90 Day Fiancé_ Rayne LOSES It After Chidi Drops This CONFESSION
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00:00What is so bad about me that you have to put me down the way you do and come up with sour-ass
00:04Excuses as to why you couldn't even give me the freaking time of day
00:07You're an evil person
00:11It seems Renee is not capable of having a macho conversation
00:16I am beginning to lose my patience lose your patience shitty lose it
00:21Let me calm down
00:23It's been a week shitty drops this confession on Renee
00:27Let me tell you now the only time the only time I have ever
00:32Enjoyed this relationship was when we when we newly met and I don't know if he genuinely
00:38Wanted to get that off his chest or if that was his way of respectfully snapping back at her after all of her disrespect
00:45Crossing one of the words either way after that. She goes low. You're gonna be nothing now
00:51But a to me do you understand that?
00:57Oh
00:59No, she didn't now she's saying how she really feels let's get into it
01:08Hey 90 day fans fam, it's Malicia. I'm hoping this is actually the final goodbye between Renee and Chitty
01:16Chitty is so nice
01:19Me too, so I can't really talk but still
01:23Last episode we saw him attempt to talk through things with Renee before eventually ending the relationship because she was so combative
01:41Fast forward to this episode as Renee packs her bags to go back to the u.s
01:46We see her still holding on to the idea that Chitty was using her for a green card
01:51I never felt before like he was using me. It's only this visit that I realized it must be a visa thing
01:59Cuz he wasn't showing me anything else
02:01Girl as she would say whatever makes you feel better
02:07Renee sends a message to Chitty letting him know her flight back to the u.s. Leaves tonight
02:12I haven't seen Chitty since yesterday at the beach and he decides to go see her one last time for closure
02:20Which had me a little annoyed I'm not gonna lie
02:23Sometimes the closure is the rough ending
02:28Especially considering how disrespectful Renee was but
02:33I'm not gonna act like I haven't been there. You're not done until
02:38You're done
02:39Careful him
02:41Luckily, our girl Victoria is joining Chitty
02:44The gift is yeah
02:45Okay
02:46And yes, they brought Renee a parting gift
02:51Seeing how they operate is so refreshing
02:54It's rare that we get to see such wholesome people
02:58Operating from a place of love on 90-day
03:01I'm just saying they want Renee to walk away in peace and they want to walk away in peace
03:07I feel that I must try one more time to speak my mind
03:12I
03:15Believe this is necessary in order for us to heal and to move on by the way
03:21Chitty's sister Victoria is so happy to see Renee go
03:25Her prayers were answered
03:27I've been Renee come all the way from America to my house then living in the manner that she left
03:33It's really broke my heart
03:35But I am so relieved that this chapter is over for Chitty. Honestly
03:41I know she is
03:43By the way, shout out to those of you out there you Victoria's
03:47Who have or are standing by a family member or a close friend?
03:52Who was in an unhealthy relationship and you know, they deserve better. It's an extremely tough position to be in
04:00It's scary. It's painful and it's annoying
04:04But as we can see the support means everything
04:09And I am so proud of my brother for trying to be honest to Renee and to be honest to himself, too
04:17Renee's an aggressive person
04:19So that's why I came with Chitty to look out for him
04:23And if she started yelling and raising her voice, I will have to go in
04:27The petty side of me is just waiting on Renee to raise her voice
04:32But I hope it's going to be positive
04:35Mm-hmm me too
04:37Despite all the things you've done to me. I also want to sure in it. I don't have any qualms with her. I
04:45Respect and I appreciate her and I don't want to make her get upset
04:51That's a lovely man
04:53So kind so sweet
04:56Chitty
04:58I don't know why he's still calling her, babe, though
05:02Maybe it's out of habit, or maybe he's still holding on to a little bit of hope even in this moment
05:08So now you show up
05:13Good looking good, man
05:16Thank you. I guess he feels her presence
05:20She does look cute and her shirt says good vibes
05:24She typically brings the opposite. She needs to start using that good vibe shirt as an affirmation
05:30When you choose to wear that shirt Renee no matter how you feel consider
05:36committing to good vibes only
05:39practice it
05:41committing to good vibes
05:42I would think in this case means listening listening listening and taking in what shitty has to say
05:49But you know
05:52That doesn't happen I got some stuff for you
06:00Oh
06:05Thank you, I
06:09Love these two
06:11Necklace and some earrings. I hope you like them
06:20It's weird to me that we just broke up and now he's here with gifts
06:25It's just him wanting to put on a image that he's not the bad guy
06:29He's not if he was a bad guy. He would have slept with you and had you tripping even more
06:38It's very manipulative
06:41Hey, they can't thank you enough for the love and
06:46Sacrifices
06:48I'll miss you. I
06:53Will say I don't fully agree with the way shitty is going about this
06:59I think it's thoughtful to acknowledge and show his appreciation for Renee's sacrifices
07:05but why say I'll miss you and call her babe when you know, the girl is hurting and
07:12Still wants you
07:13To me it seems like it's really hard for Chitty to wrap his head around the fact that Renee does not have the emotional
07:19capacity for an amicable breakup
07:23Honestly, it would be hard for anyone to hear someone who just broke up with them
07:27Call them, babe or say I'll miss you
07:30It's confusing
07:32So I can understand why she would think he's playing with her emotions
07:38Yeah, five and a half years. What a trip, huh? Why are you doing this?
07:50All right, of course, you know, the relationship has not been all that Rosie
07:56Things had gotten so bad and so messy that why do you make it so messy?
08:01I've never done anything to you, but reach for you. Love you. Try to wait. Wait, let me finish
08:05Come on, let the man talk, huh? Wait, let me finish. No, no, I'd like to know. No, no. No, I'm still I'd like to know
08:10No, I'm well
08:11What is so bad about me that you have to put me down the way you do and come up with sour ass excuses as to why
08:16You couldn't even give me the freaking time of day
08:18Is it why he couldn't give you the time of day or why he couldn't sleep with you?
08:23Let's not over-exaggerate here because y'all were hanging out and she asked him what's so bad about her
08:30What would she do if he actually answered that? It's like she wants him to affirm to her what she already feels about herself
08:37which is seemingly that she's not good enough or
08:41Desirable and while her attitude at the moment might not be in my opinion
08:46She's an attractive woman
08:47But she keeps looking for reasons to support the idea that she's not physically good enough
08:53She thought shitty being blind was gonna save her from having to face her insecurities. I was never looking for a blind man
09:00I never even thought about it and never even crossed my mind
09:04It's just that I'm very self-conscious about how I look
09:07So him being blind is a huge turn-on for me because you don't have to worry about looking at me
09:12I can come out of the shower and he won't see me like I'm gonna be so free. Nope
09:16He might have been a new man, but she was the same person by the way
09:21I don't even know if it's realistic to totally get rid of insecurities. What do y'all think?
09:26I do know it feels really good to get to a place where you finally accept them and
09:33You're no longer
09:35Focused on hiding or compensating for them. That's confidence
09:40What is so bad about me that you have to put me down the way you do and come up with sour ass excuses as to
09:45Why you couldn't even give me the freaking time of day
09:47You're an evil person
09:51It seems Renee is not capable of having a macho conversation
09:56It's past it seems shitty at this moment in her life. She's not and she's shown you time and time again
10:04Nice people find themselves in situations like this all the time
10:08When you have such pure intentions
10:10You try to see the best in everybody and it's hard for you to believe that no some people
10:16Just simply don't have a heart like you. This is something that has been going on right from her arrival
10:24I am beginning to lose my patience
10:27Can you hear me now?
10:32All the time I had tried to engage you you never allowed me
10:36Let me tell you now the only time the only time I have ever
10:41Enjoyed this relationship was when we when we newly met
10:45damn
10:46There goes that switch in her face. The only time I have ever
10:50Enjoyed this relationship was when we when we newly met
10:58That was that has been the only time dang and you asked me to marry you
11:02You are the biggest scammer I've ever come across and one of the worst you want to play me off
11:07We're a freaking fool. Invite me all the way over here. You're gonna be nothing now, but a to me. Do you understand that Victoria?
11:16Come in you don't even deserve this respect as a man. You learn to shut your mouth, okay
11:24Yes, this is the reason this is the reason I can't continue again, I don't need to
11:32Know
11:34She don't called out the man sighs
11:37Also getting a glimpse of how Chitty is experiencing. This moment gives me anxiety
11:42I can't even imagine how he feels
11:46At least he can trust his sister is somewhere looking out and he's not in physical danger
11:52You go home your babysitter's right there. I plan is fresh myself a good time. Yeah. I love you. Bye
11:57I love you, too. Yeah, as Chitty sits there in shock. I can't believe it his sister Victoria comes to comfort him
12:10Renee will always be Renee. So everything has come to a final and I
12:19I
12:23Decide to tell Renee that the only time I've ever enjoyed this relationship was the time I first met her
12:29This is something that I have been struggling to admit to myself for a long time
12:34Because I was so happy that she's not bothered about my condition, but the truth is that we are not compatible
12:41I
12:43Don't know. Yeah, I
12:46Was hoping that we could come to this hard conclusion together
12:50But it gives me a great deal of peace to know that I gave all that I had
12:56Yep at this point in my opinion. That is all the closure you need you did your best by the way
13:02I love this shot of Chitty and Victoria walking off together. I believe that I will in spite of all my frailties and weaknesses
13:10Find someone that will love me cherish me hear me out
13:16Understand me and accept me the way I am
13:22Yes, yes you will Chitty I'm believing that for you
13:26Hey, there might be a 90-day viewer somewhere who is watching Chitty a quality woman who is genuinely interested
13:35you never know and
13:37This might be the last we see of Renee on our screens at least for now
13:41There are some rumors circulating that she won't appear on the tell-all
13:45Everyone in my life knew how much I loved him
13:49How much I wanted to do everything
13:52And how much I put off for him and he should have never let me on
13:57He should have never told me he should have never told me that he loved me
14:02Renee needs a reality check
14:07All right, let's get into our fans fam hot take of the week hey 90-day fans fam, it's Alex from LA
14:13I just have to say I'm so glad that we're done with Chitty and Renee's storyline. It was just a me-out child
14:20She took no accountability for her actions up to the very end
14:25Which was wild to watch I'm proud of Chitty for standing up for himself
14:29And finally realizing that this relationship has been toxic from the word go and removing himself from that situation
14:36I really hope the best for him. I even hope the best for Renee. I hope that they both find the type of love
14:43That they're looking for and yeah, thanks so much
14:47Yeah, I bet in real time Chitty is feeling so relieved that he let this relationship go, you know
14:53One of those what was I thinking?
14:55Moments
14:59All right 90-day fans fam, thanks for hanging with me make sure you stick with ET because we are covering it all
15:06I will see you next time