Second Date Update - Not So Special
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00:00All right, we're trying to know about Aiden this morning on the 7.15 second date update.
00:04He is very confused because he goes, listen, I listened to the 7.15 second date update
00:09and people say, oh, nothing never happened.
00:11And then something crazy happens.
00:12He goes, I know what you guys ask.
00:14I know how this goes.
00:15I'm telling you, we had a good conversation.
00:18No politics.
00:19I didn't do anything crazy.
00:20I didn't smell bad.
00:21I'm just telling you, I covered all my bases.
00:23Well, and I asked him, too, if she was into him.
00:27And he's like, oh, definitely.
00:28We talked about going out again.
00:30He goes, but he's had no contact from her.
00:32He's like, she's just gone.
00:34All right, so we are going to try to call her right now and see if we can get her on the phone.
00:51Hello?
00:52Good morning.
00:53Is this Brittany?
00:54Yes, who's speaking?
00:55Hey, Brittany, this is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5QIK.
01:00How are you doing?
01:03I'm fine.
01:06That's the proper response, by the way, when a radio station calls you.
01:10I'm fine.
01:11Listen, we want to see if we can talk to you for a minute on the air, just a couple minutes.
01:15Would you have just a spare few minutes for us this morning?
01:18Well, I mean, I do have to go to work, but I mean, I guess just if it's quickly.
01:22Okay, great.
01:23We want to ask you about this guy, Aiden, that you went on a date with, and I'll just
01:27tell you what we know.
01:27We know where you guys met online.
01:29You guys went to the Salt Shack.
01:31He said that he had a great conversation with you.
01:33A lot of things you guys talked about seem to, you guys seem to line up as far as interests
01:37go and what you guys want to do and goals and all that.
01:41Just basically, he was really into you, and he really wants to see you again, and he's
01:46just really confused why he hasn't heard from you since the date, and I guess he has reached
01:49out to you.
01:52You know, Aiden's a nice guy, but this was our first date, and there's just nothing he
01:58did that made me feel special.
02:01It was just a very kind of blah date, you know, and a woman needs to feel like she's the most
02:08attractive person in the room, especially on the first date.
02:11You got to kind of, you know, he didn't bring any flowers, he didn't order champagne, he
02:15didn't compliment my dress, or my hair, or my smile, or anything.
02:20Oh.
02:21I mean, he's a good conversationalist, but, you know, I could have a conversation with
02:27my mom, or my girlfriend.
02:29I don't need a date to, you know, just be a conversationalist.
02:33I need him to make me feel like I am the prettiest girl there, and to make a really good impression.
02:40I mean, it's the first date, right?
02:43It's supposed to be over the top.
02:45Okay, so you're saying you didn't feel special because he didn't kind of go over the top
02:49with things.
02:51He didn't even reach for the top.
02:53He didn't even come, it was way, way in the mid.
02:55It was just like, you know, going to lunch with your brother or something.
02:59Ouch.
02:59Aww.
03:00I mean, nice guy, but he just didn't create any sparks, and you know, that's really his job
03:06as a man.
03:07Whoa.
03:08So, it was just nice to meet him, and I just kind of let it go at that.
03:13You know, I don't even know guys bring flowers on first dates still.
03:17I mean, I know that's kind of an old-fashioned thing.
03:18Is that something people do?
03:19Well, you've been out of the game for a little bit.
03:21I mean, yeah, but, okay.
03:24Well, let me just, let me ask you this.
03:26You said he's a great conversationalist.
03:28Would you be willing to talk to him right now?
03:30Because we actually have him on the other line.
03:32Would that be okay, Brittany, if you brought him back on?
03:35Oh, you're going to anyway, so go ahead.
03:38Oh, I appreciate that.
03:39Aiden?
03:40Yeah, hey.
03:42How are you doing?
03:45I'm a little confused.
03:47I mean, I kind of heard what you were saying, and I mean, I felt like I was a gentleman.
03:55I paid for the date.
03:56I even, like, I walked you to your car, and it is, like, kind of the first date, so I
04:01don't know.
04:02I don't know how, do men just bring flowers on the first date?
04:06I don't know.
04:07I never got that memo.
04:09Yes, they do.
04:10Every man that I date does, but there was no spark with us.
04:15There was nothing that you tried to just spark a little bit to light a fire, because that's
04:21what dating is about, is lighting that fire.
04:22And there wasn't even a smolder.
04:25Oh, man.
04:26Oh, okay.
04:27I mean, I thought there was.
04:29I definitely thought we had more than just brotherly conversation and sisterly.
04:34I'm sorry I wasn't over the top, is I guess what I'm trying to say.
04:37I thought you should, like, the second date.
04:40I mean, I don't know.
04:42This is kind of not fair to me.
04:43I don't know.
04:44I feel like I need a do-over, maybe, you know?
04:47There are no do-overs in life.
04:48You get one chance at a first date, and now I'm always just going to think of you in
04:53that friend, brother, cousin zone.
04:57You're just, you're a good guy, and I'm sure that there's a great place for good guys in
05:01the world, but it's not day me.
05:04You've got to be better.
05:06So this is for sure a no?
05:08You wouldn't want to see him again at all?
05:10I mean, now that he knows what you're looking for?
05:11I mean, if he'd be willing to, I don't know.
05:13I hate to even ask him to step up, but I'm just saying, but he brings you flowers?
05:19Yeah, I mean, would you be willing to give him a shot?
05:21The problem is that I had to ask.
05:24You know, I'm not going to sit here and dictate our relationship for the rest of our lives and
05:29tell him everything he should and should not do.
05:31He's a man.
05:32He should know what to do, and that's what sweeps women off their feet, is, you know, men
05:36know what to do.
05:37So I'm not swept.
05:39My feet are on the ground, and I'm going to sadly just walk forward.
05:43Wow.
05:44Wow.
05:45All right.
05:46Well, listen, I think, Aiden, you're going to look back at this day sometime and be like,
05:50you know what?
05:50It didn't work out for a reason.
05:52So I do appreciate you reaching out to us, Aiden.
05:54I'm sorry we couldn't make a second date happen.
05:56Brittany, I know you got to get to work, so thank you for your time, and you guys have
05:59a great day.
06:00Thanks, guys.
06:01Okay.
06:01All right.
06:01Thanks.
06:03Like I said, he'll look back and be like, I'm so glad I did not go back out with that
06:08woman again.
06:09She was a lot.
06:09Because she said it wasn't like he just showed him as a slob.
06:13She said he was nice.
06:15He was a conversationalist.
06:16She said if she wanted to go with her brother, she'd go with her brother.
06:19But I mean, that's insane to me.
06:21Yeah.
06:22I don't know.
06:23I thought she was a lot.
06:24But maybe she wasn't asking too much.
06:26I want to know what you think.
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