Dear Chixie,
Ako si Wendy. My story is very timely especially nga election season na. I have a boyfriend nga si Neil. Smart ug buotan si Neil maong gaan ra ako pagbati sa iyaha when we're still starting to know each other pag-college. Mo-matter man gud sa akoa if same mi og wavelength. However, lately, akong narealize nga importante sad diay nga same mo og political views sa imong partner. Naabot man gud sa point Chixie nga maglalis nami tungod kay lahi ang among gisuportahan nga politiko. Bag-o lang naglalis mi kay iya kong gipugos nga botaran ang kandidato nga iyang ganahan, apan dili man nako feel ang iyang gisuportahan nga politiko.
Ako si Wendy. My story is very timely especially nga election season na. I have a boyfriend nga si Neil. Smart ug buotan si Neil maong gaan ra ako pagbati sa iyaha when we're still starting to know each other pag-college. Mo-matter man gud sa akoa if same mi og wavelength. However, lately, akong narealize nga importante sad diay nga same mo og political views sa imong partner. Naabot man gud sa point Chixie nga maglalis nami tungod kay lahi ang among gisuportahan nga politiko. Bag-o lang naglalis mi kay iya kong gipugos nga botaran ang kandidato nga iyang ganahan, apan dili man nako feel ang iyang gisuportahan nga politiko.
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02:30So, itong hashtag ka ron is hashtag political views.
02:34Tinood man yun na our political views and political stand might differ sa atuang mga kaila and even those people nga close sa atuang.
02:45But what if ang kanina tao close good ni mo because imo siyang boyfriend?
02:51Itong saan manimui mo siyang partner in life?
02:54So, itong manimui mo kung managlahi mo o political stand and this will cause the part na mag-away na tungod aning inyuhang managlahi nga baruganan.
03:10Mutugot ba mong mag-away mo si mong partner because of politics?
03:15We're okay ra ba na? Normal ra ba na?
03:17So, sa tanang mga nananaw ka ron sa Sunstar Cebu, Super Balita Cebu, we're encouraging everyone to share your thoughts sa atuang life ka ron.
03:25And kung ka mo ang naas sa sitwasyon sa atuang letter sender, kung saan ka na to ni para masolusyonan yung ilahang currently, no, giface na issue sa iyahang partner.
03:36So, again, dear Chixie Time, hashtag political views, oo, kung ano ba ang tanan, no, nakaandam na ba kung kinsay butaran?
03:45Wala akong pangutan na, nakaandam na ba mo kung kinsay inyong butaran?
03:48Because, number one, I don't know about you, but ang ubanin ko sila nga dapat as early as event, na campaign period pa lang, inyo na nangisuta kung kinsay ganun yung butaran.
04:00Or basin ka mo po ng type of individual nga kung musunod sa bandwagon, kung kinsay butaran sa kadaghanan at to sad mo kay para sure nga makadaog, no?
04:10But I don't think nga it's good nga yung ana, no, dapat yun nga ato yung huna-huna on, no, sa nga natin katungol to decide on our own.
04:19Not to be influenced by other people, but on our own.
04:22So, moving forward, di na ito maglangay. Ani-ana nga ito ang Dear Chixie Story for today, nga na yung hashtag, ang hashtag ka roon is hashtag political views.
04:35Ang story sa itong letter sender nga si Wendy.
04:37Itong paminawan, mga ka Sunstar, mga ka Super.
04:52Good afternoon, dear Chixie.
04:58Please hide my identity and call me Wendy.
05:02Silent viewer lang ko sa inyong programa, and this is the first time nga mupadangat ko o istorya sa akong life.
05:11Kinimanggod akong problema, could sound funny to some.
05:16However, nahimu ning factor nga nga magsunod-sunod na ang among misunderstanding sa akong uyab.
05:24Pero sadili pa na ako i-share ang among problema at usang balikan ang sinugdanan sa among relasyon.
05:34Hi, Miss. Medyo challenging itong debate ka ni Yada.
05:38Pero gusto lang tamay kang rutsalit sa inyong pagkadawag sa debate.
05:42Ah, thank you, Mr. Unsa ganito yung name ni mo?
05:46Ah, Nilsson. Pero just call me Nils na lang.
05:50Ikaw, Wendy ba to? Sakto?
05:53Ah, yes. I'm Wendy and congrats also. It was a great competition.
05:59Well, I hope dili niya na yung last nga mag-abot ta.
06:02Basi hindi ay magka-friends ta.
06:05Well, basi hindi ay.
06:08Again, congratulations and nice to meet you.
06:12Nagka-ilami ni Nils sa Osaka.
06:16Inter-school debate.
06:18Diin kami ang nagkasangka sa maong kompetisyon.
06:22Gikan dito na kaamigumi.
06:25We became nga friends, no?
06:27Until nga nagka-developy me sa usag-usa.
06:29Neil and I are both extroverts.
06:34Parihuminga-opinionated.
06:36Pero maumampod ang naka-excite sa among relasyon
06:39kayo we are very conversational.
06:42Kaso lang, sa sobrang namo ka-opinionated
06:46na apoy mga buta nga muabot na sa misunderstanding
06:49ang among mga diskusyon.
06:51Babe, buta rin ta ni inileksyon ha.
06:57Kani sila itong dapat suportahan.
06:59Labi na ni siya o.
07:01Babe, api ko ba gdili ka ganan, anak niya?
07:06Di ba imo pa man ganit ng gibash?
07:10Ay, sa honor to, babe.
07:12Dapat ka rin full support na tayo niya.
07:15Hatagan po na itong chance, good.
07:17Unya, unsa mampod ang track record anang tawana, babe.
07:21Murag, wala raman po ganit na siya yung platapurma.
07:25Ay sus, nanapod ka na yung mga arguments, babe.
07:30Wala man ko nakik-argue, babe.
07:32I'm just stating a fact.
07:33Nga unsa man iyang makontribute sa atua
07:36nga wala man ganit sa itarong mga background
07:38or if na ang manganit, dili visible.
07:41Shhh.
07:42Basta, babe, butaran d'yo ni nato siya, ha?
07:45Unya, dili day ko?
07:47Maglalis yun ta.
07:49Unsa man na magdibita ka ron?
07:52Seryoso ka, babe?
07:54I mean, awayan ko din nato?
07:57Nagtuog ka nga wala ko ka kita
07:58nga mag-comment ka sa mga public posts
08:00sa social media, unya,
08:02halos makakita nalang kag-away
08:04tungod ang na imong baruganan.
08:05Dugin ako gusto mo badlong ni mo, Anna.
08:08Halaw, wow.
08:09Babe, imuha nang i-question akong baruganan?
08:13Murag, wala'y, wala pagkaimuhang baruganan, da?
08:17Otro mapudgani ka nga hilig makik-argue sa social media,
08:20maskin dili ni mo ka ila?
08:22Babe?
08:24Seryoso ka?
08:26At least ka to dili about politics.
08:28Diba nagsabot naman ta ng abisan
08:30o managlahi itag mga gusto,
08:31dilik na itong nalalisan?
08:33Oo, bitaw, nagsabot ta.
08:35Pero,
08:36ikaw manag nauna.
08:38I was just stating facts nga way ayo na imong gustong butaran.
08:43Nga nung makaingon man kang walay ayo,
08:46may kaila ka na niya personal.
08:47Kaya nga no,
08:48kaila ang pagkana niya sa personal?
08:50Diba wala?
08:52Ayaw lagi pag-judge?
08:54Sige, sige, mulakaw na ako.
08:55Kaya grabe,
08:56di itang mahumanan eh.
08:58Basta,
08:58I'll stand firm sa akong desisyon.
09:01Butaran ko din siya,
09:02o bahala na ka din na sa iyong desisyon,
09:03mauna niya nga kong problema ron,
09:08Shixi.
09:10Maglalis na me,
09:11tungod sa managlahi na mong baruganan sa politika.
09:15Kung saan mangyudpudni nga,
09:17tungod sa politika,
09:18magsige naman yun may grabe nga away o guban pa.
09:22Kung saan ka ano,
09:23para mafix nina mo among mga arguments,
09:25o among mga misunderstandings,
09:28tungod lang sa politika.
09:30Labi na nga lately,
09:32nakamatgondjug ko,
09:34taas na kayo'ng pride
09:36ang akong uyab.
09:38Please nambagi ko,
09:39o daghang salamat kaayos
09:41sa pagtagad sa akong istorya.
09:43Dini nalang kutog,
09:45Wendy.
09:57Mauna na din ha.
09:59Thank you kayo, Wendy,
10:00o ni Neil,
10:02nga nag-portray ni Eric,
10:05o ni Charidad,
10:05hang salamat for bringing life to the story.
10:08Pero mo,
10:08o lagi ni,
10:09oye,
10:09kung saan naman nag-away naman sila,
10:11sure ka,
10:12wala ba na siya yung plata purma,
10:13ano ka naman yung butaran?
10:16Diba?
10:16Napuiniingon nga,
10:17nga naman saan ka,
10:18mag-judgment ka.
10:19O, diba?
10:20So, grabe,
10:20good case,
10:21ang nga tanan ilang story yan,
10:22no?
10:22Shout out sa tanan na mga nag-debate,
10:24karoon,
10:25o yung nai-klase-klase
10:26nga mga baruganan
10:27sa mag-isuportaan nilang
10:29nga mga politiko.
10:30It is true,
10:31no?
10:31Nga importante,
10:32sag kayo na,
10:32nga we are socially aware.
10:35Importante kayo na,
10:36nga kabalutan,
10:37no?
10:37Kung un sa'yin
10:37nahitabo sa atong kalikupan,
10:39kabalutan,
10:40nga natin yung mga diskusyonan,
10:43nga kung kinsagyo nang angay,
10:45ngamulingkod sa kaning mga posisyon,
10:48no?
10:48Or seat of power.
10:49Pero mo lagi ni,
10:51o sa'yin kabutang
10:52kailangan na ito
10:53nga tagaagrefleksyon?
10:55What if,
10:55ang imong baruganan,
10:57lahi sa baruganan
10:58sa imong partner,
10:59nga mamahimu na ninyo
11:00nga pirming awayan?
11:02So, un sa'yin
11:03magpagsolusyonan,
11:04ay magbuwag na lang mo
11:05tungkol sa politika,
11:06ha?
11:07Di ko ka ano,
11:09Ken?
11:10Atong-atong babasa.
11:11Naman na di ko,
11:11si Thea,
11:12di ha,
11:12naman na siya
11:12kanang board,
11:15ah,
11:16kayo na angigisultisikan.
11:17Sige,
11:18sa muna sa tanan din ha,
11:19nga mga,
11:20nananaw karun.
11:22No?
11:22Kung kamo,
11:22pangutanon tamo,
11:23kung kamo ang nasa sitwasyon ni Wendy,
11:25naglabad yang o kayo,
11:26mag-away,
11:26ikit sila permiss,
11:27hindi na lang,
11:27hindi na lang,
11:27hindi na lang politika,
11:28di igit sila pareo.
11:30Kayo gusto siyang uyab,
11:31kani,
11:31gusto niya,
11:32kani,
11:32di siya ganahan atong gusto siyang uyab,
11:34kayo ako ni Plata Purma,
11:35di siya ganahan,
11:36aning katoyang uyab,
11:37kaya,
11:37shwental ako no kayo si Wendy,
11:39saon manabe?
11:40No?
11:41Kung sa tinood lang yun,
11:42kulang na lang yun ni sila ba nga?
11:44Magsabong yun.
11:46Diba?
11:47It might,
11:47ang sanin.
11:48Kung walay baruganan,
11:50maglingkod.
11:50Ah!
11:52Sakto.
11:53Kung walay barugan na maglingkod sila.
11:55Oo.
11:55Pero mula ginano,
11:56pero sa tinood lang bitaw,
11:58sa tinood lang no,
11:59ingon giyo siya daan sa iyong story ha,
12:01nag-disclaimer na siya.
12:02Sa uban,
12:02posibleng katawan na ni Ilahang story ha.
12:05Pero sa tinood lang,
12:06it is very rampant ka roon.
12:08Possible gini nga mahitabo
12:09that your views and opinion
12:11differ to those people
12:12nga close ni mo
12:13and it is because
12:14we are all,
12:15we also want this goal no,
12:17same goal,
12:18to have a better country,
12:20no,
12:20to elect better people,
12:21to serve us,
12:22natural,
12:23nag-i-te-ingon ana.
12:24But,
12:25the thing is,
12:26ang pinakalisod ani,
12:27you're in love with each other
12:28but your love,
12:30murag na overpower na
12:31sa so much na
12:32or over ninyo nga
12:33pagka-opinionated
12:34or wala sila'y common ground ka na.
12:37Asa maging nga ground-breaking
12:39teya ang common ground
12:40pang ito siya na.
12:41Pito diba,
12:42sa tinood lang,
12:43lisod kayo ni kayo,
12:44mailhani mo sa ilang personality manggot.
12:46I think it all boils down
12:47to the personality.
12:49They both have,
12:51kung saan din mo sila
12:52alpha pero may
12:53pare silang alpha,
12:54pare silang,
12:55they said,
12:56she said,
12:56no,
12:57na they're both extroverts.
12:58I believe nga,
12:59beyond being extrovert,
13:00they are both
13:01kanang outspoken,
13:03kanang parihugyod mo nga
13:04will stand firm
13:06to the things
13:07and your decisions,
13:08no.
13:08So,
13:09usagin na kabutang pod
13:10na kailangan ninyo
13:11i-adjust.
13:11At first,
13:12na-attract sila sa usag-usag
13:13kaya they're both intelligent,
13:15they're both
13:16kanapitawang very
13:17debate ba sila,
13:18no.
13:19So,
13:19nagka-ila,
13:20so meaning to say,
13:20kibaw,
13:21good sila nga,
13:21mag-rasunay,
13:22good sila,
13:23no.
13:23They have this very,
13:24ah,
13:25they have this moment
13:26kaya mag-discuss,
13:27good sila,
13:28no.
13:28Ingun sila nga,
13:29opposite attracts.
13:30So,
13:30mo siguro mo na
13:30sila opposite attracts
13:31kaya siguro
13:32na balansi,
13:33pero kani,
13:34dili sila opposite.
13:35They're two the same
13:36to the point that
13:37they're being
13:38the same character,
13:39nagka,
13:40ano na,
13:41nagka-clash na,
13:42no.
13:42Kay,
13:43pareho sila nga
13:44mubarug yun,
13:45so sa usag-usag.
13:45Once na lang kaha,
13:46nang-apply na lang
13:47ni silang duha nga
13:48campaign manager,
13:49ha,
13:49nga lahi ilang party
13:50doong gisuportaan.
13:52Ambut na lang yun,
13:52ha.
13:53Kaluwisad sa ilang
13:54mga anak
13:55kung mag-menu,
13:55o grabe yun,
13:56no.
13:57Reaction paper
13:57kasi ito,
13:58kaluwisad.
13:59Grabe yun,
14:00kaluwisad kay bitaw,
14:01no.
14:01Kay feeling na ko,
14:02ma-overook ka ng
14:02mabaruganan,
14:03bangamarugan.
14:04Sige na lang,
14:04gitagbarugan.
14:05Eh,
14:05wajutay lingkod-lingkod.
14:07Diba?
14:08Pero sa tinood lang,
14:09it might sound funny,
14:11pero don't tell me
14:12wala dyong may kailangan
14:13nagkagubot
14:14because of politics.
14:15No,
14:15I agree.
14:16Dagan,
14:16guys,
14:16nangatanan,
14:17dagan kayo nagbungol
14:18ka ron because of politics
14:19because we differ
14:20in all the ways
14:22and all the understandings
14:23of our candidates
14:24because we stand firm
14:25with what we believe in,
14:26the parties and everything.
14:28But,
14:29parang ako,
14:29maayo na,
14:30kay socially aware,
14:31taga,
14:31nahanta mo lang
14:32bua itong nasun.
14:33But,
14:33as to what extent
14:34would you allow
14:35this kind of character
14:36to destroy a relationship?
14:38Mune,
14:39pinakadakong pangutan na.
14:41No?
14:41Maskin ako nga,
14:42nang tanaw,
14:42nagbasa silang story,
14:43makaingon,
14:44jugo nga,
14:44di gini sila
14:45mga papildi.
14:46They really have
14:46strong personalities,
14:48giyod nga,
14:48kanigid ako babe,
14:49kanigid ako babe,
14:51left jugo babe,
14:51right jugo babe,
14:53hala sige,
14:53sa pula jugo babe,
14:54sa puti jugo babe,
14:55you will never,
14:59di gini mahilot,
15:00kung wala giyosang,
15:02murabag,
15:02mo tone down,
15:04or,
15:04unsaba,
15:05unta,
15:06adunay,
15:06kalinkuran,
15:07para dili isang sige,
15:08sige,
15:08barog.
15:11Bitaw, no?
15:12Oo,
15:12pero,
15:13para nako,
15:14usap po na,
15:15no?
15:16Kahit ka naman kong mga tao,
15:17nga grabe kayo,
15:18kataas of pride,
15:19they really don't want the feeling,
15:21nga,
15:21mapildi sila,
15:22sa argument,
15:23ang ego,
15:24ma-ego,
15:25lisod na,
15:26no?
15:26So,
15:26muna nga itong i-check,
15:27inyo ha,
15:28mga reaction na niya.
15:28Again,
15:29hashtag political views,
15:32nga itong story ka ron,
15:34kung wala ka nakaabot,
15:35palihugog,
15:36share your reaction,
15:37no?
15:38Kaya kini,
15:38ang story ni Wendy,
15:40ni-share lang siya nga,
15:41recently,
15:42magsige na sila,
15:43g-away sa iyang uyab,
15:44because,
15:45ang awayan nila sa iyang uyab,
15:47is because,
15:48ha,
15:48number one,
15:49politics.
15:50Dili sila same,
15:52o political views.
15:54Dili sila pareho,
15:56o stand,
15:57o ground,
15:57when it comes to politics.
15:59And this thing right here,
16:01became a constant issue na sa relationship,
16:04because,
16:05lahi ang opinion ni uyab,
16:06lahi sa iyang opinion ni,
16:08ah,
16:09sa other uyab.
16:10So,
16:10on saan man na,
16:11no?
16:11Kung ka mo ang nasa ina na nga sitwasyon,
16:13makunta na ako ninyo din na,
16:14are you willing to compromise your relationship,
16:16because of political views?
16:19Dili.
16:19So,
16:20so,
16:20magpailob na lang,
16:21bisang na-hurt ang ego,
16:22on saan man,
16:23on saan man,
16:24hilom na lang mo,
16:24ana,
16:25mutando na lang,
16:26ba si Ken,
16:26na-reaction si Ken,
16:27ito,
16:28ito,
16:28panagstaro mo ni si Kente,
16:30more good,
16:31so,
16:31ito,
16:31talawang siyang reaction.
16:33Oo,
16:34tas,
16:34ito yan,
16:35po siya,
16:35and,
16:35paru si Rene,
16:36hindi sila ganahan mo,
16:37compromise,
16:38hindi sila ganahan nga,
16:39maguba ang relasyon,
16:40because of political views.
16:42Pero,
16:42atong tanaw,
16:43no?
16:43Mangutan na po ko ka,
16:44coming from a male side,
16:46and let's see,
16:46kung kung saan po yung opinion
16:47sa female side,
16:48para makabaloko,
16:49kung saan yun,
16:50respect each other's opinion.
16:52Okay,
16:52so,
16:53para ni mo,
16:53kung inund ka nga,
16:54wala'y platapur,
16:55maimuhang butaran,
16:57oh,
16:57mahilom na lang ka,
16:59ah,
16:59mahilom na lang,
17:00sige na lang,
17:01yes,
17:01dear,
17:02yes,
17:02love,
17:03okay,
17:04no?
17:04How about you,
17:05Thea?
17:05Kung maingon ang boyfriend,
17:07Thea,
17:07oh,
17:08maingon nga ka na,
17:09kung saan mo na yung ka
17:10ng butaran,
17:11uy,
17:11kuwan man na,
17:11naman na yung record,
17:13naman na yung,
17:13ano,
17:14corrupt man na,
17:15ano,
17:15kung saan mo ang tubagaan na niya,
17:17ganahan,
17:17jud ka,
17:18kay balu ka,
17:18ganahan siya yung nabuhat,
17:19para ni mo,
17:21kung saan mo ang katubagaan na niya,
17:22magig-argue ba yung jud,
17:24no?
17:25Para na lang jud,
17:25maatis,
17:26so one should compromise,
17:27dili jud,
17:28hindi mo kailangan nga,
17:29irisgo,
17:30di I rather,
17:30ayaw ninyo irisgo ang relationship
17:32because of politics,
17:33no?
17:34Nay,
17:34taskig,
17:35so what?
17:35Mura ni silang mag-essay,
17:36no?
17:36Every time,
17:37nga na-idea yung chick,
17:38simuran ni silang mag-essay sa,
17:40ha,
17:40di ko mag-saba,
17:41mouth zip lang,
17:42respeto sa,
17:43iyahang ideals,
17:45o,
17:45diba?
17:45So,
17:46mo change topic na lang siguro,
17:47is the best solution,
17:49no?
17:50Muna na lang siguro,
17:50ah,
17:51babe,
17:51lahil na lang tong topic,
17:52babe,
17:52may pabangaong na lang ta,
17:54no?
17:54basing gutom lang na,
17:55no?
17:55Mga ina-anabitaw,
17:57pero,
17:58kanisha,
17:59pinakadako,
17:59mga guna isya ni aside sa politics,
18:01yun,
18:01no?
18:02I think it's their character,
18:03yun,
18:04no?
18:05Character,
18:05yun niya sa o sa ka-individual,
18:07ito,
18:08ah,
18:08on saman,
18:09um,
18:09ito,
18:10pareho sila,
18:12no?
18:12Equally intelligent,
18:13to the point that they could not allow their egos to be hurt,
18:17muna akong observation nila.
18:18So,
18:18later on,
18:19lauman na to ang atong advice,
18:21Annie.
18:22So,
18:22ito ang diskusyon ng pagmaayo,
18:24kung ka muna punta sa ina ni nga karelasyon nun sa onay ni tubag,
18:27yun,
18:27dira si T-Dads,
18:28T-Hanga,
18:29ah,
18:29T-Hagal,
18:30hi T-Dads,
18:31yun siya,
18:32pag-respetuhay lang,
18:33good mong duha.
18:34O,
18:34muna yung pinaka-importante,
18:36no?
18:36Actually,
18:36the key in every relationship,
18:38aside sa love,
18:39aside sa romance,
18:40respeto.
18:41Kayilisod Madjugaay,
18:43umustand into a relationship,
18:44ngaway respect,
18:46diba?
18:46Importante ang pag-respetar,
18:48importante,
18:49yun na ang,
18:50ah,
18:51kanabitawong na ay pag-saptanay,
18:53sa usag-usa,
18:54no?
18:55Do not allow that this issue will cause a relationship.
18:59While it's true that there are times that our egos and prides will be hurt,
19:03but at what cost,
19:05at what extent,
19:06diba?
19:07Lissod kay sa ngatanan.
19:08So,
19:08ito na yung i-check,
19:10there yung uban pa mga comments,
19:11but yeah,
19:11we got some comments about,
19:13um,
19:14the thing,
19:15no?
19:15Nga,
19:16niingon lang,
19:16mag-respeto lang,
19:17yun.
19:18Napaniingon sila,
19:18Thea,
19:19na shout-up na lang,
19:20mag-zip na lang sa mouth,
19:22na lang mag-interact,
19:23no?
19:24Natingon si Ken,
19:25mag-respect na lang.
19:27Let's see,
19:28kunun,
19:28sa pay-uban ninyong mga political views,
19:31but then again,
19:32ang pinaka-importante din ha,
19:34again,
19:34sa tanan na to nga mga viewers is,
19:36if kamu ang naa sa posisyon po ni Wendy,
19:40lapin na niingon si Wendy hanggang,
19:42iya ko nung uyab,
19:42taas o pride,
19:43by saying taas o pride si uyab,
19:45muna sa man,
19:45gusto si Wendy nga say,
19:46so yun,
19:47nana siguro,
19:48siya siguro,
19:48ino nga,
19:49sorry na babe,
19:50pero miingon sila ng uyab,
19:51di dito ko mag-sorry ni mo,
19:53kay imo d'yong giingon na,
19:54ang akong gilabanan na politiko,
19:55wala yung platforma,
19:56di d'yud ko,
19:57ana d'yud,
19:57grabe sad,
19:58no?
19:59So,
20:00muna pag naka-ona mo sa sistema,
20:02sa inyong baruganan,
20:03sa inyong pag-suporta sa politisyan,
20:05nga,
20:06to the point that you are willing to sacrifice the love that you have,
20:09no?
20:10Muna pag,
20:10risud sa gig kay sa ngatanan,
20:12sa tinood lang,
20:12it's not gonna be easy,
20:14um,
20:15tilipod lalim,
20:17and we have to,
20:18know nga,
20:19sa kanina nga klase sa,
20:22relasyon nga,
20:22ilahang,
20:23kanabitaw na sinate ka ron,
20:26ma-challenge yun ilang personalities,
20:28not worth it,
20:29mag-away about politics,
20:30wag ihapon mo mailhit,
20:32tinood yun,
20:33bitaw no,
20:34same ragud na,
20:35sad,
20:35like ako,
20:36fan ko no,
20:36dili ko dapat,
20:37should mag-engage yun,
20:38kay,
20:39listen,
20:39sil kaayod eh,
20:40matailhan,
20:41bitaw,
20:43tinood sa bitaw na,
20:44kanang,
20:45nagay times nga,
20:46we're too emotional,
20:47because we invested too much of our emotions,
20:49to those people,
20:51na we are rooting for,
20:52it is normal nga,
20:54naagitay gusto natin,
20:55mga bet natin,
20:56mga gustong i-push forward,
20:58para sila mag-una,
20:59because we believe in whatever,
21:01advocacies they have,
21:02whatever plans they have,
21:04no,
21:05pero again,
21:06to what extent,
21:07minyusugtan yung kaugalingon nga,
21:09magka-away lang,
21:10because of that,
21:11labi na,
21:11kung relationship ang hisgutan,
21:13maka-stress,
21:14kung nang imuha untang partner mo,
21:16yung magsilbini mo nga,
21:17stress reliever,
21:18karoon si partner ang rason,
21:19sa inyuhang away,
21:21no,
21:21si partner ang rason nga,
21:22nung di mo malipay yung nakaroon,
21:24kaya mag-away na mo,
21:25pero may imbis nga,
21:26happy in yung relationship,
21:28even,
21:28imbis nga nag-engage mo,
21:30through healthy discussion,
21:31nahimu nalang good noong kagubot,
21:33no,
21:34so what if,
21:35lagi yun,
21:35saan manigyod,
21:36no,
21:37kung ka mo ang nasa posisyon,
21:38so later on,
21:39muchika ko,
21:40asa akong advice,
21:41but of course,
21:42if naamoy mga,
21:43kanabitaw,
21:44o na,
21:45na view,
21:46or point of view,
21:47sa story,
21:48then go ahead,
21:48Jocelyn Simbereno,
21:50ingon siya,
21:50mohilom nalang ma'am,
21:53para di magsiluay,
21:55and change topic nalang ma'am,
21:56para di li maguba ang relasyon,
21:59muna ni advice ni Jocelyn Simbereno,
22:02okay,
22:03moving forward,
22:04mo take sa tag break,
22:05sa kaning atuang,
22:06kuano,
22:06atuang discussion about sa story,
22:09anis atas sa atong,
22:10unsay chika,
22:11unsay my latest showbiz,
22:14karoon,
22:14uy,
22:18sana o,
22:20sana o,
22:21parang glowing,
22:22happy,
22:23o niya,
22:23nasa Espanya,
22:25okay,
22:26so kanin,
22:27mga ka sunstar,
22:28mga ka super,
22:29no,
22:29actually,
22:30over the weekend,
22:31or there are a lot of rumors,
22:33nag-circulating,
22:34kung si Bea Alonso,
22:36baka ron,
22:36na dunan,
22:37ay bagong love life,
22:38kinihuman,
22:39ha,
22:40matod pa,
22:41sa mga chika,
22:42na spotted ko nun ni si Bea Alonso,
22:48kauban ng usaka,
22:49businessman of a,
22:51kuano,
22:52we will not name it,
22:53pero usaka,
22:54anak sa businessman of a,
22:56grocery chain,
22:58no,
22:58so,
22:59iladong a grocery chain,
23:00no,
23:01and muna ygitawag,
23:02nga naghaniingon,
23:03nga,
23:03kinikunung,
23:04bagong love life,
23:07or possible,
23:07mga bagong love life,
23:08ni Bea Konokai,
23:10nag-hold po,
23:10log na kong posisyon,
23:11sa maong kumpanya,
23:13no,
23:13and people are actually,
23:14reacting to it,
23:15nga nalipay sila,
23:17knowing,
23:17na Bea,
23:18could finally found,
23:20no,
23:20ang iyahang,
23:21bagong love life,
23:22though,
23:23this isn't confirmed,
23:24ha,
23:25pero,
23:25again,
23:26kaya na may mga rumors,
23:27nga they were spotted in Spain,
23:29in fact,
23:29speaking of Spain,
23:30kaning iyahang picture,
23:32gika ni si iyahang mag-i-post,
23:34recently,
23:35no,
23:35nga ni,
23:35duaw gin siya sa nasod,
23:36nga Spain,
23:38kabaluta,
23:38nga si Bea Alonso,
23:40of course,
23:40she's fond of going to Spain,
23:41kaya nakapalit ba,
23:42again,
23:42dinood na siya dito,
23:44property,
23:45nakapalit na siya dito,
23:46apartment,
23:47no,
23:47and she shared,
23:49sa iyang vlog,
23:50na she wanted to be a resident in Spain,
23:51so,
23:52dinin mo ikatinga,
23:53if ever she goes there,
23:55back and forth,
23:56kaya ganahan siya dito,
23:58pero,
23:58ang pinaka,
23:59grabe ka ron na mga,
24:00kwa na ni issue,
24:01aron,
24:02is the thought nga,
24:03na na daw siya'y bagong love life,
24:05pero,
24:05para na ako,
24:06walay wrong,
24:07na it could be something very,
24:08very good,
24:09if,
24:10and,
24:11if it's true,
24:12yun,
24:12na na siya'y uyabago,
24:14para na ako,
24:14good job na siya,
24:16kaya finally,
24:17mag love life na siya,
24:18no,
24:19kabalutang nga,
24:19nakamove on na,
24:20ang iyahang kanhing,
24:21na,
24:22fiancé,
24:23nga si Dominic Roque,
24:24no,
24:24si Dominic Roque,
24:25karon,
24:26bag una ang partner,
24:27the thought nga,
24:28once you were engaged,
24:29tapos nag break mo,
24:30tapos ang imuhang ex,
24:32kaya nakamove on na,
24:33feeling sa na ako,
24:34deserve na po ni Bea,
24:35nga makamove on na po siya,
24:36we,
24:36and who knows,
24:37basin mo,
24:38una giniya,
24:38para sa iyaha,
24:39I'm hoping,
24:40no,
24:40nga,
24:41Bea would finally,
24:43kanabitang,
24:44found,
24:45or find,
24:46a man,
24:46nga,
24:47parang yun,
24:47si Yahag yun,
24:48kaya,
24:49deserve mo gina nato,
24:50nga mag love with each other,
24:52yun,
24:52oy,
24:52deserve yung mga gina,
24:54na,
24:54naagintay,
24:55colorful nga love life,
24:57but,
24:57again,
24:59these things,
25:00kabahin ni Bea,
25:01huwag yung love life karoon,
25:02wala pa'y konfirmasyon,
25:03pero,
25:03naingon sila,
25:05basta naaganin ko nga yung mga,
25:06aso-aso,
25:07meaning,
25:07naagintay,
25:08nagbaga,
25:09so,
25:09itong tanawan,
25:10kung nagbabagabag,
25:11ah,
25:12charo,
25:12nagbaga ba dyan ang damdamin,
25:14yung tinuod ba dyan,
25:15no,
25:16but,
25:16let's observe,
25:17pero,
25:17I think,
25:17kung ipili na private,
25:19or,
25:20halo mo na lang,
25:21it's for the best,
25:22kay,
25:23she's too public,
25:24no,
25:24and at times,
25:25bayadig yun na to,
25:26eh,
25:26kuwan hikaw nga,
25:27sa sobra ka,
25:28publik ko sa mga tao,
25:29daghan sa kiyong mga evil eye din ha,
25:31so,
25:32mas bali na lang siguro,
25:33kung eh silent na lang,
25:34but,
25:34to me,
25:35she's glowing,
25:36she's pretty,
25:37so,
25:37go,
25:37go,
25:38go,
25:38sa go mong go ka na dyan,
25:39Bea,
25:40continue on,
25:40magyud na,
25:41nga na kayo bagong love life,
25:43so,
25:43muna,
25:43elitest ka ron,
25:44actually,
25:44bisag-asa ka na,
25:46kuwan,
25:46makitaan dyan din mo nga,
25:47Bea Alonso,
25:48ah,
25:49diba,
25:50parang ako happy ko ha,
25:51kasi si Dominic happy na,
25:52wien ni Sue,
25:53so,
25:53ikaw sa ron,
25:53happy,
25:53sag ka,
25:54hindi pwede nga dita happy,
25:56dapat balance sa kalibutan,
25:57charo,
25:58dito sa muna siya,
25:59congratulations in advance,
26:01kung naamagig gani,
26:02kung walang love life pa,
26:04okay,
26:04because she is pretty,
26:06and she,
26:07she is also intelligent,
26:08kaling si Bea Alonso,
26:10usap po ni sa mga,
26:11akong naobserve,
26:12yun,
26:12nga very intellectual,
26:14nga,
26:14actress,
26:16bright po siya,
26:16manabi,
26:18o,
26:18very eloquent,
26:19istorya,
26:20may mustorya,
26:20so,
26:21muna nga,
26:21let's see,
26:23in the days to come,
26:24if she will reveal,
26:25if she will confirm that,
26:27she finally found the one,
26:28pero,
26:29if wala pa gani,
26:29ah,
26:30dili na itong mamugus,
26:30kay,
26:31diba na itong love life,
26:31but at least,
26:33nalipay po ta,
26:34muna po na,
26:34something good,
26:35no,
26:36something good,
26:36kay,
26:37sa ato ang topic ka roon,
26:38marag,
26:38something away man,
26:39kanin,
26:40something kilig,
26:41sige,
26:42so,
26:42muna,
26:42ato ang,
26:43usas sa ato ang,
26:44showbiz news,
26:45gud,
26:45karung ha po na,
26:47again,
26:47so,
26:47time right now,
26:48is 4.34,
26:49mabalik ta sa atong story,
26:51karung ha po na,
26:52kabahin ni,
26:54Wendy,
26:55again,
26:56sa mga mupay pagsulod sa atong Facebook live,
26:59kung ka mo si Wendy,
27:00on sa on man inyong,
27:02ang inyuhang,
27:03perminalang awayan sa imuhang boyfriend,
27:05kabahin sa inyong managlahi,
27:07nga political views,
27:09again,
27:10managlahi,
27:10meaning to say,
27:12mag-debate na mo tungod kay,
27:13kani ang gustong butaran,
27:15gusto niya,
27:16nga mabutar kasi ang gusto,
27:17tapos ikaw,
27:18di kaganahan,
27:19kaya na kayong mga ge-question,
27:21sa,
27:21kanangkuan ka,
27:23sa mga attainment,
27:24baka ha na,
27:25sa karakter,
27:26baka ha na,
27:27di kaganahan,
27:27and that this will cause the relationship,
27:31kaya again,
27:32kung wala mo na kakatcha,
27:33kung parun pa mo na kita sa live,
27:35parehog yun silang strong personalities,
27:37in fact,
27:38nag-aila sila because of debate,
27:41inter-school debate,
27:42so dito sila nag-aila,
27:44ayan,
27:44uy,
27:45hello to Bosnelia,
27:46hi Bosnelia,
27:47grabe ka guwapa,
27:48uy,
27:48pero buyang sad,
27:49uy,
27:49mabuyag ganita,
27:50thank you so much,
27:52Dani Katabwada,
27:53may hapon,
27:54Mona Madera,
27:55may hapon,
27:56I think,
27:57nabasa na po na ako,
27:58ang ubang comments,
27:59no,
27:59Diri,
28:00so again,
28:01if you are in that situation,
28:03what are you going to do,
28:05when two people,
28:07outspoken mong duha,
28:09and mag-away na mo,
28:11because of politics,
28:12akong banggong nakitaan di rin,
28:14daily lang money about sa politics ng issue,
28:17even siguro,
28:18if lahi ilang topic,
28:19mag-away din sila if they don't agree with things,
28:22kaya again,
28:23strong personality yun,
28:25maka-affect yun na bayapod,
28:27no,
28:27sa relasyon,
28:28kung walay willing na magpapildi,
28:31kamawiling ba mo magpapildi,
28:33what if feeling dito din yung saktod mo,
28:35okay raba ninyo,
28:36nga marong mo,
28:37bisag saktod din yung feeling,
28:39diba,
28:40okay raba ninyo,
28:40diba mo ma-hurt,
28:41makataan ako sa mga lalaki,
28:43if na may na pamilya silang ken,
28:44siguro din,
28:45come on nga mga guys,
28:46will you allow that you will lower your pride,
28:49even if you know that you are right,
28:51if nag-stand mo,
28:52feeling mo,
28:53saktod ka,
28:54saktod majud ka,
28:55ani,
28:55even not in politics,
28:57example lang,
28:58mga little things about sa relationship,
29:00and then yung feeling ni mo,
29:01sakto magigwani,
29:02patakarang magigin ni akong partner,
29:04patakarang magigin ni akong asawa,
29:05patakarang magigin ni akong uyab,
29:07barugan ba ni mo,
29:08even if nagkyaw-kyaw na naging mong uyab din na,
29:10or daily,
29:11makataan ako sa laki nga side,
29:13ikaw,
29:14si Fea po,
29:14makataan mo po na na ako,
29:15para mabalance,
29:16we have to have two opinions,
29:19mga good eh,
29:19should not stand nga ako lang,
29:21no,
29:21but of course,
29:22dapat na agyod,
29:24ayan,
29:24may hapon,
29:25ayan,
29:25sige,
29:26sige,
29:26answer ni mo,
29:27kung ikaw,
29:28feeling ni mo,
29:29sakto jud ka,
29:29example,
29:301 plus 1 equals 2 jud,
29:31i-mong answer niya,
29:32ang imuhang partner,
29:3311 man jud niya,
29:342 man jud,
29:35ang correct niya,
29:36magubot na jud mo,
29:37kayo,
29:37stand jud niya,
29:39di ba,
29:39di ka willing,
29:41or will you say yes,
29:42sige hapon,
29:42yes ma'am,
29:43yes ma'am,
29:43yes love,
29:45oh,
29:45sakto,
29:46you're correct babe,
29:47ana,
29:48di ba,
29:48bisag koan,
29:49so muna,
29:50ang issue karoon ha,
29:50political views,
29:51different political views,
29:53niya,
29:53ang imuhang,
29:54uyabang,
29:54imuhang kaaway,
29:56sabda,
29:57grabe na gyan,
29:58pero kanina,
29:59tas-taas,
29:59magtubag si Kenya,
30:00magtubag ko,
30:01aning,
30:01magtubag ko,
30:03aning,
30:03pahimus na na to si Kenya,
30:04sakka mo ni Skender,
30:05baka,
30:05tubag ko,
30:06ninyo na to siya,
30:07June,
30:07women are always right,
30:10in fairness,
30:14di mo,
30:14kahit piliin ako,
30:15di Juca,
30:15ganahagubot,
30:16mutandorag yun,
30:17siguro,
30:17yung siya,
30:18yun,
30:19no,
30:19si Fea po,
30:20nika Fea,
30:20matoka,
30:21kita lang,
30:22permisak to,
30:22women are always right,
30:24no,
30:25pero actually,
30:26para na,
30:26dependigin na,
30:27sa personality po,
30:28sa babaeg yun,
30:29kay,
30:30honestly,
30:31daghan kayo na to,
30:33ako,
30:33matood ko,
30:34ako,
30:34personally,
30:35nga,
30:36magyay times,
30:37nataas,
30:37yung tag-bride po,
30:38as women,
30:39not just men,
30:40no,
30:40not just,
30:41naman kita,
30:41egoistic,
30:42naman kita,
30:43yung mga,
30:43egos,
30:45nga,
30:45maigo,
30:45ego,
30:46nga maigo,
30:47naman kita,
30:48yung mga inana,
30:49bitaw,
30:49pero,
30:50kanang usahay,
30:51mangu,
30:51di mo,
30:52pwede nga,
30:52ato,
30:52walang gini-stick,
30:53because our ego,
30:54will be hurt,
30:55no,
30:55di mo,
30:55sa siguro,
30:56ikka less of a person,
30:57kung magpaubos,
30:59no,
31:00di mo,
31:00sa siguro,
31:00na inana,
31:01pili na ko,
31:01ikot,
31:01naninik ganina,
31:02na ipost,
31:03atong,
31:04e,
31:04atong,
31:04e,
31:05e-check si Thea,
31:06taas,
31:06taas,
31:07sigo pinyo si Thea,
31:08magstorya lang taro,
31:09mga ngotana,
31:10o giunsan niya paghunahuna,
31:12bitaw,
31:12iunsan,
31:13ba sa nani,
31:13paghunahuna,
31:14ang 1 plus 1 equals 11,
31:15bisag 1 plus 1 equals 2,
31:17bitaw,
31:18no,
31:23na,
31:23baby,
31:24ngayon mo nang butaran,
31:25bisag,
31:25wala na siya,
31:26ikanang platform,
31:27or platapurma,
31:28o,
31:28di ba,
31:29then,
31:30you will have to have,
31:31the,
31:32kanang gitawag na tong healthy discussion,
31:34no,
31:35nga mo siya,
31:35o,
31:35ikaw,
31:36baby,
31:36ngayon mo nang butaran,
31:37bisag,
31:37na siya,
31:38record nga,
31:39na,
31:39korup na siya sa una,
31:41o,
31:41di ba,
31:42so,
31:42naagihapon sila yung discussion,
31:43the problema din kayo,
31:44puro mga good,
31:45mga highly,
31:46kanang intellectual,
31:48debate mode,
31:49all that time,
31:49muna yung nakalisod,
31:50good,
31:51their personalities,
31:52really,
31:52no,
31:53anyway,
31:54so,
31:55let's,
31:55uh,
31:56move forward,
31:57and I will give my advice,
31:59this time,
32:004.39 is our time,
32:02right now,
32:02niya,
32:03anhin na tadri,
32:03sa serious mode,
32:05no,
32:06katawan,
32:07nga,
32:07ginuod lang,
32:07no,
32:08katawan,
32:08man,
32:08ginning,
32:08ang political views,
32:09ang awayan,
32:10but,
32:11it has been,
32:12uh,
32:13ko ano,
32:14thing that I've observed,
32:15since we engage in social media,
32:17and at times,
32:18makitaan,
32:19good ako did to,
32:20even,
32:20I mean,
32:20let's admit it,
32:21di ba,
32:21even diri,
32:22makita na to sa mga comment section,
32:23that they have different opinions,
32:25no,
32:25lahil-lahi,
32:26ginuod lang,
32:26na iuban din ha,
32:27nga mo interact,
32:28maaway giyon,
32:29masuko giyon,
32:30niya,
32:30nagiuban din ha,
32:31nga strong judgay sa nga tanan,
32:33bisag,
32:33wag gina sila nagka-ilala,
32:35mag-away gina sila din ha,
32:36because of their different,
32:37uh,
32:38political,
32:39uh,
32:39stance,
32:40not just even political stance,
32:41even,
32:42I,
32:42again,
32:43uh,
32:43example lang ako,
32:44I'm a fan of a certain group,
32:46even on fandoms,
32:47it happened,
32:47no,
32:47di ba,
32:48ako si Bosnelia,
32:49nagtanaw ka ron,
32:50no,
32:50maka-ingon,
32:51di ba naman na,
32:52pero parang ako,
32:53as to what extent man may mo,
32:54i-allow yourself to engage in those kind of conversation,
32:57as to what,
32:58um,
32:59position will you allow yourself,
33:01nga,
33:02maka,
33:02maka,
33:03on saman,
33:04maingon tang,
33:04nga,
33:04mag-away na lang jud ba,
33:06nga,
33:06inyo yung barugan jud,
33:07nang inyo hang mga away,
33:09no,
33:09so,
33:10mabalik ta diri,
33:11sa pinaka core sa relationship,
33:13nga nung,
33:14uyab pa man mo,
33:16kay,
33:16mungutan ako,
33:17nga nung uyab pa man mo,
33:18on saman nyo yung gigustuhan sa usag-usa ko,
33:19mag-inani mo nga mag-argue,
33:21di ba,
33:22you love each other,
33:23di ba,
33:23so,
33:23dapat love above all,
33:25oh,
33:25si kwan man ni Miss Cebu,
33:27Miss Cebu man ni si Gabby,
33:29love above all,
33:30oh,
33:32ang pinaka-importante yan,
33:33yun,
33:33a serious note,
33:34giyod,
33:35kanang lang siguro,
33:37I think the tone,
33:38number one,
33:39if we want to have a discussion with our partners,
33:42if we want to fix things,
33:44let's fix the way we speak,
33:46usahay makalimta ni nato,
33:48ha,
33:48usahay,
33:49giyod,
33:49muna ni pinaka-basic,
33:50pero,
33:51usahay muna ni pinaka-cause of,
33:53kana-bitaw,
33:54cause of misunderstanding,
33:55mutuo ko,
33:56ana,
33:57kay murag feeling na ko,
33:59wala intention na makahurt,
34:00wala intention na maigo ang,
34:02pride,
34:03pero,
34:03siguro,
34:04the tone of the way we speak,
34:06because when we're too emotional,
34:08it could be something,
34:09ha,
34:09maneglek lang na to,
34:10pero it happens,
34:12mahappen,
34:12mahappen dyan eh,
34:13mahitabog yun eh,
34:14no,
34:14example lang,
34:15dilimang ko din,
34:16anagod,
34:17yan mo yun siya,
34:17nasuko ka,
34:18wang maguko nasuko,
34:20pero,
34:20pero dako,
34:21diyan kang tingog,
34:22pwede na,
34:23ni dako,
34:23palagi mo tingog,
34:24pwede na ginang example,
34:25ha,
34:26pero,
34:26what if,
34:28wala gini siya nasuko,
34:29what if by nature,
34:30dako,
34:30gini siya tingog,
34:31what if lang,
34:32because you're into the zone,
34:34nga mag-argue mo,
34:35feeling ni mo,
34:36nag-aware na,
34:37or naking-aware na siya,
34:38so pwede na siya ma-factor,
34:40usahin man ko din ni nato,
34:41mamat mo nan,
34:42kayo magsiging mo,
34:43kuyog,
34:43no,
34:44parani mo,
34:44okay lang,
34:45pero inignan na mo yung mga diskusyon,
34:47diyan ni mo mamat mo,
34:47you're raising your voice,
34:49nanamay na,
34:50wala man ko nag-raise o voice,
34:51inani naman siya,
34:52kong tingog,
34:53what if,
34:53muna na yung na-awayan ninyo,
34:54diyan na nagsugod,
34:55tapos,
34:56dako na kayong tono,
34:57na-chain na,
34:58nag-rabina,
34:59no,
35:00entindahan na kayo mong madiscuss,
35:01nga even sa inyong pag-discuss,
35:03even sa inyong pag-defense,
35:09comment,
35:09magig ka dito sa kuan,
35:11di ba,
35:11ni comment,
35:11nagigay ka sa social media,
35:13yun yan,
35:14nag-tusag ka,
35:15waka ni comment,
35:15i-comment saan,
35:16i-comment saan ka,
35:16magig-away man sa ganito,
35:17see,
35:18so,
35:18mura bag,
35:18nag-kuan na sila,
35:19nag-away na sila,
35:20ilan nag-throw ang ilangang mga na-observe sa usag-usa,
35:23because of one common thing,
35:25they don't know how to lower their pride,
35:28mo dyan ni ako na-observe,
35:29no,
35:29and parang ako,
35:30when di,
35:30i-mugengi mention,
35:32nga taas o pride,
35:33di mong uyab,
35:33ang pangutan na,
35:34wala saan ba kaka-check sa mong kawgalingun,
35:37if di ba kataas o pride,
35:39no,
35:39ako,
35:39I'm a woman,
35:40a woman,
35:41no,
35:41babae ko,
35:42pero di,
35:43li,
35:43said ko,
35:44amut lang ha,
35:45kung malain ba ang mga female,
35:47ane,
35:47pero parang ako,
35:49if I think nga ako ang at fault,
35:52it is not something to be ashamed of,
35:55to say sorry to my partner,
35:57no,
35:57kung ako majuday ay ang nakasa,
36:00di,
36:00li,
36:00satapirin mo pa,
36:01baby girl,
36:01si per get girl's thumb,
36:03magsigil ng tagpabebe nga,
36:04mga laki mo yung ma-sorry na to,
36:05eh,
36:06feeling,
36:06Judy na to,
36:07ang kita po yung nakatrigger,
36:08why don't we also assess,
36:10no,
36:10from within us,
36:12na we can also lower our pride,
36:14and also,
36:15um,
36:15to the guy,
36:16to your boyfriend,
36:18I think,
36:19natural gina,
36:19no nga,
36:20intense yun kayong politics karoon,
36:22intense magintag mga baruganan,
36:23intense magintag mga gustos kinabuhi,
36:26na binanganagadol ng eleksyon,
36:28intense mangyod,
36:29pero always go back to the thought nga,
36:31at the end of the day,
36:32after the election,
36:33kung saan naman yung makita bo,
36:35kung 15 makadao nga,
36:36na,
36:36kailan ba din ninyo,
36:37tinuod yun,
36:38nang ginao ni,
36:38Ken,
36:39nerebang siya,
36:40kailan di,
36:40ay,
36:41yung mga kailan di ba,
36:42tinuod man yun,
36:42they don't know us,
36:44no,
36:44personally,
36:45they know us because constituent ta,
36:47pero dilita sila kailan na to,
36:49para maabot sa point nga mag-away gita,
36:52nga din na gita magtagad because of it,
36:54no,
36:55and it's the pride ragyod,
36:57if you're going to,
36:58to,
36:58say,
36:59ako,
36:59makaingon siya ko nga,
37:00na,
37:01again,
37:02times nga,
37:02we're too emotional because we're too into the thought of wanting this person to be there,
37:08no,
37:09to be elected,
37:10but after the election,
37:12silang ang mga politiko,
37:13okay na na sila magtagad,
37:15pero kamuhat,
37:16to karun,
37:16wakit,
37:17kihapon ang tagad,
37:18di ba siya,
37:19saying sorry doesn't make you less of a person,
37:21tinuod yun na,
37:22Ken,
37:22sakto gina,
37:23saying sorry doesn't make you less of a person,
37:25tinuod,
37:25ako muna kung giingon nilalagay,
37:27ako babae ko,
37:28di lima said always nga babae ta,
37:30kita lang permie ang suyoon sa lalaki,
37:33no,
37:34di lima na permie,
37:35nga permie lang dito nga magpagukod ni,
37:37koan,
37:38bebe boy,
37:38mga bebe girl,
37:39dapat dili isa jud-jud,
37:41di tamo pa bebe girls always,
37:42dapat yun,
37:43kamausad tamo,
37:44compromise ba,
37:45dili manggod na,
37:46para naku,
37:46karakter gina sa tao,
37:48ang upan manggod,
37:49kaniha,
37:50egoistic individuals,
37:51or kanatag-askig mga pride,
37:53muna yung maglison o paubos,
37:55pero,
37:56kanabi itong mga paubos na usahay,
37:58mas ma-appreciate pa na ko na,
38:00kaya kanabi itong feeling,
38:06so,
38:06hindi ka ganahan ako,
38:07I don't care,
38:08hindi ka ganahan ako,
38:09huwag,
38:09paki,
38:10di ba,
38:10bahala ko,
38:11daro,
38:11di tamo tagad,
38:12sige,
38:12sige,
38:13pati gasa'y tanduha ko,
38:15di ba,
38:15pero para na ako,
38:16in time manggod,
38:17di naman sa na na tumabalik,
38:18kung nag-away na dyan mo,
38:19because of that,
38:20karun nga uyab pa mangka mo,
38:22wala na yung pangutahanan ako,
38:23sigurado pa mo uyab pa mo,
38:24okay,
38:25murag,
38:25uyab na na si mong uyab,
38:26ang yung gidaig na politiko,
38:28ya ikaw sa di mo,
38:29nasang gihigugma pagayon,
38:30yung mga gidaig na politiko,
38:32munang importante,
38:33ginagin mo,
38:33magstoryagin mo,
38:34unsama gini babe,
38:35are we still into the relationship,
38:37or do we want things to work,
38:40kayo you are both intelligent,
38:42I believe,
38:43you are both,
38:44kanabitaong outspoken,
38:46pero importante sa no nga,
38:47di li rapirme kita,
38:49or ato ang baruganan,
38:50ang madunggan,
38:51kay palinkuron sa na na to,
38:52hindi sila palinkuron sa na ang baruganan,
38:54kay di li ginapirme nga,
38:56tungod lang yun sa to ang mga,
38:58na-acquire nga intelligence,
39:00makaguba po dog relasyon,
39:02na abe ay ginagitawag nga IQ o EQ,
39:06and at times,
39:07sa una,
39:08kung musod ta o university,
39:11itest atong IQ,
39:13musod ta o kumpanya,
39:14mag-exam ta,
39:16itest atong IQ,
39:17but right now,
39:17it is very important ko no,
39:18ang emotional quotient sa tao,
39:20kung how we are able to understand and feel,
39:24because right now,
39:25dapat balanse na,
39:26di liira na siya sa intelihente lang ta,
39:28importante ka mausad ta,
39:29makisama sa usag-usa,
39:31so just to make things simple,
39:33okay, for sure,
39:34napemas lang sa meaning ng EQ o IQ,
39:36kung business lang,
39:39kung company lang ang pahisguton,
39:42or pasturyaon,
39:43pero on a basic term lang,
39:44my understanding ha,
39:46you can correct me if I'm wrong,
39:47pero simple lang,
39:50now,
39:50this time,
39:51labi na nga grabe ang mental health issues,
39:54importante pa ng value of EQ,
39:56and I think sa inyohang relationship,
39:58dapat ka na inyohang i-work out,
40:00pareho magod mo nga IQ,
40:01taas ka ayaw,
40:02hinahinayay lang sa IQ,
40:03sobraan na ta ka bright,
40:04kasi makuha na ta pagka genius,
40:06pero malimta na na to ang core,
40:08malimta na na to ang love,
40:10because we are too invested with,
40:12we are highly intellectual people,
40:14which is very important po,
40:16nga,
40:17okay rin na nga bright,
40:18kahit taas itong pamati,
40:19pero importante sa usahay,
40:21nga,
40:21ato sa ang balansihon,
40:23nga daily,
40:24at all times,
40:25our intelligence would save us,
40:26sometimes it's our emotional quotient,
40:28that will save us,
40:30it will save relationships,
40:31so I hope nga inyo nang mag-get akong point,
40:34and Wendy,
40:36this thing I would like to tell you,
40:38the next time na mag-uban mo si mong ayab,
40:40try to speak and say nga,
40:42you know what babe,
40:43I realize nga,
40:45daily,
40:46healthy for us to engage in conversations like this,
40:49if you have an opinion nga in Annie,
40:52then I have mine,
40:54if we start to discuss it,
40:55let's cut it off na lang,
40:57para our relationship would go smoothly,
40:59at the end of the day,
41:00we love each other,
41:01and that's what's important,
41:02okay,
41:02kung daily,
41:03gani ninyo na mahilot ka ron,
41:05feeling ako,
41:06yung human sa eleksyon,
41:06mag-away gyan mo,
41:08feeling din ako,
41:08yung human sa eleksyon,
41:09buwag na gyan mo,
41:10no,
41:10to save your relationship,
41:12is that,
41:14no,
41:14and,
41:14kani,
41:14mulang gini akong masulti sa mga tao,
41:16sama sa gingon ni Ken Banga,
41:17daily man na makalas of a person,
41:19na mag-sorry,
41:20yes,
41:21pero apart from that,
41:22daily po ni mo,
41:23daily po na ikaba sa mga tao,
41:25na feeling na bugo ka,
41:26for standing your own,
41:28ah,
41:28decisions,
41:29or for lowering your pride,
41:31para lang yun ma-heal ang mga butang-butang,
41:34sa high IQ,
41:35it's important nga,
41:36as we have our high IQ,
41:38we should also have a good EQ,
41:40to balance it out,
41:42okay,
41:42kung kani mga butang sauna,
41:43wala mo kung nag-discuss,
41:44pero para nako,
41:45muna ni mumatter ka ron,
41:47dadun na d'yo na ito,
41:47ito mga EQ guys,
41:48ha,
41:49importante na gini,
41:50dadun na d'yo na ito,
41:51ito ang,
41:52pag-feel sa usag-usa,
41:53tanawag ko na mga,
41:55PBB diba,
41:56musood na sila din ha,
41:57lahilahe na sila,
41:58personalities,
41:58and you will see,
41:59kainsa din ha,
42:00ang grabe gyan makisama,
42:01kainsa din ha,
42:02ang utok ang gigamit,
42:03no,
42:03sa ilahang pagduwa,
42:05kay game lagi na,
42:06and you will see different kinds of people,
42:09no,
42:09but the best thing is,
42:11when you know how to balance everything,
42:13both,
42:13your intellectual quotient,
42:15and your emotional quotient,
42:17so,
42:17that's it,
42:18Pansit,
42:19I hope I got it right,
42:20and I hope nga,
42:22inyo nang nakuha ang advice,
42:24sa umabot nga eleksyon,
42:25ayun ninyo kalimti,
42:29numero,
42:31ito eh,
42:32sa umabot nga eleksyon,
42:34ayun ninyo kalimti,
42:35nga dadaan yung konsensya,
42:36sa inyong pagbutar,
42:37dili pwede nga,
42:38mabutar lang ta,
42:39para sa itong kaugalingon,
42:40mabutar ta,
42:41para sa itong isig kaingon,
42:42labaw sa tanan,
42:43kung ganahan kita,
42:44aning akandidato,
42:45stand firm with that,
42:47dili pwede,
42:48dili sa kanabita,
42:49ang ikaminos ni mo,
42:50as a person,
42:51kung di ka mabutar,
42:51aning ataw,
42:52kay,
42:52nibutay lang ka,
42:53aning,
42:54napugos lang ka,
42:54kay sure na ka,
42:55ang feeling ni mo sa survey,
42:56siya yung nakadaog,
42:58but will you be happy,
42:59not voting for the person,
43:00you really want to vote,
43:01vote for who you want to vote,
43:03no,
43:03we are not campaigning anyone here,
43:05ha,
43:05kay,
43:06I'm just telling you,
43:08vote for who you think,
43:10could really give,
43:11the best performance,
43:12because,
43:13politicians,
43:15and even us,
43:16humans naman po na sila,
43:17they also have their mistakes,
43:19na po na sila,
43:19makommit ng mga mistakes,
43:21they're not perfect,
43:21but their goal is to serve,
43:24so if you think,
43:24si Lagyud,
43:25ang desired for that position,
43:28na angaygid para ni mo,
43:29bahalag,
43:30wala na sila sa survey numbers,
43:31butari kung ganahan d'yo ka,
43:33mora gin na,
43:34no,
43:34and,
43:35engage with healthy discussion,
43:37makadugig ko na isang kauban sa IFM,
43:40mo yung si Mikey,
43:41engage with healthy discussion,
43:42when they say healthy,
43:44din na si Sari nga mag-argue,
43:45mag-away,
43:46mag-lalis,
43:47healthy discussion is,
43:48I respect yours,
43:49you respect mine,
43:50and that's it,
43:51so mora na,
43:53so good luck to us,
43:54sa tanan ng mga mag-butar,
43:56ayun niyong kalimti,
43:56ang mga do's and don'ts,
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44:21it's 451,
44:22na giniay,
44:23until,
44:23na ba next week,
44:24no?
44:25Until next week,
44:26inig human ugbutar,
44:27no?
44:28Inig human ugbutar,
44:29tanaw na to,
44:30kung nabay inke niyo mga kamot,
44:31next week,
44:32yeah,
44:33let's go,
44:35dagang salamat,
44:36kinisi Chixi,
44:37hangtud,
44:38sunod nga si Mana,
44:39para sa programang,
44:40Dear Chixi,
44:40God bless us all,
44:41and have a great afternoon,
44:43bye!
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