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Full Video: How should India raise its daughters? || Acharya Prashant, with MMMUT (2023)
Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5pL7RyM9qaE&t=0s


Video Information: 11.02.2023, MMMUT Gorakhpur (Online), Greater Noida

Context:
~ Why aren't Indian women not in many key roles?
~ How to empower women in India?
~ Why are there severe gender gaps in income in India?
~ Why is gender-based discrimination a big problem in India?
~ How to educate our daughters?
~ Where is our standard of beauty coming from?

Music Credits: Milind Date
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Transcript
00:00 It's quite interesting, you know, garments even for four-year-old girls are more expensive
00:12 than those for four-year-old boys.
00:17 It's as if both the parents and the girl are being messaged that the girl's worth lies
00:31 in her body and therefore her garments.
00:36 Otherwise physically a four-year-old girl and a boy are much the same, I mean almost
00:42 the same.
00:45 How can there be a difference, so much difference in their garments and in their pricing?
00:56 And I also fail to understand how is it that, of course the bodies are different, but not
01:06 so different.
01:07 We simply blow up the differences.
01:12 It will never be intelligible to me why must girls have such long hair.
01:18 I understand there are differences in height and in build and after puberty the differences
01:27 get amplified also.
01:30 All that is all right biological, but why must those differences be exaggerated so much?
01:40 And you are training her to be body-centric, do you see that?
01:49 What is lip color?
01:52 What are all those things that are gender-specific?
01:55 How exactly do they translate into beauty?
01:58 These are very fundamental questions mankind should ask.
02:05 At least parents, they must ask themselves these questions.
02:09 Why must a responsible mother ever introduce lip gloss to her daughter?
02:16 Is that not very very violent of her to introduce the daughter to lip gloss or to costumes that
02:29 are very feminine?
02:31 The girl hardly requires them, right?
02:39 See I am not talking about suppression of sexuality.
02:46 Let sexuality be a celebrated thing in life and all that is okay.
02:51 I am talking of turning someone body-centered at a very young age when she does not even
02:59 know what she is going through.
03:03 As a mature adult, you are free to discover your sexuality, experiment with it, enjoy
03:11 it, celebrate, do whatever you want to.
03:13 All that should be done with wisdom when you are mature.
03:17 But when you are a girl and your question is how should India raise its daughters?
03:23 When you are in that phase when you are being raised, a very very responsible person should
03:30 be hemming all this.
03:33 Unfortunately most parents are themselves in need of self-knowledge and education, life
03:41 education.
03:42 So the way they treat their kids, especially their daughters, is pretty horrible.
03:53 So the way boys and girls are differentially introduced to sports and all the little cues
04:12 that girls keep getting, little but continuous, continuous.
04:24 Their very seats at the dining table, who is supposed to help with the dishes, who is
04:34 supposed to go outdoors to play, who is supposed to have the guns and who will have the dolls,
04:48 who can walk around topless even at the age of 7 or 8.
04:54 7 or 8, the bodies are not so different.
04:59 But even if the girl is 7 years of age and she is on a beach, the mother will probably
05:06 ask her to not go topless.
05:10 And that's not about strangers prying on her.
05:14 Even if there is nobody on the beach, the mother will say, "Oh you please cover up".
05:19 So all that turns the girl very body-centric and that plays havoc with consciousness.
05:31 A caricature she turns out into with no appetite for anything sublime.
05:42 The body becomes a toy, the body becomes a weapon and the mind becomes numb.
05:54 The result of all this is stupidity.
05:59 And then you have the caricature of the dumb blonde.
06:04 Right?
06:04 [Music]

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