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Meri Pehchan

Topic: Akhlaq Aur Muashra

Host: Syeda Zainab

Guest: Dr. Imtiaz Javed Khakvi, Hafiza Ayesha

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00:00As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, wa rahmatullahi
00:20wa barakatuhu, wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, wa rahmatullahi
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00:33rabb-ish-sharah-li-sadri, wa-yassirli-amri, wa-hal-ul-uqdatam-mill-is-saani, yafqa-hu-qauli.
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00:38jitni is samaat hain, is waqt mujhe is samaat kar rahein hain, un tamaam ke khidmat mein
00:42I would like to introduce Sayyeda Zainab to you.
00:45Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu.
00:49I am here with a new episode of Meri Pahchaan with a new topic.
00:57We are living in a time where the society is in a state of chaos.
01:03We are in a state of decline.
01:06When we look at the changing attitudes, we become stubborn.
01:11When we look at the changing attitudes, we become stubborn.
01:20In other words, if we say that our hearts have become stubborn,
01:25then this is not wrong.
01:27We often hear that the society has become very bad.
01:32Who is the society? You and I are the society.
01:36You and I make the society.
01:40If we look at the mirror of a believer, we see our reflection in it.
01:47Is it good to improve our morals?
01:50We have become so addicted to morals,
01:55that we answer with a stone.
01:57We say that if someone abuses us, we will abuse them back.
02:01If someone is unjust to us, we will take revenge.
02:06What is morality?
02:08To tolerate is also morality.
02:10To be kind is also morality.
02:12To talk to someone is also morality.
02:14To be thankful is also morality.
02:18Today, we will talk about morals and the society.
02:22We have a guest with us.
02:25Let me introduce him to you.
02:28He is the most senior scholar of ARYQ TV.
02:31We all love him.
02:33Dr. Imtiaz Javed Khakwi is here.
02:36Let's welcome him.
02:37Peace be upon you.
02:40Peace be upon you, too.
02:42How are you?
02:43I am fine, thank God.
02:45May God give you health and well-being.
02:48You, too.
02:49Thank God.
02:50We have Hafiza Ayesha with us.
02:54She has a different style of singing.
02:56She is a very good singer.
02:59Let's welcome her.
03:00Peace be upon you.
03:02Peace be upon you, too.
03:04How are you?
03:06Let's start with the definition of a good society.
03:09So that we know what a good society is.
03:12What Islam has taught us.
03:16What is a good society?
03:18How do you see the importance of a good society and good morals?
03:26Thank you, Zainab.
03:27In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Ever Merciful.
03:29May God bless his beloved.
03:31Verily, you are of a great moral character.
03:34Verily, Allah is the Lord of the Great.
03:35The morals of the Prophet are called the great morals.
03:40When we talk about a good society,
03:42let's first define what a good society is.
03:46In the Holy Quran, the word used is,
03:51O' Jinn and their group.
03:53So, the word used is for a group.
03:56Similarly, the word for a nation is also called a group.
04:00They will not change their condition until they change themselves.
04:04God has not changed the condition of a nation.
04:07There is no one who can change their condition.
04:11So, the word used for a nation, a society,
04:14or ten out of ten,
04:18even if you take it from ten, it is a group
04:21that has something in common.
04:24The land is in common, the color is in common, the generation is in common,
04:28there is religion and language.
04:29A society is formed when a human group
04:33is united and united
04:36based on a common natural value.
04:39Now, if you think about it, a society is one of the basic needs of a human being.
04:44It is a natural need of a human being.
04:46When a human being is born, he cannot grow up on his own.
04:48He needs his parents.
04:50He needs a society.
04:52Then, Allah made man the best of creation.
04:55Allah made man the best of creation.
04:58He is the leader of all creation.
05:01He is the king, the ruler, the conqueror.
05:03He controls everyone.
05:05And if you look at him, he is the only weak one.
05:09He cannot face his enemies alone.
05:13So, on one hand, it is his natural need to get food, clothing, shelter,
05:17treatment, and other things that other people need.
05:20Secondly, it is his need to protect himself from his enemies.
05:23Although he is the leader, he is the king,
05:25but his kingship and abilities work only when he is in a group.
05:30Right.
05:30He has some abilities and some abilities of others.
05:33He uses those abilities together.
05:35And he has the ability, strength, and courage to rule the world.
05:40Right.
05:41So, he needs to protect himself from his enemies.
05:43Whether he lives in the desert, in the jungle, or near the springs,
05:47he has to stay in a group to protect himself from his enemies.
05:50Then, there is another thing, the survival of the human race.
05:52In order to increase his progeny, he needs a society.
05:56When men and women meet, the progeny will increase.
05:59So, this society that comes into existence, the existence of a group,
06:03becomes exemplary when it follows the golden principles of Islam.
06:09Right.
06:09Every group has set some principles for itself.
06:12But remember, they are based on some interests,
06:16when a person himself fulfills them.
06:20What is Islam?
06:20It is the religion given by Allah.
06:24Allah has given the fundamental principles.
06:27What are those principles?
06:28Love, compassion, sympathy, kindness,
06:32mutual understanding,
06:34eliminating hatred and enmity,
06:36holding hands, helping each other,
06:39taking care of the weak.
06:41What happens with these?
06:42A society comes into existence that is also organized.
06:46A society that has principles.
06:48A society that is civilized.
06:50Its principles and laws make it civilized.
06:54And remember, the highest civilization is that of Islam.
06:57So, Islam organized that society.
07:01It made it civilized and stable.
07:04When the principles of Islam work within that society,
07:08whether it is the Islamic economic principles, social principles,
07:11social principles, religious principles, political principles,
07:16which prevail in a society,
07:18then the society becomes strong,
07:20prosperous, stable.
07:23All these qualities come into existence in that society
07:26when the principles of Islam are followed.
07:30Then we call that society an exemplary society.
07:33We call it an Islamic successful society.
07:36In which those morals were bound.
07:39With which a society became used to order and discipline.
07:44And if you look at it, our entire religion,
07:46even though it is a system of worship,
07:48it taught us equality, it taught us unity,
07:51it taught us to be in line with each other,
07:54fasting made us feel each other.
07:56Zakat brought wealth to others.
07:59So, the entire system of Islam
08:02made the society stable.
08:05Sister, as you are saying,
08:07if we make this exemplary society a practical society,
08:12then the society will be so beautiful.
08:14Beautiful.
08:15It will be beautiful.
08:16You are right, it is an exemplary society.
08:18Ayesha, tell us, for the establishment of an exemplary society,
08:21what are the basic morals
08:23that need to be followed,
08:26that are necessary, what do you say?
08:28I seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Satan.
08:29In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful.
08:31Peace be upon the best of creation,
08:33Muhammad and his family and companions.
08:36Thank you very much.
08:37You have asked a very good question.
08:39See, Allah Almighty made all of us the noblest of all creation.
08:43And by making us the noblest of all creation,
08:45with the same excellence, He made us His deputies on earth.
08:50Now, when He made us His deputies,
08:52then for the establishment of an exemplary society,
08:57what we need to do is that as Muslims,
09:01as humans, as the noblest of all creation,
09:05we all have different responsibilities.
09:07We all have a role to play in all of this.
09:10You spoke about the foundation.
09:12What is the foundation?
09:13The foundation on which the whole building is built.
09:16On which the whole building stands.
09:19When we talk about the foundation,
09:21what is our foundation?
09:22Our foundation is the religion of Islam.
09:24Our foundation is the religion of Islam.
09:26And what is the religion of Islam?
09:28We have to do all the things
09:30that Allah and His Messenger have told us,
09:32the commandments that have been given to us.
09:34When we do all these things,
09:36when we walk holding the rope of Allah and His Messenger,
09:39then we will surely do all the things
09:42that are right, that are permissible,
09:44that are on the right path, and that we will take on the straight path.
09:47Justice and justice, compassion,
09:49obedience, culture, love,
09:53all of these things, all of these attributes,
09:57by doing which we can certainly form an exemplary society.
10:01But, we are talking about the present time,
10:04we are sitting right now, we are talking here.
10:06So, you see that right now,
10:08the color, the generation, the language, the sectarianism,
10:11what happens to them?
10:12A prejudice has started to arise.
10:15We have to end all these things.
10:18And how will we end all these things?
10:20We will end it in such a way that we should have an intellectual life
10:23and that purpose should be awakened,
10:26which has been told to us, which has been taught to us.
10:29In Surah Al-Hajj, verse number 77, Allah, the Lord of Glory, says,
10:33O ye who believe, prostrate yourselves before Me and worship My Lord.
10:37Allah says, O ye who believe, prostrate yourselves before Me and worship My Lord.
10:42And do all that which pleases Me.
10:46That is, when we do all the work for Allah,
10:50then certainly a society will be formed well.
10:52Because a person cannot form a society.
10:54All people are found, a group is found, a nation is found,
10:57everyone is found, then a society is formed.
11:00In those principles, in those things, and those fundamental things
11:04on which we will build our society, what is that?
11:07The very first principle is that whoever is a human being,
11:11whoever is a human being, whether it is a bird or an animal,
11:14everyone's life, wealth, blood,
11:18we have to respect it, we have to understand it.
11:22We cannot kill anyone, we cannot kill anyone.
11:25We don't have to do all these things.
11:27We have to give the status of humanity.
11:29So, whether it is from any nation, any sect, or any human being,
11:35but if we see that someone is hungry,
11:37then we don't have to think about what his sect is,
11:40or what nation he belongs to, who he is.
11:43We have to go and feed him.
11:44If there are no clothes on someone's body, we have to make him wear clothes.
11:47If someone is sick in front of us, if someone is injured,
11:50if someone is a woman, if someone is a child, if someone is weak,
11:53then what happens in our society, we throw our clothes on the weak.
11:56But we don't have to do this, this is the principle.
11:59We don't have to do this.
12:01Someone is black, someone is white, someone is English,
12:04someone is less educated, someone is more educated.
12:07We have to end this difference.
12:09The difference between Arabs and non-Arabs has been ended.
12:12We have to end this difference, this is also the basic principle.
12:15We have to invite goodness, and stop evil.
12:20And if we have to do Jihad in all these things, then we have to do Jihad.
12:25When we do all these things,
12:26then surely, this is the basic principle that the religion of Islam is telling us.
12:31Because the religion of Islam is a complete order.
12:36And Allah Almighty is telling us in the Holy Quran,
12:39O Muslims, O believers,
12:42I have chosen this religion for you, and I have also completed this religion for you.
12:46It is a chosen religion.
12:48So when all the things are in front of us,
12:51then we have to act on it.
12:52Surely, an exemplary society will be established.
12:55We have to take care of each and every person in this society without discrimination, color, or race.
13:02Let's take a break and come back after the break.
13:05Peace and blessings of Allah be upon you.
13:08After the break, once again, I welcome all of you.
13:12We are talking about morals and society.
13:16And with us, we have a guest who is also very famous for his eloquence.
13:21What did the Prophet of Allah say?
13:26The Prophet of Allah said,
13:29I have been sent to complete the moral principles.
13:34So you see, our religious teachings,
13:37the blessed life of the Prophet of Allah,
13:41his good life,
13:43are the best example for us.
13:45And with this connection, we will continue to talk.
13:48Doctor Sahiba is with us.
13:50Please tell us, how does good morals
13:54affect a person's personality?
14:02Thank you, Zainab.
14:04In the name of Allah, the most Beneficent, the most Merciful.
14:05You see, the way you started,
14:07the purpose of the Prophet of Allah's advent is to complete the moral principles.
14:13So, morals are dominant in every aspect of our life.
14:18And every aspect of our life is bound to them.
14:21Then, if you notice,
14:23we have limited our morals.
14:26To speak with love,
14:28to put a sweet smile on one's face,
14:30these are called morals.
14:32See, morals are not that limited.
14:34The emotions of the heart, the thoughts,
14:37the desires that are inside,
14:40the whole personality of a person comes out of them.
14:43It is the name of that whole group.
14:45It is not just about putting a smile on one's face.
14:47Now, someone has put a smile on your face,
14:49and is speaking sweetly to you.
14:51But, inside, there is enmity,
14:52there is hostility,
14:53they are conspiring against you.
14:55And, if we say that they are very good-natured,
14:58no.
14:59That is why, the scholars,
15:00the internal emotions, thoughts,
15:03the desires that are born inside,
15:05when the whole group of them comes out,
15:09that is when morals are formed.
15:10Then, if you see, all our morals
15:13are dominated by the system.
15:15You have to live inside your family,
15:17you have a family life,
15:19you have a social life,
15:20you have a social life,
15:21your birth, death, happiness, sorrow,
15:23everything is dominated by morals.
15:26Then, if you go out into the society,
15:28you have to deal with others,
15:30you have to deal with matters of business or politics,
15:33all of them are dominated by morals.
15:36If you look at it, any field of life,
15:38whether it is a trader, a shopkeeper, a tailor,
15:41or whether it is a doctor, an engineer,
15:43or whether it is a farmer, a student, or a teacher,
15:46everywhere, in every field of life,
15:50morals play a fundamental role.
15:52No doubt.
15:53Then, if you look at it in another way,
15:55look, morals are two parts of a person,
15:58of a person's personality.
15:59One is materialistic and the other is spiritual.
16:01The materialistic one appears to be eating food.
16:04Right.
16:04The spiritual one is not visible.
16:06Yes.
16:06But, the one who creates that materialism
16:08is a spiritual person.
16:09Right.
16:10And, that spiritual person has a very strong and deep connection with morals.
16:14Right.
16:15And, what are morals?
16:16You did a good deed, you did a good deed.
16:19So, you did that good deed after thinking about it.
16:21You thought, I am not lying, I am speaking the truth.
16:24Right.
16:24It is a good deed.
16:25You thought, I don't want to steal.
16:28It is his property, I don't want to take it.
16:29Now, what is this?
16:30Whatever good deed you are doing,
16:32do it after thinking about it.
16:33So, this deed was done through the Quran.
16:35It was done through Sunnah.
16:37Now, it has not become morals.
16:39When do you become moral?
16:40When you do a deed continuously, continuously.
16:44You do it so much that your tongue can't lie.
16:46It becomes a habit.
16:47It becomes a habit.
16:49And, the habit should be such that
16:51as soon as you touch the iron,
16:53the hot iron pulls it away.
16:55Right.
16:56So, your morals should be such that
16:58you are always feeling sorry for others.
17:01You are feeling sympathy for others.
17:03You are helping others.
17:06Emotions are for others' well-being,
17:09love, and affection.
17:11Any individual.
17:13So, you have widened the circle.
17:15When the believers are of Allah,
17:18Allah says, the creation is my dome.
17:20Allah is.
17:21So, the creation is his dome.
17:23So, for all the creation,
17:24when your hands and your heart are wide open,
17:28when you are broadened,
17:31then you are qualified to be called a human being.
17:33These are the morals that make a human being greater than animals.
17:38They give them greatness.
17:40They give them pride.
17:42These are the morals
17:43that have been a part of every religion and every society.
17:45Right.
17:46If you go to any society,
17:48the one who is kind,
17:49the one who is brave,
17:51he has a name.
17:52He has a reputation.
17:53He is loved.
17:55But, the one who is greedy, selfish,
17:58the one who has greed,
18:00he doesn't have respect in his heart.
18:02And this has always been a part of the human society.
18:06That a good result of good morals is found in the world.
18:10So, Islam has set great rewards for him.
18:13That this is not just this world, this is temporary.
18:15The world is short.
18:16It has to end.
18:18So, in those moments, this good deed of yours will come in handy
18:21which you do for the betterment of the creation of God.
18:23And even if you do it a little,
18:25you will get countless rewards and rewards for it.
18:27Sister, what I have understood is that
18:33one thing is that by looking at the other person,
18:35we adopt a polite attitude.
18:39That is not morality, that is politeness.
18:41We have to make our entire personality,
18:43our entire being, beneficial for others.
18:47So that our entire personality,
18:49our entire being,
18:50every action, every act
18:52is for the betterment of others.
18:55That is, to harm someone, our being.
18:58Ayesha, you are present.
18:59Now, in this age, when we look at our entire society, Ayesha,
19:03we see a lot of immoralities rising in our society.
19:08We don't even know what is wrong with them.
19:10That is, they have gone so far
19:12that perhaps we don't even consider them bad today.
19:15What would you say to this question?
19:17In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
19:18You have asked a very good question.
19:19As we have said before,
19:21that an exemplary society, a good society,
19:24in what circumstances can it be formed?
19:26There should be justice and balance,
19:27there should be human compassion,
19:28there should be respect for rights.
19:30When all these things are there,
19:32then the immoralities, lies, deception, deception,
19:35all these things will end automatically.
19:38But because this age is going on now,
19:41it is such a delicate, such a turbulent age,
19:43that this age is a time of destruction.
19:47That is, if we are not considering immoralities as bad,
19:51then the meaning of the Hadeeth-e-Pak is
19:53that the Prophet of Allah, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said,
19:55if you are seeing something bad,
19:58then you should stop that evil with your hand.
20:02But if you do not have the ability to stop it with your hand,
20:05you cannot stop it, then you should stop it with your tongue.
20:07But if you cannot stop it with your tongue,
20:10then you should know evil in your heart.
20:12And if you cannot do this, then you are very weak.
20:16This is being told to us.
20:18Today, we see that the biggest reason for our moral vices is our home.
20:25Because a family is formed from a home,
20:28then a generation grows from a family,
20:30then it becomes a tribe, a community.
20:32When one family meets another family,
20:34then a community, a community, a society is formed.
20:38In our homes, first of all,
20:39the vices of these immoralities, the immoralities that are arising,
20:43their control is over.
20:47Like if you go to the previous society,
20:49if you go to the previous era,
20:50then the previous elders used to make their children sit,
20:54make them understand, they used to be parents.
20:56Especially the status of the father there,
21:00or the character of the father used to be that
21:03he used to be free from all his work and used to sit with his children.
21:06And not just one child, not even two children,
21:09there were so many children.
21:11To make them understand everything, to tell them everything,
21:15to teach them everything, all these things used to happen.
21:17But now you see, what happens today,
21:19the head of our house, the husband,
21:22he is running around first of all,
21:24that he just has to earn money, he comes home in the morning, at night.
21:27He is not aware of what his children are doing,
21:30how their moral training is going on,
21:32whether it is happening or not.
21:33We have become free from all these things.
21:35Then we see the educational institutions, we see the schools.
21:39So today see how difficult it was for us
21:43that Islam arose in Pakistan.
21:46Pakistan means La ilaha illa Allah.
21:49When we made Pakistan for this purpose,
21:52that Islam will arise here, but you see the condition of our educational institutions.
21:57You see the environment here, we are completely surrounded by the West.
22:02We have come under the influence of the West.
22:04Although we should not have been like this.
22:06We have forgotten everything.
22:111400 years ago, the teachings, the religion that was given to us,
22:16that Allah the Lord of Glory, through His Beloved Prophet,
22:20through him, justice, modesty, justice,
22:22that is, the arrival of the Prophet, why did it happen?
22:25That the Prophet came and showed the way to the misguided,
22:30those who were lost, he brought them on the straight path and made them stand.
22:33Through the blessing of Allah, light was brought into the world,
22:36every atom of light was brought into the world.
22:38But what happened? We forgot all these things.
22:40Now the era of social media has come.
22:42Nowadays, what is not happening on social media.
22:45Every evil, that is, the British, we are talking about the West,
22:48the British invented it for their own work.
22:52But what did we do?
22:53We made it a means of our game.
22:56Today we are playing with it.
22:57And you see, today it is held in the hands of small children.
23:02So we are not doing moral training.
23:03We are doing moral training on mobile.
23:05So many things come on mobile.
23:07We have forgotten all these things.
23:09We have forgotten all these things and we do not consider them bad.
23:14Hazrat Tamim Dari R.A says that the Prophet said,
23:20that religion is pure advice.
23:22If we are firm on religion, if we firmly hold on to the rope of religion,
23:26we will be saved from all these things.
23:28Or if we read this hadith and not only read it but understand it,
23:34that Allah, the Lord of Glory, through His beloved Prophet,
23:39told us that on the Day of Resurrection,
23:42every responsibility will be questioned.
23:44We talked about responsibility, it is our responsibility.
23:47So every responsibility will be questioned.
23:48The Imam will be questioned about his subjects.
23:51If he is a husband, then his house and his wife,
23:55because he is under his mother, will be questioned.
23:57If he is a wife, then the house of his husband
24:01and his children will be questioned.
24:04And if he is a slave and he has the wealth of his master,
24:08then he will be questioned.
24:09We should know this, it is our responsibility.
24:13Then we will understand everything by ourselves.
24:15We will not need it.
24:16SubhanAllah, without a doubt.
24:17That is, where did you earn the wealth, where did you spend it,
24:20on whom did you spend it, how did you spend it?
24:23We have to answer every question.
24:25We will be questioned about our family from head to toe.
24:30So, the question that we have been given,
24:34how easy it is, that the religion of Islam is such an easy religion,
24:39that we have been given the question mark,
24:41and even after that we are not able to prepare.
24:44So, at least prepare for it.
24:46Let us take a break, we will be back.
24:48Peace be upon you.
24:51After the break, once again, we welcome you all.
24:55We are talking about morals and society.
25:00And in reality, if we look at our society,
25:04and it is being said again and again,
25:06that you and I make a society,
25:09then if a single person, according to his abilities,
25:12improves himself, his habits,
25:15improves his behavior,
25:17then certainly, the house,
25:19and the whole society can be established on the highest standards.
25:23Now, as we talked about an exemplary society,
25:25then for the completion of that exemplary society,
25:28a single person will have to take the first step.
25:32Now, when we talk about what is the harm of this,
25:36when we talk about anything,
25:39if we do not improve our behavior,
25:41our society has become a victim of so many moral vices,
25:45then it is obvious that our relations,
25:47our siblings have become distant from us,
25:49our loved ones have become distant from us,
25:51our relations have turned into disputes,
25:54the whole society is suffering a lot of loss because of this.
25:58Doctor Sahiba, you are present with us,
26:01when a society becomes devoid of moral values,
26:06when we completely deprive ourselves of all moral values,
26:11what is the outcome of such a society?
26:13We can clearly see what the outcome is.
26:15What would you like to say?
26:17Thank you, Zainab.
26:20If we look at your ignorance,
26:22in the Holy Quran, Allah says,
26:24what was the situation?
26:26There was disorder in the sea and in the land.
26:28There was disorder in the sea and in the land.
26:33Today, when we leave Islam,
26:36and we ignore the golden principles of Islam,
26:40then our society becomes a picture of re-establishment.
26:45And we see that we are morally victim of destruction,
26:50and we are presenting a picture of a society like a jungle.
26:53Zainab, look, any society
26:56in which you start enjoying the oppression, oppression, and the pain of others,
27:02this is a sign of the extreme moral decline of the society,
27:07that it has become a society like animals.
27:09And this is what is happening in our society today.
27:11I will not name names,
27:13but what all situations are found, all of them are telling us,
27:16that the indifference is increasing,
27:19the indifference of the poor is increasing,
27:22which is increasing their frustration.
27:24The peace has ended, there is insecurity, there is unrest.
27:28In every sector, no one is at peace anywhere.
27:32Even though they have accumulated a lot of wealth,
27:34they still do not have peace.
27:36And those who do not have it,
27:38they are getting entangled in its greed and envy.
27:40From big investors to the lowest,
27:44you will find moral decline everywhere.
27:47Those Muslims who should have been special,
27:50honesty, trustworthiness,
27:52fulfilling promises, speaking the truth.
27:55This was the sign of hypocrisy,
27:57that the Prophet Muhammad said,
28:00that if you speak, you will lie,
28:01if you promise, you will not fulfill,
28:03if you get trust, you will not be faithful.
28:05Today, all those bad things have become commonplace among us.
28:08The result of which is that a person, on an individual level,
28:12is a victim of anxiety,
28:14and on a collective level,
28:15he does not get that feeling of peace and contentment.
28:19So the question arises, how will that society be changed?
28:23Look, it is a very beautiful thing that Allah,
28:25for 24 hours and 7 days,
28:28has kept the door of repentance open.
28:30This is not just the door of repentance,
28:32this is the door of mercy, the door of blessings,
28:35the door of the cool winds of paradise,
28:37the door of its light.
28:39So when a person turns back, the moment he comes,
28:42the mercy begins.
28:45So when a single person stands up,
28:47the change in the society begins.
28:50And the real purpose of bringing about change in the society
28:53is to give an exemplary society to future generations.
28:58So all the corruption and disorder,
29:00all of it will be negated,
29:02when every one of us,
29:03with the flag of religion,
29:05with the flag of faith,
29:07stands up with strength,
29:08then there is no cowardice,
29:09then there is no weakness,
29:10then there is no corruption,
29:12then there is the determination to face oppression,
29:14and the courage and strength to face it.
29:17It is the highest sign of faith,
29:18that if you see evil,
29:19then at least try to stop it.
29:21So that is ending.
29:23At least, even though we know evil in our hearts,
29:25we sit down and agree with it,
29:27that I consider it evil in my heart.
29:29No, this will not be accepted now.
29:32Look, history tells us,
29:34that there was a settlement of Bani Israel,
29:35in which a few people used to worship.
29:37The order was to pick up this settlement
29:39and throw it on their heads.
29:41So the angels asked them,
29:42that Lord, they are worshipping you.
29:44So they said,
29:45that they are busy in their worship,
29:46in earning their paradise.
29:48They have no interest in society,
29:49what is happening.
29:50So this is the situation today,
29:51that the righteous people,
29:52who are sitting inside,
29:53and are doing their worship,
29:55and their glorification,
29:56they have to take care,
29:57that the responsibility of improving the society,
29:59is also ours, it is everyone's.
30:00That is, we will have to stop it with our hands.
30:02We will have to stop it.
30:04And every conscious person,
30:06every one who understands,
30:07whom Allah has given guidance,
30:09whom He has given consciousness,
30:10if they leave their pleasures,
30:13we don't come out of our comfort zone.
30:15We don't want to leave it.
30:17So until we don't leave it,
30:19we can't even get the pleasure of Allah.
30:21So a matter of faith,
30:23a matter of Islam,
30:24a matter of Huzoor,
30:25if we have to do it like this,
30:26like crazy people,
30:27then the right of loyalty will be fulfilled.
30:30So even if we have to give our life,
30:32we should give it.
30:34The right is that the right is fulfilled.
30:37To stop this disorder and disorder,
30:39we need a strong force.
30:41Which all of us can make.
30:43Inshallah, Inshallah.
30:45Try to do it yourself.
30:47And just like ARYQ TV,
30:50we are also trying to do it.
30:51If we start with our own reformation,
30:54then Inshallah,
30:55this program,
30:55these things of yours,
30:57will affect the hearts of girls, sisters,
30:59and somewhere or the other,
31:01we will be forced to take such a first step.
31:05Hafizah Ayesha will say,
31:07that in the Holy Quran,
31:09what are the principles of good society?
31:13What do you have to say in this regard?
31:14In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, Ever Merciful.
31:16As we all know,
31:18that the Holy Quran is complete guidance,
31:22it is the law of life.
31:23If you have a matter of trade,
31:26a matter of society,
31:27a matter of grief,
31:29a matter of sorrow in your life,
31:29if you have any problem,
31:31if you have to ask anything,
31:33if you pick up the Holy Quran,
31:34you will get the answer.
31:35No doubt, no doubt.
31:36When we look at the Holy Quran with the question of good society,
31:40then in the Holy Quran,
31:41the 26th chapter,
31:42Surah Al-Hujurat,
31:44it is a Surah of 18 verses to say,
31:47but in this Surah,
31:49Allah, the Lord of Glory,
31:50with complete beauty,
31:53has told us the principles of good society.
31:55No doubt, no doubt.
31:56And there are such principles,
31:57that when we start reading them,
32:00when we start looking at them,
32:01then we will be forced to think,
32:04that we are doing this work every day,
32:06which Allah is forbidding us to do.
32:08Allah is telling us in that Surah,
32:10that no one should be given ease.
32:12The first principle of good society is that
32:14no one should be given ease.
32:16Today, we see that while getting up,
32:17sitting, sleeping,
32:19we are busy hurting others.
32:21Sometimes we hurt someone with our tongue,
32:25sometimes we hurt someone with our hands,
32:26sometimes we hurt someone in a certain way,
32:28we hurt someone by taking something from someone,
32:30we hurt someone by abusing someone,
32:32we hurt someone by accusing someone.
32:34It is our duty to give ease to the person in front of us.
32:38We don't know that with our tongue,
32:41they say that the wound of your sword heals,
32:45but the wound of your tongue never heals,
32:47because it hurts the heart.
32:49The first principle is that
32:50no one should be given ease in society.
32:52The second principle is being told to us,
32:54that if there is a fight among each other,
32:56then there should be reconciliation.
32:57Now think that those who live around us,
33:00if someone finds out that there is a fight between two people,
33:03they don't come to reconcile,
33:04but they come and try to create war and disorder.
33:09Sometimes they speak from one side,
33:11sometimes from the other side,
33:12although we are being stopped from this.
33:14If we get rid of this,
33:16then the fight will definitely end
33:19and there will be reconciliation among each other.
33:21That is, we have to say that,
33:23if we see two people fighting,
33:25then we have to go and we have to say that,
33:27so that there is reconciliation between the two,
33:29and there is no fight among each other.
33:32The third thing we have to do,
33:33if we see that there is oppression,
33:36to know oppression is equal to Jihad.
33:40That is, if we see that there is oppression,
33:42and we raise our voice,
33:44and we try to stop it,
33:46then we are successful.
33:47But if we keep seeing oppression as oppression,
33:51and we don't say anything to it,
33:52we don't raise our voice,
33:53then the oppression that is happening,
33:55we will also be called oppressors.
33:56That is, the person who is doing it,
33:58but we are seeing it,
34:00and even after seeing it, we are silent.
34:01So, believe me,
34:02if we are silent after seeing that oppression happening,
34:05then we will be called oppressors.
34:06We are being told in Surah Al-Hujurat of the Holy Qur'an,
34:10that if you want to see oppression happening,
34:12then we have to end it.
34:14Okay, then if a person comes to you,
34:16he is coming with a complaint,
34:17he is an oppressor,
34:18then we have to listen to his complaint.
34:20We don't have to make fun of him.
34:22We are also being told,
34:23that you have to listen to his complaint,
34:25you have to speak in support of him.
34:27If you see someone inferior to you,
34:30all these things are being told.
34:32If we refrain from these things,
34:34if we stop,
34:35then our society will keep getting better.
34:38These are bad things, these are immoralities,
34:40we can call them flaws,
34:42but if we have to stop them,
34:43then we have to understand this.
34:45If someone looks poor to you,
34:47looks inferior,
34:49don't make fun of him.
34:50You don't have to taunt anyone.
34:52We taunt people these days.
34:55You talk to the other person in such a way,
34:58that the person in front of you
34:59becomes helpless in thinking.
35:01We have to avoid misunderstandings.
35:02We don't have to be proud of ourselves
35:04because of pride and arrogance.
35:08We have to avoid all these things.
35:10And the last and most important thing,
35:13we have to try,
35:14we have to look into our own trap.
35:16We don't have to look for other people's flaws.
35:19This was also said in Surah Al-Hujurat.
35:21You don't look for other people's flaws.
35:23Because Allah says,
35:24whoever tries to cover up a person,
35:27I will cover him up on the Day of Judgment.
35:29Allah is the One who covers up.
35:33And when we look at our sins,
35:36our character,
35:37and our actions,
35:39we don't get a chance to look at others.
35:43Doctor Sahiba,
35:44thank you very much for coming.
35:46I am very thankful.
35:47I am very grateful to you, Ayesha.
35:49Thank you for coming.
35:49We had a very good conversation from both sides.
35:52And believe me,
35:55I have this desire in my heart,
35:56that our society,
35:59which sees our deteriorating condition every day,
36:03my heart cries a lot.
36:04It is in a lot of pain.
36:06Is this our religion?
36:07Are these our teachings?
36:09Are we turning away from them?
36:10Are we turning back?
36:11Come back, there is still time.
36:13Scholars say,
36:14religious scholars say,
36:16that we are going through this last phase.
36:18So there is still time.
36:20There is still time.
36:22Come back to your essence.
36:24Because when we move away from our essence,
36:26we are left with nothing.
36:28With this, I would like to give permission to my guest, Syeda Zainab.
36:31May God be with you.
36:54May God be with you.

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