90 Day Fiance S11 E02
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:02Mom!
00:00:03Yeah!
00:00:06The boys are just so eager for Juan to be here.
00:00:09Hi, Dada!
00:00:10Hi!
00:00:11I missed you!
00:00:13But our relationship is not perfect.
00:00:16The situation with the girl reaching out,
00:00:18I'm just still nervous about that.
00:00:20I mean, I don't want to say worry,
00:00:21but, you know, if he wants to cheat,
00:00:23there's a will, there's a way.
00:00:24I really struggle trusting Juan.
00:00:26I still have questions I need answered,
00:00:28and I will be getting those.
00:00:32Ah, everyone looks good.
00:00:33My fiancé, Mina, she's 35.
00:00:36I'm 58.
00:00:38At my age, you know, this is not plan A, B, C.
00:00:41This is big plan Z.
00:00:43Have a kid.
00:00:45You really feel like she's in it for the right reasons,
00:00:47and not just because she wants to come to the U.S.
00:00:50and because you pay for everything.
00:00:52I don't think he sees the potential
00:00:54that this could cause if it doesn't go right.
00:00:57Are you comfortable getting a prenup?
00:01:02He's from Iran,
00:01:04and we will have 90 days to get married.
00:01:08No, you're not.
00:01:10When Maddie comes here,
00:01:13we are pretty certain
00:01:15that Maddie will never be able
00:01:17to return back to his home country.
00:01:19They hate Americans, you know that, huh?
00:01:21I need you liking.
00:01:22I don't know the guy yet.
00:01:24I don't have a plan B,
00:01:26but honestly, I don't know what I'll do
00:01:28if he says, no, you're not marrying this guy.
00:01:35I'm going to U.S. Embassy
00:01:37to have an interview to get my K-1 visa.
00:01:40You will understand from my face...
00:01:42Yeah. ...how it's going.
00:01:44I can't live in Turkey,
00:01:46so Sarpar has to come to the U.S.,
00:01:48or else we don't really stand a chance.
00:01:51What happened?
00:01:54Why'd that take so long?
00:01:56Are you okay?
00:02:21I'm going to change in the airport
00:02:23and put this on just in case I throw up on myself
00:02:25when I go over a bridge.
00:02:27I will have something to change into.
00:02:36Why are you nervous about going over a bridge?
00:02:39So ever since I was little,
00:02:41I've always gotten a little bit sick
00:02:43when I drive on bridges.
00:02:45Sometimes I throw up, sometimes I don't.
00:02:47So I'm hoping today I won't be too anxious.
00:02:51I might look like your normal Southern girl,
00:02:54but I think there's a lot of things
00:02:56that Maddie might be taken aback by a little bit
00:02:58when he gets here.
00:03:00I'm just going to grab a bag in case I puke.
00:03:03It's a pretty big list, actually.
00:03:05I don't wear pants in the house
00:03:08because I like to be comfortable.
00:03:11I'm a little bit SPD.
00:03:13I like for things to be put back where they belong.
00:03:16I have night terrors.
00:03:18I frequently need naps,
00:03:21and I fall asleep while I'm eating.
00:03:24And Maddie's experienced a pretty bad nightmare
00:03:26that I had while I was in Turkey,
00:03:28and I was almost certain
00:03:30he would never speak to me again after that.
00:03:32Maddie has been warned about most of my quirks.
00:03:35He knows about them, but he's never lived with them,
00:03:38so I think it's going to be different.
00:03:44And, oh, my poster.
00:03:47Maddie left Iran yesterday,
00:03:50and now he's on a flight to New Orleans,
00:03:53which is about two hours from Hattiesburg.
00:03:56Going to the city, there's a huge bridge
00:03:59that goes over water and swampland.
00:04:01I don't drive over that bridge ever,
00:04:04and going over that bridge to get to Maddie
00:04:08is a lot for me.
00:04:10I'm trying not to puke,
00:04:12on top of feeling super anxious about seeing Maddie again.
00:04:15I just don't feel good inside.
00:04:22Oh, my God.
00:04:24I don't like this bridge at all.
00:04:31Oh, my God.
00:04:35I really don't feel great.
00:04:37Even though I'm terrified to drive over bridges,
00:04:41doing this is nothing
00:04:43when it comes to comparison of Maddie
00:04:45leaving his whole entire family to come here to be with me.
00:04:48I just don't feel good.
00:04:53When Maddie was telling his family goodbye yesterday
00:04:56and, like, leaving,
00:04:58I didn't expect to feel like the amount of emotions that I felt,
00:05:02because I saw him crying for a little bit,
00:05:04and that was really hard,
00:05:05because I do carry a lot of guilt
00:05:07knowing that he probably won't ever be able
00:05:09to go back to his home country.
00:05:11He just continues to tell me that I'm worth it, so...
00:05:15Sometimes I don't feel like I am,
00:05:17but I'm just grateful that he's doing it,
00:05:22even though I know it's extremely hard.
00:05:25I definitely feel a lot of pressure to make this work.
00:05:28I want it to work.
00:05:29I think it will work if I didn't think
00:05:31that I would have never gone this far,
00:05:34but it is very scary.
00:05:36Maddie and I have only spent one week together physically,
00:05:39so there's still a lot to learn about each other.
00:05:42But on top of that,
00:05:43after Maddie arrives in the United States,
00:05:46he may not be able to go back home at all.
00:05:49Iran was not the best place,
00:05:52but Maddie had a good life in Iran.
00:05:55He had a loving family, and he had good friends,
00:05:58and I think I've spent a lot of nights
00:06:01crying about Maddie leaving his family,
00:06:03although I don't tell him that.
00:06:05I'm just very hopeful that what we had for that week in Turkey
00:06:10will translate when he's here in the United States,
00:06:13because I don't know what we'll do if it doesn't.
00:06:18music plays
00:06:21bell rings
00:06:46I think Maddie is close to being here.
00:06:51My poster.
00:07:01I need to change my shirt.
00:07:17He just landed.
00:07:21There was a period of my life where I was really worried
00:07:23that Maddie might not ever be able to come to the U.S.,
00:07:26or maybe his government or our government
00:07:28would restrict that from happening.
00:07:30And honestly, up until the very last second,
00:07:33I'm even worried about him getting here.
00:07:35So I think just seeing him in the airport
00:07:38is just going to feel like we made it,
00:07:41like we're okay.
00:07:44I feel so anxious.
00:07:47I'm overwhelmed.
00:07:50I don't know which side he's coming from.
00:07:55Ah!
00:08:17music plays
00:08:36Oh, my God.
00:08:39music plays
00:08:59My name is Maddie.
00:09:01I'm 27 years old, and I'm from Iran, Tehran.
00:09:04Although I always try to introduce myself as Persian
00:09:07because it sounds, like, more friendly than Iranian.
00:09:12Ah!
00:09:15You want to take a seat?
00:09:17Yeah, I can sit.
00:09:20When I saw her coming down from this glider,
00:09:24I felt, like, amazing.
00:09:27She wasn't just a person for me there.
00:09:30She was just, like, family, home, friend, wife,
00:09:35and everything to me.
00:09:37I felt amazing hugging her.
00:09:39Oh, my God. Please just sit down. Just sit down.
00:09:42I love this.
00:09:47It's so weird. I can't.
00:09:49I know.
00:09:51I really love this sign that Stevie has made for me.
00:09:55In Farsi, when you want to say someone belongs to you,
00:09:59you have to just use M at the end of their name.
00:10:03She has written Mahdi, which means, like, my Mahdi.
00:10:07And that felt perfect.
00:10:10I'm really excited, babe.
00:10:13How long have you been waiting?
00:10:15An eternity.
00:10:17It's been a long day.
00:10:20You left your bag over there.
00:10:22Do you want me to just go get them?
00:10:24No, you're not leaving me ever for the rest of your life.
00:10:27Yeah.
00:10:30My parents are not...
00:10:32actually are not feeling good with me leaving.
00:10:39I've never had this many emotions at the same time.
00:10:43Like, when I look at the future,
00:10:45I know that the U.S. is going to give me
00:10:48something that I've never had.
00:10:50But when I look back, I see that I left my family there.
00:10:55And...
00:10:57I hope I...
00:10:59I can...
00:11:02I can get back and see them.
00:11:06But there is, like, high risk that I cannot ever go back.
00:11:12OK.
00:11:14Yeah, I'm fine.
00:11:16OK.
00:11:33What happened?
00:11:35Why'd that take so long?
00:11:37What happened?
00:11:39Are you OK?
00:11:47What did they say to you?
00:11:49They didn't let me.
00:11:51They didn't permit me.
00:11:53You're kidding me.
00:11:55You have everything.
00:11:57They said it will be unfair to let you in.
00:11:59Why?
00:12:01For American guys, because I am too handsome.
00:12:06I'm so mad at you!
00:12:08And I said, I assure you, I am taken.
00:12:10I am approved.
00:12:12Oh!
00:12:14Oh, my God.
00:12:16Yeah.
00:12:18You made me so scared.
00:12:20I got it.
00:12:22You know, I got K1.
00:12:24Finally. Oh, my God.
00:12:26It's better than orgasm, you know?
00:12:28Peeing, orgasm and K1.
00:12:31The three best things in this life.
00:12:36They asked me, what are you doing for a living?
00:12:38And I said, I'm a professional narcissist.
00:12:40You did not.
00:12:42Did they really say that?
00:12:44Yeah.
00:12:46I love that you took her sense of humor with you.
00:12:48I got it, babe.
00:12:50I'm so happy.
00:12:52I've been so nervous this whole time.
00:12:54Don't shake, babe.
00:12:56Are you ready for me?
00:12:58Yeah, so we can be together in the US.
00:13:00Are you ready?
00:13:02I love you.
00:13:04I'm so excited.
00:13:06Can we sit down?
00:13:08I feel so shaky.
00:13:10The interview was so stressful, you know?
00:13:12I mean, I did my best.
00:13:14Because she kind of told me something
00:13:16that I have to be as calm as possible.
00:13:18Because I'm an asshole.
00:13:20I can say anything.
00:13:22I can mess it up.
00:13:24So I was there.
00:13:26I tried to be as cute as possible.
00:13:28I mean, that dominant guy,
00:13:30that alpha male guy,
00:13:32went away.
00:13:34And the guy, whatever he says,
00:13:36yes, yes, sir, yes, sir, like this.
00:13:38And I got it.
00:13:40We have so much to do, babe.
00:13:42We have to pack the apartment.
00:13:44We have to, well, we have to tell your family first.
00:13:46Yeah, we have to tell them.
00:13:48How do you feel about that?
00:13:50I don't know if it's good news for them or not.
00:13:52In Turkey,
00:13:54they rely on their child
00:13:56when they get old.
00:13:58People are like this.
00:14:00And I'm the only child of my family.
00:14:02And they're old.
00:14:04I mean, if something happens,
00:14:06you know, negative, but I always think negative.
00:14:08You know that?
00:14:10Nothing will happen, babe.
00:14:12And we'll come back and visit them lots.
00:14:14And they can hopefully come visit us in L.A.
00:14:18Now I have to tell my family
00:14:20that I am approved.
00:14:22But I didn't even say
00:14:24that I have an interview.
00:14:26It won't be so easy
00:14:28to tell them.
00:14:30They are old.
00:14:32They want to be with me
00:14:34until the end of their lives
00:14:36with their only child.
00:14:38The worst scenario can be
00:14:40if they say, don't go.
00:14:42I don't know what to do then.
00:14:52Hey, Mom.
00:14:54Oh, hello, dear. You home?
00:14:56Yep. So right now, I'm living at home
00:14:58with my mother.
00:15:00My fiance, Joan, is a little skeptical about it.
00:15:02You know, it's a huge cock block.
00:15:04Would you consider a separate room?
00:15:06I don't want to hear
00:15:08what goes on sexually.
00:15:10It's kind of got me shaking
00:15:12my boots a little bit here.
00:15:14I can't do that to her. That's not right.
00:15:32Oh, my God.
00:15:34Did that just get in my hair?
00:15:38I'm Gregory. I'm 35 years old,
00:15:40and I'm from Long Island, New York.
00:15:50People really love this, you know, the slapping.
00:15:52People actually pay me extra
00:15:54to slap their dough a little bit more,
00:15:56spank their bread a little bit more,
00:15:58you know what I'm saying?
00:16:00I discovered my passion for baking,
00:16:02I'd say it started when I was a little kid, you know?
00:16:04My mom was always big into cooking,
00:16:06and it's something I always enjoyed,
00:16:08just always enjoyed watching her.
00:16:10I enjoyed eating it, you know?
00:16:12I always enjoyed eating everything.
00:16:16I come from a very Italian,
00:16:18like, American background,
00:16:20so everything we do is just based around food.
00:16:24We got the grill master over here.
00:16:26There'll be chicken-colored parmesan.
00:16:28There'll be a baked ziti plate,
00:16:30but then also there's like,
00:16:32oh, yeah, I ordered a pizza.
00:16:34She's making Swedish meatballs,
00:16:36I'm making Italian-style meatballs,
00:16:38you know what I'm saying, meatballs.
00:16:40So it's kind of like this vicious cycle
00:16:42of eating and cooking and eating and cooking
00:16:44and eating and cooking,
00:16:46which, you know, perpetually came on to me
00:16:48as I got older.
00:16:50Oh, my God.
00:16:52That used to be, like, 480 pounds.
00:16:54It's insane.
00:16:56And seeing that every day
00:16:58finally just pushed me to the point
00:17:00where I wanted to lose weight
00:17:02and just get rid of this and feel better.
00:17:04Between 2017 and 2019,
00:17:06I ended up losing around 200 pounds.
00:17:08Losing weight actually inspired me
00:17:10to just, you know, redefine myself
00:17:12and figure out who I was.
00:17:20What's up, Bruce?
00:17:22It's good to see you.
00:17:24Working in a bakery is definitely something
00:17:26that I would love to put all my energy into.
00:17:28I got your bread here, so...
00:17:30Oh, I love your bread. Thank you so much.
00:17:32No problem. How's it going?
00:17:34Awesome.
00:17:36But my work ethic can be a little waxed sometimes, right?
00:17:38Call it ADHD or just called being lazy,
00:17:40I don't know, but there's a lot of times
00:17:42where I'll start a project and I don't necessarily finish it.
00:17:44Bread time.
00:17:46But as far as a bakery goes,
00:17:48I need to just continue and I need to push through this
00:17:50because my entire life is about to just be turned upside down.
00:17:52It's not just going to be me anymore,
00:17:54it's going to be we.
00:17:58Joan is from Uganda
00:18:00and absolutely just head over heels
00:18:02in love with this girl.
00:18:04Those big beautiful eyes,
00:18:06I just, I can't stop staring into them,
00:18:08I really can't, and she's got a just nice,
00:18:10nice big booty.
00:18:12So I met Joan
00:18:14because I actually fell asleep
00:18:16on a gentleman's shoulder on an airplane
00:18:18and he turned out to be from Uganda, East Africa.
00:18:20He owns a safari company
00:18:22and after talking to him for six and a half hours straight,
00:18:24he actually ended up inviting me to Uganda.
00:18:30I checked into the guest house and I saw Joan
00:18:32within my first hour and a half
00:18:34of being there in Uganda.
00:18:36See you.
00:18:38We chatted very, very little bit.
00:18:40I did tell her about my weight loss journey.
00:18:42A year and a half later,
00:18:44I still was thinking about her.
00:18:46Like, damn, I let that girl get away, you know,
00:18:48still to this day I'm not sure
00:18:50how she found me on social media.
00:18:52I just remember all of a sudden, boom,
00:18:54it was just like, bling, got this friend request
00:18:56and I could not believe it.
00:18:58I was like, oh my God, like, you know, this is that girl.
00:19:00That was it.
00:19:02That was just take off from there, you know.
00:19:04I ended up going back to Uganda
00:19:06and I proposed to her on her birthday.
00:19:14This guy's not gonna let me in, right?
00:19:16See my signal.
00:19:20Honestly, I really love Long Island, I really do.
00:19:22It's just, like, the driving here is so aggressive,
00:19:24it's insane, it's unbelievable.
00:19:26But there's just so much here, there's so much to do,
00:19:28so many people,
00:19:30there's always something going on.
00:19:32This guy's an asshole.
00:19:34I'm sorry, man, that guy's an asshole, bro.
00:19:38I think Joan will definitely
00:19:40be able to adjust to living here,
00:19:42but it's insane.
00:19:44A starter home on Long Island is probably
00:19:46anywhere from $400,000 to $500,000.
00:19:50I'm nowhere near that position to put down
00:19:52a deposit on a family home, for sure.
00:19:54Nowhere near.
00:19:58Hey, Mom.
00:20:00Oh, hello, dear, you home?
00:20:02Yep.
00:20:04So right now, my current living situation,
00:20:06I'm living at home with my mother here on Long Island.
00:20:08As much as I love my mom,
00:20:10I mean, you know, it's this huge cock block,
00:20:12you know?
00:20:14Man, oh, man, these are beautiful.
00:20:16Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:20:18So we got bacon and cheddar and just some plain loaves.
00:20:20Joan kind of is a little
00:20:22skeptical about it.
00:20:24You know, she obviously wants her own place,
00:20:26she wants a place that we can have privacy
00:20:28for ourselves and just be ourselves together.
00:20:30But I'm hoping she's cool with the fact that
00:20:32we're possibly going to be living there for a year,
00:20:34up to two years.
00:20:36So what'd you do today?
00:20:38Oh, so...
00:20:40I went in the pool with the doggies.
00:20:42I had to get that in, of course.
00:20:44I hung laundry on the line,
00:20:46your clothes, your shirt.
00:20:48You had so much in your room piled up.
00:20:50Do I
00:20:52baby Craig, spoil him
00:20:54maybe a little?
00:20:56You know, I like to have a nice meal cooked for him,
00:20:58and if I'm doing my laundry, I'll go
00:21:00in his room and scoop everything up
00:21:02that's dirty. I'll have to clean the bathroom upstairs,
00:21:04strain out his room when he leaves the room,
00:21:06put out the garbage, finish the
00:21:08dishes in the sink.
00:21:10Can you get my water? And get your water.
00:21:12Well, yeah, he would
00:21:14help me if I... He don't give me a hard time
00:21:16about that.
00:21:18Oh, what a nice breeze.
00:21:20Oh, this looks good, doesn't it, Craig?
00:21:22Delicious. Did you grab any carrots?
00:21:24Uh, it doesn't look like it.
00:21:26Yeah, have a carrot.
00:21:28Wow.
00:21:30So Joan got on the plane?
00:21:32Yeah. So she's up in the air. I'm freaking
00:21:34freaking out, man. Internally, I'm on
00:21:36fire. What is your thoughts on all of this?
00:21:38Like, how do you feel about everything, Mom?
00:21:40It'll be nice. It'll be exciting.
00:21:42You know, I'd like to observe how she treats you,
00:21:44too, you know, as a person
00:21:46and as she talks to you.
00:21:48Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, it's important, you know?
00:21:50Yeah, guard dog.
00:21:52Ha ha!
00:21:54Gregory
00:21:56can be a little naive
00:21:58when it comes to relationships.
00:22:00My fear is that
00:22:02him being taken advantage of
00:22:04because he's very generous
00:22:06and caring, trusting.
00:22:08You know, you've been alone
00:22:10up there the whole time, and now all of a sudden
00:22:12you have a woman in your room with you.
00:22:14And
00:22:16sometimes it might make me a little uncomfortable,
00:22:18you know? Okay.
00:22:20Having sex, being intimate,
00:22:22right, is that what you're worried about, things like that?
00:22:24All right.
00:22:26Ha ha ha! Just to throw it out there,
00:22:28you know? Yeah. It's an uncomfortable
00:22:30topic, right? It is. It's an uncomfortable topic.
00:22:32You know what I'm saying? I don't want to hear what goes on,
00:22:34you know, sexually.
00:22:36Would you consider
00:22:38a separate room?
00:22:44I mean,
00:22:46a separate room. I mean, until when?
00:22:48Until we get married, is what you're saying?
00:22:50Or until, like, I don't understand. Yeah, until you tie the knot.
00:22:52We have 90 days.
00:22:54So, like, having her in a separate
00:22:56room for, what, I don't know,
00:22:5860 days, 50 days, I mean,
00:23:00I really don't see a difference. I don't see...
00:23:02Well, you know, be
00:23:04respectful. I mean, that's what... I've been brought up
00:23:06that way, too. I mean, listen...
00:23:08Which room is she going to live in?
00:23:10Listen, we have a futon on
00:23:12one end of the wall.
00:23:16I can't do that to her.
00:23:18That's not right.
00:23:20We've waited, you know, seven months
00:23:22almost to be together again and for her to
00:23:24come here and to sleep in a separate room.
00:23:26It's crazy, you know? But at the same time,
00:23:28we're not necessarily paying rent, so when she
00:23:30asks me to do something like this, I have to take it very
00:23:32serious. I'm going to marry this
00:23:34woman. She's going to be my wife. You know what I'm saying?
00:23:36To sleep in the same bedroom
00:23:38and the same bed at night is
00:23:40part of the whole part of being together.
00:23:44Knowing Joan, I think
00:23:46it's going to be a little bit of a tough
00:23:48conversation, but if Mom and Joan
00:23:50don't get along and things become
00:23:52very toxic between the two of them,
00:23:54I would definitely have to just double down and find a place.
00:23:56But it would pretty much drain
00:23:58the bank account almost immediately.
00:24:00That's something I'm a little,
00:24:02I'm not a little nervous.
00:24:04It's kind of, it got me shaking in my boots a little
00:24:06bit here, you know?
00:24:18After two years, Mina and Maria
00:24:20are arriving into the USA
00:24:22for the first time.
00:24:24But the other
00:24:26day we got some news that's making it
00:24:28really hard for us to
00:24:30be excited about it.
00:24:34There's a good chance that we'll have to
00:24:36start this whole K-1 visa process
00:24:38over again.
00:24:40Hey, Mr. Sunshine
00:24:42You wanna meet up sometime
00:24:44Bright lights in your eyes
00:24:46Flashy talk and whisper
00:24:48It's been a long time since I've put
00:24:50something like this together.
00:24:52This might not
00:24:54be super quick, but we'll see
00:24:56how it goes.
00:24:58Oh my, oh my
00:25:00Mr. Sunshine
00:25:02Hey, Mr. Sunshine
00:25:04You wanna meet up sometime
00:25:06Bright lights in your eyes
00:25:08Flashy talk and whisper
00:25:10It's been a long time since I've put
00:25:12something like this together.
00:25:14This might not be super quick, but we'll see
00:25:16how it goes.
00:25:18Hey, Mr. Sunshine
00:25:20Hey, Mr. Sunshine
00:25:22Hey, Mr. Sunshine
00:25:24Hey, Mr. Sunshine
00:25:26Hey, Mr. Sunshine
00:25:28Hey, Mr. Sunshine
00:25:30Hey, Mr. Sunshine
00:25:32Hey, Mr. Sunshine
00:25:34Hey, Mr. Sunshine
00:25:36Yeah.
00:25:38Amina told me months ago to start baby proofing the house
00:25:40which, you know, stupidly of course
00:25:42I just started this morning.
00:25:48Cool.
00:25:50After she lands, the plan is for
00:25:52Amina and Maria to take a cab
00:25:54to a small airport outside of Boston
00:25:56where I'm gonna fly my plane
00:25:58in, our small little
00:26:00petite avion, because she does it
00:26:02and fly back to the house in New Hampshire.
00:26:04Beautiful blue sky.
00:26:06Hopefully not too bumpy
00:26:08and windy for them.
00:26:10I just thought it'd be cooler to fly
00:26:12into the house for the first time
00:26:14rather than drive in.
00:26:16She's marrying a pilot, so
00:26:18you know, come in on the runway.
00:26:20So what's it gonna be?
00:26:24Do I have to set you free?
00:26:30Oh my god.
00:26:32I can't believe.
00:26:34I'm here.
00:26:36I'm Amina.
00:26:38I'm 24 years old.
00:26:40Twenty...
00:26:42Oh no, three!
00:26:44I'm Amina.
00:26:46I'm 34 years old.
00:26:48I'm from Paris.
00:26:50Maria, say hello.
00:26:52Hello.
00:26:54Hello.
00:26:56Don't care?
00:26:58Okay.
00:27:00She don't care.
00:27:04See you guys shortly.
00:27:14There we go.
00:27:16Bye Paris.
00:27:18Wait my stop now.
00:27:30The life of a family
00:27:32is what Mark gave me.
00:27:34That's what I really, really
00:27:36focused on Mark.
00:27:46Amina's really happy to come to America
00:27:48but the other day
00:27:50we got some news that's making it
00:27:52really hard for us to be excited
00:27:54about it.
00:28:00Amina has a son from a
00:28:02former relationship.
00:28:04He's nine years old. His name is
00:28:06Clayton. Great kid.
00:28:08Unfortunately
00:28:10it's a little complicated on the visa process
00:28:12with him and his passport
00:28:14didn't arrive in time for him to come with Amina
00:28:16to America. So he's gonna have to stay
00:28:18with a family friend over there
00:28:20until he gets processed.
00:28:22Amina was
00:28:24devastated that her son
00:28:26isn't able to come.
00:28:28So if the passport for Clayton
00:28:30doesn't come soon, there's a good chance
00:28:32that Amina will go back
00:28:34and then we'll have to start this whole
00:28:36K-1 visa process over again.
00:28:38And that just makes me scared
00:28:40to even say or think about.
00:28:44Ah, here we go.
00:28:46Oh dang, it's spacious.
00:28:48So I thought my first night in America
00:28:50was going to have a little bit more
00:28:52privacy with Jessica.
00:28:54What bed are you guys sleeping in?
00:28:56This one.
00:28:58Mommy, look at this remote.
00:29:00Hopefully the second night is better.
00:29:02I'm gonna show you why.
00:29:04He's farting on this remote.
00:29:06I'm gonna show you why.
00:29:08I'm gonna show you why.
00:29:10I'm gonna show you why.
00:29:12I'm gonna show you why.
00:29:14I'm gonna show you why.
00:29:16He's farting on this remote.
00:29:18I got the K-1 approval.
00:29:20Now my family's approval.
00:29:22Maybe your family's reaction
00:29:24is so bad that you decided you don't want to come.
00:29:26My feelings are too confused
00:29:28right now.
00:29:30I think it says right here,
00:29:32how is this hotel right here
00:29:34with that Christmas tree in the back?
00:29:36No.
00:29:38Oh dang!
00:29:40I don't really know where I'm going.
00:30:00Let's go in.
00:30:02You need help, baby, or are you good?
00:30:04I got it.
00:30:06Let's go in.
00:30:08Okay, we're gonna go check on in.
00:30:12Hi, checking in.
00:30:14Alrighty.
00:30:16Juan just arrived in America.
00:30:18And, you know, as a family of five
00:30:20with three little kids,
00:30:22we all have to share a hotel room.
00:30:24The boys aren't old enough to have their own room.
00:30:26That's the reality of parenthood.
00:30:28Oh, it's pretty big.
00:30:30Oh dang, it's spacious.
00:30:32Mom, they already have drinks in here and everything.
00:30:34Well, they like, if you drink them,
00:30:36you have to pay for them.
00:30:38It might not be the most romantic first night Juan was hoping for,
00:30:40but right off the bat,
00:30:42he is getting a taste of what parenthood is like.
00:30:44I go right here.
00:30:46What bed are you guys sleeping in?
00:30:48This one. I go right here, though.
00:30:50Mommy, look at this remote.
00:30:52It's been such a long day for me,
00:30:54and I was super tired,
00:30:56but these boys are full of airty.
00:30:58No.
00:31:00He farted on this pillow.
00:31:02I'm the pillow king.
00:31:04I'm not used to being around kids.
00:31:06I'm going to show you my house.
00:31:10Mom, I'm the pillow king.
00:31:12Seeing the chaos,
00:31:14seeing the cute fart, everything,
00:31:16it was a little weird to me.
00:31:18Can I just wear this shirt?
00:31:20I'm going to go get changed in my pajamas.
00:31:22Juan, you're getting your dirty shoes on the bed.
00:31:24Uh, no.
00:31:26I won't.
00:31:30I'm not feeling overwhelmed yet.
00:31:32This is my first night.
00:31:34I know there are kids, and kids are like that.
00:31:36At least they feel comfy with me around,
00:31:38and I think that's a good sign.
00:31:40Okay, I'm going to get changed.
00:31:42When I was a kid,
00:31:44I had a great life when my father was alive,
00:31:46but when he passed away
00:31:48at my age of eight years old,
00:31:50everything changed for us.
00:31:52The good life was over,
00:31:54and my brother having to
00:31:56go find money and work,
00:31:58and my mother, too,
00:32:00taking care of me at the time.
00:32:02And then I had to learn everything by myself,
00:32:04not having a dad to teach me stuff,
00:32:06and it was hard for a kid.
00:32:10Here comes Daddy.
00:32:16But all the things I went through when I was a kid,
00:32:18it makes me want to be a good father for my son,
00:32:20a good stepfather.
00:32:22Can I pass you a baby so I can cuddle?
00:32:26I've never raised
00:32:28a child in my life.
00:32:30I've never been around kids,
00:32:32so it's a little bit of pressure,
00:32:34but I feel good.
00:32:36Good night, baby.
00:32:38I love you.
00:32:40I love you, too.
00:32:50I got the K1 approval.
00:32:52Now my family's approval.
00:32:54Yes.
00:32:56Let's go.
00:32:58Let's go.
00:33:00Let me do the talking, AĆkım, with my family.
00:33:02I will. How am I going to talk to them?
00:33:04Not knowing Turkish, any words,
00:33:06makes sense, you know?
00:33:08I know you're so stressed, babe.
00:33:10I hate seeing you stressed out.
00:33:12I'm stressed, too.
00:33:14I hope they take it well.
00:33:16You're not, babe.
00:33:18You're not, but I can understand.
00:33:20You have the victory.
00:33:22I tried to convince you for two years,
00:33:24I mean, to stay in Turkey,
00:33:26and you won.
00:33:28But I just can't.
00:33:30I just can't.
00:33:32I just can't.
00:33:34I just can't.
00:33:36But I just am worried
00:33:38maybe your family's reaction
00:33:40is so bad that you decide
00:33:42you don't want to come.
00:33:44Is that a possibility?
00:33:46They're over 70.
00:33:48And they have some health issues.
00:33:50That's the biggest concern of mine.
00:33:52Because for a while,
00:33:54I cannot travel back to Turkey.
00:33:58I didn't tell my parents
00:34:00because there is no certain time
00:34:02that I can come back.
00:34:04If I said it before,
00:34:06they will think a lot more.
00:34:08They will get upset
00:34:10a lot more.
00:34:12If I am not approved,
00:34:14no need to say anything to them.
00:34:16You're going to need to change your face
00:34:18when we get there because you show
00:34:20all your emotions on your face.
00:34:22If your face looks sad,
00:34:24they're going to know the truth is
00:34:26that you're really sad and worried.
00:34:28Try to smile a little.
00:34:30Yeah, not that smile.
00:34:32That one looks too fake.
00:34:34That's not a smile at all.
00:34:36Guys, I'm going to...
00:34:38Smile, smile.
00:34:40I'm so happy.
00:34:42Not that voice, though.
00:34:46We are already there.
00:34:50My feelings are too confused right now.
00:34:52You know?
00:34:54Because I'm happy,
00:34:56but I also have concerns about my family.
00:34:58It's difficult for Shekinah
00:35:00to understand because her family
00:35:02connections are not like us.
00:35:04Maybe it's a cultural difference,
00:35:06but one part of my soul
00:35:08thinks that this is
00:35:10a thing that you have to celebrate.
00:35:12The other part is I'm leaving my life,
00:35:14everything, especially my
00:35:16parents, my family
00:35:18behind.
00:35:20It's a big contradiction, you know?
00:35:22It's a big conflict inside of me.
00:35:24Oh, Shekinah!
00:35:26I missed you!
00:35:30Serpil, look who's here!
00:35:36Love you!
00:35:46I try to stay
00:35:48as positive as I can, but
00:35:50I cannot. I mean, how will I say that?
00:35:52You have only one son,
00:35:54and he's going away.
00:35:56Who will take care of you
00:35:58when you get older?
00:36:00What will I say to them?
00:36:02Those are making
00:36:04big concerns in my mind.
00:36:06Just a little gift!
00:36:08Thank you!
00:36:10I know they're Turkish, so you probably
00:36:12borrowed some money.
00:36:14Happy birthday to you!
00:36:16Thank you!
00:36:18It is an uncomfortable
00:36:20feeling to know
00:36:22that we are going to be sharing
00:36:24this news with his family.
00:36:26They have no idea what we're about to say.
00:36:28It's going to hit them like a ton of bricks.
00:36:30They're going to be blindsided.
00:36:34Should we sit down?
00:36:40Where did you buy
00:36:42the presents?
00:36:44I got them in Ankara.
00:36:46So many beautiful
00:36:48things there. I thought of you.
00:36:56It's too hot.
00:36:58Isn't it too hot in Ankara?
00:37:04Okay, let's put
00:37:06the heat aside.
00:37:12I'm going to tell you something.
00:37:16What is it?
00:37:18The reason
00:37:20we're going to Ankara is
00:37:22because
00:37:24you know
00:37:26when we applied to Keyvan.
00:37:28Yes.
00:37:30I didn't tell you, but
00:37:34I went to see him.
00:37:38I guessed
00:37:40but I thought
00:37:42you wouldn't hide it.
00:37:44I'm a guarantor.
00:37:46I didn't...
00:37:48They approved the result.
00:37:50They approved it.
00:37:54When are you going?
00:37:56Very soon.
00:38:06I missed you.
00:38:10I'm here.
00:38:14Baby, you know I want to fly you home
00:38:16in style.
00:38:18I have a parachute in this plane
00:38:20if there's any problem.
00:38:22No, no, no. Stop now.
00:38:24Oh my God. Don't kill me, baby.
00:38:42USA, I'm here.
00:38:48Wow.
00:39:04I'm here now. I'm in America.
00:39:08Go down through these trees there.
00:39:12Our algorithm.
00:39:18So my app says
00:39:20they've landed.
00:39:22They are here in the USA.
00:39:24First time.
00:39:26That is just a huge, huge
00:39:28load off.
00:39:30It's been hard to be away from my daughter
00:39:32for the last
00:39:3421 months of her life
00:39:36and I'm just super happy
00:39:38and I can't wait to see them right now
00:39:40as soon as they get here.
00:39:42So, super happy.
00:39:44It's a great day.
00:39:46It's a great day.
00:39:58You're in America now.
00:40:00The street is big.
00:40:02It's not Paris.
00:40:04It's not Alpha Tower.
00:40:06I don't know.
00:40:08Where's the statue?
00:40:16It's in Paris.
00:40:18Ah, OK.
00:40:22I'm excited for
00:40:24my fiancé, Mark.
00:40:26I'm stressed too
00:40:28because it's the first time
00:40:30I lost my country
00:40:32because I've been living in Paris
00:40:34all my life
00:40:36and I'm sad because I lost my son.
00:40:46It's really...
00:40:48It really
00:40:50broke my heart.
00:40:58So,
00:41:00now...
00:41:02I didn't have a choice
00:41:04about my visa
00:41:06that was going to expire.
00:41:08So...
00:41:10I don't know
00:41:12when his passport
00:41:14will be ready
00:41:16to come with us
00:41:18because right now
00:41:20I have no control
00:41:22over the administration.
00:41:24Mark doesn't have
00:41:26any control either.
00:41:28We can't tell him.
00:41:30We can't wait.
00:41:32It's super frustrating.
00:41:34So, I don't know.
00:41:38My son Clayton,
00:41:40he said,
00:41:42you go now to the USA.
00:41:44I hope you come back
00:41:46for me.
00:41:48You don't lose me.
00:41:50I said, no, never.
00:41:52You're my son.
00:41:54Maybe you prefer Maria.
00:41:56I said, no.
00:41:58You and Maria are the same.
00:42:00It's not me.
00:42:02I don't have control
00:42:04for administration.
00:42:06I don't have control for this.
00:42:08I know he's
00:42:10in good hands
00:42:12with people
00:42:14he trusts.
00:42:16But...
00:42:18I don't want to be
00:42:20completely me
00:42:22and happy here with Maria
00:42:24and Mark without Clayton.
00:42:26I think I lose
00:42:28one more part to my life
00:42:30because I'm not complete now.
00:42:32No.
00:42:34I'm not complete.
00:42:36I hope
00:42:38it's the good choice.
00:42:40It's better for us
00:42:42from here.
00:42:58We're coming to home
00:43:00to see daddy.
00:43:03Where's daddy?
00:43:05Where's dada?
00:43:24Maria!
00:43:27Dada.
00:43:29Hey, baby girl.
00:43:31I missed you.
00:43:37Hey, baby girl.
00:43:40Hey, baby.
00:43:44Oh, God, I missed you so much.
00:43:52I love you.
00:43:54I love you, Maria.
00:43:56You miss me?
00:43:58You miss daddy?
00:44:02We're finally here together
00:44:04in America.
00:44:06After what, five years?
00:44:08Two years engaged?
00:44:10Tonight I just need
00:44:12sleep.
00:44:14Maybe you give me massage, Mark.
00:44:16Why not?
00:44:18With champagne?
00:44:20Maybe one old baby.
00:44:22Can you believe it?
00:44:24I believe now.
00:44:26Now it's true.
00:44:30Yes, I'm happy.
00:44:32Now that you're here,
00:44:34we got 90 days
00:44:36and we're gonna be married.
00:44:38Can you believe?
00:44:40Yes!
00:44:42It's long time I believe in you
00:44:44because you're good person.
00:44:46I love you, Mark.
00:44:48I love you, too.
00:44:50I wanna go home.
00:44:52You see the airplane?
00:44:54You wanna go for a ride?
00:44:56You wanna go for a ride?
00:44:58Baby, you know,
00:45:00I want to fly you home in style
00:45:02because I want it to be
00:45:04a memory you have forever
00:45:06that you never forget.
00:45:08I'm not gonna die
00:45:10for the first day in the USA.
00:45:12I waited for two years for coming here.
00:45:14I don't die for today.
00:45:16No way.
00:45:18I'm gonna shoot in this plane if there's any problems.
00:45:20No, no, no. Stop now.
00:45:22Okay. Let's go.
00:45:24Yeah.
00:45:26My family is complete because you guys are here now.
00:45:28Yeah.
00:45:30Go, baby girl.
00:45:32We're gonna go fly now, okay?
00:45:34Okay.
00:45:36Are you ready, baby girl?
00:45:38You go home.
00:45:40Finally.
00:45:42You go home.
00:45:48Wow.
00:45:52Yeah.
00:45:54Oh, my God.
00:45:56Don't kill me, babe.
00:46:08I don't want to screw up
00:46:10because you have no idea the sacrifice she made.
00:46:12In her country,
00:46:14she's relatively well-off, so she's kind of like...
00:46:16She's kind of taking a step back.
00:46:18I mean, life is pretty much better in Uganda
00:46:20if you ask her.
00:46:22Even if you ask me, truthfully speaking.
00:46:24Do you feel that you are ready
00:46:26for her to be here?
00:46:28No, not really.
00:46:30I think she's in for a rude awakening
00:46:32coming here.
00:46:34Welcome home.
00:46:36Come into our house.
00:46:38Finally made it.
00:46:40Here's our bedroom.
00:46:42So, no door?
00:46:44No door. Here's the boys' room.
00:46:46Uh-oh.
00:46:48Jessica definitely told me that,
00:46:50look, there's little privacy.
00:46:52But I wasn't imagining
00:46:54this little, you know.
00:46:56There is not even a little privacy. There's no privacy.
00:47:14Hey, Greg.
00:47:16What's up, Laura?
00:47:18How's it going, hon?
00:47:20Come on in, come on in.
00:47:22You got some problems here?
00:47:24Yeah, I'm sorry to bother you about that.
00:47:28So, a dishwasher, right?
00:47:30Yeah.
00:47:32It's got the smell.
00:47:34It's a little smelly, huh?
00:47:36That could be a septic issue.
00:47:38Yeah, yeah.
00:47:40Oh, I see what you're saying, yeah.
00:47:42I see it, too. There's some residual...
00:47:44Yeah, this is probably a septic issue.
00:47:46Okay.
00:47:48Today I'm heading over to my friend Laura's house.
00:47:50We're gonna be working on some plumbing.
00:47:52She's got some issues going on in her house.
00:47:54Hopefully we can get them solved.
00:47:56What's the matter with it?
00:47:58Whoever did this originally, yeah,
00:48:00they f***ed it up.
00:48:02I don't have a typical nine-to-five.
00:48:04Plumbing is just a means to an end, you know.
00:48:06It's not something I'm very passionate about.
00:48:08Right now my customers are just friends
00:48:10of friends.
00:48:12People just reach out to me, and it's mostly on Long Island.
00:48:14I might not be able to fit.
00:48:16That's the problem.
00:48:18I'm a bigger freaking guy, so...
00:48:20And it's usually you big guys
00:48:22that actually do plumbing, too, which is interesting.
00:48:24I know. I've got the plumber's crack hanging out, right?
00:48:26You know what I'm saying? Like, hey, what's up, brother?
00:48:28Yeah, I've been, you know, just trying to lose weight.
00:48:30Especially my girl's coming.
00:48:32You know, Joan's coming.
00:48:34Yeah, man, so...
00:48:36She likes me to be a little svelte.
00:48:38I'm going to sweat a vest, you know what I'm saying?
00:48:40The first time you ever told me
00:48:42that you were even entertaining
00:48:44the idea of
00:48:46being with someone from a different country,
00:48:48even Uganda, I was shocked.
00:48:50That's not something that's
00:48:52within my norms.
00:48:54So I give you a lot of credit.
00:48:56Listen, I would not suggest...
00:48:58Like, obviously you can't help who you fall in love with
00:49:00like straight up, and it's not been easy.
00:49:02Yeah.
00:49:04I don't want to screw up because you have no idea
00:49:06the sacrifice she made.
00:49:08In her country, she actually is the director
00:49:10of a non-profit organization, an NGO.
00:49:12Wow.
00:49:14And she does have a bachelor's degree in marketing and finance,
00:49:16so she's relatively well-off.
00:49:18So she's kind of like...
00:49:20She's kind of taking a step back coming here, in a way.
00:49:22Oh.
00:49:24Being with Joan, I feel like I got one of those
00:49:26New York State lottery tickets where you just scratched it off
00:49:28and just like, boom, you just won the jackpot.
00:49:30She's a very hard worker.
00:49:32She has her bachelor's degree in financing and marketing.
00:49:34She actually has her own NGO,
00:49:36non-profit organization.
00:49:38So it's like, I don't believe that Joan is coming here
00:49:40for a green card or a golden ticket.
00:49:42I mean, life is pretty much better in Uganda,
00:49:44if you ask her.
00:49:46Even if you ask me, truthfully speaking,
00:49:48I think she's in for a rude awakening coming here.
00:49:50But Joan knows my working situation,
00:49:52my living situation.
00:49:54I'm very transparent with her with everything.
00:49:56But I think once she actually gets here
00:49:58and realizes what's going on,
00:50:00it might be a little bit of a shock for her.
00:50:02Do you feel that you are ready for her to be here?
00:50:06You know, not really.
00:50:08I want her to be here.
00:50:10Financially, you know, it's a lot of money.
00:50:12Everything costs money here, especially living in New York.
00:50:14Not cheap at all.
00:50:16Yeah, yeah.
00:50:18We do eventually intend to get my mother's house,
00:50:20you know, but it's just going to take some time.
00:50:22She can't work
00:50:24until we get that green card and stuff like that,
00:50:26so it definitely is going to be all on me.
00:50:28I'm really
00:50:30working on the bakery.
00:50:32Do you think that you can have that
00:50:34really be your main source of income?
00:50:38That is my plan.
00:50:40I'm putting a lot of emphasis on a lot of...
00:50:42kind of like putting all my eggs
00:50:44in one basket, I guess.
00:50:46Correct.
00:50:48So that's really scary. That is definitely scary.
00:50:50And it's something I think about constantly.
00:50:52Yeah, because you guys do plan on,
00:50:54you know, having a family and, you know...
00:50:56Yeah, yeah.
00:51:00It may be rocky for the first year, couple years,
00:51:02but we'll deal with it when it comes, I guess.
00:51:04You know, cross the bridge when it gets there.
00:51:06For me, I get a little nervous
00:51:08for you when you
00:51:10say a lot of
00:51:12you'll get to that bridge.
00:51:14I kind of would like and hope for you
00:51:16to try to start thinking
00:51:18a little bit more in today
00:51:20and not always I'll get there
00:51:22when I get there.
00:51:24You need to grow up a little bit.
00:51:26I just never really took my life
00:51:28serious, I guess, in the fact that
00:51:30I need a career, I need to do this.
00:51:32I guess I'm kind of stuck in that young mentality
00:51:34my entire life.
00:51:36All right, Greg, thank you so much.
00:51:38You're welcome. You too.
00:51:40Take care. Drive safe.
00:51:42Thank you. No problem.
00:51:44Having this relationship and having Joan come into my life
00:51:46has really put things in perspective for me.
00:51:48I have to grow up.
00:51:50I wish...
00:51:52You know, I'm not living in regret, and I feel like
00:51:54I should have took things more serious, but
00:51:56that's where I'm at right now, and that's the reality.
00:51:58âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:00âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:02âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:04âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:06âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:08âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:10âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:12âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:14âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:16âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:18âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:20Okay, guys.
00:52:22It's time to get up.
00:52:24We got to check out of the hotel.
00:52:26Hey, wake up.
00:52:28We have to go get warm and show them our house.
00:52:30It's time, it's time, it's time.
00:52:32âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:34âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:36âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:38âȘâȘâȘ
00:52:40So I thought my first night in America
00:52:42was going to have a little bit more privacy
00:52:44with Jessica and, uh,
00:52:46with the kids in the same room.
00:52:48Uh, but that didn't happen.
00:52:50You don't like to sleep?
00:52:52I thought babies like to sleep.
00:52:54It was more like a fatherhood night.
00:52:56I don't know.
00:52:58Here we are now.
00:53:00Here I come.
00:53:02Uh, hopefully the second night is better.
00:53:04Next stop, Wyoming!
00:53:06Next stop, Wyoming.
00:53:08Oh, no, not again.
00:53:10Oh, no, not again.
00:53:12Oh, no, not again.
00:53:14Oh, no, not again.
00:53:16-âȘâȘâȘâȘ
00:53:18-âȘâȘâȘâȘ
00:53:20Hopefully driving makes him calm down.
00:53:24Wyoming away, bro.
00:53:26So far, so good, driving.
00:53:28So far, so bad.
00:53:30-âȘâȘâȘâȘ
00:53:32-âȘâȘâȘâȘ
00:53:34-âȘâȘâȘâȘ
00:53:36-âȘâȘâȘâȘ
00:53:38-âȘâȘâȘâȘ
00:53:40This is daytime, so you can see it all during the day.
00:53:42Are those penguins or what's that?
00:53:44No, not penguins.
00:53:46We don't have penguins here.
00:53:48-âȘâȘâȘâȘ
00:53:50So after I left Denver,
00:53:52which is such a big city,
00:53:54what I'm used to,
00:53:56like, I don't know, 30 minutes after,
00:53:58we start just seeing nothing.
00:54:00I don't even see houses.
00:54:02It don't look like people lives around here.
00:54:04What you guys do for fun
00:54:06for the long drives?
00:54:08What you guys do?
00:54:10Oh, we can play some games.
00:54:12We play cars while driving.
00:54:14A car game, like C-A-R,
00:54:16like a game that you play in the car.
00:54:18How about the first one to see
00:54:20a cow?
00:54:24Over there.
00:54:26That was quick.
00:54:28Jess and the boys like to play
00:54:30this game called I Spy,
00:54:32but the only thing they were spotting was, like, cows.
00:54:36The first one to see
00:54:38a...
00:54:40Just flat land
00:54:42with yellow grass,
00:54:44and there is just basically
00:54:46nothing but land.
00:54:52I don't want to play anymore.
00:54:54It's pretty boring.
00:54:56I agree.
00:55:00Welcome to Miami.
00:55:02Welcome to Miami.
00:55:04Welcome to Wyoming.
00:55:06Welcome to Wyoming.
00:55:10Finally made it.
00:55:20Torrington, population 6,119.
00:55:246,120.
00:55:26Yes, 6,120.
00:55:32Smells like cow poop.
00:55:34You'll get used to it.
00:55:38Okay, here's our main street.
00:55:40Here's the main street.
00:55:42There's the liquor store.
00:55:44So when you need a bartender to make me some drinks,
00:55:46you'll go to Jay Liquor.
00:55:48If you peek down that way, there's our movie theater.
00:55:50You see the Wyoming movie theater.
00:55:52Can we take you to the movies?
00:55:54I've never gone on a date with you.
00:55:56I've been dreaming of this day for years.
00:55:58Do you like Columbia more?
00:56:00I mean, I don't know yet.
00:56:02You've been here for like one minute.
00:56:04Yeah, I just came, you know.
00:56:08Welcome home.
00:56:10The crying baby and all.
00:56:12Welcome home, Juan.
00:56:18Okay, I want to say this.
00:56:20Welcome home, sons.
00:56:22Love, Mom Denise. Cute.
00:56:24Welcome home, Rick.
00:56:26Good luck.
00:56:28Appreciate it.
00:56:30I was walking up, and then the first thing I see
00:56:32is like this big thing with the...
00:56:34There are signs.
00:56:36There are signs, yeah, with the welcome home.
00:56:38And so I think that was pretty.
00:56:40We weren't turned.
00:56:42Yeah, and everybody's signing it from town.
00:56:44I think that was cool.
00:56:46It makes me feel special.
00:56:48You are special, huh?
00:56:50Okay, let's go see...
00:56:54We miss you so much.
00:56:56Welcome home.
00:56:58Welcome to our house.
00:57:00We finally made it.
00:57:04Welcome home.
00:57:08These are our fish.
00:57:10Hi, little fishy, fishy, fishies.
00:57:12There's our family pics.
00:57:14Oh, that went wrong. It's good.
00:57:16There's our Christmas tree.
00:57:18There you go. There you go.
00:57:20Yes.
00:57:22Very nice.
00:57:24It fits all of us.
00:57:26And they're in order from the way our family started.
00:57:28Jessica, Dayton, Daz, and David won.
00:57:30Well, not how it started, but how they came to this house.
00:57:32Okay, ready?
00:57:34Ready.
00:57:36Ready, ready, ready.
00:57:38Amazing.
00:57:40Ready?
00:57:42Yes, I'm ready.
00:57:44One thing that amazed me from the house
00:57:46is Jessica's a super positive person,
00:57:48and then she has a lot of things
00:57:50hanging around with sayings
00:57:52and messages
00:57:54about, like,
00:57:56you got this, like,
00:57:58you need to be grateful.
00:58:00There's no big deal about it.
00:58:02Like, I don't have no problem with the messages,
00:58:04but I think there's a lot of
00:58:06messages, and
00:58:08it might be too much, I think.
00:58:10Our bedroom.
00:58:12Our bedroom.
00:58:14Where am I going to sleep tonight?
00:58:16Hmm.
00:58:18Come down.
00:58:20Mom goes first.
00:58:22Nice.
00:58:24Cute.
00:58:26Here's our bedroom.
00:58:28So, no door.
00:58:30No door.
00:58:32Doorless.
00:58:34Doorless bedroom.
00:58:36Don't know much about American houses,
00:58:38but I don't see much privacy
00:58:40around here, you know.
00:58:42I mean, the bed is beautiful.
00:58:44I'm not saying there's nothing wrong.
00:58:46It's just beautiful, but
00:58:48it is just different from how I
00:58:50see it on FaceTime.
00:58:52She showed me the whole place, you know.
00:58:54But it's not the same when you see it on camera.
00:58:56Sometimes you're not even paying enough attention,
00:58:58you know. You're like, okay, cool, cool.
00:59:00You're like, here, there, okay.
00:59:02And then the bathroom.
00:59:04So, we have two baths. So, here's a little half bath
00:59:06that's, like, next to our bedroom.
00:59:08What?
00:59:10Oh, just a bath.
00:59:12No shower.
00:59:14Okay, here's the boys' room.
00:59:16Uh-oh.
00:59:18Jessica definitely told me that,
00:59:20look, there's a little privacy.
00:59:22But I wasn't imagining
00:59:24this little, you know.
00:59:26There is not even a little privacy.
00:59:28There's no privacy. That's the thing.
00:59:30So,
00:59:32if I want to shower,
00:59:34I got to go to the boys' room.
00:59:36Or there's a shower upstairs.
00:59:38But if you want your clothes out in the closet,
00:59:40you're going to have to go through their room anyways.
00:59:42But the door closes.
00:59:44Okay, good.
00:59:46Good, good, good.
00:59:48Good we have a door.
00:59:50It doesn't work too good, though.
00:59:52It works fine.
00:59:54I need privacy, and I think
00:59:56we need to find a better solution.
00:59:58When you were on the ship, there wasn't any privacy.
01:00:00You have, like, a roommate.
01:00:02Well, I'm not on the cruise ship anymore,
01:00:04and this is a whole
01:00:06different thing.
01:00:08How do you say goodnight in Spanish?
01:00:10Buenas noches.
01:00:12Buenas noches.
01:00:14Buenas noches.
01:00:16Goodnight.
01:00:18It's like
01:00:20we're all sleeping in the same room.
01:00:22I mean, as a parent, which you'll soon
01:00:24learn, you know, there's just
01:00:26not a ton of
01:00:28privacy.
01:00:30It's part of being a parent.
01:00:32Fine.
01:00:38I need to talk to you.
01:00:40But you need to go to bed.
01:00:42Love you.
01:00:44After I talk to you.
01:00:46I've been waiting for this moment for a long time.
01:00:56Can I ask you a question?
01:00:58Yeah.
01:01:00If one day I want to go back to my country
01:01:02and they won't let me
01:01:04exit the country anymore,
01:01:06would you let me do that?
01:01:08It's shocking
01:01:10to hear Matty say that he might
01:01:12possibly want to go back within the first
01:01:14hours of being here.
01:01:16And honestly, it hurts.
01:01:32It's to the right.
01:01:34Your head's gonna touch the ceiling in my car.
01:01:36Seriously?
01:01:38Seriously?
01:01:40Just lean the seat back, okay?
01:01:56Are you okay?
01:01:58Look, you can pull the thing up on the bottom
01:02:00and slide it back.
01:02:02No, no, no. Under here. No, go back.
01:02:04You moved the whole car.
01:02:06Sorry.
01:02:10As an Iranian, coming to the U.S.
01:02:12is like a huge process
01:02:14and not realistic
01:02:16to so many people.
01:02:18But the only thing that I'm thinking
01:02:20about is, like, this wait is over now.
01:02:22And this feels
01:02:24really amazing.
01:02:28But they need to talk to me
01:02:30about my bridges.
01:02:34Is that a bridge?
01:02:36Is this a bridge?
01:02:38It's not a bridge, babe.
01:02:48This is the very first time that I'm
01:02:50seeing Stevie freaking out
01:02:52so bad.
01:02:54I have a vomit bag
01:02:56in the middle, just in case.
01:02:58I had never heard
01:03:00about being afraid of bridges
01:03:02or something like that, but
01:03:04I think it's super real.
01:03:06I can feel the fear
01:03:08in her eyes.
01:03:12I'm sorry. I'm a little stressed.
01:03:14Just help me pay attention and I'll be okay.
01:03:16Just follow it.
01:03:18Now look, this is, like, downtown.
01:03:22This is so cool.
01:03:24Everything
01:03:26in the city is weird to me.
01:03:32Cars, for example,
01:03:34like in Iran, I have heard
01:03:36if the government find out that you're
01:03:38going to have a party which is not
01:03:40separated, they will arrest you.
01:03:42Is it okay to
01:03:44walk as a girl
01:03:46at this time of the night?
01:03:48I wouldn't, but yeah, mostly.
01:03:52The way people
01:03:54wear clothes, because
01:03:56we have dress codes everywhere
01:03:58and you cannot
01:04:00choose how you wear.
01:04:02What else makes you happy?
01:04:04What?
01:04:06What else makes you happy?
01:04:08You only go for the boobs.
01:04:10Yeah.
01:04:12Whatever you love,
01:04:14America gives you
01:04:16the best taste of that and
01:04:18it's super cool to me.
01:04:24Kiss me.
01:04:30I'm looking forward to spending the first night
01:04:32back with Maddie.
01:04:34It's been a long time.
01:04:36It's been. Too long.
01:04:38Way too long.
01:04:46Right there.
01:04:54You look so cool.
01:04:56You're super nice.
01:04:58Let's look out the window.
01:05:00Oh.
01:05:06I'll be back.
01:05:12It's really cool.
01:05:14It looks old.
01:05:16In Iran we have so many old places
01:05:18so it feels like home.
01:05:28This place is so cool.
01:05:30I really love old stuff.
01:05:32Like me?
01:05:34You're not old.
01:05:36I'm just kidding.
01:05:38The view is
01:05:40amazing. It's really cool
01:05:42because of the lights and the old brick.
01:05:44Yeah.
01:05:46This is the very first time that I'm seeing a flag
01:05:48of the US which is like
01:05:50being free and just
01:05:52so powerful.
01:05:54Like in my whole life
01:05:56it was always on fire
01:05:58or people would
01:06:00walk on it.
01:06:02Yeah.
01:06:08It's really cool.
01:06:10Yeah.
01:06:14Did you know that we have
01:06:16we don't have a US embassy anymore
01:06:18so we had to go to Ankara to get that visa.
01:06:20Yeah.
01:06:22So we used to have that like 40 years ago
01:06:24the revolution of Iran
01:06:26and now that embassy is
01:06:28a museum.
01:06:30I think I've seen pictures.
01:06:32The flag of the US there is like
01:06:34torn apart and
01:06:38it's not cool.
01:06:40So this is the very first time
01:06:42that I'm just looking at one
01:06:44which is being free
01:06:46and like you.
01:06:48Yeah.
01:06:51How are you feeling about everything?
01:06:53Like with the family and all?
01:06:55It's just weird like
01:06:57I have talked to my family
01:06:59and they start crying.
01:07:01Yeah my cousin just says like
01:07:03we just realized
01:07:05how real it is and
01:07:07we're gone just like for good.
01:07:12I was really excited about
01:07:14coming to the US and living with Stevie
01:07:16but the time that I
01:07:18got to the airport and I saw my parents
01:07:20crying, this is
01:07:22the moment that I feel like
01:07:26what I have done.
01:07:28I don't know
01:07:30when would be the next time
01:07:32or where would be the next time
01:07:34that I will see my family.
01:07:36What I have heard before is that
01:07:38there is always a risk for Iranians
01:07:40who come to the US to go back to
01:07:42Iran and get arrested.
01:07:48Like
01:07:50my country is not normal
01:07:52if I go back, this can happen.
01:07:56But I miss them so bad.
01:08:12Can I ask you a question?
01:08:14Yeah.
01:08:16Can I ask you a question?
01:08:18Yeah.
01:08:20If one day I want to go back to my country
01:08:22and there is a chance that
01:08:24they won't let me
01:08:26exit the country
01:08:28anymore
01:08:30will you let me do that?
01:08:38If that's what you really wanted
01:08:40that would be extremely sad.
01:08:42It took us this long to get you here.
01:08:44Yeah.
01:08:46I'm not going to keep you from ever doing anything
01:08:48you want to do.
01:08:52It's shocking to hear Matty say that
01:08:54he might possibly want to go back within the first
01:08:56hours of being here and honestly
01:08:58it hurts.
01:09:00I definitely can't
01:09:02be your family.
01:09:04You're always going to have that hole but I'll try to be here
01:09:06for you.
01:09:08I guess I'm more emotional.
01:09:10I allowed
01:09:12Matty to get close to me unlike other
01:09:14people. So if Matty
01:09:16tries to go back to Iran
01:09:18I don't know what I would do.
01:09:28I see faces dropping.
01:09:40I almost feel like
01:09:42I can't look at anybody in the face like
01:09:44I'm the bad guy here.
01:10:10Now they know why we
01:10:12decided to go back to Iran.
01:10:14It's because
01:10:16they know that
01:10:18we're going to stay here
01:10:20for the rest of our lives.
01:10:22They know that
01:10:24we're going to stay here
01:10:26for the rest of our lives.
01:10:28They know that
01:10:30we're going to stay here
01:10:32for the rest of our lives.
01:10:34They know that
01:10:36we're going to stay here
01:10:38for the rest of our lives.
01:10:40Now they know why we were in Ankara
01:10:42and I see faces dropping.
01:10:44I feel really bad.
01:10:46I almost feel like I can't look at anybody in the face
01:10:48like I'm the bad guy here.
01:11:08I don't want to get married.
01:11:10I don't want to get married.
01:11:12No.
01:11:14You can't get married
01:11:16unfortunately.
01:11:18I mean, if you can.
01:11:22If I decide to marry
01:11:24with Chikina in the U.S.,
01:11:26my parents cannot travel
01:11:28to the United States because of the
01:11:30visa and they won't
01:11:32participate in my
01:11:34wedding.
01:11:36I know they wanted me to marry
01:11:38with a woman that I love.
01:11:40They want just to see it
01:11:42and it's their right to do so.
01:11:44That kills me.
01:12:02I don't want any more
01:12:04long-distance relationships.
01:12:06I mean, if I was rejected,
01:12:08I would break up with you.
01:12:10It's logical.
01:12:16It's also difficult for you to
01:12:18without me
01:12:20in long-distance relations.
01:12:26He's asking, are you ready?
01:12:28You can't know though.
01:12:30I don't know. Normally, I'm so
01:12:32program planned guy.
01:12:42I have to play this gamble
01:12:44to be with you.
01:12:46It works or not, I don't know.
01:12:48Maybe, but this is life.
01:12:50Everything can happen.
01:12:52You have to at least try.
01:12:54I have to try. If I don't,
01:12:56I will be regretful in the future.
01:13:02Breaking up with you
01:13:04makes me sad.
01:13:06I will be sad, I will cry.
01:13:08Your heart goes where it wants.
01:13:10But when it's in the distance,
01:13:12we are getting old.
01:13:14This will make us sad.
01:13:18Of course, I'm sad.
01:13:20I'm very sad.
01:13:22We have a son.
01:13:24I don't want to be away from him
01:13:26when I'm sad.
01:13:28I love him as a person.
01:13:30He loves you so much.
01:13:32But you are stealing me
01:13:34from them.
01:13:36I don't want you guys
01:13:38to think about him leaving
01:13:40as a forever thing.
01:13:42It doesn't mean
01:13:44he's going to be gone forever.
01:13:48It means freedom
01:13:50for us to come back and forth
01:13:52whenever we want.
01:13:54But you can be free
01:13:56after three months.
01:13:58It takes longer than six months.
01:14:00I have to apply for something else.
01:14:02I don't know how long it will take.
01:14:04If I get married.
01:14:08I know they are upset that
01:14:10my departure from Turkey
01:14:12to US is so close.
01:14:14Short notice.
01:14:16I understand that they are
01:14:18feeling upset about it, but I have to do it.
01:14:20I have to take it as short as possible.
01:14:22The only chance
01:14:24for this relationship
01:14:26to survive
01:14:28is going there
01:14:30with her.
01:14:34They will need
01:14:36some time to digest.
01:14:40My uncle doesn't show
01:14:42his feelings because
01:14:44he doesn't want to affect
01:14:46his son, but I know
01:14:48he will devastate it.
01:14:56Are you happy with your new house?
01:14:58I don't know.
01:15:00It's too hard.
01:15:02So you stay here one year,
01:15:04two years, three years?
01:15:06Maybe six months.
01:15:08Before, Mark told me
01:15:10I'm sure it's this, this, this.
01:15:12But I never imagined
01:15:14it's this.
01:15:16First day here,
01:15:18you're not staying.
01:15:26See the runway?
01:15:28Yes.
01:15:30Baby, stop.
01:15:32Okay.
01:15:34Don't play with my life.
01:15:36Don't worry.
01:15:48Bravo, pilot. Bravo.
01:15:52Hey, this is my house.
01:15:54All right, we're home, baby.
01:15:56I'm home now.
01:15:58You're home.
01:16:04All right, baby, we're home.
01:16:06Okay, hang on.
01:16:08She's so excited.
01:16:10Are you home, Maria?
01:16:12Wait.
01:16:14Where's your father?
01:16:16Yeah.
01:16:18You're home?
01:16:20Woo-hoo.
01:16:22Ah.
01:16:24Oh, Jesus.
01:16:28I'm happy you like the airplane
01:16:30and, you know.
01:16:32It's sexy.
01:16:34The uniform.
01:16:36No, me, the uniform.
01:16:38You, too.
01:16:40I put baby gates up today
01:16:42for the stairs.
01:16:44You know, baby,
01:16:46I like for play flies a ton.
01:16:48Okay, Mr. Captain,
01:16:50you want to go to a cafe?
01:16:52Yeah, cafe.
01:16:54For now, I'll brew Todd some champagne
01:16:56with my beautiful flight attendant.
01:16:58I get the door for you.
01:17:00Okay, go.
01:17:02Okay.
01:17:06No way.
01:17:08My tray table is upright.
01:17:10I promise you.
01:17:12Okay.
01:17:14You go first.
01:17:16Wow.
01:17:20It's big.
01:17:40Go see your room.
01:17:42Go see the toys.
01:17:44Wow.
01:17:46Ooh.
01:17:48You like?
01:17:50Maria, look.
01:17:52Whoa.
01:17:54It's your avion.
01:17:56Watch, watch, Maria.
01:17:58Come on, baby.
01:18:00This will be Clayton's room.
01:18:04Wait, this is Jordan and Jack.
01:18:06Yeah, exactly.
01:18:08A long time ago.
01:18:10It's just because it's Jack's room, you know.
01:18:18Uh...
01:18:22Uh...
01:18:24Okay.
01:18:26Uh...
01:18:28Uh...
01:18:30Uh...
01:18:32Uh...
01:18:34Uh...
01:18:50I got this gift
01:18:52for you, too.
01:18:54Oh, this is good.
01:18:56You like? I know you like white hats.
01:18:58Which one you want?
01:19:00You want the rosé?
01:19:02Shop, baby.
01:19:04It's strange.
01:19:06Oh, my God, you have just the pizza
01:19:08and water.
01:19:10You never have a food at home.
01:19:14I know my house is kind of
01:19:16like bachelor pad.
01:19:18I've been just me for eight years.
01:19:20For me, can I say I like the house?
01:19:22I don't like it's semi-stock.
01:19:24You know.
01:19:26Simple.
01:19:28Yes, simple.
01:19:30We can change.
01:19:32We can paint. We can get new furniture.
01:19:34We can change things.
01:19:36We'll get the Parisian style in here,
01:19:38in New Hampshire.
01:19:40I need to move out of the city.
01:19:42Give it some time.
01:19:44Someday.
01:19:46We go see the chamber, the love chamber.
01:19:52What is the place?
01:19:54Back here.
01:19:56Wow.
01:19:58This space is more space
01:20:00than the chamber in Paris.
01:20:04What is this?
01:20:06This is the space I clear for you.
01:20:08For me?
01:20:10Yeah, look.
01:20:12Okay.
01:20:14Where is my place for my clothes?
01:20:16This is no big space.
01:20:18This is not just for my shoes.
01:20:22And where is the place for shower?
01:20:24In here. It's the bathroom.
01:20:26I've got a tub. Right now it's just shower.
01:20:28And two sinks.
01:20:30This is not fancy. I know it's a bachelor.
01:20:32Vintage.
01:20:34Vintage shower.
01:20:36Desolé.
01:20:38No vintage.
01:20:40Your husband is vintage, too.
01:20:42I'm vintage, too.
01:20:44You're vintage, but you're on your mind.
01:20:46You're not vintage.
01:20:48I see the house,
01:20:50but there's a lot I need to change.
01:20:52A house for a lonely man.
01:20:56And I need to fix everything.
01:20:58Everything.
01:21:00You happy with your new house?
01:21:02My baby.
01:21:04I don't know.
01:21:06You tell me in New Hampshire
01:21:08I don't have the young people.
01:21:10You haven't seen New Hampshire yet.
01:21:12It's too old.
01:21:14For Maria.
01:21:16But there are some kids here.
01:21:18There are kids.
01:21:20We just open mind.
01:21:22We give a chance.
01:21:24I don't have the problem for open mind.
01:21:26I stay with you for life.
01:21:28This is true.
01:21:30But you convinced me to move somewhere else.
01:21:32No, I don't stay here.
01:21:34First day here.
01:21:36You tell me you're not staying.
01:21:40This was one of my biggest concerns.
01:21:42You know, I know
01:21:44Mini can be a little hard to please,
01:21:46but I also expected her to be a little bit excited
01:21:48and open and at least give this house
01:21:50in New Hampshire a try.
01:21:52You don't understand me.
01:21:54No, I don't understand.
01:21:56So you stay here one year,
01:21:58two years, three years?
01:22:00Maybe six months.
01:22:02To try, not six months
01:22:04and we leave.
01:22:06Six months to try.
01:22:08I know before
01:22:10Markie tell me New Hampshire is this,
01:22:12this, this, but I never imagined
01:22:14it's this.
01:22:18You come to the U.S.
01:22:20I'm going to make you happy.
01:22:22I'm not going to be in a house
01:22:24where I'm not happy.
01:22:26I'm not going to be able to evolve
01:22:28or for the kids,
01:22:30try to give them these six months.
01:22:32But
01:22:34if there's a possibility
01:22:36to leave tomorrow,
01:22:38I jump, I leave
01:22:40without regret, without thinking.
01:22:44You're the boss for your work.
01:22:46I'm the boss in the house.
01:22:50Next time
01:22:52on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:22:54Like seeing people singing
01:22:56and dancing like on the street,
01:22:58it just feels weird
01:23:00because if you do that in Iran,
01:23:02like they can arrest you.
01:23:04Watching Maddie
01:23:06walk around New Orleans is like
01:23:08when you bring a kid
01:23:10to Disneyland.
01:23:12Would you see these in your country?
01:23:14Never, nothing.
01:23:16Oh my gosh.
01:23:18I can totally feel
01:23:20the freedom here.
01:23:22I'll be gone for just a little bit,
01:23:24a couple weeks.
01:23:26A few days
01:23:28and we'll FaceTime you.
01:23:30Two hands worth.
01:23:32We've been trying to
01:23:34let our children know that there is someone
01:23:36in our lives important.
01:23:38This trip, we want to take the next step
01:23:40in the relationship I've proposed to her.
01:23:42We want to bring her on the K-1 visa.
01:23:44Ah, gorgeous.
01:23:46She's got to be here somewhere.
01:23:48I feel butterflies, my heart's beating
01:23:50real hard.
01:23:52Wait, that's not her, is it?
01:23:54Ah, let's go, let's go, let's go, let's go!
01:23:56So our flight has
01:23:58arrived at 103.
01:24:00Just waiting for her to come out now, man.
01:24:02It's exciting, this is crazy.
01:24:06Oh, wow.
01:24:08I see them.
01:24:10It's exciting to be here,
01:24:12but I think about
01:24:14what I had to sacrifice
01:24:16to come to America.
01:24:18It's really hard.
01:24:20It's going to be alright, man.
01:24:22This is day one, I want you going back already.
01:24:26Alright, let's go.
01:24:28I feel guilty
01:24:30and bad about taking him away from you guys.
01:24:32I don't want to
01:24:34scare you or something, but
01:24:36he may come back.
01:24:38I am making a sacrifice
01:24:40to make my parents upset,
01:24:42to leave everything behind
01:24:44just for her.
01:24:50I hope she appreciates that.
01:24:52Are you okay?
01:24:54I am, babe.
01:24:56I can't wait to take you
01:24:58to see the family.
01:25:00I want you to see Jordan and talk with her.
01:25:02Tell me, is she and me
01:25:04enemies?
01:25:06No, no, no, you're not enemies.
01:25:08Her concern is just about
01:25:10I really need to have more kids.
01:25:12Jordan is a hypocrite.
01:25:14Why he don't talk to me
01:25:16direct? Now I say,
01:25:18I say I'm a snake, you know?
01:25:20You understand me?
01:25:22You don't come in the bed, okay?
01:25:24F***