TO HECK WITH YOUR UNCONSCIOUS!

Stefan Molyneux

Friday Night Live 17 May 2024  In this episode, we engage in a lively discussion filled with amusing personal anecdotes and valuable insights on relationships and dating. We cover diverse topics from cultural differences in relationships to unconventional dating advice, emphasizing the importance of maintaining individuality. We tackle the hazards of excuses and stress the need for personal accountability in all aspects of life. Additionally, we delve into confronting emotional abuse, human instincts, and the role of hope in relationships, advocating for practicality over baseless optimism. Transitioning to thought-provoking subjects like consequentialism and the pivotal role of rest in optimizing performance, we reflect on personal growth and express gratitude for audience support while sharing insights into resources for enriching the journey of personal development.  Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!  NOW AVAILABLE FOR SUBSCRIBERS: MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING' - AND THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI AND AUDIOBOOK!  Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!  See you soon!  https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022

Transcript

00:00:00 Good evening. Welcome to your Friday night live on the 17th of May 2024. Oh, look at that little shiny little Buffy

00:00:11 So it's the kind of funny thing I was doing a show with my daughter

00:00:15 the other day because people had a bunch of questions for her and

00:00:19 she

00:00:21 Picks up the lip balm that I've been using for a while and she's like dad

00:00:26 Do you know that's lipstick?

00:00:29 And I said, it's not lipstick. It's lip balm and

00:00:32 She okay, we were both right so it was like lip

00:00:37 enhancer lip vividness or whatever it is and

00:00:41 Yes, it turns out I've been

00:00:44 Only fans and get for a while with my orgasm lips. So just wanted to let you know

00:00:48 It is personal and no you can't call HR. So I just want to let you know that that I have face boner

00:00:55 101 so I thought that was kind of funny. All right who we got here. Are you still in contact with Mike?

00:01:02 It's been a while. Hi everyone water you

00:01:06 Drinking. Hey peeps. What's up? Steph bought. What's up? My nickel my nipples. It's cool outside. All right, so

00:01:13 Let's get to your you can wear makeup during streams contradiction

00:01:17 I don't I did a little bit of a while ago the guys I did the Poland documentary with

00:01:23 Were recommending that I wear makeup. I

00:01:26 Just don't care enough

00:01:28 You know, it's something Amy Winehouse said

00:01:31 It's what automotive wax to use on your head. It's actually more because I go deep. It's a submarine gel

00:01:39 But I just uh, what is it? Amy Winehouse used to go nuts because everybody would criticize her look and she's like

00:01:45 I'm a singer not a model. I'm a doctor not a carabinist Jim Jim anyway, so

00:01:52 I'm a philosopher not well, I am a giant thumb and a philosopher, but I am a philosopher not a

00:01:58 looks maxing guy, so I

00:02:00 Did my looks max and got the girl now I can just slowly decay

00:02:04 like

00:02:06 Walter Gargens. All right, so let's get your questions and

00:02:10 We will have some fun tonight I am feeling

00:02:16 Funnishly, all right

00:02:17 Ultra mini says hey Steph. What do you think about passport bros?

00:02:20 I started dating a Filipina and she has a lot of green flags

00:02:24 Maybe one red flag that I brought up to her where she admitted fault

00:02:27 We both have similar goals and even though she wants a traditional role of a housewife. She has shown interest in helping financially

00:02:33 I'm looking for advice because I've made bad decisions before Thanks Jay

00:02:37 Yeah, I mean I think it's probably worthwhile look into generic IQ and so on but

00:02:45 It's it's a question of culture and really it's a question for your kids because if you're gonna date

00:02:50 Outside of your culture, there's gonna be challenges

00:02:55 I mean there's pluses of course multi-language multi-culture and so on but there are some minuses

00:02:59 Particularly biracial kids do have a lot of mental health issues and they can have trouble

00:03:03 Of course in the medical field when it comes to donors and and all of that kind of stuff

00:03:07 So that's it's really not about you you you choose you choose God. I'm smooth here

00:03:12 Look at this so much better out of USB 3.0. You choose

00:03:16 the mother of your children you choose

00:03:19 Your children and it's not about you and what just works for you if that makes make sense

00:03:26 Steph you should bet you should get back on Twitter

00:03:29 Well, that's a thought

00:03:34 Interesting

00:03:37 I'm gonna make a note of that. I should get back on Twitter. Hang on. Oh, so snarky. Oh so little bit. I'm sorry

00:03:43 I I think in general you want oh you have you both have relationships from preview

00:03:51 You both have children from previous relationships between us

00:03:54 so then you've got

00:03:57 biracial bicultural blended families a

00:03:59 I wouldn't put a lot of I wouldn't put a lot of money on that success. But you know again, it's sort of personal, right?

00:04:06 All right somebody thank you for the tip Anthony tips, of course massively welcome you can tip on the app you can tip at freedom

00:04:13 8.com slash donate and I'm not lying. I'm not lying and everybody here tonight

00:04:20 gets a link to

00:04:22 The peaceful parent AI. All right, put a thumbs up on the stream. That's right. Put a thumb up your nose. Apparently these days

00:04:31 Put a gasoline pump up your ass. Don't ask me. Don't look it up. Just trust me. All right, I

00:04:36 Don't like the new locals layout. Well, that's nice for you to tell me not that I have anything to do with it

00:04:41 Finish the original Bioshock, you know, occasionally

00:04:45 I occasionally I do get the urge to fire up a video game and just stream retarded pixel shooting. So

00:04:51 I had a job interview today and I use the line you said during a job interview podcast

00:04:58 Someone that can never learn is never without experiences someone that can learn is never without experience. So we'll see how it goes. All right

00:05:05 Lip gloss, it was not lip gloss. Exactly. I can't remember what it was called, but it's something like that

00:05:13 All right

00:05:20 There's somebody said that about the chapstick

00:05:26 But I did it was it was manly lip gloss. It was super manly lip gloss. It actually it pumped

00:05:32 testosterone straight into my ass cheeks

00:05:35 Much like boarding school. All right

00:05:38 Be wary a family-oriented Filipino woman

00:05:40 They want to earn money to act a retirement fund for their parents who retired in their 50s

00:05:44 Yeah

00:05:44 I mean a friend of mine in England had this sort of question he was she was dating a Filipino woman and after asking a bunch

00:05:49 Of compatibility questions, which didn't seem to go particularly well

00:05:52 I did say that you know, sometimes it's not particular to Filipino women, but sometimes

00:05:57 You can

00:05:58 You know if you're a wealthy Western guy, it doesn't matter your race. You're a wealthy Western guy and

00:06:04 Suddenly you've got 15 people living with you it can happen. I'm not saying always right?

00:06:11 I would rather stay single than be a passport, bro. Yeah

00:06:20 My husband's mother is from the Philippines just make sure she's on board with peaceful parenting is all I'll say yeah

00:06:27 Yeah, for sure for sure

00:06:29 All right, a

00:06:33 Lot of these Southeast Asian and South American cultures are not very pro peaceful parenting

00:06:37 Also, there's a lot of fundamentalist religion, which you know if that's your thing, I guess fine

00:06:42 But it can be a challenge if you're not

00:06:45 Super religious and you have a Filipino woman who could be quite religious or at least the family is quite religious or at least you

00:06:51 Have to put up the appearances. It's always gonna be tough how you raise the kids, right? How are you gonna raise?

00:06:55 the kids if you are with somebody who's

00:06:59 foundational beliefs on

00:07:02 Truth virtue and reality are quite different from yours

00:07:04 So it's a challenge

00:07:07 so

00:07:10 Are you ready for my dating?

00:07:14 Tip it's really only one

00:07:16 It's really only one dating tip if you're single

00:07:19 Or or even if you just want to spice things up a little bit in your relationship if you but particularly if you're single

00:07:25 You're looking forward to more trivia and game nights. Yeah that those were fun. Those are fun

00:07:30 Yeah, maybe we could do one on the weekend. All right dating tip dating tip

00:07:34 Now I'm gonna speak for women here

00:07:40 Because that's my gig and I'm gonna do it in Valley girl for a set. Oh, no, I'm not don't be frightened be a little frightened

00:07:46 Right, so I had the I just did a response to a guy who was like, well, I'm I'm interested this girl

00:07:53 She's really cool. She's fun. She's smart, but she believes a lot of leftist stuff and so on and it's like

00:07:58 Okay

00:08:02 Women break rules for alphas and make rules for betas

00:08:09 Right, you understand and it's not all right not all but in this is a very general statement women

00:08:14 Make rules for betas and they break rules for alphas, right?

00:08:18 So everybody's come across this type of woman at one time or another in their life

00:08:22 It's like well, I had my wild times in my youth

00:08:24 but now that I'm 32 and

00:08:27 A little pear-shaped you're gonna have to wait to have sex with me

00:08:31 Six months or you got to put a ring on it or something, right?

00:08:35 So she broke all the rules for all of the sexy alpha guys in her 20s and now in the downward slope of attractiveness

00:08:42 she's trying to make all these rules and

00:08:44 There's this funny thing that happens on on dating apps, which is where women will raise their standards

00:08:52 Raise their standards and well, you've got to be a real man

00:08:54 you got to step up if you can't handle this when they're like on the downward slope of

00:09:00 Mere physical attractiveness, right? I mean everybody knows that the most attractive women physically are in their early 20s. It just it's a fact, right?

00:09:06 it's a fact and

00:09:08 Women can look great. I mean, I think my wife looks fantastic, but she doesn't look like she did when she was 21

00:09:13 Yeah, I don't either. I don't look like she did when she was 21 close. Obviously. I'm developing the man boobs, but

00:09:19 It's a funny thing where well now that I'm

00:09:23 Now that I'm a used car

00:09:26 I'm gonna raise my price just kind of fun like so they seem to get more arrogant

00:09:31 Almost as if it's it's like a reversal of cause and effect. So super pretty super in demand people

00:09:37 Can be arrogant but people think that if you're arrogant then you suddenly become more attractive and it's like no

00:09:44 No, that's not the way it works

00:09:46 Like people who are beautiful can be haughty like women who give you that, you know

00:09:50 Like don't even approach me the ice cream radiation to keep doofus away

00:09:54 so if you are

00:09:56 Beautiful and in high demand you can be haughty you can have high standards

00:10:01 But being haughty and having high standards doesn't make you doesn't like it doesn't work the other way. It doesn't work the other way

00:10:07 It doesn't work the other way

00:10:10 So

00:10:15 There's only one thing that you need to do as a man or as a woman

00:10:21 To be effective positive productive and successful in the dating market. You must you must you must you must you must raise

00:10:29 your value and

00:10:32 Be shameless about it

00:10:34 You must raise your value and be shameless about it

00:10:39 So I want you to picture something

00:10:42 you're selling a house and

00:10:48 People say well what's the best strategy for selling a house?

00:10:51 What price should you take this that and the other now?

00:10:53 Let's say you're selling the house and you get one count in one offer you get one offer and that's it

00:10:58 Right, you get an offer for 400 grand, whatever

00:11:01 400 grand and now what's all that strategies mean? What does it mean? What does it matter?

00:11:06 What did what should you take should you weigh this should you how should if you only get one offer?

00:11:10 What happens? Well, you either keep your house. So you take that offer. You have no choice

00:11:14 Now if you

00:11:18 Put some money into

00:11:20 Making your house look pretty you you plant a bunch of stuff outside you

00:11:24 You get it staged inside. This is a whole thing where people come in and make your house look fantastic

00:11:30 Maybe you repainted it. And so now you get eight offers. Okay now you're in business now you have some choice now you're in demand

00:11:37 But if you're not in demand

00:11:40 You don't have any choice

00:11:44 What's your dating strategy raise your value if you can't raise your value if you can't be in demand

00:11:49 You don't have any choice. And if you don't have any choice, there's no such thing as strategy

00:11:53 Now, sorry, somebody says please explain shameless. Thank you. Hey, I don't need to explain what I demonstrate every single time

00:12:02 I open my big yapper. So no shameless is if you're a guy

00:12:07 Get a nice car. I

00:12:10 Don't care if it's a third-hand BMW from 1994

00:12:14 Just get a nice car get some nice clothes get a nice haircut use some face creams

00:12:20 You know get your teeth whitening if you have to like just be shameless in being attractive if you

00:12:27 Have a nice shape man or woman

00:12:30 Buy some clothes that accentuate it buy some clothes that accentuate it

00:12:36 You know get get a nice watch get whatever it is that's gonna show some status and show some high value do that

00:12:43 Do that

00:12:48 Because if you're not in demand you can't have a strategy

00:12:51 What's your best strategy for job hunting and finding the right job and making sure you negotiate the right?

00:12:56 Salary and should you do this and she's like well if you only have one job offer

00:12:59 It's either staff or take that job. Then there's no such thing as strategy if you're not in demand. You can't strategize

00:13:05 So

00:13:07 Just work to be

00:13:10 In demand

00:13:14 Whatever it takes to get in high demand do that

00:13:21 Do that

00:13:23 So I will mention that for sure

00:13:31 Do you think all the stuff about women preferring dad bods is a shit test

00:13:35 See

00:13:40 That question is entirely the wrong mindset

00:13:46 Trying to understand whether this or that is a shit test or not doesn't matter don't have a dad bod

00:13:55 It's not good to have a dad bod. I'm a dad. I don't have a dad bod

00:13:58 I mean, I'm not super ripped, but I don't have a dad bod and I weigh less than I did when I was 20

00:14:03 Don't have a dad bod

00:14:06 See this thing about what to generic women women prefer dad bots women like this women who cares

00:14:12 Raise your demand

00:14:16 Vector and choose the most moral woman right attract a lot of women and choose the most moral one

00:14:25 And for for heaven's sakes, oh my god

00:14:28 Do not listen to women about what they want. Are you kidding me?

00:14:33 Passport grows passport bros go to where

00:14:39 They are most in demand. No, they don't if you're a passport, bro

00:14:45 And you go to some third world country, you're not in demand. What's in demand your citizenship your money your passport your access to the West

00:14:51 But not you

00:14:55 But not you

00:14:57 No, listen you do not want to listen to women about what they want and what they find attractive

00:15:03 None of it's true

00:15:06 If it's any consolation don't listen to men about what men say they find attractive or or want either none of that's true either

00:15:12 By your fruits shall ye know them. So what do women say?

00:15:17 I want a guy who's nice and sweet who's sensitive who's this and that who you know is able to cry shows him

00:15:23 Right, and then you look at the most popular pornographic work in human history. It's 50 Shades of Grey

00:15:30 These are the facts that we have to deal with in the world

00:15:35 These are the facts we have to deal with in the world. I

00:15:40 Mean I'm not saying get into BDSM because women like it but what is 50 Shades of Grey about?

00:15:47 Women love a man they can't change

00:15:53 Come

00:15:55 On ladies tell me I'm wrong you want desperately want to change a man and you'll marry the one you can't change

00:16:02 Because he doesn't take you so seriously that you're gonna go insane because he's appeasing you all the time. I

00:16:09 See, you're nice and ratio twilight. Yes. It's a vampire and a werewolf

00:16:15 It's a murderer and a murderer

00:16:22 so

00:16:24 No, don't don't change for women, I mean, you know listen and you negotiate and so on but yeah, don't don't don't change for a woman

00:16:32 A woman will try to change you and if you don't change for her then she'll marry you

00:16:39 So

00:16:44 Yes, 100% the case for me yes, yes, I mean come on I

00:16:51 Think we've seen enough Heathcliffs and Darcy's and so on

00:16:54 Women gush over the bad boy murder is stalking them. No, no, no. No, come on. That's not the case

00:17:00 Women are terrified of these kinds of stalkers. That's that's a that's a fetish that results from significant child abuse

00:17:05 We're not being turned on by monstrous beings challenge impossible. Yes. Yes. There was an old question in a

00:17:13 Toronto little sort of local somewhat lefty newspaper called now and I remember this woman Donna lipchuck was her name

00:17:20 She was a really good columnist from I don't know the 80s or something like that

00:17:23 I remember two things that she wrote I remember more but the two important ones are

00:17:27 In terms of like the the sort of smarmy superiority in the art world people will always say. Oh, how's that little play of yours?

00:17:34 Coming along. It's always that little how's that little play of yours?

00:17:37 I mean, you know just this kind of smarmy one-upmanship that happens in the art world, but the other was

00:17:41 Ladies, do you want Beauty and the Beast? Do you want the Beast or the half gay guy that the Beast turns into?

00:17:48 Who do you want?

00:17:50 And okay, I've been on a few dates seems a lot of women are into these romance novels. Is it a red flag?

00:17:55 Apparently there is a new flavor of the month

00:17:57 So a woman wants you to care about her but not enough to change who you are

00:18:06 Because if you can change who you are, she can't trust you because you don't have a stable and permanent personality, right?

00:18:12 Right. Yeah, you ever do this as a kid?

00:18:15 Like if you live in a cold climate you grew up in a cold climate you what do you do you go out when?

00:18:18 You broke right and my friend and I used to go out when I when we were in our early sort of early mid-teens

00:18:24 We were broke. So what did we do? We went out on frozen?

00:18:26 Lakes and rivers and we broke the ice

00:18:31 You ever do this?

00:18:34 You ever do this?

00:18:35 What do you do you go out and you know you push you to throw a rock throw a log?

00:18:40 See you push a little because you don't want to go in right? That's no good

00:18:43 You can't really tell somebody didn't have drills right? Can't really tell so what do you go?

00:18:47 You do you go test it, right?

00:18:49 You go test the waters or you could test the ice you test the ice

00:18:52 if you want to go skating you are you test the ice my daughter and I go out in the in the woods and and

00:18:57 Clear off a pond and we go slip sliding and and all of that beautiful, right beautiful

00:19:02 Great fun, but you don't want to fall in

00:19:05 because falling in

00:19:08 Can be bad right because you fall in and it breaks the ice around you

00:19:12 It's tough to get out and it doesn't take a long time for you to like die from hypothermia

00:19:17 So you test the ice and you don't want you're gonna test the ice now if the ice breaks

00:19:22 You don't want to go on the pond. It's not safe

00:19:25 The same thing with women testing your personality

00:19:28 She wants you

00:19:31 to care for her and

00:19:34 She wants to try and change you and if she can change you she doesn't want to marry you

00:19:39 Because then you can be pushed around and if she can change you and you appease women

00:19:44 Why is that so dangerous for women if your wife can change you your girlfriend can change you or before she becomes your wife if your

00:19:50 Girlfriend can change you. Why does she not want to marry you?

00:19:53 Come on, ladies cough it up

00:19:56 Woman says when I met my husband

00:20:01 I immediately knew I wanted to be with him because I could tell he wasn't trying to change his answers based on what he thought

00:20:06 I wanted here exactly. He's not a chameleon

00:20:11 Okay, why why do women want a guy who won't change for her

00:20:14 Some other girl can change here. That's right James. That's right

00:20:20 So if you appease women if a woman if you're a pushover to women she's gonna marry your ass

00:20:26 She's gonna have kids with you. And then some other woman's gonna be pushy and is gonna get you

00:20:38 And also if you what's what's the other reason why she doesn't want you if you appease women

00:20:45 Who's the big competitor for a married woman

00:20:52 Who's yes, that's right. That's right the mother the mother-in-law

00:21:03 The mother-in-law so if you appease women and can be pushed around by women then she's gonna be an eternal battle

00:21:10 With your mother-in-law over your loyalties and that's not what she wants to do

00:21:16 woman wants to be the mistress of her own house and

00:21:18 If a scary psycho mommy is constantly pushing her husband around

00:21:22 She is gonna dry up like the desert

00:21:27 She is gonna dry up like the desert, right?

00:21:32 So

00:21:34 Don't do that

00:21:38 Don't do that

00:21:40 Don't do that

00:21:44 A man

00:21:47 Who cares for a woman but will not change for her is about a sexier thing as?

00:21:51 You can be woman says that was my big green flag with my husband that he stood up to his mother's nonsense, right?

00:22:00 When I first met my wife I guessed her age correctly and she responded you're not supposed to guess right 14 years later

00:22:06 I'm still doing what I'm not supposed to do and have three kids as a reward. Yes. Yes

00:22:10 You can't look we've all been in situations where you can't trust someone because they keep changing their story, right?

00:22:16 You ever someone's trying to sell you something is oh it does this. Oh, it does that. Oh, yeah

00:22:21 Oh, we needed to do that. I totally does this right? I used to get into these fights with my

00:22:25 Sales guys when I was in software when I was in the software field, right?

00:22:29 So I built the software from the ground up

00:22:30 I knew every single nook and cranny of its many millions of lines of code and I knew what I could do and I knew

00:22:36 But it can't do and I trained the sales people

00:22:38 I create promotional materials and you know write their ad copy and all that kind of stuff, right?

00:22:42 and then the sales people would go out into the world and often they

00:22:45 If the customer would say does it do X they'd say yes, even if it didn't

00:22:50 And I used to get really angry at them and I would say

00:22:54 Saying yes is not being a salesperson

00:22:59 It's not being a salesman

00:23:02 Just saying yes to everything is no skill at all

00:23:07 You're like a Victoria's Secrets model saying gee, I wonder if I can get laid tonight

00:23:12 There's no skill in that

00:23:15 The whole point of sales is you don't say yes to everything because then you're actually getting kind of delusional

00:23:21 Customers and you're showing no skill whatsoever. The challenge is to sell our strengths against our competitors weaknesses

00:23:28 and to build realistic expectations

00:23:30 Right within your you know, can you imagine somebody sells you a gaming computer? It's like yeah, it's got two RTX is 380s in it and

00:23:39 Yes, it can run at full speed maximum performance and it gives you 12 hours of battery life it's like no it doesn't

00:23:48 Gaming computers like running at full tilt boogie. You're lucky to get an hour

00:23:52 right, so if if

00:23:56 you had a gaming computer that wasn't super expensive and

00:24:00 Also got 12 hours of battery life

00:24:03 Everybody would buy that and nobody else would be in business, right? So the fact is you got a trade-off

00:24:08 Well, you know, there's more power in this computer, but you'll get less battery life

00:24:11 It's got a bigger screen, but you'll get less battery life. You know, it's got more power. It's got more processors

00:24:16 It's got two GPUs, but it's really heavy blah blah blah blah blah, right?

00:24:20 This is trade-off

00:24:25 So saying yes to everything means you suck as a salesman

00:24:29 Because the whole point of sales is to position strengths against weaknesses

00:24:35 so if you say yes to everything, you're not a salesman, you're just a liar and a manipulator and

00:24:40 So women they don't want that because they can't trust that and I can't trust that and you can't trust that either, right?

00:24:46 My thoughts about Oliver exactly listening to a podcast with Pesta. Yeah

00:24:52 Yeah, car salesmen do that thing a lot to you ask them a question to say yes without knowing

00:24:56 Yeah, this is an older car. So it's kind of cheap, but on the parts really expensive now

00:24:59 the parts are totally cheap you can get them anywhere blah blah blah blah, right a

00:25:02 Zinfa I can't express how much I regret not pushing back against my mother. Well, it's tough

00:25:09 Do you think women are thinking this through or do you think they do this at a subconscious level?

00:25:12 Yeah, Oliver is is specifically designed around a man who won't bend to women and you can see all of the other

00:25:22 Men in this novel to some degree or another bent to women and Oliver

00:25:27 will not bend to a woman and

00:25:29 So he has high standards

00:25:32 But there are so many manipulative women around him and we can see why later in the book why he has this fear of manipulative

00:25:37 women

00:25:38 But yeah, Oliver is definitely that way and I was thinking about something

00:25:42 after my interview with dr

00:25:44 Pesta about my novel the present that the first thing that Rachel says in the book is a lie and the last thing she says

00:25:49 in the book is the absolute truth and

00:25:51 I like that character. So women are thinking this through do you think they do this at a subconscious level? What the hmm?

00:25:58 Oh, no, is this a rant permission to swear

00:26:04 Permission to swear. I'm I'm I'm in your hands. We can do this nice way

00:26:10 Or we could do it the nasty way nasty way

00:26:13 I would never date a liberal woman no matter how hot she was. Yeah, probably not probably not

00:26:21 I

00:26:23 Granted all right. I'm gonna need more than one

00:26:27 Granted because this is spicy. This is going back like 40 years of deep intergalactic worm spice for me

00:26:37 Permission granted. Okay, it's gonna get nasty. Okay

00:26:42 Seriously people what the fuck is your obsession and fetish for the unconscious? Holy shit on ball sticks

00:26:49 It's unholy intergalactic fought weapons of doom

00:26:54 Every single goddamn call-in show is the same thing. Well, your parents are doing this and that's pretty what you think

00:27:00 They're doing it consciously or do you think it's unconscious?

00:27:02 Well, do you think women are doing this consciously they're thinking it through or is it unconscious

00:27:08 What the fuck is that? Who cares? Who knows doesn't matter

00:27:15 Well the guy who stabbed me do you think he thought it through was you're doing it unconsciously why would I care

00:27:20 You can't ever find out

00:27:22 because if people have the self-knowledge to think things through they don't pull this kind of shit and

00:27:28 If they don't have the self-knowledge, they'll just lie

00:27:32 Why would my parents hypocritical like I was talking to a guy today? Holy holy shit balls

00:27:37 This guy he wanted to call me up and he said I've got I've got a great story for you've got you know

00:27:42 A lot of your calls are negative. I've got this great story

00:27:46 and

00:27:48 His great story was he had a really productive divorce with his wife and two young children

00:27:52 I'm like

00:27:54 This is really what counts as a great story in this situation

00:27:57 really

00:28:00 Damn it

00:28:02 So he got married now, he got married within four months of meeting the girl she had previously cheated on

00:28:10 Her best friend with her best friend's boyfriend. She seduced her best friend's boyfriend and that that was kind of bad

00:28:16 they go they go to church both religious right they go to church and

00:28:19 He goes in and confesses the sins to the priest he's like go forward have fun get married

00:28:27 she goes in he comes to the priest comes out ashen faced and

00:28:30 She says to him the priest told me like there's no way I should get married and it was never gonna work

00:28:34 So then they get married and she's like, you know

00:28:38 I've always fantasized about cheating on you and then she's like hey, let's have a threesome and it's just got worse and worse from there

00:28:43 And he ended up new four years into the marriage it wasn't gonna work got divorced ten years later she divorced him and

00:28:51 After he got divorced his dad said to him, oh I never liked her anyway

00:28:56 And I said, well, why would you why would you dad say that?

00:29:01 because the dad married badly and you'd think he'd try and help his son from married away from marrying badly and

00:29:07 The guy wouldn't answer as to why his dad would say something like that. Oh, no, he did say

00:29:12 He said a couple of things and one of the things he said was well my dad, you know

00:29:15 He probably didn't want to cause me any discomfort

00:29:17 and this is a guy whose father beat him as a child yelled at him as a child and

00:29:22 Therefore was totally comfortable causing him discomfort. So that can't be the answer and it's like what you think it was conscious or unconscious

00:29:28 It's like who cares if it's unconscious. You won't know and there's no no excuse

00:29:33 Is it because people think well if it's unconscious then then then they're not responsible for it

00:29:37 It's like nothing could be further from the truth

00:29:39 Nothing could be further from the truth people think well my you know, my my mother who who beat me

00:29:48 Well, she wasn't consciously doing X Y & Z. It's like how do you know who cares like what does it matter? What does it matter?

00:29:56 What does it matter?

00:29:59 What does it matter

00:30:03 You know some someone

00:30:06 Drives of some drunk driver drives over the someone you love and kills them. Well, he didn't consciously. It's like they're still dead

00:30:13 What does it matter? What is this?

00:30:15 Bullshit where people are just trying to create this great ghost town to banish all the sins of the universe called

00:30:21 Well, it was unconscious. They're not responsible

00:30:23 You don't get to be unconscious. You don't get to have that as an excuse and

00:30:27 Damn you all who hand that out as an excuse by the way, because you make it a whole lot

00:30:35 Harder for moralists like me to make the world a better place if you create this giant scapegoat graveyard of all

00:30:42 Virtues called those unconscious. They didn't mean to didn't mean to

00:30:46 You give this excuse out you make the world a worse place every time

00:30:52 Every time you'll hand out excuses you decay the will you decay the virtues

00:31:01 Fuck your unconscious

00:31:03 Fuck this ghost town where you send all sins to be redeemed. No

00:31:07 People who sin hold their sin. They are their sin until they redeem and reform. That's it

00:31:14 That's all there is they are those sins

00:31:17 They don't get to use this beam out of sin land called unconscious. I don't see that anywhere in the ball. You did

00:31:24 You did

00:31:26 Violates eight of the ten commandments, but you know, I'm sure it was unconscious

00:31:31 Well, yeah, okay. It's unconscious. I was unconscious. I

00:31:34 That's my get out of jail free card. I didn't mean to I didn't mean to it's unconscious

00:31:38 Who wouldn't take that who wouldn't give you that excuse if it got them out of?

00:31:42 Evil if it took away from them the requirement to humble their fucking pride

00:31:50 Apologize make restitution and promise and put a pan and plan in place that it was never gonna happen again

00:31:57 You

00:31:59 They can just say I didn't mean to and you're like, okay you didn't mean to okay

00:32:06 It doesn't matter

00:32:16 If you're a fat bastard who's never exercised and you're having a heart attack at the age of 50 and you say well

00:32:23 I didn't mean to have a heart attack. I didn't mean to

00:32:26 What does it matter?

00:32:28 Do you arteries go? Oh shit guys guys guys. He didn't mean to unclog just unclog. You're fine. Jeez

00:32:34 Sorry, we were clogged up with all this fat and shit. We didn't realize he didn't mean to so we're just gonna

00:32:40 unclog man

00:32:43 You get some crazy goth girl pregnant and you're like, I didn't mean to and does the fetus say? Oh, really? Oh

00:32:49 You didn't mean to I'll just despawn. Totally. Absolutely

00:32:54 I'll despawn

00:32:56 Mean to God pisses me off

00:32:58 Yeah leftist accuse you of unconscious crimes, right

00:33:04 It's all this Freudian bullshit, right? I

00:33:08 Predict this behavior if it's there I'm confirmed

00:33:11 If it's not there, it's repressed if the opposite is there it's a reaction formation. Oh great

00:33:19 So there's just no way out except you're just right you cokehead and coke dealer

00:33:24 My god

00:33:26 My god

00:33:30 Use empiricism to figure them out

00:33:33 All you do is judge the actions

00:33:41 All you do is judge the actions

00:33:44 It's all you can do because people can make up whatever subjective bullshit

00:33:48 They want about anything they can make up in their fever driven guilt-consumed minds

00:33:54 I don't care to listen

00:33:57 to any excuses from anyone

00:34:00 Anywhere anytime least of all myself

00:34:04 Excuses I said this

00:34:09 18 years ago on the show excuses a promises of repetition. Oh, it was unconscious

00:34:14 Okay, then you'll just do it again because now that you've got this excuse called it's unconscious so you can't get mad

00:34:19 I mean you can't hold me to account you can't blame me and I don't have to apologize because I just didn't

00:34:23 know

00:34:25 I didn't know. Yeah, I didn't get any any effing excuses for unconsciously fucking up when I was a kid. Yeah

00:34:37 It really really really pisses me off

00:34:48 It really pisses me off and I'm not of course including you guys in this but it just it as a moralist

00:34:55 excuses are Satan

00:34:57 right

00:34:59 As a moralist for a moralist and we're all moralists here

00:35:03 Everybody's a moralist like it or not. Everybody's a moralist

00:35:05 If you say there aren't morals you'll lecture people who do believe in you. Boom. Look you're a moralist again

00:35:10 Moralists

00:35:17 And

00:35:19 Morals require free will and choice and the unconscious bullshit is just a way of saying oh, no

00:35:23 I was directed by demons called the unconscious and I'm not responsible. No, no. No, you can't blame me

00:35:29 You can't hold me accountable because magic spell called unconscious has removed my free will it's right. It's back now

00:35:35 You see I'm not unconscious now, but back then whenever I did something wrong. It was just

00:35:39 unconscious I

00:35:42 Didn't mean to I I can just make up this lack of self-ownership

00:35:46 Well exactly

00:35:48 I was punishing you as a child for your specific self-ownership at the age of five

00:35:51 Because you did something that was bad and you were responsible for that

00:35:54 But when I was 35 and you were only five you had total self-ownership. I had this magic get out of jail free shield called

00:36:02 Unconscious see your bullets of responsibility go off my Wonder Woman bracelets, but you but you but you and they can't ever reach me

00:36:10 It's magic. Oh, yes, look at that

00:36:12 And you know, that's why they do that shit because they know that down the road they can claim. Oh, I didn't have intention

00:36:18 Lack of intention makes me so that's what this is why it's not just because they excuse themselves afterwards

00:36:24 It's why they do this shit in the first place. It's because they can always pull this unconscious card

00:36:29 fuck I

00:36:31 Hate it. I hate it with a burning biblical

00:36:34 pissing fish hooks kind of passion

00:36:39 No, it's not a slippery slope to determinism. Nobody's a determinist. They all lie about it

00:36:44 It's just determinism for that moment in time when they might be held accountable for the evils they did

00:36:50 You know what? Sometimes you do evil

00:36:55 I've done evil

00:36:58 Sometimes you do evil

00:37:03 Who did it you not your unconscious not Satan not puppet strings not your race your class not determinism

00:37:09 Not your straightness or your gayness you

00:37:12 You want to own your victories own your fuck-ups you want to own your wins own your losses

00:37:20 You own you want to own your goodness own your evil

00:37:22 I mean

00:37:29 Has anyone ever said well I did win ten million dollars in the lottery, but I'm gonna give it all away because it was unconscious

00:37:36 No

00:37:39 No

00:37:41 When does anybody ever say this wonderful thing happened?

00:37:45 I did this great thing, but I'm not gonna take any pride or responsibility or rewards for it because it was all unconscious

00:37:50 I didn't mean to I

00:37:52 Didn't mean to win ten million dollars

00:37:55 Well, of course you didn't you just bought a lottery ticket and hope for the best didn't mean to win ten million dollars

00:37:59 But you keep it don't you say ah look at that. I

00:38:02 Won ten million dollars. It's all mine

00:38:05 And people get into lawsuits and fights about all this sort of shit, right?

00:38:08 It's all mine every good thing that happens every positive thing. That's all a hundred. Oh did something bad happen? Oh shit

00:38:14 That's not mine. No

00:38:15 No, I've got this alter ego called the unconscious. So you blame that right blame that I remember when I was a kid

00:38:20 I read this poem about

00:38:22 Some kid with an invisible friend and he said if you give me candy bar

00:38:25 You'll have to give me two because I've got an invisible friend and his teeth are kind of new so I have to eat it

00:38:29 for him

00:38:31 Okay, you've got an invisible friend who takes on all your sins because you're schizoid

00:38:36 You're you're psychotic

00:38:38 You think that there's two of you in there and only one of you the part of you that does bad is

00:38:43 Something called the unconscious and you're never accountable or responsible for it and you can just blame the unconscious

00:38:48 you know like the scapegoat right that the people who

00:38:52 They they pour all of their sins into the goat and then drive the goat out into the desert

00:38:56 Oh, look, all my sins are gone. I'm magically reborn

00:38:59 It's some it's psychotic

00:39:02 It's it's it's insane and and deeply corrupt

00:39:06 Don't give and whatever excuses you give will be

00:39:11 Grabbed at by the demons in your chest and used to excuse your own shitty behavior as would be the case with me

00:39:16 I don't give people excuses. You know what that means. I don't have excuses. I don't get excuses

00:39:22 Right

00:39:24 So because I don't have an escape from my conscience I can't

00:39:32 Elbow my conscience up against the wall and chloroform the shit out of it

00:39:36 So it shuts up and I can lock it in a cupboard called the unconscious. I

00:39:39 didn't mean to

00:39:41 So because I can't chloroform my unconscious with imaginary

00:39:45 Ghost beings that take on all my sins. I actually have to just be a fairly rigorously decent person

00:39:51 because if I fuck up and I do

00:39:53 If I fuck up, I don't have any

00:39:56 Space between me and my conscience. I don't have any scapegoats. I don't have any ghosts that take on my sins. I

00:40:03 I

00:40:07 And I alone am responsible for my successes and my failures my good and my bad my righteous and corrupt

00:40:14 Won't do it won't do it

00:40:21 You

00:40:23 Like with Kanye when he pinched it on bipolar or other people saying they're bipolar

00:40:29 Yeah, so Kanye did he get well, I vaguely remember this

00:40:32 I'm sorry if I got it wrong, but Kanye was talking about Kanye West was talking about, you know, yeah

00:40:36 Yeah, I got addicted to to these painkillers, but I did it because I got liposuction and it got liposuction for you people

00:40:43 For you my fans. It's like what?

00:40:47 Yeah, when I confronted my dad for his abuse towards me as a child he denied the axe entirely complete denial sure and

00:40:53 He's not denying you you understand not rejecting you. He's denying his conscience denying his own conscience. It's all he's doing

00:40:59 denying his own conscience

00:41:02 Which is which means he'll just do it again. He'll just do it

00:41:06 Again, I'm sorry about that. I really am

00:41:10 I really am

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00:41:35 Yeah, don't give people any excuses people abuse you because they didn't give you any excuses and I'm big fucking fan

00:41:43 I've lived by the sword died by the sword. That's that's what I care about live by the sword die by the sword

00:41:48 You cannot ever judge me for a moral you inflicted upon me as a child

00:41:53 You can't ever judge me for holding you to a standard you inflicted on me abusively as a child

00:41:58 How fucking dare you how dare you?

00:42:01 How dare you so if you didn't get an excuse as a child

00:42:08 Don't give any excuse as an adult

00:42:12 You

00:42:14 Otherwise you are just contributing to more and more immorality in the world

00:42:22 I had a guy I did I did two call-in shows yesterday. They were quite brutal

00:42:30 I've doing a lot of call-in shows why cuz y'all like the call-in shows

00:42:35 So I've been doing more call-in shows

00:42:38 And I had a very interesting call-in show. I mean they were both very interesting. One of them was about a woman who's got

00:42:45 Neuroscenia is a chronic exhaustion for no particular medical cause and of course I can't help her medically

00:42:50 But I can at least talk about self-knowledge and consistency with her and we had a great conversation about that

00:42:55 And we really had a breakthrough I think

00:42:57 Somebody says on rumble my ex got mad when I dropped my son off at her house earlier

00:43:06 She couldn't stand seeing my good mood. So she jumped on her menstrual cycle and ran my ass over

00:43:11 Okay, I don't know if that's an analogy like menstrual bicycle. Yeah by their fruits shall ye know them

00:43:19 As I said a friend of mine missed an exam he was legitimately thought it was on a different day wrote the day down wrong or

00:43:30 Something like that missed an exam. They're like, nope, you failed like if I didn't mean to I mean I was ready

00:43:33 I was prepared. Nope, too bad

00:43:36 You

00:43:38 So

00:43:39 The guy was like I'm a victim people betray me. I'm such a victim. I'm such a victim a guy spent five years as a marijuana

00:43:45 Addict, I'm like, what did you ever offer marijuana to people when you were a marijuana addict?

00:43:48 Did you ever encourage people did you ever like don't talk about being a victim when you've been a marijuana addict

00:43:55 Floating around the world handing out joints for five years. This is the best dream ever

00:44:01 Appreciate it. Somebody says oh, I love the call-in shows some listen to - some I listen to two or three times

00:44:07 especially some segments I listen to over and over come back to refresh and revitalize my thoughts and understandings I

00:44:12 Appreciate that. Thank you. Thank you. I appreciate that. You know, it's a tough economy these days, right?

00:44:19 It's a tough economy people that somebody ever asked me. Well, why are you doing paid call-in shows or why are you doing paid shows?

00:44:24 Well, it's a couple of reasons right? I mean

00:44:26 economy's tough we got a bunch of people on payroll and

00:44:30 I'm producing enough material that there's no shortage of stuff for people and I don't want to hold back

00:44:35 People from accessing philosophy because they don't want to talk about things publicly. So there's a lot of a lot of good reasons

00:44:41 I bought my wife 50 shades the book after discussing your observations. She's enthralled Lord. Help me, right?

00:44:49 Right, so she doesn't like 50 shades of gray, I mean it's kind of about pedophilia

00:44:57 But anyway, I did a whole interview about that and show about that back in the day, but 50 shades of gray

00:45:02 She desperately doesn't want him to be into BDSM, but he won't change for her. And so she negotiates it, right?

00:45:09 Somebody says I'm currently holding my parents to account for their emotional abuse

00:45:18 My brother sent me a message and he literally did not mention my pain once he used to listen to

00:45:26 Your show and still alluded that you might be a still alluded that you might be a cult and said you promoted people defuing

00:45:32 Finally, he said I hope our sons will forgive us for our mistakes

00:45:35 He gave excuse after excuse for my parents abuse

00:45:39 Yeah

00:45:43 Now the first statement is a very well-meaning falsehood

00:45:47 Yeah, the your first statement is a well-meaning falsehood

00:45:56 you

00:45:58 This is the sine wave

00:46:01 The first sentence is I'm currently holding my parents to account for their emotional abuse

00:46:09 But you can't

00:46:14 I'm gonna post it back in here. You can't you can't hold anyone to account for their emotional abuse

00:46:24 You can tell them you were hurt. You can tell them what they did. You can tell them what your issues are

00:46:27 How do you hold them to account?

00:46:30 How do you hold anyone to account if they don't have a fucking conscience

00:46:35 Because they can just slip and slide out of any consequences you apply, right

00:46:41 How on earth can you hold anyone to account only they can hold themselves to account and they won't

00:46:53 You

00:46:55 They won't hold themselves to account why would they

00:46:58 If they didn't hold themselves to account when they were beating or abusing their child

00:47:05 Why would they hold themselves to account decades later?

00:47:08 Okay, I see what you mean. He says that might be by him struggling with this emotionally on my end, right?

00:47:13 so

00:47:19 We wish if we have a conscience it's very hard to figure out people who don't have a conscience

00:47:25 Right, it's it's a different species for me

00:47:30 People who don't have a conscience because they generally are in a predator-prey relationship with the rest of humanity, right?

00:47:36 so it's very very hard to understand people who don't have a conscience if you have a conscience and

00:47:42 So what you do is you say you get really frustrated, right?

00:47:47 People get really frustrated. And what do you say you say?

00:47:50 If I if I explain what I mean clearly enough and I can pick this lock and open

00:47:57 Yeah, I can open the door to their conscience. I open the cupboard today. Oh look here. I finally found their conscience. Oh

00:48:03 So it's up to you

00:48:06 To unlock their conscience. Did you see what I mean?

00:48:09 That's your responsibility according to this view, right? I'm gonna hold them to account

00:48:15 I'm gonna get them to connect with the wrong they did and they're gonna connect with it and they're gonna fall down to the

00:48:20 Sorrow and crying and they're gonna hug me and oh my gonna break through and connect him, right?

00:48:26 It's fantasy it's a painful fantasy it's a self-destructive fantasy, but it is a fantasy

00:48:34 It is a fantasy and

00:48:37 It puts you it puts upon you the responsibility for the impossible

00:48:42 Which probably was the definition of your childhood if it was bad it puts upon you

00:48:45 The responsibility for the impossible

00:48:50 If your parents didn't get enough food

00:48:59 When they were little and they grew up a foot taller and they were starved right they grew up a foot

00:49:06 Shorter they grew up a foot shorter than they should have been

00:49:08 Can you cajole anyone into them growing an extra foot?

00:49:12 You can never ever be another person's conscience

00:49:14 You can never ever be another person's conscience

00:49:22 And listen I I say this with all humility I screwed this up for years decades

00:49:30 Running around trying to be everyone's conscience. Oh, well, I feel things very badly

00:49:34 I feel things very strongly when I do wrong. It gnaws at me. It haunts me. I can't sleep. I've got to do the right thing

00:49:41 Okay, I think I'm doing the right thing now

00:49:44 I gotta go and talk to these other people because you know, they don't seem to have the same corrective mechanism

00:49:48 If someone's got leprosy and they've got no feeling in their fingers or toes

00:49:56 Fingers and toes fingers and toes for the things we share Oh

00:50:03 41 if you include the fact that we don't care

00:50:09 Right you feel things in your fingertips, they're very sensitive

00:50:13 Other people they got leprosy they can't feel things in their fingers. They can't feel anything in their extremities and you go around saying

00:50:19 I'll be your nerves for you. I'll help you feel things in your fingertips. It's like the nerves are dead

00:50:24 Your excessive feeling doesn't translate into other people feeling anything

00:50:36 You're excessive sensitivity doesn't get redistributed to other people's conscience

00:50:42 Maybe more coffee will help this show, but I doubt it

00:50:49 You can't redistribute a conscience you can't grow a conscience in another person

00:51:02 What is the way back to empathy for people who abused children for decades

00:51:08 What is the way back to empathy and humanity

00:51:16 Can you rego can you regrow what is called the soul

00:51:22 When you spend decades trying to dehumanize and successfully dehumanizing your own dependent helpless loving

00:51:30 attached and trapped

00:51:32 children

00:51:34 I confronted my mother

00:51:41 Close to 30 years ago

00:51:44 Close to 30 years ago

00:51:48 I'm not impossible to find I'm not impossible to contact

00:51:55 She said 30 years

00:51:59 To mull it over to read about it to think about it to see a therapist she could get one for free. She's poor

00:52:07 She's never contacted me with any acknowledgement of anything I ever said

00:52:22 Glad I didn't chase that ghost trying to get a hug for the last 30 years

00:52:26 My father went to his grave not even telling me he was ill

00:52:32 Not even attempting to say maybe we should get a reconciliation

00:52:36 before I die

00:52:39 My father retired to Ireland and spent a lot of his time

00:52:44 Rowing with his old university crew lots of time for rowing lots of time for fishing

00:52:51 No time to contact me. I

00:52:53 Don't hate them for it. I'm just relieved. I didn't waste my fucking time

00:52:58 Instead I have a wonderful wife a beautiful child great friends

00:53:04 great community a

00:53:06 Wonderful life because I didn't run off a fucking cliff trying to implant a conscience into ghosts

00:53:13 Have you ever sent them any of your content

00:53:21 What why why on earth what I saw it never would have crossed my mind

00:53:25 What are you talking? Why would I sent them any of my content? I

00:53:27 Told them what I wanted what I needed what I thought what I deserved what was moral what was right?

00:53:33 What was corrupt and what was evil?

00:53:35 told them all of that

00:53:37 If someone's not gonna listen to you when they're sitting across the table in the flesh from you

00:53:44 Why on earth would they listen to you in a podcast?

00:53:48 I'm honestly that's a very interesting thought I didn't it's not crossed my mind in 18 years of doing this show

00:53:53 to send anything to my family because

00:53:56 That would be to say

00:53:59 Well, yeah, it did kind of abused me as a kid. I did talk about it with you repeatedly in my 20s

00:54:06 You haven't contacted me for almost 30 years

00:54:09 But I'm sure this podcast will turn it all around like are you crazy

00:54:15 Oh

00:54:17 Sorry, that's rhetorical. Yeah, I don't think you're crazy obviously

00:54:27 You can't argue or shame someone into curiosity or empathy, you know

00:54:34 They were emotionally neglectful and divorced when I was 12 never beat me

00:54:40 Yeah, but neglect is worse than beatings in my opinion

00:54:43 And some of the data for that is in the peaceful parenting book

00:54:46 Somebody says I think when I confronted my dad I was looking for acknowledgement at the time after the denial I realized it was over

00:54:54 Dangling hope is what abusers do

00:55:00 When you get older when you're younger and helpless they dangle punishment or the inflict punishment when they get older they dangle hope, right?

00:55:07 They dangle hope

00:55:10 Like women like women who are the tone policing women, right? Well, I'll listen to you if you use the right tone

00:55:16 They're not gonna listen to you

00:55:20 You have cancer. I think the tone doesn't really change shit about the message, right?

00:55:25 No, man, I'm really really sorry to tell you that your cancer is cured that's I mean, I'm just I'm so I'm so sorry

00:55:34 Would you care how something like that was said

00:55:39 The problem isn't the fact but the intention

00:55:42 Sorry, so abusive parents abusive people as a whole

00:55:47 They want to dangle hope over you so that you keep coming back and they have power over you

00:55:53 But they only have power of you by denying hope

00:55:55 So that's what they'll do

00:55:58 One more conversation. Maybe I'll get it one more conversation. Maybe I'll change one more conversation

00:56:04 Maybe I'll be nice one more conversation and you won't have to come to any actual factual conclusions about

00:56:09 Your life in my life. Just one more

00:56:11 Come on, come back. Come on. Come on. Come back. Come back one more one more

00:56:16 One more one more and you'll get it one more and you won't have to suffer. Come on one more one more

00:56:35 You rendered them speechless apparently no, I'm sorry to be annoying they had tons of chats with everyone else

00:56:40 Yeah, yeah tons of conversations with everyone else

00:56:42 My father wrote the whole history of his life and here's what I did and here's all the people I see and I collect people

00:56:47 The way some people collect stamps nothing creepy about that and I did these wonderful things

00:56:51 I did these amazing things and it is entire biography that went on and on and on I got two pages

00:56:55 Well and two pages with some pictures and only the pictures that made me look good

00:56:59 I owe here is standing in front of the Nashville Theatre School. Don't you know, he got in 100,000 people. Oh

00:57:04 Oh

00:57:06 I yearn far too badly for my parents love something that still hurts. It's just a huge void. I feel within myself from neglect

00:57:16 It's not a void bro, it's not a void

00:57:25 It's not a void

00:57:31 You

00:57:33 You ever go to a construction site they're building a house

00:57:38 Holy shit, that's a big square hole in the ground. What a void. Nope. It's a foundation. It's not a void

00:57:44 You gotta dig down to build up. It's not a void. It's a foundation now, you know

00:57:48 What you're missing so you can go out and damn well get what you deserve

00:57:53 It's not a void

00:57:59 It's a foundation

00:58:01 My brother's message was spurred by me sending him your peaceful parenting book just because oh because he had a kid, you know

00:58:07 Yeah, the demons they don't want to let go of the parents hearts. And so the holy water of the peaceful parenting book is gonna write

00:58:14 Oh boy, this guy's gonna give me another rant

00:58:19 And give me another rant I seem to have struck a nerve with the question about subconscious behavior, maybe I've been misunderstood I

00:58:28 Seem to have struck a nerve

00:58:30 Yeah, so the struck a nerve shit is also highly annoying

00:58:36 Honestly, I mean, let's let's be frank. It doesn't mean I'm right. I'm just telling you. I'm high. I find it highly annoying

00:58:40 Steps. Oh, I looks like I've like it looks like I've really struck a nerve. I

00:58:45 explained the whole thing I

00:58:48 Explained exactly how it gives people moral excuses. It promotes corruption. It makes people worse

00:58:54 It it is why people abuse children. Well, I just struck a random nerve. It's like no no

00:58:58 There's a very specific reason why the phrase bothers me as a moralist, right?

00:59:03 Right, if I'm a lung doctor and I say somebody says hey, I'm really trying to convince teenagers to smoke and I get angry

00:59:09 Well, I just seem to have struck a nerve

00:59:11 It's like no because I treat the people 30 years later when they're coughing up blood and dying on my floor. Oh

00:59:15 I struck a nerve with that lung doctor when I said I was trying to teach kids how to smoke and

00:59:22 It's not struck a nerve. There's very real reasons for all of this

00:59:25 Anyway, he says the reason for asking the question was because the reasoning you outlined about women trying to change the partner made perfect sense

00:59:31 But it seems like quite a convoluted thought process for people to go through

00:59:34 So I wondered if we do this without realizing if it's something women do consciously then it can be learned or unlearned which is important

00:59:40 What

00:59:44 It's quite a convoluted thought process for people to go through what are you talking about?

00:59:49 Are your dreams just big?

00:59:51 They're just pong this like aren't your dreams incredibly complex and company

00:59:55 Would you hurt me do these dreaming out every single night we go to sleep and we have incredible

00:59:59 thoughts and feelings and passions and stories and insights

01:00:02 apparently

01:00:05 Apparently I'm joining the band rush

01:00:07 I'm taking over for the drummer. I don't know why I had these dreams, but I had these dreams about joining the band rush

01:00:16 Maybe we'll talk about it in another time, but it was really big complicated meaty stuff

01:00:21 You don't think that people do complicated stuff

01:00:25 You don't think that we've developed

01:00:31 Instincts for our survival and don't you think the complexity of our instincts of why we're the top dog alpha predator in the entire universe

01:00:37 If it's something women do consciously they can be learned or unlearned which is important. Why should it be changed?

01:00:46 Why should trying to change a man to see if he's worthy of

01:00:49 loyalty or if he's just he understand a

01:00:54 Man who says everything the woman wants to hear and changes his position based upon what she wants to hear is

01:01:00 Just trying to get laid now women they have sex drives. They have sexual desire. They want to get laid themselves

01:01:07 But they don't want to get pregnant with a guy who's not going to provide

01:01:11 So you don't think that human beings who have the longest childhood of any species on the planet?

01:01:16 takes a quarter 20 to 25 years to grow a human brain to maturity and

01:01:20 Someone's got to provide for the woman when she gets fat and pregnant and breastfeeding and loses her youthful

01:01:26 Looks and luster. She's gonna need a guy who's gonna be there for her who's gonna be loyal

01:01:31 Who's good? So you don't think that given our?

01:01:33 Childhood the 20 to 25 years it takes to grow an adult brain

01:01:38 You don't think that women have figured out any way to figure out if guys trustworthy or not

01:01:41 It's just gonna have sex with them and take off you understand

01:01:44 We can't have ever developed the complexity of the brains that we have if women couldn't tell the cats from the chads

01:01:51 Right, the only reason we have as big a brain we do is that women can tell who's loyal and who's not

01:01:59 That's the only reason because if women couldn't tell that we never would have been able to develop these giant brains never

01:02:07 Women are the foundation women's cunning about choosing a loyal mate women's perceptiveness depth and instincts

01:02:13 It's the only reason why do you have a big brain? Why do we have this technology?

01:02:16 Why do I have a microphone? Why am I able to say things this fast this clear this vivid this deep this powerful because women

01:02:23 Figured out who would stick around

01:02:26 that's all they were doing throughout most of our evolution as a species and

01:02:30 Every time a woman chose a guy who would stick around our brain could get a little little more complex and grow a little longer

01:02:36 Because that which in nature is the most complex takes the longest to grow

01:02:39 Every time a woman made a good decision about who to fuck

01:02:44 Who to have children with every time a woman

01:02:47 Settled on the right guy our brains got a little bigger and now look at the size of our brains women know how to do

01:02:53 this shit

01:02:54 This is a fact right this evolution 101

01:02:56 So you're saying well, it's it's too complicated for women to figure it out

01:03:05 The only reason we complicate it is because women did figure it out

01:03:09 I feel horrible for laughing at loud humorous and on-point responses. Why?

01:03:18 Philosophy could be fun. It'd be fun, right? Ah

01:03:22 Thank you for the tip I appreciate that this is a fantastic conversation, thank you

01:03:28 Thank you for the comment staff things are really starting to turn around oh, this is the void guy

01:03:34 You

01:03:36 Oh

01:03:40 From the family members I keep tabs on there's so much alcohol cocaine and smoking that I can't believe I managed to get out

01:03:45 Oh good for you, man

01:03:47 Good for you and the idea that if something's unconscious it can't be learned or unlearned

01:03:55 It's nothing that you can change things that are unconscious

01:03:59 That's exactly what my parents did dangled hope Wow, what a realization thank you. Yeah, they abuse you by holding out hope

01:04:04 You know, it's the same you understand that like the parents who won't reform but dangle hope are like

01:04:11 The hot woman with the guy she uses to help her move and she uses to cry about the leather-wearing motorcycle drunkards

01:04:19 She has sex with and you know, you're the best guy. You're my favorite friend. You're such a great friend, right?

01:04:25 And he sticks around because he hopes that one day she's gonna realize and say gee I've been looking for everything in these bars all

01:04:31 This time and everything that I've been looking for has been right there in front of me kiss me. Hope he sex me, right?

01:04:36 so she's got him hanging around doing chores for her given her money and

01:04:41 Holding her hair back when she vomits

01:04:43 Because she's giving him the hope that he can have sex with her or be her boyfriend or whatever he wants, right?

01:04:49 so she's holding out hope in order to exploit him and

01:04:53 Men do it too, right men do it with oh, I've got a lot of money. I'm really want to settle down

01:04:57 You know, I've had enough of this running around and blah blah blah blah blah and then they sleep with the woman I ghost her

01:05:01 Right, they're holding out hope

01:05:03 If somebody says I like your analogy of how these abusers are stuck in a burning building and they spent every last effort getting you

01:05:11 Out of the burning building. I take all the good they did and repeat I

01:05:14 Thank them subconsciously for teaching me all the things not to do either. It's the best salvage didn't come out of that situation

01:05:21 You

01:05:23 Excuse me, it's been a long day. All right

01:05:31 Thank you. The analogy of building a foundation as opposed to there being a void hit home

01:05:35 I do have that emotion to send that one last message that would get them to see this time. Mmm

01:05:40 absolutely

01:05:43 Killing irrational hope is foundational to maturity

01:05:46 Right adulthood is when you give up on irrational. Hope I'm gonna be an astronaut or whatever. I do you give up on

01:05:52 You give up on irrational hope and

01:05:56 That's when you your balls drop

01:06:00 That's when your balls drop

01:06:03 You gotta look everything you hope for. What do you hope for? Is it realistic? Are you working towards it? If not kill it in the crib

01:06:09 Strangle it

01:06:12 Remove it excise it Lance it freeze it burn it quarter eyes it

01:06:18 Demonize it exercise it

01:06:22 Are you just hoping to fall in love are you doing things practical things finding out what the problem is putting out lots of feelers

01:06:32 Talking to nope, then stop

01:06:34 Don't pretend

01:06:39 But hope is the thing with feathers

01:06:41 Yeah, it's a fucking vulture. The vulture is the thing with feathers that eats out your heart when you're dead or dying

01:06:46 Fuck hope. Oh, I can't stand it

01:06:50 hope

01:06:53 Hope is a slave's emotion for salvation after death rather than rebellion in the here and now

01:06:57 Quick question. Did I just cross my fingers and hope to become a philosopher? Was that my goal?

01:07:05 They just got hope I could become a philosopher

01:07:07 You

01:07:09 Know hope is the consolation prize when insecurity wins

01:07:15 Hope is the drug you use when fear overtakes ambition and you get paralyzed. Oh, but I hope

01:07:25 Hope is an admission a failure and defeat

01:07:31 Without any even the honesty of saying no, I'm not gonna do it

01:07:35 I

01:07:37 Someone says everything else in my life is something I work at and see results from every day

01:07:41 My parents are gone and I think I just realized that right now. Yeah still waiting for that curse

01:07:45 Still waiting for that curse that every asshole and their dog put on me my entire fucking life. Oh

01:07:51 the curse

01:07:53 the money curse if

01:07:56 You don't resolve things with your parents when they die. You're gonna feel regret for the rest of you

01:08:02 fuck off

01:08:04 Fuck off you voodoo

01:08:06 casting

01:08:09 bone wearing marrow sucking

01:08:11 asstards

01:08:14 My father died years and years ago

01:08:16 Where's the curse everyone promised me Oh everyone tried to bully and manipulate me abuse me lie to me guilt me

01:08:25 Hopi and me. Oh, you gotta work things out

01:08:29 He's gonna die and you're gonna regret it

01:08:33 You

01:08:35 How am I doing with regret everyone does it seem that there's these as in there somewhere this all oh look zoom

01:08:42 I'll get closer. You can see where where where's all the regret?

01:08:46 Regret, oh, no. All I have is the most meaningful career known to man a beautiful wife and daughter great friends

01:08:53 some material comforts and a wonderful life Oh

01:08:58 no, but

01:09:02 But the voodoo curse is still though it's coming I

01:09:05 Knew that wasn't I knew it was nonsense

01:09:09 You didn't use the law of attraction to become a philosopher I certainly did I

01:09:15 Certainly did I was attracted to philosophy

01:09:21 I have a post I have post-it notes with some things

01:09:27 You've said that I find it personally important on my monitors and one of them is plan don't hope. Yeah

01:09:31 hope is

01:09:34 despair

01:09:36 Hope is just despair by another name. Hope is giving up

01:09:43 Then again, there are far too many 40-somethings who have not matured sure

01:09:54 Loving locals, but live chat is not loading for me. I confronted my mother over abuse as a kid

01:09:59 They denied doing so well so much for a reckoning or accountability

01:10:03 Yeah, you know the slippery

01:10:10 Assholes without a conscience you can spend your entire life chasing that quicksilver around

01:10:16 Because they just despawn every time you get close and then they respawn and offer you

01:10:24 illusions every time you leave

01:10:26 Huh

01:10:39 My face is starting to hurt from smiling so much love you Steph. I appreciate that. Thank you. Love you back. Love you back

01:10:45 Random question I've thought about the past few weeks. Did you ever figure out why Stanley Kowalski raped blotch?

01:10:52 After listening to your light to must interviews origins of war and child abuse

01:10:55 I lean towards Stanley raping blotch since it's the reason why soldiers rape in war because the mother's abuse

01:11:00 Neglect or abandonment drives the hatred onto other women

01:11:03 So I did a whole I think it was with dr. Pesta dr. Duke Pesta you can do a search at FDR podcasts.com

01:11:12 FDR podcasts.com. I got some color. Oh, I did check this out. I did get some color. Look at this

01:11:22 Look at that. Oh

01:11:24 Got me some color

01:11:27 You see you can see right? Yeah, I got some color, baby. I got some

01:11:33 Lobster tits. What can I tell you?

01:11:36 So it's good stuff I go I'm no longer frightened of the Sun

01:11:41 I've been reading I've been reading I've been reading

01:11:48 So third degree J. Yes, maybe would

01:11:51 It's funny. Yeah. Yeah things are coming. Well, things are coming up. So I

01:11:57 Read the many years ago. I read

01:12:00 Tennessee Williams the author of streetcar named desire. I read his

01:12:05 Biography and he lost against his mother. He never won against his mother was a devouring mother

01:12:12 He never won against his mother. So the rage against his mother was transformed into

01:12:16 The rage that Stanley Kowalski had against Blanche Dubois

01:12:19 Because it makes no sense he's already won why would he rape her it makes no sense and he doesn't like her she's gross

01:12:27 My parents also sent me to courses that did all that mystical shit one was called mind store another was called silver mind

01:12:38 It was you can heal your bones with your mind energy. I was a kid when they sent me to them. Yeah, I was actually

01:12:46 All right cut myself shaving the other day I think I reopened it with my passions I bleed for you people I bleed so

01:12:53 Yeah, bloody well, right

01:12:57 Yeah, my mom took me to all this psychic bullshit, too

01:13:00 I was actually I was my friend of mine Jamie and I were in the Toronto Star way back in the day

01:13:05 mind bending power because we read a spool spoon bending seminar and

01:13:09 we had

01:13:11 our pictures were in the paper for bending spoons with our mind and

01:13:15 And

01:13:17 Yeah

01:13:19 So anybody who's into that mystical shit is just confessing to manipulation

01:13:26 Words matter words a way of changing reality. Okay, you're a woman with cleavage and you manipulate guys. I got it. Blah blah blah blah, right?

01:13:34 Like mr. Banana hands himself with Tony Robbins Tony Robbins

01:13:44 You know, what is he seven foot tall ultimate Chad jaw, you know and stuff like that and

01:13:49 You just got a manifest like pretty easy to manifest when you're a man

01:13:53 God seven feet tall because you had some weird growth hormone shit, you know great hair great teeth big jaw

01:13:59 Very imposing very impressive, but just got a manifest things man. Just like me. Okay. Okay, you beat Danny DeVito and pull that shit

01:14:07 See how it works. I'm just you know, just curious. I

01:14:11 Mean I manifested things. Yeah good for you. What about girls that are into crystals?

01:14:15 Yeah, so those vaginas are portals to hell through which demons will come and take your balls

01:14:20 The locals app I was listening to was delayed a glance over at the live stream video and all of a sudden I'm watching only

01:14:31 Stiff hands. Yeah, that's right

01:14:33 That's right. I don't work my flesh enough. I damn well should I don't work. You know, I I saw an app the other day

01:14:40 I

01:14:41 Saw an app it was I can't do it here. I can't stand in my chair

01:14:44 But yeah, I I was Lee I was out walking around I saw myself in a window and I was like damn it

01:14:51 That's an app. It may even fact be more than one

01:14:53 It's like watching Atlantis come up from the ocean ABS in middle age. They're rising

01:15:00 It's like one of those horror movies where the face is through the sheet. They'd starting to poke through

01:15:07 AB soon to be plural

01:15:09 No longer keg the syllables have changed or at least the letters have changed

01:15:17 So yes, just wanted to point that out that's kind of cool I

01:15:23 Heard Tony Robbins say he's seen people change their eye color through thought that was wild

01:15:29 Yeah

01:15:31 Tonight's show keeps getting better. I love the insight and humor dynamite energy. Well, thank you

01:15:36 I'm leading out to since I draw since dropping sugar

01:15:39 Yeah, I think I'm I mean I cheat a little bit get these Lara bars and they have like 17 grams of sugar

01:15:44 But it's like dates and stuff like raisins and stuff like that

01:15:47 So I still get a bit of sugar, but you need a little bit of sugar

01:15:49 I'm just still I'm still like I'm off the natural. I'm off the natural. Sorry. I'm off the added sugars, right?

01:15:54 Superstition

01:15:58 Like my parents had this don't take the trash out at night. You're taking money out of if the house

01:16:04 Thing there's never one that says be nice to your kids. Sometimes all their abandon you in your old age

01:16:08 Yeah

01:16:14 It's funny because you know with the Christians is like honor their mother and their father it's like, you know

01:16:20 That's kind of Old Testament, right?

01:16:21 The New Testament is Jesus says I've come to set father against child and parent against child and all that

01:16:30 If I'm hoping a good friendship of mine will become a relationship have I already have I actually given up on the idea already

01:16:36 If I'm hoping a good friendship of mine will be oh you mean like a dating relationship

01:16:41 This is Ali right, so are you a female?

01:16:46 If I'm hoping a good friendship of mine will become a relationship. Have I actually given up on the idea already?

01:16:58 The great danger for men is dissociation and the great danger for women is delay

01:17:03 So the great danger for men is dissociation from life's challenges through video games pornography movies blah blah blah. Yeah female, right? So

01:17:12 The great danger for men is dissociation the great danger for women is delay

01:17:17 So Ali Ali Ali Ali

01:17:22 Why are you?

01:17:26 Lying I say this with sympathy and affection

01:17:30 Why are you lying like a cheap Chinese rug?

01:17:34 Why are you?

01:17:37 Falsifying why are you bearing false witness? Why do you have a tongue so forked it can go to Vegas and Washington in the same day?

01:17:45 Why?

01:17:47 Why are you lying to this man

01:17:54 You

01:17:56 Because if you want a

01:17:58 romantic relationship out of a friendship there is a

01:18:02 Special code that you can this is a very very secret. You can't share this around. This is really really private

01:18:08 I'd go only for supporters, but I don't want to refer to you guys as jocks or straps

01:18:13 so there's a a

01:18:16 little

01:18:20 A little code that you can say it's like a kind of little mind like a Jedi mind trick if you've got a friend

01:18:26 You want a date?

01:18:28 Here's a little little trick that you can use it's kind of like a hair flip or particular kind of scent or some

01:18:34 feral gnomes pheromones

01:18:37 So if you are in a friendship that you want to get a date from you can say I'd like a date

01:18:46 I

01:18:48 Know it's kind of shocking

01:18:52 But you can say I want to I want to date you. I want to go on a date

01:18:57 We're such good friends

01:19:00 Let's throw some fanny slapping in and make the beast with two backs

01:19:04 It's an I'm not he knows he says he's not in a position to date right now

01:19:14 So you've asked him for a date and he says he's not in a position to date right now

01:19:18 So I could get kind of dangerous here

01:19:28 I could get kind of dangerous here one to ten. How dangerous should I get?

01:19:38 You

01:19:40 What now dangerous should we get

01:19:48 I'm in a position to date says James. Yes. He is

01:19:53 I'm ranted. Oh that one. That's too far. I

01:19:58 like capitalism and

01:20:01 Russian and smoking voice

01:20:03 maximum overdrive

01:20:08 You got a guy who's hesitant to date he really likes you your great friends. He's just not quite in a position to date

01:20:14 He's a little hesitant jump him

01:20:16 We freefall stick the landing blank fork leg trap the boy

01:20:24 Jump him

01:20:27 of course with full consent and and passion and if he says no he says no, but yeah, just

01:20:34 Climb onto his lap

01:20:37 Now if he says get off my lap, I'm not in a position to date of course you get off his lap

01:20:41 Don't do anything without consent

01:20:44 You'd be amazed at how men's minds change with a woman on their lap

01:20:49 I mean some people give up 500 bucks to strippers based on that

01:20:52 So

01:20:59 If the boy can resist your physical charms on his lap

01:21:04 Then move on because he's crippled

01:21:07 No means no absolutely he says no yes, absolutely says no disengage absolutely

01:21:18 You can do it verbally

01:21:29 You can do it verbally you don't have to touch him at all

01:21:33 you want to know how to do it I

01:21:35 Want you so bad I could taste it. I literally can taste it. I can taste your flesh I

01:21:43 Want you inside me like you're a supernova, and I'm a black hole I

01:21:48 Need to envelop you I need to surround you I need to absorb you I need to make you mine

01:21:53 I need to put my scent on you so that other women stay away

01:21:56 I'm burning. I'm yearning. I'm dying. I'm frying we got to do it

01:22:03 You

01:22:05 And you can go on and on I don't want to get too memable, but just

01:22:10 Disassemble him

01:22:13 Disassemble him with your seduction

01:22:26 You know we don't live that long man, I feel like I'm 57 I'm gonna be 58 years old this year

01:22:32 We don't live that long man it. It's a flyby

01:22:36 Life is like this ambulance. Yeah, it goes by gosh

01:22:41 It's a blur

01:22:44 It's a leaf in the wind. It's nothing

01:22:52 You need a man with some passion with some lust with some some oomph

01:22:56 right I

01:22:58 Mean I'm Stephen frying about you. I don't really think that's gonna work. It's just gonna confuse everyone

01:23:03 Now that I have found you in the cool of your evening smile

01:23:17 the shade of your parasol

01:23:21 And your love flows through me

01:23:25 Though I lie here so still I

01:23:30 burn

01:23:32 for you I

01:23:34 burn

01:23:36 for you I

01:23:38 Burn for you you just burn him smoke him out smoke him out

01:23:43 All right, what do we got here?

01:23:49 Yes a very feminine woman is quite irresistible to men well straight men

01:23:52 Yeah, has life ever felt shorter or longer during different periods. I hear that often from different people I

01:23:57 Just try to get as much productive and beautiful stuff done during the day as I can

01:24:03 I don't generally think about how long life is but

01:24:06 Life is certainly not long enough that you wait around waiting for a guy's weird heart to thaw out

01:24:18 Is Barry White singing well certainly I'm putting the white and Barry White if that's the case

01:24:22 Life is short and there are no refunds or extensions

01:24:28 random question my codependent mom once captured a scorpion that had babies in a jar and took it to work so she could shake the

01:24:34 Jar and watch the mother collect all the babies on its back dad at home is extremely controlling narcissist. Why would she do that?

01:24:39 Is there a connection?

01:24:41 It's it who's the guy who used to

01:24:46 Ibsen on Rick Ibsen

01:24:48 Famous playwright he used to write with a scorpion under a jar and he poked it right right with that

01:24:59 Why would you care

01:25:03 Why would you care why your codependent mom capture scorpions

01:25:13 And your dad is an extremely controlling narcissist

01:25:17 Why would you care why anyone would do anything as far as that goes?

01:25:21 If they're that destructive and toxic, why would you care? I'm happy to hear the answer. I could be missing something completely, of course

01:25:28 Why would you care?

01:25:30 Somebody's this is a quote from a movie because I've never felt about anybody the way I feel about you

01:25:43 I don't want to F you until we merge into a chimera a mythical beast of penis and vagina

01:25:47 Eternally fused two pairs of eyes that look only at each other and lips ever touching at one voice that whispers to itself

01:25:53 Just curious because she was talking about it on Mother's Day

01:25:57 So why are you spending time around toxic narcissist and codependent blah blah blah like why are you spending time with these people?

01:26:04 You

01:26:06 Get through the day but late at night make love to my pillow, but it didn't feel right bed too big without you

01:26:21 All right

01:26:24 How are donations going? Oh a

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01:26:32 What's that and come on tell me it's not been a good show

01:26:37 Philip Seymour Hoffman was one sad guy man

01:26:47 All right went out with a buddy last week and he would winged man be with a girl

01:26:49 I was interested in for a year who I thought liked me

01:26:51 He gave me a pep talk about how she could possibly be the mother of my kids and lit a fire under me

01:26:56 I shot my shot and found out she's in a relationship now. It was great to get closure, but I was enamored with regret

01:27:02 Knowing I wasted a year without making a move not wasting time anymore

01:27:04 Everything you want that you don't have is evaporating

01:27:11 Well, there's a big block of ice out there in the desert. I'll go pick it up in a week. Oh, no

01:27:17 There's nothing there not even a damp spot

01:27:19 Everything you want that you don't have is

01:27:25 Vaporizing minute by minute all the women you want are vaporizing because they're getting into other relationships. They're moving away. They're getting woke

01:27:33 They're getting lonely. They're making bad decisions. They're getting pregnant you oh

01:27:36 Everything you want that you don't have is

01:27:39 dissolving

01:27:42 Every time you breathe

01:27:44 You know shockingly time does not freeze because we want something

01:27:53 I don't talk to my dad. My mom is okay for now

01:27:55 Okay, but your mom chose your dad and your mom is collecting scorpions that's a little psychotic in my opinion

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01:28:34 I have stuff a random question

01:28:39 Oh, you have a horror horrible habit, which is swearing I

01:28:48 Genuinely don't mean to do it. I really want to stop a need to

01:28:50 I'm correcting that behavior

01:28:54 So just practice right just practice saying Oh fudge or you know, we're just practice you just

01:29:02 There's no mindset that takes the place of practice, right?

01:29:07 I'm gonna visualize being really good at the piano. Well, you actually do have to play the piano

01:29:11 You got to do your scales. You got to like got to do your thing, right?

01:29:14 So you got to practice so you got to practice not swearing which means when you're not upset or you're not passionate

01:29:21 You've got to practice not swearing

01:29:23 The people you most deserve an apology from will never give you one yes, but they give you something even better than an apology

01:29:35 They give you something that's even because an apology is often manipulative the people who don't apologize to you are giving you a huge great

01:29:44 deep wonderful beautiful

01:29:45 magnificent gift

01:29:47 Lifetime subscriber here. You've helped me my wife and many others. I've recommended philosophy - thank you. I appreciate your support. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you

01:29:57 Can you talk about working hard at the high performance level Musk jobs moment

01:30:06 Yeah, I can I can I can talk about that

01:30:14 But you know, I'm gonna do it later and badly I

01:30:16 Mean do it later and lazily

01:30:19 Yeah, I think without a doubt. I'm the hardest working philosophy

01:30:23 I'm hardest working philosopher in

01:30:26 Anything I've ever read about. All right

01:30:29 Unapologetic unapologetic assholes give you yeah, they give you freedom

01:30:32 freedom

01:30:35 Nothing is better than the freedom. Nothing better. I love Colin James, man. So yes

01:30:42 Yeah, they give you they give you freedom. It's a greatest gift of all

01:30:45 If you can't get love the greatest gift is freedom

01:30:49 If you can't get connection contact virtue trust

01:30:54 morals conscience

01:30:57 consideration

01:30:59 You understand the people who refuse?

01:31:01 To give you apologies when they've wronged you are working as hard as possible to set you free and you just won't listen

01:31:11 Hey

01:31:13 Why won't you listen to the people trying to free you?

01:31:15 Like the people who literally rip their arm off trying to get you out of your cage and you just stand there like no not

01:31:20 going

01:31:21 Coming back Mother's Day is coming up. Thanks. You're coming back

01:31:24 They literally are saying

01:31:28 Go there's nothing for you here. We're not even going to apologize for abusing you. We don't have a conscience go go save yourself

01:31:35 It's too late for us for God's sakes get out of hell. You can make it you can make it. No, I'm staying

01:31:40 I'm gonna save you. We can't be saved

01:31:42 We can't we're very clearly saying to you. We don't have a conscience. We can't apologize. We just do it again

01:31:47 We're gonna do it again. We're gonna come I get any more clear

01:31:49 Do we need to tattoo it on our foreheads for God's sakes get out? No, I'm staying

01:31:54 But to know you can't help us

01:31:57 Please please dear Lord above

01:32:00 I'm on my knees begging and praying to the God who himself can't save me because if God could save me

01:32:05 He would have given me my conscience back. It's gone. It's lost

01:32:08 It's gone it's lost

01:32:10 We are damned

01:32:13 You cannot get us out of hell, but we can at least get you to heaven. No

01:32:16 Listen, the only thing that makes our suffering worthwhile is if you escape this hellhole. No, I won't go you understand. That's just vengeance

01:32:23 You're just staying there

01:32:26 So that you hurt yourself because you think it'll hurt them and I guess it kind of does

01:32:30 People who don't apologize are giving you a one-way space ticket off a dying planet and you're like, oh, I'm not going to go

01:32:37 Dying planet and you're like no

01:32:39 Why would I want to go to earth when I could die with you here Jor-el Brando?

01:32:43 Who is even competing with freedom and this is one out of one, yeah

01:32:48 Have you ever done a show on consequentialism FDR podcast calm FDR podcast calm

01:32:57 I have broken my leg in the bowels of the dying

01:33:06 Titanic

01:33:07 here

01:33:09 Go to go to safety. Don't die here with me. I can't make it out

01:33:13 I'm tangled. I'm tamed. I'm chained. I'm tied. I can't get out

01:33:17 No, we're staying here with you. This makes my death pointless. All of us dying is pointless for God's sakes go save yourself

01:33:24 No, we're staying here with you. I don't want you to

01:33:29 Go and save yourself. It makes my death infinitely worse if you're here with me

01:33:36 You

01:33:38 Now we're still staying Oh God

01:33:43 Oh God, what do people have to do to get you out of the cage?

01:33:53 Hi, thank you for the tip Vince, I appreciate that

01:34:02 Oh

01:34:03 You're the only philosopher who hit so many high notes with me. Your content has literally changed my entire life

01:34:08 Thank you for all your hard work brother. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I appreciate that

01:34:11 In retrospect to see sir simp I feel that my behavior was sort of bratty by just sticking around expecting my parents to treat me

01:34:18 better if their own volition

01:34:20 I've missed a lot lately been super busy. Love to catch you live. Thank you. Thank you

01:34:31 Yeah

01:34:33 Yeah, so you can go to FDR podcast comm slash search slash consequentialism, let's see what do we get what could be consequence consequentialism

01:34:42 So, yeah, there's five shows there

01:34:48 Consequentialism about consequentialists

01:34:53 We have anything there no, but what about

01:35:01 Pragmatist

01:35:03 Pragmatism if certainly that pragmatism in the history of philosophy series. Yeah, the religion of the argument from effect FDR 1645

01:35:13 So you can try that so what is their pragmatist utilitarian

01:35:21 Utilitarian

01:35:28 Yes

01:35:30 So there's two shows on utilitarian, I don't know if does it get ism utilitarianism. Ah, yes. Oh

01:35:37 James can you change that to be wild-card?

01:35:41 Utilitarian should get utilitarian and utilitarian and

01:35:46 Utilitarianism so yeah very early on in the show FDR 225. When is that?

01:35:52 That is 2006

01:35:55 Utilitarianism there's two a two-part series on utilitarianism

01:35:58 The suit in the pseudoscience of subjectivity

01:36:03 So utilitarianism the Swiss Army knife at your throat and utilitarianism the pseudoscience of subjectivity you should check out those

01:36:10 But yes, I think it should be a wild-card. I think so

01:36:22 Hmm

01:36:24 Premium free domain calm premium dr. Feed for into free domain calm. You can see all the history of philosopher series stuff

01:36:29 Do you use nootropics for your deep work sessions? I eat caffeine. I do two cups of coffee a day

01:36:34 But I don't use anything else. I mean I take some supplements, but nothing like that just vitamins, right?

01:36:41 All right, any last comments questions issues challenges mad praise for the mad thoughts

01:36:51 Oh, yes. Can you talk about working hard at the high performance level?

01:36:54 So one thing I learned pretty early is you need your rest

01:37:01 Right because working at a high performance level is such a high

01:37:06 That it's addictive and you need your rest. So I was very conscious of the fact that most

01:37:13 Most creative people have a 15-year window

01:37:18 Now I started writing great books in my 20s, I'm now

01:37:23 57 right

01:37:26 So I've had like 35 years now, that's way more productivity and I think honestly I think in some ways I'm still peaking

01:37:31 Thank you for the tip

01:37:33 So I think in some ways I'm still peaking and that has been a very sort of conscious plan

01:37:37 For a couple of things. First of all, you need some variety you can wear grooves in your brain

01:37:41 I remember a therapist one said to me after she recommended she recommended that I watch

01:37:46 the singing detective not the Mel Gibson one, but the much longer one and

01:37:49 She said that the writer of that who also wrote a movie I watched a couple of times just because sting was in it and

01:38:00 I was a big fan of the police

01:38:02 Brimstone and treacle which is actually where that song I sang earlier I burned for you comes from and you listen to him do that

01:38:08 Live in Paris I burned it's amazing. The vocals are incredible

01:38:11 But that writer said, you know

01:38:14 You just you get this fields and your field is your history and you just plow it back and forth and it's like no

01:38:18 That's not I need the variety. I absolutely need the variety. My brain is

01:38:22 Thunderously stimulated by variety. So I'll go from you know, a little bit of singing. I'll go to some some poetry

01:38:29 I'll go to the art stuff. We talked about some biography psychology

01:38:32 self-knowledge philosophy

01:38:36 Science like all this kind of stuff. I I love variety and that's the way in which I stay

01:38:40 Creative the people who just do the same stuff over and over again is it's wild to me

01:38:45 I don't know how they do it and I think it just become

01:38:47 Automatic it becomes rote. It becomes repetitive and they have to also consistently deny their own lack of success. Oh look libertarianism

01:38:55 How's that government doing right? They have to completely decry their own. They have to completely avoid their own lack of success

01:39:00 I don't want to avoid anything in myself

01:39:02 I don't want to have areas of no-go where I have to like

01:39:04 Avoid and dodge and and skate over and skim over and stuff like that, right?

01:39:09 So I absolutely have wanted to keep that variety going which is why I you know, very early on in the show

01:39:16 I read poems. I

01:39:18 sang songs I

01:39:20 Read from plays and and did monologues and like I just need I need the variety and I hope that that's not too bad for you

01:39:25 So I feel you get let's say you get 15 years and I'm in

01:39:31 eight different areas, right

01:39:33 So right that's that's more than my lifespan, right? Right? That's that's more than my lifespan, right?

01:39:41 So if I get eight different fields and I get 15 years of creativity, there's 120 years

01:39:47 So that's that's more than my lifespan. So this is why you know

01:39:50 I I dip into writing novels that absolutely refreshes me and revitalizes my brain

01:39:55 I'm not doing analytical philosophy that much at the moment after I did my whole history of philosopher series

01:40:01 Because I needed a break from that

01:40:03 So it's like I don't want to let my fields lie fallow, but I want to keep planting them with different crops

01:40:08 So they wouldn't don't exhaust the same soil, right?

01:40:10 So that to me is important. You have to rest you have to rest you need to take your breaks

01:40:16 At least one day out of three

01:40:19 I'll take a nap for 45 minutes of the afternoon and it really refreshes and revitalizes me particularly if I have evening work

01:40:27 When are we going to do another trivia night? Oh, it's true. Let's do them

01:40:30 What's we can do on this weekend keep your eyes peeled and posted

01:40:33 But the high performance level is

01:40:37 It comes the high performance level is not about ego. It's about responsibility

01:40:42 It's really really is about responsibility and by responsibility

01:40:46 What I mean is when you get big enough you are responsible for a community and it's the responsibility for that community

01:40:52 That keeps you working at such a high level

01:40:54 Right, so I am

01:40:57 Very aware of you know, we've got a community going here people have put a lot of stock in philosophy. They've changed their lives

01:41:03 They've made huge decisions

01:41:05 Regarding philosophy or related to philosophy. So I need to keep working at this high level because I

01:41:11 Have influenced people so I can't screw up

01:41:16 I mean or if I appear to have screwed up in the world

01:41:20 It's because I've kept my integrity with the truth, right?

01:41:23 So that the highest level is the greatest responsibility for others and the benefit of others

01:41:29 So, let me just see here

01:41:32 Have you heard about the beef between block and hop

01:41:36 It's the block thing to do with Israel on October 7th and Gaza and all of that kind of stuff because

01:41:45 I've heard a little bit about that, but I haven't

01:41:48 I haven't dug into it in any particular way

01:41:53 It's nice to be

01:41:55 Off politics. I was going to rest and sleep now

01:41:58 But new Friday night live was gonna be on I'll sleep in tomorrow brother. Well, I appreciate that. Thank you. Thank you

01:42:04 Thank you

01:42:04 Steph you a new fresh and original all of the time over the last eight years

01:42:06 You're the only one I follow anymore. Everyone else is stale like a month old open packet chips YouTube losers

01:42:11 Who did this day still shit on liberals?

01:42:13 this is old hat and tiring nothing new from those people, right and

01:42:16 That's why

01:42:19 that the peaceful parenting thing was brutal and tough and horrible to work on but but very

01:42:23 Very important so and you need to stay fresh with your perspective. You need to stay fresh with your perspective

01:42:30 You need to keep challenging yourself about being right about your life

01:42:33 I can give you an example and this could be what we can close on because this is something I was thinking about a lot

01:42:38 today so I can give you an example of

01:42:42 How I was wrong about my life recent life in I think in a very foundational way

01:42:47 So

01:42:51 If you're interested, I don't want to tease you or anything like that

01:42:54 But if you're interested if you're interested I can tell you that you don't ever assume that you're right about your life

01:43:01 Right because you've got to stay fresh and you've got to be open to new

01:43:03 Perspectives. Can you do another interview with Mike Adams at bright? Yeah, and he's been killing it recently. I like Mike

01:43:09 Yeah, I like Mike I can certainly I can certainly think about that, but doesn't he mostly do politics? Am I wrong about that?

01:43:14 Make it out of that. Okay, so

01:43:18 In the premium section there is a great series of shows over 10 hours on the history of the French Revolution

01:43:26 It's a deep powerful wild

01:43:28 History of the French Revolution with a central thesis that goes something like this that the revolution happens

01:43:35 When people escape bad childhoods and leave everyone else behind the resentment the frustration the futility the rage the anger the abandonment

01:43:42 Blows up so society when people start succeeding and they leave everyone else behind

01:43:47 You're hollowing out the whole progress and it collapses in on itself. So I

01:43:51 Make the case in sort of very detailed and passionate and powerful ways and you need to go to premium free domain comm

01:43:58 You just got to sign up man. You can try it for free for a month

01:44:02 I mean just sign up and listen to that. It's an incredible series and you know all kudos to Jared for a lot of the

01:44:06 Research it was great

01:44:08 And we dug up stuff that nobody else has talked about that that I've seen so at least in the way that we do so

01:44:14 That case, right?

01:44:17 so

01:44:19 The the D platforming I've gone through a whole bunch of things in my head, right?

01:44:23 Right premium free domain comm. Yeah, so the D platforming

01:44:27 I've gone through and I've looked at it from a whole bunch of different angles because you know

01:44:30 It's pretty significant event in my life for good and for bad and there have been good and bad about it. So a

01:44:36 Couple of ways that I've approached it one is, you know straight-up politics, you know

01:44:40 Like I wrote stuff defending Trump and you know, whatever right? So there's all of that. So 2020 can't be around

01:44:46 It's now coming out and you know, you have to read the books by

01:44:50 Kennedy and you have to read the book by Rand Paul

01:44:53 on on

01:44:55 The origins of Kovach and all this kind of stuff, right?

01:44:58 So the fact that I was poking like they were really trying to cover up the fact that it came from a lab

01:45:02 It came from a lab. Of course it came from a lab

01:45:04 so

01:45:05 when I did my whole video the case against China which I had a lot of experts weigh in to give me the material for

01:45:10 All about the case against China and how we kind of knew that it came from a lab. Oh it came from bats

01:45:15 It's like SARS doesn't covet

01:45:17 Doesn't even infect bats really so no it didn't come from bats

01:45:20 And of course now it's what four plus years and they still haven't found

01:45:23 The intermediate animals the transmission species the pangolins whatever and then there was no covert in the wet market and it was like 400 feet

01:45:30 from the

01:45:32 With so and you know now the funding seems to be pretty fairly establishes coming from the US blah blah blah blah, right?

01:45:37 So the fact that I was poking around that was not

01:45:39 good

01:45:41 For for the powers the B and and all of that

01:45:44 So I mean that's been sort of a variety of things that I've heard from various places and this and that and the other about

01:45:50 Sort of what was going on with the D platforming now

01:45:53 and so I've thought about it a bunch of different ways and

01:45:56 This is not the right way

01:45:58 But this is a way that I was thinking about today when I was thinking about the French Revolution stuff

01:46:02 And I'm working on a true crime

01:46:04 Podcast or video I'm still trying to figure out the best way to present this information anyway, so

01:46:11 This is what I think what I think is that the people who D platformed me had bad childhoods and

01:46:18 Wanted me to get back to dealing with childhood

01:46:21 Can you imagine if I was still doing politics and hadn't been D platformed?

01:46:25 Would I have written the peaceful parenting book

01:46:29 Probably not

01:46:32 Because I'd be traveling I'd be

01:46:34 Roaming in the gloam and I'd be doing speeches. I'd be doing

01:46:37 Q&A's I'd be doing roundtables

01:46:40 I write so the people who D platform me deep down had bad childhoods and I was moving on without circling back

01:46:47 to pick up the wounded

01:46:50 So they were saying

01:46:52 Stop at the politics

01:46:58 Return to the childhoods

01:47:00 Don't leave us behind and I think the D platforming at an unconscious level had that element

01:47:07 Significantly to it as well and I can't help but agree with them. Honestly, I can't help but agree with them

01:47:13 politics was fun and vivid and obviously was lucrative and all of that and

01:47:20 But it it was leaving people behind right it was leaving people behind

01:47:25 I've certainly was one of the biggest people to be D platformed early on for sure for sure

01:47:34 You were the first person to have people on talking about how it was a man-made virus when no one would touch that yeah sure

01:47:42 for sure

01:47:45 So, I mean there was a lot of things

01:47:47 but I think one of the things that I hadn't really thought about was I

01:47:50 Talked about how there's a lot of rage and resentment if society moves ahead and people get left behind

01:47:55 they

01:47:57 Get their vengeance and I understand that. I'm I don't obviously don't like the violence or the censorship, but

01:48:04 If I had not been D platform to what I have written the most important book with the most long-term benefit to the world

01:48:10 Which is peaceful parenting and also my novels which I think give people something to aim for and talk a lot about childhood

01:48:17 So, I don't think you would be doing the deep mining for philosophical gold if you were still into politics, yes

01:48:23 Yes, that's right

01:48:26 politics had a certain demonic aspect to it that was drawing me away from the virtue of the future that can be created by a

01:48:31 Deep knowledge of childhood in the present and of course tons of thinkers and philosophers are taking their ideas and applying them to politics

01:48:39 But I'm the only guy to do

01:48:43 the philosophical virtues and vices of parents and child children

01:48:46 Somebody says I feel it's been an honor to be the one to two percent of YouTube subscribers to follow you and have even more

01:48:52 primo access to you. Well, I think these kinds of conversations just wouldn't have been happening and

01:48:57 these kinds of conversations

01:49:00 Can't save the politics of the present, but they can build a great world in the future

01:49:11 It's too late for reason to fix politics and I don't mind I

01:49:19 Don't mind

01:49:22 Being out of politics

01:49:26 When we have to wait for the next cycle

01:49:32 So I think

01:49:36 That's a lot of what has been going on and is going on that there was an unconscious thing of like

01:49:40 He's going ahead with politics. He's kind of falling down that rabbit hole. He's it's about vanity. It's about size. It's about reach

01:49:47 It's about what income and so on

01:49:49 We got to get him back to childhood, how are we gonna get him back to childhood?

01:49:54 How are we gonna get him back to helping the children left behind?

01:49:56 How are we gonna get him well

01:50:01 We need him to see

01:50:05 How unimportant he is in?

01:50:07 Politics you see what I mean?

01:50:10 Now how to how does the world how does the unconscious of the people to deplatform me?

01:50:14 How did they get me to see how important how unimportant I am in the realm of politics?

01:50:18 How did they get me to see that

01:50:22 Well

01:50:26 They deplatform me

01:50:28 And nobody follows me

01:50:31 Now that's humbling

01:50:33 Right that oh, I'm so important. Look at all these views. I'm doing this. I'm doing that right?

01:50:38 how

01:50:40 humbling and

01:50:42 Wise they the deep platformers the people who deplatformed me taught me more than I was capable of teaching myself

01:50:49 Because they said oh

01:50:54 Aren't you mr. Empiricist? Oh how interesting you're an empiricist. Oh, you think you're so important

01:51:01 Oh, you think you're having such a big effect. Oh, you think you're so valuable here. Well, no problem

01:51:05 I tell you what, we'll move you one website over just just one little website over and let's just see how important you are

01:51:11 How invaluable you are. Let's just see everything you're risking everything for. Let's just see. Let's just just put this to the test and

01:51:19 You shouldn't complain about things being put to the test

01:51:22 right

01:51:27 You shouldn't mind I mean you are a rationalist you are an empiricist

01:51:30 So if you're so important and what you do is so valuable and surely people can go one website over

01:51:39 Surely people won't say as they have well, you know bit shoot doesn't have an app. Oh

01:51:45 So, I don't know man, I I guess I could check email but you know

01:51:52 It doesn't have an app

01:51:56 So it's I don't know man, I mean that's a whole other website

01:52:04 I

01:52:10 There's a lot of typing man, that's like what is that 10 characters 12 characters? Geez, man. I

01:52:20 Want you to take all these risks out there in the political realm, but I'm not even gonna type in another website, right?

01:52:26 Yeah, Peter Schiff and Styx. Yeah. No, I get that. They've been fine. And I'm not some big problem I have with everyone

01:52:33 I'm just pointing it out. I am an empiricist and I got a massive

01:52:38 Slice of humble pie into my body. It was not delivered even through my mouth. It was like bend over

01:52:45 Lube up here comes the humble pie

01:52:49 Oh

01:52:51 You're all that. Oh, is he gone Steph? You're the most magnificent political L. Oh, is he gone? Huh? Forget it. I

01:52:56 mean, that's

01:52:59 Great. That was great for me

01:53:01 right

01:53:04 Because I want the facts and they gave me the facts those people gave you freedom. Absolutely

01:53:10 Absolutely, I was really you know, I was honestly I was real half-and-half

01:53:15 Part of me was like I can't believe people aren't following me over. I can't believe I vanished from everyone's mind

01:53:20 I can't believe I'm that unimportant how terrible and the other part of it. Oh, thank God

01:53:25 I don't have to do this dangerous shit anymore and I can go back to where my greatest value

01:53:29 I mean, I think I was pretty good at political analysis and the world obviously seemed to agree to a large degree but

01:53:34 Lots of people can do that. But it seems like so far. It's me me and this

01:53:41 Me and this this and me right the childhood the philosophy the morality and this is what the peaceful parenting, you know

01:53:48 Anybody can call about anything

01:53:50 Call in at freedom and calm anyone can set up a call that doesn't have to be a childhood

01:53:55 It's never anything right that what do people want to talk about? I'm trapped in my life. I'm not free in my life

01:54:00 I need to get free and maybe it has something to do with my thoughts my history my this my dad, right?

01:54:09 Yeah, oh man, I gotta install oh

01:54:14 I gotta install another app

01:54:18 Ah

01:54:23 Man

01:54:25 Great I'm free. I'm free now to focus

01:54:31 On those who get it

01:54:35 Did they force your behavior? I'm not sure what you mean

01:54:39 You

01:54:41 Politics affects every aspect of our lives. Yes, but not as much as childhood

01:54:46 Ah

01:54:53 So somebody says Oh ground beef. I still remember where I was when your YouTube was banned shortly after the demonetization

01:54:58 I wasn't worried. I would see you immediately followed you everywhere

01:55:01 But just was a moment in time where I knew things were getting bad

01:55:04 I wouldn't donate as much as I do now probably if it wasn't for all that I feel more connected afterwards

01:55:08 I mean, I don't know these conversations feel kind of irreplaceable and they're absolutely unique in the history of philosophy

01:55:14 so I

01:55:15 Hugely appreciate you guys coming by and then the support and the love and the gratitude and all the great stuff

01:55:21 That has happened over the course of this

01:55:24 Amazing journey you guys are just wonderful and I hugely appreciate and thank you for everything that you provide to me

01:55:32 You

01:55:34 All right

01:55:36 Well, I think I will yeah, we're almost at two hours. I think I will close off and I really really do

01:55:40 Thank you guys, of course enormously massively deeply and humbly. Oh, I did promise you. Oh, I keep my promises

01:55:46 Oh, I meant to remember I use I just didn't I really I really meant to remember though

01:55:51 But I guess I just didn't all right. Let me

01:55:54 Yeah, oh man, I got to install another app

01:55:59 To watch Steph I'll just watch destiny then

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