Aired (December 16, 2024): College student na ang anak ng breadwinner na caregiver na si Carol, ngunit napilitan itong huminto sa pag-aaral dahil kailangang unahin ang pagpapagamot sa kapatid ni Carol na mayroong ovarian cancer.
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00:00Based on their moves, who looks like the real caregiver?
00:03For me, it's number 3.
00:06Because I saw her patience.
00:09Even though she's having a hard time controlling her patient, she's still smiling.
00:15She's still pleasant.
00:17What did you see in the 1 and 2?
00:21In the 1, I saw...
00:25Tutoy, your neighbor is on fire. Look at him.
00:28I can't relax.
00:30Thank you very much for your answer.
00:32That's a big thing. Just a text.
00:35As a caregiver, why is your eyeshadow like that?
00:39Just kidding.
00:40It's not a caregiver.
00:45As a caregiver, why are you poor?
00:50As a caregiver, you're helping your children with the things they're having a hard time doing.
00:55But as a breadwinner, how can you help your family to reduce your hardship?
01:02For me, it's simple.
01:07Their simple greetings are enough for me.
01:14When we go to church together,
01:19and when we're in love,
01:23God is in the center of us.
01:26It's simple to me.
01:27He gives me strength to continue in life.
01:32That's all. Thank you.
01:36I think the day off is really important for them.
01:39Yes, and she wants to feel love.
01:42But she doesn't feel it.
01:44That's why you think she's poor.
01:47It's tiring.
01:49Thank you very much.
01:52She's crying.
01:53Do you want a tissue? Give her a tissue if she needs one.
01:57She felt her answer.
02:03Number one, it's a big help for other caregivers.
02:06The members of the family can get along with each other.
02:09There's no fight.
02:10Number two, it's a big help for them to notice each other.
02:15Number three, it's a big help for them to go to church together.
02:26It's a big help for them.
02:28It gives her extra strength.
02:31After three rounds,
02:33and after that question,
02:36who do you think is the real caregiver?
02:40You know, I was confused in the third round.
02:43Why?
02:44I was confused.
02:45Why were you confused, Daisy?
02:46Because I liked the answer of contestant number one.
02:49Number three was on cue.
02:53Did she make you cry?
02:54Yes.
02:55She made me cry.
02:56So you didn't believe her crying.
02:58It's like acting.
03:00She was on cue.
03:02When Vice asked a question, she suddenly cried.
03:05It's like that.
03:06Maybe she's asking questions to contestant number one and two.
03:08She can feel it.
03:09She can feel it.
03:10Yes.
03:11But I felt number two,
03:13the sincerity of her answer.
03:15Because the voice was still there.
03:18Yes.
03:19There was still her attachment to the family.
03:23Just one text,
03:24I'm okay.
03:25That's why we'll give you this.
03:27You can write your answer here
03:30to the question,
03:31who is the real breadwinner caregiver?
03:35While you're writing,
03:36Michie, is it you?
03:38Who is the real breadwinner there?
03:40The caregiver.
03:41The first answer is number two.
03:45But when number three answered,
03:47the value,
03:48she values her value.
03:50If she's working,
03:52she values her family.
03:55That's an important thing.
03:57Do you understand yourself, Michie?
04:00She's confused.
04:02She has value.
04:04She values her family,
04:06her work.
04:08So, number one is Tuka now?
04:09She was number two in the first round.
04:12Now, she's number three.
04:14Because of her family,
04:16she values herself and her family.
04:21She values them.
04:23Yes.
04:25It's up to you, Michie.
04:27What's the number, Michie?
04:29Laugh at your wife, Michie.
04:31Laugh at your wife.
04:32She said, go home.
04:34What's the number?
04:35Number three.
04:36Number three.
04:37Mister, who's yours?
04:41Number two.
04:42Number two.
04:43Number two.
04:44How about number three?
04:46What about the kids?
04:47Number two.
04:50You're the only one who's different from the whole family.
04:53You're number three.
04:54Your whole family is number two.
04:56But you're confused.
04:58But I get number three.
05:00Because number three,
05:01she's smiling,
05:03she's very patient.
05:05Even if she's under a lot of pressure,
05:07she's still smiling.
05:08But if you ask her personally about her,
05:11her emotions will come out.
05:12Because she's really hiding it.
05:14Yes.
05:15But you still can't stop making her suffer.
05:20How many times have you made her suffer?
05:22I don't know if she really felt it.
05:24And her suffering is real.
05:26She didn't make fun of it.
05:27How many? Two times?
05:28Yes.
05:29There's something like that.
05:32I'm Joseph Estrada.
05:33Why Joseph Estrada?
05:35Suffering.
05:36I'm suffering.
05:38But JC made a decision.
05:41JC.
05:43JC.
05:44Yes.
05:46Who is the breadwinner caregiver?
05:49And the breadwinner caregiver is
05:56number
06:01three.
06:04Number three.
06:06So it's the same.
06:08JC and her partner, Michi, made the decision.
06:14There are a lot of people in the studio.
06:16Number three.
06:19Our hosts.
06:21One, two, or three?
06:23They're mixed.
06:25There's one, there's two.
06:26MC is two, they're one,
06:29Sean is one.
06:33MC, what are you?
06:35Let me see.
06:36He's really BBM.
06:44Who are you, MC?
06:45Taren is three.
06:47Ayon is three.
06:50Ryan is six.
06:52There are two.
06:54Ryan is six.
06:56Is Taren and Ayon right now?
06:59Number three.
07:01They agree with JC.
07:03Is JC's guess right?
07:05And the breadwinner caregiver is
07:10to be revealed in our show.
07:13It's showtime.
07:18It's showtime.
07:24Yes.
07:25It's delicious.
07:26This coffee bun is delicious.
07:28It's my favorite.
07:29They even sold it to me for 30 pesos.
07:32Let's get to know their family members.
07:35Is it one,
07:38two,
07:40or three?
07:41Is it one,
07:43two,
07:45or three?
07:49Please hold your numbers.
07:52There are more three's here.
07:55There are more one's down here.
07:58There are more three's up here.
08:01There are also more three's here.
08:04For the hosts,
08:06there are also more three's.
08:08MC has two one's.
08:10The rest are three's.
08:12And the breadwinner,
08:16JC said it's three.
08:20And the breadwinner caregiver is
08:29number
08:30three.
08:37One.
08:40Malika, Darin, Aion, Ryan, and Teddy.
08:45Lassie and Sean.
08:47Ate Mitchie, you're also wrong.
08:50Mother is right.
08:53Do you know why Mother is right?
08:55Why?
08:56Because she's with Wancharo.
08:59JC won!
09:02I was deceived by the looks of number three.
09:05But you mentioned that when you spoke and answered,
09:08you felt that it was one.
09:10Yes, it was one.
09:11Because it comes with the wisdom to speak.
09:14That's why I felt the answer of number one.
09:16Do you know why they didn't wipe their faces earlier?
09:19Why?
09:20Because there were no flowers.
09:22There was no alcohol, no water.
09:24Ate Mitchie, sorry, you don't have 10K.
09:27You have 5,000 Pesos.
09:29Thank you!
09:31And the breadwinner is your whole family for Christmas.
09:34Of course, yes.
09:35I promise.
09:36It's the story of your family.
09:38Yes, of course.
09:39Let's talk about number two.
09:42Number two is Resti Gayoma.
09:44Resti, what is your job?
09:46HR Senior Payroll Specialist.
09:48What?
09:49HR Senior Payroll Specialist.
09:51Payroll.
09:52Payroll?
09:53Payroll.
09:54You have to pay this in payroll so that it can be released easily.
09:57Human resource.
09:58Yes.
09:59But JC always notices you.
10:01He thought that you are also a good performer today.
10:05Thank you very much for joining.
10:06But MC is chosen.
10:08Yes.
10:09Because he was taken care of earlier.
10:11Resti is strong.
10:12Nine love.
10:13And MC promised you that he will give you cash, right?
10:16Yes.
10:17He is telling the truth.
10:18He will follow.
10:19How much was the fee for that service?
10:23It depends on the professional fee.
10:26How much is your salary?
10:27It depends on you.
10:28It depends on you.
10:30It's up to you.
10:31Number three.
10:32What is your job?
10:33Ms. Taina Gonzales.
10:34Yes.
10:35I am a staff nurse at San Pablo College's Medical Center, Laguna.
10:40Wow.
10:41She is a nurse.
10:42She is a nurse.
10:43Yes.
10:44She is a nurse.
10:45That's why she knows how to take care of patients.
10:46Yes.
10:47Because that's what a nurse does.
10:48She takes care of the patients.
10:50Yes.
10:53It's a close fight.
10:54It's a close fight.
10:55Come here.
10:56Let's welcome the real caregiver, the breadwinner.
10:59Ms. Carol Pansy Pansy.
11:02Ms. Carol.
11:04Good morning.
11:05How are you this afternoon?
11:06Good afternoon.
11:08I'm fine.
11:09You look good today.
11:11Yes.
11:12You don't always do that.
11:13You always pose, right?
11:15That's right.
11:16That's right.
11:17How long have you been a caregiver?
11:19I've been a caregiver for 3 years.
11:22But I also did a CNA.
11:25She's joking.
11:26She's joking.
11:27She's joking.
11:28She's joking.
11:29She's joking.
11:30It's okay.
11:31I heard a tornado.
11:32It's okay.
11:33It's okay.
11:34Aside from that, you've been a caregiver for 3 years.
11:37Yes.
11:38But before that, you did a lot of things, right?
11:40Yes.
11:41To protect your family.
11:42That's right.
11:43I did a CNA.
11:46A lot of exciting things are happening.
11:48What did you do?
11:49I did a CNA.
11:50What's a CNA?
11:51Certified Nurse Assistant.
11:54Nurse Assistant.
11:56Certified Nurse Assistant.
11:57Nurse Assistant.
11:58Okay.
11:59That's it.
12:00Then I did a call center.
12:04I sold the CCTV.
12:08I also sold condos.
12:12That's it.
12:13Then I did a call center.
12:15I did a lot of things.
12:17She sold condos.
12:18Actually, before I became a caregiver,
12:21I worked for 9 years in a government agency.
12:25In DPWH.
12:27I was an office staff there.
12:30But since I'm also a breadwinner,
12:35I worked during our break time.
12:38I went from 1st floor to 6th floor.
12:41I sold bags.
12:42I sold T-shirts.
12:44T-shirts.
12:45Shorts.
12:46Side hustle.
12:47That's it.
12:48That's why I'm well-known there.
12:49They all know me.
12:51You're also a breadwinner, right?
12:54You're a winner here.
12:56During break time, I let them in.
12:59You did a lot for the family.
13:02Yes.
13:03How many people relied on you?
13:04When I was single,
13:06almost all of them.
13:08All of them.
13:09Even your siblings?
13:10Yes.
13:11How many siblings do you have?
13:12We're 10.
13:13That's a lot.
13:14Yes.
13:15One of them passed away.
13:16I supported him because he had lung cancer.
13:20I really fought for him.
13:23But it didn't work out.
13:27What about your parents?
13:28My parents...
13:30My father...
13:33It was just a sideline.
13:36Where is your father now?
13:37My father passed away.
13:38But my mother...
13:39But my mother didn't know.
13:42My father used to sell canned milk.
13:47But there were too many of us.
13:50How many people rely on you now?
13:53Now, my son.
13:55He stopped because we don't have enough money.
14:01Then, my mother.
14:03And my brother who has a severe condition.
14:07He has ovarian cancer.
14:09He stopped.
14:10And my niece.
14:11She's a bit neglected.
14:13That's why I took care of her.
14:15Does your son study now?
14:17No.
14:18He stopped.
14:19Do you plan to continue studying?
14:22High school, grade school, college?
14:25College.
14:27Is he with you now?
14:29Yes.
14:30Where is his son?
14:31There.
14:32Oh my God.
14:33The Lord God.
14:36Why are there different sounds?
14:39I'm really surprised and scared.
14:42There's one on the top, one on the side, one on the bottom, one on the front.
14:47Even they are palpitating.
14:50What's your name?
14:51I'm Bea.
14:52Hi Bea.
14:53How old are you?
14:54I'm 21 years old.
14:56I heard you stopped studying.
14:58Yes.
14:59This year, I stopped.
15:01It's my third year already.
15:03What's your course?
15:04B.S. Psychology.
15:05Wow.
15:06Where?
15:07In Olfu, Valenzuela.
15:10Oh.
15:11Why did you stop?
15:12You don't have to study anymore?
15:14Yes.
15:15Yes.
15:16Because my brother has ovarian cancer.
15:22He has chemo.
15:23And I need to supply his herbal meds.
15:28That's it.
15:29How much do you earn in a day?
15:33In a month?
15:34In a month, I'm a caregiver.
15:39Is that per day?
15:40Yes.
15:43How much per day?
15:4412 hours.
15:47I'm asking you.
15:4812 hours.
15:4912 hours of duty.
15:50Is it outdoors?
15:51Oh, it's gone.
15:52There's 24 hours.
15:53There's 12 hours of stay-in.
15:56So, 12 hours is your usual duty?
15:58Yes.
15:59How much is the 12-hour work?
16:011,002 pesos in 12 hours.
16:03How much do you earn in a week?
16:054,800 pesos.
16:074,800.
16:08Yes.
16:09Times 4.
16:114,800 times 4.
16:1316,300.
16:1519,200.
16:17Wow.
16:19What else do you do?
16:21Do you have other jobs?
16:23I'm also a member of Herbal.
16:28How much do you earn there?
16:29I also earn 5,000 a month.
16:325,000 plus 5,000.
16:3424,200.
16:36That's right.
16:37How do you manage 24,000?
16:40In a month, you're sick.
16:43What do you spend?
16:46Bills?
16:47Bills.
16:48Electricity?
16:49Yes.
16:50My mother's medication.
16:52My mother is diabetic.
16:54Me too.
16:55She needs vitamins.
16:58My nieces and nephews.
17:03How do you manage 20,000 a month?
17:05It's manageable.
17:08But it's very expensive.
17:12But as a sister,
17:15and as a mother to my siblings,
17:20especially to my sibling,
17:22that's my priority.
17:24I save a lot.
17:29How much do you spend per day?
17:31On food.
17:35That's why I like to cook.
17:39I save that.
17:41I like to cook more.
17:43If you have 20,000 a month,
17:49you have 31 days.
17:51Let's say 29 days.
17:53That's the minimum.
17:5528?
17:5628.
17:58In February, 28?
18:00Only 28.
18:01Depends on the leap year.
18:03No, I mean the leap year.
18:05Let's say 30 days,
18:071,000 a day.
18:08You have to pay for electricity.
18:11You have to pay for water.
18:12Your mother has maintenance.
18:14Your sibling has a bad feeling.
18:16You have to send them abroad.
18:20That's hard.
18:22Honestly, I have debts.
18:29That's what they're running for.
18:32That's why it's hard.
18:34She's hardworking.
18:37She wants to save.
18:38How can she save?
18:40Her salary is not enough.
18:42Yes.
18:43That's why they need it.
18:45Breadwinners should have benefits.
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