A Mary le cuesta sonreír.
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00:02Hey, why are you calling us? Can we help you?
00:05Well, I told the journalist that my self-esteem problem has to do with my mental health.
00:12I see, why?
00:13I think it's a problem that many of us have in this country.
00:17And, well, because of how expensive it is, because of the high costs of what mental health means in Chile.
00:24It costs a lot too.
00:26My self-esteem is going that way.
00:28I see.
00:29Because it's hard for me to smile.
00:31Why is it hard for you to smile?
00:33Because of the shame.
00:35What happened to you?
00:37I use a prosthesis, and I have a prosthesis and a prosthesis that they told me didn't look good.
00:41So, I don't understand what a smile means.
00:46Yes.
00:47It's your presentation, let's say.
00:49Mari, you lost your denture.
00:52Yes, it's part of my denture.
00:54I see.
00:55And that, finally, that you can't smile, changed your personality, your mood.
01:01A lot.
01:02How do you describe yourself? When you had your denture, how were you?
01:05Extroverted, you laughed at everything, happy.
01:08How were you compared to how you are now?
01:10Exactly.
01:11Look, I was very sure of myself.
01:13I see.
01:14I saw myself as I was, I smiled, it was good to take pictures.
01:24I wasn't afraid of facing the rest, let's say.
01:29But today, no, today I don't take pictures.
01:33I hide.
01:34If I go out in a photo, I try to hide behind someone so that they don't see my smile.
01:39I try to open my mouth.
01:42The truth is that it's a huge complex.
01:45But that also makes you unable to do so many things.
01:48Because I imagine that this complicates you to have a social life, to go to a birthday party.
01:54I don't know if you are working.
01:57No, I take care of my parents who are in their third year.
02:02I see.
02:03Well, because there you also have a responsibility.
02:06But at the time of wanting to look for a job, maybe that can also make you unable to do so, right?
02:11You know, it's one of the reasons why I didn't look for a job, let's say.
02:17Because today, suddenly, in a way, they discriminate against you.
02:22Without saying it directly, but suddenly, with other words,
02:29in a part that I applied for a job, they wanted to make me understand what it was about.
02:35So, the situation is more than coarse.
02:38So, I'm staying at home more.
02:42I'm staying and the truth is that it changes you a lot.
02:47I mean, the insecurity, everything.
02:50As I told you, I was another person, but...
02:54How old is your husband?
02:5649.
02:58You are 49 years old and you are very young.
03:01Yes.
03:03Did you ever have a partner? Do you have children?
03:06Yes, I have two children. I'm going to be a grandmother now.
03:09Already?
03:10I tried to be a grandmother and...
03:12Yes, yes, I have a partner now.
03:14You have a partner?
03:15He tries to...
03:18He tries to cheer me up.
03:21He tells me, like, yes, you are beautiful.
03:24For him, I am everything.
03:26But for one, the insecurity of one is...
03:32I mean, he has never made me feel bad in that sense, but...
03:36But it's hard for me to do it to him.
03:39Hey, Mari, but...
03:41I imagine that here your problem has a logical solution.
03:46Which is to fix your denture.
03:48Why haven't you been able to fix it?
03:50Look, I went...
03:52I went to fix my denture.
03:54And they made me a prosthesis and left it in my suitcase.
03:58And that's been a long time.
04:00And well, and now...
04:01Of course, and now another dentist tells me that...
04:05That it could be the implants they do now.
04:09But those are...
04:10Those are very high costs for one's face.
04:14Yes, but look, when you say that your self-esteem is finally affected...
04:19That...
04:20Affected in your security...
04:22It is also important that you listen to Alexandra, because...
04:25What can we tell Mari?
04:27Oh, the subject...
04:28Mari, look...
04:30I had told Olga that we are in front of situations where we are suddenly losing our faculties...
04:36We are getting old, things are happening...
04:39I know it's super difficult because, as she says, the letter of presentation is the smile.
04:43But if you had a good self-esteem...
04:46If you are connected with your strength...
04:49If you enter your inner house, which is tremendously important because sometimes we abandon ourselves...
04:55And we begin to read the mind of the other, what they are thinking about us.
05:00And there is a constant abandonment.
05:03If you connect with all those strengths, with what you are worth as a person...
05:07Because people are not worth because they are skinny, because they are thin, because they have teeth...
05:11They don't have teeth, but if you manage to connect with yourself...
05:16You will be able to bear...
05:18Because, look, you have a husband who loves you, you are going to be a grandmother...
05:21I imagine your children adore you...
05:23They notice that you are a person because of your smile, that you are a good person...
05:27You can't lose and abandon yourself...
05:29Of self-love towards you...
05:31Just because your smile today is not like the one before...
05:35So, I would go to Priscila...
05:37Working with your strength, accepting me...
05:40And then, calming me down a little, living, not losing opportunities...
05:44And looking for how they can help you solve the problem of your denture...
05:49But I think you can't abandon yourself because there are people who have accidents suddenly...
05:53And self-love is so important...
05:55So important to face life, interpersonal, work, loving relationships, etc...
06:01And before that, is there any exercise that can help Mari?
06:04Well, the one of the strengths, but there is an exercise...
06:07I would like to ask you a question, Mari...
06:09Do you have a critic who speaks to you or who tells you things?
06:13For example, she is ugly...
06:15Because sometimes you have a critic who tells you, you are not going to be able...
06:17Internal?
06:18Internal...
06:22Mari?
06:23I mean, maybe suddenly...
06:25I don't know if there is so much of the critic...
06:27Or it is one in which the obstacles are placed suddenly...
06:32Because of the insecurity itself...
06:34But I always try to be very positive in any case...
06:38I mean...
06:39Very...
06:40Very forward, let's say...
06:42Well, I'm going to give you a tip...
06:44I invite you, Priscila, to meditate...
06:46Go ahead...
06:47I would like the light to go down...
06:49I don't want to give so many orders...
06:51Soft...
06:52Let's see, let's see...
06:53And a soft music...
06:54Because not only for you, Mari...
06:56But for Olga and for all those people who are listening to us...
07:00It is not a hypnosis, but it is a meditation, Priscila...
07:03That we can help you to shut up...
07:06To lower that critic...
07:08That many times gets inside our head...
07:12And it invalidates us and destroys our self-esteem...