Revelations & Secrets - Pt.4

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00:00Hi, I'm Mokhalipa. I'm better known as Boricud, and I'm a transgender content creator merely focused with BDSM contents.
00:11And this is, uh, introduce yourself.
00:15Yep, uh, you can just call me Joe. Um, I just...
00:19His screen name is Daddy.
00:21Daddy. Yep. Um, exciting stuff. Um, yeah, I'm just an average kind of person who enjoys different things, but I guess that's about it.
00:35We started getting in touch with each other, and he decided to come here in the Philippines para makita kami in person, and that's the start of our relationship.
00:47And what else can you say in English?
00:51Um, not much else. I mean, that's, yeah, we finally met. We've been chatting and talking on various platforms, and, uh, yeah, I just decided to come to the Philippines and finally meet her.
01:08And what made you interested about me?
01:11Um, well, obviously there's the things we have in common as far as, um, the, um...
01:20The BDSM?
01:22The videos, but, you know, the lifestyle and, uh, you know, everything. You're very interesting. Your outlook and your...
01:31Oh, thank you.
01:34And, uh, yeah, it's easy to talk to, easy to be with, so, yeah.
01:40Mm-hmm.
01:41And it's not, like, doesn't take life too seriously, because that's what I find. You can take life a bit too seriously in this sort of lifestyle.
01:52Especially on that site where we met, can be quite, uh, serious about it, and that's not me.
02:00Um, I enjoy it, but I'm not a, you know, diehard wanna-get-beaten-to-death or anything, you know?
02:08He don't like hardcore. He just like you.
02:10Yeah, hardcore, that was the word I was looking for, yeah. Um, yeah, it's interesting and it's fun.
02:15He just like the fetish or roleplay, like kinky play, not too much into pain or hardcore, because he don't like it gore.
02:23He doesn't like too much pain and too much pain.
02:27Because there are other BDSM creators who are really, to the extreme, they make content that's really deadly.
02:36He doesn't like that. It's just like he wants to be in the minimal, uh, minimal side.
02:41Yeah, it's part of my life, not my life.
02:44Lots of girls online, most especially, not just in the BDSM community, uh, especially sa mga dating sites,
02:52yung mga pictures kasi nila, parang AI or fake, uh, super edited.
02:57Ang ganda-ganda sa picture, parang artista, pero pag na-meet mo na in person, it's like, oh my God, anong nangyari sayo?
03:05Ganon. Kaya na-experience dun yan yung ganon na nakipag-meet siya na ibang girls, pero hindi yung sa picture, iba yung sa in person.
03:14Kaya na-disappoint siya. Madami kasing catfish at mga scammers online, kaya ganon. Marami siyang disappointment.
03:23And I hope she felt the same about me.
03:27No, not that.
03:29No, not that. I mean, as far as what I said, um, you know, that I wasn't, I was what I was, you saw.
03:36Yeah, I saw in your photos previously before that you're a bit chunky, but when I met him in person, it's like, oh, okay.
03:46For me as a trans, since I do escort before, I usually have tests every three months.
03:51I have CBC, urinalysis, syphilis test and everything. I iniingatan ko yung sarili ko. I take care of myself.
04:00Kasi it's better to be healthy and strong and safe when you dwell into this kind of thing.
04:08Kasi iba-iba yung mga sexual partners ko, hindi lang guys, girls din.
04:13I have videos, contents, which are girls involved on it, but it's not on my channel. It's on the other side. It's in Groovy Films.
04:25It's in Groovy Films, which is internationally published here in the Philippines.
04:30Growing up when I was a kid, I felt to myself na medyo malambot ako, as in medyo girly nung bata pa ako.
04:41Kasi my mother and my father broke up. Naggulamagyan ko sa mom ko, so nakikita ko puro mga girly things.
04:51Pag wala yung mama ko, sinusuot ko yung mga damit ko, yung mga high heels, yung mga makeup niya, ginagamit ko din.
04:59Minsan nakuhuli niya ako na gano'n susuot okay lang sa kanya.
05:04In my family, in my side, hindi problema sa kanila yung magiging gay or transgender ako.
05:12Para sa akin, I prefer to have my genital kip because having an SRS is not really advisable.
05:19Kasi hindi mo rin magagamit yan. Sayang lang yung pera.
05:23Transgenders yan na nagbabalak magpa-SRS, you have to think about it many times or a few times before you undergo SRS.
05:34Kasi sayang lang yung pera niyo na gagastasin niyo to pay for an SRS.
05:39Hindi mo rin magagamit yung, for example, nung palagay ka ng vagina, it's really not useful din kasi hindi ka naman mabubuntis.
05:49Though the pleasure is there, but it's not the same pleasure as the real woman's vagina, you know, when you have a penetration.
05:57Kaya sayang lang din yung pera. So kung sino man yung nagbabalak siya na nagpa-SRS,
06:02maghunus dili kayo kasi inaaksayan niyo lang yung pera mo.
06:06It's just like you're flushing your money in the toilet without thinking na hindi siya useful at hindi siya beneficial.
06:14Kasi nga, why would you have a vagina? Does it make you a billionaire or a millionaire after you have your vagina?
06:21No! It's definitely not. It's like wasting your money.
06:24It's better to use the money in a good way like invest, having your own land or having your own business.
06:31It's more beneficial kasi dadami pa yung pera mo kasi say papalagay mo lang ng kepay.
06:40It's not really advisable for me. I just have to keep my dick than having a vagina. I don't want SRS.
06:49My preference is I prefer to be top and dominant so I address myself as a dominatrix mistress because I'm a transgender.
06:58I dominate him sa paraan na prefer niya kasi submissive siya sa kabottom so I do it on his preference.
07:09Prefer niya yung fist f***ing. He likes blood. Can I mention it?
07:17He likes blood, he likes sex and sometimes he or she explains about your submissiveness.
07:26I mainly just like to do whatever the other person likes. It's just about pleasure and enjoyment and just pleasing.
07:37He prefers that I'm the one controlling him and telling him what to do.
07:43It's all about exploration.
07:46Yeah, it's all about exploration and we experiment things also.
07:51Using toys, costumes and stuff like that to make our sexual adventures interesting.
08:01Morally focused on that certain type of thing like BDSM.
08:06And figure out what we like and what we don't.
08:09But we don't like extreme. Yung mga madugo ayaw namin ng ganoon.
08:13No damage.
08:15Oo, meron. There's people who likes what we call that.
08:20Yung p***y kinakain nila which is very disgusting.
08:24We don't do that. We do golden showers but we don't do p***y.
08:28My God, it's so gross. Ayaw niya ng ganoon.
08:33Atsaka ayaw niya ng extreme yung pag winiwip siya na dumudugo na yung b**bang niya or whatever,
08:41whichever part of his body. Ayaw niya ng ganoon kasi mahirap na yung magkaka-infection ka lang.
08:52Sa akin, I've done it mga 10 years na. Matagal na. Since I was 17.
09:00I love being a content creator kasi I'm the boss of my own.
09:05And I can create videos which are uniquely interesting.
09:10And eye-catching to the audience who wants to explore sa mga BDSM na preference when it comes to sex.
09:21Hindi, I think here in the Philippines, people are not really open to BDSM.
09:28They like the casual or the vanilla types of sex. Mostly they prefer like that.
09:34Pero sa akin, I want it more unique and special and interesting because parang mas maganda or mas happy pag ganoon.
09:46Talking with you, right? If I have other guys?
09:50Yeah, yeah.
09:52House of b**bs, ganoon.
09:55I want girls, trans, and other guys to be in the house. Kung gusto ko siyang pakasalan, living together with us.
10:10Kung gusto niya ng marriage, i-consult ko muna siya na sometimes gusto ko ng girl, gusto ko ng ibang trans or guys to join us in the family.
10:20And they can be part of the house. I will build a room for them. O, ito yung kwarto mo, dito ka, dito ka.
10:25I'm okay with that. As long as there's no problem na idudulat nila sa amin, I'm okay with that.
10:31Well, I mean, obviously it makes it stronger because of our compatibility with it.
10:40What she enjoys, I enjoy. And again, because we don't take it too seriously, I think that's the main thing for us.
10:52It's just the spice of our relationship for fun and excitement.
10:56Yeah, and I don't want to be a slave and a dog or whatever. I do a lot of things. And it basically comes down to mutual respect as well.
11:10I don't want to be treated badly.
11:12It's different because he's not a slave. It's just a submissive bottom.
11:17And meron ding mga BDSM relationship na it's about monetary thing, like they want to be the master or the mistress because of monetary things,
11:28that they want financial support from their slaves. Meron ding mga ganyan.
11:32Kung nagde-decide kayo, for example, you guys, you wanted to be in a BDSM relationship,
11:37wag kayong pumatulun sa mga girls or mga guys na gagawin lang kayong milk money.
11:43Gusto nila na i-dominate ninyo sila, like this, like that, like what we call it yung sa iba,
11:53yung blackmail, like that, blackmail domination. Don't do that kasi hindi yan maganda.
11:59It will affect your personal life, especially sa family nyo. Don't do that.
12:11Kung gusto nyo ng BDSM, just do the correct BDSM way, not those blackmails and everything or scams and everything.
12:20It's not good, especially when it's money involved. It's really not maganda.
12:24Kasi nga, maapektuhan yung personal life mo, especially sa families mo.
12:28Marami po pangganan dito.
12:30Oo, mostly, yung mga girls online, especially on dating sites, hindi lang sa BDSM community.
12:34Marami sa mga dating sites na mga girls na gumagawa sila ng account nun para makahanap ng foreigner.
12:40Then bin-blackmail nila, ini-scam nila para magka-pera sila.
12:44Minsan hinihingi, nanghingi ng pera. Kunyari may problema, my mother is dead, my father is sick, my dog is dead.
12:50Meron mga ganyan, send me money, ganun.
12:53Hindi maganda yung ganun, so you have to take also precautions and awareness talagang kailangan i-apply when you're wanted to be in that kind of relationship.
13:04Yung iba kasi ginagawa nila, BDSM should be a role play.
13:09Yung ginagawa na totohanan na talaga, it's not really correct.
13:13That's not really the thing that they would have to do when they want to be in a BDSM relationship.
13:21Kasi masama na yung totohanan nyo, it's not a good thing. You can kill someone without misconceptions.
13:27I never take it personally to myself, though minsan may mga comments na napaka-harsh, yung binabasa kong comments.
13:36At minsan talagang sagat to the bones na yung comments nila, na ginadjudge ako.
13:41I just replied to them politely and kindly in a generous way.
13:47Kasi nga pag sinasakyan ko pa yung kasamaan nila, I'm putting my level into their level, which is not a good way.
13:55Pero yung mga other girls or other guys na ginadjudge sa akin, I just don't mind it.
14:01Bahala sila kung anong itatawag nila sa akin or whatever things that they wanted to address me.
14:06I accept that because I'm just a person and I made mistakes also.
14:11So kailangan kong i-accept kung ano man yun and just let it go. Parang narinig ko dito, labas sa kabila, ganun lang.
14:18And I smile because, you know, when you smile, the universe will smile back at you then.
14:24A few regrets that I have in my life is that hindi ko tinapos yung course ko before when I was in college.
14:33Kasi siguro kung natapos ko yung course ko as a nurse or something, I'm a doctor already.
14:41Yun yung regrets ko sa life. Kasi pangarap ko din maging doctor, but I stopped.
14:49Kasi gusto ko mag-Japan dati, so hindi ko na natuloy, kaya sorry talaga.
14:54Yun yung wish ko talaga na magiging doctor.
14:56At least na-experience kong bumicrobio at mag-nurse in a short period of time.