Does love age like fine wine? | SiS (Stream Together)
Sina Charlie Davao, Elvie Pineda, Vic Vargas, Claire de la Fuente, at Tiya Pusit, ang mga lovers over 40, ay papatunayan na mainit pa rin ang kanilang pag-ibig kahit sila’y matanda na!
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00:00We walk hand-in-hand, we dream together We giggle and laugh like kids forever
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun
00:16We talk about anything under the sun We are sisters, we are friends
00:23We've got magic that never ends
00:27I got you sis, you got me
00:31The best of friends we'll always, always be
00:39We always have fun being together
00:43You know me the best, we're friends forever
00:47Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis
00:50Right by your side, hit or miss
00:54We are sisters, we are friends
00:57We've got magic that never ends
01:01I got you sis, you got me
01:05The best of friends, the best of friends
01:09The best of friends we'll always, always be
01:14We are sisters, we are sisters
01:20Good morning!
01:21Jerry, wine tastes better as it ages, right?
01:27Correct.
01:28Paintings?
01:29Paintings.
01:30As it ages, it becomes more expensive.
01:32It becomes more expensive.
01:33Is it a human heart?
01:36I don't know.
01:37Let's find out today.
01:39Yes, that's what we're going to find out in our discussion today.
01:42We're going to talk about love and quirky.
01:45And above.
01:46And above.
01:47And above.
01:48So, don't leave.
01:49When we come back, that's what we're going to talk about.
01:51Of course, that's only up to Sis.
02:06Love at 40 and above.
02:08Is it just companionship or is there still love?
02:12We're going to find out in our panel today.
02:14She's happily married for 30 years.
02:17And now, it's just companionship that they're chasing after.
02:20Charlie Davao.
02:23Good morning to the two of you and to our guests here in the studio.
02:28And of course, to you, the guests.
02:30Good morning.
02:31And he's happy and contented in his love life.
02:34Let's ask Mommy why.
02:36Ms. Abby Tanaga.
02:37Good morning.
02:38Thank you for welcoming us again.
02:41He's still very passionate in his relationship and he's still active in his sex life.
02:46Vic Vargas.
02:53Married for 23 years.
02:55Their passion for each other is still very much alive.
02:58Claire De La Fuente.
03:01Good morning.
03:02And I'm a guest here again.
03:04Welcome back.
03:05Welcome back.
03:07He's going to the gay bar to get high and meet his new dad.
03:12Chapu Sis.
03:14Good morning.
03:17This is exciting.
03:20At your age, what do you look for in a relationship?
03:24Is it still love, especially for those who are single?
03:27Is it love?
03:28Or is it something more than that?
03:30Companionship?
03:31I don't have love anymore.
03:33I just want companionship.
03:35There's someone I can talk to.
03:37There's someone you can be with?
03:38Yes.
03:39When I go to the market, I have someone I can go with.
03:41There's someone you can go with.
03:43I'm still a boy.
03:44I don't need to be a boy.
03:45I need to be a boy.
03:47It's like you're waiting for something to happen.
03:53Vic, in your case, you just got married a year and a half ago?
03:57Yeah, but I was living with her for about 15 years.
04:0115 years?
04:03So why after 15 years, you decided to get married?
04:07Is it for love or companionship?
04:09We had a son.
04:10And I had a problem about enrolling him in Catholic schools.
04:16I needed a marriage license and all that.
04:18That's right.
04:19But the thing is, I studied my situation well.
04:24In other words, we talked about it earlier.
04:27I said, he's such an idiot.
04:30You will commit the same mistake.
04:32I was a divorcee.
04:34I was married for about 24 years.
04:38And then, I got divorced.
04:4024 years?
04:47Now, I got married to a younger woman.
04:51In fact, she's just going to be 40.
04:54And I'm going to be 65.
04:56So I'm older by 25 years.
05:01So, I have gone through, before the divorce procedure,
05:06I've gone through a lot of marriage counselors.
05:09And one thing stuck in my mind.
05:12I think I said this before, right?
05:14In any relationship, the only successful factor would be the willingness to adjust.
05:19That's what the marriage counselor told me.
05:22The willingness to adjust.
05:23That is the only successful factor.
05:25Whether it's going to be between an employee, employer, mother, children, between friends, right?
05:31There's always a willingness to adjust.
05:33Otherwise, if it's lost in one part, there's no bond.
05:36Yes, that's right.
05:38There's no relationship.
05:39Right?
05:40Jenny's eyes are rolling.
05:43Right?
05:45Charlie, what about you?
05:46Do you look for companionship now, in your marriage?
05:49Well, at this point of time, my age right now,
05:51I'm more on companionship.
05:54But it doesn't mean that I don't have sex.
05:56I don't love my wife.
05:57Of course, I still love her.
06:00But the love is on a different level.
06:03Yes, it's different.
06:05Even going back to sex, even if I wanted to.
06:12Everything has an end.
06:14What is that?
06:15I would say, I retired too early.
06:17I started at a very young age.
06:19I was only 16 when I started.
06:21And would you believe, this is a bit arrogant.
06:24I think I have, what, 300 women in my life.
06:27Wow.
06:28That's a lot.
06:29That's a lot.
06:30It's an exaggeration.
06:31That's why we have a one-day affair.
06:33Is it the same with our numbers?
06:35I have a two-days affair.
06:36And there are times, two at the same time, three at the same time.
06:39You're so busy.
06:42Our schedule is so hectic.
06:43And no regret.
06:45No regret.
06:46I'm happy with my wife right now.
06:48So, Tito Charlie, you said, there's no sex at all?
06:52I don't know.
06:53Is this because of health reasons?
06:56I have friends who try this modern medicine.
06:59They call it Viagra.
07:00I'm going to try it.
07:02It might be able to help me sexually.
07:04I hope it can help me.
07:05You're not pregnant.
07:08Of course not.
07:13Tita Elvie, how about you?
07:14What are you looking for at this point?
07:16Well, I've seen it, in fact.
07:18Congratulations.
07:19Yeah, thank you.
07:20Yay!
07:21Yay!
07:22You're next to Obama.
07:25It's like that.
07:27No, because when I got married at the age of 17,
07:31it's like I was forced.
07:32Because the mother, they're from Manjikan.
07:35I wasn't ready yet because I was still young.
07:38Now, then I had a second, the British.
07:40And then this time, the Filipino.
07:44I saw what he taught me.
07:47There's a new dimension of love.
07:49He taught me how to love.
07:51Because I didn't know love before until I found him.
07:55That's beautiful.
07:57I might cry.
07:58No.
07:59Is this beautiful?
08:00No, right?
08:01Because he taught me how to give and take.
08:04In fact, you noticed that before,
08:06four years ago,
08:08my hair was so big when I came to the Philippines.
08:10Right?
08:11Until he said,
08:13You know, it's so beautiful.
08:14You haven't seen your beauty yet.
08:16Remove your hair.
08:17Remove your eyes.
08:18You'll look different.
08:20Until I said,
08:21My head is so light when you do that.
08:24Right?
08:25Not too much.
08:26You know, Vic, I don't know.
08:28I thought I was beautiful then.
08:31So, our reduction of our hairdo
08:34is because of him.
08:36Because he was able to give.
08:39He had a partner who was sensible.
08:41Correct.
08:42That became his.
08:44And it became true.
08:45Exactly.
08:46Love and friendship depends on the relationship
08:49that you are in at the moment.
08:51Of course.
08:52And this one,
08:53it complements your character,
08:55your personality also.
08:56Love.
08:57It's beautiful for us.
08:59When we met,
09:00I felt like I already had a soulmate.
09:02Tita Elvy, would you say it's because
09:04you've learned a lot through the years
09:06and you've experienced a lot of things.
09:09That's why you're open to that.
09:10Yes.
09:11If he had come into your life 20 years ago,
09:14would you be more open?
09:15Maybe not.
09:16Maybe I'm not like this.
09:17Because when I was young,
09:19I didn't know what I wanted.
09:20Now, I'm…
09:22Settled.
09:2340.
09:24I already know.
09:25Why are you laughing?
09:26You already agreed.
09:29And now,
09:31I already know what I want.
09:33Okay, okay, okay.
09:34Let's go to Ms. Cruz.
09:38How was your 23-year marriage?
09:40What's your status now?
09:42Is that three levels?
09:44That's a lot.
09:45It's like you're studying in school.
09:47Correct.
09:48Every day is a new day.
09:49Every day is a new experience.
09:51Every day is a new beginning.
09:53It's always like that.
09:54You'll always learn.
09:55And then,
09:56Tito Vic said,
09:58I'm like a young girl.
10:01You really need
10:03willingness to adjust
10:05to a certain situation.
10:07To all situations.
10:08To all situations.
10:09To all situations.
10:10You need to have that.
10:12If you don't have that,
10:13your marriage will really fail.
10:15How's our sex life?
10:18It's the same.
10:19Is sex better?
10:20Actually, it can be adjusted.
10:25In my case,
10:27the longer the period of marriage,
10:30you'll discover more.
10:32You'll enjoy more.
10:34Really?
10:35Of course.
10:36How?
10:37It depends on your mind.
10:39It depends on...
10:40It's like you shouldn't talk about it.
10:42You might get frustrated.
10:44You'll feel like...
10:45After 23 years.
10:46Maybe you can go into some details.
10:48Like the willingness to adjust.
10:50It really struck me.
10:52Because,
10:53let's say she wants a certain thing.
10:55We're talking about sex.
10:56That you cannot do.
10:57Then maybe you can
10:58talk about the next best thing.
11:02That's right.
11:03So,
11:04let's adjust.
11:05I don't know why we make so much fuss about age.
11:14Exactly.
11:15I think,
11:16at this point in time in my life,
11:18I'd like to think that
11:19age is not a matter of time.
11:21I'm sure Elvie will agree with me.
11:24It's not a matter of time?
11:26It is the quality of imagination.
11:29The quality of imagination.
11:30The quality of relationship.
11:32Your quality of imagination.
11:34Your mind should be ready for everything.
11:37Open to everything.
11:38You can't hide it.
11:39But if you're younger,
11:40I don't think you're going to be that open, right?
11:43No, because for example,
11:44I told my husband last night,
11:47our negatives should be positive.
11:50It should be nothing.
11:51It should always be positive.
11:52Yes, even if it's negative.
11:54Let's make it positive.
11:56So that there's no...
11:58So that there's no negative.
11:59It should always be positive.
12:00Yes, always.
12:01Everything should be beautiful.
12:03Beautiful aura.
12:05And you should be transparent.
12:07Tell your problems.
12:08It's like you're not fighting.
12:10What about Chapucit?
12:11How are the gay bars?
12:15Where are you the most fabulous?
12:17I'm just a watch.
12:19Watch?
12:21The question there is,
12:24what's there that fascinates you?
12:27Or nothing?
12:28Nothing.
12:29Is this just a trip?
12:30Because what I watch on TV,
12:32it's just me.
12:33It's like,
12:34what's really happening inside?
12:36I just want to see.
12:37Curiosity.
12:38Curiosity for yourself.
12:39It's just that.
12:40Didn't you say before,
12:41you celebrated when you were with Gordon?
12:44Do you still celebrate?
12:45Until now.
12:46Up to now.
12:47When you were with Gordon,
12:48did you celebrate?
12:49Celebrate.
12:50Celebrate.
12:51Celebrate.
12:52That's wrong.
12:53Celebrate.
12:54Celebrate.
12:55Invite friends.
12:56Invite your ex.
12:57I thought...
12:58That's what I was saying.
12:59I thought you were the secretary of tourism.
13:01Don't be jealous.
13:05Okay.
13:06We still have a lot to talk about.
13:22We're back.
13:23And of course,
13:24we're still with them.
13:25It's a hot topic about mature love.
13:27Mature.
13:28Mature.
13:29Sure.
13:30Would you say at this point,
13:31you are all in perfect control
13:33of your relationships,
13:34yourselves,
13:35your emotions?
13:37Is there ever a time
13:38that you really are in perfect control?
13:41Is there really such a thing?
13:42No.
13:43I don't believe.
13:44There's no such thing.
13:45Compared to before.
13:46That's it.
13:47Compared to when you were younger.
13:49Maybe the best thing
13:50that you can allow to happen
13:51is to make God in control.
13:53Yeah.
13:54And I think God allows us
13:56to break our heart.
13:59So that he can step in and mend it.
14:02Okay.
14:03That's beautiful.
14:04Quotation King.
14:06Yes.
14:07It means that you've been married for four years.
14:09You've been through a lot.
14:11I'm speaking from experience.
14:13A lot.
14:14A lot.
14:15A lot.
14:16You've been through a lot.
14:21I told you
14:22to prepare yourself.
14:24You've been on stage for four years.
14:27That's a long time.
14:28That's a long time.
14:30That's a long time.
14:31That's a long time.
14:32Uncle Vic said it's been 50 years.
14:3450 years.
14:35That's the hardest part.
14:37The hardest part of the relationship
14:39is the first 50 years.
14:41Can you imagine that?
14:42Can we still make it?
14:44Uncle Charlie was a widow
14:46at a young age, right?
14:48Yeah.
14:49I was a widow
14:50when I married my second wife.
14:51Let's speak in Tagalog.
14:53My first wife died early.
14:55Isn't that because of your consumption?
14:58Because you're so busy.
15:00You know,
15:01I think, I guess so.
15:09Because at that time,
15:10you're my height.
15:11Left and right.
15:12You know what I mean, right?
15:13Left and right.
15:14And there was a time.
15:15You let go of her emotions.
15:17The trouble with somebody.
15:18Her emotional aspect.
15:19But would you believe
15:20that she doesn't fight?
15:22I won't mention the name
15:24of that person.
15:25She invited him.
15:26She's her friend.
15:27Next time,
15:28if it's someone else,
15:30she won't do it.
15:31That's how it is.
15:33The secret is
15:34to befriend other women.
15:36That's how it should be.
15:38Hey,
15:39you can't have other women.
15:40That's not how it should be.
15:42That's not how it should be.
15:43That's not how it should be.
15:44That's not how it should be.
15:45That's not how it should be.
15:46What we should always do
15:47is to be beautiful
15:48and always
15:49be attentive to her.
15:50Exactly.
15:51Especially when she's looking for someone else.
15:53That's right.
15:54That's right.
15:55Uncle Charlie is right.
15:58Maybe.
15:59Because when a woman
16:00is really clingy,
16:01she hides it from herself.
16:03That's true.
16:04It's hard.
16:05It's harder.
16:07It will explode.
16:08And that's it.
16:09She's dead.
16:10That's the truth.
16:11I would share.
16:12That's why I feel guilty.
16:14Because I also have a daughter
16:16who died
16:17of a freak accident.
16:19I know that.
16:20What happened to her?
16:22I thought,
16:23maybe this is my fault.
16:27I was crazy.
16:29I fooled my wife.
16:30Why are these innocent people
16:32who pay?
16:35Why not me?
16:36Right?
16:37There was a time
16:38when I cursed God.
16:39You know?
16:40Why?
16:41Okay, let us be more specific
16:43going to the Bible.
16:44One thing struck me there.
16:46You said that
16:47when you are married,
16:51when you are married,
16:53you are one.
16:55So, if you do not love your wife,
16:57if you don't love your wife,
16:59you don't love yourself.
17:00Are you sure that you are not a pastor?
17:03Like Charlie.
17:05I used to have that kind of life before.
17:08You said that.
17:09Immoral.
17:10Immoral.
17:11Illegal.
17:12Illegal.
17:13That's what he said.
17:16Chapusit,
17:17have you stopped looking
17:19for somebody?
17:21Are you content
17:22that you are alone at the moment?
17:25For now, yes.
17:26They say that alone
17:27is not necessarily lonely.
17:29No, not really.
17:30I am happy.
17:32She is a survivor, sister.
17:34I am happy when I am alone.
17:36I am always alone.
17:38There are so many happy families.
17:40But I still like her.
17:42Of course.
17:43Sister, she is a survivor.
17:46I think marriage has many pains.
17:48But,
17:49she has no pleasure.
17:51Yes.
17:52What is celibacy?
17:53The one who refuses.
17:58The one who refuses.
17:59The one who refuses does not break up.
18:01And the one who breaks up does not refuse.
18:03That's a sweepstakes.
18:09Our interview is not working.
18:11Janice, you are already in the mood.
18:13Yes, because I am so happy.
18:16So, is this love at 40?
18:19More knowledge,
18:20more knowledge,
18:22more willing to adjust.
18:24Yes.
18:25What else can you say?
18:26I think it comes with the knowledge
18:27and the wisdom.
18:28Of course, wisdom.
18:29That's why everything is better.
18:32If you desire to have more dignity,
18:35like now,
18:36when I pray,
18:37I just pray for one thing.
18:39I ask God to...
18:41He is really a pastor.
18:42He is not a pastor anymore.
18:44I am a big sinner.
18:46I was a big sinner.
18:47And I just pray that
18:48to make my intentions pure.
18:51Can you be a marriage counselor?
18:53Yes, I can.
18:55He is good at speaking.
18:57Maybe you can teach our husbands.
19:02What is the telephone number?
19:04Can I get your telephone number?
19:05He is the most difficult man in the world.
19:08Before we met,
19:09you weren't like that.
19:10You don't talk this way.
19:12Now, you become a priest.
19:14Now, we can talk.
19:16It's only because of the topic.
19:19Like I said,
19:20I am married to a much younger woman now.
19:23I just pray that
19:24if I make a mistake in the beginning,
19:26she doesn't want to go back.
19:27I don't do anything in the beginning.
19:28Can you imagine,
19:29he was married for 24 years,
19:30and then,
19:31you thought of me.
19:32I said,
19:33maybe I am safe for 25 years.
19:3524 years,
19:36he is still alive.
19:37Right?
19:38I mean, you know,
19:39that's why he speaks like that.
19:40I'm so happy for him
19:42because he was able to really see life as it is
19:45at the moment.
19:46And he's still willing to learn.
19:48Exactly.
19:49I think the greatest virtue
19:51a man could ever have
19:52is self-control.
19:54It makes you more of a man.
19:58So, you're controlling yourself now
20:00because you can see that he's ugly.
20:03Going to control,
20:04I have that now.
20:05I just look at it.
20:07Just look at it.
20:08Just appreciate it.
20:09Just appreciate it.
20:12Not because,
20:13that's what you want to do.
20:15If it's not because of you,
20:16you're giving up your body.
20:18That's it.
20:20That's what you said.
20:24You guys,
20:25you're still cleaning up.
20:26No, no, no.
20:28Clear, clear.
20:30You should know me better, you know.
20:32You don't know me,
20:33but I've been in show business
20:34for 45 years now.
20:36And,
20:37no regret.
20:38As I said,
20:39I just look at it.
20:40But, if there's somebody
20:41who can help me
20:42to arouse my emotions
20:44and feelings towards sex,
20:46I would be willing.
20:48I don't mind.
20:49I'd love to do it.
20:50But, outside the home, you mean?
20:52Outside the home?
20:53Outside or inside the home.
20:56You could paint the picture.
20:57That's really good.
20:58That's the color.
21:01As long as it is possible.
21:03I don't deny that.
21:05Aunt Elvie,
21:06what makes you happier?
21:07You've experienced,
21:08you've met a lot of boys.
21:10Yes.
21:11Boys or men?
21:13Older or younger?
21:14You said, Aunt Elvie,
21:15you want someone you can talk to.
21:18What is really your preference?
21:21Your age?
21:22A little younger?
21:23A little older?
21:24A little older than me.
21:25Because, at least,
21:26when we talk,
21:27it's sweet, right?
21:28That's what they say.
21:29Right.
21:30Because,
21:31when I was young,
21:32I also experienced
21:33when I was 19 years old,
21:34we talked about
21:35nothing but
21:36Is this a cell phone?
21:37Texts, cell phones,
21:38or,
21:39let's eat.
21:40It's like,
21:41it's far away.
21:42And when we go out,
21:43people think that
21:44it's either
21:45he's a jiggle
21:46or I'm his sugar mommy.
21:48I don't think I want that.
21:49Right, Vic?
21:50What I want now is
21:52our love to grow every day.
21:54That's what I see.
21:55You grow together?
21:56Yes.
21:57I want to grow old and gray
21:58with this guy.
21:59We'll make him bully me.
22:00With my husband now.
22:01Because,
22:02he's really beautiful.
22:03Like this morning,
22:04he said,
22:05Okay,
22:06be simple.
22:07Because,
22:08it's a morning show.
22:09I want you to be simple
22:10so that people can see
22:12the different LV.
22:14Can you introduce your husband?
22:15I don't want to.
22:16He's selfish.
22:17You're so selfish.
22:19And we'll share.
22:20He's so spoken to me,
22:22but he's witty.
22:23He always tells me
22:25that,
22:26wow,
22:27this is really mind-boggling.
22:28Because,
22:29I just saw a guy
22:30that I want to be
22:31a partner in life.
22:32And I'm so happy
22:33because every day,
22:34I ask the Lord
22:35that He gives me.
22:37If you had,
22:38especially to the wives,
22:39Aunt Claire,
22:40Uncle Vic,
22:41and Uncle Charlie,
22:42if you were,
22:43if you were,
22:44if you were given a choice,
22:45would you have
22:46stayed single?
22:48Knowing what you know now,
22:49Aunt LV is still looking for you.
22:51If you were given a choice,
22:52would you have stayed married?
22:54Knowing what you know now.
22:56But before you answer that,
22:57we'll be back.
23:04Always be
23:05We are sisters
23:07We are sisters
23:11We're back.
23:12And we'll go back to
23:13our hanging question earlier.
23:15Would you have
23:17chosen to stay
23:18single?
23:21And for Aunt LV
23:22and Uncle Vic,
23:23would you have chosen
23:24to stay married?
23:26Knowing what you all know now.
23:28If you're single,
23:30if you haven't found
23:31the right guy for you,
23:33don't waste your time.
23:35But if you find,
23:36because we all have
23:37someone who's right for us.
23:38We were born with someone
23:39who's right for us.
23:40I believe in that.
23:41Now, when you find
23:42someone who's right for you,
23:43you should give
23:44all of your love.
23:46Because he might not
23:47come back.
23:48You might not see him again.
23:49So open your door.
23:51You should really love him.
23:53But seriously,
23:54there's no way of knowing
23:55that he's right for you.
23:56Because sometimes,
23:57you think he's right for you.
23:58No.
23:59Open your eyes
24:00and open your heart.
24:01You'll see it.
24:02I have someone who's right for me.
24:06Sir, you still have someone
24:07who's right for you.
24:08What are you saying?
24:09What about you?
24:11For me,
24:12it's not good
24:13if you're alone.
24:15I've been married twice.
24:16I've lived with my first wife
24:17for 10 years.
24:19I've been here for 30 years.
24:21No problem.
24:22Left and right.
24:23It's natural.
24:24Why?
24:25If you're single,
24:26you're alone.
24:27No problem.
24:28Now, when you're married,
24:29you live with somebody
24:30who cares for you.
24:31You share everything in life.
24:33Perfect.
24:34Problem is always there.
24:36But they say,
24:38if you're not happy alone,
24:40you can never be happy
24:41with another person.
24:43Uncle Charlie,
24:44if you were single,
24:45if you were also single,
24:47would you still be
24:49busy with the chicks?
24:53Not anymore.
24:54Not anymore.
24:55Not as busy.
24:57Because I have read a lot
24:59and I've learned from experience.
25:00And I think
25:01that would be the best teacher.
25:03It's important
25:04that you're complete.
25:06As a person,
25:08you're complete with yourself.
25:09Because there's a lot
25:10to consider.
25:11You have kids.
25:12You have a wife.
25:13You have kids.
25:14You have a wife and kids.
25:15You have a relationship
25:16that you nurture.
25:17You have kids that you raise.
25:18You raise them.
25:19And you know,
25:20if a person
25:21wants to be alone
25:23with himself,
25:28and he doesn't have
25:29someone to be his mate,
25:31I feel like he's selfish.
25:34I'm not saying it's you,
25:36but you know.
25:38I know one day.
25:40I know one day.
25:42Janice, is this your episode?
25:44This is your episode
25:45so shut up.
25:46One day,
25:48I'm sure you'll find somebody.
25:50And I'm sure you're willing
25:51to gamble again.
25:52Because you know,
25:54the challenge of life
25:56is very important
25:57to a person.
25:58Claire, excuse me.
25:59Claire,
26:00you have a good idea
26:01about family,
26:03together.
26:04Yes.
26:05What if your children
26:06are married already?
26:07They have their own lives.
26:08That's different.
26:09It doesn't matter
26:10if you have teenagers
26:11in your care.
26:12That's okay.
26:13But we're mellowing
26:14as you're...
26:15You know,
26:16just like what Tito Vic said,
26:17when we're getting older,
26:18our brain becomes
26:19a different preoccupation.
26:21Our...
26:22We're maturing.
26:23We're maturing.
26:24The things that were important
26:25are no longer important.
26:26Yes,
26:27just like what Tito Vic said.
26:29What did you say?
26:30You said that
26:31three things are important to you.
26:33What are they?
26:34When I was younger.
26:35When you were younger.
26:36Immoral.
26:37Illegal.
26:38Fattening.
26:39Look,
26:40it's not like that now.
26:41Because when you're fattening,
26:42it attacks your heart.
26:43It's good.
26:44Right?
26:45It's like that.
26:46So, I mean,
26:47as you go on,
26:48I'm sure
26:49your mind will mature.
26:51The relationship
26:52will mature.
26:53So,
26:54a person
26:55will know the path
26:57that they're really running.
26:59Going back to what
27:00Tita Elvy said,
27:02that growing together...
27:04Tita Elvy is my aunt.
27:05Tita Elvy.
27:06Tita Elvy.
27:07Tita Elvy.
27:08Tita Elvy.
27:09Tita Elvy.
27:11Tita Elvy, right?
27:12And growing, right?
27:13I think there are
27:15two aspects of growing.
27:16Again,
27:17there are two.
27:18Growing old
27:19and growing up.
27:20Yes.
27:21Well, growing old
27:22is mandatory.
27:24It's really going to happen.
27:25We can't avoid that.
27:27Growing up is...
27:28Optional.
27:29Optional.
27:30It shouldn't be optional.
27:32I like that.
27:33It's a feeling, right?
27:35So, you shouldn't
27:36pass up on that option.
27:39Right?
27:40But,
27:42it's a pity
27:43that a lot of people will remember
27:44that they never grew up.
27:46They just grew old.
27:47They just grew old.
27:48They didn't grow up.
27:49They didn't grow up.
27:50That's why.
27:51Life is a waste.
27:52That's right.
27:53It's nice to talk to Vic
27:55because,
27:56for a woman,
27:57it's nice to hear
27:58what he's saying.
27:59From a man.
28:00From a man.
28:01That's what we're waiting for, right?
28:02Give me your number.
28:03So that our wives
28:04and men in Asia
28:05don't have to reach us.
28:08I think the most immature,
28:10the most immature men
28:11in the world
28:12are Filipinos.
28:13Are Filipinos.
28:14And he admits that.
28:15Yeah, yeah.
28:16Because I used to...
28:18Be like them.
28:19That's why you can
28:20really understand that.
28:21No, no.
28:22Actually,
28:23you know,
28:24we can't ask Jenice
28:25because she has a lot of ideas.
28:26You know,
28:27you know,
28:28Jelly and Jenice.
28:29It's nice to hear.
28:30That's why
28:31we heard it right
28:33that women are from Venus
28:35and men are from Mars.
28:37We're really different.
28:38We're different.
28:39Emotionally.
28:40I think emotionally.
28:41Our perspective is different.
28:42It's different.
28:43Women,
28:44we women,
28:45when we have,
28:46like what Tita Elves said earlier,
28:49that when we're...
28:51Are we hurt?
28:52No, no.
28:53When we're courting
28:54a 19-year-old,
28:56our feeling is,
28:57why?
28:58It's like
28:59we're not making her happy.
29:01Correct, correct.
29:02But men,
29:03when someone approaches
29:04a 19-year-old,
29:06they talk about it.
29:07It's like,
29:08hello.
29:10I'm the winner.
29:11I'm the winner.
29:12Their perspective is different.
29:14Their thoughts are different.
29:15It's like,
29:16the perspective
29:17of attacking a problem.
29:19When they reach that age,
29:21let's say 50,
29:22and then,
29:23sometimes men,
29:24they want to prove
29:25to themselves
29:26and to everybody
29:27that I can do it
29:28and I'm young.
29:29It's just ego.
29:30It's just ego.
29:31I'm that old,
29:32right?
29:33It's ego.
29:34They're different.
29:35But when they're facing
29:36a woman they like,
29:38even if she's older than them,
29:40it's still different.
29:41Because that's what love is.
29:43It's not the macho
29:45kind of macho.
29:46It doesn't mean anything.
29:47Do you agree with me?
29:49That's why I have
29:51a great respect for women.
29:53And I've come to realize
29:55that I will just adjust to them.
29:57Because I don't make a mess.
29:59I don't get pregnant.
30:00That's right.
30:01There's even,
30:03going back to what he said,
30:05there's even a big question
30:07on who is the stronger sex.
30:09Because what women go through
30:11is not what men go through.
30:14And I'll tell you more
30:15why I have a great respect for women.
30:17You know, a woman
30:19takes about 20 years, right?
30:21To make a man out of his son.
30:23And it only takes another woman
30:2620 minutes to make a fool of him.
30:28Right?
30:29So now, who's the stronger sex?
30:31That's right.
30:32It's because he's beautiful.
30:33That's what he loves.
30:34It's because of Eva and Adam.
30:36You know, Uncle,
30:37do you agree with me?
30:39That when you're separated from your wife,
30:41you, the man,
30:43when you're separated from your wife,
30:44or even if you're not yet separated from your wife,
30:46what's on your mind,
30:48you want your kids,
30:50your pets.
30:52But when the time comes
30:54when it's serious,
30:56you're still thinking
30:58that you want your level.
30:59Because kids' mindsets are different.
31:01Their mindsets are different.
31:03Your wavelength doesn't match.
31:06But again, Claire,
31:07the adjustment is still there.
31:09You, Uncle Charlie.
31:11I don't know.
31:12I haven't tried having an affair
31:14with a young girl.
31:18One-time deal.
31:19Yeah, before.
31:20See, that's what I'm trying to say.
31:21Right?
31:22One-time deal.
31:25She don't want.
31:27She don't want when one is done.
31:30I have about 300 women in my life.
31:34One day affair,
31:35two days affair.
31:36You're still young.
31:37I'm still young.
31:38You don't know what you want now.
31:39You know what you want.
31:40You're already choosing
31:42what you want.
31:44That's what I can do.
31:46And the understanding,
31:47and willingness,
31:48and respect,
31:49that's already there.
31:50But that has also come with
31:52experiencing a lot of things
31:54before you realize that.
31:56So you need to go through
31:58what you've been through
31:59before you have
32:00a mindset like this now.
32:02Before we go to the next level,
32:04we need to go through this first.
32:07Let's give them a round of applause.
32:22Today, we have a Sis Challenge.
32:25Of course, the discussion is hot.
32:27Let's make it hotter.
32:28What's Sisling Challenge?
32:33Sisters Challenge.
32:35This is what we'll do.
32:37We'll give you a situation.
32:39Then, let's say,
32:40I'll give the situation to Uncle Charlie.
32:42He'll answer how he'll handle
32:44this situation.
32:46And you, his companions,
32:48will give him a score.
32:5240 will be the highest score.
32:54Okay? Fine?
32:55Are we okay?
32:56We're fine.
32:57Okay, who wants to be first?
33:01Okay, Uncle Charlie.
33:03Age before beauty.
33:04Age before beauty.
33:05Right.
33:06This is our scenario.
33:07This is the situation.
33:08Let's say,
33:10what if, okay?
33:12You won't be able to
33:14attend your son's graduation.
33:16What would you do?
33:18Wish.
33:19How would you deal with that?
33:21With your,
33:22how many,
33:23like,
33:24the last 10 years
33:25that you've had.
33:27You know,
33:28Jeremy,
33:29that really happened in my life.
33:31Yeah.
33:33You cried for Uncle Charlie.
33:35Every time,
33:39when I remember your accident,
33:41her name is Maimai.
33:43She was only 5 years and a half.
33:45And she was running.
33:47And in my driveway,
33:49one morning,
33:51December 23 of 1968,
33:53and she stumbled
33:55and that empty bottle of mayonnaise
33:57broke into her stomach.
33:59I think she was playing with Ricky
34:01or I can't remember anymore.
34:03But anyway,
34:05before that,
34:06they had a rehearsal,
34:08the St. Teresa's program
34:10for December 25.
34:11And we would,
34:12my wife and I would go there
34:13and wait for her
34:14after the rehearsal.
34:15And we were watched.
34:16To make the story short,
34:19the management postponed the program,
34:22I can't remember anymore,
34:23in honor of my late daughter.
34:25So we were there,
34:26sitting in front.
34:27And when the curtain opened,
34:30of course,
34:31the kids came out.
34:35I couldn't see anything.
34:37I ran all the way out.
34:41And I cried.
34:42I was vomiting all the way.
34:46And a lot of parents approached me
34:48and they comforted me.
34:50Charlie,
34:51there were more worse things that happened to her.
34:54She had a father
34:55and she lost her own child.
34:57Which is even worse.
34:58But then,
34:59going back to my daughter,
35:01when she died,
35:02my wife,
35:03she was really,
35:05I was quiet.
35:08That's what we were talking about earlier.
35:11If I had committed a sin,
35:13why
35:15took the innocent one?
35:17You know?
35:18I said,
35:19earlier,
35:20I would curse God about that.
35:23But it's life.
35:26So,
35:27nothing happened.
35:29I don't know.
35:30I was
35:31out of this world.
35:32I didn't know what to do.
35:33And then,
35:34my wife,
35:36after a year,
35:37she followed.
35:38Probably,
35:39that's also one cause
35:40of her
35:41pain.
35:42Plus,
35:43there's foolishness.
35:44Left and right,
35:45the cheeks, etc.
35:46You know?
35:48And,
35:49my wife,
35:50I would understand it.
35:51Because she got sick for a while.
35:52She was hospitalized for about
35:54more than a month.
35:55And she died.
35:56And,
35:57I prayed.
35:58I called everyone.
36:00And I even promised
36:01somebody up there
36:02that I won't do this again.
36:03Just
36:04let my wife live.
36:06Nothing happened.
36:08So,
36:10that's the story of my
36:12life in question.
36:13That's why I was touched
36:14every time
36:15when I remember
36:16that scene.
36:17So, I'm sorry.
36:18But it will happen.
36:19You know?
36:21Should I score this?
36:22Perfect.
36:23Guys,
36:24let's perfect this.
36:25Let's not do that.
36:26Don't do that.
36:2741.
36:29Okay.
36:32Okay,
36:33next question.
36:35Opposite.
36:36Don't cry.
36:37Wait.
36:39Because,
36:40either a man or a woman,
36:41I don't know,
36:42Matrona,
36:43what do you think of others?
36:44How do you face people
36:45who talk like this?
36:48There.
36:49How?
36:50Believe.
36:51Opposite.
36:52No.
36:53You're so brave.
36:54Matrona,
36:55what do you think of me?
36:56How do you face people?
36:57So what?
36:58There.
37:01What's wrong?
37:03What's wrong?
37:04Huh?
37:05What does it mean?
37:06All of us
37:07go through
37:08this
37:09life.
37:11No one
37:12grows up.
37:13Correct.
37:14Just by looking.
37:15We really grow up.
37:16Just by looking.
37:18But growing up
37:19and growing up
37:20gracefully,
37:21that's what I can
37:22grow up to be.
37:23There.
37:24That's why if someone
37:25says to me,
37:26I'm a matrona,
37:27huh.
37:29Huh.
37:30Huh.
37:33Let's score that.
37:35That's for me.
37:36It's necessary.
37:37You know,
37:38for me,
37:39a woman,
37:40when she has
37:41a claim
37:42to what she's doing,
37:43so be it.
37:44Right?
37:45That's what I like.
37:46That's what makes me happy.
37:47That's where you're happy?
37:48That's where I'm happy.
37:49Support me.
37:50Okay.
37:52I'm right.
37:53Forty-forty.
37:54Forty.
37:55Forty.
37:57You didn't get it right.
37:58Okay, okay.
37:59I forgot.
38:00That's a good thing.
38:01There's another answer.
38:04Wow.
38:05Forty-five.
38:06That's my waistline.
38:12Okay, Tito Vic.
38:13You need to
38:14protect your sweetheart
38:16from a bunch of
38:18jerks.
38:19How are you
38:20going to protect her?
38:26If I can leave,
38:27I'll leave.
38:29I'll convince
38:30my sweetheart.
38:31That's harder.
38:32Because,
38:33again,
38:34coming to my mind,
38:36there's a saying,
38:38a moment of humility
38:40can save a lifetime of regret.
38:41Oh, my God.
38:42That's amazing, Tito Vic.
38:44Right?
38:45That's the man out of you.
38:47You're the one who's going to
38:48make all the fights.
38:49You're going to make it happen.
38:50No, no.
38:51If I can avoid it,
38:52I'll avoid it.
38:53Because it's hard.
38:54If I'm fighting,
38:56I'm not going to make
38:57my Judo champion big.
39:00I'll be facing
39:01a guy next to me
39:02who's going to hit me.
39:03Here, here.
39:04The score is?
39:05He is mind-boggling.
39:06I feel good.
39:08One hundred and...
39:10One.
39:11I feel good and wanted.
39:12Ah, ah, ah.
39:13I feel good and wanted.
39:14Yes.
39:15That's why,
39:16your score is one hundred.
39:18Mine is one hundred and ten.
39:19One hundred and ten.
39:20Of course.
39:21I want a sensible man.
39:22Because,
39:23you know, that's true.
39:24If you're not thinking.
39:25The guy who's not thinking
39:26will give up the fight.
39:28Correct.
39:29But if the guy is thinking,
39:30he avoids the fight.
39:31Chapusin.
39:32Yeah.
39:33For Vic Vargas.
39:34For Vic Vargas.
39:35For Vic Vargas.
39:39Forty.
39:40Forty.
39:41Why?
39:42Tito Charlie,
39:43you're a man.
39:44How do you score?
39:45What do you think
39:46is the kind of
39:47thinking of a man?
39:49That's also what I'll do.
39:50Wow.
39:51Fifty.
39:52I want to jump to the conclusion right away
39:53that I'll really follow him.
39:54But that is now.
39:55If for example,
39:56you're sixteen years old.
39:57Ah, you might have,
39:58you might have
39:59reacted differently.
40:02Oh, that's different.
40:03You're still two years old.
40:04But we're talking about him now.
40:06Yes, right?
40:07Next question.
40:08Tita Claire.
40:09Yes.
40:10Where is it?
40:11There.
40:12If you're mistaken,
40:13your grandmother
40:14in the PTA meeting
40:15that you did.
40:16You know,
40:17my grandmother was right
40:18in the PTA meeting
40:19that I did.
40:20Our PTA meeting.
40:21Yes.
40:22That's right.
40:23Our beautiful grandmother.
40:24You know,
40:25if sometimes it really happens
40:26that you're mistaken.
40:27The wrong guess.
40:29If the guess is wrong.
40:30You know,
40:31Tito Vic was right.
40:32I thought my grandson was right.
40:33You know,
40:34you know,
40:35Tito Vic was right.
40:36You know,
40:37the virtue of a person
40:39is to try
40:40in situations like that.
40:41Like that.
40:42You know,
40:43that's very trivial.
40:44It's just a small thing.
40:45Yes, it's trivial.
40:46But it's like,
40:47it fits your personality.
40:48That's right.
40:49I won't say
40:50that I won't get plastic surgery.
40:51I'll get hurt.
40:52But you know,
40:53it depends on how you handle it.
40:56How you handle the situation.
40:58And after that,
40:59you can't die in the parlor.
41:00Yes,
41:01after that,
41:02you'll suddenly face the mirror.
41:03Wait a minute,
41:04there's a difference.
41:05But that's a nice point.
41:07You know,
41:08a person
41:09can suffer inside.
41:11You need to
41:12express yourself
41:15to other people.
41:16Your aura
41:17should be good.
41:18You can't just...
41:20Because,
41:21my grandmother said,
41:22I remember,
41:23a person,
41:24when he says something,
41:25he can't get it back.
41:27Yes.
41:28You already said that.
41:29Exactly.
41:30Even if you say sorry,
41:31you'll get hurt.
41:32Right, you'll get hurt.
41:33So that means,
41:34we need to be careful
41:35in what we say.
41:36Because of us,
41:37people grade us
41:39on how we talk,
41:41how we move,
41:42how we face people.
41:44I should've asked that.
41:45That's why I promised.
41:46That's why I promised.
41:48I just wrote it down.
41:5042,
41:51you'll be a grandmother.
41:54She said I'll be a grandmother at 42.
41:55Agreed.
41:56Uncle Charlie,
41:5850,
41:59you're not plastic.
42:02Auntie Ellie,
42:03Claire,
42:04she is sexy,
42:05witty,
42:06and
42:07beautiful
42:08inside.
42:0940.
42:11There's a reason for this.
42:12This isn't over yet.
42:1445,
42:15you're right!
42:19Last,
42:20Auntie Elvie,
42:22honey,
42:23I'm in love with your son.
42:25Your boyfriend,
42:26wife,
42:27everything.
42:28Maybe,
42:29I'll think three times
42:30and tell him,
42:32you need to leave this house.
42:36That's what I said!
42:37You're so thick-skinned.
42:38Shut up!
42:39That's what you said to me.
42:41Even if you're in love,
42:42even if you're in love,
42:43even if you're in love,
42:44if you're going to be a prostitute,
42:45and you're going to be in love with your son,
42:47why don't you be patient?
42:48You better find another one
42:50who will love you
42:52and respect you.
42:53What is this?
42:54A prostitute?
42:55Right?
42:56But,
42:57Auntie Elvie is trying to be so
43:00civil,
43:01so
43:02beautiful.
43:03You need to leave this house.
43:06That's okay.
43:07That's what she said.
43:08You can't say anything.
43:10Grace,
43:12I give you
43:15fifty.
43:17You just need to jump.
43:19You just need to jump.
43:22Uncle Charlie,
43:23what's that?
43:24Fifty.
43:25You're right.
43:26I'll do the same.
43:30Miss Claire.
43:31Miss Claire.
43:33This is Uncle Vic.
43:35Yeah!
43:36Fifty.
43:37There.
43:38That's what's important.
43:39Yeah.
43:40That's what's important.
43:41That's what's important.
43:44Thank you for joining us this morning.
43:46We had a lot of fun.
43:47We learned a lot.
43:48We learned.
43:49We learned.
43:50We learned from you.
43:51She sat down.
43:52Yes.
43:53It's different.
43:54It's really different.
43:55You know,
43:56it's not just by age.
43:58It's different.
43:59Is that experience?
44:00Experience.
44:01And willingness to learn.
44:02And learning your lessons.
44:05That's it.
44:06We need to learn.
44:07And willing to impart those lessons to others.
44:08Thank you so much.
44:09Thank you very much.
44:10We'll be back.
44:28No one will take care of me.
44:30What if,
44:31they already have a husband.
44:32They have golden anchors.
44:35If they already have a husband.
44:36You know,
44:37I'm not a selfish mother.
44:39If they already have a husband,
44:40I will support them.
44:41I will give them the wisdom
44:43that I learned from my mother.
44:45I'll give it to them.
44:46I'll pass it on to them.
44:53I don't have that in my mind anymore.
44:55Because it's already happening.
45:00Just let it be.
45:01If no one comes.
45:02Fine.
45:03That's okay.
45:04I'm happy because
45:06I'm busy with my grandchildren.
45:08Wow, okay.
45:09Second,
45:11I really don't want to try.
45:12I have a lot of friends.
45:16In and out of showbiz.
45:18Most especially,
45:19I'm close to people like you.
45:23That's one of my dreams.
45:24Third,
45:27I hope.
45:29I hope to think about it.
45:30I'm not pregnant anymore.
45:31I'm crying.
45:35We are sisters.
45:37We are sisters.
45:39I just hope that
45:40one of my children,
45:41if later on,
45:42they just ask me,
45:44somebody would approach me,
45:45Lolo, can I be of help to you?
45:47And I'm hoping that
45:48my mom is here.
45:50And I hope my mom can do that for me later on.
45:52I hope not.
45:53But,
45:54I think for my children,
45:55because this is still a baby,
45:56I think,
45:57what I can see is
45:58she's the one.
45:59She's the one.
46:00Yes.
46:01Until now,
46:02her mom is still alive.
46:04Yes.
46:05Do this, do that.
46:06This is your background.
46:07This is what you're like.
46:08Imagine them telling me on my own.
46:10You know?
46:18If the time comes
46:19when you'll see a woman like Chapuset.
46:21When I was younger,
46:22of course,
46:23the first thing that
46:24comes to my mind,
46:26or would come to my mind
46:28whenever I meet an attractive woman
46:30is,
46:31how would it be,
46:33how does it feel
46:34to be in bed with her?
46:35Is that how it comes to your mind?
46:37Yes.
46:40It begins with a thought,
46:43and then,
46:44follows the act.
46:45So, if it's just a thought,
46:46it's a bit...
46:47It's a bit tense,
46:48situation.
46:55I'll do everything
46:56to be beautiful
46:57in my partner's eyes.
46:59I'll make everything beautiful
47:00for him.
47:01And when the time comes
47:02that I'm really wrinkled,
47:04I'll make sure
47:05I'll be beautiful inside,
47:06emotionally.
47:07Very good.
47:08Very most important
47:09is spiritually.
47:11I am so happy
47:12that the men that we had today
47:14were very honest
47:15and true.
47:16Yes.
47:17And their willingness
47:18to...
47:19Admit.
47:20To own.
47:21To own up to their mistakes.
47:22To own up to their mistakes.
47:23It feels good, right?
47:24And that's very rare.
47:25But maybe...
47:26Admit it.
47:27We really learned a lot today.
47:28A lot.
47:29I learned a lot.
47:31Of course, I cried again.
47:32Of course,
47:33we can't really
47:34stop you from crying.
47:35Well, anyway,
47:37that was the first of our
47:39Valentine Week special.
47:41Correct.
47:42So tomorrow,
47:43is our second day
47:44of our Valentine Week special.
47:45So,
47:46you shouldn't miss it.
47:48You can't miss that.
47:50Okay?
47:51Bye!
47:52Bye!
47:55Sis would like to thank
47:56Dami Puente,
47:58Mossimo,
47:59F&H,
48:00Chloe for our eyewear,
48:02Optical Works,
48:04Adidas,
48:05Janeline Shoes,
48:07Wade Shoes,
48:08Bayo,
48:09Under the Sea Pet Shop,
48:11Salon de Manila,
48:12La Germania,
48:14680 Home Appliances,
48:16Jurastar,
48:17Mano Mano,
48:19Play and Display,
48:21JBL Home Furniture Enterprise,
48:23The Barnyard,
48:24Grand Flora,
48:26Our Home,
48:27Wayless Center and Spa,
48:28Color My Hair,
48:30and Union Square.
48:32Really,
48:33now that I've tried it,
48:34I have a lot of friends.
48:37In and out of showbiz.
48:39Most especially,
48:40I'm close to people like this.
48:43It's like no one will take care of me.
48:45It's like,
48:46they already have a husband.
48:48There's Golden Acres.
48:51I just hope that
48:52one of my children,
48:53my grandchildren,
48:54when they're there,
48:55they just invite me.
48:57Somebody would approach me,
48:58Lolo,
48:59can I be of help to you?
49:00And I'm hoping that
49:01my Mai is here,
49:03and I hope my Mai can do that for me later on.
49:05I will do everything
49:06to be beautiful
49:07in my partner's eyes.
49:09I will make everything beautiful
49:10for her.
49:11Whenever I meet
49:12an attractive woman,
49:13it's just,
49:14how would it be,
49:16how does it feel to be in bed with her?
49:18Is that how it gets into your mind?
49:20Yes, that's how it is.