the only way we could progress is if I let him in the things I struggle with and
00:10:31my triggers and my traumas and he was like I
00:10:34Get it and he just tells me and was like I got you. It's okay layout and
00:10:39Thank God a bloody dead
00:10:42Yeah, just he understood and the next day I woke up and if I could come run a marathon that feels so light
00:10:49It's just a amazing feeling just to know that like she's finally seeing who I actually am
00:10:55You can talk to me and you tried it and it worked
00:11:00Good good work
00:11:02Wow, so how has this conversation changed your relationship?
00:11:07We're just so much more calmer around each other. It's more relaxed. I feel like everyone else is more relaxed around us
00:11:14I don't they're not sat there like they're gonna blow
00:11:16Everyone just seems so much more chill around us
00:11:19I'm glad that we've had the tiffs and the arguments that we've had because when we come back we come back
00:11:2520 times more stronger than before
00:11:27We're to next what do you need in order to deepen this relationship even further just continue doing what we're doing
00:11:35Because everything else
00:11:38It's fine
00:11:42You telling Charlene not to ask I
00:11:45Feel like we've put the puzzle together. It's just making sure it stays stays in place wonderful
00:11:51Well, why don't we go to a decision?
00:11:54Holly you first
00:11:56Feel like a weights lifted off my shoulders feel like we make a good team as well you daft
00:12:03You make me feel stunning no and
00:12:07You make the best cups of tea ever
00:12:10So for that reason my darling, I'm going to stay
00:12:19Over to you big man. Yeah, I'm just enjoying
00:12:22getting to know Holly more and
00:12:24Spending time with each other. We just have the best time and there's no reason why she shouldn't be a million percent confident in who
00:12:31She is because everybody loves her, you know, and she's a great girl. So
00:12:37No, Brina
00:12:44Well, you two are an amazing example of what happens when a couple does the work yeah, you're doing it don't give up guys
00:12:54Don't give up. It's a great message to everyone else. We're really proud of you so much. Keep it up
00:13:01You
00:13:08All right next up if we could have Ryan Shannon
00:13:19Good to see both of you
00:13:21Second commitment ceremony. Yes. Yeah. Yes. You were here together. How's the week been for you both? It was an interesting week
00:13:30We had our first little argument, okay first argument, yeah, okay unpack it
00:13:36It was like a big misunderstanding. Honestly, Brian said something that kind of threw me back to one of my exes
00:13:44And you'd kind of said you were done. I took that as done completely, but he meant done with the conversation
00:13:50I said I'm done with it. I I've gone back to sleep wake, you know
00:13:54Shannon's not there and
00:13:56Afterwards we've just said like wow, that was just a mountain was made out of them all
00:14:00this one
00:14:02misunderstanding Shannon you take and
00:14:04React extremely to it. I just panicked
00:14:08We all all
00:14:11React to fight-or-flight
00:14:13Anytime we feel under threat. What do we want to do fight or we want to flee you chose flight?
00:14:20instead of taking a pause
00:14:22Sleeping on it waking up the next morning
00:14:25Resolving it. I'm terrible at that. Okay, but now, you know, I know right now, you know
00:14:30Okay. So now as the dinner party progressed
00:14:34Right, you looked agitated and you looked worked up
00:14:40Can you elaborate as to why
00:14:45Holly came over to me and said
00:14:47Stephen had said if Ryan doesn't come to the dinner party. He's gonna shoot his shot
00:14:54So now I couldn't trust you with my wife
00:14:57So Holly, when did you hear Stephen say this? So before Ryan had come into the mixer Stephen had shouted me over to him
00:15:05and he said
00:15:07So obviously, you know Shannon's my type
00:15:13If Ryan doesn't come to the mixer tonight that I'm gonna stick it on Shannon
00:15:17I
00:15:20Would never use the word stick it on because it's not what I use. Anyway, you was gonna try it on a though. Yeah
00:15:28Not and you'll see
00:15:30Was you gonna try it if you got let me answer
00:15:32I would not have done that without speaking to you and I've said that a blatant lie
00:15:40You're a sly guy
00:15:48You
00:15:58So if Shannon was was interested
00:16:02You would have attempted something
00:16:05I've spoken to you as much. You don't think I would come on. Come on
00:16:08I think I have not asked and I'm saying it. I love this guy. I've ever met. I would have spoken to you
00:16:14Of course yours
00:16:17I
00:16:22Feel for that girl because you've been grilling off
00:16:25All this experiment and you have done exactly the same. Do you have anything to say to?
00:16:31Let's leave
00:16:33I'm good. I can only say sorry. Just you keep your distance from me. I'll keep your distance and we'll respect that
00:16:47All right
00:16:48So now back to you two. All right
00:16:52You had your misunderstanding this week. Okay, you had all this happening in the group
00:16:57But do you feel like there's been progress this week? It's made me stronger this
00:17:00It's been good. Yes, man. I've been speaking but moved to Manchester. Have you? Yeah. All right. This is good
00:17:06As long as I get a puppy
00:17:10This is big so you've already resolved the distance challenge. Yes, that's done. Wow, it's done
00:17:17This is good
00:17:21Okay, so now let's go to a decision then I'll go to go first boy you want to go first
00:17:30So this decision is very user listen, I didn't expect this when I came here
00:17:35I'm not the one to hit off straight away. And I said to her one day. So where have you been all my life and
00:17:42This decision is absolutely very very user and it's stay
00:17:48I
00:17:52Said it hit us
00:17:54Ryan has made me feel so comfortable probably more comfortable than any man has ever made me feel
00:18:00But just big and you've made me this sloppy mess. I don't know what the fuck's happened to me
00:18:06So obviously I'm gonna say
00:18:08All right
00:18:15Have a great week. Thank you
00:18:29Next up on the couch Amy and Luke
00:18:39Hey guys
00:18:42How are you both yeah, okay. Yeah, you both doing well
00:18:47We've been very busy at the retreat haven't we? Yeah, I'm sort of involved with all the drama
00:18:55We felt like it was bringing us together because we were both like
00:18:59Helping the situation together. But since coming back to the apartments, we just feel like we're like I
00:19:04I
00:19:06Felt like yeah, the retreat was supposed to be a kind of relaxing time
00:19:11But you know, hey me blesses. She was like 24 7 babysitting
00:19:16Which was good because I saw a really good signs in a me like she's such an angel
00:19:19But I felt like I was the nurse and the patient and I felt like the janitor, you know clearing up after
00:19:27We were supporting her I know we were supporting but I'd look what it's done to us
00:19:31It wasn't very relaxing and yeah, you know a few bits happen at the retreat that have affected us
00:19:37I would say affected me. Definitely what happened was I
00:19:41Came back from a lad's day and I found out that Amy picked Nathan as a sexiest husband
00:19:46She sat here last week saying I was a 12 out of 10
00:19:48And now she's saying she would she finds Nathan as the sexiest when she could have said me
00:19:52I can't so what's Nathan 24 out of 10? Like what's this FIFA cards and numbers keep getting bigger?
00:19:57That's crazy
00:20:00You can appreciate that other people are attractive does that mean I can't have any friends with penises. No, it's not that
00:20:07I'm just saying that's you know, that's how it affected me because I'm thinking is it because he's gotten that fancy jacket and fashion
00:20:12It kind of brings it brings out an insecurity. Yeah, would you say that it made you experience this situation in a jealous way?
00:20:21Potentially it
00:20:23I feel a bit guilty for it in my opinion. You are the most beautiful girl in this group
00:20:28Which is hence why I chose you was doubly hurt painful for me
00:20:32It was just a game
00:20:35Fair enough, I can see that it really hurt you
00:20:38I think it might be worth you just reflecting away from this space about this
00:20:45Conversation and maybe need some reassurance. Actually, you're her number one
00:20:50I think that's how the two of you can really move forward here
00:20:55But let's look at the dinner party
00:20:57Because one thing that I noticed was that there was quite a lot of affection between the two of you intimacy
00:21:03Would you say it's quite good? Yeah, great. Yeah, is that to say that the intimacy is at another level?
00:21:15It was well-earned I made love to my woman not
00:21:21Just not just had sex but I made
00:21:27We're being honest I'm not saying anything it was worth the wait I appreciate your honesty
00:21:35On that note, let's go to positions Amy. Would you like to go first?
00:21:42So we're still very early in our journey and I do believe we can both work on things
00:21:50so I've decided to
00:21:53stay
00:21:58And what's your decision this whole process about learning isn't it and
00:22:04Things come in life to test us I think and you know with Amy by my side
00:22:08I feel ready to take that test and I want to continue I want to work hard for it
00:22:13You know, despite all those insecurities that I have and I think you will bring the best out of me Amy. So
00:22:18Despite all that I'm staying
00:22:25I think my advice for you guys this week is press the reset button
00:22:30Have some fun together and enjoy the rest of your week
00:22:44Next up to the couch can we have
00:22:48Polly and Adam come on up
00:22:57How are you both
00:22:58Yeah, thank you. All right. Good. It's good to see you. Good to see you both. All right
00:23:02So now we're looking forward to hearing about the retreat. So let's get into it. What happened bit of a argument
00:23:10So it was on the girls day
00:23:12And
00:23:13Polly said that she would twist to another husband because he's more emotionally available and talks about his feelings
00:23:21So I was shocked upset
00:23:24Disrespected and just it just wasn't a nice feeling
00:23:27Interesting because I thought I was making so much effort and coming out of comfort zone
00:23:33And I felt like we was going in the right direction and getting better to then
00:23:38Hear that it was kind of like a kick in the teeth
00:23:40Interesting. All right. Now who who did Polly say that she would twist with?
00:23:46Steven my good friend. I think one of the comments when she told me was
00:23:52He's gave me more emotional
00:23:55Conversations and you have and I was like, I've been here three weeks not three days
00:23:59Well, so it's just another shock for me to hear right? So Polly I have to go to you
00:24:04Why did you say you would twist with Steven?
00:24:08Because of the qualities that Steven has that I wish Adam had
00:24:15And what are those qualities emotional availability
00:24:20Voicing how he thinks and how he feels to other people without feeling ashamed
00:24:25Being secure in himself to be able to to just say it
00:24:30So I don't feel like he shows me that he cares about me enough
00:24:34Like I felt like I'd come like out my comfort zone complete and I was trying to
00:24:39get us to the best place we could be and then that was like
00:24:43Hurtful, you know, I mean, I think that's obviously made Polly realize that obviously I do care because it's hurt me
00:24:48So it shouldn't have had to have taken an ocean me saying I want qualities in someone else for you to show and tell
00:24:54Me how you feel about me. I mean, he's never said that. I'm sexy. I'm beautiful. I look gorgeous
00:24:58I've been given a bit more affection like the little kiss and stuff. I know sometimes I forget cheek
00:25:04If I'm not a PDA person, you know, it's even when we're at home even when you leave to go
00:25:10Because I've just had a first massive argument to the point where I felt betrayed
00:25:15And I've said to you the last thing I'm gonna do now is want to give you a kiss when my heads been scrambled but
00:25:20That's not fair when it's taken us so long to get to where we are. Of course. I know it's not fair
00:25:24But now I feel like I'm being punished for one comment. I've made after the fucking 10 to me to me
00:25:29It was a big comment. It wasn't just a
00:25:31Jokey comment. It was a massive comment to where everyone else couldn't believe it
00:25:38You have to understand what I've had to sit and listen to and deal with that I've taken on board and understood
00:25:44I'd have not thrown anything in your face. I get that but you've said so for you to react how you did was unfair
00:25:52You still haven't given a lot I know that you feel like you have but you haven't I
00:25:58I
00:26:00Do obviously see a future with me and Adam and I do genuinely believe that it can get there
00:26:05But at the moment, I'm just seeing the potential
00:26:09And it's like is this just another fucking relationship at nearly 30 years old
00:26:13So here's the thing the worst thing in the world is fall in love with potential
00:26:18So if your objective is what you think Adam will be in the future you might as well leave today
00:26:28To go to the decision
00:26:46The worst thing in the world is fall in love with potential
00:26:50So if your objective is what you think Adam will be in the future, you might as well leave today
00:26:58To
00:27:03Go to the decision
00:27:10The conflict that we had maybe shouldn't have happened how it did and I apologize for that, but I feel like I
00:27:17Am more affirmed in certain ways by Adam and his reaction
00:27:22So I put
00:27:28I
00:27:35Did have a feeling that did she say that to make me think I'm jealous I'm gonna try harder
00:27:41For me personally a comment like that more would hurt me and make me retract
00:27:46I'm sorry, if I can't give you what you want right now, but there is two of us here and there's two people's feelings
00:27:55And I know you want something but then I need things as well
00:28:01But
00:28:04There's definitely feelings there, otherwise that comment wouldn't have bothered me I just been live whatever
00:28:11So I put stay
00:28:13I
00:28:20Will see you back in this week. All right. Thank you so much. Thanks
00:28:37Next up on the couch
00:28:40Hannah and Steven
00:28:43Okay
00:28:49Hello
00:28:51Where I'd like to begin is where we last saw you and that was right here on this couch
00:28:58Hannah you wrote
00:29:00Stay Stephen you wrote leave, but you agreed to continue to work on your marriage
00:29:07Do you believe you did? No
00:29:09Why?
00:29:11After I'm off to meet awesome with a few other boys just goes awesome. Why did you hold my hand to make him jealous?
00:29:19So the respect thing then just disappeared straight away. So I walls went straight up
00:29:24So let's just figure this out right now Hannah. Were you trying to make Steven jealous?
00:29:30You can't make a guy jealous of you that doesn't give a fuck about you
00:29:33So that's not what that was
00:29:34It was just a bit of answer for someone trying to make me smile and trying to make me have a bit of a giggle
00:29:41He didn't say one word to me after the commitment ceremony he avoided me like the plague he couldn't look at me
00:29:45I
00:29:46Don't feel like you can sit here and say
00:29:48That's the reason why you weren't trying is because me and Orson had some banter because you checked out way before that
00:29:56All right, so now you're at the retreat did you stay together at the retreat no
00:30:02We had an argument as soon as we moved into the lodge
00:30:05You both had an argument. I wouldn't call it an argument. I'd call it an ambush and then I leave the room
00:30:10Okay, cuz that's what he does this whole me and Orson having banter situation
00:30:16You held on to it held on to it didn't speak to me
00:30:19Stewed on it then waiting until we're in a room together dropped a bomb on me
00:30:24Waited for me to react because I do and then you're like see that's why I don't really like you and then you darted out
00:30:30The room. Okay, that's so toxic
00:30:32What was the bomb that was dropped that me and Orson were pissing around and having banter and pretending to hold hands
00:30:38Okay, I
00:30:40Said I'll try at the retreat and I was trying to get into that headspace
00:30:43But there was all this kind of stuff going on with Hannah and the girls or whatever. I
00:30:48Was kind of just that listening to it all and all I'm hearing is she's trying it with everyone's husband. It's just making me
00:30:55Completely check out even more. I'm like, why do I want to even speak to this girl, right?
00:30:59So let me ask the group this this this kind of notion of Hannah trying it with different guys
00:31:05that seems to keep coming up and
00:31:08Clearly that had a lot of impact on you, especially the girls day. So were you feeling that? Yeah
00:31:15Okay, me and Hannah discussed it, but it felt like she was like very flirty with Ryan. I
00:31:23Was just very vocal in Santana that I don't like how she's good about things
00:31:27I don't like what she said to certain people when we've all made her feel so welcome and
00:31:33I
00:31:34Called a spade a spade. She deserved to know so I told her and then she started getting lippy to someone else
00:31:40Just didn't sit well with me
00:31:43Right. I mean this is interesting for us to know because that was happening Hannah, but at the same time Stephen the whole
00:31:50You know you shooting your shot with with Shannon that's playing out, too
00:31:56It's ironic don't you think yeah, I've got ironic. Yeah. Yeah
00:32:02Do you think that these rumors about Hannah and the guys did that influence your behavior whatsoever with Hannah?
00:32:12It probably did influence it yeah, I
00:32:16Don't see boys and girls differently. So if I have like banter with one of the boys, I don't see that
00:32:21It's like oh, that's a boy
00:32:23So I should be careful how I speak to them over a girl
00:32:27Okay, so
00:32:30Hannah, what are you thinking at this point? Are you thinking I want to try to make this work still?
00:32:34I don't want to make this work. What's your thought?
00:32:40It's still in the back of my brain was like I'm here for a marriage like
00:32:44There is probably things we can work on. Yes
00:32:46I was like every single time we have an argument I check out like more and more and more and more
00:32:50But I still wasn't finished like I still you were still you're still in yeah
00:32:53The best-case scenario for me was can we squash it?
00:32:59We've had this experience let's remember that we actually had a really good start and
00:33:04I wanted to say thank you for how he made me feel on the wedding day because I felt incredible
00:33:10Hearing that what are you thinking? Does it change anything? I
00:33:16Will never deny the fact our wedding day was special
00:33:20but
00:33:22No
00:33:26A lot has been said about two from both of you tonight
00:33:33so
00:33:34Let's go to a decision Steven. Would you like to go first?
00:33:37I would like to go first. I would like to go first
00:33:41So let's go to a decision Steven, would you like to go first?
00:33:50Last week I for I put leave I was still in the mindset of I don't think I
00:33:57Can be the man you need but my mindset is very much now I don't want to be your man
00:34:07I don't think you're in it for me. I think you're in it for a pros
00:34:09I don't know what the reasons are and why you're here
00:34:13So for those reasons
00:34:15I'm gonna leave
00:34:16Okay. Okay. Thank you
00:34:22Hannah
00:34:33I think this is probably my opportunity to
00:34:37Try and leave this process as amicably as I can with everybody
00:34:45As much as whatever's happens happened, I do think deep down you are a good guy and I do think you'll make someone happy
00:34:55It's meant to be about marriage and also the work so I am gonna leave
00:35:07Okay, all right
00:35:11Thank you for your vulnerability here on the couch
00:35:14We want to thank you for your participation and we truly wish you the best in your future relationships discuss
00:35:37I
00:35:46Next up on the couch, can we have Kieran and Christina?
00:36:02So, how was the retreat you two I'm full of drama
00:36:06But it was good
00:36:08We had one day where?
00:36:10Was a little bit questionable. Yeah my behalf
00:36:13What happened there for you just got in my head
00:36:18PM DD here and it was it just a little bit tough
00:36:23I'm gonna get a mouse. Okay
00:36:29It's just like the worst feeling ever and you just no matter how much you try and fight it
00:36:34Like when you are in that moment, like if like it just feels
00:36:39it just feels really just dark and horrible and I
00:36:45Think what makes it worse almost for me is because I know like how it affects Karen
00:36:54But I just don't want it to like just push you away that's what I'm scared of
00:37:01I'm more careful about what I see and what I do when PM DD's
00:37:06Yeah, because you don't know what it's gonna be
00:37:09That's gonna be that the set off but it's it's horrible seeing Christina like that
00:37:12And I think I can really I really empathize with you don't and I have cried with Christina quite a lot when I can
00:37:18See how emotional she's getting
00:37:20You know, we haven't got that
00:37:23Intimate connection at the moment
00:37:25Even though obviously we are like this because that's all we could like can do and I am just feeling rejected. Okay
00:37:33And just so I'm clear you're talking about the cold sore, yeah nearly nearly gone, okay good I
00:37:40Just want to feel wanted by you. It's not just about sex, but it's been since the honeymoon, man
00:37:49All right, I
00:37:52I
00:37:53Think I've distanced myself
00:37:56Intimacy wise because I don't I don't I don't want to get excited and I don't want to wind her up
00:38:00You know, it's just like we're friends living together again. Like I know you've taken a step back. I
00:38:07Wouldn't say I've taken a step back. You just said you had you've distanced. I've distanced but I wouldn't say I've took a step back. I
00:38:15I just would love to ask you Kieran and and really ask you to be really honest with yourself here
00:38:22Would you say you've been holding back on the physical affection just because of the cold sore?
00:38:29Or has it also been because of Christina's reaction during the PMDD
00:38:38Yeah, it's a mix of both it's not I can't blame it all on the cold sore I can't and I'm not gonna do that
00:38:44So if you're being real what is it that you'd like to say to Christina at the moment
00:38:52Don't hold back. No, I'm not let us get me words or yeah, take your time
00:39:01And this is gonna be hard to hear I think it's something you've probably heard before and I really don't want to be the guy
00:39:05That says it
00:39:07but
00:39:09I'm really questioning at the minute
00:39:13If
00:39:18I'm able to sustain a relationship with someone that suffers with PMDD
00:39:43I'm really questioning at the minute
00:39:56If I'm able to sustain a relationship with someone that suffers with PMDD
00:40:09I
00:40:11Know Karen, which is why I've like said to you from day one
00:40:16Like whatever you say to me, it's like nothing. I haven't heard before
00:40:28It's fine like it's fine
00:40:32But I want you know, it's not fine
00:40:36This is not fine for you
00:40:38No, but I like I understand like I understand and like respect Karen's feelings in this
00:40:46But what about your feelings? Well, it's fucking shit, right? Yeah
00:40:59This is why I prepare myself for the worst in every situation and I live in the moment for
00:41:07Every good bit that I have
00:41:12I'm not saying that I don't want to be with you because I do I want to give this
00:41:16I've got questions. Of course, I think everyone in this room's got questions about their relationship, but I'm not saying I don't want to be
00:41:22With you. That's not what I'm saying here
00:41:25Right now all I've got in my head is if you can't if you're gonna struggle
00:41:29It's gonna be a struggle for life because I can't change
00:41:32But that's something that I'm working out whether I can
00:41:42I just don't want to get her
00:41:48Everything takes work and I'm prepared to work at it Christina and I'll look at it until there's no bones left
00:41:56Kieran
00:41:59Good on you for being so incredibly honest just now. I know that was very hard for you to say. I
00:42:05Also know that this is not you signaling to Christina. I want out. I know that
00:42:11It might have felt a little bit that way in the moment
00:42:14But I think the fact that you're both sitting here right now
00:42:17Opening up the way that you are showing such incredible care and empathy for each other
00:42:23Is such a strong sign that you have incredible potential as a couple
00:42:30How about we go to the decision on I'm scared now Christina, why don't you go first and I
00:42:38Know I'm the biggest pain in your bum. I know that I am hard work
00:42:44But I'm looking forward to seeing what's more to come
00:42:47There's still so much. I want to explore with you
00:42:50And Kieran this week you've shown us that you are there for us, even when I think no one can be there for us
00:42:58And you've allowed us to open up in ways that I've never been able to open up in a relationship before
00:43:03without being attacked
00:43:05So I think that in itself speaks volumes about the person that you are
00:43:10And I think that's the biggest thing that you've allowed us to be there for you
00:43:14Without being attacked
00:43:16So I think that in itself speaks volumes about the person that you are
00:43:21So thank you very much and for that reason I wrote stay
00:43:29Have a wonderful week. Thank you. Thank you very much
00:43:44You next up to the couch Nathan and Lacey
00:43:52Hello, hi guys, I'd love to see the two of you to see you all so
00:44:02Tell me about the retreat. How was it for you?
00:44:05I had a good great time. Yeah, do you have a good time? I was having a good time
00:44:09Yeah, I just um
00:44:12I don't know
00:44:14I think something's bothering me
00:44:16He said the other day. Um, i'm not gonna say. I love you. Like I love you not love you
00:44:22I love you until after the experiment to see if the distance worked
00:44:27But that a little bit upset me because I was like are you only giving me
00:44:32Half then I don't want to like
00:44:34Give her my heart fully
00:44:36We finished the experiment and she's like, oh the distance ain't working. It's like what's the point of that? You know, I mean
00:44:41What you're doing is you're trying to hedge yourself. You're trying to make it safe, but that's not how love works
00:44:47Love works as you dive fully into the pool. You can't toe dip into love
00:44:53Would either one of you consider relocating
00:44:57I would in the middle. I need my mama near me. I'm not gonna lie. I need my mama bear
00:45:03I think if I can find the work depending on circumstances, I could relocate. Yeah
00:45:07Yeah
00:45:09For me I can definitely feel in love. I just feel like the word is different saying the word, you know
00:45:17Okay, so the word
00:45:19Is of high importance to you
00:45:21Yeah, what i'm here to tell you is the action is of higher importance and you're already exhibiting the action
00:45:28You've just said you will move
00:45:31Yeah, i'd like the the word to be in like a the right timing, you know, I mean a special
00:45:36Moment, so you're saying that you already love lacy, but you're waiting for the moment to tell her that is
00:45:43important to you
00:45:45maybe
00:45:49So lacy, where would you say you are in terms of love
00:45:55Yeah, no, I do feel it like yeah
00:45:59Yeah
00:46:02Yeah
00:46:04I think it's very clear to see that you guys are in a really good place. So let's go to a decision
00:46:13Um
00:46:14What i've wrote it was easy, of course
00:46:18You know, I can see that we are growing closer, you know, i'm really still happy with you and that's why i've put stay
00:46:24Yeah
00:46:28Thank you lacy and nathan, what's your decision so obviously you're going to take on board what you've said
00:46:32And uh for the same way as laced so i'm also going to stay
00:46:39Okay guys, so a big well done for sharing how you feel today, okay, have a good week
00:46:54You
00:46:56Next up on the couch emma and casper
00:47:08So, let's look at your week
00:47:10definitely with having a far better week in terms of
00:47:14Just being around each other laughing
00:47:16Being more comfortable
00:47:18The first half of the treat for me was really good
00:47:21Um, but there was a slight change for me in the second half with emma's behavior. Oh
00:47:29Emma
00:47:30Was getting advice from the girls and everyone else going. We just got to sleep with him
00:47:34If we get intimate we're going to accelerate our relationship
00:47:38And that's not how I go about things. I need the emotional side first before I
00:47:43Get to the intimate side from someone and i'm we're still working on that in my opinion
00:47:48And michelle gave me some advice to get a kiss
00:47:51I thought right i'm going i'm going we're going in
00:47:54So you did have a kiss?
00:47:57And how would you describe that experience casper?
00:48:03I think she's a very good kisser. I can tell you that much for free
00:48:06um
00:48:07Yeah, you enjoyed it. Yeah, it was a good kiss. Yeah, but there were comments made afterwards
00:48:13After we just kissed that were way too far forward and crossed lots of lines
00:48:17She basically went why don't you write stay and then we can shag for a week?
00:48:21I mean wasn't the most romantic pitch i've ever heard if i'm being completely honest
00:48:25She scared him off
00:48:28I think that was just me exploring things, but it was almost a few wines. I got excited
00:48:33It almost felt like sex was a sales pitch. Yeah
00:48:36And that wasn't attractive for me
00:48:41Casper writing leave in the last commitment ceremony, although I expected it
00:48:46it
00:48:47built a fight in me
00:48:50to want to
00:48:52Work on things
00:48:54and
00:48:55I think what I meant to say was I think there are things for us to explore when it comes to intimacy
00:49:02Now i'm scared that casper
00:49:05Has ended this week the same headspace that he ended last weekend
00:49:08I
00:49:13Think it goes back to not putting pressure on yourself and doing things at a pace that feels right for you
00:49:17But also remembering a kiss and sex. There's so many other ways that you can form intimate connections with your partner
00:49:27Okay, let's get to the decisions
00:49:30emma first
00:49:34I'm proud of myself for
00:49:36Listening and showing you that I can take on feedback and I want to learn and I want to develop
00:49:41And I think there are definitely things to explore with us
00:49:46But I hear you I would like to yeah spend some more time together
00:49:57Casper what's your decision? I mean, honestly, I am denied
00:50:06A few days ago
00:50:08I was relieved and to be away and gone
00:50:11out and
00:50:12Thinking that's that's where my head's at
00:50:15And so that felt really good when I wrote leave i'm not gonna lie, you know, I let go a lot of emotions
00:50:20I'm reluctant to say stay and then almost be again feel dragged along into something that I don't feel comfortable with
00:50:36I'm reluctant to say stay and then almost be again feel dragged along into something that I don't feel comfortable with
00:50:42A few days ago, I was relieved to be away and gone out and thinking that's where my
00:50:50head's at.
00:50:51And so that felt really good when I wrote Leave, I'm not going to lie.
00:50:55I let go of a lot of emotions.
00:50:57I'm reluctant to say stay and then almost again feel dragged along into something that
00:51:02I don't feel comfortable with.
00:51:07But we're still building on this.
00:51:15Emma and I, you know, I think we deserve to keep having another shot at this for a little
00:51:20bit longer and see where we get to because we have made strides.
00:51:22So for me, I wrote Stay.
00:51:24Oh, thank God.
00:51:25We wish you all the very best.
00:51:26Thanks very much.
00:51:28Well done.
00:51:43Next up on the couch, Sasha and Ross.
00:51:47Hey guys.
00:51:50Hello.
00:51:52Hey guys.
00:51:55How was your time at the retreat?
00:51:57Was it nice to get away?
00:51:58No, I hated it.
00:51:59Oh.
00:52:00Tell us the footage.
00:52:01I just hate the countryside and being away from everything.
00:52:05I felt like it was a taste of hell, so I'm going to be a really good person from now on.
00:52:09Wow.
00:52:10OK.
00:52:11And so apart from the physical discomfort, shall I say, was there anything else that made
00:52:16it like hell for you?
00:52:18Obviously, all the drama has affected the girls a little bit.
00:52:23We're usually quite a happy family, but there has been some explosive arguments between
00:52:27the girls, which is really rare.
00:52:29But as a couple, it doesn't really affect us.
00:52:32Like, when we're at the dinner parties, it's like we're sitting on the end and it all happens
00:52:35there.
00:52:36And we're in just like our little bubble.
00:52:38I'm a very argumentative person, so yeah, we're good.
00:52:44I just hate being away from him.
00:52:46Like, the girls' day, I was like, oh, I just can't wait to see my husband.
00:52:51Now, we know that the two of you are choosing not to open up and share too much of the physical
00:52:55journey with us, and we respect that.
00:52:58But what's important for us to understand is, are the two of you talking about it, and
00:53:02do you feel that things are progressing in the right direction for you?
00:53:08Yes.
00:53:13Very concise.
00:53:15That's fair.
00:53:16The two of you have created a really safe, trusting environment.
00:53:20Yeah.
00:53:21You're going really well.
00:53:23100%.
00:53:24Well, on that note, let's go to the decision.
00:53:27Ross, over to you first.
00:53:31I love being with you every minute, and let's see what next week brings.
00:53:37I choose to stay.
00:53:39Always.
00:53:41Lovely.
00:53:42Thank you, Ross.
00:53:43Well, that's how I was going to start Molly's speech.
00:53:47We've learnt a lot about each other.
00:53:50And I want to spend the rest of my life with you, and you already know that.
00:53:55So, I will stay, always.
00:53:59Wonderful.
00:54:01Wonderful.
00:54:02And yes, that comment was not lost on us.
00:54:04I know, right?
00:54:05No, not at all.
00:54:06Nice little mic drop there from Sasha.
00:54:09Thank you so much.
00:54:11Well done.
00:54:18Next up on the couch, can we have...
00:54:25..Orson and Rochelle.
00:54:34Hello.
00:54:36Hello.
00:54:38So, I understand it's been a tough week for the two of you.
00:54:42Yes, it has.
00:54:43Yeah.
00:54:44It has been.
00:54:48Why don't we start with where we left off at the last commitment ceremony?
00:54:53So, can we just go back a little bit to the commitment ceremony?
00:54:59I made it quite clear to him that I was ready to leave,
00:55:02and I wanted to go back to work,
00:55:04and if I left, I could get home in time for my daughter's 21st birthday.
00:55:08But when I re-entered the process after I left the first time,
00:55:12I said, like, I'm not going to leave again until we're on the same page.
00:55:16Orson said that he wanted to stay another week,
00:55:20which to me was a bit surprising,
00:55:22because at this point I'd been very open and honest with him.
00:55:25I'd basically told him, I don't think I'm attracted to you.
00:55:29I don't overly fancy you.
00:55:31Wow.
00:55:33Wow, wow, what?
00:55:34Continue, continue.
00:55:35Wow, wow, what?
00:55:36No, just continue.
00:55:37The truth.
00:55:38I know that you don't have a great relationship with the truth, Orson,
00:55:41so it's OK.
00:55:42Yeah, just continue.
00:55:43So, you know, I said to him, I think you're quite selfish.
00:55:47You basically have locked me in for another week,
00:55:49you've dragged me along for your experience,
00:55:52when you know there's nothing there.
00:55:54Then on the day of the retreat, that was my daughter's actual birthday,
00:55:58I was, like, visibly, you know, upset.
00:56:01You know, Orson's making this big show of singing
00:56:04and enjoying himself, you know.
00:56:07At this point now, I'm getting worked up,
00:56:09and I haven't even been able to wish my girl a happy birthday,
00:56:12and he's singing in my face.
00:56:16And at that moment, I knew I could not stand him.
00:56:21You couldn't stand me from before that?
00:56:23I can't stand the sight of him. Can I say something real quick?
00:56:26You knew I couldn't stand you before, why did you want to stay?
00:56:29If we work out, what if we're matched?
00:56:31No, no, no, you are lying.
00:56:33That's exactly what you said.
00:56:35You are a stinking liar.
00:56:37You are a stinking liar.
00:56:38Because I was the one who told you I wanted to leave,
00:56:41I was the one who told you that I wanted to get back
00:56:43for my daughter's birthday, so don't sit here and lie, all right?
00:56:46Your lies don't work with me, Orson.
00:56:52You finished? Can I speak now?
00:56:54Stop, if you can tell the truth, try and tell the truth.
00:56:56OK, guys, it's very clear
00:56:58that things have completely broken down here.
00:57:04I'd like to hear from both of you
00:57:07where you believe the relationship is at right now.
00:57:11Orson, let's start with you.
00:57:13There is no relationship right now.
00:57:17Rochelle.
00:57:18At the retreat, Orson and Hannah have been bonding.
00:57:22And they have had talks about recoupling.
00:57:31Oh, wow. Yeah, wow, indeed.
00:57:34Orson's bagged himself, he's finally found his queen.
00:57:40That reinforced that Orson isn't really here for the right reasons.
00:57:45He's even had a little bromance going on with Stephen.
00:57:50While behind Stephen's back,
00:57:53Orson and Hannah were, you know, talking amongst themselves.
00:58:00Which continued once we returned from the retreat
00:58:03and I walked in last night and found Orson and Hannah.
00:58:08Holly and Alex almost like, you know, having a little double date set up.
00:58:13So all that did was reinforce...
00:58:17We weren't, we were all sat in separate chairs.
00:58:19Chill out, Rochelle, chill with that business.
00:58:21That's not true.
00:58:22Chill with that business, Rochelle.
00:58:24Alex, shut up.
00:58:26Rochelle, don't do that. Alex, Alex, Alex.
00:58:28Rochelle, don't do that.
00:58:29No, I think it's bullshit, cos them two have lips.
00:58:33They've what?
00:58:34Kissed. They've kissed, him and Hannah.
00:58:36Oh, you've kissed? Him and Hannah.
00:58:38The very last night of the retreat.
00:58:41You've been kissing him?
00:59:03So why the fuck are you trying to defend what happened last night?
00:59:08Well, obviously, since it's your bullshit fight,
00:59:11our point of view did not change.
00:59:12Oh, no, but in the feeling of shame,
00:59:15it's easy to feel ashamed,
00:59:16to feel like maybe your feelings were hurt.
00:59:18Yeah, I heard you're going to defend your foul play.
00:59:20Yes.
00:59:21Filming wasn't just meant to invalidate our limits for two days.
00:59:27It is meant to insure the whole week.
00:59:30So why the fuck are you trying to defend when they've been just wrong?
00:59:33What are you talking about?
00:59:36Fucking snake, man.
00:59:38Snake, you.
00:59:39Me?
00:59:40Yeah, you.
00:59:42When was the double date?
00:59:43I didn't say about the double date.
00:59:44No, I didn't say that.
00:59:45How have they not been sneakily kissing?
00:59:47I know you didn't be.
00:59:48It's a fixing.
00:59:49I'll tell him.
00:59:50Sort him out.
00:59:51Don't talk about no double date business. There was no double date business.
00:59:53Four of them were in the apartment. Let me rephrase that, Alex.
00:59:56You're talking shit, man.
00:59:57I'm not talking shit, man.
00:59:58Alex.
01:00:00I'm fucking pissed off now, man.
01:00:02You got something to say?
01:00:05Don't, don't, don't, don't, don't.
01:00:07I'm asking you if you got something to say.
01:00:08You got anything to say to me?
01:00:09Don't do that to me, Alex.
01:00:10I'm asking you if you got something to say.
01:00:11Alex, can you just stop?
01:00:12I don't think you need to turn to Rochelle and say you're talking fucking shit
01:00:15and then get a lie say, oh, you're my fucking snake.
01:00:17There's certain ways of addressing things calmly.
01:00:19Look, you know what, Rochelle?
01:00:20It weren't a double date.
01:00:21This happened.
01:00:22You don't need to attack, attack, attack, attack.
01:00:24And I've sat here and I've watched you attack the women either end
01:00:27and it's fucked me off because I didn't like it, Alex.
01:00:29Well, he is talking shit.
01:00:30I don't understand why you were so angry.
01:00:32She doesn't know what she's talking about.
01:00:33There's just ways to address things, Alex.
01:00:35Don't take it out on me.
01:00:36I'm just trying to calm the peace in the room.
01:00:38Who is taking anything out on you?
01:00:40Please respect the forum.
01:00:41Oh, my God.
01:00:42I'm about to...
01:00:45It's meant to be such a good night.
01:00:50Holly's annoyed.
01:00:51I've told Lacey that I think she's a snake.
01:00:54And now you've got Sasha coming at me.
01:00:56Just be quiet.
01:00:58Your voice is just going straight through me.
01:01:00Like, if I was Rochelle, I'd be telling my wife,
01:01:02pipe down, not everything needs your two pence.
01:01:08Alex has definitely overreacted and it has embarrassed me.
01:01:11I can't be with a man who treats my friends like that.
01:01:15Cos if he's going to treat my friends like that,
01:01:18he can happily treat me like that.
01:01:23Now, amongst all of the talking,
01:01:25it sounded like someone said you and Hannah have kissed.
01:01:27Yes.
01:01:32On the last night of the retreat,
01:01:34me and Hannah sat and were speaking and we shared a kiss.
01:01:39There was a little connection there.
01:01:41I'm not going to lie, there was a little connection there.
01:01:43What I had was done.
01:01:45I know what she was in was done.
01:01:48Like, so, honestly, I didn't feel like I was walking
01:01:51on anybody's toes or, like, disrespecting anyone.
01:01:54The fact is that this is a process, isn't it? Yeah.
01:01:57And so if you don't want to be with someone,
01:01:59you both understand the rules. Yes.
01:02:01And the rules is that you make that decision here
01:02:04and you let us know. Yeah.
01:02:06It's not that you then go and kiss another person's wife.
01:02:14I take that.
01:02:21That's done it, mate.
01:02:24Come on. Love it.
01:02:30Do you consider what you did an act of infidelity?
01:02:36In this process, yes.
01:02:39What impact did you expect that to have on Rochelle?
01:02:43If I'm being totally honest, man,
01:02:45this might come across as sound wrongly.
01:02:49I didn't really care about Rochelle in that moment.
01:02:56At the end of the day, Orson, from when I said I didn't like you
01:02:59and I didn't fancy you and I didn't see a future with us,
01:03:02I mean, at that point, I thought you would have gathered up
01:03:05your dignity and wanted to leave anyway.
01:03:08You know, why would you have wanted to stay?
01:03:11I mean, I know I was trying to honour my word,
01:03:14but where was your self-respect?
01:03:16But where was your self-respect and your dignity?
01:03:19Like, were you that desperate to stay in the process?
01:03:24Because what I'm sensing from Orson is a desperation
01:03:28to stay in the process by any means necessary.
01:03:32He saw an opportunity with Hannah to recouple and stay in the process.
01:03:36He jumped at it.
01:03:40You're an embarrassment to yourself at this point, do you know what I mean?
01:03:44Because it's like Hannah, bless her, went round all the different guys
01:03:47trying to latch on to somebody... No, I didn't.
01:03:50..to stay in the process.
01:03:52Orson is the only one who's stuck.
01:03:55It just reeks of desperation and just, like, you know, no self-respect.
01:04:00It's just... I find it embarrassing.
01:04:02I... You know...
01:04:04OK, well, look, it is very clear that this relationship is done.
01:04:08We do need to go to the decision.
01:04:10Orson, to you first.
01:04:12Erm...
01:04:15I came here with the right intentions.
01:04:19I feel like I was trying and trying and trying and trying,
01:04:23just, like, squeezing blood from a stone.
01:04:26Stop the performance, Orson. Stop the performance, I beg you.
01:04:29Erm, so... Stop the performance.
01:04:31If it was that bad, you would not have wanted to stay.
01:04:34On that note... You know?
01:04:36On that note, like, just get me out of here, please.
01:04:39And to you, Rochelle.
01:04:42Before I came into this process,
01:04:44I asked for a strong...
01:04:48..intelligent...
01:04:51..man who has a bit of integrity,
01:04:54and I haven't found that in Orson at all.
01:04:59I find him quite weak-willed.
01:05:01He's... You really aren't as sharp as you think you are.
01:05:05It's pretty obvious, I think, to most people that you're a bit simple.
01:05:12He definitely lacks any shred of integrity.
01:05:17So, one week too late, but it's obvious, leave.
01:05:29There are certain expectations around respect.
01:05:32Some of those points of respect have been broken by both of you.
01:05:36By you, Rochelle, not turning up to dinner parties,
01:05:39showing disrespect not only to Orson,
01:05:41but to everyone else here, including us, and the experiment.
01:05:44Orson, kissing another person,
01:05:47the two of you are showing very low level of regard
01:05:51for this entire process.
01:05:53And that's something we don't take lightly.
01:05:57It's really disappointing.
01:06:01You can both take a seat. Thank you.
01:06:09APPLAUSE
01:06:13That's three rounds to one, and Rochelle's to normal.
01:06:23Well, this has been both a challenging...
01:06:29..and enlightening commitment ceremony.
01:06:32Please say your goodbyes to those leaving the process.
01:06:37APPLAUSE
01:06:38This group has got very happy.
01:06:40And you very quickly, all in a night.
01:06:48Hey, come on, man.
01:06:51You could have told me. You could have told me.
01:06:55I came on here for love. I came on here to find my person.
01:06:59Hannah was bouncing from husband to husband.
01:07:01She kissed Orson.
01:07:02I didn't give it my all, but she didn't deserve my all.
01:07:09I do feel a bit bad about what me and Orson have done.
01:07:12We tried to shut it down just out of respect for everyone else,
01:07:15but actually, we keep gravitating back towards each other.
01:07:18And Stephen checked out ages ago.
01:07:21There was no trying, there was no support,
01:07:24so I don't feel like I got a fair shot at marriage.
01:07:32Are you OK?
01:07:33Are you OK?
01:07:36I definitely do not regret kissing Hannah.
01:07:44Richelle picked up everything, really,
01:07:47and there's only so much a man can take.
01:07:56I think Orson's just shown his true colours,
01:07:59and my intuition about him was right all along.
01:08:02I genuinely don't think that Hannah likes Orson.
01:08:05I don't even think he really likes her.
01:08:08He's just trying to recoup some of his manhood
01:08:12that he probably feels has been stripped from him
01:08:15during this process.
01:08:16It just screams of desperation.
01:08:19Orson is a clown, and I just want it out of the circus show.
01:08:25Yo. Rush.
01:08:28I'll talk to you in a bit.
01:08:31If he's beefs with me, why is he talking to my husband?
01:08:34Do you know?
01:08:35Why does he want to talk to my husband and talk to me?
01:08:37I think I've fucked her.
01:08:39Yeah, I've fucked her.
01:08:41Alex has just got an attitude problem.
01:08:44I can completely see where Holly's been coming from this whole time.
01:08:47I'm not going to tolerate it.
01:08:48Why is he going to talk to you and not me?
01:08:50I don't know, baby.
01:08:51I'm getting involved in trying.
01:08:52That's not my fucking problem.
01:08:54Not your problem? So your wife isn't your problem?
01:08:57I'm just trying. I'm not getting involved.
01:09:00Do you think I'm trying to get involved in drama?
01:09:02That's not what I'm doing, Ross.
01:09:07Right now, it doesn't feel like Ross has my back,
01:09:09but we're married, I'm his wife.
01:09:11I would have expected Ross to say,
01:09:13don't talk to my wife that way.
01:09:19But I don't want to be your problem, Ross.
01:09:21Oh, yeah?
01:09:24Yeah, but it's not their shit, it's mine and Alex's shit.
01:09:28I get that.
01:09:29You should have your wife's back always.
01:09:32I will have her back 100%.
01:09:33Always.
01:09:34Always, yeah.
01:09:35My drama is your drama, your drama is my drama.
01:09:43Next time...
01:09:44I'm interested to see what you don't like about me.
01:09:46Honey, there's a lot more than what you think there is.
01:09:48..it's Love Hate Week.
01:09:50Good luck. Good luck.
01:09:51You're going to need it.
01:09:52Where honesty is crucial.
01:09:54Lack of intimacy.
01:09:56Lack of depth.
01:09:57What's that mean?
01:09:58For some couples...
01:09:59Happy tears.
01:10:00..it draws them closer together.
01:10:02Is it the most romantic thing someone's ever done for you?
01:10:05Yeah.
01:10:06I am feeling quite giddy, it's just...
01:10:08Why are you doing this to me?
01:10:10I'm going to give you a hand.
01:10:12But others can't even get the task off the ground.
01:10:15I'm really unhappy.
01:10:17I'm going home today.
01:10:18Why?
01:10:20Get me out of here.
01:10:22I am not running after nobody.
01:10:24While Sasha and Ross...
01:10:26And he went, you see this? Throws it up the wall.
01:10:28..face their biggest challenge yet.
01:10:30I am not comfortable with you being in this apartment.
01:10:34I am going to struggle to recover from this.
01:10:37It's fucked up my head.
01:10:39Right, I'm going.
01:10:41HE GROWLS
01:10:54HE SIGHS