Aprendiendo sobre la marcha.
Category
😹
FunTranscript
00:00I thank you because I feel that way, and I think we're talking about very deep things.
00:11Because behind all those theories there are fears, there are beliefs, there are prejudices.
00:19And I think that the kids are the ones who want everything. That's my theory. That happened to me.
00:23And I think that the kids have turned the world upside down. It's over. Everything that was left behind...
00:29Absolutely.
00:31How does paternity change your life? How does paternity affect you?
00:36It's radical because, what I just said, from looking at the navel to looking at the navel at someone else is very difficult.
00:44Because one is not used to it, and less in the middle of one.
00:48What reinforces you is...
00:50The ego.
00:51It reinforces you. To look at yourself as I'm doing it, the performance, the interview, the photo, the I don't know what,
00:58to start looking at others and to forget about yourself.
01:01And your head, since before it was 80% in you, now it's 80% in them, in your family in general.
01:09So my son has a little problem, or he's scared, or he's sad because a classmate said something to him,
01:18or something happened at school and one's life is disarmed.
01:23Because he suddenly sees him suffering, because he got hurt, I don't know, anything, or he got hit by a ball.
01:30Or anything. And one...
01:33So, to stop looking at oneself and look at others is super important.
01:42The right to be a father, well, you have a little girl, a little boy.
01:45To be a bigger father, to be a father only at 40.
01:49How does it make you look at life?
01:52I've heard two versions.
01:55One is that obviously when you're a bigger father, you're more mature,
01:58because you're more aware of things than when you're in your twenties, so to speak.
02:02I was a father when I was in my twenties.
02:04But on the other hand, there are also more fears.
02:06That I'm going to spend less time with them, that I have to take care of myself much more,
02:10because I want them to take advantage of me.
02:13What is your vision?
02:15I think it's what you said, it has its pros and cons.
02:18I don't know how it would have been...
02:20I mean, I think that as a young father, I would have been a disaster, because I wouldn't have fished.
02:25I have the idea, maybe not, I don't know.
02:28Older father, you said it very elegantly, a little older father.
02:36Older father.
02:38You were a father at what age?
02:40I was 46.
02:42I'm 47.
02:43My oldest daughter is 18.
02:45Of course, imagine, you were very young.
02:47I was very young.
02:49My oldest daughter is 18 and you started being a father when my daughter was 17.
02:53Of course.
02:55Damn, what did you do?
02:57I was rehearsing.
03:00I was practicing some...
03:03I had to get there, to rehearse a little.
03:07No way.
03:09No wonder you got tired.
03:10Damn, I've been thinking about it my whole life.
03:14Yes, what else?
03:27Let's go back to your topic, please.
03:29You were explaining that...
03:31Yes, there are also apprehensions.
03:33One says, damn, I'm older.
03:35But of course, there are those apprehensions.
03:38And also an energy issue.
03:40I mean, obviously for me they are a battery.
03:43They are an energy injection.
03:46But of course, the youngest one is 9.
03:50You are very demanding.
03:52So, the battery is already a bit exhausted.
03:56But it is also a revitalizer.
04:01What does your daughter look like to you and what does your son look like to you?
04:07Let's see.
04:10I think that Elo has a certain structure.
04:15That is a bit between Cata and me.
04:19It has a certain rigidity, so to speak.
04:27But it's not rigidity, it's more like a structure.
04:30An order.
04:31I think that Diego is more sensitive.
04:37Much more sensitive.
04:39And also a bit insecure.
04:42I think that is also more part of me than Cata.
04:48Physically, Diego also walks like a duck.
04:53We have a very similar typology.
04:57They are both very affectionate.
04:59And I think that in that aspect I am also very affectionate with them.
05:03So, I think there is a symbiosis that is produced.
05:07I don't know so many things, because it is also curious,
05:11but children at this age change day by day.
05:14Physically, for example.
05:16You say, you are the same as Cata.
05:19Then not to me, but also that is like the mother, that is like the father.
05:23But they are mutating, they are fitting, they are looking for their shape.
05:29And without a doubt they are also looking for models.
05:33So, suddenly they have more similar behaviors to Cata or others, to me.