I Love a Mama's Boy S4 Episode 8 - Sharing a Bed with My Mother-in-Law
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00:00Nyla, has you convinced that you share too much with me?
00:04You're not my best friend anymore.
00:06That's hurtful.
00:07I mean, my mom is my whole heart,
00:09but I want to be with Nyla.
00:11I constantly just feel like I'm stuck in the middle.
00:13Fine. You don't want me as your friend?
00:15I won't be your best friend anymore.
00:17Just be your mom.
00:18I'll just be your mom.
00:20♪♪
00:23Josh, I hate to bust your chops, man,
00:25but, you know, you've been saying
00:26you was gonna move down here.
00:28When is that happening?
00:29This is a big decision for my son.
00:32It's not just pack up and go.
00:34This is my turn now.
00:36I want to be in Florida.
00:37It's time for Josh and Tina to accept that.
00:40On this note, I'm gonna leave.
00:42This is a real lot for me.
00:46Do you have a dress already?
00:48Not yet, so...
00:49You ready to try some on today?
00:51I don't want to rain on anybody's parade.
00:53Yeah.
00:54Lori said that she didn't want to rain on my parade,
00:56but, of course, she walks in,
00:57and she sees a dress that she, you know, locks eyes with.
01:00I say, get to the dress.
01:02Oh, my God.
01:04Biggest...eye roll.
01:06So, I got something to tell you.
01:09I'm moving back to Los Angeles.
01:11Oh, good.
01:12My biggest fear with my mom moving back
01:14is that I'm gonna have to be in the middle of them again.
01:17They can't have those...
01:18Oh, Chris, they're totally fine.
01:20Charlene, like, seriously, like,
01:22they can't have these treats.
01:23Like, come on.
01:24I'm telling you, they can't have them.
01:25Like, I don't want it.
01:27I'm-I'm out of here.
01:29Oh, boy.
01:34Let's go.
01:35And I found my place in the sun
01:39I found my place in the sun
01:46Good morning, Tina.
01:48Morning, Nell. How you doing?
01:50Good. How are you?
01:52Good.
01:56Julie.
01:57Hey.
01:58What are you doing?
01:59Good.
02:00Oh, it's nice being in Florida, huh?
02:02I'm 100% happier when I'm in Florida.
02:04I know.
02:05Last night's party with Janelle's family was really rough.
02:09I felt like I was being ganged up on by everyone,
02:12but especially Janelle.
02:14Things still feel tense,
02:16but I am trying to keep the peace
02:19and just kind of move forward.
02:22I like the cover-up on you.
02:24Oh.
02:27Just help yourself to my stuff whenever you please.
02:30I didn't see you wearing it. I didn't think you'd want it.
02:33Why do you have to comment all the time?
02:36After all this bullsh-t, Tina,
02:38criticizing the new house,
02:40just putting herself everywhere that I am,
02:42she has the nerve to go into my room
02:45and go into my suitcase
02:47and put on my cover-up.
02:50It drives me crazy.
02:52Oh, wait, what happened with you and Ed?
02:55Well, I know the date went good,
02:57but are you guys still talking?
02:59We're just talking.
03:00I mean, I'm not saying, you know,
03:02I'm not committing to anyone.
03:04I'm just doing whatever I feel like.
03:06But seriously, thank you both,
03:08because going out that night,
03:10I realized that I am missing a lot
03:13by babysitting for you guys all the time.
03:17You mean you're missing a lot being dependent on your son,
03:20is what you're trying to say.
03:22Okay.
03:23But you have to say it the more aggressive way all the time.
03:25Okay.
03:26Where's Josh?
03:27I don't know.
03:29I finally get some time.
03:31Did you get your mom home?
03:33Here, why don't you guys go spend some time together?
03:36No, I don't need to.
03:38Last night, I kind of made a little sketch
03:41of the house and what it looked like
03:43to come up with some ideas,
03:45and I think there's some good potential
03:47for a nice big add-on.
03:50If you're doing the house over
03:52and you want me to live there, I mean...
03:54I don't want you to live there.
03:56Yeah, I know you do.
03:57Yeah, but somebody's got to be taking care of my mom.
04:00I don't need to be taken care of.
04:02You do, obviously.
04:03I don't need to be.
04:04You're very dependent on everybody.
04:06No, I'm not.
04:07Tina, you're so delusional.
04:09You won't even cook a meal.
04:10I don't like to cook.
04:11She doesn't like to cook.
04:12Tina, in her head, thinks she's my biggest helper,
04:15but in reality, she's just one more person
04:17that we have to take care of.
04:19She never wants to be alone,
04:20and she is completely dependent on us.
04:23I think this right here just shows I'm trying.
04:26How? How is this showing you're trying?
04:28You guys are being mean to me, and I'm not yelling at you.
04:31Am I being mean to your mom?
04:32Is Janelle being mean to your mom?
04:33You're very passive-aggressive.
04:34You guys are the ones being passive-aggressive.
04:36How?
04:37Passive-aggressive.
04:38She's inserting herself in our lives!
04:40I keep trying, but Janelle and Lisa,
04:44they just make it so hard for me to just be nice.
04:49Josh is taking me out today,
04:51and actually, it can't happen soon enough,
04:54because I've had it with these two little prima donnas.
04:57I don't know.
04:58I think Josh is gonna start seeing things my way pretty soon.
05:02He kind of sees things my way.
05:10I'm out of here.
05:11All right. Bye, Chris.
05:13Yeah, bye.
05:14Have a great workout.
05:15Yeah, you do the same.
05:17Oh, boy.
05:19Wow.
05:21I don't know what he expects you to say.
05:23I don't know what I'm supposed to say.
05:24I don't know what he's so crazy about.
05:26I mean, it's like over a f***ing bone.
05:28I mean, give me a break.
05:33Oh, well.
05:34I've given him the bones all the time, and they were fine,
05:36but I guess not.
05:37Oh, well.
05:38Whatever.
05:39With the argument that Chris and my mom just had,
05:42I can understand where he got annoyed.
05:44But at the same time, it's like, you're a grown man.
05:46Like, be mature about it.
05:48You don't need to run off and have a tantrum and have a fit about it.
05:51Now I'm like, you are going back to how you handle things with her,
05:55and that's the absolute reason why I'm trying to figure out
05:59what's gonna happen with us.
06:00I don't know.
06:01I just think it's time for you, really honestly, to move on.
06:04Right.
06:05Energy's not good.
06:07Yeah.
06:08There's days where, like, we're good, and it's like, oh, this is nice.
06:11And then days today where he's like, obviously he's moody.
06:14And so now it's just like, we're back to square one.
06:16And I think that's what's so frustrating.
06:19It's time for him to go.
06:21I can't say that enough.
06:23We will always, without a doubt, have conflict if they stay together.
06:29I think it's ran its course.
06:32I just want you to consider maybe just moving in with me.
06:41I just thought if we got a place together, you didn't have to pay as much rent.
06:46I'm gone half the month.
06:48You might want to just think about it.
06:51Chris is the love of my life.
06:53I mean, we were together for pretty much my entire adult life.
06:57And I know that if I move out, that's the end of Chris and I.
07:01Like, that's it. There's no going back.
07:03But watching this argument happen and just seeing how it played out,
07:07I feel like it's just an infinity cycle.
07:09And I just can't live like this.
07:12We can just look at a couple places tomorrow.
07:15Just look with me.
07:18I'll look at them with you and see. I'm open to that.
07:21All right, honey.
07:23I appreciate that.
07:25I know that if I move out, Chris, he may look at it like, oh, you chose your mom.
07:31And there's a part of me that is fearful of not choosing him.
07:35So I'm not sure at the moment what I'm going to do.
07:39But I'm just looking.
07:41I love you.
07:42I love you, too.
07:51Hey, Mommy.
07:52Hey, baby.
07:54It's in my little mouth.
07:56Benny Chapstick.
07:57Did you brush your teeth?
07:58Yeah, a small.
07:59Did you floss?
08:01Not today.
08:02What do you mean?
08:03I didn't floss today.
08:10Seriously?
08:11Again?
08:12Mm-hmm.
08:13Why do we have to do this, Chey?
08:14You were supposed to do this this morning.
08:16You just run.
08:17Ah, you should have did it yourself.
08:19Okay, but don't be rough, Mom.
08:20I'm not being rough.
08:21I'm being thorough.
08:23Chey took me out for my half birthday.
08:25And it appears during that time I got demoted from best friend to just mom
08:30because best friends share everything.
08:32But I didn't say anything to make you feel like that, Mom.
08:34I really want to respect Nala's wishes.
08:36She's snatching you away from me.
08:38She's taking away my baby.
08:40I'm not going anywhere, Mom.
08:42I still live right in your basement.
08:44And she's not doing that.
08:45She's trying.
08:47Hi.
08:48Hi, babe.
08:50You look cute.
08:51Thanks.
08:52Your hair looks nice.
08:55Hi.
08:56Hello.
08:57Are you ready to go shopping?
08:59When are you going to get dressed?
09:02I'm dressed.
09:03You don't like it?
09:05Are you going to the club or are you going?
09:07I'm going to run errands.
09:09In that?
09:10In this.
09:11You look cute.
09:13Spam-o.
09:15Yeah, yeah, yeah.
09:19So what are you trying to have Shahid buy you today?
09:22We're just going to get stuff for my birthday.
09:24Oh, you know I'm having a party for my birthday.
09:26You're more than welcome to come.
09:28Oh, I'm invited to your party?
09:30Of course you're invited.
09:32I'm about to turn 25,
09:34and I'm having a gathering at my aunt's house in D.C.,
09:37and I'm inviting Ms. Dia.
09:39I know she's not the biggest fan of me,
09:41but I feel if she were to meet my family,
09:43she may like me more,
09:45and she'll understand, like, where I come from.
09:47So I would hope that she's there.
09:49Just make sure you dress to impress.
09:52There's a dress code.
09:54It's required for everyone to show some sort of cleavage.
09:59Yeah, just a little.
10:01I don't think my son would like me walking out
10:04looking like that.
10:06I don't really know if I want to go
10:08to Nila's birthday party.
10:10I mean, I'm being removed from your life,
10:14so what's the point of me going to this party?
10:17Like, you're not even listening to me anymore.
10:20Nila's family wants to meet you.
10:22I want you to meet Nila's family.
10:24Just come to the party.
10:26I mean, I have to think about it.
10:29Have a good time.
10:31Love you, Mommy.
10:33I love you.
10:35You're so cute.
10:37Don't give him any candy.
10:39Come on, passenger princess.
10:41Put your seatbelt on so it don't beep.
10:44I was thinking, like, we could go to the mall.
10:47I definitely wanted to go by this store at the mall.
10:50I'm tasting something that I like
10:52that I thought would be cute for my birthday party.
10:55What was that?
10:57I'm going to put it in the GPS.
10:59What did you find? What was it?
11:01You'll see when we get there.
11:03Which way, Nila? Right, left?
11:06Oh, make a right at the Delight.
11:09I'm thrilled to hear that Shahid finally grew some balls,
11:13and he's standing up to his mother,
11:15and he's setting boundaries.
11:17Oh, get up there.
11:19Nila, who gives directions like that?
11:22Get up there?
11:24That makes me excited for our futures
11:26and even more excited about the surprise
11:28that I have for us today.
11:30We're here!
11:32What is this?
11:34Is this where you planned on going, right here?
11:40Is he going to answer?
11:42It's very rare that Chase won't call us back,
11:44and we haven't heard from him at this point in, like, 5 hours.
11:47Either one of us.
11:49You know what, it does make me worried.
11:51As a mother, it's scary when you can't reach your child.
11:56Welcome.
11:57Oh, wow.
11:59Chris right now has no idea I'm out looking at places with my mom.
12:02I mean, it's just, it's going to be perfect.
12:04I feel like it would kind of hurt his feelings,
12:06but I just can't live like this.
12:08So you guys are going to actually, like, live together.
12:11Potentially.
12:13Yeah.
12:27Oh, my God, it's so cute!
12:29We're bugging together, Tasha!
12:31We're bugging together!
12:33Oh, my gosh!
12:39Which is going to be your side, Tash?
12:41Away from the door. You know that.
12:42So you can, like, be all kinds of noisy and moving on one side
12:45and Tasha with you.
12:46What are you talking about? You're the snorer.
12:47No, I'm not going to snore.
12:48Yeah, you are.
12:49This weekend, we are in Pensacola
12:51celebrating my bachelorette party
12:53with my besties and Tasha's joining us.
12:56This will be our first weekend bunking together without Chase.
13:00Mm-hmm.
13:01So this is a first.
13:03Let's pop the champagne, shall we?
13:05Let's do it.
13:06No, it's my weekend.
13:07I'm popping the bottle.
13:09You hear me?
13:10All right.
13:11Here we go. Here we go.
13:13Whoo!
13:15All right!
13:17She's, like, attracted to the spotlight
13:20no matter if she has drinks in her hand.
13:22It doesn't matter if she has drinks in her or not.
13:24Like, I hope that once all the wedding craziness is over,
13:27that we'll be able to go on my own trips
13:31with just Chase and Chase alone
13:34instead of sharing a bed with my mother-in-law.
13:37Cheers.
13:38Cheers, girls.
13:48Wow.
13:50Oh, this is great!
13:53I want to sit right in the middle of everything.
13:55All right.
13:56It's about to go down.
13:58Oh, my gosh.
14:00Oh, my gosh.
14:02I mean, is this gonna be beautiful of me or what?
14:06And these are our party favors.
14:08Wow, thank you.
14:10Will you take a picture?
14:11Oh, that would be great.
14:13Ride through.
14:17Thank you, thank you.
14:19Who are you sending that to?
14:21Chase, of course.
14:23Southern boys love their mothers,
14:26and Tush will always have to compete with Lori.
14:31What's he doing?
14:33Well, I called him twice, and he didn't answer today.
14:35Yeah, what the hell?
14:36Let me see.
14:37Track him.
14:39Lori just has Chase, and he's her everything.
14:44Probably when she wakes up in the morning,
14:46he is who she's thinking about when she wakes up.
14:49Pull up the tracker.
14:50You got it.
14:54Is he gonna answer?
14:57I wanted to kind of stay in touch with him
14:59and let him know what all was going on,
15:01and a little sad that I can't reach him right now.
15:04You know what?
15:05It does make me worry a little bit about him.
15:07It does?
15:08Well, just a little bit.
15:09It really does.
15:10It makes me worry a little bit.
15:12Heart palpitations.
15:15It's very rare that Chase won't call us back.
15:17Right.
15:18And we haven't heard from him at this point in, like, five hours.
15:20Either one of us.
15:21Yeah.
15:22Oh, oh, here we go, here we go.
15:24Okay, I actually am a little worried.
15:27Hey, we miss you.
15:29Hey, what are you doing?
15:32Also, why are you not picking up the phone?
15:34It is not like Chase to not respond to a text message,
15:37and now I'm beginning to get worried.
15:39We miss you, and we love you.
15:40We do, we love you.
15:41Text me.
15:42Bye.
15:43Love you.
15:44You know, you want to hope for the best,
15:46but it's scary when you can't reach your child.
15:49So we're going to hold it together
15:51and just go have a good time.
15:53We are literally drinking our worries away right now.
15:55That's right.
15:56Cheers!
15:57Cheers!
15:58Cheers!
15:59Cheers!
16:00Cheers!
16:01Cheers!
16:02Cheers!
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16:11Cheers!
16:12Cheers!
16:14Cheers!
16:16Oh.
16:17Oh!
16:18Oh!
16:22My mom's my best friend,
16:23so I knew I had to go to mom's bachelorette party.
16:27I couldn't miss it.
16:28The only thing that matters to me is she's happy.
16:32I'm really excited to surprise them in Pensacola,
16:35but I'm also a little scared of their reaction
16:37because I've been ghosting them all day.
16:39We're freestyles!
16:40We're not freestyles anymore!
16:42I'm going to surprise my mom just because it's one of the last times I get to celebrate
16:50her and spoil her before she gets married.
16:52It's going to be a good time.
16:53Did anyone order any shots?
16:54Wait, I thought you were ignoring me.
16:55Come on.
16:56How are you?
16:57Do you feel fresh?
16:58Your mama's bachelorette, huh?
16:59You didn't have to?
17:00I had to.
17:01Cheers!
17:02Cheers!
17:03Cheers!
17:04Cheers!
17:05Cheers!
17:06Cheers!
17:07Cheers!
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17:15Cheers!
17:16Cheers!
17:17Cheers!
17:18Cheers!
17:19Cheers!
17:20Cheers!
17:21Cheers!
17:22I got a message!
17:23Baby, I was so worried about you.
17:24Gotcha!
17:25He did, he got us!
17:26Just seeing them light up and be so surprised.
17:27I think they thought I was dead.
17:28It made it, it made the whole trip worth it.
17:33I had 18 missed calls.
17:39The funny thing about it is, there was a little bit of me
17:42when I first wheeled around and saw him,
17:44I was like, who?
17:46Because we hadn't had a waiter that was that cute
17:49through the night.
17:49I mean, and I'm white.
17:51And then I go, oh my gosh, that is Chase.
17:53That's my son.
17:54That's my son.
17:55That is my son down here to see me.
17:59Where are you staying?
18:00Is he going to sleep in the middle of us?
18:03Now that Chase is here in Pensacola,
18:05we'll see how it goes.
18:06I might kick her out to her friends.
18:09Oh God.
18:10You get the bridal suite all to yourself.
18:12The younger bride wins.
18:14It's like Hunger Games, you know?
18:16I'm kicking her ass out.
18:18No, let's be real.
18:19I mean, there's no competition.
18:27Oh, it's going to be cold.
18:29Oh, it's cold.
18:33Florida has not felt like a vacation to me at all.
18:36There's so much tension.
18:38The party was terrible.
18:40And I just feel out of place.
18:42I feel like I don't belong here.
18:44Luckily, I have Josh to take me away from all of this.
18:48Yeah, I'm looking for a fun day.
18:50I need a break, a big break.
18:56All right.
18:57Yeah, let's do this.
19:08This is crazy.
19:11I love it.
19:22Oh, I'm getting soaked.
19:24Josh, stop.
19:25Let me sit down.
19:27Oh, no.
19:34Getting cold out here.
19:36I think my mom has been a little bit more on edge
19:39than usual because of being down here in Florida
19:42with Nell's family.
19:43I think it's becoming more real
19:44that we're actually moving here.
19:46So I need my mom to know that she fits in
19:48with me and the family in a permanent way.
19:51So I arranged a little date
19:53because I wanted her to feel really special.
19:58Oh, my gosh, Josh.
20:00This is beautiful.
20:03Honey, this is so nice.
20:06Sunset's coming up.
20:07Oh, I love it.
20:09I don't think I could live without my mom.
20:12So I need to do everything in my power
20:14to make sure she has a comfortable place
20:16to live at the new house in Florida.
20:18And I'm gonna do whatever it takes
20:19to make sure that happens.
20:20It's really important to me that she's comfortable,
20:23welcomed, and happy.
20:25I really needed this, I gotta tell you.
20:27I know with everything going on
20:28with the pressure of Nell in Florida
20:32and being here with Nell's family, it's a lot.
20:35So I wanted to make sure you know
20:37you are still my number one.
20:39I love you and I want you to know
20:41how special you are to me.
20:43You know, I know you've been emotional lately.
20:44Yeah, it's been rough.
20:50My mom and Nell both have differing opinions on things
20:53and they both have been stressing each other out.
20:55However, I can't be the only one in the middle
20:57that's trying to keep the peace.
20:58They have to figure out how to live together
21:00and they have to do it fast.
21:02I know you've been stressed, so talk to me here.
21:05When I walked into the house and I seen the house,
21:10it's small.
21:12I mean, we're not used to small.
21:15I mean, you have four kids.
21:17I know.
21:17I mean, I can't have my own space.
21:19I've gotta get my own life,
21:21even if it's just my own place with a little bedroom,
21:25like I said, a little kitchenette and a little living room.
21:27Obviously, I want you to feel welcome.
21:29I want you to feel like you have your own space.
21:31I don't want you to feel like you're, you know,
21:33bonking with one of the kids or something.
21:35I feel that way.
21:36I think I'm gonna, I have a plan in place.
21:38Oh, I hope so.
21:39You know, as for you and Nell, you know,
21:40I want you guys to make sure.
21:42I love, I love Janelle.
21:43Try your best to.
21:43You know I do.
21:44Yeah.
21:45And I'm trying.
21:46It's just so hard.
21:48She's taking everything out on me, no matter what it is.
21:50Well, listen, she's under a lot of pressure as well.
21:53I know.
21:54She's worried about moving.
21:55She's worried about the house.
21:57She wants to make sure everything's running smoothly.
22:00I know, she's worried about the kids,
22:01how they're gonna take the move.
22:03Yeah.
22:03I get it.
22:04But I'll do my best to make everything smooth
22:07and go the way I always do.
22:09I make it happen and I make it work.
22:13This whole move to Florida has been taking its toll on me.
22:16I feel like I've given a lot to them, to Josh and Janelle,
22:20and I'm just being left behind.
22:23Really, deep down, do you want to move?
22:26You know, I look over here, I look at this,
22:28and I'm like, how can I not move?
22:31Yeah, no, it's beautiful weather in the winter.
22:34I know, then I look back home and I got,
22:36my family's still there, my friends are still there,
22:39my doctors, I just don't, I don't know.
22:42Maybe there is a compromise.
22:44Maybe there is a way that I can make Nell happy,
22:48you happy, and all the kids happy at the same time.
22:50I'm gonna, I feel like there's a way,
22:53so I'm gonna figure it out.
22:55Just give me some time.
22:58Listen, here's to Florida.
23:00And whether we move or not,
23:02it's to always making sure we stay close.
23:06Just staying close.
23:09In order to keep everyone happy,
23:11I have to make my mom happy.
23:12I mean, listen, there's some give and take,
23:14but Nell knows that she's a big part of our life,
23:17so we have to have space for her in the house.
23:19So, I think the best course of action is what Nell likes.
23:24Are you ready for the beginning of the rest of our lives?
23:27Yes, let's go.
23:28I thought Nyle was pulling over for a cookie in the car.
23:31What the f*** is going on right now?
23:33Oh my gosh.
23:55So, is that gonna be your boat?
23:56That's gonna be my boat.
23:58I think that'll be good.
24:00I would like something like that for Christmas.
24:02Yeah, I bet you would.
24:04Yeah, I need a little espresso to get me going.
24:08I knew that the bachelorette party
24:10was very important to Mom.
24:11She wanted her closest people there,
24:12so I decided to go on down.
24:16But these two rookies, they were hung over this morning.
24:22Oh, I need some coffee.
24:26I'll go back and get it.
24:27A bagel with cream cheese.
24:29Thank you, buddy.
24:30You're welcome.
24:32I got you a coffee and a mimosa.
24:35Oh my gosh, you got my mimosa.
24:36Babe, where's my bagel?
24:37I think you did my mimosa.
24:40I forgot it.
24:40You forgot the bagel?
24:42Yeah, I forgot.
24:43Would you like a cutie?
24:46A bagel.
24:46Okay, yeah, I'll go back and get it.
24:47With cream cheese.
24:50What a fun weekend it's been.
24:52It has been awesome.
24:53Number one highlight was this surprise.
24:57Yeah.
24:59Years from now, they're gonna be like,
25:00did you have a good time?
25:01And the only thing you're gonna say is, Chase came.
25:04And Tasha's also there.
25:05I'm number one, I'm number one.
25:08I'm number one.
25:12I can't wait to marry this man,
25:14just start our life together.
25:16We have so much to look forward to,
25:17even though I'm marrying Lori as well.
25:19I think there's a good place for boundaries.
25:21Chase is obviously lockstep with me on that.
25:24And I hope she'll be okay with that.
25:28Right, darling?
25:30Right.
25:33You wanna take a quick walk before dinner?
25:35Yeah, let's do it.
25:37Let's do it.
25:39Okay, we'll be back.
25:442024 is gonna be a big year for both of us.
25:48And I love the fact that I have,
25:51I feel like I have a true partnership with Scott.
25:54You wouldn't have wanted me to be by myself.
25:56No, no, no.
25:57Of course, I have my selfish motives
25:59and I would like for you to be close,
26:00but I just want you to be happy.
26:04It's not like I'm 14 anymore.
26:05You know, I'm going on 30 years old.
26:08With me and Tasha getting married,
26:09you and Scott getting married,
26:10you know, things are definitely gonna change,
26:11but it'll be very exciting to see how we both grow
26:16and see you as a grandmother.
26:19Can't wait to see a grandmother.
26:20I think it's gonna be a pretty interesting, good thing,
26:23even though it's a hard thing.
26:24Chase is always gonna be number one in my heart.
26:27Some things are never gonna change,
26:29and that's one of them.
26:32I want somebody to, you know, look out for you,
26:34take care of you, and, you know,
26:37have your best interests at heart.
26:41As far as your relationship with Tash?
26:45Yeah, she's just awful at interests.
26:47She's the pistol, and she's gonna be a handful,
26:51but you know what?
26:52I do believe she completes you,
26:55and she is gonna be a good partner for you,
27:00but just always need to remember to call me every day
27:03because, you know.
27:05I don't know about every day, but, you know,
27:08I try to, I like to ghost for a while,
27:10kinda like I did on my honeymoon.
27:12You did ghost, and it scared me to death.
27:16I know how close Chase and Lori are,
27:18but when we get married, I'm gonna have to come first,
27:20and she's gonna have to respect that.
27:22That's not true.
27:24Yeah.
27:25That's not true.
27:26That's what Tash thinks.
27:27I do, don't word it that way.
27:29I'm his mother, and there's nothing
27:31that's gonna change our bond.
27:33Dynamics change, but I see nothing
27:36other than our relationship becoming richer
27:39and better as time goes by.
27:41Ah.
27:47I love you.
27:58Which way, Nyla, right, left?
27:59Oh, make a right at the light.
28:03We get in the car today, and Nyla pulls out her phone
28:05and puts on the GPS, and I'm like,
28:06Nyla, where are we going?
28:08Right here.
28:10What is this?
28:13Is this where you planned on going, right here?
28:16Yes, Papa.
28:19I thought Nyla was pulling over for a cookie in the car.
28:22Are you as excited as I am?
28:25What the f*** going on right now?
28:27Are you ready for the beginning of the rest of our lives?
28:30Yes, let's go.
28:32Shahid and I, we stumble upon a jewelry store,
28:38and I thought it was the perfect time,
28:41first of all, in there, you know,
28:42just do some window shopping.
28:44Hello there.
28:46What may we do for you today?
28:47We're working towards engagement.
28:51Wonderful, happy for you.
28:54So, are we looking for an engagement ring,
28:56or we have an engagement ring?
28:57We're looking for one.
28:58Well, I will show you our engagement rings.
29:02Today, Nyla caught me off guard
29:03because I thought we was looking at dresses
29:07for her birthday party.
29:08Not wedding rings for engagement.
29:12It's just, it took me for a loop, I don't know.
29:14It's just, I was honestly shocked.
29:17I really had no clue.
29:19Was there a particular, maybe shape diamond
29:22or size diamond you're thinking about?
29:24Shape in particular.
29:26I'm not like, oh, I expect you to propose by tomorrow,
29:30but I did want to hint to him that,
29:33okay, you should be starting to look at rings
29:36or even just think about it.
29:40Yeah, the pear shape is beautiful.
29:41We have a pear shape here.
29:42Mm-hmm.
29:43That might be something fun to try on,
29:45see what you think.
29:45Oh, look at that.
29:48Oh, this is gorgeous.
29:49And you put it on perfectly.
29:51Oh, that looks lovely on your hand.
29:53Oh, thank you.
29:55I'm really nervous that my mom is gonna find out
29:57that I'm here, and thinking about it,
30:00my mom actually does have my location.
30:02Are you afraid of your mother?
30:04Every major step in my life, I've confided in my mom.
30:07You're the one that said
30:08that you didn't want to overshare with her.
30:10You don't want me to tell my mom things,
30:11so I don't tell my mom things.
30:14I think it's kind of big, maybe like too large.
30:16Oh, no, I was thinking, did you have one bigger?
30:19I like your style, ma'am.
30:21My wife always says,
30:23if you can lift your hand off the counter,
30:25it's not big enough.
30:26Oh, hello, because here I am.
30:29So let's take a look.
30:30Let's see what we have that might be a little bit bigger.
30:33That is beautiful.
30:35And how much is this one costing?
30:37$15,000 to $20,000 for a center stone.
30:40Oh.
30:41If I had that money, I wouldn't be in my mom's basement.
30:46I don't know.
30:47Does it look like I can afford that right now?
30:49My mom gave me a budget of like $25 today.
30:52When am I going to tell my mom
30:54that I'm at Cooper's Jewelry about to buy Nyla
30:56a $30,000 wedding ring?
30:59My mom would s*** herself, and then call the police.
31:03Could you do a down payment?
31:04Sure, sure.
31:05We have a financing plan.
31:08But you know my mom locked my account,
31:10so I have to call it before I make any purchases today.
31:12She said that before she left the house.
31:15Our feelings for him would be mildly concerned.
31:21I mean, if you can't make a decision
31:24about a ring on your own as a man,
31:26how can you, you know, plan to get married?
31:29Oh, I have a good idea.
31:30What if you just opened a new credit card?
31:34My mom's not here.
31:36You're a girl, man.
31:37She doesn't make decisions.
31:38Open your own credit card account.
31:41You're more than capable.
31:42I can, but my mom's going to need to be there for that.
31:45Will you ever be able to make a big boy decision
31:47without Ms. Dia?
31:49Make big boy decisions every day.
31:52Well, it seems like you can't even like
31:53manage your own finances without her.
31:55Like, is that like moving like a big boy?
31:58Yeah, like I feel like, you know,
32:01important people have other people
32:02manage their finances all the time.
32:05She's not your accountant.
32:06She is though, and I trust my mom.
32:08Or you're like personal assistant.
32:10We just walked in here
32:12and I didn't even know I was coming here.
32:14Yeah.
32:15And then you tell me to buy a 20, $30,000 ring.
32:17Babe, I'm not telling you to do anything.
32:19The point is I want you to want to get down on one knee
32:23and marry me.
32:26It's almost impossible for me to tell Nyla no.
32:28I mean, I hate telling her no.
32:29I hate feeling like I'm disappointing her,
32:31but saying yes isn't easy.
32:35Why don't you take a look
32:36so I can talk to Mr. Cooper for a second?
32:38Okay.
32:39Go take a look.
32:42I need you to help me out.
32:44Sure.
32:54All right.
32:55All right.
32:56Let's get across this street before they run us over.
33:00Let me grab your arm.
33:01Thank you, sweetheart.
33:02So this is Laurel Canyon.
33:05Yes.
33:06Okay.
33:06Hi.
33:07I'm Shirlene.
33:08Nice to meet you.
33:09I'm Austin.
33:10Hi, Austin.
33:11Nice to meet you.
33:11I'm Courtney.
33:12I'm the broker owner of Acme.
33:13You're beautiful.
33:15You look like Madonna.
33:16I'll take it.
33:17My mom's moving back to LA
33:20and we're looking at apartments.
33:21I'm looking at them as a potential
33:23of moving back in with her yet.
33:24It's not for sure.
33:25So welcome to the sanctuary.
33:27That's what we call this place.
33:28This is a very special place to me.
33:30I raised my son in this house.
33:32So this is actually a rental property that used to be mine.
33:36Oh, wow.
33:37This is gorgeous.
33:38Chris right now has no idea
33:39I'm out looking at places with my mom.
33:41I feel like it would kind of hurt his feelings
33:43but Chris and my mom have a blow up again
33:45and I just can't live like this.
33:48Looking at places is just keeping my options open.
33:51Welcome.
33:52Oh, wow.
33:54Oh, my word.
33:57This is beautiful.
34:00Wow.
34:01Wow, wow, wow.
34:05So it's a magical place.
34:07It's rustic.
34:09Yeah, I really like this kitchen.
34:12Yeah.
34:13I mean, it's just, it's gonna be perfect.
34:15Us having our coffee before you go to work.
34:17A little coffee, a little chocolate croissant maybe
34:20or something and away we go.
34:22So do you guys have kids?
34:25So I am the child.
34:27Oh, you are the child.
34:28I am, this is my mom.
34:29I didn't know, I mean, this is Hollywood.
34:32I get it.
34:33He's the gay son.
34:34Okay, okay, understood.
34:36Well, I didn't want to presume too much
34:38but okay, okay, understood.
34:41I mean, I'm in Hollywood, right?
34:42We got a lot of cougars going on.
34:44It's, I just assumed because they were saying
34:48we, we, we, that they were moving in together as a couple.
34:52I've been selling real estate for 19 years
34:54and I have never seen a mother and a son
34:56trying to rent a property together.
34:58So you guys are gonna actually like live together?
35:01For a while.
35:02Potentially.
35:03Yeah, okay.
35:04So right now I'm living with my ex-partner.
35:07Okay.
35:07Yeah.
35:08That's modern, okay.
35:10How do you get along with the ex?
35:11Um, it's okay, it can be good and bad.
35:15It's a hit or miss.
35:16Yeah.
35:17There's good days and there's not so good days.
35:19Of course, but anyways.
35:21There's never gonna be a world where my mom
35:23and Chris can just have a good relationship.
35:26Something has to change.
35:29Wow.
35:30Oh yeah.
35:30Oh my God, this is beautiful.
35:32This is really nice.
35:33Perfect master bedroom for me.
35:34Yeah, this would be a great room for you.
35:36It's quiet.
35:37I mean, you don't feel like you're in LA.
35:38It's like a getaway.
35:40I totally feel like a getaway.
35:43Is the bed cozy?
35:44It is nice.
35:46I am excited that he's open to living with me.
35:50I mean, he's my best friend.
35:51I'm excited, though, it's awesome.
35:53Yeah, we like doing everything together.
35:54We like doing everything together.
35:57Oh, this is cute.
35:59Oh my God.
36:00Let's see if we can both fit.
36:01Here.
36:03Here.
36:04Oh, okay, there.
36:10This is sweet.
36:13You guys are really weird.
36:14Now someone's supposed to help me get out.
36:16Now are we gonna get out?
36:18Okay, wait, let me get out first.
36:20They do seem awkwardly close.
36:21I'm sure that's really weird
36:22for any partners that they have.
36:25I couldn't date a guy
36:27who had that relationship with his mom.
36:29Oh, this is the view.
36:31Wow.
36:32Oh yeah, this is absolutely wonderful.
36:35See, this is actually something
36:37that you could live with me for a while.
36:40You know what I mean?
36:41This is what I'm saying.
36:42I mean, I do like this space.
36:43It's absolutely gorgeous.
36:44So it's not like you're gonna be on top of each other
36:46like you are with Chris.
36:47Right now, you guys are on top of each other.
36:49There's not much there for you to live.
36:52I hope that Austin moves out
36:55and that he will heal from this relationship
36:57and then open his heart for somebody new.
37:00All right.
37:01Okay, let's imagine ourselves here.
37:06Wow, this is great.
37:08This is nice.
37:10I think, honey, look, I think it would be good
37:12just like a get out, get your own space.
37:15I just think your space that you're in with Chris,
37:18you're pretty much pushed up.
37:19Right, yeah.
37:21But I can tell already from just sitting out here,
37:26this is good.
37:29There's a huge part of me
37:30that wants to get back together with him.
37:34And so just to kind of up and just leave
37:36and say, oh, well, that was that,
37:38it's more difficult to do than in theory, so.
37:50Why don't you take a look
37:51so I can talk to Mr. Cooper for a second?
37:53Okay.
37:56I need you to help me out.
37:57Sure, sure.
37:58You keep bringing up these expensive rings and-
38:01My mom would never let me buy a $20,000 ring.
38:05I don't even know if she would want me to buy
38:08a ring at all, you know?
38:10I was like, what?
38:11I'm not the only one.
38:12I was like, what?
38:13I wasn't like, I'm not the only one.
38:14I'm not the only one.
38:15I'm not the only one.
38:16I'm not the only one.
38:17I'm not the only one.
38:18I'm not the only one.
38:19And you're like, well, I'm not the only one.
38:19Well, you know.
38:21No, I got it.
38:22And I got it.
38:24I want to marry Nyla.
38:25But making decisions without including my mom in on them
38:28is something that I've never did before.
38:30You're in a tough spot, fella.
38:32You may want to get out of your mom's basement first.
38:36Yeah.
38:37Yeah.
38:38We can find you something nice in whatever price range
38:41you're interested in.
38:42All joking aside, you know what I would recommend?
38:45A three carat in a lab-created diamond.
38:49I bet we could do that for about maybe $2,000 or $3,000.
38:52Three carats in the center.
38:55And they're real diamonds.
38:56They're made by man, but they're still
38:58atomically and chemically a diamond.
38:59What if they weren't real?
39:01All right, if you go cubic zirconia,
39:04that might shave off another $1,000 off the price.
39:07So now we're looking at maybe two grand.
39:09But cubic won't look real.
39:11She'll know.
39:12I don't know.
39:13I can make any of these rings in cubic if that's what you want.
39:19I can't imagine a world without my mom being in it.
39:23And I don't want my mom to feel like she's
39:25not a part of this relationship anymore
39:27because I didn't ask for her permission on next steps.
39:31It's hard.
39:31I'm 24, and I feel like I've depended on my mom for so much.
39:34It's making me question it a little bit.
39:36Like, is this right?
39:38Like, is it even right if my mom's not involved in on it?
39:42Now, you know I want to get married to you.
39:43I love you.
39:44And I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
39:47But I'm just in my mom's basement right now.
39:49So, I mean, when I move out and we buy a house,
39:51and then I, oh, maybe now I can get.
39:54Like a three carat?
39:57Like, yeah.
39:57Yeah, like, somewhere down the line.
39:59I mean, I'm down.
40:00I'm game.
40:01You're game.
40:02I'm game, but.
40:03Make our way to five?
40:05I mean, what's the biggest carat?
40:06I mean, the sky's the limit.
40:12I mean, I just feel like there's steps.
40:15We have to slow the road, you know what I mean?
40:21Our families haven't met yet.
40:23I think that's, like, the next step is our families meeting.
40:26We'll see how that goes.
40:28OK.
40:29I will, like, slow my roll.
40:33Do the families even know you two are together yet?
40:35Yeah.
40:36They do? OK.
40:37They know that much.
40:37They know.
40:38I'm actually having a party.
40:40She's having a birthday party.
40:41Oh, that's nice.
40:42Her mom.
40:43With the families.
40:43Well, I don't know.
40:47This is going to be interesting.
40:48If Miss Dia were to not show up to my party
40:52after I personally invited her, I just
40:55think that's super rude, you know?
40:56Like, no class at all.
40:58It was nice meeting you guys.
40:59You too.
41:00Pleasure, guys.
41:01See you.
41:03But I have hopes that Shahid is going to lay down the law.
41:07He's going to set some boundaries with his mother
41:10so we can just move forward.
41:12You should have told me we were coming here.
41:15Shimmy, shimmy.
41:16Shimmy, shimmy.
41:16Shimmy, shimmy.
41:18Woo!
41:19It's official.
41:21I'm back, and I live in LA again.
41:23I'm staying at my girlfriend's place.
41:25How does Chris feel about me checking this area out?
41:29I mean, you know.
41:30Does he know how close I am?
41:34Kind of.
41:35Really?
41:36If Chris cannot handle my mom moving back,
41:39it's going to be the ultimate test.
41:43Tell me how many clients would love this.
41:44Who wouldn't love this?
41:46I'm starting to realize maybe going into business with my mom
41:48is a bad idea.
41:50I'll tell mom eventually, but I do
41:52know telling her is going to be one of the hardest
41:54things I've had to do.
41:56I've been really trying to work on meeting out a relationship.
42:00I've been trying not to tell you everything,
42:02but there's things that you were right about.
42:05Please don't tell me this girl is pregnant.
42:07You best believe I am more determined now
42:10to make this birthday party a goodbye party.
42:14Nellie, tell her kind of the plan, Michelle.
42:16Well, we were thinking that there was enough room
42:18for a bedroom and a bathroom.
42:20Hey, guys.
42:21This is your space.
42:23Yes, Josh.
42:27Josh, talk to your wife.
42:29I won't even freaking live here.
42:32Now you're being a bitch.