Vandana Shah, India's leading divorce attorney, talked about AR Rehman and Mohini Dey's relationship. She also declared her divorce following AR Rehman, the cause for which is unknown. She discussed the most typical reasons for divorce in Bollywood and highlighted an example in which she was saddened by the divorce.
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00:00I want to give you an example, if I announce my divorce tomorrow and I always give the example of Rafael Nadal because I am a big fan of him and I have also dedicated my book to him and if Rafael Nadal announces in Spain,
00:25so will we say that there is something between Vandana Shah and Rafael Nadal and that is why they announced their divorce at the same time?
00:34These are two independent events.
00:36So why are they linking?
00:38Similarly, a person is in pain while going through a divorce.
00:42So why are they spreading unnecessary rumors and increasing the pain of someone else?
00:56How can people even think like this?
01:06I don't want to comment on that because it is so untrue.
01:09I am giving you the example of Rafael Nadal and Vandana Shah.
01:14So don't go on that topic.
01:16Sorry for saying this is all rubbish talk.
01:22So don't go on that topic.
01:25See, whether it is a 29 year old marriage or a 15 year old marriage, there are ups and downs in every marriage.
01:37That is life.
01:39In some marriages, there is tolerance that we tolerate and move on.
01:43Like our parents used to tolerate and move on.
01:46But nowadays, maybe tolerance has reduced.
01:50So people look at marriage accordingly.
01:54Maybe divorce is an option for better lives, for rebuilding lives, for getting new meanings to lives.
02:03And it is not always that if I find someone, I will break my marriage.
02:08So I want to also put that out there.
02:15Divorces are on the rise everywhere.
02:18Divorces are on the rise everywhere.
02:21In India, I mean, I have been seeing for the last 10-15 years that divorces are only increasing.
02:29Divorces are not stopping.
02:31Like I say, divorces are here to stay and I say, institution of marriage is also here to stay.
02:39So both are going to go hand in hand, but divorces are here to stay.
02:49I say that if we increase our tolerance a little bit.
02:54I don't use the word compromise, I use the word tolerance.
02:58Like we do with our friends, we tolerate our friends a lot, you know.
03:03But we don't tolerate our spouses that much.
03:06If you live as friends, then I think your chances are very high.
03:11And a little bit of forgiveness.
03:13Start the next day. Don't just live in the past.
03:18Is what I say.
03:20But I think tolerance is the key for long marriages and somewhat happy marriages.
03:32I will tell you 3-4 cases.
03:35I had a case when a blind man wanted a divorce.
03:40And I cried a lot in that case because his wife had filed for divorce.
03:47And he had no choice but to give the divorce.
03:51You know, and he was about 60 years at that time.
03:55So, you know, I mean, then you start questioning a little bit, what is this?
04:01So that for me was a very impactful case.
04:05That there should be a little empathy in life.
04:11And in that case, I had asked a lot of questions that let's get married.
04:16Now where will he go at the age of 60?
04:19Secondly, a Bollywood couple had come.
04:24I always thought that they were quite madly in love.
04:27And I thought, at least when I was growing up, you know, I used to look up to them.
04:31That wow, they are a really good couple.
04:33So, I was very sad at the time of that couple.
04:37And the third case, which made me learn a lot.
04:42When I got a 250 crore alimony settlement done.
04:46So in that case, I had learned a lot.
04:49So I consider that also a very good case.
04:52And one of my cases was that I had done pro bono.
04:59And the girl's husband was an auto driver.
05:03So I was standing there.
05:06And the judge said, she doesn't have anybody.
05:10So madam, do you mind arguing for her?
05:12I quickly made the argument.
05:14I read the paper in 10 minutes, made the argument.
05:16I think I got her that interim maintenance of 500 or 1500 rupees a month.
05:22So I felt very satisfied with that.
05:24And after that, I got her divorce done.
05:27I got her all the things.
05:30So I felt very happy.
05:31These 3-4 cases are very good for me.