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00:01:28Why did he get up like that?
00:01:43He got up like an athlete.
00:01:58Oh my god.
00:01:59He's very self-disciplined.
00:02:01He's 40 years old.
00:02:03And he's not wearing any clothes
00:02:04in such a cold weather.
00:02:13Why are all the girls so calm?
00:02:16Three boys are there.
00:02:17Wow.
00:02:18That's true.
00:02:26Bro.
00:02:29I was just looking at the abs on the lake.
00:02:31I was going to change my clothes
00:02:33and come out to take a look.
00:02:36I can't bear to miss the sun.
00:02:41Come out and sunbathe for a while.
00:02:42That's great.
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00:02:56Take you to the scene to visit the variety show.
00:02:57Donggan地带芒果卡
00:02:58invites you to watch the third season of Home Lover.
00:03:07Poster shooting.
00:03:14Did you take a picture?
00:03:16I took some pictures.
00:03:18Beautiful scenery.
00:03:22How is it?
00:03:24Wow, it's so beautiful here.
00:03:29There's nothing between Liu and sister.
00:03:33We don't have anything in particular.
00:03:35What's the matter with you?
00:03:37I have nothing to do with it.
00:03:40Brother Ji just asked me
00:03:41if there was any specific contradiction.
00:03:42I'll be honest with you.
00:03:44No.
00:03:47But is it a good thing to say no?
00:03:49If it's a good thing,
00:03:50I think as a well-known emotional blogger,
00:03:54I'm very clear about my own problems.
00:03:57But I can't solve it.
00:03:59Yes.
00:04:00At that time,
00:04:02that fire was a life-saving drug
00:04:04that I took out in time.
00:04:08They haven't revealed it yet.
00:04:11Hello.
00:04:13Hello, sister Shuai.
00:04:14Hello.
00:04:14Yes, I'm your photographer for today.
00:04:17My name is Meilin.
00:04:18Hello.
00:04:24It's the first time
00:04:25to take a picture for Yaqiong and others.
00:04:27Yes.
00:04:30Beautiful.
00:04:31So beautiful.
00:04:32Today, we are shooting a home.
00:04:35Today, we are shooting a home.
00:04:37It's a home.
00:04:40No matter what it looks like,
00:04:42this is the most solid place for it.
00:04:52Today, we will follow your love story
00:04:54to shoot a series of commemorative photos.
00:04:57Really?
00:04:57Yes.
00:04:58We have prepared a device for you here.
00:05:01Wow.
00:05:02It's a work of the artist
00:05:03Gonzales Torres.
00:05:06His work is called
00:05:07The Perfect Lover of the Wu Di Series.
00:05:10Adjusting the starting time of two clocks
00:05:12is consistent.
00:05:14Then, due to the mechanical movement,
00:05:17the two clocks
00:05:17slowly become different times.
00:05:20In my personal interpretation,
00:05:21in fact,
00:05:22it's the same with everyone's feelings.
00:05:24At first,
00:05:25the two of them were very equal.
00:05:27But maybe because of what you have experienced,
00:05:30the situation of your life is different.
00:05:33In this kind of life,
00:05:34you will gradually become different.
00:05:38That's what I mean.
00:05:39If one of these two clocks
00:05:41is yours,
00:05:42which one is more like you?
00:05:47The slow one is me.
00:05:48The fast one is me.
00:05:51My life rhythm is faster.
00:05:53His life rhythm is slower.
00:05:55Except for the life rhythm,
00:05:56I'm slow at everything.
00:05:58His personality is slower.
00:05:59My personality is faster.
00:06:01Are you satisfied with
00:06:03the rhythm of your clock?
00:06:05Do you want to make some adjustments or changes?
00:06:10Do I have to slow down?
00:06:11Actually,
00:06:14I still hope to be faster.
00:06:16He already feels that he is slowing down.
00:06:20I feel that I can't be faster.
00:06:22I don't want to be faster.
00:06:25Can you imagine
00:06:27the result of you being faster and he being slower?
00:06:31I can't even keep up with the speed now.
00:06:38Of course,
00:06:40we might break up.
00:06:44Be good friends.
00:06:48You can look at each other
00:06:49and answer the next question.
00:06:50OK.
00:06:51Do you still have feelings and love?
00:06:57I think so.
00:06:58There must be feelings and love.
00:07:01If there is no feelings and love,
00:07:02how can we be together for 15 years?
00:07:0515 years.
00:07:05I think 15 years in a intimate relationship is not short.
00:07:09But the problem between us is that
00:07:11there is no love between us,
00:07:13but there is a deep feeling.
00:07:14Of course, it's me.
00:07:17I think he thinks so.
00:07:18I think so.
00:07:19Although he has never said that to me.
00:07:21It's so sad.
00:07:22It's always Sister Shou'er who talks.
00:07:25I'm also very confused now.
00:07:30I don't know how much of love
00:07:38I have for her now.
00:07:43I don't know how much of love I have for her now.
00:07:49We've been together for so long,
00:07:51and we've blurred the line
00:07:53between love between family
00:07:54and love between lovers.
00:07:57I think it's still when we're not married.
00:08:01So you've been married for 14 years,
00:08:02and you've never said
00:08:04I love you three times.
00:08:06I'm not sure, but it's almost the same.
00:08:09It can't be.
00:08:11This is too exaggerated.
00:08:14Now, in such a marital state,
00:08:16although
00:08:18many people may also
00:08:20enter this stage,
00:08:21but I think
00:08:22this may not be a very conscientious
00:08:24and healthy state of marriage.
00:08:29In the past 15 years,
00:08:32have you ever had the idea of separation
00:08:35because of passion,
00:08:37feelings, or rejection?
00:08:43We've actually been divorced once.
00:08:46We've actually been divorced once.
00:08:48We've actually been divorced once.
00:08:49We've actually been divorced once.
00:08:50We've actually been divorced once.
00:08:52We've actually been divorced once.
00:08:54And then we remarried.
00:08:57Of course, no one knows this.
00:08:58Because later on,
00:09:00because of feelings,
00:09:01we felt that we couldn't bear to part with each other,
00:09:04so we remarried again.
00:09:07At that time and now,
00:09:09I think it's a completely different state.
00:09:11That was the first seven years.
00:09:13I think at that time,
00:09:13we still had very intense arguments.
00:09:16Maybe sometimes,
00:09:17like this time,
00:09:18when I came to see the other two guests,
00:09:20they always had arguments and quarrels.
00:09:23I think we've been through that stage.
00:09:25Seven years, right?
00:09:28To be honest,
00:09:29maybe at that time,
00:09:31we didn't think it through.
00:09:33We were still immature.
00:09:36We were more impulsive.
00:09:37I think through arguments and separation,
00:09:41there are a lot of impulses
00:09:42or the desire to change each other's mind.
00:09:46In fact, while arguing,
00:09:47you didn't give up your expectations.
00:09:49So I still think that
00:09:51two people calm down for a while and separate.
00:09:53And then look back,
00:09:55you'll feel like there's hope to solve
00:09:57the problems that we couldn't solve in our previous life
00:09:59or conflicts.
00:10:00Or through reflection,
00:10:03we can do better than each other.
00:10:05So at that time,
00:10:06I still felt like we wanted to live together.
00:10:10There's a chance.
00:10:11There's nothing specific.
00:10:13Just two different types of people.
00:10:15She's always been positive.
00:10:17She's always been a hard worker.
00:10:21I'm the kind of person
00:10:24who loves the status quo and dares to be ordinary.
00:10:28We have different ideas.
00:10:30It's hard to express my feelings.
00:10:33It's hard to meet each other's needs.
00:10:37And it's hard for me to change.
00:10:40When these factors are added,
00:10:42I think it's better to separate.
00:10:46She doesn't look happy.
00:10:49She might have some setbacks
00:10:52and then she'll be down.
00:10:56At that time, I think
00:10:58she really needs someone to support her.
00:11:01In this state,
00:11:02something like this happened.
00:11:03Maybe it makes me feel like
00:11:05I still love her.
00:11:07I still love her.
00:11:12These years,
00:11:13she's been growing up slowly.
00:11:15There may be fewer and fewer cases like this.
00:11:19Sometimes I feel like
00:11:21I can't provide her with any help.
00:11:26You are desperate to be needed by her.
00:11:34As a husband,
00:11:37I certainly hope that
00:11:41in a relationship,
00:11:43I am the one who is needed.
00:11:45Why did I mention this?
00:11:48At that time,
00:11:49my career had just changed.
00:11:52So I had to balance a lot of things.
00:11:54In terms of experience,
00:11:56I had to consider the pressure of life.
00:11:58I had to plan for the future.
00:12:00After we broke up,
00:12:01he still helped me.
00:12:03He knew he had to take responsibility for his father.
00:12:05He also felt that it was not easy for him to help me.
00:12:07He cared about me.
00:12:09Because he was free.
00:12:10Why didn't he pursue his own happiness?
00:12:12He didn't do that.
00:12:13Gradually, you felt that
00:12:15he still loved you.
00:12:16What do you think?
00:12:21Since I met him,
00:12:22he hasn't changed much.
00:12:24When I was young,
00:12:26I was a little emotional.
00:12:27It was him who accepted my emotions.
00:12:30He has always been a person
00:12:32who is emotionally stable.
00:12:34He actually knows what he wants.
00:12:36He is just willing to slow down.
00:12:38He is just willing to live in his own rhythm.
00:12:40So I thought about it later.
00:12:42I think it may be me
00:12:44who has been growing up.
00:12:45It's me who hasn't reached
00:12:47the perfect state in my mind.
00:12:48But in fact, Mr. Liu
00:12:49may have already achieved
00:12:50the life he wants
00:12:53or himself.
00:12:55Maybe in this 15-year marriage,
00:12:57I think he may still have a lot of confidence.
00:13:05I am
00:13:08basically self-sufficient.
00:13:11Maybe my emotional needs
00:13:12are not particularly strong.
00:13:16I live in my own world.
00:13:19Then why did you choose
00:13:20to marry the man opposite you
00:13:22and get married twice?
00:13:24Yes.
00:13:31Responsibility.
00:13:31Yes.
00:13:40At that time,
00:13:41I think I didn't
00:13:46reach the idea
00:13:49I have now.
00:13:50Maybe
00:13:53when I was young,
00:13:54I still liked others.
00:13:56Why can't you do it now?
00:14:00Now
00:14:04I don't feel like
00:14:06I have such a need.
00:14:08Don't ask me why.
00:14:08I don't know either.
00:14:10I know.
00:14:10I just can't say it.
00:14:13I'm going to cry.
00:14:19Do you have a piece of paper?
00:14:25We need to talk about this.
00:14:31He has a very stable emotion.
00:14:34I think he's now
00:14:36mature for me.
00:14:39Because he thinks
00:14:39after I've been through so much,
00:14:42he's very strong with me.
00:14:44He doesn't think I need him anymore.
00:14:48Yes.
00:14:49Yeah.
00:15:19Do you think I am?
00:15:20Yes.
00:15:20I don't know why you think I am.
00:15:21You are a person who has a high EQ.
00:15:23Of course, I am.
00:15:24Everyone knows that I am, right?
00:15:36I was young and ignorant.
00:15:37I thought that it was great to meet someone who could never be as tolerant as me.
00:15:41I thought that I was so lucky to have you in my life.
00:15:49Before I met him, I had never met anyone like him.
00:15:53We all asked for each other's help.
00:15:54We asked each other so much that we almost suffocated.
00:15:56We had to ask for a lot of things.
00:15:58After I met him, I felt that he was very positive.
00:16:01He is a good person.
00:16:02Whatever you do for him, he will be happy.
00:16:04If you don't do anything for him, he will think it's okay.
00:16:09Now I know that this is a kind of positive.
00:16:13I used to think that this is a kind of positive.
00:16:15I have changed myself.
00:16:19I used to think that this is a kind of positive.
00:16:22Everything I said is the truth.
00:16:24I have an emotional barrier.
00:16:29This is also the truth.
00:16:32I don't want to be with anyone.
00:16:34After I moved to Shanghai,
00:16:38I feel more isolated.
00:16:42Sometimes I think that life in Hefei is quite interesting.
00:16:48I don't have a big goal.
00:16:51I just want to live my own life.
00:16:55But I'm not in such a hurry.
00:17:01At that time, everyone was very positive.
00:17:05We helped each other.
00:17:07We have a good prospect for the future.
00:17:10I hope to make this family better through my own efforts.
00:17:13At that time, I often worked overtime.
00:17:16He also wrote after work.
00:17:21In order to buy a slightly larger house,
00:17:24so that the family members don't live in such a hurry.
00:17:27Although I don't have much money,
00:17:29and the house I live in is also a small house,
00:17:31but I feel that I can make an effort.
00:17:40Now, after coming to Shanghai,
00:17:44my family has grown up.
00:17:46I need to pay more attention to all aspects of learning.
00:17:51His career is in an upward phase.
00:17:56I choose to deal with these problems at home.
00:18:09Get up at 6.30.
00:18:11Leave before 7.
00:18:14Send him to school at 8 o'clock.
00:18:22I will come back after buying breakfast.
00:18:26Come back and eat alone.
00:18:34At that time, he may have been working outside.
00:18:38At that time, he may have been working outside.
00:19:00Take a little nap.
00:19:02He may go to pick up the child in the afternoon.
00:19:08After picking up the child,
00:19:10he will do his homework.
00:19:14Because sometimes you want to go out,
00:19:16how can you go out?
00:19:19The child is still at home.
00:19:21I can't leave him alone at home.
00:19:23In fact, this is the life of most full-time mothers.
00:19:25Yes.
00:19:32Okay, let's do a little experiment.
00:19:35You can move this needle.
00:19:37Let this time be set
00:19:39in the most comfortable time of your day.
00:19:59I went to bed at 11 o'clock in the evening.
00:20:01At that time, the child fell asleep.
00:20:04Maybe it's completely relaxed.
00:20:07You can go and see what you want to see.
00:20:12It's also 12 o'clock at night,
00:20:14zero o'clock.
00:20:16Because at this time,
00:20:18I usually sort out the work completed today.
00:20:21There is a review and summary.
00:20:23Then zero o'clock is the beginning of a new day.
00:20:25I will think about what to do tomorrow.
00:20:27What happy things and good things
00:20:29will happen tomorrow.
00:20:31Basically, every day,
00:20:33I spend every day like this.
00:20:37Liu likes to end,
00:20:38and Shouer likes to start.
00:20:42Why is there no one at this moment?
00:20:49Isn't this why we come to see our loved ones?
00:20:51I think Liu
00:20:53has his own rhythm
00:20:55in his daily life.
00:20:57Although he is lonely and closed,
00:20:59he uses some derogatory words.
00:21:02I think there is another word.
00:21:04In fact, my friends
00:21:06who know him
00:21:08also feel that he is actually very comfortable.
00:21:14What do you think, Mr. Liu?
00:21:18I just feel that there is something wrong with my state.
00:21:22I used to be more confident,
00:21:24but not as closed as I am now.
00:21:26I am now equal to
00:21:28completely closing myself up.
00:21:30Sometimes I feel
00:21:32that I don't have
00:21:34the state of life
00:21:36that I want.
00:21:38In fact, I am quite passive.
00:21:40There won't be too many
00:21:42ideological fluctuations.
00:21:44I don't care about
00:21:46anything.
00:21:50I actually feel very deeply
00:21:52that I am really suitable for living alone.
00:21:54I feel so passive.
00:21:56He doesn't like to come to Shanghai.
00:21:59He feels that he is sacrificing.
00:22:01I don't think
00:22:03this is a good state.
00:22:05I don't know
00:22:07how to break it.
00:22:09So let's see if
00:22:11by separating,
00:22:13I can make my state better.
00:22:19Shanghai is an island.
00:22:23Do you think
00:22:25each other is a whole?
00:22:29I used to think
00:22:31that we are a whole.
00:22:33Now I feel that
00:22:35we are slowly separating.
00:22:41I don't think it has anything to do with him.
00:22:43I can't be a whole with anyone.
00:22:45This is my judgment
00:22:47at the moment.
00:22:49I don't think a person
00:22:51is a semicircle.
00:22:53He may be a line.
00:22:55This line
00:22:57may be a small semicircle
00:22:59when I was young.
00:23:01But I extended it
00:23:03into a semicircle.
00:23:05Now I dare not say
00:23:07that I am a whole.
00:23:09But I think I have become
00:23:11a big semicircle.
00:23:13That is to say,
00:23:15it has nothing to do with him.
00:23:17I can't be a whole
00:23:19with any man.
00:23:21Because I want to live
00:23:23a more complete life.
00:23:26I don't need to find
00:23:28other people to cooperate with me.
00:23:30That's what I think.
00:23:34It's so hard.
00:23:38I think I may be relative.
00:23:40I won't pursue
00:23:42whether you are a circle
00:23:44or a semicircle.
00:23:47Maybe I just want to be lonely.
00:23:51I must be suitable for living alone.
00:23:53I must be suitable for living alone.
00:23:56He doesn't want to be lonely
00:23:58and give himself up.
00:24:00But he can't help it.
00:24:02Are you sure you are suitable for living alone?
00:24:04What do you think?
00:24:06I think I may be suitable.
00:24:08Really?
00:24:16I think in the eyes of the world,
00:24:18there may be people
00:24:20who are not equal
00:24:22or in a wrong relationship.
00:24:24It's hard to see the deep love.
00:24:26It includes
00:24:28a very deep fate.
00:24:32As he said just now,
00:24:34we are different
00:24:36from the beginning.
00:24:38It can be said to be a wrong relationship.
00:24:40In fact,
00:24:42for so many years,
00:24:44two completely incompatible parts
00:24:46can be grinded
00:24:48and run together.
00:24:50But if he is wrong,
00:24:53I think it needs to be corrected.
00:24:55If he is wrong,
00:24:57I think it needs to be corrected.
00:25:04You can ask the other person
00:25:06a question.
00:25:08The other person doesn't need to answer.
00:25:14You have been married to me
00:25:16for so many years.
00:25:18Do you regret it?
00:25:23I want to get a clear answer.
00:25:25Because I have never asked
00:25:27such a question.
00:25:29In fact,
00:25:31I am still a little afraid
00:25:33that he will give me
00:25:35the answer I don't want.
00:25:37Then that day he told me
00:25:39that this is a question
00:25:41that does not need to be answered.
00:25:43So I asked this question.
00:25:47Liu's back is bent.
00:25:49Why do you want to adjust
00:25:51your relationship?
00:25:53That's right.
00:25:59Feel hurt.
00:26:09They don't blame each other.
00:26:21Even if you want to destroy
00:26:23a relationship,
00:26:25you can damage it.
00:26:29They are still in love.
00:26:37They are still in love.
00:26:41You are still in love.
00:26:43Shameless.
00:26:45Hey,
00:26:47you are really
00:26:49I feel like I'm watching a literary film.
00:27:07Yeah.
00:27:08I'm out of breath.
00:27:10Yeah, I'm a little sad.
00:27:12Do they still have feelings for each other?
00:27:17I just watched the whole clip.
00:27:22I think they love each other very much.
00:27:24I think so, too.
00:27:25Me, too.
00:27:26Love.
00:27:27Yeah.
00:27:28Including the last one,
00:27:29that you can ask each other a question.
00:27:31That means there's still a sense of harmony.
00:27:34I agree with the idea of love.
00:27:36But I think both of them feel that
00:27:38rationally,
00:27:39they both think it's better to be apart.
00:27:42Yeah.
00:27:43Yeah.
00:27:44A lot of times people's needs don't match.
00:27:46But emotionally,
00:27:47it's really hard to part.
00:27:48That's why it's so complicated.
00:27:50Because he always emphasizes that
00:27:51they're like brothers.
00:27:53We're like friends.
00:27:55We're family.
00:27:56But we're not lovers.
00:27:57Yeah.
00:27:58After a long relationship,
00:28:00it's hard to define love.
00:28:03You've been together for more than ten years.
00:28:05You have children.
00:28:06You have responsibilities.
00:28:07You've been through so much.
00:28:10And only the two of you have this history.
00:28:13So it's cruel to say there's no love.
00:28:15But is there really love?
00:28:18I think their lives
00:28:19may not be the same anymore.
00:28:22But I feel like Liu
00:28:23hasn't been socializing
00:28:24since he moved to Shanghai.
00:28:25He keeps saying he's closed off.
00:28:27He's lonely.
00:28:28Actually, in the best relationship,
00:28:29you don't have to
00:28:30get all the needs
00:28:32for a relationship
00:28:33from one person.
00:28:34In the past,
00:28:35all he wanted was
00:28:36his friends,
00:28:38and other places.
00:28:39He could still get it when he was in Hefei.
00:28:41After he came to Shanghai today,
00:28:43all his paths were cut off.
00:28:46So he felt
00:28:47he was getting more and more closed off.
00:28:48He just sent his kids home every day.
00:28:51Like a tool man.
00:28:52Yeah.
00:28:53He couldn't feel
00:28:54his own presence.
00:28:56Yeah.
00:28:57Even now,
00:28:58I still don't understand
00:28:59what their main contradiction is.
00:29:01I think one of the contradictions
00:29:03is that Liu's life mission
00:29:05was taken away.
00:29:07He said when they were in Hefei,
00:29:08they didn't get along like this.
00:29:10When he was in Hefei,
00:29:11he worked hard to save money
00:29:12and buy a house with Shouer.
00:29:14I guess they must have
00:29:15a lot to talk about.
00:29:16Because at that time,
00:29:17Liu was helpful
00:29:18to their goal.
00:29:20I saved 1,000 yuan,
00:29:21you saved 800 yuan.
00:29:22We both contributed.
00:29:23So we both worked hard.
00:29:24When I found out one day,
00:29:26first, you saved 10 million yuan.
00:29:28What's the point
00:29:29of saving 800 yuan now?
00:29:31They moved to Shanghai.
00:29:33At a certain stage,
00:29:34he realized
00:29:35I didn't have to say anything.
00:29:36This was no longer my goal.
00:29:38This was beyond my imagination
00:29:40and beyond my ability.
00:29:42And after a person
00:29:43lost his main task in life,
00:29:46he would lose
00:29:47his interpersonal relationship.
00:29:49So maybe for him,
00:29:50a strange environment,
00:29:51a new environment.
00:29:52And in this environment,
00:29:53he saw his wife
00:29:54so active,
00:29:55so needed.
00:29:57He reflected
00:29:58that he was not needed.
00:30:00Yes.
00:30:01Like we just said,
00:30:02Liu has no needs.
00:30:03No one has no needs.
00:30:05Needs are stimulated.
00:30:07When you realize
00:30:08that the need has reached a certain level,
00:30:09a place you can't reach,
00:30:11of course you will tell yourself
00:30:13I don't want anything.
00:30:14But Liu is
00:30:15such a person.
00:30:16He can't change.
00:30:17You said this.
00:30:18Yes, so he is under a lot of pressure.
00:30:19He is only 43 years old.
00:30:21What can't he change?
00:30:23Only 43 years old?
00:30:24He is very young.
00:30:26He is only three years older than me.
00:30:28You are already 40 years old.
00:30:29You see, he is only 43 years old.
00:30:30But why does he look
00:30:32so self-abandoned?
00:30:34And I think
00:30:35Shouer must have asked Liu
00:30:37at home
00:30:38to be positive.
00:30:40Because he is
00:30:41such an energetic person.
00:30:42He must have asked Liu
00:30:43what he wanted to do.
00:30:45But Liu said
00:30:46he just wanted to lie down.
00:30:48Yes.
00:30:49So this time, Shouer
00:30:50I think it's a trick.
00:30:51I'm going to leave you.
00:30:53Why don't you move?
00:30:56When my husband and I
00:30:57were still making money,
00:30:59we made an appointment.
00:31:01He said I could support you.
00:31:04But you have to
00:31:05do something for yourself.
00:31:06You can't stay at home every day.
00:31:08Go away.
00:31:09You have to have
00:31:10some social activities.
00:31:11Make friends.
00:31:12Yes, make friends.
00:31:13Find a job.
00:31:14You can't stay at home every day.
00:31:15Why do you stay at home?
00:31:16Just think about it.
00:31:17Yes.
00:31:18Just think about it.
00:31:19Last year,
00:31:20for a while,
00:31:21he was in a low mood.
00:31:22I said, what's wrong with you?
00:31:23Then he said
00:31:24exactly the same thing to Liu.
00:31:25He said,
00:31:26I think there's something wrong with me.
00:31:29One word, exactly the same.
00:31:31Basically, he said it every six months.
00:31:33He thinks
00:31:34my wife can make a lot of money.
00:31:36I'm taking care of the family now.
00:31:38I think it's right for me to do this.
00:31:40But I can realize
00:31:41other people's eyes.
00:31:43I know their eyes are not good.
00:31:45And then he was
00:31:46in a very low mood for a while.
00:31:48So later,
00:31:49every week,
00:31:50we will find
00:31:51half a day
00:31:52to do something together.
00:31:54Watch a movie.
00:31:55Eat.
00:31:56Take a walk.
00:31:57Or just find a cafe.
00:31:59Two people sit at the door and chat.
00:32:01So I think
00:32:02their problems can be solved.
00:32:05Yes.
00:32:06Papi, I'm curious.
00:32:07You just talked to your husband.
00:32:08Do you think the two of you
00:32:09will do something together in the future?
00:32:11Did you really make him happy later?
00:32:13And then it's all good.
00:32:15Much better.
00:32:16I've been doing well lately.
00:32:17I've been in good health lately.
00:32:19OK.
00:32:20What's the most useful thing to do?
00:32:21Go chatting.
00:32:22Then go to the cafe and have coffee.
00:32:24Then sit by the road and watch the stars.
00:32:26Accompany him.
00:32:27Just do something really useless.
00:32:28Two people together.
00:32:29Then waste some time.
00:32:30Yes.
00:32:31Wasting time is very important.
00:32:32Two people together.
00:32:33Two people together.
00:32:34It's very important not to use mobile phones.
00:32:35Accompany.
00:32:36Accompany.
00:32:37But Liu is already at this age.
00:32:38He has been like this all his life.
00:32:40You suddenly asked him in the second half of your life.
00:32:42I always think that people can change.
00:32:45People can definitely change.
00:32:46Let me tell you.
00:32:47Many people say that I am not good at expressing myself.
00:32:49No, you are not good at expressing yourself.
00:32:51You didn't find enough motivation to express yourself.
00:32:54Think about it.
00:32:55If a person who doesn't want to express himself
00:32:56met an alien at home tonight.
00:32:58Only he sees aliens in the world.
00:32:59The next day, he will definitely say it.
00:33:00So when I see a person who doesn't want to speak.
00:33:03I will say that he didn't find the reason to speak.
00:33:06He didn't find what he wanted to say.
00:33:09I feel that Liu's speech.
00:33:13Before he speaks, he has countless poses.
00:33:15I am reading his pose.
00:33:18His look.
00:33:19What does he want to express?
00:33:20He doesn't say.
00:33:21Yes.
00:33:22But the moment he finally speaks,
00:33:23he always blames himself.
00:33:24Yes.
00:33:25Yes.
00:33:26Those are the words he has chosen.
00:33:27Yes.
00:33:29I think Liu is a very devoted personality.
00:33:31When he thinks you need me,
00:33:32I will appear immediately.
00:33:33When I think you don't need me,
00:33:35I will leave immediately.
00:33:36I think this is also love.
00:33:37Isn't this love?
00:33:38I feel that both of them are very kind.
00:33:40But what they say hurts each other.
00:33:43Liu also said that he doesn't need me emotionally.
00:33:45Then Fu said that
00:33:46I don't need to be the whole with others.
00:33:49I can't be the whole with any man.
00:33:51I think what Soul meant
00:33:52is that he can't be the whole.
00:33:53It's not that he doesn't respect this marriage.
00:33:56But this is his personality.
00:33:58I can understand.
00:33:59Because I think my personality is quite clear.
00:34:01So it's not that I don't want to cooperate.
00:34:03I don't want you to cooperate with me either.
00:34:05Everyone has their own development.
00:34:07Then you can be very happy.
00:34:08I'm not boiling water for nothing.
00:34:10You know.
00:34:12Spicy.
00:34:13You know.
00:34:14I have a lot of colors.
00:34:16I think in Soul's sentence,
00:34:18the word that impressed me the most
00:34:19is that I am growing.
00:34:21Yes.
00:34:22I will never be stuck
00:34:23in the shape that I define at a certain moment.
00:34:25Because I always want to break myself.
00:34:27But Liu seemed to define it a long time ago.
00:34:29I'm like this.
00:34:30I'm closed.
00:34:31I am this person.
00:34:32He doesn't want to change.
00:34:33Then the other person is changing.
00:34:35Then you say I don't accept change.
00:34:37My problem becomes very difficult.
00:34:38Yes.
00:34:39It's also painful to live like this.
00:34:41Because he needs it.
00:34:42Because he knows
00:34:43that he is a constantly extending line.
00:34:44Yes.
00:34:45In fact, the other line tells you
00:34:46that I'm right here.
00:34:47We happen to form a circle together.
00:34:49It can last a lifetime.
00:34:50But he said no.
00:34:51I have to be honest with myself.
00:34:53I am growing.
00:34:54I think Soer is very brave to say this.
00:34:57And his work is outside.
00:35:00He is a public figure.
00:35:01He talks about a lot of emotional observations.
00:35:04We were talking about this before.
00:35:06He often ridicules himself.
00:35:08Sometimes self-criticism
00:35:10is a kind of liberation
00:35:12for a person who is in an unhappy relationship.
00:35:14Especially for people who are sensitive,
00:35:16it's more painful.
00:35:18He can make himself
00:35:19a little more numb.
00:35:20He will be confident.
00:35:21He can be completely confident.
00:35:22But I think he is at this moment
00:35:23that he chooses to be true to himself.
00:35:25This problem.
00:35:26Yes, he faces it.
00:35:27He is brave.
00:35:28Because it's painful.
00:35:29Does Mr. Huang know
00:35:30that they divorced before?
00:35:31I don't know.
00:35:33Too much information.
00:35:34Yes.
00:35:35But that divorce and remarriage
00:35:36is actually in line with Liu's setting.
00:35:39As long as I find out that you need me,
00:35:41as long as I can help people
00:35:42help solve the problem,
00:35:44he is willing.
00:35:45In fact, he will feel valuable.
00:35:47It's hard to be a middle-aged couple.
00:35:50I especially hope that Liu
00:35:51can open himself up during this journey
00:35:52and find the value of himself.
00:35:54Yes.
00:35:55Sometimes he should also want to see it.
00:35:57Really.
00:35:58OK, let's continue to watch.
00:36:23Slow down.
00:36:24It's loose here.
00:36:27Are they wearing a couple's outfit?
00:36:29Yes.
00:36:38He looks unhappy again.
00:36:40Why is he angry again?
00:36:41Yesterday's anger hasn't dissipated yet, I guess.
00:36:44Hello.
00:36:45Welcome.
00:36:46Welcome to this grassland.
00:36:48I am your photographer today.
00:36:50My name is Meilin.
00:36:51Hello.
00:36:52What should I call you?
00:36:53Shui Shui.
00:36:54Zhang Shuo.
00:36:55Zhang Shuo.
00:36:56OK.
00:36:58He is angry again.
00:36:59His expression is serious.
00:37:01Why do you feel that
00:37:02you are not in a good mood?
00:37:04Did something happen?
00:37:06Wen Tang.
00:37:08There was a little conflict just now.
00:37:12They quarreled again on the way.
00:37:13Yes, before we set off,
00:37:15we were supposed to take a car.
00:37:18Then I might get in the car first.
00:37:20Then there were some bags
00:37:21on the other seat.
00:37:26You came up and sat here
00:37:27and put things over there.
00:37:28I don't think you are happy.
00:37:31Then I'll take it to the back.
00:37:33What were you doing just now?
00:37:34I should take it at once.
00:37:37I try to take the initiative
00:37:39to find some of these points.
00:37:41Give me some time.
00:37:44I don't want to shoot with him anymore.
00:37:45I was sleepy and I forgot.
00:37:47I said he was doing something.
00:37:49I know. I'll pay attention next time.
00:37:51What?
00:37:52Next time.
00:37:53Next time.
00:37:54I have never seen two people
00:37:56in two places.
00:37:57He sat in this position.
00:37:58He put everything in his heart
00:37:59in another position.
00:38:01He knew I was going to sit in that position.
00:38:03Then it was raining outside.
00:38:04I pushed the car door open and wanted to get in the car.
00:38:05He had no reaction.
00:38:06Even if we are not
00:38:07a partner,
00:38:08you put everything
00:38:09in the other person's seat.
00:38:10Don't say you are not considerate.
00:38:11You are wrong to do this.
00:38:12It's impolite.
00:38:14The next one is
00:38:15I cried badly last night.
00:38:17You can see my eyes
00:38:18and my face is swollen.
00:38:20I trusted him yesterday.
00:38:21Because it was a serious problem for me.
00:38:23He promised me to solve it.
00:38:32Let's go separately.
00:38:33Let's go separately.
00:38:40Zhang Hao sent me a screenshot.
00:38:41He thinks this is his
00:38:42mission.
00:38:44What he did today.
00:38:45Yes.
00:38:47Do you think it's appropriate?
00:38:49What did we say on the show?
00:38:51What did we say on the road?
00:38:53Anyway, the best solution
00:38:54I can think of is
00:38:56I won't complain.
00:38:57You go and tell those two people
00:38:58you are wrong.
00:38:59Even if those two people don't admit it,
00:39:01you have to show your attitude.
00:39:03No.
00:39:04He is talking about information disclosure.
00:39:06Is there still a problem
00:39:07with his attitude?
00:39:11What do you think is too much?
00:39:12This is not
00:39:13what he thinks is too much.
00:39:15Don't shoot with him.
00:39:18Do you have a card?
00:39:19I will write a divorce now.
00:39:23Are you satisfied with his solution?
00:39:25Not satisfied.
00:39:26Very dissatisfied.
00:39:28He is so straightforward.
00:39:31I don't understand.
00:39:32He is still repeating
00:39:33what I said about him before.
00:39:35The problems I said
00:39:37have never been properly solved.
00:39:40In fact, there are a lot of
00:39:42small problems and contradictions between you.
00:39:44Because of these accumulation,
00:39:46you can't communicate.
00:39:49It's not that I can't communicate.
00:39:50Every time I try to communicate with him,
00:39:52the result after communication is like this.
00:39:54Every time he promised me,
00:39:55he promised me that he would change.
00:39:57But what happened just now,
00:39:59he got angry directly.
00:40:09What would you do?
00:40:14I don't know what to do.
00:40:18What would you do
00:40:20if you were angry before?
00:40:24If his mood is not so strong,
00:40:26I will try to find some of my problems
00:40:30to communicate with him.
00:40:32What do you mean by finding some of your problems?
00:40:34When he was very angry,
00:40:36when his mood was very strong,
00:40:38I avoided him most of the time.
00:40:40I don't know how to deal with it.
00:40:42I tried to solve it.
00:40:43I took the initiative to communicate with him.
00:40:45What else do I have to do?
00:40:48What else do you want me to do?
00:40:50Tell me.
00:40:51The reason why I was angry with you today
00:40:52is the same as the reason
00:40:54why I was angry with you in the car yesterday.
00:40:56Is it the same at the end?
00:40:58Is it?
00:40:59Yes.
00:41:00Did you listen to me?
00:41:01Did you change?
00:41:02Every time I communicate with you
00:41:04face to face.
00:41:05I can change. I am willing to change.
00:41:06But can you not be too anxious?
00:41:08If you change, will he be anxious?
00:41:10I told him to change
00:41:11what I said to him yesterday.
00:41:12He didn't change it today,
00:41:13but he said I was too anxious.
00:41:15That's right.
00:41:18If you can really talk,
00:41:19don't say it.
00:41:20I like to hear every word.
00:41:31In fact, I have learned that
00:41:32the communication between you and your friends
00:41:33is very smooth.
00:41:35You are very active when you are outside.
00:41:37Sweet.
00:41:38Very sweet.
00:41:39I was a new friend yesterday
00:41:40and I was very sweet to others.
00:41:42But when I came here,
00:41:43there was nothing.
00:41:46What are you doing here?
00:41:49White eyes.
00:41:50Little white eyes.
00:41:54What are you looking at?
00:41:57It's so enjoyable.
00:41:59Although he was very angry,
00:42:00we had a lot of fun.
00:42:02Can you get me a dress?
00:42:09He began to show his generosity.
00:42:11Let me tell you.
00:42:12Just now you said you would get me a dress.
00:42:13Now he wants it.
00:42:16You see, this thing
00:42:17and this place.
00:42:18My problem can't be solved.
00:42:19I did it, and you said these things again.
00:42:21What is that for?
00:42:23I don't do it, you say I don't do it.
00:42:24I did it, and you said these things again.
00:42:26What is that for?
00:42:27Am I doing it or not?
00:42:29I did it, and you said these things again.
00:42:30What is that for?
00:42:31Am I doing it or not?
00:42:32We'll do it till the end.
00:42:33Don't care about him.
00:42:35Did I say those things were solved?
00:42:37Let's talk about it.
00:42:39He is still unwilling to do it.
00:42:41If this problem is not solved,
00:42:42you will make up for me in another way.
00:42:44I don't want it.
00:42:46Because this problem is not solved,
00:42:47he can only do
00:42:48some other little things to make up for it.
00:42:50I don't like his attitude.
00:42:52If you want to solve the problem,
00:42:53you have to solve the root problem of this matter.
00:42:55Don't be a little servant there.
00:42:56It's like I'm bullying you.
00:42:58It's so clear.
00:42:59He's really good.
00:43:01He's got a good mouth.
00:43:03Yeah.
00:43:11Actually, today,
00:43:12this is a background version of a wedding photo.
00:43:16Because I learned about your story.
00:43:17It was said twice before
00:43:19that I didn't wear a wedding photo as an excuse
00:43:22not to get married
00:43:23and not to get this certificate.
00:43:28I'm angry.
00:43:29I'm angry.
00:43:36I'm so angry.
00:43:37So it's not just a background version.
00:43:39In fact, it needs you
00:43:41all kinds of elements
00:43:43that can make up a marriage.
00:43:45It needs the harmony of the three views.
00:43:47It needs you two to reach a consensus.
00:43:49How can there be a consensus now?
00:43:54So I'm here today
00:43:56I want you to communicate
00:43:58through these keywords.
00:44:02Which of them can reach a consensus?
00:44:03Which of them can't reach a consensus?
00:44:05If you reach a consensus,
00:44:06you can put this picture
00:44:08on the background behind us.
00:44:11I want to get him some paper first.
00:44:13Go ahead.
00:44:15So it's hard.
00:44:23I won't thank you
00:44:24because you made me angry.
00:44:25It's because you made me cry.
00:44:27No need.
00:44:28Then let's start.
00:44:30Parents.
00:44:34At the time of the wedding,
00:44:37my parents did their best.
00:44:41Including walking with his parents.
00:44:45And his parents, too.
00:44:47They support us a lot.
00:44:49They also feel at ease.
00:44:52Yeah, because his parents are all good people.
00:44:54His parents are also good to me.
00:44:57At that time, I decided to get married with him.
00:45:00There was another point.
00:45:01I don't think such a good parent
00:45:02would give birth to such a child.
00:45:05His child should be a good person, too.
00:45:13Zhang Shuo, what do you want to say?
00:45:14I don't know what to say.
00:45:16Zhang Shuo's face is full of sorrow.
00:45:18I don't know what to say.
00:45:19I don't know what to say.
00:45:22I don't know if this is a compliment to my parents
00:45:24or a very big expression to me.
00:45:28His child should be a good person, too.
00:45:31How can I digest it?
00:45:32How can I resolve it?
00:45:34He just has something to say.
00:45:35He said it because he was really angry.
00:45:40But at least our parents
00:45:42can reach a consensus, right?
00:45:44Yeah.
00:45:45So maybe you two
00:45:46need to stick together with a ladder.
00:45:48OK.
00:45:49It's not high enough.
00:45:50Let him climb the ladder himself.
00:45:51It's really like a little girl.
00:45:53So cute.
00:45:56Yeah.
00:45:57Because it's very, very easy to break, isn't it?
00:45:59So maybe you two
00:46:00need to stick together.
00:46:02OK?
00:46:03If it's broken, it's broken.
00:46:04Anyway, the relationship between the two of them is about to break.
00:46:06He really has a fast brain response.
00:46:08Every word he says is without dirty words.
00:46:12In fact, his parents are all very cute people.
00:46:14It's the Spring Festival.
00:46:15And his parents
00:46:17actually give me a festive blessing
00:46:18more often than Zhang Shuo does.
00:46:21Including the special days every year.
00:46:23May 20th.
00:46:24His parents will give me red envelopes.
00:46:26They will say a festive blessing to me.
00:46:28Sometimes Zhang Shuo will forget it.
00:46:37He still cares about her.
00:46:41It's lonely to fight alone.
00:46:44Let's see if there are any other points
00:46:46that can be agreed upon.
00:46:48Finance and career.
00:46:49Finance and career are separate.
00:46:51So there is no contradiction.
00:46:52I think this is very good.
00:46:53And career is also
00:46:54not interfering with each other.
00:46:55It gives each other a lot of space.
00:46:56I don't think we have too many contradictions
00:46:58because of this.
00:47:00Do you think the other person's career
00:47:02is meaningful and valuable?
00:47:04It's mutual support.
00:47:07I didn't think it was that grand.
00:47:09Personally, I like my job.
00:47:11And when I do my job,
00:47:13I don't have much resistance.
00:47:15And his job is what he likes.
00:47:18That's fine.
00:47:19I don't want to interfere with his work.
00:47:21Do you have expectations
00:47:23or requirements for his work?
00:47:25No.
00:47:26It may not be good for us emotionally.
00:47:28The two of us are not suitable
00:47:30to work together.
00:47:31It's not suitable to be a partner.
00:47:33It's more suitable to be
00:47:35in each other's life.
00:47:39Why?
00:47:40I don't know if we're sure
00:47:41about each other's life.
00:47:45Because when we met at work,
00:47:46I was in a hurry.
00:47:47So when I had a problem,
00:47:49I was in a hurry.
00:47:50And he's slow-witted.
00:47:51We have conflicts.
00:47:55He's a little too impatient.
00:47:58Because I'm very slow-witted.
00:48:00For example,
00:48:01he shows you something on his phone.
00:48:03At that time, no matter what happens,
00:48:05you have to agree with him immediately.
00:48:08Sometimes I'm worried about something.
00:48:10Maybe I'm slow-witted.
00:48:11Then he comes again.
00:48:13He said,
00:48:14why are you so slow?
00:48:15Then I said,
00:48:16every time I see you so slow,
00:48:17I rush up.
00:48:18He added this.
00:48:19He doesn't care
00:48:20what state I am in
00:48:21or what I think.
00:48:23I haven't got used to it yet.
00:48:25I'm still uncomfortable every time.
00:48:29Can you accept his impatience?
00:48:31He can't accept it,
00:48:32so he came here.
00:48:33I'm willing to accept it,
00:48:34but I need to find a solution.
00:48:36I don't have this way now.
00:48:38I don't need him to be impatient.
00:48:40He can't be impatient.
00:48:43I don't think my impatience
00:48:44is unreasonable.
00:48:45Yes.
00:48:46Most of the time, I upset him.
00:48:48It's good to admit your mistake.
00:48:51I know I did something wrong.
00:48:53But
00:48:56you can't change
00:48:58what you did to me.
00:48:59Because you didn't solve this problem.
00:49:01Why do you want me to be angry with you?
00:49:02I didn't let you change.
00:49:03So I said,
00:49:04I'm looking for a way to digest.
00:49:05I'm looking for a way to resolve.
00:49:07I don't need you to digest.
00:49:09You've solved the problem, bro.
00:49:11You've solved the problem.
00:49:12Let's talk about it later, OK?
00:49:13If you don't solve the problem,
00:49:14my attitude won't be good.
00:49:15It's over now.
00:49:16Yes.
00:49:17If he doesn't solve the problem,
00:49:18why does he have to be angry all the time?
00:49:19Yes.
00:49:23It's not the third time, OK?
00:49:25I've tolerated you once,
00:49:26I've tolerated you twice,
00:49:27I've tolerated you three times.
00:49:28Besides, when I first came here,
00:49:29I've tolerated you
00:49:30many times
00:49:31in my life before.
00:49:32This is the first time
00:49:33I've told you on the show.
00:49:34You told me it's not the third time.
00:49:36It's not the third time.
00:49:39I like to say that
00:49:40I know I was wrong.
00:49:41Shi Lin.
00:49:42I seem to have lost
00:49:43my trust in him.
00:49:44It's a collapse of trust.
00:49:45That's right.
00:49:47I've tolerated you
00:49:48many times.
00:49:53If you can't do it,
00:49:54don't promise me, OK?
00:49:55Bro.
00:49:58You're so angry.
00:50:00You're going to be angry
00:50:01all the time.
00:50:03Will you really be angry?
00:50:04Yes.
00:50:05Really.
00:50:07Let's put these two together first.
00:50:09OK.
00:50:11Let's do it.
00:50:12Will you still help him?
00:50:19Have you ever considered
00:50:20the financial goal
00:50:21of your whole family?
00:50:23No.
00:50:24What about your career goal?
00:50:26Because I'm a relatively straightforward person,
00:50:28and he's a relatively easy-going person.
00:50:31But I think he's a good person.
00:50:32Few people don't choose him now.
00:50:34And he's in a good mood.
00:50:35He has reconciled with himself.
00:50:37It's very peaceful.
00:50:38He's just happy.
00:50:43I'm a person who makes things happen.
00:50:48You've been like this since the beginning.
00:50:50Yes, I've been like this since the beginning.
00:50:53I'm just...
00:50:54Black is black.
00:50:55White is white.
00:50:56But dear,
00:50:57in the past ten years,
00:50:58in the past ten years,
00:50:59if you keep being angry like this,
00:51:02your body...
00:51:03I've talked to him many times.
00:51:04Yes.
00:51:05And I was patient at first.
00:51:07Then I couldn't stand it anymore.
00:51:08I found that I couldn't just hold it in.
00:51:10I have to let it out.
00:51:12Have you ever thought about a question?
00:51:14If it wasn't for him,
00:51:15would you still be so angry?
00:51:17Maybe not.
00:51:22And I think I did my best.
00:51:23You said communication.
00:51:24Every time I say something, I communicate.
00:51:25He doesn't talk.
00:51:26Yes.
00:51:27He communicates very well with his friends.
00:51:31He doesn't talk to me.
00:51:40We can talk about it
00:51:42after he posts it.
00:51:43No need to post it.
00:51:44There will be no consensus afterwards.
00:51:46I saw those three on the Internet.
00:51:48No need to look at it afterwards.
00:51:50You can ask him if you don't believe me.
00:51:52None of them is consensus.
00:51:54Which one do you want to post next?
00:51:58What do you want to post next?
00:52:03Habits.
00:52:04Socializing is OK.
00:52:05It's different.
00:52:06Habits are different.
00:52:08Do habits interfere?
00:52:10No, but it's different.
00:52:11What I can do now is
00:52:15when he sleeps,
00:52:16I have to be quiet at home
00:52:18and turn off the light.
00:52:19I accept it.
00:52:20For example,
00:52:22it's normal for him to eat three meals a day.
00:52:24I have a very bad habit.
00:52:26I may eat only one meal a day.
00:52:29I don't work out.
00:52:30I don't exercise.
00:52:31I'm a homebody.
00:52:33He likes to socialize.
00:52:37He has a good habit of working out.
00:52:40He likes to make friends.
00:52:42His time with friends
00:52:44is longer than with me.
00:52:46When I want to do something with him,
00:52:48he may have already done it with his friends.
00:52:50For example,
00:52:51I found a new store
00:52:53that just opened.
00:52:55I asked him if he wanted to go.
00:52:56He said,
00:52:57this store doesn't taste good at all.
00:52:58Don't go. I've already been there.
00:52:59I've been there with someone.
00:53:00This kind of thing happens a lot.
00:53:01Habits.
00:53:05In fact, we just talked about
00:53:07some household chores.
00:53:09How do you distribute your household chores?
00:53:11Because I don't want to do housework.
00:53:12If you don't want to do it,
00:53:13call your aunt.
00:53:14The current situation is
00:53:15to call your aunt to clean up.
00:53:17He said,
00:53:18I'm a girl.
00:53:19I don't do housework.
00:53:20I don't sweep the floor.
00:53:21I don't wash clothes.
00:53:22I don't cook.
00:53:23Why do girls have to do these things?
00:53:24Who says girls have to do housework?
00:53:26I didn't ask Zhang Shuo to do it.
00:53:28My attitude is
00:53:29you can do whatever you want.
00:53:30If you don't want to do it, don't do it.
00:53:32Don't force me to do it.
00:53:33I asked my aunt to clean up.
00:53:35Actually, I couldn't accept it.
00:53:36If you don't do it,
00:53:37what can't you accept?
00:53:38In my point of view,
00:53:40I think
00:53:41my family should
00:53:42clean up the house
00:53:44well.
00:53:46Before I fell in love,
00:53:48all the connections
00:53:50I had with women
00:53:51and family
00:53:52were basically obtained
00:53:53from my mother.
00:53:54I don't quite understand
00:53:55what she cares about.
00:53:56She may want a nanny.
00:53:59I'm not that kind of person.
00:54:01I thought
00:54:02women shouldn't be like this.
00:54:04When we live together,
00:54:05shouldn't we be like this?
00:54:06After arguing with her a few times,
00:54:08I slowly found
00:54:09it wasn't like that.
00:54:10Everyone
00:54:11is different.
00:54:17Actually,
00:54:18we can reach a consensus.
00:54:19There is no conflict
00:54:20between us now.
00:54:22I've argued with her
00:54:23countless times.
00:54:24It's like this.
00:54:25Anyway,
00:54:26I forced her to do it.
00:54:27I forced her to do it.
00:54:28I forced her to compromise.
00:54:30It was
00:54:32six or seven years ago.
00:54:33No wonder
00:54:34she was so angry
00:54:35about the nanny festival.
00:54:36I think we can do it.
00:54:38Do you want to do it?
00:54:39Do you want to do it together?
00:54:40I don't want to do it.
00:54:41My problem hasn't been solved.
00:54:42I can't do it with her.
00:54:44Why don't you
00:54:45solve her problem?
00:54:50Now,
00:54:51I'm responsible for
00:54:52washing clothes at home.
00:54:53She's responsible for throwing them away.
00:54:54I'm responsible for washing
00:54:55and hanging them.
00:54:56Sometimes,
00:54:57she wants to drink
00:54:58seafood soup or something.
00:54:59She'll tell me
00:55:00that I was very satisfied
00:55:01at that time
00:55:02because she mentioned
00:55:03that I could
00:55:04do it myself.
00:55:05It's not like
00:55:06taking takeout.
00:55:07It's such a mechanical thing.
00:55:08I can give my ability
00:55:10and love in it.
00:55:11Then she can be satisfied
00:55:13and give me feedback.
00:55:15Because I think
00:55:16I'm the only one
00:55:17who can make this taste.
00:55:18But when it comes to courier,
00:55:19anyone can help you.
00:55:22Anyone can help you
00:55:23when it comes to takeout.
00:55:24I hope I'm unique
00:55:25when I'm with her.
00:55:26To get her recognition
00:55:28and praise
00:55:29or praise,
00:55:30I rarely get
00:55:31her praise and praise
00:55:33now.
00:55:35Rarely.
00:55:39If you want to be recognized,
00:55:40you have to solve the problem.
00:55:50Shui Shui,
00:55:51let's take a look again.
00:55:52What do you care about
00:55:53the most?
00:55:54Among the things
00:55:55that haven't been realized yet.
00:55:56The bottom line.
00:56:00She touched your bottom line.
00:56:01Yes.
00:56:03I can't communicate with her
00:56:04because I can't
00:56:05tell right from wrong.
00:56:07In addition to this bottom line,
00:56:08there is other communication.
00:56:11I can't communicate with her.
00:56:13If you say you are
00:56:14a slow person,
00:56:16you are not good at communicating,
00:56:17then I'll do it.
00:56:20I've been trying to
00:56:21communicate with you.
00:56:22As a result,
00:56:23after the communication,
00:56:24you told me on the spot
00:56:25that you would change.
00:56:26You said you wouldn't
00:56:27have this problem in the future.
00:56:28You said you would
00:56:29solve the problem in time.
00:56:31As a result,
00:56:32it's still like this the second time.
00:56:33You blame me for not
00:56:34communicating with you well.
00:56:35You blame me for
00:56:36having a bad attitude with you the second time.
00:56:38You blame me for
00:56:39embarrassing you the second time.
00:56:40I believe you every time.
00:56:41You trample on
00:56:42my trust in you again and again.
00:56:43Then why should I
00:56:44communicate with you?
00:56:45It's too much to trample on your trust.
00:56:47Is it too much?
00:56:49How did you promise me last night?
00:56:50You said you would
00:56:51tell that man.
00:56:52What did you say?
00:56:53Did you tell him you were wrong?
00:56:54What's your attitude?
00:56:55Bro,
00:56:56I don't think you did it right.
00:56:57Cell phone.
00:56:58Where's my cell phone?
00:56:59Do you have a cell phone?
00:57:00Send me a message.
00:57:01I'll read it.
00:57:03I'm going to break down.
00:57:15Do you really trust me?
00:57:20You are always so gentle to others.
00:57:22I expressed my attitude
00:57:23very tough.
00:57:24Tough.
00:57:25This is the toughness you understand.
00:57:27It's really hard to define.
00:57:31Hard to define.
00:57:37Come on.
00:57:39Bro,
00:57:40I got married in 2020.
00:57:41You found shoes
00:57:42to tease the bridesmaid.
00:57:44I still think it's too much.
00:57:46But I think
00:57:47I still think it's too much.
00:57:49It's not right.
00:57:50Whether you can recognize it or not,
00:57:51you should feel sorry
00:57:52for my wife's bridesmaid.
00:57:56You told me about
00:57:57teasing the bridesmaid.
00:57:58Bro, I don't think you did it right.
00:58:00I can send another message.
00:58:01No.
00:58:02It's not right.
00:58:03I can ask you to send me
00:58:04one word at a time.
00:58:06I'm willing to do this.
00:58:08I don't know
00:58:09whether you need me
00:58:10to answer
00:58:11one word at a time
00:58:12as you said
00:58:13or you need me to have an attitude.
00:58:15Just tell him
00:58:16you were wrong
00:58:18about teasing the bridesmaid.
00:58:20You shouldn't tease the bridesmaid.
00:58:22Bro,
00:58:23who is your bro in Shanghai?
00:58:25Guo Zhonghe is your bro now.
00:58:27He doesn't know what's wrong.
00:58:29I won't record it.
00:58:32Don't.
00:58:33Communicate with him.
00:58:37Okay? Communicate with him.
00:58:38The biggest requirement for him
00:58:39is the thing about the wedding.
00:58:41He needs a firm attitude to solve it.
00:58:43You have to tell them seriously
00:58:45you did it wrong.
00:58:46You shouldn't do that.
00:58:48You shouldn't just let it go.
00:58:51It's not right.
00:58:53Zhang Shuo, can you understand
00:58:56where the bottom line is?
00:58:58I can understand.
00:58:59I understand it more clearly than yesterday.
00:59:02He can't tolerate
00:59:04this problem at all.
00:59:06Even if it's my
00:59:08normal statement,
00:59:10I shouldn't say it.
00:59:11Did someone save your life?
00:59:13Oh, my God.
00:59:16Did someone save your life?
00:59:18No.
00:59:20Why is your attitude so weak?
00:59:22Can you stand up straight?
00:59:25I can.
00:59:26Now I can
00:59:27say what you just said
00:59:28one word at a time.
00:59:30No, you said what I said.
00:59:32You should think so.
00:59:35You're a human being.
00:59:36You should think so.
00:59:38I think he's wrong.
00:59:39I think he has a problem.
00:59:41You're asking me
00:59:42to have the same attitude as you.
00:59:44No, it's because you're not angry.
00:59:45Yes.
00:59:46It doesn't matter if you're the same as him.
00:59:48It's just that you call him a buddy.
00:59:49I think you're so disgusting.
00:59:51I haven't sent him a message
00:59:52for two or three years.
00:59:54Yes, two or three years ago,
00:59:55I asked you to tell him.
00:59:56You didn't say anything.
00:59:57Now you blame me.
00:59:58It's been too long.
00:59:59I can't tell him.
01:00:02I didn't say it's hard
01:00:03to tell him now.
01:00:04I said it.
01:00:06I did it, too.
01:00:07I realized the problem.
01:00:09At the same time, from the beginning,
01:00:10I didn't agree with this behavior.
01:00:11Did you say those words just now?
01:00:14I said he was wrong.
01:00:15I said he should apologize to him.
01:00:18Is this an apology?
01:00:20Is this an apology?
01:00:26I don't want to record it.
01:00:31And the message
01:00:32really doesn't hurt.
01:00:33Yes.
01:00:34He's really...
01:00:35What if you don't want this friend?
01:00:36Yes.
01:00:37I didn't contact him at first.
01:00:38I can't talk to him.
01:00:39I don't want to record it.
01:00:41Calm down.
01:00:42Calm down.
01:00:43There are still many days to go.
01:00:49I know.
01:00:50I know how to explain it.
01:00:52The girl can understand you.
01:00:56For example, you should have an apology.
01:00:58For example, you are a friend.
01:01:00I know.
01:01:02The reason I broke up
01:01:03is because I heard
01:01:04too many of his words.
01:01:05He likes to say it with his mouth.
01:01:07I know I'm wrong.
01:01:08That's it.
01:01:10I'm very...
01:01:11I feel like
01:01:12I lost my trust in him.
01:01:15I really want to understand.
01:01:16I really want to understand why.
01:01:18I really want to understand
01:01:19why he became like this.
01:01:21And he felt that
01:01:22he was forced to do these things.
01:01:23Yes.
01:01:24I don't know how to deal with
01:01:26his problem now.
01:01:27I think...
01:01:32I don't know what to do.
01:01:33I feel
01:01:36helpless.
01:01:38He didn't really feel
01:01:39the pain of a girl.
01:01:40If he could feel it,
01:01:41he wouldn't delay it for three years.
01:01:43Yes.
01:01:44What he felt
01:01:45was the pain that Shui Shui gave him.
01:01:58He even thinks the problem
01:01:59is why Shui Shui
01:02:00has such a bad temper.
01:02:01Yes.
01:02:03I can settle it now.
01:02:04I really...
01:02:05Don't settle it.
01:02:06I really...
01:02:07Don't settle it.
01:02:08I can do it one by one.
01:02:09No.
01:02:10Don't settle it.
01:02:12I can do it one by one.
01:02:13You can do it one by one, okay?
01:02:14I'm not doing it one by one.
01:02:15I can do it one by one.
01:02:16I can force him.
01:02:18I can do it again.
01:02:23I can do it.
01:02:26I can be harsh.
01:02:31This is a big deal.
01:02:32I need you to be determined.
01:02:34No problem.
01:02:36This girl is great.
01:02:38He is suffering for another girl.
01:03:00Let's go back to the puzzle.
01:03:02We seem to have one more topic.
01:03:04The life of a couple.
01:03:05Do you think this is important
01:03:06in your marriage?
01:03:07No.
01:03:08We can't talk about it.
01:03:09We are roommates.
01:03:11We have two beds and a quilt.
01:03:13You don't want to have a baby, right?
01:03:15Right.
01:03:17I don't want to have a baby now.
01:03:20There's nothing
01:03:21to talk about this.
01:03:24I think he may be
01:03:27a product of emotional promotion.
01:03:32I think
01:03:33he and I are quite consistent.
01:03:35We are roommates.
01:03:36I want to solve this problem.
01:03:38It's either getting better
01:03:39or getting worse.
01:03:43That's why I'm here.
01:03:45Right?
01:03:46I want to find a solution.
01:03:49I don't want to spend too much time
01:03:52on a roommate in the future.
01:03:56If you don't want to have a baby,
01:03:57it's also your consensus.
01:03:59You can put it on.
01:04:00Okay.
01:04:01Can you put it on together?
01:04:03Yes.
01:04:33Okay.
01:05:03I want to find a solution.
01:05:04I want to find a solution.
01:05:05Okay.
01:05:08I have a high standard.
01:05:09I don't have a bottom line.
01:05:11It's hard to be a person.
01:05:17I think solving this problem
01:05:18can solve all the problems.
01:05:21Women are strong-willed.
01:05:25Who do you think it is?
01:05:26There's nothing to say.
01:05:27I've said too much.
01:05:29Communication is not talking.
01:05:32Communication is not just talking.
01:05:35What else is there?
01:05:37Communication is also
01:05:38the recognition and understanding
01:05:39of the other person's behavior.
01:05:42Some things may be easy for you.
01:05:44It's hard for me.
01:05:45Maybe 50% of what I do in your heart
01:05:47is already 90% for me.
01:05:49100%.
01:05:51So I hope you can think about it sometimes.
01:05:55I have some practices.
01:05:56It's true that the ability is not there.
01:05:58It's my value.
01:05:59For example?
01:06:00For example, what I said.
01:06:02Yes, you can't hide it.
01:06:04It's not that I can't hide it.
01:06:05That sentence is very cruel to me.
01:06:09What you said to me in the quarrel
01:06:10is even more cruel than this.
01:06:14You're crazy.
01:06:20Do you want to record it?
01:06:21I don't want to record it.
01:06:25This man is going to jump.
01:06:27He thinks the face is gone.
01:06:29So he doesn't want to record it.
01:06:39Let him go.
01:06:42What cruel words did we say
01:06:44when we quarreled?
01:06:47Let me wait for him.
01:06:48Let me control him.
01:06:49Wait for me to shout.
01:06:50How is that possible?
01:06:54When he shouted at me,
01:06:56I thought it was easy for me to do it.
01:06:57He can't do it.
01:06:58I can give you time to do it.
01:06:59Don't tell me this is a fight.
01:07:00You're 90 percent.
01:07:01He said it was a fight.
01:07:02He's 90 percent.
01:07:03He's rejecting me.
01:07:09So drink less.
01:07:10Otherwise, the reaction speed will be slower.
01:07:12I can't catch up.
01:07:13I really can't catch up.
01:07:29The phone has been picked up.
01:07:40It's so cold.
01:07:42Why are there still more than ten days left?
01:07:44She cried, but she didn't collapse.
01:07:46When he cried,
01:07:47he told those words very calmly.
01:07:49Yes.
01:07:58You
01:08:28You
01:08:47What you should have
01:08:48I mean what I had
01:08:49I said I was gonna show this
01:08:50I'm not saying I'm gonna show it to anyone
01:08:52I'm not saying I'm gonna give you an explanation
01:08:54But my tone and attitude
01:08:57It's not worth it to him
01:09:16Get in the car
01:09:28I'm gonna show you something
01:09:34It's actually a very small thing
01:09:36It's
01:09:37It's not a big deal
01:09:41It's about putting the bag in the seat
01:09:43And I didn't take it down in advance
01:09:44This is the thing
01:09:45This is all of them today
01:09:47The war led me away
01:09:51Maybe it's because I sent him
01:09:53I sent a screenshot of me and that person sending messages
01:09:57It was another fire in his eyes
01:09:59But in order to resolve this problem, he sent that message
01:10:02I don't know how to deal with it
01:10:04I've tried to deal with it
01:10:07You think my way of dealing with it is worthless
01:10:09I can't communicate well
01:10:12Give me more patience, I'll deal with it
01:10:14If I say
01:10:15You don't approve of my way of dealing with it
01:10:18I can follow your words
01:10:20How much patience does he need?
01:10:22I've given him ten years of patience
01:10:24What matters is my attitude towards it
01:10:29And my way of dealing with it
01:10:32Or what do you think I should do?
01:10:34I did what you think I should do
01:10:38What should I do?
01:10:45You see, he said he's slow
01:10:47He's not slow at all
01:10:48He just wants to get this thing over with
01:10:50He's got the wrong attitude
01:10:51He wants to fool me
01:11:03How could he be like this?
01:11:06He's not a bad person
01:11:07He's just stupid
01:11:08He's very slow at learning
01:11:09He drinks too much
01:11:11He can't keep up with everything that's happening
01:11:14He can't see the point
01:11:15Yes
01:11:16I think all men are at this stupid stage
01:11:18Is there?
01:11:19He's 30 years old
01:11:20Is there still this stage?
01:11:21When Zhang Suo was angry at Sui
01:11:24Some of his responses
01:11:25He really tried to calm him down
01:11:28The more I comforted him
01:11:29Then Sui was even more angry
01:11:31Your apology is perfunctory
01:11:33You're just using something to sugarcoat me
01:11:35But how do I remember
01:11:36Who said something
01:11:37He said I haven't twisted the bottle cap myself for so many years
01:11:39That means he meant it
01:11:41He meant it
01:11:42You've been together for ten years
01:11:43Doesn't he know him?
01:11:44Doesn't he know where his point is?
01:11:46I think it's because
01:11:47He has too much little smartness
01:11:48So he won't really face his guilt
01:11:52He thinks he can solve the problem
01:11:53The little smartness
01:11:54But it's actually
01:11:55On the contrary, it makes the girl even more angry
01:11:57For example, when a girl says
01:11:58Please pay attention to me
01:12:00This man can't learn
01:12:01So don't put the bag
01:12:03Where you're going to sit later
01:12:04Because you just want me to pay attention to you
01:12:06You didn't say that
01:12:07He can't take one and turn it around
01:12:09The girl's point is
01:12:10I want your attitude
01:12:12But his attitude is
01:12:13So what do you want me to do
01:12:14I'll do whatever I want
01:12:15I think the two of them
01:12:16It's like a chicken and a duck
01:12:18I think this
01:12:19Uncle Zhang, I still don't understand
01:12:21Can't he understand
01:12:22I think he can only understand one level
01:12:24He can't understand the second level
01:12:26Yeah
01:12:27He can only understand
01:12:28You're angry
01:12:29You want me to tell him
01:12:31So I said
01:12:32What else do you want me to do
01:12:34What do you want me to say
01:12:35I'll say it
01:12:36You don't think I said it well
01:12:38Then you tell me what to say
01:12:41Because I've been doing it wrong before
01:12:43You keep talking about me
01:12:44I'm going to get a copy of this
01:12:45You said me
01:12:46I did the right thing
01:12:47I'm going to refute you right away
01:12:49It's like winning or losing
01:12:51So there's only one thing
01:12:53That's my husband
01:12:55What kind of person is he
01:12:57Yeah
01:12:58Uncle Zhang understands
01:12:59Because my friend is angry
01:13:00And then I want you to do it for me
01:13:01Take a step forward
01:13:02Solve this for him
01:13:04He thinks you should stand up
01:13:05You have to stand up
01:13:06Yeah
01:13:07But what Uncle Zhang chose
01:13:08Maybe it's sitting down
01:13:09I'm done with this
01:13:11So he didn't put it on
01:13:14He just wants to get his return
01:13:16It's like, oh, you're great
01:13:18You help me get my coat
01:13:19It's just some cheap care
01:13:21But he can't do what he cares about
01:13:23He can actually just bring it
01:13:24Just put it on you
01:13:25Just don't talk
01:13:27But Uncle Zhang seems to be
01:13:29He's afraid he'll be angry
01:13:31He's confused when he's angry
01:13:32He's confused
01:13:33He'll just say, I'm sorry, I'm wrong
01:13:34I won't do that next time
01:13:35Yeah, a teacher
01:13:37If he meets a bad student
01:13:39This is not because
01:13:41He really wants to check
01:13:43But he's getting the information
01:13:46Very slow
01:13:48And then he's afraid
01:13:49Yes
01:13:50The teacher teaches that primary school student
01:13:51Do math questions
01:13:52Primary school students actually
01:13:53He doesn't know how to solve this question
01:13:55Then he just writes an answer
01:13:56Is this it?
01:13:57No, no
01:13:58Then change one
01:13:59That's it
01:14:00He was just there
01:14:01Look at the teacher's eyes
01:14:02But he didn't think about it at all
01:14:04What is the logic of his algorithm
01:14:06What is it
01:14:07And then he found out
01:14:09I'm here with this teacher
01:14:11I can't get any good words
01:14:14And then I started to hide from you
01:14:16The more you hide, the longer
01:14:18Yes, Uncle Zhang
01:14:19He stopped at that moment
01:14:20And then he just said
01:14:21I won't do it
01:14:22You said I wouldn't do it
01:14:23And then I did
01:14:24You see, you're talking about me now
01:14:25Because you asked me to do it
01:14:26I did
01:14:29I was many years ago
01:14:30I had a very similar kind of difficulty
01:14:32I was very late
01:14:33I just understood
01:14:34Where is the point of that difficulty
01:14:36I just want to pursue
01:14:37Let yourself be right
01:14:38Yes
01:14:40When my cognition
01:14:41Just pay attention to such a small place
01:14:43I didn't see it at that moment
01:14:44What does the other person need
01:14:46You let me do this for a while
01:14:47You won't let me do this for a while
01:14:48What do you want me to do
01:14:49I'll take a sentence from Mr. Li
01:14:51Why do we have this phenomenon in boys
01:14:53Girls don't have this phenomenon
01:14:55Because we are in the environment of society
01:14:57Girls have to understand
01:14:59Other people's needs
01:15:01To be honest, boys live in this world
01:15:03It's very comfortable
01:15:04It's taken care of
01:15:05Yes, it's taken care of
01:15:06Because girls are in this society
01:15:08Trained to be in a relationship
01:15:10To provide, to pay
01:15:12To sense other people's needs
01:15:14And boys rarely receive such training
01:15:17Yes
01:15:18So boys care about right and wrong
01:15:19Because in the boy's world
01:15:21Right and wrong will decide how to allocate male resources
01:15:24That's right
01:15:25But in the girl's world
01:15:26Feel other people's needs
01:15:28It's a natural training for him
01:15:30This is not biological
01:15:32This is social
01:15:33This is a very unfair process
01:15:36Then I'll talk about it the other way around
01:15:37Another angle
01:15:38I've been talking about this
01:15:39There's something wrong with people who don't understand
01:15:41But have you ever thought about
01:15:43The inexplicability of the expression
01:15:46I like Shui Shui very much
01:15:47I agree with him
01:15:48But I was thinking
01:15:49Shui Shui actually didn't tell Zhang Shuo
01:15:51One thing
01:15:53In fact, I care more about Zhang Shuo
01:15:54What kind of person are you
01:15:56So this is the two of us
01:15:58The reason for not getting a marriage certificate
01:16:02He didn't use a kind of
01:16:03The way Zhang Shuo heard it in his ear
01:16:05To say
01:16:06Yes
01:16:07Shui Shui now
01:16:08On the surface, he seems to be angry
01:16:09Right
01:16:10His core emotion is disappointment
01:16:11Yes
01:16:12This is a fundamental problem
01:16:13Yes
01:16:14When I saw Zhang Shuo
01:16:15I don't know what happened
01:16:17I think another emotion is called fear
01:16:20How can you not be angry about this
01:16:23Yes
01:16:24Can you accept this kind of thing
01:16:25It's just a lot of pain
01:16:27In the other eye
01:16:29I didn't feel it
01:16:31There is no discernment
01:16:32It's normal
01:16:34It will make the painful party feel afraid
01:16:37I feel very sad for Shui Shui
01:16:39But on the other hand
01:16:40I actually feel a little sad for Zhang Shuo
01:16:43But I don't think Zhang Shuo knows any of this
01:16:46Yes
01:16:47His closest person
01:16:48These fears and despairs
01:16:53He's right next to him
01:16:54Why don't you let me go
01:16:56I did it all
01:16:57I did it all
01:16:58What do you want me to do
01:16:59I can correct the words
01:17:00You tell me how to send
01:17:01Yes
01:17:02At that moment
01:17:03I really feel the membrane between people
01:17:06And Shui Shui has collapsed several times
01:17:08It means
01:17:09I don't want you to do what I say
01:17:12But Zhang Shuo still can't understand
01:17:13Just keep making some holes
01:17:15Some unimportant holes
01:17:19He has missed
01:17:20The best time to solve this problem
01:17:22Yes
01:17:23Three years
01:17:24I think Zhang Shuo must have let Shui Shui
01:17:28Is the place of recognition
01:17:30Otherwise, it won't be so long
01:17:32Yes
01:17:33In fact, I think the essence is
01:17:34Zhang Shuo should tell Shui Shui
01:17:36What kind of person am I
01:17:37I have eliminated all your inner worries
01:17:40What have I done before
01:17:42How could you imagine me like that
01:17:44I think as long as this matter is sorted out
01:17:47This is good
01:17:48Yes
01:17:49I think the feedback of the goodbye lover
01:17:51He may be leveled up after he finished watching
01:17:54Then let's continue to watch
01:17:59Go
01:18:02Afraid of B&B
01:18:03Afraid of B&B
01:18:06This name is a bit powerful
01:18:08Let's go
01:18:10There are fruits to eat
01:18:11Drink something hot, comrades
01:18:14How did you have fun today?
01:18:15Are you happy?
01:18:16I just asked Shui Shui
01:18:18He said he had another quarrel
01:18:19We can ask later
01:18:21What's the matter
01:18:22Don't ask
01:18:25My topic today
01:18:27I don't mind starting from the two of us
01:18:29I don't mind starting from you
01:18:30But it can go to the two of you
01:18:32I don't mind ending
01:18:34Is there anything else?
01:18:35I can start with you
01:18:37I have understood
01:18:38The end of the whole story
01:18:40So fast
01:18:42Causing you two today
01:18:43Contradictory sparks
01:18:44Teacher Ji said
01:18:49You let Shui Shui
01:18:51I listen to Teacher Ji's version
01:18:53No, we didn't talk about it in detail
01:18:54Just discussed
01:18:55Exchanged views
01:18:57You say
01:18:58You say
01:18:59I think the two of them
01:19:00It's hard to say
01:19:01Have to change you
01:19:03It's yesterday
01:19:04The two of us sit in the middle row
01:19:05Why
01:19:09I said where am I sitting
01:19:11I didn't
01:19:12I said you watched the last video
01:19:13One by one
01:19:14In the end
01:19:15You don't care about me
01:19:16Right
01:19:17Then he apologized very quickly
01:19:19Chao Chao
01:19:20He suddenly showed me
01:19:22The thing we talked about yesterday
01:19:24He said he would send a message to that person
01:19:27And then the news
01:19:29With us yesterday
01:19:30Promised us on the meal table
01:19:31Completely different content
01:19:35Tell others
01:19:37I don't think this attitude is clear enough
01:19:39Yes
01:19:40Not strong enough
01:19:41I talked to him in the afternoon
01:19:44With the way you want him to express himself
01:19:46It's two different things
01:19:47Yes
01:19:48It's just that I came to this show
01:19:49Within three years
01:19:50In the process of pulling
01:19:51His attitude has always been like this
01:19:52I want to say
01:19:53In fact, we should scold them
01:19:55It's definitely what we want
01:19:56Yes
01:19:57Like you and me
01:19:58Yes
01:19:59I want to scold you every day
01:20:00I can turn around
01:20:01Yes
01:20:03But I think it's because of Shuo
01:20:05He thinks he's been with people for a long time
01:20:07Suddenly turn around and scold others
01:20:09Maybe for him
01:20:11Is there a barrier in your heart?
01:20:12I don't know how to say it
01:20:14I think for him
01:20:15It's really possible
01:20:16It's a bit difficult
01:20:17I think so
01:20:18I'm not saying
01:20:19Of course I don't think he did enough
01:20:20Yes
01:20:21I'm not speaking up for him
01:20:22Because that's the way he is
01:20:23But this kind of principle
01:20:24Makes me don't want to
01:20:25I know you don't want to
01:20:27So it's because of the quarrel
01:20:29And then there was a very fierce quarrel
01:20:30I said he said something very bad
01:20:32Scold him
01:20:33And then he broke down
01:20:34It all broke down on the spot
01:20:36You two
01:20:37This afternoon
01:20:38Did you say anything bad about each other?
01:20:40It's me
01:20:41No each other
01:20:42Only me
01:20:43You said something bad about him
01:20:44Yes, because he doesn't quarrel
01:20:46If he says it's emotional
01:20:48When I don't know how to persuade
01:20:49When I don't know how to persuade
01:20:50I'm actually
01:20:51Most of the thinking space in the brain
01:20:52Is thinking
01:20:54What should I do
01:20:55Leave more space in the brain
01:20:56To observe him more objectively
01:20:58Instead of fighting with him emotionally
01:21:01That's right
01:21:02It's actually the extension of yesterday's question
01:21:04Right?
01:21:05You think he's fooling you again
01:21:06Yes
01:21:08They should have a lot of things
01:21:10But the new thing I said today
01:21:12I don't think it's that easy
01:21:14I think that car
01:21:15He got in that car
01:21:16Put that bag on the other seat
01:21:17He sits on this seat
01:21:18Peace of mind
01:21:20I think this
01:21:21Maybe it's the state of life
01:21:23Yes, I don't think so
01:21:24I really shouldn't tell the truth
01:21:26It shouldn't be
01:21:27This thing
01:21:28Through a very small thing
01:21:29It reflects
01:21:30It's in your heart
01:21:31I really didn't think about it
01:21:34He's like a father teaching his son
01:21:35Yes
01:21:36He can talk about a thousand things
01:21:38Can't finish
01:21:39But this is not a matter
01:21:40But thinking
01:21:41So what's your heart like
01:21:43What's your heart like
01:21:48Old Ji and Shi Qin
01:21:49It's a happy afternoon
01:21:51We are
01:21:52It's a happy morning
01:21:53Happy morning
01:21:54I see Mr. Ji's expression tonight
01:21:55It's all a pleasure
01:21:56Pleasure
01:21:58Two top supermodels
01:21:59A set of dedication
01:22:01White Shark
01:22:03Old partner
01:22:04I'm looking forward to seeing our photos
01:22:05Share with you
01:22:06I'm looking forward to it too
01:22:07This is our fitting room
01:22:10And then there's actually another set of clothes
01:22:12I have two sets of clothes
01:22:13One is my own choice
01:22:14One set was chosen by Mr. Ji
01:22:16I want you to guess
01:22:17Which one I chose
01:22:18Which one was chosen by Mr. Ji
01:22:21I guess the second set was chosen by Mr. Ji
01:22:23You think
01:22:24I have two sets of clothes
01:22:27Which one looks good
01:22:28The first set was chosen by Mr. Ji
01:22:29That must be the first set
01:22:30Mr. Ji chose
01:22:31I'm straightforward
01:22:32That's the first set
01:22:33The first set
01:22:34What about that sister
01:22:35I like the first set, too
01:22:36You like the first set
01:22:37What about brother-in-law
01:22:38I think the first set is good
01:22:40Say
01:22:41The first set looks good
01:22:43Then I'll choose the second set
01:22:45Then I'll choose the second set
01:22:46You're going to sing against him
01:22:47That's why you chose the second set, isn't it
01:22:49Actually, we all
01:22:50I think we all like the first set
01:22:51Right?
01:22:53All right, I'm done
01:22:55Because the first set was chosen by Mr. Ji
01:22:59It's nice to have color
01:23:01Or I'll wear this white dress
01:23:03With that black belt
01:23:05No
01:23:07Let me try this set
01:23:09OK
01:23:10Look at me
01:23:11Three, two, one
01:23:12OK
01:23:15It doesn't match
01:23:16You can try another one
01:23:18I just said
01:23:19I'm going to wear that white dress
01:23:20You have to say no
01:23:21Let me wear this
01:23:23OK, one, two, three
01:23:25OK, let's take a look
01:23:28It's good
01:23:32I don't think I'm good
01:23:34I'm going to add a little bit of color
01:23:35Come and have a look
01:23:37It's good
01:23:39That's great
01:23:40You chose a better one than me
01:23:43You just found out
01:23:44Mr. Ji is encouraging him
01:23:45Mr. Ji is encouraging him
01:23:46He's trying
01:23:47Yes
01:23:48You see
01:23:49Look at Mr. Ji
01:23:50The happiness of the whole person
01:23:52Plus five
01:23:53No, I've tried my best to suppress
01:23:55Plus five
01:23:56Take it away
01:23:57I've tried my best
01:24:03Mr. Ji asks
01:24:05Usually if it's
01:24:06I want to wear a little bit more comfortable
01:24:07You don't let me
01:24:09For example, shoes
01:24:10I want to wear a pair of sports shoes
01:24:12He said no
01:24:13I have to wear LeFo shoes today
01:24:14And then the LeFo shoes
01:24:15It's special
01:24:17As long as I walk 100 meters
01:24:18My feet are broken
01:24:19I said this shoe really grinds my feet
01:24:21He said hold on
01:24:22Is comfort so important
01:24:24Look good first
01:24:26Then I have to wear
01:24:27And then the two feet are worn
01:24:29I can't walk anymore
01:24:30And then all day
01:24:31I have to wear
01:24:32If you don't wear it, it's a black face
01:24:34I would like to ask you
01:24:35Please interpret
01:24:36What you just said
01:24:38It's like a coach
01:24:39Yeah
01:24:40He might be one
01:24:41Start from the perspective of life
01:24:42One starts from the perspective of work
01:24:44It was work that day
01:24:45And it's still fake
01:24:46You do this
01:24:48You don't care if I wear comfortable
01:24:49You do this
01:24:50You go to a job
01:24:52You want me to go out for a meal
01:24:54This friend
01:24:55You also have a lot of requirements for me
01:24:57Must wear
01:24:58You do this
01:25:00You don't love him
01:25:01He doesn't love you
01:25:02You didn't invest your energy
01:25:03Didn't study
01:25:04Didn't work hard
01:25:05How can he give it back to you
01:25:07Can I wear it
01:25:08It's nice and comfortable
01:25:09Not nice and uncomfortable
01:25:11Yes
01:25:12Can I
01:25:13You decide
01:25:15He's working hard
01:25:17All right, let's move on
01:25:18Let's look at the big picture
01:25:19Don't say anything
01:25:23This is our second scene
01:25:25And then it's actually
01:25:26A legend of Baying River
01:25:28And then it's also a fairy tale
01:25:30About love
01:25:31And then at the scene
01:25:32There was a wedding for us
01:25:34The music of the dance we danced
01:25:40But the mood is different
01:25:41We only danced this dance twice
01:25:43Once at the wedding
01:25:46The dance at the wedding
01:25:47Before the show
01:25:49I was so nervous that my whole body was shaking
01:25:50I really forgot
01:25:54And then we were taking pictures
01:25:55And then the music started
01:25:56We both jumped
01:25:58That dance
01:26:00There are a lot of moves
01:26:01Teacher Ji doesn't remember
01:26:03Just put it anywhere
01:26:07I don't really remember
01:26:11What are you doing
01:26:14Don't I turn
01:26:16It's time to jump
01:26:18It's time to net
01:26:20You can't do it
01:26:21I can't jump
01:26:23I'm so sweet
01:26:24Yeah, they're so good
01:26:26You
01:26:28I forgot
01:26:29I'll push you
01:26:30And then you hold me
01:26:31How to hold
01:26:37I forgot
01:26:38If you know
01:26:39Just tell me
01:26:41These two moves
01:26:42It's not connected
01:26:43It's connected
01:26:44Do you want to go back and watch the dance
01:26:47I'm really disappointed
01:26:50I really don't remember the dance
01:26:51This practice
01:26:52Who can always remember
01:26:54I remember
01:26:58Shiqing, why do you think
01:26:59Teacher Ji has forgotten
01:27:01He often forgets
01:27:03He doesn't remember many things
01:27:05But he thinks he remembers
01:27:06In fact, his understanding
01:27:08There is a difference in cognition
01:27:11What do you want him to remember
01:27:14I don't need him to remember anything now
01:27:16I think I remember
01:27:17This is my memory
01:27:19This is my memory
01:27:21He doesn't remember it's his business
01:27:24It's his relationship with us
01:27:26Interpretation and attitude
01:27:29That's what I'm talking about
01:27:31No, everyone understands
01:27:33This is different
01:27:36Life is
01:27:38A lot of things
01:27:40There is also a big direction
01:27:42I've been doing this for so many years
01:27:44Let me tell you
01:27:45I only did one thing
01:27:46Just to make him feel better
01:27:49Nothing else
01:27:51The result
01:27:52In the end, I didn't do anything
01:27:54I didn't say you didn't do anything
01:28:00But at his wedding
01:28:02In fact, let him do
01:28:03There's not much
01:28:04Just learned a dance
01:28:06Then attend
01:28:08Then there are some
01:28:09Actually, before I went on stage
01:28:11I'm still thinking in my heart
01:28:12Which one didn't come
01:28:13Sister, the photographer is not in place
01:28:15Where is my partner
01:28:16Just everything
01:28:17It's trivial
01:28:18I'm moving twenty-odd boxes by myself
01:28:20The one in my hand
01:28:21Go home and assemble
01:28:22He was filming at that time
01:28:24This kind of critical moment
01:28:25Can't be absent
01:28:26Then I moved up one by one
01:28:28With that master
01:28:29When I moved up
01:28:30More than 11 o'clock in the middle of the night
01:28:32I'm a little broken
01:28:33I want to say why
01:28:34I do everything by myself
01:28:37Then I cried
01:28:39After crying
01:28:40I figured it out later
01:28:41I want to say this wedding
01:28:42I want it myself
01:28:44Then I will
01:28:45Give it to myself
01:28:47Then
01:28:51Hard work
01:28:53Thank you
01:28:54Thank you
01:28:56Thank you
01:28:57Indeed
01:28:58Hard work
01:28:59Hard work
01:29:00A lot of things at the wedding
01:29:01He did it
01:29:02I didn't expect
01:29:03The wedding is so troublesome
01:29:04Indeed, he did a lot
01:29:06I did less
01:29:08The two sides have each other
01:29:09He did it
01:29:10I saw
01:29:11I can talk here today
01:29:13I can also tell him
01:29:14Hard work
01:29:15This I think
01:29:16Is a normal way of communication
01:29:19I also hope that my way
01:29:20Can make him
01:29:22Change a little
01:29:23Change a little
01:29:24Can also calm down
01:29:25To communicate with him
01:29:29This is
01:29:30He asked us to choose
01:29:31A few sets of props to take pictures
01:29:33And then this rope
01:29:34I chose
01:29:35And then he asked us
01:29:36In our own way
01:29:37To wrap around each other
01:29:38Then I first
01:29:39In subconscious
01:29:40I want to tie the two of us
01:29:42Back to back
01:29:44And then I tied it to the end
01:29:45I suddenly felt
01:29:46I want to tie my neck, too
01:29:49And then I tied it on my neck
01:29:50Also tied a knife
01:29:51And then I tied my neck
01:29:52I want to
01:29:53Cover my eyes, too
01:29:57I can imagine
01:29:58He
01:30:00Will tie the two of us
01:30:01Tightly together
01:30:02This
01:30:03If you let me do this
01:30:05I would do the same
01:30:11Teacher Jin
01:30:12You can feel it now
01:30:13Why do you do this
01:30:17I think it's just
01:30:18There are a lot of things between the two of us
01:30:19It's a long time
01:30:20It's very tight
01:30:23But now the two of us
01:30:24There is no face-to-face
01:30:25Heart to heart
01:30:28Instead
01:30:31In two directions
01:30:38but
01:30:41Neck
01:30:43Head together
01:30:48If you let me interpret
01:30:49I think it's
01:30:51I don't want to
01:30:56Why do you think Shi Qin
01:30:57Covered his eyes
01:31:08I can't see the bright future
01:31:20I don't want to
01:31:25It's hard for both of them
01:31:27What can I think
01:31:29I don't think so
01:31:31But he thinks so
01:31:47I don't think
01:31:49It shouldn't be like this
01:31:55Teacher Jin, you don't understand now
01:31:56Why can't he see it
01:31:58If you can't see the future
01:32:03So
01:32:04I think I
01:32:11I think in a relationship
01:32:14Two people
01:32:16Work together
01:32:18Can communicate with each other
01:32:21I think this
01:32:22Who listens to whom
01:32:24I don't stare at you every day
01:32:26Just cause you trouble
01:32:28I'm not your enemy
01:32:29I always say
01:32:32Life is hostile
01:32:34You say more communication
01:32:35Do we have communication
01:32:38You say who is right to listen to who
01:32:39Who is right
01:32:41Who has listened to who
01:32:42I don't understand
01:32:47It's been a long time
01:32:52I don't know how to live for more than ten years
01:32:57We have thought about it
01:33:00We don't want to compromise each other
01:33:02I want to go to the other side
01:33:05The heart doesn't seem to be together
01:33:07Then can't be separated
01:33:09Tightly tied
01:33:12Tied
01:33:19I think
01:33:21If I do this
01:33:23I actually
01:33:24I don't want to see anything clearly
01:33:26I just want to follow my heart
01:33:30What kind of judgment do I make in my heart
01:33:32What is the judgment
01:33:33I don't need to rely on my various senses
01:33:42This is a mystery chosen by Lao Ji
01:33:45This is also a rope
01:33:47Tied on the wrist of our left hand
01:33:51First of all, the two people are tightly entangled
01:33:54Can't be separated
01:33:55Where does he want to go
01:33:56I have to go there
01:33:57Then the rope is sharp
01:34:01Actually
01:34:03I want to get close to him
01:34:05I want to get close to him
01:34:09I think so
01:34:10Then the left hand
01:34:12Closer to your heart
01:34:15I want to
01:34:17Closer to his heart
01:34:22Why did you choose this rope at the beginning
01:34:24I always feel that there is a distance
01:34:26I thought of a word
01:34:27But I don't want it to be like that
01:34:29But there is indeed
01:34:31Getting farther and farther
01:34:33This distance is in
01:34:36In our hands
01:34:38You don't want to talk
01:34:39Sometimes you break through this window
01:34:41Then there will be this hint in his heart
01:34:43I think there will be
01:34:45So I don't want it to be like this
01:34:47So much effort
01:34:48Why must
01:34:49Because of these things
01:34:50There is no principle problem
01:34:52There is no deep hatred
01:34:54It's really not the enemy
01:34:55Why must it be like this
01:34:57Just want to resist
01:34:58Just want to prove their own positions
01:35:02But at present, his thoughts
01:35:04And my kind of
01:35:06It's a request
01:35:07Help
01:35:09I'm a little ashamed
01:35:12I think it's good to have a rope
01:35:15When you want to pull in
01:35:16You can pull in
01:35:17When you want to be a little farther
01:35:18You can be a little farther
01:35:20I don't know this distance will
01:35:23Will it get longer or shorter
01:35:30Do you want to get longer or shorter
01:35:34I definitely don't want to get longer
01:35:35How long do you want to get
01:35:41Wow, so romantic
01:35:53Can you make it so short
01:35:55Can you make it so short
01:36:05You just don't have a distance
01:36:10When you want distance
01:36:11I'll give you some
01:36:15That's nice
01:36:16Self-compassion
01:36:20If you want to go out and play by yourself
01:36:21Go out and play
01:36:25Why do you close your eyes
01:36:28The picture is like an idol drama
01:36:35Maybe it's because I don't want to give up
01:36:38But there are a lot of
01:36:40Some complicated
01:36:44Attachment
01:36:49Why did you pull me back
01:36:50Maybe you can pull me, too
01:36:52You don't have to go abroad
01:36:54Go everywhere
01:36:56Pulling you is a little tiring
01:37:00He means you're going to pull him
01:37:02Yeah, I don't want to
01:37:03He's not going to be honest
01:37:04I don't want to pull you
01:37:05Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
01:37:06Pull enough
01:37:09But I think it's weird
01:37:12It's just the two of us at home
01:37:14The conflicts
01:37:15It's just that after I came
01:37:16Actually, none of them
01:37:17I was thinking about why
01:37:18It's because the two of us
01:37:19Product rumors in life
01:37:21And those pressures
01:37:22When you come
01:37:23Actually, you don't have any
01:37:24And then you don't look at your phone
01:37:25You're completely immersed
01:37:26And I don't care about him anymore
01:37:28We don't live together
01:37:29After having space
01:37:30On the contrary, the two of them really
01:37:32It's getting better
01:37:36Mr. Ji heard that they don't live together
01:37:38He took a sip of cold air
01:37:39And then he went down to the dust
01:37:41No, yesterday, that big tent
01:37:43Actually, I think it's pretty special
01:37:46What do you usually do
01:37:48You push me, I push you
01:37:50Even if I do
01:37:52He'll think I did a bad job
01:37:55I'm going to tell you
01:37:56How come you don't have that
01:37:57He said you didn't do it either
01:37:58Why don't you do it
01:37:59What
01:38:00I usually try to take on
01:38:01Homework at home
01:38:02Some things
01:38:03I had a simple chat with Shu in the afternoon
01:38:05Once we had dinner
01:38:07I finished eating first
01:38:08Put the bowl in the pool
01:38:10And then he's still eating
01:38:12And then after eating
01:38:14I might not have seen it
01:38:16He put the bowl and the dish he finished
01:38:18Put it in the pool
01:38:20And then I went out
01:38:21After going out
01:38:22He sent me a WeChat message
01:38:24Said next time
01:38:26Can you take the initiative to brush when you see the bowl
01:38:32We didn't discuss this later
01:38:34Didn't discuss
01:38:35You brushed me
01:38:36Yeah
01:38:37I haven't told you about this again
01:38:39But I was in my heart
01:38:41I talked about it
01:38:43At home
01:38:44I go to prepare food every day
01:38:47And then clean up
01:38:48Go to do
01:38:49Finished
01:38:50And then after eating
01:38:51I'll clean up
01:38:52All these things
01:38:53He sat on the sofa
01:38:54Go out and carry things
01:38:55Heavy things
01:38:56I've got three on this side
01:38:57Four on this side
01:38:58I won't let him carry one
01:38:59It's very heavy
01:39:01I think this one bowl
01:39:03It's really not worth it
01:39:04Take a picture for me
01:39:05Why don't you take the initiative
01:39:07I think it's terrible
01:39:08I did so much
01:39:10Brushed ten thousand bowls
01:39:11A thousand bowls
01:39:12Only one
01:39:13Come to me again
01:39:15I don't think it's necessary to send this WeChat
01:39:18I said
01:39:19I thought
01:39:20When I can bear it
01:39:21I took full responsibility
01:39:22When did I say
01:39:23You help me brush a bowl
01:39:25I really didn't see it
01:39:27You saw it
01:39:28Just this
01:39:29I have to send a WeChat message to me
01:39:30No
01:39:31I must have endured it for a long time
01:39:32I've brushed it many times
01:39:34I'm already
01:39:35I'm at that point
01:39:36Otherwise I won't choose to send WeChat messages
01:39:38Because every time I eat
01:39:39It's all over there
01:39:40No one cares
01:39:41And then
01:39:42I just want to say I'll wait
01:39:44And then he went out
01:39:45I didn't brush it
01:39:46I just finished brushing it
01:39:48I don't think it's the first time
01:39:49Absolutely not
01:39:50I think I'm still a
01:39:51I can bear it
01:39:52I actually paid a lot
01:39:54I actually paid a lot
01:39:57He also paid a lot
01:40:06He also paid a lot
01:40:12I may have brushed it a thousand times
01:40:13But I didn't brush it once
01:40:14Maybe I was accused
01:40:16You have a misunderstanding
01:40:18Who the hell brushed the bowl
01:40:19This is really
01:40:20Memories are different
01:40:22I was
01:40:23At the moment
01:40:24I sent him a picture
01:40:26Because that bowl
01:40:27It's not for the two of us
01:40:28He ate it himself
01:40:29And then when I was brushing his bowl
01:40:30I suddenly wanted to send
01:40:31But my words
01:40:32It's not very hard
01:40:33I have that crying expression
01:40:35But the interpretation there is
01:40:37He thinks I'm a
01:40:38Accused him
01:40:39He's a little bit
01:40:40He's a little bit
01:40:41He always thinks
01:40:42He's brushed a lot of bowls
01:40:43He said everything
01:40:44He made all the meals
01:40:45But that's not the truth
01:40:47He doesn't know
01:40:48When he didn't get up
01:40:49How much did I do
01:40:50It's in his cognition
01:40:51He thinks
01:40:52That's all the bowls
01:40:53He thinks he's packed
01:40:54All the housework
01:40:55It's all he knows
01:40:56All the housework
01:40:58But when you say that
01:40:59He hurt his pride
01:41:02I may have brushed it a thousand times
01:41:03But I didn't brush it once
01:41:04Maybe I was accused
01:41:06It's all he knows
01:41:07All the housework
01:41:12And then we have to invite you
01:41:13And our teacher Ji
01:41:14For the whole set of photos
01:41:15Everyone takes their favorite name
01:41:21I said
01:41:23White Shark Hu
01:41:24White Shark Hu
01:41:41I said
01:41:42White Shark Hu
01:41:43White Shark Hu
01:41:44White Shark Hu
01:42:10Now to see us
01:42:11Good
01:42:12Jelly's
01:42:14I think we really like this scene, what do you think, Jingjing?
01:42:22I think it can show a little bit of our current state.
01:42:31The two clocks in the living room have different speeds.
01:42:35One is mine, the other is...
01:42:37We chose which clock we thought was more like our own clock.
01:42:43So we sat on that side, and I sat on this side, and Jingjing sat on this side.
01:42:50Why did you choose 11 o'clock instead of 12 o'clock?
01:42:52Because at 12 o'clock she told me to go to bed.
01:42:56Otherwise, I might have chosen 12 o'clock.
01:42:58Because she sleeps very shallowly.
01:43:02If she wants to sleep, you must sleep.
01:43:04Otherwise, she will wake up.
01:43:07Yes, indeed.
01:43:09When I was young, she was very considerate of me in this regard.
01:43:12For example, staying up late to watch the ball.
01:43:14In fact, in order to accommodate my sleep therapy, she would often record and watch it.
01:43:19Of course, there are some big games where everyone communicates.
01:43:23I think there are a lot of people who can record and watch.
01:43:26Then sleep on the sofa.
01:43:27Very few people can do this.
01:43:28Then sleep on the sofa.
01:43:31I think my sister and brother-in-law are both very emotional and delicate people.
01:43:36Take care of each other's feelings.
01:43:38I may sometimes be similar to my brother-in-law.
01:43:41Sometimes I go to bed early.
01:43:43Then, for example, sometimes at night, I may play games with a few friends.
01:43:48I will go out.
01:43:50Yes, she chose to go out to play games.
01:43:52My brother-in-law will not play games for me.
01:43:54Yes, it's a gap.
01:44:01I'm wrong.
01:44:02Before I got married, he just left the game for me.
01:44:07He came straight to me.
01:44:08Now I said I was going out.
01:44:10He said he would wait for me to finish playing.
01:44:15Even if we stay together for a long time, I don't think there is any value in company.
01:44:20There is no time to accompany.
01:44:23Sometimes I'm not sleepy and can't sleep.
01:44:25But if he wants to sleep, he has to create an environment for him to sleep.
01:44:31People are more angry than people.
01:44:33Next one.
01:44:38Sister, I think the clothes you wear also express your personalities.
01:44:41Really?
01:44:43In my life, I pay great attention to comfort.
01:44:47Actually, I'm too busy.
01:44:49I was busy looking for a job when I was 20 or 30 years old.
01:44:54Even when I was 30 years old, I was busy looking for a job.
01:44:56I didn't have time.
01:44:58I spent an hour and a half to find a job.
01:45:02And I think it's a habit.
01:45:05When I was a kid, my family required me to do well.
01:45:10I grew up like this.
01:45:13My mom said, what's the use of being pretty?
01:45:15I wore fancy clothes all day.
01:45:17I did well.
01:45:18So I didn't care about it when I was a kid.
01:45:20When I was in college or when I just graduated from college,
01:45:23I paid a little attention to myself.
01:45:25Then I got married.
01:45:27We got married at a fast pace.
01:45:29She had a baby soon.
01:45:31The world of having a child is completely different from the world of two people.
01:45:35There is still a big difference.
01:45:38We've been together for 15 years.
01:45:39She never praised me for being beautiful.
01:45:41Beautiful.
01:45:42Beautiful.
01:45:43No way.
01:45:51Oh, my God.
01:45:55I really want to ask her.
01:45:57What do you think?
01:45:58Or you can praise her.
01:46:00It doesn't matter if you don't look good.
01:46:02You can change your clothes.
01:46:03I remember you had a beautiful dress last time.
01:46:05You took it out.
01:46:06Do you understand?
01:46:07This is an important part of your life.
01:46:10Actually, for all the girls,
01:46:12Even if I'm a clear-minded woman in everyone's heart,
01:46:15a woman who thinks everything through,
01:46:17I also care about these things.
01:46:19Because you're my partner.
01:46:21Right?
01:46:22You and I are people who have love.
01:46:25Yes.
01:46:28I remember one year I cut my hair.
01:46:31She didn't find it.
01:46:34I haven't found it for a long time.
01:46:36I don't think she found it.
01:46:37It's actually a little hurtful to me.
01:46:39I think it hurts a lot.
01:46:46Do you think there's a big gap?
01:46:48I think so.
01:46:49It's pretty big.
01:46:50The length has changed a lot.
01:46:51That...
01:46:53Brother-in-law is a little...
01:46:56You took out this little thing alone and said,
01:46:58Oh, no one found out you cut your hair.
01:46:59It doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
01:47:00But in your heart, that feeling,
01:47:03I suddenly felt
01:47:05Is there only a little bit of life left between us?
01:47:10Right?
01:47:11You can't even find out that I cut my hair.
01:47:14Actually, you said that straw was very light.
01:47:16But the camel couldn't stand it.
01:47:18It's that simple.
01:47:19He's still in a bad mood.
01:47:22There's nothing big in the marriage.
01:47:24It's a little thing.
01:47:25It's a little thing.
01:47:30But I'll interpret it from a male perspective.
01:47:32That girl cut her hair.
01:47:34We really can't see it.
01:47:36It's true.
01:47:37Look, for example, you're here now.
01:47:39You're a little shorter.
01:47:40I can't see the change at all.
01:47:42Yes.
01:47:43But you can see it when things are cut short.
01:47:44I cut my hair short.
01:47:45Of course you can't see it.
01:47:46This is the truth.
01:47:48He's staring at you every day.
01:47:50Yes.
01:47:51Mr. Ji, you're the one who hit him.
01:47:53No, I'm not that idle.
01:47:55I don't stare at him every day.
01:47:57I'm really not that idle.
01:47:58You are.
01:47:59He is.
01:48:00He's staring at you.
01:48:01You're so funny.
01:48:04You two are so funny.
01:48:05You're so funny.
01:48:12I think the biggest problem with our marriage is that
01:48:17I didn't try hard to win this marriage.
01:48:25He's reflecting.
01:48:27I know the other person needs love and romance.
01:48:31But I rarely do such a thing.
01:48:35So I'm actually sorry for that.
01:48:42He knows.
01:48:43He can't say it.
01:48:46What's the next move?
01:48:51This is Liu.
01:48:52Liu.
01:48:54I was so young at that time.
01:48:55I was so young at that time.
01:48:59I didn't want to take a wedding photo for money.
01:49:01But my mom persuaded me.
01:49:02She said,
01:49:03I need to have something.
01:49:04I need to have a memory.
01:49:07So cute.
01:49:08So young.
01:49:09We decided to get married.
01:49:10We've been together for three months.
01:49:11We decided to get married.
01:49:12I think he's nice to me.
01:49:13We get along well.
01:49:14We play together all the time.
01:49:15After we got married, I got married to him.
01:49:18My marriage has given me a lot of healing power.
01:49:21Stable.
01:49:22Safe.
01:49:23I feel safe.
01:49:24I have energy.
01:49:25When we first got married,
01:49:27we didn't have a good life.
01:49:28Sometimes I didn't eat the chestnuts.
01:49:31When he went out for a party,
01:49:32or when he was invited to a friend's house,
01:49:35he would bring some home for me.
01:49:38Or for example,
01:49:40he would bring some home for his friends or colleagues.
01:49:45That's how I feel.
01:49:47I should have cooked for him after we got married.
01:49:49He...
01:49:52was sleeping.
01:49:54I got up and cooked for him.
01:49:56But the loofah wasn't peeled yet.
01:50:00Although he said,
01:50:01why didn't you peel the loofah?
01:50:02I think he was quite happy.
01:50:04At that time,
01:50:06I didn't know how to cook at all.
01:50:12After taking a picture,
01:50:13everyone has to ask each other a question.
01:50:15Do you know what he asked me?
01:50:16What?
01:50:17Have you ever regretted marrying me?
01:50:20Have you ever regretted marrying me?
01:50:27I'll answer you right now.
01:50:29I've never regretted it.
01:50:34I'm so happy.
01:50:38I still think
01:50:40you're the one I can meet.
01:50:41No matter you're in your 20s,
01:50:43or if I make the second choice,
01:50:44you're the one who suits me the most.
01:50:47Sure.
01:50:49I'm happy.
01:51:03Liu is angry now.
01:51:05Yes, I'm happy.
01:51:07He pretends not to care.
01:51:09He doesn't know how to respond to you.
01:51:10I'm happy.
01:51:17You're in a rush to get married.
01:51:20It's what you want the most.
01:51:29I don't think this marriage
01:51:31is what I want.
01:51:35But it's the best marriage I can have.
01:51:41He thinks it's the best.
01:51:46Just like the quarrel between Shui and Shuo.
01:51:48We used to have it.
01:51:50But we had an agreement
01:51:51that we would never stay up late when we quarreled.
01:51:53So all these years,
01:51:54we've been through this day.
01:51:59I don't believe I can find a partner
01:52:01who is more suitable for me than my brother-in-law.
01:52:03I've been with him
01:52:05for just a few years,
01:52:06including the first time we separated.
01:52:08I still think my brother-in-law
01:52:10is the best partner for me
01:52:12in terms of personality
01:52:14and the way we get along.
01:52:21Why do you think my brother-in-law
01:52:22is the best partner for me?
01:52:23Because when I was young,
01:52:25I was a very insecure person.
01:52:27My brother-in-law gave me a sense of security.
01:52:29Especially when we were young,
01:52:30when we were together,
01:52:31when he went on a business trip,
01:52:33his phone ran out of battery.
01:52:34He had to borrow his colleague's phone
01:52:36to call me.
01:52:37He has never disappeared
01:52:38in my life.
01:52:39It's been 15 years
01:52:40and he hasn't disappeared for a day.
01:52:45Well said.
01:52:55What's the next one?
01:52:59My brother-in-law is shouting.
01:53:00What are you shouting for?
01:53:02I forgot.
01:53:04What?
01:53:07It must be related to you.
01:53:16We have prepared
01:53:17three speakers for you here today.
01:53:19They are
01:53:20a lie detector,
01:53:21a blessing detector
01:53:22and a truth detector.
01:53:24We hope you can
01:53:25say what you want to say
01:53:26to Fu Shouer
01:53:27in front of this lake
01:53:28and this beautiful scenery.
01:53:30I'll give you some time
01:53:31to think about it.
01:53:33OK.
01:53:42I think he should
01:53:43wish me happiness
01:53:44or
01:53:45wish me a better life.
01:53:47I think...
01:53:55The cloud over there.
01:53:59Get out of my way.
01:54:01Get out of my way.
01:54:03Let me see
01:54:05what this mountain looks like.
01:54:08All right?
01:54:09Get out of my way.
01:54:10Get out of my way.
01:54:22Which one is this?
01:54:23How do I divide this?
01:54:25Which one do you want to use first?
01:54:26Whatever.
01:54:31Tell me the truth.
01:54:36People think you are
01:54:37very strong and powerful.
01:54:39But actually,
01:54:40only I
01:54:42really know
01:54:44how hard it is for you.
01:54:46I hope you can
01:54:47take it easy in the future.
01:54:48Don't give yourself
01:54:49so much pressure.
01:54:53Wish me luck.
01:54:56I hope you can
01:54:58be loved
01:55:00in the rest of your life.
01:55:06It's all wishes.
01:55:10I think even if
01:55:11we are separated in the future,
01:55:12maybe
01:55:15basically nothing
01:55:17will change
01:55:19too much.
01:55:22It's a lie.
01:55:28I'm sorry.
01:55:40No matter how good
01:55:41our relationship is,
01:55:43it's impossible
01:55:44to be the same
01:55:45as before.
01:55:47It's impossible.
01:55:49But I believe
01:55:50when the other person
01:55:51needs something,
01:55:53we will stand up
01:55:54for the other person.
01:55:56In our past life,
01:55:58I actually
01:55:59spoil her a lot.
01:56:01Although she seems
01:56:02to be very powerful,
01:56:03she is actually
01:56:04very afraid of
01:56:05sleeping alone at night.
01:56:07Girls
01:56:09always have
01:56:10their own weaknesses.
01:56:12They need to be taken care of
01:56:13and protected.
01:56:15So I hope
01:56:17if I leave her,
01:56:20she may still
01:56:22be spoiled
01:56:23and loved
01:56:24by others.
01:56:35What I did today
01:56:36is probably
01:56:37the most out of line thing
01:56:38I've ever done.
01:56:39It seems that
01:56:40I haven't done it for many years.
01:56:41At most,
01:56:42when I was in college,
01:56:44I went to the playground
01:56:46to run
01:56:47when it rained heavily.
01:56:54Are we going to
01:56:55look at you two now?
01:56:56No.
01:56:57Name.
01:56:58Name.
01:57:01I've made up my mind.
01:57:02I think it's called family.
01:57:07I want to say that
01:57:08we have been family
01:57:09for 15 years.
01:57:11As for the future,
01:57:12we are separated.
01:57:13I don't think
01:57:14family will change.
01:57:15It won't change.
01:57:17But do you want to be a family?
01:57:18Or do you want to
01:57:19still be
01:57:21a pair of shoes?
01:57:23No.
01:57:28I've made up my mind
01:57:29this time.
01:57:30If I really
01:57:31end this journey,
01:57:32I still feel that
01:57:33the love between us
01:57:34has fallen to zero.
01:57:36I must face it bravely.
01:57:37We will purely
01:57:38return to
01:57:39the relationship of friends,
01:57:40family,
01:57:41or relatives.
01:57:42So brave.
01:57:44As for myself,
01:57:45I don't know what my brother-in-law thinks.
01:57:46I hope that
01:57:47there is still love between us.
01:57:48He hopes so.
01:57:49He doesn't want to be separated.
01:57:51Without love,
01:57:52we can't face it.
01:57:53Right?
01:57:54I also made up my mind
01:57:55to come to this show.
01:57:57I think that
01:57:58if a woman like me
01:57:59can't face the reality,
01:58:01then what I said to everyone
01:58:02on the Internet
01:58:03that I would
01:58:06break the shackles
01:58:08and explore
01:58:09a better future
01:58:11is all fake.
01:58:13Yes.
01:58:14Even if people say today
01:58:16that even if you
01:58:17get divorced again,
01:58:18I think
01:58:20I have to face it
01:58:21no matter what happens.
01:58:23Great.
01:58:24Very great.
01:58:27She has a name.
01:58:30Time difference.
01:58:34Time difference
01:58:35is an objective thing.
01:58:37But
01:58:38today I am
01:58:42here
01:58:44past 12 o'clock.
01:58:46Then maybe a few hours later,
01:58:47other places
01:58:48will
01:58:50be past 12 o'clock.
01:58:52There is a difference
01:58:55but there is also a common point.
01:58:57When you reach
01:58:59this common point,
01:59:00you can never
01:59:02be at the same time.
01:59:11Actually, when we knew each other,
01:59:12we were not so equal.
01:59:13My personality
01:59:14and my brother-in-law's personality
01:59:15can be said that
01:59:16we didn't change anything for each other.
01:59:18I think for so many years,
01:59:19we have changed a little bit.
01:59:21Qianqiu, you sleep.
01:59:22For example, in terms of time,
01:59:23I
01:59:25communicate with him
01:59:26and change a little bit.
01:59:27But in fact,
01:59:28we haven't made
01:59:29a big change
01:59:30for each other.
01:59:31Do you agree with this?
01:59:36So in fact,
01:59:37your work
01:59:38has gone further
01:59:39and better
01:59:40over the years.
01:59:41Then there was
01:59:42a big change.
01:59:44In fact, everyone
01:59:45has always thought
01:59:46that she may
01:59:47be a very strong person
01:59:49and a person
01:59:50who can see through
01:59:51everything.
01:59:53But in fact,
01:59:54few people
01:59:55know how difficult
01:59:56she has been
01:59:57for so many years
01:59:58than I do.
02:00:08Girls hate to hear this kind of words.
02:00:16I hope that
02:00:17she will have
02:00:19a better life
02:00:21in the future.
02:00:45If I still exist now,
02:00:49it may not be
02:00:51a good thing
02:00:52for her.
02:01:15Actually,
02:01:16when I was 40 years old this year,
02:01:17I wrote a
02:01:18birthday wish
02:01:19for myself.
02:01:23I said,
02:01:24I'm finally 40 years old.
02:01:26I feel the weight of my life.
02:01:28I think I can finally
02:01:31live up to my age.
02:01:33In fact,
02:01:34in my memory,
02:01:35I feel that
02:01:36I have never been young.
02:01:41I just have to carry it all the time.
02:01:43I think she knows
02:01:44she has to carry it all the time.
02:01:45This pressure
02:01:46may come from the outside world,
02:01:47but it may also come from herself.
02:01:49She has too many requirements for herself.
02:01:50She wants to be a good mother,
02:01:51a good daughter,
02:01:53a good self,
02:01:55and a good wife.
02:01:58It's not that easy.
02:01:59Really.
02:02:00That's why
02:02:01when I go on the show,
02:02:02people always ask me a question.
02:02:03How to balance
02:02:04career and family?
02:02:06I have never asked many times before.
02:02:08I will answer seriously.
02:02:10How did I do it?
02:02:12One day,
02:02:13I will answer honestly.
02:02:15Why do we women
02:02:16have to balance
02:02:17career and family?
02:02:26This answer
02:02:27really gave me a big shock.
02:02:30I suddenly felt that
02:02:31I didn't have to do it.
02:02:34I set so many tasks for myself
02:02:37and have so many requirements for myself.
02:02:40So I think before I was 40 years old,
02:02:41I did a good job in my life.
02:02:43Can I think about
02:02:45changing my life
02:02:47in the future?
02:02:49This is the biggest motivation
02:02:50for me to come here this time.
02:02:52My brother-in-law's proposal
02:02:53also gave me a shock.
02:03:01I used to be
02:03:02a very ordinary person.
02:03:03I was in the office team.
02:03:05Then I became a choreographer.
02:03:07Now I'm going to be
02:03:08a screenwriter and a director.
02:03:09I will always pursue
02:03:11my dream when I was young
02:03:13and unfinished things.
02:03:15I always think that
02:03:16if I were not such a person,
02:03:18I may be very happy
02:03:19in this marriage.
02:03:22This is why I made this choice.
02:03:39In fact, I took the initiative to mention it on this show.
02:03:42With my state
02:03:43and others in this marriage,
02:03:45it is also a kind of harm to the other party.
02:04:10Separation
02:04:12may not be a good choice.
02:04:17According to my current mentality,
02:04:20the possibility of our separation
02:04:23is more than 80%.
02:04:32But I'm not sure
02:04:34how much it is.
02:04:35It's just a vague feeling
02:04:36that takes a lot of weight.
02:04:41There are two main reasons.
02:04:42One is habit.
02:04:45The other is
02:04:49a little reluctant.
02:04:52If you feel the other person's need for you
02:04:55in these 20 days of close interaction,
02:04:58will you give up 20% of the space?
02:05:01Yes.
02:05:02I still need it.
02:05:06I still need it.
02:05:07I still need it.
02:05:08I still need it.
02:05:09I still need it.
02:05:10I still need it.
02:05:11I still need it.
02:05:12I still need it.
02:05:13I still need it.
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02:06:00I still need it.
02:06:01I still need it.
02:06:02I still need it.
02:06:03I still need it.
02:06:04Especially like what So-Er said.
02:06:08A woman who is 40 years old.
02:06:10What is the future you want?
02:06:12Maybe she doesn't want to give up on love.
02:06:15But she doesn't feel loved in this relationship.
02:06:18It's like she keeps chasing her dream.
02:06:21And she doesn't face her true feelings honestly.
02:06:25So she has to do this.
02:06:27Of course she is reluctant.
02:06:30This relationship of more than 10 years
02:06:32includes a lot of responsibilities
02:06:34that ordinary people can't understand.
02:06:38And reluctance.
02:06:40But you still have to face it.
02:06:42Because she has a problem.
02:06:45I think maybe Melody
02:06:46can understand this couple the best.
02:06:47Because I just calculated.
02:06:54No, because I think
02:06:55I am the same age as them.
02:06:57And I can understand
02:06:58that sometimes a couple
02:06:59will reach a point.
02:07:02Whether it's a difference in personality
02:07:04or rhythm.
02:07:05She just can't solve it.
02:07:08Then it becomes a strange pressure.
02:07:11Yes.
02:07:12The more you want to solve it,
02:07:13the more pressure you have.
02:07:14Then you feel
02:07:15that you shouldn't ask the other person to change.
02:07:17Because you may not be able to
02:07:18make so many changes yourself.
02:07:20The whole thing will be very tight.
02:07:22You will become very
02:07:23not flexible.
02:07:24Yes.
02:07:26I am very worried now.
02:07:29My husband and I
02:07:30are very similar to each other.
02:07:33Really.
02:07:34Including the time he takes to accommodate me to sleep.
02:07:36I belong to
02:07:37If he lies next to me now,
02:07:38I can't sleep.
02:07:40So we have a rule that
02:07:41I have to wait for me to sleep deeply every day
02:07:43before he can come in and sleep.
02:07:46He was very sleepy the other day.
02:07:47He was so sleepy.
02:07:48He said, can I sleep with you?
02:07:51OK, go to sleep.
02:07:53He lied next to me and fell asleep.
02:07:54I was angry all night.
02:07:57Because I couldn't sleep.
02:07:58He is very cooperative with you.
02:07:59He is very cooperative.
02:08:00He told me exactly the same thing.
02:08:02He said, I hope you can relax.
02:08:05Don't give yourself so much pressure.
02:08:07It's exactly the same.
02:08:09But sometimes the other half
02:08:10talking about this
02:08:11is even more stressful for us.
02:08:13Because if we can relax,
02:08:14we are not us.
02:08:15Yes.
02:08:16But you know he is because
02:08:17maybe he cares about you.
02:08:18Yes.
02:08:21I am very worried now.
02:08:24Don't worry.
02:08:25Don't worry.
02:08:26I think you can find
02:08:27a place to eat together.
02:08:29Drink coffee together.
02:08:30You will have the next solution.
02:08:32Yes.
02:08:33I think the terrible thing
02:08:34between a couple is
02:08:36take it for granted.
02:08:38For example,
02:08:39you think you need
02:08:41the value of this emotion.
02:08:43Then this person
02:08:44may not be able to express it like this.
02:08:46He just won't observe
02:08:47that your hair has changed.
02:08:48He just won't say I love you.
02:08:49Then you keep asking him.
02:08:51In fact, it's a problem for him.
02:08:52Give him pressure.
02:08:53Then you think
02:08:54OK, then I won't ask him.
02:08:55I'll let him be more comfortable.
02:08:57But when you don't ask him,
02:08:59you don't expect anything.
02:09:00Yes.
02:09:01Then your relationship
02:09:02becomes flat.
02:09:04Then he also feels that
02:09:05he didn't ask me.
02:09:07Then I am also very comfortable.
02:09:08Then I will continue to lie flat.
02:09:10I watch my TV.
02:09:11I eat my peanuts.
02:09:12Like this.
02:09:13Yes.
02:09:14Then slowly
02:09:15the life of two people
02:09:16becomes more and more parallel.
02:09:19Like Liu's reaction just now.
02:09:22In fact, I think
02:09:23it is the easiest to appear
02:09:24in the case of low desire.
02:09:26You know, when a person
02:09:27is pursuing a girl,
02:09:28when he is full of high desire,
02:09:30he will want to pay attention
02:09:31that I want to praise his shoes today.
02:09:33Observe his hairstyle
02:09:34and see if there is anything to praise.
02:09:35It's just that your observation
02:09:37is not natural.
02:09:39It depends on whether you want to achieve something.
02:09:41What do you want to pursue?
02:09:42What do you want to get?
02:09:44And when you have discovered
02:09:45that I actually
02:09:46don't want to get anything anymore.
02:09:48I'm fine.
02:09:49I am also very happy alone.
02:09:50When I am happy,
02:09:51when I am happy,
02:09:52your observation is very natural.
02:09:54It's not a matter of eyesight.
02:09:56Many people say that
02:09:57boys have poor observation.
02:09:58Boys observe
02:09:59the customer very accurately.
02:10:00He observes
02:10:01the boss's needs very accurately.
02:10:04I think sometimes
02:10:05because there is no desire,
02:10:06it is easy for us to understand it
02:10:07as if there is no love.
02:10:08I think sometimes
02:10:09there is actually a part
02:10:10to interpret it this way.
02:10:11But there is another reason
02:10:12for no desire.
02:10:13It's called
02:10:14this relationship is too stable.
02:10:16Yes.
02:10:17It's already stable.
02:10:18You know,
02:10:19in this safe and predictable environment,
02:10:21we won't observe.
02:10:23Yes.
02:10:24In fact, maybe for Liu,
02:10:25this 15-year relationship
02:10:27has completely forgotten
02:10:28anything he thinks
02:10:29is beyond expectation
02:10:31or something
02:10:32that feels fresh and unknown.
02:10:35In fact, many people will think
02:10:37that I already know you love me.
02:10:38You don't need to say it.
02:10:40We have been living together
02:10:41for more than ten years.
02:10:42Do you still need to say that?
02:10:44I have been with Ge Li
02:10:45for ten years.
02:10:46Almost every day
02:10:48I have told her
02:10:49that you know I like you very much.
02:10:52Really.
02:10:53So sweet.
02:10:54So warm.
02:10:55It's good to like this word.
02:10:57Cute.
02:10:58Yes.
02:10:59And even if she listens to it ten thousand times,
02:11:00she is still happy.
02:11:01But she is still very happy.
02:11:02She is still very happy.
02:11:04Don't underestimate the power of a word.
02:11:06If you think
02:11:07a word won't change anything,
02:11:09then you say it ten thousand times.
02:11:12There will be something different.
02:11:14But if that person
02:11:15can't say it,
02:11:16like Liu,
02:11:17learn to say it.
02:11:18Let me tell you.
02:11:19Your habit is problematic.
02:11:21So if you are not used to saying this word,
02:11:23get used to it.
02:11:25Yes.
02:11:26Didn't you say that your husband is very smart?
02:11:28He didn't see your change.
02:11:29He will praise you first.
02:11:30Yes.
02:11:31He is very cooperative.
02:11:32And he cut his bangs before.
02:11:35He can't see it.
02:11:36But he will learn.
02:11:38There is no change at all.
02:11:39He will say
02:11:41Have you been using
02:11:43beauty products recently?
02:11:44No.
02:11:45What's wrong?
02:11:47This is very good.
02:11:48Then you wear one.
02:11:49For example,
02:11:50this suit is my own private suit.
02:11:52I've worn it once.
02:11:53You wear it again.
02:11:55It looks good.
02:11:57When did I buy it?
02:11:58Why haven't I seen you wear it before?
02:12:01I cut my bangs.
02:12:0290% of the people around me can't see it.
02:12:04I asked him
02:12:05Can't you see that I cut my bangs?
02:12:07Fix it.
02:12:09As soon as you came in, I could see it.
02:12:11It's too obvious.
02:12:12That's great.
02:12:13Who cut it this time?
02:12:16Not bad.
02:12:17When will you go next time?
02:12:18I'll drive you there.
02:12:19I want to learn from your husband.
02:12:20Don't you think you're a little talkative now?
02:12:23I think
02:12:24Like Liu,
02:12:25this way
02:12:26It really makes people feel heavy.
02:12:28I feel like your husband
02:12:29A little bit of that
02:12:30That kind of wisdom
02:12:32In fact, it will make people
02:12:33It's really easier.
02:12:36Isn't that what Fu Shouer wants?
02:12:38I don't know if a man
02:12:39Will you feel that when you're 40?
02:12:40But I think
02:12:42When a woman is 40,
02:12:44There will be a kind of
02:12:45You'll feel like
02:12:46The second half of your life and the first half of your life
02:12:49You should make a change.
02:12:52Yeah.
02:12:53Shouer has always said
02:12:54He wants love.
02:12:55It's very brave.
02:12:56If I don't want love
02:12:58Why would I have this marriage?
02:13:01What is it?
02:13:02It's just for fun.
02:13:03At first, of course, it's love.
02:13:05But it will change.
02:13:06Yeah, especially if you have a
02:13:08More than ten years
02:13:09It looks like a very successful marriage.
02:13:11You said I needed this love, too.
02:13:13It really takes courage.
02:13:14Because for a woman
02:13:16You're already in a marriage.
02:13:17You still say you want love.
02:13:18People will say
02:13:19What are you thinking?
02:13:21You're already
02:13:22It's already good.
02:13:23Are you asking too much?
02:13:25People around you will give you a lot of ideas.
02:13:27It makes you feel like you're stupid.
02:13:30So because love has a feature
02:13:32Love is actually unnecessary.
02:13:34I think love is important.
02:13:36This is exactly where love is important.
02:13:39Yeah.
02:13:40He's letting us be alone.
02:13:41Even when we're old
02:13:43I still feel like
02:13:44The only reason for my uniqueness
02:13:46Actually, in our generation
02:13:48A lot of people
02:13:49No love in a lifetime
02:13:50But if there is a person
02:13:52Up to 40 years old
02:13:53Still looking for love
02:13:54Or he thinks
02:13:55At least I hope I have love in my life.
02:13:57This is a great thing.
02:13:59Because I actually
02:14:00I have a lot of elders.
02:14:02They actually like it.
02:14:04Want love
02:14:06I see my parents
02:14:08Already 70 years old
02:14:09My mother is still jealous.
02:14:12My mother stares at my dad every day.
02:14:14I said mom
02:14:15He has already opened two wide joints.
02:14:18He has a problem walking.
02:14:20You stare at him every day.
02:14:21What can he do?
02:14:22This is vital.
02:14:24My mother said
02:14:25Where did he go now?
02:14:28I said where else can he go?
02:14:29This is my home.
02:14:30This is my sister's home.
02:14:31Jealousy is good.
02:14:32Jealousy is a kind of vitality.
02:14:34My mother still maintains this girl's heart.
02:14:37My father's wedding anniversary every year
02:14:39My mother will say
02:14:40This old man
02:14:42He must have forgotten what day it is today.
02:14:44He just doesn't care.
02:14:46He doesn't know
02:14:47Then my mother is talking back.
02:14:49Because my dad, he must know.
02:14:50Then at night
02:14:51He will give him a surprise.
02:14:53From the back of the car
02:14:55Take out a bouquet of flowers
02:14:56My mother
02:14:57He said
02:14:58Wife
02:14:59Happy Anniversary
02:15:01Let my mother be like this
02:15:02Stinky old man
02:15:04I just want to say
02:15:05Did you forget?
02:15:06Less of this
02:15:08But just happy
02:15:09Yes
02:15:10You see the 70-year-old man.
02:15:11There is a girl's heart on that face.
02:15:15Everyone needs to be needed.
02:15:17Yes
02:15:19I think actually
02:15:20Shouer has put him
02:15:21Things you want
02:15:22It's all very clear.
02:15:23I need love.
02:15:24I think love is originally
02:15:26We all need love.
02:15:28Yes
02:15:29Love is beautiful
02:15:30This is a beautiful thing.
02:15:33Do you think you need love?
02:15:36I need
02:15:37Yes
02:15:38Then you will be 50 years old in the future.
02:15:39Do you still need love?
02:15:40I need
02:15:41Yes
02:15:42You should also pursue love.
02:15:44Yes
02:15:45So I will
02:15:46Just like you just said
02:15:47That 40-year-old decision
02:15:48I did it at the age of 30.
02:15:50I am
02:15:51The limit given to me is
02:15:52These to do before 30
02:15:54Then you understand better
02:15:56I think people are a little selfish.
02:15:58To be responsible for oneself
02:16:00Responsible for your own happiness
02:16:02Yes, then
02:16:03Don't say it selfishly.
02:16:04This is normal.
02:16:05Because you don't feed yourself
02:16:06Who feeds you
02:16:07Yes
02:16:08Really
02:16:09This is the case in love.
02:16:11You have to fight for yourself.
02:16:13I think Poppy looks very calm.
02:16:15But go home
02:16:16She must be a hot fire
02:16:17She looks like
02:16:18It looks very chill outside.
02:16:22But I think it is
02:16:24Women are often
02:16:27More than 45 years old
02:16:29I feel ashamed to say
02:16:31My desire for love
02:16:33I remember very clearly
02:16:34It was when I was in high school.
02:16:35At that time, my parents
02:16:37Then there was a Valentine's Day.
02:16:39My dad rarely drove to pick up my mother.
02:16:41Off work
02:16:42Then that night
02:16:43My dad drove to pick up my mother.
02:16:45Then I bought a bouquet of roses on the side of the road.
02:16:47Then give it to my mother
02:16:49Then my mother that day
02:16:50I remember
02:16:51Just like your mother
02:16:52Just say
02:16:53Waste money
02:16:54What are you doing with this kind of thing?
02:16:55How can you show it to others?
02:16:57happy
02:16:58Yes, but in fact, she was very happy.
02:17:01Is my parents divorced?
02:17:02Divorced when I was 20 years old
02:17:03I
02:17:04I always feel
02:17:05My parents' marriage
02:17:06I feel sorry for them.
02:17:08Such a moment
02:17:10Too little
02:17:12So you have felt since you were a child.
02:17:14The contradictions in their marriage
02:17:16They have too many contradictions.
02:17:17Just fought for 20 years
02:17:19Fight
02:17:20But there are so many spiritual hearts in the middle.
02:17:22About the moment of love
02:17:24Can be remembered by me
02:17:26But I don't know if they can remember it.
02:17:28Correct
02:17:30Yes, the feeling is
02:17:32I think
02:17:33No matter how old people are
02:17:35Have to pursue love
02:17:36Yes
02:17:37Wang Shiqin and Lao Ji
02:17:38It should be that the child has love.
02:17:40I think
02:17:41Do you think
02:17:42Have
02:17:43When he shortened
02:17:44That Wang Wang Shiqin
02:17:46He is crying
02:17:47Correct
02:17:48I think
02:17:49When Lao Ji grabbed his hand
02:17:50He actually said that sentence
02:17:51Quite gentle
02:17:52He asked
02:17:53I want to hold you like this
02:17:54Can it be
02:17:55When Lao Ji turns like this
02:17:56One by one
02:17:57In fact, you have to know
02:17:58The other end is sitting
02:18:00Wang Shiqin can eat a little
02:18:01Yes, Shiqin
02:18:02He can move by himself
02:18:03Not only one side is moving
02:18:04Then you decide
02:18:05Can I
02:18:06Yes
02:18:07Relationship is very flexible
02:18:08If you think like this
02:18:09I won't feel so confident
02:18:11Yes, I think in Lao Ji and Wang Shiqin
02:18:13In this process
02:18:14Then you will find
02:18:15The two of them see
02:18:16The appearance of this home is different
02:18:18Correct
02:18:19What he sees is this side
02:18:20What he sees is the inside and outside
02:18:21Yes
02:18:22I think when the feeling is good
02:18:23It's called you forget
02:18:24I help you remember
02:18:25Help you review
02:18:26Bad feelings
02:18:27It's called you forget
02:18:28I remember it myself
02:18:29Yes
02:18:30It's not a big deal
02:18:31People will forget
02:18:32Yes
02:18:33You want the relationship to become a memory contest
02:18:35It's so stressful
02:18:36Yes
02:18:37Who can finish it
02:18:38I didn't figure it out until the end
02:18:39Who washed more
02:18:40Yes
02:18:41They just need to install a surveillance camera
02:18:43Then ask the neighbor every day
02:18:45Who do you think we both wear well
02:18:48Send it to the Internet every day
02:18:49Ask netizens
02:18:50Their truth can be publicized
02:18:53Let's take a look at that
02:18:54Sui Sui
02:18:55And that
02:18:56Zhang Shuo
02:18:57Look at the next paragraph
02:18:59Let's take a look at the quarrel
02:19:01Let's take a look at Shuo Shuo and Shui Shui
02:19:02This group
02:19:07This is what Shuo just said
02:19:08The puzzle, right
02:19:09Yes
02:19:10It's a good shot
02:19:12Just unhappy
02:19:13Forced to shoot
02:19:15All of these
02:19:16A small piece
02:19:17Is to form
02:19:20Maybe for the two of us
02:19:21Form a complete family
02:19:22Factor
02:19:24The gray is the background
02:19:25We need to start from the red
02:19:27One by one
02:19:28Take out the key words that we agree on
02:19:30To put it together
02:19:32The two of them are very similar
02:19:35Both of them are holding the board
02:19:37You can talk about it in detail
02:19:39Let him think
02:19:41You talk too much
02:19:43You didn't even say anything
02:19:46Is
02:19:48Now put together
02:19:49The two of us agree
02:19:50All
02:19:51I don't want the kid's idea
02:19:52Because I think the two of us
02:19:54Now
02:19:56Emotional problems
02:19:57Not yet handled
02:19:58That's right
02:19:59Yes
02:20:02Isn't the child suffering?
02:20:03Isn't it
02:20:05I think the child is emotional
02:20:06Push to a certain stage
02:20:08A product
02:20:09But it's true that you two
02:20:10I think it's rational
02:20:11Because sometimes
02:20:12At the very least
02:20:13To a state of balance
02:20:14Right
02:20:15Correct
02:20:17Then about parents
02:20:20We are to each other
02:20:22Parents are very satisfied
02:20:25And our parents
02:20:27It's good for us, too
02:20:30He actually said something today
02:20:31It's pretty
02:20:32I feel bad
02:20:33Just that sentence
02:20:34He said marry me
02:20:35It's all because my parents are good to him
02:20:37He thinks
02:20:39My parents are such good people
02:20:41The son who handed it over
02:20:42I don't think it's bad
02:20:43Walk the heart
02:20:45Besides that
02:20:46No other reason
02:20:47Want to marry me
02:20:52I don't think when I was young
02:20:53Will say hurtful words
02:20:56Because I'm in my twenties
02:20:57I'm right
02:20:58I said I would marry you later
02:21:03I think a lot of wives
02:21:04In marriage
02:21:05Have said this
02:21:07But this is
02:21:08Very hurtful
02:21:12So what he said
02:21:13He remembered in his heart
02:21:14It's actually possible
02:21:15It's a lie
02:21:16How could you just because
02:21:17His parents are good to you
02:21:18You can't
02:21:19How could you just because
02:21:20His parents are good to you
02:21:21You can't
02:21:22But he would think
02:21:23That's it
02:21:24Is that what people who love each other are like?
02:21:25Don't take angry words as true
02:21:28Listen to it
02:21:32And then behind me
02:21:33One is Jiawu
02:21:35Jiawu just started
02:21:37We just started
02:21:38Because of this
02:21:40Because I
02:21:41I'm from the north
02:21:42I just
02:21:43Wait a minute
02:21:44Interrupt
02:21:45I'm sorry
02:21:46Don't say you're from the north
02:21:47So you think Jiawu
02:21:48I shouldn't say that
02:21:49Then you say
02:21:50You personally think
02:21:51Jiawu should have a female constellation
02:21:52It shouldn't be said
02:21:53People in the north think
02:21:54Jiawu should have a female constellation
02:21:55What do you think of other people in the north?
02:21:56Just don't let him throw the pot
02:22:00I can only say that you are more
02:22:02Deadly
02:22:03Transmission concept
02:22:04What do you think
02:22:05He has to admit
02:22:07Yes
02:22:08So who did it?
02:22:09I'll find the aunt
02:22:11It's about Jiawu
02:22:12It's like
02:22:13It's out
02:22:14Yes
02:22:15And then it's not because of this
02:22:16Yes
02:22:17This contradiction is actually
02:22:18In life
02:22:19It's actually solved
02:22:20Yes, it's actually solved
02:22:21But he still feels in his heart
02:22:22I should cook for him
02:22:26This is the first step to cooking
02:22:27Have to start a fire first
02:22:29Why do you want me to cook
02:22:30When you think about it
02:22:31Or what
02:22:32I want to experience it
02:22:33I haven't experienced it
02:22:34I don't know the next few days
02:22:35Is there a chance to
02:22:38Try
02:22:40Have another meal with him
02:22:42I want you to finish this
02:22:44Push it every now and then
02:22:46Yes
02:22:47Is cooking
02:22:48Emotional needs
02:22:49Or
02:22:50You have to ask him
02:22:51I don't know
02:22:52Emotional needs
02:22:53Because sometimes I want to
02:22:56I think this is a love
02:22:57Yes
02:22:59I think it's two different things
02:23:01You said you couldn't cook, right
02:23:02I cook all the food in my house
02:23:05He cooks his own food
02:23:06And then I'm a
02:23:07A person who usually orders takeout
02:23:11Because the two of us eat
02:23:12It's basically not at the same time
02:23:13Not at the same time
02:23:15Same as us
02:23:17He eats his own
02:23:18I'm always busy in the morning
02:23:19I cooked a lot of food with my aunt in the morning
02:23:25Bring it to the table
02:23:26And then the old man got up
02:23:28I said, let's eat
02:23:29The old man said
02:23:30I don't eat this in the morning
02:23:31I want to eat milk bread
02:23:32Okay
02:23:35He has something to say
02:23:41I think this show
02:23:43It's a journey
02:23:44It's hard for me to remember
02:23:48He might think he's not telling the truth
02:23:50Or exaggerated or something
02:23:51And then he doesn't want to refute him
02:23:53You're right
02:23:54He doesn't want to expose him
02:23:55Go on
02:23:58Otherwise, every time I do
02:24:00Is a
02:24:02A very annoying person
02:24:03No, I think
02:24:04Otherwise I can't say anything
02:24:06As long as I say
02:24:07Can't say
02:24:08Can't say
02:24:09I'll keep going
02:24:10You guys keep talking
02:24:13The more people there are
02:24:14He's willing to take some of my stuff
02:24:16Bring it up
02:24:17No matter how
02:24:18There are some things he remembered wrong
02:24:19Or something
02:24:20Maybe it doesn't fit the facts
02:24:22It makes me feel bad
02:24:23face
02:24:25It's the same with eating with friends
02:24:26As soon as there are more people, they start talking about me
02:24:28This, that, this, that
02:24:29I said, why do you have to talk about me
02:24:31You can talk about your business
02:24:32There's nothing else to be happy about
02:24:33I have to point at me
02:24:35A step on me
02:24:36And get your laugh
02:24:38The reason he didn't say
02:24:39It's because he thought
02:24:40What his wife said wasn't true
02:24:41Then why don't you
02:24:42Refute him face to face on the spot
02:24:44Or say
02:24:45Let's talk about this
02:24:46A more in-depth communication
02:24:49If you talk to each other face to face
02:24:51I think
02:24:53It's easy to get into a
02:24:56A big fight
02:24:57And I think we met on the spot
02:25:00It's just been a few days
02:25:02I'm in people's feelings
02:25:04Maybe it's more mature and mature
02:25:06Older
02:25:07If I go to him again because of this
02:25:09Face to face
02:25:10It makes me look like I care
02:25:12It's actually a trick
02:25:14It's always
02:25:16Fall into this state
02:25:18It's a loss
02:25:26This one is interesting
02:25:27This one
02:25:31There's a story about this one
02:25:32The photographer kept saying
02:25:34Can you two get closer
02:25:35Can you get closer
02:25:37Do you two want to stand closer
02:25:43Who can go a little further in the middle
02:25:47Can you stand a little closer
02:25:50It's so awkward
02:25:56I still think
02:25:58Take the initiative
02:25:59This story
02:26:01I think it's because it's work
02:26:03Right?
02:26:04I didn't finish this joint work
02:26:09I think I was still
02:26:10You say it
02:26:11You say it yourself
02:26:12I don't
02:26:14I feel wronged, actually
02:26:16Say it
02:26:17Yeah, you say it
02:26:18You say it
02:26:19Say it if you feel wronged
02:26:22It's that time
02:26:23I think
02:26:24I think I'm close
02:26:25There's nothing to prove
02:26:26Or to express
02:26:27I think
02:26:30That's me
02:26:31I leaned over there
02:26:32And then you don't want to lean
02:26:33I'll lean a little more
02:26:34It's that simple
02:26:35Nothing else
02:26:36What do you feel wronged about
02:26:38I feel wronged about this whole thing
02:26:40Let's talk about the whole thing
02:26:43Let's look back first
02:26:44All right
02:26:50How about this
02:26:53This is the two of them
02:26:54The two pieces of puzzle that I can't get through
02:26:56Yeah
02:26:57I might be a little helpless right now
02:26:59We should be
02:27:01There's a dispute in words
02:27:02It's on the spot
02:27:05It's after this picture
02:27:08I might be out of control
02:27:10I'm not helpless
02:27:11That sentence to me
02:27:12It's already
02:27:14Very cruel
02:27:15The words you said to me
02:27:16It's even worse than this
02:27:19I'm in
02:27:23You love to record, don't you
02:27:24I don't want to record either
02:27:28We got this
02:27:29And then
02:27:30Did he express it
02:27:31What he cares about is the bottom line
02:27:33I said, actually
02:27:34As long as we solve the problem of communication
02:27:36What about the rest of our puzzles
02:27:37I think we can solve them all
02:27:39He thinks
02:27:41I didn't even take care of what he cares about
02:27:45No, it's not that
02:27:46In the end, he turned his face
02:27:47Is it because of the bottom line
02:27:49There's something I might be able to do
02:27:50I can tell my friends very firmly
02:27:52You did it wrong
02:27:54Maybe I'm talking like this
02:27:55I only used 50% of my strength
02:27:57But he could
02:27:58In another way
02:27:59You do this
02:28:00Yeah
02:28:01He thinks this sentence
02:28:02He's already used up 90% of his strength
02:28:06But it still doesn't meet your requirements
02:28:10I can wait for you to do this
02:28:12But it's not that you're perfunctory
02:28:14And then you tell me
02:28:15You're already 90%
02:28:16I really can't do anything about the bottom line
02:28:19I'm because of the communication
02:28:21Quarrel with the bottom line you said
02:28:23Shouldn't we talk about the bottom line first
02:28:25Let's talk about the bottom line
02:28:26I want to hear the bottom line
02:28:27I want to hear your moral standards
02:28:29My moral bottom line
02:28:30I already expressed it yesterday
02:28:31So what did you do after you expressed it
02:28:34Buddy, I got married in 2020
02:28:36Hey, buddy
02:28:37No one saved your life, did you
02:28:41I don't want to talk about this
02:28:42Because you did a bad thing
02:28:43Don't you want to talk
02:28:44He didn't
02:28:45He just won't let him go
02:28:46I don't do it, you say I don't do it
02:28:48I did it, and you're talking about these things
02:28:49What are you doing
02:28:50So am I doing it or not
02:28:52Have you ever considered
02:28:53This may also be my bottom line
02:28:54Your bottom line is
02:28:55I can't tear it off with friends
02:28:57No, I'm talking about your words
02:28:58Forced, forced communication
02:29:00When you're angry, I'll tell you
02:29:01You either let me roll
02:29:02Or let me shut up
02:29:04My communication is really wrong
02:29:06How could I have such a strong way of communication
02:29:08Where is the root of the problem
02:29:11You promised me you couldn't do it
02:29:12Then you are
02:29:13Disappointing my trust in you
02:29:16Your so-called communication is
02:29:17Wait until you're done
02:29:19Then come to me
02:29:20The same thing happened a second time
02:29:21I was angry
02:29:22Is it
02:29:23You care about that white face
02:29:24You didn't get angry
02:29:25Some things are supposed to be black and white
02:29:26I just have to insist
02:29:27It's a matter of the bottom line.
02:29:29I think I'm right to have a white face.
02:29:38Next one.
02:29:42You see, they used to have a sweet relationship.
02:29:44Really.
02:29:46You two are so cute in this picture.
02:29:49They are a clear contrast.
02:29:51It's really touching.
02:29:57It really is.
02:29:59And then it turned out like this.
02:30:03When was this taken?
02:30:04It was...
02:30:05The wedding photo.
02:30:06Two years ago, right?
02:30:07Three years.
02:30:10The contrast in this picture is really...
02:30:13It took a lot of effort.
02:30:15The difference between before and after the wedding.
02:30:18At that moment, I felt very complicated.
02:30:21I was confused.
02:30:23I was anxious.
02:30:24I regretted it.
02:30:26But I was happy to take that kind of picture.
02:30:32But in that picture,
02:30:34our emotions were all
02:30:35scattered.
02:30:51The contrast in this picture is really...
02:31:12Then you have to give the name to this group of photos.
02:31:15I actually just want to give a question mark.
02:31:17He still doesn't understand.
02:31:19He doesn't understand.
02:31:21He doesn't know what to do.
02:31:22I think everything is a problem.
02:31:24And then all these elements,
02:31:26including our quarrel,
02:31:27including so many things that we can't reach a consensus,
02:31:30put together,
02:31:31it becomes a new problem.
02:31:32All six of us can understand.
02:31:33Why doesn't he understand?
02:31:35I said I gave a question mark.
02:31:37Have you thought about it?
02:31:39No.
02:31:42Have you thought about it?
02:31:45I really can't remember.
02:31:46I have nothing to say.
02:31:51I really want to ask you a question.
02:31:52You quarreled like this.
02:31:55Why?
02:31:58Why haven't you broken up yet?
02:32:00Yes.
02:32:01I don't think it's necessary to break up
02:32:02on the show even if you quarrel like this.
02:32:06I'm like this.
02:32:07Now my solution is
02:32:09to find an outlet for my emotions.
02:32:11I can quickly escape from it.
02:32:14Escape.
02:32:15Escape.
02:32:16It's not to digest it.
02:32:17It's to escape.
02:32:22Emotions can be digested.
02:32:23But the problem is that I have to escape from it.
02:32:26He understands.
02:32:27After I escaped from that emotion,
02:32:30I still think
02:32:32he is the one I love.
02:32:39But your expression
02:32:40means that the problem is still there.
02:32:41Yes.
02:32:42In the future, there will be continuous problems
02:32:43to join your rule.
02:32:45And the possibility of explosion is getting bigger and bigger.
02:32:48Thank you.
02:32:49You know he won't do it
02:32:50according to your requirements.
02:32:52What makes you
02:32:55keep asking for it?
02:32:57It's like
02:32:58bringing the mouth of our observation room
02:33:00into it.
02:33:02I went on this show
02:33:03mainly for the big thing
02:33:04last night.
02:33:05I did it for this.
02:33:07We've been together for three years.
02:33:09Maybe it's just
02:33:10because of this specific thing.
02:33:12He is really...
02:33:13He is so bold.
02:33:16He is waiting for this chance.
02:33:18I think
02:33:19you are in the wrong direction.
02:33:20You should think
02:33:21this thing is very important to him.
02:33:23Very important.
02:33:25Do you understand it in this direction?
02:33:37I really feel so sad.
02:33:39Because I really think
02:33:40it's just a feeling.
02:33:41It's useless to reason.
02:33:42You just sit there and shed tears.
02:33:44The problem is still there.
02:33:46I didn't say it.
02:33:48It depends on what I do.
02:33:53I know your obstacles.
02:33:55You have to solve this.
02:33:57Do you understand?
02:33:58You have to figure it out.
02:34:00Because this thing
02:34:01is impossible for you.
02:34:02It's the past.
02:34:03You can't compromise.
02:34:07Don't give yourself pressure.
02:34:08We are not in a hurry
02:34:09to solve it tonight.
02:34:10If we can't solve it,
02:34:11we will leave it
02:34:12to the next journey.
02:34:14We will think about it slowly.
02:34:15Yes.
02:34:16Take your time.
02:34:17Yes.
02:34:18Look at the remaining ten days.
02:34:37I don't believe it.
02:34:51I think I wrote that word
02:34:52more for myself.
02:34:54I didn't say I thought about this relationship.
02:34:56In that state,
02:34:58we both feel
02:34:59very wronged
02:35:00and very angry.
02:35:01And we can't solve it.
02:35:04I don't want to be in this state.
02:35:06I don't want to be in this state.
02:35:08I feel very uncomfortable in this state.
02:35:10It's more of a grievance.
02:35:16It means that the day before,
02:35:18he still filled up the bottle.
02:35:20It's because he still thinks that
02:35:22boys will solve the problem.
02:35:36I let you go, I let myself go.
02:35:48He really doesn't seem to understand.
02:36:06It's a rare opportunity.
02:36:28I don't want to be in this state.
02:36:40I feel very uncomfortable in this state.
02:36:56I don't want to be in this state.
02:37:26I don't want to be in this state.
02:37:36I don't want to be in this state.
02:37:46I don't know where to start.
02:37:50I can feel Zhang Shuo's helplessness.
02:37:52Because he really thinks he has tried his best.
02:37:54Yes.
02:37:56Because Shui Shui has been talking about
02:37:58that I actually came to solve the matter three years ago.
02:38:00Because that's his bottom line.
02:38:02Just now, Zhang Shuo
02:38:04used his way to escape this matter.
02:38:06Or what?
02:38:08That's why he's here today.
02:38:10So how do I start?
02:38:12How can I solve the knot in Shui Shui's heart?
02:38:14Where is the knot?
02:38:16Is it the matter itself?
02:38:18Or do you think I'm not on your side?
02:38:20Or do you doubt my values?
02:38:22Or what?
02:38:24What should I do at this moment?
02:38:26He doesn't know.
02:38:28Yes.
02:38:30Every time I talk about his problem,
02:38:32he will avoid his own problem.
02:38:34Then start talking about other problems.
02:38:36What do you think of me?
02:38:38It feels like a mud ball.
02:38:40This problem has been said ten times.
02:38:42But every time,
02:38:44he still opens it up
02:38:46and talks about other little things.
02:38:48Yes.
02:38:50He thinks he has done it.
02:38:52He has made a statement.
02:38:54Then why do you keep biting and not letting go?
02:38:56What do you want me to do?
02:38:58You want to force me to die.
02:39:00Yes.
02:39:02We see his helplessness.
02:39:04We have a sense of helplessness, right?
02:39:06How can we make him understand?
02:39:08It doesn't mean that grievance can solve the problem.
02:39:10Although he is very wronged,
02:39:12he must cook for him.
02:39:16Find every opportunity.
02:39:18There is a pot here.
02:39:20You can cook for me today.
02:39:22Maybe he wants to do a ceremony together.
02:39:24He wants to cook together.
02:39:26He wants to help him cook.
02:39:28Yes.
02:39:30There are many levels of grievance.
02:39:32There is also a level that he feels
02:39:34his parents are so good.
02:39:36You won't have a child like him.
02:39:38At that time, I was really sad.
02:39:40He said,
02:39:42how can you say such things to me?
02:39:44He suppressed me.
02:39:46But I think he was telling the truth.
02:39:48It's hurtful to say one thing after another.
02:39:50Maybe he was angry.
02:39:52But sometimes anger
02:39:54can make you reflect on yourself.
02:39:56You reflect on what you did wrong.
02:39:58I understand a little
02:40:00the motive in his heart.
02:40:02I don't think that sentence is really angry.
02:40:04Yes.
02:40:06Maybe he really said that I got married
02:40:08because I thought his parents were good.
02:40:10The child should be good, too.
02:40:12But when Zhang Shuo heard this sentence,
02:40:14it became a painful sentence.
02:40:16After all, he believes that
02:40:18there should be right and wrong in your heart.
02:40:20Because your parents
02:40:22won't have such a bad child.
02:40:24So you should still have a sense of justice.
02:40:28You will find that
02:40:30he seems to be driven by something.
02:40:32These things drive him.
02:40:34It's not what he thinks.
02:40:36It's the drive from the outside world.
02:40:38As a northerner,
02:40:40I think this is called family life.
02:40:42I am also a northerner.
02:40:44Northerners all think like this.
02:40:50I didn't see
02:40:52the process of Shuo
02:40:54thinking about something alone.
02:40:56You can even see
02:40:58the label on his every thought.
02:41:00It's the drive from the outside world.
02:41:02It's the drive from the outside world.
02:41:04Yes, it's the drive from the outside world.
02:41:06It's very interesting.
02:41:08Many people may have
02:41:10other people's ideas in their minds all their lives.
02:41:12Then they put it in without thinking
02:41:14and drive his life.
02:41:16On the contrary, Shui Shui
02:41:18keeps throwing out the things
02:41:20that others want to add in the process.
02:41:22Who said I was going to cook?
02:41:24Who said I had to do it?
02:41:26Shui Shui doesn't put labels on his thoughts.
02:41:28He has the ability to think independently.
02:41:30Yes.
02:41:32He doesn't want to face the problems
02:41:34and quarrel face to face.
02:41:36It's all about not ruining the relationship
02:41:38between two people.
02:41:40The way he solves it is that I go out
02:41:42and digest it myself.
02:41:44Then I come back and pretend to be fine.
02:41:46I continue to coax you.
02:41:48I continue to provide you with emotional value.
02:41:50The way to solve the problem
02:41:52has become the biggest problem.
02:41:54Anyway, I think Shui Shui is quite contradictory now.
02:41:56He said that the bottom line
02:41:58is that
02:42:00he is also making concessions, right?
02:42:02Yes. In fact, you can drag on for three years.
02:42:04So does he still have love?
02:42:06Yes.
02:42:08And I think he has a lot of expectations
02:42:10for Zhang Shuo in this process.
02:42:12So all these things
02:42:14are added in
02:42:16silently.
02:42:18So I think the next thing we need to observe
02:42:20is that they still have more than ten days.
02:42:22They should present some patterns.
02:42:24It's a three-year shrink.
02:42:26What will he do next?
02:42:28Because now we look at it,
02:42:30it seems that the problem is all about Zhang Shuo.
02:42:32But maybe they can
02:42:34keep fighting like this
02:42:36and still be together for three years.
02:42:38Zhang Shuo also has the time to see it.
02:42:40In their wedding photos,
02:42:42I think the two of them are really sweet.
02:42:44Zhang Shuo doesn't want a divorce.
02:42:46He doesn't want to.
02:42:48I look forward to Zhang Shuo
02:42:50revealing his shining point.
02:42:52I look forward to Fu Shouer
02:42:54and Liu.
02:42:56Do they still have love?
02:42:58Yes.
02:43:00Is Liu still needed?
02:43:02I look forward to Liu.
02:43:04Because when I saw him
02:43:06hit that dog today,
02:43:14I think his expression at that time
02:43:16was a little reluctant and a little hesitant.
02:43:18Some of the people I see
02:43:20in this episode are all young people.
02:43:22Although they all look a little unlucky,
02:43:24but the key is in their hands.
02:43:26If they don't get the key,
02:43:28they can't leave.
02:43:30I think these two clocks
02:43:32are fast and slow.
02:43:34I'm thinking
02:43:36if he's always fast and slow,
02:43:38can he find
02:43:40a way to be equal?
02:43:42Can you let us
02:43:44report the time difference to each other?
02:43:46Where is the other party?
02:43:48I'm looking forward to
02:43:50the 18-day journey
02:43:52and what kind of changes
02:43:54and inspirations it will bring to everyone.
02:43:56Let's say goodbye to everyone again.
02:43:58It's easy to say goodbye,
02:44:00but it's hard to say goodbye.
02:44:02See you next time.
02:44:04Goodbye.
02:44:06Goodbye.
02:44:16The journey to Bichuan has officially begun.
02:44:204600 meters.
02:44:22It's so beautiful.
02:44:24Let's talk less.
02:44:26Breathe slowly.
02:44:28We two follow behind.
02:44:32Cute.
02:44:34Old couple.
02:44:36No matter how fast or slow you go,
02:44:38the most important thing is to take a bath together.
02:44:40Teacher Ji is really good.
02:44:42Ready, three, two, one.
02:44:44Ji Kexin and Cui Cui are really funny.
02:44:46As long as they go out like this,
02:44:48the relationship is getting better.
02:44:50This is Bichuan.
02:44:52It's so beautiful.
02:44:58Who?
02:45:02Li Jing and Dai Jun.
02:45:06When you two came out,
02:45:08we felt like we were being interviewed.
02:45:10The scene we recorded today was wrong.
02:45:12This is a mouth.
02:45:14Do you find it?
02:45:16There is a tree in the middle.
02:45:18What's wrong?
02:45:20Sleepy.
02:45:22I think all of us are sleepy.
02:45:24Do you have any pressure?
02:45:28What is your mental state
02:45:30when you see your wife getting more and more popular?
02:45:32My overall feeling is that
02:45:34it has nothing to do with me.
02:45:36To be honest,
02:45:38I have a sense of frustration in my heart.
02:45:40There is no love.
02:45:42How sad it is
02:45:44to hear this.
02:45:46I have never heard
02:45:48him say this himself.
02:45:52He cried.
02:45:54Why did he cry?
02:45:56Why did he suddenly cry?
02:45:58He cried so hard.
02:46:00He cried.
02:46:02You have to compromise for him
02:46:04when you love someone.
02:46:06He never listens to my opinion.
02:46:08If he doesn't do this job well,
02:46:10there may not be a next time.
02:46:12I really want to hear a father talk about his daughter.
02:46:14It's all this feeling.
02:46:16Failure is exciting.
02:46:18He won't change.
02:46:20I think he will.
02:46:22What are you doing?
02:46:24Do you know he has a fever?
02:46:26What I was thinking at that time was
02:46:28I'll burn it.
02:46:30I haven't received a bouquet of flowers for ten years.
02:46:32Look at his expression.
02:46:34He said I really felt that
02:46:36What are you doing?
02:46:38Tell me.
02:46:40How can you be so confident?
02:46:42I really like everything you gave me.
02:46:46I apologize for what I said just now.
02:46:48I shouldn't have said that.
02:46:50Do you want me to apologize to you?
02:46:52I'm so angry.
02:46:54Reflect on yourself.
02:46:56He asked a few questions in a few seconds.
02:46:58Why can't he admit that he was wrong?
02:47:00The whole world will condemn you.
02:47:02This is not something that can be solved by quarreling.
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