Ikinuwento nina Zeinab Harake, Donnalyn Bartolome, and Jelai Andres ang mga experience nila bilang isang martyr sa relationship. Sino kaya sa kanila ang reyna nito?
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00:00I'll hack out one friend that even if you hit it a few times, it's made of steel.
00:05It's her helmet.
00:06She's our friend who eats hard-eggs for breakfast.
00:10But she's still smiling.
00:12It's okay.
00:13Your friend is gone.
00:15You're the Martyr of the Year.
00:22Why, girls?
00:23I like how they're reacting here.
00:27Do you have experiences?
00:29Do I need to ask?
00:30Because it's like you know who this friend is.
00:34Who is this friend?
00:35Who is that?
00:36Is the corona still around?
00:37Where's the corona?
00:38I don't feel it anymore.
00:40She has a broken helmet.
00:42This is my helmet.
00:44I just experienced being a Martyr.
00:46You know that now, right?
00:47Correct.
00:48But now, I'm okay.
00:50Experience, experience.
00:53It's okay to be a Martyr once in a while.
00:56But you really need to learn.
00:58You learned something from being a Martyr.
01:01What did you learn?
01:03I learned that I became stronger.
01:06I got closer to God and my family.
01:10I also learned how to forgive.
01:12Yes.
01:13That's nice.
01:14Because when you're a Martyr,
01:17it means you forgave.
01:19That's why you're a Martyr.
01:20Yes, correct.
01:21You accepted everything.
01:23What I learned is,
01:25I thought of myself in those times,
01:27that I'm not perfect.
01:28Why do I need to be higher?
01:30I also did something wrong.
01:31Yes.
01:32Something like that.
01:33It humbles you.
01:34Your experience.
01:35But it's different when you're a Martyr.
01:39Oh, I know.
01:40It's not right.
01:41But it's like, okay, I'll just drown it.
01:43Because you love it.
01:44Even if you get hurt, you accept it.
01:47Don't separate.
01:48I think that's the exchange of happiness.
01:53When you're a Martyr?
01:55Yes.
01:56Because you can still accept it.
01:57It depends on the situation.
01:59Yes, it depends on the situation.
02:01I'm like that.
02:03It's okay if I get hurt.
02:06As long as I'm happy.
02:07Yes, you love it.
02:09So it means that you get hurt, but you're happy?
02:13I'm not happy because I get hurt.
02:16But I'll just accept it.
02:18Because if I don't accept it, I won't be happy.
02:20I know that I did something wrong.
02:22You'd rather take it when you get hurt,
02:24than when you lose it.
02:26Yes.
02:27Because it's better for her if you lose it.
02:29Yes.
02:30This is wrong.
02:32For me, she's the one who hurts you,
02:35but she's also the one who can fix your heart.
02:37That's right.
02:38She's also the one who can heal it.
02:39This is my question.
02:40Until when?
02:41Have you reached the point where you're like,
02:43enough, I don't want this anymore.
02:45I'm moving on to a new relationship.
02:47That's, you know, a lot better,
02:49that I don't have to get hurt.
02:51Have you ever realized that?
02:52I realized that it's self-love.
02:54I never thought that I'd move on to another relationship.
02:57More of, you don't want to be in that relationship anymore.
03:00I need to heal first,
03:02then I'll decide.
03:03Something like that.
03:04Okay.
03:05How about you, Donnalyn?
03:06It's the same.
03:07For me, it's like, you just let it be.
03:10Until you get tired of it.
03:12You don't chase it anymore.
03:13You don't love it anymore.
03:15Until you can't take it anymore.
03:17You can do it.
03:18At least you gave it your best.
03:19Because you can't stop yourself.
03:22I think I've been through that before.
03:24When I was younger,
03:25I had the same mentality.
03:27It's okay for me to have a girl.
03:29For example, I have a girl, a girl, a girl.
03:31Me the other.
03:32Me the other woman.
03:33Then I'm like,
03:34shucks, what else can I choose?
03:36If I break up,
03:37it'll be sadder, right?
03:39So I just let it be.
03:40I'll share it.
03:42What I did,
03:43I prayed for her.
03:44I said, I know that this is,
03:46it's such a wrong relationship, right?
03:48And I was young,
03:49so I realized,
03:50why would I get locked up
03:52in a relationship
03:54where the setup is like this.
03:56And I feel like I'm too young
03:57to be dealing with things like that.
03:59It should be a happy relationship.
04:00It should be,
04:01we should both be happy, right?
04:04Not just her.
04:05Then I really prayed.
04:07You know, I woke up one day,
04:09and I looked at him,
04:10and I saw that,
04:12and I was like,
04:13why am I in a relationship
04:14with this person?
04:15All the good things I saw before,
04:17all of a sudden,
04:18it's gone.
04:19It's like,
04:20I don't want it anymore.
04:21It's like,
04:22the positive things
04:23that I see in him,
04:24his looks,
04:25this and that,
04:26it's gone.
04:27So I think this is the sign.
04:29It's the prayer.
04:30It's the prayer.
04:31I hope it's the same.
04:32I hope it's the same.
04:33I hope it's the same.
04:34I hope it's the same.
04:35No, it's really the first time.
04:36Because I really thought,
04:37I'm gonna be stuck in this
04:38for a very long time.
04:40Because I couldn't imagine
04:41my life without him.
04:43It was so bad.
04:44I couldn't text him.
04:46I couldn't talk to him on the phone.
04:48Because that's what
04:49girls do, right?
04:51Sad life.
04:52Then I realized,
04:53one day,
04:54I don't want to be
04:55in that place anymore.
04:57That's it.
04:58I took advantage of it.
04:59Right away.
05:00I moved.
05:02So hopefully,
05:03prayers too.
05:04Actually,
05:05Zainab is thinking.
05:07Let's pray together.
05:11Actually, you can pray,
05:12Lord, help me unlove this person.
05:14Where are you?
05:15Can you do that?
05:16Yes.
05:17I did that,
05:18but I don't know if it's right.
05:20I'm asking for him to stop loving me.
05:22Because you need to,
05:23if you can't do it yourself,
05:25then maybe he has a way of helping you.
05:26Before, I was still young.