लड़के ने Masturbation पर सवाल पूछा, Doctor Cuterus का जवाब सबको हैरान कर गया! Sexual Health | LT Adda
लड़के ने Masturbation पर सवाल पूछा, Doctor Cuterus का जवाब सबको हैरान कर गया! Sexual Health | LT Adda
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00:30This man was penetrating his wife's navel.
00:37Because a baby comes from the womb.
00:39Can the size of the penis and the penis be increased or decreased?
00:43These days people get a little old trying to make a career.
00:47So what would be an ideal age to plan a baby?
00:49A man should masturbate.
00:51And this is natural or whatever it is.
00:55It is a taboo for girls.
00:57If you are doing it, it is bad or wrong.
01:00Please come up with a good idea.
01:03There is no shame in masturbation.
01:05The safest sex you can have is the sex you have with yourself.
01:08You don't know the answer to why C-section is called C-section.
01:11Don't feel bad.
01:13I asked this question to Bill Gates two months ago.
01:15He didn't know the answer.
01:16If the height is low, the bones are small.
01:18The size of the pelvis from which the baby should come out is also small.
01:23So sometimes the baby's head does not fit.
01:25Sometimes the head can get stuck.
01:27It is very difficult.
01:29We are here because of the efforts of mothers and the burden on their bodies.
01:36The topic that is not discussed openly in this country.
01:39Dr. Tanya Narendra will explain it in simple language.
01:46People know her as Dr. Cuters.
01:49She is going to come in between us.
01:51Please welcome Dr. Tanya Narendra.
01:54You may know her as Dr. Cuters on Instagram.
02:00Please welcome Dr. Cuters.
02:03I will introduce her in one line.
02:08Dr. Cuters, whose real name is Dr. Tanya Narendra.
02:12She is going to come in between us.
02:13First of all, please welcome her with a round of applause.
02:16So that she feels that there are no lazy people here.
02:21She is listening carefully.
02:23You all may be familiar with her.
02:26Because I see all the Gen Z and Millenials here.
02:29But let me still introduce her.
02:31Dr. Tanya is a sexual health educator.
02:33And the subject that is discussed openly.
02:37Do you know?
02:38Do you know about it?
02:40Dr. Tanya talks very openly on that subject.
02:44And not only does she talk.
02:45She also conveys the right information.
02:47In a country where sanitary pads are tied in a black cloth.
02:51In a country where teachers take separate classes for boys and girls.
02:57You are doing this work there.
02:59This is the first question.
03:00How did you get the idea to talk openly?
03:03And someone could have felt bad about it.
03:06Someone could have felt it wrong.
03:07What is the matter?
03:08Why do you want to talk about it like this?
03:10There are many people who feel bad about it.
03:12But more than that.
03:13There are such platforms and areas where we can discuss it.
03:17So I will start the answer with this.
03:20Which is a story that I tell everywhere.
03:23My favorite story.
03:24The story that inspired me.
03:26That I should go to this area.
03:28About sexual health.
03:29About reproductive health.
03:31And educate people about menstrual health.
03:33So it happened that my parents are both doctors.
03:36My parents are both fertility doctors.
03:39And they had a patient.
03:41Who was not having a baby after 7 years of marriage.
03:44So this couple went to the fertility doctor.
03:46What is going on?
03:48Why is this not happening?
03:50So their investigations were done.
03:52And everything went well in the investigation.
03:55There was no reason that this couple should have a problem in having a baby.
03:59They were confused for a while.
04:02More tests were done.
04:03Finally my father said there is something wrong here.
04:06And my father took the husband to his chamber.
04:09And my father asked him.
04:11What are you doing?
04:15And the condition of lack of sex education is that.
04:19My father came to know in this conversation.
04:21That for the last 7 years.
04:23This man was penetrating his wife's navel.
04:27Because the baby comes from the stomach.
04:29There is a hole in the stomach.
04:31This is how the sense is made.
04:33So unfortunately there is a lack of education.
04:36Whether it is related to fertility.
04:38Whether it is related to menstrual health.
04:40Whether it is related to reproduction.
04:42Nothing is taught.
04:44So all these things.
04:46I kept watching while growing up.
04:48I kept listening to such stories.
04:50Sometimes I used to laugh.
04:51Sometimes I used to cry.
04:53And because of all these things.
04:54I decided to get into this space.
04:58There is one most common question.
05:00Which I think every teenager must have heard at their age.
05:03I mean everyone.
05:04Whether they come from any state.
05:06That for the first time having sex.
05:08It hurts a lot.
05:10And there is something called hymen.
05:12Which bursts.
05:13So blood also comes.
05:14If it has not come.
05:16Then that girl has already had sex.
05:18Or she has had sex with someone else.
05:20I think everyone has heard this.
05:23Has anyone of you heard this?
05:29I will start this answer with a very interesting fact.
05:34More than half of women.
05:36They do not bleed.
05:38When they have sex for the first time.
05:40If the vagina is adequately aroused.
05:43Means it is turned on.
05:45Just like there is an erection in the penis.
05:47There is an inner erection in the vagina.
05:49If we understand it this way.
05:51Because the vagina is not a weak thing.
05:53It is a baby.
05:54It has a lot of muscles.
05:55It is a very strong area.
05:57So there is a space created in the vagina.
05:59And as soon as this space is created.
06:01Along with that.
06:02Hymen also expands.
06:04If we understand hymen.
06:06That it is a rubber band.
06:07First thing.
06:08Girls are not tetrapack.
06:10They do not have a seal.
06:12Your seal is not going to break.
06:14Nothing like that happens.
06:15Hymen is a part of development.
06:17Remains.
06:19And when the vagina expands.
06:21Hymen also expands.
06:23And the most important thing about hymen.
06:25What we have to understand is that.
06:27If there was a seal at the end of the vagina.
06:31Then how would the menstrual blood come out?
06:33Menstrual blood would be collected inside.
06:35Now this is not to be said.
06:37Actually there is an abnormal medical condition.
06:40We call it imperforate hymen.
06:43In which there is no hole in the hymen.
06:45And it is diagnosed when the girls are 15-16 years old.
06:49When they have been having periods for some time.
06:51And the period blood does not come out.
06:53And they have a lot of stomach pain.
06:55They come to us in the hospital.
06:57That the girl has grown up.
06:59The period has not come yet.
07:01And there is a lot of stomach pain.
07:03Then we do the examination.
07:05And we see that the hymen is completely closed.
07:07There should be a natural hole in the hymen.
07:09It should always be there.
07:11It is not there.
07:12Because of this.
07:13This blood has been accumulating for years.
07:15And then we give anesthesia to the patient.
07:17And actually have to make a hole in the hymen.
07:19So you have to do open symptom surgery.
07:22So the hymen is naturally like a stream.
07:27There are small holes in it.
07:29And more than half of the hymen that we see.
07:33They are actually round.
07:35Like we see rubber bands made of fabric.
07:37Silk rubber bands which are sold for Rs. 50 on Instagram.
07:40Those rubber bands.
07:42Most hymens have the same shape.
07:45And the hymen is a tissue that remains intact.
07:48Remnants of the hymen are also visible during delivery.
07:51So the hymen has nothing to do with virginity.
07:54Secondly, virginity is a social construct.
07:57It is a girl.
07:58It is not an extra virgin olive oil bottle.
08:02How many of you have seen the ad?
08:04Gupt rogi mile.
08:06Have you seen it?
08:08And have you read the ad in the newspapers?
08:11This oil will increase the size of the body.
08:13Or then.
08:15Especially boys.
08:17They talk about it.
08:19How to increase the size of the penis.
08:21Or how it can be increased.
08:24Please clear this.
08:26There are boys and girls here.
08:28Can the size of the body and the penis be increased or decreased?
08:34The size of the penis can be changed with surgery.
08:38But.
08:39That surgery is often not successful.
08:42Because.
08:43You are not increasing the penis.
08:45The penis hangs above a ligament.
08:47If we cut that ligament.
08:49It hangs below.
08:50That's it.
08:51Nothing else.
08:52And this can cause injuries.
08:54The direction of the penis can change.
08:56There can be problems.
08:57So this is the first thing.
08:59Second thing.
09:00Pills, cream, lotion, oil.
09:02Massage.
09:03There is no difference in size.
09:05If this was the case.
09:07Then why do people with big noses get rhinoplasty done?
09:09They also apply oil and make the nose small.
09:11Or make the nose big.
09:13There is no such magic cream or lotion.
09:16Which works on one body organ.
09:18And can change its size.
09:20So.
09:21If you have a problem with the size of the breast.
09:23Then by increasing or decreasing the weight.
09:26Its size can change.
09:28But.
09:29In everyone's body.
09:31The fat deposition pattern is different.
09:34Someone has more fat on the thighs.
09:36Someone has more fat on the back.
09:37Someone has more fat on the stomach.
09:39So depending on how your body pattern is.
09:42It is also possible that your weight increases a lot.
09:44Because the size of the breast should not increase much.
09:46So.
09:47The main thing to accept is.
09:49Whatever the body is.
09:51It is good.
09:53Self love.
09:54Self acceptance.
09:55The beauty of humans.
09:57Is our diversity.
09:59If we can understand the normal things of our body.
10:02Can embrace.
10:03Then this useless industry.
10:05Which makes us feel shame in our own body.
10:08It will stop.
10:14Regarding masturbation.
10:16How often a man should masturbate?
10:18And is it natural?
10:20Or whatever it is.
10:26He has asked.
10:28When should boys masturbate?
10:32How long is it normal to masturbate?
10:34Was this the question?
10:36Masturbation is safe.
10:38This is what you are asking.
10:40Yes.
10:41People are saying yes.
10:43People are saying yes.
10:45Because it is a normal question.
10:47If I can hear the question without saying yes.
10:49Then I will know what is being asked.
10:54Ma'am.
10:55This was the question.
10:56How many times is it safe to masturbate?
10:58Yes.
10:59Is it safe or not?
11:00And how many times?
11:01So the first thing is.
11:02Masturbation is a normal part of sexual development.
11:05Everyone does it.
11:07And you can understand it like this.
11:09If you don't masturbate.
11:10Then everyone comes out of the nightfall.
11:12You can understand it like this.
11:14Those who breastfeed.
11:16If they don't give milk to the child.
11:18Ask anyone who has breastfed.
11:20They will say that the breast is leaking.
11:22Because sperm is made in the body all the time.
11:25I shared a fact in the last video.
11:28Which people found very interesting.
11:30That every second on average.
11:32A man makes 1500 sperm in his testicle.
11:34Per second.
11:36So there is a lot of production.
11:38Either you remove it.
11:39Or it will be reabsorbed in the body.
11:41Or it will come out automatically.
11:43What the body does.
11:44Maximum.
11:45High quality sperm.
11:46Trying to push forward.
11:48So that.
11:49Our mind is still primitive.
11:51Our body is still primitive.
11:52We think.
11:53How will the child be born the best?
11:55How will the evolution of humans be the best?
11:58So.
11:59Masturbation is a very common thing.
12:01First thing.
12:02Second thing.
12:03There is one level.
12:04Which everyone considers safe.
12:06If you are feeling more from yourself.
12:08If you are questioning your sexual behavior.
12:11If you are feeling uncomfortable.
12:13Then it is the right time to stop.
12:16And talk to a specialist.
12:18Who can guide you.
12:19Third thing.
12:20There is no such thing as masturbation addiction.
12:23We have.
12:24A book of doctors.
12:27We call it DSM.
12:28Psychiatrist refers to DSM.
12:30And in DSM.
12:31There is no diagnosis of masturbation addiction.
12:35Compulsive sexual behavior is a type of thing.
12:38Tiger Woods got this diagnosis.
12:41But.
12:42It is not like.
12:43There is a set amount which is bad.
12:46As much as you feel good.
12:47As much as your normal life.
12:49Do not interfere.
12:51It should not be that.
12:52We are leaving school.
12:53To sit at home and masturbate.
12:55Or to watch porn.
12:56It happens.
12:57I have met people like this.
12:59Leave work.
13:00Leave social occasions.
13:02Because.
13:03There is a pattern in the mind.
13:04That.
13:05Masturbation is the only thing.
13:06Which gives pleasure.
13:07So it should not be like that.
13:08Apart from that.
13:09There is a normal thing.
13:10Healthy thing.
13:11By masturbating.
13:12Your protein will not fall.
13:13You will not be blind.
13:14There will be no hair in the hand.
13:15One question.
13:16I saw it in the comment section.
13:17So I have noted it.
13:18By masturbating too much.
13:19Lack of sperm.
13:20It can get sick.
13:21Once again.
13:221500 sperm per second.
13:23What high blood pressure is this?
13:24It is.
13:25It is.
13:26It is.
13:27It is.
13:28It is.
13:29It is.
13:30It is.
13:31It is.
13:32Still more than that.
13:34There is also another study.
13:37Study.
13:38Medicine.
13:39Again again.
13:40By masturbation.
13:41Such a high.
13:42Such a big high.
13:43There is a study.
13:44Which is being quoted by.
13:45Harvard University.
13:46There is no place here.
13:47Has been stated that.
13:48People who masturbate at least 21 times in a month.
13:52Their prostate or gland in humans.
13:56Cancer risk of prostate decrease.
13:58Reduces by 30 to 40%.
14:01So, don't do compulsive masturbation but please get this mind-blowing idea that masturbation is not a matter of shame.
14:11It is a part of healthy and normal sexual development.
14:15Next question.
14:17Thanks mom. For awareness, I would like to ask you that what can we do for this awareness in rural area and what are you doing for it?
14:26What can we do for sexual health awareness in rural India and what are you and your fraternity people doing for it?
14:36So, one very sad thing is that many doctors don't like the fact that I am doing this.
14:44So, fraternity will also take some time to change their mindset.
14:49Because in India, this is not accepted everywhere.
14:53I am considered to be a very radical person.
14:55I am talking very normal. I am not saying anything terrible.
14:59So, it will take time to change in rural India.
15:04What we are doing is that I use social media.
15:07I make all my videos in Hindi on YouTube.
15:10I make videos in English on Instagram.
15:12That is because it is a barrier-free platform.
15:17Everyone has internet.
15:19Jio has brought a big revolution in India.
15:21In India, internet has reached everywhere.
15:23Everyone watches videos.
15:25Whether it is your driver or your boss.
15:29Everyone watches videos.
15:31So, we are trying to make videos.
15:33Because there is no need to be educated.
15:35There is no need to invest money in it.
15:37This message should reach everyone.
15:40After this, we are hoping and praying.
15:43We are trying to spread this message in school curriculum.
15:49We are trying very hard.
15:51We need people's support.
15:53So, please support us. What are you doing?
15:58This should be a collective effort in our society.
16:01Because this is not the responsibility of any teacher.
16:04Only he is responsible for this.
16:06So that this message reaches the last person.
16:08It is important for all of us to work together.
16:11Please share your content.
16:13Namaste, ma'am. My name is Shivani.
16:15My question is that
16:17Can a baby be planned when the age increases?
16:22Nowadays, people get older to make a career.
16:26So, what is the ideal age to plan a baby?
16:30Unfortunately, the ideal age is less.
16:33We say that early 30s is the best time.
16:36In fact, if we have a pregnant woman above 30,
16:40we call her an elderly mother.
16:43Unfortunately.
16:45This happens because
16:47when we are born,
16:52we are born with all the eggs we have.
16:56We don't have a ready factory like men.
16:58Let's say you are born with some money in a bank account.
17:03As life goes on, you will have less money in the bank account.
17:07So, high quality eggs push the body the fastest.
17:12Fertility awareness and fertility planning is very important.
17:16Meet your doctor.
17:17Plan it.
17:18Decide it.
17:19And make a plan accordingly.
17:21Because on average,
17:22it takes 6 months for people to get pregnant.
17:25So,
17:27this is a little problem unfortunately.
17:30I recommend everyone to get pregnant before the age of 35.
17:35I am 30 years old.
17:36I have not even thought about getting pregnant.
17:40This should be a matter of choice.
17:42There is one more question.
17:43Those boys who were clapping for the question of masturbation,
17:49please listen to the answer to this question.
17:52If a man does not ejaculate during sex,
17:57is it necessary to wear a condom?
17:59Yes.
18:00Condoms are not only used to prevent pregnancy.
18:05Condoms prevent sexually transmitted infections.
18:10And the most interesting thing is that
18:12sexually transmitted infections
18:14are prevented only by condoms.
18:17There is no other contraceptive option in the world
18:19that protects you from STIs.
18:21The interesting thing is that
18:23most STIs have no symptoms.
18:26So, you have been carrying STIs in your body for 30 years.
18:29You may not even know.
18:30And when you have any difficulty,
18:32maybe after 10 years,
18:33you will go to the doctor
18:34and you will know that
18:35STI has already caused a lot of damage to your body.
18:39Therefore, protection is very important.
18:42Condoms should always be used.
18:44Unless of course, you are trying to get pregnant.
18:47Or you and your partner should always be with each other.
18:50And there is no likelihood of going out.
18:55But the second thing is that
18:58even if you remove the STI angle,
19:01before the semen comes out,
19:05there is a clear fluid that comes out.
19:07We call it pre-cum in common language.
19:09Pre-cum also has sperm.
19:11So, you can also get pregnant from pre-cum.
19:14There is a pull-out method,
19:16which we commonly call.
19:17In this, if you remove the penis before ejaculation,
19:20there is a failure rate of about 30%.
19:23So, if you are ready for this,
19:25and you are ready for STI,
19:27about which you will not even know.
19:29So, do it.
19:33Next question.
19:34Namaste Ma'am.
19:35Hello Ma'am.
19:36I am also a medical student.
19:38I am also an intern.
19:39But as you have just explained for the boys,
19:42what is masturbation and what is not.
19:44So, it has been made a taboo for girls,
19:46that if you are doing it,
19:48then that thing is bad or wrong.
19:50And mostly,
19:52those who are sexually active,
19:54can do it.
19:56Normally, it is good for them.
19:58But if those who have not done it,
20:00what is it for them?
20:02Those who have never masturbated,
20:04for them.
20:05Those who have never had sex,
20:07for those girls.
20:08What is it for them?
20:09So, whatever advice I gave for masturbation,
20:11it is applicable for everyone.
20:13It is nothing like,
20:14it is specific for boys,
20:15specific for girls,
20:16it is you, she, they, whatever.
20:19Masturbation is a normal part of sexual development.
20:22Everyone does it.
20:24It is not like,
20:25no one does it.
20:26In fact, I have covered in my book,
20:28that in Egyptian mythology,
20:30in Egyptian mythology, right?
20:31Yes.
20:32In Egyptian mythology,
20:33there was a God.
20:35He made the whole world's existence
20:37by masturbating.
20:39So, globally,
20:41whichever old religion you see,
20:43there is mention of masturbation in it.
20:45So, it is not like,
20:46it is not like,
20:47a new thing has suddenly appeared
20:48in the 21st century,
20:49which everyone is doing nowadays.
20:50It has always been there.
20:51Everyone is doing it.
20:53And,
20:54understanding your body,
20:55I consider it good.
20:57Understanding my likes and dislikes,
20:59I consider it necessary.
21:00So,
21:01it is not a matter of shame.
21:03You,
21:04the best,
21:05the safest sex you can have,
21:06is the sex you have with yourself.
21:08There is no fear of STI,
21:09no fear of pregnancy.
21:10Namaste ma'am.
21:11Now,
21:12I will tell you a very interesting thing.
21:15I have read Dr. Tania's book.
21:17That is why I know.
21:18I don't know how many of you have read that book.
21:20Have you read it?
21:21You have read it?
21:22Very good.
21:23Have you heard of C-section delivery?
21:26There is a method of delivery.
21:28Do you know why it is called C-section method?
21:31What is its history?
21:33Does anyone here know?
21:37Very few people know.
21:38Dr. Tania,
21:39I will request you to tell about it.
21:41Because very few people know.
21:43Earlier,
21:44it used to be a very difficult process.
21:46Because today,
21:47we usually hear
21:48when a woman opts for C-section,
21:50it is said that
21:51she is not a good mother.
21:52She is worried about her body.
21:54She is not worried about her child.
21:55And the children born with C-section
21:57are not good.
21:58We hear all kinds of comments on social media.
22:01I am born with C-section.
22:07Secondly,
22:08if you feel bad about it,
22:10that you don't know the answer
22:11and you don't know why C-section is called C-section,
22:13don't feel bad.
22:14Two months ago,
22:15I asked this question to Bill Gates.
22:16He didn't know the answer.
22:19We call C-section as Caesarean section.
22:24People think it is a wrong idea
22:26that Caesarean section is actually
22:28named after Julius Caesar
22:29because Julius Caesar was born with Caesarean section.
22:31It is not like that.
22:32In Latin,
22:33there was a law called Rex Caesare.
22:35It was basically that
22:37in childbirth and labour,
22:41unfortunately,
22:42many people used to die.
22:44We call childbirth as Halwa.
22:46Actually,
22:47it is a very difficult procedure.
22:49There is a lot of effect of pregnancy
22:51and delivery on the body.
22:53Generally,
22:54if you talk to people in 40s and 50s,
22:56they will tell you
22:57what they feel today
22:59and the effects of childbirth on their body.
23:02Whether it is on their pelvic floor,
23:04or on their uterus,
23:06or on their hysterectomy,
23:08you must have heard of it.
23:10Childbirth has a lot of effects on the body.
23:13Secondly,
23:14it was a very deadly procedure.
23:16It has changed a lot nowadays.
23:18We have a very good intervention
23:20which we call Caesarean section.
23:22It is a helpful procedure.
23:25In India,
23:26Caesarean section is more.
23:28It is true.
23:29There are many reasons behind it.
23:31Everyone says it is because of greed.
23:33I am not saying that
23:34the rate of Caesarean section in some places
23:36is not more than the rate in other places.
23:38It is there in some places.
23:39But,
23:40it is very important to understand
23:42that if we compare our data with the West,
23:44in the West,
23:45women are well-nourished.
23:47In India,
23:48women are short.
23:50We are short in height.
23:51If we are short in height,
23:52our bones are small.
23:53That is,
23:54the size of the pelvis
23:55from which the baby should come out
23:57is also small.
23:58Sometimes,
23:59the baby's head does not fit.
24:00Sometimes,
24:01the head can get stuck.
24:02In all these cases,
24:03Caesarean section
24:04is considered to be safer.
24:06Again,
24:07there are many reasons.
24:08But,
24:09one of the reasons is
24:10why it is more in India.
24:13So,
24:14I am just saying
24:15to respect your mother.
24:16It is a very difficult thing.
24:18We are here
24:19because of the efforts of our mothers
24:20and by taking so much load
24:21on their bodies.
24:25Thank you very much,
24:26ma'am,
24:27for taking the time
24:28to answer all these questions
24:29in such an easy language.
24:31And,
24:32for making so many videos
24:33on this topic
24:35in such an easy language
24:37and educating us all.
24:39Thank you very much.