Sadhguru shares a remarkable secret that will change the way you see your kids.
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00:00Now, now what's happening with the so-called teenagers, you got used to your child as a
00:07helpless creature.
00:09Now if he's finding his own feet, tch, you don't like it.
00:14You want to condense him into boo, boo, boo, my boo, boo.
00:21So children when they come, when they're helpless and for everything they look up to you, you
00:27think your children are magical because they're helpless.
00:32Suppose the baby popped out of you and stood up and said, hey, who the hell are you?
00:42You won't like this baby.
00:47But he takes fourteen, fifteen years to ask that question.
01:01In fact, that is all a teenager is asking, okay, who the hell are you?
01:09So if you want to be somebody to that fresh life which has come, you must not have defined
01:18boundaries of who you are.
01:22Like when the child was infant, when it crawled, you crawled with him.
01:28Now your teenager wants to swing, you must be able to swing with him.
01:31No, you still wants to crawl with him.
01:36He is not interested.
01:38He is beginning to ask…
01:40Parents are looking ridiculous in the eyes of adolescents.
01:45You children are growing up, it should be a joyful moment, yes?
01:51They become teenagers means they're growing rapidly, yes?
01:56Or in other words, unfortunately they're beginning to become like you.
02:00No, Sadhguru, that is not the problem.
02:03They're beginning to become something different.
02:07They don't even look like my children anymore.
02:11Drop this damn thing that your child belongs to you.
02:16If you think this child belongs to you, when he's just becoming… coming into teens,
02:22he's telling you, goddammit, I don't belong to you.
02:27That's all he's trying to tell you which you're not able to digest.
02:31Another life does not belong to you.
02:34If another life has chosen to be with you, please cherish that.
02:38It's a tremendous thing.
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