Life After Lockup S7 Episode 4 - Red Flags & White Dresses
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00:00:00Approved by the state of Texas.
00:00:01Texas denied our move.
00:00:03Are you kidding me?
00:00:05I can leave the state.
00:00:06Brittany can't.
00:00:07I cannot go.
00:00:09I'm denied again.
00:00:10We are not married.
00:00:12They do not give a crap.
00:00:13I don't give a damn.
00:00:15Do you remember Joey?
00:00:17Did you like him when me and him dated?
00:00:19Yeah, he cheated on me with me.
00:00:22I love you, baby.
00:00:24Will you marry me?
00:00:25Yes.
00:00:26We have got to get some money together
00:00:28so we can make like a down payment on this house, right?
00:00:30Joey and I are buying a house for my baby.
00:00:32Do you think you look like me?
00:00:33I could be Kacen's father.
00:00:35So I actually bought a paternity test.
00:00:38There's definitely some serious risks that are
00:00:40going to come with this pregnancy.
00:00:41Do you have a will and do you have things in order?
00:00:44Why would you throw your own?
00:00:46You're a fucking crook, man.
00:00:47But if anything happened to me and Mike
00:00:49said he would think that he would take the boys,
00:00:51but you would be better for them,
00:00:52why would you have another kid so soon?
00:00:56I deserve a ring.
00:00:58We've been together for two and a half years now.
00:01:01That's the one, huh?
00:01:02I spent basically everything that I've
00:01:04ever saved on Melissa's ring.
00:01:06Give me one of them.
00:01:08What is your problem with me?
00:01:09I want my money back!
00:01:10Let's get her out of my house!
00:01:12Money on the bitch.
00:01:13It's literally gone wrong over money.
00:01:16That bitch don't want you to take her, your mama.
00:01:17Do you even love me or do you love what I could be for you?
00:01:21What do you think about me proposing to Bianca?
00:01:24I'm still worried about Bianca wanting to drink.
00:01:26Part of the reason he got incarcerated was from drinking.
00:01:30I can't do this.
00:01:31You're not taking this seriously.
00:01:33I'm going to sleep on the couch tonight.
00:01:34And I just hope that this relationship
00:01:36doesn't tear them both apart.
00:01:49Why are you sleeping on the couch?
00:01:52Why are you waking me up, dude?
00:01:54Are you still mad at me?
00:01:55Are you ready to talk?
00:02:02I just had a bad day yesterday.
00:02:04You know, I just wanted to drink and have fun with your cousin.
00:02:09I didn't mean to, like, trigger you, you know?
00:02:12I can drink if I want to drink.
00:02:14Well, I'm triggered.
00:02:14I want a shot.
00:02:15Take a shot.
00:02:16Yeah?
00:02:17I was seeing how supportive you were going to be,
00:02:19and you failed.
00:02:21I just feel like you kind of led me on
00:02:24while you were in prison.
00:02:26And now it's like you don't want to commit to me.
00:02:28You know, I still don't have a ring.
00:02:29You haven't proposed.
00:02:30You've been out for a few days.
00:02:32Give me time.
00:02:33Just give me time.
00:02:34But, like, when you were in prison,
00:02:37you fed me a whole entire different story.
00:02:40Things don't just happen like that.
00:02:41They don't happen.
00:02:42OK, but that's what you made me think.
00:02:45I did not say I was giving you a ring the first day
00:02:48I'm coming out.
00:02:49OK, you never said that.
00:02:50But, like, it's kind of expected.
00:02:54We were going to get married while you were still there.
00:02:57Look, yeah, I did say that to you,
00:02:59and we started the paperwork.
00:03:01But we didn't do it.
00:03:02I'm glad we didn't.
00:03:05So then why did you ask me to marry you?
00:03:08Because I was being an idiot.
00:03:11You're being an idiot, and that's why you asked me that?
00:03:14I was feeling a lot.
00:03:15So you don't want to marry me?
00:03:16While I was shopping, I bought a ring.
00:03:19But, you know, starting out, we're only three days into this
00:03:22and I'm hitting the fan pretty quick.
00:03:24It's not a good sign.
00:03:28Marriage, marriage, marriage.
00:03:29You keep bringing up marriage.
00:03:30Like, do you think I'm going to leave if we don't get married?
00:03:33Is this something that is going to make you feel secure?
00:03:37Yeah.
00:03:38Tell me about that.
00:03:39It would make me feel secure.
00:03:41I just want you to show that you really care about me,
00:03:44and it's the little things.
00:03:46You know we already argued about that.
00:03:47It's absolutely the little things.
00:03:50Like, obviously, if I'm asking you to do something small
00:03:53for me, you should want to.
00:03:55Are you talking about the coffee again?
00:03:57You're making me breakfast.
00:03:58You literally cannot even, like, pour the coffee for me
00:04:01and put milk in it.
00:04:01That's it.
00:04:02Please?
00:04:03I'm sitting here.
00:04:05I'm not going to do everything for you.
00:04:07I made you breakfast that morning.
00:04:08I'm not going to also make you coffee.
00:04:10You got to pull.
00:04:11You got to get up sometimes.
00:04:12OK, but that's the thing.
00:04:13It was our first morning together,
00:04:15and you can't even, like, do that for me?
00:04:16Like, we're already, like, on this, like, power trip.
00:04:19I don't like that.
00:04:20It's a power trip.
00:04:21Yeah, you're on a power trip.
00:04:23I shouldn't even have to ask you to, like, be nice to me
00:04:26and do nice things for me.
00:04:27You should do it because you love me.
00:04:28Exactly.
00:04:29So if you really love me, I would
00:04:31like for you to show me that you do,
00:04:33and it starts with the little things.
00:04:36You need to walk on your own, too.
00:04:37Oh, this is creepy, Daniel.
00:04:40No, it's the little.
00:04:41Listen.
00:04:43Listen, babe.
00:04:44Please stop yelling, or I'm going to, like,
00:04:46we're not going to have a conversation,
00:04:47and I'm going to shut you out, and I'm going to be really
00:04:48upset, and I'm being serious right now.
00:04:50Please don't yell at me.
00:04:51What did you say?
00:04:52Please don't yell at me.
00:04:53I'm not yelling enough.
00:04:54Because this is literally the dumbest conversation ever.
00:04:56No, it's not.
00:04:57Yes, it is, and I'm being serious with you right now.
00:04:59I don't like that.
00:05:00Please do not raise your voice at me.
00:05:03That's not on me.
00:05:04Yes, it is.
00:05:05That's on you.
00:05:06OK, then we don't have to be together.
00:05:09It, like, no, but I'm being serious.
00:05:11I'm sorry if that upsets you.
00:05:13I just, I don't appreciate that.
00:05:16We don't have to be together, and you want to get married.
00:05:18I yell once, and we don't have to be together.
00:05:21I don't want to give up my timeline that I have.
00:05:24Like, I literally moved my entire life over here
00:05:27thinking we'd get married, like, right away.
00:05:29But I just think I'm noticing that is a lot harder
00:05:34than I thought I was going to be.
00:05:37That's insane.
00:05:41All I need is your love.
00:05:46Joey and I have been talking about getting married
00:05:48since, I mean, almost a year.
00:05:53This will be my third time wedding dress shopping.
00:05:56All I need is your love.
00:06:00Your love is all I need.
00:06:05So cute.
00:06:08Hi.
00:06:09It's even cuter than the pictures.
00:06:11Oh, my God.
00:06:12I feel, like, really thankful you're here.
00:06:15They're so pretty.
00:06:16Aren't they pretty?
00:06:20Joey and I had plans to get married when he got home,
00:06:22but we haven't fully started really planning the wedding yet
00:06:25because we have so many things coming up
00:06:27that we need to pay for.
00:06:28I want to try something, like, fitting,
00:06:30but I don't know that I'm going to love it.
00:06:33Joey's the love of my life.
00:06:34I've never had a man that makes me feel the way he does.
00:06:37And I feel like this time getting married
00:06:39is definitely different
00:06:40because the right person is going to be
00:06:42standing at the other end of that aisle,
00:06:44and I want to look perfect.
00:06:46That looks like a fairytale dress,
00:06:47like, walked out of the woods,
00:06:49the enchanted forest.
00:06:50I like it.
00:06:51I'll try.
00:06:52I like it.
00:06:53I want to try on different stuff.
00:06:54So what's going on?
00:06:56It's the last time I've seen you at your engagement party.
00:06:59I'm sorry about that.
00:07:01I didn't mean to leave like that.
00:07:03I don't know.
00:07:04It just made me upset.
00:07:05I think it was too much.
00:07:06It's kind of weird seeing you all together.
00:07:08Is it really?
00:07:09Yeah, I don't think I like it.
00:07:10You know, he whistled at me outside.
00:07:14And I think he's going to play.
00:07:18You're a big part of my life.
00:07:19It's important to me, like,
00:07:20that you're comfortable,
00:07:21that you're supportive.
00:07:23I mean, I love you.
00:07:24You're my cousin.
00:07:25I love him.
00:07:26He's my fiancé.
00:07:27Like, it's...
00:07:28I don't...
00:07:29I need us to mesh.
00:07:30I agree.
00:07:31Yeah.
00:07:33I'm sorry I put you in that position.
00:07:34No, I'm sorry.
00:07:35I cried.
00:07:36I don't ever want you to feel like that.
00:07:37You did a really good job with this one.
00:07:38I tried.
00:07:41Kimberly wants my approval.
00:07:43I don't know how I feel about that.
00:07:46So do I sit over here?
00:07:47Yeah, that's great.
00:07:48Make yourself comfortable.
00:07:49But I know the old Joey
00:07:50and the old Joey isn't trustable.
00:07:53So I hope she sees something in him that I don't.
00:07:59How you doing, Kimberly?
00:08:03Oh, my God!
00:08:05I like it.
00:08:07I feel like it's very flattering here.
00:08:09It is.
00:08:12Does this make it feel more real?
00:08:14I think it feels really real right now.
00:08:16I know.
00:08:18I'm ready.
00:08:19Like, I'm ready to marry him.
00:08:20How's he doing?
00:08:22I think he's okay.
00:08:23I mean, there's been some bumps in the road.
00:08:25Like, this is new for him, all this.
00:08:28Like, the life, the kids, being sober.
00:08:30Like, when in the hell is the last time
00:08:32you knew him to be sober?
00:08:33I don't know.
00:08:3412 years.
00:08:35When he wasn't in prison.
00:08:36I don't know.
00:08:37That's what I'm saying.
00:08:38Like, it's all new.
00:08:39It's all different.
00:08:40As long as he is sober
00:08:42and he is taking steps
00:08:43to do what he's supposed to do,
00:08:44like, I know I want to do it with him.
00:08:46Third time's the charm.
00:08:47Or...
00:08:48So...
00:08:49Three strikes and I'm out.
00:08:50Either way, I'm done.
00:08:52Okay, well, let's have fun.
00:08:53I love you.
00:08:54Try on another dress.
00:08:56It's surreal that I'm trying on dresses
00:08:58for the man that I've always wanted to marry.
00:09:02The correct way to do this
00:09:03is probably get married
00:09:05and then buy a house.
00:09:07But I'm pretty impulsive,
00:09:08so I got engaged
00:09:10and then I'm gonna buy a house
00:09:11in the middle of that.
00:09:13You look so beautiful.
00:09:15But I still want to, like,
00:09:16try them on
00:09:17and know, like,
00:09:18what I want in a dress.
00:09:23I love that one.
00:09:25I legitimately feel like a Barbie doll.
00:09:28I need a wedding dress.
00:09:30I probably need to get divorced.
00:09:32Wait, what?
00:09:33Yeah.
00:09:34You're divorced?
00:09:36I'm still technically married.
00:09:38Shut up.
00:09:40Are you freaking serious?
00:09:46Are we?
00:09:48Girl, what do you mean?
00:09:49I'm still gonna get married?
00:09:50Does Joey know this?
00:09:55In a situation where you don't make it,
00:09:57what happens with your minor children?
00:09:59I will fix my daughter, Kylie.
00:10:00What do you mean, Kylie?
00:10:01Let me explain to you.
00:10:02No, I cannot hold on a second.
00:10:03You talk to the lawyer.
00:10:04You gotta figure it out.
00:10:06I actually think that you think
00:10:07it's fun trying to get girls.
00:10:10Females are flirting with him.
00:10:12That's exactly what I'm
00:10:13f***ing talking about.
00:10:15I don't f***ing need you.
00:10:16Cover up that goofy-ass tattoo.
00:10:18We've talked about it before.
00:10:20The disrespect, that scares me.
00:10:21I'm done talking.
00:10:27Tonight,
00:10:28Tia Mori is putting herself out there.
00:10:30What are we doing?
00:10:32It's gonna be great.
00:10:33Did I put on deodorant?
00:10:34I did.
00:10:35But finding love won't come easy.
00:10:37It's hunting season.
00:10:39I love olives.
00:10:40I love you.
00:10:41Help!
00:10:42It's gonna take self-talk.
00:10:43Be yourself.
00:10:44Me?
00:10:45You got this.
00:10:46For besties.
00:10:47I think I'm just gonna die alone.
00:10:48You have us.
00:10:50And a few good men.
00:10:53Tia Mori.
00:10:54My next act.
00:10:55All new tonight at 9.30 on BTV.
00:10:57Streaming all black.
00:11:02Yeah, we always keep it solid, keep it dark.
00:11:05Now we never let them haters steal our shine.
00:11:09When they come around, we wave a little goodbye.
00:11:12Hey.
00:11:13Good morning.
00:11:15How you doing?
00:11:16Good.
00:11:17Are you leaving?
00:11:18Yeah, I gotta get going.
00:11:19I don't have much time.
00:11:20I gotta work up a hurry.
00:11:21If you're coming to lunch or not,
00:11:22just let me know or just...
00:11:24Don't I always?
00:11:25I'm pretty much a champ.
00:11:26I love you.
00:11:27I love you, too.
00:11:32My boy.
00:11:33What's going on, brother?
00:11:34What's going on, man?
00:11:35Not much, man.
00:11:36Not too much you got going on, boy.
00:11:37Time to get it started.
00:11:38Ready to get it started, baby.
00:11:39Yes, sir.
00:11:40Yeah, yeah.
00:11:41Today we're out here at my job site.
00:11:42I'm working with my partner, Trell.
00:11:43It was hard finding work at first.
00:11:44My first two job interviews,
00:11:45it was going good up until I told them
00:11:46I just discharged from prison.
00:11:47That's where the interview went downhill.
00:11:48But I found work.
00:11:49I found a job.
00:11:50I found a job.
00:11:51I found a job.
00:11:52I found a job.
00:11:53I found a job.
00:11:54I found a job.
00:11:55I found a job.
00:11:56I found a job.
00:11:57I found a job.
00:11:58I found a job.
00:11:59That's where the interview went downhill.
00:12:01But I found work.
00:12:02It's something short, temporary.
00:12:03It'll pay the bills for now and keep us afloat.
00:12:06You want to go through the checklist
00:12:07and knock it off one by one?
00:12:09Yeah.
00:12:10As crazy as it sounds,
00:12:11I haven't had a job in 16 plus years.
00:12:15So check your fluid.
00:12:16Got the right amount of fluid.
00:12:18Okay.
00:12:19I work on trucks.
00:12:20I pre-inspect trucks.
00:12:21Make sure there ain't none of them belts
00:12:23over there frayed or torn or nothing like that.
00:12:25All right.
00:12:26Hey, I ain't never did this type of work in prison.
00:12:29I can tell you that.
00:12:30Before prison, I was a lost cause.
00:12:33Left.
00:12:34Okay.
00:12:35Right.
00:12:36I got your right.
00:12:37During my incarceration,
00:12:38I enrolled in school
00:12:39and I started from the ground up.
00:12:41I started all the way like I was in kindergarten again.
00:12:44All the way up until I graduated with a GED.
00:12:47How's it going, guys?
00:12:48What's up, Kelly, man?
00:12:49All right.
00:12:50What's going on, Kelly?
00:12:51All right.
00:12:52Ready to go?
00:12:53Well, we got the most important things checked,
00:12:54so it's good to go for a turnaround.
00:12:55Excellent.
00:12:56All right.
00:12:57Appreciate you guys taking care of me right away.
00:12:59You too.
00:13:00You too.
00:13:01Baby mama!
00:13:02Oh, I missed you.
00:13:03I'm dirty.
00:13:04Be careful.
00:13:05It's okay.
00:13:06I'm finna go.
00:13:07I'm gonna get out of the way.
00:13:08Y'all have a good one.
00:13:09I'll see you after lunch.
00:13:10You definitely did your thing
00:13:11with these sandwiches.
00:13:12Okay.
00:13:13How's today been going?
00:13:14Good.
00:13:15How's work been?
00:13:16It's been okay for the most part.
00:13:17I was pegged to bring it up,
00:13:20but this job isn't gonna really get it.
00:13:23Is it just something to...
00:13:24Temporary, yeah.
00:13:25Yeah.
00:13:26My CDL class,
00:13:27roughly around $5,500 out of pocket.
00:13:30In prison, I made money.
00:13:32It fluctuated.
00:13:33I'm a businessman.
00:13:34I'll go to the poker table.
00:13:36I'll bring in $6,000, $7,000 a month.
00:13:39Tini, she spends so much money,
00:13:41she's turned into a spoiled brat, I swear.
00:13:44Since I've been out,
00:13:45I've definitely considered ways to make fast money,
00:13:48but I have a family.
00:13:49I have responsibilities.
00:13:51That's not what a man does.
00:13:54I've been having you at home,
00:13:56for about a year,
00:13:57taking care of the house.
00:13:59You will have to get a job.
00:14:06I don't know.
00:14:08I've worked my whole life.
00:14:09I just, you know,
00:14:10it'll be nerve-wracking at first.
00:14:12It'll be a huge adjustment,
00:14:14but we'll do that then.
00:14:16I can get a job.
00:14:18I was 20 years old when I had Shai,
00:14:20so being a young, single mother,
00:14:22most struggles, I went through them.
00:14:25Keeping food in the house,
00:14:26keeping the bills paid.
00:14:28It's hard when you're a baby yourself
00:14:30and you're doing it alone, you know?
00:14:33I can be honest and say I've enjoyed my break,
00:14:36but I also know that
00:14:37when you're in a sink or swim situation,
00:14:39you better hope like hell you finna swim.
00:14:42So when do you think you'll be able to start working?
00:14:46I mean, all I gotta do is
00:14:47touch up my resume a little
00:14:49and start sending it out.
00:14:50I could have a job maybe in about two weeks.
00:14:55I know we can come up with it,
00:14:57but call me before making purchases.
00:15:01I don't want you worrying.
00:15:10I can't believe I did it.
00:15:12Now I just wanna give her the ring.
00:15:19I just never spent this much money
00:15:20in my entire life on anything.
00:15:21I just spent $18,500
00:15:25on this absolutely gorgeous ring for Melissa.
00:15:31I'm very excited,
00:15:32but I'm a little nervous about the situation
00:15:35because I'm meeting up with Melissa,
00:15:37her sister and dad for his birthday.
00:15:41And I'm gonna ask him for his blessing
00:15:43to marry Melissa.
00:15:45I should have asked his permission first,
00:15:46then bought the ring
00:15:47because what happens if the dude says no?
00:15:50Can you imagine if her dad said no?
00:15:51I don't give him my blessing.
00:15:53I'm just nervous.
00:15:54I don't know.
00:15:58Nothing like waiting to the last minute.
00:16:00I know.
00:16:01Dad's a gift.
00:16:02I don't even know what...
00:16:03I don't know what he likes anymore.
00:16:06Right?
00:16:07I mean, they did have, like, ashtrays.
00:16:09Yeah.
00:16:10Where we can grow him a girlfriend.
00:16:11Oh.
00:16:12Maybe we should grow him a girlfriend.
00:16:15Grows to six times its original size.
00:16:20I think it's nice that we're taking him out to lunch.
00:16:23Yeah.
00:16:24Does dad know Louie's coming?
00:16:27I don't know.
00:16:28I've just been, like, so busy.
00:16:29I mean, at this point, like, everyone...
00:16:33should be okay, right?
00:16:35He's been here for a while,
00:16:36so we should all be okay.
00:16:38You know, be nice.
00:16:40I'm always nice.
00:16:42Are they nice?
00:16:44We're hugging them.
00:16:45Why do we have to be nice?
00:16:46Why wouldn't you be nice?
00:16:48We're just worried about our sister
00:16:50and making sure she's not making dumb choices.
00:16:53I understand the past concerns when he first got out.
00:16:58But now, I feel like Louie's, like, working on himself.
00:17:02Mm-hmm.
00:17:03All the time.
00:17:04Trying to be a better person.
00:17:05And I'm trying to trust him that he's not gonna, like,
00:17:08f*** me over.
00:17:10All of my past relationships just had bad endings.
00:17:16People that I thought I could trust betraying me.
00:17:20So I just can't help but think, like,
00:17:24if they could do that to me,
00:17:27why can't Louie?
00:17:29My main problem, right, I feel like, in relationships,
00:17:33is when I feel like I'm starting to like somebody,
00:17:37like, I immediately, like, sabotage it, right?
00:17:40That I'm, like, a giant bitch.
00:17:41Well, I mean, I think it's just you're afraid of getting hurt.
00:17:45And you won't allow someone to get that close to you.
00:17:49But because, you know, of his history,
00:17:53I mean, I would have my guard up, too.
00:17:55I know, like, people can change,
00:17:57but I feel like from his past,
00:17:59it's very hard to look past that, you know,
00:18:02it's only been a little bit.
00:18:04Should we get him a shark?
00:18:05Shark?
00:18:06Does he like sharks?
00:18:08He's gotta prove he can stay on the right path
00:18:10another year or so and see how it works out.
00:18:15Hi, Dad.
00:18:16Happy birthday.
00:18:17Happy birthday.
00:18:18Happy birthday.
00:18:20We got you a gift.
00:18:21Oh, boy.
00:18:22Hope you love it.
00:18:23Want me to open it?
00:18:24Not yet.
00:18:25How are you feeling?
00:18:26Not too good.
00:18:27Well, you are 76 now.
00:18:28Don't give me that.
00:18:29I'm 76.
00:18:30I'm 76.
00:18:31I'm 76.
00:18:32I'm 76.
00:18:33I'm 76.
00:18:34I'm 76.
00:18:35I'm 76.
00:18:36I'm 76.
00:18:37I'm 76.
00:18:38I'm 76.
00:18:39I'm 76.
00:18:40I'm 76.
00:18:41I'm 76.
00:18:42I'm 76.
00:18:43I'm 76.
00:18:44Don't remind me.
00:18:47My dad looks like skin and bones, and I hope that he starts taking care of himself soon
00:18:55because he looks totally different.
00:18:57I didn't even recognize him.
00:18:59Louie's coming.
00:19:00Yeah, the gym.
00:19:01And we're gonna be, you know that?
00:19:02We're gonna be, you know, nice today.
00:19:03Hello.
00:19:04Happy birthday.
00:19:22How you doing?
00:19:23What's up, Sherry?
00:19:24Hi Louie.
00:19:25We were waiting for—playing for my dad to open his gift.
00:19:26Oh Jesus.
00:19:27What the hell is that?
00:19:28He can grow his own girlfriend.
00:19:29Oh my God.
00:19:30I'm getting hot.
00:19:31I'm trying to start to sweat.
00:19:33I don't really have anything planned.
00:19:36I don't know what I'm gonna say exactly.
00:19:38Like, I'm really kind of speechless.
00:19:41♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
00:19:45It's just like my excitement and nervousness
00:19:49are like just churning in my stomach.
00:19:52I gotta get going.
00:19:54I'll walk out with you.
00:19:56You're coming back?
00:19:57Yeah, I'm coming back.
00:19:59All right, bye.
00:20:02Oh man.
00:20:04There's some things I wanna discuss with you.
00:20:09You know, I really love Melissa.
00:20:12I wanna take the next step with her.
00:20:14So I want to, at some point, very soon,
00:20:18ask her to marry me.
00:20:26No matter what I do, it's gonna suck.
00:20:27You say something like that, you don't feel trusted.
00:20:29The house is not supposed to be divided.
00:20:33I wanna get married.
00:20:33Now?
00:20:35Don't you wanna get married?
00:20:38Do you remember me telling you
00:20:38I was gonna do the DNA test?
00:20:40It could be Joey's.
00:20:41What is that gonna do to my kid?
00:20:42I'm extremely nervous.
00:20:44What if he, like, marries you and then takes all your
00:20:46shit?
00:20:51Why didn't we do this last year?
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00:21:29Rodgers, what are you doing?
00:21:31Babe, have you seen the phone charger?
00:21:33No.
00:21:34I have no idea because cough drop
00:21:36likes things in certain places.
00:21:40♪ Don't think it's selfish to do what is healthy for me. ♪
00:21:46What is the problem with your P.O.?
00:21:48Why does she keep denying you?
00:21:50It's not my P.O. that's denying me.
00:21:52It's Texas that's denying me.
00:21:54What is your plan about staying here?
00:21:57Because I got denied, it'll be another 45 days
00:22:00till I figure it out.
00:22:02Because I got to start the process all over.
00:22:05I'm in a waiting process.
00:22:07To see if I can still get transferred over to Texas.
00:22:09We were provided with a motel that was government sponsored,
00:22:13but we couldn't make it past a month.
00:22:16We don't have to be in no dirty ass motel.
00:22:19Like, when I went to the freaking vending machine,
00:22:21there was a crackhead.
00:22:23It's just sick, bro.
00:22:26K-Rock suggested we go stay with his mentor, Coffee.
00:22:29You know, I love having y'all here.
00:22:31Y'all could stay here forever if I had my way.
00:22:34You guys are too good to me.
00:22:35Sweeping up something, mopping something,
00:22:37washing dishes or cooking.
00:22:40It's definitely crammed in here.
00:22:42She has all these knickknacks and things all over the place.
00:22:46I got a penguin walk just to go to the bathroom.
00:22:49All right, we're about to head out.
00:22:51But I'm so grateful that she allowed us to stay with her.
00:22:55I think we're just gonna have to make the best of it.
00:22:58I know you tired, girl.
00:23:00Yes.
00:23:01Like, I love her to death, you know what I mean?
00:23:03But like, that air mattress I'm giving.
00:23:05There's nothing like the comfort of your own home.
00:23:07I know.
00:23:10We'll be here soon, baby.
00:23:12I just know I got a lot of planning and stuff to do.
00:23:15Right now, me and Bri are living off my savings.
00:23:17I keep pulling and pulling and pulling,
00:23:19and I have not worked in months.
00:23:21I don't want to start a job in Virginia
00:23:24knowing that I can be leaving,
00:23:25packing my things up to go to Texas any day, any minute now.
00:23:29But if the money runs out,
00:23:32I don't know what the hell we gonna do.
00:23:34So right now, we have our phone bills.
00:23:37That's $267.
00:23:40We're paying two rents right now.
00:23:43$1,400 for Houston.
00:23:45$350 for coffee. $350 for coffee.
00:23:48How much is your nails?
00:23:51Right. I don't have to get my nails done anymore.
00:23:53Oh, please. You get them done every week, babe.
00:23:55That's like a what, $500, $600?
00:23:57I don't know. I'm just saying, babe.
00:23:59The goal is to get where?
00:24:00To Houston. To Houston.
00:24:02Okay. We're spending more than we anticipated
00:24:04during this time
00:24:06because we didn't think it was gonna be this long of a wait.
00:24:09If you have to go to Texas without me...
00:24:14What are you talking about?
00:24:15Baby, I got denied.
00:24:18I said it's a long wait.
00:24:19We were, at least over there,
00:24:21with you working in the HVAC.
00:24:24With that money...
00:24:25It's good money.
00:24:26And your cousin just became manager, right?
00:24:28Yeah.
00:24:30If you go...
00:24:32I'm not going to Texas without you anyway.
00:24:34But what if they don't ever let me go?
00:24:36Then what?
00:24:38Say the words come, you know, shove.
00:24:39Like, you can't go in the next 45 days.
00:24:43If I'm gonna go to Texas,
00:24:45if you really, really want me to go,
00:24:47and I understand it's making money, fine.
00:24:51But, uh, I want to get married.
00:24:56Now?
00:24:58We can ELO.
00:24:59So, you know, you ELO, hey, listen, I'm married.
00:25:01This is my husband.
00:25:02I should be allowed to live with him.
00:25:04He's not on probation anymore.
00:25:06It's a, you know, a nice apartment for me to go to.
00:25:09You know what I'm saying?
00:25:10They're leaving you out here for you to just be homeless.
00:25:13So if you have a home to go to with me,
00:25:15why wouldn't they let you go?
00:25:18It's true.
00:25:18You feeling me?
00:25:19You catching the vibe?
00:25:22They're telling her all you need
00:25:25is to be on a lease with a family member,
00:25:28and if we get married, we're family,
00:25:31and you're on the lease of our apartment already.
00:25:35So come on, let's do it.
00:25:37You know, I always felt like we were gonna have
00:25:39a nice big wedding with our family there and our friends.
00:25:43Okay, I'll still give you that big wedding,
00:25:45but let's just do the ERO man now.
00:25:48You get what I'm saying?
00:25:49And then in the future, hey.
00:25:50Like, legally.
00:25:51Yeah, let's just get that out of the way.
00:25:53You know what I'm saying?
00:25:54And our family don't have to know.
00:25:55You don't gotta call Abuela
00:25:56because she probably have my head.
00:25:58You know Tammy would want to kill you and I both.
00:26:00So we're not going to be mother.
00:26:02I don't have a dress.
00:26:04Don't worry about none of that.
00:26:05I'll figure that out.
00:26:06The only way that I'm going with your plan A
00:26:11and go to Texas is if that we get married.
00:26:14I mean, I want to sell a bond.
00:26:15I take that seriously.
00:26:18Come on, man.
00:26:19What do you say, baby?
00:26:21Want to marry me?
00:26:23You know I want to marry you.
00:26:25All right then, so let's do it.
00:26:27I guess it's decided.
00:26:28We're going to be eloping in probably the next two weeks.
00:26:31I wish that we could have our big wedding,
00:26:32but I'm willing to do this so that we
00:26:35can start our life together.
00:26:36He says he wants to play in it, so I'll let him.
00:26:38But I'm going to have to pick out my dress.
00:26:40He's low.
00:26:46I love you.
00:26:47I love you too.
00:26:57Such a morbid feeling to be going into a lawyer's office
00:26:59to be talking about a will.
00:27:01Look at that.
00:27:03Conference room.
00:27:04I think about the jury deliberating on my case.
00:27:08Can't relate.
00:27:16Hey, guys.
00:27:16Hey, good morning.
00:27:17Hi.
00:27:18Justine.
00:27:19Hi, Sam.
00:27:20Nice to meet you.
00:27:20Sam.
00:27:21Nice to meet you.
00:27:22Who's this?
00:27:23This is Manhattan.
00:27:24Hi, baby Manhattan.
00:27:25How are you?
00:27:27Oh, man, she's beautiful.
00:27:28Thank you so much.
00:27:29Come on in, guys.
00:27:31We're speaking with the lawyer about medical decisions,
00:27:35custody of the children, finances,
00:27:38all the important things that need to be in place.
00:27:40God forbid anything happens to me.
00:27:43It's a scary thing to think about,
00:27:45which is why we don't like talking about a will.
00:27:47But being that this is a high-risk pregnancy,
00:27:49it's something that we need to do.
00:27:51Fortunately, we can afford it.
00:27:53So let's have you guys sit over here, and I'll sit back here.
00:27:56OK.
00:27:57Sit here?
00:27:57Yeah.
00:27:58I want to make sure that my children are taken care of.
00:28:00I want to make sure that you're taken care of.
00:28:02If you want to make sure that I'm taken care of,
00:28:04you better make it out of that room.
00:28:06I would never be the same.
00:28:07If something ever happened to you, I'm done.
00:28:10I would just devote my life to my children.
00:28:13That's it.
00:28:15What's going on?
00:28:16Well, I am pregnant again.
00:28:19Congratulations.
00:28:21This is going to be my fifth child.
00:28:23And it's going to be another surgery.
00:28:26And my doctor has now advised me that I
00:28:29come speak with an attorney about having a will in place
00:28:33because I am extremely high-risk.
00:28:35You know, when you talk about estate planning,
00:28:37there's lots of things to think about.
00:28:39Your finances, custody of children, your health care.
00:28:42So worst-case scenario, there are complications,
00:28:45and decisions have to be made.
00:28:47What happens?
00:28:48In an extreme case, and like, we know
00:28:52that on the other end of it, it's
00:28:53not going to be good for me.
00:28:54Like, don't, don't resist it.
00:28:56I mean, like, I don't want that.
00:28:57I'm willing to have a blood transfusion.
00:29:00I'm willing to do those things that
00:29:02can potentially save my life.
00:29:04What I do not want is that there is no quality of life there.
00:29:07I do not want to continue on.
00:29:10I think it's selfish.
00:29:11What if you got better?
00:29:13You don't know that.
00:29:15What if I didn't?
00:29:16You think my children want to look at me like that every day?
00:29:19Do you think you're going to want
00:29:20to look at me like that every day?
00:29:22What am I supposed to tell her of the baby?
00:29:25That I made the most selfless decision in a hard moment
00:29:30that I ever could.
00:29:33When Justina and I decided to have this baby,
00:29:37we were not thinking about a will.
00:29:40We were not preparing for her death.
00:29:43We were preparing to give life.
00:29:46You can have a health care directive
00:29:47that says, essentially, what happens
00:29:49if my life is threatened?
00:29:51I mean, I feel like that's just one part of it.
00:29:55But I feel like the other part of it,
00:29:58and something that's very important to me,
00:30:00is the side with my children that we do not share together.
00:30:06If you guys have children from previous relationships
00:30:09who are minors, you would have to dictate who the guardian
00:30:13would be of that child, because he is not the biological father.
00:30:18How many kids do you have?
00:30:19I have three prior to the relationship with Michael.
00:30:22I have two boys.
00:30:23How old are your boys?
00:30:25Santana is 14, and Bentley is 11.
00:30:29OK.
00:30:29And do they live with you?
00:30:30They live with me.
00:30:32They both have the same father, biological father.
00:30:34Has he had custody of them since you guys split?
00:30:38No, but I also have a daughter, Kylie.
00:30:42She's 19.
00:30:43In a situation where you're at high risk with your pregnancy,
00:30:46you don't make it.
00:30:47What happens with your minor children?
00:30:49What would you want to have happen?
00:30:54I would pick my daughter, Kylie.
00:30:57What do you mean, Kylie?
00:30:58That doesn't even make any sense.
00:31:00Kylie's a child.
00:31:03I'm in a no-win situation.
00:31:06Now, over here on this hand.
00:31:08So let's divide the family.
00:31:09That's the best thing to do.
00:31:10Hold on a second.
00:31:10Let me explain to you.
00:31:11No, I cannot hold on a second.
00:31:12No.
00:31:12Well, if you give me a chance to talk, maybe you'll find out.
00:31:15No, no, you're telling me.
00:31:16OK, well, you let me know when.
00:31:18No, I'm good.
00:31:20You talk to the lawyer.
00:31:21You got to figure it out.
00:31:25Will do.
00:31:32There's some things I want to discuss with you.
00:31:36You know, I really love Melissa.
00:31:39I want to take the next step with her.
00:31:41So I want to, at some point very soon, ask her to marry me.
00:31:45And I want to ask if it's OK.
00:31:56You know, I'm very protective of all my daughters.
00:32:00Yeah, I know.
00:32:00My daughters come first.
00:32:02100%.
00:32:03I don't know if that's the Italian in me or what, but.
00:32:05I think it's just the father in you, you know?
00:32:09You know, Melissa's independent, very independent, a hard worker.
00:32:13She definitely is.
00:32:15You think you could keep up with her and, you know, straight path?
00:32:22My ass together, 100%.
00:32:24That's good.
00:32:27I approve it because you did the right thing.
00:32:32I appreciate it.
00:32:33Just keep up the good work.
00:32:35Louis, it's hard, but I think he's a good fit.
00:32:44Melissa hasn't had good relationships.
00:32:47I mean, she she could pick him, but Louis seems like he's honest.
00:32:54Melissa loves him.
00:32:55And I think they're meant for each other.
00:32:58Hold on, I got it.
00:33:00It's absolutely amazing because now I'm one step closer
00:33:03to finally being able to propose to her.
00:33:06I just need to figure out how to actually do it.
00:33:08Thanks, Louis.
00:33:10Oh, thank you.
00:33:11Believe me, more than, you know, I appreciate it.
00:33:19We don't have to be together.
00:33:21That's insane.
00:33:22I just yeah, well, I don't want to be with someone that yells at me.
00:33:30I've been in relationships like that.
00:33:32I don't like people that yell at me.
00:33:34People yell.
00:33:35But it's over something so stupid.
00:33:37It's not.
00:33:38I've been in relationships where that's how it starts.
00:33:41You know, it starts out with like you raise your voice,
00:33:44you throw things and then it goes to like abuse toward me.
00:33:49I think it's like a huge change for him, especially like being surrounded by men.
00:33:54And now it's like he's out here, he's living with me,
00:33:57but he's not respecting my boundaries.
00:34:00When I make breakfast, get your own drink.
00:34:01Like, that's not hard.
00:34:03But it was the first time you've done something for me.
00:34:08That's important.
00:34:10Exactly. That's why you should.
00:34:11Because I set a bar and I set the bar.
00:34:14That's why you should have just done that.
00:34:15You know, because now you're going to expect it every time.
00:34:18No. Yeah.
00:34:20It just could have been one time that you could have did something for me.
00:34:23Yeah. And it adds up.
00:34:24You're going to expect it.
00:34:25Why does that bother you so badly?
00:34:28I'm not your slave.
00:34:31I made breakfast.
00:34:32I'm not going to get your coffee.
00:34:34I'm not going to do the dishes.
00:34:37I'm not the housekeeper, you know, and that's why I didn't want to do it.
00:34:42This is going to go nowhere
00:34:44because you don't get it, you know what I mean?
00:34:47Like, I just feel like we're not getting each other right now.
00:34:50It's just really frustrating.
00:34:53I mean, in a healthy relationship, I feel like we need to have boundaries.
00:34:58Yes. But I also think that
00:35:01a relationship isn't a relationship if you don't want to do things
00:35:05that will make the other person happy.
00:35:06And that's all that I'm saying.
00:35:09Don't rely on me doing things to make you happy
00:35:13because that's not going to work.
00:35:15When we do get married, whenever that is.
00:35:18Yeah, whenever.
00:35:19And we want to have a family.
00:35:22You know, am I just going to be doing everything because
00:35:25you don't want to do everything for me and for the family?
00:35:28You know what I mean?
00:35:28That's different. How?
00:35:32You have legs that work.
00:35:33You can walk 10 feet to get coffee.
00:35:38Honestly, like, let's be real like that.
00:35:41But it's just a red flag.
00:35:43Yeah, it is a red flag.
00:35:44For you, your red flag. Red flag.
00:35:47I have nothing more to say to you because we're never going to see eye to eye.
00:35:50I just want to make up and like, I'm done with the convo.
00:35:53Forgive me and I'll forgive you and we can kiss.
00:35:56I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
00:35:59Come here. You come here.
00:36:01I'll meet you in the middle.
00:36:03No, I'm here.
00:36:04Meet me in the middle. Come on.
00:36:06Come on, meet me in the middle.
00:36:08Sorry. I love you.
00:36:11Are you sorry? I'm sorry.
00:36:13Promise? Yeah, I'm letting it go, come here.
00:36:17These first couple of days have been a rough start.
00:36:20You know, there's been a lot of fighting.
00:36:22There's been a lot of eye openers.
00:36:25I'm going to go check in with Robert and see what he's doing.
00:36:28So let's just circle back to this later.
00:36:31OK. Bianca says she's OK with,
00:36:34you know, putting what we were arguing with aside.
00:36:36But I know, like, she's still upset about it.
00:36:40I think there's more that's bothering her that she's not telling me.
00:36:49You don't want your family to know that.
00:36:51I mean, I do want them to be there, but.
00:36:53Hey, sis. Hey, girl.
00:37:00Oh, oh, you look cute.
00:37:03Thanks. I'm in an appointment to look at wedding dresses.
00:37:07Wedding dresses. Yeah.
00:37:15They're going to get married here. Yes.
00:37:17And so the reason why we're getting married is because once we go to Houston,
00:37:22it'll be easier for me to move in with Kirok.
00:37:25Why do you think that?
00:37:26Because, you know, like when you get married, that person becomes family.
00:37:30They're not going to keep me from living with my man or being my man.
00:37:34So that's why we think that we're just going to do this
00:37:36and then have a big wedding in the future.
00:37:39I thought you wanted this big wedding.
00:37:40I do. That's the only thing that sucks.
00:37:43I want a really big wedding.
00:37:45I told him that the only way I'm going to do the elopement.
00:37:47Oh, he wants you to do the he wants to do the elopement.
00:37:50He was like, if you want me to go to Texas
00:37:53and work and everything, we're going to get married.
00:37:56Don't you want to do it how you wanted, how you always thought you would do it?
00:37:59I know. And I do.
00:38:01I just feel like Kirok has this control over you, girl.
00:38:07I don't feel like Kirok's forcing me to get married,
00:38:10but I do feel like he's taking it a little too far
00:38:14by saying that he won't go to Houston if we don't get married.
00:38:18Feels like Kirok's giving me an ultimatum, but I don't know.
00:38:22I just don't want to think like that.
00:38:28Hi. Hi. Welcome to Christopher's.
00:38:31Hello. How can I help you today?
00:38:34I'm looking for some flowers for this elopement that I'm doing with my fiance.
00:38:39Oh, how great. Well, let's take a look around.
00:38:41We've got a lot of flowers out, so we can just kind of walk around
00:38:44and see if there's something that's speaking to you.
00:38:46Right. I'm excited to marry my fiance,
00:38:50and I'm ready for us to start our life and start our dreams, our careers.
00:38:56We just got in some really beautiful red.
00:38:59We've got Gabora Daisies here.
00:39:01Gabora Daisies. What's the story behind them?
00:39:03Oh, well, they represent faithfulness.
00:39:06Yeah, that's pretty good. It's a good one for an elopement, right?
00:39:12Hey, all the equipment for Britain.
00:39:14Awesome. Nice to meet you.
00:39:15It's kind of like a small elopement.
00:39:17So that's why I'm kind of just going to try a different style of dresses
00:39:22to see what I'm going to go with.
00:39:24All right. We got lots of gowns, so you're in luck.
00:39:27I'm not trying to spend a bag on this dang elopement.
00:39:30I mean, it's not even really the wedding that I want.
00:39:33So I'm going to give myself a budget of absolutely no more than $600.
00:39:40Are you excited, though?
00:39:41Are you nervous? I am excited.
00:39:42I feel like.
00:39:45I just wish, like, you know, his mom could be there or like my grandma.
00:39:50So I'm not even going to tell my abuela, too.
00:39:51And I know she's going to be mad.
00:39:53She'll be like, why?
00:39:55Like, whose idea was this to not tell you?
00:39:58But what do you want to do?
00:39:59You don't want your family to know that.
00:40:01I mean, I do. I do want them to be there.
00:40:04But I mean, what's the point of telling them if they can't come?
00:40:07I think you should still tell them about the elopement.
00:40:09This is kind of like stressing me out, the fact that we are doing this in secrecy, right?
00:40:13My mom, is it going to be there?
00:40:17You know, she's going to be.
00:40:18Yeah. She ever finds out?
00:40:22I don't know.
00:40:22But I think Tammy, I think she'll be more understanding.
00:40:25You think so? Yes.
00:40:27Because of these circumstances.
00:40:29That's a good idea.
00:40:30Because once you're legally married, I don't think your PO can stop you from living together.
00:40:35This is something that's needed.
00:40:37This is something that's needed.
00:40:39Yeah, I think I might need to fill her in.
00:40:43I know, like, Bri, we agree, like, don't let nobody know, but my mom, she's different.
00:40:48She ain't going to tell nobody but the whole neighborhood.
00:40:52My mom was already upset about us not moving with her to Texas.
00:40:57Are you kidding me?
00:40:59This is really bullsh**.
00:41:01I don't want to make that same mistake.
00:41:04And I feel like she don't deserve that either.
00:41:07All right, so I'm just going to try to call her.
00:41:16Today, we do Transformation Wednesday.
00:41:19It is what it is. It's paying the bills.
00:41:24I'm still technically married.
00:41:32Does Joey like this?
00:41:35No, Joey thinks it's going to be fine any day.
00:41:38What have you done so far for the divorce?
00:41:41I thought, like, after a year, like, we just signed something.
00:41:46Because that's what I did before.
00:41:47Like, and now, like, I'm going online, I'm researching.
00:41:50It doesn't work like that.
00:41:52Kimberly, you got to get a lawyer ASAP.
00:41:55Monday. I know.
00:41:56I agree. I've got to do it.
00:41:59Do you need a drink?
00:42:00You want a drink?
00:42:05I mean, I mean, we have date night tonight.
00:42:09Are you going to tell him?
00:42:10I don't know. Do you think I should tell him tonight?
00:42:13If I was marrying somebody, I think I would want to know.
00:42:17I am extremely nervous to talk to Joey.
00:42:20Like, it's date night.
00:42:21We're supposed to be able to go out and have a good time together.
00:42:23I don't feel good about having to talk to him about this,
00:42:25but I don't feel good about hiding it from him anymore either.
00:42:28I'll tell you something else.
00:42:30Do you remember me telling you I was going to do the DNA test?
00:42:32Do you remember me telling you I was going to do the DNA test?
00:42:36For Kaysen? Yeah.
00:42:37Like, we did the test. I didn't really want to do it anyway.
00:42:40I felt like he was pressuring me.
00:42:41Whose idea was it? Joey's.
00:42:43Now he's asking me. He's like,
00:42:45have you gotten the results back yet?
00:42:46And I'm like, no, not yet.
00:42:49But you know what I'm scared of?
00:42:50Like, I'm terrified that the slight chance
00:42:53that Kaysen could be Joey's, and that comes back, like,
00:42:57what is that going to do to my kid?
00:42:59What happens if this DNA test affects my divorce?
00:43:03I mean, as much as I don't want to tell him everything,
00:43:08like, I don't like it when he keeps it from me.
00:43:10Like, that's been one of our biggest issues in our relationship
00:43:12is doing it all out of me.
00:43:14And he's going to be so upset.
00:43:19So do you kind of feel like Joey's pushing you?
00:43:21Yes. He's pushing you to do the DNA test.
00:43:24He's pushing you to get married. He's pushing you.
00:43:27What if he, like, marries you and then takes all your s**t?
00:43:30I mean, is it smart to get married now?
00:43:33I don't know, baby.
00:43:35It's a lot.
00:43:36You do what you feel is right.
00:43:38I'm going to try on another one.
00:43:39All right, girlfriend.
00:43:48Baby, have you seen that one shirt I had with the tree?
00:43:51No.
00:43:56I can't believe I made it to the park.
00:43:58Yeah.
00:43:58I went to the park yesterday, didn't I?
00:44:00The water park, yeah.
00:44:02I wish you could have came. It was a lot of fun.
00:44:03It was?
00:44:04Yeah.
00:44:05Because, you know, usually when we go,
00:44:07we just pay the general admission to get in,
00:44:09but they actually had a really good deal,
00:44:10so they offer season passes now.
00:44:13So I went ahead and got one of those.
00:44:15$250.
00:44:16Covers a family of four, which is exactly what we have,
00:44:19and we can swim as much as we want.
00:44:21I knew I was rolling the dice when I bought the passes.
00:44:25I reasoned with it in my head, Rob is no longer in prison.
00:44:29We're able to do more and create new memories,
00:44:31and there's a point in time where we could just go out
00:44:33and splurge and spend $250,
00:44:35and it really wouldn't make a difference.
00:44:37I thought we talked about these things when I was away.
00:44:40I thought we talked about when I come home,
00:44:42any purchases over $100,
00:44:44let's just verify them with each other.
00:44:46Why spend $250 at a water park?
00:44:49If I could pay $250 and take them to a park
00:44:52and let them wear themselves out for the whole summer,
00:44:54it's cheaper than any arcade we could take them to.
00:44:56It's cheaper than a regular water park.
00:44:58Yesterday when you came to have lunch with me,
00:45:01the talk about school that we might have to pay, right?
00:45:04Yes, which is why I'm getting a job.
00:45:07So Rob and I, we have accounts.
00:45:10Like, he has accounts in his name, I have accounts in mine,
00:45:13but we both have full access.
00:45:14Yeah, she definitely knows when I get paid.
00:45:17Yeah, so do the kids.
00:45:18Yeah, the kids even know when I get paid.
00:45:21One morning, Nehemiah said,
00:45:22you get paid today.
00:45:25I said, I do, thank you.
00:45:29Okay, while you're getting a job,
00:45:31having got a job.
00:45:32Okay, well, give me two weeks, I'll have a job.
00:45:35I don't know. I don't know. You got it.
00:45:36Well, that's fine, Rob. It's cool.
00:45:38I'm done talking about it.
00:45:40I don't, I can't say that I have a spending habit
00:45:43because I bargain shop for everything.
00:45:46But yeah, I like nice things.
00:45:49Oh, I'm not gonna lie.
00:45:51There's so much, like, I do not get it.
00:45:53Like, why do we have to go through this?
00:45:55Like, we've talked about it before.
00:45:59Every purchase you make, right?
00:46:00I'll, I'm getting a job in two weeks.
00:46:02I don't always say we just started talking
00:46:05about me getting a job.
00:46:06Okay, so we'll just wait on two weeks
00:46:07and Tini will have a job in two weeks.
00:46:09Great. And if I get a job,
00:46:10that gives you two weeks to cover up
00:46:12that goofy-ass tattoo on your ****, okay?
00:46:14Yeah, I'll do that. I'll do that.
00:46:15I'll do that when we get the money.
00:46:17You look for a tattoo artist while I'm looking for a job.
00:46:20We both need to be looking for something right now.
00:46:22You need a tattoo artist and I need a job,
00:46:24so let's work on it.
00:46:27I don't know.
00:46:28Hopefully, that goofy-ass tattoo of his ex gets covered up.
00:46:31Now we're both on a two-week time frame,
00:46:32so I guess we better get to work.
00:46:35And I don't feel bad about it.
00:46:38All of this over a **** water pass.
00:46:43No matter what I do, it's gonna suck.
00:46:45It's like a no-win.
00:46:46God forbid she dies, but...
00:46:53What's up, everybody?
00:46:54Good morning. Good morning.
00:46:55Coach Louie here.
00:46:56Today, we do Transformation Wednesday.
00:46:59Don't you want to become a better version of yourself?
00:47:01Don't you want to get ready for the summertime?
00:47:04Let's get it, baby.
00:47:05I can't see.
00:47:15I'm not really cool with Louie
00:47:18posting all these videos and training all these women.
00:47:23I thought that when he moved to New Jersey
00:47:26that we were gonna have all this time to see each other,
00:47:30and now I feel like I'm second best to his work.
00:47:35Hello?
00:47:36I'm up here.
00:47:40He's always trying to book another client,
00:47:43and I'm just waiting for him to pay attention to me.
00:47:49I got dinner.
00:47:52Look at you.
00:47:54This is a nice surprise.
00:47:57No, you're not coming in, Louie.
00:48:00It's not bath time for you.
00:48:02It's bath time for me.
00:48:03I am exhausted.
00:48:05Exhausted?
00:48:07Yeah, exhausted,
00:48:08because I worked at the post office and the restaurant,
00:48:11and that's what we're having for dinner.
00:48:12So why are you giving me an attitude?
00:48:14I'm just wondering why we're having pizza again.
00:48:18Like, if we're working six jobs between the two of us,
00:48:21I think we could eat something better than pizza.
00:48:23And we do, don't we, whenever we go out?
00:48:25Okay, but we rarely ever go out to dinner...
00:48:27Okay, you knew this. ...because you're always working.
00:48:29Okay, what did you say?
00:48:30You're willing to sacrifice the time
00:48:32so we can get our s*** together.
00:48:33And now, like, why are you bitching about it?
00:48:36Because now it's like you work more and more.
00:48:39Okay.
00:48:40The training is consuming your time.
00:48:42Okay, it is what it is.
00:48:44It's work, it's paying the bills, and I'm saving money.
00:48:47I have goals that I'm trying to reach.
00:48:49You don't know how much that training is even paying.
00:48:53You think I should be doing it for the fun?
00:48:55Yeah, I actually think you do think it's fun.
00:48:58Really? I actually think that you think it's fun
00:49:01to go on social media trying to get girls
00:49:05to buy your s***, buy your supplements.
00:49:08Supplements, that's all they're doing
00:49:09is buying supplements from me. That's it.
00:49:10And booking a personal training session.
00:49:12Every now and again, yeah, I might get somebody,
00:49:14do a little Zoom call, whatever.
00:49:16Or I train some people in person.
00:49:17Not many. I'm trying to build my clientele.
00:49:19How do you not realize it?
00:49:21It's like times like this that we could spend quality time together.
00:49:23You're in a bad mood.
00:49:25I'm in a bad mood because...
00:49:27Hold on, I got a phone call.
00:49:32This is exactly what I'm f***ing talking about.
00:49:35Get the f*** out.
00:49:38Have your f***ing pizza.
00:49:42Ever since he started personal training...
00:49:44Hello?
00:49:45His female clients are calling all hours of the day and night.
00:49:49What's going on?
00:49:50I mean, who's on the phone?
00:49:51That's so important that he has to answer right now.
00:49:54If you guys have, you know, two or three used at the same time,
00:49:57we could definitely cut a deal out.
00:49:59I can feel myself getting angrier by the second.
00:50:03When he was in prison, he had all the time in the world for me.
00:50:07I was like the only priority.
00:50:09And now I'm just not used to feeling like I'm not a priority.
00:50:20We're talking worst case scenario, right?
00:50:22What happens with your minor children?
00:50:24Who's in charge of them?
00:50:26I will pick my daughter Kylie.
00:50:28What do you mean Kylie? That doesn't even make any sense.
00:50:30Hold on a second. Let me explain to you.
00:50:31No, I cannot hold on a second.
00:50:33Well, you're going to have to.
00:50:34You talk to the lawyer.
00:50:35You got to figure it out.
00:50:44I just feel disrespected, especially as a father.
00:50:47You know, you say something like that, you know what I mean?
00:50:49You don't feel trusted.
00:50:51I'm not going to be perfect, but I love them.
00:50:54You know, I do love them.
00:50:56If something happened to her, I feel obligated to be the one to step up.
00:51:04These situations obviously are very complicated.
00:51:07Correct.
00:51:08How long have you guys been married?
00:51:09We've been married just under two years.
00:51:11Okay.
00:51:12But before that, he was incarcerated for six years.
00:51:14So he's only been in the home with the kids for, you know, a year and a half.
00:51:18Yeah.
00:51:19God forbid she dies or anything, like, the house is supposed to remain the same.
00:51:23It's not supposed to be divided.
00:51:25I'm already dealing with Mason and Nova not being here.
00:51:28That's painful as it is.
00:51:32My son's also on the spectrum.
00:51:33Okay.
00:51:34Though he's high-functioning, he does require extra things.
00:51:38He does require a certain type of person to talk him down.
00:51:42You know, he has a hard time with self-expression, and my daughter knows how to work with him.
00:51:48The biggest obstacle in the relationship with Michael and Santana is Michael's lack of patience.
00:51:56Why would you throw your phone?
00:51:58Explain that to me.
00:52:00F**k, man.
00:52:01I need to go, yo.
00:52:02Excuse me.
00:52:05When someone doesn't do something the exact way that he would want it done, he gets in a mood.
00:52:14It's a f**king decision, but Kylie, she's the only person I know that would love him the way I do.
00:52:22So how does it play out, though?
00:52:24Do you expect them to leave the home and be in a separate home, and then Mike's just at home with these two little kids?
00:52:30I'm not trying to take away from her life.
00:52:32She has a whole life ahead of her.
00:52:34She's in college.
00:52:36It's like a no-win.
00:52:37You know, both of them, like, I feel horrible to have to do that to any of them, but the only thing is with Kylie is that she's been with my boys since day one.
00:52:46I think in your situation, I know it's hard, but I think that you guys can accomplish both of your desires by doing a co-guardianship.
00:52:54Mike would have an equal say with Kylie to be able to speak with schools, speak with doctors, and things like that.
00:53:01So it allows Kylie to have the voice, but Mike to be the patriarch of the home.
00:53:06I feel like that could be a happy medium, but I don't know.
00:53:12It's not that, you know, we're not all one family, but I do have my family.
00:53:17Get your jacket, here.
00:53:19I have a drink right over there.
00:53:21I'm sorry. I just needed a minute.
00:53:23It's okay.
00:53:25You know, Mike, all this talk, you know, like, really makes me feel bad is that, like, no matter what I do, it's gonna suck.
00:53:31I pick Kylie, it's gonna suck.
00:53:33I pick you, it's gonna suck.
00:53:36Mike, you don't have the same years of educating yourself on this particular situation like Kylie and myself do to properly advocate for him.
00:53:48It also feels like I lose you and then I lose everything.
00:53:52It's like they live with her, or it's just a divide, you know?
00:53:55And it hurts because you tell me I'm a good father, but there's a smack in the face when you suggest something like this.
00:54:06Why does it have to be like, no, we need to get eloped now?
00:54:08Elopement is happening.
00:54:09Have you talked to the probation officer?
00:54:11Just call and ask. Just see.
00:54:21I'm gonna go see Robert.
00:54:23Alright.
00:54:25I'll let you know when I'm coming back.
00:54:27Okay.
00:54:36Hi.
00:54:38Hey.
00:54:40How's Arizona?
00:54:42I miss you.
00:54:44Do you wanna come visit me here?
00:54:46I'm so down, yeah.
00:54:48Please, I'm lonely.
00:54:50Maybe you could, like, talk some sense into this man.
00:54:52What's up?
00:54:54We've been arguing, and then yesterday, you know, I went out to a bar with his cousin.
00:54:58We drank a little bit, and he got really upset.
00:55:02His mom got upset.
00:55:04And, like, he's not understanding, like, where I'm coming from with anything.
00:55:08I've had this perfect idea in my head of Daniel as a partner.
00:55:16It's not everything that I had expected in my head.
00:55:20People my age, we wanna drink.
00:55:22Let's be real, like.
00:55:24Yeah.
00:55:26But I just think it's gonna take time to get used to, you know, like,
00:55:30time to get used to each other.
00:55:32Cuz.
00:55:34Yeah.
00:55:36Wanna take a seat?
00:55:38Yeah, yeah.
00:55:40I'll talk to you, pick your brain a little bit.
00:55:42So, last night.
00:55:44At the bar.
00:55:46What went down?
00:55:48What happened?
00:55:50Give me the tea, bro.
00:55:52There was a couple things.
00:55:54Bianca, she actually admitted that she had a drinking problem when we were out yesterday.
00:55:56But she doesn't wanna stop drinking.
00:55:59After she admitted she had a problem, how many drinks did she have?
00:56:01Uh, from what I remember, I.
00:56:03I need to know that.
00:56:05Yeah, I had two and she had three.
00:56:07So she tells you she has a problem.
00:56:09Uh-huh.
00:56:11And then she continues to drink.
00:56:13I could understand why she doesn't wanna give it up, but I think in the long run it'd be good for her to give it up.
00:56:15Yeah.
00:56:19It's poison.
00:56:21I hate fighting with Bianca.
00:56:23I just got out of prison.
00:56:25I don't even have time to adjust.
00:56:28There's been a lot of fighting.
00:56:30There's been a lot of eye-openers.
00:56:32I'm starting to see red flags in Bianca.
00:56:36She may have said some things that were on her mind.
00:56:38Because, uh, she was drinking.
00:56:40And, uh, you know, like, your filter disappears.
00:56:42And she, uh.
00:56:44And it's something I kind of struggle with myself.
00:56:46Is that she wants a little more foreplay.
00:56:48You know, um.
00:56:50She's talking to you about her sex life?
00:56:52Yeah, isn't that.
00:56:54I thought that was kind of weird, too.
00:56:57Yeah.
00:56:59Did you communicate with her?
00:57:01Hey, you should talk to your man about this.
00:57:03I said that multiple times.
00:57:05She kept wanting me to talk to you about it.
00:57:07And I was like, okay.
00:57:09That makes me upset, dude.
00:57:11Because you shouldn't have to hear that.
00:57:13We talked about
00:57:15how, like, we wanted to get married.
00:57:17Like, as soon as he gets out.
00:57:19A while ago.
00:57:21And now he's talking about waiting to get married.
00:57:23That's the reason why you moved up to Arizona.
00:57:26Mm-hmm.
00:57:28But you guys aren't getting married.
00:57:30I don't know. That's just.
00:57:32I mean, getting in fights with him.
00:57:34And, like, being alone out here.
00:57:36It doesn't make me feel good.
00:57:38This kind of.
00:57:40I don't know.
00:57:42It's just weird to me.
00:57:44Like, I'm kind of miserable.
00:57:46I don't have anyone else out here.
00:57:48All I have is him.
00:57:50And then when we're arguing.
00:57:52It's like I have nothing to do.
00:57:54She's spent all this money.
00:57:56And she's given up a lot of things to be with you.
00:57:58I'm afraid she may subconsciously feel
00:58:00that you're responsible for her happiness.
00:58:02Yes.
00:58:04And if she's not happy, she may blame it on you.
00:58:06That scares me, man.
00:58:08And she'll build resentment.
00:58:10And then it'll turn into, like.
00:58:12She'll lash out later on.
00:58:14Something drastic like kicking you out.
00:58:16You could be homeless if she makes you mad.
00:58:18They both got issues.
00:58:20And if they don't make that choice to be better
00:58:23Robert, I'm scared.
00:58:25Nothing's going to get resolved.
00:58:27They're going to eventually call it quits and split up.
00:58:29I love Bianca.
00:58:31But I'm battling.
00:58:33Yeah, yeah.
00:58:35I feel like I'm in the front lines of some
00:58:37story here.
00:58:39I'm afraid that it will spiral.
00:58:41And it will spiral fast.
00:58:43And it will turn into something that neither of us want.
00:58:53Hello?
00:58:55You have reached me.
00:58:57I'm unfillable at this moment.
00:58:59Leave me a message and I'll get back to you
00:59:01as soon as I can.
00:59:03You have a blessed day.
00:59:05Well, I try.
00:59:07I try.
00:59:09I try.
00:59:11I try.
00:59:13I try.
00:59:15I try.
00:59:17I try.
00:59:19I try.
00:59:22I'm just hoping she will be understanding.
00:59:24I hope so.
00:59:26If not, she'll get over it
00:59:28by the time y'all had a big wedding.
00:59:30She'll get over it.
00:59:32Yeah, she'll be there front and center.
00:59:34I just want to make sure I be in her good graces.
00:59:36That's my son right there.
00:59:38The most beautiful woman in the world.
00:59:46Alright, are you ready?
00:59:48I'm ready.
00:59:51Oh my gosh.
00:59:53Oh, Bess.
00:59:55It's so pretty.
00:59:57I'm so excited.
00:59:59I want to see you.
01:00:01Oh my goodness.
01:00:03I love this.
01:00:05Oh my gosh.
01:00:07This dress is so beautiful.
01:00:09And it just kind of makes me sad
01:00:11because I just can't wait to wear it.
01:00:13And I wish that
01:00:15I was trying this on for my real wedding.
01:00:17I love this so much.
01:00:20It's for me, but
01:00:22I think if we're doing the elopement,
01:00:24it's too much.
01:00:26So how much do you think this dress is?
01:00:28It's right around $2,000.
01:00:30Okay, for an elopement,
01:00:32that's way too much.
01:00:34You know what I'm saying?
01:00:36$2,000 for a dress that's...
01:00:38I'm getting confused because this dress is just a wedding
01:00:40and then we're talking about elopement.
01:00:42I know, I know.
01:00:44I guess what I'm confused on is
01:00:46why can't you guys still go to Texas
01:00:48having the same relationship you have
01:00:50and plan for your big wedding?
01:00:52Why does it have to be like,
01:00:54no, we need to get eloped now?
01:00:56We think that if we get married now
01:00:58with the elopement,
01:01:00we're not going to have any issues
01:01:02with trying to live together as felons.
01:01:04There's no way that that can go against you
01:01:06when you get to Texas since you're saying
01:01:08you don't even know?
01:01:10I don't think it could go against me.
01:01:12I just think it would probably be a process.
01:01:14Have you talked to the probation officer first
01:01:17to say, okay, if we do this, this is going to happen?
01:01:19Elopement is happening.
01:01:21Elopement is happening.
01:01:23I feel like when it comes to everyone else,
01:01:25Brie really stands her ground.
01:01:27But with Keara,
01:01:29the love of her life,
01:01:31I feel like she just lets him
01:01:33tell her really what to do
01:01:35and she follows.
01:01:37I'm going to try another one on.
01:01:39Hopefully it's more elopement looking.
01:01:41I just think that they should really think about
01:01:43what they're doing before doing things
01:01:46because then it backfires sometimes.
01:01:48Oh, best.
01:01:50I like how you put your hair up with it too.
01:01:52That one is cute.
01:01:54It's more elopement vibes too.
01:01:56I know
01:01:58we need something a little quicker
01:02:00and we want something that's simple
01:02:02so this gives you the simple vibe
01:02:04but it still looks like a gorgeous wedding dress.
01:02:06It's still really elegant.
01:02:08It's missing something though.
01:02:10What?
01:02:12The top thing.
01:02:15Oh my god.
01:02:17I feel so cute.
01:02:19This one's so cute.
01:02:21Let's go over here so I can just take one more look.
01:02:23I just want to be sure.
01:02:25You need to call the probation officer
01:02:27to make sure actually.
01:02:29Just to ask more questions.
01:02:31You were already denied once.
01:02:33Just call and ask. Just see.
01:02:35See if my phone is in that.
01:02:37Okay.
01:02:40Hey.
01:02:42You need to call the probation.
01:02:44Hi. How are you doing today?
01:02:46It's Brittany.
01:02:48Hi Brittany. How are you?
01:02:50I'm good. I just wanted to give you a call
01:02:52to let you know that
01:02:54me and Kirok did decide to
01:02:56do an elopement
01:02:58and I was just kind of
01:03:00wondering what
01:03:02your thoughts were on that.
01:03:04I would caution you that the state of Texas
01:03:06is wary of people.
01:03:08Try to fraud them
01:03:10by
01:03:12playing as family members
01:03:14but they're not.
01:03:16As you know they've rejected
01:03:18your travel.
01:03:20If they're
01:03:22likely to do it again they're suspicious
01:03:24of any of your decisions.
01:03:26I'm not trying to fraud anybody
01:03:28being my family member so thank you
01:03:30for the thoughts.
01:03:32Brittany.
01:03:34It would not be my recommendation
01:03:37for you to break up with your girlfriend
01:03:39for Kirok.
01:03:41Next Friday on an all new
01:03:43Life After Lockup.
01:03:45I feel like I'm being lied to.
01:03:47She got her ex on the back burner.
01:03:49Oh my god.
01:03:51I've lost a piece of me. That's his sneaker.
01:03:53Did you see the video that he posted?
01:03:55Babe I have to tell you something.
01:03:57I'm getting so stressed out
01:03:59I don't know what to do.
01:04:01I don't know where he went. I don't know what I did.
01:04:03It's not going to be a normal relationship.
01:04:05Don't miss an all new