Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Ano ang NAGPABAGO kay Iza Calzado? (Episode 205)
Aired (November 15, 2023): Pakinggan ang kuwentuhan nina Iza Calzado at Tito Boy Abunda tungkol sa buhay pag-ibig at may pamilya! Ano nga ba ang maipapangako ni Iza sa kanyang mga magulang?
Transcript
00:00 (upbeat music)
00:02 - Let's talk about five.
00:07 (speaking in foreign language)
00:10 - Yes, five.
00:11 - The best and the worst about being married.
00:13 - Well, let's not talk about the worst.
00:16 (laughing)
00:17 Some things are meant to be private.
00:19 - Okay.
00:19 - That, that, that.
00:20 - We will respect that space.
00:21 - Yes, but I guess,
00:23 but like a shallow worst about part of that
00:28 is it can be routinary, as we all know.
00:30 And some people, you know,
00:32 especially because we live in a world of fantasy
00:35 and romance and film.
00:36 - Make believe.
00:37 - Make believe, where it's supposed to be like this.
00:40 And so perhaps you get into a very long-term relationship
00:44 and you're yearning for the fire,
00:45 which was there in the beginning,
00:47 that may not always be there the way
00:49 it was before, right?
00:52 So it can be like that.
00:54 (speaking in foreign language)
00:58 It can be good or bad.
01:06 So it's, I guess,
01:07 (speaking in foreign language)
01:10 - Perspective.
01:11 - Perspective.
01:12 So a lot of self-talk and awareness
01:14 and how you narrative of what you say in your head
01:18 about things,
01:20 'cause situations, Tito Boy, are just objective,
01:23 it's the meaning we put into it.
01:24 That's what I've learned.
01:25 So as you're saying, what have I become?
01:27 I'm becoming more, I guess, philosophical.
01:30 Best thing about it is, I'll tie it down.
01:35 I'll tie it in also,
01:36 (speaking in foreign language)
01:41 - What has he done to you?
01:42 - He has grounded me.
01:45 - Dahil, Iza, was there a point in your life
01:49 na lumipad ka?
01:50 (speaking in foreign language)
01:54 - Grounded in reality.
01:57 I liken him,
01:59 (speaking in foreign language)
02:03 (speaking in foreign language)
02:04 I feel that that weighs you down.
02:06 (speaking in foreign language)
02:07 I liken him to a tree with very deep roots.
02:09 So he has rooted me into the earth,
02:12 into the world.
02:14 - Let's go to the number one.
02:17 You have your first baby.
02:19 (Dahil cheering)
02:21 Again, that question,
02:22 what have you become because of your daughter?
02:25 Isn't she the cutest?
02:29 - I don't want to say it because,
02:33 with all due respect to other women who don't have kids,
02:36 (speaking in foreign language)
02:40 (speaking in foreign language)
02:44 Maybe the word is fulfilled.
02:49 Tito Boy fulfilled, content, and whole
02:52 because before, restless.
02:54 Restless.
02:55 (speaking in foreign language)
02:59 May it be material things and other things
03:04 that don't really serve my highest purpose here on earth.
03:09 (speaking in foreign language)
03:12 I'm sure you've interviewed me several times.
03:14 People who know me.
03:16 (speaking in foreign language)
03:17 (speaking in foreign language)
03:20 - Let's go to the number two.
03:22 And I go back to your dad, your dad and mom.
03:26 (speaking in foreign language)
03:29 But somehow we do that, Isa.
03:38 - Somehow.
03:38 Actually, (speaking in foreign language)
03:45 Well, there's a quote, (speaking in foreign language)
03:47 become a person that your child will be proud of.
03:51 And I guess Dea has done that for me.
03:54 I have a lot of moments in my life
03:57 that I'm not very proud of.
03:59 (speaking in foreign language)
04:14 So, (speaking in foreign language)
04:19 I will do my best to be the best parent to my child.
04:24 (speaking in foreign language)
04:25 Actually, when I think of Dea,
04:27 (speaking in foreign language)
04:31 In her, I see my ancestors, my mother and my father.
04:35 And hopefully one day, I may no longer be around.
04:39 She has children.
04:41 And may she feel that as well,
04:43 in the same way I feel (speaking in foreign language)
04:48 - I totally get it.
04:56 I totally get it.
04:57 That we're never alone.
04:58 (speaking in foreign language)
05:00 They're always here, rooting for us.
05:01 Your dad, mom are here saying, "Go, go, go, go."
05:05 Yeah, that's--
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