Aired (December 30, 2024): Hindi lamang si Jerieh, kung ‘di maging ang Madlang Pipol ay naging emosyonal habang ibinabahagi niya ang kuwento kung paano siya ikinasal at agad ding iniwan ng kanyang mahal na Mister.
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00:00So, when they said that they will get married,
00:02did you go for it right away?
00:04Yes, if you are happy with it.
00:05Yes, if they are happy with it,
00:07and they are of the same age,
00:10then I'm okay with it.
00:11For a mother,
00:12if your child enters a relationship,
00:15or makes a big decision like getting married,
00:19what do you feel?
00:22As a mother,
00:24there's always a powerful
00:27as a mother love.
00:30Right?
00:31Whatever your child feels,
00:35that he's happy,
00:36that's also the feeling of a mother.
00:39Because when I see children,
00:41mothers cry, right?
00:44Others are afraid.
00:46Because, of course,
00:47when your child gets married,
00:50you let him go, right?
00:52So, you're afraid that something might happen to him.
00:54Because I'm not there anymore.
00:56Do you have that fear?
00:58Or you don't have it?
00:59I don't have it.
01:00I want it even more.
01:01You want it even more?
01:03Why are you giving it to him?
01:04It's hard to grow old without someone by my side.
01:08That's right.
01:09But your family is there.
01:12They are only three siblings.
01:14The other two already have a family.
01:17So, it's just him.
01:19So, you don't have any fear at all.
01:21You're confident that he will get married.
01:23Yes.
01:24And I think,
01:25Mom trusts Patrick.
01:27He's kind.
01:28He takes care of Jerry.
01:30Where did you get married?
01:32In Estancia.
01:34It's a Christian wedding.
01:35In Estancia?
01:37In Rizal.
01:38In Misalmatey, Rizal.
01:40Overlooking.
01:41Are there a lot of guests?
01:42Yes.
01:43150?
01:44Wow.
01:45150.
01:47150.
01:48What's the motif?
01:49The cherry blossom.
01:52Because it's our favorite in Japan.
01:54It's our dream country.
01:56We'll have our honeymoon there.
01:58What are you wearing?
02:00I'm wearing a gown.
02:04Not everyone is wearing a gown now.
02:06That's true.
02:07Some people are wearing a dress.
02:09Some people are wearing pants.
02:10Some people are wearing socks.
02:12If you can laugh, you're ignorant.
02:15Why are you angry?
02:17What kind of gown?
02:18He designed it.
02:19Bubble.
02:20Bubble.
02:22He designed it?
02:23Yes.
02:24He also designed the coat.
02:27Patrick is really hands-on.
02:29Yes, we're super hands-on.
02:31We don't have an event coordinator.
02:33We designed the flowers and the invitations.
02:37What date?
02:38October 6.
02:39Why?
02:40My mom is on October 7.
02:41You didn't invite her.
02:43It's her birthday.
02:44Why October 6?
02:45What's special about it?
02:46It's our anniversary.
02:48Oh!
02:49It's your anniversary.
02:50You're getting married.
02:52Exactly five years.
02:54How many months did you prepare for it?
02:58Nine months.
02:59Nine months?
03:00Yes.
03:01Okay, tell us about it.
03:04You're at a Christian church.
03:06You're happy.
03:09You're wearing a gown.
03:10He designed it.
03:11He's wearing a suit.
03:12Yes.
03:13He's wearing a suit.
03:14My mom is also wearing a suit.
03:16There are flower girls.
03:18Is it the same at a Christian wedding?
03:20Yes, but it's not a girl-to-girl wedding.
03:23It's a teen wedding.
03:26It's not a super young wedding.
03:28Yes, it's not a super young wedding.
03:29Where's the reception?
03:30It's right there where we got married.
03:33How was the wedding?
03:34Was it very solemn?
03:35Was it fun?
03:37Was it chill?
03:40You can't explain the magic.
03:45For the first time in my life,
03:47that's the only time I celebrated.
03:49I never celebrated.
03:50At birthday?
03:51Yes.
03:52I didn't do anything special.
03:54It was just a birthday.
03:56But the celebration with family and all,
03:59that was the first time.
04:01It's so magical for me.
04:03Especially that my love is there.
04:06Of course, right?
04:07I was so happy at that time.
04:10What song?
04:11Isn't there a song when you walk?
04:12Isn't there a song when you walk on the aisle?
04:14What song?
04:15Her song is...
04:17Whose song is it?
04:19Whose song is it?
04:21John Lennon.
04:23Who's the singer at your wedding?
04:26It's her.
04:27Because she's a singer.
04:28So cool, right?
04:29She's hands-on.
04:31Coordinator.
04:32So cool.
04:33Patrick was a G in your wedding.
04:38Yes.
04:39He also sang All of Me.
04:41Yes, he is.
04:42How did you feel when you saw your husband walking?
04:45When I saw him,
04:48I just wanted to run.
04:50You wanted to be with him.
04:52Yes, like that.
04:53What did he look like?
04:54Was he handsome?
04:55Yes, he was handsome.
04:57I really saw that
04:59this is who I will be with for the rest of my life.
05:02That it's really us.
05:04So you got married.
05:06Was there a reception there?
05:07What song?
05:08Yes.
05:09What song?
05:11The usual one with pesto and beef.
05:17Was it fun?
05:18Yes.
05:19Actually, I didn't eat much because I was so tense.
05:22Okay.
05:23I didn't eat much at that time.
05:25That's the reception we're showing.
05:27Okay.
05:28You didn't eat?
05:29Why didn't you eat?
05:30Because it's like,
05:32this is it.
05:33This is real.
05:34We're married.
05:35I can't digest it anymore.
05:39I'm excited.
05:41This is what we're showing.
05:42This is the same day edit.
05:43Yes, that's it.
05:45Okay, so the same day edit.
05:47Of course, he released it on the same day, right?
05:49Yes.
05:50Tell us what happened.
05:53Actually, when we were watching the same day edit,
05:58there was a problem.
06:01Why?
06:02Patrick, of course, I was with him at that time.
06:06I could see that he was getting dizzy.
06:09Like he was about to die.
06:11Maybe because of the heat.
06:15A lot of things happened.
06:17So, one of our friends, who is also a host,
06:23we asked him to go to the hotel.
06:28To the room?
06:30Yes, because the room is nearby.
06:32During the reception?
06:33He left.
06:34It was the same day edit.
06:36We were watching the same day edit.
06:37But he was still at the reception.
06:38Yes.
06:39Then, when he went out,
06:42he died at that time.
06:46So, of course...
06:49So, when he went out of the reception, he died?
06:52Yes.
06:53I didn't know that he died.
06:55I thanked the guests.
06:57Because I was the only one there.
07:00So, I thanked them and all.
07:02Then, my friend came to me.
07:04She said, Jerry, Patrick died outside.
07:08And then, what happened?
07:09So, after that, of course, I thanked them.
07:12And then, I ran outside.
07:15Because, of course, as a partner, I was getting married.
07:19Your boyfriend died.
07:20Yes, I was nervous.
07:21And then, at that time, I was running to him.
07:24Suddenly, he stood up.
07:25So...
07:26So, is he a prank?
07:27Yes.
07:28It's like, I'm okay.
07:29It's like, I'm okay.
07:31But a lot of people told me, no, he's not okay.
07:34So, they called a nurse.
07:36Then, the ambulance and all.
07:38Then, the nurse came.
07:39They have a relationship.
07:40What kind of relationship?
07:42And then, she hit him with a flat twist.
07:44There you go.
07:45After that, of course,
07:48so that the inside could be stretched,
07:50we brought him to the hospital.
07:52Because, the nurse said,
07:54his oxygen level went down to 30.
07:57It went down.
07:58Yes, 30.
07:59So, we needed to bring him to the hospital.
08:02And in the hospital,
08:04the doctor said that
08:06his organs were submerged in water.
08:10His organs were full of water.
08:14So, at that time,
08:15I was like,
08:17you know, I was like,
08:19I don't care anymore.
08:20What's happening?
08:21What's happening?
08:22Then,
08:24the next day,
08:25the doctor came and said,
08:26it's okay.
08:27So, the following day?
08:28Yes.
08:29The following day,
08:30like,
08:31October 7,
08:32in the afternoon,
08:33he said,
08:34it's okay.
08:35The water was removed.
08:37Then,
08:38around 3 o'clock,
08:41he died.
08:44He was revived.
08:46He was revived several times.
08:48Three times.
08:49Then,
08:50everyone was asking me,
08:52what should I do?
08:53Because, I was his wife.
08:54It's like,
08:55you're the one
08:56who's going to decide
08:58for him.
09:02So,
09:03I was like,
09:04why am I the one
09:06who's going to decide?
09:07It's like,
09:08we've been married for 22 hours.
09:11Why am I the one who's going to decide?
09:13And,
09:14I didn't know what happened.
09:15I was just lying down next to him.
09:17I was listening to his heartbeat.
09:20Then,
09:21he died.
09:23That's it.
09:24So,
09:25like,
09:26after the wedding,
09:27it was like,
09:28I was so happy that it happened.
09:30And then,
09:33he died.
09:34So,
09:35it was unreal.
09:37I couldn't understand why.
09:40I was full of questions,
09:42like,
09:43why me?
09:44Why me?
09:46And,
09:47why that day?
09:48Yes,
09:49why that day?
09:50Because,
09:51that day was so special.
09:53Right?
09:54All of us,
09:55let's be honest,
09:56eventually,
09:57all of us will pass away.
10:00But,
10:01not on the day
10:02when he should be happy.
10:05Why that day?
10:08You'll question that,
10:09right?
10:10It's not easy
10:11to accept.
10:13It's like a dream.
10:14It's like a nightmare.
10:15You just watch it in the movies.
10:17But,
10:18what happened to you,
10:20that was so tragic.
10:22That was so tragic.
10:23It was so hard at that time.
10:25It's like,
10:26even I wanted to die.
10:29It's like,
10:30he was with me.
10:31It's like,
10:32he loved me until the end.
10:35And,
10:36I also wanted,
10:38just the two of us.
10:39It's like,
10:40it's like,
10:41the movie,
10:42Till Death Do Us Part,
10:43was made real.
10:45So,
10:47it's so hard to get up.
10:50Were you angry?
10:51So much.
10:53Where?
10:54Who?
10:55At myself.
10:56Because,
10:57I didn't know he had an illness.
10:58He hid his illness.
11:00What illness?
11:01We found out,
11:02after,
11:04he was fixing his stuff,
11:06at home.
11:07We found out that he had an illness,
11:09in 2015,
11:10in his heart.
11:12So,
11:13he hid it from me,
11:15from his family.
11:16His family also didn't know.
11:18Mommy Grace,
11:20where were you when that happened?
11:22Were you with him in the hospital?
11:24Yes,
11:25we were there in the hospital.
11:27It's like,
11:28he was waiting for us,
11:30before he died.
11:34What,
11:35how did you support Grace?
11:37What,
11:38as a mother of your son,
11:40who became a Mrs.
11:42and a widow in one day,
11:44how did you support your son?
11:46It's hard.
11:47But,
11:48you can't show weakness,
11:50because,
11:51he might get weaker.
11:53So, we showed him,
11:54our advice,
11:55you can do it,
11:56you can do it.
11:57Maybe,
11:58his life will end there.
12:01I can't imagine,
12:02how many tears you cried.
12:04Yes.
12:06To the point,
12:07that I can't eat,
12:09and sleep.
12:11Every time I close my eyes,
12:12he's the one I see.
12:14It's hard.
12:16It's like,
12:17it was my first time to eat,
12:19when his brother himself,
12:20talked to me.
12:22He told me,
12:24you know Jerry,
12:25everything happens for a purpose.
12:27He told me,
12:29your name is Jeremiah,
12:30because my name is Jeremiah.
12:32Then, Patrick died at 29.
12:34Then, the watch,
12:36that I gave him,
12:38stopped at 11.
12:40When you put it back,
12:41it was Jeremiah 29.11.
12:43He said,
12:44for I know the plans,
12:46I have for you,
12:47declares the Lord.
12:48Plans to prosper you,
12:49and not to harm you.
12:51Plans to give you a hope,
12:52and a future.
12:53So,
12:54his brother told me,
12:56there's beauty in it.
12:58In the future,
13:00you and him,
13:01will meet again.
13:02And,
13:03while waiting for that future,
13:05be better.
13:06And,
13:07he doesn't want to see you,
13:08sad,
13:09grumbling,
13:10struggling.
13:12So, how did you cope?
13:13Did you not let yourself grumble?
13:15Or did you grumble for a time?
13:17It's so hard.
13:18How did you grumble?
13:19Even though,
13:20a lot of people encouraged me,
13:21it's so hard to get up.
13:23Yeah.
13:24That's,
13:25understandable.
13:26Right?
13:27We'll be weird,
13:28if we say,
13:29this is so fast.
13:30Right?
13:31So,
13:32how?
13:33You can't eat,
13:34you can't go out.
13:35No.
13:36I just lay down at home.
13:37What did you do?
13:39How did you cope?
13:40I couldn't sleep.
13:41For months,
13:42I couldn't sleep.
13:44To the point,
13:45I need to talk to a psychologist,
13:49for that.
13:50To process,
13:51the mental trauma,
13:53the emotional trauma.
13:54Your gown,
13:56what did you do to your gown?
13:58Everything.
13:59The memorabilia,
14:00when you got married.
14:02The same day edit,
14:04the video,
14:05what did you do there?
14:06I didn't move.
14:07Everything was just in my house.
14:09Even the gifts.
14:10Everything was just there.
14:12I didn't move.
14:13Because,
14:14it's so hard.
14:15It's so hard.
14:17So, you didn't open the gifts?
14:18No.
14:19Up until now?
14:20No.
14:21Where is it?
14:22Why?
14:23It's hidden.
14:24Maybe,
14:25we can use it.
14:27It's a waste.
14:28It's hidden in,
14:31a bag.
14:32Even everything I used,
14:34it's just in a box.
14:36Do you plan to open it,
14:37or will you just leave it there?
14:39Right now,
14:40I can see it,
14:41in fairness.
14:42The photo album,
14:43I already opened it.
14:44In fairness.
14:46And,
14:47it came to the point,
14:49for me to have closure,
14:51or healing in my heart,
14:52I went to our honeymoon.
14:55Alone?
14:56Yes.
14:57Where did you go?
14:58Japan.
14:59You went alone?
15:00Yes.
15:01I went alone.
15:02You went alone in the airplane?
15:03What were you thinking?
15:04Were you crying?
15:05Yes.
15:06It's like,
15:07it's good for me,
15:08because no one can see it.
15:09Because,
15:10when your family is there,
15:11you need to,
15:12stop.
15:13Yes.
15:14Then,
15:15you go to your room,
15:16you cry,
15:17like that.
15:18So, when I went to Japan,
15:19it's like,
15:20I was breathing.
15:21It's just me,
15:22no one recognizes me.
15:23I can cry as much as I want.
15:24Even,
15:25when I was on the train,
15:26in Japan,
15:27or on the airplane,
15:28I was crying.
15:29Then,
15:30I just talked to myself.
15:31It's like,
15:32I was there.
15:33What did you say to him?
15:34I said,
15:35this is our dream country.
15:36I'm here.
15:37We want to go there.
15:38I went to all of them.
15:39Like,
15:40I went to Harry Potter,
15:41I went to the pyramids
15:42that we promised to go.
15:43And,
15:44those times,
15:45it's like,
15:46instead of enjoying,
15:47going to the rides and all,
15:48it's like,
15:49I'm just sitting
15:50on one side,
15:51as if,
15:52I'm on the other side.
15:53It's like,
15:54it's like,
15:55I'm just sitting on one side,
15:56as if,
15:57I'm on the other side.
15:58I'm on one side,
15:59and I'm crying.
16:00It's like that.
16:01Did you feel that?
16:02Or did you dream of him?
16:03What?
16:04I dreamed of him.
16:05What are you feeling right now?
16:06Is he still there?
16:07That's why Mommy is so quiet.
16:08I dreamed of him once.
16:09He hugged me tight.
16:10Just tight.
16:11No words.
16:12Just a hug.
16:13Do you still talk to him?
16:14Yes.
16:15What was the last thing you told him?
16:16I told him,
16:17I love you.
16:18I love you.
16:19I love you.
16:20I love you.
16:21I love you.
16:22I love you.
16:23I love you.
16:24I love you.
16:25I love you.
16:26I love you.
16:28I told him,
16:29I think I'm ready.
16:31Because I dreamed of him before.
16:33He told me,
16:34this time,
16:35I let you go.
16:36He told me that.
16:37So,
16:38it was only in March.
16:39He said,
16:40this time,
16:41I let you go.
16:42That's the only word,
16:43for the first time,
16:44there were words
16:45in my dream
16:46that I remembered.
16:48And then,
16:49I told him,
16:50I told him,
16:51okay,
16:52you're letting me
16:54to have the
16:55life that I want.
16:57When did he pass away?
16:58October 7.
17:01What year?
17:022018.
17:03Ah,
17:04so it's been 6 years.
17:06Yes,
17:076 years.
17:08And hopefully,
17:09you're really okay.
17:10Yes.
17:11You're healed.
17:13They said,
17:14he's not,
17:18he's not accepting,
17:19he's just used to it.
17:22How can you accept
17:23that the person you love
17:24left you?
17:25You can't accept it,
17:26but you're just used
17:27to the feeling
17:28until you're not hurt
17:31because you're used
17:32to that feeling.
17:34That's how it is.
17:35He used to be surprised.
17:37Yes,
17:38and what happened to him
17:39in one day,
17:41in one time,
17:43that he wasn't there
17:44when it happened,
17:45right?
17:46What,
17:47yes?
17:48I was just going to say,
17:49Jerry is also good
17:50that he's not,
17:52you'd never question the Lord
17:54or got mad.
17:56I have to commend you
17:57for that
17:58because that must have been
17:59so hard.
18:00It must have been
18:01such a hard time.
18:02But you held on
18:03to your faith.
18:05If your husband
18:06just disappeared,
18:07it must have been hard,
18:08right?
18:09What if he disappeared
18:10the day you got married?
18:12Sometimes,
18:13that happens.
18:14You get angry,
18:15right?
18:16You stay away from God
18:17because,
18:18why did that happen to us?
18:19Yes,
18:20you can say,
18:21Lord,
18:22you're so good to me.
18:23You gave me
18:24an assignment,
18:25right?
18:26But my test was so hard.
18:28Sometimes,
18:29you want to say,
18:30Lord,
18:31there's someone better
18:32than you,
18:33just give it to him.
18:34But it's not like that.
18:35You have to thank
18:36the Lord's faith in you
18:37that you really believe,
18:38I can do this.
18:39Okay,
18:40I'll give it to you.
18:42But how are you now,
18:43Jerry,
18:44after the Lord
18:45tested you?
18:46Now,
18:47I can say that
18:48I'm really okay.
18:49The process of,
18:50what do you call it?
18:51Healing.
18:52Healing.
18:53I haven't worked
18:54for two years.
18:55All I did was
18:56solo travel.
18:58Like,
18:59I climbed mountains,
19:00I went to beaches.
19:01Why don't you
19:02bring your mom
19:03when you go hiking?
19:04Because she's just
19:05sitting there.
19:06Yes.
19:07She won't get tired.
19:08Why?
19:09Are you with her
19:10on her ramps,
19:11mommy?
19:12Actually,
19:13when she travels
19:14to other countries,
19:15I'm with her.
19:16Because I don't have
19:17a father anymore.
19:18So,
19:19the two of us are a family.
19:20What's the best
19:21word,
19:22or best advice
19:23that you gave to her
19:24during those times
19:26when your child's heart
19:27was really hurting?
19:29Nothing.
19:30Ah,
19:31love.
19:33Wait,
19:34he's explaining.
19:35Nothing.
19:36I was hoping.
19:37I was hoping.
19:38And you thought
19:39you didn't have
19:40any advice.
19:42What is it?
19:44We just show her
19:45our concern,
19:46our love
19:47for her family.
19:48Actually,
19:49sometimes,
19:50you don't really
19:51need advice.
19:52You're just there
19:53by her side.
19:54Yes.
19:55Enough.
19:56Right?
19:57Because sometimes,
19:58she'll give you advice
19:59but you're not available.
20:00She can't feel
20:01your presence.
20:02True.
20:03Her presence is different.
20:04She's really different.
20:05She's here,
20:06physically.
20:07You're also very lucky
20:08because you have a family
20:09like that
20:10that you've been with
20:11the whole journey
20:12of your love,
20:13pain,
20:14and recovery.
20:15Okay,
20:16so now,
20:17you are ready.
20:18Yes.
20:19It's been
20:20six years.
20:21Yeah.
20:22And he has
20:23set you free
20:24already.
20:25Yes.
20:26So, let's go.
20:27We'll introduce you
20:28to someone.
20:47Okay.
20:48So,
20:49I'm going to introduce you
20:50to someone.
20:51Okay.
20:52So,
20:53I'm going to introduce you
20:54to someone.
20:55Okay.
20:56So,
20:57I'm going to introduce you
20:58to someone.
20:59Okay.
21:00So,
21:01I'm going to introduce you
21:02to someone.
21:03Okay.
21:04So,
21:05I'm going to introduce you
21:06to someone.
21:07Okay.
21:08So,
21:09I'm going to introduce you
21:10to someone.
21:11Okay.
21:12So,
21:13I'm going to introduce you
21:14to someone.
21:15Okay.