Greg's mom doesn't want his fiancée sleeping in his bedroom; Mina's excitement dwindles when she sees Mark's rural bachelor pad; Sarper reveals the results of his interview; Mahdi worries he'smade a mistake; Juan gets a reality check.
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00:00:00The boys are just so eager for wanting to be here.
00:00:13Hi, Dada.
00:00:14I missed you.
00:00:17But our relationship is not perfect.
00:00:20The situation with the girl reaching out,
00:00:23I'm just still nervous about that.
00:00:24I mean, obviously I worry.
00:00:26But if he wants to cheat, there's a will, there's a way.
00:00:28I really struggle trusting one.
00:00:30I still have questions I need answered,
00:00:32and I will be getting those.
00:00:37My fiancee, Mina, she's 35.
00:00:40I'm 58.
00:00:42At my age, you know, this is not plan A, B, C.
00:00:45This is big plan Z, have a kid.
00:00:49You really feel like she's in it for the right reasons,
00:00:52and not just because she wants to come to the US
00:00:54and because you pay for everything.
00:00:56I don't think he sees the potential
00:00:58that this could cause if it doesn't go right.
00:01:01Are you comfortable getting a prenup?
00:01:06He's from Iran.
00:01:08And we will have 90 days to get married.
00:01:13No, you're not.
00:01:15When Maddie comes here, we are pretty certain
00:01:19that Maddie will never be able to return back
00:01:22to his home country.
00:01:23I hate Americans.
00:01:24You know that, huh?
00:01:25I need you liking.
00:01:26I don't know the guy yet.
00:01:28I don't have a plan B.
00:01:30And honestly, I don't know what I'll do if he says,
00:01:32no, you're not marrying this guy.
00:01:34I'm going to the US embassy to have an interview
00:01:42to get my K-1 visa.
00:01:44You will understand from my face how it's done.
00:01:48I can't live in Turkey, so Sarpa has to come to the US,
00:01:51or else we don't really stand a chance.
00:01:54What happened?
00:01:56Why'd that take so long?
00:01:59Are you OK?
00:02:10Hey, I just want to do this every day.
00:02:14Can't you see the smile on my face?
00:02:18We don't have to try to be some kind of way.
00:02:21I'm going to change in the airport and put this on,
00:02:26just in case I throw up on myself when I go over a bridge.
00:02:29I will have something to change into.
00:02:38Why are you nervous about going over a bridge?
00:02:41So ever since I was little, I've always
00:02:43gotten a little bit sick when I drive on bridges.
00:02:46Sometimes I throw up, sometimes I don't.
00:02:49So I'm hoping today I won't be too anxious.
00:02:53I might look like your normal Southern girl,
00:02:56but I think there's a lot of things
00:02:57that Maddie might be taken aback by a little bit
00:02:59when he gets here.
00:03:02I'm just going to grab a bag in case I puke.
00:03:05It's a pretty big list, actually.
00:03:07I don't wear pants in the house because I like to be comfortable.
00:03:12I'm a little bit OCD.
00:03:14I like for things to be put back where they belong.
00:03:17I have night terrors.
00:03:19I frequently need naps, and I fall asleep while I'm eating.
00:03:24And Maddie's experienced a pretty bad nightmare that I had
00:03:28while I was in Turkey, and I was almost certain
00:03:30he would never speak to me again after that.
00:03:32Maddie has been warned about most of my quirks.
00:03:35He knows about them, but he's never lived with them.
00:03:39So I think it's going to be different.
00:03:45And, oh, my poster.
00:03:48Maddie left Iran yesterday,
00:03:50and now he's on a flight to New Orleans,
00:03:53which is about two hours from Hasbro.
00:03:55Going to the city, there's a huge bridge that goes over water
00:03:59and swampland.
00:04:01I don't drive over that bridge ever.
00:04:03And going over that bridge to get to Maddie is a lot for me.
00:04:09I'm trying not to puke on top of feeling super anxious
00:04:13about seeing Maddie again.
00:04:15I just don't feel good inside.
00:04:22Oh, my God.
00:04:24I don't like this bridge at all.
00:04:31Oh, my God.
00:04:35I really don't feel great.
00:04:37Even though I'm terrified to drive over bridges,
00:04:40doing this is nothing when it comes to comparison
00:04:44of Maddie leaving his whole entire family
00:04:46to come here to be with me.
00:04:47I have some moment.
00:04:49Maddie was telling his family goodbye yesterday and, like,
00:04:54leaving.
00:04:55I didn't expect to feel like the amount of emotions that I felt
00:04:58because I saw him crying for a little bit,
00:05:00and that was really hard because I do carry a lot of guilt
00:05:02knowing that he probably won't ever be able to go back
00:05:04to his home country.
00:05:05He just continues to tell me that I'm worth it.
00:05:07So sometimes I don't feel like I am, but I'm just grateful that he's doing it, even though I know it's extremely hard.
00:05:24I definitely feel a lot of pressure to make this work.
00:05:26I want it to work.
00:05:27I think it will work.
00:05:28If I didn't think that, I would have never gone this far.
00:05:32But it is very scary.
00:05:35Maddie and I have only spent one week together physically,
00:05:37so there's still a lot to learn about each other.
00:05:40But on top of that, after Maddie arrives in the United States, he may not be able to go back home at all.
00:05:47Iran was not the best place, but Maddie had a good life in Iran.
00:05:53He had a loving family, and he had good friends.
00:05:56And I think I've spent a lot of nights crying about Maddie leaving his family,
00:06:01although I don't tell him that.
00:06:03I'm just very hopeful that what we had for that week in Turkey will translate when he's here in the United States,
00:06:10because I don't know what we'll do if it doesn't.
00:06:33I think Maddie is close to being here.
00:06:48My poster.
00:06:58I need to change my shirt.
00:07:03He just landed.
00:07:17There was a period of my life where I was really worried that Maddie might not ever be able to come to the U.S.,
00:07:21or maybe his government or our government would restrict that from happening.
00:07:26And honestly, up until the very last second, I'm even worried about him getting here.
00:07:30So I think just seeing him in the airport is just going to feel like we made it, like we're okay.
00:07:39I feel so anxious.
00:07:44I'm overwhelmed.
00:07:46I don't know which shot he's coming from.
00:07:51Ah!
00:07:52I don't know.
00:07:53I don't know where he is.
00:07:59I don't know where you are.
00:08:01I'm sure he's coming from Andrew B later.
00:08:02I know what he's doing.
00:08:04He's on the veuxition.
00:08:07He's doing good work, they're not so cool.
00:08:11He is off for you, D.C.
00:08:12I don't know.
00:08:42Oh, this is so awkward.
00:08:44I'm not OK.
00:08:45I don't know if you're...
00:08:47I'm shaking so bad.
00:08:49Why are you shaking?
00:08:50Come on, David.
00:08:52My name is Madi.
00:08:54I'm 27 years old, and I'm from Iran, Tehran.
00:08:57Although I always try to introduce myself as Persian
00:09:00because it sounds, like, more friendly than Iranian.
00:09:05Ah!
00:09:07You want to take a seat?
00:09:10Yeah, I can sit.
00:09:12When I saw her coming down from this glitter,
00:09:16I felt, like, amazing.
00:09:20She wasn't just a person for me there.
00:09:22She was just, like, family, home, friend, wife,
00:09:27and everything to me.
00:09:29I felt amazing hugging her.
00:09:31Oh, my God.
00:09:32Please just sit down.
00:09:33Just sit down.
00:09:34I love this.
00:09:39This is a weird kid.
00:09:41I don't know.
00:09:44I really love this sign that Stevie has made for me.
00:09:47In Farsi, when you want to say someone belongs to you,
00:09:51you have to just use M at the end of their name.
00:09:54So she has written Mahdim, which means, like, my Mahdi.
00:09:59And that felt perfect.
00:10:01I'm really excited, babe.
00:10:04How long have you been waiting?
00:10:06An eternity.
00:10:08It's been a long day.
00:10:11You left right over there.
00:10:13Do you want me to just go get them?
00:10:15No, you're not leaving me ever for the rest of your life.
00:10:18Yeah.
00:10:21My parents are not, actually are not feeling good with me leaving.
00:10:26I've never had this many emotions at the same time.
00:10:34Like, when I look at the future, I know that the U.S.
00:10:37is going to give me something that I've ever had.
00:10:40But when I look back, I see that I left my family there.
00:10:46And I hope I can get back and see them.
00:10:58But there's, like, a high risk that I cannot ever go back.
00:11:04OK.
00:11:05Yeah, I'm fine.
00:11:22What happened?
00:11:24Why'd that take so long?
00:11:26What happened?
00:11:28Are you OK?
00:11:30What did they say to you?
00:11:41They didn't let me.
00:11:43They didn't permit them.
00:11:44You're kidding me.
00:11:45You have everything.
00:11:47It will be unfair to let you in.
00:11:49Why?
00:11:50For American guys.
00:11:51Because I am too handsome.
00:11:56I'm so mad at you.
00:11:58And I said, I assure you, I am taken.
00:12:01I am approved.
00:12:03Oh, my God.
00:12:04Yeah.
00:12:05You made me so scared.
00:12:09I got it.
00:12:10You know, I got K1.
00:12:12Finally.
00:12:13Oh, my God.
00:12:14It's better than orgasm, you know?
00:12:16Peeing, orgasm, and K1.
00:12:19The three best things in this life.
00:12:23They asked me, what are you doing for a living?
00:12:26And I said, I'm a professional narcissist.
00:12:28You did not.
00:12:29Did you really say that?
00:12:31Yeah.
00:12:32Yeah.
00:12:33I love that you took your sense of humor with you.
00:12:35I got it, babe.
00:12:36I got it.
00:12:37I'm so happy.
00:12:38I'm so happy.
00:12:40I've been so nervous this whole time.
00:12:42Don't shake, babe.
00:12:43Are you ready for me?
00:12:44Yeah.
00:12:45For the whole time?
00:12:46We can be together in the US.
00:12:47Lifetime.
00:12:48Are you ready?
00:12:49We love you.
00:12:50I'm so excited.
00:12:51Yeah.
00:12:52I'm so excited.
00:12:53Oh.
00:12:54Can we sit down?
00:12:55I feel so shaky.
00:12:56The interview was so stressful, you know?
00:12:59I mean, I did my best because she kinda told me something that I have to be as calm as possible
00:13:06because I'm an asshole.
00:13:07I can't say anything.
00:13:08I can mess it up.
00:13:09So I was there.
00:13:11I tried to be as cute as possible.
00:13:14I mean, that dominant guy, that alpha male guy went away.
00:13:19And the guy, whatever he says, says, yes, yes, sir, yes, sir, like this.
00:13:24And I got it.
00:13:26We have so much to do, babe.
00:13:28We have to pack the apartment.
00:13:30We have to, well, we have to tell your family first.
00:13:33Yeah, we have to tell them.
00:13:34How do you feel about that?
00:13:36I don't know if it's good news for them or not.
00:13:39In Turkey, they rely on their child when they got old.
00:13:44People are like this.
00:13:45And I'm the only child of my family.
00:13:47And they're old.
00:13:48I mean, if something happens, I don't want to think negative, but I always think negative.
00:13:54You know that?
00:13:55Nothing will happen, babe.
00:13:56And we'll come back and visit them lots.
00:13:58And they can hopefully come visit us in L.A.
00:14:03Now I have to tell my family that I am approved, but I didn't even say that I have an interview.
00:14:12It won't be so easy to tell them.
00:14:16They are old.
00:14:17They want to be with me till the end of their lives with their only child.
00:14:23The worst scenario can be if they say, don't go.
00:14:28I don't know what to do then.
00:14:37Hey, Mom.
00:14:38Oh, hello, dear. You home?
00:14:40Yep.
00:14:41So right now, I'm living at home with my mother.
00:14:43My fiance, Joan, is a little skeptical about it.
00:14:46You know, it's a huge cock block.
00:14:48Would you consider a separate room?
00:14:51I don't want to hear what goes on sexually.
00:14:54It's kind of got me shaking in my boots a little bit here.
00:14:57I can't do that to her. That's not right.
00:15:13Oh, my God. Did that just get in my hair?
00:15:18I'm Gregory. I'm 35 years old, and I'm from Long Island, New York.
00:15:32People really love this, you know, the slapping.
00:15:34People actually pay me extra to slap their dough a little bit more.
00:15:37You know, spank their bread a little bit more.
00:15:39You know what I'm saying?
00:15:40I discovered my passion for bacon.
00:15:43I'd say it started when I was a little kid, you know?
00:15:46My mom was always big into cooking and something I always enjoyed.
00:15:49Just always enjoyed watching it. I enjoyed eating it, you know?
00:15:51Always enjoyed eating everything.
00:15:53I come from a very Italian, like, American background,
00:15:59so everything we do is just based around food.
00:16:05We've got the grill master over here.
00:16:07There'll be chicken-colored parmesan.
00:16:09There'll be a baked ziti plate,
00:16:11but then all of a sudden there's like,
00:16:12oh, yeah, I ordered a pizza.
00:16:14She's making Swedish meatballs.
00:16:15I'm making Italian-style meatballs.
00:16:17You know what I'm saying? Meatballs.
00:16:19So it's kind of like this vicious cycle of eating and cooking
00:16:22and cooking and eating and cooking and eating and cooking,
00:16:24which, you know, perpetually came on to me as I got older.
00:16:27Oh, my God.
00:16:30I used to be, like, 480 pounds.
00:16:33It's insane. I couldn't even tie my shoes at one point.
00:16:36It was so bad.
00:16:38And seeing that every day finally just pushed me to the point
00:16:40where I wanted to lose weight and just get rid of this and feel better.
00:16:44Between 2017 and 2019, I ended up losing around 200 pounds.
00:16:48Losing weight actually inspired me to just, you know,
00:16:50redefine myself and figure out who I was.
00:17:00What's up, bro?
00:17:02It's good to see you.
00:17:03You too.
00:17:04Making a bakery is definitely something that I would love to put all my energy into.
00:17:07I got your bread here, so...
00:17:09I love your bread. Thank you so much.
00:17:11How's it going?
00:17:12That is awesome.
00:17:13But my work, I think, can be a little waxed sometimes, right?
00:17:16Call it ADHD or just call it being lazy.
00:17:18I don't know.
00:17:19But there's a lot of times where I'll start a project and I don't necessarily finish it.
00:17:22Bread time.
00:17:23Yeah.
00:17:24But as far as the bakery goes, I need to just continue and I need to push through this.
00:17:29Because my entire life is about to just be turned upside down.
00:17:32It's not just going to be me anymore.
00:17:33It's going to be we.
00:17:34I feel like it's going to be a good day.
00:17:37I feel good.
00:17:38Joan is from Uganda and absolutely just head over heels in love with this girl.
00:17:43I feel it in the air.
00:17:44Those big beautiful eyes, I just, I can't stop staring into them.
00:17:47I really can.
00:17:48And she's got just a nice, nice big booty.
00:17:50I feel good.
00:17:52So I met Joan because I actually fell asleep on a gentleman's shoulder on an airplane.
00:17:57And he turned out to be from Uganda, East Africa.
00:18:00He owns a safari company.
00:18:02After talking to him for six and a half hours straight, he actually ended up inviting me to Uganda.
00:18:09I checked into the guest house and I saw Joan within my first hour and a half of being there in Uganda.
00:18:15See you.
00:18:17We chatted very, very little bit.
00:18:19I did tell her about my weight loss journey.
00:18:21A year and a half later, I still was thinking about her.
00:18:24Like, damn, I let that girl get away, you know?
00:18:26And still to this day, I'm not sure how she found me on social media.
00:18:30I just remember all of a sudden, boom, it was just like, bling, got this friend request.
00:18:33And I could not believe it.
00:18:35I was like, oh my God, like, you know, this is that girl.
00:18:38That was it.
00:18:39That was just take off from there, you know?
00:18:41I ended up going back to Uganda and I proposed for her on her birthday.
00:18:46This guy's not going to let me in, right?
00:18:53More .
00:18:54You got to see my signal.
00:18:58Honestly, I really love Long Island.
00:18:59I really do.
00:19:00It's just like the driving here is so aggressive.
00:19:02It's insane.
00:19:03It's unbelievable.
00:19:04But there's just so much here.
00:19:05There's so much to do.
00:19:06So many people.
00:19:07There's always something going on.
00:19:11This guy's an asshole.
00:19:12I'm sorry, man.
00:19:13That guy's an asshole, bro.
00:19:14I think Joan will definitely be able to adjust to living here.
00:19:19But it's insane.
00:19:20The average starter home on Long Island is probably anywhere from $400,000 to $500,000.
00:19:25I'm nowhere near that position to put down a deposit on a family home for sure.
00:19:30Nowhere near.
00:19:35Hey, Mom.
00:19:36Oh, hello, dear.
00:19:37You home?
00:19:38Yep.
00:19:39So right now, my current living situation, I'm living at home with my mother here on Long Island.
00:19:44As much as I love my mom, I mean, you know, it's this huge cock block, you know?
00:19:50Man, oh, man.
00:19:51These are beautiful.
00:19:52Look.
00:19:53Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:19:54So we got bacon and cheddar and just some plain loaves.
00:19:57Joan kind of is a little skeptical about it.
00:19:59You know, she obviously wants her own place.
00:20:01She wants a place that we can have privacy for ourselves and just be ourselves together.
00:20:05But I'm hoping she's cool with the fact that we're possibly going to be living there for a year, up to two years.
00:20:12So what did you do today?
00:20:13Oh, so...
00:20:15This is insane.
00:20:16I went in the pool with the doggies.
00:20:17Unbelievable.
00:20:18I had to get that in, of course.
00:20:19Uh-huh.
00:20:20A hungry laundry on the line, your clothes, your shirt.
00:20:23Thank you, thank you.
00:20:24You had so much in your room piled up.
00:20:27Do I baby Craig spoil him maybe a little?
00:20:32You know, I like to have a nice meal cooked for him, and I'm doing my laundry.
00:20:35I'll go in his room and scoop everything up that's dirty.
00:20:38I'll have to clean the bathroom upstairs, strain out his room when he leaves the room.
00:20:41Put out the garbage, finish the dishes in the sink, and...
00:20:44Oh, my drink.
00:20:45Can you get my water?
00:20:46And get your water.
00:20:48Well, yeah, he would help me if I...
00:20:50He don't give me a hard time about that.
00:20:53Oh, what a nice breeze.
00:20:55Oh, this looks good, doesn't it, Craig?
00:20:57Delicious.
00:20:58Did you grab any carrots?
00:20:59Uh, it doesn't look like it.
00:21:01Yeah, I have a carrot.
00:21:03Wow.
00:21:04So, Joan got on the plane?
00:21:06Yeah.
00:21:07So, she's up in the air.
00:21:08I'm freaking freaking out, man.
00:21:09Internally, I'm on fire.
00:21:11What is your thoughts on all this?
00:21:12Like, how do you feel about everything, Mom?
00:21:14It'll be nice.
00:21:15It'll be exciting.
00:21:16You know, I like to observe how she treats you, too.
00:21:19Mm-hmm.
00:21:20You know, as a person and how she talks to you.
00:21:22Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:21:23Yeah, it's important, you know?
00:21:24Yeah, a guard dog standing.
00:21:25Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:21:29Gregory can be a little naive when it comes to relationships.
00:21:34My fear is that, uh, him being taken advantage of.
00:21:38Because he's very generous and caring, trusting.
00:21:42You know, you've been alone up there the whole time,
00:21:45and now all of a sudden you have a woman in your room with you.
00:21:48And sometimes it might make me a little uncomfortable, you know?
00:21:52Okay.
00:21:54Having sex, being intimate, right?
00:21:56Is that what you're worried about, things like that?
00:21:58All right.
00:21:59Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:22:00Just to throw it out there, you know?
00:22:02Yeah, you know?
00:22:03It's an uncomfortable topic, right?
00:22:04It is.
00:22:05It's an uncomfortable topic.
00:22:06Oh, yeah, that's all I'm saying.
00:22:07You know, I don't want to hear what goes on, you know, emotionally.
00:22:10Would you consider a separate room?
00:22:17I mean, a separate room.
00:22:19I mean, until when?
00:22:21Until we get married is what you're saying?
00:22:22Or until, like, I don't understand.
00:22:23Yeah, until you try the knot.
00:22:25We have 90 days.
00:22:27Yes.
00:22:28So, like, having her in a separate room for what?
00:22:29I don't know.
00:22:3060 days?
00:22:3150 days?
00:22:32I mean, I really don't see a difference.
00:22:33I don't see...
00:22:35Well, you know, be respectful.
00:22:37I mean, that's what...
00:22:38I've been brought up that way, too.
00:22:39I mean, listen...
00:22:40Which room is she going to live in?
00:22:42Listen, we have a futon on one end of the wall.
00:22:45I can't do that to her.
00:22:46That's not right.
00:22:47We've waited, you know, seven months almost to be together again and for her to come here
00:22:56and to sleep in a separate room.
00:22:58It's crazy, you know?
00:22:59But at the same time, we're not necessarily paying rent.
00:23:01So when she asks me to do something like this, I have to take it very serious.
00:23:04I'm going to marry this woman.
00:23:06She's going to be my wife.
00:23:07You know what I'm saying?
00:23:08To sleep in the same bedroom and the same bed at night is part of the whole part of being
00:23:13together.
00:23:14Knowing Joan, I think it's going to be a little bit of a tough conversation.
00:23:20But if Mom and Joan don't get along and things become very toxic between the two of them,
00:23:25I would definitely have to just double down and find a place.
00:23:27But it would pretty much drain the bank account almost immediately.
00:23:31That's something I'm not a little nervous.
00:23:34It's kind of got me shaking in my boots a little bit here, you know?
00:23:44It's been a long time since I've put something like this together.
00:23:57So this might not be super quick, but we'll see how it goes.
00:24:03Don't forget, this has been 20-some years since I've been here.
00:24:1320-some years since I've done this, so.
00:24:16Oh, .
00:24:18I hope that comes back out.
00:24:21Today is finally the day after two years.
00:24:24Mina and Maria are arriving into Boston, into the USA for the first time.
00:24:29I'm going to read the instruction manual for a little more.
00:24:32Yeah, of course, it's 28 pages.
00:24:36Yeah.
00:24:37Mina told me months ago to start Baby Proof in the House, which, you know, stupidly,
00:24:41of course, I just started this morning.
00:24:48Cool.
00:24:49After she lands, the plan is for Mina and Maria to take a cab to a small airport outside of Boston,
00:24:55where I'm going to fly my plane in, her small little petite avion, because she does it,
00:25:00and fly back to the house in New Hampshire.
00:25:02Beautiful blue sky.
00:25:05Hopefully not too bumpy and windy for them.
00:25:08I just thought it would be cooler to fly into the house for the first time rather than drive in.
00:25:13She's marrying a pilot, so, you know, come in on the runway.
00:25:18So, what's it gonna be?
00:25:21The way not to set you free?
00:25:25Oh, my God.
00:25:30I can't believe.
00:25:31Oh, my God.
00:25:33I'm dead.
00:25:35I'm Mina.
00:25:36I'm 24-year-old.
00:25:38Twenty?
00:25:39Ah, no, three.
00:25:40I'm from Paris.
00:25:49Maria, say hello.
00:25:50Hello.
00:25:51Hello.
00:25:52You don't care?
00:25:57Okay.
00:25:58She don't care.
00:26:02See you guys shortly.
00:26:03Bye, Paris.
00:26:15Wait, Ma, stop now.
00:26:17J'ai rencontré beaucoup des hommes.
00:26:20Ils pouvaient me donner tout ce que je pouvais avoir comme une princesse,
00:26:23mais ils pouvaient pas me donner une maison, c'est-à-dire une famille, la vie de famille,
00:26:28c'est que Marc m'a donné.
00:26:29C'est ça que j'ai beaucoup, beaucoup penché sur Marc.
00:26:42So, Mina's really happy to come to America,
00:26:44but the other day, we got some news that's making it really hard for us to be excited about it.
00:26:51Mina has a son from a former relationship.
00:27:00He's nine years old.
00:27:01His name is Clayton.
00:27:03Great kid.
00:27:04Unfortunately, it's a little complicated on the visa process with him,
00:27:08and his passport didn't arrive in time for him to come with Mina to America,
00:27:12so he's gonna have to stay with a family friend over there until he gets processed.
00:27:19Mina was devastated that her son isn't able to come,
00:27:23so if the passport for Clayton doesn't come soon,
00:27:26there's a good chance that Mina will go back,
00:27:29and then we'll have to start this whole K-1 visa process over again.
00:27:33And that just makes me scared to even say or think about.
00:27:39Ah, here we go.
00:27:41Oh, dang, it's spacious.
00:27:53So, I thought my first night in America
00:27:55was going to have a little bit more privacy with Jessica.
00:27:58I'm going in here. I'm going in here.
00:28:00What bed are you guys sleeping in?
00:28:02This one. I'm going in here, though.
00:28:03Mommy, look at this remote.
00:28:05Hopefully, the second night is better.
00:28:08I'm going to show you a lie.
00:28:09Why? I farted on this pillow.
00:28:12I got the K-1 approval.
00:28:14Now, my family's approval.
00:28:16Maybe your family's reaction is so bad
00:28:18that you decide you don't want to come.
00:28:20My feelings are too confused right now.
00:28:23I'm going to show you something.
00:28:24I want to show you something.
00:28:25I'll show you something right here.
00:28:26Maybe your family's escapable.
00:28:28Not bad, you know?
00:28:29No!
00:28:30I know.
00:28:31I still don't really know where I'm doing.
00:28:32I think it's supposed right here.
00:28:37How is this hotel right here with that Christmas tree in there?
00:28:41Yay!
00:28:43I don't really know where I'm going.
00:28:52Let's go in.
00:28:54You need help, baby, or are you good?
00:28:55I got it.
00:28:57Let's go in.
00:29:00Okay, we're going to go check on in.
00:29:04Hi, checking in.
00:29:05All righty.
00:29:07Juan just arrived in America.
00:29:09And, you know, as a family of five with three little kids,
00:29:13we all have to share a hotel room.
00:29:15The boys aren't old enough to have their own room.
00:29:17That's the reality of parenthood.
00:29:19Oh, it's pretty big.
00:29:21Oh, dang, it's spacious.
00:29:23Mom, they already have drinks in here and everything.
00:29:25Well, they're like, if you drink them, you have to pay for them.
00:29:28It might not be the most romantic first night Juan was hoping for,
00:29:31but right off the bat, he is getting a taste of what parenthood is like.
00:29:35I'm going in here.
00:29:36I'm going in here.
00:29:37What bed are you guys sleeping in?
00:29:38This one.
00:29:39I'm going in here, though.
00:29:40Mommy, look at this remote.
00:29:41It's been such a long day for me, and I was super tired, but these boys are full of energy.
00:29:49No.
00:29:50He farted on this pillow.
00:29:53I'm the pillow king.
00:29:54I'm going to jump.
00:29:55I'm not used to be around kids.
00:29:57I'm going to show you all else.
00:29:59Where are you guys?
00:30:00Are you stupidity?
00:30:01Mom, I'm the pillow king.
00:30:03Seeing the chaos, seeing the cute fart, everything, it was a little weird to me.
00:30:07Can I just wear this shirt?
00:30:11I'm going to go get changed in my pajamas.
00:30:13Juan, you're getting your dirty shoes on the bed.
00:30:16Uh, no.
00:30:17I won't.
00:30:21I'm not feeling overwhelmed yet.
00:30:23This is my first night.
00:30:24I know there are kids, and kids are like that.
00:30:27At least they feel comfy with me around, and I think that's a good time.
00:30:31Okay, I'm going to get changed.
00:30:33When I was a kid, I had a great life when my father was alive.
00:30:37But when he passed away, at my age of eight years old, everything changed for us now.
00:30:43The good life was over, and my brother having to go find money and work, and my mother, too,
00:30:49taking care of me at the time.
00:30:51And then I had to learn everything by myself, not having a dad to teach me stuff.
00:30:57And it was hard for a kid.
00:30:58Here it comes, Daddy.
00:31:05But all the things I went through when I was a kid, it makes me want to be a good father
00:31:09for my son, a good stepfather.
00:31:11Can I pass you a baby so I can come see?
00:31:13I go.
00:31:16I've never raised a child in my life.
00:31:18I've never been around kids.
00:31:20So it's a little bit of pressure, but, you know, I feel good.
00:31:23I feel good.
00:31:25Good night, baby.
00:31:26I love you.
00:31:27I love you, too.
00:31:28I love you.
00:31:41I got the K-1 approval.
00:31:43Now my family's approval.
00:31:45Yes.
00:31:46Let's go.
00:31:47Let's go.
00:31:49Let me do the talking, Ashkın, with my family.
00:31:51I will.
00:31:52How am I going to talk to them?
00:31:54Not knowing Turkish any worse makes sense, you know?
00:32:27The situation is so bad that you decide you don't want to come.
00:32:31Is that a possibility?
00:32:58If I'm not approved, no need to say anything to them.
00:33:03You're going to need to change your face when we get there
00:33:05because you show all your emotions on your face.
00:33:07If your face looks sad, they're going to know the truth is
00:33:10that you're really sad and worried.
00:33:14Try to smile a little.
00:33:16Yeah, not that smile. That one looks too fake.
00:33:19That's not a smile at all.
00:33:22Smile! Smile!
00:33:24Smile!
00:33:25I'm so happy.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:27Not that voice, though. That's not your voice.
00:33:31We are already there.
00:33:35My feelings are too confused right now, you know?
00:33:38Because I'm happy, but I have also concerns about my family.
00:33:43It's difficult for she kind of to understand
00:33:45because her family connections are not like us.
00:33:49Maybe it's a cultural difference, but one part of my soul
00:33:53thinks that this is a thing that you have to celebrate.
00:33:56Me and the other part is I'm living my life, everything,
00:33:59especially my parents, my family behind.
00:34:03And it's a big contradiction, you know?
00:34:05It's a big conflict inside of me.
00:34:09I missed you!
00:34:10I missed you!
00:34:12Mwah!
00:34:14Mwah!
00:34:15Sarpil, who's here are?
00:34:16We are coming!
00:34:17We are coming!
00:34:18We are coming!
00:34:20I love you!
00:34:21I love you!
00:34:22I love you!
00:34:23Welcome!
00:34:24Welcome!
00:34:25Welcome!
00:34:26Welcome!
00:34:27Happy Birthday!
00:34:28Hello!
00:34:29Hi, how are you?
00:34:30I try to stay as positive as I can, but I cannot.
00:34:34I mean, how will I say them?
00:34:35You have only one son, and he's going away.
00:34:39Who will take care of you when you get older?
00:34:43What will I say to them?
00:34:45Those are making big concerns in my mind.
00:34:49Oh.
00:34:50Just a little gift.
00:34:53I know they're Turkish, so you finally have already
00:34:55supported me.
00:34:58Happy birthday to you.
00:35:02It is an uncomfortable feeling to know that we are going
00:35:06to be sharing this news with his family.
00:35:08They have no idea what we're about to say.
00:35:11It's going to hit them like a ton of bricks.
00:35:13They're going to be blindsided.
00:35:16Should we sit down?
00:35:23Where did you buy the presents?
00:35:25I got them in Ankara.
00:35:27Ankara.
00:35:28Ankara.
00:35:30There are so many beautiful things there.
00:35:31I thought of you.
00:35:32Very beautiful.
00:35:33How are you going to Ankara?
00:35:36It was good.
00:35:38It was hot.
00:35:39It was hot.
00:35:40It was hot.
00:35:41It was hot, right?
00:35:42It's hot.
00:35:43It's hot.
00:35:44It's hot.
00:35:46Okay, let's leave the heat over the side.
00:35:49It's hot.
00:35:51And...
00:35:55I would say something.
00:35:58Yes.
00:36:00I'm sorry for that.
00:36:06You know you know, K-Van's career, you know.
00:36:10I wouldn't say anything, but...
00:36:16I went to the appointment.
00:36:17When are you going?
00:36:35I miss you!
00:36:50I'm here!
00:36:53Baby, you know, I want to fly you home in style.
00:36:56Let's go.
00:36:58We have a parachute in this plane if there's any problems.
00:37:01No, no, no, stop now.
00:37:03Oh, my God. Don't kill me, baby.
00:37:15Oh.
00:37:17Oh.
00:37:18Enfin.
00:37:20USA, I'm here.
00:37:27Wow.
00:37:30And here, I'm just very, very, very impressed.
00:37:34And I have to go and meet Mark.
00:37:37And here, my husband and I are just impatient of seeing him.
00:37:40It's just incredible.
00:37:42I'm here now.
00:37:43I'm in America.
00:37:45Put down through these trees here.
00:37:50Power out, brother.
00:38:00So my app says they've landed.
00:38:02They are here in the USA.
00:38:04First time.
00:38:05That is just a huge, huge load off.
00:38:08It's been hard to be away from my daughter for the last, you know, 21 months of her life.
00:38:15And I'm just super happy.
00:38:17And I can't wait to see them right now as soon as they get here.
00:38:20So, super happy.
00:38:22It's a great day.
00:38:23It's a great day.
00:38:24It's a great day.
00:38:25It's a great day.
00:38:26It's a great day.
00:38:32Look.
00:38:33Look.
00:38:34Look at the American drapeau.
00:38:35You're in America now.
00:38:37That street is big.
00:38:39It's not Paris.
00:38:40It's not Neyssen.
00:38:41It's not Alpha Tower.
00:38:43I don't know.
00:38:44Where's the statue?
00:38:45Where's the statue?
00:38:46Where's the statue?
00:38:47Where's the statue?
00:38:48Where's the statue?
00:38:49Where's the statue?
00:38:50Where's the statue?
00:38:51Where's the statue?
00:38:52Where's the statue?
00:38:53Where's the statue?
00:38:54Where's the statue?
00:38:55Where's the statue?
00:38:56Where's the statue?
00:38:57Ah, okay.
00:38:58I'm excited for my fiancé, Mark.
00:39:02I'm stressed too.
00:39:04Because it's the first time I lost my country by living in Paris all my life.
00:39:11And I'm sad because I lost my son.
00:39:14The most difficult thing I could do was to make my sister with my sister at Paris.
00:39:22It really...
00:39:24It really...
00:39:25It really hurt me.
00:39:28It really hurt my heart.
00:39:29It really hurt me.
00:39:30It's really...
00:39:31It really hurts me.
00:39:32It's so...
00:39:35Oh...
00:39:36I didn't have a choice to follow up my visa that was to be inspired.
00:39:43It's like...
00:39:44It's so...
00:39:45It's like...
00:39:46It was...
00:39:47I don't know when his passport is ready for...
00:39:48It's like...
00:39:50To come with us.
00:39:51It's like...
00:39:52It's like...
00:39:53It's like...
00:39:54It's...
00:39:55I have no control about the administration.
00:40:00Mark has no control.
00:40:02We can't tell them, we can wait.
00:40:05That's what is so frustrating.
00:40:07And so, I don't know.
00:40:13My son, Clayton, he said,
00:40:16yeah, mama, you go now to USA.
00:40:19I hope you come back for me.
00:40:22You don't lose me.
00:40:24I said, no, never.
00:40:26You, my son, he just said, maybe just you prefer Maria.
00:40:30I said, no.
00:40:32You and Maria are the same.
00:40:34It's this, it's not me.
00:40:36I don't have control for administration.
00:40:38I don't have control for this.
00:40:43I know that he has a good hand
00:40:46with people of trust.
00:40:50But...
00:40:52I don't want to be completely
00:40:54less happy here
00:40:56with Maria and Mark,
00:40:57without Clayton.
00:40:58I think I lose one more part
00:41:02to my life.
00:41:04I'm not complete now.
00:41:06No, I'm not complete.
00:41:08I hope it is the good choice.
00:41:12It's better for us.
00:41:14I'm here.
00:41:16I'm here.
00:41:31You're coming to home,
00:41:32you see daddy.
00:41:36Where's daddy?
00:41:37Where's daddy?
00:41:38Where's daddy?
00:41:55Maria!
00:42:00Rich!
00:42:01Baby girl!
00:42:02Hey, baby, girl, I miss you.
00:42:09Hey, baby, girl.
00:42:12Hey, baby.
00:42:16Oh, my God, I miss you so much.
00:42:19Oh, yeah, baby.
00:42:25Oh, yeah.
00:42:27You miss me? You miss Daddy?
00:42:29Yeah.
00:42:30I miss you.
00:42:32I mean, we're finally here together in America.
00:42:35So after, what, five years?
00:42:37Yes.
00:42:38Two years engaged.
00:42:39Tonight, I just need to sleep.
00:42:44Maybe you give me a massage, Mark. Why not?
00:42:46Massage.
00:42:47With champagne.
00:42:49Champagne?
00:42:50Maybe one-year-old baby.
00:42:53Can you believe it?
00:42:54Yeah.
00:42:55I believe now.
00:42:57Yeah, now it's true.
00:42:59Yes, I'm happy.
00:43:02Yeah.
00:43:03Now that you're here, we got 90 days and we're going to be married.
00:43:07Yes.
00:43:08Can you believe?
00:43:09Yes.
00:43:10I believe, it's a long time I believe in you.
00:43:13Because you're a good person.
00:43:15I love you, Mark.
00:43:16I love you, too.
00:43:17Let's go home.
00:43:20Yeah.
00:43:21Yeah.
00:43:22You see the airplane?
00:43:23You see the air now?
00:43:24Yeah.
00:43:25You want to go for a ride?
00:43:26You want to go for a ride?
00:43:28Baby, you know, I want to fly you home in style because I want it to be a memory you have forever that you never forget.
00:43:36Woo!
00:43:37I don't go die for the first day in the USA.
00:43:40It was a little windy.
00:43:41I waited for two years for coming here.
00:43:43I don't die for today.
00:43:44No way.
00:43:45We have a parachute in this plane if there's any problems.
00:43:49No, no, no.
00:43:50Stop now.
00:43:51Okay.
00:43:52Let's go.
00:43:53Oh, yeah.
00:43:54My family is complete because you guys are here now.
00:43:57Yeah.
00:43:58I'm alive.
00:43:59Go, baby girl.
00:44:00We're going to go fly now, okay?
00:44:02Okay.
00:44:03Okay.
00:44:04Are you ready, baby girl?
00:44:05Yeah.
00:44:06We're going home.
00:44:07Finally.
00:44:08We're going home.
00:44:09Wow.
00:44:10Yeah.
00:44:11Oh, my God.
00:44:12Don't kill me, baby.
00:44:13Whoa!
00:44:14Yeah.
00:44:15Oh, my God.
00:44:16Don't kill me, baby.
00:44:17Whoa!
00:44:18Whoa!
00:44:19Whoa!
00:44:20Whoa!
00:44:21Whoa!
00:44:22Whoa!
00:44:23Whoa!
00:44:24Whoa!
00:44:25Whoa!
00:44:26Whoa!
00:44:27Whoa!
00:44:29Whoa!
00:44:30Whoa!
00:44:31Whoa!
00:44:32Whoa!
00:44:33Whoa!
00:44:34I don't want to screw up because you have no idea the sacrifice she made.
00:44:40In her country, she's relatively well off, so she's kind of like, she's kind of taking
00:44:44a step back.
00:44:45Oh.
00:44:46I mean, life is pretty much better in Uganda, if you ask her.
00:44:49Even if you ask me, truthfully speaking.
00:44:52Do you feel that you are ready for her to be here?
00:44:55No, not really.
00:44:56I think she's in for a rude awakening coming here.
00:44:58Welcome home.
00:44:59Come into our house.
00:45:00We finally made it.
00:45:02Here's our bedroom.
00:45:03No door.
00:45:04No door.
00:45:05No door.
00:45:06No door.
00:45:07Here's the boys' room.
00:45:08Uh-oh.
00:45:09Jessica definitely told me that, look, there's little privacy.
00:45:10But I wasn't imagining this little, you know.
00:45:11There is not even a little privacy.
00:45:12There's no privacy.
00:45:13There's no privacy.
00:45:14There's no privacy.
00:45:15What's the time of the clock?
00:45:16Ticket to tacos.
00:45:17Ready to party.
00:45:18Hop on my dancing shoes.
00:45:19Yeah.
00:45:20I got all kind of moves.
00:45:21Show me what you working with.
00:45:22I'm all mad with that stick.
00:45:23I won't quit.
00:45:24I'm legit.
00:45:25Straight out the gutter.
00:45:26Got it.
00:45:27Got it.
00:45:28Great.
00:45:29Got it.
00:45:30Got it.
00:45:31Got it.
00:45:32Got it.
00:45:33Got it.
00:45:34Got it.
00:45:35Got it.
00:45:36Got it.
00:45:37Got it.
00:45:38Got it.
00:45:39Got it.
00:45:40Got it.
00:45:41Got it.
00:45:42Got it.
00:45:43Hey, Greg.
00:45:44What's up, Laura?
00:45:45Not much.
00:45:46How's it going, hon?
00:45:47Come on in.
00:45:48Come on in.
00:45:49You got some problems here?
00:45:50Yeah.
00:45:51I'm sorry to bother you about that.
00:45:55So the dishwasher, right?
00:45:56Yes.
00:45:57So what is...
00:45:58It's got the smell.
00:45:59It's a little smelly, huh?
00:46:01That could be a septic issue.
00:46:03Yeah.
00:46:04Oh, I see what you're saying.
00:46:06Yeah.
00:46:07I see it too.
00:46:08There's some residual...
00:46:09Yeah, this is probably a septic issue.
00:46:11Okay.
00:46:12Today, I'm heading over to my friend Laura's house.
00:46:14We're going to be working on some plumbing.
00:46:15She's got some issues going on in her house.
00:46:17Hopefully, we can get them solved.
00:46:19This thing, man.
00:46:20What's the matter with it?
00:46:21Whoever did this originally, yeah, they it up.
00:46:24I don't have a typical nine to five.
00:46:27Plumbing is just an end, a means to an end.
00:46:29You know, it's not something I'm very passionate about.
00:46:31Right now, my customers are just friends and family mainly,
00:46:34and also, like, friends of friends.
00:46:36People just reach out to me, and it's mostly on Long Island.
00:46:39I might not be able to fit.
00:46:41That's the problem.
00:46:42You know?
00:46:43I'm a bigger freaking guy, so...
00:46:45And it's usually you big guys that actually do plumbing, too,
00:46:47which is interesting.
00:46:48I know.
00:46:49Got the plumber's crack hanging out, right?
00:46:50You know what I'm saying?
00:46:51Like, hey, what's up, brother?
00:46:52Yeah, I've been, you know, just trying to lose weight,
00:46:55especially my girl's coming.
00:46:56You know, Joan's coming.
00:46:57Yes.
00:46:58Yeah, man, so...
00:46:59She likes me to be a little svelte.
00:47:00Oh, I mean, you know...
00:47:01She wants me to look good in a sweater vest.
00:47:02You know what I'm saying?
00:47:03Yeah.
00:47:04The first time you ever told me that you were even entertaining
00:47:08the idea of being with someone from a different country,
00:47:11even Uganda, I was shocked.
00:47:14That's not something that's within my norms.
00:47:16Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course.
00:47:17So I give you a lot of credit.
00:47:19Listen, I would not suggest...
00:47:21Like, obviously, you can't help who you fall in love with,
00:47:23like, straight up.
00:47:24It's not been easy.
00:47:25Yeah.
00:47:27I don't want to screw up,
00:47:28because you have no idea the sacrifice she made.
00:47:30In her country, she actually is the director
00:47:33of a nonprofit organization, an NGO.
00:47:35Wow.
00:47:36And she does have a bachelor's degree
00:47:37in marketing and finance,
00:47:39so she's relatively well-off.
00:47:41So she's kind of, like...
00:47:42She's kind of taking a step back.
00:47:44Oh.
00:47:45Coming here, in a way.
00:47:46Being with Joan,
00:47:47I feel like I got one of those, like,
00:47:48New York State lottery tickets,
00:47:49where you just scratched it off and just, like, boom,
00:47:51like, you just won the jackpot.
00:47:53She's a very hard worker.
00:47:54She has her bachelor's degree in financing and marketing.
00:47:57She actually has her own NGO,
00:47:58nonprofit organization.
00:48:00So it's like, I don't believe that Joan is coming here
00:48:02for a green card or a golden ticket.
00:48:04I mean, life is pretty much better in Uganda,
00:48:06if you ask her.
00:48:07Even if you ask me, truthfully speaking,
00:48:10I think she's in for a rude awakening coming here.
00:48:13But Joan knows my working situation,
00:48:15my living situation.
00:48:16I'm very transparent with her with everything.
00:48:18But I think once she actually gets here
00:48:20and realizes what's going on,
00:48:21it might be a little bit of a shock for her.
00:48:23Do you feel that you are ready for her to be here?
00:48:26Uh, you know, not really.
00:48:29I don't want her to be here financially.
00:48:31You know, it's just, it's a lot of money.
00:48:33Things, everything costs money here,
00:48:35especially living in New York.
00:48:36Not cheap at all.
00:48:37Yeah, yeah.
00:48:38We do eventually intend to get at my mother's house,
00:48:41you know, but it's just going to take some time.
00:48:44She can't work until we get that green card
00:48:46and stuff like that,
00:48:47so it definitely is going to be ill on me.
00:48:49I'm really working on the bakery.
00:48:52Do you think that you can have that really be
00:48:55your main source of income?
00:48:57That is my plan.
00:48:59I'm putting a lot of, uh, a lot of emphasis on a lot of,
00:49:02a lot of, uh, kind of like putting all my eggs in one basket,
00:49:05I guess.
00:49:06Correct.
00:49:07So that's really scary.
00:49:09That is definitely scary.
00:49:10And, um, it's, it's something that I think about constantly.
00:49:13Yeah.
00:49:14Cause you guys do plan on, you know, having a family and,
00:49:16you know.
00:49:17Yeah, yeah.
00:49:20Maybe rocky for the first year, couple years,
00:49:22but we'll deal with it when it comes, I guess,
00:49:24you know, cross the bridge when it gets there.
00:49:26For me, I get a little nervous for you
00:49:29when you say a lot of, you'll get to that bridge.
00:49:33I kind of would like and hope for you to try to start thinking
00:49:38a little bit more in today and not always,
00:49:41I'll get there when I get there.
00:49:43You need to grow up a little bit.
00:49:46I just never really took my life serious, I guess,
00:49:48in the fact that I need a career.
00:49:50I need to do this.
00:49:51I guess I'm kind of stuck in that young mentality
00:49:53my entire life.
00:49:54All right, Greg. Thank you so much.
00:49:56No problem, Lord. Thank you.
00:49:57You're having a good one.
00:49:58You too.
00:49:59Take care. Drive safe.
00:50:00Thank you. No problem.
00:50:01Having this relationship and having Joan come into my life
00:50:04has really put things in perspective for me.
00:50:06I have to grow up.
00:50:08I wish, you know, I'm not living in regret
00:50:11and I feel like I should have took things more serious,
00:50:13but that's where I'm at right now and that's the reality.
00:50:16Okay, guys, Dawson.
00:50:17Okay, it's time to get up.
00:50:18We've got to check out of the hotel.
00:50:19Hey, wake up.
00:50:20We have to go get warm and show them our house.
00:50:23It's time. It's time. It's time. It's time.
00:50:25It's time. It's time. It's time.
00:50:26It's time.
00:50:27It's time. It's time.
00:50:28It's time.
00:50:29It's time.
00:50:30It's time.
00:50:31It's time.
00:50:32Okay, guys, Dawson.
00:50:42Okay, it's time to get up.
00:50:43We got to check out of the hotel.
00:50:44Hey, wake up.
00:50:45We have to go get one and show them our house.
00:50:48It's time.
00:50:49It's time.
00:50:50It's time.
00:50:59So I thought my first night in America
00:51:00was going to have a little bit more privacy
00:51:03with Jessica and now with the kids in the same room.
00:51:07But that didn't happen.
00:51:09You don't like to sleep?
00:51:11I thought babies like to sleep.
00:51:13It was more like a fatherhood night, I don't know.
00:51:17Here we go.
00:51:18Here I come.
00:51:22Hopefully the second night is better.
00:51:26Next stop, Wyoming.
00:51:27Next stop, Wyoming.
00:51:29Oh, no, not again.
00:51:37Hopefully driving makes him calm down.
00:51:42Wyoming away, bro.
00:51:43So far so good, driving.
00:51:45So far so bad.
00:51:46This is daytime, so you can see it all during the day.
00:51:59Are those penguins or what's that?
00:52:00Definitely not penguins.
00:52:01Oh, sorry.
00:52:02We don't have penguins.
00:52:03We don't have penguins here.
00:52:04So after I left Denver, which is such a big city,
00:52:10what I'm used to, and like, I don't know,
00:52:1330 minutes after, we started just seeing nothing.
00:52:16I don't even see houses.
00:52:18It don't look like people live around here.
00:52:20What do you guys do for fun for the lawn drives?
00:52:24What do you guys do?
00:52:25Oh, we can play some games.
00:52:26We'll play a car game.
00:52:28Will you play cars while driving?
00:52:30A car game, like C-A-R.
00:52:32Like a game that you play in the car.
00:52:33How about the first one to see a cow?
00:52:40Over there.
00:52:41That was a pick.
00:52:42Jess and the boys like to play this game called I Spy,
00:52:47but the only thing they were spotting was, like, cows.
00:52:51The first one to see a...
00:52:56Just flat land with yellow grass,
00:53:00and there is just basically nothing but land.
00:53:07I don't want to play anymore.
00:53:09Okay.
00:53:10Pretty boring.
00:53:12I agree.
00:53:16Welcome to Miami.
00:53:18Welcome to Miami.
00:53:20Welcome to Miami.
00:53:23Finally made it.
00:53:25We are now, Miami.
00:53:26Just like it.
00:53:34Tornton, population 6,119.
00:53:386,120.
00:53:40Yeah, 6,120.
00:53:42Smells like cow poop.
00:53:48You'll get used to it.
00:53:50Okay, here's our main street.
00:53:54Here's the main street.
00:53:55Oh, yes.
00:53:56There's the liquor store.
00:53:57So, when you need a bartender to make me some drinks,
00:53:59you'll go to Jane Liquor.
00:54:00If you peek down that way, if you peek down that way, there's our movie theater.
00:54:03You see the Wyoming movie theater.
00:54:05I can't wait to take you to the movies.
00:54:08I've never gone on a date with you.
00:54:09I've been dreaming of this day for years.
00:54:11Do you like Columbia more?
00:54:12I mean, I don't know yet, you know.
00:54:14He's only been here for like one minute.
00:54:17Yeah, I just came, you know.
00:54:19Okay, I want to see this.
00:54:32Welcome home, sons.
00:54:35Love, mom, Denise.
00:54:36Cute.
00:54:36Welcome home, Rick.
00:54:38Good luck.
00:54:39Appreciate it.
00:54:41I'm walking up, and then the first thing I see, like, this big thing with the...
00:54:47There are signs.
00:54:47There are signs, yeah, with the welcome home and stuff.
00:54:51I think it was pretty.
00:54:52We weren't turned.
00:54:53Yeah, and everybody signed it from town.
00:54:56I think that was cool.
00:54:57It makes me feel special.
00:54:58You are special, huh?
00:54:59Come on, come on.
00:55:00Come on.
00:55:01Okay, let's go see.
00:55:06We miss you so much.
00:55:08Welcome home.
00:55:09Come into our house.
00:55:11Woo!
00:55:11We finally made it.
00:55:15Welcome home.
00:55:18These are our fish.
00:55:20Hi, little fishy, fishy, fishy.
00:55:22There's our family picks.
00:55:24Oh, that went wrong.
00:55:25It's good.
00:55:26There's our Christmas tree.
00:55:28There you go.
00:55:29There you go.
00:55:29There you go.
00:55:30Yes.
00:55:32Very nice.
00:55:33It fits all of us.
00:55:36Look at our stockings.
00:55:37And they're in order from the way our family started.
00:55:39Jessica, Dayton, Dawson, David, Juan.
00:55:41Well, who, not how it started, but how they came to this house.
00:55:44Okay, ready?
00:55:45Ready.
00:55:45I need to know what you all said.
00:55:47Ready, ready, ready, ready.
00:55:48Amazing.
00:55:50Come on.
00:55:51Ready?
00:55:52Yes, I'm ready.
00:55:53Okay.
00:55:53One thing that amazed me from the house is Jessica's a super positive person, and then she has
00:55:59a lot of things hanging around with sayings and messages about, like, yeah, you got this,
00:56:08like, you need to be grateful.
00:56:10There's no big deal about it.
00:56:12Like, I don't have no problem with the messages, but I think there's a lot of messages, and it
00:56:18might be too much, I think.
00:56:21Our bedroom.
00:56:22Our bedroom.
00:56:23Our bedroom.
00:56:24Where am I going to sleep tonight?
00:56:27Come back up.
00:56:28Calm down.
00:56:29Mark goes first.
00:56:32Nice.
00:56:34Cute.
00:56:36Here's our bedroom.
00:56:38So, no door?
00:56:39No door.
00:56:41Doorless.
00:56:42Doorless bedroom.
00:56:43Don't know much about American houses, but I don't see much privacy around here, you
00:56:50know?
00:56:51I mean, the bed is beautiful.
00:56:52I'm not saying there's nothing wrong.
00:56:54It's just beautiful, but it is just different from how I saw it on FaceTime.
00:57:00Like, she showed me the whole place, you know?
00:57:02But it's not the same when you see it on camera.
00:57:04Sometimes you're not even paying enough attention, you know?
00:57:06You're like, okay, cool, cool.
00:57:08You're like, here, there, you're like, okay.
00:57:10And then the bathroom.
00:57:11So, we have two baths.
00:57:13So, here's a little half bath that's, like, next to our bedroom.
00:57:16What?
00:57:18Oh, just a bath.
00:57:19Like, a little half bath.
00:57:20The shower is over here.
00:57:22Okay, here's the boys' room.
00:57:23Uh-oh.
00:57:26Jessica definitely told me that, look, there's little privacy.
00:57:31But I wasn't imagining this little, you know?
00:57:35There is not even a little privacy.
00:57:36There's no privacy.
00:57:37That's the thing.
00:57:38So, if I want to shower, I've got to go through the boys' room.
00:57:44Or there's a shower upstairs.
00:57:46So, if you want your clothes out of the closet, you're going to have to go through the room
00:57:49anyways.
00:57:50But the door closes.
00:57:51Okay, good.
00:57:52And locks.
00:57:53Good, good, good, good.
00:57:55Good, we have a door.
00:57:57It doesn't work too good, though.
00:57:59It works fine.
00:58:01I need privacy, and I think we need to find a better solution.
00:58:05When you were on the ship, there wasn't any privacy.
00:58:08You have, like, a roommate.
00:58:10Well, I'm not on the cruise anymore, and this is a whole different thing.
00:58:16How do you say goodnight in Spanish?
00:58:18Buenas noches.
00:58:19Buenas noches.
00:58:20Buenas noches.
00:58:22Buenas noches.
00:58:24Goodnight.
00:58:26It's like we're all sleeping in the same room.
00:58:29I mean, as a parent, which you'll soon learn, you know, there's just not a ton of privacy.
00:58:36It's part of being a parent.
00:58:40Bye.
00:58:40Bye.
00:58:41Bye.
00:58:43I need to talk to you.
00:58:46But you need to go to bed.
00:58:47Okay, I do.
00:58:49Love you.
00:58:50After I talk to you.
00:58:52I've been waiting for this moment for a long time.
00:58:55I need to talk to you.
00:58:57Can I ask you a question?
00:59:04Yeah.
00:59:05If one day I want to go back to my country, and they won't let me exit the country anymore,
00:59:12would you let me do that?
00:59:13It's shocking to hear Maddie say that he might possibly want to go back within the first
00:59:20hours of being here.
00:59:21And honestly, it hurts.
00:59:37It's to the right.
00:59:39Your head's going to touch the ceiling in my car.
00:59:42Seriously?
00:59:42We'll get a new one.
00:59:43Seriously?
00:59:44Yes.
00:59:45Just lean the seat back, okay?
01:00:00Are you okay?
01:00:01Yeah.
01:00:02Yeah, I'm okay.
01:00:02Look, you can push to pull the thing up on the bottom and slide it back.
01:00:06No, no, no.
01:00:07Under here.
01:00:07No, go back.
01:00:09Move the whole car.
01:00:11Sorry.
01:00:12Sorry.
01:00:13As an Iranian, coming to the U.S. is like a huge process and that's realistic to so many
01:00:21people.
01:00:22But the only thing that I'm thinking about is like, this wait is over now.
01:00:27And this film is really amazing.
01:00:30What, babe?
01:00:33You need to talk to me.
01:00:35I don't like bridges.
01:00:38Is that a bridge?
01:00:40Is this a bridge?
01:00:40Hey, why are you talking about it?
01:00:42It's not a bridge, babe.
01:00:44Okay, well, let's not talk about it.
01:00:45I don't like anything that's ripped, like, up.
01:00:51This is the very first time that I'm seeing Stevie freaking out so bad.
01:00:56I have a vomit bag in the middle, just in case.
01:01:02I had never heard about being afraid of bridges or something like that, but I think it's super
01:01:08real.
01:01:08Like, I can feel the fear in their eyes.
01:01:14I'm sorry.
01:01:15I'm a little stressed.
01:01:16Just help me pay attention and I'll be okay.
01:01:19It's fun.
01:01:19Now look, this is, like, downtown.
01:01:25This is so cool.
01:01:28Everything in the city is weird to me.
01:01:34Bars, for example, like in Iran, I have heard if the government find out that you're going
01:01:40to have a party which is not separated, they will arrest you.
01:01:44Is it okay to walk as a girl at this time of the night?
01:01:50I wouldn't, but yeah, mostly.
01:01:54The way people wear clothes, because we have dress codes everywhere and they cannot choose
01:02:02how you wear.
01:02:04What are you doing?
01:02:04What are you doing?
01:02:04What are you doing?
01:02:06What?
01:02:07What are you doing?
01:02:07What are you doing?
01:02:08What are you doing?
01:02:08You only go for the boobs.
01:02:11Yeah.
01:02:14Whatever you love, America gives you the best taste of that, and it's super cool to me.
01:02:25Just one.
01:02:31I'm looking forward to spending the first night back with Maddie.
01:02:35It's been a long time.
01:02:36It's been.
01:02:38Too long.
01:02:39Way too long.
01:02:40Right there.
01:02:56It looks so cool.
01:02:58It's super nice.
01:03:00Let's look out the window.
01:03:06I'll be back.
01:03:07It's really cool.
01:03:14It looks old.
01:03:16In Iran, we have so many old places, so it feels like home.
01:03:28This place is so cool.
01:03:30I really love old stuff.
01:03:32Like me?
01:03:32You're not old.
01:03:35I'm just kidding.
01:03:36I'm just kidding.
01:03:38The view is amazing.
01:03:40It's really cool.
01:03:41Because the light and the old brick.
01:03:43Yeah.
01:03:44This is the very first time that I'm seeing a flag of the U.S., which is like being free and just so powerful.
01:03:52Like in my whole life, it was always on fire or people would walk on it.
01:04:00Yeah.
01:04:07It's really cool.
01:04:09Yeah.
01:04:09Did you know that we have, we don't have a U.S. embassy anymore, so we had to go to Ankara to get that visa.
01:04:18Yeah.
01:04:19So we used to have that like 40 years ago, before the revolution of Iran.
01:04:23And now that embassy is a museum.
01:04:28Oh, I think I've seen pictures.
01:04:29Yeah, the flag of the U.S. there is like torn apart.
01:04:33And it's not cool.
01:04:37Oh, my God.
01:04:38So this is the very first time that I'm just looking at one, which is being free and...
01:04:44Like you?
01:04:45Yeah.
01:04:49How are you feeling about everything, like with the family and all?
01:04:53It's just weird.
01:04:54Like I have talked to my family and they start crying.
01:04:58Aw.
01:04:58Yeah, my cousin just says like, we just realized how real it is and you're gone just like for good.
01:05:09I was really excited about coming to the U.S. and living with Stevie.
01:05:13But the time that I got to the airport and I saw my parents crying, this is the moment that I feel like what I have done.
01:05:24I don't know when would be the next time or where would be the next time that I will see my family.
01:05:32What I have heard before is that there is always a risk for Iranians who come to the U.S. to go back to Iran and get arrested.
01:05:40Like, my country is not normal.
01:05:52If I go back, this can happen.
01:05:54But I miss them so bad.
01:06:10Can I ask you a question?
01:06:13Yeah.
01:06:13If one day I want to go back to my country and there is a chance that they won't let me exit the country anymore, would you let me do that?
01:06:26If that's what you really wanted, I would be extremely sad.
01:06:36It took us this long to get you here.
01:06:39Yeah.
01:06:40I'm not going to keep you from ever doing anything you want to do.
01:06:43It's shocking to hear Maddie say that he might possibly want to go back within the first hours of being here.
01:06:52And honestly, it hurts.
01:06:55I definitely can't be your family.
01:06:58You're always going to have that hole, but I'll try to be here for you.
01:07:01I'm just on a more emotional side.
01:07:05I allowed Maddie to get close to me unlike other people.
01:07:08So if Maddie chose to go back to Iran, I don't know what I would do.
01:07:13I don't know what I would do.
01:07:43Now they know why we were in Ankara and I see faces dropping.
01:08:14I feel really bad.
01:08:15Like I almost feel like I can't look at anybody in the face.
01:08:17Like I'm the bad guy here.
01:08:28Okay.
01:08:29Okay.
01:08:29Tabii.
01:08:30If I decide to marry with Chicana in the U.S., my parents cannot travel to United States because of the visa.
01:08:47And they won't be participate in my wedding.
01:08:48I know they wanted to marry with a woman that I love.
01:08:50They want to just to see it and it's their right to do so.
01:08:51That kills me.
01:08:51That kills me.
01:08:52Çünkü şunu söyledim ona zaten size de söyleyeyim.
01:08:53Eğer reddedilseydim ayrılacaktım.
01:08:54O derece yani.
01:09:25Çünkü ben artık uzun ilişki yani uzun mesafeli ilişki istemiyorum.
01:09:29I don't want any more long distance relationship.
01:09:32I mean if I was rejected, I would break up with you.
01:09:37It's logical.
01:09:38Hani.
01:09:39Onun için zor.
01:09:40It's also difficult for you to without me in long distance relationship.
01:09:45So bir kumar oynadık.
01:09:46Bunu bir kumar gibi düşünüyorum.
01:09:47He's asking are you ready?
01:09:48You can't know though.
01:09:49If you're ready or not.
01:09:50I don't know.
01:09:51Normally I'm so programmed planned guy.
01:09:52Ben çok programlı planlı bir adamım.
01:09:53Ama bu sefer bırak böyle gitsin ne olursa olsun diyorum artık.
01:10:08I have to play this gamble to be with you.
01:10:11You know.
01:10:12It works or not.
01:10:13I don't know.
01:10:14Maybe.
01:10:15But this is life.
01:10:16Everything can happen.
01:10:17You have to at least try.
01:10:18I have to try.
01:10:19If I don't.
01:10:20I will be regretful in the future.
01:10:25Bizim de bir tek oğlumuz var.
01:10:27Yani ondan ayrılmak beni üzüyor.
01:10:30Yani üzüleceğim, ağlayacağım.
01:10:33Kalbinin istediği yere gidiyor.
01:10:35Ama mesafe girdiği vakit bizler de artık yaşlandık.
01:10:39Bu biraz bize koyacak.
01:10:44Üzüldüm tabii yani çok üzüldüm.
01:10:46Şöyle üzüldüm.
01:10:47Yani bir tane oğlumuz var.
01:10:49Ondan da uzak kalmamız.
01:10:51Yani beni üzüldüm.
01:10:52Ben yoksa şikayneyi çok seviyorum.
01:10:54Yani şikayneyi insan olarak da çok seviyorum.
01:10:57Ama şikayneyi çok seviyorum.
01:10:58Ama şikayneyi çok seviyorum.
01:10:59Ama şikayneyi çok seviyorum.
01:11:00Ama şikayneyi çok seviyorum.
01:11:01Bu problem.
01:11:02I know.
01:11:03I don't want you guys to think about him leaving as a forever thing.
01:11:08Like it doesn't mean he's going to be gone forever.
01:11:11It means freedom for us to come back and forth whenever we want.
01:11:16I know they are upset that my departure from Turkey to the U.S. is so close times short notice.
01:11:26I understand that they are feeling upset about it.
01:11:27But I have to do it.
01:11:28I have to take it as short as possible.
01:11:29I have to take it as short as possible.
01:11:30The only chance for this relationship of mine with Sheikina to survive going there with her.
01:11:42They will need some time to digest.
01:11:44Yes.
01:11:45My uncle doesn't show his feelings because he doesn't want to affect his son.
01:11:52But I know.
01:11:54I know I'm not feeling upset about it.
01:11:55I know.
01:11:56I know.
01:11:57I know I'm not feeling upset about it, but I have to do it.
01:11:58I have to take it as short as possible.
01:12:00The only chance for this relationship of mine with Sheikina to survive going there with her.
01:12:06They will need some time to digest.
01:12:07They will need some time to digest.
01:12:08Yes.
01:12:09My uncle doesn't show his feelings because it doesn't want to affect his son.
01:12:11You know, he will devastate it.
01:12:23See the runway?
01:12:25Yes!
01:12:27Baby, stop.
01:12:29Okay.
01:12:30Don't play with my life.
01:12:31Don't worry.
01:12:32Bravo, Pilots.
01:12:45Bravo.
01:12:48Hey, this is my house.
01:12:50Yep.
01:12:50Hi, we home, baby.
01:12:52I'm home now.
01:12:55You're home.
01:13:00All right, baby, we home.
01:13:01Okay, hang on.
01:13:02Look, she's so excited.
01:13:04She happy?
01:13:05Yeah.
01:13:05You're home, Maria?
01:13:07Wait.
01:13:08Hang on, I get you.
01:13:09Where's your photo?
01:13:11Yeah.
01:13:12Yeah.
01:13:13You home?
01:13:14You home?
01:13:15Woo-hoo.
01:13:18Oh, Jesus, thank you.
01:13:22I'm happy you like the airplane and, you know.
01:13:26It's sexy.
01:13:27Sexy.
01:13:28Missy.
01:13:28The uniform.
01:13:30No, me, the uniform.
01:13:31You, too.
01:13:34I put baby gates up today for the stairs.
01:13:37Yeah.
01:13:38You know, baby.
01:13:39I like for play, flight, the tunnel.
01:13:42Okay, Mr. Kaffner, need help?
01:13:44I give you a cafe?
01:13:45Yeah, cafe for now.
01:13:47I'll put Todd, some champagne.
01:13:49Oh.
01:13:50My beautiful flight attendant.
01:13:52I get the door for you.
01:13:53Okay, go.
01:13:53You go this way.
01:13:54Okay.
01:13:55And attachez votre ceintir.
01:13:57Ne voisz-vous risque d'être très perturbé.
01:13:59No way.
01:14:00My tray table is upright.
01:14:02I promise you.
01:14:03Okay?
01:14:06You go first.
01:14:07I'll see your room.
01:14:35Go see the toys.
01:14:36Wow.
01:14:38Woo.
01:14:38Woo.
01:14:40Woo, you think?
01:14:41You like?
01:14:42Like?
01:14:42Maria, look.
01:14:44Daddy, my friend.
01:14:45Woo.
01:14:46Woo.
01:14:48You should have your own.
01:14:49Watch.
01:14:50Watch, Maria.
01:14:51Come on, baby.
01:14:51This is a big Clayton's room.
01:14:56This is Jordan and Jack.
01:14:58Yeah, exactly.
01:15:00Long time ago.
01:15:02It's just because of Jack's room, you know?
01:15:04I found a surprise in the room.
01:15:07I found a photo of a family with her ex-wife.
01:15:16Okay.
01:15:19I check to the right and I see someone who says she's at home.
01:15:25Her ex-wife is still.
01:15:27And so, it starts to be too much for a person who doesn't exist anymore at home.
01:15:32Mark, he would have told them to remove them before I arrive.
01:15:35I don't have respect for me.
01:15:37They don't have to be there in my presence.
01:15:39I got this gift for you, too.
01:15:46This is good.
01:15:47Is that cool?
01:15:47You like?
01:15:48I know you like white hats.
01:15:50Which one do you want?
01:15:51You want the rosé?
01:15:52Wow, you shopped, baby.
01:15:55It's strange.
01:15:57Oh, my God.
01:15:57You have just the pizza and water.
01:16:01You never have a food at home.
01:16:05I know my house is kind of like bachelor pad.
01:16:08I've been just me for eight years.
01:16:11For me, I'm going to say I like the house.
01:16:13I don't like it.
01:16:14It's semi-stock.
01:16:16You know?
01:16:17Simple.
01:16:18Yeah, simple.
01:16:19Okay.
01:16:20She comprends.
01:16:21She comprends.
01:16:21We can change.
01:16:22We can paint.
01:16:23We can get new furniture.
01:16:24We can change things.
01:16:26We'll get the Parisian style in here in New Hampshire.
01:16:29So, I need to move in the city.
01:16:30Oh, all right.
01:16:32Give it some time.
01:16:35We go see the chamber.
01:16:36The love chamber.
01:16:38What is the place?
01:16:43Back here.
01:16:45Wow.
01:16:48The space is more space than the chamber in Paris.
01:16:52What is this?
01:16:56Oh, this is the space.
01:16:57I clear for you.
01:16:58Oh, for me?
01:16:59Yeah, look.
01:17:01Okay.
01:17:02Where is the place for my clothes?
01:17:06This is no big space.
01:17:08This is not just for my shoes.
01:17:11And where is the place for shower?
01:17:13In here.
01:17:14It's the bathroom.
01:17:14And maybe we add a tub.
01:17:16Right now it's just shower.
01:17:17And two sinks.
01:17:18This is not fancy.
01:17:19Now it's a bachelor.
01:17:21Vintage.
01:17:22Yeah.
01:17:23Vintage.
01:17:26Désolé.
01:17:27I'm not vintage.
01:17:28I changed it all.
01:17:29Your husband is vintage too.
01:17:31I'm vintage too.
01:17:32You're vintage, but you're in your mind.
01:17:34You're not vintage.
01:17:35Yeah, in the mind of my mom's mom.
01:17:36You're happy with your new house?
01:17:50Your new home?
01:17:51My baby.
01:17:53I don't know.
01:17:54I don't know.
01:17:55You tell me in New Hampshire, I don't have the young people.
01:17:58You haven't seen New Hampshire yet, so.
01:18:00It's too old, too old.
01:18:02And for Maria.
01:18:04But there are some kids here.
01:18:05They're our kids.
01:18:07And I think we meet, you know, we just open mind.
01:18:09We give a chance.
01:18:11There's a bus stop at the end of the runway for the kids.
01:18:13I don't have the problem for open mind.
01:18:15I stay with you for life.
01:18:17This is true.
01:18:19This I say for you.
01:18:19But you convinced me to move somewhere.
01:18:21No, I don't stay here.
01:18:23First day here.
01:18:24You tell me you're not staying.
01:18:28This was one of my biggest concerns.
01:18:31You know, I know Meena can be a little hard to please,
01:18:33but I also expected her to be a little bit excited and open
01:18:37and at least give this house in New Hampshire a try.
01:18:40You don't understand me.
01:18:42No, I don't understand.
01:18:44No, I see.
01:18:44So you stay here one year, two years, three years?
01:18:47Maybe six months.
01:18:49That's awesome.
01:18:50To try, not six months and we leave.
01:18:52Six months to try.
01:18:54I know before, Mark had told me,
01:18:58New Hampshire is this, this, this,
01:19:00but I never imagined it's this.
01:19:05You come to the United States, I'm going to make you happy.
01:19:08I'm not going to be in a house where I'm not happy.
01:19:11I'm not going to be able to evolve.
01:19:13Not for the kids.
01:19:15Try to give them six months.
01:19:17You, you, you're the boss for your work.
01:19:32I'm the boss in the house.
01:19:39Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:19:41Like seeing people singing and dancing like on the street,
01:19:46it just feels weird because if you do that in Iran,
01:19:50like they can arrest you.
01:19:53Watching Maddie walk around New Orleans
01:19:55is like when you bring a kid to Disneyland.
01:19:59Would you say these in your country?
01:20:01Never.
01:20:02Like nothing.
01:20:03Oh my gosh.
01:20:04I can totally fear the freedom here.
01:20:08Be gone for just a little bit, a couple weeks.
01:20:11A few days and we'll FaceTime you.
01:20:13How many days?
01:20:15Two hands worth.
01:20:16Two hands.
01:20:17We've been trying to let our children know
01:20:19that there is someone in our lives important.
01:20:21This trip, we want to take the next step
01:20:23in the relationship I propose to her.
01:20:25We want to bring her on the K-1 visa.
01:20:29Ah, gorgeous.
01:20:31She got to be here somewhere.
01:20:33I feel butterflies, my heart's beating real hard.
01:20:35Wait, that's not her, is it?
01:20:38Ah, let's go, let's go, let's go, let's go.
01:20:40Ah!
01:20:41So our flight has arrived at 1.03.
01:20:44Ah, just wait, it's going to come down now, man.
01:20:46It's exciting.
01:20:47This is crazy.
01:20:50Oh, wow.
01:20:51I can see the road.
01:20:55It's exciting to be here,
01:20:56but I think about what I had to sacrifice
01:20:59to come to America.
01:21:02It's really hard.
01:21:04It's going to be all right, then.
01:21:05This is day one.
01:21:06I want you going back already.
01:21:07All right, let's go.
01:21:11I feel guilty and bad about taking him away from you guys.
01:21:16I don't want to scare you or something,
01:21:19but he may come back.
01:21:21I am making a sacrifice
01:21:23to make my parents upset,
01:21:26to leave everything behind just for her.
01:21:30Oh.
01:21:33I hope she appreciates that.
01:21:35You okay?
01:21:37I am, babe.
01:21:37I can't wait to take you to see the family.
01:21:43You know, I want you to see Jordan
01:21:44and talk with her.
01:21:46Tell me,
01:21:46is she and me his enemies?
01:21:49No, no, no.
01:21:50You're not enemies.
01:21:50Her concern is just about,
01:21:53does dad really need to have more kids?
01:21:55Jordan is a hypocrite.
01:21:58Why you don't talk to me direct?
01:22:00Now I say,
01:22:02I say I'm a snake, you know?
01:22:03You understand me?
01:22:05You don't come in the bed, okay?
01:22:07Oh, f***.
01:22:25I say,
01:22:28I don't want you to see the children near the house river.
01:22:33You know,
01:22:34I'm a snake.
01:22:49I'll say.