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Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 26
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00:00I would love to stay previously forever grateful for him stay while the future looked bright for some
00:08Stay stay
00:10It was a grueling commitment ceremony for Christina and Kieran
00:14I don't really know where me heads up, and I don't really want to be intimate with us and two couples
00:18You're trying to say that it's me pulling away. You pulled away as well
00:21Yeah, I have bid a dramatic farewell to the experiment every man and woman deserves to be treated like a king or queen
00:28We just can't give that to each other. I really leave
00:33Nothing you shit. I deserve love to leave. I'm leaving we haven't had the happy ever after I was hoping for
00:43Tonight Adam you'll be paired with Amy. It's partner swap week Lacey. You'll be paired with Luke
00:52Sparking conflict for some new pairings
00:54He's throwing shade on me Luke has pissed me off, and I do want an apology out of him and stirring insecurities in others
01:01What size panties are you I can't sleep in my ring all my clothes
01:08He's actually making me feel quite sick, sorry
01:11It's just box baby
01:13But it's a disastrous double date. This is the worst golfing session
01:17I've ever had in my life that sparks the biggest upset of the experiment you and the ex-partner
01:22It's actually scary how similars are I am
01:26human
01:28I'm not his ex
01:41Dutch
01:42Hey
01:44It's the morning after the commitment ceremony
01:47How you feeling this morning yeah, it's quite intense wasn't it and the couples are reflecting on yesterday's departures
01:53Holly was my closest friend in here, so I feel like selfishly there were reasons. Why I wanted her to stay however
02:00I feel like it was dead in the water, and it wasn't gonna go anywhere I
02:05Think dinner parties will be a much nicer
02:08Experience now Alex has gone. Yeah
02:11monitor though
02:13Kieran and Christine running the best place
02:17So the experts gave you the advice of doing like a list
02:22Because obviously you are comparing me to your exes. I wouldn't say I'm comparing you
02:29It's hard when you have very similar traits
02:34When he entered the experiment Kieran opened up about his issues with trust I was with a girl for eight years
02:42It ended because she cheated on me when we best mate
02:46The maid is really lose faith in women so my trust levels now well on their ass
02:51Recently these past hurts have resurfaced and rocked his marriage to Christina
02:57Scared of giving someone me everything for it to not work out
03:00So maybe this is a good point to do a bit of a list on these are the ways Christina differs from previous partners
03:07And I would bet that if you delve a little bit deeper you're finding Christina
03:12Characteristics that show you that you can trust her and that she intends to be around for the long haul
03:20Yesterday's commitment ceremony was really difficult I
03:24Need to gather me emotions gather me thoughts, and what it is that I want from a partner
03:31Thinking about mine and Christina's relationship in me own head is one thing
03:36However writing these lists down about how Christina's different from the ex really helps to get some perspective
03:43I'm very aware that the balls in my court Christina has been very patient, and I understand that patient is going to run out
03:50So it's very difficult
03:57Your favorite subjects intimacy
03:59There's a fall out I know
04:01As soon as it got caught up I could just feel myself getting hot and flustered
04:05And I think I do feel the same way as you do like we do need to be having it more
04:10And I think we need to make more time for it
04:13Just feels like it's become complacent
04:15I mean I feel like we're now how we should be after like five or six years together
04:18And that's what I don't want. It's like we're a married couple. We're sat watching telly and then we're like both knackered
04:25Shock horror, but we are a married couple
04:30Very very old married couple I
04:33Know how uncomfortable the topic of intimacy is for Adam, but yeah, it's been a while so
04:39Just got to pick my timings and go about it the right way
04:42It's just little steps baby steps not a snail's pace at a tortoise's pace soon at a rabbit's pace
04:48Yeah, quite like you to be like a rabbit
04:55How do you feel after the commitment ceremony okay very good
04:59Yeah, I felt like it was the better one. We've had I
05:02Don't know why Lacey piped up
05:06Obviously you didn't mean to offend her, but she's taking offense because you saying I'm classy and she's not oh
05:17My god a picture of Lacey and Adam dancing at a recent group salsa class
05:23Prompted Luke to praise wife Amy you always act with class and integrity, but it upset Lacey
05:29What was I not acting with class?
05:31That's not what I said you're putting words in my mouth you saying that we'll use your words a bit wisely
05:42It was really nice to hear that Luke was really proud that I acted respectfully at salsa
05:46But I definitely feel like Luke needs to be the bigger person hold his hands up and say I love you
05:51Hold his hands up and apologize to Lacey. Do you think you will have a conversation with Lacey or?
05:59Don't know I'm gonna apologize for our opinion
06:01Do you mean if anything I'll say it again because that's my opinion on and I'll stand by it
06:07It felt like he was insinuating that Amy's classy for not doing that so what does that make me not classy right?
06:14Yes, he's picking up his wife
06:16But in the same breath, he's he's digging at me
06:19Yeah, I mean how I come across anyone can see why you think that way hundred percent. I'm not one to just cause drama
06:27That's unnecessary, but in this case Luke has pissed me off and I do want an apology out of him
06:33I'll be fine and civil. I think I'm not gonna get an apology
06:36Who's that it's an envelope here we go. Oh, I'm sick. Well, I don't have to make this is gonna see
06:46Dear Adam and Polly this week. You'll be taking part in partner swap week
06:53Partners what week is a chance to get a taste of how the other couples are functioning day-to-day
06:57And how they're doing in their own lives. So if you want to find out more about that
07:02Partners what week is a chance to get a taste of how the other couples are functioning day-to-day
07:06By spending time in the company of another spouse during this time
07:10You will immerse yourselves into each of those daily routines and experience what married life is like with them. Okay
07:17Glad Alex has gone for cannot imagine that
07:20The goal is to learn new skills from the new roommates that they can apply to their own
07:25Relationships when they return to their partners after the swap
07:28Kiran
07:32You will be paired with Sasha and you will move in with her
07:38Ross you will be paired with Christina
07:45Polly you'll be paired with Nathan. Yes. Oh my god. I'm buzzing Lacey. Oh
07:52Oh
07:53Wow
07:54Lacey you'll be paired with Luke
07:58I'm actually
08:00Fuck say oh no, and you will move in with him. Oh, you're going from his house
08:10What reckon his reactions gonna be probably the same I got Lacey time to Salsa
08:16Ta-da ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta. Holey Adam
08:23you'll be paired with Amy and
08:27She will move in with you
08:30My stomach has just naturally dropped
08:33I'm not really a jealous person
08:36But Amy is stunning absolutely gorgeous women and I just don't want to go back to square one with feeling really insecure about myself
08:44It's nice to have a change into it I
08:47Do definitely feel a bit overwhelmed it is very strange having another woman come into our home. I feel like that's very
08:55Intimate so I've got this do it that's going above the bed
09:00It's Amy needs to walk in and see that we are
09:03Solid there could be a touch of jealousy
09:06But I'm gonna try and keep a cool head if I find out that it's gone
09:10Then we're gonna have a problem. That's cringe man
09:32You bought free suitcases
09:34You bought free suitcases lovely my new husband me new girlfriend
09:46Holly's done that
09:49Little picture I told her I was gonna take it down before I can't no Polly can stay so sleep in arrangements
09:57I
10:01Am happy to share the bed if you are yeah, I suppose we can yeah won't hurt no one will it me and Amy are
10:07Comfortable with each other, so I'm very pleased that aim is happy with me sleeping on the bed instead of the sofa
10:15We've got Lacey
10:19Don't know how that's gonna go down. I wouldn't like to be in that room right now. I would fly on the wall
10:28And there is something I do want to talk to you about
10:32So I'd be fake if I didn't bring it up to you
10:37Okay, I haven't seen you since the last commitment ceremony I
10:41Know you was praising Amy, but I felt like he was throwing shade on me
10:47I just think like the wording you used
10:50I'm not sorry. I'm not sure if I'm having an opinion I
10:53I
10:55Am a very classy girl
10:58Just people see a confident girl, and they just automatically think you're not classy
11:03just touch the nerve I
11:09Am sorry if it caused offense
11:13And I could see now even just you delaying those things you could tell that it
11:17You know it hurts you and I apologize for that because that's never my intention
11:23Do you like malt loaf?
11:25What light I've never had that for?
11:28Okay, what love
11:31Malt loaf. It's like. I don't know banana bed
11:35And I think then maybe you'll understand exactly where my kind of position is on on this
11:41I've never had a malt loaf in my life
11:45So I'm saying it right, but I've got the apology I wanted
11:54So I am truly sorry I
11:56Mean that you know I want you to feel comfortable here, so yeah, I'm glad you've said that and in the future now
12:03I'll be more mindful
12:05He put I'm sorry in malt love and that means a lot to me because I thought behind it
12:10I appreciate you doing this on your watch
12:12Oh
12:16Why
12:17Obviously me and Karen are struggling at the moment. It's really difficult position to be in but because
12:24The balls in his court so to speak and he needed to like write lists using his past
12:31experiences to
12:33Compare with our marriage. I am hoping that it just will make him
12:39Realize, but how long am I supposed to wait for Kieran to make up his mind I?
12:46Know I'm so unique. I'm so different to
12:52most people
12:54So Kieran needs to wake up and realize I am Steena. There's only one of me. I'm not his exes
13:02Remains fried come on me mines proper fried. You got this
13:07So I started with a positive list
13:11Right which ones are different to your ex the only one that is different there
13:16Is this one Christina's outgoing outgoing?
13:20Apart from the outgoing Christina me ex. I'm mega similar
13:27Okay
13:30Okay
13:32Did you do the negative I
13:36so
13:37from what I've seen I
13:39Think there's no focus there. Mm-hmm, so I'll make steps every day to get where I want to be when I'm 50
13:47Christina doesn't look that far mm-hmm, and I don't want to have to like drive someone through it with us
13:52I want someone to be as passionate about where they want to be when they're 50 as I am right
13:56Anything else
13:59So I asked Christina a question and it was what's more important to you doing something for the rest of your life
14:05That you're passionate about or finding a husband and she said finding a husband
14:11Do you know to do with how differently men and women can be raised though men have to have a career and
14:21Provide and the women take care of the home
14:25I'll just expect me wife to be putting
14:28Her priorities above me like that's because I would put my priorities above her right in certain in certain situations
14:35in past relationships
14:37I've put previous partners first in this relationship Christina's putting me first
14:43And what I would want is for me to put me first and for Christina. I put herself first
14:49All of these was all the same as your ex I
14:52I
14:54Know what it is coming towards the the latter half of the experiment now and things are getting really serious
15:01I'm realizing Christina and the ex are actually weirdly very similar
15:05like scarily
15:07So I'm just like what the fuck I've really got to start thinking is this gonna work on the outside
15:23Cheers to partner swap and becoming closer friends. Cheers to that, babe
15:32What have I got in store tonight, so I was thinking we could have a
15:36Lasagna microwave now. I've cooked you lasagna from scratch, but like
15:41Can't actually bothered
15:44So in the morning, yeah to your coffee girl coffee it would be off a 10-hour sugar. No sugar
15:50What breakfast have you got? I'll make anything you want. I can do the perfect poached egg every time
15:59Adams made me feel so welcome coming into the apartment. I feel like I'm gonna be looked after like a queen
16:05So far so good. So happy with my life
16:08What was your reaction when you got me I was buzzing I got you. Yeah, I was quite happy to be fair
16:12I thought me and you get along. I know we're gonna have a laugh spending time with you learning about yours and Polly's relationship
16:18A bit more I'll be able to take a lot away from this knowing what maybe I might be missing
16:23Yeah, yeah, I get that. I know our only problem at the minute is the intimacy side
16:27Yeah, so that's something that I don't really like talking about. I know I thought that I was gonna be looking for a man
16:33I'm gonna be looking for a man. I'm gonna be looking for a man. I'm gonna be looking for a man
16:37I know I thought that and I thought would you be comfortable speaking to me about it?
16:41Because I feel like there might be like pressure on you
16:43hmm, that's what that's what I said to Polly maybe the intimacy side isn't there because we're stuck to each other 24-7 and
16:51Normally, I'd say a girlfriend twice a week and every time you meet them
16:54You're like I ain't seen you for four days like can't wait to rip your clothes off kind of thing
16:57Like I don't want someone to tell me what to do because there's a lad growing up
17:01But if the teachers tell me to do something I do the opposite. Yeah intimacy should be fun
17:06Just like naturally let it happen. Hmm. He'll get there. Hmm a little bit of sexy lingerie maybe I
17:14Am really rooting for Polly and Adam hoping that advice from me
17:19Might give him a little push with regards to the bedroom activities. So I feel like I'll be able to give Adam some good tips
17:25I
17:35Mean Ross have planned a double date. I'm hoping the double date will bring Kieran and Christina closer together
17:48Despite the
17:49Similarities with Kieran's ex. I think the can still make it work. They've just got to remember how good he actually is
17:57I really hope that Kieran will wake up
18:01Come to his senses and see that him and Christina are a great match and they can make this work
18:07I'm gonna team Ross and you up with me and Kieran. Oh
18:12I'm gonna try and be positive today. Obviously. I haven't got to spend too much time with Christina because we've done wife and husband swap
18:20So I'm hoping I'm just let loose take a breath and enjoy it for what it is
18:26Steena you're next. Come on
18:31Sorry, I've got a really bad funny that
18:37Jesus this is mini-golf not a driving range
18:43I think Kieran should show you where it's done. I'll try
18:49I
18:56Remember playing golf in PE. Yeah, and the most important thing was how to hold the shaft properly. I wouldn't know I'm done it
19:06So the way to hold the shaft properly is to have your thumb top thumb going down
19:14Well, thanks anyway, I don't need help holding the shaft
19:19I am NOT in the mood for this silly joke be romantic with me, but don't talk about bloody shafts and stuff
19:27Okay
19:28It's just the wrong
19:30Vibe, it's missing for me and Kieran at the moment is non-existent. He hasn't been remotely near me
19:37How's that supposed to make me feel?
19:39Oh
19:46Yes, well done boss
19:49Christina thank you, darling
19:52Are you sure you don't need Kieran's help? No, no, it's a little bit awkward now since Christina stormed off and off
19:59It was naturally gonna be some tension there. I
20:02Just thought maybe we could come in today as friends and you know, just just have fun, but clearly not
20:09Did you not want him to know did you not touch it?
20:18Hello
20:21You like it I love it
20:23Now me and Luke have made up we doing a bit of dance today
20:27I feel like it's a clean slate and we can have a nice time together
20:31We're gonna do a little bit of stretching first. Okay, so we saw for the arms
20:36Luke misjudged me and Adam at the salsa. I'm a dancer. I was in my element
20:41I was having fun and just because I'm a confident girl doesn't mean I'm not classy
20:46So I want to educate him a bit and see if he gets into it
20:51Well, I'm glad you can move in them I'm gonna give it my all, you know, I'm here YOLO they say so yeah, I'm going all-in
20:59Five six seven eight and right
21:02Yeah, right. Yeah, I'm struck struck struck struck
21:09We've got a few magic my name sit on the chair I'll show you like my clothes
21:13Oh, really? I love that Luke's going for it
21:16You know, he's not worried about how he's looking and he's letting go and that's the main thing. I wanted today
21:23Me and Lisa are getting on very well, you know, I'm just pleased that the way it panned out with the apology in the beginning
21:32I like the spontaneity
21:33I like the fact that she's come up with this idea and it is good for me to relax and have a really fun time
21:38With not a care in the world. Oh
21:41Did you find that it was nice?
21:44Definitely. I felt like I needed that. So, thank you
21:47It's actually nice just to be around like a a woman that doesn't like stiff enough when I dance with her move around her
21:54so, how are you and I mean like
21:56And at the moment we're still in that phase of the relationship where she's very stiff
22:02she she needs to kind of let go more sure I mean and and
22:05Then I can really be myself and I enjoy being myself because I don't have to think about all I'm treading on eggshells here
22:12It is very nice and sad bittersweet at the same time because you know as much as Lacey's relaxed around me
22:19And I can actually dance around her but it reminds you of what I can't do yet with my wife
22:23I compliment her very directly and very sexually but as soon as I you know, put my arm across her
22:30She's like a stiff as a scaffold board
22:38Maybe
22:40Don't be so full-on with there
22:42I know you're only being cheeky with the comments, but just cut the cringy stuff struggle it right back more relaxed and
22:50You know just have patience because she is a good one
22:53I'm hoping that with time Amy will loosen up enough for me to actually be able to relax and maybe inject more fun more
23:00Friendly stuff and then move on to romance
23:07This is the worst golfing session I've ever had in my life
23:12Yes, we're drinks
23:14Think it's all good train Kieran and Christina. I thought encouraging them to have a little bit more physical contact
23:21might help for
23:24It's obviously a bad idea because it's made everything ten times worse. I
23:28Think reminding yourself of the phone in a relationship. Yeah is important. Mmm. That's what we tried to do today
23:37Yeah, and I completely completely respect that from obviously my point of view. I am getting nothing from Kieran at the moment
23:48It's been a lot of frustration it's been a lot of waiting around for what
23:53The shelf situation joke annoyed me so much. Yes. I'm here for fun and I wanted today to be fun
24:00But it just got my back up
24:02Am I a friend? Well, he's not even really treating me as a friend. I don't know if I'm coming or going
24:09So we had a lot deep talk and we discussed you to like, you know, I
24:16Feel like you've had like a really deep conversation. Is there anything you actually want to say to me? No
24:23I haven't had that deep of a conversation. Oh, we had a little convo about what our values are and stuff. Yeah. Yeah
24:31We was talking about what should come first your career or your partner
24:36Some people like a more traditional relationship and some people like a more modern relationship
24:42Kieran doesn't want a wife that I put him first. I
24:45Understand where you're coming from as in you would want a husband then your career
24:51What am I trying to say I'm fucking traditional I
25:00Don't think they're traditional just to ask you that question what's more important to you
25:04Finding a husband or doing something for the rest of your life that you're enjoying you said finding a husband
25:08Yeah at this moment in time
25:12I'm 31 Kieran. I'm not getting any younger
25:18I'm not saying you are
25:21What for me at this moment in my life? I'd really like a husband. So that's what I'm doing
25:32And I really want a wife which is what I'm doing yeah, so what's the issue
25:39That a wife to me is the cherry on the cake because I've got I've got my life at home
25:43Well, I'm really happy about I've got my business
25:45It's not even necessarily to do with your business, it's no it's you you put a husband at the top of the list of your priorities
25:52whereas a
25:54Wife isn't at the top of the list of my priorities. So I've become in it to find a wife
26:00But like because of what I've been through in life, I'll never let me wife become me everything
26:06Because I know how easy it is to get shit on and I'm never gonna I'm never gonna put myself in that position again
26:11I'm never gonna do that
26:13I've actually wrote down the differences between you and me ex-partner
26:17And it's actually scary how similar you are. Okay
26:21There's one thing that's different on the positive side and that is that you're outgoing and she wasn't
26:27And that is the only difference I am
26:32fuming
26:34How am I supposed to take that? I'm gutted. I'm frustrated
26:38He's not fighting for me I'm fighting for him
26:43Fuck all he's done is just relate me to his exes. I'm not his ex
27:07Oh
27:15There's only one difference between me and his ex
27:20That's not nice to hear
27:24I'm just frustrated now Sasha like I've waited and I've waited and I've bent over fucking backwards for that boy to try and make this
27:32work and
27:34I've got nowhere
27:36I'm at my wit's end now. There's only so much that I can do
27:51It's a really shit position to be in but I have been asked to see how Christina's different to me ex I
27:58Feel like shit because of it, but I'm not gonna lie about it
28:01There's no reason to lie but no reason to lie I'm realizing that we've got fundamental differences
28:08It's coming towards the end of the process now and I don't want to make it to final vows to say to Christina
28:15No, I don't want to do that. I want to get to final vows and be yes
28:21But if I'm seeing these differences now, I've got to be true to myself and voice them
28:28We've had an amazing time the very beginning there was fireworks
28:33So I kind of feel like I owed it to Christina myself to try
28:37This is more of a make or break week this week
28:40I don't want to hurt Christina's feelings, but at the end of the day, I've got to do what's best for me
28:52Surprise this isn't a shop. I normally come in to
28:57Do you feel like there is a way out of this intimacy book for Adam and Polly?
29:00You need to inject a little bit of spice into the relationship. I planned a day out
29:05We're gonna go to a sexy lingerie shop
29:07I feel like just doing a fun activity might make him open up a little bit more and
29:13Ignite that flame in the bedroom from him and Polly. What about these? Oh, no
29:18Hopefully we're gonna have some fun today. Very interesting. What about one of these?
29:22What's why I've got to do it for?
29:25I do think that Polly might be a little jealous. I'm here today with Amy. What's that?
29:32It's easier to be more open and fun with Amy because we're friends
29:36Whereas in if Polly was here, I might feel a little bit more awkward
29:39Looks like Luke's
29:42Which is like two naughty little schoolchildren
29:45Get that stress out a
29:48Portfolio to the gym, but for a little bit of a workout
29:51I thought it'd be nice to show how I cope with having ADHD and to leave a little bit of stress
29:56So I'll be doing to Adam if he doesn't put out soon. Really?
30:01Yeah
30:02Just left right. Good night. I like it. That's me. I'm definitely thinking about Adam and the sexual tension
30:10Nathan is quite impressive in the gym. It's nice to have this glimpse into Nathan's life to see what he does as a relief from his ADHD
30:18I've got a bit of a sweat on now
30:20How does it like feel like when you're down here like when you get in like do you?
30:26Shut off just straight away. This is my release just smash the weights out or go boxing smash the boxing out
30:31So it's more of a relaxation. Yeah, it's more of a relaxation
30:34This is my release just smash the weights out or go boxing smash the boxing out so it's more therapy for you
30:40Mmm, I think it's hard having ADHD. Yeah when I was younger, I was quite like
30:47Fidgety and bad like I actually used to take as well
30:49But then like I've just found a way to keep it in and then I'll release it and like the gym and stuff
30:54How does that work in especially relationships?
30:57It's very very patient. Yeah
31:00But that only goes to show you how much she wants to be with you how's haven't found it with you with
31:05Living with someone who's neurodiverse. So you'd have to ask him that I haven't actually had a conversation with Adam about my ADHD
31:11Like he knows I've got it. Yeah, and we touched on it briefly on the honeymoon
31:15But Adam does really need to understand that I need that sense of security and I need
31:21Openness of showing that he does care about me. Like you just want to hear it. You just want to verbally hear it
31:27Yeah, yeah
31:30I
31:34Like this candy bar and knickers little nibble
31:37That's quite good. Actually. Yeah as well
31:40What about if I put that on? Yes, I
31:46Think you look sexy knees
31:48No, I feel like I'm missing the point here. I've definitely seen a bit of a cheeky side to Adam today
31:54What size panties are you?
31:56Think what we could do is if we get your size you try it on then I'll see if it looks nice on a model
32:02It's a no from me. I will definitely not be trying this underwear sat on for you. That's Polly's job
32:09sex vouchers
32:11Some of these being in depth never felt so good. You need those. I
32:18Really appreciate Amos help. She's made me feel comfortable in the lingerie shop got me out of comfort zone and had a laugh
32:24I've realized that the intimacy side can be fun
32:30That's quite nice I think she'll really like that I like the little chain little matching pants
32:34Yeah, I didn't get all the sizes though. Do you know what size she is? No, give her a text. I text up
32:44Adam said what's your bra size?
32:48What the fuck might be buying you something
32:50It's just not a good thing that you've been asking for more PDA I
32:56Just feel like I could actually cry really
33:05Just a bit overwhelming
33:09I don't absolutely hate talking about intimacy. We haven't even had a conversation of like what we both like in the bedroom let alone
33:16Buy me underwear and now I'm hearing that he's out buying lingerie with Amy. What the fuck but that's quite a big thing. I
33:24feel like
33:25He is only doing this because he's with Amy not off his own back
33:31So that's actually but like I'm shaking. I'm not actually doing
33:35The stuff that he's doing Amy he's never done with me. That is what's really throwing me the most
33:42It's just talked to me a bit
33:46I
33:57Let me make the sofa nice and cozy for you seen as I'm taking your bed. Oh
34:02Is it right tuck you in? Thank you fairly good mother
34:11Yeah, not too bad feet only just come over slightly
34:15Would you reckon now Adam's doing for Amy then jerk knees pushing the boat right out?
34:18She better not get a cup of tea or a bath in the morning because that is strictly for me
34:26I'm glad we've got Polly looking down on us this evening. I think she'll be fuming if I take it down
34:31I don't feel like I'll be bothered that me and you were staying together
34:34She went it does feel a little bit strange sharing a bed with another man
34:38However, I feel like we're on the same energy level like we both have the same banter
34:42Adam's definitely a massive flirt, but that's just part of his personality. It's literally harmless. It's just Atlanta
34:50The question for you. Do you sleep in your jewelry?
34:53No, I usually take my watch off. No, do you sleep in your wedding ring? Yeah. Oh, yeah
34:57I don't I can't sleep in my ring all my clothes
35:01Sausage barrier is staying
35:04I'm joking
35:06Right, it's been the morning. I'll make us both a hot drink. I'll make us some nice breakfast coming for a train
35:12It's gonna be like a little holiday home
35:14You're gonna go back and have to tell Luke that he needs some advice from me on how to treat his wife
35:19Mmm, yeah deal sake
35:21Good morning, my ball of sunshine morning, honey. It's the final day of partner swap week. All right, let's go
35:36In just two hours husbands and wives will be reunited good morning. Yeah, just in time for breakfast
35:43I'm starving. So thank you
35:45I'm starving. So thank you
35:47I'm starving. So thank you
35:49Breakfast I'm starving. So thank you
35:52All right, so what you think beige black? I'd probably say beige. It's coffee, by the way. Oh
35:58being trapped like an absolute queen
36:04You look forward to seeing Adam I am yeah, I'm intrigued to see what the bra situation was about. Yeah, I
36:11Don't know. It still makes me feel like I'm getting like really sweaty like it makes me really nervous
36:19Look at us positive Paul. We look forward to it
36:26Breakfast is ready. I feel like I can get used to this treatment ads. Haha. Cute, innit? Yeah
36:33Whoa, look at that. That is a good egg
36:37Pulling out all stops for me. Is this a bit of competition for Luke?
36:41You're not gonna get this at home. No, this is like pure princess treatment
36:45Hmm I did say coming into this I want someone to look after me like I look after them
36:50I do feel like Luke's got it in him. Yeah, maybe he's holding back
36:54Adam is giving me pure princess treatment during that partner swap
36:58I'm definitely not used to this to Luke. So I need to be having a few words to say. This is like basic for me
37:04It just shows you that you're getting the bare minimum
37:07I
37:11Hope it really does work out. Thank you. You're a great guy. Amy's a great girl. So
37:17You're a very classy girl. Take every single word that I said back. I'm glad that's nice to hear
37:23You know what? I've been thinking about it the reason why I
37:27Reacted that way if I'm being honest with myself, there was probably a bit of jealousy that my girl wouldn't dance with me like that. I
37:35I
37:37Felt almost envious
37:41Luke saying that he was a little bit envious. He wanted, you know that in his relationship with Amy
37:47But he's been saying different to her that he was like proud. It wasn't his wife because Amy's got class
37:54It's taken me by surprise. You know, I just felt like it was a bit of a dig towards Amy
38:05Oh
38:14There you are
38:20Welcome back
38:23I
38:29Well yesterday was a pile of shit
38:32I'm absolutely relieved that partners what we finally over and I just get Russell to myself again
38:39But you doubled out with Kieran and Christina yesterday was a disaster
38:43Like honestly couldn't have gone any worse. You feel bad
38:46Don't feel bad. Yeah
38:48We made everything ten times worse when Christina walked off she was really upset
38:54I think she just really wants to make it work with Kieran
38:57Hopefully they can get back on to good terms
39:00It was so good at the start and it would be a shame for all of that to get a waste
39:11I'm spending time away from Christina and in your apartment so I can get some clear headspace
39:18because I need to get a clear understanding of
39:22What it is that I want?
39:24This isn't Christina's fault. I'm basically saying you're similar to me ex and no one's a hell at all
39:30But I can't help but say the similarities my ex and I don't want to be back where I used to be
39:35Right now my head's scrambled
39:40The potential is there with us Kieran just can't see it. I am frustrated
39:45I am on the receiving end of this and I shouldn't have to wait around for something that might not happen
39:51I didn't think I'd be by myself at this stage in the
39:57experiment
39:58For Kieran not to be with me. Yeah, it's shit. It's lonely
40:07What have you been doing? Oh, we've done loads really
40:11We went out to do dancing together. Oh, you wish was very fun
40:18Yeah, did you apologize
40:20Yes, she came in and I did her a little cake with like I'm sorry written on it and she left one was best friends
40:27Yeah, how was things with you and Adam? Tell me what did you get up to? Oh, honestly, we've had so much fun
40:33Adam literally looked after me like a princess. I
40:37Feel like Adam's giving me a hundred percent princess treatment Polly is definitely one lucky girl, but I expect that treatment, too
40:44I'm usually the one in the morning that makes like a coffee. I make his breakfast. I tidy up
40:49Why is he not doing it for me?
40:51He does need to sort of pull his finger and look after me a little bit more
40:56Adam shows affirmations with his actions. Okay, rather than his words
41:02Couldn't even get out of bed. We've got coffee waiting for me
41:06And he just said to me like I'm treating you exactly how I treat Polly. I'm not doing anything different
41:11Yeah, like making a breakfast making a coffees when in a bath. Oh, yeah
41:16Well, so did you didn't have your new usual breakfast? You had something different because usually have burn flakes to you
41:21Yeah, just because it's like quick though, but my favorites poached egg on toast, isn't it?
41:26Yes, sourdough. He made me that. Yeah, we've like crispy bacon. Oh nice. He checked me like a little princess
41:36Seen the way he's delivering this news to me is a bit kind of rub it in your face a little bit
41:40Oh look me and I didn't get on so well with all the stuff that yeah, you don't get with me
41:44I'm getting with Adam and that makes me feel a little bit
41:48You know sad it hurts. I'm gonna lie
41:52How are your sleeping arrangements?
41:55Very very easy. How about you? Did you get the bed and me and Adam shared a bed together? Yeah
42:02You're you're fired about me and Adam sleeping in the same bed
42:06And I would have never let him sleep on the sofa to felt too proud that's good. Well, that's brilliant
42:13It's a bit of a butthurt feeling Amy telling me and me and Adam share the bed
42:18I don't know which way to turn to
42:21It's just confusing. I'm numb at the moment
42:31I
42:40Am really nervous about going back into the apartment and I don't know what to expect
42:45I want to find out what Adam he's been doing with Amy. I
42:49feel
42:50Very mixed emotions right now
42:54I'm in the bedroom. I'm excited to see Polly. I'm hoping she'll be buzzing when she sees what I've got for
43:02Oh
43:07My god
43:11What you think yeah, it's cute
43:15Sex voucher filled you a few out. I
43:20Promised to pay on demand sex in your favorite position to Paul from Adam and there's this one dinner and doggy
43:27Because
43:29He has obviously spent partners what week with Amy
43:31I
43:32definitely think that she got into his head a little bit and
43:34Had some input so I feel like it needs to be unpacked with him a little bit more. I
43:40Feel like it has done
43:42Me some good having like a couple of days apart. I
43:46Felt personally like we really needed that
43:50And Amy obviously helped you I
43:54Did most of it, but Amy had my back and you pick this yeah that actually
44:01Yeah, you had a jolly old time
44:07When I got the text from you, I'm not gonna lie actually felt sick
44:11Really in my head. It was like you're buying lingerie with Amy. I was just like
44:16Like I just didn't know how to feel. I
44:19Just had really mixed emotions about it and I was trying to see positives
44:22But then I feel like there's a lot of negatives that I've just been getting in my own head about I just couldn't understand
44:29Why this is what you were doing? It's just it's so confusing. Like my head is I'm not gonna lie. It's fucked
44:36This was to try and like
44:39Spice it up and show you that we can kind of make it fun and better
44:44I've come out of my comfort zone to go get these gifts for Polly
44:48But it just feels like it's just not enough for a bit of a kick in the teeth to be honest
44:53Well, I want to cry. Why?
44:58I feel like I haven't really known where I've stood with Adam for the last couple of weeks
45:03The intimacy side of things isn't where I want it to be at the moment
45:06It would be nice for more deeper compliments a bit more physical touch and PDA to then have
45:13Something like this buying lingerie and sex vouchers. It does feel like we've gone from naught to a hundred. It's confusing. I
45:21Don't know what he wants
45:24Sorry
45:29Like what the fuck I am a little bit shocked at that. I've got Polly some nice little underwear to wear for me
45:36It feels like it was a little bit of a waste of time
45:37It's all about what she wants what she needs and it's just getting too much for me
45:44You
45:48Next time here's the man treating my wife like a princess
45:53Revelations from partner swap week, you know that picture he said that he was actually a little bit envious
45:59Him saying he wants me to be like you is fucking
46:02Bullshit send Amy and Luke into a downward spiral. I just feel like a fucking idiot
46:09That only intensifies you care more about other people's business than your own marriage
46:14Wait when a not-so-anonymous letter brings fresh accusations. I feel like I'm a different person with different people
46:23He's convenient at the time this is a personal attempt, but it's Christina and Kieran's marriage
46:29I'm risking losing one of the best women that I could ever wish for and that's one of the hardest things that I've met
46:35That deals the biggest blow of the evening is this a friendship is this more
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