RHOSLC's Bronwyn Defends 'Great Marriage' to Husband Todd
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00:00How does Todd feel about all this?
00:02Because does he...
00:03He's good.
00:04...regret?
00:05I don't think Todd regrets it.
00:07Todd's not deeply involved in the social media of it all.
00:10And Todd is really good about what it feels like to him.
00:14It felt right to him to say,
00:16this conversation has to stop.
00:18And our marriage feels really good to him.
00:20So I don't think Todd really cares what it looks like to anybody else.
00:23And that's a good reminder for me that I'm very happy with Todd.
00:26And everyone else can see that or not see that
00:29or wish they were me or not wish they were me.
00:32They should wish they were me.
00:33I'm in a great marriage.
00:34I love my relationship.
00:36And I'm really happy.
00:37Todd and I are very different people.
00:39And together, it's kind of a super team.
00:41We have different skill sets.
00:42We have different weaknesses.
00:43And they balance each other out.
00:45And it's a good partnership.
00:46As you see, a lot of people have a lot of opinions about your marriage.
00:48I think, like, Lisa called you a gold digger in the after show.
00:51Who has not called me a gold digger yet?
00:53Heather says...
00:54That's some low-hanging fruit.
00:55We're going to need a different insult.
00:56Right.
00:57Heather says that, like, you can't marry for...
00:59What did she say?
01:00She said you can't marry for love.
01:02If you're smart and driven.
01:03Yeah, if you're smart and driven.
01:04I saw that.
01:05I have a great therapist Heather can talk to.
01:06Because I would love for Heather to have a whole second romantic life for herself.
01:10I think that might speak more about Heather's feelings about her divorce
01:15than it does about my marriage.
01:16Yeah.
01:17And I think Meredith said that she...
01:20I don't know, that you were unsettled, I think, in your...
01:23She said there was tension in my marriage.
01:25And I don't want to shade anyone else's marriage because I don't like them shading mine.
01:29But I am interested in Brittany, Heather, and Meredith, of all people,
01:34talking about someone else's marriage.
01:36We've got two who are not, have not been, have been divorced, have struggled,
01:40and one who has had some up and downs.
01:42So we should tend to our own grass before we worry about what Bronwen's grass looks like.
01:46Right, yes.
01:47I think you posted on Instagram, too, that it was unfortunate that during that anniversary trip
01:52you weren't shown the love that you and Todd have because there was so much drama going on.
01:56Yeah, there was a lot of other stuff going on.
01:59And Todd is just not somebody who's going to gravitate towards being on camera.
02:03And I have really learned a lot about myself.
02:06I have a lot of anxiety, and being on the show is really fixing some of that for me.
02:11You cannot be thin-skinned.
02:12You cannot be worried about what people think about you.
02:14But I do look back and I see a really fragile version of myself
02:20when I do this holding my chest or I'm wringing my hands.
02:23I do a lot of self-depreciating humor.
02:25And I'm realizing as I watch it back that I think that's this way of protecting something or deflecting
02:32or trying to make it easy for everyone.
02:34You see a lot of me being like, oh, it's not Lisa's fault and it's not so-and-so's fault.
02:37And I see in myself in that moment that I really needed to stand up for myself
02:41and just be like, I'm very confident in what I have.
02:45I'm learning that trying to change how people feel about me or my marriage
02:50just kind of makes what people feel about me and my marriage worse.
02:53And not even worse, but totally mischaracterized.
02:56I'm very happy.