Second Date Update - We'll Let You Know
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00:00Well, it is the second date update where we're trying to match Ben back up on another date with his with his date, actually.
00:06And they went to Casa Tina, had a great meal there.
00:09He was absolutely enthralled with her.
00:12Yeah, very smitten by her.
00:14And when we asked him, hey, you know, do you think she felt the same way?
00:17And he's like, yeah, I could totally tell that she was totally into me.
00:19And for some reason, he can't get a hold of her.
00:22She's just not responding.
00:23All right.
00:23So we were able to track her down.
00:25We have her on hold right now.
00:27We want to just talk to her.
00:28She's agreed to talk to us.
00:30Ashley, you there?
00:31Hi.
00:31Yeah, I'm here.
00:32OK, so we kind of gave you a rundown of what this is about.
00:36But I know you're probably a little confused still.
00:38Yeah, I am a little confused.
00:40OK.
00:41What's happening?
00:42Well, we just want to let you know that we heard about your date with Ben.
00:45And you just heard us talking about your date with Ben and how you guys, you know, went out and how enthralled he is with you.
00:52But he can't seem to get a hold of you since that date.
00:55So is there something that he did wrong?
00:56No, no.
00:59It's just, you know, I've been very busy.
01:01I've been, you know, just quite frankly, like going out on other dates.
01:07So it wasn't really, you know, the first and foremost thing in my mind, although I did like him very much.
01:14So, you know, I don't know.
01:17I'm a little confused as to why this is happening.
01:19So you've been going on other dates and you just haven't talked to him because you've been busy.
01:26Yeah, exactly.
01:27It's not like that big of a thing.
01:30So, like, I mean, like how many other dates?
01:33Is that our business?
01:35No.
01:35I mean, I am on a dating app.
01:37So, like, that's the point of the thing is to, like, see what's out there, you know?
01:41So I've just been on a few.
01:43Well, we say it all the time, Lana.
01:44That's why they call it dating.
01:45You date around to figure out what you're looking for, I guess.
01:48Yeah, but if you find somebody you like, you stop dating.
01:51Right.
01:52That may not be the case.
01:54Well, let's just do this.
01:55Ashley, we actually have Ben on the phone with us.
01:58Okay.
01:59And if you're okay with it, I'd like to bring him back on with us just to kind of get his take on all this.
02:06Sure, we could do that.
02:08Okay.
02:09Yes.
02:11Ben.
02:12Yeah.
02:13Hi, Ashley.
02:15Interesting.
02:16Other dates, huh?
02:18You're going on other dates.
02:19That's the whole reason I signed up for this was to see what's out there, see what's a good fit for me, you know?
02:25And I'm not committing to things until I've really seen what's right for me.
02:30I mean, you didn't think I was a good fit for you?
02:33Well, no, I didn't say that.
02:35I don't know you very well yet.
02:36But, like, I'm certainly not ready to, like, nail things down, you know?
02:41Yeah, sure, sure, sure, sure.
02:43Yeah, yeah, yeah.
02:43But our date did go well, though, right?
02:46Yeah, of course it did.
02:47I really enjoyed myself.
02:48I enjoyed spending time with you.
02:50Yeah.
02:51Yeah, me too.
02:52Me too.
02:52So I'm, I don't know, I'm confused.
02:55You said you were looking for something serious.
02:57You said you were looking to settle down.
02:58I don't know, I'm just trying to make sense of this.
03:02Well, yes, I am, but I have to make sure that that person is somebody that I am ready to settle down with and who is right, you know, again, a right fit for me.
03:10I don't understand what's confusing about that.
03:12Yeah, yeah, you know, I get it.
03:14I mean, I'm not seeing other girls or anything.
03:18Okay.
03:19I don't know, I'm confused.
03:20I'm confused at all.
03:21Well, let me ask a question.
03:23Ashley, let's just start baby steps here.
03:24I mean, would you be willing to go on another date with Ben?
03:28I mean, he sounds like a nice guy.
03:30Well, I was certainly prior to this, but now I'm a little bit freaked out, honestly, because I feel like that was a little extreme to put me on the radio.
03:42Yeah, but you weren't texting him back.
03:44Well, he didn't really give me that much time.
03:47He's like a little, I feel a little attacked here.
03:50Well, I mean, there's no pressure.
03:52There's no pressure.
03:53I'm not trying to put on any kind of pressure or anything.
03:56I just, I mean, like texting, it's instant.
03:59Like, you can do it really quickly.
04:00I don't know.
04:02But again, no pressure, no pressure.
04:03Like, Ashley, how would you feel if you really, really liked Ben, like you were really into him, and then you're trying to get a hold of him and find out that he's dating other girls?
04:13Would that bother you?
04:14Well, no, that's his right to do so.
04:16It's a dating app.
04:17It's not like we're married, you know?
04:19So the point is to date around and find somebody who is the right fit for you.
04:23That is what I'm trying to do.
04:25Right.
04:25And he has that right as well.
04:28Don't you guys usually just know when you meet the person, though?
04:31I mean, you just know.
04:32Maybe she doesn't know.
04:34Not for me, I guess.
04:36I just, you know, I don't want to leave somebody on.
04:38I'm, you know.
04:39Okay.
04:40Well, let me go back to my question.
04:42Would you, I know you said that you felt a little, I think you said pressured, but would you be willing to see him again?
04:49Or maybe think about seeing him again?
04:51Yeah, I guess so.
04:53But, you know, I'll need to, like, have a little time to figure stuff out.
04:56And if I'm interested still, I will certainly give you a call.
05:00That's great.
05:00That's awesome.
05:01Boy, oh, boy.
05:02You're waiting by the phone, aren't you?
05:04I think Ben might be.
05:06Yeah, I can do that.
05:08I can wait.
05:08I can wait.
05:09Like, the end of, like, this weekend?
05:13Like, should I wait for, like, call next week?
05:15I think Ben, you just wait.
05:16I mean, it's fun, you know.
05:19I mean, I don't know.
05:21All right.
05:21Well, Ben, that's the answer we got.
05:25And maybe she'll reach out sooner than later, hopefully.
05:28And I appreciate you, Ashley, coming on the phone with us.
05:31And you guys have a great day, okay?
05:33Thank you so much.
05:34I can't wait to hear from you, Ashley.
05:36Okay.
05:37Okay.
05:38All right, you guys have a great day.
05:41Ooh.
05:42Yeah, that's tough.
05:43That is tough.
05:43I don't think she was into him at all.
05:45What made you think that?
05:47Yeah.
05:48But does she owe him anything?
05:49No.
05:49She doesn't necessarily owe him anything.
05:52No.
05:52Because they went on one date.
05:53But I get that.
05:55But, like.
05:56She said.
05:56She's out there looking.
05:57She's dating.
05:58I get it.
05:58She's playing the field a little bit.
06:00But I don't know.
06:01I just, I go back to, like, the day that you met Jenny, Kevin.
06:05You knew.
06:06I mean, the day that I met Paul.
06:07It was like, yeah, I didn't want to meet anybody else.
06:11I was like, oh, I like this one.
06:12You know, you just know.
06:14All right.
06:14Well, do you think she should have handled that differently?
06:17Do you think she's doing anything wrong?
06:18We want to know.
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