REBEKAH is a Ghost Guide and shares her experiences online - but her otherworldly connections and skills suddenly became a lot more personal at the end of one of her ghost tours. She told Love Don't Judge: "I have been judged because I am in a relationship with a ghost. His name is Rupert, I met him in front of a local historic home. He was a Revolutionary War soldier, originally from Wales." She continued: "It was following a ghost tour that I had just led, he called out to me and asked me if I was walking home alone. He asked if he could escort me, which kind of gave me stranger danger vibes because it has never happened to me before, especially from a ghost. But he seemed really nice, so I was like, 'I'll give you five blocks'." Despite her initial trepidation, Rebekah agreed, they got to know each other and slowly began to spend more time together. "We both had to learn each other's languages. He had to learn how I was psychically perceiving him. With respect he started hanging out more where I was living, he was always very clear on boundaries, wanting consent. He never wanted to press being inside [my home] or anything like that." Unexpected feelings grew between them, and they became a couple. Rebekah explained they connect through their energies, with their relationship primarily revolving around emotions, "because of the very clear physical differences between us. He is acknowledging that I'm here in the physical. I need to live a life here in my present." And Rebekah did meet someone new in the living world, a fellow spirit social media educator, called Katharyn. "We met on TikTok. I found Rebecca and I thought, wow, this is great," Katharyn explained. "We met in person a year after we had started talking. We became best friends, and then we stopped ignoring how we felt for each other." Katharyn isn't in a romantic relationship with Rupert but respects what he and Rebekah have. "Rupert and I are friends. We've hung out, had conversations, gone on trips together." Rebekah and Katharyn make videos and live streams with a community of people online, looking to get insight into their own ghostly interactions. But with this support, comes naysayers too. Comments include, "You're crazy", "They're letting everybody out of your asylums nowadays", "Clearly she's lying", and "Find Jesus, accept him into your heart." Despite this, they focus on the positives and the hope that they have brought to their followers' lives. "What's worth it to me [is] the amount of people who come forward and say, 'You made me feel sane, thank you'," Rebekah explained. Katharyn agreed: "It was really like a community built on people that says, 'I thought I was losing it. Thank you for talking about this, or thank you for helping me not be afraid to die'."
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00:00 This is Rebecca. She fell in love with...
00:03 Catherine.
00:05 Hello! Who's in this space right now?
00:09 But before meeting, Rebecca was already in a relationship with Rupert, a ghost.
00:15 Are you here by Rebecca?
00:19 How do you balance your friendship with Rupert without getting jealous?
00:26 And their otherworldly connection has been judged by those still alive on TikTok.
00:35 Can you chill the f*** out?
00:37 Some of the comments we get are "you're crazy", "I must be" or "you must have schizophrenia".
00:43 Today they are asking Rupert how he really feels about sharing his partner.
00:49 How do you feel about Catherine?
00:52 [scratching]
00:56 Personally speaking, I've never heard a ghost say "wooo", but I have heard a ghost say "help me, get off my grave" and things like that.
01:06 I'm Rebecca. This is my partner Catherine. And I have been judged before because I am also in a relationship with a ghost.
01:15 His name is Rupert.
01:18 I met him in front of a local historic home. He was a Revolutionary War soldier.
01:25 He is originally from Wales. And when I met him, he was wearing a red coat.
01:30 He was standing right here. I was walking past. He was following a ghost tour that I had just led.
01:36 And he called out to me. And he asked me if I was walking home alone.
01:41 He asked if he could escort me.
01:43 Which kind of gave me Stranger Danger vibes because that had never happened to me before, especially from a ghost.
01:48 But he seemed okay. He seemed really nice. And so I was like, "Alright, I'll give you five blocks."
01:54 We both had to learn each other's languages. He had to learn how I was psychically perceiving him.
01:59 With respect, he started hanging out more where I was living.
02:04 He was always very clear on boundaries, on wanting consent.
02:10 He never wanted to press being inside or anything like that.
02:14 He started to refer to me as someone he knew when he was alive.
02:19 I did a past life regression and I did know him.
02:22 I knew him back in 1781 when he was stationed here as a part of the 82nd Regiment.
02:29 He and I used to be married when he was alive.
02:32 I've had this cross-validated from other hypnotists and psychic mediums.
02:37 Well, the feelings weren't expected. They just sort of happened.
02:42 What is your intimate and sexual relationship like with Rupert?
02:47 Mm-mm.
02:48 Exactly, no.
02:50 Rupert and I are primarily sharing emotions because of the very clear physical differences between us.
03:00 He is acknowledging that I'm here in the physical. I need to live a life here in my present.
03:07 So that's where, well, the open-mindedness to you came into play.
03:13 We met on TikTok. I found Rebecca and I thought, "Wow, this is great!"
03:20 We met in person a year after we had started talking.
03:25 I took you on a tour. It was like 11 p.m. at night and we're walking around downtown.
03:30 And I was like, "This is where this happened and this is where this happened."
03:33 You met Rupert that night.
03:34 I met Molly.
03:35 You met Molly, Jimothy, George.
03:37 I met everybody. I got to meet all of those ghosts.
03:41 We became best friends. And then we stopped ignoring how we felt for each other.
03:46 Rupert and I are friends.
03:49 We've hung out. We've had conversations. We've gone on trips together.
03:54 How do you balance your friendship with Rupert without getting jealous?
03:59 There is no jealousy. I have such respect for the work that was done, for the connection that they have.
04:08 If anything, I feel like excitement and pride for the both of them.
04:11 You went to him and you checked with him on things.
04:14 I did.
04:15 You told him your feelings for me before you told me.
04:17 I did. I absolutely did. I was like, "Please don't hate me." But...
04:23 Ready?
04:24 Ready.
04:25 Alright. Hi, everybody.
04:27 Hi, everybody.
04:28 Surprise!
04:29 Surprise!
04:30 We're going to do a 3, 2, 1. Where do you pick up on him? 3, 2, 1.
04:34 Aha! Yeah, okay. Also felt him behind you. Yes.
04:40 I started posting skits online on my experiences with talking to ghosts and they blew up. It's been really cool.
04:47 Some of the comments we get are, "You're crazy."
04:50 They're letting everybody out of the asylums nowadays.
04:53 "That's a really good story that you just made up."
04:56 A lot of people are like, "Clearly she's lying." But I really enjoy the stories.
05:00 "FIND JESUS. ACCEPT HIM INTO YOUR HEART."
05:04 All in caps.
05:05 "YOU'RE TALKING TO DEMONS."
05:06 All ghosts are demons.
05:07 The things that would make me go, "No," would be people trying to pretend to be an internet expert about mental health
05:15 and discerning that obviously I must be or you must have schizophrenia because there's no way that this could be a thing that's happening.
05:25 Wow. Somebody has something to say about that.
05:32 Can you chill the f*** out?
05:34 You don't have to like me. You don't have to watch me.
05:37 You can block me. Makes no difference to me.
05:40 The overwhelming response is positive. People are very supportive.
05:44 What's worth it to me? The amount of people who come forward and they say, "You made me feel sane. Thank you."
05:49 It was really like a community built on people that says, "Oh, I thought I was losing it. Thank you for talking about this."
05:55 Or, "Thank you for helping me not be afraid to die."
05:59 We will be going to a local cemetery, which both of us enjoy visiting, and talking to some of the local spirits there.
06:07 It's something we do for fun as well as do for content.
06:10 "ASLEEP IN THE ARMS JESUS."
06:12 I guess Jesus has a lot of arms.
06:14 This is a good spot.
06:16 So should we take a check and see what's going on in my magic bag of tricks?
06:22 Oh, did you- you brought things?
06:23 I did.
06:24 Okay.
06:25 Hello.
06:26 Hi.
06:29 Who's in this space right now?
06:32 No, like a physical lake.
06:36 Oh, like you want to move?
06:37 Yeah.
06:38 Okay.
06:39 Do you have a direction that we should go?
06:42 Feeling that way?
06:43 Yeah, that's what I'm feeling.
06:44 So...
06:45 It's kind of like a movie.
06:48 I've had a number of people try to contact me and say, "Rupert's talking to me."
06:55 And I'm like, "No, he's not, and I'm concerned about who you're talking to."
06:59 He has a light accent, though it's not specifically the accent that we would associate with the English now, just because it's been almost 300 years.
07:08 This is an S-box.
07:10 It is one of my favorite pieces of equipment that I have.
07:13 As it scans through radio signals, it's giving a white noise that they can either pull sound from to respond with using the radio signals coming through, or it'll come through the static.
07:24 What do I have to do to get you to say something?
07:27 Did you just hear a call to action?
07:31 Oh my god!
07:32 Hi, Rupert.
07:34 Where are you sitting right now?
07:39 On this chair.
07:40 What is his personality like? How would you describe him?
07:44 Thoughtful and contemplative. Yes.
07:47 He doesn't speak without thinking about it. A lot.
07:51 How do you feel about your relationship with me?
07:54 I love you. Is that what it was?
08:00 I think that's what it said.
08:01 That's great. I'm appreciative.
08:03 How do you feel about Catherine?
08:05 You're fine, Rupert. You're fine.
08:09 I heard "fine." Yeah. Oh, and the casing meter went on "fine."
08:14 You're fine.
08:15 How do you feel about how we get along? All of us.
08:19 No, I'm fine.
08:23 I'm fine.
08:24 Yeah, I heard "I'm fine."
08:25 There was a moment where it was just like, "Fine." Ugh.
08:28 Fine.
08:31 I love Rebecca for her talent.
08:36 I feel very privileged to be in this sphere with her.
08:41 She is like a star, and I am just gazing up at this point.
08:46 How do I? I don't know.
08:49 You don't.
08:50 Shut it. Boom!
08:52 Mic drop.
08:54 You're fine. Hold. Deep breath. Deep breath.
08:58 What I love about you the most is how you make me feel seen.
09:06 I don't worry about the future with you.
09:09 I'm so caught up in how happy I am in the present.
09:15 We often say that the future is malleable, and because of that, the future is what we make it.
09:20 And I think what we're making here is unique and curious and beautiful.
09:27 Cheers to you.
09:29 Cheers.
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