"The funny part is they lie for small things." Tamannaah Bhatia opened up about her past relationships in this interview.
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00:00Another heartbreak was largely because I could see that the person is not good for me.
00:04I feel like that is the single most easiest way to ruin a good relationship.
00:08Why?
00:09Because it's a form of control.
00:12Another red flag is like liars, like people who lie for small things.
00:23What's your love language?
00:24What's my love language?
00:26For me, I think it's actually a combination.
00:31I think affirmations, somebody who's positive words and time, physical time.
00:43I've noticed this that people, you can change small, small things if you really want to.
00:50But I feel like the moment a woman or a man, again, if you're trying,
00:54the moment you're trying to change a person, please don't deal with that person.
00:57Because I feel like that is the single most easiest way to ruin a good relationship.
01:02Why?
01:02Because it's a form of control.
01:06Early on, it was about giving.
01:08Just giving, giving, giving.
01:09Whether the person is in the position to receive or not, it was all about giving.
01:15Because again, that's another toxic positivity that can happen where you just give
01:19and you're not concerned whether you're getting or not.
01:22But I felt like a relationship is always two-way.
01:25It has to have giving and taking.
01:29It's that exchange that makes a relationship.
01:31What was the biggest heartbreak and why did it happen?
01:33So I had two heartbreaks which were extremely important in my evolution.
01:40The first happened because I was very young.
01:44And I think it came from a place of, I don't know, I wanted more.
01:50I felt like I can't...
01:52This is not right.
01:53No, I couldn't.
01:55Just for that one person, I don't think I could have given up many other things that I had wanted.
02:00So I felt like there's much more to see, much more to explore.
02:03So that didn't work out because of that.
02:05And I think so another heartbreak was largely because I could see that the person is not good for me.
02:11In a long...
02:11Not good for me means what?
02:14Give me the dates.
02:15Not good for me as an influence in my life.
02:20And as a long-term partner.
02:22Another red flag is liars, people who lie for small things.
02:29The funny part is they lie for small things.
02:31Nothing big, nothing large, but they'll just lie.
02:35So then they lie for everything.
02:37It just becomes a habit.
02:38It becomes a habit, yeah.
02:39I also feel it's very important to not feel like someone will come and rescue me.
02:47Someone is going to take care of me.
02:49As much as you can find a man who is fully in his masculine self, providing for you, giving you everything you need.
02:57You have to also be fully complete and be a provider.
03:03So actually, contrary to popular belief, if the man is a provider, the woman is a nurturer, provider, blah, blah, blah, everything.
03:11And that's why if many people say women are the superior species, why?
03:15Because she is.
03:17And this is the way she is.
03:18Because she can do everything.