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00:00:00Previously on, Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03You have to try to do your best, be a good husband.
00:00:06Don't hide anything from each other.
00:00:09I really want to tell Matilda tonight about postponing the marriage.
00:00:13But right now, the courage is kind of leaving me here.
00:00:17Can I get some kiss?
00:00:19Me and Niles are not going to have sex until we get married.
00:00:23But I don't think I can keep my hands off him.
00:00:27I don't know.
00:00:31It's not just my story. He sold drugs.
00:00:34I didn't tell a good story, a comeback story.
00:00:39I feel like it's my reason to help people.
00:00:44It's been very difficult to deal with his past.
00:00:48But now I see him differently.
00:00:50And maybe our relationship can survive.
00:00:55Just got back from the clinic.
00:00:57I do have gonorrhea.
00:00:59I need to take pills for the next week.
00:01:01Faith needs some space. She doesn't want to see me right now.
00:01:04What are you going to do?
00:01:06I don't know.
00:01:08The only thing I care about now is getting back to Faith.
00:01:11I just hope she gives me a second chance.
00:01:14Whenever you shake another girl's hand in front of me, I'm not allowed to.
00:01:18You are next to me. I am not alone.
00:01:21I'm not shaking Shay's hand. It's a complete double standard.
00:01:25You make me so angry and so stressful.
00:01:28I'm not going to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't respect me.
00:01:33Where are you going?
00:01:35She's pissed.
00:01:37Why do you look so angry?
00:01:40I've been getting like a real dark energy off Victoria.
00:01:44My gut is never wrong.
00:01:46Never wrong?
00:01:48I was just wondering if you would feel comfortable to like stay in a hotel room with me?
00:01:53I live in a society where there are norms.
00:01:56Hey! You care more what people and your family think versus us.
00:02:01It's all about belief.
00:02:03I'm far beyond your little beliefs.
00:02:19Petra, it's so beautiful.
00:02:25It was built thousands of years ago.
00:02:30They say,
00:02:36And they called her
00:02:41Because everything pink.
00:02:43It's a pink mountain.
00:02:46I take Tiger Lily to a beautiful place.
00:02:49I feel like I am a best husband when I do these things to her.
00:02:57Where are you going?
00:02:59But my wife is so upset, so mad.
00:03:03Tiger Lily, where?
00:03:05She's really mad like for real.
00:03:06Yeah, she's pissed.
00:03:16I need to talk to you.
00:03:20What problem is Adnan?
00:03:23I've just been like working really hard to make sure that I'm doing things to make him happy.
00:03:31Yeah.
00:03:32And always thinking about him.
00:03:38Don't cry, please.
00:03:39Please, Tiger Lily.
00:03:40Don't cry, please.
00:03:42You're welcome.
00:03:48I don't know if he thinks that he has different rules than me.
00:03:51If he can do that.
00:04:04I've been trying really hard to follow all of Adnan's rules.
00:04:08I've been completely open to changing my entire life.
00:04:12But he just thinks that the rules don't apply to him.
00:04:17If he's not following them, I'm not going to follow them.
00:04:25No.
00:04:26Maybe.
00:04:28Don't change my mood now.
00:04:29Please.
00:04:30So do you want me to pretend then?
00:04:32Do you want me to pretend like it's okay?
00:04:34No, no, no.
00:04:35And then just go with it?
00:04:37But I don't.
00:04:39I don't know.
00:04:45But do you see how it's like hypocritical?
00:04:47Like for me, you're telling me things and then like you do it?
00:05:01I do.
00:05:03Yeah?
00:05:05It doesn't mean I'm happy.
00:05:06It doesn't mean that I want to go have fun.
00:05:08But of course, if you apologize, then I'll accept your apology.
00:05:23Can you give me just one hug now?
00:05:25Just one?
00:05:26For Adnan, for your love, for your husband.
00:05:28A hug, yes, of course.
00:05:29You can have a hug.
00:05:31What does that say?
00:05:34Okay.
00:05:38I have accepted Adnan's apology to get through the day.
00:05:43But this conversation is definitely not over.
00:05:52I am Adnan's first relationship.
00:05:54And it's obvious that he's not used to having a woman call him out on his behavior.
00:06:00But I'm not the type of woman that is just going to let it go.
00:06:05Let's continue to see Petra.
00:06:10It's an amazing view.
00:06:15Wow.
00:06:19I like babes when I'm walking with you and hold your hand.
00:06:24I've been going to this place all my life because I've been going there with my wife.
00:06:29And I have a wife now.
00:06:34Oh, my goodness.
00:06:38Oh, wow.
00:06:41Oh, it's amazing.
00:06:45Baby.
00:06:49It's amazing.
00:06:53Oh, my God.
00:06:56Petra is gorgeous.
00:06:58It feels so special to be here with my husband.
00:07:01Just looking at all these beautiful things.
00:07:07It's so cute.
00:07:09We can ride the camel.
00:07:10Okay.
00:07:16You good?
00:07:20He has long eyelashes like me.
00:07:23Lashes like you?
00:07:24Yeah.
00:07:25All right.
00:07:28Even though we have some things that we need to work on,
00:07:32I can tell that he really loves me and cares about me.
00:07:38He's my husband, and that's what matters.
00:07:42How's it feeling, baby? Are you happy now?
00:07:44Yeah.
00:07:46Hey.
00:07:49I'm taken back a little bit.
00:07:51Earlier, she was, like, really standing up for herself.
00:07:55But then they just put a pin in it, and they're gonna swoop it underneath the rug.
00:08:01They're happy now, but I feel that it will be difficult for them to kind of figure out all these cultural differences.
00:08:10Especially whenever she goes back to the States and he stays in Jordan.
00:08:14I feel like the newness is gonna wear off, and the fairytale ends, and what is that going to look like?
00:08:21I love you. I love you in the camel.
00:08:25I love you everywhere.
00:08:45Oh, shoot. My toothbrush.
00:08:50Yesterday, I reached a breaking point with Victoria.
00:08:54I'm done with her constant judgment.
00:08:58So I asked Chitty to move to a hotel with me, but I never got a real answer.
00:09:05He says he loves me, but now it's time to prove it.
00:09:08What's going on?
00:09:11Um, I'm packing a little.
00:09:14Packing?
00:09:15Yes.
00:09:17The offer still stands if you want to go hang out at the hotel.
00:09:23I think I need to stay a little longer.
00:09:26Yeah.
00:09:28I think I need to stay a little longer.
00:09:30Yeah.
00:09:32I think I need to stay a little longer.
00:09:35Yeah.
00:09:37I think I need to sleep a little more.
00:09:40Because I need to get on myself and make arrangements.
00:09:45I need to put some things...
00:09:46What arrangements do you have to do?
00:09:47Yeah, I need to put some things together.
00:09:49Like what?
00:09:51Um, the clothes, and even the money for the hotel.
00:09:55You act like you have a whole wardrobe. You got like three pairs of panties, two pairs of socks, and a couple t-shirts. Like, what do you want?
00:10:01What do you want?
00:10:03When you sit there and say you have to prepare, it's actually some bull****.
00:10:06That's quite humiliating, actually, that you'd use that excuse that you have to prepare. That's quite pathetic.
00:10:14I don't know what to tell Renee right now.
00:10:17I tried explaining things to her about my vow, and that I need to avoid temptations.
00:10:24And I don't want to argue with her again about my faith.
00:10:29Unfortunately, she's the type that doesn't hear people out.
00:10:42That's messed up. So it's like I'm dating three people.
00:10:49Do you really want to lose me forever?
00:10:51Lose you?
00:10:52Yep, forever.
00:10:54By playing these little games, Chitty, I'm looking for a man. I'm looking for a man that can make his own decisions and move on.
00:10:58Do you realize if you had already given me everything that I wanted, I would have dropped everything in my existence for you.
00:11:04But nothing was ever enough. You still got to ask mommy and daddy in the next room, okay?
00:11:10That's not enough.
00:11:11Okay, you're moving out.
00:11:16How is it going to help our relationship?
00:11:19Being here with you and your family like this is not going to help our relationship at all.
00:11:24I feel like an intruder.
00:11:27One, an intruder in your pants, and two, an intruder in the house. Okay?
00:11:37Okay, you know what? Babe, I don't want you to leave.
00:11:41Well, it doesn't matter about what you want. Like I said, it's all about action.
00:11:45When you refuse to be with me in a certain location, I'm done.
00:11:49We can't even be in the same room, okay?
00:11:51Make sure sister won't go over there and check on me either.
00:11:55But my sister has not been intruding in our affair.
00:11:57You enjoy the fact that she's checking on you and making sure...
00:11:59She's my sister. She has the right to check up on me.
00:12:02I don't care what...
00:12:03She made everything comfortable for us.
00:12:04Okay, okay.
00:12:05All the time she comes to Greg, to mom's room and...
00:12:08You can think whatever the heck you want. Put it in your head, okay?
00:12:12She's an intruder, okay? Play with yourself.
00:12:16I don't know why Chitty can't see the truth about his sister.
00:12:19She's controlling Chitty. That's why she's always checking on him.
00:12:23And I'm the bad guy for trying to break him free?
00:12:26Bulls***.
00:12:30Hello, Rinda.
00:12:31I didn't know you were there. Sorry.
00:12:32I've been here.
00:12:33You understand? I've been listening to your conversation.
00:12:36How do you resolve this?
00:12:37I'm not going to resolve it. I've tried.
00:12:40I want to make something clear to you now.
00:12:42Huh?
00:12:44It's not a matter of the discord you had with my sister.
00:12:46Remember before you're coming, you already told me that you can't cope with her.
00:12:49There's a reason. There's a reason for that.
00:12:50Right.
00:12:51Because look what happened.
00:12:52Someone you've not known for the first time.
00:12:53There's a reason.
00:12:54All the way from the US, you told me that you can't cope with her.
00:12:56I can't cope with sisters.
00:12:57I always felt deep down.
00:12:58You said you can't...
00:12:59There was a reason.
00:13:00You see now?
00:13:01Let's see what happened.
00:13:02You said you can't cope with sisters.
00:13:04Shut up, Chitty.
00:13:06Oh, gosh.
00:13:08I am deeply horrified by the way Renae is acting towards me
00:13:13when I and my family have done nothing to her.
00:13:17I am beginning to believe that Renae's problem with my sister
00:13:21has nothing to do with my sister, nor anyone else.
00:13:24This problem is deeply rooted in her.
00:13:29You know something, Renae?
00:13:30I understand you need some space with Ben.
00:13:34No, did you not just see how he yelled at me?
00:13:36I'm done with him.
00:13:37When he said he would stick up for me,
00:13:39like I said, even if it's family,
00:13:41you need to tell them when they're wrong.
00:13:43You know what?
00:13:44Obviously, now he feels...
00:13:46Okay, now it's a middle thing.
00:13:47Now it's a middle thing.
00:13:49You took everything out of hand.
00:13:50It's the way you talked to him.
00:13:52It's the way you curse him.
00:13:53Why are you inviting me?
00:13:54It's the way you yell at him.
00:13:55Why did you invite me if you hate me?
00:13:58Why did you get on the phone?
00:13:59You know that I do not love...
00:14:01I love you.
00:14:02Come over.
00:14:03We want you.
00:14:05I don't like you because you do this and that.
00:14:07Okay, I'm done.
00:14:13You know what? That's what I'm saying.
00:14:14The fact that I'm delusional after all this...
00:14:17Okay, okay.
00:14:18If you can't see that I...
00:14:25I'm super confident in every aspect of my life,
00:14:28but when it comes to relationships,
00:14:30it's been a...show.
00:14:35I'm in jail.
00:14:36But now I am going to Croatia to meet Bozo.
00:14:40I'm excited for you,
00:14:41but you don't even know anything about this other woman.
00:14:48I'm happy that very soon
00:14:50I'll get married to the man I love.
00:14:53There's a lot of people coming.
00:14:55It's more than 200 people.
00:14:58I don't want to get married right this instant,
00:15:00but I think we're past the point of snowballing here.
00:15:03At this point, it's turning into an avalanche.
00:15:06Matilda, I have a confession to make.
00:15:33Babe?
00:15:35Babe?
00:15:36What's up?
00:15:37Are you okay?
00:15:39Yeah.
00:15:41Okay.
00:15:43I think that's your first time eating the fufu?
00:15:50I'm waiting for you, okay?
00:15:51Okay.
00:15:52Love you.
00:15:53Okay.
00:15:55Yesterday, after a year of waiting,
00:15:58Nas has finally come to Ghana
00:16:00so that we can meet for the first time.
00:16:03And I'm very happy
00:16:05that finally I have the man I love.
00:16:08But the first night didn't go as I hoped.
00:16:16American food and real food,
00:16:18obviously I'm finding out it's two totally different things.
00:16:25You dug me yesterday.
00:16:27Say again?
00:16:28You dug me.
00:16:29I wanted to have sex with you, but you refused.
00:16:36So no sex last night?
00:16:37Almost, but ultimately no.
00:16:41What is almost?
00:16:45We had started getting our clothes off.
00:16:47I can see Matilda was displeased by the fact that
00:16:51I stopped us before things got too hot and heavy.
00:16:55But when push came to shove,
00:16:57somebody had to be responsible.
00:17:00It was about to get heated.
00:17:02Really, really heated.
00:17:06Let's say I didn't keep a cooler head.
00:17:09Cooler head. I really...
00:17:12Head.
00:17:13I'm going to use a different word than head, okay?
00:17:18Matilda, I have a confession to make.
00:17:21I've made mistakes in the past in relationships.
00:17:25And your ex-girlfriend?
00:17:28Yes, we did have sex as soon as we could.
00:17:31And then she kept wanting more of my attention and more.
00:17:35She got very possessive of me.
00:17:39I've only had one serious relationship before Matilda.
00:17:43And, you know...
00:17:46Dad, Mom, Dad, please cover your ears.
00:17:49Can we put that part in before we start talking about this?
00:17:52Okay.
00:17:53With my ex-girlfriend, the sexual aspect became
00:17:56the only aspect of our relationship after a while.
00:17:59And, again, I'm only human.
00:18:02No, I cannot go six rounds every single day.
00:18:06We are not designed...
00:18:07I don't think we men are designed to do that.
00:18:11We're designed to do that maybe twice a week.
00:18:14With Matilda, there's more to her than just sexually.
00:18:18I do want to spend the rest of my life with her.
00:18:21And our life is not going to be all 100% in the bedroom.
00:18:29With my ex, we jumped into the sex too early.
00:18:33It can change you, you know?
00:18:41That would probably be best.
00:18:52And I'll say, okay, let me actually stop and think about this.
00:18:56Okay.
00:18:57I do know one thing.
00:18:58What?
00:18:59I love you.
00:19:02I love you more.
00:19:09Oh, my God.
00:19:10You've got a beautiful country, I have to say.
00:19:13Ladies first, right?
00:19:15Yes, that.
00:19:16Thank you, Daddy.
00:19:18You're very welcome, Mommy.
00:19:22This morning, Hayford is heading back to Comasi,
00:19:25giving me and Matilda some alone time in Accra.
00:19:28And we're just going to explore, roam around,
00:19:32get to really know each other.
00:19:35I love you.
00:19:36I love you more.
00:19:38I'm glad that Matilda agreed to wait until marriage to have sex.
00:19:42Now, the question is, how difficult does this become for her
00:19:47when she realizes that I don't want to get married right this instant?
00:19:51What is that?
00:19:53Sea urchin.
00:19:54Poisonous.
00:19:55That's poisonous.
00:19:57It's not poisonous.
00:19:58Yes, it is.
00:19:59No, it's not poisonous.
00:20:00Yes, they are.
00:20:01Please listen to me.
00:20:05No, no, no.
00:20:08No.
00:20:09Look, look.
00:20:10I'm going to put it in the sea, all right?
00:20:12It's really soft.
00:20:14It's really, really soft.
00:20:17You're beautiful, don't you see it?
00:20:19Yeah, I do.
00:20:21Maybe it's not poisonous,
00:20:23but I don't want my head to swell up to the size of my head
00:20:27for me to find out whether it was or wasn't.
00:20:30Nothing will happen to you.
00:20:31You're like a man.
00:20:32Yes, I am a man, but that doesn't mean I have to be stupid.
00:20:37Let's not disturb that, all right?
00:20:41I believe that you don't have to take unnecessary risks to be a man.
00:20:46Be very, very careful here.
00:20:48I'm fine.
00:20:53I'm happy that very soon I'll get married to the man I love.
00:20:58Right?
00:20:59That's right.
00:21:00There's a lot of people coming.
00:21:02It's more than 200 people over there.
00:21:05It's a whole lot.
00:21:08My mom's family, friends, pastors,
00:21:12they are coming to our wedding.
00:21:15Tell me, what exactly is the marriage process over here?
00:21:19The first thing you have to do is the knocking ceremony.
00:21:23The knocking?
00:21:24Uh-huh.
00:21:25You have to come with your people
00:21:28and seek permission from my family, right?
00:21:32Right.
00:21:33And after that, the traditional marriage.
00:21:36In Ghana, we have knocking ceremony
00:21:39before two people can get married.
00:21:42The groom knocks at the bride's door
00:21:45to seek permission to get married to her.
00:21:48And the family of the bride
00:21:51gave a list of items for the groom to bring
00:21:56on the day of the traditional marriage.
00:21:59So how much is the bride price?
00:22:02What part of that is the bride price?
00:22:04Right now, baby, I don't know.
00:22:06But don't worry.
00:22:08I've told my mom and my uncle to do that.
00:22:10After we get to Kumasi, you will know, okay?
00:22:13Interesting. Okay.
00:22:14Uh-huh.
00:22:16I'm going to dance that day.
00:22:18Because I'm getting married.
00:22:19So I will dance.
00:22:20Of course.
00:22:21For my friends to see that.
00:22:22Right now, I'm out of market.
00:22:25And now, Daniel Valentine is now my husband.
00:22:29Right?
00:22:30Right.
00:22:32As Matilda's explaining the knocking ceremony
00:22:35and that there are 200 people plus
00:22:38showing up for the wedding,
00:22:39I think we're past the point of snowballing here.
00:22:41At this point, it's turning into an avalanche.
00:22:46The kind that swallows all of the skiers up
00:22:50and there's no survivors.
00:22:52It's going to be really hard to cancel that.
00:22:55I don't know.
00:22:57I just honestly don't know.
00:22:58I don't know how I'm going to navigate this.
00:23:10I missed you.
00:23:37My name is Vanya.
00:23:38I'm 41 years old.
00:23:39And I'm from Orlando, Florida.
00:23:45I love dressing up in beautiful costumes
00:23:47and wearing sparkles and glitter and heels.
00:23:51So that's the reason why I love belly dancing.
00:23:55I just find it absolutely exhilarating.
00:23:58It makes me feel full of life, full of energy.
00:24:04I really love expanding myself
00:24:06and pushing myself to achieve and learn new things.
00:24:09Like, I was at a festival on a beach
00:24:11and I saw a guy blowing fire.
00:24:14And I go, ooh, I want to do that.
00:24:17And then I talked to him.
00:24:18We stayed in the parking lot until midnight
00:24:20until I was brave enough to swallow some fire.
00:24:24So this is kind of how I live my life.
00:24:32At first, I thought belly dancing was going to be just a hobby.
00:24:35But for me, nothing really stays a hobby for that long.
00:24:43It's 6 p.m.
00:24:44Will that work?
00:24:46Okay, awesome.
00:24:47All right, just make sure no alcohol,
00:24:49no caffeine on the day off.
00:24:52Perfect.
00:24:53I have four careers.
00:24:55In addition to dancing,
00:24:57I'm a professional permanent makeup artist.
00:24:59I'm a vegan baker.
00:25:01And I'm a medical sales rep.
00:25:05I'm definitely a Taipei personality.
00:25:07Jill of all traits.
00:25:10It's a lot of work.
00:25:11Work never stops.
00:25:13I work day and night, but I don't mind it.
00:25:16I have my own house, my own car.
00:25:18I'm super confident in every aspect of my life.
00:25:22But when it comes to dating and relationships,
00:25:24it's been a s*** show.
00:25:27Eleven years ago, I met the man
00:25:29I thought I would spend the rest of my life with.
00:25:32We actually got engaged on the Great Wall in China.
00:25:35That was cool.
00:25:37But we started having some arguments,
00:25:39and I couldn't really figure out what was going on.
00:25:43And then one day, I came over to his house,
00:25:45and I caught him making out with a girl on a couch.
00:25:49It was like a scene from a movie,
00:25:51playing in slow motion.
00:25:52It was really bad.
00:25:54I figured out that the whole relationship was a lie.
00:25:57He literally led a double life.
00:26:00So that came as a complete shock.
00:26:02And it has been super hard to bounce back.
00:26:06There we go. That's a lot better.
00:26:09I'm originally from Bosnia in Eastern Europe.
00:26:12So eight months ago, I took a solo trip back home
00:26:15to reconnect with my culture, my country, my people,
00:26:20and get my groove back.
00:26:22I went to Serbia, Bosnia, Slovenia, and Croatia.
00:26:26I just went to a lot of different cities
00:26:28that I've never been to before,
00:26:29and I ended up in Split.
00:26:31I got to spend one night there.
00:26:33It was late night, I was bored,
00:26:34and I was swiping through a dating app.
00:26:37And it was like, whoa!
00:26:39Oh, my God.
00:26:40Absolute perfection.
00:26:43His name is Bozo.
00:26:45He's a basketball player who's very successful.
00:26:48I've never dated an athlete before,
00:26:50and he's very hot.
00:26:52Like, really hot.
00:26:54He has a six-pack that I want to warstow.
00:26:57He has a six-pack that I want to wash some laundry on.
00:27:04It was an immediate swipe right.
00:27:07And then he didn't respond until I already left the city.
00:27:10It was already time for me to go back home.
00:27:13But we started talking, and it just continued over time.
00:27:18And every time I hear that ding on the phone from him,
00:27:21I go like, ooh, butterflies.
00:27:23What does he have to say right now?
00:27:25Can't wait.
00:27:28I like the nice, clean-shaven look.
00:27:30You had scruffy a few days ago.
00:27:41We talk all the time.
00:27:43And Bozo has a super fun and interesting sense of humor.
00:27:48I really love that he makes me laugh.
00:27:50That has been such a pleasant change
00:27:52from other men that I've dated in the past.
00:27:57And everything you do is so lovable.
00:28:00Amazing.
00:28:01I'm dying.
00:28:02Now I am going to Croatia to meet him for the first time.
00:28:06And I'm really looking forward to see where this can go
00:28:09once we're together in real life.
00:28:15Ah!
00:28:16There she is!
00:28:17Oh, hey!
00:28:18Oh, my God!
00:28:19Oh, my goodness.
00:28:22Fabiana is a very good friend of mine.
00:28:24We've known each other for 17 years at this point.
00:28:26Yay!
00:28:27I'm so glad you came.
00:28:28You're always in heels.
00:28:29I am.
00:28:30Always in heels.
00:28:31I don't think these count as heels.
00:28:33These are wedges.
00:28:35Yes, yes.
00:28:37Vanya is amazing.
00:28:39But she's been through a lot in her past relationships.
00:28:43I have, you know, held her crying, sobbing,
00:28:47you know, running mascara, ugly cry self for many years.
00:28:51My hope is that, you know, more days smiling,
00:28:55fewer days crying.
00:28:58So you were dancing last night.
00:28:59How are you feeling right now?
00:29:01A little dehydrated.
00:29:02You know, the schedule never stops, so...
00:29:05You're saying this like you don't make your own schedule.
00:29:08I am my own worst enemy.
00:29:10This is true.
00:29:12Oh, look at this.
00:29:13Nuts.
00:29:14Maybe.
00:29:15Good, how are you?
00:29:16Yes.
00:29:19So are you excited?
00:29:20You're finally going to see this guy.
00:29:21I can't believe it's finally happening.
00:29:23It's only been eight months in the making, so...
00:29:27Well, I'm excited for you.
00:29:28Yeah.
00:29:29I'm excited for you to, you know, actually be able to see,
00:29:32touch, feel.
00:29:34Right.
00:29:35But I just want to make sure that you really, you know,
00:29:37evaluated every side of this because, you know,
00:29:41it's not like it's been smooth sailing with this guy.
00:29:45Like, you already know that he's capable of hurting you
00:29:48because he already has hurt you.
00:29:52A few months into the relationship,
00:29:54I was planning my trip to go visit him in Croatia,
00:29:57and then all of a sudden,
00:29:59I noticed Bozo was acting a little strange,
00:30:01not picking up the phones, not being as communicative.
00:30:04And then I get a phone call from Bozo,
00:30:07and he just says,
00:30:08Vanya, I can't see you anymore.
00:30:10I'm seeing somebody here.
00:30:12Sorry.
00:30:14And that was it.
00:30:16This was a man that I cared so much about.
00:30:20I'm planning this entire future out with him,
00:30:23and it's just, it's devastating.
00:30:28Yes, that was a horrible thing.
00:30:30But the way that I look at that is,
00:30:33A, he was honest, he told me.
00:30:35And then he obviously woke up and saw
00:30:38that he missed out on something amazing.
00:30:41A couple of months later,
00:30:42he texted me and he said,
00:30:44I'm no longer with the other girl,
00:30:45and I would really like to work on this again.
00:30:49Even though I was really upset,
00:30:50I decided that I don't want to live my life
00:30:54in the world of what-ifs.
00:30:56So that's the reason why I decided
00:30:58to try to pursue this again.
00:31:01You don't even know anything about this other woman.
00:31:05Like, what, you know, who is she?
00:31:07How do you know they're not still talking?
00:31:09I don't know.
00:31:10That's why I want to go there and see.
00:31:12But you know how hard it is for me
00:31:14to find somebody that I like.
00:31:15He encompasses all the things that I really love.
00:31:20So I'm not letting this one go.
00:31:24I think that Vanya, generally,
00:31:26she's going for men who fit a checklist.
00:31:32And so she doesn't do a lot of due diligence
00:31:36and a lot of really nasty stuff sort of gets uncovered,
00:31:40but after, she's very attached.
00:31:45It doesn't sound like he's as serious as you are.
00:31:49And I just want to make sure that you make sure
00:31:51that you're on the same page.
00:31:53At this point, I feel like we're in a good place.
00:31:57He's shown me, you know, that he is about this,
00:32:02that he wants to pursue this
00:32:03and see where it goes.
00:32:04I've been single for six years,
00:32:06and I felt like this was like a dead vault,
00:32:10and I feel things again, and I feel it because of him.
00:32:17As painful as it was to hear
00:32:19that Borja was seeing someone else,
00:32:22ever since we got back together,
00:32:24he's been more dedicated, more responsive.
00:32:27He says that he loves me.
00:32:29He says that he loves me.
00:32:31We talk about potential of marriage.
00:32:34So I hope that this just ends up being a small little blip
00:32:38in our big story of love
00:32:40and that things just keep getting better and better
00:32:43going forward because if I lose him again,
00:32:46I just don't know how I would recover.
00:32:52I hope you're right, yeah,
00:32:53because I love you and I want you to be happy.
00:32:59Hello.
00:33:00Hello, hello.
00:33:06As excited as I am to meet Ingrid's friends,
00:33:08I'm also worried because if I don't fit into this part of her life,
00:33:12it could be another setback to the relationship.
00:33:30All right, let's go.
00:33:53Wow! Wow! Wow!
00:33:59Quiet.
00:34:03It's melting, right?
00:34:10Yes.
00:34:11Always a little stressed to meet a new person.
00:34:30Yeah.
00:34:51OK?
00:34:52OK.
00:35:00I'm excited about dinner with her friends.
00:35:02I came to Garupi with the intentions of getting into Ingrid's life,
00:35:07being a part of who she is.
00:35:10This table. Go ahead.
00:35:13I'm going to go around.
00:35:15I'm going to go this way.
00:35:17But as excited as I am to meet Ingrid's friends,
00:35:20I'm also worried because if I don't fit into this part of her life,
00:35:23I mean, it could be another setback to the relationship.
00:35:30Obrigada.
00:35:32Hello.
00:35:33Boa noite.
00:35:34Hello, hello.
00:35:35Boa noite.
00:35:36Cheers.
00:35:40Brian.
00:35:43OK.
00:35:45Prazer.
00:35:48Vania.
00:35:49Prazer.
00:36:00Energy drink.
00:36:01Energy drink.
00:36:02Brian, how are you?
00:36:04Are you enjoying the city?
00:36:06I'm enjoying it, but I'm melting here.
00:36:09He's melting.
00:36:10I'm melting.
00:36:11What about you coming to Brazil?
00:36:13Did you need anyone to help you?
00:36:15No.
00:36:16You're traveling alone.
00:36:18Yes.
00:36:19That's great.
00:36:21I started coming here with sports.
00:36:23I got here and we won a gold medal in a competition in Rio.
00:36:30What do you think of the fact that Ingrid is dating an older guy,
00:36:34a guy who's in a wheelchair?
00:36:36I was really surprised.
00:36:38I met her and I was really surprised.
00:36:43There are more difficulties because people are very prejudiced.
00:36:49It's going to be a challenge.
00:36:51It's a challenge.
00:36:53Are you staying at Ingrid's house?
00:36:55Because she didn't tell me.
00:36:57No, no, no.
00:36:58No?
00:36:59I'm not staying at her house.
00:37:00I'm staying at the Oiti Hotel.
00:37:02Oh, Oiti.
00:37:03Oiti.
00:37:04Okay, but does she run away a lot to see you at the hotel?
00:37:07How is it?
00:37:08Are we going to these places to meet?
00:37:12But where was it and how was your first night of love?
00:37:20Calm down, girl.
00:37:21Calm down?
00:37:22Calm down?
00:37:23Calm down about what?
00:37:24Tell me.
00:37:26No, girl, we haven't had it yet.
00:37:32Really?
00:37:35In 15 years, from the beginning until today,
00:37:38I've dated a Brazilian woman.
00:37:42I'm not going to lie because she's here.
00:37:44Normally, when I arrive in Brazil,
00:37:46I'm already in bed, the first night with people,
00:37:52but it's totally different.
00:37:55For me, she's beautiful, hot, pretty.
00:38:00I don't want to ruin anything.
00:38:05When Brian told me that he slept with a woman on the first night,
00:38:10that was very new information for me.
00:38:14So you have to value our friend.
00:38:17That's my intention.
00:38:19But it seems that his thoughts are different nowadays.
00:38:26I think he wants something serious with me.
00:38:32You won the accumulated Mega Senna.
00:38:35The Mega Senna of Brazil.
00:38:38I'll keep the ticket.
00:38:42I don't believe that you haven't gotten married yet.
00:38:47It's been a while.
00:38:50But it's almost close.
00:38:55Because he's been through the stages that I've been through.
00:39:01Approved.
00:39:05Ingrid's friends are encouraging us to be together,
00:39:07and it seems like she's definitely more open to it.
00:39:11So I'm hoping that tonight will be finally the night
00:39:14that we get to the intimate level of our relationship.
00:39:22I'm excited by that, but at the same time, there's a lot of pressure.
00:39:26She's never had sex with someone in a wheelchair.
00:39:29So there's always a chance they could go bad.
00:39:32I just hope that tonight brings us together, both emotionally and physically.
00:39:36I'm sorry I cheated on you.
00:39:39Every time you text me, you're having sex with them?
00:39:44Maybe like once a week?
00:39:46So once a week and every week?
00:39:49Yes.
00:39:53I can't do that again.
00:40:07Ingrid's friends are encouraging us to be together,
00:40:09and it seems like she's definitely more open to it.
00:40:20Hello.
00:40:21Hello.
00:40:32Did you want to come in?
00:40:33Or...
00:40:34I'm not comfortable to go inside.
00:40:37I think we can go outside, maybe in the park.
00:40:41Okay.
00:40:43Let's go.
00:40:47I texted Faith around 9 a.m. this morning,
00:40:50just to see if she's willing to have a conversation with me.
00:40:54And after many long hours of waiting, she finally texted back,
00:40:58okay.
00:41:00Obviously, she deserves an apology.
00:41:03And I want to tell her that I'm willing to be monogamous.
00:41:07But that's if she even wants a relationship with me after this.
00:41:11Right now, I'm still afraid we might not have a future.
00:41:18Do you want banana?
00:41:19Yeah, okay.
00:42:06What's going on?
00:42:08I went to the clinic this morning.
00:42:10I get the medicine.
00:42:13So in one week, it's gone.
00:42:16So in one week, it's not should be done?
00:42:19Gone.
00:42:22I feel, you know, I feel not good.
00:42:25Because you have a disease.
00:42:27It's alarming.
00:42:31I know.
00:42:35We're in this situation because I messed up.
00:42:37But I felt like I was communicating that I was sleeping with people,
00:42:41but clearly you didn't understand that.
00:42:47So do you mean every time you text me,
00:42:51you're having sex with them?
00:42:53In every house that you want to go to sleep or sleep over?
00:43:00Not every house, but maybe like once a week.
00:43:05So once a week in every week?
00:43:08Yes.
00:43:15Why are you having sex with others when you always say you love me?
00:43:23I do love you.
00:43:25And I do care about you.
00:43:27I want to be with you, in a relationship with you.
00:43:33I'm not going to sleep with anybody else.
00:43:35I'm not going to look at anybody else.
00:43:38I'm sorry I cheated on you.
00:43:47I know.
00:43:49I can't do that again.
00:43:52I don't plan on doing it again.
00:43:54The rest of my life, only with you.
00:43:57I really don't know.
00:44:05I don't know what to do because we're going to Leyte to meet my family.
00:44:10Yeah.
00:44:11How I can, you know, I tell them that you are my boyfriend.
00:44:16It's hard for me to think of it.
00:44:21Before he came here in the Philippines,
00:44:23Loret paid for our expenses to travel to my hometown tomorrow.
00:44:29I was really excited to tell my family that I have a boyfriend.
00:44:35And they are so very happy to meet him.
00:44:39But they wouldn't want me to be with someone who would treat me like this.
00:44:46So you don't want to introduce his boyfriend?
00:44:49What, just this guy?
00:44:51For now, it can't be.
00:44:55Yeah.
00:44:59So I'm happy to be your friend for right now.
00:45:03And hopefully I can become boyfriend again.
00:45:06And then one day, real fiancé.
00:45:08Yeah, you must approve it.
00:45:15So this does mean you're giving me a second chance.
00:45:28I'm very happy you're giving me a second chance.
00:45:30And I'm okay taking it slow.
00:45:32And no matter what, it's just me and you.
00:45:34Yeah.
00:45:35Forever.
00:45:37Okay.
00:45:38Okay?
00:45:40I still love Loren.
00:45:42And I'm not ready to throw this relationship away.
00:45:45But Loren will have to work hard to prove he cares about me.
00:45:51Let's go.
00:45:52You ready?
00:45:53Yeah.
00:45:54I'm hoping he's still the Loren I have feelings for.
00:45:58Because right now, I feel like I don't know him.
00:46:10So you're going to wear all this stuff, all this sexy stuff.
00:46:13When was the last time you had sex?
00:46:15Oh my God, six years ago.
00:46:17Six years.
00:46:18You're like practically a virgin again.
00:46:22My friends, they call me the sex camel.
00:46:25But six years is a long time.
00:46:27And the sex camel is starting to get thirsty, if you know what I mean.
00:46:33Kitty, you better stick up for me here.
00:46:35Did I not always tell you that I always had a feeling about sisters?
00:46:39This altercation between Renee and my sister is absurd to me.
00:46:44She's fine.
00:46:45Calm down.
00:46:46It is hard to witness that level of anger from Renee.
00:46:50It's all right.
00:46:51It's all right.
00:46:52Calm down, girl.
00:47:06This is American buttercream.
00:47:10I constantly have cake orders that come in all the time.
00:47:13So, you know, you can't help it but sample your product.
00:47:18Oh my God, and it's here.
00:47:19My favorite.
00:47:23Yay!
00:47:25In two days, I'm going to meet Bojo and I am besides myself.
00:47:29I am so happy.
00:47:31My cousin Sunilla is here, too.
00:47:33My cousin Sunilla is here, too.
00:47:35She's going to be here in a minute.
00:47:36She's going to be here.
00:47:38I'm going to be here, too.
00:47:40I'm going to be here.
00:47:42I'm going to be here.
00:47:44I'm going to be here.
00:47:45My cousin, Sunila, is here to help pick
00:47:48up my outfits for Croatia.
00:47:50Oh, my lord.
00:47:50It's been so long.
00:47:51Feels like forever.
00:47:52I know.
00:47:53I cut you off some fruit.
00:47:54Ooh.
00:47:54So vegan of you.
00:47:57Me and Vanya talk every day.
00:47:59We call each other sisters because we think the same.
00:48:02I'm so excited.
00:48:05I have doubts about Bozo just due to the past of him breaking
00:48:10up with her for another relationship.
00:48:13But I still support her.
00:48:16I can see why she likes him.
00:48:18And I just hope this relationship works out.
00:48:22She's looking for her life partner to share her life with.
00:48:25And that's what I wish for her more than anything else.
00:48:28This fits you?
00:48:29Yes.
00:48:31No.
00:48:31Yes.
00:48:33It's perfect.
00:48:35And then, and then.
00:48:37This is what you're going to wear next to him.
00:48:39Well, that's what I was thinking.
00:48:40If not those, then these for sure.
00:48:43These are a little bit more reasonable.
00:48:44Oh, I remember when you got those in Vegas.
00:48:46I know.
00:48:47Aw.
00:48:48Good times.
00:48:49So you're going to wear all this stuff, all this sexy stuff.
00:48:52Where are you staying?
00:48:53Are you staying with him?
00:48:56Actually, I went ahead and I got my own,
00:48:58I got my own place because he's living
00:49:01with his mom and his aunt.
00:49:03What is the reason why he lives with his mother?
00:49:07I'm pretty sure he was trying to save up
00:49:09because he said that hopefully he's going to be
00:49:12getting an apartment soon.
00:49:14He's a basketball player.
00:49:15He's successful.
00:49:16Like, does he get paid doing, playing, whatever?
00:49:19He does, but he's a basketball player in Croatia, OK?
00:49:23It's not like he plays for the NBA.
00:49:25But is he going to join you and spend time with you?
00:49:29I think so.
00:49:30It's been how many years?
00:49:32When was the last time you had sex?
00:49:34Oh my god.
00:49:35It was like six years ago.
00:49:36Six years.
00:49:38You're like practically a virgin again.
00:49:40Oh my.
00:49:42My friends have this lovely nickname for me.
00:49:45They call me the sex camel.
00:49:50Camels can go a very, very long time without drinking water.
00:49:53Apparently, I have the same ability when it comes to sex.
00:49:57I don't do one night stands or sex without feelings.
00:50:00There has to be a feeling of trust and comfort.
00:50:04And since my last relationship ended,
00:50:07I just haven't found that.
00:50:10But six years is a long time, and the sex camel
00:50:14is starting to get thirsty, if you know what I mean.
00:50:18So are you hoping for it?
00:50:20Of course.
00:50:21I think he's extremely hot, and we connect
00:50:25on so many different levels.
00:50:27Culture in Croatia and Bosnia is different,
00:50:31yet there are similarities.
00:50:33You know, he feels like home to me.
00:50:36He knows about the whole war and everything we escaped?
00:50:38Yeah, of course he does.
00:50:39Yeah.
00:50:41At first, growing up in Bosnia was the most magical childhood.
00:50:46But then when I was about 10 years old,
00:50:49the whole country separated, broke into pieces,
00:50:52and a war started.
00:50:55We went to visit my grandparents.
00:50:57We were actually getting in the car to start driving back home.
00:51:01And then we just saw missiles exploding.
00:51:06The night sky was just lit up.
00:51:08The ground was shaking, and that was it.
00:51:11We were never able to go back home.
00:51:14We ended up having to stay at my grandma's house.
00:51:17We had no electricity for a year.
00:51:19We had no water for a year.
00:51:22We ended up boiling flour and onions,
00:51:24and we called that the black soup,
00:51:26and that's what we ate for months.
00:51:29We got bombed all the time.
00:51:32I was almost killed on a couple of occasions that I know of.
00:51:38I will never forget sitting in basements for a day at a time
00:51:42because the air raids are happening,
00:51:44bombs are dropping everywhere,
00:51:46and you're just feeling the ground shake.
00:51:48And then you don't know if the next one that drops
00:51:51is going to come on top of you.
00:51:53To have to go through that level of stress and trauma
00:51:58as a child, it's absolutely devastating.
00:52:03You know, in Croatia, the war has not been as long
00:52:07or as devastating as it was in Bosnia,
00:52:11but his family was affected by it,
00:52:14like, just like everybody else from former Yugoslavia.
00:52:17Yeah.
00:52:18So he understands what we had to overcome
00:52:20and that it's scars that we carry on our hearts.
00:52:24I know.
00:52:25It's always part of who we are.
00:52:28But we did, we did it.
00:52:30I know.
00:52:31I'm proud of us.
00:52:32We're survivors.
00:52:33I'm proud for what we've accomplished.
00:52:35Yeah.
00:52:36You seem really seriously taking this relationship.
00:52:39You're really serious about him,
00:52:41and you have really high hopes for a happy ending,
00:52:44which I truly, like, wish that for you,
00:52:47more than anything in the world.
00:52:49When things like that happen to you
00:52:51and you experience that near-death feeling
00:52:55that completely changes the way you think,
00:52:58the way you feel, everything about you,
00:53:01and you choose to take the life on by the horns
00:53:04and just take advantage of every opportunity
00:53:07that comes your way,
00:53:10I know that Bozsia could potentially hurt me again,
00:53:13but I can't just give up
00:53:16because he's everything that I've been looking for in a guy.
00:53:20And I definitely deserve to have love in my life, finally.
00:53:24Shh.
00:53:45Coconut.
00:53:47Kudu.
00:53:48Kudu.
00:53:48Kudu.
00:53:50I don't.
00:53:51Kube.
00:53:52Coconut.
00:53:53Kube.
00:53:53Orange.
00:53:55Anka.
00:53:56Anka.
00:53:57Yeah.
00:53:59Dang.
00:54:00How funny.
00:54:01Today, my babe, he's planning to take me out for a shopping.
00:54:06And I am very happy because the shopping in Accra
00:54:09is far better than Kumasi.
00:54:12And I am really excited to show Niles more of the city.
00:54:19Oh, that is...
00:54:21Is that dust I smell?
00:54:23Mm-hmm.
00:54:27How much you wanna bet that's getting all over us?
00:54:35For me, Accra, I compare it to New York City.
00:54:39There's a lot of people out and about,
00:54:41selling things on the streets.
00:54:42There's pedestrians everywhere.
00:54:46While I may not appear to be overstimulated,
00:54:49I feel it all here,
00:54:51behind my eyes, my head.
00:54:55Usually, I would avoid going to certain places like this,
00:55:00being out and about during the busiest times of the day.
00:55:05But I do believe that when you're in love,
00:55:07you should step out of your comfort zone
00:55:10to make your partner happy.
00:55:12So, it's one of those things where I just grin and bear it.
00:55:17Good afternoon.
00:55:18Good afternoon.
00:55:19Good afternoon, everybody.
00:55:22I think I like this one, babe, right?
00:55:25I think maybe this one might look better.
00:55:27It's a little easier on my eyes.
00:55:30It's nice.
00:55:32You want me to try it?
00:55:36I think you could try that one, though.
00:55:37You could try that one.
00:55:39I want to get a dress for my knocking day.
00:55:42It's very important to me.
00:55:46Maybe I can try this on, also.
00:55:48Can you get it for me?
00:55:53Okay.
00:55:54Just understand that I may not be able
00:55:56to buy every single thing.
00:56:02Right now, Matilda may have a different idea
00:56:05of my money situation than what's actually the case.
00:56:09I don't know if she thinks all Americans are rich,
00:56:13but I'm certainly not.
00:56:15Babe.
00:56:18Wow.
00:56:19I love it.
00:56:20How much does this dress cost?
00:56:21I don't know, unless I ask.
00:56:24How much is this one?
00:56:25If you convert it, it will be $80.
00:56:27It'll be $80?
00:56:28Dollars, please.
00:56:35Are you going to pay?
00:56:40Go ahead and ring.
00:56:41Let's go ahead and ring it up.
00:56:44Oh, when I heard the price on this dress,
00:56:47I thought, absolutely hell no.
00:56:53And then I remembered, oh wait,
00:56:54there's a bigger bomb coming later
00:56:55when I have to tell her
00:56:56that we have to postpone the wedding plans.
00:57:00Yes, we did.
00:57:02Okay, bye.
00:57:08What are we doing here, babe?
00:57:09Just follow me for right now.
00:57:11Okay, babe.
00:57:13So maybe I get the skirt for her
00:57:16and then maybe take off the pressure just a little bit.
00:57:21Remember when you said you needed your nails done?
00:57:22Wow, you're always surprising me.
00:57:26I know.
00:57:29Hi, good evening.
00:57:31Miss, you may have a seat here.
00:57:32Okay, thank you.
00:57:33Okay.
00:57:39Are you good?
00:57:40I'm fine.
00:57:41Okay.
00:57:43I'll be back.
00:57:44Babe, where are you going?
00:57:46This is your first time in Ghana.
00:57:48I know, but don't worry, I have my GPS, okay?
00:57:51I want to try actually exploring this place myself.
00:57:55Are you sure?
00:57:56I'm positive.
00:57:59Love you.
00:58:00I love you more.
00:58:17Good evening.
00:58:18How are you, sir?
00:58:19I'm doing good.
00:58:20I'm just, right now I'm just looking at engagement rings.
00:58:24Okay.
00:58:26So all these ones here in the front
00:58:28are just the engagement rings.
00:58:30So you can look at these ones, please.
00:58:34I know that I've already proposed to Matilda over the phone,
00:58:37but I just feel the need to do this in person.
00:58:40And I'm thinking that around the same time
00:58:44I present this ring to her,
00:58:47it could be a good idea to tell Matilda
00:58:48that we need to postpone the wedding.
00:58:50Wait, okay, keep going.
00:58:51Keep going to the left.
00:58:54I don't know if that's gonna mitigate the anger,
00:58:56but this is honestly the best idea I have.
00:59:00How much would one cost?
00:59:03You can get from 3,500 CDs upwards, please.
00:59:08How much would that be in, say, US dollars?
00:59:113,500, that would be about $290.
00:59:14$290.
00:59:17This was 234 after the discount.
00:59:20Hmm.
00:59:22The ring is actually integral to what I want to do, so.
00:59:31I would like to get this ring.
00:59:35Let me prepare for the box for you.
00:59:38Since I've arrived in Ghana,
00:59:39Matilda has turned out to be everything
00:59:41that I thought she was and so much more.
00:59:45I'm seeing more and more
00:59:46that a real, true, happily ever after is possible.
00:59:52To lose it now would be,
00:59:57I don't even want to think of the possibility.
01:00:00I just hope she can understand
01:00:01that ring is a promise for me to come back and marry her.
01:00:05And that my love for her is much deeper
01:00:08and much more timeless than whatever deadline
01:00:11that we impose on ourselves.
01:00:15Okay, sir.
01:00:16Congratulations, sir. Thank you.
01:00:24I'm just worried about what happens
01:00:26whenever you go back to the States.
01:00:30They're trying, like, to make a problem
01:00:31between me and Tiger Lily.
01:00:33Why they do that?
01:00:34That could potentially cause trust issues.
01:00:38Oh, don't make my wife worried now.
01:00:44âȘâȘâȘ
01:00:52Ah!
01:00:54There they are.
01:00:55You are ready?
01:00:56Ready?
01:00:57Yeah, let's go.
01:00:58Let's go.
01:00:59Yeah.
01:01:00âȘâȘâȘ
01:01:06I feel like we're about to do something crazy.
01:01:08Yeah.
01:01:09Ooh!
01:01:11âȘâȘâȘ
01:01:16Again, again.
01:01:18Trouble.
01:01:20Even though Adnan and I got into an argument,
01:01:23I still had an amazing time in Petra.
01:01:27It was amazing to ride the camels
01:01:31with their little outfit on and their long lashes.
01:01:35I mean, I really, like,
01:01:38riding anything.
01:01:40Ha ha ha ha!
01:01:43This week is good.
01:01:45This week was fun.
01:01:47Yeah, fun.
01:01:48I feel like it's gone by so fast.
01:01:50Sadly, tomorrow I will be heading home to Texas.
01:01:55It's hard because now that we have had this time together,
01:02:00how can I go back to only phone and video chat?
01:02:05Like, I want him with me all the time.
01:02:09I like your guys' energy.
01:02:11You guys are very vibrant.
01:02:13I really like you guys.
01:02:15And funny.
01:02:16And I feel that both of you have very strong personalities.
01:02:20We saw a little bit of that yesterday.
01:02:23I don't think he's seen that before.
01:02:26But I'm just worried about the future
01:02:29because you guys are in this honeymoon phase.
01:02:35What happens whenever you go back to the States
01:02:39and you guys aren't physically with one another again,
01:02:43that could potentially cause some static
01:02:47in your guys' marriage
01:02:49or create potential trust issues.
01:02:53Then I'm worried about Adnan coming to the States
01:02:57and then being homesick away from his friends and family
01:03:01because that seems to be very important to him.
01:03:08Oh, don't make my wife worried now.
01:03:12I am with my wife forever.
01:03:15Shea and the crews,
01:03:17they're trying to make a problem between me and Tiger Lily.
01:03:21Why they do that?
01:03:23It makes me nervous
01:03:25because I don't know what they're going to say
01:03:29when I'm not there in the U.S.
01:03:32I hear everything you guys are saying,
01:03:35and, you know, I'm not saying
01:03:37that we're not going to have any issues in the future,
01:03:41but I'm just confident that
01:03:43because we love each other so much,
01:03:46that we'll get through it.
01:03:48Well, you know, love, it does take a lot of love,
01:03:51but it's not only love.
01:03:53I mean, it's, you know, trust, communication.
01:03:56Yeah.
01:03:59Crews and Shea are bringing up all sorts of problems
01:04:04that may come up when I'm in the U.S.
01:04:08Ah, finally. Finally.
01:04:12This is our last night here together,
01:04:15and it's not something I'm trying to think about.
01:04:20But honestly, I know that
01:04:23there are some cracks in our relationship.
01:04:27And it's scary thinking about
01:04:31facing those issues thousands of miles apart.
01:04:44Um, as soon as I get back,
01:04:47I need to, like, really rush and find a house
01:04:52so that whenever you're coming,
01:04:55we have, like, more space.
01:04:57Like, I want to make sure everything is, like,
01:05:00settled with our life and everything.
01:05:02And I'm also kind of worried about, like,
01:05:05when I get back to the U.S.
01:05:07and we're, like, back to just video calls
01:05:11and not being with each other.
01:05:19Baby, come here.
01:05:22Come here.
01:05:25What are you thinking?
01:05:44This time in Jordan has been a whirlwind.
01:05:49We were just thinking about the wedding,
01:05:52and we just wanted to be married.
01:05:54We didn't really think about our non-spousal visa,
01:05:57which could take a long time.
01:05:59So, of course, I'm worried about being separated
01:06:03when our relationship is so new and fragile.
01:06:07It is so difficult to me
01:06:10because this is the first time
01:06:12I feel like someone I love her,
01:06:15and my heart's breaking.
01:06:17I'm with you forever, Dori.
01:06:25Oh, my God!
01:06:28I do feel like me and Ingrid have a lot of chemistry,
01:06:31but I know that being with someone in my situation
01:06:34will be a totally different experience for her.
01:06:36So it's nerve-wracking a little bit.
01:06:39My God!
01:06:54Oh, my God!
01:07:13Meeting Ingrid's friends went really well,
01:07:16especially because her friends broke the ice.
01:07:19Ingrid and I never really had that conversation
01:07:22about sex, about expectations.
01:07:24I do feel like me and Ingrid have a lot of chemistry,
01:07:27but I know that being with someone in my situation
01:07:30will be a totally different experience for her.
01:07:32So it's nerve-wracking a little bit.
01:07:41Oh, my God!
01:07:53OK.
01:08:03Oh, my God!
01:08:23I'm a little apprehensive
01:08:25about what would happen at the moment,
01:08:28because I've never had sex with a chairman.
01:08:31I don't know if he really gets to have normal sex.
01:08:36And I have no idea what to expect.
01:08:39I don't even know if this is going to work.
01:08:43Oh, my God!
01:08:46The massage is ready.
01:08:48I'm waiting for the massage here. Come.
01:08:52Oh, my God!
01:08:54Oh, my God!
01:08:59Me? Are you going to give me a massage?
01:09:01Yes, of course.
01:09:02Huh?
01:09:03What do you think?
01:09:04On my belly? On my belly?
01:09:06Oh, my God!
01:09:07Do you want me to stay still?
01:09:08Go on. Go on my legs.
01:09:10Give me a massage.
01:09:12I don't need a massage.
01:09:14I know where to go.
01:09:16You don't even have to tell me.
01:09:18Really?
01:09:20No, you can stay still.
01:09:23Oh, my God. Delicious.
01:09:25Being together in the bed,
01:09:27kissing Ingrid's body,
01:09:29rubbing lotion,
01:09:31this is exactly what I've been waiting for.
01:09:33It's amazing.
01:09:34It's exactly where I want it to be.
01:09:36A massage like this is going to work.
01:09:38Yes, it deserves it.
01:09:40Everyone deserves a massage and relaxation.
01:09:49Let's do it.
01:09:50âȘâȘ
01:10:00âȘâȘ
01:10:10So, we're up in the room and the door was closed after you guys left and I went in to
01:10:27give her attention, kiss her, touch her, and she's like, whoa.
01:10:34After the cameras left, Ingrid made it clear that she was ready to have sex, but I didn't
01:10:39have a condom.
01:10:41So I decided to offer oral sex, but once I went to go kiss her stomach, she basically
01:10:49hand in the face like, nope, stop.
01:10:52It's my fault that I didn't have a condom and I wasn't ready for that, but for her to
01:10:56shut everything down and end the way it did, it hurt me, it hurt me.
01:11:02It's going to be a bad life, it's going to be a bad life.
01:11:06I thought I was going somewhere with her, but I was feeling good with meeting the kid
01:11:33and meeting the friends and checking all the boxes and doing everything, but it did
01:11:39not happen.
01:11:40I mean, I'm feeling so confused.
01:11:43I thought it was a great compromise, a massage and oral sex.
01:11:48There has to be something else going on.
01:11:51I'm always conscious about how women see me, whether I'm attractive or not, or whether
01:11:56they feel that something can happen with a person like me.
01:12:01I didn't think I'd have to worry about that with Ingrid, but clearly I was wrong.
01:12:32All right, here we go.
01:12:34The adventure begins.
01:12:36I'm just going to call Bozsia real quick.
01:12:43So I keep calling him and he's not picking up.
01:12:47I have a bad feeling because of what happened in the past.
01:13:02I made this custom-made air freshener with a picture of the two of us there.
01:13:19We love to joke around and I feel like this really represents the two of us.
01:13:23I picked coconut because that's my favorite scent.
01:13:26I hope he likes it.
01:13:27And then when we drive around, he can have this in his car to remind him of me.
01:13:33Today is the day.
01:13:35I am leaving to meet Bozsia in Croatia.
01:13:39I have been picturing the moment when I get to meet him in person for eight months and
01:13:45I just can't wait.
01:13:47Oh, this is heavy.
01:13:49I have never met a man like him before and he's just so kind, loving and full of compliments.
01:13:56This is my guy.
01:13:57This is the guy that I'm meant to be with.
01:14:02Oh, time to go.
01:14:07Yes, I'm wearing this to the airport.
01:14:10I wear heels all the time, including when I'm flying.
01:14:15I am feeling nervous, scared, anxious, petrified, super happy.
01:14:25Hi.
01:14:26You know, I'm just going through all different scenarios in my mind, trying to think of what
01:14:31could happen, what could happen.
01:14:33The best case scenario on this trip is we really click and then I come home with a ring
01:14:38on my finger.
01:14:39This one.
01:14:45I still feel like it hasn't hit me completely.
01:14:48I think when I get to the airport and I see his face run up to him, my God, it's going
01:14:54to be so exciting.
01:15:02The adventure begins.
01:15:05I think I'm going to be flying for 17 hours.
01:15:08Germany first, then Croatia split.
01:15:14I'm just going to call Bozsian real quick and then say hi before I board.
01:15:25Hello.
01:15:34So I keep calling him and he's not picking up.
01:15:38Now, I know it's a six hour time difference, but I just haven't heard from him this whole
01:15:45day today and it actually makes me feel a little scared.
01:15:55I have a bad feeling about the fact that I've been reaching out all day and he's not picking
01:16:02up or answering my texts because of what happened in the past.
01:16:08I would call and he wouldn't pick up the phone and all of a sudden it came out that he was
01:16:13seeing someone else.
01:16:14And especially on a day like this, I mean, I'm literally boarding a plane to go see him.
01:16:19I can't help it, but having my mind going 200 miles an hour, trying to make sense of
01:16:25this, and I'm trying so hard not to overthink.
01:16:30Well, hopefully when I get there, Bozsian will be at the airport waiting for me.
01:16:36My hand's shaking.
01:16:38Flight is almost ready to take off.
01:16:45Even though he's not picking up, I'm still holding onto hope that he will be there.
01:16:52I would call and he would pick up.
01:16:54I'm just trying to make sense of it.
01:16:57I would call and he would pick up.
01:17:00I would call and he would pick up.
01:17:02I'm just trying to make sense of it.
01:17:05I'm holding on to hope that he will be there at the airport
01:17:09and this is going to be a start of a beautiful romance
01:17:12that leads to the rest of our lives together.
01:17:1543H.
01:17:17But I'm definitely thinking all these things
01:17:19in the back of my mind.
01:17:21You know, what if I have invested all this time
01:17:23and energy and effort into something
01:17:27that's not going anywhere?
01:17:29And I'm getting scared.
01:17:31About to take off.
01:17:33Ready to rock and roll.
01:17:36I'm ready.
01:17:40Renee, I just want you not to destroy a relationship
01:17:43that's taking you almost five years to build.
01:17:45I know, and you can say I destroyed it,
01:17:47but in the end you'll see the truth.
01:17:49I still love her and I don't know what to do
01:17:52at this critical moment.
01:17:55You will never see me again.
01:17:58I'm done.
01:18:02Why did you invite me if you hate me?
01:18:05You're delusional.
01:18:06That's it, I'm delusional after all.
01:18:08That's it.
01:18:09Okay, next one.
01:18:10Do it now.
01:18:11If you can't see it, do it now.
01:18:13It's fine.
01:18:14It's all right.
01:18:15It's all right.
01:18:16It's all right.
01:18:17It's all right.
01:18:18Calm down, girl.
01:18:21Renee all of a sudden decided
01:18:23she wanted to move out of my sister's place.
01:18:25I'm trying to plead with her
01:18:27and to talk her out of this idea,
01:18:29but she remains obstinate.
01:18:31She started yelling and this resulted
01:18:33to a heart altercation.
01:18:35Between Renee and my sister.
01:18:38Hold on, Renee.
01:18:39You are talking to my wife.
01:18:40You understand?
01:18:41It's actually my wife you're addressing this way.
01:18:42You better stick up for me here.
01:18:45You better stick up for me.
01:18:46Did I not always tell you
01:18:47that I always had a feeling about sisters?
01:18:50And this moment right here will prove
01:18:54the feeling that I had the entire freaking time.
01:19:00I was gonna come back tomorrow,
01:19:01but because she wants to play the game
01:19:03and say that she don't like me
01:19:04because of this and that, I'm done.
01:19:09You know something, Renee?
01:19:10Emotion is actually running high.
01:19:13I'm cool.
01:19:14I just want us to resolve this.
01:19:15No, there's nothing to resolve.
01:19:16Do you understand?
01:19:18Like, how would you like it
01:19:19if you first entered the relationship
01:19:20and his entire family was against you and involved?
01:19:24Huh?
01:19:25Would you like that?
01:19:26And they said, don't go with him.
01:19:27Don't go with her.
01:19:28She's this, she's that.
01:19:28Don't go.
01:19:29Like, do this, do that.
01:19:31Let me tell you this.
01:19:32When Earth first started and, yeah, roll your eyes.
01:19:36Good.
01:19:37Like I said, when Earth first started,
01:19:38it wasn't a program.
01:19:39Welcome to your program, okay?
01:19:43It is hard to witness that level
01:19:47of anger and aggression from Renee.
01:19:50She says abstract things,
01:19:52things that I can't really understand.
01:19:55Things that no one with his right senses can subscribe to.
01:20:01Have a happy life.
01:20:02Enjoy your family.
01:20:03The point is this, Renee,
01:20:04I just want you not to destroy a relationship
01:20:07that has taken you almost five years to build.
01:20:09I know, and you can say I destroyed it,
01:20:11but in the end, you'll see the truth.
01:20:14But at the same time, I still love her,
01:20:17and I don't know what to do at this critical moment.
01:20:22Is this real, babe?
01:20:23I know, it sucks, huh?
01:20:25Is this real?
01:20:27I want to move on with my life.
01:20:29I don't want to fight.
01:20:31I want us to just cool off and talk.
01:20:33I love you.
01:20:34I always will, Chitty, and I wish the best for you,
01:20:37but I'm done.
01:20:44Babe?
01:20:49Babe?
01:20:50You will never see me again.
01:20:59I can't go any further.
01:21:00I can't.
01:21:07That's all right.
01:21:08Yeah?
01:21:12Seeing her walk out that door made me sick.
01:21:18It made me sad, honestly, yeah.
01:21:25I love her so much,
01:21:27and it pains me any time I see her behave
01:21:30and act in such way.
01:21:33In fact, I don't want to talk about it.
01:21:37It's all right.
01:21:40I've never had anyone in my life
01:21:42that I've had this kind of conflict with before.
01:21:47It's absurd to me.
01:21:48We are not yet married,
01:21:49and you are giving me the choice
01:21:52between you and my family.
01:21:53Why can't you build the bridge?
01:21:55Why can't we live together as one?
01:21:58Why must I choose?
01:21:59No.
01:22:00I love everyone.
01:22:03I am heartbroken.
01:22:18I want to throw up.
01:22:23Painful.
01:22:25Neglectful.
01:22:26Just plain out hurtful in every way.
01:22:31But I'm used to the pain,
01:22:33so I won't hurt for long.
01:22:36But I'm tired of going through the same thing with people.
01:22:41I'm just sick of people in the way they are in general.
01:22:45But I still try to give hope and smile to the next.
01:22:52Even though he couldn't see me,
01:22:54he could see me.
01:22:56He could hear my heart.
01:22:58And though no matter what I said or done,
01:23:02nothing still wasn't enough.
01:23:16Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:18My aunt will play instead of you, okay?
01:23:21And she has bad hip.
01:23:23I am most comfortable when I'm making jokes.
01:23:26But the difference between me and Eddie Murphy
01:23:30is that I live at my mom's place.
01:23:35My mom would be thrilled about Vanya,
01:23:38but she doesn't know that Vanya exists.
01:23:43Gonna be on this plane for about an hour.
01:23:44I'm going because I love my beautiful best friend, Faith.
01:23:50Lauren needs to regain my trust.
01:23:53But I worry he could just be telling me
01:23:55things I want to hear.
01:23:58I get some money, buy your family a house.
01:24:00Would you want that?
01:24:04I don't wanna go, baby.
01:24:08There's been some issues between us
01:24:09and I'm worried being so far apart.