Second Date Update - One Too Many
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00:00all right this is interesting it is the second date update right now we usually try to match
00:04two people up on another date but this is more of an apology yeah this uh apparently uh lucy
00:10went out with mark and she drank too much she she admitted it she says i got smashed yeah
00:16and so uh she said i i all i remember is him getting me home and i woke up in my bed and
00:23that was that yeah so that's a that's there's a lot of holes to fill in here um we do have
00:29mark on the phone with us we're gonna bring him on right now mark you there yep i'm here hey mark i
00:37you just heard us talking about your i guess we'll call it a date uh with lucy um i heard it kind of
00:43got a little out of hand on her part um she was very embarrassed when we talked to her would it
00:49be okay for us to kind of talk to you about it a little bit yeah i mean sure i mean i'm i'm not
00:56the one who uh made you know kind of a fool of myself got sloshed so i'm okay talking about it
01:05okay well i'll just tell you right now we have lucy on the phone with us too and she's been trying to
01:10reach out i'm sure you've gotten her texts and her calls but she wants to apologize i mean lucy you
01:16there i'm here yeah i mean i'll just let you kind of apologize yeah mark hey um really i'm so sorry
01:25for uh my behavior the other night and i hope you can forgive me i mean i thought you were a really
01:31great guy and so cute and i and i just i i just really feel like i did not put my best self forward
01:42and i just i just want to say i'm sorry i'm sorry if i ruined the date i'm sorry you know i was just
01:49they the drinks must have been too strong and i just was not prepared to you know i i don't know i
01:57have nothing to say but i'm sorry i mean you know you can say drinks too strong but i mean first of all
02:03you were throwing back the drinks i mean like a racehorse i mean you got so you got so hammered
02:11you couldn't stand up i mean it was so it was awkward and it was embarrassing to me oh because
02:16i i felt like people like i mean you almost look like i'm just going to be so real with you you
02:22almost look like you had gotten roofied i mean i had to get you back to your house and this was our
02:29first date i mean you don't know me you don't know who i am i mean i i pride myself on being an
02:34upstanding good good guy but i mean and i know i know i know and that's why i really liked you and
02:40that's why i reached out to you because i was like he got me home and i you know it was but you
02:44have to understand gentlemen and i was just like oh my gosh she's so great and you can't put yourself
02:51in that kind of a position to begin with i mean you were like you were drinking like you got to drink
02:56all your problems away i was i was like oh my god i'm on my second drink you were like ordering
03:01number five and i'm just gonna add to it first of all so i drove you home even getting your address
03:07i drove around for like 25 minutes because you could you were slurring so bad you couldn't even
03:12say your address so we had to like take 25 minutes until i could drop you home and then i mean i got you
03:18in your house i put you on down on your bed and i'm looking around and there's like guys clothes like
03:24in the closet there's shaving cream on the counter in the bathroom and so obviously there's something
03:31you have with a guy i don't know what but you know it was just like way too much for a first date
03:39for me and i understand how you feel this is really upsetting me and it's like you know you know those
03:46clothes in the closet are my ex-husband's and so yeah maybe i was drinking a little too much because
03:51you know it's just i don't know anyway no i just don't want to get emotional i didn't even know
03:55you were married i mean yeah yeah how long how you're divorced right i'm assuming yeah how long
04:03yeah how long have you been a year it's been a year it's been just under a year and so yeah so i was
04:10ready to get back out there and maybe you know this was just like i was just having a good time and i
04:16just wanted to forget everything and so i drank a little and you know you know it's just you know
04:23there's but but you know i just haven't taken my stuff back to his house like he hasn't come and get
04:28it yet i just have been you know putting it off he's been busy and whatever so that's who those
04:32clothes were a year my exes yeah look i think you're a really good person the evening started off
04:40we were having good conversation we're going deep it's i have to say it's it's like another red flag
04:44for me i mean you never even i had no idea you were married and then divorced i feel like you
04:50gotta just do some work on yourself and get yourself into a better place because i mean please don't
04:56ever have that behavior again going out i mean it's just straight up dangerous well i mean let me
05:01just say i mean lucy's made her apologies mark i mean mark you've obviously made your point here
05:06um i i'll just ask you did say that there was was some good times at the beginning of the date
05:11i mean i think lucy's definitely going to check herself this next time around i mean would you
05:15be willing to see her again and and maybe hang out again yeah you're a second chance it's a hard
05:20no i i just you know what what i saw i i can't really be erased and i you know it just i mean it
05:27was like it wasn't classy it wasn't cool it was really mark it's like come on it's like a one-off
05:34it's like you know luck i wish you the best of luck but it's it's a hard no okay well i'm sorry
05:40lucy that that's the answer but at least you got to apologize yeah you got to apologize and um mark
05:47thank you for your time this morning and i wish you both uh good luck okay thanks okay wow that's
05:54tough that was a lot yeah and that would be a lot for our first date yeah i mean the drinking thing
06:00he probably could have been like okay so she had too much to drink it happens you know go for one
06:05stay till one but you awesome motto go ahead grief but the fact that she still has her husband's
06:16clothes and stuff at her house now after a year that to me was a little bit that would be more what
06:22i would be focused on so some red flags no doubt about it um okay would you have given her another
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