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00:00:00We got what you want. We got what you want so come and get it.
00:00:06I'm home now.
00:00:09I guess you could say I got hit by the Cupid arrow right away.
00:00:16I believe everything is possible in America.
00:00:19I've been waiting a really long time for this moment.
00:00:22Oh, I see him.
00:00:23Run!
00:00:25From Favela to Beverly Hills.
00:00:27It's a new life. It's like I'm just born today.
00:00:32This is the very first time that I've seen a flag of the U.S. in Iran.
00:00:36It was always on fire.
00:00:41Family selfie!
00:00:43I love being married to Matt. I love being a mom.
00:00:47Like, we have a third in our relationship.
00:00:51Hi, Daddy!
00:00:53I met Juan on a cruise.
00:00:55He is used to traveling around the world.
00:00:58His life is changing to, like, a 180.
00:01:02So far, so good.
00:01:04So far, so bad.
00:01:07It's like walking on an eggshell, you know?
00:01:10You're just like a dictator.
00:01:12If it's too hard, then leave.
00:01:15We were thinking about separating.
00:01:17Getting a divorce.
00:01:19Whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:01:21Something I didn't tell you is that
00:01:23I hadn't told Dad anything about you yet.
00:01:26Like, nothing?
00:01:27Yeah.
00:01:29Is he going to make you wear a jihad?
00:01:31Not having it.
00:01:33How could you do this when I've done so much for you?
00:01:39Did you sleep with that girl?
00:01:41I'm human.
00:01:46Are you bisexual?
00:01:48No.
00:01:49No?
00:01:50No.
00:01:51No.
00:01:52No.
00:01:53No.
00:01:54No.
00:01:55No.
00:01:56No.
00:01:57No.
00:01:58No.
00:01:59No.
00:02:01Please stop.
00:02:02If I find out that Stevie is bisexual,
00:02:05I really don't think that we can get married.
00:02:08Part of me wonders if she had the baby
00:02:11to try to lock down my dad.
00:02:13I think he was next.
00:02:14Don't come into my wedding.
00:02:18I'm supposed to go like this.
00:02:20I should be happy.
00:02:22I should be living my fairytale.
00:02:24I just dream about how this is different.
00:02:30No!
00:02:43Nasty.
00:02:49We live in Torrington and it's very stinky.
00:02:53Torrington has the most poop in the whole entire USA.
00:03:01It's the worst.
00:03:14You do get used to the smell.
00:03:16Sometimes it's worse than other times
00:03:18and you're like, oh, that smells.
00:03:20Usually in the summer when it gets hot
00:03:22and the poop starts to melt.
00:03:26Are you guys getting the poop cleaned up?
00:03:28Yeah.
00:03:29Good job.
00:03:34My life in Torrington is pretty normal.
00:03:37Stop!
00:03:38I have three amazing boys.
00:03:40Dayton is nine.
00:03:42He has such a big heart.
00:03:46Dawson is seven.
00:03:49Dawson Delmer.
00:03:50Then he's a little bit more crazy.
00:03:53Ew.
00:03:57And David, who is five months,
00:04:01his smile melts anyone's heart.
00:04:03He has the cutest little dimple
00:04:05and he's just the perfect little baby.
00:04:09Oh!
00:04:13Got you!
00:04:14Being a boy mom can be a little crazy at times.
00:04:17Boys are more rowdy, it feels like.
00:04:19Do it again!
00:04:20Don't do it!
00:04:21Do it again!
00:04:22Don't do it!
00:04:23Do it again!
00:04:24Yeah!
00:04:25Oh, Dawson.
00:04:27But it's great because, you know, boys love their mama
00:04:29and to them I'm their whole world
00:04:31and they're my whole world
00:04:32and I think there's a lot of beauty in that.
00:04:40So I'm feeling a little bit nervous about Juan coming.
00:04:43Why?
00:04:44Because, well, look how dead everything is.
00:04:47I'm nervous if he can adjust to our small-town life.
00:04:51You know, in Torrington, everybody knows everything.
00:04:54So they even know Juan's coming?
00:04:57Probably everyone in this town knows he's coming.
00:04:59Maybe he's the world-famous Juan.
00:05:02Maybe.
00:05:03The new Colombian to town,
00:05:04he's probably the only Colombian in town.
00:05:12Cheers.
00:05:14My fiancé's name is Juan.
00:05:16I always say it like a white girl.
00:05:18It's like, Juan.
00:05:19But he calls me Yesica, so it's like, you know,
00:05:22it seems even.
00:05:25The story of how I met Juan is a little awkward.
00:05:28One night, me, my best friend Megan,
00:05:30her husband, and my ex-husband were drinking
00:05:33and we decided we were going to book a cruise
00:05:36a year from that date.
00:05:37And so one year later came around
00:05:39and me and Tim, my ex-husband, were like no longer together.
00:05:42We were not in a good place.
00:05:43And so I really debated up until like the final days before.
00:05:46Like, should I go on the cruise?
00:05:47Maybe I shouldn't.
00:05:48Then I was like, okay, I'm going to go.
00:05:50He can do what he wants.
00:05:51I'll do what I want.
00:05:52I'm not going to let him bring me down.
00:05:53I'm going to go have fun.
00:05:58And so we got on this cruise.
00:06:00The very first day, we were in the casino
00:06:02and this cute bartender came up to us
00:06:05asking what kind of drinks we wanted.
00:06:07We flirted throughout the cruise.
00:06:10We did not go hook up with the bartender.
00:06:13Scouts honor, we did not.
00:06:15There wasn't even a peck, I swear.
00:06:19It was March, 2020.
00:06:21So then COVID was at its peak.
00:06:23Cruises were ending and they were going into quarantine.
00:06:25So all of a sudden we had all this time
00:06:27to get to know each other.
00:06:33And then nine months later,
00:06:35Columbia's borders opened and I went to see him.
00:06:38Hi.
00:06:39Hi, baby.
00:06:41We went out salsa dancing.
00:06:43We drank a little bit too much rum.
00:06:47Juan's always getting me flowers.
00:06:49And wine.
00:06:53It began to feel like, okay,
00:06:55this is someone I want to spend my life with forever.
00:06:59So on my fifth trip to Columbia
00:07:02is when Juan proposed.
00:07:04Look at that ring.
00:07:05Look at that ring.
00:07:07I was just so happy.
00:07:08I just couldn't wait to spend my life with him.
00:07:11Life.
00:07:12Love.
00:07:13Family.
00:07:14And friends.
00:07:17And then I came home a few weeks later
00:07:20and was pregnant.
00:07:21So, yep.
00:07:24Hi, little handsome boy.
00:07:27He was like, exactly like daddy in all ways.
00:07:32As soon as my water broke, I called Juan
00:07:34and he stayed on the phone with me the entire time
00:07:36until after David was born.
00:07:39He's so cute.
00:07:40I know, his little cheeks.
00:07:42When David was two months old,
00:07:43we traveled to Galveston, Texas to see Juan.
00:07:46He was just finishing his cruise contract
00:07:48and we spent half a day with him
00:07:50where he was able to meet his son for the first time.
00:07:55And in a few days, he's finally coming to America
00:07:57to live with me and my three boys.
00:07:59It's gonna be a huge change for him.
00:08:01He's used to the party life on the cruise
00:08:03and this life here is about as far away
00:08:05that you can get from that.
00:08:07♪♪♪
00:08:10I got you now.
00:08:11I got you now.
00:08:13♪♪♪
00:08:18That one hurts.
00:08:19That one hurts, too.
00:08:23Daddy.
00:08:25Hola, baby.
00:08:28Say, hi, daddy.
00:08:30Hi, dada.
00:08:32Te amo.
00:08:35Mm-hmm.
00:08:38Are you all packed, ready to go?
00:08:47You ready to leave paradise and come here with us?
00:08:52Yeah, I'm ready.
00:08:53I'm ready.
00:08:59He's telling you, like, you better be ready, dad,
00:09:02because I'm here and you better be ready.
00:09:10Say, you're not my babysitter, you're my father.
00:09:17Do you think you, like, really realize, like,
00:09:19what life's gonna be like when you come?
00:09:30I think that Juan doesn't fully understand
00:09:32what it's gonna be like to be a parent.
00:09:34He's been a parent in small doses
00:09:36for, like, a total of, like, three weeks in person,
00:09:39and when he's watching the boys,
00:09:41his rules are, like, we're gonna eat pizza,
00:09:44play video games, and there's gonna be no fighting.
00:09:49Dan.
00:09:51I know, but this is what happens when we're being rough.
00:09:54I think he has a lot to learn.
00:09:56I got this.
00:09:57Okay.
00:09:58I'm like, I hope you're ready,
00:10:00because, like, real life starts now.
00:10:02Yeah, yeah, yeah!
00:10:04Ah!
00:10:13Come on, we got lots and lots more pumpkin to get.
00:10:16Oh!
00:10:18Look at this one!
00:10:19It's a pumpkin.
00:10:20It's a pumpkin!
00:10:22Can Daddy ride?
00:10:23Yeah.
00:10:24Oh, my goodness, girl!
00:10:28Oh, no.
00:10:30My name's Matt.
00:10:31This is my lovely wife, Amani.
00:10:33And this is my amazing, sexy, charming,
00:10:36mysterious, amazing husband, Matt,
00:10:38and together we live in San Diego, California.
00:10:41Okay, say cheese!
00:10:42Cheese!
00:10:43Where are my pumpkins?
00:10:45We have two beautiful daughters,
00:10:47Lila has such a loud, confident, sassy personality.
00:10:52She's just a mini-me.
00:10:54Let's get that straight.
00:10:57Hey, Sarah.
00:10:58You cheater!
00:11:00Sarah's so sweet, has the purest heart,
00:11:03and just so affectionate.
00:11:05I want this pumpkin!
00:11:07No, my pumpkin!
00:11:09No, it's mine!
00:11:11Matt and I first met in college,
00:11:13and I fell head over heels for this man.
00:11:16It's simple, but it's true.
00:11:18Every girl wants a guy who makes her laugh,
00:11:21and he's very selfless, very loving.
00:11:23He has such a good heart.
00:11:25I fell in love with Amani
00:11:27because I've never had someone that could balance me,
00:11:30somebody that is truly there for me.
00:11:36Family selfie!
00:11:40I love being married to Matt.
00:11:42He's amazing.
00:11:43I love being a mom.
00:11:45Like, I'm a boss babe,
00:11:47and babe stands for boss-ass bitch energy.
00:11:55I grew up in Tunisia.
00:11:57It's a very male-dominated culture,
00:11:59very religious.
00:12:01As a female, I can only be, like, a teacher
00:12:04or a stay-at-home wife.
00:12:06And I was very ambitious,
00:12:07so I was 18 years old when I left my country
00:12:10to have a better life for myself and my family.
00:12:13Today, I work in the tech industry,
00:12:16so I spend a lot of time finding deals,
00:12:20growing deals,
00:12:21and especially my favorite part,
00:12:22closing the deals.
00:12:26Come.
00:12:27Let's brush your hair.
00:12:29Let me brush your hair.
00:12:31If there was a relationship
00:12:33where opposites attract,
00:12:34it would be me and Amani.
00:12:36Amani is a very strong person.
00:12:38I'm a very, you know, supportive person.
00:12:41I got the grumpest.
00:12:42Hi, Mommy, you look so cute.
00:12:46Can I get a hug?
00:12:48It took us a long time to appreciate the differences,
00:12:52but now that we do,
00:12:53we make a very strong partnership.
00:12:55Oh, hi, Mommy.
00:12:57We do all the typical family things,
00:13:01but there is one aspect of our life
00:13:03that is slightly less typical.
00:13:12Oh, Doctor.
00:13:20There's Amani's hair.
00:13:22You know, Doctor,
00:13:24I've been a really bad, bad, bad nurse.
00:13:28Can you feel my heart?
00:13:29It's beating so fast.
00:13:31Very fast.
00:13:33I am hot.
00:13:34I don't know for what,
00:13:36but I need help, please.
00:13:38I don't know for what,
00:13:39but I need help, please.
00:13:41Who is that?
00:13:42A patient has arrived.
00:13:43Oh, hello.
00:13:46Who is this one?
00:13:49We have a girlfriend.
00:13:50Her name is Ani,
00:13:51and she lives in Mexico.
00:13:53We're a throuple.
00:13:55A throuple is a three-people relationship.
00:13:58You're dating that person,
00:14:00so you're emotionally involved,
00:14:01physically involved,
00:14:02mentally involved.
00:14:04Nothing is off the table.
00:14:06There is a lot of stigma around a throuple.
00:14:09It's very sexualized.
00:14:11A lot of people assume it's just a hookup,
00:14:13but it's actually a long-term commitment,
00:14:15just like any other two-person relationship.
00:14:18We're missing our better half.
00:14:20Every throuple is different,
00:14:22but we speak every day.
00:14:24We know each other's children.
00:14:27We build friendships.
00:14:28We celebrate holidays.
00:14:30You hear each other fart?
00:14:32Yep.
00:14:33Do you accept house calls?
00:14:35Yes, please. I need help.
00:14:38Having a long-distance relationship is hard
00:14:40because you can't have that physical touch
00:14:42and interaction together,
00:14:43so we try to keep it spicy and interesting.
00:14:46How long have you been hot for?
00:14:48I don't know.
00:14:50Forever, from what it looks like, doctor.
00:14:53I identify myself as bisexual.
00:14:56I don't like labels.
00:14:57It just means I love all types of humans.
00:14:59In the beginning, I would say that I was a little vulnerable
00:15:02to think that maybe there was something
00:15:04that I wasn't able to fulfill for her.
00:15:06The more we talked about it,
00:15:08the more we opened up to the idea together.
00:15:15Matt and I have been in a relationship with Ani
00:15:17for almost a year now.
00:15:20We met in Mexico at a club.
00:15:22We had a lot of fun, a lot of drinks,
00:15:24and we ended up going back to the hotel together
00:15:26and just continuing to get to know each other.
00:15:29Like, really, it was like,
00:15:31this isn't just some hook-up, you know?
00:15:33Like...
00:15:34Feelings started to develop really quick.
00:15:38She's funny, caring, and has a bangin' body.
00:15:42Oh, yes.
00:15:43I'm just being...
00:15:44Just, like, the full package.
00:15:47Imagine how hard already it is
00:15:49for two people to find the right match.
00:15:52Now, imagine for three people
00:15:54to be, like, the exact match together.
00:15:56She motivates us.
00:15:57She pushes us.
00:15:58It's really the extra things
00:16:00that we've added to the relationship
00:16:02just with her being around.
00:16:05Only a few days left until we see you.
00:16:08So I'm super excited to see you in your element.
00:16:11See you at home.
00:16:12Uh-huh.
00:16:13You ready for, like, my life?
00:16:15My whole life?
00:16:17We're super ready.
00:16:19This is our first polyamorous relationship,
00:16:22and it's been a long time coming.
00:16:25And it's been really, really fun.
00:16:27It's like when we fell in love with her,
00:16:29we were falling in love with each other
00:16:31all over again, too.
00:16:32Mm-hmm.
00:16:33We want to bring her to live with us in the U.S.,
00:16:36but obviously we have one tiny bit of an issue,
00:16:40and that is we are legally married.
00:16:43Our only option is to get legally divorced
00:16:46so that one of us can apply for the K-1 visa
00:16:49and bring her to the U.S.
00:16:51This trip is different and very important to us
00:16:55because we do want to take the next step
00:16:59with you in our relationship.
00:17:01I'm nervous.
00:17:05In the course of a year of our relationship,
00:17:07maybe we've been together in terms of days
00:17:09like, give or take, 24 days.
00:17:12So we're going to be traveling back to Mexico
00:17:15to see Ani.
00:17:16This trip will be different than the previous times,
00:17:19and it's not focused in on vacations and...
00:17:22Honeymoon mode, fun.
00:17:24Yeah, and smile and happiness and entertainment.
00:17:26It'll be...
00:17:27The real life.
00:17:29We've only met Antonella, who is her youngest,
00:17:31and she lives with her.
00:17:33We haven't met her other two kids,
00:17:35but now we're ready to take the relationship
00:17:37to the next level, to propose and get married
00:17:40and build a life together.
00:17:42I think that it would devastate us
00:17:44if this trip doesn't go well.
00:17:46I think we have a lot invested in this,
00:17:48and we have a lot of care for someone.
00:17:50It would be hard to reverse.
00:17:58I can do it.
00:18:00Nothing to scare.
00:18:02I am ready!
00:18:04Wow, you look gorgeous.
00:18:06Today is the biggest day of my life.
00:18:10Our life.
00:18:12Our life.
00:18:14Our whole future depends on this,
00:18:16so I really hope it goes well.
00:18:18Don't say it like as I become more nervous.
00:18:20It's true.
00:18:22In Maddie's country, people tend to cover up,
00:18:24so I don't know how he'll feel about me
00:18:26sketching nudes, period.
00:18:28My fiancé's name is Maddie,
00:18:30and he's from Tehran, Iran.
00:18:32Iran's making a lot of headlines right now,
00:18:34and they don't get along with our country
00:18:36or other countries.
00:18:38Being in a relationship with someone whose countries
00:18:40are always threatening to go to war with one another
00:18:42is extremely hard.
00:18:44He might shut down the airport or something,
00:18:46and then he won't be able to leave.
00:19:14I am ready!
00:19:34I am ready!
00:19:36I am ready!
00:19:40Wow, you look gorgeous.
00:19:42You look gorgeous.
00:19:44You look handsome.
00:19:46My name is Shekinah.
00:19:48And my name is Sarper, and today is the
00:19:50biggest day of my life.
00:19:52Our life.
00:19:54Our life.
00:19:56How do you feel?
00:19:58Nervous.
00:20:00Me too.
00:20:02And cover your boobs.
00:20:04You look gorgeous, by the way.
00:20:06Thanks.
00:20:08Let's get your visa.
00:20:10Let's go.
00:20:18How do you feel?
00:20:20Nervous.
00:20:22I know.
00:20:24Our whole future depends on this,
00:20:26so I really hope it goes well.
00:20:28It's true.
00:20:36Give me a kiss.
00:20:38Babe.
00:20:40Babe, we are on the street.
00:20:42I can't wait until we're in the U.S.
00:20:44and I can kiss you on the mouth.
00:20:46Will you kiss me every second?
00:20:48Yeah.
00:20:50You have to wait for it.
00:20:52Do you feel like you have everything?
00:20:54Yeah, I have a lot of things.
00:20:56Your mirror, everything, my passport,
00:20:58photos, my birth certificates.
00:21:00I have an OCD of
00:21:02planning things, counting things.
00:21:04You can count them for the hundredth time,
00:21:06but it's still the same number.
00:21:08But you know what? It helps him somehow,
00:21:10so I was also just like, let him do it.
00:21:12Passport.
00:21:14What are these? They're in Turkish.
00:21:16He needed a distraction,
00:21:18so I would dress in cute outfits
00:21:20and kind of walk around in front of him
00:21:22while he's counting his papers.
00:21:26But I was counting, you know.
00:21:28Counting what?
00:21:30Oh, my God.
00:21:32This paper, this paper.
00:21:34That's enough.
00:21:36What do these say?
00:21:38Relationship evidence.
00:21:40Let me see what you've got.
00:21:42Okay, let me show it to you.
00:21:44Oh, Adonis.
00:21:46Yes.
00:21:54We do have a ton of pictures together.
00:21:56We counted it at one time, it was like 7,000.
00:21:58She loves the 7,000.
00:22:00Yeah, I think like 4,000 of the 7,000
00:22:02is like not usable.
00:22:04If I show them to the embassy,
00:22:06probably they would think that I will go in there
00:22:08for porn industry or something.
00:22:10So no need for that.
00:22:14I'm going to get under the covers and cuddle a little.
00:22:16Yeah.
00:22:18Love that.
00:22:20The way that I first met Sarper
00:22:22was I was actually in Turkey with a friend.
00:22:24I downloaded a dating app
00:22:26and I saw Sarper.
00:22:28And he was so handsome,
00:22:30I had to swipe right.
00:22:32And I saw you.
00:22:34I looked, oh, American.
00:22:36Wait, why does that matter?
00:22:38It is rare to find American.
00:22:40Just like going to the zoo and seeing an alligator.
00:22:42You don't see it too often, you know, in Turkey.
00:22:44At first I thought that
00:22:46she would be a one-night stand.
00:22:48But eat big bites, don't say big words.
00:22:50Famous Turkish saying,
00:22:52it finds you back.
00:22:54It found me back.
00:22:56I love how you're so amazed at yourself.
00:22:58You are fun, babe.
00:23:00You're a lucky bitch.
00:23:02I've been going back and forth to see Sarper in Turkey
00:23:04for almost two years now.
00:23:06Babe.
00:23:08And it's been difficult.
00:23:10The flight is very long.
00:23:12And the amount of time
00:23:14that I can spend with him
00:23:16isn't very long because I do have to come back
00:23:18often to see my daughter.
00:23:20I have a teenage daughter
00:23:22in boarding school and she gets
00:23:24one week off every five weeks.
00:23:26So I always make sure to come back and spend time with her.
00:23:28It's also hard saying goodbye
00:23:30that many times to each other.
00:23:32She says that but she never had
00:23:34tears, you know?
00:23:36I'm in the mood, I'm about to cry.
00:23:38I mean, it's here.
00:23:40I'm looking at her, she's eating something,
00:23:42looking at her.
00:23:44I mean, what are we?
00:23:46You're the emotional one.
00:23:48Yeah.
00:23:50I hold it together for us.
00:23:52Okay, babe, it looks like you're pretty organized.
00:23:54Yeah.
00:23:56But it's up to them, nothing for me.
00:23:58I did my best, you know?
00:24:00It's stressful because I can't live in Turkey
00:24:02so Sarper has to come to the US
00:24:04or else we don't really stand a chance.
00:24:06Yeah.
00:24:08Don't try to charm them either, they can see right through that.
00:24:10You're a little unpredictable.
00:24:12Stay there like a candle.
00:24:14Please don't do that either, it's weird.
00:24:16You remember our meeting point?
00:24:18Yes.
00:24:20I will be there at 11.
00:24:22I hate that you're knocking off your phone.
00:24:24No, you'll understand from my face.
00:24:26Yeah.
00:24:28See you.
00:24:30Love you.
00:24:32If Sarper doesn't get approved today,
00:24:34I really don't see how we can survive
00:24:36in a long-distance relationship.
00:24:38My daughter lives in the US,
00:24:40my business is there,
00:24:42and this has become such a big,
00:24:44you know, stressful situation
00:24:46because so much is riding on it.
00:24:48I'm just trying to think positive in this moment
00:24:50and I keep thinking,
00:24:52he's going to be approved, he's going to be approved.
00:24:54He has to get approved.
00:25:00Hey, Dad.
00:25:02I just want to let you know I was fixing to leave the house.
00:25:04Okay.
00:25:06My dad does not know about Maddie.
00:25:08Americans hear
00:25:10about Iran,
00:25:12they automatically assume terrorist.
00:25:14Now I'm on the way
00:25:16to get it all out
00:25:18and tell him.
00:25:20My dad bleeds red, white, and blue,
00:25:22so I don't know how he's going to feel
00:25:24about me bringing a boy from a country
00:25:26that supposedly hates us.
00:25:28Hey, Dad.
00:25:46Hi.
00:26:02You ready?
00:26:04Yes, I'm ready.
00:26:06Okay.
00:26:08It's fun and you look amazing,
00:26:10so I'm happy I got to do it for you.
00:26:14I'm Maddie, I'm 37 years old,
00:26:16and I'm a painter.
00:26:18I said that so Southern.
00:26:20Painter.
00:26:22I love painting abstract art,
00:26:24but just recently I started painting nudes.
00:26:28I think what I like about painting nudes
00:26:30is just normalizing
00:26:32different body types.
00:26:34I think a lot of times in the real world
00:26:36we forget that people are beautiful,
00:26:38but yet they can look at a painting and see that.
00:26:40I'm going to get changed
00:26:42and then head out. Thank you.
00:26:44Painting is my passion,
00:26:46but it doesn't really pay the bills.
00:26:48And since I'm a single mom with two kids
00:26:50and a mortgage, I also teach English online.
00:26:52Here where I live,
00:26:54we say y'all,
00:26:56which is a combination of you and all.
00:26:58My English students are from
00:27:00all over the world.
00:27:02Some are learning English for their jobs.
00:27:04Some are fixing to travel to the U.S.
00:27:06But there was one guy
00:27:08unlike any other student.
00:27:12My fiancé's name is
00:27:14Matty. He's 27 years old
00:27:16and he's from Tehran, Iran.
00:27:18Matty, turn your camera on.
00:27:20Hey!
00:27:22Hey, babe.
00:27:24Matty stood out from my other students
00:27:26appearance-wise because he was very intimidating
00:27:28to look at.
00:27:30He looks handsome. He looks hot.
00:27:32But it wasn't even
00:27:34Matty's looks that grabbed my attention.
00:27:36It was that he came
00:27:38overly prepared.
00:27:40He was the only student that would show up
00:27:42with a list of questions
00:27:44to ask me.
00:27:46What do you call Wednesdays?
00:27:48We call Wednesday, Hump Day.
00:27:50Hump Day.
00:27:52And not only that, but Matty's connection
00:27:54was the worst of all of the students
00:27:56I've ever had.
00:27:58I think I'm losing you.
00:28:00We couldn't finish sentences because it was just always
00:28:02cutting off and then he would come back on.
00:28:04Can you just say that again?
00:28:06It was rough. It was so rough.
00:28:08Yeah.
00:28:14Matty's probably the only guy I've ever sketched
00:28:16and I thought it would be kind of nice
00:28:18to give him a gift, a painting
00:28:20of himself nude.
00:28:22In Matty's country, people tend to cover up
00:28:24so I don't know how he'll feel about me
00:28:26sketching nudes, period.
00:28:28But Matty is
00:28:30the king of checking himself out.
00:28:34Sometime after I finished teaching
00:28:36Matty, he sent me a link.
00:28:38It was his social media
00:28:40page.
00:28:42Matty likes to appear that he's like this really shy
00:28:44guy, but he had tons of girls
00:28:46following him and he was
00:28:48shirtless. So I was just like,
00:28:50look at this guy. Like, I
00:28:52would never date someone like this.
00:28:56So I'm totally eating my words right
00:28:58now, but after
00:29:00that, Matty continued to talk to me.
00:29:02You look cute today.
00:29:04Thanks, I'm in my pajamas.
00:29:06I had such a special
00:29:08bond with Matty that I knew I needed
00:29:10to meet him in person. But when
00:29:12Matty and I started developing feelings
00:29:14for each other, there was a lot going on
00:29:16in the news.
00:29:20It would not have been safe
00:29:22for me to travel to Iran.
00:29:24Turkey was one of the only places that
00:29:26Matty could actually travel to,
00:29:28so I was like, let's meet there.
00:29:32Matty
00:29:34lives in a country where you can't
00:29:36physically hug
00:29:38in public and things like that.
00:29:40But our physical connection was
00:29:42magnetic the minute that we were alone.
00:29:46After only physically
00:29:48being together for one week, Matty proposed to me.
00:29:50Matty just handed me the ring and
00:29:52he was like, I want to
00:29:54spend the rest of my life with you.
00:29:56And I was just kind of like,
00:29:58I want this too, even though
00:30:00this is crazy. And
00:30:02after one year of waiting, Matty's visa
00:30:04is finally approved.
00:30:06Right now, I am super excited,
00:30:08but also trying
00:30:10to prepare myself that it may
00:30:12not work.
00:30:14I'm going to ask him, like, how the news is
00:30:16today because, I don't know, I haven't
00:30:18checked it.
00:30:20So, Matty wasn't expected to come here
00:30:22for a few weeks, but
00:30:24Iran's making a lot of headlines right now
00:30:26and they don't get along with
00:30:28our country or other countries.
00:30:30Waiting for this visa has
00:30:32been one of the most stressful
00:30:3412 months of my life.
00:30:36I think anybody that's in a long distance
00:30:38relationship has to deal with a lot of
00:30:40difficulties, but we also have added
00:30:42stress because our two countries don't
00:30:44like one another. Matty and I are
00:30:46not able to exchange gifts. We're not able
00:30:48to send mail. And also,
00:30:50Matty's country is constantly banning
00:30:52connections with our country.
00:30:54Literally, Matty and I just want to be together,
00:30:56but we know at any moment
00:30:58a war could start and we could lose
00:31:00that opportunity forever.
00:31:02I'm constantly nervous because
00:31:04I don't know if something's going to go bad and he,
00:31:06they're going to shut
00:31:08down the airport or something
00:31:10and then he won't be able to leave.
00:31:12That's, like, probably my biggest fear.
00:31:14Sometimes it makes me super upset
00:31:16thinking that we've got this far and then
00:31:18there's a possibility that he can't leave.
00:31:22Okay, I'm actually
00:31:24going to stop.
00:31:26Yeah.
00:31:32My sisters
00:31:34know about Matty. They know
00:31:36everything about Matty. And my mom knows
00:31:38about Matty, too. But
00:31:40my dad does not
00:31:42know about Matty.
00:31:46Hey, bud.
00:31:48Hey, Dad. I just want to let you know I was fixing to
00:31:50leave the house. Okay.
00:31:52Okay, I love you. Bye-bye.
00:31:54I feel like it's always, like, on the tip
00:31:56of my tongue every time that we're together
00:31:58and I just somehow haven't been able to get it out.
00:32:02Americans hear
00:32:04about Iran, they automatically
00:32:06assume, like,
00:32:08terrorist.
00:32:12My dad bleeds red, white, and blue,
00:32:14so I don't know how he's going to feel about me
00:32:16bringing a boy from a country that
00:32:18supposedly hates us.
00:32:20But now
00:32:22Matty is coming tomorrow, and
00:32:24I need to tell my dad everything
00:32:26today.
00:32:28I am going over to have
00:32:30my dad look at my car
00:32:32because I need to get
00:32:34the oil put in it, and
00:32:36one of my lights went out. I'm going to have
00:32:38Dad fix all those things, but I haven't told him the reason
00:32:40why I'm getting them fixed, and that's because
00:32:42Matty is coming, so
00:32:44now I'm on the way to
00:32:46get it all out and
00:32:48um...
00:32:50It's been very hard for me
00:32:52walking through this without him knowing
00:32:54because I always tell him about everything,
00:32:56but my dad's health
00:32:58is not good right now.
00:33:02It was only a few
00:33:04months ago that I found out my dad
00:33:06was diagnosed with a lung disease.
00:33:08So the last thing
00:33:10I want to do is put a strain on our
00:33:12relationship when we
00:33:14may not have a lot of time left
00:33:16together.
00:33:20My dad doesn't have
00:33:22a whole lot of time here, and when I
00:33:24mm, I'll cry.
00:33:38Give me a minute.
00:33:46I don't have a plan B,
00:33:48and honestly I don't know what I'll do if he says
00:33:50no, you're not marrying this guy.
00:33:54My heart's pounding.
00:34:08I cannot stomach
00:34:10the idea of thinking that my dad
00:34:12won't be okay with Matty
00:34:14because I've already made this decision and
00:34:16Matty is coming.
00:34:18Hey, Dad.
00:34:28In 2019, I was
00:34:30on a trip as a pilot to Paris.
00:34:32Took the turn down another
00:34:34direction in my life.
00:34:36Hey, baby.
00:34:38So when's Mina coming?
00:34:40A few days. It's so crazy that they're
00:34:42actually going to be here. He doesn't really
00:34:44see the potential that this could
00:34:46cause if it doesn't
00:34:48go right. We're thinking about having
00:34:50another baby.
00:35:12I'm Mark.
00:35:14I'm 58, and I live in West
00:35:16Osby, New Hampshire.
00:35:18Welcome to my airport
00:35:20and my runway.
00:35:22This is 4,000 feet long.
00:35:24You know, there's probably 30, 40 houses
00:35:26on the runway.
00:35:28My house is here.
00:35:30My airplane's inside the hangar here, so
00:35:32I mean, it couldn't get any better
00:35:34than this.
00:35:43Hey, baby, I'm
00:35:45gonna run into the sun.
00:35:47Life's coming up. We're clear
00:35:49of trees. Beautiful
00:35:51weather. Didn't ask for anything
00:35:53more. For work,
00:35:55I fly privately-owned jets.
00:35:57I've flown
00:35:59celebrities, athletes, ex-presidents.
00:36:01I can't say any
00:36:03specific names because it's private.
00:36:05The lawyers will be coming out of the woodwork
00:36:07after me.
00:36:09Looks good. My wood off here.
00:36:11In 2019, I was
00:36:13on a trip as a pilot to Paris,
00:36:15and I was just going out to grab a drink
00:36:17and kind of unwind from the trip,
00:36:19and I just ran into this person
00:36:21and took the turn down
00:36:23another direction in my life
00:36:25that I didn't expect.
00:36:33Oh, my
00:36:35God. I walked
00:36:37into a restaurant, and there was Mina,
00:36:39and we kind of locked eyes.
00:36:41I don't know why she was staring at me
00:36:43because she'd probably
00:36:45pick any guy in the place.
00:36:47Hey, baby.
00:36:49She's 35. I'm
00:36:5158. But what's wild about
00:36:53that is that we still have that
00:36:55connection.
00:36:57But also,
00:36:59maybe I'm naive. I don't know.
00:37:01We'll see.
00:37:05For two years, we were long distance,
00:37:07and every time I came back to Paris,
00:37:09I didn't want to leave her and have to
00:37:11go back to work. I didn't want to have to go back to the U.S.
00:37:13So it just
00:37:15clicked, and I just thought,
00:37:17what am I waiting for?
00:37:31So then, six months after
00:37:33we're engaged, she tells me
00:37:35she's pregnant.
00:37:47At my age, you know, this is not
00:37:49plan A, B, C. This is,
00:37:51I think, plan Z.
00:37:53Have a kid.
00:37:55My daughter Maria,
00:37:57unfortunately, not unfortunately,
00:37:59it's a cool place to be born. She was born
00:38:01in Paris. This has been
00:38:03a crazy two years of constantly
00:38:05on the move in different places.
00:38:07You know, I'm gone for ten days,
00:38:09sometimes three weeks.
00:38:11It can be a bit hectic lifestyle.
00:38:29I'm down in Florida quite a bit.
00:38:31You got Palm Beach, Miami,
00:38:33Fort Lauderdale. There's a lot of private jets
00:38:35down in Florida, so, and my daughter's
00:38:37down here.
00:38:39Hey, bear.
00:38:41Hey.
00:38:43How you doing? How are you?
00:38:45I'd say most of my friends and family
00:38:47are skeptical of my relationship
00:38:49with Mina. You know, is she just
00:38:51coming to the U.S. to get a green card, or
00:38:53is she having a baby to kind of,
00:38:55you know,
00:38:57solidify things and make sure I'm not
00:38:59going anywhere.
00:39:01I'm gonna see if I can
00:39:03hit the guy in the car.
00:39:05I don't think so, but, you know,
00:39:07you never know
00:39:09everyone's intentions
00:39:11100%.
00:39:13A little short.
00:39:15I think I beat you on that one.
00:39:17You got me on that one.
00:39:19You got me on that one.
00:39:21I miss you. I know, I miss you too.
00:39:23I'm glad you're here.
00:39:25It's fun.
00:39:27So, when's Mina coming?
00:39:29Soon. A few days.
00:39:31It's so crazy that they're actually
00:39:33gonna be here. I know. For a while, I didn't know
00:39:35if they were ever gonna make it.
00:39:37And it's been, you saw them in October,
00:39:39but last year, Maria was only
00:39:41five months old. I saw her like a year and a half ago.
00:39:43You're gonna be shocked when you see her,
00:39:45because she's changed so much since you were ever there before.
00:39:49My brother and I went to Paris to meet
00:39:51Mina, and for Maria,
00:39:53the baby is baptized.
00:39:55There was a cocktail hour, there was
00:39:57a catered dinner, multiple open
00:39:59bars. It was very over the top
00:40:01for a baptism party.
00:40:03And Mina was about
00:40:05three hours, four hours late to the party
00:40:07and kind of left my whole family
00:40:09there while she was getting glammed
00:40:11up. It didn't feel like
00:40:13my family being there was much of a priority
00:40:15to her, so I
00:40:17kind of left Paris feeling that maybe
00:40:19she could be taking advantage of him,
00:40:21could be going after his money, could just
00:40:23be trying to come to the U.S. I really don't know.
00:40:27When we were in Paris, it didn't
00:40:29really feel like me and
00:40:31Jack were as much of a priority.
00:40:33Was it
00:40:35what I did, or because
00:40:37of me and Mina? The baby?
00:40:39The last night that we were all there,
00:40:41we all went out to dinner as a family,
00:40:43and she didn't come.
00:40:45You know,
00:40:47it was kind of a, not to make an excuse,
00:40:49a hectic weekend.
00:40:51I appreciate you telling me that, because I don't want
00:40:53you to feel like that when they come to the U.S.
00:40:55I feel like
00:40:57if she really wanted to be
00:40:59involved,
00:41:01she would want to develop these relationships
00:41:03with your family.
00:41:05Honestly, it
00:41:07really surprises me, because I thought everyone
00:41:09had a great time, and
00:41:11looks like she's been holding onto this a while.
00:41:13She didn't tell me about it after that weekend,
00:41:15but my future wife
00:41:17and my daughter have to get along,
00:41:19and if they don't, that's going to be
00:41:21a huge problem going forward, because
00:41:23they're both a huge part of my life,
00:41:25and my daughter has been a part of my life
00:41:27for 27 years, and that's
00:41:29never going to change.
00:41:31Your
00:41:33feelings and concerns
00:41:35weigh
00:41:37big on me. It's hard to hear
00:41:39and talk about a little bit, because I
00:41:41thought everything was good in Paris,
00:41:43and I wish
00:41:45maybe it would have gone different.
00:41:47I don't know her,
00:41:49and I don't know her intentions.
00:41:51I just think he doesn't
00:41:53really see what everyone else sees,
00:41:55and I don't think he sees
00:41:57the potential that this could
00:41:59cause if it doesn't
00:42:01go right.
00:42:03I know you had concerns the first time
00:42:05with
00:42:07us having a baby, and
00:42:11we're thinking
00:42:13about having another baby.
00:42:17That's just a lot
00:42:19to take in.
00:42:23That would be devastating.
00:42:29We're thinking about
00:42:31separating. Getting a divorce.
00:42:33Wait. Whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:42:35Matt and Minnie are talking
00:42:37about divorcing in order to bring her
00:42:39into the relationship, and there's so much
00:42:41they don't know. It seems excessive,
00:42:43and it seems really fast to me.
00:42:45You're legally tying yourself to someone
00:42:47that I feel like you barely know.
00:42:59Nice boat.
00:43:01Should be fun.
00:43:03I miss our friends. I'm so glad we got to make
00:43:05some time to hang out.
00:43:15All right.
00:43:17Thank you, baby.
00:43:19All right. Let's set up.
00:43:21So today
00:43:23I rented us a boat
00:43:25that we're going to take out on the water,
00:43:27have some food, some drinks, and just enjoy
00:43:29beautiful San Diego.
00:43:31Oh, you got a mimosa stuff.
00:43:33Yum, yum.
00:43:35Hey, it's Kelly!
00:43:37Hello! Yay, you made it!
00:43:39Hi!
00:43:41You look so good!
00:43:43Perfect timing.
00:43:45We invited both our close friends,
00:43:47Kelly and Eric.
00:43:49Hey, Eric!
00:43:51You made it!
00:43:53Ready for boat day?
00:43:55Hell yeah! Let's do it!
00:43:57Kelly was there when we first met Ani.
00:43:59All she saw was us
00:44:01leaving the strip club
00:44:03with this tall, beautiful woman at 3 a.m.,
00:44:05and she was like, yeah, get it.
00:44:07Have fun.
00:44:09Here's some cab money.
00:44:11I'll see you later.
00:44:13See you guys later!
00:44:17To new adventures!
00:44:23Cheers!
00:44:27Our friends are shocked that we're moving things forward
00:44:29with Ani because they never thought
00:44:31this will go on for so long.
00:44:33Especially seeing us
00:44:35with fun adventures before.
00:44:37I thought that they thought that this was
00:44:39going to be a fun adventure.
00:44:41I don't think they thought it was serious at all.
00:44:43So last time we saw you guys
00:44:45was Matt's birthday.
00:44:47Yeah, it's been a while.
00:44:49So we wanted to see you guys
00:44:51before our trip to Mexico.
00:44:53This trip is different
00:44:55because we want to
00:44:57see her place,
00:44:59see her life, her friends,
00:45:01her family.
00:45:03We're looking for that gut feeling
00:45:05because we want to bring her to San Diego
00:45:07to see her family.
00:45:13We see a forever life with her.
00:45:15We see us building a family
00:45:17and doing this blended family together.
00:45:19Yeah, integrating a family.
00:45:21How do you plan to bring her to the U.S.?
00:45:23Our options are limited.
00:45:25It would have to be like
00:45:27something called a K-1 visa,
00:45:29which is fiancé visa.
00:45:33Fiancé visa.
00:45:35You guys are already married.
00:45:37You know, me and Amini
00:45:39have talked about it for a while
00:45:41and we're very comfortable
00:45:43with the positions that we hold
00:45:45in each other's lives.
00:45:47So I don't care if by paperwork
00:45:49you want to call me a husband or a boyfriend.
00:45:51I'm going to be in your lives
00:45:53no matter what.
00:45:57So we were thinking about
00:45:59separating.
00:46:01Getting a divorce.
00:46:03Wait.
00:46:05Whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:46:07It's just on paper.
00:46:09It's got to have to happen.
00:46:11We don't feel like,
00:46:13okay, what is the worst case scenario?
00:46:15I don't see them running away together.
00:46:17We're not going to run away together.
00:46:19Matt and Amini
00:46:21are talking about divorcing in order
00:46:23to bring her into the relationship
00:46:25and there's so much they don't know.
00:46:27To be talking, not just getting married
00:46:29to someone you don't know, but to divorce
00:46:31in order to bring in someone into this marriage,
00:46:33it just, it seems excessive
00:46:35and it seems really fast to me.
00:46:37I don't want you
00:46:39getting taken advantage of.
00:46:41I know she's supposed to be a boss bitch,
00:46:43she's working so hard, but I know you spend money on her.
00:46:45I come from a country
00:46:47with not much opportunities, you know?
00:46:49So it could have been me
00:46:51where she is today.
00:46:53See, I understand that
00:46:55but you're legally tying yourself
00:46:57to someone that I feel like you barely know.
00:46:59It's been a year.
00:47:01I was there when you met her, I know how long
00:47:03but I also know that it's not a year straight.
00:47:05There's a difference between an entire
00:47:07year with somebody and seeing them through
00:47:09good and bad times and then going on
00:47:11vacation with them a couple times.
00:47:13Matt and I were together for
00:47:15three months before we got married.
00:47:17One week before we moved in together
00:47:19and we're still here
00:47:21and when you know, you know.
00:47:23Matt first told me
00:47:25six months ago that they're
00:47:27opening up that they found somebody that they're partnering up with.
00:47:29A lot of people out there in this world
00:47:31live in poly relationships.
00:47:33He seems excited about it, he likes it
00:47:35but I'm mostly concerned just about overall
00:47:37Matt's well-being, just make sure that he is
00:47:39going through what he wants to do in life.
00:47:41Is he doing this because it's going to make his wife happy?
00:47:43Is he going to do it because it makes him happy?
00:47:45You guys got married
00:47:47for a reason. Now you want a divorce
00:47:49for this one person you met
00:47:51a year ago, which is fine, I get it.
00:47:53You guys are in love, whatever. Lust is there.
00:47:55Is this more
00:47:57important than the reason you got
00:47:59married for?
00:48:01Just keep that in mind.
00:48:03Have you done
00:48:05polyamory relationships?
00:48:07The lady I was with,
00:48:09I remember her, we dabbled
00:48:11with other women in our relationships.
00:48:13How did that go?
00:48:15We had a lot of fun, believe me.
00:48:17Several different ladies, but the thing is
00:48:19I learned that I became jealous
00:48:21because they started spending time together.
00:48:23They started laughing
00:48:25and having their internal jokes.
00:48:27And it's hard.
00:48:29Those little private moments,
00:48:31those are the things that got me.
00:48:33We just kind of really started growing apart.
00:48:35Maybe we lost
00:48:37connection.
00:48:39There's some
00:48:41truth in some of the facts that they bring up.
00:48:43I tend
00:48:45to be more jealous, I admit it.
00:48:47And being in a
00:48:49throuple, that's an uneven number.
00:48:51So somebody
00:48:53most likely is going to feel left out.
00:48:55This trip
00:48:57is even more nerve-wracking now
00:48:59because we have all these things in the back
00:49:01of our head now that we have to get
00:49:03answered. Does she feel the
00:49:05same about us as we feel about her?
00:49:07Is she
00:49:09ready to take this to the
00:49:11next level? Is this for the right intentions?
00:49:13Nobody wants to hear
00:49:15I told you so. We want to prove
00:49:17them wrong.
00:49:21The situation with the girl
00:49:23reaching out, I'm just still nervous about that.
00:49:25A lady reached out
00:49:27to me and had said that she
00:49:29had met Juan on a cruise and that
00:49:31they had hooked up.
00:49:33I mean, honestly, I worry about that.
00:49:35But, you know, if he wants to cheat, there's a will, there's
00:49:37a way. I think Juan thinks
00:49:39maybe it's in the past, but
00:49:41I still have questions I need answered
00:49:43and I will be getting those.
00:49:47You really feel like she's in it
00:49:49for the right reasons and not just because
00:49:51she wants to come to the U.S. and because you
00:49:53pay for everything?
00:49:55Maybe that's a 2% fear.
00:49:57My dad is just so in love
00:49:59with her and I don't think he really sees
00:50:01what she could potentially
00:50:03be doing to our family.
00:50:05Are you comfortable getting a prenup?
00:50:19Boobies!
00:50:21Good morning!
00:50:25Good morning, sweetness!
00:50:27How are you, huh?
00:50:29How are you?
00:50:37Boys!
00:50:39Time to wake up!
00:50:41Time to wake up,
00:50:43Dayan! Dayan!
00:50:45Wake up! It's time
00:50:47for school. We gotta get ready for school.
00:50:49It's time to get up.
00:50:51So, a normal routine
00:50:53for us in the house is a little bit crazy,
00:50:55a little bit
00:50:57crazy mixed with chaos mixed with
00:50:59wonderful. Dayan, you're brushing
00:51:01your teeth?
00:51:03You can't wear shorts, so you're gonna need pants.
00:51:05It's not summer weather.
00:51:07On school days, it's waking up,
00:51:09getting the boys up, getting them ready for school,
00:51:11getting me ready for work,
00:51:13all at the same time. David wakes up,
00:51:15the boys sometimes have to be
00:51:17reminded, like, four different things.
00:51:19And did you flush the potty and wash your hands?
00:51:33What's a normal day like?
00:51:35You just run around
00:51:37and you gotta get dressed.
00:51:39Yeah.
00:51:41Boys,
00:51:43you guys can go get in the car
00:51:45and get buckled up.
00:51:47I think I'm the most
00:51:49worried about Juan coming here and it's
00:51:51like, straight to work, straight to business,
00:51:53time to start family life, time to
00:51:55raise our child together.
00:51:57I know.
00:51:59I'm a
00:52:01mental health counselor in private practice
00:52:03and, you know, I work
00:52:05quite a bit, so he's gonna have to step up
00:52:07and help me out.
00:52:10I have
00:52:12sacrificed a lot for him for his job
00:52:14and now it's his turn to
00:52:16sacrifice and bend over a little bit for my job.
00:52:18Okay, we ready?
00:52:20Yeah.
00:52:31Um, okay, there's
00:52:33jeans.
00:52:35Get him a nice, like...
00:52:37You're gonna have to get him a car
00:52:39heart. Get him a nice cowboy
00:52:41shirt. Cowboy shirt.
00:52:43He would look great.
00:52:45Meg and I
00:52:47have been friends forever and we're both counselors
00:52:49and Amanda is like our office
00:52:51assistant. They're both really feisty and
00:52:53really opinionated and they're protective
00:52:55of me, like I'm their friend, and so obviously they
00:52:57want to protect me and my feelings
00:52:59and not get hurt.
00:53:01This looks like something
00:53:03I could see him in.
00:53:05Yeah, the gray hoodie's perfect. The gray hoodie
00:53:07like balances it out. It does. And he's never had a winter
00:53:09coat in his life. No. Probably his first time
00:53:11wearing gloves. Has he ever actually seen snow?
00:53:13No. Nope. Nope. This will be a first
00:53:15too. He's gonna get on the plate,
00:53:17get off, and turn right back around
00:53:19like, nope.
00:53:21My original hope was that Juan could be
00:53:23here in the summertime and like we could
00:53:25ease into the cold weather and
00:53:27not be like, bam, cold
00:53:29right away. But that's not
00:53:31what's happening and he gets here in
00:53:33December.
00:53:35A lot of times during the winter it will be
00:53:37negative 10, negative 15,
00:53:39like last year it got like negative 60.
00:53:41It freezes your ears off
00:53:43and it like burns.
00:53:45It hurts so bad, like it gives you such an earache.
00:53:47That's definitely the worst part. I mean, I
00:53:49feel the pressure to like make this
00:53:51you know, his home and
00:53:53for him to feel comfortable.
00:53:55Well, almost all your guys' time has been
00:53:57on vacation, on cruises,
00:53:59in Colombia.
00:54:01Now he's gonna see Jessica
00:54:03constant working, plus
00:54:05three boys. How is he gonna deal with that?
00:54:07I think there's parts of it, the money and
00:54:09some of the travels that are gonna be hard for him
00:54:11to leave
00:54:13behind. Yeah, I definitely
00:54:15have a concern about him coming here and not
00:54:17being able to make money and then wanting to go back on the
00:54:19cruise. That's what I'm worried about.
00:54:21Megan and Amanda
00:54:23are more skeptical because about
00:54:25eight months after Juan and I had
00:54:27been engaged, a lady
00:54:29reached out to me and had said that
00:54:31she had met Juan on a cruise
00:54:33and that they had
00:54:35hooked up and I was
00:54:37really confused by it.
00:54:39I know she texted you, she
00:54:41called you, basically
00:54:43saying that we had something
00:54:45but we never had something.
00:54:49Juan was trying to reassure me of
00:54:51what his role was in that and that it
00:54:53didn't happen. I did want to talk
00:54:55to you about you going
00:54:57back to the cruise where
00:54:59it's easy to do something and get
00:55:01away with it.
00:55:03I haven't cheated
00:55:05on you and I wouldn't cheat on you
00:55:07no matter what.
00:55:11Since then, you know, we've had a kid together
00:55:13and he's finally coming to America so I'm
00:55:15definitely trying to move past all that
00:55:17but truthfully, I know
00:55:19there's something that my friends don't
00:55:21know and I'm a little nervous about
00:55:23what will happen if that comes to light.
00:55:27The situation
00:55:29with the girl reaching out, I'm just
00:55:31still nervous about that. I'm worried for your heart
00:55:33and
00:55:35yeah, I'm just really nervous.
00:55:37I mean, honestly, I worry about that. I don't think
00:55:39distance is comfortable by any means
00:55:41but, you know, if he wants to cheat, there's a
00:55:43will, there's a way. And so
00:55:45he could have easily went and did something
00:55:47and then called me right after. But how
00:55:49am I going to know that?
00:55:51I know you don't hold grudges but I do
00:55:53so I'll hold this for you.
00:55:55I mean, it just, it's
00:55:57nerve-wracking.
00:55:59I really
00:56:01struggle trusting Juan now, still
00:56:03to this day because of that situation
00:56:05and what that lady said.
00:56:07It's not something
00:56:09that I take lightly and Jessica
00:56:11deserves nothing but the best
00:56:13for her life.
00:56:15Why focus on something
00:56:17like that when we can
00:56:19just focus on like
00:56:21our beginning actually being together?
00:56:23I say forgive,
00:56:25just don't forget.
00:56:27When Juan gets here, I definitely want to have
00:56:29a conversation with him.
00:56:31I don't know if he'll be expecting that. I think he
00:56:33thinks maybe it's in the past
00:56:35and we're done with it but I'm
00:56:37not done. I still have questions I need
00:56:39answered and I will be
00:56:41getting those.
00:56:53We're thinking about having another baby.
00:56:57That's just a lot
00:56:59to take in.
00:57:01You already have one
00:57:03baby and then you're going to have another baby.
00:57:05It's going to change everything drastically.
00:57:07It's going to change the whole
00:57:09family dynamic.
00:57:19I wanted to discuss it with you because she's
00:57:21thrown it out there like multiple times.
00:57:23I mean I already
00:57:25accepted that you had
00:57:27one baby
00:57:29so I don't think I'm ready to accept
00:57:31you having another one yet.
00:57:33I mean maybe if I felt more
00:57:35welcomed by her then
00:57:37I would be more okay with that
00:57:39but from how it went in Paris
00:57:41I'm pretty hesitant
00:57:43about you guys having another kid.
00:57:47He should be retiring
00:57:49and changing diapers.
00:57:51I almost feel like her
00:57:53having another baby with my dad
00:57:55is her way of
00:57:57separating and
00:57:59taking control over the situation, taking
00:58:01control over him, further dividing
00:58:03the family.
00:58:05You really feel like she's in it for the right
00:58:07reasons and not just because she wants to
00:58:09come to the U.S. and because you pay for everything.
00:58:11Maybe that's a
00:58:132% fear. I want to make
00:58:15sure I'm looking at this
00:58:17fully and this is
00:58:19the rest of my life too.
00:58:21So
00:58:23are you comfortable getting a prenup?
00:58:31It's just there to protect you and you've
00:58:33worked your whole life for everything
00:58:35that you have.
00:58:37We still don't know her full intentions
00:58:39so I feel like it's just to be safe.
00:58:41And I think that
00:58:43if she freaks out about it
00:58:45and refuses, I think that that is a red flag.
00:58:49I get why a
00:58:51prenup is valuable but
00:58:53I'm hesitant about it because
00:58:55after my first marriage ended, after
00:58:5719 years, I started
00:58:59dating a younger girl named Jade.
00:59:01So things got pretty
00:59:03serious between Jade and I.
00:59:05At one point I brought up
00:59:07a prenup because I just was going through
00:59:09a divorce and lawyers and
00:59:11dealing with that and she flipped out
00:59:13on me and ultimately
00:59:15our relationship fell apart for
00:59:17those reasons and I do
00:59:19see the value in having it but I'm
00:59:21going to make the choices that fit Mina and
00:59:23Maria and me and our family
00:59:25right now.
00:59:27You know
00:59:29I'm never going to
00:59:31allow myself to be in a position
00:59:33where she asks me to choose between her
00:59:35and you.
00:59:39Do you trust me on that?
00:59:41Yeah.
00:59:43You sure?
00:59:45Yeah, I do.
00:59:51My dad is just so in love with her
00:59:53and I don't think he really sees what she
00:59:55could potentially be doing
00:59:57to our family. I think she might think
00:59:59that she can get away with it but
01:00:01when Mina finally comes to the
01:00:03United States, this isn't going to fly anymore
01:00:05and I think that we might have to have some hard
01:00:07conversations.
01:00:11He's
01:00:13from Iran
01:00:15and we will have 90 days
01:00:17to get married.
01:00:21Of course I have some
01:00:23concerns.
01:00:25I really want you to be able to
01:00:27meet him and be there.
01:00:29That's just important.
01:00:31They hate Americans, you know that, huh?
01:00:41My heart's pounding.
01:01:03Honestly
01:01:05I am
01:01:07ready to get the conversation
01:01:09behind me but the thought of it
01:01:11not going well is kind of
01:01:13torturing my brain a little
01:01:15and if his reaction is not good,
01:01:17I don't think I'll be able to handle it.
01:01:19You made it, huh?
01:01:21Yes.
01:01:23How you doing?
01:01:25Okay.
01:01:27Is it what you had a problem with?
01:01:29It is making a whining noise
01:01:31but I knocked the
01:01:33what's it called?
01:01:35The spoiler? How'd you do that?
01:01:37I don't know.
01:01:39I was just going down the road and it was like flapping and making noise.
01:01:41My dad was a
01:01:43mechanic and I took him straight up
01:01:45doing body of paint work.
01:01:47I've always taken care of Stevie and her vehicles.
01:01:49Can't do this anymore, Stevie.
01:01:51Can we do it?
01:01:53You just stand there and look pretty and that'll be good enough.
01:01:55I'm really looking forward to seeing her today.
01:01:57She just brings a certain joy with her, you know?
01:01:59She's getting old.
01:02:01Do you want to stop for a minute?
01:02:03Sit down and rest.
01:02:05Okay.
01:02:09So what's been going on?
01:02:11A lot.
01:02:17I'm putting it off
01:02:19but I have to tell you
01:02:21it's probably going to be a bit shocking.
01:02:23You mean it's going to make me mad?
01:02:25It better not.
01:02:29So do you remember the time I went to Turkey?
01:02:31Mm-hmm.
01:02:33Um...
01:02:35I said,
01:02:37I'm going to see people I work with
01:02:39and you said something to me.
01:02:41Do you remember what you said?
01:02:43Well, first of all, I told you...
01:02:45No, I don't have a clue what I said.
01:02:47Really?
01:02:49I told you it was crazy.
01:02:51You said nobody goes across the world unless...
01:02:53Unless they're going to see somebody.
01:02:55Yeah.
01:02:57I did meet somebody there
01:02:59that was one of my students,
01:03:01and I was not lying to you,
01:03:03but I ended up having a lot of feelings for this person.
01:03:05Is it he?
01:03:07Dad!
01:03:09Well, you keep saying that person.
01:03:11Stop, stop, stop.
01:03:13What's his name?
01:03:15Maddie.
01:03:17The guy?
01:03:19Yeah, but my name's Stevie.
01:03:21And I've dealt with that my whole life.
01:03:23But with that being said,
01:03:25the country he's from is not that good.
01:03:27The government is not good.
01:03:29He's from Iran.
01:03:37They hate Americans, you know that, huh?
01:03:39He obviously don't hate me.
01:03:41Does he speak English?
01:03:43Yes, very good English.
01:03:45Probably don't speak redneck a bit.
01:03:47He don't.
01:03:51With her meeting somebody from Iran,
01:03:55of course I have, you know,
01:03:57some, um,
01:03:59some concerns.
01:04:01The way men and women are treated,
01:04:03they keep their women very well oppressed.
01:04:05I think we all know that.
01:04:07It's gonna have to be a shock.
01:04:09I mean, it's gonna be a lot of differences going on.
01:04:11Is it over with now?
01:04:13You got it out of your system?
01:04:15It's definitely something
01:04:17that I do want to follow through with,
01:04:19and I do love him,
01:04:21and I do care about him.
01:04:23And he did tell me
01:04:25that he's gonna spend the rest of his life with me.
01:04:27Oh.
01:04:29Ugh.
01:04:31I wanted to tell you sooner,
01:04:33but I waited till the last minute,
01:04:35and he's coming
01:04:37tomorrow now.
01:04:39What, what?
01:04:41Coming where?
01:04:43He'll be coming on his K-1 visa,
01:04:45and we will have 90 days
01:04:47to get married.
01:04:49I hear you now.
01:04:51Yeah.
01:04:55I don't...
01:04:57They can just get out of marriage.
01:04:59I know it seems crazy,
01:05:01and I would have never expected that,
01:05:03but I fell in love with this person,
01:05:05and I like them, and that's how it is.
01:05:07Mm.
01:05:09Girl.
01:05:11Yeah, I know. It's a lot.
01:05:13Is he gonna make you wear a g-hug?
01:05:15Yeah.
01:05:17Is he gonna make you wear a g-hug
01:05:19and not drive over, do anything?
01:05:21No, not at all. No, he's not.
01:05:23Mm-mm.
01:05:25You don't know? You're his property.
01:05:27No, it's not like that.
01:05:29It is like that. It's not like that.
01:05:31I'm telling you, I know him, and it's not like that.
01:05:33You had to bring him, wait on him hand and foot and stuff
01:05:35or whatever? No, absolutely not.
01:05:37Once you get to know somebody,
01:05:39they start changing or something.
01:05:41No.
01:05:43I wasn't expecting to hear that.
01:05:45My expectations as far as his upbringing and stuff,
01:05:47that's different from ours.
01:05:49We need to stop and rethink this
01:05:51whole situation.
01:05:53It was the last minute,
01:05:55didn't you, huh? I did.
01:05:57I think even though this
01:05:59wasn't like, it feels like
01:06:01it happened faster than I would have liked,
01:06:03I think sometimes timing can be perfect
01:06:05even when it's imperfect, and I really want
01:06:07you to be able to meet him and be there.
01:06:09That's just important to me.
01:06:12That's the only thing that makes me cry
01:06:14is when I think about it.
01:06:16About what?
01:06:18About you.
01:06:20What did I do?
01:06:22Nothing. I just love you, and I want you here forever.
01:06:26Well, I'm going to be here forever.
01:06:28That's right.
01:06:34Even though we only have 90 days,
01:06:36I would need your approval before I married someone,
01:06:38but most importantly,
01:06:40I couldn't do something like that
01:06:42unless I had you walk me down the aisle.
01:06:44Would you be willing to do that?
01:06:48That's going to lock there, Stevie.
01:06:50I mean, I don't know the guy yet.
01:06:52If you say you're in love,
01:06:54love is blind sometimes.
01:06:56I might see something there that, you know?
01:06:58And then if you approve of him,
01:07:00then would you walk me down the aisle?
01:07:02We'll figure that out. Talk about that later.
01:07:04Yes, sir.
01:07:07Honestly, I don't know what I'll do
01:07:09if my dad doesn't approve of Maddie,
01:07:11because Maddie being from Iran
01:07:13means that his visa situation
01:07:15is much different than other people's.
01:07:18When Maddie comes here,
01:07:20we are pretty certain
01:07:22that Maddie will never be able
01:07:24to return back to his home country.
01:07:26There's a good chance
01:07:28that he won't be able to see his family
01:07:30or his friends in Iran ever again.
01:07:32It's a massive sacrifice,
01:07:34and honestly,
01:07:36it just adds a lot of stress for me.
01:07:40I won't choose between my dad or Maddie.
01:07:42I can't do that.
01:07:44So this crazy situation,
01:07:46it has to work.
01:07:48And we don't have a backup plan.
01:07:50It has to work.
01:07:52Three months.
01:07:54Three months to see if you like him.
01:07:56Oh.
01:07:58I need you liking.
01:08:04Where is this man?
01:08:06The boys have been waiting so long.
01:08:08They are just so eager for Juan to be here.
01:08:10But our relationship is not perfect.
01:08:12Nobody's is.
01:08:14And I feel a lot of pressure
01:08:16to make this home for him.
01:08:18Oh, I see him.
01:08:20I'm going for it!
01:08:34What do you think?
01:08:36Do you think Daddy's going to love these?
01:08:38Is Daddy going to love these?
01:08:40That's a yes approval.
01:08:42Yeah, that's a yes approval.
01:08:44That is a dog eat approval.
01:08:58Okay, boys, let's go, let's go.
01:09:00It's time to go get Juan.
01:09:02Let's go, let's go.
01:09:04Go, go, go, go, go.
01:09:06Today is the day,
01:09:08and I just can't wait to go to the airport
01:09:10and get Juan.
01:09:12It's pretty heavy, sweetie.
01:09:14I don't know if you can get both.
01:09:16I'm so excited to see him
01:09:18and have him in my stomping grounds.
01:09:20I just can't wait to be with him and kiss him.
01:09:22Let's hit the road.
01:09:24Okay.
01:09:26So the plan is we're going to head to the airport,
01:09:28and then we're going to stay the night in Denver
01:09:30for a three-hour drive,
01:09:32and then the next day we'll do the three-hour drive back home.
01:09:34Okay, we're ready.
01:09:36Are you guys ready to go get Juan?
01:09:38Yes.
01:09:40Like how ready?
01:09:42Like one through ten, how ready?
01:09:44A thousand.
01:09:54I'm currently at the airport.
01:09:56I'm on my way to Denver.
01:09:58I can't wait to get there to see them,
01:10:00kiss yes, hug the boys.
01:10:02This has been a long time,
01:10:04just waiting and waiting
01:10:06almost two years.
01:10:08I haven't seen my son in two months,
01:10:10so that make it
01:10:12even extra special,
01:10:14because I'm missing so much.
01:10:16Four more hours, we'll see my family.
01:10:20What happens if we're just dreamy?
01:10:22If we're dreamy and this is all a dream,
01:10:24and then we wake up?
01:10:26This is real life, Dayton,
01:10:28and he's actually coming,
01:10:30even though it still kind of feels like a dream, huh?
01:10:32Yeah.
01:10:36Are you guys feeling nervous at all?
01:10:38To see Juan?
01:10:40No, I'm happy.
01:10:42I'm feeling a little nervous.
01:10:44Why?
01:10:46Maybe because I'm so excited,
01:10:48but I'm just nervous.
01:10:50I just hope he loves it.
01:10:52I've just been waiting for so long,
01:10:54and now it's time to go, right?
01:11:10Okay, I'm going to get all our stuff,
01:11:12but you guys can get out.
01:11:14I'm ready to see your dada.
01:11:16I know, it's time for him to see his dada.
01:11:18Today Juan's coming.
01:11:20I want to run and hug him.
01:11:22This is what I'm going to do.
01:11:24I'm doing it.
01:11:28Do you think he's going to get lost
01:11:30trying to come out of here?
01:11:32Yeah.
01:11:34I feel like I'm lost trying to find him.
01:11:36I feel a ton of pressure to make this work.
01:11:38The boys have been waiting so long, too.
01:11:40I mean, they are just so eager
01:11:42for him to be here,
01:11:44but our relationship is not perfect.
01:11:46Nobody's is,
01:11:48and there's been highs and lows,
01:11:50and it's been really challenging for us.
01:11:52And it's overwhelming
01:11:54because it's like there's lots of factors,
01:11:56and there's a lot of things
01:11:58that could make him unsure of this place,
01:12:00and I feel a lot of pressure
01:12:02to just make this home for him.
01:12:08Where is this man?
01:12:10Oh, he's in Denver. He's landed.
01:12:12Yay!
01:12:14He just landed?
01:12:16He landed.
01:12:18Yay, come to us.
01:12:30Where is he?
01:12:32Where is he already?
01:12:40Oh, I see him.
01:12:42Hold your posters.
01:12:49I got him for you.
01:12:57I was ready for you.
01:12:59Hi, baby.
01:13:01Hi, daddy.
01:13:03Hi, baby.
01:13:08I missed you.
01:13:10Hi.
01:13:12Hi, daddy.
01:13:14I missed you.
01:13:16I got you.
01:13:20We've been waiting 1,381 days
01:13:22since the day I met you.
01:13:24That's a long, long wait.
01:13:26I've been patiently waiting.
01:13:28But happy to be here.
01:13:30Mom, I see it. Mom.
01:13:36I just can't believe it.
01:13:38It doesn't feel real
01:13:40finally to be here with Jess
01:13:42and just getting to be together.
01:13:44It's just amazing.
01:13:46A great feeling.
01:13:48I'm just really, really, really happy.
01:13:50You all hug me.
01:13:52Family hug.
01:13:54All my boys.
01:13:56Too much boys.
01:13:58Never too much boys.
01:14:00I'm so happy to see you guys.
01:14:02Is that your daddy?
01:14:04Still can't believe I'm here.
01:14:06I just still can't believe
01:14:08I'm with my son,
01:14:10seeing him, holding him.
01:14:12His dad to be with him,
01:14:14you know.
01:14:18Sorry,
01:14:20it just touched my heart a little.
01:14:22You know, being a dad
01:14:24and not being able to be with your son,
01:14:26it's really hard.
01:14:28It's not an easy thing to do, you know.
01:14:30It's not easy.
01:14:32Not easy.
01:14:34Not easy to be away from my son.
01:14:36My plan's in!
01:14:38My plan's in for you!
01:14:40My plan's in for you!
01:14:42No, it's nice, but
01:14:44that will keep you really warm, and this is like
01:14:46super farmer
01:14:48Wyoming American coat.
01:14:50I love it. I like this style.
01:14:52Look how warm it is.
01:14:54Everything looks so nice, I think.
01:14:56It's too far to drive home tonight to Torrington,
01:14:58so we're going to get a hotel for the night,
01:15:00and then tomorrow we'll sleep in
01:15:02and then head home.
01:15:04I have a question. Are we sharing the same room?
01:15:06Yeah, we have the same room.
01:15:08But we have, like, different beds.
01:15:10They can't have their own room.
01:15:12They're too little.
01:15:14What are you hoping for in your own room?
01:15:16That would have been amazing, you know.
01:15:20We haven't seen each other in two months.
01:15:22I mean,
01:15:24there's a bathroom.
01:15:26Yes, yes.
01:15:28Just like the cruise.
01:15:32I feel handsome.
01:15:34I feel handsome.
01:15:36I feel warm.
01:15:38It feels great.
01:15:40It looks good on you.
01:15:42How does he know how to do that, bro?
01:15:44Because I'm a father.
01:15:46Every time I see the boys,
01:15:48we're on vacations, but this time
01:15:50it's not the same. This is a whole different culture.
01:15:52It's a whole different world.
01:15:54And, yeah, I mean, I have thought about it,
01:15:56like, what I have gotten myself involved to.
01:15:58Am I good enough for this?
01:16:00Am I ready to be a stepfather
01:16:02and a father?
01:16:04I know. Hopefully when we start driving...
01:16:06Do you see what our life is?
01:16:08Yeah. Do you see what our life is?
01:16:10This is it.
01:16:12Coming from a single guy
01:16:14to becoming a father of three
01:16:16is such a big responsibility
01:16:18that I have never had in my life.
01:16:20Pressure.
01:16:22Lots of pressure.
01:16:24Welcome.
01:16:30I have worried every single day
01:16:32that Sarp would back out of this.
01:16:34We've kind of touched on what would happen
01:16:36if the K1 doesn't get approved.
01:16:38If this doesn't work out,
01:16:40we can't be together.
01:16:42What did they say?
01:16:44I don't like how your face looks.
01:16:52Kitty, kitty, kitty, kitty.
01:16:54Sweetie.
01:16:58I had to stay so strong for Sarper
01:17:00to be so positive
01:17:02that now that he's in there
01:17:04and I'm alone,
01:17:06I am feeling all my feelings,
01:17:08all my nerves.
01:17:10And I just wonder what's happening,
01:17:12if there's problems.
01:17:14So many things I'm thinking of.
01:17:16I have worried every single day
01:17:18that Sarp would back out of this.
01:17:20Because he's been so on the fence
01:17:22about going to the U.S.,
01:17:24he's like,
01:17:26I want to be with you,
01:17:28but I don't really want to go to the U.S.
01:17:30Sarper has definitely tried
01:17:32to get me to stay in Turkey
01:17:34all the way up until today
01:17:36because he has a lot of friends
01:17:38and he has a lot of family
01:17:40and he has a lot of friends
01:17:42and he has a lot of family
01:17:44because he has a lot of reservations
01:17:46about moving to the U.S.
01:17:48He doesn't want to be so far away from his parents,
01:17:50which I totally understand.
01:17:52But I think it's also just a fear of the unknown.
01:17:54We've kind of touched on
01:17:56what would happen if the K1 doesn't get approved
01:17:58and it was just too scary of a conversation.
01:18:00So we just decided not to have it.
01:18:02But basically it was going
01:18:04into the place of like,
01:18:06if this doesn't work out,
01:18:08we probably can't be together.
01:18:10I really want to find a gift
01:18:12for Sarper's parents.
01:18:14I wish that Sarper would have told them
01:18:16that he had the interview today
01:18:18so they could be mentally preparing
01:18:20for, you know,
01:18:22the answer that he's going to get.
01:18:24But he wanted to save it.
01:18:26So, you know,
01:18:28it's going to be a surprise to them
01:18:30when they find out, I'm sure.
01:18:32I don't know how they're going to take it.
01:18:34One of the things
01:18:36that's really difficult
01:18:38about today,
01:18:40if he does get approved,
01:18:42is that it will be a long time
01:18:44before he can come back to Turkey
01:18:46to see his family again.
01:18:48And that's hard.
01:18:50I think I'll get this little set.
01:18:52Thank you so much.
01:18:54I love them.
01:18:56Thanks.
01:18:58I think it's going to be
01:19:00one of Sarper's biggest struggles
01:19:02being in the U.S. is just knowing
01:19:04that he's so far away from his parents.
01:19:06You know, he's an older
01:19:08and it's just, you know,
01:19:10he's an only child.
01:19:12He's their everything.
01:19:14So I'm worried all the time
01:19:16that this isn't going to actually go through.
01:19:18Even if he gets approved,
01:19:20I am still afraid he could back out.
01:19:22Because he could.
01:19:24I'm so nervous right now.
01:19:26I'm waiting for Sarper.
01:19:28This is the spot we agreed to meet at.
01:19:30And I just don't know what happened.
01:19:32Like, I don't know what he's been through
01:19:34for the past three hours.
01:19:36I'm dying to know what happened.
01:19:44A lot is riding on me.
01:19:46I don't know what to do.
01:19:48I don't know what to do.
01:19:50I don't know what to do.
01:19:52A lot is riding on this
01:19:54and I feel it.
01:19:56Like, this is such a serious moment.
01:19:58And, you know,
01:20:00we're never going to have this moment again.
01:20:02Like, it needs to be good news.
01:20:06So, I really hope
01:20:08he got a good answer.
01:20:22Baby.
01:20:24I don't like how your face looks.
01:20:26What happened?
01:20:28Why'd that take so long?
01:20:30What happened?
01:20:32Are you okay?
01:20:38This season on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:20:40This is not fair.
01:20:42It's Maria.
01:20:44I am utterly head over heels
01:20:46for you.
01:20:48I don't know what to do.
01:20:50I am utterly head over heels for you.
01:20:54That was close.
01:20:58It's like a different planet
01:21:00to me. I feel weird.
01:21:02Like, I do not belong here,
01:21:04but I like it here.
01:21:06Rabbi, you opened the gate.
01:21:08Oh.
01:21:10My. God.
01:21:12What is this?
01:21:14Oh, man.
01:21:16Oscar.
01:21:18Whoa.
01:21:20You know what would make me feel better?
01:21:22Like a quickie?
01:21:24Can't wait to squeeze that booty.
01:21:30Hi, Greg.
01:21:34As of right now,
01:21:36my fiancé, Joan, and I
01:21:38are living at home with my mother.
01:21:40I thought we would be moving out.
01:21:42Well, I'm hoping a year and a half, two years.
01:21:44I thought people
01:21:46living in America were stable, but they're not.
01:21:48What do your kids say
01:21:50when you talk to them about your relationship?
01:21:52They don't know I'm getting married.
01:21:54Wait. They don't know you're getting married?
01:21:56No.
01:21:58What else don't they know?
01:22:02Have you guys talked anymore
01:22:04about a prenup?
01:22:06We're gonna do that. Yeah.
01:22:08You think I come just for
01:22:10your money, Mark, you too?
01:22:12Your
01:22:14contract.
01:22:16Still think
01:22:18that I would be a better guy to be with.
01:22:20Stop. What are you saying?
01:22:22We went on dates.
01:22:24We've done more than just kissing.
01:22:26You better not want to have problems
01:22:28with me, for sure.
01:22:30Really?
01:22:32What the f*** is going on?
01:22:36You should have told me.
01:22:38I've already done it. What do you want me to do about it?
01:22:40It's the second time.
01:22:42I feel like I made a mistake coming here.
01:22:46Next time I go to Bologna, I'm gonna tell
01:22:48my ex-girlfriend to come while I'm alone.
01:22:50I mean, I did tell you.
01:22:52I did tell you.
01:22:54I don't want to be here.
01:22:56For real.
01:22:58So I just, yeah.
01:23:00I'm just done with this.
01:23:02Nice meeting you, man. Nothing personal. Sorry about that.
01:23:04Are you not telling people
01:23:06you're in a serious relationship?
01:23:08Tell people you are in a serious relationship, yes or no.
01:23:10Please answer my question.
01:23:12No.
01:23:14Honey.
01:23:16No, I am done.
01:23:18Honey.
01:23:20You can't turn a f***ing hoe
01:23:22into a housewife. That's what the f*** is going on.