Istighna kaise Paida Karien Mufti Tariq Masood
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00:00We have to say with regret that in the homes of religious people, the matters are not straight forward.
00:07The matters are very bad.
00:10In the homes of secular, liberal people, the matters are straight forward.
00:14Because they don't respect anyone.
00:17They don't have that respect.
00:21That's why they say that if a father takes 50 rupees from his son, he will write it.
00:26So, in the homes of religious people, a father will get his father cashed.
00:36A grandfather will get his grandfather cashed.
00:40A son will get his son cashed.
00:42A brother will get his brother cashed.
00:44An uncle will get his uncle cashed.
00:46In the matters of money, everything is messed up.
00:52So, I will quickly complete that thing and then move ahead.
00:56The fraud that happens with religious people in giving and taking.
00:59These things are not usually stated on the wall.
01:02That's why I am stating it.
01:04You will say, what a story he has taken.
01:06But this happens.
01:08Then tomorrow if you wash your hands of faith.
01:10That we thought he was so pious.
01:12What did he turn out to be?
01:14So, isn't it better to be alert beforehand?
01:16What do you think?
01:18So that your faith doesn't get put at risk.
01:20Because when a person is misled by one, then he is misled by everyone.
01:24He is misled by everyone.
01:26He says, all of them are like this.
01:28But this doesn't happen.
01:30Not all can be bad.
01:32It will be the end of the world if all of them go bad.
01:35So, let me tell you what happens.
01:38Some people make a good get-up.
01:44They start talking well.
01:46Their intentions are not clear.
01:48They are not visionary people.
01:50Their advice is,
01:52When our people will have a little bit of faith.
01:54Then we will get our relationships cashed for wrong things.
02:00Then they get it cashed.
02:02They get it cashed in different ways.
02:04You ask them,
02:06When you start investigating them,
02:08They will start getting angry.
02:10They will run left and right.
02:12Whenever you remember,
02:14When someone is thrown out of a school.
02:16Then often they go to other Madrasas and change the story.
02:20They are doing something right.
02:22They themselves have resigned.
02:24Or the Madrasa has thrown them out wrongly.
02:26But they are doing something wrong.
02:30So what happens is,
02:32The other person doesn't investigate.
02:34He just believes what he says.
02:36I am suffering this myself.
02:38We have a teacher.
02:40He is a very old teacher of mine.
02:42In his Madrasa,
02:44He threw out a person.
02:46Now that teacher is famous.
02:48He is strict.
02:50He threw out a person.
02:52That person came to me.
02:54This is 15 years old.
02:56He started crying.
02:58He threw me out.
03:00I knew that teacher is strict.
03:02He throws you out on small things.
03:04I felt pity for him.
03:06I thought,
03:08I should have contacted that teacher first.
03:10Why did you throw him out?
03:12What is the reason?
03:14I didn't contact him.
03:16It was inexperience.
03:18He was in pain.
03:20He was crying.
03:22We gave him a place.
03:24We kept him in our house.
03:26We came to know that things are missing from the house.
03:28He has stolen so smartly.
03:30We didn't even know.
03:32Later we came to know that he has stolen.
03:34He also took Chanda Vanda and ate it.
03:36After a year, we came to know that he is a fraud.
03:38I contacted my teacher.
03:40I said,
03:42Why did you throw him out?
03:44He got angry with me.
03:46You should have asked me.
03:48Why did you throw him out?
03:50You should have asked me once.
03:52How did you start feeling pity after hearing one-sided statement?
03:54It was inexperience.
03:56This is right.
03:58When it comes to matters,
04:00ask first.
04:02If someone is asking for Chanda in our name,
04:04Is it reliable?
04:06Did you say it?
04:08People are doing it on their own.
04:10They are suspicious.
04:12I am telling you,
04:14What is the need to do to each other?
04:16Right.
04:18Do you understand?
04:20What is the need to do to each other?
04:22Right.
04:24Now I will tell you a few things.
04:26Because most of the problems that are going on,
04:28are in financial matters.
04:30Maulana Ishraf Ali Thanvi,
04:32may Allah have mercy on him,
04:34has been shouting all his life,
04:36that Muslims are not right in matters.
04:38Muslims are not right in matters.
04:40Muslims are not right in matters.
04:42Muslims are not right in matters.
04:44Say it.
04:46No.
04:48The first thing we all have to do,
04:50is work.
04:52Create this thing in yourself.
04:54Do you know what is the first thing to do?
04:56Which Allah likes a lot.
04:58First I will make it more clear,
05:00so that it gets installed in your brain.
05:02The thing that Allah likes the most,
05:04in a person,
05:06is that,
05:08he should be only dependent on me.
05:10Dependent on a stranger.
05:12Say it.
05:14His eyes should not be on a stranger's pocket.
05:16Do you understand?
05:18This is called,
05:20Istighnaam.
05:22This is called,
05:24Istighnaam.
05:26This is called, Istighnaam.
05:28You have heard the word,
05:30Ghani. In Arabic, Ghani is also called,
05:32Maaldaar. In reality, Ghani is not called,
05:34Maaldaar. Ghani is called,
05:36the one who is carefree.
05:38Because people who are rich,
05:40are often carefree.
05:42They have so much money,
05:44that they do not have eyes on other's pockets.
05:46That is why in Arabic,
05:48Maaldaar is called Ghani.
05:50Otherwise, what is the real meaning of Ghani?
05:52It is carefree.
05:54If someone is dying,
05:56he does not care about anyone.
05:58Carefree means,
06:00who has so much wealth,
06:02I have no interest in it.
06:04Say it. No.
06:06Create this quality within yourself.
06:08For the sake of Allah.
06:10This is not there.
06:12What is going on in the market?
06:14It is short.
06:16This quality is very bad.
06:18Today, relatives tell someone,
06:20what is my salary?
06:22Say it.
06:24Why don't you tell him your entire income?
06:26Tell him, he will ask.
06:28If you tell him,
06:30that I have so much money,
06:32then what will he do?
06:34Say it.
06:36He will ask.
06:38He will not ask immediately.
06:40At that time, he will say, well done.
06:42Mashallah, your income is one crore.
06:44After that, he will not be able to sleep.
06:46If he has one crore,
06:48then I can do this business
06:50If he has one crore,
06:52then I can do this business.
06:54If he has one crore,
06:56then I can do this business.
06:58If he has one crore,
07:00then I can do this business.
07:02He does not need it now.
07:04Either he has cancer,
07:06or his leg is broken,
07:08so he is asking for money to get it fixed.
07:10No. No. No.
07:12He does not need it now.
07:14Immediately,
07:16he has to think about business.
07:18He has to think.
07:20Once he thinks,
07:22he will start to invest
07:24in other people's money.
07:28This is a bad act.
07:30What is this?
07:32Look, I am a very useless person.
07:34I never claim that I am good.
07:36We know what we are.
07:38We will know who is good in the end.
07:40But if some things are open,
07:42then there is no harm in telling.
07:44All my rich friends,
07:46They don't get scared while doing business.
07:48Do you understand?
07:50No, I don't think so.
07:54Now my financial situation is much better than before.
07:57We have always been better.
07:59Thank God, we have never seen poverty.
08:01But earlier,
08:03Today, we are better than before.
08:05So, even then when we had
08:07problems,
08:09My talented friends used to come and tell me,
08:11I have 20 accounts,
08:13I have millions of rupees,
08:15Mashallah,
08:17I feel good. Nice to meet you.
08:19Not more than this.
08:23They knew about my habit.
08:25Brother,
08:27Tell me.
08:29He will not say anything.
08:31He will never say,
08:33I have millions of rupees,
08:35Give me a bike.
08:37Or you can't give me a bike,
08:39Give me a loan.
08:41Not even this.
08:43Today, some wealthy people,
08:45While telling a Maulana,
08:47I have a lot of money.
08:49They are scared.
08:51Because they are scared that
08:53Maulana will ask for chanda from us.
08:55Asking for chanda is not a bad thing.
08:57Prophet Muhammad also took chanda.
08:59But if the other person
09:01is under pressure while asking for chanda.
09:03Under pressure.
09:05Pressure means,
09:07Now he is saying,
09:09Now he is trapped.
09:11If you don't give him,
09:13he will say,
09:15I have so much money,
09:17Why don't you give me?
09:19So this is for the sake of his heart.
09:21Prophet Muhammad said,
09:23The wealth of a Muslim
09:25is haram without
09:27the complete satisfaction
09:29of his heart.
09:31100%
09:33As long as he is not satisfied,
09:35he is giving from his heart.
09:37I came with my bike.
09:39There was a shopper of bananas
09:41hanging.
09:43Big long bananas.
09:45He was taking me to his house.
09:47I was coming with 2-3
09:49friends in the street.
09:51I had gone to the mosque for some work.
09:53When he saw me,
09:55his intention was to give me
09:57one banana out of love.
09:59We were busy talking.
10:01We didn't know.
10:03I brought the whole shopper.
10:05His intention was to give me
10:07one banana.
10:09When he said,
10:11kindly come here.
10:13He picked up the shopper.
10:15I thought,
10:17he is giving the whole shopper.
10:19My mind was elsewhere.
10:21I took the whole shopper
10:23and left.
10:25When I came with the shopper,
10:27the 2 friends
10:29were laughing.
10:31I asked,
10:33what happened?
10:35He was giving one banana.
10:37You were talking.
10:39He brought the whole shopper.
10:412 long bananas.
10:43I thought,
10:45this is a matter of shame.
10:47Because
10:49my mind was elsewhere.
10:51When I looked back,
10:53that uncle was standing there.
10:55He was also standing there.
10:57I said,
10:59I will bring the whole shopper.
11:01He said,
11:03don't worry,
11:05you can take the whole shopper.
11:07Obviously,
11:09a shopper is not a problem.
11:11When he insisted,
11:13I brought the shopper.
11:15The boys were sitting in the office.
11:17I said,
11:19these are illegal bananas,
11:21eat them.
11:23I was joking.
11:25The bananas were legal.
11:27I said,
11:29he came to meet me after Asar.
11:31I said, he came to take the shopper back.
11:33Then I apologized to him.
11:35I said,
11:37I don't know where my mind was.
11:39You were giving one banana.
11:41I brought the whole shopper.
11:43He said, no, no.
11:45He is an old friend of mine.
11:47He is not so weak
11:49that he will die for a shopper.
11:51He came for some other issue.
11:53I thought,
11:55I was not being asked in front of everyone.
11:57So,
11:59I am not telling this story
12:01as a joke.
12:03He was a small shopper
12:05of bananas.
12:07If he had a sum of 8-10 lakhs,
12:09what do you think?
12:11He would have taken out a car of 8-10 lakhs
12:13and to give me 20 rupees as a gift,
12:15I would have taken the whole car.
12:19Then it would have been legal for me.
12:23Even if he didn't ask me later.
12:27I said,
12:29there is something in my heart.
12:31It is not for the sake of money.
12:33It means,
12:35there is no happiness in my heart.
12:37So, understand this.
12:39Whenever you are asked for a donation,
12:41or you are called to a person
12:43to take out a certain amount of money,
12:45sometimes,
12:47a person gets confused.
12:49What will people say?
12:51I am a millionaire.
12:53I am not getting 5000 rupees for donation.
12:55To hide this,
12:57he takes out a note of 5000 rupees.
12:59Scholars have written,
13:015000 rupees is legal for you.
13:03Say, no.
13:05A general appeal for donation
13:07will be done.
13:09This is the Sunnah of the Prophet.
13:11A general appeal will be done.
13:13Whoever wants to give, give.
13:15To specific people,
13:17you, you, you.
13:19A person feels ashamed.
13:21So, all my friends,
13:23I am a Maulana.
13:25There can be an institution.
13:27There can be a need for donation.
13:29But they tell me.
13:31Why?
13:33I made my image in front of them.
13:35Brother,
13:37all the money in your bank,
13:39all the money in your pant,
13:41it is yours.
13:43I have nothing to do with it.
13:45In my view,
13:47are you a millionaire or a rickshaw driver?
13:49In my view,
13:51it is the same.
13:53Do you understand?
13:55There is no difference in my health.
13:57Because if you are a rickshaw driver,
13:59I will not ask for money from you.
14:01If you are a millionaire,
14:03I will not ask for money from you.
14:05Neither for my needs,
14:07nor for business.
14:09I am convinced of this.
14:11I will do business with the money
14:13that is in my pant pocket.
14:15What is in other people's pants?
14:17I have nothing to do with it.
14:19Nothing at all.