Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 12
Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 12
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00:00I feel so short previously. I am staying
00:05While some couples recommitted to the process
00:08Stay stay cuz we slay
00:12Others faced a much more uncertain future. There is so much love around
00:17I just don't feel that with Custer. I pulled back. So don't know where she's at
00:21I don't look into Polly's eyes and think I really want to kiss you. Oh my god
00:26And after weeks of heartache and turmoil, I'm sorry if I'm pushing her away, but I am trying
00:32I keep getting empty promises even Charlie reached the point of no return. I can't get over the trust thing. I gotta go
00:39I'm sorry
00:41I'm not gonna give my all to somebody that gives me 10%
00:45That's why I voted to
00:47Oh
00:53Tonight I definitely deserve to find love a brand new couple enters the process
00:59Finding true love is everything to take the ultimate gamble on love
01:06But the groom's charm offensive a little bit
01:11Is less charm and more offensive for his new bride. Let's give me a little bit
01:17And the experiments original couples
01:22Face tough questions from nearest and dearest do you love Lacey? What do you see happening?
01:28You don't want no one else. Look at me in the eyes and say yes, I'd want to work with Lacey. He should be scared really
01:34That's awful. You've upset me now. Nice. Shut up. I don't think I'm on to that too bad fair dog house
01:47You
01:52Want another orange
01:55It's morning at the apartments how you do baby and
01:59Some of the couples are reflecting on the events of yesterday's commitment ceremony
02:04I know I said a few silly things that came out wrong like letting me go off with another husband
02:11As soon as I said it I thought why have I done that and that's what frustrates me because I just said it's so wrong
02:17Yeah, I do think that after the commitment ceremony the biggest issue in mind and Polly's marriage is that sexual attraction?
02:24I've realized that I need to kind of try and make the spark happen
02:27But I think the way I said it was completely wrong. So I probably deserve that grilling on that one
02:32I
02:37Made it back in with Emma this morning. It's what the experts advised and I think it's the right thing for us
02:45Morning
02:48Casper and I sat down at the commitments home in and Mel said this is not friendship at first sight
02:53This is marriage at first sight and living apart is not good for a marriage. I changed the sheets for you
03:01All the advice experts are giving us I'm trying to take on board this week
03:05It's more about what I can do for Emma. I just want to get to know her better
03:08I want to be able to support her. I'm trying here. I really want this to work
03:13It's a huge step to be moving back in together. I don't think either of us are there with
03:20Attraction don't want to force any of the intimacy stuff too soon
03:24Yeah, let's take a few days move in get more comfortable with each other being around each other
03:30Have some more laughs and giggles and that sort of thing
03:40We got a letter
03:43What is it another letter
03:49Yeah, Orson and Rochelle, it's in laws way
03:53This week we're giving you the chance to really get to know your spouse's nearest and dearest
03:59You will both be hosting Lacey's mum Oh
04:02Maxine just a page
04:04You will be hosting Kieran's mom Tracy and Christina's best friend Katie at your apartment and preparing a special dinner for them
04:13This is a vital part of the process
04:15It's an opportunity for them to observe and evaluate how your relationship is going in a way that only the closest of friends and family
04:22Can good luck and remember no one knows you as well as they do love Mel
04:28I
04:30Haven't spoke me mom since the wedding
04:31So to be able to tell her how everything's going and just put our mind at rest because I know me little mom will be
04:36Worrying about us. It'll be lush to get some motherly advice and I think it's needed
04:40You got impressed them. Can I get grilled?
04:43But then they are lovely people, but they want the best for their daughter and sister. Yeah
04:49So close to my mom and sister say their opinion is so important to me because I really like him
04:54So I want them to like him as well
04:57I'm so excited to actually have you. Yeah
05:04At the wedding Lacey's first impression to me was I was gonna be trouble obviously she doesn't think that now
05:10I'm excited for Lacey's mom and sister to see the progress me and Lacey have made. I think they'll be really surprised. All right chickens
05:17Wow
05:18After initially impressing Lacey's family on the wedding day. Mommy's got the approval
05:25Nathan's reaction to Lacey's twin sister Paige
05:30That's not her no, it's a twin it's a
05:34fuck
05:35Upset his new bride. I didn't get a while
05:38Like if he said that now to both of us. Yeah, I would have felt like okay cuz she's stunning
05:44and his mother-in-law
05:47With it
05:50That's what he's be yourself
05:52I will do the deep banter like cuz you you're good for banter mom could take bad or a bit funny sometimes
05:58Can't you? Yeah, she's a bit sensitive. I
06:01Can take banter like piss-taking banter. Mm-hmm. Mama's his dad. They can't
06:07Me and Lace banter each other proper
06:09But obviously she said that my family can be a little bit sensitive for banter. So best behavior tonight. I think
06:16What'd be nice is if you get my mum and sister flowers
06:27The only worry I have is Nathan blacks have those jokey comments don't fuck
06:38Once well get some cutlery out while the existing couples prepare for the arrival of their loved ones
06:47It's time for the experiment to welcome some fresh hopeful singles
06:51So we've reached a pivotal point in the experiment where we introduce three new couples into the mix
06:58Today, we're gonna focus on a beautiful couple Amy and Luke now
07:02Amy's told us that she's keen to look beyond the small pool of men in her hometown. I think it's fair to say
07:08We've gone the extra mile
07:11So apparently the hand movements is called gesticulating. Have I heard that? Yeah sounds really rude, doesn't it?
07:17I
07:19Would describe myself as spontaneous a little bit crazy goofy
07:29I'm not a sexy person. I love cooking baking. I'm an ad. Yeah
07:35Yeah, I
07:37Turn very sociable. I can literally speak to a brick wall box. I'm the most single I've ever been in my life
07:44What are you here to do in this world, it's a very hard question to answer
07:48I feel like it could be like making people happy. I can get a lot of pleasure out of that
07:55At college I studied criminology and forensics, but I couldn't be a crime scene investigator
08:01I think it's because I like making people happy. That's why I love my job so much now
08:06I am a wedding planner. My name is Amy. Nice to meet you
08:11Congratulations on your engagement the best part of being a wedding planner is seeing people's dreams come true. They call us dream makers
08:20When you meet some couples you can just tell they're really in love you do you get a little bit envious
08:27Working in weddings does emphasize how much you're kind of missing out on
08:33Because it's been so long. It does get a little bit lonely. I do want my special day
08:40I
08:41Live with my mom. What's like a brain? Love one. I'm my dog. Sir. John Long Belly
08:47My family's really important to me. I'm a daddy's girl. Definitely. He's very kind. He's caring
08:53So yeah, I am similar to my dad personality wise
08:57I'm this today before the makeup. Oh, wow
09:01I was a proper daddy's girl and a proper one. Yeah, I'm literally hanging from you
09:06We recently found out that my dad has got cancer
09:13What she's really scary
09:15We're not sure what's gonna happen
09:18He's just waiting on surgery and things. So it's been a long stressful
09:24painful process I
09:28Feel like I've always tried to take care of him
09:36I
09:39Really hope that my dad can make it to my wedding. I'll be really upset if he couldn't be there
09:48So
09:49If I'm fit to it, I will be if not, I was fortunate. We'll see how it goes. Thank you. I love you. I
09:57Just want my dad to see me happy and settle down with the right guy
10:01Someone who really loves me
10:07In my relationship history is tragic I
10:10Have been cheated on in the past my two previous relationships
10:14It broke my heart. It did ruin me and now I don't really give myself chance to meet anybody
10:21I need to think about myself and put myself first
10:27If you've been seeing anybody recently no, I feel like the next one you need to learn from past mistakes
10:33Yeah, definitely, I think I need a gentleman yeah, yes definitely somebody polite
10:39Manners it cares about my feelings. Yeah
10:44What's the key green light for you to know this is a great relationship to pursue
10:49It's all about sort of like conversation for me looks is obviously important
10:53But it's how you connect with somebody on like a deeper level is that sticks with you really isn't it?
10:59Well you said looks are important Prince Charming Prince Charming, yeah
11:07I'd love to be able to meet somebody and
11:10Give me butterflies
11:13My ideal man would be a classy gentleman
11:17dark features
11:19Somebody that is a nice person has a good heart. I want more than anything to be loved more than anything in the world
11:30I
11:41Don't think British women are used to any sort of gentlemen
11:45I've been told I'm different from other guys, especially
11:48English man, I guess that's because I'm Maltese I
11:53Love the UK. I feel like the UK is my wife, but Malta is my mother
12:00I've picked up some of them the lingo. She came and I'm looking for a painting
12:07Well, I've the idea of discovering new people new feelings Cheers everyone new hobbies
12:15And of woodworking
12:17Playing guitar. I like poetry, you know putting pictures in people's mind when I talk to them
12:22I feel I'm quite good in my hands. You could say that
12:29I
12:31Did bodybuilding for quite a few years in my life the big shows in the amateur world and I won the Arnold Classic in
12:382016 the Arnold Classic is equivalent to a World Cup in football. It's named after Arnold Schwarzenegger's legacy
12:46And also I do nightclub and festival work
12:49It involves topless entertainment waiting before main dancing on stage. I did mix business with pleasure once
12:57Never again
12:59With my nightclub jobs and my exes some partners I've had, you know, they didn't like it
13:04It's not something that you know makes the faces light up
13:09My friends would probably say that I'm quirky intense
13:14Passionate people say I'm funny, but not because I intend to be funny
13:18I think I end up being funny because I'm trying to say something and it gets lost in translation
13:22I feel like I've got a lot of love to give but I don't think I have ever
13:26Felt true love from the way my friends describe it. They describe butterflies and amazing. I'm lucky if I get moths
13:38As my profession I work in a young offenders Institute, I'm a curriculum manager in the education department. I love my job
13:45Working with the young offenders watching the person development before they leave back into the communities is the most rewarding thing you can feel
13:54The favorite bit about my job is when I get to speak to the boys and we have a little banter
13:59Because you know my smile might be the only smile they see for the day. You know, I don't look at the crime
14:04I just look at the child. I think just helping one person is enough for me to cement my love for the job
14:15I would love to be in love last couple of relationships that I had as close as we got to having something that was amazing
14:22And beautiful, I think if the key doesn't match the lock it won't open
14:27It's important for me to find love because I'm just waiting for the right wife to give that love to I
14:33can be the sort of husband that would be the soft ground to catch someone's fall and I could be the music when they want
14:38to dance and the shoulder when they want to cry I
14:41I
14:43Can see myself as a product of my parents my father was always polite and respectful
14:49You know many gentlemen you values. I am my father's son at the end of the day
14:56You were raised as really a Maltese gentleman, it's you know
14:59It's something I was given as when I was born that gentleman feeling having that kind of family
15:04Values at heart and I think they will never leave you when you think about your ideal partner in life
15:11Describe her to me. Yeah, I just want someone colorful someone very
15:15You know like a big bouquet of flowers and you've got different colors different textures, and you just want to embrace it all
15:22For me love is the first person I want to see when I open my eyes and the last one before I close them
15:29Think the qualities that I want from a wife would definitely be caring and kind and have empathy
15:35Be as the loyal because I find that very sexy I do have to fancy the pants of my wife
15:41How like a girl that can be cheeky with me?
15:44You know, I mean I can be deep with me when having conversations someone that can listen to me understand me accept me for who I am
15:58Amy's told us that she's fed up dating men who have been rude or disrespectful in the way that they speak to her
16:04She'd really flourish with someone who's well-mannered and charming. Yeah, definitely Luke's certainly a smooth talker
16:11His cultural background means he's warm and open and that's something that Amy's been missing out on
16:17It'll be interesting to see how she reacts to his free and easy way with compliments
16:22Let's be honest Luke is easy on the eye
16:26Which we know that Amy will appreciate
16:29But he's intelligent and got hidden depth to pique her interest to I agree
16:34Looks are important to both of them
16:36But they're both also looking for a partner who can have deep conversations as well as embrace a sense of fun
16:44hopeless romantic Luke
16:46Craves someone with empathy and we know that Amy's got the kind of caring nature. That means she can deliver on that front
16:53Something tells me this prince charming may be about to meet his princess
16:58Amy and Luke
17:11In London
17:14Broccoli Christina and Kieran are preparing for dinner with their friends and family
17:18Do you like pasta soft or al dente can't a dent a al dente al can't a what?
17:28How you feeling
17:31Yeah, yeah speak so
17:34While Lacey is just moments away from welcoming her mum and sister into the marital home. I'm sure they'll love the Nathan Campbell charm
17:43Be me, but not all of me
17:58I
18:08Am so buzzing to see my twin I've been missing her terribly
18:15It's really important Nathan gets along with me and my mom because we are very close we come together if he's not about family
18:22It's not not gonna work
18:25Flowers
18:27For Paige
18:40But the wedding thinking Paige was his bride, although he said he was nervous that's still been on my mind a little bit
18:47I just want to be crystal clear that it is Lacey that he's totally and utterly interested in we're cooking me and you
18:54Yes, no way. Let's do it you cook
18:57Yeah, a little bit. Yeah, I'm a good cook. I don't eat me. They're obviously like meat eaters and stuff. I'm hoping it's vegetarian
19:04So you two cooking? Yes, we've got chicken fajitas my favorite. Okay, well about the vehicle because he doesn't eat chicken
19:11I've got some yeah. Yeah
19:13Not really hungry. Anyway, I'll grab something later on
19:17Go get me a bottle of drink, you know
19:20Favorite and we'll get cracking with the fajitas as a mom. I just want to see Lacey happy
19:25And from a mother's point of view if he didn't look after Lacey and she wasn't happy then mama's not happy, you know be nice
19:33He should be scared really
19:37The reason why I've done this meal for heater is because not only is it Lacey's favorite meal
19:42But it's also my favorite meal. Really? Yeah, what would be good is if you cut the chicken?
19:48I
19:52Can't touch me and because I'm vegetarian I can touch vegetables. Oh
19:57What happens when you touch me, oh, yeah, I don't know it's mixed for weird. That's it. Yeah. Oh you're making me feel weird
20:07It's a bit frustrating because I've never met a vegetarian before I should be standing at the kitchen thing cutting the chicken up
20:13You're the host, you know, am I going to be doing everything in this kitchen?
20:17Are you finding this a bit nerve-wracking? Yeah a little bit when she said to me she goes, uh, I said
20:22What's your mom like a banter much? Could you just don't like bad? No, I'm not good about I'll have a conversation with you
20:26Yeah, I mean, but I'm not really that great at banter. That's what she said. Don't really get it
20:35So obviously if they go in here you won't eat any of this for you, yeah, but that's fine. Oh
20:41No, don't worry about it's fine. It's fine. Oh
20:44Really yeah, I don't worry about it. I must admit when you said he was a vegan vegetarian. Sorry vegetarian
20:53To be with someone that's big and we'll just drive me crazy
20:56Obviously, it's not a biggie because a lot of people are vegan now
21:00Yeah, I mean, but obviously I'd know if you come to dinner at mine. I would have to do I just bring a mildew
21:05I
21:10See when I saw you at the wedding, you know what happened? Yeah the page it was a bit like
21:16And it was just your reaction to page but then your reaction to Lacey should have been Wow. Yeah, he was the bride
21:22Yeah, you don't fancy page then she's beautiful. But obviously I've created a bit of a bond with her lace
21:28You just said she was beautiful. Yeah, she's beautiful stunning. They don't say that
21:32Say that they're both stunning. Yeah, you can't say that though. No, no, you can't say that
21:37You don't say a twin sister stunning and beautiful. Do you know I mean you say she's a nice girl for what?
21:42I know of her. Do you know I mean, that's it. You leave it as that. Yes, you've what happened
21:47Definitely feeling a bit of heat. Obviously. I'm obviously asking quite intense questions pressures on and it presses on
21:56Do you love Lacey do you feel like it's love that I
22:00mean
22:01Do you think you could head towards loving Lacey though? I think so. I will say that
22:06I've like the girls. I've been with I've never
22:08Felt the way I have with lace at this point in time. Never. Oh, really?
22:12Yeah, the future could be you'd hope it would be with Lacey. Yeah, and have children
22:19I'm still not convinced about what Nathan's saying. Oh
22:22I still need a bit more reassurance from him
22:26When you come out of the experiment, you know, what do you see happening?
22:29I wouldn't mind get to know outside. You wouldn't mind getting to continue to our outside
22:35Yeah, I mean I'd like to get
22:40You need to sound a bit more cold
22:43You're very like yeah. Well, do you know what you know? Hey if you're serious about are you serious about her?
22:48Yeah, I'm pretty serious. You need to be more
22:52Do you know I mean, yeah, I'm not the best of my words. But yeah, she knows, you know, I don't know
22:58No, I know it's hard
23:00Lacey's put a lot on the line for this. Yeah, she's been wanting to find someone to make her happy. I
23:06Know you said you don't say things properly. Yeah, it's not convinced at the moment. Is your heart in it with Lacey?
23:12Yeah, no, I appreciate it. Yeah, you've got the looks and everything that ain't everything
23:16Do you know me? I need to know when I walk away from here today
23:18Do you want to go the whole journey with Lacey? You don't want no one else
23:23Look at me in the eyes and say yes, I don't really want to work with Lacey
23:28I
23:30Really don't know what of Lacey. Yeah, sure. Mm-hmm
23:33percent
23:35And upset I feel that Nathan's just saying what I want to hear
23:43He doesn't give a lot away and he's hard to read so he doesn't seem convincing enough for me
23:58I
24:00Okay, let's see
24:01This morning. I'm gonna get ready with Tom who's my best man and with Isaac who's my childhood friend for Malta still feel
24:08Well Charles, yeah, I mean I should have tried them on before
24:12I'm just so excited. I feel in good shape. I'm happy
24:16I want to make sure I look, you know, sexy and good for my wife. Obviously nothing but the best for my wife. Yeah
24:21I
24:27Have been thinking the whole time what if I don't like him, but if he doesn't like me, oh, yeah
24:32Oh, it's silly not to think about that. What's what's enough to work? I
24:37Feel like today's such a huge risk for me
24:40I'm praying that the person waiting for me on the other end of the aisle is like my dream man
24:46Things I think we all passed you've not necessarily always gone for the right type of person
24:52So, you know it is about time that you find someone who cares for you and really appreciates you for who you are
24:58Amy's not the best of luck with relationships in the past
25:01It's been difficult as a friend to see her go through, you know
25:03Like this turmoil and people not realizing what she deserves
25:07So a lot is riding on today if I do like really really fancy him, it'll make me a hundred thousand times more nervous
25:14Positive mental attitude that is what today is all about. I'm finding you the one it's time
25:24You look a little bit nervous, I mean it's to be expected
25:27I mean, yeah, like my face doesn't hide it. Yeah, if she's gonna walk down the aisle and she's not for me
25:33She's not for me. You know, we like open for in her like I
25:38Think appearance wise like I like the lights and the light eyes open face nice big smile
25:43I've always said blondes because in Malta you don't want a blonde. We don't know. Yes could be amazing
25:49Could be the right person thing. He's crossed. I think she'll be stunning
25:54You know, I think sometimes maybe birds of the same feather flock together. So I think she'll be a sweet one. That's very smart
26:02That's the Maltese course. Yeah, okay. Where did it go?
26:14Oh my word
26:21Okay, yeah, yeah
26:27You're lovely
26:29magic princess
26:31It's not been very easy for us as a family
26:34We've been through so much over the past few months
26:37It means so much to me that my dad's here today and the fact that you can actually walk me down the aisle
26:43It's really special
26:46How are you doing you okay
26:47It's actually really sunk in that you're not gonna be coming on with you like gonna be whisked away. We're still here
26:53It's a little bit scary, isn't it? Yeah
26:55I've always dreamt about getting married and having you walk me down the aisle
26:59But I was really worried that you wouldn't be able to make it today. I'm so grateful. Yeah
27:04Well, I'm going to try my best. Thank you for supporting me though. I will be always proud of you
27:11Amy's not only my daughter. She's a best friend and she whatever makes it up. He makes me happy
27:35You
27:42Finding true love is everything
27:46When I look back down the aisle, I just hope to see the only person I ever wanted to see
27:52Someone I can look at and just forget every single other person that I've ever thought of or met
27:57I
28:01Feel nervous feel like I hope I'm not let down
28:07If it's not my dream man waiting at the end of the aisle, I feel like I'll be really heartbroken
28:13I definitely deserve to find love
28:27I
28:33Okay
28:42He's not that boom so she likes all she's gonna be made all this will be up there hello
28:57I
28:59Nice smile. Yes, very nice. My nice teeth lovely eye contact. Yeah, I think there's serious potential
29:12Oh my god, this is it now I'm very nervous I could feel my heartbeat in my throat
29:17The next person I'm gonna see is gonna be my wife
29:28Wow, that's well pushing it that is insane very nice
29:38So
29:52So much is riding on today
29:54My dream husband would be a gentleman Prince Charming
30:25I
30:44Just magical just beautiful just very gorgeous from the Garden of Eden
30:48She's got that for all around her very stunning physically
30:54We're together
30:59Thank you very much, thank you very much I feel so much relief now
31:05Luke is ticking boxes. Currently. He's very charming and handsome
31:11That's a pleasure to address my wife now. No, we were sure name your new surname. Yeah, you know, Amy they're born
31:25He's got a nice time to it
31:42Now it is time for you to exchange the vows and make the promises you intend to pledge to each other
31:49I
31:51Love has nothing to do with what you're expecting to get only what you're expecting to give
31:57I'm ready to put my own into the unknown a crazy path that is about to unfold
32:03I'll have your back and you'll have mine through thick and thin. Let's hope this walk down. The aisle is the first and the last time
32:11It's beautiful
32:14Love it
32:17To my gorgeous wife Amy I stand before you open and honest not dressed in the finest things
32:24The accents not refined but it speaks the truth. I
32:28Vow to give us every opportunity at happiness. I want to take your hand open my eyes as we set sail together
32:36towards a hopeful sunrise
32:41Amy and Luke at this moment, it is traditional to seal the commitment with your first kiss
33:04I'm very happy
33:05When I first turned around and I saw a beautiful smile
33:09Elegant flow coming towards me. It just felt like a lighthouse with full beam. Just guiding me home. I
33:17Literally can't believe I'm just married a stranger
33:21He is sort of my type on paper, well, he's very intense I'm not sure I'm feeling the vibes yet
33:35I
33:45Cannot wait to see my best friend Katie. Oh, yeah, baby. Your wife can cook
33:52Really really important to me that me mom and Christina have a good relationship
33:56Family means a lot to me
34:00I think
34:05I
34:13Good
34:19She's excited to see you
34:31She
34:33Honestly, what do you want to drink?
34:53It's so
34:54So nice to see Katie. I knew I was gonna cry
34:59I knew I was gonna be in my but just holding her and cuddling her and just
35:04Seeing her hearing her voice. So how's it all been?
35:10Being beautiful on it. It's just been an absolute well wind. So do you guys think you've been matched? Well?
35:17Absolutely. I've learned so much about myself
35:20Have you? Yeah, I need to be more open. Yeah. Yeah Steen and to stop saying sorry all the time. I need to stop saying
35:27Yeah, when we've had our commitment ceremonies they've the experts have said that when I ask you are you okay and you go
35:35Yeah, I'm fine. You need to say actually. No, I'm not. Yeah
35:38I can give you as any advice just be open and honest and just talk
35:44Obviously we care so much about each other. I care about him so much. I
35:50Never heard that anybody say I really care for him
35:55So intimacy where we out with that
36:01Right don't bits
36:06Yeah, we've been intimate nice what is comfortable did you feel comfortable you just obviously wouldn't go
36:15I've know what I mean isn't it?
36:19It was nice
36:24Here we go
36:32Have you thought about would you move to where Christina lives? I'd go she would you have to be a Jordy?
36:38Yeah, I mean, I'm really emotional sitting here saying how happy you guys are
36:45Really? It's just natural. It's just it's like you've been together for years. Yeah, we've just popped round for dinner
36:51There's a long road ahead, however, you don't make it if you want to make it you will I just want to say cheers
36:58To Christina and Kieran, you know, you couldn't make us any more proud and happy
37:05And I just think that's toast
37:07toast to the happy
37:21I'm sorry. All right guys. I'm 30. Hey, you're younger than me. Yeah
37:30I feel amazing
37:32Amy is a hidden gem. I can look at her and I can feel really warm inside
37:37I'm not a doctor, but I know she's good for my circulation
37:40Just leave it. That's it. Really lovely
37:43I
37:45Feel like he's attractive
37:47Being so close to somebody that I've never met before it's a little bit awkward. I'm not sure how to act
37:54I'm a Pisces. What are you?
37:57Aries and air and the sea water and fire. I mean
38:03I need to cool off. So I don't know who would you boil me?
38:10Steam you
38:13Luke is definitely really charming, but some of the little comments he's making
38:19Not really sure how to react to them. I think he's just like very flirty and I'm not used to it
38:25What do you like doing? Well, if I'm looking amazing showing off your clavicles
38:30The finger twiddling. I feel like it's very like
38:34Touchy feely. I don't know. It's just not me. I like bacon
38:39Cooking yeah
38:42Yeah, I would say I do
38:44You have to test it. I'm sure I'll approve I eat it my eyes. So I'm on a different
38:52Let's give me Nick a little bit
38:56That's it and just make eye contact
38:58I love it
39:07What I don't know
39:24Hopefully it's gone well, you know, no one's left the apartment
39:28So I'm dying to find out
39:34Yes, I suppose good
39:37So I like what you can eat then
39:40Just I think just dust
39:42Feel a little bit awkward. So we're all sitting there, you know with the fajitas in front of us smelling so good
39:46And then he's not eating anything
39:49You've come on this journey this adventure. Whatever you want to call it and you're in a bubble
39:54He's missing you too that's gonna pop, you know at some stage that's gonna
39:59For me with Nathan. I don't find him very convincing. I
40:04Can't read him first of all
40:07And that's hard for me I can read people but it's also very blasé with the way he answers things about you I
40:16Can't expect him to go. Yes, your daughter's absolutely stunning. I'm a lucky man. I can't wait to get on the outside
40:21Can't wait to hear about the future. He's like, yeah
40:25But the thing you don't know what you got understand is he does get a bit nervous when there's crowd like now
40:31He goes in he shall
40:35As the more I've got to know him we have actually had some really deep chats about everything, you know
40:41Panko's doors. He gives me all the love support everything
40:46Matt the guys I've been with that have been absolutely awful to me. Yeah and spoke to me bad
40:52You know cheated on me. He's never raised his voice to me. He's never called me any names
40:57He listens to me or she dating someone very HD is different
41:00But it's helped me to be more patient how he feels about me. He does it in actions
41:04He makes me a cup of tea makes me breakfast in bed
41:07When I you know when I was being a well, he was like do you want anything? That's lovely. She's already defending him
41:15Wow, she's already defending him
41:23It's really nice to hear Lacey in my defense she seemed to become more comfortable with me and everything seems to have gone well
41:31Take it with you if you want as well if you want it because that's awful
41:38These banters coming out now Oh God
41:45All right, I could go I looked up what I'm being by gonna
41:50Knife shut up. It's so it's banter
41:57She just gets a sensitive of a fair, you know
42:00Not even my food. I forgot it's been ruined now. I was shaking. I was shaking. Okay
42:06Told you about you. Yeah, I know. I know. Yeah, my bad. It's a sorry. Sorry
42:11Lacey wouldn't speak to your mom like that. No, she's been cooking. Yeah. Yeah, it's just not very nice. You've upset me now
42:17Yeah, no, I apologize. So it's a bit. It's a joke at me and Lacey between each other. I'm not Lacey. I know. Yeah, I know
42:22I did
42:24It's a fair warning. Yeah, and I was dipped out my bad. I
42:28Don't think I'm on to that banter too. Well to prepare. I mean it's dog house
42:34I'll nip out and let you girls have a catch-up in that
42:37Again, I've seen my bad
42:42All right, see you later
42:55You are I'll just was shit
42:57You are I'll just was shit
43:28Thank you, yes, I'm feeling very good. Okay. Yeah
43:36Luke is very handsome. Well, maybe a little bit cringy
43:41I'm not sure if Amy fences me
43:44But I just met her. I'm gonna put all the effort. I physically can into it
43:49I've got air in my lungs now is the time to work for something and put effort into it
43:54So if I can't do it now, then I don't know when I can do it
43:58It's the pleasure. So my
44:00Nice to meet you. This is Amy's mom. Oh, yeah, pleased to meet you. Nice to meet you. I'm not too bad
44:05Thank you the bride pushes gorgeous. Yeah, I think the apple doesn't fall far from the tree if you ask me
44:13What did he say
44:15He's flattering me and she is fine. She gets a good look to me. Well, I have no doubt about that
44:22she's
44:23seems like a nice guy, but
44:26It's Amy that has to spend time with them so we shall say
44:32Thank you for coming. Yeah
44:34Nice to see I thought I'd come and say hello. I just want you to know that
44:38You know, I feel like I'm the lucky one tonight mate and it's very clear to see you know
44:44You've done a really good job with her and I just want to commend you
44:49Luke he's a schmoozer. That's him throwing through. Yeah, maybe a bit much
44:54How did you meet so we used to do like nightclub entertainment stuff
45:00Still do a little bit here and there but we met doing that
45:02We don't do so much anymore, but you saw top this for a butler work and things like that. It's stopping
45:08The fact that Luke has done the butler in the buff job makes feel a little bit uncomfortable
45:16Feel like my man needs to have a very nice body but concealed for me
45:23Did you see a butler in the glove I don't know do you do that now?
45:32Are you honest
45:33100% okay, and I feel like honesty is like the best if you don't have one
45:38It's do you might as well just pack up and go? Yeah
45:41I
45:51Am a good cook, you know, I mean I am said it was bottom of the bean you won't say that
45:59He needs a bit more education in the way he says things
46:03Nathan and his bloody mouth. I don't know. It's just made me go well a little bit or will taste in him half
46:09He's a vegan anyway, I am very sensitive and I I don't get that banter I
46:16Think it was coming from a place of being trying to be human
46:19I made it clear to him right some jokes you say to me. I'll take it on the chin
46:24I'll give you right banter back right my sister and my mom are more sensitive
46:29They can take jokes, but they can't take the piss taken out of them
46:34I
46:35Don't want this to affect you if you sort it out with him and you clear it up with him then that's fine
46:41I'm all right. Anyway, I just want you to be all right. I love you like
46:49Yeah, I did realize that banter early I know the balance different
46:55Nice you make the right decision anyway at the end of the day. She's a big girl now. We're gonna say goodbye
47:00Really do hope Nathan realizes what he said upset me and takes accountability for what he said and learns from it
47:06Well, we did get you the flowers. No, I know you could you can have them back
47:15You definitely need to polish up on that
47:19I do think he spoke before he actually thought so I'm not gonna hold that against him
47:23I
47:28Won't put putting it there tonight. Yeah, just a bit. I didn't mean nothing boy. I know that I know that
47:33I know that you didn't mean it maybe going forward
47:38No, but
47:42It's never my intention to upset someone let alone Lacey's mom Lace knows that as it come from any place of malice I
47:50Didn't mean that yeah, I've just got to teach you a bit more to keep that mouth shut
47:56But just bear in mind that in the future no banter
48:06How are you feeling straight to the point be honest we haven't had a debrief and it was very needed
48:13On a scale of 1 to 10 how I feel we are you with much
48:177 I feel like I was having a meltdown at first
48:21I was like thinking oh my god. I can't do this throughout all the ceremony
48:25He did not take his eyes off you. I know but I didn't know if I like that or not
48:29Why would you not like it? I contact it. Just I don't know maybe a little bit too much
48:35This process now is all about learning about each other, right?
48:39Experiment and see what you like about each of us see what you don't and don't put too much pressure on yourself
48:43Just enjoy it. Just have to get snowing. You've got to get any chance. Yeah, please
48:50everything grows
48:52It's really nice to hear my bridesmaids speak so highly of Luke
48:58It takes me a long time to warm to somebody but I'm starting to get used to it
49:02I'm starting to get used to it. I'm starting to get used to it
49:05It takes me a long time to warm to somebody but I'm starting to see that Luke is a gentleman
49:12Cheers to that
49:14In my country we say soccer soccer. That's it. Yeah
49:20You know what I feel so relieved because you know answer to my prayers and all of that I think it's here
49:26So amen to that. Um, I feel like a really important part of this process for me was to meet somebody
49:35Different to who I've been with before
49:37I feel like maybe that's why I had a little bit of doubts because you were such a gentleman
49:43Like I've never and you've never you had there before. No, not really
49:47I'm really sorry that you've never been introduced to a proper gentleman before
49:51I've been single most my adult life
49:55So I want to I want to I want to try definitely things different
50:00I wanna I want to move differently with it with a woman. I know I'm not here for anything more
50:06than a genuine marriage of the mind first and foremost
50:10Maybe is my time now for if let my guard down and let someone take care of me
50:17Maybe he is what I need
50:19Cheers
50:21In the best day ever
50:23She's a slow burner
50:25But I think when she goes she goes like a bonfire
50:30You
50:32Next time
50:34In-laws week continues when we're going to communicate it's bulls
50:40One friend's cross-examination. Is this all a facade? Are you trying to be famous?
50:46Triggers Rochelle's trust issues. You just catch so much shit. I'm too old for this nonsense
50:55And
50:56Two more hopeful singles, I'm ready to have love that missing piece of the puzzle
51:02After previous heartbreak, I know what I need in my life find an instant connection at the altar
51:09But a groom's revelation, I've got four children
51:14Bursts a bride's bubble for is a lot for children my kids do come first
51:26You
51:50You