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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:27I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:38We always have fun, being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:46Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis. Right by your side, hit or miss.
00:54We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
01:01I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
01:14We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:18Sis, did you know that Oggy is a better man?
01:21Yeah.
01:22Yeah? Really?
01:23Yes.
01:24Really?
01:25Yes, of course.
01:26In your opinion, what's the reason why Oggy said that he's a better man?
01:30You know what, in my opinion, he's become a better man.
01:35Yes, of course.
01:36I know him personally, but it's really hard to understand the mind of adults.
01:43Of course, they're going through stages in their lives that we'll never fully understand.
01:49Because we're different, right?
01:52Yes.
01:53They're from Mars and we're from Venus.
01:55Correct.
01:56It's the same for us.
01:57Because we also have experiences that we'll never experience.
02:01Like, one, monthly period.
02:03Second is birth.
02:05They'll never understand us and they'll never experience that.
02:10Postnatal blues.
02:11Yes, things like that.
02:12The hormonal...
02:14Whatever.
02:15PMS.
02:16All the things that you can't understand.
02:17You.
02:18You.
02:19Me too.
02:20Do you really understand the mind of adults?
02:23Not really.
02:24Is it obvious?
02:25No.
02:28I don't think we'll ever fully understand.
02:30Because our makeup is different.
02:33But I think that's part of the excitement of life.
02:36The things that you can't understand.
02:38That is precisely why falling in love with men or falling in love with women is so exciting.
02:43Because you're totally two different humans.
02:46Right?
02:47Different.
02:48Different temperaments.
02:49Exactly.
02:50Temperaments.
02:51Mood swings.
02:52Everything.
02:53Exactly.
02:54But today, they had a chance to share with us.
02:56That hopefully, even if it's just a little, we'll understand them.
02:59We'll understand them.
03:00No matter what, the stages that they're going through.
03:02If they'll ever be able to say,
03:04I'm a man and I am a better man.
03:07Wow.
03:08So, it's our chance for the SIS to understand them.
03:10So, join us, SIS, to explore the world of men.
03:15In an hour of stories, here in SIS.
03:19Always, always be.
03:21We are sisters.
03:23We are sisters.
03:28Always, always be.
03:30We are sisters.
03:32We are sisters.
03:36Let's continue, ladies.
03:38Men are also going through different stages of change.
03:42Especially when it comes to their bodies.
03:45What are the changes that are happening to them?
03:48Please welcome, here in SIS,
03:50Gerard Badrin,
03:52Zed Carion,
03:54Sherwin Ardonez,
03:56Leandro Munoz,
03:57and James Blanco.
03:59Okay.
04:00Again, men are going through different rites of passage.
04:05And one of them is...
04:06Oh my.
04:07It's fast, right?
04:08Let's go straight to the point.
04:09Circumcision.
04:11This is probably the first experience of physical pain of men.
04:15As in physical pain.
04:16Let's ask one thing first.
04:17Let's play one thing.
04:19Did that circumcision happen to you?
04:21Is it over?
04:23I just want to clarify before we talk.
04:26Did you guys get circumcised?
04:31And why did Zed and Sherwin disappear?
04:34Why are you red there?
04:36You're really one of a kind.
04:37Oh, I see.
04:40So, yes or no?
04:41Of course.
04:42I didn't experience that because I'm still young.
04:47Ah, baby.
04:49But does that mean all of you are circumcised?
04:51Yes.
04:54Okay, doctor.
04:56Is it traumatic?
04:58Yes.
04:59How old are you?
05:00Eleven.
05:01My dad was the one who circumcised me.
05:03Your dad?
05:04Because my dad is a doctor.
05:05Surgery.
05:06He has to try to do that.
05:07Actually, he reminded me of that.
05:09Son.
05:11This is the injection.
05:13Of course, I cover my eyes.
05:16It's a phobia.
05:17But it's okay.
05:18But they said that it's not actually painful.
05:22It's not painful.
05:23Injections are painful.
05:29What will happen if you do it again?
05:30What will happen if you do it again?
05:31You can jump.
05:32You can jump.
05:34It's in the province.
05:35It's in the province until now.
05:37But you didn't do it.
05:38No.
05:39Okay, okay.
05:40Tell us what happened to you.
05:41Okay, go ahead.
05:42For me, it's painful.
05:43Painful.
05:44Ah, painful.
05:45How old were you?
05:46Eleven.
05:47Is it painful?
05:48It's painful, but it's clean.
05:50What's more painful?
05:51The surgery itself or after?
05:54The healing.
05:55The healing.
05:56Because their term is traumatic.
05:58Yes.
05:59That's why it's painful.
06:00That's why it's painful.
06:01It's painful.
06:02Because it's like a new wound.
06:04That's why when you walk.
06:06You have to walk.
06:07You have to walk.
06:09You don't have to wear underwear.
06:10How about when you pee?
06:13No, I don't know.
06:14There's no problem.
06:15It's okay.
06:16When it's just sticking, it's really painful.
06:18Ah, so it's okay to pee?
06:20Yes.
06:21But it's not okay when...
06:22When what?
06:23When...
06:24You already know.
06:25You already know.
06:26Of course, sometimes.
06:27Admit it.
06:28When you wake up in the morning.
06:29Yes.
06:30You have a national anthem.
06:31Yes.
06:32That's why it's painful.
06:34That's why it's painful.
06:35That's why it's painful.
06:36That's why it's painful.
06:37That's why it's painful.
06:38That's why it's painful.
06:39That's why it's painful.
06:40That's why it's painful.
06:41That's why it's painful.
06:42That's why it's painful.
06:43That's why it's painful.
06:44That's why it's painful.
06:45That's why it's painful.
06:46That's why it's painful.
06:47That's why it's painful.
06:48That's why it's painful.
06:49That's why it's painful.
06:50That's why it's painful.
06:51That's why it's painful.
06:52That's why it's painful.
06:56Was it collapsed with a circumcision?
06:57Because of course.
06:58But you?
06:59No, no, no.
07:00You're forever blushing.
07:01Why are you like that?
07:02You look tired.
07:03You look tired.
07:04You look tired.
07:05You look tired.
07:06You look tired.
07:07You look tired.
07:08You look tired.
07:09You look tired.
07:10You look tired.
07:11You look tired.
07:12You look tired.
07:13You look tired.
07:14You look tired.
07:15You look tired.
07:16You look tired.
07:17You look tired.
07:18You look tired.
07:19You look tired.
07:20You look tired.
07:21You look tired.
07:22You look tired.
07:23You look tired.
07:24You look tired.
07:25Awareness.
07:26Awareness.
07:27Sexual awareness.
07:28Maybe me.
07:29You're 50 years old.
07:30You're a late bloomer.
07:31Maybe I watched a movie with a sexy girl.
07:36Ah.
07:37And suddenly, chung.
07:38And suddenly, chung.
07:39And suddenly, chung.
07:40And suddenly, chung.
07:41And sometimes, when you're older, you know, when you're 16 years old, you're 15 years old,
07:46your friends will watch X-Rays.
07:48There, okay, like RR.
07:50So, that's what I watch.
07:51Oh, okay.
07:52Magazine.
07:53Let's start with magazines.
07:54Oh my.
07:55Sherwin doesn't have any.
07:56Playboy chunk.
07:57Negotiation.
07:58Negotiation.
07:59Negotiation.
08:00I know, Bobby Anderson is the one who's negotiating.
08:01He's talking to us.
08:02Negotiation.
08:03Anyway.
08:04Maybe me.
08:05Grade 6.
08:06I was in our house, and I saw my uncle and he liked that.
08:07So, I went to his things and I saw his magazine.
08:08Okay, okay.
08:09You're good.
08:10We have reactions.
08:11You're good.
08:12I'm good.
08:13I'm good.
08:14I'm good.
08:15I'm good.
08:16I'm good.
08:17I'm good.
08:18I'm good.
08:19I'm good.
08:20I'm good.
08:21I'm good.
08:22I'm good.
08:23What were your reactions when you saw that?
08:26Swing.
08:28Okay, that's okay.
08:29Let's see.
08:30Okay, let's see.
08:32First time with a girl.
08:34First time.
08:36I was 14 years old.
08:37First time.
08:38Is she your girlfriend?
08:39Yes, she's my girlfriend.
08:41It's okay.
08:42I'm still jumping after that.
08:45Yes.
08:46That's too much.
08:47Okay.
08:49Jumping.
08:51I was 18.
08:52I was an 18-year-old date boomer.
08:54But I couldn't remember who she was.
08:58She wasn't memorable to me.
09:00It just happened in a split second.
09:03She knew that I'm a virgin.
09:06She knew that I'm a virgin.
09:09She knew that I'm a virgin.
09:11You were excited.
09:13I was excited too.
09:14But it wasn't memorable to me.
09:17It's like I wasn't loved.
09:18I wasn't loved.
09:20Okay.
09:21It's different.
09:22It's my first time.
09:23It's not exciting for me.
09:25I'm nervous.
09:26Of course, I showed it to a girl.
09:28For example, it's not my first time.
09:30We're still doing this.
09:31No, no.
09:32I was in grade 6.
09:33All of them.
09:34All of them?
09:35How old were you?
09:3612.
09:38How old was the girl?
09:40How old was the girl?
09:419.
09:42I think she was 18.
09:43Or almost 20.
09:45Who is this?
09:46Sister.
09:47What did she say?
09:49She knows me.
09:50She knows you.
09:53You're so quiet.
09:54You're blushing.
09:56I might wake you up.
09:58He's a bit of a lead boomer.
09:59Maybe 19.
10:01How old were you?
10:0219 or 20.
10:0419.
10:05No.
10:06We're neighbors.
10:08So?
10:09When I was a kid,
10:13I was always in your room.
10:15Because we were kids.
10:1819.
10:23How about you, James?
10:25I was too late.
10:27I was 19 or 18.
10:28How old were you?
10:2920.
10:31That's too late.
10:32It's like last year.
10:33No, no.
10:35I was 18.
10:3618.
10:37And then,
10:38it was fun to jump on the river.
10:40Like what Leandro said,
10:42at first,
10:43I wasn't nervous.
10:44Because I was nervous.
10:45Yes.
10:46You didn't pretend.
10:47No, I didn't.
10:48You didn't pretend.
10:49Okay.
10:50How many girlfriends do you have?
10:52No.
10:53Okay, that's enough.
10:54Now,
10:57weren't you nervous?
10:59What did you feel?
11:01Nervous, of course.
11:02What did you feel at that point in time?
11:05Were you nervous at first?
11:07Nervous.
11:09Or were you nervous
11:11compared to
11:13how do you say it?
11:14Excitement.
11:15Excitement.
11:16Of course,
11:17half excitement,
11:18and nervous.
11:19Because of course,
11:20you have to show them that
11:21you're a man.
11:22Feeling macho.
11:23Feeling like you're not a virgin.
11:24Like,
11:25you're just a man.
11:26You're just a man.
11:29What part of your body
11:30do you love the most?
11:36Stop it.
11:37You're not allowed to say it.
11:39Just say it.
11:40Just say it.
11:41The last part of my body
11:42that I love the most.
11:43What is it?
11:44My feet.
11:45Your feet?
11:46Why?
11:47There are a lot of people
11:48who love their feet.
11:49If her feet are beautiful,
11:51I'll be more beautiful than her.
11:52Is her feet beautiful?
11:53And her boobs.
11:54Her boobs.
11:55If her boobs are beautiful,
11:57I'll be more beautiful than her.
11:59She's clean.
12:00Her boobs?
12:01How about our boobs?
12:03If her feet are clean,
12:04because I can see
12:05if her boobs are clean.
12:06For example,
12:07if her face is beautiful
12:08and her feet are...
12:10Some kind of...
12:11Some kind of dead.
12:15She's still weird.
12:18You're a bad person.
12:20Okay, you guys go ahead.
12:21Start with the men.
12:22I think it's the same.
12:23If a woman can
12:25clean her feet,
12:28what are the other parts of her body?
12:29Her whole body is clean.
12:31What about you, Sherwin?
12:33You're so quiet, Sherwin.
12:34Of course.
12:36He's the first one to blush.
12:40What do you want?
12:41You can do it, of course.
12:42The...
12:43Ah, boobs.
12:46James?
12:47I don't really look like that.
12:49Oh, my God.
12:50Oh, my God.
12:51You're wrong, James.
12:53What are you looking at?
12:54Nothing.
12:55I'm looking at her face.
12:56Ah, her face.
12:58I'm not the...
12:59Pretty girl.
13:00Go ahead.
13:01The first stage that men go through
13:03are the changes in their physical body.
13:06The next stage is
13:07emotional changes.
13:08Oh, my God.
13:09We'll talk about that
13:10when Sis returns.
13:30Welcome back.
13:31Oh, my God.
13:32I think this is the stage
13:33where men have a hard time adjusting.
13:35The stage where their responsibilities
13:37are getting bigger and bigger.
13:39The stage where they're like,
13:41I'm not a kid anymore.
13:43When was the first time
13:44you had a big responsibility?
13:47What age?
13:49I was 18 when I had a responsibility.
13:52Like?
13:53Like, because I have kids already.
13:55How many?
13:56I have two kids.
13:57Two boys.
13:58You know that?
13:59Yes.
14:00The responsibility of living
14:02Yes.
14:03The responsibility of living as a kid.
14:07That's the hardest part.
14:09Because you're only 7 years old.
14:11Yes, that's my part.
14:13To raise a family.
14:14So what did you do?
14:16Was that an accident?
14:17Of course, it was an accident.
14:18No, of course, it was an accident.
14:19But of course,
14:20you accepted it.
14:21Yes, of course.
14:22So, what was that?
14:23You worked.
14:24You were a student.
14:25I worked.
14:26I was a student back then.
14:27Should I tell you about my life?
14:28I was a student back then.
14:29I was in first year college.
14:31And then,
14:32I had a failure relationship back then.
14:36Before that, I had another girlfriend.
14:40And now, she's my wife.
14:42Actually, we're not married yet.
14:43But you're still together?
14:44Yes, we're still together.
14:45We've been together for 5 years.
14:48With two kids?
14:49With two kids.
14:50What was the first thing you thought
14:51when they told you that she's pregnant?
14:53Of course, I was nervous back then.
14:55Because I'm afraid of my sisters.
14:57I don't know what I'm going to tell my sisters.
15:00And then,
15:01I was thinking,
15:02how am I going to live with this?
15:04And also,
15:05I don't know what I'm going to tell my parents.
15:07Because I'm sure
15:08my parents will be mad at me.
15:10And also,
15:11I might get kicked out of our house.
15:13Of course, I was afraid of that.
15:14But,
15:15I faced reality.
15:18I have to tell them that
15:20this is my woman
15:23who's a disgrace.
15:25But I love her.
15:26I have to answer this.
15:27And then,
15:28they accepted me.
15:29And then,
15:30I cried.
15:31Because I didn't expect
15:32that they would accept me
15:34with open hands.
15:36And then,
15:37up to now,
15:38we've been together as a girl.
15:39So,
15:40that was the time
15:41you started being an actor?
15:42Yes,
15:43that was the time I started being an actor.
15:44Actually,
15:45I really didn't have a job back then.
15:46I was thinking,
15:47how am I going to raise this kid?
15:51And then,
15:52luckily,
15:53someone saw me,
15:54an agent.
15:55They brought me to Regal.
15:57To Regal Films.
15:58And then,
15:59that's how I started.
16:00That's good.
16:01Now, you have a job.
16:02Yay!
16:03Happy ending.
16:04Okay, anybody else?
16:05I hope it's not that big of a responsibility.
16:07Yes,
16:08even if it's just a slight one.
16:09For me,
16:10it's having a girlfriend.
16:11Because it's different.
16:12Before,
16:13you just play with toys.
16:14Now,
16:15you have a girlfriend.
16:16It's like,
16:17it's a bigger responsibility
16:18because it's a relationship.
16:19In a sense,
16:20to take care of the relationship.
16:21To take care of the relationship.
16:22So,
16:23I have obligations to her.
16:24It's really different.
16:25The change is drastic.
16:26From toys,
16:27then suddenly,
16:28How many years have you had a girlfriend?
16:3013?
16:31First year high school.
16:3213.
16:3313?
16:34It's not that far.
16:35Just 12.
16:36Okay,
16:37you?
16:38For me,
16:39when I was 18 years old,
16:40I started dating my mom
16:42and my dad.
16:43Oh, you're alone now.
16:44Yes,
16:45because I used to be a dancer.
16:46I used to be a dancer before.
16:48I started dating my parents.
16:51Then,
16:52we were just bored.
16:53Then,
16:54I stopped studying in college.
16:56So,
16:57until I was able to save money.
16:58Now,
16:59I'm an artist.
17:00Now,
17:01I have my own unit,
17:03a condo,
17:04and a car.
17:06So,
17:07paying for that
17:08is the biggest responsibility.
17:10Yes,
17:11making the payments every month.
17:13So,
17:14we were talking about
17:15how you were attracted to sexuality.
17:16So now,
17:17you feel that you've matured.
17:18Somehow,
17:19even though you're not that sober,
17:20but you've matured.
17:21So,
17:22you changed your taste towards girls?
17:24Even your lifestyle?
17:25Maybe,
17:26in a way.
17:27How?
17:28Hold on.
17:29Before we let them answer,
17:31we have a surprise for Sherwin.
17:33We'll let his mom know
17:35if Sherwin has really matured.
17:38Let's call
17:39his mom on the phone.
17:40Sherwin's mom,
17:41hello.
17:42Hi,
17:43hello.
17:44Hi,
17:45good morning.
17:46Good morning,
17:47mommy.
17:48Good morning.
17:49Is Sherwin really matured?
17:51We heard that
17:52Sherwin,
17:53we heard that
17:54he gave up on you early.
17:55Oh, yes.
17:57Well,
17:58I have something to tell him.
18:00What is it?
18:01Go ahead.
18:03My son,
18:04I'm happy
18:05that you've become so kind.
18:08I don't have any problem with you.
18:22I'm happy that you've changed your tastes towards girls.
18:27I'll-
18:28it's nothing.
18:31Wait,
18:32no.
18:33Wait,
18:34I don't have any problem with you.
18:38Good morning,
18:39good morning.
18:44You back to life,
18:45you shy!
18:46Sherwin!
18:47Welcome back to Esquire's
18:49Welcome back to Esquiles.
18:51This is Susan, the woman who is my guest here in Truth or Bare.
18:53She became a co-host.
19:19Is that more fun?
19:21A little!
19:23It's a little fun.
19:25It's always fun.
19:27Why not?
19:29What do you think?
19:31I don't think so.
19:33What?
19:35Super fun.
19:37It's a modern medium.
19:39It's a modern medium.
19:41It's a very modern medium.
19:43It's a very modern medium.
19:45Your whole world is modern.
22:17weaknesses that we need to concile to ourselves.
22:20What are the weaknesses of our guests today?
22:24Do you have any?
22:27Like an autograph book.
22:29What are your weaknesses?
22:31I'm a very impulsive person.
22:33Impulsive.
22:35In everything.
22:36You're exciting, yet you're impulsive.
22:39So you do a lot of bad things.
22:41Yes, it's like when I'm angry, I'll punch the mirror.
22:46I'll punch the windshield of my car.
22:48No, I'll use it.
22:50How many times have I been hit in the hand?
22:52So of course, while your hand is bleeding,
22:55why would you punch the windshield?
23:00It hurts when I wake up, I need to buy antibiotics.
23:07There.
23:08Then he repents.
23:10Sherwin.
23:11Maybe me.
23:12My weakness.
23:13Because I'm sensitive.
23:15I easily get hurt.
23:17I'm fragile.
23:19Why do you have a weakness?
23:21I feel like for a woman, it's better for a man.
23:23No, men are sensitive.
23:25For example, there are situations where you just heard someone say something.
23:32So it's like for us, it hurts right away.
23:34It's easy to get hurt.
23:35Yes.
23:36And it makes you lose confidence in yourself.
23:39You lose confidence right away.
23:41Maybe that's your weakness.
23:43For me, I'm emotional.
23:45Me too.
23:46You're beautiful when you're emotional.
23:48Sometimes, I'm temperamental.
23:52Don't overreact.
23:54James.
23:55I'm also sensitive.
23:57None of you are sensitive.
23:59None of you are sensitive.
24:01When I hear something, I'm already quiet.
24:04It's easy to get hurt.
24:08My weakness is in decision making.
24:12Because I don't know how to make decisions.
24:14That's why my wife and I are a perfect tandem.
24:17Because she has a strong personality.
24:20She's the one who's strong in both of us.
24:22Because I'm weak when it comes to making decisions.
24:25So I have to consult her first.
24:28And of course, she's the one who makes my decisions.
24:32And you blame her if she's wrong.
24:34No.
24:35Okay.
24:36That's what you said are your weaknesses.
24:38How do you overcome those weaknesses?
24:41Of course, you have to learn from your mistakes.
24:45When you make a mistake, you have to realize it.
24:49You have to learn from your mistakes.
24:51So you have to learn from your mistakes first.
24:55Because you can't win everything.
24:57Once you lose, you learn from your mistakes.
25:00Then, you improve.
25:03I hope you learn from your mistakes.
25:04Because if you don't, you'll regret it.
25:07If you have weak points, you have strong points.
25:09That's quite a good one.
25:10James?
25:11For me, I don't trust people easily.
25:19And you have a sense of distance.
25:24I'm sensitive.
25:25That's a strong point.
25:26That's a strong point.
25:28I know what happened to my girlfriend.
25:30I know what she needs.
25:32I know where she is.
25:34You're sensitive to her feelings.
25:35Yes, I'm sensitive to her feelings.
25:36To her needs.
25:37Yes, to other people's needs.
25:39I hope you're always like that.
25:42Sherwin?
25:43I think I have a weak point and a strong point.
25:45I'm sensitive.
25:46He has a pro and a con.
25:50For me, it's my spirituality.
25:52That's where I get my strength.
25:58I think my strong point is the way I love my family.
26:03That's a strong point.
26:04Yes, that's a strong point.
26:05I'm willing to lose my job.
26:10Winner!
26:11Winner!
26:12Winner!
26:13Winner!
26:14Winner!
26:15When a man cries, is it a sign of weakness?
26:18No.
26:19Is it a sign of weakness?
26:20No.
26:21What is it a sign of?
26:22It's a sign of weakness.
26:23Yes.
26:24It's a sign of weakness.
26:25Yes.
26:26It's a sign of weakness.
26:27Okay.
26:28Which brings me to ask this question.
26:30Because a man, when he's too soft-spoken, too kind, too strict.
26:35Strict.
26:36Okay.
26:37So, what is the measure of a man?
26:41Is it the number of women?
26:43Yes.
26:44Is it the number of people who hit you?
26:47Why?
26:48Is it the size of your body?
26:49Or is it the sensitivity and knowing when to use that sensitivity?
26:53Yes.
26:54That's it.
26:55That's it.
26:56Or?
26:57Recognizing your mistakes?
26:58Yes.
26:59And?
27:00Being able to face your responsibilities.
27:01Yes.
27:02The way you manage your life.
27:03Okay.
27:04Playtime.
27:05Let's have a playtime.
27:06Casey's Challenge.
27:07Now, of course, because I'm sure when it comes to playtime,
27:10all of this will suddenly go backwards.
27:11Hey, be honest.
27:12Okay.
27:13So, I will choose one of you.
27:15Okay, fine.
27:16Of course.
27:17I won't choose randomly.
27:18I will fill in your names here in my magic box.
27:21And you will write down a question here.
27:23Question.
27:24Question.
27:26Oh, no.
27:27You are our favorite today.
27:29I already have a question.
27:32I will read it.
27:34Maybe you will say something else.
27:37Quick.
27:38The one who didn't answer.
27:39Before I ask you, what do you want?
27:41A slap in the face or an answer to the question?
27:43A slap in the face.
27:44If we are not too happy with your answer, we will slap you in the face.
27:47All of it.
27:48Just a kiss.
27:50Kiss?
27:52No, a slap in the face.
27:53We already kissed earlier, right?
27:55That's enough.
27:56What part of your body do you think you abuse too much?
28:02A slap in the face.
28:06No.
28:07Maybe my face.
28:09Because I always…
28:11Of course, in our job, we always see our face.
28:14We see our face for the first time.
28:16So, maybe I abuse it.
28:18There.
28:21I am not satisfied.
28:24Are you satisfied?
28:25Are you satisfied?
28:26No.
28:29I can't say it.
28:30There's nothing you can do.
28:32I can't say it.
28:34I can't say that.
28:37You have to say it.
28:38That's the question.
28:40I can't say it.
28:43Actually, I use it wisely.
28:47That's why he slapped you.
28:50No.
28:53Next.
28:54Next.
28:55It's okay.
28:56It's okay.
28:57Next.
29:04Gerard.
29:13Define sex in one word.
29:15Sex.
29:18Wonderful.
29:19Wonderful.
29:21Wonderful.
29:22Extraordinary.
29:23Extraordinary.
29:25Leandro.
29:26Wait.
29:29You should've said it first.
29:30Is it my turn?
29:31It's my turn.
29:32You're different.
29:35Who is the artist that you are super HD?
29:39HD?
29:41HD means hidden desire.
29:45For people like me?
29:47Yes.
29:48Who is the local artist that you admire?
29:52Paps Fernandez.
29:53Paps.
29:54Pipa.
29:55Game. Next.
29:59James.
30:08Game.
30:09When was the last time?
30:16When was the last time?
30:18Yes.
30:19No.
30:21When was the last time?
30:23Yesterday.
30:25What?
30:26Yesterday.
30:27When was the last time?
30:28Yesterday.
30:29What?
30:30How long was the last time?
30:32How long was the last time?
30:33Like 12 years.
30:34Oh.
30:37What?
30:38Are you happy with his answer?
30:39Okay.
30:40I'll just say last week.
30:41Okay.
30:42Last week.
30:43Okay.
30:47Of course, there's no one else but you.
30:49Def.
30:51This is a lot.
30:56What part of your body do you want to enlarge?
31:03Maybe my chest.
31:09That's okay.
31:10I'm happy with that.
31:14Oh my God.
31:16What about you?
31:18I'm happy with the size 2.
31:21Oh.
31:24Oh.
31:26Wait.
31:28We have someone we want to talk to so we can ask when...
31:34I think it's James' mom.
31:35She's on the phone.
31:36Oh, there she is.
31:38Hello, Mrs. Blanco.
31:39Hello.
31:40Hi, mommy.
31:41Mommy Lai.
31:43Hello, mommy.
31:45Hello.
31:46Welcome.
31:47Welcome to SIS.
31:50How's James as a son?
31:53He's kind.
31:55How kind?
31:58He's kind to his siblings.
32:01He's elastic.
32:07What can you tell James?
32:10He's pregnant.
32:12Yes, that's right.
32:13I'll just tell him that he's at his office.
32:17I hope he does his job well.
32:21And that he doesn't change.
32:24What do you always buy for James when you talk to him?
32:28Don't be stingy.
32:30Oh, don't be stingy.
32:31Don't be stingy.
32:32Don't be stingy.
32:34Oh my.
32:36Do you also give him a bathing suit?
32:38That's in his commercial.
32:39That's in his commercial.
32:41Yes, I also buy him a bathing suit.
32:44That's true.
32:46Is James still with you at home?
32:48Yes, he's still here.
32:49He's still here.
32:50How is he at home?
32:51Is he hardworking?
32:53He's always sleeping.
32:54He's always sleeping.
32:55Because he's always sleepy.
32:56He's always sleepy.
33:00What is the thing that he does that,
33:04that,
33:06what is one thing he does to you that,
33:09he doesn't do anymore?
33:12He doesn't do anymore?
33:13Yes, he doesn't do anymore.
33:14Does he still kiss you when he comes home?
33:17No, because he still doesn't change.
33:20Does he still kiss your lips?
33:22What?
33:23Does he still kiss your lips?
33:24Don't kids kiss their lips?
33:25When they grow up, they don't do it anymore.
33:26Sometimes.
33:27Sometimes.
33:28Sometimes.
33:31Does he still hug you when there are a lot of girls?
33:33Even if there are a lot of girls that he sees?
33:35Sometimes.
33:36Sometimes?
33:37Yes.
33:38Mommies miss that.
33:40Mommy, what is your message to James?
33:43I hope that he does his job well.
33:46That he doesn't forget the people who help him.
33:51I hope that he finishes his studies.
33:55San, James, what is your message to mommy?
33:58I want to thank her because she became my mommy.
34:01Because she supports me a lot.
34:04She takes care of me.
34:06Thank you, mommy.
34:07Thank you, mommy Lai.
34:08Thank you, too.
34:10Bye-bye.
34:12I will return this.
34:13I'm serious.
34:28Always, always be.
34:30We are sisters.
34:32We are sisters.
34:36After all the obstacles that they experienced in their life,
34:39our co-workers today,
34:41they can say that,
34:43I'm a man and because of all that I've gone through,
34:46I'm a better man.
34:48Oh my.
34:50Okay, like Leandro, he said that his weak point is that he is impulsive.
34:53So there are things that he does that he blames.
34:56Now, looking back,
34:57are there things that you did that you wish would never happen?
35:05James?
35:07Blame?
35:08Maybe,
35:10my accident.
35:12For me.
35:13Because it's so annoying.
35:15What kind of accident is that?
35:17Because,
35:19my grandma didn't want me to go with her.
35:21Then, I insisted on going with her.
35:23Then, I went with her.
35:24Then, my accident happened.
35:28For me, maybe,
35:3010 years ago, I had this relationship with a girl,
35:32with a very special girl.
35:3410 years ago?
35:3510 years ago.
35:36How old were you?
35:37I cheated on her.
35:39Oh, bad.
35:40How old were you?
35:4214.
35:43Now, I'm 24.
35:4410 years ago.
35:4512, 13, 14.
35:48So, really, you blame her?
35:49Yes, I blame her.
35:50Because she's very special.
35:54Whew.
35:55What a waste.
35:56You sure, man?
35:57Yes.
35:59As far as I know, you don't have a girlfriend.
36:01Not yet.
36:02Maybe, no.
36:05Because I can't say that I blame her
36:07because I didn't go to college.
36:09Because I didn't go to college.
36:12Because I didn't go to college to get a job.
36:15But maybe, I can go back.
36:17You can?
36:18Yes.
36:20May, when I fooled around with you,
36:25when I played with girls,
36:27because of the effect of karma.
36:30Computerized.
36:31Computerized.
36:32Faster.
36:33I got karma.
36:34Suddenly, I met this girl,
36:38and karma came back to me.
36:40Oh, that hurts.
36:42Yes.
36:43Ouch.
36:44Ouch.
36:45So, now, I'm careful.
36:47Crushed.
36:48Yes.
36:49Maybe, what was that?
36:51What was that again?
36:52I'm sorry.
36:53What I'm sorry about is,
36:55I left my parents' house
36:57because I experienced the hardship of life.
37:00I left my parents' house.
37:03Early in the morning.
37:04Early in the morning.
37:05I had a hard time.
37:07But, I want to go back.
37:09That's why I don't have a wife.
37:11Right?
37:12It's better if you open up
37:15instead of joining your parents.
37:17You're right.
37:19What else?
37:21What are our priorities?
37:23You, obviously, it's your family.
37:26Yes.
37:27My career and my family.
37:29My family, because I'm helping out.
37:33He made it clear.
37:34He made it clear.
37:35Yes, there are other families.
37:37That's why you need a career
37:39so that you can give your home.
37:41Yes, career and family.
37:43And, I hope,
37:44I hope,
37:45I hope, my studies will be good next year.
37:47I'm just coming here.
37:48I'll come back.
37:49Good.
37:50Of course, family.
37:51Career and myself.
37:54Of course.
37:55Career, family, and my studies.
37:59That's what mommy said.
38:00He said he hopes to study.
38:03Can you say now that you are better men?
38:09Me?
38:10Yes, I changed a bit compared to before.
38:12Now, I improved my personality.
38:15And, well, I also changed.
38:18In a matter, in a way,
38:21because, of course, I'm earning
38:23and I'm helping those I need to help.
38:28That's why, maybe, I also changed.
38:30I'm a better person now.
38:33I could say I'm a better man,
38:35but I can do better.
38:36There's still a lot of room for improvement.
38:39Because, I still have a lot of shortcomings.
38:43There's still a lot.
38:44Better man, but not perfect man.
38:46Not perfect.
38:48Me, I'm still learning the facts of life.
38:50Because, every day,
38:53there's something new that,
38:54something to learn.
38:55Yes.
38:57It's like that.
38:59I matured.
39:01That's why, like Gerard said,
39:04we see each other,
39:05I see myself.
39:07So, for me,
39:08I spend it wisely,
39:09the money I earn.
39:11That's why,
39:12that's why I can say,
39:14I'm a better man now.
39:16Me, I can say that too.
39:18Because, in a way,
39:19I also have people who help me.
39:21Because of my job.
39:24Let's just say,
39:25that these boys are better men.
39:28That, that, that.
39:29But still, works in progress.
39:31Yes.
39:32Right?
39:33And, let's hope that,
39:34as the years go by,
39:36you'll really be better men.
39:38That's it.
39:39You'll be better men.
39:40There will be no more works in progress.
39:43So, what else do you plan to do with your life?
39:47Plan?
39:48Goal?
39:49In the rest of our lives.
39:51Me?
39:52I want to get married.
39:53That's my goal.
39:55That's my goal.
39:56Because,
39:58that's really my wish,
39:59that I can see myself,
40:01that I can go up to the church.
40:03Because,
40:05I can't say,
40:06I can't explain,
40:07because I really love that girl.
40:09That's why,
40:10I'm under her too much.
40:11The girl is so beautiful here.
40:13It's so nice to hear,
40:14that he still believes in the idea of
40:17actually walking down the aisle,
40:19in spite of,
40:20they're already together in one house.
40:22Did you know that you want that?
40:24Yes.
40:25It's been a long time.
40:26That's why, of course,
40:27I'm still saving,
40:28because the cost of getting married in the church is not cheap.
40:30You're just stupid.
40:33How about you?
40:34Me?
40:35Maybe,
40:36I'll study,
40:37so that I can learn more things.
40:40Because,
40:41I'm still young,
40:42I still have a lot to go through.
40:44That's why,
40:45of course,
40:46I'll save too,
40:47so that I can study.
40:49Of course,
40:50I'll build myself up.
40:52I want to be stable,
40:53little by little.
40:55It's like,
40:56I'm still going there.
40:58You're still going there?
40:59I'm still going there.
41:01I'm still saving,
41:02and so on.
41:03Then,
41:04in my school,
41:05I tried to finish my MA,
41:06and my philosophy,
41:08I finished it.
41:09Then, eventually,
41:10because I planned before,
41:14my philosophy is a thriller,
41:16so I should do law.
41:17I'm a bit sidetracked in showbiz.
41:19So, you want to pursue it?
41:20Yeah.
41:22Maybe,
41:23I'll use,
41:24since I'm a business graduate,
41:25business management graduate,
41:27I want to use my course.
41:28I want to build a restaurant.
41:31Be financially stable.
41:32You'll help us, right?
41:33Yeah, of course.
41:35I want to have a stable job,
41:37that can help my siblings.
41:41Okay, thank you very much.
41:42Thank you so much for your honesty.
41:44Thank you for your honesty.
41:46I hope we can invite you again.
41:48Better all,
41:49years from now,
41:50when you're all better men.
41:51Yeah, we'll find out
41:52if you really become better,
41:54or even better.
41:55Even the best.
41:57I hope so.
41:58I hope so.
41:59So, thank you.
42:00Sis will be back.
42:02Always.
42:03Always be.
42:04We are sisters.
42:05We are sisters.
42:11Always be.
42:12We are sisters.
42:14We are sisters.
42:19So, Jelly,
42:20do we understand them now?
42:23Well,
42:25they're not the men
42:27who have lived their lives, right?
42:29Because they're very young.
42:30We may understand them now,
42:31but then the changes in their lives
42:33that will still come,
42:34of course, will change.
42:36But for me,
42:37I feel like
42:39the new breed,
42:40the new youth
42:44of the men now,
42:45they're more open-minded.
42:47They're more accepting of the fact that
42:51being a man doesn't mean
42:53a lot of girls,
42:55a lot.
42:56They have a better sense
42:58of what a man really is.
42:59Judging from the people
43:00we talked to,
43:01the guys that we talked to today,
43:02they seem to have a better sense
43:03of being a human being,
43:05not only being a macho man.
43:07Maybe, you know,
43:08being in the show business
43:10also helps them.
43:11They're more exposed.
43:12So, the maturity is faster.
43:14You learn more quickly.
43:16I hope so.
43:17I hope they continue.
43:18I am very,
43:19their lives seem very promising.
43:21Very positive.
43:23Very positive.
43:24Correct.
43:25I hope they continue
43:26to be better men.
43:28But then,
43:29of course,
43:30we have to bear in mind
43:31that there are no exact rules,
43:33no code of ethics
43:34to becoming a better man.
43:35But today's discussion brought about
43:38certain things,
43:39certain thoughts,
43:40certain insights
43:41that we can understand them
43:43no matter what.
43:44We should understand them.
43:46Not only because they're men,
43:47we're women.
43:48But because they're human.
43:49They said,
43:50actually,
43:51let's not force them to understand.
43:52Let's just love them.
43:53Correct.
43:54Let's just accept them.
43:55Yes, let's just accept them.
43:56Okay?
43:57So, just accept us, sis.
43:58So, let's meet again tomorrow.
44:00Tomorrow.
44:02Sis.
44:03Sis would like to thank
44:05Bambi Fuentes,
44:07Mossimo,
44:08F&H,
44:09Chloe for our eyewear,
44:11Optical Work,
44:13Adida,
44:14Janeline Shoes,
44:16Wade Shoes,
44:17Bayo,
44:18Under the Sea Pet Shop,
44:20Salon de Manila,
44:21La Germania,
44:23680 Home Appliances,
44:25Jurastar,
44:26Mano Mano,
44:27Play and Display,
44:29JBL Home Furniture Enterprise,
44:31The Barnyard,
44:33Grand Flora,
44:34Our Home,
44:36Wayless Center and Spa,
44:38The Heritage Art Venue,
44:41Molly McGregor,
44:43and Beanhopper's Coffee,
44:44and Union Square.
44:46If everything will be lost,
44:47just don't do them.
44:48You know that?
44:49I'm willing to lose my job.
44:51Winner!
44:52You're a winner.
44:53You're a woman.
44:54Yes, you're a winner.
44:55If there's a problem,
44:56I don't avoid it.
44:57I need to find a way
44:58to solve it.
44:59I won't make a mistake
45:01just to solve it.
45:03It's a good feeling
45:04because you're the eldest.
45:06To see your mom and your dad
45:08fulfilling their wishes
45:10in the salon.
45:11Really?
45:12Really.
45:13When was the last time?
45:14Yesterday.
45:15What?
45:16How long have you been married?
45:18About...
45:19How long have you been married?
45:21Oh.
45:23I don't know.
45:26What?
45:27Because I still have
45:28some shortcomings.
45:30I still have a lot.
45:31Never mind.
45:32But it's not perfect.
45:33It's not perfect.
45:34Are you happy with his answer?
45:35Yes.
45:37Okay.
45:38Okay.
45:39He's really going to say it.
45:40He's going to say the truth.
45:42No, because
45:43I don't use him that much.
45:44Oh.
45:46I think he uses YC.
45:48Oh.
45:49Because he...
45:50Because...
45:51Because...
45:52Because...
45:53No.
45:55Next.
45:56He's kind.
45:59He's kind.
46:00He's kind.
46:02He's elastic.
46:24Oh.
46:25Oh.
46:26Oh.
46:27Oh.
46:28Oh.
46:29Oh.
46:30Oh.
46:31Oh.
46:32Oh.
46:33Oh.
46:34Oh.
46:35Oh.
46:36Oh.
46:37Oh.
46:38Oh.
46:39Oh.
46:40Oh.
46:41Oh.
46:42Oh.
46:43Oh.
46:44Oh.
46:45Oh.
46:46Oh.
46:47Oh.
46:48Oh.
46:49Oh.
46:50Oh.
46:51Oh.
46:52Oh.