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00:00I'm ready to get a divorce, but I'm going to give you money, so I want you to get plastic surgery.
00:04I can't believe this person.
00:06I can't believe it.
00:07Don't try to change your life so easily.
00:10Tonight, women will answer the questions from the viewers.
00:14Troubleshooting Special
00:17I told my husband,
00:19Go to the bathroom.
00:21Isn't that Kenzo Sakata?
00:25A night when women in Ueda are deeply in love.
00:29A night when women in Ueda are deeply in love.
00:36This program is a talk variety show for adults talking about deep themes.
00:39This time, it's a troubleshooting special for viewers.
00:42In this program, we are looking for problems from viewers.
00:46Until now, about 1,400 problems have been submitted.
00:51Everyone is worried.
00:53I think you should be hit from here.
00:56Why here?
00:57I don't think there's anyone more reliable than me.
01:01Leave it to me.
01:02Let me introduce you to the deep problems.
01:05This is a problem from a 35-year-old woman.
01:07I found out that my husband went to a feudal family.
01:10When I asked, I realized that your face looked like my mother.
01:14I couldn't bear that feeling.
01:16I'm ready to get a divorce, but I'm going to give you money, so I want you to get plastic surgery.
01:20I was shocked.
01:22I don't want to get a divorce because I like him.
01:24I don't want him to go to a feudal family.
01:26Should I make my husband's wish come true?
01:28Do you want to get plastic surgery?
01:30It's too powerful from the first time.
01:32This is a confirmation.
01:34It's my wife's mother.
01:35Of course it's similar.
01:36That's right.
01:37It's natural.
01:38It's natural that my brother-in-law and my daughter look alike.
01:41That's right.
01:42There are good and bad things that a couple can say.
01:46I want him to swallow even if he thinks.
01:50I think it's okay to say that you want to get a divorce.
01:54I think it's okay to say that you want to get a divorce.
02:02But I think it's okay to say that you want to get a divorce.
02:06I think there's a future where you can get along with each other.
02:10I think that no matter how much you are married, you don't have to change yourself for each other.
02:16I don't want to get a divorce, so I want to get plastic surgery.
02:20But there's no guarantee that I won't live in a feudal family after that.
02:26That's right.
02:27I don't think I'll change my life for you easily.
02:31That's terrible.
02:33I don't think it's possible.
02:34I don't think it's possible.
02:36No matter how much you are married, I think there is a dignity that you can't give up.
02:40If you say that, I think it's a saying that fits the class of Morahara.
02:46First of all, if you say something like this,
02:48First of all, if you say something like this,
02:53I don't think so.
02:55I want you to consult with the right person.
02:58I want you to meet with your female friends and say,
03:00I want you to meet with your female friends and say,
03:02That's good.
03:03I want you to know that I'm not the type to be told this.
03:08The first thing I thought when I heard this trouble was,
03:11You should have a plastic surgery that reduces the visibility of your husband.
03:15Oh, that's it.
03:17Oh, that's it?
03:19It's strange to say this after you get married.
03:22Everything is clear when you go to your parents' house.
03:26If you don't like what I'm doing, you have to say it before you get married.
03:32I want to reduce the power of my husband's eyes.
03:37So I told my husband to go to a soap bar.
03:41That's what you said to Kenzo Tsutakata.
03:44I can't believe how humane he is.
03:46I can't believe it either.
03:48But he still loves her.
03:50He's very positive.
03:52He's like, what kind of punishment should I give my husband?
03:56If he's like that, he'll take any kind of advice.
03:58He's trying to make it come true.
04:00Of course, there's a lot more to it than that.
04:07But I don't think he can get along with her.
04:12I'm worried that he's brainwashed by her.
04:19It doesn't matter if he's married or not.
04:25It doesn't matter how she looks.
04:28It's not a big deal.
04:32I want her to be beautiful.
04:34I want her to be beautiful.
04:36I want her to look good.
04:38But I don't want her to transform.
04:41Plastic surgery is very risky.
04:46I want her to live a long and healthy life.
04:48That's what love is all about.
04:50If she gets a little fatter, her partner's body mass will increase.
04:54She's very positive.
04:56She's very positive.
04:59Okubo-san, what should we do about this?
05:04I think it's a little difficult for Uehika-san to lose her eyesight.
05:08I want her to wear sunglasses.
05:11I want her to wear dark glasses all the time.
05:15Let's look at the next concern.
05:17This is from a 30-year-old woman.
05:19It's been five years since I got married.
05:21My husband has been touching my body.
05:23He touches my chest and neck whenever he wants.
05:26He doesn't stop touching me.
05:28He says it's a privilege for a couple to touch each other without permission.
05:31I even want to get a divorce.
05:34This is called domestic violence.
05:36Please tell me how to deal with domestic violence.
05:38This is a serious problem.
05:41Domestic violence?
05:43Have you ever heard of domestic violence?
05:45This is the first time I've heard of it.
05:47I don't know anything about it.
05:48I do this a lot.
05:50Domestic violence?
05:51It's just a form of communication.
05:54When I'm doing housework, when I go to the back of the refrigerator,
05:58I do this with my butt.
06:00Or when I go up the stairs and follow behind,
06:03I do this.
06:05It's a complete domestic violence.
06:07But I don't hate it that much.
06:09It's just a form of laughing.
06:11Really?
06:12You're not the type of wife who would do this, right?
06:14It's okay, right?
06:16But even if it's a couple,
06:18it's necessary to get consent.
06:20Even if it's a couple,
06:22sexual violence is justified.
06:24So I think it's okay to get consent.
06:26If you want to touch, you can touch.
06:28There may be a little bit of sexual touch,
06:32but rather than that,
06:34I want you to stop touching me.
06:36In short, I want to be spoiled.
06:38I think it's that kind of feeling.
06:42I want to be spoiled,
06:44so can you let me touch you?
06:46When you talk about domestic violence,
06:49can you stop looking at me?
06:51It's not a domestic violence.
06:53I'm not trying to make this husband angry at all.
06:56I'm not trying to make him angry,
06:58but in the fifth year of marriage,
07:00he still touches me like this.
07:02I think he really likes his wife.
07:04I'm sure he has a lot of affection for her.
07:07But there's a timing, right?
07:09I'm sure he has a lot of affection for her, too.
07:12I think it's a little different
07:14to say that it's absolutely okay
07:16because they're a couple.
07:18When you want to be spoiled by your husband,
07:20can you let me be spoiled?
07:22Do you have to do something like that?
07:25No, but when he says,
07:27stop it,
07:29you can stop it at that point.
07:31It's not now.
07:33You can approach him indifferently.
07:35I think so.
07:37I often hear the opposite.
07:39That's what I've been doing lately.
07:41I want to do it,
07:43but he won't do it for me.
07:45I hear that a lot.
07:47I think it's the first time I've heard it.
07:49Even around me,
07:51I feel like I'm a couple.
07:53The importance of skinship
07:55in the environment in which I grew up.
07:57There are couples with completely different values.
07:59If you grow up in a family that values skinship,
08:01it's natural to do this.
08:03Some people feel it's love.
08:05It's not like that at all.
08:07It's not embarrassing.
08:09When you grow up like that,
08:11you'll think,
08:13why do you do that?
08:15It's important to recognize
08:17the values of each other
08:19in the environment you grew up in.
08:21It's related to what Peko said.
08:23For example,
08:25it's okay to hold hands
08:27when you're talking like this,
08:29but if you don't want to be touched
08:31by someone's chest or butt,
08:33there should be a borderline.
08:35The feeling that you don't want to be touched.
08:37If you don't make that clear,
08:39no matter what you do,
08:41you have to get permission.
08:43We're in that kind of relationship.
08:45I think that's where the skepticism comes in.
08:47The sexual part is
08:49that you don't want to be touched
08:51when you're normal.
08:55I think it's good to talk about that.
08:57I wonder if this woman
08:59didn't tell her properly.
09:01I really don't want to do that.
09:03I can't do that.
09:05Stop it.
09:07I didn't say it,
09:09so I have to say it.
09:11As you said,
09:13I'm really happy
09:15that you love me so much.
09:17But I don't feel good
09:19about this way.
09:21I really noticed that.
09:23You don't want to get a cotton swab
09:25stuck in your ear all of a sudden,
09:27do you?
09:29That's how deep it is.
09:31It's deep from here.
09:33But if you kiss me,
09:35I'll be happy.
09:37I don't know how much you don't like it.
09:39I don't know how much you don't like it.
09:41But I agree with him every time.
09:43I like his hair.
09:45I like his hair.
09:47I like his hair.
09:49I like his hair.
09:51I like his hair.
09:53I like his hair.
09:55I like his hair.
09:57I see.
09:59Sometimes he tells me to stop.
10:01Sometimes he tells me to stop.
10:03But I don't want to stop.
10:05I'll touch him if he says OK.
10:07I can do that.
10:09I don't want to stop.
10:11You have to take measures.
10:13You have to stop doing that.
10:15You're running away from him.
10:17You're not letting him run away.
10:19When he touches you,
10:21you turn off the light
10:23and take a shower.
10:25You turn off the light
10:27and take a shower.
10:29You don't touch him.
10:31You don't touch him.
10:33You don't touch him.
10:35You're making him realize
10:37that what he's doing is serious.
10:39You're making him realize that what he's doing is serious.
10:41You're making him realize that what he's doing is serious.
10:43Let's move on to the next question.
10:45This is from a 40-year-old woman.
10:47I'm curious about the way you address
10:49the people who have children
10:51in the filming industry.
10:53I'm curious about the way you address
10:55the people who have children
10:57in the filming industry.
10:59It's strange to be called
11:01mother, but is it ok
11:03for me to call you sister?
11:05I'd like you to decide
11:07your new nickname.
11:09I did before.
11:11You know,
11:13I call you daddy,
11:15which is different.
11:17So I wonder
11:19if it's the same for you.
11:21If you don't have a mother, who's going to be your mother?
11:24There's a lot going on there.
11:26I'm from the west, too, so I have a gentle impression of a lady who gives me candy.
11:31I like being called that.
11:33But there is a tendency for women to be bad at ageing.
11:38The word old lady itself is not rude,
11:42but it is perceived as a person who has aged.
11:47I think old ladies can use it, too.
11:55It's hard. I don't know.
11:57It's really hard.
11:59Peko, do you have any good ideas?
12:02In Tokyo, I'm a madam.
12:05A madam?
12:06I think it's a good idea.
12:08A madam?
12:09Yes, it's elegant.
12:11But I don't have the confidence to go there.
12:17It's good, isn't it?
12:18It's good.
12:19It's not a deep story, but it's a serious story.
12:25But I'm a madam.
12:27I can't say it in that scene.
12:30I'm a madam in a serious scene.
12:32If I'm clearly older than 67 years old, I'm a lady.
12:36I'm a lady.
12:38I'm a lady.
12:39I ask a lady, where are you from?
12:41I understand.
12:42When 4 or 3 persons come together,
12:45I may just say, a CC girl.
12:47I ask how about Aota-san,
12:49and she will change her name.
12:54Basically, it's a scene in which you don't need to hear the name.
12:59I have one.
13:01What?
13:02I call myself sensei.
13:04I'm senpai.
13:06I'm still in this position.
13:08I'm 34 years old.
13:10What's the problem?
13:12There are some people who don't know if they're an old lady or an old man.
13:16There are some people, right?
13:18When you're in the city, if you don't limit your gender,
13:23you can call them sensei or senpai.
13:26But if you know who they are,
13:28you can call them onee-san.
13:30Onee-san.
13:31Onee-san.
13:32Onee-san.
13:34You can call them sensei or senpai.
13:36But if you know their personal information,
13:38you can call them nee-san.
13:40Nee-san.
13:41In other cases, you can also call them sensei.
13:43Sensei.
13:44You might be asked,
13:45what kind of sensei are they?
13:47But I only call them for a moment.
13:49Even my wife can have a problem.
13:51Even if I call her my wife,
13:53she can still be misunderstood.
13:55Even if I don't call her my wife,
13:57people ask me,
13:59what about your wife?
14:01What about your wife?
14:02If you don't ask,
14:03what about your wife?
14:06That's weird.
14:07It's like an American joke.
14:08That's weird.
14:09It might be like that for people.
14:10In my case, I would say,
14:11my wife,
14:12but I would say,
14:13Ueda-san's wife.
14:14That's right.
14:15It's the opposite.
14:16What about your husband?
14:17It's more difficult to say,
14:18your husband.
14:19Because he's your husband.
14:20I think it's better
14:21not to say,
14:22your husband.
14:23That's right.
14:24I see.
14:25What about that?
14:26Is it better to say,
14:27your partner?
14:28Your partner
14:29doesn't really matter.
14:30For example,
14:31it can be used
14:32for same-sex couples.
14:33For now,
14:34I think it's easier
14:35to say,
14:36my partner.
14:37But it's quite difficult.
14:38I was talking about this
14:39with Daimao Kosaka.
14:40What should I say?
14:41Honey?
14:42Kosaka,
14:43you should say,
14:44honey.
14:46Well,
14:47it sounds like a joke,
14:48but
14:49that's the way
14:50to say it.
14:51I see.
14:52Well,
14:53it's fine.
14:54It's fine.
14:55I was talking about this
14:56with Daimao Kosaka.
14:57What should I say?
14:58Honey?
14:59Honey?
15:00Kosaka,
15:01you should say,
15:02wife.
15:03Wife?
15:04Wife.
15:05So,
15:06my wife.
15:07Well,
15:08it sounds like a joke,
15:09but
15:10that's the way
15:11to say it.
15:12What should I say?
15:13First of all,
15:14should I say,
15:15teacher?
15:16Should I say,
15:17senpai?
15:18I think senpai
15:19is fine.
15:20Senpai is
15:21quite useful.
15:22Senpai in life.
15:23Senpai,
15:24senpai.
15:25It's fine to say,
15:26senior.
15:27Senior.
15:28Senior is good.
15:29Senior is good.
15:30Being a senior
15:31is difficult.
15:32It's difficult.
15:33Next question,
15:34we have a
15:3542-year-old lady here.
15:36We want to ask you
15:37what kind of things
15:38would you talk about
15:39with your friends.
15:40As you get
15:41older,
15:42you may have
15:43different values
15:44and lifestyles
15:45and find it difficult
15:46to get along
15:47with the friends
15:48you've been
15:49hanging out with
15:50and you don't
15:51know
15:52what to say
15:53when you see them.
15:54I see I see.
15:55You feel anxious
15:56when you don't
15:57Even if it's just one of the members,
15:59if you've been in a relationship for 10 or 15 years,
16:04and you've been in a relationship for a long time,
16:11if you have a family,
16:15and you're serious about a lot of things,
16:18in the next 5 years,
16:20you'll be able to have a serious conversation,
16:23and you'll be able to talk about interesting things.
16:26You'll be able to divide the conversation
16:28depending on who you're talking to.
16:30You'll be able to decide if you're talking to someone
16:32who you're serious about or not.
16:34I see.
16:35But you'll be able to decide
16:38what you're going to talk about
16:40depending on who you're talking to.
16:42I think it's good.
16:43If you have a different sense of value,
16:45you'll be able to get along with someone
16:47after 10 years.
16:49In my case,
16:51I can talk about otakus,
16:53and I can talk about my mom.
16:55It's like that.
16:56It's naturally divided.
16:58So if you have this problem,
17:01maybe you should make more friends.
17:04Not just friends,
17:07but people who can talk about this.
17:09I think it's good to make more friends.
17:15Is it only friends who have the same values?
17:18I think it's good to know the difference
17:21when you're having a drink or a meal with your friends.
17:26You'll be able to think differently.
17:29You'll be able to accept the difference
17:31like you used to.
17:36For example, if you're having a hard time
17:38talking about your life,
17:40you can talk about movies.
17:42If you can talk about running away,
17:44and enjoy the difference in values,
17:46I think you'll be able to connect with people.
17:49I get it.
17:50So if you're having a hard time
17:52talking about your life with your friends...
17:58Asako, Emiko, Kazuko,
18:00let's go there.
18:01If you talk about the same thing,
18:03you'll get bored.
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18:22If you get serious with your friends,
18:24they'll run away.
18:26They'll change the topic.
18:28I want to get along with them,
18:30but the topic will change.
18:32So if you don't want to talk about it,
18:35you can change the topic.
18:38I think it's important to find a way to run away.
18:42I think it's important.
18:44Women's lifestyles change, right?
18:47Of course.
18:48I don't get along with my friends
18:50who have a family.
18:52My friends are getting old.
18:55Asako, Emiko, Kazuko,
18:57let's go there.
18:59If you talk about the same thing,
19:01you'll get bored.
19:05It's true.
19:06It's not exciting.
19:07If you start to look for different values,
19:09it's different.
19:10But sometimes it's hard.
19:12I think it's best not to push yourself.
19:15I think it's best not to push yourself.
19:17Lastly, we have a message from Mr. Iwana.
19:19A movie about the truth of Onimiya 7,
19:21a comedy unit that has been removed from the mainstream.
19:23It's being released nationwide.
19:25It's a life full of laughter and tears,
19:27a movie about comedians who dream of success.
19:29It's a movie about comedians who dream of success.
19:31It's a movie about comedians who dream of success.
19:33The next topic is
19:35the choice of one.
19:37Even if you're married,
19:39you can't help it.
19:41You hate each other.
19:43I think that's hell.
19:45Look forward to it.