Shekinah's friend Dan thinks he is better for her than Sarper; Mark's family questions Mina's intentions; Joan's family demands the dowry be paid or there won't be a marriage; Alliya confronts Shawn about bringing up the past and using her old name.
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:07Peaches of LA, are you ready for Sarfer?
00:00:10Hello.
00:00:11Are you rescued?
00:00:13When you are working, if I come here,
00:00:16is there a problem for you?
00:00:18Why don't you just get to know the neighborhood
00:00:20that we live in?
00:00:22The more that he shows me he's consistently honest,
00:00:25I think I'll learn to trust him more.
00:00:28But I don't know if Sarfer and I will be ready
00:00:30to get married in 90 days.
00:00:36I'm so happy.
00:00:38Give him the news.
00:00:40If you didn't need to marry me,
00:00:42you want to marry me?
00:00:44No.
00:00:46It is hard for me that Sean would not marry me.
00:00:50It was not because of the visa.
00:00:52If Sean is still like this until the end of the ninth days,
00:00:56I don't know if I want to marry him.
00:01:02When do you think can we get our own home, our own house?
00:01:05Maybe a year and a half, two years.
00:01:07Oh, it's going to take that long.
00:01:09You know, I did have a little bit of debt.
00:01:11It's like $8,000.
00:01:12I thought people living in America are stable, but they're not.
00:01:16What are you doing to achieve housing?
00:01:20I'm about to jump off this dock into this morning.
00:01:22Yes, you do if you don't have a good answer.
00:01:25I am worried that things are not going to work out,
00:01:28and she's just going to kick him to the side.
00:01:32What happened on the cruise?
00:01:34Well, I missed off.
00:01:36I was not in my best place either.
00:01:38At the same time, that Juan was feeling weak in our relationship.
00:01:42I was catching feelings for like an ex-boyfriend.
00:01:45What time you came to your house?
00:01:47Evening.
00:01:48Were the kids around?
00:01:49No.
00:01:50Why was she hiding it from me?
00:01:52This just completely changed the whole story.
00:01:57I think he was a snake now without coming to my wedding.
00:02:01That's fine.
00:02:02Snake, snake, snake.
00:02:04I just don't want to do this anymore.
00:02:06Jordan, come on.
00:02:08I'm ready to call the wedding off
00:02:09if the two of my favorite women can't get along.
00:02:12It's supposed to go like this.
00:02:14Hey, babe.
00:02:31Yes?
00:02:32My client is almost here.
00:02:34I need you to exit the building.
00:02:40Don't have that look, babe.
00:02:41Sorry for your fire.
00:02:43Don't be dramatic.
00:02:44Bye.
00:02:45We're taking the punch.
00:02:46When it's Saturday, I want to be right next to you.
00:02:48It's true.
00:02:49Oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:02:50She kind of has a client today, so I have to leave the house.
00:02:52I have a permission to go around neighborhoods.
00:02:53Oh, my God.
00:02:54Part-time homeless.
00:02:55He's on the streets.
00:02:56Wow.
00:02:57Palm trees, around.
00:02:58Not so tall buildings.
00:03:00Not so tall buildings.
00:03:02She kind of has a client today, so I have to leave the house.
00:03:09I have a permission to go around neighborhoods.
00:03:14Oh, my God.
00:03:16Part-time homeless.
00:03:18He's on the streets.
00:03:20Wow.
00:03:22Palm trees around, not so tall buildings.
00:03:26It looks like the southern part of Turkey.
00:03:29It has a siesta vibe, which I like.
00:03:32What do you think about you kind of worrying that there's, like, all this temptation that you're not to be able to handle?
00:03:38They can tempt me.
00:03:40They cannot.
00:03:41I mean, even if they open their boobs, I won't be tempted.
00:03:46I just look and go.
00:03:47We have a Turkish saying, they ask to the cock, the animal cock, if the eggs comes from the chicken or chicken comes from the eggs,
00:03:58and he said, I just and go.
00:04:01Yes, I just look and go.
00:04:03Nothing special.
00:04:05What should I say?
00:04:06What should I say tomorrow?
00:04:09What are you doing?
00:04:10I sign your way.
00:04:11There is no name.
00:04:12What do you think?
00:04:13What do you say tomorrow?
00:04:15I will find America.
00:04:18You are inć°ć§.
00:04:20You are in Canada.
00:04:21How are you?
00:04:22In my home of Eu class.
00:04:23I am prospecting boyfriendfect.
00:04:24I am understanding.
00:04:25My husband, I am 12 at age.
00:04:26ktĂłreăăŸă
00:04:28Have they come with me?
00:04:30It's the only person who is a baby, my wife,
00:04:34they can be a man in the house, they can be a man.
00:04:39It's a weird person, can you hear me?
00:04:42This is bad.
00:04:44You can't say anything.
00:04:46I don't know.
00:04:47We haven't talked about anything.
00:04:48I don't know anything.
00:04:50I don't ask for anything.
00:05:00Hi.
00:05:01Hi.
00:05:02How are you?
00:05:03Come in.
00:05:04Good.
00:05:05How are you?
00:05:06Good.
00:05:07I can't complain.
00:05:08You ready for your facial?
00:05:09Yes.
00:05:10Okay.
00:05:11So let me have you just go put this on.
00:05:12Okay.
00:05:13Just get nice and comfy.
00:05:14Take off your necklace, earrings.
00:05:15Perfect.
00:05:16And come on in and we'll get started.
00:05:17Sounds good.
00:05:19You're welcome.
00:05:20Because I live in a live workspace, my clients expect to come over and feel safe and comfortable.
00:05:27And that can't happen with Sarper.
00:05:30Let me put this light on you.
00:05:32A little LED therapy.
00:05:34Mmm.
00:05:35These women are in towels.
00:05:37They're half undressed and it would be very unprofessional to have a man there.
00:05:43So how was Hawaii?
00:05:44I know you just got back.
00:05:46Oh my God.
00:05:47Hawaii was incredible.
00:05:48I went alone.
00:05:49I met a guy.
00:05:50Okay.
00:05:51I feel like I've told you this before, but I like don't just hook up with random people.
00:05:54Yeah.
00:05:55But I said, F it.
00:05:56I'm never going to see this guy again probably.
00:05:58My clients get very personal with me.
00:06:01They said they'll give you a , but it's probably not going to feel good because I have calluses
00:06:05from lifting.
00:06:06It's probably going to feel like you just gave yourself a .
00:06:08Did not.
00:06:09The things my clients share with me are shocking.
00:06:12I'm even shocked sometimes, but I keep all of their secrets.
00:06:16I can't have Sarper upstairs listening to all of this.
00:06:19But we did finally hook up and the poor guy, I guess he had whiskey.
00:06:24Is that what you call it?
00:06:25So like we technically hooked up, but like, I don't even know if I can call it hooking
00:06:29up.
00:06:30Because if you go to put it, they would just go.
00:06:32Wow.
00:06:33No, the poor guy.
00:06:36But I can't do it.
00:06:37I can't do it.
00:06:38But I can't do it.
00:06:39I can't do it.
00:06:40I can't do it.
00:06:41I can do it.
00:06:42I can do it.
00:06:43We have an order to make frank care.
00:06:45Let nak bereit to them.
00:06:48We have someHAHAai 3000 moves toçłaza for everything.
00:06:51You take to de s mĂšre for everything.
00:06:53What do you get from that for loving everything.
00:06:54Okay.
00:06:55It's very safe to garage.
00:06:58Very easy for you.
00:06:59So you can touch everything.
00:07:00Everything is a tie-and- Brock.
00:07:05You can't do that.
00:07:08Definitely wants.
00:07:09Yeah.
00:07:10Yeah, I'm sure you don't have to keep it straight.
00:07:21Ainsi.
00:07:23But the matter is alreadyissed, but I'll have to keep it down.
00:07:28I'll have a basicăżim, but I'll have to keep it down.
00:07:31It's a rebellion right now.
00:07:33It's a rebellion right now.
00:07:3690 days I want you to give me a house, we will not give you a house, we will not give you a house, okay?
00:07:43That's right, I will give you a house, and I will wait for you.
00:07:48Okay, okay.
00:07:50Time is ticking right now, and I have only 90 days to decide to marry with Sheikina.
00:07:57I love her, I have a very big passion with her,
00:08:01but if I cannot feel with home in this place,
00:08:06if I feel uncomfortable, there is no need for me to stay here.
00:08:22Oh my God, a lot of things to decide.
00:08:26InĆallah.
00:08:31I'll play your game again if you let me play as the queen of your heart.
00:08:41Let's try to have fun, okay?
00:08:43Please?
00:08:45Oh, please, please, please.
00:08:47It's dangerous playing with the heart of a woman.
00:08:54All right, let's go try to have a fun day, maybe. Try.
00:08:59I can talk more with Jordan.
00:09:02I stay in my place, make peace.
00:09:03You're not going to talk with her?
00:09:04No, no, no.
00:09:06I need my space.
00:09:08That's fine.
00:09:09You know, at this point I don't care.
00:09:12Mina and my daughter Jordan finally met again for the first time since Paris,
00:09:16and it completely went sideways.
00:09:18Apparently Mina disinvited Jordan to the wedding,
00:09:21Jordan doesn't even want to come to the wedding.
00:09:23And right now my daughter's distraught, my fiancee's distraught.
00:09:27There may or may not be our wedding.
00:09:29It just feels like problems are stacking up, and it's frustrating.
00:09:34It should be pretty.
00:09:35It's beautiful on the water, so just enjoy the ride.
00:09:38It's supposed to be a vacation.
00:09:40Yeah.
00:09:43I don't know how to even begin to fix this, so.
00:09:47My brother lives on Bald Head Island with his wife and kids,
00:09:50so that's where we're going to try to have a fun family barbecue.
00:09:55All right, let's just make sure we're good,
00:09:57and whoever you and Jordan work it out, great.
00:10:00If you don't, you don't.
00:10:01But I don't know, maybe an apology will help?
00:10:04No.
00:10:07No?
00:10:08I don't know.
00:10:09Think about it.
00:10:26I think we have 15 minutes before the ferry.
00:10:29Thank you very much.
00:10:30Come here.
00:10:41She's coming now, okay?
00:10:42So just calm, relax.
00:10:45Make a smile.
00:10:47Yeah, just...
00:10:50Hey.
00:10:53Hey.
00:10:54What's up?
00:10:55You okay?
00:10:56Yeah.
00:10:57What's up, man?
00:10:58How you doing, brother?
00:10:59We're going to get on this ferry.
00:11:00Hey.
00:11:01Me too, man.
00:11:02I want to have some fun.
00:11:03You look festive.
00:11:06Warm.
00:11:07He is, too.
00:11:08So...
00:11:09Yeah, me too.
00:11:16All right, let's go.
00:11:17We got to go, I think.
00:11:18Whitway.
00:11:21That's for me.
00:11:22I got to do it all.
00:11:24Through the fog and everything, want to take you all the time.
00:11:26Me and Mina had a rough start and we got into an argument.
00:11:28And I feel like she should be the one that's having to try harder than me,
00:11:31because she's marrying my dad.
00:11:32I...
00:11:33You would think that she wants to make a good impression and wants to be the one trying and getting to know me.
00:11:37when we don't, we don't know her.
00:11:49This is literally so awkward.
00:11:52I think that it would have been really nice
00:11:53if he stepped in and was like,
00:11:55hey, Mina, Jordan, I love you both.
00:11:57I really want you guys to get along and let's fix this.
00:12:01How are we gonna fix this?
00:12:02What are we gonna do?
00:12:03Because we need to all be a family.
00:12:07I'm just sitting right behind her
00:12:10so we're not even talking.
00:12:14You okay?
00:12:16It's definitely awkward.
00:12:17I can tell that she's mad at me.
00:12:20Yeah, I know, I know.
00:12:21I mean, I'm mad too, but I don't wanna be.
00:12:24Thanks.
00:12:26So I told her, too.
00:12:27My daughter, I want everybody to be happy,
00:12:30but I also want you to give her a chance.
00:12:33Of course it's uncomfortable for me
00:12:36because
00:12:42This for me, it's too much.
00:12:45It's like consuming this whole weekend.
00:12:50I'm just kinda over it.
00:12:54I know why she think.
00:12:56She knows why I think, too.
00:13:00Jarlene, she's a snake.
00:13:02I don't trust me.
00:13:07Nina.
00:13:15What do you think you say about the dowry?
00:13:17It's not financially stable for now.
00:13:20Greg has to pay dowry for me in my culture.
00:13:24Tell him to get a job.
00:13:25It's really a shaming, because everyone thinks America is a land of opportunities.
00:13:31But this is not it.
00:13:33If he turns any job offers down, I'm coming back.
00:13:39I wanna know what he told about me to you before.
00:13:42I remember him saying that Douglas had changed into Aaliyah permanently and he was kind of like trying to wrap his mind around it.
00:13:50For me, it felt like a dad.
00:13:53I need to know that Sean loved me as Aaliyah.
00:13:57She had been her whole life wanting Douglas to not be there.
00:14:00I didn't have that problem.
00:14:04I asked you not to focus on the negative, focus on the positive, give you sex therapy, much more than cognitive, you and I are opposites, opposites attract.
00:14:13Hey.
00:14:14What's up, beautiful?
00:14:19You, as a person, you just want to be missy?
00:14:22I don't understand.
00:14:24Sorry, babe.
00:14:25What do I do?
00:14:26What is the thing I need right now?
00:14:28Go ahead.
00:14:29Let's go.
00:14:34If you're done with your clothes, just fold them up with them where they're supposed to be.
00:14:38Yes, ma'am.
00:14:39Yes, that's what I want.
00:14:41Sometimes you think I'm joking with everything I say.
00:14:45So Joan's been here for a little over a week.
00:14:48You know, things are mostly great.
00:14:49Things are going very smooth.
00:14:50I'm very grateful for that.
00:14:52But there are some things she's getting a little frustrated with, and I guess I didn't necessarily expect that.
00:14:58I'm used to just having my mom nag and bicker at me and picking up after me.
00:15:02Now I have to worry about another lady just nagging me.
00:15:06You know, we'll see how that works out.
00:15:08Can I game a little bit?
00:15:10Yeah.
00:15:12All right.
00:15:23Hello.
00:15:25How are you, Joan?
00:15:27I'm fine.
00:15:29We miss you a lot.
00:15:30I miss you.
00:15:31I miss you more.
00:15:34Joan, how is life here?
00:15:37Everything is fine here.
00:15:39I stay with Greg's mom.
00:15:41I thought I was to stay here three to six months, but now I think I'm going to stay here maybe like two years.
00:15:47Oh.
00:15:49That's too much.
00:15:51Yeah.
00:15:52Because Greg doesn't have the money, like, to buy a house for now.
00:15:57You have to teach him to save.
00:15:59I try.
00:16:01Tell him to get a job.
00:16:02He doesn't take, like, work serious.
00:16:09Well, that's not right.
00:16:11I may want to stay here like, you know, I love him, but I'm also, like, losing a lot.
00:16:17I know.
00:16:19Talking to my family about the situation I'm really in here is really stressing me and it's really a shame because everyone thinks America is the land of opportunities.
00:16:29But this is not it.
00:16:30What did Greg say about the dowry?
00:16:36I haven't really talked to Greg about the dowry issue because we still have, like, our personal issues.
00:16:43So...
00:16:46I don't know how he's really going to pay for the dowry because he's not financially stable for now.
00:16:52No, it's not possible because in our character, it must be done.
00:16:57Greg has to pay dowry for me in my culture.
00:17:01So if Greg doesn't want to pay the dowry, he's going to be disrespecting my family and also my father's last wishes.
00:17:11And if Greg doesn't pay the dowry, we can't get married. So things are real. This, this is hard for me.
00:17:20He has to man up.
00:17:22He has to man up.
00:17:28One, two, three.
00:17:30One, two, three.
00:17:32One, three, three.
00:17:34You know it, you know it. I know you know I got it.
00:17:37I got it, I got it. I got it. I got it.
00:17:40Hey, lady.
00:17:41Oh.
00:17:42Hey.
00:17:43Oh, my gosh.
00:17:44Hi.
00:17:45Nice to meet you.
00:17:46Oh, my gosh.
00:17:47I can't believe you're here.
00:17:48Welcome.
00:17:49Have you ever been here before?
00:17:50I have never been to Hamburger Mary's.
00:17:51All right.
00:17:52Well, let's go in there.
00:17:53Okay.
00:17:54Let's go.
00:17:55Oh, my God.
00:17:56I'm so thirsty.
00:17:57Right.
00:17:58Let the game begin.
00:17:59Right.
00:18:00Let the game begin.
00:18:01Right.
00:18:02Oh, my God.
00:18:03I'm so thirsty.
00:18:04Right.
00:18:05Let the game begin.
00:18:06Right.
00:18:07This is funny.
00:18:08I never saw this.
00:18:09They call the letter, right, and the number.
00:18:10So, if it's I-28, then you put pink on that one.
00:18:12Oh, the letters also.
00:18:13Yeah.
00:18:14Yeah.
00:18:15Except for it's going to be in English, so you can't be like, oh, I thought it said 28.
00:18:18No, I know.
00:18:19Then you're like, bingo.
00:18:20And they're like, okay, read the numbers.
00:18:21Like, no, no, no, no.
00:18:22Oh, yeah, that one's good.
00:18:23Oh, that one's good.
00:18:24What's the name of the game?
00:18:25Bingo.
00:18:26How do we play it?
00:18:27Lovely.
00:18:28Oh, my God.
00:18:29Oh, my God.
00:18:30I'm so thirsty.
00:18:31Oh, my God.
00:18:32I'm so thirsty.
00:18:33Right.
00:18:34Let the game begin.
00:18:35Let's play it.
00:18:36Lovely.
00:18:37Oh.
00:18:40All right.
00:18:41We're going to kick this off in the G-Row with G-52.
00:18:45Does bingo is a popular game for gays in the U.S.?
00:18:49Next up, it's B-1.
00:18:51You must be one with yourself.
00:18:53Get zen, bitch.
00:18:54A little bit, because they say 069.
00:18:58What?
00:19:00But how did...
00:19:01They could have used that.
00:19:03Oh.
00:19:05That's a mess.
00:19:06That's a mess.
00:19:07That's a mess.
00:19:08I-28.
00:19:09On Grindr, I tell people that I'm 28.
00:19:12It's called catfishing, and it works.
00:19:16And...
00:19:1745.
00:19:18Bingo!
00:19:19Bingo!
00:19:21That was an arms-up bingo.
00:19:22It sounded like it was sitting in some other restaurant.
00:19:24Come on up here.
00:19:25Do you guys want to go outside?
00:19:27It's loud in here.
00:19:28I know.
00:19:29Let's take a little break from the festivities.
00:19:31Yeah.
00:19:33I learned about Sean's relationship kind of over time in little blips.
00:19:38Like, I knew he was talking to someone who lived in Brazil.
00:19:41Oh, it's nice out here.
00:19:43It's high enough you're going to hear your stuff think.
00:19:46Exactly.
00:19:47And then the next thing I heard, he was, you know, kind of making more trips to Brazil.
00:19:52So I heard that, you know, oh, I'm seeing Douglas.
00:19:54And I was like, oh, it's still on.
00:19:56So I got little clues along the way that they were still in good shape and still getting along.
00:20:01Oh, my gosh.
00:20:02So how do you like LA so far?
00:20:04Oh, it's my first date here.
00:20:09Oh, is it?
00:20:10You came yesterday afternoon.
00:20:12Yeah, it's like...
00:20:13So like at 30 hours.
00:20:16And then after three months, you kind of decide?
00:20:20Is that how it goes?
00:20:21Yeah, we have to get married at the end of three months or she has to go back.
00:20:24Oh.
00:20:25Yikes.
00:20:26That's a lot of pressure.
00:20:27No pressure.
00:20:28No pressure.
00:20:29I mean, you guys have known each other for a while already.
00:20:32Really?
00:20:33So...
00:20:34Yeah.
00:20:35It's been over three years.
00:20:36Three years.
00:20:37Yeah.
00:20:38Yeah.
00:20:39But I don't know Sean's family or friends yet.
00:20:41Right.
00:20:42And I think he didn't told me about me too.
00:20:46Yeah.
00:20:47I haven't been really like vocal to everybody about everything that's going on.
00:20:50Right.
00:20:51I want to know if what he told about me to you before.
00:20:56I knew for sure the name Douglas.
00:20:59And I knew a little bit about your situation in Brazil, that you lived in Brazil and you lived with your grandparents.
00:21:07And I don't know, in the first couple of years that you guys were talking, I had a sense that Douglas was around.
00:21:14My dad's name is my old male name and I don't use that anymore.
00:21:21I don't think people realize how they hurt me when they continue to use my dad name because for them can be something normal.
00:21:28But in the end of the day, that reminds me of things and feelings that I had in the past and I don't want that anymore.
00:21:37But when he told you about me, the Aaliyah, the real me.
00:21:44When I knew about the transition.
00:21:45Right.
00:21:46That's what you mean to say.
00:21:47About six months ago, I remember him saying that Douglas had changed into Aaliyah permanently.
00:21:51And he was kind of like trying to wrap his mind around it because it's a big change, obviously.
00:21:58All I remember is this feeling of the words being like, there is no more Douglas.
00:22:01And I'm like, what do you mean?
00:22:02It's like, oh, I'm.
00:22:03I'm.
00:22:04I'm.
00:22:05I'm.
00:22:06I'm.
00:22:07I'm.
00:22:08I'm.
00:22:09I'm.
00:22:10I'm.
00:22:11I'm.
00:22:12I'm.
00:22:13I'm.
00:22:14I'm.
00:22:15I'm.
00:22:16I'm.
00:22:17I'm.
00:22:18I'm.
00:22:19I'm.
00:22:20I'm.
00:22:21I'm.
00:22:22I'm.
00:22:23I'm.
00:22:24I'm.
00:22:25I'm.
00:22:26I'm like, what do you mean?
00:22:27It's like, oh, I'm Aaliyah full time now.
00:22:29Like, that's not a thing.
00:22:31For me, it felt like a death.
00:22:34So I was kind of like, oh, my God, I have to like, like, Douglas go.
00:22:38Did you also feel like Sean did, like you were mourning the loss of Douglas or not?
00:22:47But Douglas, not he anymore.
00:22:50Well, that's correct.
00:22:52But I'm just saying back then, Douglas was.
00:22:55Yeah.
00:22:56Yeah.
00:22:57When Angela was keeping saying my dad name, I did not correct her because I didn't want
00:23:02to be ruled.
00:23:04And sometimes I just feel like frozen.
00:23:08And I, I don't know like how to react, but I wish I could.
00:23:14Like she had been her whole life wanting Douglas to not be there.
00:23:19You know, I didn't have that problem.
00:23:20Yeah.
00:23:21Yeah.
00:23:22So it was a weird space and time for me, for sure, for trying to wrap my head around it.
00:23:32All right, gang.
00:23:33It's getting late.
00:23:34Yeah.
00:23:35And I'm getting cold.
00:23:36I know.
00:23:37In this warm California SoCal climate.
00:23:41Yeah.
00:23:42Okay, you guys.
00:23:43Have a great night.
00:23:44Bye.
00:23:45We'll see you soon.
00:23:46Okay.
00:23:47Bye.
00:23:48Bye.
00:23:49Drive careful.
00:23:50So you want to walk home?
00:23:51I'm feeling tired.
00:23:52I think we can just call a car.
00:23:53Order a car.
00:23:54Pretty simple.
00:23:55Done.
00:23:56Two minutes.
00:23:57So, how did it go?
00:23:58I'm not happy about using my dad name and I think you both did that a lot tonight.
00:24:20Well, I mean, she's only needing to know the story and what's happened, so.
00:24:27I think Sean in this position could be always say something because he knows how I feel.
00:24:40I need to know that Sean loves me as Leah.
00:24:45After tonight and after our conversation, the hiking, I don't know how much he accepts me yet.
00:24:52Hey Jordan.
00:24:53I'm scared because I'm, I've got this, I think, some delight on family.
00:25:05I'm hurry because Jordan will talk to him and the family.
00:25:11Oh, hey, boy.
00:25:12Here they come.
00:25:13Oh, boy.
00:25:14I know we're both kind of frustrated with each other right now.
00:25:18I know the situation's awkward.
00:25:19I just want us to, like, clear the air.
00:25:20I don't want there to be any hard feelings.
00:25:25This is a family weekend.
00:25:26I want everyone to be able to get along.
00:25:27I would love to spend some time in Korea.
00:25:32And, like, let's just hold up with that.
00:25:33Okay.
00:25:34We can try to make things a little better.
00:25:35Yeah.
00:25:36For me too, I talked to my mom and the other right now, I know the situation's awkward.
00:25:39I just want us to, like, clear the air.
00:25:41I don't want there to be any hard feelings.
00:25:42It's a family weekend.
00:25:43I want everyone to be able to get along.
00:25:44I would love to spend some time in Korea.
00:25:45And, like, let's just hold up with that.
00:25:46Okay.
00:25:47We can try to make things a little better.
00:25:48Yeah.
00:25:49For me too, I talked to my mom and I talked to my mom.
00:25:53I just want to have a nice family weekend.
00:25:58Yeah.
00:25:59Yeah.
00:26:00For me too, I talked to Mark.
00:26:02I know it's very important for Mark, for the family.
00:26:05And, uh, me too, I like family.
00:26:08This I need to fix it.
00:26:11For everyone, I'd say, like, have a good week, weekend.
00:26:14And, uh, to try again.
00:26:17Yeah.
00:26:18We'll just take it, like, day by day and see how things go.
00:26:22Okay.
00:26:23We can agree on that.
00:26:24Yeah.
00:26:25Yeah.
00:26:27Okay.
00:26:28Hi, Maria.
00:26:29K.
00:26:30We'll be here.
00:26:31The fact that she's trying to make peace with me, I found it honorable.
00:26:35I found it nice, but is it true?
00:26:41That's the question.
00:26:43This is a taxi?
00:26:44Yeah.
00:26:45There's no cars here.
00:26:46Yes.
00:26:47Yes.
00:26:48All golf cards.
00:26:49So, I think we end up getting in one of these carts.
00:26:51these carts you get in the other side and then I'll hand you Maria all right okay
00:26:56you ready Maria let's go
00:27:13where's Jordan Jordan yeah I don't know oh my god she'd have 10 minutes before
00:27:24I think she talked for everybody was now I'm scared because I'm I'm going to say
00:27:32some delight on family no my family's not like that oh baby girl
00:27:39ra ra ra Jordan and gave me kind of very quickly I'm hurry because I know she go
00:27:46for talk bull and when the family do you know Kenny did kiss Kelly posture I can tell about
00:27:55this beautiful island yes snake yeah alligators don't wake up mama snake hey this too don't use
00:28:04this word snake on Jordan I don't like this word this is my daughter it may be in French the whatever
00:28:10the word is doesn't sound bad but in English you call someone a snake that's I don't like that
00:28:15stop and say it was your fault but let's just not say that it's not cool
00:28:21oh here we are here they are oh boy oh god hey guys hi hi Maria's sleeping
00:28:44hey Mark hi there oh look at the pee pee she just woke up she's a little groggy let me kiss the
00:28:55other cheek right you have to kiss both cheeks yeah yeah when I first met Mina in Paris it was the
00:29:04first night we had flown in while we were tired she still fixed us a fabulous meal and we all left
00:29:11they're feeling really good about her I'm glad she's here I hope she loves it and wants to stay
00:29:22here I'm gonna go get a drink thank you you want some water you want something okay yeah it's too hot
00:29:30oh nice I like this she calls anything in my house this wood is rustic and how's this wardrobe going
00:29:39incredible I open the fridge for for for eat and they see the food is yeah it's tired yeah food from
00:29:472017. that's also a little dated yeah I didn't have the best impression that I met Mina in Paris for
00:29:59the christening um the first night was okay she cooked for us we were in a small place so she had to be
00:30:04around us well but um we just never felt welcome we never felt like she wanted us there um the next
00:30:15day like for the actual event she was four hours late and she had taken the time to like tell her
00:30:20friends that it was gonna start later and other people but she did not tell us which kind of sucked so
00:30:27well Jordan got over here before we did so did she have much to say she's I think she's just um
00:30:48I think she wants to still have that daddy-daughter relationship I think she thinks my focus now is on
00:30:57Maria Maria and our family and I don't want to be quoted on it she just I could tell she's upset
00:31:03I didn't know Jordan was that upset over that Paris trip I always thought that whole weekend went
00:31:08pretty good uh I'm gonna stop you there I didn't think it went great it bothered me that night at the
00:31:16party but she was three or four hours late and she kind of came out like this princess like vibe thing
00:31:24and I was like what the heck like and and she didn't really talk to us much the whole weekend and I was
00:31:30a little surprised you didn't get a little more that night like get your butt down here my family's down
00:31:35here her mind was she hadn't seen all the family and and this is a big night and everybody has their
00:31:44opinion and their facts of how things happened but um I support Jordan of course I do it almost feels
00:31:52like now my own brother Rich is is siding with Jordan um and against Mina as well I don't know
00:31:59why adding Mina to the mix is creating this tension and hostility so I'm this close to wanting to leave
00:32:06this family barbecue because it's none of this is uh conducive to me and Mina's relationship
00:32:12just how you said you were lonely I was also just as lonely Juan is very curious about what happened
00:32:25with me and my ex-boyfriend and I know I heard you but I feel hurt a little too he cheated he is trying to
00:32:32make it seem like I cheated and I feel like it's time that we talk okay I fell okay come on
00:33:02okay give me two seconds just let me stretch for a second give me a minute please
00:33:14okay come on okay ready we're going we're going
00:33:19last night was really rough we had a conversation in the car where we were at a disagreement and not
00:33:29ending on good terms and then Juan and I came home and we went to bed um I have a present for you
00:33:36Juan Devin for me yeah hold up oh what's that matching pajamas I'm glad that the boys were already
00:33:43asleep when we got home because you know I don't ever want them to like feel anything that's going
00:33:47on or any issues like it's my job to protect them from any of that and so that's always my first
00:33:53priority and we can have our talks later in private but they don't need to be feeling the tension or any of
00:34:00that let's see your PJs okay how do I look you look so cute in your PJs
00:34:07so in America there's this really fun Christmas tradition where we get the whole family matching
00:34:15pajamas I haven't done anything like that in my life okay I'm here thank you I thought your PJs
00:34:27we're going to be like way sexier and with less reindeers I don't know sexy I can't be sexy with
00:34:34three kids in the house why not I think my kids would be like embarrassed like what is my mom wearing
00:34:41you can be a sexy mama I don't think I don't like shorts I don't know I didn't okay let's go
00:34:55no sorry Juan and I need to discuss what happened last night he cheated he is trying to make it seem
00:35:07like I cheated there's just some big conversations that we need to have the boys are scheduled to go
00:35:12stay with their dad so we're going to walk them over there and then we are going to have a talk
00:35:16are you guys excited to stay at dad's yeah wow this is a nice house it's huge I know Dawson says it's a
00:35:24mansion and then they come to my tiny house okay give me hugs goodbye okay tomorrow I'll miss you
00:35:34what happened yesterday with Jessica's friends and then this ex-boyfriend thing I have realized
00:35:40that we have kept secrecy in between us in this relationship and now that I'm here this just can't
00:35:46keep on going and we need to work things out you know look I just been thinking about last night
00:35:57and I know I heard you but I feel hurt a little too yeah just the fact that your ex came to your
00:36:06house and I didn't know he came at night and the kids were not there make it even a little you know
00:36:14making it be worse you know I think we both were feeling the distance and we weren't communicating
00:36:21as well as we can and just how like you said you were lonely like I was also just as lonely
00:36:31Juan is very curious about what happened with me and my ex-boyfriend that summer we were very distant
00:36:39I mean he was working long hours on the ship so we weren't communicating you know the same time
00:36:43that he was kind of being not on his best behavior I felt that too and was lonely and kind of started
00:36:51reconnecting with an ex-boyfriend and found myself in a way developing some feelings I guess that's part
00:36:59of the reason why I forgave Juan for cheating on me he was going through like his own thing and I was just
00:37:10trying to be a friend and be there for someone I guess but I mean you know my intentions were never
00:37:19bad so you never thought about it I mean you know I think there's always like there's people you always
00:37:26care about I mean look I get what happened to you I've been there and I felt lonely too but I mean I
00:37:33didn't do what you did
00:37:37something that worries me is here this is normal like this is a this is a normal life and you haven't
00:37:50lived a normal life in a while and I'm afraid that you know maybe you won't be happy living a normal life
00:37:59she's right about it I'm giving up my career my life on the boat for coming here and maybe by then
00:38:11I didn't picture it but now I can see how much of a sacrifice it was it is really hard and tough
00:38:19I want you to want to be here like I don't want you to feel like you have to be here so I mean I guess
00:38:29I'm just wondering too like do you want this do you want all of this I mean I do really want all of
00:38:41this I do want to live with my son and I do love you so much and I and I'm just ready for this life I
00:38:51guess you guess my biggest fear was Juan could adapt to normal family life and it feels good to hear
00:39:01that he wants all of this and you know that's what I'm really wanting love you love you too
00:39:07of course it's one thing to say it that's another thing to live it and he did hurt me in the past
00:39:16and I don't want to be hurt again I'm gonna go to work a little bit you'll be all right without me yeah
00:39:27yeah of course I don't want things to feel like they are scheduled you know like oh mom's gonna be
00:39:34working from three to two or something oh let's go let's go but it's like oh my god like I have
00:39:39all this energy and all this this this testosterone just built up and you are always saying like the
00:39:49name it's my old male name and I don't use that anymore so what do you want people to say use the
00:39:55name so we can talk about the nothing and then nothing says to me and when I meant nothing nothing meant
00:40:02nothing
00:40:14what
00:40:14are you waiting for
00:40:16Last night, Sean took me to meet one of his friends, Angela.
00:40:35She was really nice, but something bothered me because they were keeping saying, like,
00:40:43my dad's name.
00:40:45It's my old male name, and I don't use that anymore.
00:40:49When I told Sean that that was brought to me, he didn't say, like, any sorry.
00:40:55He just said that that was, like, my fault because I brought that to the conversation.
00:41:02I'm changing, and I'm really worried the more that I'd be myself, he'd be, like, more
00:41:07distant and, like, I'm here, we have 90 days, and if we doesn't get married, that
00:41:13we'd be like a disaster, then we can go.
00:41:18All right, that took a while.
00:41:22Yeah, do I look nice?
00:41:25You always look nice.
00:41:27Yeah, let me get Maxwell in his place so he can be here while we go.
00:41:34Come on, big guy.
00:41:37I'm not going to be able to pick you up pretty soon.
00:41:40You have all your toys.
00:41:43Love, turn around.
00:41:48It's open, your shorts.
00:41:50My shorts are open?
00:41:52Yeah.
00:41:53Probably from picking up that dog.
00:41:56I don't feel anything.
00:41:58Yeah, it's here.
00:41:59It's open.
00:42:00I think so.
00:42:03I don't care.
00:42:04It can stay open.
00:42:05You go like that?
00:42:07At least I'm wearing underwear.
00:42:08That's a good sign.
00:42:10Maybe we can find me some new pants.
00:42:12This looks like everything I already wear.
00:42:30You guys looking for anything in particular today, maybe?
00:42:34She might need a jacket or sweater or something to keep her warm.
00:42:37Yeah.
00:42:38I'm in Brazil, so everything seems cold in L.A.
00:42:41This is the section here that's going to have most of the sweaters, jackets, andâŠ
00:42:44Okay.
00:42:46Let me know if you need a different size or anything, okay?
00:42:47Thanks.
00:42:48This is cute.
00:42:52Hey.
00:42:55Yeah, I don't like the color.
00:42:57No.
00:42:58Long skirt?
00:43:01No, I think I can handle that.
00:43:05I can, like, choose the clothes that I like, and the men's side is the other side.
00:43:15Are you still irritated about last night?
00:43:21Yes.
00:43:25You are always saying, like, that name.
00:43:28It's not something that I want, like, to continue bringing to all the conversation that we have, or if peopleâŠ
00:43:34Obviously, Angela knows about my relationship with Douglas, and so that word came up.
00:43:40We don't need to use the name.
00:43:43So, what do you want people to say?
00:43:45Don't use the name.
00:43:46So, I'm talking to nothing, and then nothing says to me, and when I meant nothing, nothing meant nothing.
00:43:53This is not trying to be a hit or a jab or hurtful in any way.
00:44:02It's just that this is who was, and we're talking about the full picture of the relationship.
00:44:08And Aaliyah has to kind of remember that there would be no Sean and Aaliyah if there was no Sean and Douglas.
00:44:15So, you know, it's complicated, and as much as I want to value her feelings on it, I cannot say that word to make her happy,
00:44:26but I'm not quite ready to act like Douglas never existed.
00:44:32I think if that happened in the moment that we are together, I think, like, you can correct that and say,
00:44:39oh, that's Aaliyah, and that's it.
00:44:45Yeah, or you can tell them that you feel uncomfortable talking about that name or whatever and not to do it,
00:44:50so they know exactly what you're saying, you know, they might not understand what you're getting at.
00:44:56And that includes me, because I didn't know that made you uncomfortable.
00:45:00I think, like, now I am enough, and you don't need, like, to keep missing that or bringing that anymore.
00:45:11And now I just want to think about future, our plans for the future, how everything will be,
00:45:18like our wedding, how it will be life, day-to-day, whatever, and that's it.
00:45:24Okay.
00:45:24You brought it up, and I was talking about it because you were asking about it,
00:45:29so if we're not talking about it, then that's fine.
00:45:33One of my big fears with being with somebody who's transitioning is that I feel like I'm somehow part of the problem
00:45:41because I represent something from the past that you don't want to think about.
00:45:46There's pictures, there's video, there's memories that I cherish that now need to be hidden and deleted and discarded,
00:45:57and am I part of that need to discard?
00:46:15What's up, mother cluckers?
00:46:16Living it up, living it up, living it up, living it up right
00:46:23Until the day I die
00:46:26This is life
00:46:28Babe, you want to get the egg basket?
00:46:34Oh, look at that.
00:46:36She knows.
00:46:36She is too good.
00:46:38Got to get some eggs.
00:46:39Woo!
00:46:42Wow.
00:46:43We got a lot of eggs in there, huh?
00:46:45So we have 18 chickens.
00:46:48They're part of the family.
00:46:49I mean, you know, we love them.
00:46:50Listen, we don't give them as much attention and love as the dogs, but they definitely have a nice setup.
00:46:54They're very well taken care of, and in return, they give us some of the most delicious eggs I've ever eaten in my life.
00:46:59So when can we eat one?
00:47:00What?
00:47:05When can we eat one?
00:47:08And you're going to be like, we have chickens, like, maybe, like, for six months, then after we eat them.
00:47:13Do you want me to kill one of my chickens?
00:47:15Yes, why not?
00:47:18On Sunday, we are eating the black one, like, maybe Beatrice or Wednesday we're having this one.
00:47:23Henrietta?
00:47:24Yeah.
00:47:26Your eyes are lighting up right now, thinking I can see it, man.
00:47:29Oh, it will be so delicious.
00:47:31I just can't wait to have one.
00:47:33And, you know, I know you like it.
00:47:34Yeah, absolutely.
00:47:35I would love it.
00:47:35Yeah.
00:47:36Greg!
00:47:37Oh, God.
00:47:39Hey, Mom.
00:47:40I turned the water on.
00:47:42Okay.
00:47:43Oh, you got the eggs?
00:47:44Wow.
00:47:45I'm going to go to work a little bit.
00:47:47You'll be all right without me?
00:47:49Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:47:49Yeah.
00:47:50Of course.
00:47:51Of course.
00:47:51If you get a chance, would you be able to water the garden?
00:47:54It looks like it's, like, wilting everything.
00:47:56Okay, we'll do so.
00:47:57Do you want me to bring the eggs in?
00:48:00Okay.
00:48:01Yeah, no problem.
00:48:02Yeah, I guess we'll do some other stuff around the coop here.
00:48:05All right.
00:48:05All right.
00:48:06See you.
00:48:08Living with my mom and Joan has its ups and downs sometimes.
00:48:11Sometimes you want a little privacy.
00:48:13I feel like no matter which room I'm in, she just comes and finds something to do in that
00:48:19room.
00:48:19If I go in the garage, she comes in the garage.
00:48:21If I go in the back room, she's vacuuming the back room.
00:48:24If I'm in the kitchen, she's cleaning dishes in the kitchen.
00:48:27It's like, what the f***?
00:48:28Is it really that much to do?
00:48:30So introducing my mom to ride-share deliveries during the pandemic, I mean, it's probably
00:48:37one of the best ideas I've ever had.
00:48:39Oh, yeah.
00:48:45How are things with Joan, Gregory, and I?
00:48:47I find that it's better than I thought it would be.
00:48:54He seems a lot happier.
00:48:56A lot more, he's in the morning, he'll be singing, you know, in the morning dancing.
00:49:03And it's good.
00:49:04It's good to see my son happy.
00:49:08You want to head on inside?
00:49:10Yeah.
00:49:10Yeah.
00:49:14Are you in a rush?
00:49:16Yeah.
00:49:17What's up, baby?
00:49:21So when it comes to intimacy and making love, I don't want things to feel like they are
00:49:25scheduled, you know, like, oh, mom's going to be working from three to two or something.
00:49:29Oh, let's go, let's go.
00:49:30But it's like, it is what it is.
00:49:31I have to deal with it.
00:49:38It's like, oh, my God.
00:49:39Like, I have all this energy and all this testosterone just built up.
00:49:44Whew.
00:49:44First time I've seen you in this, uh, bathrobe here.
00:49:58All right.
00:49:59Oh, yeah.
00:50:00Nice.
00:50:00Perfect.
00:50:01Good day.
00:50:01And I've got to water the garden.
00:50:03Mom asked me to water the garden.
00:50:05So what's going on with the pressure?
00:50:07I'm sure you don't make me worse.
00:50:09I already did.
00:50:12So you had a good time?
00:50:14Yeah.
00:50:15Yeah.
00:50:15That was nice.
00:50:17Nah, I wish she would, uh, go out more often.
00:50:20I don't know.
00:50:21I'd need to give up some money for shopping.
00:50:23But she's always out.
00:50:24I don't know.
00:50:25Money for, I can do that.
00:50:26Ask her to go to the grocery store.
00:50:27She loves grocery shopping.
00:50:28I, I enjoy the time we have together.
00:50:35But when will this stop?
00:50:39You don't have to wait for your mom always to get out.
00:50:42What if she doesn't go out?
00:50:46I know.
00:50:47It's just killing me to stay here for two years.
00:50:51I love being with Greg.
00:50:53But these living arrangements, I don't know if it's possible.
00:50:57So, relationship can't last long this way.
00:51:02You have to get the out of here.
00:51:05Yeah, yeah.
00:51:06No, you're absolutely right.
00:51:07I gotta get a job.
00:51:09I gotta get a real job, you know?
00:51:11I feel like if you don't want to get a job,
00:51:14I want to go back to Orlando.
00:51:20What'd you just say?
00:51:21Sarpia, I'm going to be honest with you.
00:51:28Before Shikana went back to Turkey,
00:51:30I didn't believe in your relationship.
00:51:32I think you were, like, just bull****** her.
00:51:36What the f***?
00:51:37I mean, he tries to poke me,
00:51:39and I just want to answer him,
00:51:42but I cannot because Shikana is there.
00:51:44What a test.
00:51:45What are you doing, babe?
00:52:01What are you doing?
00:52:03Where did you get this?
00:52:04This is mine.
00:52:06Oh, my God.
00:52:07Babe, you can't shave here.
00:52:08Literally, your little hairs stick to everything.
00:52:18Like, if I touch this now,
00:52:19it's going to stick to my hand,
00:52:20and then if I touch my face,
00:52:21I'm going to have it on my face.
00:52:24Tweety, don't be so grumpy.
00:52:28I have to hide stuff from you.
00:52:30Sarpia is very vain.
00:52:31He likes to take care of himself
00:52:32almost as much as I do,
00:52:34and he has been using all my stuff.
00:52:38I'm getting old, babe.
00:52:40I have to conceal my wrinkles.
00:52:42Yeah, he uses the wrong products
00:52:44in the wrong places.
00:52:46Highlighter, like, goes here and here,
00:52:48and he puts it all under.
00:52:51He's still a man about it,
00:52:52but he's playing with, like,
00:52:53you know, girl stuff.
00:52:55I don't like you to talk about it.
00:52:56I love it.
00:52:59It's cute.
00:53:01Don't get mad.
00:53:04Okay, I won't say girl stuff.
00:53:06That's not fair, actually,
00:53:07because makeup is for everyone.
00:53:11Sweetie.
00:53:13What the ?
00:53:14I just want you
00:53:18to really be on your best behavior tonight,
00:53:21and please make a good impression on my friends.
00:53:24These are people that are the closest to me.
00:53:27I'm really nervous about Sarp
00:53:30or meeting my friends tonight.
00:53:32They're a big part of my life.
00:53:33We do things together all the time,
00:53:36so if this doesn't go well,
00:53:38it's going to really affect our life in L.A. together.
00:53:40I won't be offensive.
00:53:42I know.
00:53:42I know what you mean.
00:53:43I won't be offensive.
00:53:44What if you're feeling cornered or challenged
00:53:46or, like, ganged up on?
00:53:52If someone comes to me,
00:53:54I will react, of course.
00:53:57Ugh, this is stressful.
00:53:59I'm downstairs waiting for you.
00:54:02Okay.
00:54:02I think that Sarp will be fine
00:54:06with most of my friends,
00:54:07but I am worried about one of them,
00:54:09and that's Dan.
00:54:10Sarp knows a lot about Dan,
00:54:12and I've mentioned that he still has feelings for me.
00:54:14I really want you to be happy,
00:54:17but I really still do love you.
00:54:23I've told him a thousand times
00:54:25that Dan is harmless,
00:54:26and I think he trusts me on that,
00:54:28but that doesn't mean he likes the idea
00:54:30of me hanging out with someone
00:54:32that has feelings for me.
00:54:38Let's go.
00:54:40Are you in a bad mood?
00:54:41No.
00:54:42I am getting used to it.
00:54:44Used to what?
00:54:45Everything.
00:54:50Her friends are closer to her
00:54:52than her own family,
00:54:54so it's important for me
00:54:55to make a great first impression on them.
00:54:58But when Dan is there,
00:55:00how it will happen,
00:55:02I don't know.
00:55:05Downtown LA.
00:55:06Yep.
00:55:07Real Los Angeles, right?
00:55:09Yeah, we're here.
00:55:10What do you think?
00:55:12It looks cool.
00:55:13It looks America.
00:55:14Yeah.
00:55:15Yeah.
00:55:15Let me just send them a little group text
00:55:17to not go hard on you.
00:55:20Either.
00:55:21If you feel like you're being interrogated
00:55:24or something,
00:55:25just keep in mind that
00:55:26it's because they love me
00:55:28and care about me
00:55:29and they're just looking out
00:55:30for my best interest,
00:55:31you know?
00:55:31Of course.
00:55:32I love you.
00:55:33Me too.
00:55:34You love yourself too.
00:55:46Oh my God!
00:55:47Oh my God!
00:55:49Hi!
00:55:51How are you?
00:55:52How are you?
00:55:52Good to meet you.
00:55:52Good to meet you.
00:55:52Good to meet you.
00:55:53Finally?
00:55:54How are you doing?
00:55:56Hello.
00:55:56Nice to finally meet you.
00:55:59He hugged me.
00:56:01Believe me,
00:56:02every self of me
00:56:05wanted to do something else,
00:56:06you know?
00:56:07Sarp is really here.
00:56:08He's a real person.
00:56:10Yeah.
00:56:12Hello, guys.
00:56:13How are you?
00:56:14Fine.
00:56:15You look the same.
00:56:16You look good.
00:56:17Finally.
00:56:18How are you like
00:56:18in L.A. so far?
00:56:19I mean,
00:56:20I'm in shock still.
00:56:21I know.
00:56:22Sometimes I think,
00:56:23where am I?
00:56:24What am I doing?
00:56:27We're down in the street
00:56:27with each other.
00:56:28You're down to my place.
00:56:29We're going to the pool.
00:56:29Exactly.
00:56:30Yeah.
00:56:30See,
00:56:31that's why I wanted him
00:56:31to meet you guys
00:56:32because I want him
00:56:33to feel like he has
00:56:34other people in L.A.
00:56:35So for now,
00:56:36you're here for three months?
00:56:38Are you here for three months?
00:56:39No.
00:56:39He's moved here.
00:56:41No, we have three months
00:56:42to get married.
00:56:43Like, we need...
00:56:44You have 90 days
00:56:45to marry.
00:56:45The visa is for 90 days.
00:56:47So you have 90 days
00:56:48to get married?
00:56:48Yeah.
00:56:49And then if we get married,
00:56:50he stays.
00:56:50So are you getting married?
00:56:54Well, I mean,
00:56:55it's like a trial period, right?
00:56:5790 days is like,
00:56:57let's see how it goes.
00:56:59Are you already engaged?
00:56:59Yes, well, that means
00:57:01he wants to marry me.
00:57:02But in this situation,
00:57:03maybe it's more like
00:57:04by convenience
00:57:04because for you
00:57:05to stay longer here.
00:57:07If she kind of is not
00:57:08in my life,
00:57:09even if you pay me,
00:57:10I wouldn't stay.
00:57:13At the table,
00:57:14I mean,
00:57:15everyone is American,
00:57:16thinking American,
00:57:17except me and Dan.
00:57:18We are both
00:57:19Mediterraneans,
00:57:20Europeans,
00:57:20and we have
00:57:22another flow of energy.
00:57:26He was just
00:57:26trying to step on me.
00:57:28I feel that.
00:57:29It's so obvious.
00:57:30No one understands
00:57:31at the table.
00:57:33But he was sending
00:57:34those messages to me.
00:57:36Have you ever met
00:57:37with any boyfriends
00:57:38of Skylar?
00:57:39Oh, yeah.
00:57:40Oh, yeah.
00:57:40Oh, yeah.
00:57:41They were all losers.
00:57:42Like, honestly.
00:57:43Like, I mean,
00:57:44beside me,
00:57:44but they were all,
00:57:45I mean,
00:57:45they were all losers.
00:57:46Did you date with her?
00:57:50We went on dates,
00:57:51but we weren't dating.
00:57:53Do you know the difference?
00:57:56We weren't dating.
00:57:57Like, we weren't
00:57:58in a relationship.
00:58:00You know, in France,
00:58:01when you meet a girl,
00:58:03you go on a date with her,
00:58:04and then if you kiss her,
00:58:06and then you start to see her,
00:58:07then she becomes
00:58:08a girlfriend right away.
00:58:10If you kiss her?
00:58:10Yeah.
00:58:12Dan!
00:58:12I know, no, no, no.
00:58:13I'm just explaining
00:58:14the French way.
00:58:15Okay, but you know
00:58:16that doesn't work in L.A.
00:58:17That's not true.
00:58:21We went on dates,
00:58:23and, yeah,
00:58:25some interesting stuff happened.
00:58:28I mean, we've done more
00:58:29than just kissing.
00:58:31Back then.
00:58:34Let's stop her.
00:58:34I'm going to be honest with you.
00:58:35You know, like,
00:58:36before she kind of
00:58:37went back to Turkey,
00:58:37I didn't believe
00:58:39in your relationship.
00:58:40I think you were, like,
00:58:41just bull****** her
00:58:42and playing with her
00:58:43and just, like, you know,
00:58:45sleeping with other girls
00:58:46in Turkey
00:58:47while she was here
00:58:48in the U.S.
00:58:49And I still think
00:58:51that I would be a better,
00:58:53you know,
00:58:54a better guy to be with.
00:58:55What the f**k, I mean,
00:59:05he tries to poke me
00:59:06with small words,
00:59:09some ego clash,
00:59:10and I hate that,
00:59:12and I just want to answer him,
00:59:14but I cannot,
00:59:14because she kind of is there.
00:59:16I have to give a good impression
00:59:17that ego clash between us
00:59:20can urge me to do something
00:59:22that I don't want,
00:59:23that I can be regretful.
00:59:25Afterwards,
00:59:27what a test.
00:59:28So, earlier today,
00:59:36you were having an issue
00:59:36with talking about the past
00:59:38and wanting to be
00:59:39in your present.
00:59:41After our conversation
00:59:43from today,
00:59:44I've been thinking,
00:59:45and I want Aaliyah to know
00:59:47about how I feel
00:59:48about our next chapter.
00:59:50I'm not doing anything
00:59:52to hurt your feelings,
00:59:54but, um...
00:59:56Hey, it's a good day
01:00:03to be okay
01:00:05with who I am.
01:00:06Come on.
01:00:07I'm going.
01:00:08I'm going without you.
01:00:09Come on.
01:00:11This is what the big boys do.
01:00:13Come on.
01:00:14I'm feeling good.
01:00:20After our conversation
01:00:27from today,
01:00:28I've been thinking.
01:00:32I went through
01:00:33a long period
01:00:34of mourning
01:00:34for Douglas,
01:00:36but there's an inner light
01:00:38to both of them
01:00:39that I am drawn to.
01:00:44It just feels homey
01:00:45and comfortable,
01:00:46and we can have
01:00:48an argument
01:00:49and it doesn't seem hateful
01:00:51and we can say nothing
01:00:53and it doesn't seem strange.
01:00:55And those things
01:00:56are all outside the box
01:00:58of sex and gender.
01:01:06I'm almost done.
01:01:11Maybe it's the joy
01:01:12also of being older
01:01:13that you know that feeling
01:01:15and you cherish it
01:01:17instead of, like,
01:01:17toss it away
01:01:18because, you know,
01:01:19you don't know any better.
01:01:21So, even though
01:01:22it's complicated,
01:01:24I'm knowledgeable
01:01:25that this is
01:01:27an important life person
01:01:28and I'm wanting
01:01:31to do life
01:01:32with that person.
01:01:36It's good.
01:01:38Yeah?
01:01:39Yeah.
01:01:42Yeah, it's really good.
01:01:43So, earlier today,
01:01:49you were having an issue
01:01:50with talking about the past
01:01:52and wanting to be
01:01:54in your present
01:01:56and I want you to know
01:01:59that I'm not doing anything
01:02:01purposefully
01:02:02to hurt your feelings
01:02:05or make you upset
01:02:07about the past stuff.
01:02:08It's just,
01:02:09we haven't talked about that before
01:02:10and how you want to address it
01:02:11and I want you to know
01:02:13that as much as there's change
01:02:16that I'm rolling with the changes
01:02:18and I see you
01:02:21and I love you
01:02:22and I made you something
01:02:24so that you could understand
01:02:25that I'm being in the present.
01:02:29So, I have a present
01:02:30for the presents.
01:02:32Early on in our relationship,
01:02:35Aaliyah, then Douglas,
01:02:36made me a sweet picture book
01:02:41of our adventure story.
01:02:44Aaliyah has been keeping
01:02:45a scrapbook
01:02:46called Our Adventure Book.
01:02:48It's the Sean and Douglas story
01:02:51or at least that's how it begins.
01:02:59He's handsome
01:03:00as Douglas, right?
01:03:02And then
01:03:03the adventure book ends.
01:03:09That particular story,
01:03:12chapters are finished
01:03:14and I want Aaliyah to know
01:03:17about how I feel
01:03:18about our next chapters
01:03:20and new adventure stories.
01:03:25So, this was done
01:03:26a long time ago
01:03:27waiting for you to come
01:03:28to America
01:03:30to be with me.
01:03:31So, this is
01:03:33a new book.
01:03:37So, you gave me a book
01:03:39and I'm giving you a book.
01:03:41It makes me feel like
01:04:10embraced
01:04:10and important to him.
01:04:14And I can also see
01:04:16like a movie
01:04:16that's passing
01:04:17from my mind
01:04:18with a lot of memories
01:04:19together
01:04:20and all the moments
01:04:22I can see like myself,
01:04:23I can see Aaliyah
01:04:24and Sean
01:04:25and that's very important
01:04:26and amazing to me.
01:04:29It's a couple of months.
01:04:30I have no words.
01:04:36I have no words.
01:04:36I love this.
01:04:55You're welcome.
01:04:58It's the Lee and Sean story.
01:05:00This is the first time
01:05:09that I can see
01:05:10like a confirmation
01:05:11from Sean
01:05:12that he is really
01:05:13being supportive to me
01:05:15and he is really
01:05:16the person that I love
01:05:18and the person
01:05:18that I want to get married.
01:05:20Hey, Aaliyah,
01:05:21you're almost done?
01:05:22Yes.
01:05:23That's pretty.
01:05:34Right now,
01:05:35my heart
01:05:35is beating fast
01:05:36because I can feel like
01:05:38that we can finally
01:05:39move forward.
01:05:43Happy?
01:05:44Yeah.
01:05:45I love what you did tonight.
01:05:47Yeah.
01:05:48Good.
01:05:50Yeah.
01:05:50Do you want me
01:05:51to turn off the lights?
01:05:52Yeah.
01:05:56I'm going to get rid
01:05:57of the dog.
01:05:59Maxwell.
01:06:00Come on.
01:06:01Come on.
01:06:02Come on.
01:06:03All right.
01:06:04Good boy.
01:06:05Good boy.
01:06:06Good boy.
01:06:17The bread price,
01:06:18the dowager
01:06:19had told you about it.
01:06:21It's 15 cows.
01:06:22Realistically, though,
01:06:25how does somebody
01:06:25afford 15 cows?
01:06:26People do afford
01:06:27it's just you
01:06:27who can't afford them.
01:06:30That's a volcano
01:06:31erupting, you know?
01:06:32Is it fair
01:06:33that all of this
01:06:34is on me?
01:06:36Have you guys
01:06:37talked any more
01:06:37about Apina?
01:06:38Yeah, I think,
01:06:40uh, yeah.
01:06:41Do you think I come
01:06:43just for your money,
01:06:44Mark?
01:06:44You too?
01:06:47I finished
01:06:47this conference
01:06:48and I'm gone.
01:06:50I don't know
01:06:51that it's a blessing.
01:06:53God bless.
01:07:02What do you mean?
01:07:02Like, go back to Uganda
01:07:03if I don't get a job?
01:07:04Honestly speaking, yeah.
01:07:15You want me to lie
01:07:16on a person
01:07:16who's unstable?
01:07:19See, when we met
01:07:20your friends,
01:07:21like, they
01:07:21opened my eyes.
01:07:24How come they're, like,
01:07:25successfully
01:07:25of the same age?
01:07:26I fall in love
01:07:29with Gregory
01:07:29because he's
01:07:30a very loving person.
01:07:32He's honest,
01:07:33but if I'm going
01:07:34to be Gregory's wife,
01:07:35I need him
01:07:36to be serious.
01:07:37I need him
01:07:37to work.
01:07:39The job you denied
01:07:40just before I came,
01:07:43in my head,
01:07:43I'm like,
01:07:44he knew I was coming,
01:07:45so he didn't prepare,
01:07:47like, maybe
01:07:47to get a job, so.
01:07:49I should have
01:07:49took that job,
01:07:50I know.
01:07:51I'm sorry.
01:07:52Sometimes you don't
01:07:57take life serious.
01:07:59I take it serious.
01:08:00You joke a lot,
01:08:00you joke too much.
01:08:02I know,
01:08:02it's just what you
01:08:03fell in love with.
01:08:04Oh, you know
01:08:05what I'm saying?
01:08:06Sorry, I know.
01:08:09I'm taking this
01:08:10very serious.
01:08:11It's just how
01:08:11I cope with things.
01:08:13I kind of just
01:08:13laugh at things
01:08:14and shrug things
01:08:15off in a way.
01:08:17But as far as
01:08:18getting a job,
01:08:19I mean, every day,
01:08:20you know,
01:08:20I'm on the state website,
01:08:21I'm looking at jobs
01:08:22that they've posted,
01:08:23you know what I mean?
01:08:24I've put in a bunch
01:08:25of applications,
01:08:26my resume's gone out.
01:08:27You act like I'm not doing,
01:08:29I'm sitting on
01:08:29my ass every day.
01:08:32Because you don't
01:08:32communicate,
01:08:33I didn't know that
01:08:33maybe, like,
01:08:34you applied for many jobs,
01:08:36so.
01:08:36I have told you that.
01:08:37I've kept telling you that.
01:08:39I've always told you that.
01:08:43Joan, you know,
01:08:45she's the love of my life.
01:08:46I love her more than anything
01:08:47and I would do anything
01:08:48for her.
01:08:49But I don't think
01:08:49she realizes, like,
01:08:50if I had a regular
01:08:51nine-to-five job,
01:08:52I wouldn't have been able
01:08:53to have the freedom
01:08:53to go and visit her
01:08:55to Uganda
01:08:56as much as I could.
01:08:57I think I should be
01:08:58given a little bit
01:08:59of credit here.
01:09:00Our relationship
01:09:01wouldn't be where it is
01:09:01if I didn't make
01:09:02those choices that I did.
01:09:05It's something else.
01:09:07When I talked to
01:09:08my family,
01:09:10so Angel had talked
01:09:12up with my bigger brother.
01:09:14Alex.
01:09:14Yes.
01:09:15And you know about
01:09:16the great place,
01:09:17the dowry I told you
01:09:18about it.
01:09:18Yeah, it's 15 cows.
01:09:25Okay.
01:09:26All right.
01:09:27How much is a cow?
01:09:29Something like
01:09:301.5 million shillings,
01:09:31Ugandan shillings.
01:09:33They're $200.
01:09:35Two, three, six, eight.
01:09:39It's like three grand,
01:09:41almost.
01:09:41Mm-hmm.
01:09:42Realistically, though,
01:09:54how does somebody
01:09:55afford 15 cows?
01:09:56I mean...
01:09:57People do afford this.
01:09:58Just you who can't afford.
01:09:59So it's not like
01:10:00people can't afford it.
01:10:02It's just you.
01:10:05I mean, is it fair
01:10:06that all of this
01:10:06is on me?
01:10:08You know what I mean?
01:10:09I mean, besides this...
01:10:10Forget about the dowry.
01:10:12I still have a whole
01:10:13wedding to afford.
01:10:14You know what I mean?
01:10:14I have wedding dresses
01:10:15to get for you.
01:10:16I have rings to buy
01:10:17for us.
01:10:19I mean, everything
01:10:20is on me.
01:10:21Culture is culture
01:10:22in my country, so...
01:10:22Yeah.
01:10:23It is what it is.
01:10:24I can't change nothing.
01:10:27That means I'm
01:10:27disobeying my culture.
01:10:28I'm disobeying my family.
01:10:30Also, my father's
01:10:31last wishes.
01:10:33But, okay,
01:10:34the dowry aside,
01:10:35you know what I mean?
01:10:35Besides all that,
01:10:36you knew who I was
01:10:37before you moved here.
01:10:37Mm-hmm.
01:10:38And now you're
01:10:39hitting me with this
01:10:40that you want to go
01:10:40back to Uganda
01:10:41if I don't have a job.
01:10:42I mean, like, so...
01:10:43Should we get married?
01:10:44I mean, like, you know,
01:10:45what if the job
01:10:46doesn't come through?
01:10:48I don't understand it.
01:10:50We had such a good
01:10:51moment upstairs
01:10:52a little while ago,
01:10:53and for her to hit me
01:10:54saying that she'd
01:10:55go back to Uganda
01:10:56if I didn't get a job,
01:10:57that's what really
01:10:57hurts the most.
01:10:58I mean, you know,
01:10:59everything else
01:10:59I can deal with,
01:11:00but the fact that
01:11:00she wants to get up
01:11:01and just leave,
01:11:02that's really...
01:11:05It's like a knife
01:11:05in the heart,
01:11:06straight up.
01:11:07The job doesn't come,
01:11:09which means you're not
01:11:09going to get married,
01:11:11because it means
01:11:11you can't take care of me,
01:11:12so...
01:11:13I mean, this is like...
01:11:14Because the fact is that
01:11:15if I don't see you
01:11:16putting in much effort,
01:11:17that's it.
01:11:17And the first night
01:11:34we all left,
01:11:35we were like,
01:11:35that went great,
01:11:36that was awesome.
01:11:38She was laid back,
01:11:39easy going,
01:11:40but from that next morning on,
01:11:41it was the opposite of that,
01:11:43and we were like,
01:11:43what the heck?
01:11:45FYI, bro,
01:11:46when we...
01:11:47And I'm not trying
01:11:47to be mean when I say this,
01:11:49I'm just saying it,
01:11:50but when we booked
01:11:51the tickets for the wedding,
01:11:53we booked refundable tickets
01:11:56just in case.
01:11:57I guess when I say
01:12:08I thought the weekend
01:12:09went good
01:12:09is because I thought
01:12:10that first night was awesome,
01:12:12and that's the Mina I know.
01:12:14I didn't realize
01:12:14that everybody has doubts,
01:12:17but, you know,
01:12:17here we are.
01:12:18We'll see.
01:12:29Hey, gang.
01:12:31I feel like so far
01:12:33nothing's gone right.
01:12:34It feels like my family's
01:12:36not supporting
01:12:37my choice to marry Mina.
01:12:39Here, here.
01:12:40Yeah.
01:12:41Good job, Marie.
01:12:42Good job.
01:12:43And maybe they're just
01:12:44still expressing concerns,
01:12:45but it shouldn't be here
01:12:47at a family barbecue.
01:12:48It's not the time for it.
01:12:50How do you guys smile?
01:12:51Maria, look.
01:12:52You ain't Uncle Rich.
01:12:54I don't know how to fix it
01:12:55or change it, so...
01:12:56I'm gonna try to keep
01:12:58a positive spin on everything
01:12:59and find the joy in it
01:13:02because I want them
01:13:03to get along.
01:13:03I mean, clearly,
01:13:04I don't want to make it worse.
01:13:06Did you guys get the e-vites?
01:13:08Everybody, uh...
01:13:08Yes, and I get all
01:13:09your responses, by the way.
01:13:10Yeah, we do.
01:13:11You do, too?
01:13:12You can see everyone's response.
01:13:13Oh, everybody does.
01:13:14Oh, everybody gets that.
01:13:16Any last-minute stuff
01:13:17you guys need to do?
01:13:19You could bring up
01:13:19a bag of cash, Dad,
01:13:20because this is good.
01:13:23I wish I could.
01:13:25Um, have you guys
01:13:26talked any more
01:13:27about a prenup?
01:13:29You guys are gonna do
01:13:30that before the wedding?
01:13:35Yeah, I think, uh...
01:13:36We're gonna do that.
01:13:39Yeah.
01:13:40You sound so sure, so...
01:13:42Well, it's kind of a weird
01:13:44time to bring it up,
01:13:45Jordan, but I agree,
01:13:46uh, you know, it's...
01:13:48Maybe not.
01:13:49Then she's got you nailed.
01:13:51You think I come
01:13:52just for your money, Mark?
01:13:53You, too?
01:13:56No, I don't think that,
01:13:58but I still think we'll do it.
01:14:00Just corporate...
01:14:02You know, just...
01:14:02It's a document sometimes.
01:14:04Maybe because of our age
01:14:05difference, it's...
01:14:06It's common, you know?
01:14:07I'm married for you.
01:14:09I don't marry for your money.
01:14:12Nah, and I would never
01:14:13not take care of you
01:14:15and Maria, too,
01:14:17but the prenup is just
01:14:18about stuff that I had
01:14:19before we met.
01:14:21I finished this conversation.
01:14:24I'm so sorry.
01:14:25I'm gonna decide...
01:14:26I need one minute for me.
01:14:30Wow.
01:14:37Ah, mon Dieu!
01:15:00Ah, mon Dieu!
01:15:02Je sais qui je suis.
01:15:04Je n'ai pas besoin d'un contrat
01:15:06pour prouver que j'aime
01:15:07leurs enfants
01:15:08ou leurs rappeurs.
01:15:10Je n'ai pas besoin d'un contrat.
01:15:12Mais bon, c'est triste.
01:15:15When we talked to her
01:15:16when we were golfing,
01:15:16you said that you guys
01:15:17had already had the conversation.
01:15:18Yeah, we did.
01:15:19We did, and again,
01:15:20maybe this is her
01:15:21not understanding.
01:15:23I think sometimes
01:15:24she doesn't really know
01:15:25what I'm saying.
01:15:25She knows what a prenup is, right?
01:15:27I think she does,
01:15:29but maybe it's because
01:15:29everybody's talking about it
01:15:31and it feels like
01:15:32it's intimidating.
01:15:33It's confusing.
01:15:33Yeah.
01:15:34Evidemment,
01:15:35j'ai quitté tout le monde
01:15:36pour venir ici.
01:15:38C'est pas pour venir,
01:15:39en fait,
01:15:40avoir l'impression
01:15:40que je suis venue voler,
01:15:43quoi que ce soit,
01:15:43venir prendre quelque chose
01:15:46qui...
01:15:47Et lui,
01:15:48il est tranquille
01:15:48dans son coin.
01:15:50Il ne se rend mĂȘme pas compte
01:15:51que ça me blesse.
01:15:54Si c'Ă©tait le cas,
01:15:56si je savais,
01:15:58on aurait pu rester
01:15:59dans les relations
01:15:59France-Ătats-Unis,
01:16:01en fait.
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01:16:07I don't want you to
01:16:09continue collecting
01:16:10your barbies
01:16:11in your closet.
01:16:12She's not a thing.
01:16:14That French bagot
01:16:15is non-stop talking.
01:16:16It's dangerous
01:16:17to poke the beer
01:16:18that much.
01:16:18You cannot control
01:16:19my feelings.
01:16:21I die for her,
01:16:22I kill for her.
01:16:24You better not
01:16:24want to have
01:16:25problems with me,
01:16:26for sure.
01:16:26Really?
01:16:28No.
01:16:28I still think
01:16:38that I would be
01:16:38a better,
01:16:39you know,
01:16:40a better guy
01:16:40to be with.
01:16:43What are you saying?
01:16:44Yeah, of course.
01:16:45I don't even know
01:16:45what you're saying.
01:16:45You weren't ready.
01:16:47I think I was
01:16:48a better man
01:16:49off
01:16:49that she can be with
01:16:52instead of
01:16:53going back to Turkey.
01:16:54I'm sorry,
01:16:54Sarkar,
01:16:54but, you know,
01:16:55it's just how it is.
01:16:56Wow.
01:17:05You are not
01:17:06her type,
01:17:07you know.
01:17:07You look like
01:17:08a bad boy,
01:17:08but you are
01:17:09a good boy.
01:17:11I can't believe
01:17:12that Dan is going
01:17:13in like this
01:17:14on Sarkar.
01:17:15And I'm actually
01:17:16really impressed
01:17:16that Sarkar's
01:17:17maintaining his
01:17:18composure
01:17:19through all of this
01:17:20and not losing
01:17:20his temper
01:17:21with Dan.
01:17:21You know,
01:17:22there are some
01:17:23boys,
01:17:24cat guys.
01:17:26Some guys
01:17:26are dog guys.
01:17:30There's some
01:17:30little backhanded
01:17:31stabs going on
01:17:33and I think
01:17:33it needs to
01:17:34like stop
01:17:35because clearly
01:17:36we're together.
01:17:37That's not going
01:17:38to change.
01:17:39If you think
01:17:40otherwise,
01:17:41we would have
01:17:42a problem.
01:17:42That's for sure.
01:17:43You better not
01:17:45want to have
01:17:46programs with
01:17:46me for sure.
01:17:47Really?
01:17:53He is
01:17:54obvious
01:17:55at trying to
01:17:56interfere
01:17:56our relationship.
01:17:58Old version
01:17:58Sarkar,
01:17:59I would bounce
01:18:00him and throw
01:18:01him up,
01:18:02catch him in the
01:18:02air and
01:18:02allope him.
01:18:04And he wants
01:18:05me to do
01:18:05such a thing.
01:18:06I don't want
01:18:08you to break
01:18:09her heart.
01:18:09That's the thing.
01:18:11And I don't want
01:18:11you to continue
01:18:13collecting your
01:18:13Barbies in your
01:18:14closet, you know.
01:18:15You're not a Ken
01:18:16and she's not a Barbie.
01:18:18So you cannot
01:18:18consider her as...
01:18:19She's my Barbie.
01:18:20No, you can't
01:18:21consider her as
01:18:21your Barbie.
01:18:22I'm sorry.
01:18:23She's not a thing.
01:18:24You know,
01:18:25she's your girlfriend.
01:18:26She might become
01:18:27your wife.
01:18:28She's your fiancé.
01:18:29Yes.
01:18:31I just want
01:18:32you to really
01:18:32like take care
01:18:33of her because
01:18:34she means...
01:18:35She means a lot
01:18:36I die for her.
01:18:37I kill for her.
01:18:38So that's
01:18:39how I care for her.
01:18:41You have no
01:18:42authority to
01:18:43give any direction
01:18:44to protect her,
01:18:45to say anything
01:18:46to her.
01:18:47I mean,
01:18:48I'm her friend.
01:18:49You are...
01:18:49Of course you are
01:18:50a friend.
01:18:51You care for her.
01:18:51I understand that.
01:18:53Yeah.
01:18:53I don't know
01:18:54if you have
01:18:54feelings to her,
01:18:55by the way.
01:18:56That's my own
01:18:57problem, but
01:18:58I don't want
01:18:59you to break
01:19:00your heart.
01:19:00If it's your
01:19:00problem,
01:19:00it becomes
01:19:01my problem too.
01:19:02Yeah.
01:19:02I can feel
01:19:04whatever I want,
01:19:04but I'm not
01:19:05in between you.
01:19:06You do whatever
01:19:06you want.
01:19:07You cannot be.
01:19:07You cannot
01:19:08control my feelings.
01:19:11I just want
01:19:11to ignore him,
01:19:12but I'm hearing
01:19:13what he's saying.
01:19:15And it's too dangerous
01:19:16to poke the beer
01:19:17that much,
01:19:17you know?
01:19:18And he's
01:19:19non-stop talking.
01:19:20That French
01:19:21bagot,
01:19:22a little French
01:19:23bagot,
01:19:23non-stop talking.
01:19:25There is no love.
01:19:26There is only
01:19:26proof of love.
01:19:28So you have to
01:19:28prove that you love her.
01:19:29For me,
01:19:30being here
01:19:31in Los Angeles
01:19:31for her
01:19:32is the proof
01:19:33of my love.
01:19:33She knows that.
01:19:35I mean,
01:19:35we have 90 days.
01:19:37I will do my best.
01:19:39If you came here,
01:19:40you already need
01:19:41to know what
01:19:42you want tonight.
01:19:42If I was in
01:19:43relationship with her
01:19:44and if I was
01:19:45in your shoes
01:19:46and I come here
01:19:47for her,
01:19:48I would say
01:19:48to her friend,
01:19:49in 90 days,
01:19:49we're going to get
01:19:50married.
01:19:50I know exactly
01:19:51what I want.
01:19:52That's what
01:19:52you should say.
01:19:55And when she
01:19:56brought him out here,
01:19:57she's committed
01:19:57to him.
01:19:58Sarpur made
01:19:58a huge sacrifice
01:19:59for leaving
01:20:00his actual family.
01:20:01I came here
01:20:02only for her.
01:20:03I don't know,
01:20:03guys.
01:20:04For me,
01:20:04Sarpur,
01:20:05I'm sorry,
01:20:06but all of
01:20:06what you're saying
01:20:07right now
01:20:07just sounds like
01:20:08full of
01:20:09so I don't buy
01:20:12that and
01:20:13I'm kind of
01:20:13annoyed and
01:20:15kind of done
01:20:15with this.
01:20:16So I'm just
01:20:16going to go
01:20:16because...
01:20:17You're leaving?
01:20:17Yeah,
01:20:18I cannot hear
01:20:18this anymore.
01:20:19He's bull****.
01:20:20Come on.
01:20:20You're jealous.
01:20:21No,
01:20:21I'm not jealous,
01:20:22but he's
01:20:22bull****.
01:20:24Seriously,
01:20:25I'm done with that.
01:20:25You don't deserve
01:20:26that.
01:20:26I'm sorry.
01:20:27What the f*** is that?
01:20:28I'm done with this.
01:20:28Look, brother.
01:20:31Shocked.
01:20:36I think Sarpur
01:20:37is not real
01:20:37and that's my gut instinct.
01:20:39I just want
01:20:40Shekinah to be happy
01:20:41in what she does
01:20:43and in her relationship.
01:20:45So let's see
01:20:47how that's going to play.
01:20:48For now,
01:20:49I consider Sarpur
01:20:50as a prince
01:20:51and I stay the king
01:20:52unless he shows
01:20:54me the contrary.
01:20:54Next time
01:21:00on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:21:01It's okay.
01:21:03I'm Chief Juan.
01:21:04I know Stevie
01:21:05is doubting
01:21:06my commitment,
01:21:07but the price
01:21:08for getting
01:21:09the green card
01:21:10is going higher.
01:21:12We can save
01:21:13$2,000
01:21:14if we get married
01:21:15in a couple of weeks.
01:21:17That's a lot
01:21:18to process.
01:21:19When you're rushing
01:21:20a wedding,
01:21:22that's a red flag.
01:21:25Megan found out
01:21:26that Juan cheated
01:21:27and was very
01:21:28hurt and heartbroken,
01:21:30but I really just
01:21:31need her
01:21:31to let things go.
01:21:33I don't want you
01:21:34on my wedding day
01:21:35not liking my husband.
01:21:36Like,
01:21:37how am I supposed
01:21:38to ever trust him again?
01:21:40I'd like to think
01:21:41that this was
01:21:42the only incident
01:21:42that's ever happened.
01:21:44It better be
01:21:44the only incident.
01:21:45I'll say that.
01:21:46We're going to go
01:21:50see Sophie finally.
01:21:53The biggest thing
01:21:53for me
01:21:54is finding out
01:21:55if you like Sarpur.
01:21:57My daughter,
01:21:57Sophie,
01:21:58has been skeptical
01:21:58of Sarpur,
01:21:59but the time
01:22:00is coming
01:22:01to where we have
01:22:02to get married
01:22:03or not.
01:22:04How would that
01:22:05play out
01:22:05if me and him
01:22:06didn't necessarily
01:22:07get along?
01:22:10That is an
01:22:11at-home
01:22:12HIV test kit.
01:22:14Really?
01:22:15I just want
01:22:15to be cautious
01:22:16because we have
01:22:17an open relationship.
01:22:20Being open
01:22:21in a relationship
01:22:22makes me always
01:22:23feel uncomfortable.
01:22:24At the end
01:22:25of the day,
01:22:25I didn't sign up
01:22:26to be in a relationship
01:22:28with a woman.
01:22:29If I want
01:22:29to chant my body,
01:22:31do you continue
01:22:32feeling attractive
01:22:33or that you chant?
01:22:38Hi, sweetie.
01:22:40Jordan,
01:22:40she's nice
01:22:41on my face,
01:22:42but she's stuck
01:22:43on my back.
01:22:44I know you two
01:22:45had some words.
01:22:47I mean,
01:22:47I hope that you
01:22:48don't actually
01:22:49think that I'm
01:22:49a snake.
01:22:52I think it would
01:22:53mean a lot to me
01:22:54if I got an apology
01:22:55for it.
01:22:57Is Jordan
01:22:58invited to the wedding?
01:22:59Are we planning
01:23:04on telling
01:23:04your family
01:23:05before we go?
01:23:08Before?
01:23:09No, Connie.
01:23:11Are you not
01:23:11telling people
01:23:12you're in a
01:23:12serious relationship?
01:23:14You're not?
01:23:15No, no.
01:23:17Honey.
01:23:17Oh,
01:23:17I'm done.
01:23:19Come on.
01:23:19Oh, my.
01:23:20I am done.
01:23:21Honey.
01:23:21You can't turn
01:23:24a hoe to a housewife.
01:23:26That's what the
01:23:26is going on.