Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 7
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00:00:00Previously the first dinner party saw Holly and Andrew
00:00:04I've been looking forward to walking in with you and holding your hand make a truce
00:00:08Maybe this rocky start may make us stronger in the end
00:00:13Before Al's big shoey stole the show
00:00:16You can't do a shoey and expect girls to think that's hot leaving Sam to question her husband's maturity
00:00:25I know that he's trying
00:00:27But I really need him to step up but a scorned wife led to a betrayal
00:00:40Leading to a tense standoff, I just want to know that we can get past this
00:00:48She has got unrelenting standards and when you get it wrong, she's gonna hold on to it and make you pay tonight
00:00:54Oh my god
00:00:56Our newlyweds are moving in. This is the washing machine
00:01:00Usually my mom does everything for me. Not that way. Not that way. Not that way
00:01:04So I'm gonna have to YouTube everything before the experts unveil the next phase of the experiment
00:01:10It's time for confessions week. Oh shit. Okay ready to confess your sins. I'm a bad bad boy
00:01:17I'm a bad bad bitch
00:01:20The deepest darkest secrets what I'm about to reveal to Andrew is terrifying and past
00:01:26Revelations will come back to haunt them
00:01:29If a guy wears fake designer clothes if they drive a really ugly car, like I'm just not interested
00:01:35What did I just watch before the polarizing photo ranking task returns? Can you look?
00:01:43Causing Holly and Andrew
00:01:46Capable of letting me finish a sentence I'm going to leave now Holly
00:01:50to explode
00:01:52I'm gonna go home. Y'all send my stuff to me
00:02:06Our newlyweds are about to face the most daunting phase of the experiment yet
00:02:12I'm so excited
00:02:13Just the essentials 92 moisturizers and a few dresses all eight couples are moving in to the same building
00:02:26You can do the honors as they take the next big step in their relationship
00:02:37First time living at home can't get in the door
00:02:41That's work
00:02:52Go for it. We're finally home
00:02:58This is cute
00:03:00Which side of the bed would you like? You know, what's odd? You always get this side. Hey, yes
00:03:05side
00:03:06beautiful
00:03:12Cutie patooties
00:03:14So nervous, I wasn't nervous. I was shit myself
00:03:18This stage of the experiment is about accelerating our couple's relationships
00:03:23lifestyles for the regular-sized male
00:03:26This could be daunting for some who may be forced to compromise with their partners as they begin to set boundaries
00:03:33within their new space together
00:03:35Now house rules no makeup on the bed or the pillows
00:03:41most importantly this time allows our couples to create a space for growth in their relationship and
00:03:46Ultimately develop a newfound bond as they begin marital life in the new home
00:03:52So you really get written in the book? Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes
00:04:03Wow, this is beautiful for Holly moving in with a partner has been a long time coming
00:04:11look
00:04:13Very nice big
00:04:16Why would you be nervous
00:04:18Complete stranger. I just got introduced to a big Texan man. I'm 36
00:04:23Never been close to getting engaged or married and it's what I want
00:04:30So I'm excited to move in with Andrew
00:04:33Okay, I think I need to say to you first
00:04:37So do I just oh no just like stand there we are gonna be literally living in each other's pockets from now on
00:04:45Okay, and then let me do myself just make so I wanted to create a good energy
00:04:49Just need to get rid of any bad old vibes just in my new home with my husband
00:04:57We've gone through a journey to get here
00:05:00On the honeymoon
00:05:02Andrew said a lot of confronting things to me when we were intimate you weren't there
00:05:08I've had one night stands where out the partner was more into me than you were into me
00:05:16When he said that to me kind of felt taken aback and hurt and not appreciated
00:05:21But we actually were able to move past that and we're in a better spot now
00:05:28Sorry, I bought this
00:05:31I've had it on my mantelpiece for years. I bought it for myself. And so now this is in our home next to our wedding photo
00:05:38That's good. I like it. Thank you. I'm feeling great about Andrew
00:05:42We're in and where we're at in this relationship right now. I
00:05:47Manifested this there's no doubt in my mind
00:06:00I'm gonna kiss it every night before I go to sleep
00:06:07Sam is hoping that moving in together will progress her relationship with Al. I
00:06:12Definitely like Al like absolutely like there's definitely no doubt
00:06:15But we are kind of stuck in a bit of a friend zone at the moment
00:06:19You can sleep there last night. I'll get a showy at the dinner party
00:06:26I'll show he can be super immature
00:06:30You can't do a showy and expect girls to think that's hot
00:06:35So I am a little bit worried about his emotional maturity
00:06:43But that's not Sam's only worry as 25 year old Al has never lived out of home before
00:06:50So this my friend is what we're gonna call a laundry the laundry. Yeah, it'll be ours first time doing the washing
00:06:56This is the washing machine
00:06:58It'll be ours first time doing any cooking any cleaning the first time are you ready? I'm gonna pop your cherry
00:07:04I'm a little bit nervous because usually my mom does everything for me. Not that way. Not that way. Not that way
00:07:10So I'm gonna have to YouTube everything so there should be a scooper in there. You've just kind of got to find it
00:07:16Moving in together
00:07:17He's absolutely going to show whether or not Al and I can realistically work and then you can press up. That's it. Yep
00:07:28So, I guess as we kind of progress I really need to see some sort of maturity Wow
00:07:43As most of our couples settle into their new apartments
00:07:50Anthony is moving in on his own
00:07:52Last night's dinner party for me was in tense
00:07:57Grab a seat after leaving the honeymoon a day early
00:08:02Anthony tried to apologize but was rejected by Celine
00:08:07So I left the honeymoon and I'm sorry for that
00:08:14I just want to know that we can just sort of move past it and
00:08:18I just want to know that we can just sort of move past it
00:08:22And we can do this right now. I'm trying to be understanding, but the reason why we're in this situation is
00:08:30You like you you left
00:08:33Celine I really want to move forward from this
00:08:40Here we go
00:08:43I'm here to form a relationship with Celine
00:08:49But to tell you the honest truth
00:08:51It's been really really frustrating
00:08:54When you're here and you come to these sort of situations like this and you buy yourself it feels isolating
00:09:01On this experiment so far, you know, I've made the effort. I put myself out there a bunch of times
00:09:06I can't always be the one going to the party
00:09:09I
00:09:17Anthony and I's name are on the door, but obviously I walked in by myself the situation. We're in now. It's crap
00:09:23We're the only couple that separate at the moment. So it is a bit lonely. Of course it is. I
00:09:29Want to move in separately I think because issues aren't resolved
00:09:34I'm struggling to let go that Anthony left me dry on the honeymoon
00:09:38Oh, it's a wedding photo
00:09:41You know, I came here to you know, find love and have a husband so at the moment doesn't feel that way I
00:09:47Think the wedding day was probably the most positive thing out of our relationship so far
00:09:54Ever since then it's just been downhill between Anthony and I
00:09:59You know in my heart I'm like I did leave my son to be here
00:10:03I did to leave him to give this a shot because I want that family unit
00:10:10So it's very upsetting that Anthony and I are in this situation it's not what I've hoped for
00:10:27As our newlyweds reflect on their first day together
00:10:34Doing good head off to bed excited by the journey ahead
00:10:49I'm came for a fresh day tomorrow. I don't jump tomorrow
00:10:54Tomorrow could be really intense. That's cool. Okay. I made sure good night. Good night
00:11:03Oh my god
00:11:13But little do they know what awaits them in the morning
00:11:21As the experts are about to fast-track the experiment
00:11:34Oh
00:11:41My god, there's something in here
00:11:44What do you got?
00:11:47USB that is so weird. I'm so keen to see what's on there. I'm a little bit nervous. Hey
00:11:55Hello newlyweds
00:11:58We hope you're settling into your new homes as husbands and wives
00:12:04This week will require you to be brave and to let your walls down
00:12:09So that your partner can get closer to you. That's right. It's time for confessions week. Oh shit. Okay
00:12:19Confession
00:12:22Ready to confess
00:12:24Confess your sins. Do you have anything that you'd like to confess now?
00:12:28I'm a bad bad boy. I'm bad bad bitch good
00:12:33Confessions week is a vital part of the experiment. The purpose is to develop deeper levels of emotional connection
00:12:40That would normally take months or even years to build in a long-term relationship
00:12:45Those skeletons are about to come out that closet girl
00:12:50Someone's nervous
00:12:52throughout the week the couples will face a series of tasks that they might find confronting and
00:12:58They'll need to confess their innermost thoughts and fears together
00:13:02But each task is carefully designed to help them open up to each other and to grow as a couple
00:13:16Oh God
00:13:18It's sick. Oh my goodness. It's really thick
00:13:22Holly and Andrew are first to take on their confessions week task
00:13:26letter writing Wow
00:13:29They must reveal something to each other that they've never told anyone before
00:13:35Opening up to others and revealing our true selves is never easy
00:13:40It's time to dig deep and share something very personal with your partner. You don't have to sugarcoat it either
00:13:46You can be completely honest and I'm gonna do the same cool
00:13:51The letter writing task is designed to challenge our couples on two crucial
00:13:55Communication fronts the ability to open up and be vulnerable about topics
00:13:59They find difficult to discuss and the ability to listen carefully and empathize with what their partner is telling them
00:14:09This first task of confession week is going to be brutal honesty
00:14:16I'm going to reveal to Holly something that I can assume that she's going to find very confronting
00:14:23I have wanted to talk to Holly about this since our honeymoon when I said to her that I felt massive
00:14:30Disconnect when we were intimate. I know I'm not bad at sex. I know I have
00:14:35the right equipment I
00:14:37Feel like I know how to use that and I feel like I know how to be intimate and express my sexuality
00:14:45I do want to get closer to Holly and I think that if I'm honest with what I'm about to tell her that in
00:14:50Turned I could shed some light on who I am and what I expect in a relationship sexually
00:14:55I am super nervous about telling Holly about this because I have no idea how she's going to react and respond to it
00:15:06Yeah, all right, yeah
00:15:10All right
00:15:13Here we are before I revealed this to you
00:15:18I've never actually told anybody any partner this ever in my life. This is not something that's easy to say
00:15:26Yeah, it could be something that could possibly make you look at me differently
00:15:30But I have no problem telling you this and you're the first girl that I've ever been with that
00:15:35I would have the courage to do that with so
00:15:38Without further ado. Let me reveal to you. Okay
00:15:43Holly
00:15:45In the past I have flat-out lied to partners about this
00:15:49It's very confronting for the both of us. I am absolutely not ashamed or feel guilty in any way
00:15:57It is part of my past but it will also reveal more of who I am and what I am looking for
00:16:04Holly I love sex. I
00:16:10Love exploring sex and I love celebrating sex
00:16:16I'm a very sexual person and had it had roughly 350 sexual partners in the past
00:16:25This may be shocking to you and you are allowed to feel whatever feelings come natural to you after hearing this Andrew
00:16:32So
00:16:41350 do you keep a list like how do you mental know?
00:16:44So I've been single for seven years of my life in 52 weeks in a year
00:16:50Sexual partner every year for seven years that gives you about 350 seven times
00:16:53Okay, so that's how I roughly came to that number, right?
00:16:56Is that one a month or is that one a week would be one a week?
00:17:00Okay
00:17:01Is this in America?
00:17:03This is two continents. Actually, probably more like five continents because I traveled Europe for quite a while as well
00:17:09Okay, God, but the truth is I've been safe. So safe is good safe sex. Yeah, that's good
00:17:17Me expressing this being honest about that is
00:17:21In hopes that we can get past what happened on the honeymoon and like actually
00:17:25Slide it up a little bit and get a little bit more heat in the bedroom and like have some passion
00:17:29Text once that you know what I'm saying?
00:17:31Like I want somebody to want me and desire me, you know
00:17:35As much as I desire them to be completely honest in a roundabout way you would benefit from my experience in the bedroom
00:17:43cool
00:17:44There are some things off-limits
00:17:47Like no pegging I'm not like down and going down that road with you
00:17:50I
00:17:52Okay, I don't know what
00:17:56It's not that I was just trying to make okay
00:18:00But I want to see if there's that with us at chemistry because that would only evolve our relationship
00:18:06You know what? Like I get it. Yeah, that's cool
00:18:09I appreciate that and I appreciate you wanting to share that with me and it's fine. There's no judgment. Oh
00:18:16I mean look how do I I mean
00:18:20Yeah, he didn't murder someone so I don't know like clearly
00:18:24Intimacy is very important to him
00:18:27But I'm not here to judge him. I
00:18:29Accept him for his past and I just hope he can do the same and not judge me
00:18:36So I'm gonna read my confession
00:18:40Are you nervous?
00:18:42Maybe a little okay
00:18:44What I'm about to reveal to Andrew is
00:18:47Is terrifying
00:18:49I'm not sure how he's going to deal with it. I hope what I revealed to him doesn't change anything
00:18:57And I hope he doesn't freak out
00:19:02It's confessions week for our couples, are you nervous maybe a little okay, and it's Holly's turn to face her fears
00:19:09And tell Andrew something. She's never revealed to a partner before
00:19:15What I'm about to reveal to Andrew
00:19:18Is terrifying
00:19:20I'm not sure how he's going to deal with it. I hope what I revealed to him doesn't change anything
00:19:26And I hope he doesn't freak out
00:19:29It's terrifying it's perhaps the most important thing to me right now
00:19:36And I'm not sure how he's going to deal with it
00:19:42I long for a baby
00:19:46And to start a family of my own
00:19:51But I have fertility problems so I know already before I start my journey
00:19:57There's going to be difficult
00:20:00I'm on a timeline
00:20:02And so it just instilled this sense of urgency I
00:20:08Don't want to miss out on this really narrow chance that I may have to have a baby
00:20:17It's gonna be tough having to talk about this with Andrew I
00:20:23Am scared that if I really let him know how raw this is for me that I might scare him off
00:20:32Do you Andrew?
00:20:34Although I don't like to live life with regrets
00:20:38In my 20s and early 30s. I focus on career and travel and I missed out on having a family of my own
00:20:47So I do regret not focusing on trying to build a relationship earlier
00:20:52And what I most regret is
00:20:55Not giving myself a chance of having a child
00:21:03I know I've mentioned I want a child, but I have fear
00:21:09This may not happen daily. I
00:21:12Worry that if I take too much time
00:21:16The opportunity to have a baby may simply slip through my fingers
00:21:23And I live in fear that my childbearing years are near the end
00:21:33And I fear that this may put pressure on you, and I hope not scare you away
00:21:39Heart Holly XO
00:21:41Thanks
00:21:50Yeah tissue, okay
00:21:52It's like a fear. I
00:21:55Got a blood test last year
00:21:56I'm in the bottom 3% of people my age like bottom 3% in terms of my account like every time
00:22:04It's that time of the month if it stretches out a few days too long
00:22:07I think you know am I still personal and like I
00:22:11panic
00:22:13And I see a mother with it with a child, and I I'm happy for them, but I'm like upsets me
00:22:20You know
00:22:22The choices I made in life
00:22:25Have led me to be 36 and childless I feel like a failure
00:22:30Like I have really felt, and that's actually how I feel, and I'm just
00:22:40Not a failure I
00:22:43Can understand how that would be difficult to write and something you experience every single day
00:22:50It's a beautiful thing to want to have a child
00:22:53It says a lot about you, and it lets me know a little bit more about why you're here
00:22:58And I think that's amazing
00:23:02Thank you
00:23:04Andrew responded with warmth
00:23:08He was very supportive and so
00:23:12Andrews reaction I think was the best I could have hoped for I appreciate you being able to tell me that
00:23:24So I have a daughter already
00:23:28And I can sense that there's urgency with Holly to have a child I
00:23:34Feel like it's almost too much pressure on me
00:23:38Like we're still getting to know each other, and I'm just not there yet with her
00:23:43I'm just not sure that that's what I want
00:23:47Thank you
00:23:55As confessions week continues
00:23:59We've got mail
00:24:02It's Tamara and Brent's turn to receive a task
00:24:05I'm looking forward to getting through the confessions week with Tamara
00:24:09Okay, and I hope that some of the tasks that we do brings us closer together
00:24:14So I'm looking for some progress
00:24:17It wasn't love at first sight for this couple on their wedding day
00:24:21As Tamara's high standards put Brent offside. I did date this one guy. He actually did work in a retail shop
00:24:28And I was embarrassed to sort of like introduce him to people that doesn't meet my lifestyle, so
00:24:36But on their honeymoon
00:24:38Tamara owned up to her initial behavior and
00:24:42Apologized to Brent. I realized I was embarrassed about being stupid
00:24:46And then I dug myself too deep and I just kept carrying on about it
00:24:51That story's gonna go to my grave with me
00:24:54As you move forward with your relationship
00:24:56It's important to reflect back on your past
00:24:58Now time for both of you to see each other in some of your rawest and most honest moments
00:25:05Maybe it's like our audition tapes or something. Yeah, I think it would be
00:25:11Watching their audition videos could be very confronting for our couples
00:25:15Because we often find that the person we meet in their application video is much closer to their true selves
00:25:23Compared with what they might present to their partner on the wedding day
00:25:31I
00:25:33Think I have a lot of confidence in myself, and I do think that I'm a catch
00:25:38How would your friends describe you then that I'm a bitch?
00:25:42Big probably because of my honesty
00:25:45I
00:25:47I'm really fussy now with what I want
00:25:50Definitely don't want to be with someone who doesn't need like either have a good career or having no money
00:25:55Like I know that that sounds like quite quite vain or whatever, but it's true
00:26:02If a guy wears fake designer clothes if they drive a really ugly car and I don't have a good job or money
00:26:10Unfortunately, like I'm just so not interested
00:26:15I
00:26:19What did I just watch oh
00:26:22Yeah, that's so cringy. I
00:26:26Couldn't take myself seriously be watching that I remember that I can't take you seriously watching that
00:26:34That's me being pretentious yes, I'm glad you picked up on that that's not a down-to-earth person you realize that right yeah
00:26:41Okay
00:26:43That's a terrible thing to watch obviously coming out of someone's mouth. Yeah, I don't like people that
00:26:49Just simply look down on people for objects. They have or don't have
00:26:54Drives a shit car geez that's horrible
00:26:59Well, I was asked what do you looking for? What do you want for my life partner forever?
00:27:04Mm-hmm, not just my next guy that I date
00:27:06I don't want to go and date someone else who's like and it's happened before where they don't have anything and then
00:27:12I'm looking after them like I don't want to do that and it's if this poor guy drives a shit car
00:27:17It shows they have their money. I
00:27:20Don't like shit cars. I
00:27:23Don't like potential people at all. It's one thing I can't stand
00:27:31I'm just really conflicted
00:27:33So you're looking for the good in someone and you start getting along and you're living together you're building something
00:27:39But I was angry listening to that
00:27:42Tamara speaking like this. It's it's not a nice feeling not at all whether it's directed at me or whether it's not I
00:27:49Thought that things kind of changed, but maybe not
00:27:51I
00:28:02Do think that I'm a catcher
00:28:04If a guy wears fake designer clothes if they drive a really ugly car, and I don't have a good job or money
00:28:13Unfortunately, I'm just so not interested
00:28:16I
00:28:18That's a terrible thing to watch obviously coming out of someone's mouth I
00:28:23Get it like I sound like a dickhead that even made me feel awkward to it
00:28:33I don't think he fully understands my reasons behind saying that stuff
00:28:39I do want those things, but it's not for a reason of being pretentious. It's for a reason of like
00:28:45Now I feel like that's what I deserve
00:28:52Because I have been through a lot with boss relationships and having to look after people and I just don't want to do that anymore
00:29:01Remember that I told about money and it's not about that. It's just like I don't want to
00:29:07Don't want to have to look after people anymore like I don't want to have to have a guy come in and use me
00:29:15Just get up
00:29:22I can't take another guy that puts me through that kind of shit again
00:29:34Hey, can we talk yeah
00:29:38Yeah
00:29:41Well, I just want to explain that in that video didn't paint me in the best light
00:29:45That was embarrassing even for me to watch because that's not a true representation of what I meant. I
00:29:52Wasn't coming from a place of they have to have money and stuff like that in a way of like it coming across as being
00:29:57Pretentious it's because I don't want to look after someone else anymore
00:30:02When I hear that stuff from you when we first got married, we didn't really know each other so it didn't really matter, right?
00:30:07It was more of a challenge. It didn't care. I'm like, don't worry. I've got this
00:30:10That was my mentality
00:30:13But now that we've been together and you know, you kind of
00:30:17Build on a relationship you get along with someone
00:30:19I suppose hearing that and more even more because I think I care a lot more now than I did then
00:30:26The fact that I'm here and I'm not
00:30:28I did that
00:30:30The fact that we are getting along the way we are and things are going, you know
00:30:36Fairly well, I mean
00:30:38Yeah, and that person when I'm around you isn't what I'm like, so that's why you're right. It's not
00:30:45Which is why I think I'm kind of not angry at all. I'm not
00:30:51I was really worried that he would be upset with me for a while
00:30:55but
00:30:57It was a really good moment for us
00:31:00The fact that he said that he knows me now
00:31:03He knows that that person isn't who I am
00:31:06Like it makes me feel like he does get me
00:31:09I'm good. Yeah, I'm good. When you start building relationship with someone and start building feelings with someone
00:31:16You know you build some sort of a bond and then things that come up get a little bit touchier
00:31:24You know, maybe I care for this person a little more than I thought I did
00:31:28You
00:31:39With a letter
00:31:42What do you think it is I
00:31:44Have no clue
00:31:47Certain confessions week tasks have proven to be provocative in the past
00:31:52But none more so than the photo ranking task
00:31:56Inside this envelope are photos of all the other brides and
00:32:02grooms in this experiment
00:32:05From left to right
00:32:07You must place the photos in order of who you find the most attractive
00:32:12Right down to who you are least attracted to
00:32:15I
00:32:18Don't want to do
00:32:21This one I
00:32:24Want to see who you like
00:32:28The photo ranking task may seem uncomfortable
00:32:31But this task is not only about levels of attraction. It's mainly about honesty
00:32:37Sweaty hand
00:32:38Bring it on
00:32:41How honest do our couples feel they can be with one another at this stage of their relationship
00:32:47Let me just let them out first
00:32:48So I can see who I've got and how will they manage and navigate some of those sensitive revelations?
00:32:55All right, I'm gonna start with
00:32:57probably least attractive
00:32:59Holly I put last
00:33:02Because she's just too old for me
00:33:05Mature yeah mature. It's like a mom. Oh, yeah, it's like a mom
00:33:09I'll put Dominica second last because I don't like short hair short has a bit of a turn-off. Oh, yeah
00:33:19She's got nice eyes, but yeah, not my type either why probably just like the
00:33:25Structure of her face. It's not my
00:33:27Okay, go to
00:33:29Let's keep going. I
00:33:31Definitely think Ali's attractive. He is 10 out of 10. Like I think like picture-perfect gorgeous specimen
00:33:38Tall dark and handsome. He is he is and
00:33:42The milf is first when I heard she got kids. I like
00:33:51But he can act really young and it is a bit of a turn-off sometimes
00:33:56All right, I want to see yours
00:33:58I'm nervous about this. I don't even know how I feel
00:34:04Last
00:34:06No way
00:34:10No way, I she's just too a pretty boy for me. He looks like his shirts are too tight
00:34:15Too pretty boy. He's too pretty boy. Okay
00:34:18Then we've got everyone with facial hair
00:34:20Yeah, my surprise. They are all very good-looking
00:34:24Looks is all I've really relied on my whole life
00:34:28But yeah, obviously with the photo challenge
00:34:30I don't know how things gonna go because Sam is a hard egg to crack and I'm not sure if she actually likes me
00:34:36Yeah, look, I'll I'll put Jack there. I do think Jack's hot though. Yeah. Yeah, I think I like it's hot
00:34:42I like his t-shirts. I just hope that my wife likes me finds me attractive
00:34:48Then we've got Anthony here
00:34:51Mr. Blue steel with the accent
00:34:53He's first
00:34:55Initial types, I would go for them. Yeah, because like they're more my type right? They're older and rugged. I feel like he's lived
00:35:03Yeah, okay, you know
00:35:05Yeah stories to tell
00:35:10Having placed all the other participants in the lineup. It's now time for Sam and Al to rank each other
00:35:24Looking I'm not looking
00:35:26quick and painless
00:35:28But I want you to be honest like really I'm gonna try and be honest. I'm really trying to say no offense taken
00:35:33I know I know I know and that's why I want to spear right now because like I've no no be honest
00:35:39I'm trying to be honest. Why are you not looking?
00:35:41Can you look?
00:35:43Can I talk to you about this? I feel like I need to consult you
00:35:47So like this is hard
00:35:49because like
00:35:53I just feel like you're not my type
00:35:58Like
00:36:01Okay, let's just go like here I was like call it up
00:36:07Okay, like you guys are funny
00:36:13Some as attractive as Jack. Yeah. Okay. I'm attracted object
00:36:23I
00:36:26Yeah, like you're just not my typical type like you're just not that's all like it's like not yeah
00:36:36She put the guys who are more mature at the top she mentioned a bit older
00:36:41Yeah, I guess more established definitely concerning because yeah, not really established. I still live with my mom
00:36:47Seriously, you're up here. No, you're lying. I'm serious. You're definitely the hottest chick here. I like your eyes
00:36:53Yeah
00:36:57I think you're hot. Like I don't want you to think I'm not like, you know, when you say like, what are you look?
00:37:01I think I'm hot too
00:37:04It's not my confidence definitely I
00:37:09Don't know what I'm gonna do to make Sam won't be more attracted to me
00:37:15I feel like you feel bad
00:37:18Yeah, I'm a little bit shocked. It's not me thinking you're not attractive
00:37:22I
00:37:24What I'm attracted to generally is like a mature look and like
00:37:32Certain things like your age and like your maturity that you know, it makes my like attraction like fluctuate
00:37:43So, what can I do to be more attractive be more mature
00:37:49Sam thinks I'm not mature enough
00:37:53But maybe I can change that
00:37:56So I'm still gonna work on it I just need a
00:37:59Yeah, just sort of think about where I'm gonna do next to impress her
00:38:05And to step up my game big time
00:38:08Because I don't give up that easy on this relationship
00:38:15Still to come
00:38:18Get emotional
00:38:20New revelations are unveiled
00:38:23Did not expect that
00:38:25Seeing Jackson that upset. It's got wrenching. You're probably one of the only people I've ever told that to
00:38:32And after sharing her desire to have a baby, I'm not ready to go down that road
00:38:38Andrew has some hard truths for Holly
00:38:41Kind of worries me. It's like where we're at and like where we're going
00:38:44I wouldn't want to waste your time to be honest with you
00:38:57It's a new day of Confessions Week and
00:39:00for Tamara and Brent a
00:39:03New chapter has opened in their relationship
00:39:11What are you doing
00:39:15What are you doing
00:39:19Last night
00:39:22We engaged in intimacy, yes
00:39:29Turn it off. It's too early. No, you don't know what you're missing out on it fixes everything
00:39:35Not before I've had a coffee
00:39:37The whole video that we watched yesterday the emotions, you know kind of coming to terms with how we feel
00:39:43All this plays massive parts in building a relationship and intimacy
00:39:48Where we started we've come far from that. I think we've grown and I never thought I'd say this
00:39:54But the experts know what they're doing
00:39:57They do
00:40:04This morning the mood has shifted for Holly and Andrew
00:40:08Ever since Holly revealed her strong desire to have a child
00:40:15Last night
00:40:17He
00:40:19Came out of bed and slept on the couch. So
00:40:22I'm wondering what he's thinking right now. I
00:40:26Genuinely have no clue
00:40:28I can definitely sense that he's distanced himself and
00:40:34It just doesn't feel right between us this morning
00:40:39I've been thinking a lot
00:40:42After she read her letter to me
00:40:45It made me feel anxious I know that she wants a child
00:40:51make the bed
00:40:52immediately she's urgent for her and
00:40:56It's put a lot of pressure on me
00:40:58The urgency is not something that I am ready to deal with I'm not ready to go down that road right now
00:41:05You're gonna make some breakfast. You're me to make it
00:41:10Little bit of toast and I just feel that we're couldn't be on more separate pages. I
00:41:17Don't want to give her the wrong impression
00:41:20so I am trying to put distance between us and
00:41:23And let her know in a certain way that I'm kind of pushed back a little bit
00:41:33Man oh, there's some fun
00:41:37Wonder what the week entails for us
00:41:40Still confession week. Yeah yesterday was a huge day of
00:41:45confessions with um
00:41:47How you feeling about all that by the way? Yeah, no good. You were very supportive about
00:41:52About how I felt yeah, it's good. You know at the end of the day. It's how I feel
00:41:57It does quite. I'm kind of kind of worries me with like where we're at and like where we're going I
00:42:04Just I know that that's like something that's so important to you
00:42:07It's like a deal-breaker, and I'm kind of like on a different page than that
00:42:13So that does that does kind of scare me moving forward to be honest with you, so how do you feel about that well?
00:42:21Yeah, I'm 36 still single, and you know it's
00:42:26No one's lining up around the corner to change nappies at 40
00:42:30I mean to be completely honest with you
00:42:33I don't mind being 40 and changing nappies like I still feel like I'm 25 so as far as like being 40
00:42:39That's just a number
00:42:41My my point of coming on the show is to find a partner and I guess hearing what you said I feel that
00:42:51Your intentions were to find somebody to have a child with
00:42:56I am on this show looking for a partner. I was just looking for a baby
00:43:02I'd go and get a sperm donor and just have one by myself if I just yeah
00:43:06I wanted to have a baby without a partner I
00:43:10Think it's more of the urgency that I was I'm scared of is because you're pretty adamant about the urgency which it makes sense given
00:43:16I mean, it's Confessions Week like I wanted to be honest about like fears, but
00:43:23It's not it's more of me being empathetic towards your situation, and I wouldn't wouldn't want to waste your time to be honest with you
00:43:32You know I mean like I feel like I'm not the one
00:43:40It's interesting I was worried that it may scare you and it clearly did
00:43:47The experts asked us to share something that we were genuinely fearful about I
00:43:54shared my deepest darkest fear and
00:44:01Backfired I
00:44:02scared him
00:44:04and he's running and
00:44:06Blocking me out. I think it's more than
00:44:10The baby you just you haven't even tried to see if maybe I am the one for you, or maybe I'm not
00:44:17You've made the decision that I'm just not for you. I
00:44:23Took my scars into this experience, and I was willing to give it a go
00:44:29But he's written me off so early you know
00:44:35Like he didn't even give me a few weeks
00:44:39It didn't even give me a chance to see if maybe he would like me or not
00:44:47I don't expect you to love me. I've known you a week
00:44:53And sure I come with really a heavy burden I do
00:45:0136 and intense I know I just don't even think he wants to give me a chance
00:45:16As
00:45:24Confessions week continues to reveal our couple's deepest secrets. Oh
00:45:29Okay
00:45:30Real present it's Olivia and Jackson's turn to watch their audition tapes all right very interesting lovely
00:45:39Olivia and Jackson's relationship has been a fairy tale
00:45:42Since they laid eyes on each other on their wedding day dad passed away last June
00:45:48So I moved back from the UK when I was 21 to look after him. I think family values are massive
00:45:53It's good to see that you've got him and amazing pretty stoked
00:45:56I'm so stoked and on their honeymoon their relationship flourished
00:46:01So how many like real relationships have you had them? I've had like wings. It's definitely
00:46:08Been a lack of self-esteem. I think you definitely deserve better than those guys for sure
00:46:13Well, I think I I definitely married better
00:46:17You ready? Yep strap yourself in oh
00:46:24Okay, my name's Jack, I'm 30. I'm a plumber
00:46:29I'm a sucker for a smile and nice eyes, but apart from that it's not really my cup of tea
00:46:35Nice eyes, but apart from that it's yeah, it doesn't really faze me too much
00:46:41What kind of things might fire you up them a big thing for me is like violence with women and stuff like that
00:46:49Especially with my mom
00:46:54Somebody used to actually
00:46:57Was physically with her
00:47:00Which is something that is just like that's no for me
00:47:06So it was pretty rough at times I took on more of a
00:47:11Guardian kind of all I guess like I put my sisters in the room
00:47:14So they wouldn't have to hear it and then I would I would take the brunt
00:47:18Which was fine by me because I'd rather them be safe. It's made me a very protective person
00:47:29I'm somebody who cares a lot. I think that's that's made me a stronger person like that
00:47:35I'd much rather treat a woman how I think they should be treated
00:47:49Yes, that's something we haven't really spoken too much about like so mom
00:47:56She got
00:47:57she got
00:47:59She's been assaulted before and I've always been there for mom and
00:48:04myself
00:48:06Before mom and all my sisters. Yeah, so yeah, that's probably something you didn't yeah, no
00:48:15But yeah, my sisters
00:48:18Will always be like my number one priority same as mom
00:48:22Yes, I'm a very yeah, I come by that very protective person and like
00:48:28My sisters especially like if ever there was an argument
00:48:32I was always the one to you know
00:48:33Pick them up put them in the room put some music on so they didn't have to hear it and to have them, you know
00:48:39safe
00:48:41Is to me it means I've done my job as a big brother. So yeah
00:48:52Did not expect that
00:48:55Mmm
00:48:57Sharing that with anyone let alone live is it's massive for me. It's not something I've ever done before
00:49:03Yeah, it was kind of very hard
00:49:06Because it brings back a lot of emotions and so many feelings which yeah, I've obviously been pushing down for a long time
00:49:16I'm just so
00:49:19Heartbroken that you had to go through that
00:49:21seeing
00:49:22Jackson's that upset and crying and very vulnerable. It's really gut-wrenching
00:49:29Guess it's good to kind of just get it off and have someone to talk to it about
00:49:34and I feel very privileged that he felt like he could talk about it and share that part of his history with me and
00:49:43Seeing how well he's looked after his mom and his sisters. I just think that's so amazing. Well, they're very lucky to have you
00:49:51I'm sorry that you had to go through that. It's like, okay
00:49:55He will do anything for his family and I'm bad. I should be so lucky to
00:50:00Eventually be a part of his family
00:50:04Yes, that's it. No, you know the deepest darkest secret of me
00:50:08You know, I adore you, you know, I support you
00:50:12Marriage baby. I have to carry the load alone anymore
00:50:17big kitty
00:50:21You
00:50:36Celine and Anthony still haven't seen each other since moving into separate apartments this week
00:50:43But they have agreed to take on the letter-writing task in an attempt to get their relationship
00:50:50back on track
00:50:51So there's still a bit of distance between Celine and I
00:50:55But I'm hoping that we can sort of go back to that moment where we were when we first got married
00:51:03I think Celine's already seen my vulnerable side
00:51:07Whereas I haven't really seen that from Celine
00:51:10So I'm really hoping that this task might make her feel comfortable to actually open up and just to show a little bit of
00:51:17vulnerability
00:51:20Celine may find it difficult
00:51:22Opening up in this confession letter task. She struggles with being vulnerable and is typically guarded due to her previous relationship. I
00:51:31Was previously married
00:51:34But when my son Roman was just a couple of weeks old
00:51:38My husband betrayed my son and I
00:51:41That was completely shocked
00:51:43But I put motherhood in front of everything so I didn't have time to be emotional about my own feelings I
00:51:51Just want to make sure that I was able to provide to Roman. He was my main priority
00:51:56Kind of made me tough in that sense. I didn't want to be vulnerable
00:52:02Ever since then it's been tough to put the barriers down and and open up to other people
00:52:07You know, especially in relationships, you know, I think you're always scared that you might be hurt again
00:52:14Our wedding photo. Oh, wow. Look at that. It's a nice photo. Yeah. It was such a beautiful day too, wasn't it?
00:52:20Well, hopefully we can get back to that day. Yeah, and we haven't spoken
00:52:23I mean, it's it's hard to think of a moment where you would share especially being like new. Mm-hmm
00:52:29I mean, it's hard to think of a moment. I mean, it's hard to think of a moment. I mean, it's hard to think of a moment
00:52:34I mean, it's hard to think of a moment where you would share especially being like new
00:52:37Look, this task is definitely a difficult
00:52:39I feel like this is the first time in a long time that I will be opening up with someone
00:52:45So I am a little bit scared to open up to Anthony
00:52:48Alright
00:52:51So mine's about my son, okay
00:52:59During my birth I was told my son was too big to deliver naturally and
00:53:04Once I had time to process what they said
00:53:06I realized the worry of having a child can cause someone
00:53:10We tried delivering naturally and then the doctors rushed in and had to help pull him out
00:53:15It was a scary thing to go through because things could have gone the other way
00:53:20Soon after having him I was rushed to theater. I was separated from him for what felt like forever. I
00:53:26Wasn't worried about me and my recovery. All I could think about was him when we got home. I experienced baby blues
00:53:32There was a low moment in my life
00:53:35It was really emotional and I was crying over happy moments seeing my family cuddle and kiss
00:53:40My son was enough to set me on a rollercoaster
00:53:44Thinking about my experience I can only think of the positives that he's happy and healthy and loved and I knew I needed to be
00:53:50strong for my son
00:53:52Yeah
00:53:54I'm not an emotional person, but I just don't know most the time I kind of hold myself
00:54:01Strong I feel like I need to be, you know for Roman and I get worried
00:54:05It's very human and it's very it's very relatable, you know, like the sort of the baby blues where you sort of like this melancholy
00:54:11You don't know. Yeah, I know. I know
00:54:14It's good to be aware that you know what you went through there. Yeah. So Lynn's letter was pretty broad. It was very
00:54:21Personal it was good to actually hear from Celine here
00:54:24What sort of makes her her and sort of say like there is that gentle sort of caring side underneath?
00:54:30So this broke down a few walls for us today, I think
00:54:33Feels like we just met each other for the first time
00:54:38Thank you
00:54:40Make sure you take your photo. Yep. We'll do a little dirty photo actually
00:54:46You look great in the photo
00:54:48So, I mean it was nice to tell that story and and say what I've been through
00:54:52He was really supportive and he definitely made me feel comfortable to open up to him
00:55:00I'm the tippy-toe. Oh, yeah. Yeah for now. Let me know if you yeah, what is that? Of course? Thanks
00:55:09You have not even tried to be in a relationship with me one couple's marriage
00:55:14You're not capable of letting me finish a sentence. It's breaking point. I'm done. I'm finished
00:55:21I'm gonna go over here and I'm gonna go home
00:55:30You
00:55:35It's confessions week and for Holly and Andrew this week has driven them further apart
00:55:44After Holly revealed her yearning to have a child
00:55:48In the confessions letter I said to Andrew that having a baby is very important to me and that it's a fear that it might
00:55:55Not happen
00:55:57After that confession, he sat there and he was supportive when I said it and
00:56:02Then this morning he said I don't want to waste your time
00:56:08So the only way I can interpret that
00:56:11Is he wanted this journey to be over? I just feel like he's given up and he's writing me off and
00:56:18I don't think it's about me wanting a child. I think it's not even about him wasting my time
00:56:24It's about him thinking that I'm wasting his time
00:56:27I
00:56:31Right now
00:56:33He has made me feel so uncomfortable in the same room as him and I actually don't think that he even
00:56:40Wants me in his space
00:56:43He has
00:56:46Really shut me out
00:56:48Hmm
00:56:54Hey Holly, we've gotten a package. Okay. Did you want to come in? Sure
00:57:02And the timing couldn't be worse for Holly and Andrew as they receive their next task
00:57:10It's time to get a better sense of what your partner finds attractive in the opposite sex photo ranking
00:57:19Holly and I
00:57:21We're not really in a great place to do this task
00:57:25It's kind of bad timing
00:57:28We're on two different pages, which makes it difficult
00:57:31She wants something and I want the complete opposite pretty much. All right, you want to go first?
00:57:36Sure, I'll go first. Okay, I
00:57:39Feel that Holly is feeling rejected at this point
00:57:43But I feel like I've been open and honest with her about how I feel so I'm at peace where I'm at with it I
00:57:50Would rather be honest with her and and hurt her
00:57:54Than to be dishonest with her and hurt her even more
00:58:00Anthony is lost. I feel like the fact that he struggles to emotionally connect with his partner
00:58:09Jackson
00:58:11Is not really what I'd go for but it's nice to see how warm he is and how great he's getting along with his wife
00:58:18So, you know, he seems like a nice guy
00:58:23Right now I'm feeling a bit rejected a bit shut down a bit
00:58:28Second-class citizen I
00:58:31Feel really lost. I feel really alone. I'm feeling
00:58:34Not good enough
00:58:37It's really hard when you give someone everything and they give you nothing
00:58:48I guess Brent is first. Maybe it's what I would usually go for
00:58:53He also has a warmth and just a realness to him. I'm in person and I liked his patience
00:59:00So that's just a bit of a bummer
00:59:02Yeah, that's that that was pretty pretty fast for you, you kind of know what you you're like and what you don't like I
00:59:08Think there's there's physical attributes there, but there's also some personality
00:59:13there they seem maybe warmer towards their lives and also I feel like
00:59:19they
00:59:22They're trying they're showing up
00:59:24They
00:59:26They're trying they're showing up
00:59:32Having placed all the men in the experiment in order of attractiveness
00:59:36Hey, I think I know who this is. It's time for Holly to place Andrew
00:59:42My goodness where to place you be completely honest. You're not gonna hurt my feelings
00:59:50Sorry
00:59:54You were very charming for the first few days of our honeymoon you were timing on our wedding day
00:59:58I fell for you. I slept with you. I was invested in you and I
01:00:04Gave no tosses
01:00:06for anyone else
01:00:10You are a good-looking guy, you know, and I have been really attracted to you let me tell you you were there
01:00:19But right now
01:00:22Now you're giving me no attention
01:00:25you're giving me no warmth and
01:00:29You do not make me feel good enough or attractive enough
01:00:34Um, I don't know like where to actually put you
01:00:39Like I don't know like now like maybe yeah
01:00:52I'm sorry that you feel less attractive because I'm not being what you're saying being warm to you
01:01:01But I
01:01:03Don't feel responsible for that Holly because I've been honest to you
01:01:08You being less attracted to me is more of a reflection of how you're feeling not because of something I have done
01:01:15And at the end of the day
01:01:18You know, I'm just being me
01:01:19I'm just being my authentic self as much as I possibly can and if you're less attracted to me for me being authentic and honest
01:01:27I'm okay with that. That doesn't hurt my feelings. In fact
01:01:31You can put me over here
01:01:33And that's still not gonna change anything about the way I feel about myself
01:01:48I'm sorry that you feel less attractive because I'm not being what you're saying being warm to you
01:01:56At the end of the day
01:01:58You know, I'm just being me
01:02:00I'm just being my authentic self as much as I possibly can and if you're less attracted to me for me being authentic and
01:02:06Honest, I'm okay with that. That doesn't hurt my feelings. In fact
01:02:11You can put me over here and that's still not gonna change anything about the way I feel about myself
01:02:16I'm happy about the way I've been honest with you. I don't feel responsible for how you feel. That's not my responsibility
01:02:24That's your responsibility
01:02:25Okay. Well, I am very happy to be responsible for how I feel. But anyway, so I've said what I have to say
01:02:32Why don't we continue with the task? Hold on. Wait a second. Well, let's see you're running from the conversation that needs to be had
01:02:39Right now you're not capable of doing what you're supposed to be capable of doing
01:02:42Conversation that needs to be had right now. You're not capable of having a conversation
01:02:47So let's hold on Holly. You're not even looking at me and showing me that respect you're looking down
01:02:52Dude, I can't even look at you this morning. You said hey Holly
01:02:56We're on two different pages and I don't want to waste your time when you say to me the words
01:03:00I don't want to waste your time. It means you're out now. That's you assuming I said that but you proceeded
01:03:06How you keep asking me to talk and I keep trying to talk but anyhoo Holly I'm having the conversation
01:03:12I'm looking at a conversation. You're not having a conversation
01:03:15Are looking down
01:03:18You are okay, so you said to me
01:03:21Oh, well, we're on different timelines
01:03:23But the thing is is that if I really actually meant something to you if you actually gave a shit about me if you actually
01:03:28Wanted to make this work
01:03:29You wouldn't have come to me with a problem
01:03:32You came to me with a problem. The problem was that you feel like I'm making you feel rushed and you don't want to feel
01:03:38Holy I can't even finish a bloody comment sentence you asked for this. I'm giving it to you
01:03:44The way you should have come to me was in a conversation. Hey, Holly
01:03:48this is the problem, but I'm still on the journey with you and
01:03:52At the very least it would be nice to feel like you're my friend
01:03:56You don't even sleeping in the same bed with me
01:03:58You have not even tried to be in a relationship with me have you tried are you kidding me?
01:04:03I am present. You can talk to me any minute of the day any minute of the day. I'm present
01:04:07We're sitting there when watching TV
01:04:11Conversation here and you're not listening if this is why I told you I told you I told you you're not capable of letting me
01:04:18finish a sentence
01:04:20I'm going to leave now Holly
01:04:29Okay, so try to be quiet so we could finish the task and then he could leave but
01:04:34Anywho, does he want to finish the task so then he can have his space?
01:04:38What do we finish the task later?
01:04:40I'm gonna go home. I'm done. Yeah, I can't do it. I'm going home to my daughter. Yeah, not doing it anymore
01:04:46I'm done. I'm finished. I'm going home
01:04:49That is not something I want to deal with
01:04:51I'm gonna go over here and I'm gonna go home
01:04:55Don't send my stuff to me
01:04:58You
01:05:00There's never been a more controversial question in the entire experiment
01:05:07The intimacy's gone to shit
01:05:10What does one bride ask her groom?
01:05:13It was blatantly obvious that I was like trying to have a go that was split opinion across the nation
01:05:19You were just like oh
01:05:21Relationships has never been a thing
01:05:24She came looking for love is the lack of attraction due to my nationality and look
01:05:31Okay, I've got the ultimate
01:05:33It's um
01:05:35Rejection, I'm not racist by any means but tomorrow 730