Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 17
Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 17
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00:00:00There's a new couple coming tonight what previously
00:00:08Three new couples crashed the dinner party these two look
00:00:12Freaking good and the cracks in one of their marriages became clear to the group feel really rejected. He's so shut down
00:00:19He's not giving me anything told us something probably the most special thing. She was about to reuse it as ammunition
00:00:24Oh, wow, you're not talking to me
00:00:27Oh
00:00:31See you then but they weren't the only couple in crisis
00:00:34I struggle to relate to you as a person around your sister. There was more fragility there cried
00:00:40It's either I wouldn't say that that is me. So sorry Casper. That's not the answer that is needed
00:00:47Emma hasn't taken on board any changes. She has to make about herself. I'm running out of energy for it bullshit
00:00:53I need to see some sort of side and she might change the whole
00:00:57It's not just me
00:01:00Tonight
00:01:03The commitment ceremony marks a fresh chapter for some having the puddles in bed kisses and it feels like a relationship now
00:01:11But spells a drastic turn of events for others. I'm not convinced. We have a future
00:01:17Things are down to the wire now. It's make or break. Yes, I can be more vulnerable. Well, that's not me
00:01:23And will one couples time in the experiment? I'm so sorry. You don't believe
00:01:28I'm full of redemption be over before it's barely begun. Can you accept Hannah's apology?
00:01:47Let me get that
00:01:53It does feel nice to be going into a commitment ceremony with me and you in a better place
00:01:57I do feel like the cuddling and kissing
00:02:01Except as helped us get a bit closer as well on it. Yeah, it's been nice
00:02:06It feels like a relationship now rather than just friends. Oh, yeah
00:02:13There's obviously other couples that are not getting on I felt a little bit guilty
00:02:17Yeah, I know. I did not expect this to be though. This is a easy peasy
00:02:21Lemon squeezer
00:02:29The dinner party was obviously a rollercoaster
00:02:31and it did feel a little bit like we're moving forward but then I've not seen Steven since
00:02:35We were at the dinner party and I was glancing at him and I'm like I am attracted to you
00:02:38Like I do fancy you like there is something there. I'm ready to move forward. Like I want to speak to the experts today
00:02:44Hopefully we can pull this back
00:02:47The one thing that I've been struggling with ever since the honeymoon is after an argument that we had I
00:02:53Didn't have a problem with the dinner. I wanted to change it to suit our your needs
00:02:56Afterwards you come away and gone at least I got my way
00:03:00It's awful that comment mate not lying. You've just said to me. We're not gonna say certain things
00:03:04We've sent you on and off and you've just you didn't say it
00:03:06Do you want to talk about all the shit we've said off camera then should I do it to you?
00:03:09Don't you dare go down that route?
00:03:17There was a comment Hannah was gonna make that told her in confidence off-camera about something really personal to me in my life
00:03:22And I think she was going to use it as ammunition
00:03:25So I just don't think I can trust her at this point, which is why I'm really struggling with this marriage
00:03:35Last night didn't end. Well, I haven't spoken to Casper since he left the dinner table
00:03:40I thought actually we'd had a good dinner party
00:03:44It was the honesty box that made him shift and made him retreat
00:03:48Don't worry about the girls. That's all I am worried about Emma and Casper's dinner party clash
00:03:55Came off the back of a difficult in-laws week. What's the crack?
00:04:00Doesn't fancy me what I've never fancied curvy women
00:04:05That's not a nice thing to say
00:04:07And I got really angry and I just needed to say no. Oh, no, no, no, no, you can't say that
00:04:14I
00:04:16Can do so much
00:04:18But at some point I do have to look at myself and see what I can get out of this
00:04:25During the honesty box last night. I
00:04:28Answered the question what did I need from her to get the marriage back on track and I asked for her to show some more
00:04:33Fragility, which she said that's not gonna happen
00:04:36The commitment is not gonna be the easiest conversation. I've ever had
00:04:39I don't think she has it in her to accept that. She could possibly be part of the reason we're struggling
00:04:51Let me get that
00:04:55Do you start shop I'll bring it in then
00:05:00You'll like this play there this is something for us
00:05:09It's a book on sign language
00:05:13Can't mean Tom so we can learn together
00:05:16It's a nice idea
00:05:19To earn some style on work together and there's something we come teach each other
00:05:24Yeah, it's very nice a book
00:05:32Going into the commitment ceremony today, I wouldn't say that we're in a great place
00:05:37But I'm not going in throwing in the towel
00:05:42My biggest concern is the moods, you know
00:05:46It's been that roller coaster up down up down up down
00:05:51How long could you carry on doing?
00:05:54Wilson and I've had quite a rocky week. I would prefer to go home because this week is my daughter's birthday
00:06:03We both agreed that we would write stay and have a commitment ceremony
00:06:07Because he said he wants the expert advice. Thank you
00:06:11I have told Orson that I wouldn't leave until he was ready to leave
00:06:14I am willing to sacrifice my daughter's birthday to show integrity
00:06:21Probably make or break this next week
00:06:28Holly and Alex last night
00:06:29I don't know what was going on, but she was dead tearful and he didn't really want to speak to her
00:06:33Yeah, it was really hard seeing how sad like that because she is the life and soul of the group. Oh
00:06:40It's gonna be spacey at the commitment ceremony today
00:06:55Don't have a conversation
00:06:59Obviously we have had a really good week, but I
00:07:04Want to be able to talk to my partner and tell him when something pisses me off
00:07:07But I feel like sometimes can't be like that with you
00:07:11What because of how confrontational it gets when we disagree to a break?
00:07:16I'm not an unapproachable person if you come at me respectfully, you're gonna get respect back
00:07:21If you come at me hostile, you're gonna get hostility. I didn't come at you hostile. That's not no last night
00:07:26I feel a bit shit
00:07:27I feel like we need to have a chat and you stormed off on me when I tried to speak to you when we made
00:07:32A deal that we've listened to each other and in that moment you show me that you didn't want to hear it
00:07:37I got good energies from you
00:07:40Alex's interest in new bride Amy at last night's dinner party
00:07:46Sparked insecurities in Holly
00:07:52But attempts to raise this with him
00:07:54You're my husband and I should be able to talk to you
00:07:58Led to a fresh round of conflict for the couple
00:08:01Are you joking me?
00:08:04And I'm not being funny Alex, I'm sat at that dinner party last night
00:08:08There's new couples come in which has already made me anxious like I don't like change really
00:08:12Then you spent half the night talking to Amy way back to me
00:08:15How do you think that made me feel if you feel that way address it?
00:08:19This is why I'm telling you I can't address it. If you I tried to be fine with you and you was being frosty
00:08:24I wasn't being frosty. I say that we're gonna speak when we get back and you was like
00:08:28Yeah
00:08:30In the process you'd rather stand and speak to Amy than try and sort things out with you
00:08:33I I feel some way I tell you I'm gonna hold it in you just like to act like you're cool
00:08:38And you're not big Holly only comes out when there's cameras around and there's people around
00:08:41Because you don't listen to me if I start raising my voice. It's gonna be a madness
00:08:46This is why I can't come from you. It's gonna be a madness
00:08:49You wanna like when I say it's gonna be a man is that I'm gonna do something. I'm not your ex
00:08:52Don't try and project that onto me
00:08:54rude
00:08:56You fake how am I fake?
00:08:59Because when we are behind closed doors, you're not saying nothing and when cameras come out because when cameras come out because you
00:09:05Intimidate me. This is the whole point of the fucking conversation
00:09:09Look at your voice, look at me now
00:09:11Yeah because I've had enough
00:09:13You're mentally draining me
00:09:15You're rude, you're arrogant and you fucking think you're sick and you're not
00:09:17You think you're sick as well?
00:09:19I'm not a confrontational person. I don't like it
00:09:21I don't like this fucking arguing
00:09:23It's awful
00:09:25There was no need for anything to get confrontational
00:09:27You chose to do it in front of people
00:09:29And in front of cameras
00:09:31Make a big scene
00:09:33Holly's upset
00:09:35Holly and Alex have gone for a chat
00:09:37It's embarrassing
00:09:39So I'm just like oh yeah she's doing this for the people
00:09:41And for the cameras
00:09:43Which comes across as not genuine
00:09:45Nothing left to say man
00:09:47Nothing left to say
00:09:49This whole situation
00:09:51Has made me question Holly's integrity
00:09:53Because she's saying one thing to me behind closed doors
00:09:55Then we get in front of a group
00:09:57And it's another story
00:09:59Right now I feel like I don't really know
00:10:01Who the real Holly is
00:10:19Hello and welcome to your third commitment ceremony
00:10:21To our three new couples
00:10:23Welcome
00:10:25To truly benefit
00:10:27From our support
00:10:29You need to be as honest
00:10:31And open
00:10:33As possible
00:10:35On this couch
00:10:37For the rest of you
00:10:39Welcome to the
00:10:41Third Commitment Ceremony
00:10:43Welcome to the
00:10:45Third Commitment Ceremony
00:10:47On this couch
00:10:49For the rest of you
00:10:51This Commitment Ceremony is the halfway mark
00:10:53It's time for us
00:10:55And for you to take a long hard look
00:10:57At your marriages
00:10:59To decide whether or not
00:11:01They have what it takes
00:11:03To go the distance
00:11:05Let's get started
00:11:09Amy and Luke to the couch please
00:11:11Welcome aboard
00:11:13Thank you very much
00:11:15Gosh you two must feel like you've been thrown in the deep end
00:11:17Do we just
00:11:19Why don't we start with the wedding
00:11:21What were your first impressions Amy
00:11:23I asked for a twelve out of ten
00:11:25And I got one
00:11:27Okay what about you Luke
00:11:29You know I did ask for a Disney princess
00:11:31And here she is
00:11:33She looks like the million dollars
00:11:35She's absolutely gorgeous
00:11:37The honeymoon was amazing
00:11:39I mean I don't say this lightly
00:11:41But that was the best moment
00:11:43In my life
00:11:45Wow
00:11:47To be in the Bahamas
00:11:49I felt like a James Bond villain
00:11:51I had the best time of my life
00:11:53It was amazing wasn't it
00:11:55He just supported me throughout it
00:11:57And made me feel really at ease
00:11:59And really respect my boundaries
00:12:01I'm going at a very slow pace
00:12:03And he understands that
00:12:05So I really appreciate it
00:12:08I got her bluff because I thought
00:12:10Yeah right two days
00:12:12And I work my magic
00:12:14But
00:12:16But she's what I need
00:12:18She's not like any other woman
00:12:20That would fall for my cheesy shenanigans
00:12:22She's a woman of principle
00:12:24And that's what I need
00:12:26She's got such a pure heart
00:12:28I really want
00:12:30To make this work
00:12:32I'm so star struck by you Amy
00:12:34Amy how do you feel
00:12:36When someone compliments you
00:12:38I hate compliments
00:12:40They just make me feel really awkward
00:12:42And that's what I see
00:12:44There is a strong connection
00:12:46Between the two of you
00:12:48But maybe it's about learning
00:12:50What does it for the other person as well
00:12:52Because sometimes
00:12:54If you compliment someone
00:12:56And that's not how they like to experience love
00:12:58It can make them repel a little bit
00:13:00Perhaps I don't have to compliment her
00:13:02Every time
00:13:04It's nice to wake up to someone
00:13:06You have to see her without makeup
00:13:08So even as you're talking
00:13:10There's lots of compliments
00:13:12And what I'm noticing
00:13:14Is that Amy looks uncomfortable
00:13:16Every time you compliment her
00:13:18I just think to get the most out of this relationship
00:13:20It's about understanding
00:13:22What each other's love languages are
00:13:24The fact that you're already talking about
00:13:26These kind of awkward things
00:13:28Is such a positive thing
00:13:30Keep letting each other know
00:13:32And keep having fun
00:13:34I think we're going to go to the decision
00:13:36Amy, start with you
00:13:38I feel like
00:13:40Me and Luke were so different
00:13:42But we fill in each other's gaps
00:13:44He's like the light in my dark
00:13:46Sort of thing
00:13:48So I have decided to stay
00:13:54Luke, over to you
00:13:56I'm so glad that I've got Amy by my side
00:13:58To help me in this journey
00:14:00Absolutely, I want to stay
00:14:04Thank you so much
00:14:06And enjoy your first week living together
00:14:08Thank you
00:14:20Next up on the couch
00:14:22We have
00:14:24Emma and Kasper
00:14:30Hello team
00:14:32Hello you two
00:14:34Welcome back
00:14:36So
00:14:38You've just had in-laws week
00:14:40How was it Kasper?
00:14:44I'm going to be honest
00:14:46As soon as I knew I was going to be bringing up the honeymoon
00:14:48Again, apprehension has started to creep back in
00:14:50Again
00:14:52And was that apprehension based on
00:14:54Those feelings of shame?
00:14:56Yeah, reliving something you're not
00:14:58Proud of
00:15:00Continuously
00:15:02It's hard, it's not something you want to do
00:15:04I would say
00:15:06There wasn't a whole lot of positive
00:15:08About me
00:15:10Why do you think that was?
00:15:12They only got the snapshot the first week
00:15:14And nothing since the first week
00:15:16There wasn't a whole lot of
00:15:18But he's tried to change anything
00:15:20Okay
00:15:22There needs to be a contract
00:15:24Between you
00:15:26Because it sounds like for you Kasper
00:15:28It's come up again this week
00:15:30And it's pretty much ruined the experience
00:15:32It was a ten second
00:15:34Part of a three week process
00:15:36I'm not proud of it
00:15:38But if you're consistently going
00:15:40And there it is again
00:15:42That thing that makes me feel shame
00:15:44It's just dragging me down every time
00:15:46Like no, I'm bored of it
00:15:48I'm over it, just draw a line under it
00:15:50Everything about that is done now
00:15:52It doesn't need to be brought up again
00:15:54I want to draw a line under it
00:15:56I don't think I'm that person
00:15:58You've shown you're not that person
00:16:00Can you both agree
00:16:02To leave it behind
00:16:04Yeah
00:16:06Okay
00:16:08Last night during the honesty box
00:16:10You talked about seeing a little of her fragility
00:16:12I think was the word that you used
00:16:14And you'd like to see more of that
00:16:16I said I liked you around your friends
00:16:18You were more fragile
00:16:20And it's something I could relate to more
00:16:22I like you around my friends
00:16:24But really I'm just going to be Emma
00:16:26And that's what I got out of that response
00:16:28I've asked for something
00:16:30She's gone no no
00:16:32I'm going to be me
00:16:34What am I working with
00:16:36If Emma is just Emma
00:16:38And what we see that confidence
00:16:40Positive boom
00:16:42I'm going to have a fabulous day
00:16:44Every day no matter what
00:16:46I can't see how I'm ever going to match that
00:16:48Also I find it false
00:16:51It just seems to me that Emma's
00:16:53Walls are so up
00:16:55I don't feel any emotions
00:16:57That I could relate to
00:16:59That was the hardest day I've had
00:17:01And for Casper to say
00:17:03He only really likes that side of me
00:17:05Yes I can be more vulnerable
00:17:07Well that's not me
00:17:11You're really just showing
00:17:13One part of yourself
00:17:15And I think what Casper's tapping into
00:17:17Here is there's a vulnerable side
00:17:19Of you that you're still protecting
00:17:21Drop some of those
00:17:23Walls because we all have walls
00:17:25In different ways
00:17:27You have a very positive and very sales like
00:17:29Way of showing the world that you're
00:17:31Okay but my sense
00:17:33Is that means that no one's ever really going to
00:17:35Get close to you
00:17:41Emma don't take this the wrong way
00:17:43Okay it's all love
00:17:45Have you ever heard of the term toxic positivity
00:17:47Yes I've been told I have it
00:17:49You're the first person to laugh
00:17:55What was most telling was
00:17:57Last night you had your husband
00:17:59Being emotional
00:18:01Telling you
00:18:03The moment that he felt
00:18:05Connected to you and I thought
00:18:07You know what Emma needs to learn
00:18:09She needs to learn to just sit
00:18:11In the emotion
00:18:13If you can go back and redo last night what would you do
00:18:15He's just
00:18:17Said that was a moment what could you do
00:18:19Say thank you
00:18:21I listen I hear
00:18:23No it's not funny
00:18:27What you could do is you could affirm him
00:18:29You could affirm that feeling
00:18:31I'm here with you right now
00:18:33I'm going to sit in this moment with you
00:18:35This is the work
00:18:37That you could do
00:18:39And it's going to make you better in all aspects of your life
00:18:41But if you want to grow
00:18:43You need to learn to sit and feel that emotion
00:18:45What I don't want
00:18:47Emma is for you to beat yourself up
00:18:49About being positive
00:18:51It's just recognising the times when
00:18:53Actually it's okay to be vulnerable
00:18:55And you'll still be loved in the same way
00:18:59Things are down to the wire now
00:19:01With the two of you
00:19:03It's make or break
00:19:05If you are to stay for another week together
00:19:07We're going to need to see some
00:19:09Real change from both of you
00:19:11Okay
00:19:13Kasper let's go to you
00:19:15What's your decision
00:19:19I thought long and hard about it
00:19:21It's not been easy
00:19:25But we're about halfway through
00:19:27This process
00:19:29I'm not happy
00:19:31And
00:19:33I decided that
00:19:35The best thing for me to do
00:19:37Would be to leave
00:19:41Okay
00:19:45And to you Emma
00:19:51I've been flitting between the two
00:19:53The last
00:19:55Three days
00:19:57We came to the dinner party last night
00:20:01And we had a nice night
00:20:03Up until the honesty box came out
00:20:07And I woke up this morning
00:20:09And again
00:20:11I wanted to ask you guys
00:20:13What I can do
00:20:15To improve
00:20:17And I want to give you the opportunity
00:20:19To show that I can change
00:20:21So it's stay
00:20:31Well as you both know
00:20:33If one partner says stay
00:20:35And the other says leave
00:20:37You will both stay for another week
00:20:39To continue to work on the relationship
00:20:45How does that sit with you Kasper
00:21:03You will both stay for another week
00:21:06To continue to work on the relationship
00:21:10How does that sit with you Kasper
00:21:22I always give everything 100%
00:21:24I work hard at everything I do
00:21:26And I will listen
00:21:28I will take feedback on board
00:21:32We need to see
00:21:34But the whole of Emma
00:21:36I hear you, I do
00:21:38Thank you
00:21:40Thank you
00:21:50Next up on the couch
00:21:52Ross and Sasha
00:22:00Welcome
00:22:02So can we talk about in-laws week
00:22:04How was it
00:22:06All I wanted to do was see my dad
00:22:08And just be like you're going to be so happy
00:22:10With who I've ended up with
00:22:12Like I feel like Ross is every dad's
00:22:14Dream partner for the daughter
00:22:16Obviously I want you to dream with him
00:22:18Then I'll be a fucking god
00:22:20You know
00:22:22I was like shitting my pants
00:22:24But yeah it was sweet
00:22:26It was good
00:22:28So then Ross how does it feel to have
00:22:30Oh it's an amazing feeling
00:22:32Because I know how close them two are
00:22:34And now we're married
00:22:36And it's my job to protect her now
00:22:38And I said everything that I need to say to her dad
00:22:40And it made him happy
00:22:42So yeah it felt amazing
00:22:44Ok this is good
00:22:46In-laws week was good
00:22:48So I'm curious though
00:22:50Is there anything that you reflected on
00:22:52That you'd like to now come and tell us
00:22:54I feel like Ross does so much for me
00:22:56Does all these little romantic things
00:22:58I would like to know
00:23:00What would give him butterflies
00:23:02When I ask him these things
00:23:04He's like oh you're doing great
00:23:06I'm happy
00:23:08It might just be because I meet his main needs
00:23:10Which are communication and support
00:23:12But what would like make him think
00:23:14Oh god that was lovely when Sasha did that
00:23:16Do you know what I mean
00:23:18Guess what
00:23:20You have the opportunity to ask him right now
00:23:22What could I do
00:23:24On a day
00:23:26To give you butterflies or make you happy
00:23:28What would I do
00:23:30If he didn't make me butterflies
00:23:32I actually don't know
00:23:34Because I'm already happy
00:23:36I have a thought here
00:23:38Part of what
00:23:40Ross is telling you
00:23:42Which is incredibly
00:23:44Romantic
00:23:46Is he saying Sasha you're enough
00:23:48She's enough man
00:23:50She's my fucking world
00:23:52What do you mean at the minute
00:23:54I'm out of my mind
00:23:56But no you can tell
00:23:58You can tell so you are enough
00:24:00Alright but I have no doubt
00:24:02That he feels love
00:24:04He has told me
00:24:08Ross
00:24:10You told Sasha you love her
00:24:12I did
00:24:14I did yeah
00:24:16I say out loud
00:24:18Say it out loud
00:24:20I love you
00:24:24I love you
00:24:26I love you too
00:24:28That's beautiful
00:24:30That's what we're here for
00:24:32I know it's been short but
00:24:34I just appreciate it so much
00:24:36So sweet
00:24:38Bless you now
00:24:42Can we go to a decision
00:24:44So we've got to that love mark now
00:24:46I was hoping I'd find it
00:24:48It's a bit mad that I actually have
00:24:50And I've got this
00:24:52I'm a good man
00:24:54And I'm really proud of us
00:24:56And yes so I said
00:24:58Stay
00:25:06When I first started I knew I was going to be the one
00:25:08This week
00:25:10The family has made us stronger
00:25:12I choose
00:25:14Stay
00:25:18Always
00:25:21Thank you
00:25:23Look forward to seeing you next week
00:25:25Thank you so much
00:25:41Next up to the couch
00:25:43Holly and Alex
00:25:51Hey guys
00:25:53Hi
00:25:55Lovely to see the two of you
00:25:57So it was quite a dramatic dinner party
00:25:59Last night
00:26:01I mean
00:26:03Coming into the dinner party we had a good week
00:26:05Prior to that
00:26:07Everything was sweet
00:26:09There wasn't any
00:26:11Incline in my mind that something was up
00:26:13With Holly
00:26:17Holly can you maybe see Alex's
00:26:19Fear that actually
00:26:21He goes into a dinner party
00:26:23And that it can feel quite blindsided
00:26:25By the fact that you're mentioning
00:26:27How you feel
00:26:29When he thinks that you're actually quite good
00:26:31For me
00:26:33In past relationships
00:26:35When there's been confrontation
00:26:37I've always felt more secure
00:26:39In an open environment
00:26:41When there's other people there
00:26:43Just because it makes me feel protected
00:26:45When me and Alex have had arguments before
00:26:47That's probably why I do bring things
00:26:49To the dinner party because I feel
00:26:51It's a safe space for me
00:26:53There's speaking in private
00:26:55And then there's the dinner party
00:26:57Where there's like 20 people
00:26:59Everybody's going to see us
00:27:01And then it's like oh
00:27:03They're having issues
00:27:05At the end of the day
00:27:07If I feel like I need to speak to my husband
00:27:09Then I should be able to do that
00:27:11Without there being a problem
00:27:13It doesn't matter what anybody else thinks
00:27:1520 people when we've been around
00:27:17Company
00:27:19Two, three people
00:27:21And even when we did come
00:27:23You came away from the 20 people
00:27:25So we were still alone in the end anyway
00:27:27So what do you make of that then?
00:27:29You want to show?
00:27:37You're letting it out at the most
00:27:39Embarrassing of times
00:27:41At dinner parties
00:27:45It's not adding up to me
00:27:47This is some bullshit
00:27:56I think because the two of you have
00:27:58Committed to working on
00:28:00Managing conflict
00:28:02I would definitely praise you Holly
00:28:04That you took on that advice
00:28:06You spoke in a calm manner
00:28:08But I think what happens sometimes in this dynamic
00:28:10Is that an argument that could
00:28:12Be squashed in five seconds
00:28:14Seems to escalate
00:28:16It's stupidness
00:28:18And we even spoke
00:28:20And I said I'm asking you to respect me
00:28:22And my decision
00:28:24That I don't want to speak right now
00:28:26But you pushed and pushed and pushed
00:28:28I heard Alex
00:28:30But for me I'm a panicker
00:28:32So instantly I was like
00:28:34I don't want to go to bed on an argument
00:28:36I just want to put it to bed
00:28:38And I want to sort it
00:28:40We have been really good Alex
00:28:42We've laughed, we've giggled
00:28:46Sometimes I want to be like
00:28:48Just give it up
00:28:50But I can't do that
00:28:52Because I know it will just go
00:28:54And I really don't want that
00:28:58Guys let's look at how we can move forward
00:29:00With this situation
00:29:02Something happens when
00:29:04Conflict arises
00:29:06It's how it's said
00:29:08It's all the other body language
00:29:10And it makes the other person feel like
00:29:12Oh my gosh we're going to go into combat here again
00:29:14There's a perception of me
00:29:16I can't help the way I look
00:29:18I can't help the way my face expression is
00:29:20You can't help your facial expression
00:29:22That's behaviour
00:29:24It's just my face
00:29:26It just does what it does
00:29:28Alex you do it
00:29:30Your brain controls your face
00:29:32And I do wonder if this could be one of the missing pieces for you
00:29:34Not being aware of the non-verbal communication
00:29:36That comes across
00:29:38If you disagree with something
00:29:40Even something we're saying
00:29:42Your face is all screwed up and you're looking angry
00:29:44And you're doing something with your chest
00:29:46You might not be aware of this
00:29:48But only 7% of your communication is the words
00:29:5093% comes across non-verbally
00:29:52And I think there could be something here for you
00:29:54In terms of just becoming a bit more aware of it
00:29:56And the impact on Holly
00:29:58Definitely
00:30:00I think I focus so much on the verbal communication
00:30:02Because look at me
00:30:04If I start raising my voice
00:30:06It automatically comes across
00:30:08Confrontational, aggressive, intimidating
00:30:10All this kind of stuff
00:30:12So I put such an emphasis on making sure I'm not raising my voice
00:30:14That maybe I'm not paying attention
00:30:16To the non-verbal communications
00:30:18That's growth what we're talking about there
00:30:20But you have to work on
00:30:22The conflict resolution
00:30:24Because I do feel like you guys have something good here
00:30:26If you can just work
00:30:28On the conflict
00:30:30So let's go to the decisions
00:30:33Holly
00:30:35If we can start with you
00:30:39I feel like since the last commitment ceremony
00:30:41We have worked on the boundaries
00:30:43So that is a really good start
00:30:45For me that's showing that we can do it
00:30:49For me it's about
00:30:51Learning to address things
00:30:53Because I know how when we argue
00:30:55It just goes
00:30:59But
00:31:01You make me feel beautiful everyday
00:31:03You make sure I'm always fed
00:31:05And watered
00:31:07You make me a brew every morning
00:31:09And they are the qualities
00:31:11That I love about you
00:31:13I have chose to stay
00:31:15Beautiful
00:31:21And over to you Alex
00:31:31When me and Holly are good
00:31:33We're very good
00:31:35I'm just
00:31:37Tired of
00:31:39Going over the same thing
00:31:45I've been blindsided so many times
00:31:47The trust isn't there for me
00:32:01I've been blindsided so many times
00:32:03The trust isn't there for me
00:32:11I'm tired of it
00:32:13Because it's just communication
00:32:15What if we can just
00:32:17Get this part right
00:32:19Then
00:32:21It'll be amazing
00:32:23When Holly's happy
00:32:25There's nobody I'd rather be around
00:32:27I'm having fun
00:32:29So
00:32:31For that reason
00:32:33I've chosen to stay
00:32:41If you guys can make this work
00:32:43Then I think this could be a beautiful relationship
00:32:45Genuinely
00:32:47Thank you guys
00:32:49Well done
00:32:51Thank you
00:32:59Okay next up to the couch
00:33:01We have Ryan and Shannon
00:33:09Hello
00:33:11Welcome
00:33:13Lovely to see the two of you together
00:33:15So you've had your wedding
00:33:17Tell me about your first impressions
00:33:19I'm a type 20
00:33:21The initial sexual attraction has to be there
00:33:23And obviously when I look at her
00:33:25It's obviously there
00:33:27Her personality's good
00:33:29She's got manners
00:33:31What more could I ask for
00:33:33What was your first impression when you met Ryan
00:33:35I thought he was a pretty boy
00:33:37Obviously he's ridiculously handsome
00:33:39I'm not used to having somebody that's so attractive
00:33:41So it has taken me a little bit
00:33:43To get used to
00:33:45I said to Shannon
00:33:47I will not get a wondering eye
00:33:49And that will be me
00:33:51I've only got eyes for her anyway
00:33:53And that's that
00:33:55I mean even just looking at the two of you here
00:33:57I feel like there's a real connection here
00:33:59Like the body language is really powerful
00:34:01You look super comfortable
00:34:03In each other's presence
00:34:05Would you say physical intimacy
00:34:07Is in the place that it needs to be
00:34:09What happens behind closed doors
00:34:11Will stay behind closed doors
00:34:13I love that as a response
00:34:15Obviously I'm trained in looking at body language
00:34:17So I'll just smile
00:34:19She knows
00:34:21And I know it's quite early on
00:34:23In the experiment for the two of you
00:34:25But what would you say
00:34:27Are maybe some of the bumps that you've
00:34:29Found that's happened in the relationship
00:34:31From my situation
00:34:33It's been perfect with Shannon
00:34:35And we have a lot to relate to as well
00:34:37Obviously I've had cancer twice
00:34:39Her dad passed away with cancer
00:34:41I've supported her on that
00:34:43It was on the honeymoon
00:34:45That I got pretty upset
00:34:47When I was bawling my eyes out
00:34:49And he gave me a space
00:34:51To feel comfortable opening up about it
00:34:53And being emotional
00:34:55I've never really been like that with anyone
00:34:57I think we proper bonded that night
00:34:59100%
00:35:01You guys have seen
00:35:03Some interesting things in life
00:35:05At quite a young age
00:35:07So maybe it's given you a different perspective
00:35:09But maybe helped you to also appreciate each other
00:35:12And have fun
00:35:14We have so much fun together
00:35:16Life's too short
00:35:18You're here once
00:35:20And I think I just want to be happy
00:35:22And enjoy my time
00:35:24And experience it with someone
00:35:26And I've got Shannon now
00:35:28And I hope this can continue
00:35:30I really love this connection
00:35:32So I'm really happy to see what's developing here
00:35:34Which is fabulous
00:35:36So now it's time for the decisions
00:35:38Shannon would you like to start
00:35:40I think it's very obvious
00:35:46Ryan what's your decision
00:35:48I've came here and to be honest
00:35:50I didn't think I'd get the person that I've got
00:35:52So
00:35:58Well Ryan and Shannon
00:36:00We hope that you go from strength to strength
00:36:02Thank you so much
00:36:10Next up
00:36:16Polly and Adam
00:36:22Hello you two
00:36:24Hello
00:36:26Couple dressing
00:36:28Yeah
00:36:30So last week on the couch here
00:36:32One of the big topics for you two was intimacy
00:36:34It was interesting to hear you Adam
00:36:36Announce to the group
00:36:38The two of you are now officially out of the friend zone
00:36:40Yeah
00:36:42Everyone got a little excited for me
00:36:44Yes we're fully supportive of the sex
00:36:46We certainly are
00:36:50I've realised I was being stubborn
00:36:52I was stuck on the type thing
00:36:54And I was probably giving Polly 70%
00:36:56Now I'm having little cuddles
00:36:58In bed, kisses
00:37:00And it feels like a relationship now doesn't it
00:37:02What's different for you this week
00:37:04I think because I felt like
00:37:06That spark missing
00:37:08I was just plodding along hoping it was going to come
00:37:10But because obviously we're not being intimate
00:37:12And kissing and cuddling and stuff
00:37:14That maybe would never come
00:37:16So I feel like now I'm giving it 100%
00:37:18And it don't feel like I'm living with my best friend
00:37:20Anymore
00:37:22Okay and how's it been for you Polly
00:37:24Really good
00:37:26Yeah I feel like I've got what I've needed from Adam
00:37:28So it sounds like you've made this
00:37:30Great leap from friends
00:37:32To sexual partners
00:37:34I'm interested in this bit in the middle
00:37:36The emotional intimacy
00:37:38And that connection that is beyond
00:37:40Friendship. Can you tell me a bit about how that's
00:37:42Developed
00:37:44I feel like because the intimacy side of it has now
00:37:46Come you are now more vulnerable
00:37:48With someone
00:37:50I do feel like it brought us closer
00:37:52So I feel like it's a good step
00:37:54In the right direction and I have realised
00:37:56That I was the problem because I wasn't
00:37:58Letting Polly in
00:38:00Polly if you were to be really
00:38:02Honest with yourself now
00:38:04What would you say you need from Adam
00:38:06Genuinely just more PDA
00:38:08To be
00:38:10Almost proud that he's with me
00:38:12And that he doesn't care and that he's secure enough in himself
00:38:14That it's not just for us
00:38:16Do you know what I mean
00:38:18Your sense of security
00:38:20And self esteem
00:38:22Is very much tied up in the way other people
00:38:24See the two of you as a couple
00:38:26So receiving PDA from your partner
00:38:28Does that help you to feel a bit more
00:38:30Secure in the relationship
00:38:32I would definitely say it's a sense of
00:38:34Security for me I think it's a sense of
00:38:36Reassurance for me as well
00:38:38Because I've always been made to feel so unsure
00:38:40So that comes from me
00:38:42What's missing
00:38:44Come and give me a kiss when I'm doing something
00:38:46Or be more touchy feely with me
00:38:48More compliments do you know what I mean
00:38:50Just more
00:38:52It's more of everything
00:38:54Adam you're sitting here nodding
00:38:56And agreeing
00:38:58Do you really understand what needs to change here
00:39:00I need to just give Polly more
00:39:02Even just the little things
00:39:04Because I know the little things mean a lot to Polly
00:39:06I could tell like how
00:39:08Polly's mood changed
00:39:10Just from having a little cuddle a little kiss
00:39:12This is so out of my comfort zone
00:39:14It's new
00:39:16It's completely new and I want to learn and I want to be better
00:39:18Good on you
00:39:20Alright you guys
00:39:22We're going to go to the decision
00:39:24Polly we'll start with you please
00:39:27We have had a really good week
00:39:29It has been really insightful and really helpful
00:39:31For both of us I think
00:39:33So I have chosen to stay
00:39:37Good stuff
00:39:39And to you Adam
00:39:41This has probably been the best week we've had
00:39:43I feel like we've got closer
00:39:45And I'm excited
00:39:47To see what happens from here so
00:39:51I'll put stay as well
00:39:53Alright you two
00:39:55We'll keep listening to each other
00:39:57Keep asking for what you need
00:39:59And keep doing the sex
00:40:01Cheers
00:40:09Next up
00:40:11Rochelle and Alston
00:40:13Here we go
00:40:21Hello guys
00:40:23So lovely to see the two of you
00:40:25Talk me through how your week
00:40:27Has been
00:40:29It's been a little bit up and down
00:40:31I would say
00:40:33We had our first argument
00:40:35Our argument stemmed from something
00:40:37That came out a couple of days after the wedding
00:40:39That he's an actor
00:40:41So are you playing a role here
00:40:43Are we here for different reasons
00:40:45And so I brought that up
00:40:47But I didn't really get anything back
00:40:49Now of course we know
00:40:51Alston isn't an actor
00:40:53That's a hobby
00:40:55He's an engineer
00:40:57But it feels like it kind of brought up
00:40:59Something in you around trust
00:41:01Oh yeah definitely
00:41:03But when I tried to address it
00:41:05Shut down
00:41:07So nothing progresses
00:41:09You know I have a question
00:41:11There was a comment that you made Rochelle
00:41:13Last night that's just been
00:41:15Weighing on you
00:41:17You were asked
00:41:19Is Orson the man that you need
00:41:21And do you remember you said
00:41:23No
00:41:25You essentially said he wasn't masculine enough
00:41:29I took it fucking personal
00:41:31I really did
00:41:33For a man that's pretty
00:41:35Cutthroat right
00:41:37A strong masculine man
00:41:39Is somebody who has his own mind
00:41:41Masculinity is leadership
00:41:43And I just don't feel that I'm getting
00:41:45That right now
00:41:47I'm not sure
00:41:49If I could trust Orson to lead me
00:41:53But is there space
00:41:55Within a relationship
00:41:57To have that discussion
00:41:59But I need to get some value too
00:42:01I need to learn something as well
00:42:03I've just been raising my child
00:42:05For the last 20 years
00:42:07I don't need to be another teacher and lead
00:42:09Can there be some balance here
00:42:13I'm not convinced we have a future
00:42:29I'm not convinced we have a future
00:42:35I'm not convinced we have a future
00:42:41Have you really not been able to learn
00:42:43Anything from Orson at all
00:42:47Orson can you answer that
00:42:49Because I actually can't think of anything
00:42:51It's your question
00:42:53I can't think of anything
00:42:57Orson what does it feel like to hear
00:42:59Rachelle say that she has learnt
00:43:01Nothing from you
00:43:03It doesn't feel good
00:43:07The switch for me
00:43:09If I'm being totally transparent
00:43:11And honest
00:43:13We decided to have a deep conversation
00:43:15Because we never had that
00:43:17Let's have a deep conversation
00:43:19And she said
00:43:21Orson you don't really stimulate me mentally
00:43:23So yeah
00:43:25It was a tough fucking week
00:43:27I can't lie
00:43:29If I'm being totally honest
00:43:31We switched off a little bit
00:43:33I didn't know that
00:43:35I mean this is the first I'm hearing
00:43:37That me saying that made him switch off
00:43:39I think you hadn't brought that up
00:43:43One thing that we're seeing
00:43:45I think tonight
00:43:47Is that the two of you
00:43:49Do need to communicate more clearly
00:43:51And openly with one another
00:43:53You ask your partner
00:43:55What are you feeling in this moment
00:43:57How can I help you
00:44:00Okay so let's go to decisions
00:44:02Should we start with Rachelle
00:44:04Okay
00:44:10I definitely
00:44:12Knew I was committing
00:44:14To the process
00:44:16We did speak about whether we should leave
00:44:18And Orson said that he would like
00:44:20To have the experts advice
00:44:22And he felt it was too soon
00:44:24So for that reason
00:44:26I wrote stay
00:44:30Orson
00:44:32What's your decision
00:44:36If I walked away
00:44:38From this experiment
00:44:40Not understanding
00:44:42Why we're clashing
00:44:44Can we resolve stuff
00:44:46I can't just leave until I know
00:44:48Otherwise I'd be doing myself an injustice
00:44:50So on that note
00:44:52I've decided to stay
00:44:54Yay
00:44:58Okay guys
00:45:00So another week of a lot more work
00:45:02A lot more openness
00:45:04And good effective communication
00:45:06Okay
00:45:08There's things that I like in Rachelle
00:45:10Hence the reason why I'm still standing here
00:45:12I think there's hope
00:45:14Because there's just something there
00:45:16Can we both
00:45:18Find that something
00:45:20I don't know
00:45:24I do feel a little bit
00:45:26Irritated with Orson
00:45:28He said he wanted to stay
00:45:30And then he gets on the sofa tonight
00:45:32And starts bringing up all this stuff
00:45:34That he'd never mentioned to me
00:45:36I stayed in the process
00:45:38When he knew I didn't want to
00:45:40And I sacrificed my daughter's birthday
00:45:42For that cretin
00:45:44So definitely gonna let him know how I feel
00:45:46Next up on the couch
00:45:48Kiran and Christina
00:45:50Yay
00:45:56How are you both?
00:45:58Brilliant
00:46:00Okay so it was in-laws week
00:46:02Who came to visit you?
00:46:04My mom came to visit me
00:46:06And my best friend came to visit me
00:46:08Alright now what did best friend have to say
00:46:10About our boy Kiran
00:46:12Oh she
00:46:14Absolutely loved him
00:46:16All she cared about
00:46:18Was just seeing me happy
00:46:20And she was like
00:46:22I haven't seen you this happy in so long
00:46:24This is good so
00:46:26What did mom think of
00:46:28Christina
00:46:30Oh my little mom loves Christina a bit
00:46:32She knew at the wedding that we were a really good match
00:46:34And she loved the energy at the wedding
00:46:36It was just nice for my mom to see that
00:46:38That had continued on throughout
00:46:40And yeah she's just really happy to see
00:46:42We're both really happy
00:46:44So every week getting better
00:46:46Okay
00:46:48How strong are your emotions
00:46:50Towards each other today
00:46:52Very strong
00:46:54I agree
00:46:56I care about Christina a lot
00:46:58And when she feels something I feel it as well
00:47:00And I feel in terms of emotion
00:47:02We both feel each other the same way
00:47:04I agree
00:47:06Alright this is good
00:47:08So you don't even need us anymore then
00:47:10No oh my god we want you all the time
00:47:12I appreciate that
00:47:14The only thing was that
00:47:16I'm very very
00:47:18Touchy feely
00:47:20All over
00:47:22But we literally haven't and I really hope you don't
00:47:24Mind me saying this
00:47:26But we literally haven't been able to kiss
00:47:28Or like properly be intimate
00:47:30Since the honeymoon
00:47:32I've got another head on me
00:47:34Lip like
00:47:36Why haven't we been able to
00:47:38But you've wanted to
00:47:40Oh my god
00:47:42Are you kidding me
00:47:44Oh god
00:47:46I'm sorry
00:47:48I've had to sneak off into the toilet
00:47:54Honestly I keep looking at it everyday
00:47:56I'm like right
00:47:58It's allowed to have a bit more
00:48:00Emotional
00:48:02Emotional connection
00:48:04Which has really benefited
00:48:06So it's been a bit of a blessing
00:48:09I love it
00:48:11You're the optimist
00:48:13Alright
00:48:15Can we go to a decision
00:48:17Kieran you go first
00:48:19Every week we get stronger and stronger
00:48:21And I'm really proud of
00:48:23Everything that we're doing together
00:48:25And I'm really excited to see
00:48:27What the next few weeks are gonna bring
00:48:29And you are incredible
00:48:31For that reason
00:48:33I have wrote steer
00:48:39This was a really easy one
00:48:41I'm really happy like with how far
00:48:43We've come
00:48:45And I am just looking forward
00:48:47To having more fun with you
00:48:49So I'm gonna stay
00:48:51Thank you
00:48:55Yeah this is really good
00:48:57We love the affection
00:48:59I love how you both look at each other
00:49:01In the eyes when you're referring to each other
00:49:03That's affirming your partner right there
00:49:05So continue to continue
00:49:07God you're telling me mate
00:49:09Thank you so much guys
00:49:11Thank you so much
00:49:19Love you darling
00:49:21Love you guys
00:49:25Next up to the couch
00:49:27Nathan and Lacey
00:49:33Hello
00:49:35Hello
00:49:37How has the last week been
00:49:39For the two of you
00:49:41It's been good
00:49:43Had Lacey's mum and sister around this week
00:49:45Put my foot in it a little bit
00:49:47With some banter
00:49:49I did say tread careful
00:49:51My mum and sister
00:49:53They're very sensitive
00:49:55And Nathan what did you say
00:49:57I do this thing with Lace where like
00:49:59If I cook or something I say
00:50:01Sorry about the presentation
00:50:03So I was like I can't eat this
00:50:05Bit like bottom bin in it
00:50:07And I left
00:50:09Didn't realise
00:50:11Lacey's mum couldn't take banter
00:50:13Even though you told me
00:50:15Because they're so similar
00:50:17With their mannerisms
00:50:19I thought I'll just drop it in there
00:50:21Emotions completely changed
00:50:23She did get upset
00:50:25Obviously it was literally the second time they've met
00:50:27Too much
00:50:29Maybe you didn't sort of read the room
00:50:31I thought fuck
00:50:33Because obviously their opinion means so much to me
00:50:35So I was a bit gutted
00:50:37And I did want the ground to swallow me up
00:50:39And I can see how much
00:50:41It meant to both of you
00:50:43To impress your family
00:50:45I said it was probably nerves
00:50:47And he was trying to humour you
00:50:49Because he was nervous
00:50:51I said he's not like that
00:50:53And they listened to me
00:50:55And I just loved the fact
00:50:57We're not going to judge him on this
00:50:59You can't
00:51:01Never again
00:51:03No one in that family
00:51:05It's alright
00:51:07Dodgy filter
00:51:11I think it's very clear to see
00:51:13That you guys are in a really good place
00:51:15And yesterday at the dinner party
00:51:17Nathan you said that you were falling for Lacey
00:51:19I definitely do
00:51:21Have a lot of love for Lacey
00:51:23And I definitely can see that growing
00:51:25Would you say
00:51:27That emotionally you're opening up more
00:51:29Yeah
00:51:31Speaking in front of loads of people
00:51:33Especially people that I knew and you don't necessarily know
00:51:35It was just a bit awkward
00:51:37But that's what she wanted
00:51:39Yeah he gave me exactly what I wanted to hear
00:51:41It's always such a pleasure to have the two of you
00:51:43Here on the couch
00:51:45Because you can really see the progress
00:51:47And dare I say the love developing
00:51:49Between the two of you
00:51:51Let's go to a decision
00:51:53So Nathan if we can start with you
00:51:55I'm thinking about myself
00:51:57Looking forward to what's more to come
00:51:59You know
00:52:01For that reason I'm going to stay
00:52:08And Lacey what's your decision
00:52:10Very happy
00:52:12I do feel like I found my person
00:52:14So I say stay baby
00:52:22Can't wait to see how you guys develop
00:52:25So good luck
00:52:35Love you too
00:52:39And last up on the couch
00:52:41We have Hannah and Steven
00:52:49Hey guys
00:52:51Gonna be explosive
00:52:53Welcome
00:52:55Okay so
00:52:57This body language right here
00:52:59This is incredibly frosty
00:53:01I mean you can't sit further apart
00:53:03So
00:53:05Where did it go wrong
00:53:07He needs to answer that
00:53:09The first couple of days
00:53:11On the honeymoon were great
00:53:15And then we had
00:53:17A massive blow up
00:53:19Because I just spoke my truth
00:53:21It was the Hannah show
00:53:25And then during the argument
00:53:27Hannah was going to use something
00:53:29Against me that I told her in confidence
00:53:31Which was really close to my heart
00:53:33Which I still won't go into
00:53:35Because it's so personal
00:53:37Hannah shouted back at me saying
00:53:39I thought we weren't going to talk about things
00:53:41That we spoke about behind closed doors
00:53:43So if you want to talk about things
00:53:45That have been said in confidence
00:53:47Why don't we
00:53:49Even though she said she wasn't going to use it
00:53:51What she was going to say
00:53:53Isn't fucking ammunition
00:53:55I didn't say it
00:53:57I wasn't going to say it
00:53:59I was never going to say it
00:54:01You don't believe me
00:54:03Even that thought
00:54:05Coming to your head to use
00:54:07I didn't
00:54:09I came in to be brutally honest
00:54:11I'm full of resentment
00:54:13Which is a very strong word
00:54:15So just so we're all clear
00:54:17Hannah used something in confidence
00:54:19And you feel as if she used it
00:54:21As ammunition against you
00:54:23And I've tried forgetting about it
00:54:25But every time
00:54:27In the back of my head
00:54:29I can't get my head around someone
00:54:31Even though you said you weren't
00:54:33But it's what I'm feeling
00:54:35And it's what I think you were going to do
00:54:37And it's really hard to get past that
00:54:39I would never do that to you
00:54:41I would never do that to a human being
00:54:43But you don't believe me
00:54:45Okay
00:54:47I think this is a great opportunity
00:54:49To apologize to him
00:54:51I'm so sorry
00:54:53And I genuinely was never
00:54:55Going to and you don't believe me
00:54:57But I was never and I never will
00:54:59I never would
00:55:01Whether you're my partner
00:55:03Whether you're my husband
00:55:05Whether you're whatever
00:55:07You're a person in my life
00:55:09And I would never ever ever
00:55:11Disrespect someone like that
00:55:13Can you accept
00:55:15Hannah's apology?
00:55:30No
00:55:44Can you accept
00:55:46Hannah's apology?
00:55:54No
00:56:02It cut deep
00:56:04And it still does
00:56:06Okay
00:56:08And what seems to be very apparent
00:56:10Is this threatened secret
00:56:12I don't think I even threatened it
00:56:14I just felt like I was being attacked
00:56:16And I needed to protect myself
00:56:18Even though you're saying your intention
00:56:20Was never to reveal the secret
00:56:22You've damaged the trust there
00:56:24Can you see that?
00:56:26Yeah
00:56:28Trust can be built back
00:56:30But it takes a hell of a lot of effort
00:56:32To build it back
00:56:34Hannah, is that something
00:56:36That you're willing to put in?
00:56:42I don't see the point anymore
00:56:46It's dead, isn't it?
00:56:50So let me ask this
00:56:52Why are you still here?
00:56:54You came here to sit here
00:56:56What can we help you with?
00:56:58I don't know what you can do
00:57:00I genuinely don't know
00:57:02Why did you come here in the first place?
00:57:04Why did you enter this experiment?
00:57:06To meet my person
00:57:08This is my genuine last ditch attempt
00:57:10To find my person
00:57:12Okay
00:57:14What has happened
00:57:16Clearly has derailed
00:57:18This relationship
00:57:20But what you have to remember
00:57:22Is how you felt
00:57:24Walking into the experiment
00:57:26And the work that it requires you
00:57:28Is to step outside of your ego
00:57:30And say, you know what?
00:57:32I'm going to step out
00:57:34On faith
00:57:36I'm going to step out on vulnerability
00:57:38I'm going to step out on work
00:57:40But the question is
00:57:42Are you going to do it?
00:57:48We'll go to the decision, okay?
00:57:54Hannah, if you can go first
00:57:58Okay, I'm going to take a risk
00:58:00I've got feelings for you
00:58:02I don't want to quit on the first week
00:58:04And I want to stay
00:58:08Okay
00:58:18I've been tossing and turning
00:58:20Over this completely
00:58:24As soon as you lose
00:58:26Trust in someone
00:58:28I've never had that in a relationship
00:58:30And it's hit me harder than I thought it actually would
00:58:34And I can't sit here and say
00:58:36I'm going to stay
00:58:38So I've put me
00:58:44You know the rules, okay?
00:58:46When one partner
00:58:48Writes stay
00:58:50You stay and you continue to work
00:58:52On your relationship
00:58:54So you'll be here for another week
00:58:56I know what I've signed up for
00:58:58Will you work
00:59:00On your marriage?
00:59:02I'll try my best
00:59:04Okay
00:59:06That's fair
00:59:08Alright, thank you both
00:59:16Genuinely no idea
00:59:18What it'll take for her to win me back
00:59:20But I knew I signed up to
00:59:22In this process
00:59:24And she's my wife
00:59:26So I'll give it a go
00:59:30It's shit for someone to sit there and say
00:59:32I'm sorry for this one mistake you made
00:59:34And I resent you for it
00:59:36I massively regret that this all has stemmed
00:59:38From that one comment
00:59:40If I could take it back I would
00:59:42I've tried every single day to make this work
00:59:44Why can't we just start fresh
00:59:46Build a friendship and see how we go
00:59:48Because I feel like that's what a lot of people here have done
00:59:50I signed up to this experiment
00:59:52To find a husband, to fall in love
00:59:54So I'm not going to give up at the first hurdle
00:59:56I'm not a quitter
00:59:58It's on him, the ball's in his court
01:00:02What the...
01:00:04The couples head off to a country retreat
01:00:06This is nice
01:00:08We're claiming this room
01:00:10While it marks a fresh start for Emma and Casper
01:00:12I actually don't know how to
01:00:14Accept showing my vulnerable side
01:00:16The fact you're questioning something and going
01:00:18I need to change something about myself
01:00:20That's showing vulnerability, that's progress
01:00:22Could it spell the end for Richelle and Orson
01:00:24It's fine for you to say you bore me
01:00:26Is it fine for you to lie
01:00:28You're a fraud and I've seen through you
01:00:30And group gossip about new bride Hannah
01:00:32After the commitment ceremony
01:00:34When Stephen was walking towards her
01:00:36She said to Orson, hold my hand, make him jealous
01:00:38Puts her firmly in the firing line
01:00:40With husband Stephen
01:00:42Your behaviour after has been terrible
01:00:44So I can't even have banter and try and make friends while I'm here
01:00:46I'm out
01:00:48I'm getting so sick of people throwing me under the bus
01:00:50Get me off this fucking TV show
01:01:00Get me off this fucking TV show
01:01:02Get me off this fucking TV show
01:01:04Get me off this fucking TV show
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01:01:26Get me off this fucking TV show