Revelations and Secrets - Pt.2
Category
🛠️
LifestyleTranscript
00:00Hi, I'm Mo Khalifa. I'm better known as Boricud, and I'm a transgender content creator merrily focused with BDSM contents.
00:12And this is... Introduce yourself.
00:15Yep, you can just call me Joe. I just...
00:19His screen name is Daddy.
00:22Yep. Exciting stuff.
00:25Yeah, I'm just an average kind of person who enjoys different things. That's about it.
00:34We started getting in touch with each other, and he decided to come here in the Philippines to meet us in person.
00:43And that's the start of our relationship. And what else can you say? In English.
00:52Not much else. I mean, that's... Yeah, we finally met. We've been chatting and talking on various platforms.
01:01And yeah, I decided to come to the Philippines and finally meet her.
01:08And what made you interested about me?
01:12Well, obviously, there's the things we have in common as far as the...
01:20The BDSM?
01:22The videos, but, you know, the lifestyle and, you know, everything. You're very interesting.
01:30Your outlook and your...
01:32Oh, thank you.
01:35Yeah, it's easy to talk to, easy to be with.
01:41And it's not like... It doesn't take life too seriously.
01:45Because that's what I find. You can take life a bit too seriously in this sort of lifestyle.
01:51People, especially on that site where we met, can be quite serious about it.
01:58And that's not me.
02:00I enjoy it, but I'm not a, you know, die-hard want-to-get-beaten-to-death or anything.
02:08He don't like hardcore. He just like you.
02:10Yeah, hardcore. That was the word I was looking for, yeah.
02:13Yeah, it's interesting and it's fun.
02:15He just like the fetish or roleplay, like kinky play.
02:19Not too much into pain or hardcore because he don't like it gore.
02:23He doesn't like too much pain and too much pain.
02:27Because there are other BDSM creators who make content to the extreme.
02:33Like content to the extreme.
02:36He doesn't like that. It's just like he wants to be in the minimal side.
02:42Yeah, it's part of my life, not my life.
02:45Lots of girls online, most especially, not just in the BDSM community,
02:50especially on the dating sites, their pictures are like AI or fake, super edited.
02:58It's beautiful in the picture, it's like an artist.
03:00But when you meet her in person, it's like, oh my God, what happened to you?
03:06That's why he experienced that when he met other girls.
03:11But it's not like in the picture, it's different in person.
03:15That's why he was disappointed.
03:17Because there are a lot of catfish and scammers online.
03:20That's why he had a lot of disappointments.
03:24I don't know how she talks on that mic.
03:28No, not that.
03:30No, not that. As far as what I said, I was what I was.
03:36Yeah, I saw in your photos previously before that you're a bit chunky.
03:41But when I met him in person, it's like, oh, okay.
03:46BDSM is mostly about roleplay, fetish, kink.
03:55It's mostly on the erotic side of sexual preferences, which caters.
04:02There's dominatrix, there's submissive, there's bottom, and there's top.
04:09My preference is I prefer to be top and dominant.
04:12So I address myself as a dominatrix mistress because I'm a transgender.
04:17I dominate him in the way he prefers because he's submissive and he's bottom.
04:24So I do it on his preference.
04:30He prefers fist f***ing.
04:35Can I mention it?
04:36Okay.
04:37He likes f***ing.
04:38He likes f***ing.
04:41Sometimes he or she explains about your submissiveness.
04:46I mainly just like to do whatever the other person likes.
04:51It's just about pleasure and enjoyment and just pleasing.
04:57He prefers that I'm the one controlling him.
05:00Yeah.
05:01And telling him what to do.
05:03It's all about exploration.
05:05Yeah, it's all about exploration.
05:07And we experiment things also.
05:11We're using toys, costumes, and stuff like that to make our sexual adventures interesting.
05:20We're really focused on that certain type of thing like BDSM.
05:25And figure out what we like and what we don't.
05:28But we don't like extreme.
05:32No damage.
05:33Yes.
05:35Yes, there are people who like what we call that.
05:40They eat f***ing.
05:42Which is very disgusting.
05:44We don't do that.
05:45We do golden showers but we don't do f***ing.
05:47My God.
05:49It's so gross.
05:50He doesn't like that.
05:53And he doesn't like extreme.
05:55He doesn't like when we whip him and his bum starts bleeding.
06:00Or whichever part of his body.
06:02He doesn't like that because it's hard to get infected.
06:11For me, I've done it for about 10 years.
06:15It's been a long time.
06:17Since I was 17.
06:20I love being a content creator because I'm the boss of my own.
06:24And I can create videos which are uniquely interesting.
06:29And eye-catching to the audience who wants to explore BDSM preferences when it comes to sex.
06:40Because I think here in the Philippines, people are not really open to BDSM.
06:47They like the casual or the vanilla types of sex.
06:51Mostly, they prefer like that.
06:53But for me, I want it more unique and special and interesting.
06:58Because it's more beautiful or happier.
07:06Before, when I was still 15, I heard about it from a neighbor or friend.
07:11Which marries a European guy.
07:14And I was curious about it.
07:17When I got here in Manila, I came here to work as an entertainer.
07:24Hopefully, for Japan.
07:26But I couldn't leave because Japan Entertainment closed in 2007.
07:32I wanted to leave but my booking for Japan was canceled.
07:36So, I dwelled in the first time.
07:38I do escorts and I met friends and clients which introduced me to this BDSM thing.
07:46When I experienced it with my clients, I got excited.
07:50Ah, this is what BDSM is.
07:52And I liked it.
07:54So, I decided to explore it more and apply it to most of my clients when I do escorts before.
08:04I've had my boyfriend before.
08:06We do it and I like it.
08:07But my boyfriend and I separated.
08:10Too bad because he doesn't like that kind of life.
08:14Because he's jealous.
08:16He wants to retire.
08:18What's the Tagalog word for it?
08:20He just wants me.
08:22He doesn't want me to meet other guys.
08:24Because he gets jealous.
08:27So, we separated.
08:29Before, I'm a microbiologist.
08:31I work in a lab.
08:33But the salary is low.
08:37That's why I decided to be a BDSM content creator.
08:43Mostly, especially adult content.
08:46I post it online.
08:48It caters to different themes in each of my videos.
08:53You can find my name there.
08:55It's Vodikat.
08:56It's the letter V.
08:58It's a Fabhouse.
09:00I have a channel which is called TopdominantDS.
09:03Most of my content is available there.
09:07You can find it online.
09:09You can take a preview of my videos which I have done.
09:12With him and a few other guys I've met.
09:16Being a content creator, especially for adult content,
09:21it's not easy.
09:23Because I'm the one who edits.
09:26I'm the one who creates the script.
09:29Or whatever can be applied to the video.
09:31It's really hard.
09:33Because you need to experiment different positions on scenes.
09:38Because it's hard for me to hold the camera.
09:41I'm in charge of the lighting and everything.
09:43It's not easy.
09:45But when you watch it online, it's easy.
09:50But when I shoot the video, it's really hard.
09:55It's hard.
09:57The way you experience it.
09:58When we make videos, it's not easy.
10:00It's a lot of work.
10:02A lot of work.
10:03You'd know.
10:04And you have to do it again and again.
10:06But it's even harder.
10:07Because she does it all.
10:09She's running the video.
10:11Performing.
10:12I do everything.
10:13Everything.
10:14Yeah.
10:15It's incredible.
10:16It's really not easy.
10:18For those who are planning to be an adult content creator,
10:22you might think it's easy.
10:24But it's not.
10:25It takes a lot of work and effort to do a content.
10:29Especially adult ones.
10:31My channel is still new.
10:33I think my channel is less than a year old.
10:36But I have almost 700 followers.
10:42As of now, I have 7 fans.
10:46I earn money from it.
10:48From the fans.
10:50Every time someone views my videos,
10:53I also earn money from it.
10:55From view shares.
10:57That's what makes it interesting.
10:59Having your contents posted online on the site.
11:03It's just enough.
11:05But it's not too much.
11:06It's just enough.
11:08Maybe some people think that it's a lot of money.
11:13But no.
11:14Some people say that it's a lot of money.
11:17You can buy this and that.
11:19Because it's a lot of money.
11:20Five figures.
11:21Six figures.
11:22No, it's not that.
11:23They're just lying.
11:25They're boosting themselves.
11:29But it's not true that it's a lot of money.
11:33You're not a Hollywood star.
11:36Yes, it's just enough.
11:39It's just enough for you to earn money.
11:41It's not five figures.
11:43Sometimes.
11:44Just sometimes.
11:59We enjoy it much.
12:00It's amazing.
12:02Husbands should also explore.
12:06Because that's where it starts.
12:08If your husband or wife is not happy anymore.
12:12You should explore into BDSM.
12:15Or you can suggest to your...
12:17For example, there's a couple.
12:19The wife is not happy anymore.
12:21Or the husband is not happy anymore.
12:22You should suggest to your husband.
12:24Okay, can we get another guy or another girl to join us?
12:29So that our relationship will be exciting.
12:31To spice up the relationship.
12:34So that there will be no cheating.
12:36Because normally, in a couple,
12:38if you've been together for a long time,
12:39the husband cheats.
12:40There's another girlfriend.
12:41Or the wife has another man.
12:44That's why there are a lot of couples who separate.
12:48Because their sexual life is not warm anymore.
12:52That's why.
12:53So it's better they will apply.
12:55I'm not suggesting that you apply BDSM to your relationship.
13:00But I'm just giving you a point of view.
13:04On how to make your relationship happy with your partner.
13:08By BDSM.
13:10Don't use hardcore.
13:12Because if you've just started.
13:14Just start minimal.
13:16Start slow things like roleplay.
13:18Cross-dressing or something like that.
13:21As much as you can.
13:22As much as you can.
13:23But if you want hardcore.
13:24Go for it.
13:25No problem.
13:28Well, I mean.
13:29Obviously, it makes it stronger.
13:30Because of our compatibility with it.
13:37What she enjoys.
13:38I enjoy.
13:43Again, because we don't take it too seriously.
13:46I think that's the main thing for us.
13:48It's just to spice up our relationship.
13:50For fun and excitement.
13:54I don't want to be a slave.
13:57A dog or whatever.
13:58We do a lot of things.
14:03Basically, it comes down to mutual respect as well.
14:06I don't want to be treated badly.
14:08He's not a slave.
14:09He's just a submissive bottom.
14:12He's not.
14:13He's not like the others.
14:15For example, I'm a master.
14:17They're a slave.
14:20Is my Tagalog correct?
14:21Castigo?
14:23It's Spanish.
14:24Castigo.
14:30They dominate their partner as a master.
14:33And then their slave.
14:38They dominate it too much.
14:41It's really not a good thing.
14:43There are also BDSM relationships that are about monetary things.
14:49They want to be the master or the mistress because of monetary things.
14:54They want financial support from their slaves.
14:57There are also things like that.
14:59If you decide, for example, you guys, you want to be in a BDSM relationship,
15:04don't jump on the girls or guys who will just make you milk money.
15:10They want you to dominate them.
15:14Like this, like that.
15:16Like what we call it in other countries.
15:21What do you call it?
15:26They do things like,
15:29I'll tell your family that you're doing this.
15:32Or blackmail.
15:33Exactly.
15:34Blackmail like that.
15:36Blackmail domination.
15:37Don't do that because it's not good.
15:39And it will affect your personal...
15:45It could destroy you.
15:46Yeah, it could destroy your personal life.
15:48Especially in your family.
15:50Don't do that.
15:53If you want BDSM, just do the correct BDSM way.
15:57Not those blackmails and everything or scams and everything.
16:00It's not good.
16:01Especially when it's money involved.
16:03It's really not good.
16:05Because it will affect your personal life.
16:07Especially in your family.
16:10Yes, mostly the girls online.
16:12Especially on dating sites.
16:13Not just in the BDSM community.
16:15There are a lot of dating sites where girls create an account to find a foreigner.
16:21Then they blackmail and scam them to make money.
16:24Sometimes they ask for money.
16:26For example, there's a problem.
16:27My mother is dead.
16:28My father is sick.
16:29My dog is dead.
16:30Something like that.
16:32Send me money.
16:34It's not good to do that.
16:37Also, precautions and awareness.
16:40You really need to apply when you're wanting to be in that kind of relationship.
16:46Sometimes, when we're shooting with younger boys.
16:52For example, we're shooting a penetration or oral.
16:56Sometimes, they release something that the scene is not finished yet.
17:02So, we have to do it again.
17:04Sometimes, there's a blackout.
17:10I'm an expert with that.
17:14For some, there's no cleaning.
17:16So, there's a pen and bottle jelly.
17:21Those are my experiences that I don't like.
17:25Because it's a bit dirty.
17:26For others, BDSM should be a role play.
17:32It's not really correct.
17:36That's not really the thing that they would have to do when they want to be in a BDSM relationship.
17:43Because your truth is bad.
17:45It's not a good thing.
17:46You can kill someone with that.
17:48We didn't experience that.
17:50For example, I have a partner.
17:52He's a guy who's more handsome than him.
17:55He's hot.
17:56I don't touch him.
17:57Because for me, it's just for fun.
18:00I don't do it for having a relationship with someone.
18:05It's just intimate fun.
18:07Fun, but intimate and erotic.
18:10For me as a trans, since I do escort before, I usually have tests every three months.
18:16I have CBC, urinalysis, and everything.
18:21I take care of myself.
18:26It's better to be healthy and strong and safe when you dwell into this kind of thing.
18:32Because my sexual partners are different.
18:34Not only guys, but also girls.
18:37I have videos, contents, which are girls involved on it.
18:44But it's not on my channel.
18:46It's on the other side.
18:48It's in Groovy Films.
18:49It's in Groovy Films, which is internationally published here in the Philippines.
18:54I decided to do adult content.
18:58Because that's really my dream to become a star.
19:05Because my idol before was Rosanna Rosas.
19:07The stars like that.
19:10At this point in time, I did everything I could to be an adult content creator.
19:20It made me more happy because I was able to do what I wanted when I was young.
19:28I was able to see them.
19:30That's my dream.
19:31When I grow up, I want to be like that.
19:34I want to be a star.
19:36But in a different way.
19:37Because I'm a transgender.
19:39I'm not a woman.
19:40So I'm doing it in a unique and special way.
19:44Especially in the contents you can see online.