"Brothers, your wife isn't asking for much - just these 3 simple things the Prophet ﷺ never failed to give Aisha (RA). Master them, and watch your marriage transform!
💞 In This Video:
✅ The 'tight knot' hadith (Dar al-Qutni) - How the Prophet ﷺ answered "How much do you love me?" in the most beautiful way
✅ Why "I love you" is just the beginning (the phrases that matter MORE)
✅ How to never take her for granted (even after 20 years of marriage)
✅ The #1 mistake husbands make with household chores (and how to fix it)
🔥 Prophetic Formula:
Verbalize love ("My love is like an unbreakable knot")
Specific praise ("MashaAllah, this meal is amazing!")
Regular check-ins ("How's our knot today?")
💞 In This Video:
✅ The 'tight knot' hadith (Dar al-Qutni) - How the Prophet ﷺ answered "How much do you love me?" in the most beautiful way
✅ Why "I love you" is just the beginning (the phrases that matter MORE)
✅ How to never take her for granted (even after 20 years of marriage)
✅ The #1 mistake husbands make with household chores (and how to fix it)
🔥 Prophetic Formula:
Verbalize love ("My love is like an unbreakable knot")
Specific praise ("MashaAllah, this meal is amazing!")
Regular check-ins ("How's our knot today?")
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00:00The most cherished, the most loved, the most admired.
00:03She always wants these reassurances.
00:05How does he do this?
00:07I'll just point out a number of them.
00:08Number one, words, words, words.
00:11Never underestimate the power of speech.
00:14Simply saying, I love you.
00:17I know it's awkward for men after the courting phrase.
00:20I know it's awkward, right?
00:21But believe me, it never goes out of fashion.
00:24For women, it never goes out of fashion.
00:27They always love to hear this phrase.
00:30And in fact, there are da'if hadith of our Prophet.
00:31It's a bit da'if hadith, but it's still mentioned in our books.
00:34That our Prophet and Aisha were joking once.
00:37And Aisha said to the Prophet,
00:39How much do you love me?
00:41How is your love for me?
00:42And our Prophet said,
00:44and he gave a beautiful, metaphorical, poetic expression.
00:47He said, my love for you is like the tight knot that cannot be unbound.
00:52My love for you is like the tight knot that cannot be unbound.
00:55So then in the future,
00:57sometimes if they would have a bit of an issue,
00:59a bit of an argument,
01:00one of the two would remark,
01:01How is the knot right now?
01:03How is the knot right now?
01:04And Aisha would say this when the Prophet sometimes got irritated.
01:07How is the knot?
01:08So he would smile, he would say,
01:09as strong as it ever was.
01:11Right?
01:12And this hadith is in Dara Qutni.
01:13Now the point being that,
01:14the words, I love you,
01:16are something very important.
01:17But not just, I love you.
01:19Praising her and what she does.
01:20Husbands,
01:22never take your wife's actions for granted.
01:25Suppose she is cooking and cleaning most of the time.
01:29Never take it for granted.
01:31Always, once in a while,
01:32come and compliment her.
01:33MashaAllah, that was great.
01:35You know, I really appreciate what you're doing for me.
01:37Those words, they go a long way.
01:39Your wife realizes,
01:40you know what,
01:40he's not taking me for granted.
01:42Very...