Aired (November 30, 2024): Candy Pangilinan is a well-known actress and comedian, but behind the scenes she takes on the role of an excellent mother. Watch the story of her life with her son who was diagnosed with autism and ADHD in "My Very Special Son - The Candy Pangilinan story". #GMANetwork #GMADrama #Kapuso
Watch ‘Magpakailanman,’ every Saturday evening on GMA Network, hosted by Ms. Mel Tiangco. Included in the cast for this episode “My Very Special Son - The Candy Pangilinan story” are Candy Pangilinan, Shyr Valdez, Will Ashley, Euwenn Aleta, & Sandy Andolong. #MPK #Magpakailanman
Watch ‘Magpakailanman,’ every Saturday evening on GMA Network, hosted by Ms. Mel Tiangco. Included in the cast for this episode “My Very Special Son - The Candy Pangilinan story” are Candy Pangilinan, Shyr Valdez, Will Ashley, Euwenn Aleta, & Sandy Andolong. #MPK #Magpakailanman
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00:00How long will it take?
00:05How long will it take?
00:10How long will I have to cry?
00:14I can't take it anymore.
00:27ADHD is not an autism.
00:29It's not a disease. It's a neurodevelopmental condition.
00:32How long will I live like this, Quentin?
00:35Huh? What if I disappear?
00:38We know him as one of our best artists and comedians,
00:44Kendy Pangilinan.
00:47Tonight, he will not be alone,
00:50but he will experience it himself.
00:55The mother of a child has a condition called Autism and ADHD
01:02or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder.
01:07This is due to the behavior of an animal
01:11that is often unpredictable, impulsive, and unpredictable.
01:18How difficult it is for your beloved child to meet different moods and demands every day?
01:27Is a long period of patience and understanding of his condition enough?
01:33How can you protect a child who is often bullied
01:38when you are not with him 24 hours a day?
01:43That is the focus of our 22nd anniversary episode
01:51titled,
01:53My Very Special Son,
01:56The Kendy Pangilinan Story.
01:59Question!
02:01No!
02:02What is the name of Mindoro's snatcher?
02:04What?
02:05Eddie Mindorokod.
02:08Oh, we are so freaking ready, ma'am.
02:12We can actually have the freaking party right now.
02:16Kendy, tell us about your dreams when you were still a girl.
02:23Well, of course, as an artist, I wanted to make a lot of movies.
02:28I wanted to be a director, writer.
02:33I really wanted to do a lot of things and build a family.
02:37I wanted a family.
02:38You really wanted to have a family?
02:40Yes, I wanted a family.
02:41You married at 31?
02:42You look like a late bloomer.
02:45Why 31?
02:46I was very busy.
02:48You are a bit old.
02:49Yes, I was a bit busy.
02:51I was very busy with work.
02:53With your career?
02:54Yes.
02:55I was very, very busy.
02:56You were an actress back then?
02:57Yes.
02:58I was actually in the peak.
03:00I was doing a lot of movies.
03:02I had a tight schedule back then.
03:05But I decided to get married.
03:06You decided to get married?
03:08Yes.
03:09Good evening, dear friends.
03:10Thank you for being here tonight.
03:12Thank you very much.
03:13Everyone who paid for the ticket, please look at the front.
03:15Those who didn't pay, please look at the back.
03:17Yes, I'd like to know the professions of the people who are here tonight.
03:20Yes, what is your job?
03:21Waitress.
03:22Waitress, yes.
03:23And you are?
03:24Please look at the other side.
03:25What is your job?
03:26I'm a security guard.
03:27Security guard.
03:29I'm glad that all your jobs are standing.
03:32But now, all of you are sitting.
03:34So, all of you are resting.
03:36Let's give a round of applause to all of you who are working here.
03:39So, at least you are able to rest.
03:41But you know, that's good.
03:43Everybody needs to rest.
03:45Let's not be in peace.
03:46Right?
03:47Let's just rest.
03:49Let's just rest and enjoy ourselves tonight.
03:51They say, if you have a dream, you have to pursue your dream.
03:54So, wherever I go, my dream is to become a stewardess.
03:58That's all I know.
03:59I'm a culinary.
04:01Don't misunderstand that.
04:03I mean it.
04:04What I'm doing is very simple.
04:05Good night to all of you.
04:07If you want to see the dead, just choose two lines.
04:13Where are the doctors?
04:16How are you, ma'am?
04:17Doc is just rinsing.
04:19He will pass in a while.
04:21Are you able to eat?
04:22Are you able to urinate?
04:24Are you able to urinate?
04:26Did you expect the vaginal or cesarean delivery, ma'am?
04:30Oh my, there are so many questions.
04:32Shouldn't the doctor know that?
04:34Mom.
04:36Mom.
04:38Miss.
04:42Miss.
04:44You've asked me so many questions.
04:46Your questions are all the same.
04:48If I'm able to eat.
04:51This hurts, ma'am.
04:52If I'm able to urinate.
04:53Right?
04:54If I have an infection.
04:55Right?
04:56This hurts, ma'am.
04:57Right?
04:58But the truth is…
04:59This hurts, ma'am.
05:00This hurts, ma'am.
05:01Right?
05:02Hurry up.
05:03Ma'am.
05:04Ouch!
05:05This hurts, ma'am.
05:06Now, I'm going to hit you.
05:09This is how I feel right now.
05:11This hurts, ma'am.
05:16Please.
05:21Oh my, my grandchild.
05:24My child is so cute.
05:26My grandchild is so handsome.
05:30My child.
05:32My child.
05:34His father left again.
05:37I don't know when he'll be back.
05:39And if he'll come back.
05:41I don't know.
05:46Mom.
05:47Quintin, okay?
05:49Quintin is his name.
05:54Quintin suits him.
05:56Let's go.
05:57Let's go.
05:59I'm sorry.
06:00The subscriber cannot be reached.
06:02Please try again later.
06:06You're still calling him.
06:09He'll come back if he wants to.
06:11And if he still wants to see his son.
06:17Okay.
06:26Quintin.
06:28Don't worry.
06:31We can do this.
06:35Mom can do this.
06:39For Quintin.
06:41Right, Mom?
06:44Of course.
06:57But your husband left you.
06:59You were just about to give birth.
07:01Yes.
07:02Isn't that right?
07:03How did that go?
07:05At that time, I think I was in...
07:08I went through anxiety, depression.
07:10I was about to break down.
07:12I talked to Father Pablo yesterday.
07:14We came from Marie's church.
07:17I told him about your problem.
07:21You know, spiritual education is good for you.
07:24What's the problem, Mom?
07:28It's just that you're depressed.
07:32You're having a hard time with your situation.
07:34That's why your body and mind are affected.
07:49Mom.
07:51Mom.
07:54Admit it.
07:57Do you think I'm crazy?
07:59Do you think I'm crazy?
08:01Huh?
08:02Or do you think I'm possessive?
08:05Huh?
08:06It's the truth.
08:07No.
08:08It's not like that, dear.
08:09It's just that you're crying all of a sudden.
08:13You've been in your room all day.
08:15You don't go out.
08:17And you're depressed.
08:18I understand what you're going through.
08:22But when I see you like that,
08:24and you're with Quentin...
08:29What do you mean?
08:30Do you want me to kill Quentin?
08:32Do you want me to hurt my son?
08:34Is that what you mean?
08:36It's not like that, dear.
08:37What I want is for you to prove to that man
08:40that what he's thinking is not true,
08:42that you're going crazy.
08:43There!
08:44Right away?
08:45You're going crazy?
08:46Huh?
08:48Can't you just...
08:49I just want a space.
08:51Just a space like this.
08:53Just a space for me and my son.
08:57Because I'm going through a lot.
09:00Because it's so tight.
09:02It's so tight.
09:06Can't I just make a living for myself and Quentin?
09:10Huh?
09:11Can't I just make a living for myself and Quentin?
09:14Huh?
09:15I'm going through a lot right now, Mom.
09:19That's all.
09:21I just want to help.
09:24I'm your mother.
09:26I can't just leave you like that.
09:30At least your father can help you.
09:33Do you understand me, Quentin?
09:36You're a mother too.
09:41Yes.
09:45Yes.
09:53I'm sorry.
09:56I'm sorry, Mom.
09:59Don't worry.
10:03I still believe in God.
10:07I believe that He won't forsake us, Quentin.
10:12I'm sorry, Mom.
10:18I'm sorry.
10:19I'm sorry.
10:37Quentin, it's your turn.
10:39Why are you crying?
10:41Just eat.
10:43What do you want?
10:45Just eat.
10:48Are you hungry?
10:53Why are you crying?
10:56It's okay.
10:59It's okay.
11:06It's okay, baby.
11:13I can't do this.
11:14Mom's going to scold me.
11:17Hello?
11:20Hello?
11:21John, yes.
11:23I'm trying to put the baby to sleep.
11:25Yes.
11:26I'm sorry.
11:27I might be late for the call time.
11:29What time is the call time in Batangas?
11:32Five.
11:33Five?
11:35What?
11:38Yes.
11:39Okay.
11:40Yes.
11:41I can do it.
11:42Yes.
11:43I'll be there.
11:44I'll just teleport.
11:45No, I'll be there.
11:46I'll be there.
11:47I'll be there.
11:48Look, I'll be there.
11:49I'll be there.
11:50Bye.
11:52Quentin is just a baby.
11:54Just let him be.
11:56Ma'am,
11:58about Quentin,
12:00you know,
12:01I think
12:02there's something different about Quentin.
12:05What's different?
12:07Well,
12:09he's usually
12:10a bit shy.
12:12And when I call his name,
12:15he doesn't seem to know his name.
12:18Unlike other kids,
12:20at least,
12:21Quentin doesn't.
12:23Come on, Marie.
12:24My grandson is still a baby.
12:26I'm not even two years old yet.
12:28What are you looking for in him?
12:31Well,
12:32the kids I used to take care of
12:35have eye contact.
12:36Quentin doesn't.
12:38And when I call his name,
12:40he's so shy.
12:43I'm scared
12:44that he might get mad at me.
12:46Ma'am Kendy might scold me.
12:49Wait a minute, Marie.
12:51Those observations of yours,
12:54what are you trying to say?
12:57Isn't it
12:58that Quentin is just a baby?
13:00Nonsense.
13:02This is Quentin.
13:03It's been a long time since he spoke.
13:05Look at him now.
13:06He's so shy.
13:12Isn't he
13:17retarded, ma'am?
13:19Marie!
13:21One more word from my grandson
13:22and I'll beat you up!
13:24You!
13:25Stop imagining things
13:27in your head.
13:29Look for someone else to take care of him.
13:32What are you saying?
13:35Why me?
13:37Am I just imagining things?
13:39When did you notice
13:41that your son is different?
13:42My spiritual advisor
13:43was the one who told me,
13:44bring your son to the eye doctor
13:46because sometimes he's blind,
13:47sometimes he's blind.
13:48So I went to the eye doctor
13:49and the eye doctor
13:50was the one who told me
13:52to go to a developmental pediatrician.
13:55And then?
13:56What did the developmental pediatrician
13:57tell you?
14:00Mommy,
14:01Quentin's score is a bit high here.
14:04Is he fond of circles?
14:07Round things.
14:09Yes.
14:10He's fond of circles.
14:13And is he fond of moving objects?
14:16Like when he's watching them,
14:17is he dizzy?
14:19Restless, moving around.
14:22Yes, Doc.
14:23He's not firm.
14:27Actually, even when he's watching TV,
14:30he's not really focused on the TV.
14:34It's like
14:36he's not looking at it.
14:39And he's not firm in his place.
14:45And I noticed that when I call his name,
14:47he doesn't look at me.
14:52He doesn't have
14:55eye contact.
14:57What about his hand gestures?
15:01When he's happy.
15:04Even when he's sad.
15:08Like this.
15:12This is what he does.
15:15Like this.
15:21So, repetitive motion movement.
15:25How does he usually walk?
15:27Does he tiptoe?
15:29Tiptoe.
15:32He can walk on the crib.
15:35Tiptoe.
15:36Yes.
15:37Yes.
15:38He can tiptoe.
15:42He doesn't walk,
15:44but he can tiptoe.
15:46Yes, Doc.
15:52Why, Doc?
15:54Is there a problem with my son?
15:57That's why he's doing tantrums like that.
15:59Because he cannot express himself.
16:02Kentin has a problem with his motor
16:04and fine motor skills.
16:18Come on.
16:19Let's take a bath.
16:20No.
16:21Come on.
16:22No.
16:23Come on.
16:25Come on.
16:26Come on.
16:27Come on.
16:28Let's go.
16:29No.
16:30Ouch.
16:31Ouch.
16:33Ouch.
16:34Kentin,
16:35Ate Marie got hurt.
16:37What do you say?
16:38Sorry.
16:39Sorry.
16:41Sorry.
16:42Let's take a bath.
16:43No.
16:44Okay, okay, okay.
16:45Like this.
16:47Play.
16:49Let's play for a while.
16:51And then, bath.
16:52Okay?
16:54Okay, okay.
16:55Play, play, play.
16:56Go, go, go.
16:57Oh, oh, oh.
16:59Play.
17:00Come here.
17:01Come here.
17:02Play, play, play.
17:03Come here.
17:04Let's take a bath.
17:05Let's take a bath.
17:06Come on.
17:07How did that impact you?
17:09That, oops,
17:11my son is different.
17:14While that was happening,
17:15the first thing that came to my mind was,
17:17Wow.
17:19We're not done with the other one.
17:21Here we go again.
17:22Lord.
17:24Right?
17:25Lord.
17:26What is this?
17:27Okay.
17:28Okay, Lord.
17:29There's nothing left to do.
17:30There's nothing left to do, Lord.
17:32We can do this.
17:33And so the challenges began.
17:35Yes.
17:36In raising Quentin, right?
17:38Yes.
17:39And the journey continues.
17:40Oh, my.
17:42ADHD with autism?
17:46Quentin has that?
17:48Wait a minute.
17:49Will Quentin get better?
17:52Mommy,
17:54ADHD with autism
17:57is not a disease.
17:59It's a neurodevelopmental condition.
18:02Quentin has been like that his whole life?
18:04Huh?
18:05What if he loses me?
18:11It was difficult for Candy
18:13to accept the fact that Quentin has autism,
18:16his only child.
18:19At the time,
18:20he also had to face a huge responsibility
18:24as a single mother.
18:26In these trials,
18:28he still did not trust God.
18:41Lord,
18:44I'm not yet done with one issue of my life, right?
18:50I have another one.
18:54I can handle losing my husband,
18:56losing a friend,
18:58or losing my career.
19:01But Quentin?
19:08My son is so helpless.
19:15Lord, what will happen to him in the future?
19:20Lord,
19:24do I have a grave sin?
19:29Because
19:32I seem to be a good person.
19:33I'm a happy person, right?
19:36I make people happy.
19:46But you're unfair.
19:49Because it hurts.
19:52Lord, it seems to hurt.
19:55It's not true.
19:57It's scary.
20:03It's really scary.
20:09I know you have a reason why this happened.
20:14You just don't understand.
20:20That's why
20:26I'm begging you.
20:28Lord, I'm begging you.
20:30Please have mercy.
20:35Don't leave us, Quentin.
20:40I'm begging you. Don't leave us, Quentin.
20:45Please have mercy.
20:47I'm begging you, Quentin.
20:52Please.
20:53Have mercy.
21:06Father God in heaven,
21:12I'm begging you.
21:18Please be a father to me.
21:21Quentin,
21:23I'm begging you.
21:47Father God in heaven,
21:50I'm begging you.
21:53Please be a father to me.
22:00Okay, good hands.
22:01Good hands. No, Quentin.
22:03No, no, no, Quentin. No.
22:05Quentin, calm down.
22:07Quentin.
22:09Quentin, no, no, no.
22:10Quentin.
22:11Quentin, calm down.
22:12What do you want?
22:13What do you want?
22:14Calm down. Calm down.
22:15Quentin.
22:17Here. Here.
22:18Chocolate.
22:20Ma'am, ma'am.
22:22Ma'am, ma'am.
22:24He's sweet.
22:25That is the power of Dr. Parmal.
22:29That cannot be given to him.
22:31Quentin, no.
22:33No, no, no, no.
22:34Don't bite, ma'am.
22:36Quentin, no. Stop. Stop.
22:39Calm down.
22:45Okay, continue.
22:47Better?
22:49Better?
22:53Okay.
22:55Okay.
22:57Good boy.
22:59Good boy.
23:01Good boy.
23:03Good boy.
23:09Water, water, water.
23:11Good boy, good boy, good boy.
23:13Good mouth.
23:15It's okay, it's okay.
23:17Drink water.
23:19Drink water.
23:21Good boy.
23:23Good boy.
23:25Good boy.
23:27Good boy.
23:29Good hands, okay?
23:31When Quentin hurts Candy,
23:33Candy doesn't blame him.
23:35It's also part of
23:37Quentin's therapy
23:39and Candy's instruction
23:41on the unpredictable moods
23:43of the child
23:45that he should not show
23:47or make Quentin feel
23:49that he is hurting
23:51or angry
23:53at any physical pain
23:55Quentin has in him.
23:57What can you tell us
23:59about a mother's struggle
24:01when her child
24:03needs
24:05more than
24:07ordinary care
24:09and care?
24:11Well, I think first and foremost is
24:13for the mother
24:15to accept and embrace.
24:17Yes, you're right.
24:19This is it.
24:21I'll accept it.
24:23There's no denying
24:25the reality.
24:27You have to accept it fully.
24:29So what did you accept?
24:31I accepted everything.
24:33The weaknesses.
24:35That he's differently abled,
24:37whatever they want to call it,
24:39I'll accept it.
24:41This is my child.
24:43This is him.
24:45I'm not sure if he can talk
24:47or if he can walk.
24:49Because at that time,
24:51he didn't talk or walk.
24:53And it could be that he would never talk?
24:55Yes.
24:57That was a very big possibility.
24:59What happened?
25:01How many years did he talk?
25:03He started with words like
25:05mom,
25:09five, six.
25:11But he
25:13put it like that.
25:15On Thursday,
25:17Thursday,
25:19it was
25:21raining.
25:23Raining.
25:25Raining.
25:27Ma'am Kendy,
25:29drink your medicine.
25:31Drink it.
25:33Okay, good job.
25:35Good job.
25:41Here, thank you.
25:47Good job.
25:49That was a
25:51That was a
25:53good
25:55good
25:57thing
25:59because
26:01Clara
26:03and Car
26:07Kendy,
26:09Kendy.
26:13Jump.
26:15Jump.
26:17No, no, no.
26:19Let him go.
26:21Let him go.
26:23Let him go.
26:25Don't give him attention.
26:27Jump.
26:29Good job.
26:31Good job.
26:33Usually, they hear
26:35last words.
26:37Don't jump.
26:39Jump.
26:41So you should say
26:43calm down.
26:45What they will hear is down.
26:47Right?
26:49Okay, calm.
26:51Don't hit.
26:53What they will hear is hit.
26:55So what I learned from him
26:57is good hands.
26:59Good hands.
27:01Good.
27:03Good hands.
27:05All positive words.
27:07If I hit him, I will say
27:09good hands.
27:11Patience.
27:13If he can't speak or
27:15if he gets irritated,
27:17I will say good boy.
27:19Good boy.
27:21Good.
27:23Quentin, good.
27:25How did Quentin get into kindergarten?
27:27He got a master's degree.
27:29If you want to teach
27:31Quentin kindergarten,
27:33my son got a master's degree in kindergarten.
27:35Why?
27:37Because from the
27:39small community school
27:41where Quentin got kindergarten,
27:43my mom transferred him
27:45to a big school.
27:47My mom said,
27:49you should go to a big school
27:51like the ones you go to.
27:53My son didn't go to a big school.
27:55He said, no.
27:57He got in.
27:59When he graduated,
28:01they sent us
28:03a picture
28:05and
28:07they told us
28:09that he won't graduate.
28:11Why?
28:13I said, he won't graduate.
28:15There was a second time.
28:17It was a second time.
28:19I said, I will transfer him.
28:21He will graduate.
28:23He will stay in that school.
28:25I'm sorry, Mrs.
28:27We can't
28:29take Quentin to graduation.
28:31This is a regular school
28:33and our students
28:35are not like Quentin.
28:37We are worried
28:39that Quentin might not
28:41go to graduation.
28:43The parents are afraid
28:45that Quentin might
28:47hurt their children again.
28:49Even if he doesn't
28:51hurt Quentin,
28:53they know that.
28:55Other people
28:57don't hurt him.
28:59Please take him to graduation.
29:01I'm so sorry.
29:03Ma'am,
29:05even if he doesn't
29:07graduate,
29:09even if he doesn't get a diploma,
29:11even if he doesn't get a paper,
29:13he practiced
29:15when he was young.
29:17Ma'am, he practiced for so many days.
29:19He went up the stage
29:21for so many days.
29:23He went up and down.
29:25Take him with the other kids
29:27so that he can practice, Ma'am.
29:29Take him with the other kids
29:31so that he can practice.
29:33Ma'am, please.
29:35Even if he doesn't get a paper.
29:37Mrs., you don't have to do this.
29:39Please, Ma'am.
29:41You really can't.
29:43I'm really sorry.
29:47That school is weird.
29:49It's discriminating
29:51against people with autism and ADHD.
29:53That kid is just walking.
29:55He's already there.
29:57We won't let him go.
29:59So that he won't get hurt
30:01at graduation when he's there.
30:07Wait, Ma'am.
30:09I don't care
30:11if he graduates or not.
30:13If there's a ceremony or not.
30:15It's more important to me
30:17if Quentin can march.
30:19But how?
30:21That's just a way, Ma'am.
30:23I know what to do.
30:27I'll take care of it.
30:29Where are you going?
30:31I'll take care of it, Ma'am.
30:33I'll just discard this.
30:35I'll just discard this.
30:39And just so that
30:41his son can feel
30:43that he's graduating,
30:45Kendy set up his relay
30:47to build a
30:49graduation ceremony
30:51for Quentin.
30:53In public,
30:55I heard a lot,
30:57especially when Quentin was a kid,
30:59that there's something right.
31:01I was like,
31:03no, it's not right.
31:05There's something wrong.
31:09I bet you're being very,
31:11your sense of humor is different.
31:13It's helped you
31:15come along the
31:17journey that you called.
31:19Oh, yes. I think God gave me this
31:21gift of humor
31:23because He said
31:25it's necessary.
31:27What's the point in crying?
31:31During the time that Kendy
31:33spent with his son,
31:35Quentin,
31:37his resistance and
31:39humbleness as a mother
31:41sometimes
31:43required him to take
31:45a heavy responsibility
31:47for his son
31:49who has autism.
31:51Kendy was able to
31:53gradually overcome
31:55what Quentin should have learned.
32:01Dinner time.
32:05Okay.
32:07Yeah.
32:09Why are we having white rice?
32:11We ran out of white rice.
32:13I know.
32:15It's been four hours.
32:17Give me your iPad.
32:19No.
32:21Give me your iPad.
32:25Give it to me. I'll count to five, okay?
32:27One.
32:29Two.
32:31Three.
32:33Goodbye.
32:35Okay.
32:37Did you wash your hands?
32:39Yes.
32:41Are you sure?
32:43Of course.
32:45Okay.
32:47Get your food.
32:49You're a good boy.
32:51You washed your hands.
32:53Now you can eat white rice.
32:55Yay!
32:59Wait.
33:01I'm too happy.
33:03Okay.
33:05What do you want to eat?
33:07Okay.
33:09Okay.
33:11Okay. Enough.
33:13Later again.
33:15Okay.
33:17How about vegetables?
33:19Okay.
33:21Good for you. Good for Quentin.
33:23He's the last one to eat.
33:25Okay. Enough.
33:27Okay.
33:29Okay.
33:31Okay.
33:33Stop.
33:35Hands on the table.
33:37Okay. Let's pray first.
33:39Father, Son, Holy Spirit. Amen.
33:41Okay.
33:43Bless us, O Lord.
33:45Dear Lord.
33:47Amen.
33:49Hands on the table.
33:51Let's pray properly.
33:53Okay.
33:55Bless us, O Lord.
33:57For.
33:59Give.
34:01Receive.
34:03From.
34:05Christ.
34:07Our Lord.
34:09Good job.
34:11Okay.
34:13Stop.
34:15Chew first.
34:17Hands on the table.
34:19Chew.
34:21They might say that you're feeding them outside.
34:23You're just eating white rice.
34:25You're supposed to stop working.
34:27You're just eating white rice.
34:57What's your name?
34:59Ayana.
35:01Of course, she wants to be with you.
35:03If you're there.
35:05What's your name?
35:07My
35:09birthday
35:11to you.
35:17What was that?
35:19Oh, no.
35:21What was that?
35:23Why are you pushing me in?
35:25What?
35:27Yeah.
35:37Bye, everyone.
35:39Say bye-bye.
35:41Bye-bye.
35:43And of course, our ending.
35:45Okay, 1, 2, 3.
35:47And I'm so happy.
35:49So very happy.
35:51I've got the love of
35:53Jesus in my heart.
35:55And I'm so happy.
35:57So very happy.
35:59I've got the love of
36:01Jesus in my heart.
36:03I've got the love of
36:05Jesus in my heart.
36:07And I'm so happy.
36:09So very happy.
36:11I've got the love of
36:13Jesus in my heart.
36:17When did you decide
36:19to make vlogs?
36:21Before the pandemic.
36:23Just before the pandemic.
36:25After writing a book.
36:27Close your eyes.
36:29Come on.
36:31Close your eyes.
36:33Close your eyes.
36:39Good night, Quentin.
36:41Good night, Kenz.
36:45I love you, Q.
36:47What do you say to mom?
36:51What do you say to mom?
37:01Love you, Kenz.
37:17Love you, Kenz.
37:21You are, of course,
37:23an individual.
37:25Yes, you're the mother of Quentin.
37:27But you're still
37:29a woman.
37:31You're a human being.
37:33What is the joy
37:35for you
37:37after this, or not after,
37:39but going through the journey with Quentin?
37:41Is your perspective
37:43of life, of things,
37:45of your wants,
37:47of your goals,
37:49of your dreams,
37:51changed?
37:53Yes, the values
37:55changed.
37:57Your attitudes?
37:59I realized that
38:01we all have our
38:03different journeys in life.
38:05Everybody has their different journeys
38:07in life, and we cannot judge anyone
38:09no matter what they do
38:11in their lives.
38:13We don't know what that person is going
38:15through.
38:17I always say this,
38:19do not compete, do not conform,
38:21do not compare, so our life will be satisfied
38:23and content.
38:25If I can compete,
38:27your son is valedictorian.
38:29My son
38:31is most cheerful.
38:35He's best in attendance.
38:37He's not upset.
38:39Right?
38:41I cannot compete.
38:43Your son is a lawyer.
38:45My son,
38:47I think he's good at dancing.
38:49He's just doing the same steps.
38:51My son can talk
38:53and walk. There are so many things in life
38:55that we take for granted,
38:57that we can hold things, we can express ourselves,
38:59we can talk.
39:01Thank you so much, Candia.
39:03I really enjoyed this.
39:05I learned a lot from you.
39:07Thank you very much,
39:09and of course, everything that will make you happy.
39:11I wish that
39:13it will be given to you
39:15on a silver platter,
39:17including your dream
39:19for Quentin. Thank you very much.
39:21Thank you very much.
39:23Candy continues to
39:25inspire us,
39:27not only as a good actress,
39:29but especially
39:31as a great mother
39:33of Quentin.
39:35As a single mother,
39:37Candy sacrifices
39:39her career and
39:41her own happiness
39:43to teach and protect
39:45Quentin in this
39:47difficult and long-term
39:49condition.
39:51To all the mothers
39:53who continue to sacrifice
39:55and work hard
39:57for the family,
39:59our heartfelt
40:01greeting
40:03is that you continue to give
40:05your best,
40:07and remain safe
40:09in your home.
40:11Now, tomorrow,
40:13and forevermore.
40:35Thank you very much.
40:37Thank you very much.