Megin finally draws the truth out of Juan; Mahdi is shocked by Stevi's home decor; Mina meets Mark's community of retirees; Joan worries when Greg turns down a job; Alliya heads to her final interview; the throuple reunites in Mexico.
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:07Oh my gosh.
00:00:07Would you say these in your country?
00:00:09Never.
00:00:10Nothing.
00:00:12Watching Maddie walk around New Orleans is like a kid to Disneyland and they're like overstimulated.
00:00:18When does the flashing stuff start?
00:00:21It's like a different planet to me.
00:00:25Welcome to Miami.
00:00:27Miami!
00:00:27Juan has been used to traveling around the world, flirting for tips, and our relationship is not perfect.
00:00:35Nobody's is.
00:00:36And there's been times that have been really challenging for us.
00:00:39I'm just so nervous about the situation with the girl reaching out.
00:00:43A lady reached out to me and had said that they had hooked up.
00:00:48If he wants cheap, there's a will, there's a way.
00:00:50I still have questions I need answered and I will be getting those.
00:00:53So, my mom, she's really excited to meet you.
00:00:58She had asked, maybe you wanted to sleep in like a separate room.
00:01:03Staying in my mother-in-law's house, it's really hard.
00:01:08What do you think, mom?
00:01:09More beautiful in person?
00:01:10Nice and thin.
00:01:11Not for long!
00:01:12They're not in their own place and have to consider me here.
00:01:19I've always been the jealous, possessive person in the relationship.
00:01:23So, how far can I push it without me saying like, wait a minute, this is my husband?
00:01:28What if Ani could be a better partner to Matt than me?
00:01:33That's a risk that comes with being in a throuple.
00:01:38I can't wait to take you to see the family.
00:01:41It's important to me that you and Jordan get along.
00:01:44You're her stepmother.
00:01:45She and me is enemies.
00:01:48She say, my dad is stupid.
00:01:50This girl is coming just for the green card.
00:01:53Her concern is just about, does dad really need to have more kids?
00:01:56Maybe, I'm sorry.
00:01:58If there's a problem there, I want to know and I want to be sure who I'm marrying.
00:02:02I come for my new family.
00:02:05Why she took me the bull?
00:02:08Now I say, I say I'm a snake.
00:02:12You don't come in the bed, okay?
00:02:15Ah, f**k.
00:02:15F**k.
00:02:30Juan loves eggs that are not fully cooked for some reason.
00:02:35So, I'm doing my best at making them not fully cooked.
00:02:40He's probably going to be thrilled about that.
00:02:42Let's go surprise him and see if I can have some juice.
00:02:58So, it's our first morning in Torrenton.
00:03:01No surprise, we did not have much privacy last night.
00:03:05You know, I got to get the boys to sleep.
00:03:07And, of course, David sleeps in bed with us.
00:03:10So, that doesn't allow much time to be intimate.
00:03:14Rise and shine.
00:03:17Good morning.
00:03:19Wakey, wakey.
00:03:21Breakfast with eggs that are a little bit soggy.
00:03:25Oh, this sounds like the perfect morning.
00:03:29It's time to get ready.
00:03:31There you go.
00:03:32Excellent banana.
00:03:33Yeah.
00:03:34Sorry.
00:03:35Cool.
00:03:36No, that's good.
00:03:37How many kids are good?
00:03:39The kids are good.
00:03:41They're tired because of our late night.
00:03:45Well, thank you for letting me sleep in a little.
00:03:47Yeah.
00:03:49I guess I got to get ready in a while.
00:03:50Well, I thought because it's just you and Mimi, you can snuggle for a little bit and then we'll get ready.
00:03:56So, back in bed?
00:04:01Okay.
00:04:01I don't know how to start.
00:04:02You don't know how to start.
00:04:04I know how to start.
00:04:05Woo-hoo!
00:04:06Finally.
00:04:07Mm-hmm.
00:04:08Can I get a pillow?
00:04:09After two nights.
00:04:10How did you end up with all four pillows?
00:04:12You don't need no pillow, man.
00:04:13I promise that.
00:04:13I do need a pillow because I'm going to snuggle you.
00:04:18Mm-hmm.
00:04:20This is how it feels.
00:04:21I forgot this for you.
00:04:23This is better than breakfast.
00:04:27So, I'm realizing sex and life is going to be different now.
00:04:31It's not like, it's not the same like when she goes on a cruise ship and we stay in the room.
00:04:36But today, we got some privacy, so you need to take advantage.
00:04:39And we did that.
00:04:41I don't know if you can see my face, but I'm feeling so happy.
00:04:43I'm feeling free.
00:04:44I'm oof.
00:04:51Free?
00:04:52Yes.
00:04:54You ready to go see my town?
00:04:56It's actually pretty nice outside.
00:04:57I know.
00:04:57It's hot.
00:04:58We might get hot in our sweaters.
00:04:59Where's the cold weather at?
00:05:01It's coming.
00:05:02So, last night we got home pretty late, and so it was really hard to see things.
00:05:06So, today I really want to take Juan on like a tour of where I grew up.
00:05:10Woo-hoo!
00:05:10I'm hoping this tour will just be able to get him a little bit excited about where we're
00:05:15going to live.
00:05:18This is my parents' house.
00:05:20Right here.
00:05:21This big one.
00:05:22So, this is the house I grew up in.
00:05:24That's a huge house.
00:05:26It reminds me of the Prince of Baylor and everything.
00:05:28This is the main street.
00:05:36Wow.
00:05:39Okay, if this is the main street, how many restaurants do you have here?
00:05:42Six restaurants.
00:05:43Six restaurants.
00:05:44Three Mexican, one Chinese restaurant, and two American restaurants.
00:05:49Well, I don't think those are too many.
00:05:53When I get off the cruise ship on the islands, I'm used to having a lot of restaurants, a
00:05:58lot of options, where to go to eat.
00:06:01I guess I'm going to get tired of eating the same thing, so I better start cooking, I guess.
00:06:06I'm so excited to walk with you down Main Street.
00:06:11There's the Chinese restaurant that's actually open.
00:06:15Well, that's the reason I'm having a restaurant.
00:06:20Here's the gym.
00:06:21You want a peek at the gym?
00:06:22Oh, this is the gym.
00:06:23You want a peek in it?
00:06:24You're going to like going to the gym?
00:06:26Well, it's actually one person.
00:06:28Maybe I'll get you to, like, board games.
00:06:32So I'm coming from a place where there is energy to a small town, slow, like a retirement
00:06:42home.
00:06:43So you guys play bingo here?
00:06:44There is some bingo in town.
00:06:45I would love to go to bingo.
00:06:47Oh.
00:06:48Tarleton, one of the best places for living.
00:06:52There is one movie theater.
00:06:54They are all movies.
00:06:55Dracula, The Grinch.
00:06:56But what's better than a classic movie?
00:07:00There's a lot of cows.
00:07:01If you like cows, you can go visit the farmers.
00:07:05Oh, oh, oh.
00:07:05I can smell.
00:07:07You smell something.
00:07:07How poop?
00:07:09I don't even smell it.
00:07:11Come to Tarleton, Wyoming.
00:07:13I invite you guys.
00:07:15You're more than welcome.
00:07:18Well, it's very different from Colombia, definitely.
00:07:21And what about, like, the cruise?
00:07:23Like, what do you think is going to be the most different from the cruise?
00:07:27All about the cruise is drinks and bars and food and, you know, chops.
00:07:32You know, one thing I think that's similar is, like, the cruise, you have, like, a thousand
00:07:37workers.
00:07:37So you, like, live in a small community already.
00:07:41You have one bar.
00:07:42We have more bars here than you do on the ship.
00:07:44Well, I think the difference about this, I know this is a small community.
00:07:49The cruise is a small community, too.
00:07:51But, you know, people go and comes and some people go home and then other comes from vacation.
00:07:57And then you start seeing new people all the time.
00:07:59But I don't know everyone in my town.
00:08:01I mean, I'm just saying that's the difference.
00:08:02I don't know all 6,000 people.
00:08:04I know, like, 500 people.
00:08:08The cruise ship and the town is a whole different thing.
00:08:11It's not the same life.
00:08:12I think she's wrong and she just don't want to accept it.
00:08:15I haven't seen one person that I've known as we've been walking down.
00:08:20So what's the difference?
00:08:22No difference.
00:08:25My life is totally changing.
00:08:27And this is not helping at all.
00:08:30I think it's better if she just helps me get used to this new life than rather telling me,
00:08:37you're wrong and this is the same thing and it's the same.
00:08:40It is not the same thing.
00:08:42And we all know that besides her, I guess.
00:08:45It's not even winter yet.
00:08:47I'm cold.
00:09:08What are you doing?
00:09:09I'm just looking at it.
00:09:11Can we get you?
00:09:12It's all right.
00:09:15How did you sleep?
00:09:21I bet it's very comfortable.
00:09:22I know.
00:09:22I like it.
00:09:23It's a new mattress.
00:09:24I just bought this.
00:09:25In anticipation of your arrival.
00:09:27It's Joan's first morning in America.
00:09:28I'm feeling great.
00:09:29I can't believe that I was really honestly able to just wake up next to her.
00:09:33It's the best feeling I've ever had, truly.
00:09:35Like, it's the best feeling ever that I've ever, ever had.
00:09:40You missed it.
00:09:41Oh, my God.
00:09:42I missed you like crazy.
00:09:43Can't wait to squeeze that booty.
00:09:45What, is my mom mowing the lawn?
00:09:57Oh, yeah.
00:09:59Hey, Mom.
00:10:03Hi, Greg.
00:10:05You still sleeping?
00:10:07We're waking up.
00:10:08Oh, it was a big day yesterday.
00:10:14So when the lights went out last night, I gave her a kiss on the lips.
00:10:17We hugged a little bit, and then she was just, she passed, like, almost out immediately.
00:10:22Bringing that conversation up about separate rooms, I think Joan felt a little blindsided about that.
00:10:26So meeting my mom, it made her definitely a little bit nervous about it, and there was no rush for any intimacy to happen.
00:10:33My mom's got some friends down in Florida.
00:10:34I think maybe she'll have to take a little bit of a vacation.
00:10:37Even if it's for a few days, it would help out a lot around here, you know?
00:10:43As far as our privacy is concerned, I'm a little bit scared, so.
00:10:48You know, she's just worried about respecting her will and her house.
00:10:53I feel like I have to be perfect in everything.
00:10:56You are perfect, baby.
00:10:59Getting our own house will make me feel better.
00:11:03Oh, no, baby, it's definitely on top priority, for sure, you know?
00:11:07Mm-hmm.
00:11:08But renting a place here is not like in Uganda, you know, where it costs $300, $400 a month.
00:11:13Here it's quadruple that.
00:11:16It's just the best option we have at this moment.
00:11:19She obviously wants her own place.
00:11:21She wants a place that we can have privacy for ourselves and just be ourselves together.
00:11:25But this is what we have to deal with for now, and we're going to get through it.
00:11:31Oh, wow.
00:11:32I knew I smelled something.
00:11:33Oh, yeah.
00:11:34And to be honest with you, if I did move out, I would definitely miss my mother a lot.
00:11:38You know, it would be crazy, but that's okay.
00:11:40Babe, breakfast will be ready in, like, five minutes.
00:11:44Where is she, by the way?
00:11:46She is taking a shower.
00:11:48Again?
00:11:50Last night she took a shower.
00:11:52I know.
00:11:52She takes a lot of showers.
00:11:54Why?
00:11:55I don't know.
00:11:56She likes to be clean.
00:11:57There goes my water bill.
00:11:58I'll have to put a little timer on there, you know?
00:12:02The thing is, in Uganda, they don't necessarily always have hot water, so she'll take, like,
00:12:05a cool shower.
00:12:06She can always jump in the pool, too, if she wants to.
00:12:09Yeah.
00:12:11Listen, when you have your own house and you start paying your bills, you'll see how conscious
00:12:15you become of everything, you know?
00:12:18You're right.
00:12:19You're absolutely right.
00:12:20Okay?
00:12:20You're right.
00:12:21I'm not upset.
00:12:23I'm not mad.
00:12:23Those look good, Greg.
00:12:25You're going to go outside, Greg?
00:12:26Yeah.
00:12:27Greg doesn't help out, but he keeps a lot of food coming into this house.
00:12:33Oh, can you grab a spoon, too, please?
00:12:34Spoon?
00:12:36But pay rent, per se, he doesn't.
00:12:39Never really paid rent here.
00:12:42Oh, good morning.
00:12:44Good morning.
00:12:45I made you some eggs.
00:12:47Oh, this looks good.
00:12:48Hopefully it's not too cold now.
00:12:50You know, it looks good.
00:12:51Lovely.
00:12:52Like you were going to work, right?
00:12:54You're dressed.
00:12:54Yes.
00:12:55But you're not going today.
00:12:57Is that too much?
00:12:58It's fine.
00:12:59This looks good.
00:13:00Oh.
00:13:02Was she climbing on you?
00:13:03Yeah.
00:13:04Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:13:04Do you like being around the dogs?
00:13:09No, I'm not used to dogs.
00:13:11Oh, really?
00:13:12Yeah.
00:13:13Oh.
00:13:13They run wild there?
00:13:15Is that the thing?
00:13:15It's not very common.
00:13:19Oh.
00:13:20Gregory says you'd like to take a lot of showers.
00:13:26Yeah.
00:13:27How many a day?
00:13:32Something like three.
00:13:34Really?
00:13:36Yeah.
00:13:37Are they long showers?
00:13:39I'm only saying that because everything went sky high here.
00:13:43You know.
00:13:45We're not long showers.
00:13:46Are they hot, hot showers?
00:13:47How is it called?
00:13:48Mouth?
00:13:49Medium?
00:13:49Only I'm saying because I noticed with my electric bill, how it jumped.
00:13:54You know, I could see it going up again.
00:13:57So you want us to conserve it?
00:13:58Yeah, no.
00:13:58If she takes, like, not to, doesn't abuse and, you know, not take 10 minutes showers, you know.
00:14:05In my country, since it's always hot, in the morning, I need to freshen up because I'm
00:14:11starting that day.
00:14:12But also in the evening, I need to sleep fresh.
00:14:15I don't know how it works here in America.
00:14:17Is it because people have cars?
00:14:19That's why they don't need to take two showers a day.
00:14:21But this isn't me.
00:14:23I have to take two showers.
00:14:26Anything that you're expecting from us, right, we should at least get some of it out of the
00:14:31way now and just talk about things.
00:14:32Showers, leaving the door open.
00:14:35Well, yeah, just as far as the hot water.
00:14:38You know, a bill comes in every month for the hot water.
00:14:40I thought it was free.
00:14:43Kind of like when you throw your laundry down the basement and all of a sudden it just comes
00:14:46back clean and folded, right?
00:14:48No, there's a hot water bill, there's electric bills.
00:14:51Wow.
00:14:51And if you could just help Gregory keep his room tidy and...
00:14:57I don't want anybody to feel uncomfortable in the house.
00:15:01I mean, I know you two want to be together and I wish you were able to afford your own
00:15:04place because it's always nice starting out.
00:15:08Yeah, I can't wait for that.
00:15:10In Uganda, I'm independent.
00:15:13I'm a director of a non-profit organization.
00:15:16I love Greg so much, but I'm not here to look after him.
00:15:19His room is, for now, the work, right?
00:15:26Yeah.
00:15:27For now?
00:15:28For now.
00:15:29Yeah.
00:15:31Mrs. Lucille does everything for Greg.
00:15:34But if I'm going to be his wife, I feel like Greg needs to grow up.
00:15:38I had to sacrifice a lot to come and be with my fiancée.
00:15:41So, I want him to man up and get out of his mother's house.
00:15:50Hello.
00:15:52Why do you have boobs?
00:15:55I see boobs everywhere.
00:15:57Like, boobs, boobs, boobs.
00:16:00I swear I didn't know you were, like, doing this a lot.
00:16:02If a civilian tells me that she's, like, bisexual, honestly, I think I'm catfished.
00:16:10I first met Douglas online.
00:16:12Happiness ensued.
00:16:14But now everything's a different playing field.
00:16:17Aaliyah was born.
00:16:19I just need to see what we both need to have in order for this relationship to work.
00:16:26Like, we have 90 days to figure it all out, so don't get off the pot.
00:16:44Like, how could you do this to me when I've done so much for you?
00:16:50Like, how?
00:16:51To sit there waiting, patiently waiting at 104 degree temperature outside.
00:17:02Every minute felt like an hour.
00:17:05Until there was no patience to wait anymore.
00:17:13I understand how are you feeling.
00:17:17And I don't know.
00:17:19I think I was, like, frozen inside.
00:17:22And I was just feeling lost.
00:17:25I don't know what was happening.
00:17:28Not having it.
00:17:31Everything just became, like, everything was falling apart.
00:17:38I'm here.
00:17:39I should be happy.
00:17:41I should be living my fairytale.
00:17:44I'm in a country.
00:17:45I don't have anyone here.
00:17:49I just dreamt about all this different.
00:17:54So everything's very uncertain.
00:17:56I should be no single I'm out.
00:18:05I don't know what to say.
00:18:10I know what to say.
00:18:12I know what to say.
00:18:13I know what to say.
00:18:14Oh, it's amazing.
00:18:17You're stunning.
00:18:21You look beautiful.
00:18:28My name is Ali, I'm 25 years old,
00:18:30and I live in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.
00:18:33I'm feeling amazing.
00:18:45When I was a little kid growing up,
00:18:47I always used it to look to the other girls,
00:18:50asking myself why I'm not like them.
00:18:54Because I always felt that I was a woman.
00:18:57So what I realize now is that I am trans woman.
00:19:02I waited all my life to be here at this moment.
00:19:08It's like a dream that I always had.
00:19:12When I was a teenager,
00:19:14I was expressing myself as a gay boy,
00:19:16but that was not enough to me
00:19:18because that don't represent the person that I am inside.
00:19:21So I just keep like looking more feminine
00:19:24and adding like dress, high heels, hair, nails.
00:19:28And then to bring all these pieces together,
00:19:30I gave me a name, an Italian.
00:19:36You two are going to live here in Rio?
00:19:38Sean lives in Hollywood.
00:19:40So I'm moving to California to live with him.
00:19:43News, I got good news.
00:19:46It is the best news in the world to me.
00:19:50My name is Sean. I'm 62 years old and I live in West Hollywood.
00:19:56This is my 1927 West Hollywood Hills home
00:20:02that was allegedly built by Charlie Chaplin.
00:20:06Because the best news in the world is you.
00:20:14This is my very first antique purchase that I used as my salon reception desk
00:20:22when I owned a hair salon.
00:20:24I started doing hair and makeup since 1996.
00:20:26So I've done everything.
00:20:28Movies and TV
00:20:30and major shows like Ugly Betty, Desperate Housewives,
00:20:35films like Men in Black, Scream.
00:20:38And I've done it for 35 years.
00:20:40This I call my, you know, Barbara Velia, Hollywood Velia room.
00:20:44I have all sorts of what Aaliyah probably thinks is tchotchkes.
00:20:48But for me, they're like little pieces of art.
00:20:52In this cabinet, I don't even know if I can...
00:20:54Oh, I can.
00:20:55This is my favorite, Barbara Streisand dress.
00:20:58This dress was in a movie called
00:21:00On A Clear Day You Can See Forever.
00:21:02I love the auctions.
00:21:04My wallet probably doesn't love the auctions.
00:21:07My kids are probably thinking I'm crazy,
00:21:10but I think they're going to love the auctions when I drop dead
00:21:12and they'll be like, oh, that sold for over a million dollars?
00:21:14Great.
00:21:15Thank God he was such a freak.
00:21:17I met my first wife in beauty school
00:21:20and she had like the best hair,
00:21:22which of course for being a hairdresser,
00:21:24you better have good hair.
00:21:25And I knew we would have like kids
00:21:27and jump into that right away.
00:21:29Overall, that relationship was pretty good.
00:21:34I mean, we lasted 14 years.
00:21:37We raised three beautiful kids
00:21:39and then we went our separate ways
00:21:42and we're still friends.
00:21:44This is where all the action happens.
00:21:48And yet I have an old man bed
00:21:50because I decided this last year
00:21:51to get an adjustable bed
00:21:52so I could like watch TV sitting up
00:21:54and be lazy.
00:21:55So there's that.
00:21:56Since my divorce,
00:21:58I have been identifying as gay.
00:22:02And that's how I met Douglas.
00:22:07I first met Douglas online through a dating site in 2020
00:22:11during the pandemic.
00:22:13I loved his curly hair and his brown smooth skin
00:22:17and his bubble butt and his amazing legs.
00:22:20And I mean, there wasn't much that I didn't like.
00:22:24After the pandemic was over,
00:22:27we would go traveling to places that a Brazilian
00:22:32to travel to without a special visa.
00:22:34During our trip to Spain was gay pride.
00:22:38So I thought it would be nice to ask him
00:22:41if he wanted to dress up and do anything,
00:22:43you know, gay and festive.
00:22:45He said, oh, I've never done that before.
00:22:47So I said, well, let's go wig shopping.
00:22:49Oh, la la!
00:22:51He then bought an outfit
00:22:52and then all of a sudden happiness ensued.
00:22:55He got asked to go on a float
00:22:58going down the streets of Spain
00:23:00with people hooting and hollering.
00:23:02And so Aaliyah was born.
00:23:05Aaliyah and I applied.
00:23:08Well, Douglas and I have applied for the K-1 visa.
00:23:12But now everything's a different playing field.
00:23:15There is no more Douglas.
00:23:18Dun, dun, dun, dun.
00:23:24This is an art adventure book that I made for Aaliyah.
00:23:31Kind of feel like maybe it's a bit of therapy for me.
00:23:35It's, you know, great moments of times with me and Aaliyah
00:23:41because Aaliyah's a fun time.
00:23:44I mourned the loss of the first chapter.
00:23:48And now it's this metamorphosis that's happened.
00:23:53So I want to focus my energy on what is and not what was.
00:24:00So I just need to see what we both need to have in order for this relationship to work.
00:24:09The reality of the whole thing is that I met somebody.
00:24:12I fell in love with somebody.
00:24:13I was ready to marry somebody.
00:24:15I had all my boxes checked and that person died.
00:24:20But now we have 90 days to figure it all out.
00:24:23So get off the pot, as they say.
00:24:28So we're home.
00:24:29Is it weird?
00:24:30I've looked at this house in Google Map a lot.
00:24:33In Google Map a lot.
00:24:34In Google Map it?
00:24:35Yeah.
00:24:36It's cute.
00:24:38It's cute.
00:24:39It has a hi sign on the door.
00:24:42Say hi.
00:24:44It's all right.
00:24:45It's all right.
00:24:46It's all right.
00:24:47Go ahead.
00:24:48That's all right.
00:24:49How cool?
00:24:50You're right.
00:24:51What the heck?
00:24:52So, we're right.
00:24:53We're right.
00:24:54Right.
00:24:55Right.
00:24:56We're right.
00:24:57You're so right.
00:24:58You can do that.
00:24:59Yeah.
00:25:00Yay.
00:25:01Yay.
00:25:02Yay.
00:25:03at Real Southern Light?
00:25:04We need something else, like...
00:25:05What?
00:25:06Get out.
00:25:07Please leave.
00:25:11I know you need your backpack, right?
00:25:12Yeah.
00:25:13And I'll get your little roll-in bag and your backpack.
00:25:16I already know that Hattiesburg is not going to be
00:25:18what Matty expects.
00:25:20He's kind of like a city boy,
00:25:22but I'm super excited about having him at my house.
00:25:26And I'm really hoping that Matty will feel at home here.
00:25:30It feels weird.
00:25:36Should I take off my shoes?
00:25:38If you want to.
00:25:39It's your house.
00:25:40You can do what you want.
00:25:41I've never seen this part of the house, I guess.
00:25:45You have.
00:25:46Oh.
00:25:47Yeah.
00:25:48Just probably a little...
00:25:49Why do you have boobs everywhere?
00:25:54I see boobs everywhere.
00:25:56Like, boobs, boobs, boobs, boobs.
00:25:59Like, too many.
00:26:00Like, I don't know.
00:26:01Why?
00:26:02Just from our paintings.
00:26:05Oh.
00:26:06So I told you I'd do, like, nude portraits.
00:26:08Want to go here?
00:26:10Yeah.
00:26:11Coming from a country that you might be able to get arrested
00:26:15if you have a naked girl picture,
00:26:18it's really hard to see that your house is full of boob pictures.
00:26:27This is our little small kitchen.
00:26:29Here's the bathroom.
00:26:33It's not that bad, right?
00:26:34Yeah.
00:26:35It has rugs three feet.
00:26:37And then this is our room that you've seen.
00:26:43And then this is the desk that you picked out.
00:26:46Oh, I love it.
00:26:47What do you think about that?
00:26:49Oh.
00:26:51Oh, my God.
00:26:52Oh, that's great.
00:26:56Oh, she's here.
00:26:58Yeah.
00:27:00Just let her come to you, okay?
00:27:02Just let her smell you.
00:27:03This is the first time I'm touching a cat, I swear.
00:27:06Yeah.
00:27:07Yeah.
00:27:08Come in here, Chi Chi.
00:27:09Don't roll over her.
00:27:10You promise it's clean?
00:27:11Yes.
00:27:13Seriously?
00:27:14She's good.
00:27:16Oh.
00:27:17I'm just gonna get closer.
00:27:20So she can see you.
00:27:23What do you think?
00:27:24Can I be honest?
00:27:26Yeah.
00:27:27I have to wash my hands.
00:27:31Cats in Iran live outside of the house.
00:27:34I'm sorry, but this is the very first time touching a cat.
00:27:38My mom has always told me that if you touch them, you'll get sick.
00:27:43And she has got sick when she was pregnant with me.
00:27:47And it was just because a cat was just coming to their house.
00:27:52It doesn't feel clean to me.
00:27:53Living with them is something else.
00:27:57Like, I don't think I can do it.
00:27:59I don't think I can touch them.
00:28:02And it's just really weird.
00:28:05You're gonna change?
00:28:07Oh, can you take your shirt off for a bit?
00:28:10Mm-hmm.
00:28:11Oh, is that me?
00:28:13Does that look like you?
00:28:14Who's up beside me?
00:28:15Go get it!
00:28:16Oh, my God.
00:28:17There's two.
00:28:19It's me.
00:28:20I didn't know you're...
00:28:21I swear I didn't know you were, like, doing this a lot.
00:28:22Like, I've seen, like, ten boobs since I got in the house.
00:28:25Oh, there's boobs right there, too.
00:28:26Beside you.
00:28:28Where?
00:28:29Those?
00:28:30Yes.
00:28:31There are so many other things that she can paint, and I'm just trying hard to just, like, see the artistic thing in it, but I don't see anything artistic in it. Like, just, like, it just doesn't make sense to me.
00:28:56Honestly, I've been always wondering if Stevie is into women.
00:29:06Oh, gosh.
00:29:07Nice.
00:29:08Stevie has always told me that she doesn't like men. She doesn't like to paint them. She doesn't want to, like, be close to men. So it's been always a question, but now I think I'm questioning it more.
00:29:22If Stevie tells me that she's bisexual or something like that, honestly, I think I'm catfished. She's gonna lose my trust.
00:29:32Where's JJ?
00:29:33Hey, please.
00:29:35I love you.
00:29:36I love you more.
00:29:41She got to be here somewhere.
00:29:43I want to find them now. I want to see them.
00:29:50Let's go, let's go, let's go, let's go, let's go.
00:29:52Let's go, let's go, let's go.
00:29:54It's so hard already to find your person, let alone find the third person, so there's so much to lose.
00:30:02Oh my gosh, it's almost time. We're getting so close.
00:30:20You ready?
00:30:21Yes.
00:30:22All right, you're ready to do this?
00:30:23Yep.
00:30:24Come, come.
00:30:25Let's go find her.
00:30:27We're at the Day of the Death Festival to meet up with Ani. We haven't seen her for six weeks now, and that's just too long. We can't wait to see her.
00:30:49Look, it's so pretty. That's so cool.
00:30:53It's very fun, the way that we're meeting today, you know, it's mysterious. With all the people dressed up, it seems like somehow they're dressed up for us.
00:31:00They're here to make this taste fun.
00:31:05Is she gonna find us? Are we gonna find her first?
00:31:08Hopefully this is our last trip. We want her to come to America. We want to start the K-1 visa.
00:31:15Yeah, I'd say, you know, enjoy this night. It's special.
00:31:20Let's find her first. Let's accomplish that mission.
00:31:25You've got to be here somewhere.
00:31:31Let's get away.
00:31:32Let's get away.
00:31:33I want to find them now. I want to see them.
00:31:51I want to find them now I want to see them
00:32:00Like she's gonna pop out anywhere
00:32:09Run off the edge no safety net places. I've never been
00:32:16Sink any step into the
00:32:21Oh
00:32:51Aww
00:32:53Aww
00:32:55Let's take off these masks
00:32:57Let me see you
00:32:58There you go
00:32:59Aww look at these beautiful masks ladies
00:33:02I know I know my look is Mexican
00:33:06You look so beautiful
00:33:09I am Annie he's my boyfriend and she's my girlfriend too
00:33:15Three hearts
00:33:17Oh yes
00:33:20I miss a lot all the time
00:33:22She always says I miss you
00:33:23I miss you
00:33:24I miss you
00:33:26I miss you
00:33:27I miss you
00:33:28I miss you
00:33:29I miss you
00:33:32We don't really get to see each other that much because of our families and jobs
00:33:36But when we hug and kiss if filming together again like it never stopped
00:33:41Right it always seems to pick right back up where we left it off
00:33:45Do you like?
00:33:47Um
00:33:48The festival?
00:33:49Yeah
00:33:50It's very different than your country you know
00:33:52Oh yeah yeah we don't have this day of the dead
00:33:55Yeah we have Halloween but it's not the same
00:33:57Yeah yeah yeah
00:33:59Can we get a picture of you?
00:34:01Gracias
00:34:02Thank you
00:34:05Thank you
00:34:06Gracias
00:34:07We look so pretty
00:34:08Thank you
00:34:09I need to get me one of those costumes
00:34:12Yeah what are you guys doing?
00:34:14Uh we are here to spend some time with our girlfriend
00:34:19Tu eres una odia?
00:34:20Si, de los dos
00:34:21Yes
00:34:26Okay
00:34:27All the time
00:34:28All the time people look at us as an anthropo but you know what?
00:34:31We love it, we enjoy it
00:34:32We like look them back
00:34:34She like it, the people look at us
00:34:38You know you can have another skeleton
00:34:40Oh yeah
00:34:43Not this skeleton
00:34:47People can't just envision anything romantic with number three
00:34:51It's very sexualized
00:34:53But we're super excited about one day creating a big blended family with Ani
00:34:58How is Sara and Laila?
00:35:01I cried today
00:35:02They were sad to leave
00:35:03They were sad to leave
00:35:04I cried and cried and cried
00:35:05I just felt so terrible
00:35:09Being in Athrako is so rewarding but it's three times more complicated than a normal relationship
00:35:18We don't like the long distance, it's hard on us and Ani and it's hard on our children
00:35:24So let's go back to the hotel
00:35:27Yes
00:35:28Let's go
00:35:29You're constantly choosing between your kids and the person that you love and you just want to stop choosing
00:35:38Yeah and it's not just a decision for Ani, you know, she's got family that's going to be integrating with us so she's making a decision for multiple people
00:35:46Big decision
00:35:47Big decision
00:35:48Yeah
00:35:54I am excited because I want to show you my culture, my, my, my war, my family, all of it about me
00:36:03We can already envision you in our life and we just want to start living it
00:36:08Hey, hey, hey, spiffy, spiffy
00:36:12Whoa
00:36:14Oh, looks so good, oh champagne
00:36:17Oh my god
00:36:18Oh my god
00:36:28Oh, okay
00:36:30I got you something
00:36:31Oh
00:36:33Yummy
00:36:34You know, I love red, it's my favorite color
00:36:36There you go
00:36:37I feel like this
00:36:38Mm-hmm
00:36:39She's the first woman we ever had a serious relationship with and she's becoming family
00:36:50After fitting so well together so quickly, I just think that that would be hard to replace
00:36:56It's so hard already to find your person, let alone find the third person, so there's so much to lose
00:37:04No, are you gonna go in the middle?
00:37:07Okay, I don't know, it's hard to stitch, I don't know what to do
00:37:10Oh, I get it
00:37:12Oh
00:37:14Oh, it feels good to be back in bed with y'all
00:37:16Oh my gosh, it's warm
00:37:17Yes
00:37:19For me, I need one more baby
00:37:23Mark told me, he need an authorization to Jordan
00:37:28Jordan and Mark have been close, he has to keep her happy
00:37:31C'est mon corps, c'est mes envies
00:37:36It's my decision, not Jordan's decision
00:37:39It's absurd
00:37:43I wanna go down moving flames
00:37:46I wanna go down with you babe
00:37:49I walk through the fire and I feel no pain
00:37:55I wanna go, I wanna go
00:37:58I wanna go down with you babe
00:38:02Hey baby, you awake?
00:38:04I made you a cappuccino?
00:38:08I'm so pissed at Mark for my conversation for the last night
00:38:13Last night
00:38:14I didn't feel the support of Mark
00:38:17I felt the pain
00:38:18I felt the pain
00:38:19I felt the pain
00:38:21Come over and try the cappuccino
00:38:23It's good
00:38:25Taste it
00:38:29Sorry
00:38:30Okay?
00:38:32No
00:38:33I lose my country
00:38:34I come here
00:38:35Everybody, your family hates me
00:38:37Not my whole family hates you and Jordan doesn't hate you either
00:38:41I think if we get time to spend with her then everything will be fine
00:38:47I promise
00:38:48This is for you, not for me
00:38:51I'm just trying to make things better
00:38:53Maybe today I invite some more people over from the neighborhood
00:38:57They wanna meet you
00:38:58You just give it a chance
00:39:00Okay, I give chance
00:39:02I try
00:39:03You try?
00:39:04Yeah
00:39:05Thank you
00:39:06For today
00:39:07The cappuccino is good?
00:39:08Mm-mm
00:39:09It's not good?
00:39:10It's not like Paris?
00:39:11No
00:39:14Okay, you make next time
00:39:15Yeah
00:39:16Hey, baby
00:39:42Hey, brother
00:39:43Hey, guys
00:39:44Hey, hey
00:39:45Hey, hey
00:39:46Look at this little girl
00:39:47Aww
00:39:48You haven't seen a little one running around like this here, have you?
00:39:51No
00:39:52I can't believe how big she is
00:39:53Yeah, well
00:39:54Oh, thank you
00:39:55Look, look at the flags
00:39:56Thank you
00:39:57Ah, I like it
00:39:58This is Pat
00:39:59Welcome to America
00:40:00There you go
00:40:01With the Spanish accent
00:40:02This is Nick
00:40:03How you doing?
00:40:04I'm good
00:40:05Ah, thank you so much
00:40:06Good to see you, brother
00:40:07Good to see you, brother
00:40:08Good to see you, Bob
00:40:09How you been?
00:40:10Thank you
00:40:11Congratulations
00:40:12Thank you, sir
00:40:13Nice to see you
00:40:14Hi
00:40:15How you doing?
00:40:16Good to see you, meet Mina
00:40:17How are you?
00:40:18I'm fine
00:40:19So, I haven't met someone who has less than 50 or 60 years here
00:40:25And Mark is the biggest
00:40:28Maria, is it Bob?
00:40:30Hello?
00:40:31Another pilot
00:40:32You are in the woods
00:40:45I always said when I married Bob
00:40:47Yeah
00:40:48He's a pilot
00:40:49And he loved it here
00:40:50And he was in heaven
00:40:51And I was in the woods
00:40:52It's too calm
00:40:53It's too calm
00:40:54I need to walk outside
00:40:56And the problem is I have time
00:40:57I take a stroller
00:40:58Yeah
00:40:59I go walk
00:41:00And now here
00:41:01No place for a stroller
00:41:03Oh yes
00:41:04Wait, I have a stroller for my dogs
00:41:06I'll have to bring it over
00:41:07You can put her in the stroller
00:41:08And put my dogs in the stroller
00:41:10Together
00:41:11And we'll walk together
00:41:12And you'll like it
00:41:13You'll love it
00:41:14You get other interests
00:41:16You're gonna have a garden
00:41:17You have a little girl
00:41:18Yeah
00:41:19You need a puppy
00:41:20I mean, you'll be very busy
00:41:22Yeah
00:41:23And there are other ladies in the neighborhood
00:41:24That like to cook
00:41:25They like to crochet and knit
00:41:27Oh no, no, no
00:41:28And I like a martini
00:41:30Ah, this I like
00:41:31This I like
00:41:32This I like
00:41:52I never believed it
00:41:53Two years you kept saying
00:41:54She's coming
00:41:55She's coming
00:41:56He's real
00:41:57He's here
00:41:58He is real
00:41:59I mean, I thought you were just
00:42:00You literally didn't believe it
00:42:01No, I didn't
00:42:02Come on
00:42:03So, you're here
00:42:04And you're with a two-year-old
00:42:05Yeah
00:42:06And Mark is gonna travel
00:42:07Yeah
00:42:08And you're gonna have to make a life here
00:42:10Well, I think I
00:42:11For me
00:42:12I need one more baby
00:42:14Mm-hmm
00:42:17But Mark tell me
00:42:18He need an authorization to Jordan
00:42:21Jordan and Mark have been a unit
00:42:24They've been close
00:42:25He has to keep her happy
00:42:27He has to keep her happy
00:42:28It's my decision
00:42:29Not Jordan's decision
00:42:30Right
00:42:31The thing is
00:42:34In dealing with Mark
00:42:36Who's a people pleaser
00:42:37Yeah
00:42:38He wants everybody happy
00:42:39And in the world
00:42:40Somebody wins
00:42:41And somebody loses
00:42:42Yeah
00:42:43If he makes you happy
00:42:45His daughter loses
00:42:46If he says
00:42:47We're having no more babies
00:42:48Let's make this work
00:42:49You lose
00:42:50He'll lose
00:43:03Mark wants everybody to win
00:43:05And only one person wins
00:43:07Maybe I made a mistake
00:43:09To come in here
00:43:10To live with Mark
00:43:11In America
00:43:12I don't know
00:43:13I don't know
00:43:14I don't know
00:43:15I don't know
00:43:16To survive
00:43:17When I started the process of the visa
00:43:26Everything was like Douglas and Sean
00:43:29I was wondering if I should go as a boy to the embassy
00:43:35I can't imagine how painful it can be to have to pretend for the sake of others
00:43:40Yeah
00:43:41To be another person
00:43:42Come on, big dog
00:43:55Come on, big dog
00:44:00Ooh, yeah
00:44:01You want that?
00:44:09You ready to build your crate, huh?
00:44:11You gonna help me?
00:44:12Alright, let's get it
00:44:15Even though Aaliyah hasn't been technically approved for her visa yet
00:44:19I'm setting up the crate today for our newest family member
00:44:26This is Maxwell Smart
00:44:29Maxwell for short
00:44:31I'm dog obsessed
00:44:33And Aaliyah's never had any pets other than a turtle
00:44:37Which she would like me to buy her a turtle
00:44:39Which I'm fine about
00:44:40But they're not so much fun to play with
00:44:43I guess I should have been crate training him all along
00:44:45But I've been doing the thing that I swore I'd never do
00:44:47Which is let the dog sleep in the bed
00:44:49And he's been snuggling up to me every night on the DL
00:44:53And I know when Aaliyah gets here
00:44:55That's gonna be a situation
00:44:57Hey, poppy, poppy!
00:44:59Well Aaliyah's visa interview for the K1 is tomorrow
00:45:05I know we're both pretty nervous about it
00:45:07I'm also a little worried that she shows up
00:45:10And they look at a form and it says Douglas and Mayo
00:45:14And that they might have some discrimination going on there
00:45:17And deny her just because they can
00:45:21We applied for regular tourist visas
00:45:24We got denied
00:45:26We applied for school visas
00:45:29And got denied
00:45:30And if she's not approved for this
00:45:32We've tapped out
00:45:33We've done all the tries to try to be together
00:45:36And I don't know where that leaves us
00:45:37Get in there
00:45:39Oh yeah!
00:45:40Good job!
00:45:42Good job!
00:45:58Oh yeah!
00:46:00How are you?
00:46:03Good, just kidding
00:46:04Nice feeling
00:46:13It's crazy hot today
00:46:15I'm sweating a lot
00:46:17I should be using a bikini
00:46:20It's kinda hot, yeah
00:46:21But there's a cool breeze going around
00:46:25I think the breeze here is amazing
00:46:28I like the view, it's wonderful
00:46:31So, will you miss it?
00:46:35Here
00:46:37For sure
00:46:39Do you want to grab something to eat?
00:46:41My too
00:46:43Oh my god, my visa will be tomorrow
00:46:45I'm feeling happy, I'm feeling anxious
00:46:48I'm worried, maybe
00:46:50Obrigado
00:46:51When I started the process of the visa
00:46:54Everything that I sent
00:46:57It was like, Douglas, I'm Sean
00:47:00And now that I'm Aliyah
00:47:02I feel very insecure
00:47:05And how people will react to that
00:47:08But also, I was wondering if I should go as a boy
00:47:13And not go as myself
00:47:17I took many years to
00:47:22To forget the place that I am now
00:47:25Living and expressing myself the way that I express
00:47:29So, I just don't know what to do
00:47:34I can't imagine how painful it can be to have to pretend
00:47:38For the sake of others
00:47:40To be another person
00:47:44Aliyah is my best friend
00:47:46And then I've known her for my whole life
00:47:48I believe that being a trans woman in Brazil has been really tough on her
00:47:52A lot of disgusting looks, aggressive catcalling
00:47:55It saddens me that Aliyah might have to present herself as a boy tomorrow
00:47:59But I think that she might have to play safe
00:48:03We don't really want the outcome where she gets denied
00:48:07I was being rejected all my life
00:48:11So, I have a little bit of this feeling now
00:48:15Yes
00:48:16And the way that people you look to me
00:48:19That you do to me
00:48:25Oh, don't cry
00:48:26Oh, don't cry
00:48:28Good
00:48:29Good
00:48:30Yeah
00:48:31When I transitioned to Aliyah
00:48:32I promised myself that I never go back to the past
00:48:45But I also don't want to hurt my chance with Shawn
00:48:49To be forever together
00:48:51So, I really don't know what to do
00:48:58I'm always going to be there for you
00:48:59I'm always going to be there for you
00:49:13All right, you ready?
00:49:15You'll be the first American supermarket?
00:49:17Four markets, yeah
00:49:18I'm feeling like a million, a million, a million
00:49:22I'm feeling like a million
00:49:24I'm feeling like a million
00:49:27Oh, hi
00:49:28You have flowers? You want some flowers?
00:49:33Greg is taking me to the supermarket in America for the first time
00:49:37I'm excited because I've only seen the supermarket in the movies
00:49:40So, do you want plums or anything? You ever have a plum before?
00:49:44I don't know, what are plums?
00:49:46A plum is a plum
00:49:48This is plum, baby
00:49:50Supermarkets here are very big
00:49:51You enter in a supermarket and you think you're in a mall
00:49:54I love
00:49:55I love
00:49:57If you're looking for meat to grid up and there is meat section
00:50:01Like vegetables, like produce
00:50:04They look very beautiful and organized
00:50:05But the more beautiful they look, the more expensive stuff
00:50:09I like this, I like okra
00:50:10I drink okra
00:50:11You want some okra?
00:50:12Yeah, I drink okra water
00:50:13Yeah, so this okra, just so you know, right?
00:50:15Look, it's four dollars
00:50:16Almost four dollars
00:50:17Right?
00:50:18This okra would be high-ward
00:50:19One K
00:50:20Right?
00:50:21That's what, like
00:50:22How much is that?
00:50:23Sense
00:50:24Oh, America is quite expensive
00:50:25It's crazy, baby
00:50:27Do you have a budget for now?
00:50:29Um, do I have a budget right now, really?
00:50:31If I just see something I like, I just buy it?
00:50:34Yes, boy
00:50:37Prices of stuff here in America
00:50:40It's insane
00:50:42I don't know how we are going to live
00:50:43Because Greg is a person who just want to spend
00:50:46He doesn't think about tomorrow
00:50:48I want me and Greg to get our own house soon
00:50:53So, we need to plan more
00:50:56So, since we are talking about cutting the budget
00:50:58Mm-hmm
00:50:59So, I'm in the future now, so
00:51:01It's beautiful, but it's not only you
00:51:04So, the plan for the future
00:51:07You know I declined that state job
00:51:10You did?
00:51:11Yeah
00:51:12So, now that Joan's arrived and she's here and we have some time
00:51:17I need to explain to her what's going on with work
00:51:20Did you hear about that New York State job?
00:51:22Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:51:23I, uh, I didn't tell you, I thought I did
00:51:27So, they wanted to give me the job
00:51:28And I decided not to take it
00:51:30Did you turn down a New York State Department job?
00:51:35Civil service, yes
00:51:37Yes, I did
00:51:38Is it a good idea for you to turn down a staple job with your fiancé coming?
00:51:43I mean, in reality, probably not
00:51:46Wow
00:51:47No
00:51:52I'm sorry
00:51:53I love you
00:51:55Okay, I appreciate that
00:51:57But I don't see the reason you had to decline that job
00:52:00We need that money
00:52:02I just, I don't know, were you coming and everything?
00:52:04I just wanted to be able to spend time with you, you know?
00:52:07I think there's going to be more opportunities in the future
00:52:09You know, and it's not necessarily something I was really passionate about
00:52:12I think I would have been kind of like not miserable going to work
00:52:14I just wouldn't have enjoyed it at all
00:52:16It just wasn't what I wanted to do, you know?
00:52:23Don't try to cry
00:52:29Babe, I'm happy being with you, you know that?
00:52:31Mm-hmm
00:52:32But I also want to be like secure, like, you know
00:52:35I want to walk up one down, I'm on the streets
00:52:37I don't have food, I don't have where to sleep, so
00:52:40Babe, that will never happen
00:52:41I'm telling you right now
00:52:43I'll do whatever it takes
00:52:44To make sure that there's always food on the table
00:52:46Okay
00:52:47So I'm secured?
00:52:48So you're secured, yeah
00:52:51It's not like I talk about it to make you feel bad
00:52:55I know, I know where you're coming from
00:52:56I know it's not, I know it's not malicious, you know?
00:53:01I know, baby, I know
00:53:02You know, her and chef
00:53:04Okay
00:53:07Joan is reacting how I would have expected her
00:53:11She realizes, like, dude, like, what are you doing?
00:53:13Like, you know, we need income
00:53:14You can't rely on me for these things
00:53:17The pressure is tremendous
00:53:18It's like a balloon just keeps stretching, stretching, stretching, stretching
00:53:22And about to pop
00:53:23It's a little overwhelming
00:53:25And trying to keep it all together
00:53:27It's...
00:53:28It's pretty hard
00:53:30The price is $70
00:53:32Oh, God, this is expensive
00:53:34Do you know how much we'd shop in Uganda?
00:53:36Yeah
00:53:37God
00:53:38Tell me about it
00:53:39Thank you, Willie
00:53:40Thank you so much
00:53:41I'm still a little worried about, uh, Jordan and you
00:53:50It's better if you just talk to her and you get to know her
00:53:53Please, s'il te plait
00:53:55Parler avec elle, c'est la marque de parler avec sa fille
00:53:59C'est sa fille, c'est pas la mienne
00:54:01We don't want drama at the wedding
00:54:02Is it possible she don't come in?
00:54:04Ooh, ooh, ooh
00:54:05Ah ooh
00:54:14Ooh
00:54:16Wow
00:54:17Ah
00:54:20I just like you last night
00:54:23It's my other one
00:54:24I like, you know, I like the tiger
00:54:25Ah yeah
00:54:27I know, I know, come here.
00:54:28You and me.
00:54:29Sit down.
00:54:30I love you too.
00:54:31Today, maybe we can go for a nice hike and I'll show you some other beautiful places,
00:54:45okay?
00:54:46Okay.
00:54:47Okay.
00:54:48Last night, after the barbecue, you have a good time with Mark and the bed.
00:54:55Put on some like hiking shoes and jeans and comfortable, you know, sweatshirt, pull over.
00:55:01Okay.
00:55:02We had some good sex last night.
00:55:04I mean, right?
00:55:05I mean.
00:55:06Your mommy wants you.
00:55:08I don't care.
00:55:09She knows she's an adult, right?
00:55:12Nice job.
00:55:13Haria, come on.
00:55:14It's okay.
00:55:15Come on.
00:55:16Go for a hike.
00:55:17Come on.
00:55:18You get it?
00:55:21Yeah.
00:55:25Hopefully the rain stops.
00:55:26Yeah.
00:55:27All right.
00:55:28You good?
00:55:29Yeah.
00:55:30There we go.
00:55:31Yeah.
00:55:32You gonna relax?
00:55:33Yeah.
00:55:34Okay.
00:55:35Let's go.
00:55:36You good?
00:55:37Oh, all right.
00:55:38Fun day.
00:55:39After a fun night.
00:55:40Yeah.
00:55:41I'm fat.
00:55:42I think this is because I don't sleep last night.
00:55:44You don't leave me alone last night.
00:55:45It's not bad.
00:55:46It's not my fault.
00:55:47It's not my fault.
00:55:48This is your fault.
00:55:49Your sexy body.
00:55:50It's not my fault.
00:55:52Sometimes you see me just stay with my pajama.
00:55:58You're very excited.
00:55:59You don't leave me alone last night.
00:56:03It's not my fault.
00:56:05This is your fault.
00:56:06Your sexy body.
00:56:07It's not my fault.
00:56:10Sometimes you see me just with my pyjama.
00:56:13You're very excited.
00:56:15Yeah, it doesn't really matter what she's wearing.
00:56:17She's beautiful.
00:56:19You can't stop.
00:56:20I can't stop.
00:56:21Yeah, I said, Marie, you need to give me peace.
00:56:25I come just now in the U.S.
00:56:27I tell her she can sleep later.
00:56:29Sleep tomorrow, you know?
00:56:32But sometimes that doesn't work.
00:56:33Lately, that hasn't worked.
00:56:35But last night it worked pretty good.
00:56:36Yeah, this is true.
00:56:43Hey, you ready, Marie?
00:56:46I don't want to hit her head.
00:56:49No, it's okay.
00:56:51It's okay?
00:56:52Yeah.
00:56:53All right.
00:56:54Maria, you good?
00:56:59I can't see you.
00:57:01She's smiling.
00:57:03I can't see her.
00:57:04I need, like, a mirror.
00:57:05I can look back.
00:57:07Maria, you good?
00:57:08Yeah.
00:57:09I think this is the main trail.
00:57:11Okay.
00:57:11There's no traffic, no ambulance.
00:57:17It's quiet.
00:57:19Maria's like, we haven't seen any bear yet.
00:57:23Picnic and Paris is easy.
00:57:27Sometimes you go to the Louvre, the garden.
00:57:30You have your small bag.
00:57:33Sometimes it's vintage, but chic vintage.
00:57:37That's not bad for the back.
00:57:42Watch, it's a little muddy there.
00:57:44I don't know why Mark, you have an impression I like hacking.
00:57:48It's beautiful for the people who like nature.
00:57:51It's wonderful.
00:57:52But for me, it's just, yeah, okay, next.
00:57:59Go, Mark.
00:58:00Go, Mark.
00:58:01Go, Mark.
00:58:02I can fly a plane.
00:58:03I just can't open the cheese in the cracker sometimes.
00:58:06God, that's so tight.
00:58:07It's easy.
00:58:08I teach you.
00:58:10Take example.
00:58:12Ah, yeah, you have the pointer on there.
00:58:15You need a wife in your life.
00:58:18No, it's true.
00:58:25It's still a little, um, a little worried about, uh, you know, Jordan.
00:58:36And then you, I want to resolve this as soon as possible, you know?
00:58:45And we don't want drama at the wedding.
00:58:47It's possible she's not coming.
00:58:48No, it's not possible.
00:58:49She's not coming.
00:58:50She's coming for the wedding.
00:58:51She's my daughter, baby.
00:58:52It's better if we just talk to her and you get to know her.
00:58:57If you want, then you mention, maybe we're going to have another baby.
00:59:02Because she doesn't know I talked to you about this.
00:59:04But I talked to you about everything.
00:59:06Because you're my, you're going to be my wife.
00:59:08She just wants to see that you really love me and that we're happy and know you.
00:59:33And why do you think I don't love you?
00:59:38The concern is you're marrying me just to come to the USA or for money.
00:59:43For what?
00:59:44Paris is beautiful.
00:59:46I know.
00:59:46You have a tower.
00:59:47I agree.
00:59:47Of casa.
00:59:48I don't lose friends for one American.
00:59:50I know this, but they don't know.
00:59:55So just give it a chance, okay?
00:59:58Please?
00:59:58One more again.
01:00:05I try for you.
01:00:06One more.
01:00:09Am I sending Mina into a hornet's nest by meeting my daughter Jordan?
01:00:14Probably.
01:00:15Is this a bad idea?
01:00:17Probably.
01:00:18But I know I'm not getting married until Jordan and Mina find a way to respect each other and get along.
01:00:26So now we're going to meet face-to-face, Mina and Jordan, and hope everyone comes back in one piece.
01:00:39Today's the big day.
01:00:41We've only waited two years.
01:00:43When Aaliyah shows up at the interview and they're expecting Douglas, if the interviewer is transphobic, that could be the end of our journey right then and there.
01:00:51I need to have courage today.
01:00:54I'm being myself.
01:00:56I feel distraged if I wasn't like today.
01:01:05Something I didn't tell you is that I hadn't told Dad anything about you before you got here.
01:01:12Like nothing?
01:01:14Like who I am?
01:01:16Yeah, no, I didn't.
01:01:17I have only one meeting to just make you feel good about me.
01:01:25Not only did she lie to me, she also lied to her dad.
01:01:28I'm really uneasy about starting my life in America on the foundation of lives.
01:01:33I have watched so many scary movies.
01:01:52I'm like, I feel like I'm in one of them.
01:01:55You had a really scary adult.
01:01:57Big boy?
01:01:58Yeah.
01:01:59I'm going to move in here tomorrow.
01:02:01Please don't.
01:02:03I have so much stuff to do with these bags.
01:02:12Okay, well, I'm fixing to get ready.
01:02:14What are you thinking about wearing?
01:02:15What do you call this?
01:02:17That's like a button-up flannel.
01:02:18That's fine.
01:02:19Flown?
01:02:19Flannel.
01:02:22Flannel?
01:02:23Flannel.
01:02:24Flanner.
01:02:26That's a southern accent.
01:02:27Flannel.
01:02:28What is it in like normal English?
01:02:31That's southern English.
01:02:32I don't know.
01:02:34It's a flannel.
01:02:35Flannel?
01:02:36Flannel.
01:02:37It's a flannel.
01:02:39It's the very first morning that I wake up in Hattiesburg.
01:02:43And it's totally different than Seheron.
01:02:48Like, I have watched so many American scary movies, and most of them were liking these kind
01:02:52of houses.
01:02:55So when I got here, it was a bit dark.
01:02:58It was a bit small.
01:02:59The ceiling was short.
01:03:00So all of these all together, it kind of scared me.
01:03:04Um, oh my God.
01:03:10I don't feel okay.
01:03:11Chuchu.
01:03:13I felt like she was licking me, and I'm not ready for that.
01:03:16I'm not going to be ready for licks, like, for at least months.
01:03:22Just don't do that.
01:03:24I think I'm fine.
01:03:25Maddie hasn't seen Hattiesburg in daylight yet.
01:03:38So we're going to swing by so I can show him the downtown area on the way to meet my
01:03:42dad for dinner later.
01:03:43Babe, do you have hairspray?
01:03:45Yup.
01:03:46You need it?
01:03:47Yeah.
01:03:48I know that my dad loves all people, but I do think that my dad, as well as my family
01:03:53and my friends, have a lot of misconceptions about the people of Iran based solely off
01:03:57of what they've seen in the news.
01:04:00But I am really hopeful that dad can make Maddie feel like part of the family, because
01:04:05I know right now Maddie is pretty homesick.
01:04:08Oh my gosh, your beignets are still in the corner.
01:04:10Can I still eat them?
01:04:11No.
01:04:13So you can stay in this line?
01:04:23Like, we don't have-
01:04:23So this is the turn line?
01:04:25We don't have the middle lane.
01:04:26So they can keep going sometimes?
01:04:28Oh, that's amazing.
01:04:29We don't have that in Iran.
01:04:30Like, there are so many different rules.
01:04:32You don't have this line.
01:04:33You don't have stop signs.
01:04:35Oh, really?
01:04:35Yeah.
01:04:41Yay!
01:04:42Yay!
01:04:42Yay!
01:04:42Yay!
01:04:42Yay!
01:04:42Yay!
01:04:43Yay!
01:04:51So this is downtown Hasberg.
01:04:55And on the weekends, it's like super lively, and they have like little farmers markets and
01:05:01stuff so you can like walk through and like see everything.
01:05:05I've been excited to show it to you.
01:05:06most of all these buildings are super old the light people have restored them
01:05:11and like are starting to open like cool little shops and stuff in them I like it
01:05:18like it's it's it just gives me a vibe yeah it just gives me a vibe that these
01:05:23are like decorations for like a movie I swear like no these are all fake and
01:05:29there's no one in them so there's something I need to tell you like before
01:05:35tonight I haven't told you yet um you know I told you that I was gonna tell
01:05:41dad like about you coming here and our engagement and stuff like that before you
01:05:45came but something that I didn't tell you is that um something I didn't tell you
01:05:52is that I hadn't told that anything about you yet before you got here like
01:05:59nothing like who I am yeah no I didn't
01:06:05before I had that conversation I hadn't told him anything like he didn't even know I was in a
01:06:11relationship to be fair like I thought I had more time to tell him before you had a year yeah
01:06:23this doesn't make sense to me I've thought about a lot and I know that I probably should have told him
01:06:31sooner well I know I should have told him sooner but the thing is is dad's just been going through a
01:06:36whole lot and I just didn't know if he would be accepting of you and I was afraid of that if
01:06:43if you're if you're 100% about me you would have told him no because what if I what if I told him
01:06:49and he said absolutely not you're not doing this and how would we even got through the process of
01:06:54getting you here not only did she lie to me she also lied to her dad I'm really uneasy about starting my
01:07:05life in America on the foundation of lies you know that you have put me in a really difficult situation
01:07:12right like I was super excited to meet your dad but you know that I'm super nervous now I'm sorry
01:07:20my biggest fear coming here was being accepted by everyone when people only hear evil things about
01:07:27your country what would they I'm super anxious because I know your dad is following your news all the time
01:07:34he knows a lot like I don't know it feels like I have only one meeting to just make him feel good
01:07:43about me you just made it like that I don't think it will be like that though but to me it is like
01:07:54it's really difficult for me I'm really worried that Stevie's family do not accept me
01:08:02and I think now they have a new reason to doubt me I really don't know how she could do this
01:08:32today is my visa interview since all my documents are in my own name I thought about maybe going to my
01:08:47interview as a boy because if they don't like trans people they can deny my visa I know that going as
01:08:59self and dangerous my chance to be approved but the most worthy in life for me is to be authentic
01:09:09Hi, Mozinho.
01:09:17Hello, hello.
01:09:18Are you up?
01:09:20Barely, but I know today's the big day, so no sleeping.
01:09:27Yeah.
01:09:28Did you get much sleep last night?
01:09:31No, I don't think so. I think maybe two hours only.
01:09:35It was very difficult to sleep.
01:09:38We've only waited two years.
01:09:40Yeah.
01:09:42So how do you think I'm looking?
01:09:46I like the straight hair. Very nice.
01:09:50Looking like a boss.
01:09:51Are you at all nervous about that part of things, going into the consulate and stuff?
01:09:56Are you feeling they might treat you odd?
01:10:00I feel, like, afraid of that.
01:10:04But hopefully that will be everything okay and respectful.
01:10:08One would hope.
01:10:14I wish I use all of my look.
01:10:18There's more.
01:10:19Yeah, I use, like, this.
01:10:22So I think I look, like, serious, but at the same time it's pink.
01:10:25It's my favorite color, and I look like a serious boss.
01:10:29I think once you put it on, it'll probably be the most clothing I've ever seen you wear.
01:10:33Yeah, for sure.
01:10:35Good.
01:10:36Call me when everything's over so I know what's happening.
01:10:40Okay, love you.
01:10:41I love you.
01:10:42Bye, Mozingo.
01:10:43Bye.
01:10:43I did not encourage Aaliyah to not be anything but Aaliyah at the interview.
01:10:53But when Aaliyah shows up at the interview and they're expecting a Douglas, if the interviewer is transphobic, that could be the end of our journey right then and there.
01:11:02Being a trans woman is not easy anywhere.
01:11:22I'm here, principally here in Brazil.
01:11:26I need to have courage today.
01:11:28I'm being myself.
01:11:30I cannot tell the story of my love with Sean.
01:11:35Hiding that because it's our relationship.
01:11:38Our relationship, it's the process.
01:11:40It's me changing and it's what we are living.
01:11:44So everything here, it's like the truth.
01:11:52I could be denied for my visa and that will be very painful for me because it's like my future, it's my relationship and it's also me and Sean, we are waiting for that for so long.
01:12:10So, yeah, I feel destroyed if I was denied today.
01:12:22What I'm really struggling with is you still haven't answered my question.
01:12:48What happened on the cruise?
01:12:49Megan just, every time she just comes and brings everything up.
01:12:54Did you sleep with that girl?
01:12:56I just think that's my private.
01:13:07Oh, that looks nice.
01:13:12You look cute too.
01:13:13I like this view.
01:13:14That's the kind of trouble I want to get into.
01:13:19So, baby, how does this look?
01:13:24Is this good enough?
01:13:25Like...
01:13:26I don't know if white is the color for the night.
01:13:31So let me see what else you have.
01:13:33Okay?
01:13:34Tonight, I am taking Juan to a bar and grill to meet with my friends and we're going to all have a few drinks.
01:13:41And then I'm sure they're going to grill Juan just a little bit.
01:13:46How does...
01:13:47That shirt's not the one.
01:13:49Okay.
01:13:50Not...
01:13:51This is a no.
01:13:52Tonight.
01:13:53That one's a no.
01:13:54My friends are questionative, especially Megan.
01:13:57Megan's pretty feisty and so it's important for them to feel like his intentions are good.
01:14:05I don't know.
01:14:05It's like a dive bar, but not really.
01:14:09Yeah.
01:14:10And what is exactly a dive bar?
01:14:12Kind of like a hole-in-the-wall bar.
01:14:14And what's a hole-in-the-wall?
01:14:17We worked on your English expressions.
01:14:19You didn't put that on the list, man.
01:14:20I should have added that one.
01:14:23But your outfit looks good.
01:14:26Perfect.
01:14:28And then, you know, I don't even know who am I meeting.
01:14:31My friend Amanda that I work with and her husband Ryan.
01:14:34And then my friend Shaylee's coming.
01:14:38And Megan and Herb are coming.
01:14:44When Jessica, the boys, and Megan came to Colombia, Megan put me on the spot.
01:14:50Accusing me that I was lying about the cheating.
01:14:56Did you not make any mistakes this last curse?
01:14:59No, I didn't make any mistake.
01:15:02I mean, I work hard.
01:15:03That's all I do there.
01:15:05I just hope that you can never do that again.
01:15:11Do what?
01:15:11I didn't do anything.
01:15:14Since then, we haven't had the same relationship in between us.
01:15:19I just think Megan is, like, really negative towards me.
01:15:24And I don't want to feel that in front of all the people I haven't met yet.
01:15:29And I think that would be kind of embarrassing.
01:15:31You're both very important to me, and you're both in my life forever, so...
01:15:40I think you understand what I'm saying.
01:15:47Positivity is key.
01:15:50Well, I'm glad I found the right outfit.
01:15:53Me, too.
01:15:54I'm happy with the choice and ready for a good night.
01:15:58Yeah, I hope so.
01:16:06All right, we're here.
01:16:07Oh, this is a heavy...
01:16:11Hi, guys.
01:16:15Hi, hi.
01:16:16Very happy.
01:16:17Happy.
01:16:18How are you?
01:16:19How are you?
01:16:21I want to be here.
01:16:22Hi.
01:16:23Hi.
01:16:23Good.
01:16:25Nice to meet you.
01:16:26He looks like a baby.
01:16:28Nice to meet you.
01:16:29How you doing?
01:16:30This is Amanda.
01:16:31Nice to meet you.
01:16:32This is Chandler.
01:16:33Yeah, you too.
01:16:34Hey, we can't feel that.
01:16:35That's as much as he knows, Juan.
01:16:44That's all he knows.
01:16:46It is important to me that Jessica's friends like me good enough,
01:16:50since there's not much to do and not much people to hang around with.
01:16:54But I have a feeling like Megan told them something about me that was not good.
01:16:59And they are just trying to be polite right now.
01:17:02Get on in here.
01:17:03Cheers.
01:17:04Cheers.
01:17:04Cheers to Ron making it to America.
01:17:09It's only taken three years.
01:17:10Yeah, only three and a half years.
01:17:12It's fine.
01:17:15Yes, the Rocky Mountain oysters.
01:17:17What is that?
01:17:18Cow's balls.
01:17:20So good.
01:17:20You know we eat the nuts, right?
01:17:24Have you ever had Rocky Mountain oysters?
01:17:26You cut the nuts.
01:17:27I eat them.
01:17:28Rocky Mountain oysters.
01:17:29You eat them.
01:17:29They're so good.
01:17:30I think those are the balls of the ball.
01:17:35I guess that's cultural, but to me it sounds crazy.
01:17:39Here's the nuts.
01:17:40I feel a little pressure because, I mean, it's their food, it's their culture.
01:17:45I'm not trying.
01:17:46It could be disrespectful for them.
01:17:48Okay.
01:17:51Okay, I'll take a little bite.
01:17:52Dip it.
01:17:53Dip it.
01:17:53Dip it.
01:17:54Cheers, Juan.
01:17:55Cheers, Juan.
01:17:56Cheers, Juan.
01:17:57Cheers, Juan.
01:17:58Cheers, Juan.
01:17:59Cheers, Juan.
01:18:00Cheers, Juan.
01:18:01Cheers, Juan.
01:18:02So good.
01:18:03I mean, it's fine.
01:18:04It tastes like chicken nuggets.
01:18:05Yeah.
01:18:06That's what I'm saying.
01:18:07Everybody was just happy that I felt like I was holding the World Cup.
01:18:12Like, everybody just was like, yeah, go, that's one.
01:18:15I was like, yeah, thanks.
01:18:18And you're the rest of it, you know.
01:18:21That's it.
01:18:30How was your first night at home?
01:18:32It was great.
01:18:33It was great.
01:18:34I loved the bed.
01:18:35You loved the bed?
01:18:36Good.
01:18:37Did you like the heart roses?
01:18:39Yeah, they were cute.
01:18:41Um, so you know probably what's coming.
01:18:49I mean, but it's because you haven't answered my questions yet.
01:18:52When Juan was on his last cruise, he had allegedly cheated with a woman and he continues to deny those allegations.
01:19:07I want honesty from Juan.
01:19:10I want him to tell me what actually happened because girls have intuition and I can feel that Juan has cheated on Jess.
01:19:20Jessica is my best friend and I have been here through her.
01:19:23I get that.
01:19:24Through thick and thin while you were in Colombia.
01:19:25I get that.
01:19:26And for you to be off and potentially messing around just literally shatters my heart.
01:19:33You know?
01:19:34I just think that's my pride in that.
01:19:37Megan just every time she just comes and bring everything up.
01:19:43I think that's not healthy for me.
01:19:45And Jessica, because we talk things over.
01:19:48Long time ago as an adult, Jessica made her choice.
01:19:53I see how happy Jess is with you.
01:19:56I see how much she loves you.
01:19:59I want you to show me how much you love her.
01:20:03Well, being here and putting my job and just giving up on everything, I think that's good enough.
01:20:08Hi.
01:20:09How are you?
01:20:10How's it going?
01:20:11It's going great.
01:20:12So, so great.
01:20:13What I'm really struggling with is you still haven't answered my question.
01:20:26What happened on the cruise?
01:20:31Well, I messed up.
01:20:33You messed up?
01:20:36How?
01:20:39Did you sleep with that girl?
01:20:43I didn't.
01:20:52Next time on 90 Day Siancé.
01:20:55Yes.
01:20:56You're on American Tuesday.
01:20:58First time.
01:20:59Ribeye.
01:21:00Oh my God.
01:21:02Everything can happen in this country.
01:21:05Oh, let's go.
01:21:07Whoa.
01:21:08Welcome to your new house, babe.
01:21:11I imagine that a little bigger.
01:21:14When I got out of that, it's like I want to cry.
01:21:19What, what happened?
01:21:21It was a big race that I took today.
01:21:24They asked me some questions.
01:21:27It's hard.
01:21:28It's too much time.
01:21:29Too much waiting.
01:21:30I guess I felt lonely.
01:21:34It's taken a year for you to admit this to me one when I confronted you in Columbia a year ago.
01:21:41She asking about everything.
01:21:42What was she wants my phone to?
01:21:44Tired of it.
01:21:45I was not in my best place either.
01:21:48I mean, he was your ex-boyfriend.
01:21:51What?
01:21:52What?
01:21:53Where have got me?
01:21:55Hey.
01:21:56He's nervous.
01:21:57You should be.
01:21:58I'm nervous to see how my dad and Maddie are going to interact.
01:22:03Is he going to make you a hijab?
01:22:06I'm here.
01:22:11We're just so excited to get to know her more.
01:22:13Every moment matters when you're in a long-distance relationship.
01:22:16Aw.
01:22:17He's shy.
01:22:18But yesterday, when just live, he have sex with me.
01:22:24I figured as long as we were all there, that it was okay.
01:22:28But I mean, he's pissed.
01:22:30All right, let's just end this.
01:22:32You know, I know right now there's some issues and tension.
01:22:39I mean, yeah, I feel very awkward right now.
01:22:42I agree.
01:22:43You don't expect to see your dad at this age having and playing with a baby.
01:22:49You're coming into my family and having babies.
01:22:51And, like, how do I know you're not just with my dad for his money?
01:22:55I think he was Nick.
01:22:57He don't come into my wedding.
01:23:02He's not even being the most well- 사럼 of God, but that's what he's going to do.
01:23:03I don't know.
01:23:04You are not just with my dad.
01:23:05You're not just with my dad.
01:23:06You're not just with him.
01:23:07You're not just with my dad.
01:23:08You're not just with my dad.
01:23:09I'm just kidding.
01:23:10I'm just kidding.
01:23:11I don't know.
01:23:12I'm just kidding.
01:23:13You're just kidding.
01:23:14I'm just kidding.