90 Day - The Last Resort S2 Episode 8 - Last Minute Invitation
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00:00I
00:01Feel this anxiety now so bad previously on 90 day the last resort two years ago
00:07I go Russia and I take whole facility test and
00:11Them say I can't have a kids
00:15What?
00:19You know that you've hurt me so bad over the years
00:22And I just want you to admit that what you've done has really hurt me and destroyed me. I
00:28Believe that he cheated when I was pregnant with Avi if he doesn't acknowledge the past mistakes
00:34Then we can't move on until we fix it. Are you came for fixes this relationship? I came to tell the way of life
00:40I don't swear my son's life not like you
00:50No, he's me no, I don't want you right now later
00:58I love him, but the only possible solution to save our marriage is to open it up to someone else
01:11What we are what you and I what we are I think that's why we're here trying to figure it out
01:20You have to allow your partner to have feelings in the same way you do
01:23Can we stop if you need another therapist to because you are sexual therapist, so we do sexual therapy as we discussed
01:31Okay. Thank you
01:53I
02:24I
02:31Yeah, you ready let me let's do it
02:38Oh
02:51Because we won the row and throw tonight we are gonna stay in the honeymoon sweet
02:56Sweet is look beautiful as look like castle. Look at oh my god
03:03Fireplace
03:05And after that's very hard day yesterday and I started sharing it's a possibility I can have children I
03:13need a mental
03:15rest
03:16absolutely
03:18That's his whole table for dance for me. Look at that like
03:27Where's the master bedroom, that's where the magic's gonna happen. Is this it?
03:35God
03:44This is our honeymoon, this is the honeymoon
03:54Pop the bubbly what it I mean, I was hoping tonight we'll get some intimate time
04:02You know, we haven't had any romantic time in a while but looks like we're gonna have a party instead I
04:09Decide to have a party because we all working so hard
04:13We all emotionally down and I thinking so we deserve to have a somebody for all of us
04:20That's that's room make me feel something romantic and desire. What do you mean? I have to
04:26I
04:29Couldn't just have a little
04:31You know pre-party. I promise we are
04:34We'll be have some sexual stuff after our party done. But now we need to be ready. I promise
04:40Every single day promise. Oh, yeah later. Oh, yeah later. Oh tomorrow. I promise tomorrow never comes
04:47I promise and I want
04:53I
04:55Think it is a romantic place is beautiful, but
04:59But maybe more than that
05:01Put me in a mood. It's the honeymoon sweet
05:04This is where people are supposed to the night after they get married, you know
05:07This isn't gonna do it for you. There's no this is what it's called. Honey. Yeah
05:12God, I need this rose petals on the bed. Good. I just get it. I
05:17Need put pizza there. That's make me put in the moon. That's that's what we should have put there
05:22Okay
05:24Let's have a party after that we have whole night for this room. We're gonna have sexy time
05:30Why the sexy time? Okay deal. Yeah, that's all I want. That's all I want. I
05:36Love you
05:42You are horny little creature
05:54You
06:08Are you doing just have fun welcome. Thank you
06:15Yesterday was so intense at the row and throw, you know, a lot of emotions running high and even though we had a great day
06:23We still have a lot of issues
06:25So today Flory and I are going to a special therapy session with Rob and Sophie
06:30We see this box with all these little figurines. I don't know. What is this to be honest?
06:34Like I'm thinking like it's getting a guy there. What is this basically like very like
06:39strange
06:41Hi Rob, I guess. What's up? What's up?
06:45Morning, how are you? I'm good. You good. Thank you. Hi beautiful. So I'm
06:52I think Flory and I were paired with Rob and Sophie because at the row and throw I noticed that we had similar
07:00Issues we had communication issues. So I feel like the therapist set up this therapy today
07:08Because this is what we need to deal with
07:13Welcome everybody. I'm so pleased to introduce to you Sarah Malone
07:17She is a clinical hypnotherapist spiritual healer teacher and life coach
07:23Thank you
07:24Well, hello everyone. I am Sarah. Thank you Heidi for that introduction. Go ahead and lift your trays today
07:30We're going to be using a tool called sand tray therapy
07:35With the pieces that you have next to you you're gonna build a picture tell a story in the sand
07:42Representing the journey of your relationship as you see it as you feel it as you experience it
07:48Really I want you to use your imagination as much as possible with this and then we'll talk about it
07:55Sand tray therapy is a form of therapy that uses very little to no dialogue until the picture is created
08:01And so it gets their hands involved. It gets their body involved and most importantly it helps them to express
08:08What's going on inside without using the words that they may not be able to find
08:14To get started. I just want to get some familiarity with the process
08:18So we're gonna start with light. What I want you to do is draw a line down the middle of the sandbox and
08:23let's just create with the pieces that you have available a
08:27Particularly happy or funny hilarious moment that you've experienced you can remember in your relationship
08:37Sarah is you know, she's a new therapist and she's got some unique
08:43Methods, I'm curious though. I like the idea of
08:48Using this all of these toys to to like paint a picture
08:52That's kind of like exactly what I was always kind of good at when I was a kid and I'll be like in art class
08:56And stuff and it gives me a chance also because Sophie is so hyper sensitive to just like the way I say something
09:02So I like the idea of like painting a picture with these toys in the sand where I can kind of say what I want
09:08To say without saying it and maybe
09:11Get away with saying it
09:14Laurie and pick pieces intuitively
09:17Just pick them. Don't think about them. You put you pick that one. He's one in this one. Okay
09:25So much toys saying I don't know I never play pretend to be honest with you
09:30I never imagination myself. Like I never play with myself. I
09:34Don't need to imagine this I have bunch of kids bunch of friends there, you know and play outside, you know need the imagination
09:44So go ahead and share with us
09:46So I chose the the granny on the Walker because sometimes when I talk to flaring about our age difference because I'm 17 years older
09:53Than him. He's like don't worry one day when you're old. I'll change your diapers and you know, take care of you
09:59So, you know
10:01Florian what's your moment? My moment is
10:05This Stacy and I tickle her and go sleep tickles me every night to go to sleep. Yeah, okay
10:11Rob your moment
10:14Well, mine was Sophie comes to America and my country ass with my outhouse bathroom my dog and my sports car
10:23culture shock
10:25Sophie how about yours?
10:27Mine's just a funny memory we had when he came to visit my family in Spain and I took him to a zoo that had
10:34Like a lot about different types of animals and I don't know how but remember the animals escaped and we got chased by a bunch
10:41of the zoo animals
10:47Well, that's hilarious, okay, so you guys get it you see how the process works, right?
10:51You're creating it what's happening in your inside world or what has happened?
10:55Visually beautiful. I love it. I
10:58Was extremely impressed with the couple's ability to grasp what we were doing
11:02I mean they they got it like that. So Rob and
11:07Stacy go ahead and just start to make your picture in the sand
11:11Tapping into the parts of you that are somewhat more difficult and challenging to talk about with words
11:18Now that we've had an opportunity to have something optimistic and light-hearted
11:23It's time to go into some of the more serious and deeper work
11:26And I just hope that they are ready to just see what this process has for them and what it uncovers
11:38Rob do you like to take us through the story?
11:41Well, it all starts out with us getting married with the this is the beach that's why it's blue and
11:48imagining a
11:51nice future together
11:53the Rhino is her mom and the Rhino is
11:57worried about this
12:00golden chest instead of worrying about little baby Sophie and
12:04in our relationship Sophie's mom never wanted to see me as
12:09Someone worthy someone good enough and I am very hurt
12:17Sorry, just one second
12:29Sophie's environment growing up was not healthy for Sophie
12:32Her mom was an addict and her mom has not prioritized
12:37Not prioritized raising Sophie in a way that makes her a
12:42compassionate and considerate partner
12:44she was just doing her and Sophie and her grew up in a house together and it's like and and and I know that by
12:51The time I'm in the picture
12:53All I am is the first thing that's really pulling Sophie away from this entire life
12:58That Sophie's had with with her mom and that makes it impossible for us to be a team and that irks me
13:05So bad because I'm trying to respect her because that's Sophie's mom and all she does is try to destroy my life
13:21Like and I understand, you know
13:24What he put and like like this trash is junk like she's a junkie
13:30she's clean now, but it just brought back a lot and then
13:34It's hard when someone struggles with addiction and I don't want it to affect my marriage
13:41and I don't think that's our main reason but I can see how
13:45It might have affected my life as a baby and then not my marriage and it was difficult
13:55I had my mom my mom was in my life
13:58But when someone's in addiction
14:00It's hard for them to be an actual parent and my mom was more. So my friend not my mom
14:05I basically just raised myself and I think maybe I've underestimated
14:11How much my mom's addiction issues has impacted me as an adult. I don't know how to set boundaries
14:17I don't know how to express my emotions in a healthy way
14:21but
14:22You know
14:27Yeah
14:29Yeah, it's just difficult
14:37That is our bed
14:39Did you already I tried to but I already got rejected
14:42Jenny's wrong. How did you kiss her name? I did you touch her? Yeah, exactly
14:48She's not rejecting me. Come on
14:51I'm gonna get something. I'm not there's gonna be a hot night
14:57Oh
15:19Welcome to our crib
15:22It's like a resort inside the resort
15:27Brandon get the heck out of here. I'm staying here girl. What show me my room? Which one is my room?
15:33Let's go. Come on, fella. I'm glad you invited me. That is our bed. Oh
15:40It's little messy already there did you I tried to but I already got rejected
15:51I
16:06Thought I did the same
16:21I
16:26Love that I'm the first to arrive to this party because I love Julia and Brandon spending time with them
16:33I'm kind of down after having an argument with Gino earlier today as usual
16:39He was rejecting me
16:41So I'm going to the party by myself and I really hope to have fun with everybody else
16:48There's gonna be a hot night
16:51I
17:06The opportunity to see how this situation is affecting
17:11The love of your life is a huge opportunity for you
17:15Not only is it an opportunity for you to heal the relationship and to help your mom by setting boundaries
17:21and to have maybe for the first time ever a
17:26Thriving true love experience with Rob
17:30This is like the first time I'm really even kind of able to get into the issues with Sophie's mom
17:35You know, it's a major issue and it really feels good to to get to talk about it and it not turn into a fight. I
17:44Am more affected by my past and childhood and things and I thought I was and
17:51I really in order for me to be happy with Rob or even just with myself that I need to do more in a work. I
18:00Came into this resort kind of putting 100% of the blame on Rob which even though he does deserve that at the same time
18:08With everything in my past that has also kind of stopped me from having success in my relationships
18:12I'm hoping that things might start to look up from here
18:15Once you've both really been vulnerable with each other without blaming each other
18:18Then I feel like we could focus more on why we're here in the first place
18:22So here's what I'm thinking. I
18:25Understand you don't know what it's gonna look like or how the process is gonna look like that's what we're here for
18:31I'm just wondering if you're willing to put those boundaries up to focus on yourselves and all the other stuff should be
18:38background noise not in the in the foreground and
18:42Let that day start today. Is that something you could do today?
18:47Yeah, yeah
18:51Stacy we'll go ahead and give you an opportunity now to tell your story
18:57This is
18:59family
19:00You know
19:01My dad my mom the helicopter kind of represents our childhood traveling the world
19:07We lived all over the world with our dad's job
19:10my sister
19:12Right here. I have a twin. There's a lot of conflict between
19:17Darcy is her name and we're we work together. We have a company together. I feel like the twin thing is is
19:25an
19:26Issue at times right when you say like, you know calling you in the middle of the night three in the morning like Lori. Yeah
19:34Darcy and Florian have this bond
19:37You know
19:38Buddy buddy, let's go out. Let's hang out late. You know, she'll even call him
19:43He'll call her middle of the night. I'll be in bed. Even sometimes even when Georgie's sleeping
19:49So it's just I don't know like I feel like
19:52I'm the odd man out in my own marriage
19:55She's she's married. She has her own life, but
19:58she recently said something to Florian like
20:02What did she say? Why don't you tell her?
20:05You should be single yeah told it told Florian or yeah
20:12Told you that you should be single. Yeah said to Florian you're better off single basically
20:24What sister does that that's cold
20:26Is
20:29Darcy interested in Florian does Darcy think that Florian's cute does Darcy just really not want her club buddy to ever have to go home
20:37In one way or another it just sounds like Darcy wants Florian for her if she's telling Florian that he should dump
20:44her sister
20:47Heidi what do you think about that? I
20:50Think you have this tangled web with the two of you and your sister
20:54I do think that
20:56You and your sister and even Florian have to do really well with some couples counseling and or family therapy that we could possibly do
21:03here
21:06Yeah, I agree
21:08It's a lot
21:10Yeah, I think that would be extremely helpful yeah, there was
21:15Years and years and years of you know
21:19probably built
21:21pain that we're both harboring and
21:25Florian yeah, what do you think about that? Is that something that you're comfortable with?
21:29I'm comfortable
21:31And then the day like it's my family, you know
21:36I'm really surprised at how I reacted with the sandbox therapy. I got really emotional and
21:42I didn't expect that. I think it brought out a lot of emotions between us both
21:47That were deep inside. We'll see if she can come but I hope the other couples are ready for hurricane Darcy
21:55Darcy coming hanging out with your bestie. I
22:00Find it quite interesting and beautiful that
22:05Actually, these two circumstances are very similar
22:08It feels like these problems are coming from the outside sources that are infiltrating our
22:15Relationship and all the other stuff is supposed to be secondary
22:19You guys thank you so much for today for playing full-out and
22:24And really being real with each other and all of us
22:28Thank you
22:33Wow, that was emotional
22:36I
22:47Help you I should be a sex coach. I'm gonna be there guy
22:52You talk to Jasmine maybe I'll talk to Gino, huh? Oh
22:57I'll be you
22:59That's for me Brandon. I see. Oh, I'd absolutely do that for you
23:01I hate you know for the position he's in because I'm like seriously, bro
23:06Male and men have twice the real estate up here for sex and I don't understand how he can deal
23:14Because I have too many hormones make me want all this
23:19You get hungry and to me sex. It's hungry. You know, I got it
23:25We are in the same boat, yeah, we have the same boat that drives a lot of frustration because I'm up here I'm frustrated I
23:33Feel you I want that crazy sex that hot sex, you know
23:38Just tell me what to take and I will give that to you if I'm gonna tell you what I wanted
23:43You're gonna follow that. No. Yes. Yes, I keep I'm here telling you. Yes, I
23:48You know would talk to me like that
23:54To me
23:58You're gonna teach me today I'm gonna talk to her I promise
24:04Brandon I have your back. Thank you. Let's see. Thank you, Julia
24:09or mode
24:11Tonight don't be a Gino. Yeah, just me. Don't be a G
24:15I
24:26Was under the impression that we were all invited as a group I never hear nobody invite me
24:31For me in my life my father
24:34I
24:42Just hope that it stays
24:58Nice
25:01Well jacuzzi action
25:17What's up, you coming to the jacuzzi? Oh, yeah
25:21Come
25:28Your favorite guy, I'm actually shocked, you know kind of became buddies here, you know have a little you know romance
25:37Romance that is like a bromance like I don't understand that I
25:43Mean, I don't see no romance, but you guys brought it up. Yes, but no like bromance like
25:50That the romance beast like to think there's no romance there's no romance
25:58Come on Gina
26:02Look at ice cozy
26:06Yeah, yeah, let's have fun tonight, you know, I think it's funny. Thank you
26:12You know cheers to you and your family
26:17You know Gino Gino
26:20Tell me how's your day? Well, it was good, but then I ended up getting in
26:27Jasmine I
26:28Think it's not like you having fun. It's jealous like you having fun
26:32I don't feel like I can be myself, you know, like hurry Swan only drama drama drama drama
26:38But I know
26:40Lauren, you know, he came here to work on this relationship. Yeah
26:44It's not always gonna be fun in the Sun, you know
26:48Yeah, it's difficult, you know
26:49like sometimes she can be fun and happy and her she has a great personality at times and then and the second
26:56It's like everything Jekyll and Hyde and then she can instantly turn into the devil
27:05After this big fight this morning, I don't really want to go to the party right now and see Jasmine and get another fight
27:13So I'm good where I'm at chilling in the hot tub
27:16I told her I need consecutive days in a row that things are good between us
27:21one day is not enough and
27:23Jasmine's not getting that and the fact that Jasmine isn't listening to me is frustrating and you know
27:31disrespectful really
27:43I
27:47My frustration would drive me to give you anything you want I want anything I want to give you any what turns you on
27:56What do you like
28:01Come on dance for me
28:09Yeah, come on dance for me what is this
28:13Can I be part of oh, yeah, I'm here. Okay. I don't know that's for us
28:19Go ahead. I don't I'm not
28:24A few minutes ago. My frustration will make me give you anything you want, but prove it, but I'm not a dancer
28:32Okay
28:35Imagine I'm here Brandon. Yeah, let's start. Oh
28:39Take it off baby. Take it off
28:43Now get close to her
29:13Oh
29:14My gosh the things that I do for love. I never expected to see that much of Brandon's ass
29:23But it's funny, you know
29:24He's trying to show to Julia can be wild and he's stepping out of his comfort zone
29:31And then he's doing it because he loved and wants to impress Julia
29:36The guy is trying so hard and how do you so sweet?
29:44I got it. Oh, yes. He's asking it Sam. You're right
29:51What doing Jasmine right now, oh
29:54I think she's at a party the sweet party or whatever party is going on tonight. Julie. I think Julia's having a party
30:02What they invite us?
30:04That is disrespect
30:07What the
30:09I
30:11Never hear nobody invite me. I feel like after this big emotional
30:16therapy session today, I
30:18Forgot, but now that I'm thinking back about it. We were invited to the party
30:24Okay, excuse me boys
30:32I never hear it invites me. Whatever. I remember
30:39What's up, Vinny?
30:42I
30:43Think is very disrespect
30:46You don't invite somebody can call somebody to go to you. You know, it's very old-school. Yes
30:52He likes like old-school telephones, you know with a dial
31:00Hey you coming to my party
31:02If not, let me know now
31:04Somebody want to invite me invite me really no like half-assed inviter, you know, no text messages phone call
31:13Like call people like hear the voice, you know, I know
31:16How fun do you know? Let's stay in a pub here and cozy
31:20Don't worry about everybody
31:36Time to party
31:40We need more people yeah
31:42I'm gonna find some people from outside
31:47Hi guys, hi Julia, oh my god
31:54Looks like you just left your castle over there. Welcome to our castle. Let's go guys
32:06What happened invite us before or no like leftover
32:12I'm gonna go
32:14You can come let's go
32:19Why don't let your go
32:23Why
32:24Like you know, you might be me. Should they invite everybody?
32:31Everybody invites the body right now. No, but I know
32:38No, no, no, no
32:40I
32:41Was under the impression that we were all invited as a group
32:45But I just feel like he is taking it too far. You want to respect yourself, you know
32:51Next time he's going to invite you every time half-ass. Basically you go one time are these people don't care
32:56I'm going to invite again last second
33:01First of all, I come here for Jacuzzi, you know, tell me like somebody invite me
33:05I come to prepare myself to change the clothes, you know my point
33:09Come on with that too late too late. I
33:15Think in Florida and just trying to make something for anybody give attention to him, but I'm not here for this drama
33:24Heart that is how young people not showing heart
33:29Let's go have some drink
33:32Wow, you're really burning it for me. No
33:37Okay, guys Stacy if you want to come you welcome to come change your clothes
33:42I
33:59Know Florian gets a little butthurt at times when you know, he's not personally invited. I mean I get it
34:05He's very old-school
34:06But he's taking it to heart and acting way over-the-top once again and the same thing happened the other night with Jasmine
34:13This is definitely a pattern and it needs to break
34:17quick, I
34:19Don't know. I mean if he keeps acting like this
34:22I don't know if it's worth staying with him because I don't want to be miserable the rest of my life. I
34:27I
34:31Hate people disrespect. I hate people disrespect. I hate people disrespect
34:38What's wrong with you?
34:44We had a conversation this morning and Josh said in his life
34:48He needs stability and you're a little all over the place. What does it mean? Like you're crazy. I
34:55Don't know what to believe anymore
34:57Josh is going around and says different things about our relationship behind my back. It's a clearly bad sign
35:16Yeah, you can be a burrito
35:24Oh
35:29You'd be all right, it'll be okay. Don't you worry?
35:39How you doing you good I
35:43Think you should probably just shut up. Okay
35:49You know after
35:50Sandbox therapy things aren't great, but things aren't like, you know, they're not the worst
35:54So I guess we're okay right now, but I feel like Sophie needs some time to just like process things
36:00I don't want to push her to come to this party tonight if she's not feeling it
36:04So I'll just be solo have some drinks and hang out
36:07You're out of it now though. You just had to roll out of it
36:10Now you want to get back in it
36:20I
36:22Just honestly feel like every time
36:25We have disagreement. He just runs out of resort and he has more important things to do
36:33I don't know. He wouldn't pick up the phone. He wouldn't call back
36:40Josh and I got in a very huge fight at sex therapy and I'm afraid
36:46Because I realized that Josh and I want different things and now I don't even know if he's at the resort anymore
36:53Do you feel like if you call Josh right now?
36:56I
37:11See we're talking about relation. What is it? I cannot even and it's constantly we cannot talk because he's always like that. I
37:20Think I'm asking for the basic bare minimum and nothing
37:24Nothing extra or special. I'm asking for I'm asking be a part of Josh life, which is fair enough after three years
37:31But at this moment, I feel like he wants
37:35Not a future with me
37:37You
37:46Let's get in here have fun. Oh my god
38:04Thanks for inviting me guys
38:08Just thank you. Oh, look at who's here. Oh, oh, you know, oh
38:15What's happening
38:17Look at her sexy dress Wow, you think so
38:25Yeah, oh my gosh Brendan give him beer
38:32It
38:34Was very awkward to see that, you know joins the party and he's pretending like nothing happened and
38:41Once again, I'm not existent for you. No, he's just ignoring me. He's there to connect with
38:48Everybody except for his wife
38:51So typical of him
38:53Wow, this place is so nice in here. Oh, bro. She's the fire outside. Oh, you got fire out there
38:59Come check out my fire. Come on. Come on. Come on. Yeah
39:03So Stacy's not gone. No, she won't come. She just yell out of Stacy and that said what he's doing
39:09It's all what he's doing. I want like listen
39:11Stacy is my friend and I want her to be here
39:16If Florian is a problem Florian is states out of the hell, but Stacy's coming. Yes, let's go and buy her. I
39:24Really feel bad that Stacy has to put on with Florian all the time. Florian is
39:31very mean to her
39:33Very mean and he comes across as a very rude person
39:37But this is your wife and you don't talk to your wife like that and especially such a sweet person
39:43Such a lady like Stacy
39:46Hi beautiful
40:01It is so hot so nice we are waiting for you the mansion I call it a mansion
40:06It is so hot
40:16How possible nobody text you say hey, let's go but do something let's go tonight
40:21You know my point on the brain tonight. Just like yesterday. No, no, no, no. No, no, no
40:27You're the point man. Beautiful. Yes. No, I'm with the brain then
40:32yesterday drinking
40:34Yesterday, drinking shots and everything,
40:36they tell to me, like,
40:37hey, Florian, what do you want to eat?
40:39Tomorrow you're going to have fun,
40:40you're going to make things, you know?
40:42But these people, like, invite before.
40:45Everybody dressing up.
40:46Did you want some come to personal
40:48and ask you to come?
40:49Personal?
40:50Because we invite everybody same time.
40:52No, no, no, no, no, no.
40:54I say loud to everybody.
40:56Like, I listen to what you have to say.
40:58No, no, no.
40:59Please.
41:00No.
41:01Tell me first.
41:02No one received a personal invitation.
41:06Julia and Brandon, they won a prize,
41:09and they were very cool and nice
41:11to invite everyone.
41:13They said it out loud.
41:14I never do remember that.
41:17She invited you, you, you,
41:18but she didn't say, like,
41:20oh, Stacy, yeah.
41:22And I was the first to arrive.
41:25Ma'am, ma'am, I don't remember that.
41:28What do you think,
41:29that you need a formal letter,
41:30Mr. President of Albania?
41:32The ****, you know?
41:34It's childish.
41:35That is the childish **** ever.
41:37You're a grown-ass man.
41:39You know what?
41:40I love Stacy,
41:41but it gives me the impression
41:43that she's not acting like a wife.
41:46She's acting like a mother to him,
41:49and she has babied him so much.
41:52He wants to be treated like,
41:54I am king of the world.
41:56**** you.
41:57You're not.
41:59I like, I like to keep stories straight.
42:02Yeah, yeah, yeah.
42:03For me, in my life,
42:04this is teach my father.
42:06My father teach me to respect people,
42:09especially, like, friends.
42:11Respect people?
42:12You're the most disrespectful
42:13people on earth.
42:14Jeff, Jeff, Jeff, Jeff.
42:15Shut the **** up.
42:16Shut your **** mouth.
42:17What the ****?
42:18Tell me you **** respect
42:19or shut the **** up.
42:21You are the most disrespectful
42:22person on earth.
42:24There you go.
42:25Shut up.
42:26What the ****?
42:27Someone's screaming.
42:28I just hope that Stacey
42:30lift your ass.
42:32You don't deserve a woman like her.
42:34Shut the **** up.
42:35Shut the **** up.
42:36You don't deserve a woman like her.
42:37Chihuahua.
42:38You don't stop.
42:39I'm gonna **** leave.
42:40I'm gonna leave.
42:41You don't stop.
42:42**** you.
42:43**** you, man.
42:44Chihuahua, you on the tree?
42:45You on the tree?
42:46**** you.
42:48You know how to ****.
42:49I'm not **** Stacey, okay?
42:53I'm not **** Stacey.
42:54Stop.
42:55I'm **** Jasmine,
42:57and I'm crazy, dude.
42:58**** you, Chihuahua.
42:59Shut the **** up.
43:12Shut the **** up.
43:13You **** mouth, Chihuahua.
43:18Calling me Chihuahua?
43:20What is wrong with being a...
43:21What is wrong with being a Chihuahua?
43:25There is nothing wrong.
43:26I love Chihuahuas.
43:28Can you guys please explain what the **** is going on?
43:32Because...
43:33He feels disrespected because he did not,
43:36or we did not get a personal invite,
43:38like a phone call or a text message.
43:39No, I...
43:40I do recall Julia mentioning of the therapist.
43:42Yes, everyone.
43:43Everyone.
43:44To the suite.
43:45Yes.
43:46Men, the women, everyone's invited
43:47because we want to share the wealth
43:49because our win is y'all's win.
43:51Because we're here.
43:52I don't understand why he's taking it to the next level.
43:55Literally came out twice to invite us,
43:57but he was already set in his head
43:58he didn't want to go, I think.
43:59Yeah?
44:00Yeah.
44:01I don't know.
44:02I want to help people.
44:03It's ruined now.
44:05It's ruined now.
44:12That's men.
44:13Just call her Chihuahua.
44:14Say, go **** yourself.
44:16If I have to choose between being Florian
44:18or being a Chihuahua...
44:19I love you, Chihuahua.
44:20I love...
44:21Chihuahua.
44:22What?
44:23Yes.
44:31I want us all to get along,
44:33and it breaks my heart
44:34not to see everyone be that way, you know?
44:36I know, I know.
44:37I know, I know.
44:38It happens sometimes, you know?
44:39I know the women, they rage,
44:40they get emotional.
44:42I know.
44:43But maybe we can talk through it.
44:45I think things happen for you.
44:48Yeah?
44:49Meant to be, meant to be,
44:50not meant to be, not meant to be.
44:51But thank you so much.
44:52I appreciate it.
44:53Hey, I'm here for you.
44:55All right, bro.
44:56All right, have fun.
44:57All right.
44:58I'm gonna catch you for breakfast.
44:59Oh, trust me.
45:00Call me for breakfast.
45:01Hey, hey, I'm gonna see you there.
45:02Have fun, have fun for me.
45:04I don't know if I want to be with somebody like you.
45:07Dealing with this all the time.
45:16Florian, you have anger issues.
45:19And it's not just with me.
45:21It's with everyone.
45:22It's a big reason why we came here.
45:25I don't know how we get past this.
45:27I don't know how we figure this out,
45:28because, you know, I can't go on like
45:32just apologizing for your behavior.
45:35If this continues, you're gonna lose me.
45:43Have fun by yourself.
45:52I tried.
45:53I tried.
45:54Stacy, she'd love to come.
45:56She wants to come.
45:57Yeah, she wants to come.
45:58But you know what?
45:59She's afraid of him.
46:00No, she wants to.
46:01She's afraid of him.
46:02Yeah.
46:03And I'm like, guys, quit being children.
46:05Come have a good time.
46:06Yeah, fun.
46:07Woo!
46:08Let's go!
46:09Unless someone has come.
46:12Oh!
46:13Hi, guys.
46:14Welcome to our crib.
46:16Yay!
46:17Come on, come on, come on.
46:20I haven't seen you the whole day.
46:21Where were you?
46:22We fought with Josh.
46:25We had, like, sex therapy.
46:26What did you guys fight about?
46:28What is that?
46:29Champagne.
46:30Champagne?
46:31Yeah.
46:32We just had sex therapy, and everything was fun.
46:34They asked us, like, to put chocolate and liquid,
46:37and it was fun.
46:38And all of a sudden, he's like,
46:40I'm not, like, a touchy person.
46:42I don't like sticky things on my body.
46:44And after he started to go on about all our problems,
46:48like, that he's not sure he can bring me home,
46:51he's not sure how he will introduce me to his daughter.
46:55On what I'm saying to him, Josh, it's been three years.
46:59It's not three months.
47:00It's three years of my f***ing life.
47:03If you're not serious, move on.
47:05We had a conversation this morning.
47:07With him?
47:08Yeah.
47:09What did he say?
47:10And Josh said, in his life, he needs stability,
47:14and you're a little too much for stability.
47:18And you're a little all over the place.
47:22What does it mean?
47:24Like, you're crazy.
47:27He told me he is afraid so Natalie is going to take his money,
47:31take his business.
47:32Yeah.
47:34No, no, no.
47:35I told you that.
47:36He told me that.
47:37So, to each of you, he says different story.
47:39Yeah.
47:40So, like, to each of you has totally different puzzles.
47:42Yeah, but it's always negative and you are always a problem.
47:45Exactly.
47:48I don't know what to believe anymore.
47:50Josh is going around and says different things about our relationship.
47:53But, to me, he says also different things.
47:56Like, honestly, I don't know what is true anymore.
48:00Josh calls me unstateable.
48:01This is like, why?
48:04For asking normal things and getting irritated because you lead me on and lie to me?
48:09I get frustrated and I don't understand why he wouldn't say it to me, why he say it to people.
48:15But if he is telling people that I'm not stable enough and he's telling it behind my back,
48:21it's a really bad sign.