Second Date Update - "OBO"
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00:00Interesting one here, because Ben actually had another date set up with Trina after their first one that they went to the Sandbar Grill.
00:08Yeah, and like literally at the last minute, he got a text from her and said that she wasn't going to make it.
00:14Well, he hasn't heard from her since, so he's kind of a little bit worried, but we got her on the phone.
00:19Kevin was able to get her on, and so he's got her on hold right now.
00:23All right, Commercial Free New Country 99.5 QYK. Here she is. Trina.
00:28Hey. Oh my gosh, this is so crazy. I've never been on the radio.
00:31Okay, cool. Well, I'm glad you're excited about it.
00:33Yeah.
00:34I know you talked to Kevin off the air. He told you what we wanted to talk to you about.
00:37You just heard us talking about Ben.
00:39You know, first of all, I'm glad to hear your voice and glad to hear you're okay, because we were kind of a little worried about you,
00:44because you canceled last minute on Ben, and then he never really got an answer on why you canceled on him for your second date.
00:51And we were just hoping maybe you could tell us why.
00:52I mean, to be honest, it was just something came up. My friends called me, and really, I can't name names,
01:02but something really big was happening, and it was all our friend group, and I just, I had something better to do, basically.
01:09I mean, really.
01:09You had something better to do than go out with Ben?
01:11I mean, basically, we'll just say some really well-known people we were all going to be hanging out with,
01:20and so I can't really name names. I don't want to get anybody in trouble, but I couldn't, it was a once-in-a-lifetime thing.
01:26I couldn't just say no to that when I had only been on one date with this guy.
01:30And yes, it was fun, but I couldn't miss out with my friends.
01:34Okay, hold on, though. You're, like, canceling on somebody last minute and then leaving them hanging,
01:38like, even after the fact you didn't tell them what was going on.
01:41Like, don't you feel like you kind of owed him an explanation?
01:44I mean, I felt bad, but at the same time, again, I don't, I couldn't miss this,
01:50and I just feel like, I mean, I can go out with him any time.
01:53Yeah, I mean, I feel kind of bad for Ben, though. I mean, he was left in the dark here, and that's cool.
01:57You had a fun night, but you also did have plans with Ben.
02:02You kind of set him up a little bit.
02:04Yeah. Hey, Ben, you there?
02:06I'm here, yeah.
02:08What's up?
02:08Hey, Ben.
02:10Hey, you got a better offer, huh?
02:11Wow.
02:12I mean, it's not, like, personal. This is just huge.
02:15Okay. Well, yeah, I don't, I guess that's what it is, what it is.
02:21And I just wish you had, I don't know, pulled me anything or gotten back to me or returned any texts.
02:26It was just, you know, it was pretty confounding, because I actually really, really had a good time and liked you
02:32and was looking forward to this date, so.
02:35Yeah, I had fun, too. I'm sorry you're finding out this way. I mean, it's really not.
02:40Well, it's really the only way, right? Because you didn't tell him anything.
02:43Yeah.
02:43I mean, I don't feel like I owe him anything.
02:46So, yes, I had fun, and I am attracted, and I would like to go out again, but at the same time, it's like, I don't regret this.
02:54This is a huge deal. This is huge.
02:58I couldn't, like, have FOMO, you know what I mean?
02:59Like, I couldn't, like, every single person I know and hang out with have this experience and not me.
03:05If only I were a little more famous, maybe I'd had a chance, huh?
03:09What did you do?
03:10What was going on? I want to know details about this night.
03:13What did you do?
03:15I mean, honestly, I can't name names.
03:19But what did you do?
03:20Besides names, I mean.
03:22I can't even say that. I can't say where we were. It was just a huge night.
03:26It was one of the best nights of my life, actually, so.
03:28I'm sure that makes Ben feel good.
03:30Sounds fun.
03:31Yeah, sounds fun.
03:32All right, so you had this huge opportunity to go hang out with, what did she say?
03:36Well-known.
03:37Well-known people.
03:39Yeah, I can't say anything else about that.
03:41And so you dumped Ben for the night, and, well, I mean, Ben, I mean.
03:44Do you have any regrets about doing, I mean, as far as, maybe not regrets, but, I mean,
03:48do you understand how Ben could feel, you know, pretty, you know, bummed out about this?
03:52Do you get that?
03:54I mean, I should have texted, I guess, after, but I, at the same time, you know, I really just don't feel bad about this.
04:00I don't care.
04:02Ben, you want to go back out with her again?
04:04Oh, no, no, no.
04:05Well, I think, I think I've heard all I need to hear.
04:07Yeah.
04:08Yeah, I think, I think I, I might have dodged the proverbial bullet.
04:12Yeah.
04:13You know, Ben, I, I totally agree with you, man.
04:15I don't think I would have let you go back out.
04:18If she's really-
04:19Well, I'm sorry to feel that way.
04:20If you guys had that opportunity, you'd feel different, I think.
04:24I don't know.
04:25I mean, hey, whatever floats your boat, I guess.
04:28And I'm sorry, but it maybe sounds like you missed out on a good guy.
04:31No.
04:32Or she would have missed out on a really good night.
04:34Yeah, but you had a commitment to somebody.
04:36I just, all right.
04:38Well, Ben, I know you called us originally to see what was going on.
04:41Now you want to know what's going on.
04:42I'm glad you got some closure here.
04:45Yeah, I appreciate it.
04:46Yeah.
04:46Trina, thanks for coming on with us.
04:48You both have a great day, okay?
04:50Thanks, guys.
04:50You too.
04:51Bye.
04:53I don't, you know, I think about it though, JR.
04:56You've got, obviously it was a big night and it was like one of those once in a lifetime
04:59opportunities and you've got a second date with a guy you just, a girl you just met.
05:04Here's your buddy's like, hey man, you got to come out with us tonight.
05:07You know, this is going on.
05:08We're never going to have a chance to do this again.
05:10I mean.
05:10Three words for you.
05:11Can we reschedule?
05:13That's all he had to say.
05:14That's true.
05:14That's all she had to say.
05:16You don't just burn him like that.
05:17That's, that's what's messed up about this.
05:19But did she owe him anything?
05:21Yeah, an explanation of why you're canceling on somebody.
05:24So last minute.
05:25It wasn't the day before.
05:26It wasn't two days prior.
05:28It was last minute.
05:29Oh, I got a call.
05:30And then just that whole vibe of, I just want to be seen with well-known people.
05:34That is, that's gross, man.
05:36I hate when people are like that.
05:38It's just weird.
05:39I don't know.
05:40Who's tired are you on on this?
05:41How are you feeling about this?
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