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Wednesday Night Live 3 July 2024

Stefan Molyneux covers a range of topics, from viral memes to the profound impact of sexuality on relationships and society. We explore men's interest in explicit content, retirement planning, financial decisions, and societal norms. We delve into the significance of discretion in matters of wealth and success, cautioning against flaunting these aspects to avoid unwanted attention. We discuss social media's influence, trust funds, and the repercussions of ostracism, emphasizing the importance of seeking and offering sound advice for personal growth and fulfillment. Drawing insights from 'The Great Gatsby,' we analyze the importance of prioritizing actions over intentions and fostering a virtuous society through collective accountability and empirical evidence.

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Transcript
00:00:00Good evening, everybody. Hope you're doing well. Welcome to your Wednesday Night Live.
00:00:04Stefan Molyneux in the other part of the his house.
00:00:08And I hope you're doing well.
00:00:10How many narcissists does it take to change a light bulb? None!
00:00:14They use gas lighting. Nice! Nice.
00:00:19That's delightful in its own way.
00:00:22Well, thank you for joining on this Friday night,
00:00:26the 3rd of July, 2024.
00:00:30See you on Locals and Rumble, but kick DLiveOdyssey not running.
00:00:34Well, you set that up, so I'm not sure what to do about that.
00:00:39I certainly didn't turn anything off.
00:00:45So I'm not sure what to do about that.
00:00:49Start screen share? I think not.
00:00:52I think not. All right, questions.
00:00:55Haircut, yeah. It's always embarrassing.
00:00:58I hate having to give money to barbers. Let's just not kid anyone, right?
00:01:02So...
00:01:06No worries. I did see you. Sorry for the diversion.
00:01:09I don't know what that means.
00:01:12I don't know what that means.
00:01:16Sorry for... No worries. I did see you. Sorry for the diversion.
00:01:20I'm not sure you've ended the problems with diversion, to be frank.
00:01:23What the heck? We'll go with that. All right.
00:01:27So I hope you guys are doing well, and I'm happy to chat with you this evening.
00:01:31And let me just go back here and see what questions and comments and issues we had.
00:01:36For...
00:01:39Y'all begin. Y'all begin.
00:01:44Yes, we have had a minor pet challenge.
00:01:48I know that you come here for the pet updates.
00:01:51We had a minor pet challenge.
00:01:54It would be fun to play volleyball with you. I think that's true.
00:01:57I think that's true.
00:02:00So...
00:02:03Yeah, studio's fine. Just had some technical issues. They'll be resolved on Friday.
00:02:06So we should be fine for Friday night.
00:02:09But, yeah, pet issues.
00:02:12We have had an animal take a pet.
00:02:18But not a duck, fortunately.
00:02:21But all is well. The most important thing is it wasn't my fault.
00:02:26So that's what we're for.
00:02:29That's what we're for.
00:02:32That we're relieved and pleased about, for me.
00:02:35Because it's not so much what happens, it's can I be held accountable for what happens?
00:02:40That's the interesting question.
00:02:43Of course we are sad about the pet, but we are not sad, for me, that it wasn't me.
00:02:48So, just wanted to mention that.
00:02:51You know, it's very important. Self-ownership is something I talk about.
00:02:56Steph, is it messed up to say that if you sounded like Scott Adams it would be hard for me to listen?
00:03:03You know, it's funny. No problems with Scott, of course, but...
00:03:10It's funny because as a writer, he's hilarious.
00:03:13As a comic writer, the Dilbert comic, he's hilarious.
00:03:18But when he tells jokes, it's flat.
00:03:20And it's just an odd thing. I mean, you can't be good at everything, obviously, right?
00:03:23But it's just a man who is just so naturally funny.
00:03:26But when he tells a joke, when he tells jokes, it's kind of flat.
00:03:30Hey, actually, hang on a sec here. I wonder if I can...
00:03:34As they say, throw a little more light on the subject.
00:03:37Oh, yes, that's better.
00:03:40Can we get info on the new apps coming?
00:03:43So, yeah, the new apps.
00:03:46So, what we have done, and this is going to be sort of a Windows thing.
00:03:49I think it works on Mac as well.
00:03:51So, what we've done is we have converted the AI, the search engine, and so on, into apps that you can install.
00:04:03And I will sort of get round to showing you how that works.
00:04:07I should do a gym stream?
00:04:09Do you really care where these come from?
00:04:12I don't think so.
00:04:14Do you ever think about staging a million books behind you to look smart?
00:04:19I think I'm either smart or I'm not smart.
00:04:24And if I'm smart, I don't need the books.
00:04:27And if I have the books and I'm not smart, I'm insulting the books.
00:04:30And can you imagine what society would do if I had a wall of books behind me?
00:04:36Oh, the titles would be examined and spread apart, and so on.
00:04:42Your voice is lovely to listen to.
00:04:44I have been blessed with a good speaking voice.
00:04:50When I was younger, I wanted to sing more, but a lot of singers don't have great speaking voices unless their basses are baritone.
00:04:57Did you see society reward the hawk to a girl with thousands of dollars?
00:05:03Well, hit me with a why if you know the hawk to a girl.
00:05:14Do you know the story between the hawk to a girl, hawk to a girl?
00:05:20Hit me with a why.
00:05:21I don't know if it needs explaining.
00:05:23I don't know if it needs explaining.
00:05:24Maybe it does, maybe it doesn't, but do you know about the hawk to a girl?
00:05:31It's really fascinating.
00:05:34It's really fascinating.
00:05:35A little rude, a little rude, a little rude, but quite fascinating.
00:05:44So, as James says, are AI chatbots in the podcast search available as installable apps?
00:05:51Most browsers support this feature, better support on Windows and Mac OS, with some support on iPhones and Android, where it depends on your browser.
00:06:01Yes, but please explain.
00:06:03Well, I will, in fact, explain.
00:06:08So, this fellow, I think he was a black streamer, he was asking these white girls about, I don't know, their sex life or something like that.
00:06:21And the one girl, she's a southern girl, she's cute, a solid six or seven, nice figure, and she's with a friend who's a seven or an eight.
00:06:30And so, the one girl was talking about how she only has eyes for this one guy.
00:06:36She's totally loyal to this one guy whose name is, whose nickname is Pookie, I suppose, nickname is Pookie.
00:06:44So, then the black guy asks the white girls, what's the one trick in bed that you have that drives men crazy or drives men, like, gets men excited?
00:06:54And the Hawktua girl, I don't even know her name, she mimes, I guess, holding the base of a penis and saying, Hawktua, spit on that thing.
00:07:02So, spit on the penis, I assume, in preparation for oral sex or something like that, right?
00:07:11So, she became famous as the Hawktua girl.
00:07:17Now, the question is, why is she famous?
00:07:22I mean, obviously, she's coarse.
00:07:25Honestly, I could care less.
00:07:27I could care less.
00:07:30So, coarseness, you know, we all come from sex and bodies slapping together and fluids and being thrown halfway across the bed.
00:07:42What's that whole joke about?
00:07:47Female orgasm is kind of like a car crash.
00:07:50There's a lot of screeching and squealing.
00:07:52At one point, you're facing the wrong way, and then at the end, you just get thrown clear and don't exactly know what happened.
00:07:59And so, yeah, I mean, there's a lot of earthiness.
00:08:02There's a lot of, I mean, we're all just flesh, right?
00:08:04And we come from flesh, and the flesh mashup is real.
00:08:08And so, I don't have any particular problem with earthiness or sexual talk and so on.
00:08:18I think it's a little precious to sort of deny that aspect of life because, I mean, that's where all life comes from, right?
00:08:26So, yes, I do not find it offensive.
00:08:31I don't find it upsetting.
00:08:32I don't find it, you know.
00:08:34I think that that fussiness regarding sexuality is pretty precious.
00:08:40And I think it comes from a place more akin to trauma than anything else.
00:08:50So, why do you think this became such a meme?
00:09:02Why do you think that this became such a meme?
00:09:10What are your thoughts?
00:09:12She talked about it like a gangster, though.
00:09:14Yeah.
00:09:18I don't like it, Steph, if done in public.
00:09:21Yeah, I get that.
00:09:22I mean, of course, I get that.
00:09:24But everything's public these days, so.
00:09:27Makes me very pleased to be a lifelong singleton.
00:09:29I don't have to deal with that nonsense.
00:09:32Because men are happy about the promotion of receiving oral sex and they're horny.
00:09:36Because society has become degenerate.
00:09:38Okay, I get it.
00:09:39It's a long way from a Jane Austen novel.
00:09:43I've been rereading a novel I long ago adapted into a play and produced in Toronto called The Play of Seduction.
00:09:50But the play is an adaptation of Turgenev's novel, Fathers and Sons.
00:09:56So, you know, I get the arguments of the earthiness.
00:10:01I get all of the it's degenerate.
00:10:04I understand all of that.
00:10:07But the question is, the woman is, I mean, obviously kind of a wild girl.
00:10:14You know, again, I have no particular issue with that.
00:10:17She is pretty frank about sexuality.
00:10:20And I don't have any particular issue with that.
00:10:24And I think men are fascinated because she's loyal to her man.
00:10:28She loves her man.
00:10:29She's monogamous to her man.
00:10:32And she is willing to do that which makes her man happy in bed.
00:10:42And I think that is a bit surprising to men.
00:10:51And look, she's a country girl.
00:10:55She's a country girl.
00:10:56She's earthy.
00:10:57And she wants to please her man sexually.
00:11:01She obviously is quite uninhibited, to put it mildly.
00:11:05And men are quite fascinated by frank talk about women.
00:11:11Now, let me ask you something.
00:11:18Let me ask you something.
00:11:21I think it's because it was funny and sexual.
00:11:22A little ballsy to say it so bluntly simple as that.
00:11:25She's talking about it like a man.
00:11:26Oh, no.
00:11:27No, you're wrong about that, guys.
00:11:29Sorry.
00:11:30You're wrong about that.
00:11:31I don't know if you spent a lot of time around women.
00:11:34Or have you ever been in the position?
00:11:38Ooh, this is going to smart.
00:11:40Have you ever been in the position where you've been able to listen to women
00:11:47talk about sexuality in an unfiltered manner?
00:11:54If you've ever heard locker room talk, if you've ever been in a bathroom,
00:11:57if you've ever been in a situation where you've heard women talk about sexuality
00:12:02in an uncensored manner.
00:12:05I mean, there's earthy and then there's like magma core of the planet earthy.
00:12:10And women in general, not all obviously, but women have a frankness and a bluntness
00:12:18about sexuality that makes a man's nipples rotate and his armor turn into the garment
00:12:26of a monk.
00:12:29I mean, it's wild how earthy and frank women can be about sexuality.
00:12:36And I understand why, because if a man is frank about sexuality, he's a weirdo
00:12:40and a creep and is courting a lawsuit.
00:12:42But if a woman is frank about sexuality, men just kind of...
00:12:51Just look at their novels, right?
00:12:54My girlfriend's description of the talk in the women's locker room at the gym
00:12:57is what I hear the guys talk about.
00:12:59I mean, I've obviously, you know, I've done a lot of athletics in my life.
00:13:04I've spent tens of thousands of hours at gyms.
00:13:09Gyms place.
00:13:10No, I mean, I've been to gyms.
00:13:12I've had locker rooms.
00:13:14Now, I mean, I'm a smidge more refined than your average bear,
00:13:18so sometimes I think that maybe people are a little bit less coarse around me,
00:13:26but I have never heard the kind of talk from men about sexual matters
00:13:33that I've heard from women.
00:13:35I never.
00:13:36Now, again, this is a sample size of one, but again,
00:13:39I've been around a lot of guys in these kinds of situations.
00:13:42We don't talk about it.
00:13:46It was pretty surprising the first time I heard girls speaking like that.
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Yeah.
00:13:51Yeah.
00:13:53Yeah.
00:13:54Yeah.
00:13:55No, I mean, women are pretty frank about sexuality.
00:14:00So women talk about sexuality the way that men talk about work
00:14:04because for women sexuality is a kind of coin.
00:14:07Right?
00:14:08This isn't going to shock anyone.
00:14:11Right?
00:14:12Sexuality for women is kind of a coin of the realm, right?
00:14:17And you talk among guys as typically super wholesome.
00:14:21Seriously.
00:14:22Sure.
00:14:25So why do women talk so frankly?
00:14:29And again, not all, right?
00:14:31Not all, right?
00:14:32But why do women talk about sexual matters so frankly as a whole?
00:14:37Why do you think?
00:14:41Sex is super important for women.
00:14:43Of course it is.
00:14:44Of course it is, right?
00:14:50Why do women talk about sexuality so bluntly?
00:14:55Why do they focus a lot on sexuality?
00:14:58You hang around the wrong women if they talk like that.
00:15:01I mean, look, I get all of this.
00:15:03We can get up on our high horse and we can be appalled and shocked
00:15:09and it's degenerate and it's wrong.
00:15:11Okay, I get all of that.
00:15:12And we can do that, right?
00:15:14But I think that you need to be curious about these things
00:15:19rather than just, in a sense, blindly judgmental.
00:15:22And I know that's a pejorative and I know it's not an argument,
00:15:25but why do women talk more frankly about sex than men do?
00:15:38They compete.
00:15:39They control the sex.
00:15:40Could it be to stun men like casting a witch's spell?
00:15:42No, no, no, because this isn't privately.
00:15:44This is privately.
00:15:48Now, we've just started this evening and I'm sorry I was a little late
00:15:52on a tech issue or two, but let's say I satisfy you.
00:16:00Let's say I satisfy you.
00:16:02I have you leaning back with a decaf latte,
00:16:07smoking a Marlboro slowly in the corner,
00:16:09half-rolling your eyes and dozing off.
00:16:11If I satisfy you, I hope that you will give me a tip or two.
00:16:16So, women evolved to talk more frankly with each other about sexual matters.
00:16:22And, sorry, just hit me with a why if you'd like me to answer this.
00:16:26If you'd like me to answer this, I'm happy to do it.
00:16:29If it does help you, I think that's great.
00:16:31But, you know, we need to stop being a little hysterical
00:16:35to express our experience and show how confident we are.
00:16:37No, no, no.
00:16:43They get sexual experience without having to demean themselves.
00:16:46No, no, no, no, no.
00:16:47You guys are all wrong.
00:16:48Sorry, sorry, sorry.
00:16:49You're wrong.
00:16:51All right.
00:16:52So, here's the answer as to why this occurs among women.
00:16:57Here's the answer.
00:16:58Now, the answer is women want high-value men,
00:17:03and the higher value the man, the more other women want him.
00:17:07So, women have to become really good at sex
00:17:10so that their high-value men don't sleep with other women,
00:17:14aren't tempted to go and sleep with other women.
00:17:17So, what women do is they share sexual tips in order to promote monogamy
00:17:22because if there's a high-value man and his wife or girlfriend is bad at sex,
00:17:29then the high-value man is going to let his eyes start chameleon-like wandering
00:17:34all over the landscape,
00:17:36and he is going to end up having affairs with other women, right,
00:17:42which destabilizes the tribe,
00:17:44and it destabilizes the monogamy of the relationships as a whole.
00:17:50And so, women want to share sexual tips with other women
00:17:54in order to please their men so that monogamy is reinforced, right?
00:18:01You already got me excited with all your dirty philosophical talk.
00:18:06Don't stop.
00:18:07Yeah, women's magazines, what are they all talking about?
00:18:09How to please your man, how to do this, how to do that, right?
00:18:12So, a man who is high-value is high-value because he is often high-testosterone.
00:18:20If he's high-testosterone, then he has a high sex drive.
00:18:23Now, men in general, it's the old thing about Paul Newman,
00:18:27like he never had any affairs, a famous handsome actor,
00:18:30and he was married to an actress named Joanne Woodward.
00:18:33And you can see her in the version of A Glass Menagerie
00:18:38with John Malkovich and Karen Allen and some guy,
00:18:41I can't remember playing Biff, and Joanne Woodward.
00:18:45And people said, well, why don't you ever have affairs?
00:18:47And he says, well, why would I go out for hamburger when I've got steak at home?
00:18:51So, what that means, of course, is that,
00:18:54obviously, I don't want to speak for Paul Newman like I know the guy,
00:18:57but what it means is that a high-value, high-success, high-testosterone man,
00:19:04a man that lots of women want to have sexual and romantic and resource access to,
00:19:11a woman has to be good in bed in order to satisfy him so that his eyes don't wander,
00:19:19and all the women who want to keep their men have to be good in bed.
00:19:24And so a society where women don't talk about sexuality
00:19:27and share uninhibited sexual conversations is a society where men have affairs,
00:19:35men wander, men are nervous to commit because they don't want a lifetime of bad or mediocre or non-sex.
00:19:42So, yeah, I mean, this is why if you look at men's magazines,
00:19:46they're talking about a bunch of stuff.
00:19:48What was the old joke about men's magazines?
00:19:51You know, a couple of stereo magazines,
00:19:54a couple of gay guys in hats and a couple of articles about how women love pudgy men, right?
00:20:00No harm, no foul, right?
00:20:01And there is a little bit of how to please your woman in men's magazines,
00:20:05but it's far less than what goes on in women's magazines,
00:20:08which are basically half pornography explanations of how to have your man's toes curl so much
00:20:15that he ends up looking like a foot-bound woman from the 19th century Chinese villages.
00:20:23So, yeah, men network regarding money and jobs and resources because that's their coin.
00:20:31Women network regarding sexual techniques and pleasing their men because that's their coin, so to speak.
00:20:39So tell me, I don't want to overdo it, but I also don't want to be a premature elaborator.
00:20:49So you let me know.
00:20:51I'm picturing a whore teaching a class to married women back in the day.
00:20:54Well, you know, you've got to be a princess at the business meeting.
00:20:58You've got to be a cook in the kitchen.
00:21:00You've got to be a whore in bed, right?
00:21:01This is sort of the cliche about women and how they operate and what they have to deal with.
00:21:10So this is why you can say, oh, it's degenerate and it's this and it's that.
00:21:15It's like, but the more sexually satisfied men are in their relationships,
00:21:22the more stable society is as a whole, right?
00:21:29So I would.
00:21:33So and this is why I think it's important not to just jump straight into, oh, it's degenerate and it's wrong.
00:21:38You're hanging around the wrong women and so on.
00:21:39It's like, I mean, we can say all of that, but.
00:21:42So women have to talk about sex openly and privately in order to keep men from wondering.
00:21:46What?
00:21:47So women have to talk about sex openly and privately in order to keep men from wondering.
00:21:51You mean W-A-N-D-E-R.
00:21:54OK, just please check your typos, right?
00:21:57Well, there does seem to be a certain category or class of men who partake of pornography and it just gets worse and worse and worse and worse to the point where they end up mutant, deranged, sexually deviant, like horror show.
00:22:24So I don't know why that happens, but, you know, I've of course heard some men, you know, like, oh, I started with some vanilla porn and then it kind of went blah, blah, blah, right?
00:22:37That's what some men have said.
00:22:39And I don't know why they go down this rabbit hole to hell itself, but it certainly does.
00:22:44Thank you, Sapanta.
00:22:45I appreciate the tip.
00:22:47I appreciate the tip.
00:22:50I have been to Tupperware parties, regrettably.
00:22:52Well, as I mentioned, a friend of mine when I was many years ago, many decades ago, a friend of mine, his mother had a lingerie, his single mother had a lingerie party with all the other single mothers, right?
00:23:05And of course, you see, this is kind of a cliche, right?
00:23:09It's kind of a cliche that single mothers are overtly sexual in their presentation, right?
00:23:15They have highly sexualized dating profiles and, you know, they're in their bikinis and they're arching their backs.
00:23:23Single moms have this highly sexualized presentation.
00:23:28Not always, a lot of time.
00:23:31And we understand the reason for that, right?
00:23:36We understand the reason for that is that they are asking for a lot from a man, right?
00:23:44So they're asking for the man to take them on, to take their crazy ex-husband or boyfriend or crazy ex-husbands and or ex-boyfriends on that.
00:23:54And they also are asking the new man to take on their kids.
00:24:01So they have to say, well, what's the payment for that?
00:24:04It's going to be, you know, crazy mind-blowing sex or whatever it is, right?
00:24:09Ah, I started to go down that path before I stopped watching.
00:24:15Chasing the dragon phenomenon, yeah.
00:24:19Do you think single moms just double down on being, you know, kind of tardy or whatever, like past the point of no return in their minds?
00:24:27So single moms have a negative because they want quality men like all women do.
00:24:35They want men with lots of resources.
00:24:37But men with lots of resources have lots of options, right?
00:24:40And so why would a man with a lot of resources want to spend his resources spending on and raising the child of a lesser man, right?
00:24:50And, you know, greater or lesser, we're just talking about economic value and so on, right?
00:24:55So why would a man, let's say, the father of the single mom's kid makes $30,000 a year and there's some guy who makes $200,000 a year.
00:25:09So economically, right, he's like almost seven times more valuable.
00:25:13So why would a man making $200,000 a year want to take his money and give it to the child of a man who is only one seventh as economically valuable, right?
00:25:26That's a bad deal.
00:25:29That's a bad deal.
00:25:31And so the single moms, of course, have to figure out how to backfill, maybe almost literally, how to backfill that problem of coming with a significant negative, right?
00:25:50Porn requires constant escalation for the same level of dopamine release, leading to engagement in weird content.
00:25:56I don't know that that's true for everyone.
00:25:58I really don't know.
00:25:59I've heard some of it, but I don't know that that's true for everyone.
00:26:02There's maybe some other factor like trauma or something or molestation that is occurring.
00:26:10I don't know the answer to that, but it's not everyone, I think.
00:26:13So why do you think some Christians are very prudish about sex?
00:26:26Well, I don't think in terms of the joylessness of sex, and maybe you talk about this in terms of prudishness.
00:26:33Well, of course, it's supposed to be a union of souls and the physical part is sort of a commandment and so on.
00:26:39But I don't know.
00:26:40What was this movie with Christy Alley and Tim Allen?
00:26:46What was it called?
00:26:49Somebody help me.
00:26:51Where this New York couple end up living in an Amish, like I think they have to go hide or something, or they end up living in this Amish community.
00:27:00And it was actually a very funny movie with an absolutely appalling joke about milking a cow.
00:27:07But the movie, Tim Allen is very funny and Christy Alley in her prime was very funny.
00:27:15But Tim Allen was very funny because the Amish people get up at like four in the morning.
00:27:23I don't know how he delivers this line that is just hilarious.
00:27:27It's not funny written down and I can't do it justice.
00:27:31So, you know, they're sort of bonk, bonk, bonk.
00:27:33It's four o'clock in the morning and Tim Allen's like, four in the morning?
00:27:37Oh, I must have overslept.
00:27:39It's just so tragic.
00:27:41For Ritual Pura, is that it?
00:27:43It's a very funny movie.
00:27:45But one of the things that I always, because Tim Allen is very Christian, and one of the things that I thought was really interesting was that the Amish or Mennonite farm couple that this couple is staying with have a very robust and energetic sex life.
00:28:05And so, you know, super fundamentalist religious people have this a super, super robust and energetic sex life.
00:28:15And I thought that was interesting.
00:28:17Yeah, for Ritual Pura, it is, I would definitely, I would definitely recommend it.
00:28:25And I think Woody Harrelson shows up in it as well, if I remember.
00:28:35So.
00:28:43It's very, very funny.
00:28:45And they have vicious arguments about secular.
00:28:49I'm going to lie here, like, Carolyn, refresh my memory, will you please?
00:28:53What exactly have you done in the past five years?
00:28:55Oh, wait a minute. I know.
00:28:57You've done Bloomingdale's, you've done lunch, you've done chemical peels, you've done collagen, you've done liposuction.
00:29:03Oh, very funny.
00:29:09There's a, the one of the Amish says, today was a good day.
00:29:17And the other Amish says, God only makes good days.
00:29:19And it's kind of true if you believe that stuff, right?
00:29:23The woman says, after tonight, I don't know how I'll ever be able to face my friends again.
00:29:33And her husband says, just pretend they're a mirror.
00:29:35And she says, you're so funny, honey.
00:29:37Actually, I'll just confess to them that I'm married to a moron and that way they'll feel sorry for me and forgive me.
00:29:43Some very, very funny stuff in that movie.
00:29:47And that the materialism is very well parodied and it's a very funny movie.
00:29:53But yeah, so I just, and I thought, I liked the fact that it went against the blend, right?
00:30:03So, I think you're blending the movie Kingpin with the Tim Allen movie.
00:30:07Oh, Kingpin, oh, is that the one about bowling?
00:30:15I found that movie repulsive, Kingpin.
00:30:17I watched it and there's a torture scene that I was just like, I thought it was going to be a comedy.
00:30:23And it was just appalling.
00:30:27No, I don't think I'm blending the movie.
00:30:31Okay, let me see here.
00:30:33If I'm wrong about this, obviously I will be.
00:30:35But somebody makes that joke about this, right?
00:30:43Who's in it?
00:30:49Yeah, oh, oh, oh, yeah, you might be right.
00:30:55Yeah, Woody Harrelson is not in it.
00:31:01Woody Harrelson is not in it.
00:31:03My God, now I'm obsessed, I must know.
00:31:05All right, let me look this up.
00:31:07Cow joke.
00:31:19Oh, well, I won't.
00:31:21Yeah, it's a horrendous cow joke, it is really horrendous.
00:31:31Oh, yes, they have to hide from the IRS.
00:31:33Anyway, so I won't go into the spoilers, but it's a funny movie.
00:31:37And you should watch it.
00:31:43Oh, does he milk the bull in Kingpin?
00:31:45Oh, is that right?
00:31:47No, I don't think so.
00:31:49I think it is in For Rich or for Poor, because I just saw that.
00:31:51But maybe you're right, maybe it's in Kingpin.
00:31:53But I thought that was a movie about bowling, not farming.
00:31:57All right, so let's get back to your questions.
00:31:59And single moms carry a lot of resentment.
00:32:09Well, not the most detailed.
00:32:11I'm not going to disagree with you, but it's tough.
00:32:17You know, it is having a child out of wedlock with a guy who doesn't stick around is a complete disaster that destabilizes society enormously.
00:32:25Like, I don't know if you know this, but like in the early 1960s, late 1950s, early 1960s, the rate of children outside of wedlock was like 5%.
00:32:37It was like 3% in 1900, and it crept up to like 5%.
00:32:41And then, of course, the welfare state just changed all of the incentives in an absolutely brutal fashion and just destroyed the family, particularly for the poor.
00:32:51So, you know, smart people tend to not need...
00:32:59We tend not to respond to immediate incentives as much, because we are looking for longer and larger patterns, and we're willing to defer gratification more and so on, right?
00:33:07And so people who aren't quite as smart, they need more immediate feedback.
00:33:15And because they need more immediate feedback when they have something like the welfare state, then they tend to make poorer decisions because the disasters occur much later, right?
00:33:29I mean, let me ask you this.
00:33:33Let me ask you this.
00:33:35Have you talked to men and women as a whole about retirement?
00:33:39How much do you need to retire?
00:33:43What's your plan to retire and all of that, right?
00:33:47How much money do you need to retire?
00:33:51What's your plan?
00:33:53What's your savings?
00:33:55What's your goal?
00:33:57What's your this?
00:33:59What's your that, right?
00:34:01So that's important.
00:34:03How much do you need to retire?
00:34:05So Kevin Samuels, and I could be wrong about this.
00:34:13It seemed a little unfair to me, but what do I know, right?
00:34:17So Kevin Samuels would talk to women and say, how much do you need to retire?
00:34:23From the age of 65, you're going to retire.
00:34:25How much you need to retire to live to the age of 85, right?
00:34:3165 to 85.
00:34:33How much do you need to retire?
00:34:35What's this one-woman guest like $50,000?
00:34:39Okay, okay.
00:34:41So how much do you need to retire?
00:34:49And, you know, what's that meme?
00:34:51It's like, well, if I keep working now, I should enjoy a cozy 11 minutes of retirement before I die, right?
00:34:57Most people believe the government will take care of them.
00:35:00Well, okay.
00:35:02I mean, but, you know, it obviously is not going to keep pace with inflation, and everybody knows that it's not going to work out particularly well as a whole.
00:35:10So have you talked to people about retirement?
00:35:14Because it's appalling how many people, hang on, percentage of people saving for retirement.
00:35:22It's retarded.
00:35:24It's just, it's incredible to me.
00:35:26It's just incredible to me.
00:35:32Yeah, so a third of Canadians are nearing retirement without any savings.
00:35:38Right, so this is Canada, right?
00:35:42When is this from?
00:35:44What's our date here?
00:35:46Okay, so 2018, so it's worse now.
00:35:50In 2018, 32% of Canadians between the ages of 45 and 64 have nothing saved for retirement.
00:35:5853% of Canadians say they don't actually know if they're saving enough.
00:36:03For many people, the amount of money required to fund maybe 30 years of retirement is a secondary consideration.
00:36:13The average amount of personal savings Canadians estimate they'll need to retire comfortably on is $756,000.
00:36:22To which I say, oof, oof.
00:36:28So people say, I can retire for up to 30 years on a quarter of a mil.
00:36:36That's wild.
00:36:40Right.
00:36:42Oh my gosh.
00:36:48Women generally suck at retirement.
00:36:54So a third more men have a retirement plan.
00:37:00So as far as a formal retirement plan, 22% of women compared to 32% of men.
00:37:06Right, so men are a third more likely to have a formal retirement plan.
00:37:1143% of women nearing retirement age, age 55 and older, said they don't have a formal plan at all.
00:37:20And they're going to live longer than men.
00:37:24It's mad.
00:37:27It's absolutely mad.
00:37:29Can Canadians save an average of $184,000 for retirement?
00:37:38Oh my gosh.
00:37:42Oh my gosh.
00:37:45All right, let's look at something more.
00:37:48How much do you need?
00:37:50So a lot of people say 70% rule, right?
00:37:52You need 70% of your pre-retirement income.
00:37:56You need 70% of your pre-retirement income to live.
00:38:01So if you save 10% of your income, that's the general idea, right?
00:38:11Oh.
00:38:15All right, let's see here.
00:38:17This is the US.
00:38:19The median retirement savings for American households, households, not individuals, households, is $87,000.
00:38:31Median retirement savings for Americans younger than 35 is $18,000.
00:38:3467% of Americans have a retirement account, but only 34% feel on track for retirement.
00:38:44That is wild.
00:38:52And of course, there are a lot of people who do save very well.
00:38:57And that's pulling up the numbers for everyone, right?
00:39:04The Motley Fool recommends putting aside 15% of your annual income for retirement over the course of your career.
00:39:1261% of non-retirees have a 401k or 403b.
00:39:1520% have no retirement savings.
00:39:19Social Security designed to replace only 40% of the average salary after retirement.
00:39:28Wild.
00:39:31Wild.
00:39:33I'm trying to look at...
00:39:38Yeah, of course, white Americans have a median average retirement account value of $100,000 in 2022.
00:39:4361,000 more than black Americans and 46,600 more than Hispanic Americans in the usual 1, 2, 3 that we've talked about in the show for years.
00:39:56All right.
00:39:57So how much do I need to retire?
00:40:02Now they say 80%, right?
00:40:04So if you earn $100,000 a year, you'll need to aim for $80,000 of income in today's dollars in retirement.
00:40:09Now, of course, the big problem too is inflation, right?
00:40:12Then that's just going to eat away at your retirement over 20 years.
00:40:16It's going to be brutal, right?
00:40:20So 80% is because you no longer have to save for retirement.
00:40:24You've got less work expenses, commuting expenses, and so on.
00:40:27You probably have paid off your mortgage.
00:40:29You may not need life insurance if you no longer have dependents.
00:40:35So typical retiree, between you and your spouse, you currently have an annual income of $120,000.
00:40:4080% principle, you need about $96,000 in annual income after you retire.
00:40:44It's about $8,000 a month.
00:40:46So you'll get some of that through Social Security.
00:40:51If you earn $50,000, Social Security will replace 35% of their income.
00:40:56If you're earning $300,000, Social Security will only replace 11% of your income.
00:41:03So couple needs $8,000 in monthly income to retire.
00:41:07Each spouse is getting $1,500 a month from Social Security.
00:41:10One spouse has a $1,000 monthly pension from some work or something like that.
00:41:15So of the $8,000 in monthly income needs, $4,000 comes from guaranteed income.
00:41:19The remaining $4,000 has got to come from investment and savings.
00:41:27So if you've got $1,000,000 saved and you can withdraw 4% of your retirement savings,
00:41:35in your first year of retirement you can withdraw 4% of your retirement savings, that's $40,000.
00:41:41So the 4% rule is designed to make sure that your money has a high probability of lasting for 30 years.
00:41:53So you'll need $4,000 a month or $48,000 per year from your savings.
00:42:00So in that case you should aim for $1,200,000 in retirement savings accounts.
00:42:05Oh, I know where. I know exactly where Kevin Samuel gets his numbers now.
00:42:10Right. Okay, got it, got it.
00:42:14So Kevin Samuel says you need $2,400,000 and that's because he's assuming,
00:42:20he keeps saying the government is not going to be able to pay,
00:42:22so you need the full $8,000 from your savings rather than $4,000.
00:42:26So $4,000 you need $1,200,000 but $8,000 you need double that $2,400,000.
00:42:31But that's for a couple rather than an individual and all of that, right?
00:42:35And so that is wild. That is wild.
00:42:45So how many people do you know are not saving for their retirement?
00:42:59You figure three mil? Yeah.
00:43:03Is net worth of 20 times your annual expenses? Yeah.
00:43:06This is all due to the delusion of infinite resources.
00:43:09Yeah, I mean, the money printing and borrowing creates a kind of psychosis, right?
00:43:15I recently learned that a friend of mine who was a father of two young children
00:43:18might be diagnosed with lymphoma.
00:43:20Do you have any advice on how I can best support him during this challenging time?
00:43:23Yes. If he has to go, just go over and spend time with him.
00:43:26Like help him out with his kids, give him some time to process
00:43:29and have him out of the hurly-burly of his family life.
00:43:32On a brighter note, I'm getting married this weekend.
00:43:34My fiance and I are deeply grateful for how philosophy has enriched our relationship.
00:43:37Also wanted to let you know I'm a long-term listener, subscriber,
00:43:40and plan to donate an appreciation of all your work when we return from our honeymoon.
00:43:44Have to run now but will listen to your answer later.
00:43:46Well, congratulations. Fantastic, fantastic, fantastic.
00:43:51Even if you save for retirement and get eaten away by inflation,
00:43:53termites use Bitcoin, absolutely, and they'll just tax all that stuff too, right?
00:43:57They'll just tax that stuff too.
00:44:00So, yeah, it's appalling.
00:44:04And it's going to hit women insanely hard.
00:44:11Will you come to Eastern Europe someday again?
00:44:14I would love to. I would love to. I may.
00:44:17Do you have an explanation for why there's an almost complete
00:44:19dearth of ideas amongst the relatively normal population,
00:44:22who only ever discuss people at events?
00:44:24Why are they only ever idiotic?
00:44:32Dearth of ideas amongst the relatively normal...
00:44:34Well, it's like saying, why is there a dearth of great songs coming out of the general population?
00:44:39It's not their skill set, it's not their approach,
00:44:41and they don't do the 10,000 hours that you need to do to start generating your own great ideas.
00:44:46I was in philosophy for like 20 years before I really started to generate new ideas.
00:44:59Somebody says, I can't put a number on it, but most...
00:45:01I've got a few family members that are underwater financially as we speak.
00:45:04They're just trying to make it from paycheck to paycheck.
00:45:09Now, you guys are aware of like, shut your mouth, right?
00:45:17Are you aware of this just as a whole?
00:45:20You guys know this, right?
00:45:22Like if you've got a lot of money squirreled away or like you shut your mouth, right?
00:45:27I mean, especially if you're involved in a corrupt or problematic family situation, right?
00:45:36Just shut up. Shut up. Stop talking.
00:45:40Don't brag, right?
00:45:44You're just inviting trouble.
00:45:46So, just, you know, hide your light under a bushel.
00:45:52And, you know, don't talk about success, don't talk about money, don't...
00:45:57What's a lot of money?
00:45:59Well, enough that people are going to want it from you.
00:46:02Enough of that. It depends how many people you have around you, what they're like, and so on.
00:46:07But, yeah, just shut up.
00:46:15Learn to keep quiet.
00:46:18Learn to keep quiet.
00:46:20It's a very, very important thing.
00:46:24Somebody says, yeah, I bragged a little too much about holding crypto and stocks in the past.
00:46:28Now, days, I just stay quiet.
00:46:33Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:46:37I think that's important.
00:46:39Just be quiet. Just be quiet.
00:46:44Or, if you're not going to be quiet, at least surround yourself with people who aren't going to want your money.
00:46:51Well, so here's the thing, right?
00:46:53So, if you talk about how well you're doing, then what's going to happen is, when people need money, they're going to come to you.
00:47:03And it's going to get ugly.
00:47:07And a lot of people, when they're desperate... I mean, desperate people have almost no morals, right?
00:47:13We're aware of all of this, right?
00:47:15This is not any big shock, I'm sure of you.
00:47:17But desperate people have almost no morals, right?
00:47:22So, when people are retired, they're desperate, right?
00:47:27They're retired, they're desperate.
00:47:29If they can't make ends meet, if they start running out of money, they just become desperate.
00:47:33And when desperate people want things from you, and you say no, they escalate in absolutely appalling ways.
00:47:47Absolutely appalling ways.
00:47:50They can trash your reputation, they can launch lawsuits, they can just do most appalling things.
00:48:01And sometimes I can literally feel the tiger on my back, he says, like knowing I'm being stalked by a lion who sees me as a juicy fat cow.
00:48:12Yeah, like I don't understand.
00:48:15Like, I genuinely don't understand.
00:48:18Let's say some guy makes it big in crypto and he goes and buys, I don't know, a Lamborghini or a Bugatti, or like he's got these million dollar watches and he's just flashing yachts and so on.
00:48:29I'm like, are you an idiot?
00:48:31What's the matter with you?
00:48:33Hello, Target, hello, Target.
00:48:36It's like, it's retarded.
00:48:37I don't understand.
00:48:39I don't understand why people do these things.
00:48:45I don't understand.
00:48:48It's like a death wish almost, it seems to me.
00:48:53But what do I know, right?
00:49:01All right, sorry, somebody had a question.
00:49:03How do I have a free-flowing conversation with a girl I just talked to?
00:49:06I recently said hi to her on Instagram.
00:49:12Really?
00:49:15Really?
00:49:18That is your question to me.
00:49:20I just said hi to a girl on Instagram.
00:49:26I do not want you to have a free-flowing conversation with a girl on Instagram.
00:49:37I will not help you have a free-flowing conversation with a girl on Instagram.
00:49:45I understand.
00:49:47I sympathize.
00:49:49I empathize.
00:49:51I appreciate.
00:49:53And I need you to get a big bucket of ice, stuff it down your pants, and then hit your balls with a massage gun set on the most aggressive session.
00:50:06So that you lose the desire to have a free-flowing conversation with a girl on Instagram.
00:50:17Whatever you do in this life, do not have a free-flowing conversation with a girl on Instagram.
00:50:30Please.
00:50:32Dear Gadaba, do not have a conversation, free-flowing.
00:50:37I mean, I understand that sometimes when men are looking at girls on Instagram, there is some free flows involved.
00:50:47But just get a Kleenex, clean that shit up, turn off your screen, and slap yourself in the face with a non-thawed steak.
00:51:03My goal in getting rich in crypto is to move into the country.
00:51:07Have a nice small business, wife, kids, etc.
00:51:11Many men do it to attract women, but come on, what kind of women are you going to attract flashing money?
00:51:15LOL, these same men will then complain about being ran through in divorce court after.
00:51:19It's truly amazing.
00:51:22Yes, yes, yes.
00:51:26Oh, my friend, everybody knows why you're saying hi to a girl on Instagram.
00:51:37Because the girl is flashing her body on Instagram.
00:51:43And you are turned on by the girl on Instagram.
00:51:51And you want her to see your great deep and wonderful virtues and thoughtfulness and care.
00:51:57But the problem is, well, there are so many problems.
00:52:02But one of the main problems is, if you are going to talk to a girl on Instagram, you're only doing it because she's sexy.
00:52:18Sexy, right? Of course.
00:52:23So, immediately, you have to start by lying through your lemon-pocket ass.
00:52:31Oh, you seem nice. Oh, you seem interesting. Oh, you seem delightful.
00:52:36Oh, I would just love to get your thoughts on Proust.
00:52:41I believe that your thoughts on Proust might be between your cleavage.
00:52:47So, please, if I can get in there and make some motorboat noises, I'm pretty sure I can find your thoughts on Proust.
00:52:56That would be fascinating for me.
00:52:58Maybe, maybe your thoughts on Proust are somewhere hidden in the thread of your butt-floss bikini.
00:53:05Maybe I can just slither around, well-oiled, of course, to see if I can find either hemorrhoids or your thoughts on Proust.
00:53:15Because you just seem like a wonderful, special, virtuous, lovely, wonderful, moral girl.
00:53:24And I'm just fascinated by your soul, your spirit, your joie de vivre,
00:53:36the way you bestride the world like a colossus of morality,
00:53:41rather than how you aggressively spread your legs over that peeing fountain.
00:53:45Oh, of course, we could do this all night.
00:53:51We could do this all night.
00:53:53But we all know the facts that you're interested in a free-flowing conversation with a girl on Instagram
00:54:00because you want to have your free-flowing body fluids on the girl from Instagram.
00:54:05There's nothing wrong with the girl being sexy.
00:54:09But you have to start by pretending that you're interested in her for her personality.
00:54:18Oh, you have a lovely smile. Yes, that's right.
00:54:20And if she was an elderly Asian gentleman with a lovely smile,
00:54:24I'm sure you'd be very interested in a free-flowing conversation with him, too.
00:54:30Instagram, in general, is a soft, core, money-grabbing, tit-flashing, resource-eating, void-for-male hopes and testosterone.
00:54:51Just in general. I'm sure there's tons of exceptions.
00:54:54I'm sure if Mother Teresa was alive today, she'd be on Instagram, too.
00:54:59But probably not in a thong.
00:55:06That's why what I want to do, if I had the demon's power of omnipotence,
00:55:17what I would do is I would say, if you want to pose on Instagram,
00:55:24every pose that a young woman does on Instagram,
00:55:28she has to get her great-grandmother to do exactly the same pose in exactly the same outfit.
00:55:35That, to me, would be delicious, delightful, and truth in advertising.
00:55:43So, if you're going to do some leg-split yoga stuff,
00:55:50I'm going to need, in the same outfit, I might add,
00:55:53your great-grandmother to do the exact same pose,
00:55:56and you need to show that right next to yours.
00:55:59That's truth in advertising, because that's where all of this stuff goes.
00:56:04Absolutely.
00:56:06So, if you're going to do some hip-gyrating, semi-twerking,
00:56:14butt-rising like the twin moons of Uranus,
00:56:17I'm going to need your grandmother or great-grandmother
00:56:20doing exactly the same thing right next to you,
00:56:24and that will be the punch to the nads that all the men absolutely need
00:56:29when looking at this stuff, because you buy one, and you get the other.
00:56:34You follow one, and you get the other.
00:56:37You marry one, and you live with the other,
00:56:40because cute evaporates.
00:56:48For every woman who posts a picture of herself with the glow-up,
00:56:51and cheekbones, and a zempig,
00:56:54I need to have a picture of her mother, mid-labor, layered over the top,
00:56:59like mid-pushing out a watermelon through her vagina.
00:57:03I just need to see that, because that's a little bit more realistic.
00:57:08Going to get a certificate to be an electrician.
00:57:10You're the man, Steph.
00:57:11Well, congratulations, Dylan.
00:57:13I am thrilled, and good for you.
00:57:15Good for you.
00:57:16We need electricians, because I need power, man.
00:57:20It's all about me.
00:57:21Me.
00:57:25The other day, for the first time,
00:57:26I saw a girl in a parking lot setting up a tripod
00:57:28and dancing in front of a very expensive supercar, Lamborghini.
00:57:32All alone, I couldn't believe my eyes.
00:57:35Isn't that how it works in real life?
00:57:37You see an attractive girl in the mall or on the street,
00:57:39which makes you interested in talking to her,
00:57:40and then you find out about her personality.
00:57:45So, are you saying that Instagram is just like real life?
00:57:50Is that your theory?
00:57:53Sorry, don't mean to laugh.
00:57:55Is your theory that Instagram is just like real life?
00:58:00So, Instagram is not like real life,
00:58:02because real life is not curated.
00:58:05It doesn't have filters.
00:58:07It's not posed.
00:58:10An Instagram girl will take 50 pictures
00:58:14and choose one and apply filters.
00:58:17In real life, that is not what Instagram does.
00:58:22In real life, that is what Instagram does.
00:58:27In real life, that ain't happening
00:58:30unless you're deranged and schizophrenic
00:58:32and seeing visions of women with Vaseline mist all over their face.
00:58:36So, it's not real life.
00:58:38It's all posed. It's all rehearsed.
00:58:40It's all staged. The lighting is just so.
00:58:43In real life, you get to see the person's full body posture.
00:58:46You get to see them before they're posing for you,
00:58:48so you get to see what their body posture is
00:58:50before they straighten up and look good
00:58:52and get the photographer and all of the right video equipment
00:58:54and all the right lighting and filters,
00:58:56so you get to see the unedited person who's not posing for you.
00:59:00My God, man.
00:59:01You think you might be spending a little too much fucking time online
00:59:04if you think Instagram is just like seeing a girl in the real world.
00:59:10Please don't tell that to women.
00:59:12Please don't tell that to women.
00:59:18Oh, my gosh.
00:59:22Wild.
00:59:26You know, because I understand a lot of men
00:59:29want women to be hot but not know it,
00:59:33which is not right.
00:59:35I never knew a woman who didn't know exactly how attractive she was
00:59:38as my hero Stanley Kowalski,
00:59:40or at least somebody who had some whiz-wise things to say about women.
00:59:45No, he's not my hero, of course.
00:59:47He was a monstrous guy.
00:59:50But women, of course, want men to be young, attractive, and wealthy.
00:59:59Quick question.
01:00:00When is a man's peak earning years?
01:00:03When do they show up in life?
01:00:05When is a man's peak earning years?
01:00:09Just out of curiosity.
01:00:13Do you know?
01:00:16Girls with a lot of pictures are addicted to attention.
01:00:21Yes.
01:00:23I view women with...
01:00:27I mean, I'm not talking about talking women or women talking politics and so on.
01:00:31I'm talking about the bikini broads on Instagram.
01:00:35They're drug addicts, in my view.
01:00:38They're addicted to the dopamine of male attention.
01:00:41And I would never date a drug addict,
01:00:43and I would never date a woman who was addicted to male attention.
01:00:46So that's not going to end.
01:00:4830s, 35 to 55.
01:00:50Oh, come on, Jared, you can't do 20 years.
01:00:52That's way too wide a spread.
01:00:55Men's peak earning tend to be 45 to 55.
01:00:59Peak earning tends to be 45 to 55.
01:01:0235? No.
01:01:04No.
01:01:08Have you seen the latest Pokimane?
01:01:10Who the heck is Pokimane?
01:01:11What is a Pokimane?
01:01:12She bent over showing her ass to pick up her cat
01:01:14and says that baiting her viewers is not her intention.
01:01:17Yes.
01:01:19Yeah, so it's about 45 to 55 is a man's peak earning years.
01:01:25And so women want wealthy guys, but not older guys.
01:01:32Which is like men wanting younger women who are also wise.
01:01:41We are so out of the natural flow of life, it's crazy.
01:01:46It's just crazy how far we are out of the natural flow of life.
01:01:53I ask that question because what you said made me feel bad
01:01:55approaching women in real life because I find them physically attractive.
01:01:59I interpreted you as saying that pretty girls cannot be virtuous,
01:02:03and I wanted to push back on that.
01:02:07Sorry, I don't quite understand.
01:02:15Almost all of my dates have come from approaching women in the real world.
01:02:19I don't understand.
01:02:20I mean, I met my wife by approaching her in the real world,
01:02:23so I don't know what you're talking about, saying that my wife's very pretty.
01:02:26So I don't know why you would think that that's...
01:02:30Anyway, so a trust fund guy.
01:02:32Okay.
01:02:33Should we talk about the trust fund guy?
01:02:35Should we talk about the trust fund guy
01:02:37and women's delusions about the trust fund guy?
01:02:39Just out of curiosity, should we pull apart these delusions about
01:02:46women and the trust fund guys?
01:02:54Because women are wild about the trust fund guys,
01:02:58looking for a man in finance, six, four blue eyes,
01:03:00finance, trust fund, six, four blue eyes, blah, blah, blah.
01:03:05Do you know what the truth is about the trust fund guys?
01:03:13Right.
01:03:14Okay.
01:03:15So as you know, I started right at the bottom.
01:03:19Well, maybe one or two.
01:03:20I wasn't living in subway tunnels, right?
01:03:22But I started right at the bottom of society,
01:03:25right down in the squalid shit fest of trash planet.
01:03:28I was birthed among the trashiest people known to man,
01:03:33where there's guys pulling guns, guys shooting holes in walls,
01:03:37guy beating up girlfriends, women beating up children,
01:03:39women beating up boyfriends, tattoos and pudginess and trash.
01:03:43And it was just appalling.
01:03:45I was born in the absolute dregs of the human zoo.
01:03:49And I have burrowed my way to, at least for a while,
01:03:54I was really high-flying, pretty close to the top of society.
01:03:59One day, when I'm old and even more gray,
01:04:02I will talk about all of this.
01:04:04But anyway, I got to close to the top.
01:04:09Now, that journey is quite something, let me tell you.
01:04:12There's a lot of uncertainty in that journey.
01:04:14One of the reasons why it's hard to change classes
01:04:16is you feel like an incompetent, clod-footed retard.
01:04:21I mean, I remember when I first went to exclusive clubs in Toronto
01:04:25in the business world, I didn't exactly know how to act.
01:04:28I just didn't know.
01:04:29And, of course, my friends, in general,
01:04:31didn't know how to act in that world.
01:04:33I couldn't go to them for advice.
01:04:35So you just have to grit your teeth and be willing to be
01:04:38a retarded outsider for a certain amount of time
01:04:42until you learn the rules of the game.
01:04:45So I have really seen the top and the bottom of society
01:04:51and just about everything in the middle.
01:04:54I have not been down to the total dregs of society,
01:04:57like the homeless, I have not lived like that.
01:05:01But, you know, one step above that,
01:05:03all the way to just about the very top of society,
01:05:06I sort of spanned that whole journey.
01:05:11So where do the trust fund men come from?
01:05:18Well, they come from money, and they come from established money.
01:05:21Because to have a trust fund, you need to have parents
01:05:24who have the kind of money and resources and acumen
01:05:26to hire the armies of lawyers and accountants
01:05:28and God knows what experts you need to set up a trust fund.
01:05:33So what that means, of course, is that
01:05:38you better know your way around the world of the wealthy.
01:05:42If you want a trust fund guy, you're going to need to know
01:05:46how to behave, how to act, what to talk about,
01:05:50when to listen, when to speak.
01:05:52You're going to have to have a very sensitive nose for hierarchy.
01:05:55And you're going to have to know how to present yourself
01:06:02and talk and deal with people to enhance the reputation
01:06:07of the guy with the trust fund.
01:06:10You're going to have to be super classy, super experienced,
01:06:13super sophisticated.
01:06:14And it's very good if you have a family history,
01:06:16and you're going to need to know that world
01:06:18and how to live within it, what cultural points to talk about,
01:06:22and how to be not boring, but also not controversial.
01:06:26I mean, it's crazy complicated in that world of the wealthy
01:06:31because wealthy parents, in particular, are very aware
01:06:35that their sons are a magnet for gold diggers,
01:06:37and therefore they have very strong and very strict filters
01:06:42on who their sons will be encouraged to date
01:06:45and who their sons will be discouraged from dating.
01:06:53Now, how do families prevent their sons
01:07:05from dating and marrying these gold diggers?
01:07:08Do you know how?
01:07:14I want to make sure we're still plugging here.
01:07:17How do they prevent it?
01:07:20Have you checked out Hunter Biden's book?
01:07:25God, no.
01:07:27Are you insane?
01:07:29Why would I want to read Hunter Biden's book?
01:07:31Oh, God.
01:07:33There's not enough asbestos oven mitts for me to even touch
01:07:36the shelf that that book's on.
01:07:38Okay, so how do wealthy...
01:07:42Yeah, look at Biden.
01:07:43He won't even recognize Hunter's strip of gold digger check.
01:07:47Yeah, he won't get any money if he marries a wrong woman,
01:07:52but it's strong.
01:07:57How do they even prevent that situation from arising
01:07:59in the first place?
01:08:01How do they prevent that situation from arising
01:08:07in the first place?
01:08:09Stipulations in the will that cut them off from the marriage.
01:08:12No, no, no, but you want to prevent this.
01:08:15You want to prevent this.
01:08:17You don't want to punish, you want to prevent.
01:08:19How do they prevent them?
01:08:21How do they deal with the fact that their sons are magnets
01:08:24for gold diggers?
01:08:28And it's particularly true if the sons are tall and handsome
01:08:31and this and that and the other, right?
01:08:33How do they do it?
01:08:34How would you do it?
01:08:36Come on, we're all voluntarists here, or at least most of us,
01:08:39so how do you deal with social enforcement without force?
01:08:45I have no idea.
01:08:46Aside from drilling in what quality women are like,
01:08:48if both parties come from money, then there is no issue, right?
01:08:51You prevent it by keeping the son around trusted people.
01:08:54That's very important.
01:08:56Trust fund sons are not going to house parties.
01:08:58You don't even know how to meet these people.
01:09:00You don't even know where they move, where they live,
01:09:02where they work.
01:09:04They're sealed off.
01:09:07They're sealed off, and that has a good effect
01:09:12on maintaining the family fortune, but it has a very bad effect
01:09:15in that you have an entire different section of society
01:09:18that has almost nothing to do with the society it rules and manages.
01:09:23All right.
01:09:24Yes, Kairos, as always, you come up with the right stuff.
01:09:28Ostracism and shame.
01:09:30Ostracism and shame.
01:09:34So what you do in this world is you relentlessly shame
01:09:40any man who goes for a lower quality woman who doesn't fit in.
01:09:48You don't hang out with that person.
01:09:51You don't invite them places.
01:09:52You relentlessly mock him.
01:09:54You humiliate him.
01:09:55You make fun of him.
01:09:56You punish him.
01:09:58You kick him and his family all the way out of the social circle.
01:10:07You punish through ostracism.
01:10:09Now, do you understand?
01:10:12Oh, gosh, that's such an annoying way to put it,
01:10:15yet put it that way I will.
01:10:17Do you understand how incredibly punitive ostracism is
01:10:24for high caste people, for high class people,
01:10:27for the top tier of society?
01:10:29Why is ostracism so powerful in that realm?
01:10:32Because ostracism, I mean, just about everybody from my youth
01:10:36ostracized me when I became more successful.
01:10:41So I'm like, okay, oh, no, the people from Trash Planet
01:10:46don't want to hang with me.
01:10:47How will I survive?
01:10:49Why is it that ostracism among the wealthy is so powerful?
01:10:55What is the answer as to why that is the case?
01:11:05Because the women who want the trust fund kids,
01:11:08like if you're a lower class woman or even a middle class woman,
01:11:12you're not going to, they're not going to be anywhere around at all.
01:11:16Like you're not even going to know where they are.
01:11:18You will never meet them.
01:11:20You will never meet them.
01:11:24Because it lowers your standard of living? Nope.
01:11:30No.
01:11:37Ostracism by the wealthy undermines your business as well,
01:11:40not just your social and private life. Very true.
01:11:42Thank you, Ricardo.
01:11:44Because that's your entire world, your business context,
01:11:46your entire social circle, you aren't going anywhere but down.
01:11:49Right at the end there, James. Boom!
01:11:51You aren't going anywhere but down.
01:11:53You get kicked out from the top,
01:11:57or you just fall.
01:11:59You just fall.
01:12:01They're also sealed off, says Joe.
01:12:03I went to a restaurant with my boss,
01:12:05and he recognized one of the Hunt brother billionaires at a restaurant.
01:12:08The billionaire wasn't flashy at all.
01:12:09I wouldn't have guessed he was rich.
01:12:13Right.
01:12:16So, if you get ostracized
01:12:18by the incredibly wealthy and successful,
01:12:20where do you go?
01:12:24Where do you go?
01:12:26Imagine you're the top one in a thousand athletes.
01:12:31You could get a gold medal and so on,
01:12:33and you get kicked off all of the elite teams,
01:12:35and you've got to go and play in some local pickup league.
01:12:39I mean, don't you feel like shit?
01:12:41You've just been kicked out of the top,
01:12:43and now you've got to hang around the average.
01:12:45Oof! That's brutal.
01:12:50Yeah, you are down and out, right?
01:12:56You're down and out.
01:12:59So, you have everything to lose.
01:13:01If you're top tier, and you get kicked out of the top tier,
01:13:04there's nobody to go but down.
01:13:07Now, some people will do it, right?
01:13:09I mean, the King Edward with his divorcee,
01:13:12he was willing to give up the crown and so on,
01:13:14but, I mean, few people are willing to do it.
01:13:17I mean, in my view,
01:13:19Harry, Diana's youngest son,
01:13:23Princess Diana's youngest son,
01:13:25I mean, he kind of hooked up and got married to...
01:13:30Well, let's just say his bride did not seem to come
01:13:32from the most elevated of circles in the known universe, right?
01:13:37So, the punishment of being excluded
01:13:39from the Elysium Fields of the super-wealthy
01:13:42is so brutal that that's how they police things.
01:13:49And it's the old thing of like,
01:13:51look, you can sleep with a commoner,
01:13:53but you don't marry her.
01:13:55Because if you marry the commoner,
01:13:57you're showing such poor judgment in the eyes of the wealthy
01:14:01that your trust fund will evaporate,
01:14:03your opportunities will evaporate,
01:14:05your wealth will evaporate,
01:14:07the long continuity and chain of wealth in your generations
01:14:11will all come to an end with you.
01:14:15Right?
01:14:19So, the idea that some average girl
01:14:22is going to snag a trust fund guy
01:14:25who's 6'5", blue-eyed, trust fund,
01:14:27working in finance and so on,
01:14:29holy crap, like, that's not going to happen.
01:14:33I mean, even Diana came from minor royalty
01:14:37and couldn't hack it at the top level.
01:14:49So, but do you know why,
01:14:52do you know why, for women,
01:14:54the aim-high porn is so pervasive?
01:14:58The hypergamy porn is so pervasive for women.
01:15:01Why is it? Why is that?
01:15:04Why, and of course, you can say,
01:15:06well, there's a market for it, and I get all of that,
01:15:08but that's not how it used to be.
01:15:10How it used to be was women were told
01:15:13to settle in a realistic manner
01:15:15for a man who fit their station.
01:15:17And by station, I don't necessarily mean economic class,
01:15:20whatever it is, but...
01:15:22So, why is this hypergamy porn,
01:15:25the marry-up porn, so relentless?
01:15:30I mean, even Jane Austen, sort of queen of hypergamy,
01:15:33did not say that the commoner was going to marry Henry Darcy,
01:15:36or Darcy.
01:15:39Everyone is constantly telling them not to settle.
01:15:41I get all that, but why?
01:15:43Why?
01:15:49Fear of missing out?
01:15:50Some, oh, Jared says, I dealt poker
01:15:52to a regular high-roller poker table,
01:15:53one of the guys owned airports.
01:15:54You'd never know it looking at him.
01:15:55Looking across the table, you'd not peg him,
01:15:57peg them as rich guys,
01:15:58except for the young, flashy guys
01:15:59that sat down to donate to the patient older guys.
01:16:01Yeah, yeah.
01:16:02Gives government more power.
01:16:06Well, it's satanic.
01:16:08It's fundamentally satanic.
01:16:09To say aim higher than you can achieve
01:16:14is the sin of pride.
01:16:17I mean, I personally, obviously, what do I know,
01:16:20but I personally think that the sin of pride
01:16:21should be renamed the sin of vanity.
01:16:23Pride can be legitimate.
01:16:24Vanity never is.
01:16:26Vanity is taking personal pride
01:16:29in that which you did not earn, right?
01:16:31A pride can include, like,
01:16:33I'm proud of what I've done in the public sphere.
01:16:35I'm proud of every show that I do.
01:16:37I'm proud of my life.
01:16:40I'm proud of my parenting and all of that.
01:16:42So pride can be legitimate,
01:16:44but vanity never is, right?
01:16:46I'm saying I'm proud of having blue eyes
01:16:48or I'm proud of being smart.
01:16:49I didn't earn that.
01:16:50I didn't earn the blue eyes.
01:16:51I didn't earn my intelligence.
01:16:54So it's really the sin of vanity, right?
01:16:59A vanity is fundamentally sterile.
01:17:04It really is satanic,
01:17:05like telling a kid with broken legs
01:17:06to play basketball.
01:17:07Just torture.
01:17:08No, it's not.
01:17:09It's much worse than that
01:17:10because the kid with broken legs
01:17:11can't play basketball and that's obvious.
01:17:15Artificially high hypergamy
01:17:17equals disgruntled incel army
01:17:18equals the destruction of civilization.
01:17:20Yeah.
01:17:22Whatever you can do
01:17:23to have people not have children
01:17:25is the unraveling of the future
01:17:27of your civilization
01:17:28because people fight for freedoms.
01:17:31They fight for liberties.
01:17:32They fight for opportunities
01:17:33on behalf of their children.
01:17:36It wasn't an accident
01:17:37that after I became a father,
01:17:38I took on the most controversial topics
01:17:40known to man.
01:17:43We understand that, right?
01:17:44Why fight if it's just you?
01:17:46You fight for your kids.
01:17:48You restrain corrupt power
01:17:50for the sake of your children.
01:17:52So whatever you can do
01:17:53to have people not get married,
01:17:55well, it gives you a reliable voting army
01:17:57of single women, right?
01:17:59Single women vote like Democrat
01:18:01plus 20, plus 25%.
01:18:05Single women are still pro-Biden.
01:18:08It doesn't matter
01:18:09if he's drooling on his walker.
01:18:13So whatever you can do
01:18:15to prevent people from getting married
01:18:18and having children,
01:18:21you will do.
01:18:22Now, if they have children
01:18:23without getting married, that's fine
01:18:24because then you get the welfare state,
01:18:25they're dependent on the government,
01:18:26and so on.
01:18:27But nothing turns a woman
01:18:29from liberal to conservative more
01:18:31than being married to a good man
01:18:33and having children
01:18:34because then the single women
01:18:37get money from the government.
01:18:38For married women
01:18:39with husbands who are working,
01:18:41the government is taking money
01:18:42from their family,
01:18:43so they want smaller government
01:18:44whereas the single women,
01:18:45the government is giving money
01:18:47to them from the husbands
01:18:49of the married women,
01:18:51and so they want bigger government.
01:18:53So whatever you can do
01:18:55to undermine people having children,
01:18:57it could be promoting pornography,
01:18:59it could be all the Instagram girls
01:19:02that so program a man's mind
01:19:05that he finds a normal-looking woman
01:19:07ugly, right?
01:19:08You have this like,
01:19:09and I've talked about this
01:19:10with friends, right?
01:19:12The beauty,
01:19:14beauty irradiates your balls, right?
01:19:16Beauty is sterility.
01:19:18Beauty is culling.
01:19:20Beauty is gelding.
01:19:26Beauty cuts your balls off
01:19:28because what happens is then
01:19:30if you constantly expose yourself
01:19:31to these one in a million
01:19:34perfectly formed females or males,
01:19:37then normal-looking people
01:19:39look ugly to you.
01:19:40There was a Seinfeld about this.
01:19:41If you've ever been to the DMV,
01:19:42these people look like mutants, right?
01:19:44Everybody looks like orcs
01:19:45if all you do is stare at Margot Robbie, right?
01:19:49So that's one way of doing it,
01:19:51that you're just like,
01:19:52oh, she's not good enough,
01:19:53she's not sexy enough,
01:19:54she's not tall enough,
01:19:55she's not, you know, whatever, right?
01:19:57Slender enough or athletic enough,
01:19:58or it's like,
01:19:59so a normal-looking woman,
01:20:00which is where the majority
01:20:01of the populations that they come from,
01:20:02normal-looking people,
01:20:03center of the bell curve, right?
01:20:04So what you do is
01:20:06you program men
01:20:08to be dissatisfied
01:20:09with normal, average,
01:20:12healthy-looking females,
01:20:14and you program women
01:20:16to be dissatisfied
01:20:18by normal,
01:20:21earning,
01:20:22average men.
01:20:25And you say to women,
01:20:26you deserve the best,
01:20:28and you say to men,
01:20:29you deserve beauty,
01:20:30and boom!
01:20:32Your entire civilization is fucking done.
01:20:35It's done.
01:20:36It's done.
01:20:37Because people
01:20:38either have fewer kids or no kids.
01:20:41They don't look at the quality of the soul,
01:20:43they don't look at the quality of the character,
01:20:44they simply learn,
01:20:46they simply have a fetish for flesh.
01:20:49Right?
01:20:50A fetish for flesh,
01:20:51which is why I was pushing back hard
01:20:52on the Instagram thing.
01:20:54The Instagram models
01:20:55are probably 1 in 10,000 women.
01:20:58You're not going to date them.
01:20:59They're probably not good to date.
01:21:02So you're going to have to find a way
01:21:04to live with someone
01:21:05about as attractive as you.
01:21:09Her elbows are too pointy.
01:21:10Yeah.
01:21:11I mean,
01:21:12there's a mockery of this, right,
01:21:13on Seinfeld,
01:21:14where he finds something wrong
01:21:15with every woman, right?
01:21:17She's a close talker,
01:21:18she's got man hands,
01:21:19she's, you know, whatever, right?
01:21:21So,
01:21:22this fuzz-budget stuff.
01:21:24You just say to women,
01:21:25you deserve the best.
01:21:27And then,
01:21:28the other thing that you do,
01:21:30of course,
01:21:31is you say to women
01:21:35that you should become
01:21:36what you find attractive.
01:21:40Right?
01:21:41You follow that.
01:21:42You say, well,
01:21:43what you want is
01:21:45an aggressive,
01:21:46dominant,
01:21:47high-earning male.
01:21:49Therefore,
01:21:50you should become
01:21:51an aggressive,
01:21:52dominant,
01:21:53high-earning female.
01:21:55It promotes narcissism,
01:21:59and it makes women unattractive
01:22:01for men who want
01:22:02mothers for their children,
01:22:03which is the whole point, right?
01:22:05So you give women
01:22:06endless streams of,
01:22:07like, you know,
01:22:08the woman who played Starbuck
01:22:10in the 2003 Battlestar Galactica.
01:22:13You just said,
01:22:14tough,
01:22:15drunken.
01:22:16She's, like, a horrible character.
01:22:17Like, she's, I mean,
01:22:18she's severely damaged
01:22:19as a character.
01:22:20Like, her,
01:22:21all of her fingers were broken
01:22:22by her sadistic mother
01:22:23when she was a child.
01:22:24Like, she's completely
01:22:25screwed up human being.
01:22:27And, you know,
01:22:28she's an alcoholic,
01:22:29and she's got a death wish,
01:22:30and she's completely unfit
01:22:31as a mother.
01:22:32So you just promote
01:22:33all of this boss bitch,
01:22:34babe,
01:22:35ass-kicking,
01:22:36Jennifer Garner,
01:22:37an alias,
01:22:39and, you know,
01:22:40all of the Mad Max movies
01:22:42and all of that, right?
01:22:43So you just promote
01:22:46women
01:22:47to be like
01:22:50men,
01:22:52and
01:22:53you promote men
01:22:54to be like women, right?
01:22:56So,
01:22:58men say,
01:22:59well, I want someone
01:23:00who's soft, sensitive,
01:23:01in touch with their emotions,
01:23:02and available,
01:23:04emotionally, right?
01:23:05So then,
01:23:06men say,
01:23:07well, I've got to be
01:23:08soft, sensitive,
01:23:09in touch with my emotions,
01:23:10and, you know,
01:23:11cry on women's shoulders,
01:23:12and hold and hug,
01:23:13and be emotionally available,
01:23:15and all of that sort of stuff.
01:23:20So,
01:23:21they say to men,
01:23:22you should become
01:23:23the women you want,
01:23:24and they say to women,
01:23:25you should become
01:23:26the men you want.
01:23:27And that completely
01:23:28short-circuits
01:23:29everybody's natural attractions
01:23:30and kills the birth rate.
01:23:36And, of course,
01:23:37you relentlessly show
01:23:39negative portrayals
01:23:40of marriage, right?
01:23:41So,
01:23:42the man cheats,
01:23:43the woman's a nag,
01:23:44although women are wonderful,
01:23:45so that doesn't usually happen,
01:23:46but
01:23:47there's no happy marriage,
01:23:48there's no functionality,
01:23:49there's certainly no
01:23:50submission on either side
01:23:52to that which is good.
01:23:53There's hostility,
01:23:54there's no sex,
01:23:55there's anger,
01:23:56there's temper,
01:23:57there's problems.
01:23:58You make sure,
01:23:59of course,
01:24:00that all the parents
01:24:01are understanding
01:24:02that there's no
01:24:03You make sure,
01:24:04of course,
01:24:05that all the parents
01:24:06are unhappy and stressed
01:24:07and detached
01:24:08and their kids are mean
01:24:09and selfish
01:24:10and don't listen
01:24:11and you make
01:24:12youth cool
01:24:13and you make age
01:24:14uncool
01:24:15and, therefore,
01:24:16all the wisdom
01:24:17accumulated by age
01:24:18gets cut off from the young
01:24:19so they have to reinvent the wheel,
01:24:20which usually means
01:24:21satanic hedonism.
01:24:22It's all very
01:24:23boring,
01:24:24and I've talked about it before,
01:24:25so I won't
01:24:26get into it.
01:24:27Yeah, the man is an idiot,
01:24:28the woman is always right,
01:24:29and, therefore,
01:24:30she's never going to submit
01:24:31to any of his expertise
01:24:33Yeah, you put out
01:24:34nonsense statistics
01:24:35like 50% of marriages
01:24:36end in divorce
01:24:37and all of that,
01:24:38right?
01:24:39And you don't tell people,
01:24:40like I was writing about this
01:24:41in my novel,
01:24:42the future, right?
01:24:43You don't tell people
01:24:44the obvious stuff.
01:24:46Like, what do you do
01:24:47if a friend of yours
01:24:48is getting divorced,
01:24:49right?
01:24:50You're a happily married couple
01:24:52and a couple you know
01:24:53is getting divorced.
01:24:55What do you do?
01:24:56What do you do
01:24:57in that situation?
01:24:59What do you do?
01:25:00What do you do?
01:25:02They're getting divorced,
01:25:03right?
01:25:04Can't be backing out.
01:25:05They're getting divorced.
01:25:07So, what do you do?
01:25:09What do you do
01:25:10in that situation?
01:25:15You give women
01:25:16in-group preference
01:25:17and loyalty to each other
01:25:18that they shouldn't
01:25:19listen to men
01:25:20because men are
01:25:21temporary and disposable.
01:25:22They should really listen
01:25:23to each other
01:25:24and hang out together
01:25:25and do things together
01:25:26and all of that.
01:25:27Yeah, you get the hell away.
01:25:28Oh, yeah, yeah.
01:25:29A couple's getting divorced.
01:25:30You amputate.
01:25:32Yeah, absolutely
01:25:33because divorce is spread.
01:25:35Misery loves company
01:25:36and they'll take you down
01:25:37with them.
01:25:38I don't care if you've
01:25:39known them for 30 years.
01:25:40They're getting divorced.
01:25:41Maybe you can catch up
01:25:42with them in 5 or 10 years.
01:25:44But goddamn,
01:25:45you simply don't
01:25:46get into that.
01:25:47You don't get involved
01:25:48in that stuff.
01:25:49I mean, they are,
01:25:50they are,
01:25:51it's a life-destroying
01:25:52contagion.
01:25:56Because, of course,
01:25:57the divorced woman
01:25:58wants to get support
01:25:59from her female friends
01:26:00and the sisterhood
01:26:01and pull them in
01:26:02and she's just not.
01:26:04You might as well
01:26:05put your hand in a blender.
01:26:06Okay.
01:26:07Bowls in a blender.
01:26:08Yeah, you don't.
01:26:09You just,
01:26:10you cut them off.
01:26:12And because your kids
01:26:13don't want to be around
01:26:14their kids
01:26:15because their kids
01:26:16are going to be
01:26:17going through hell
01:26:18and
01:26:20they're going to
01:26:21blame each other.
01:26:22There's going to be
01:26:23misery.
01:26:24There's going to be expense
01:26:25and you're going to be
01:26:26on all sides
01:26:27and there's going to be,
01:26:28like, no,
01:26:29absolutely not.
01:26:30No, life's too short.
01:26:31You do not hang around
01:26:32with people getting divorced.
01:26:34I've never done,
01:26:35I've never,
01:26:36I've never
01:26:37hung around
01:26:38anybody going through
01:26:39a divorce.
01:26:41I would never do it
01:26:42in a million years.
01:26:43Like, you couldn't
01:26:44pay me enough.
01:26:45Like, I'm sorry
01:26:46you fucked up that badly.
01:26:47I mean,
01:26:48that's a real shame.
01:26:49But, no.
01:26:50Nope, nope, nope.
01:26:52Even breakups,
01:26:53like, even breakups,
01:26:54you know,
01:26:55I've had girlfriends
01:26:56and all my friends
01:26:57get into a breakup.
01:26:58I'm like, yeah,
01:26:59you know,
01:27:00give her five minutes
01:27:01of sympathy
01:27:02and then wait to see
01:27:03until the smoke clears.
01:27:04Because people
01:27:05just pull you into
01:27:06their psychosis,
01:27:07their drama,
01:27:08their hostility,
01:27:09their negativity,
01:27:10their storytelling,
01:27:11their self-justifications,
01:27:12their self-righteousness.
01:27:13Oh, my God.
01:27:14Forget it.
01:27:15No thank you.
01:27:17And the kids
01:27:18are going to be pawns
01:27:19and, you know,
01:27:20God knows,
01:27:21maybe,
01:27:22maybe you get pulled
01:27:23into some legal drama
01:27:24and, oh, my God,
01:27:25no, no, no, no, no,
01:27:26no, no, no, no.
01:27:27No.
01:27:28Divorce is,
01:27:29uh,
01:27:30is an instant ostracism
01:27:31in my world.
01:27:32Like, instant.
01:27:33Oh, that's a shame.
01:27:35Bye.
01:27:39Well, and,
01:27:40and people,
01:27:41oh, I need your support.
01:27:42It's like, hey,
01:27:43if you had come to me
01:27:44and you'd have said,
01:27:45I'm pretty,
01:27:46you know,
01:27:47if you'd have said,
01:27:48I'm unhappy in my marriage,
01:27:49right,
01:27:50uh, you know,
01:27:51as a friend,
01:27:52I would have given you
01:27:53some advice.
01:27:56You know,
01:27:57I'm not the worst person
01:27:58in the world
01:27:59to get the odd bit
01:28:00of advice from.
01:28:01So,
01:28:02if,
01:28:03if someone
01:28:04in my circle
01:28:05is,
01:28:06uh,
01:28:07is having a bad time
01:28:08in their marriage,
01:28:09you know,
01:28:10I'm happy to,
01:28:11I'm happy to chat.
01:28:12I've always,
01:28:13I've never ever withheld
01:28:14that from friends.
01:28:15I'm always happy
01:28:16to give my two cents worth.
01:28:17If I,
01:28:18if I can help,
01:28:19I'm,
01:28:20I'm happy to help,
01:28:21right?
01:28:22Now,
01:28:23if I give them advice,
01:28:24either they take my advice
01:28:26or they don't take my advice.
01:28:27If they take my advice,
01:28:29in general,
01:28:30they don't get divorced.
01:28:31Like,
01:28:32I can't think of somebody
01:28:33I've ever had
01:28:34who's having trouble
01:28:35in a relationship,
01:28:36I give good advice,
01:28:37they take that good advice,
01:28:38and then they get divorced
01:28:39or they break up,
01:28:40right?
01:28:41So,
01:28:44or,
01:28:45of course,
01:28:46if it was a relationship
01:28:47where I said,
01:28:48this relationship
01:28:49isn't going to work out,
01:28:50you shouldn't get married,
01:28:51I don't stick around
01:28:52that,
01:28:53that stuff either,
01:28:54right?
01:28:55Because if people
01:28:56don't take my good advice,
01:28:57then why would I want
01:28:58to hold their hand
01:28:59when disaster comes?
01:29:00Like,
01:29:01we've become
01:29:02this weird kind of
01:29:03hand-holding,
01:29:04therapy,
01:29:05codependent,
01:29:06merge culture
01:29:07of crap,
01:29:08right?
01:29:09I've heard stories
01:29:10of the couple
01:29:11turning on the friend
01:29:12for telling the truth
01:29:13and disparaging them.
01:29:14Disparaging the friend?
01:29:15Yeah,
01:29:16just don't do it, man.
01:29:17Life's too short.
01:29:18And you'll understand this
01:29:19when you get older.
01:29:20Life's too short.
01:29:21It doesn't feel like
01:29:22that long ago
01:29:23that I was 27.
01:29:2427 to 57
01:29:25is 30 years.
01:29:2657 to 87
01:29:27is another 30 years.
01:29:28So I've got from now,
01:29:29from 27 to now,
01:29:30if I'm lucky,
01:29:31to live.
01:29:33I don't have
01:29:34months to burn
01:29:35on people
01:29:36who didn't take good advice.
01:29:37The great thing
01:29:38about giving people
01:29:39good advice
01:29:40is that
01:29:41if they don't listen,
01:29:43your conscience
01:29:44is clear.
01:29:47Your conscience is clear.
01:29:49Move on.
01:29:50People who don't
01:29:51take your good advice,
01:29:52man,
01:29:53good luck.
01:29:54I wish you well.
01:29:55I'm sorry
01:29:56you didn't take
01:29:57my good advice.
01:29:58But you know,
01:29:59if,
01:30:00if,
01:30:01you know,
01:30:02if you tell someone
01:30:03to quit smoking
01:30:04and they keep smoking
01:30:05and then they get sick,
01:30:06are you gonna donate
01:30:07a lung to them?
01:30:08Are you crazy?
01:30:09Are you crazy?
01:30:11No,
01:30:12listen,
01:30:13care about people,
01:30:14absolutely, you know,
01:30:15and give them
01:30:16good advice.
01:30:17But if they don't
01:30:18take good advice,
01:30:19your conscience
01:30:20is clear.
01:30:22And you move on.
01:30:23Seriously,
01:30:24life is short.
01:30:25Spend your time
01:30:26with those who listen
01:30:27to good advice
01:30:28and who give you
01:30:29good advice.
01:30:30Spend your time
01:30:31with those who make
01:30:32decent decisions,
01:30:33not perfect decisions
01:30:34nobody does,
01:30:35but spend your time
01:30:36with people
01:30:37on an upward momentum.
01:30:38Spend your time
01:30:39with people
01:30:40who make good decisions
01:30:41or at least reasonably
01:30:42good decisions.
01:30:43Spend your time
01:30:44with people
01:30:45who have pair bonding,
01:30:46who connect,
01:30:47who are the idiots
01:30:48who just bounce around
01:30:49not taking any good advice
01:30:50and smashing up
01:30:51everyone around them.
01:30:52It's like,
01:30:53my god almighty.
01:30:54Right?
01:30:57There's a chilling
01:31:03quote
01:31:04from the Great Gatsby.
01:31:05I mean,
01:31:06Great Gatsby
01:31:07is just about,
01:31:08it's a psyop, right?
01:31:09It became famous
01:31:10for an absolute
01:31:14psyop, right?
01:31:16But there's a great quote.
01:31:18I remember
01:31:19reading this
01:31:21and
01:31:22being struck by it.
01:31:23I think it's interesting.
01:31:24I think there's a lot of
01:31:26truth in it
01:31:27and it's a warning.
01:31:28And the quote is,
01:31:31they were careless people,
01:31:32Tom and Daisy.
01:31:33They smashed up
01:31:34things and creatures
01:31:36and then retreated back
01:31:37into their money
01:31:39or their vast carelessness
01:31:40or whatever it was
01:31:41that kept them together
01:31:43and let other people
01:31:44clean up the mess
01:31:46they had made.
01:31:50Isn't that something?
01:31:56I remember
01:31:57getting
01:31:58very emotional
01:32:00reading at the end
01:32:01of the Great Gatsby.
01:32:04There's a great quote
01:32:05there as well.
01:32:08So we beat on
01:32:11boats against the current
01:32:15born back
01:32:16ceaselessly into the past.
01:32:24You know,
01:32:29most people
01:32:31smash up
01:32:32other people.
01:32:35Most people smash up
01:32:36other people's dreams
01:32:37and hopes
01:32:38and relationships,
01:32:39not necessarily
01:32:40through malevolence
01:32:41but through
01:32:42a kind of
01:32:43bottomless
01:32:44selfishness.
01:32:46F. Scott Fitzgerald
01:32:47refers to it
01:32:48as carelessness.
01:32:49And F. Scott Fitzgerald
01:32:50was not writing
01:32:51about anyone
01:32:52other than himself.
01:32:53I mean,
01:32:54he was a drunk.
01:32:55He smashed up
01:32:56his relationship.
01:32:57He and his wife,
01:32:58Zelda,
01:32:59were the talk of the town
01:33:00and the very top
01:33:01of the world
01:33:02and I based my character
01:33:03in the novel
01:33:06Almost Wendy
01:33:07to some degree
01:33:08on Zelda Fitzgerald
01:33:09and he ended up
01:33:10dying of alcohol.
01:33:11Alcoholism
01:33:12very young.
01:33:13And then she ended up
01:33:14in an insane asylum
01:33:16where she burnt to death
01:33:17after like 13 years
01:33:18living in an insane asylum
01:33:20or being trapped
01:33:21in an insane asylum.
01:33:22She ended up
01:33:23being burnt to death
01:33:24in her little corner hovel
01:33:25because the whole thing
01:33:26burnt down
01:33:27and that's what happens
01:33:28to these kinds
01:33:29of people.
01:33:32You have to be
01:33:33incredibly
01:33:34incredibly careful
01:33:35who you spend
01:33:36your time with.
01:33:37Personalities
01:33:38are infectious.
01:33:39Problems
01:33:40are infectious.
01:33:41Good decisions
01:33:42are infectious
01:33:44and
01:33:46you have to be willing
01:33:47if you want to
01:33:48get out of a bad situation
01:33:50you have to be willing
01:33:51to absolutely abandon
01:33:52everyone addicted
01:33:53to that bad situation.
01:33:57Your advice
01:33:58has been very helpful
01:33:59in my marriage
01:34:00many times.
01:34:02I'm glad to hear that.
01:34:03When my wife and I
01:34:04are going through
01:34:05a tough time
01:34:06you often coincidentally
01:34:07do a show that speaks
01:34:08to the problem.
01:34:12In order to have
01:34:13a good life
01:34:15you have to be
01:34:16surrounded by good people.
01:34:17There's no other way
01:34:18to do it.
01:34:19There's no other way
01:34:20to do it.
01:34:21You can't have a good
01:34:22life alone because
01:34:23we're social animals.
01:34:24You can't have a good
01:34:25life surrounded by
01:34:26bad people because
01:34:27they'll smash you up
01:34:28through carelessness,
01:34:29jealousy, envy
01:34:30or malevolence.
01:34:32I mean
01:34:33jeez
01:34:34you know that
01:34:35eighty to ninety percent
01:34:36of people
01:34:37will
01:34:38murder others
01:34:39if someone in
01:34:40authority tells them to.
01:34:41We know this from
01:34:42the Milgram experiments.
01:34:44And
01:34:45you know
01:34:46eighty percent of people
01:34:47at least
01:34:48will harm
01:34:49or kill others.
01:34:50They have no conscience
01:34:51no morals
01:34:52no standards
01:34:53no virtues
01:34:54they're just obedient
01:34:55little NPCs
01:34:56who are
01:34:58useful
01:34:59weapons
01:35:00for those in power
01:35:01and
01:35:02a bane of the existence
01:35:03for those who are
01:35:04thirsting for freedom.
01:35:06So
01:35:07and this
01:35:08you know
01:35:09the eighty percent of people
01:35:10who'll just do whatever
01:35:11those in power
01:35:12tell them to do
01:35:13well
01:35:14they took the vaccine
01:35:15right?
01:35:16This is not
01:35:17this is not a shocking
01:35:18statistic is it?
01:35:19I mean
01:35:20so eighty percent of people
01:35:21have no thoughts
01:35:22of their own.
01:35:23Eighty percent of people
01:35:24are
01:35:25simply stuffed full of
01:35:26propaganda
01:35:27and easily turned
01:35:28attack robots
01:35:29on those
01:35:31with a shred of
01:35:32original thought
01:35:33or creativity.
01:35:35You can see this
01:35:36in the art world right?
01:35:37Everything's so
01:35:38blindingly predictable
01:35:41and it's all about
01:35:42propaganda.
01:35:43So
01:35:44most people
01:35:45not only
01:35:46don't think
01:35:47most people
01:35:48are anti-thinking
01:35:49they are hostile
01:35:50to thought
01:35:51and curiosity
01:35:52and questions.
01:35:53They are told to hate Trump
01:35:54they hate Trump
01:35:55they're told to hate
01:35:56the unvaccinated
01:35:57they hate the unvaccinated.
01:35:58These are the people
01:35:59who would be taught
01:36:00to hate Jews
01:36:01or blacks
01:36:02or and now they're being taught
01:36:03to hate whites
01:36:04or anti-headed attack dogs
01:36:05for the propagandists
01:36:06in charge.
01:36:09The most
01:36:10common
01:36:12group
01:36:13in human history
01:36:15are the mindless
01:36:16who attack
01:36:17whoever the powerful
01:36:18point at.
01:36:23So yeah
01:36:24people who are getting
01:36:25divorced particularly
01:36:26if they have kids
01:36:28have screwed up
01:36:29their lives
01:36:30and they'll screw up yours
01:36:31if you let them
01:36:32so don't let them.
01:36:35Do not let them.
01:36:38Whatever is
01:36:39harmful to your marriage
01:36:41is an environmental toxin
01:36:43and in particular
01:36:44what is harmful to your children
01:36:45is an environmental toxin.
01:36:46What if you can see
01:36:47they have a good heart
01:36:48but have potentially
01:36:49infectious flaws
01:36:50like procrastination?
01:37:17You can't see
01:37:18if people have
01:37:19a good heart.
01:37:20That is a
01:37:21delusional fantasy.
01:37:28Look
01:37:29someone's fat
01:37:30you tell them
01:37:31to lose weight.
01:37:32If they don't lose weight
01:37:33but you say
01:37:34well
01:37:35but they have
01:37:36a good heart
01:37:37that's a delusional fantasy.
01:37:39What are you doing?
01:37:41What can you judge
01:37:42people by?
01:37:43Your fantasy projection
01:37:44of the angels
01:37:45and fairies
01:37:46that float around
01:37:47their fucking bloodstream?
01:37:48No
01:37:49you can't judge
01:37:50people on that.
01:37:51What do you judge
01:37:52people on?
01:37:53Intentions
01:37:54thoughts
01:37:55magical beasts
01:37:56that live in their neurons?
01:37:57Ghosts
01:37:58devils
01:37:59angels?
01:38:00Magical ether
01:38:01that flows
01:38:02through their veins?
01:38:03What do you judge
01:38:04people on
01:38:06and by?
01:38:13Their good heart?
01:38:15No
01:38:16that's a fantasy
01:38:17and it's a
01:38:18manipulative fantasy.
01:38:19What
01:38:20do you judge
01:38:21people
01:38:22on?
01:38:25That's right Manuel
01:38:26you judge them by
01:38:28their actions.
01:38:33Somebody's fat
01:38:34you say lose weight
01:38:35they don't lose weight
01:38:37they prefer being fat.
01:38:42Oh but they have
01:38:43a good heart
01:38:44they don't
01:38:45they have a
01:38:46clogged heart.
01:38:54So what are you
01:38:55talking about
01:38:56they have a good heart
01:38:57that's
01:38:58well the
01:38:59the serial killer
01:39:00has a good ghost
01:39:01in his spleen
01:39:02and I'm going to
01:39:03judge him by that.
01:39:04Are you crazy?
01:39:05Talk about
01:39:06serving up
01:39:07your entire life
01:39:08for evil doers
01:39:09to manipulate
01:39:10the shit out of you.
01:39:11You can
01:39:12reach into
01:39:13someone's ventricles
01:39:14and
01:39:15unthread the tendrils
01:39:16of their immortal soul
01:39:17and
01:39:18view it in your
01:39:19microscope of moral
01:39:20examination and
01:39:22shut up
01:39:24judge
01:39:25them
01:39:26by their actions
01:39:27and nothing else
01:39:28because the actions
01:39:29are true
01:39:30the actions are
01:39:31empirical right.
01:39:32Somebody is
01:39:33in a bad
01:39:34relationship
01:39:35they yell
01:39:36they scream
01:39:37they kick
01:39:38they whatever right
01:39:39and you say hey
01:39:40this is a bad
01:39:41relationship
01:39:42I love this person
01:39:43and you say well
01:39:44but what are the
01:39:45virtues that you love
01:39:46and blah blah blah
01:39:47well you know
01:39:48but they have a good
01:39:49heart and I care
01:39:50about it.
01:39:51It's like okay
01:39:52I'm sure they mean
01:39:53well and they did
01:39:54the best they could
01:39:55and they had a
01:39:56tough child
01:39:57it's okay
01:39:58okay
01:39:59I'm not going to
01:40:00argue.
01:40:01You're in
01:40:02a destructive
01:40:03relationship
01:40:04you choose to say
01:40:05to say
01:40:06I'm not going to
01:40:07judge anything else.
01:40:08Have some humility
01:40:09for God's sakes
01:40:10you can't reach
01:40:11and unravel
01:40:12the virtues like
01:40:13gossamer silk
01:40:14spider web threads
01:40:15going between
01:40:16every atom of
01:40:17their being
01:40:18that's a fantasy
01:40:19you're not
01:40:20you're not
01:40:21omniscient
01:40:22you don't know
01:40:23all you know
01:40:24is what people
01:40:25do.
01:40:26I don't even
01:40:27care what they say
01:40:28all you know
01:40:29is what
01:40:30people
01:40:31do.
01:40:32How many times
01:40:33have you heard me
01:40:34in a call-in show
01:40:35saying that's an
01:40:36interpretation
01:40:37that's a judgment
01:40:38I don't know
01:40:39I don't care
01:40:40just tell me
01:40:41what actually
01:40:42happened.
01:40:43Intention
01:40:44is a fish hook
01:40:45that draws your
01:40:46balls out
01:40:47through your
01:40:48wallet.
01:40:49It is something
01:40:50that is used to
01:40:51play you
01:40:52control you
01:40:53but why judge
01:40:54me by my
01:40:55intentions
01:40:56because judge me
01:40:57by made up shit
01:40:58judge me by
01:40:59made up shit
01:41:00judge me by stuff
01:41:01that's not real
01:41:02not empirical
01:41:03that I can
01:41:04lie about.
01:41:05Oh
01:41:06intentions
01:41:07intentions
01:41:08intentions
01:41:09are the
01:41:10pain
01:41:11of a rational
01:41:12moral
01:41:13life.
01:41:14Well
01:41:15I never
01:41:16meant to
01:41:17hurt you.
01:41:18It's not
01:41:19even but
01:41:20you did
01:41:21it's like
01:41:22that's irrelevant
01:41:23you did
01:41:24that's irrelevant
01:41:25you did.
01:41:26Well
01:41:27but I'm sure
01:41:28my parents
01:41:29have the best
01:41:30of intentions
01:41:31and they
01:41:32meant well
01:41:33and it's
01:41:34like
01:41:35okay so
01:41:36you're just
01:41:37making up
01:41:38you are
01:41:39judging the
01:41:40ghosts of
01:41:41your own
01:41:42feverish
01:41:43projecting
01:41:44defensive
01:41:45manipulated
01:41:46imagination
01:41:47rather than
01:41:48the simple
01:41:49actual facts
01:41:50that are
01:41:51right there
01:41:52before you.
01:41:53Judging people
01:41:54by their
01:41:55intentions
01:41:56okay
01:41:57let's just
01:41:58play this
01:41:59shit out
01:42:00right?
01:42:01Does
01:42:02everyone
01:42:03in a
01:42:04running race
01:42:05have
01:42:06intentions
01:42:07to
01:42:08win?
01:42:09Yes
01:42:10everyone
01:42:11in the
01:42:12running race
01:42:13has the
01:42:14intention
01:42:15of victory
01:42:16okay?
01:42:17So
01:42:18who
01:42:19wins?
01:42:20You
01:42:21can't
01:42:22judge the
01:42:23winner
01:42:24of a
01:42:25race
01:42:26his or
01:42:27her
01:42:28intention
01:42:29because they
01:42:30all have
01:42:31the same
01:42:32intention
01:42:33so
01:42:34you
01:42:35can't
01:42:36what
01:42:37do you
01:42:38what do you
01:42:39judge?
01:42:40What do you
01:42:41judge?
01:42:42How about a radical
01:42:43thing like who
01:42:44crosses the
01:42:45finish line
01:42:46first?
01:42:47Just a little
01:42:48possibility.
01:42:49Who crosses
01:42:50the finish line
01:42:51first?
01:42:52Yeah
01:42:53because that's
01:42:54empirical
01:42:55that's a
01:42:56fact.
01:42:57Everybody
01:42:58wants to
01:42:59marry the
01:43:00lovely
01:43:01pretty
01:43:02wonderful
01:43:03girl.
01:43:04Everyone
01:43:05wants
01:43:06absolutely
01:43:07the
01:43:08magical
01:43:09thinking
01:43:10is
01:43:11you know
01:43:12love the
01:43:13ladies
01:43:14magical
01:43:15thinking
01:43:16is
01:43:17feminine
01:43:18and
01:43:19an
01:43:20absolute
01:43:21disaster
01:43:22so
01:43:23magical
01:43:24thinking
01:43:25is for
01:43:26the
01:43:27helpless
01:43:28we
01:43:29men
01:43:30we
01:43:31have to
01:43:32be
01:43:33empirical
01:43:34so
01:43:35you understand
01:43:36that the
01:43:37focus on
01:43:38judging
01:43:39intentions
01:43:40is the
01:43:41focus on
01:43:42trying to
01:43:43make you
01:43:44hyper-feminine
01:43:45right?
01:43:46Don't do it.
01:43:47Do not
01:43:48fall for the
01:43:49PSYOP.
01:43:50Men deal
01:43:51with facts.
01:43:52Now
01:43:53relationships
01:43:54and intentions
01:43:55are part of
01:43:56life.
01:43:57Leave it to
01:43:58the ladies.
01:43:59You as
01:44:00men
01:44:01we as
01:44:02men
01:51:04come on
01:51:05tell me that
01:51:06speech
01:51:07struggling
01:51:08through the
01:51:09tech
01:51:10tell me that
01:51:11ain't worth
01:51:12freedomain.com
01:51:13slash donate
01:51:14tell me that
01:51:15ain't worth
01:51:16a tip or two
01:51:17brothers.
01:51:18Yeah
01:51:19fear morality
01:51:20is when you
01:51:21borrow from
01:51:22the virtue of
01:51:23the future
01:51:24to give
01:51:25forgiveness
01:51:26in the
01:51:27present
01:51:28because by
01:51:29making the
01:51:30world
01:51:31shittier in
01:51:32the future
01:51:33you give
01:51:34people
01:51:35false
01:51:36forgiveness
01:51:37in the
01:51:38present
01:51:39through the
01:51:40magical
01:51:41bullshit
01:51:42pixie dust
01:51:43of projected
01:51:44desire for
01:51:45infinite
01:51:46forgiveness
01:51:47called
01:51:48intentionality.
01:51:49Well I
01:51:50didn't mean
01:51:51to well I
01:51:52had the
01:51:53best of
01:51:54intentions.
01:51:55Fuck
01:51:56that.
01:51:57Fuck
01:51:58that.
01:51:59Seriously
01:52:00it's
01:52:01and all
01:52:02the bad
01:52:03people
01:52:04want to
01:52:05do is
01:52:06get away
01:52:07from the
01:52:08consequences
01:52:09of their
01:52:10shitty decisions.
01:52:11That's all
01:52:12they want to
01:52:13do.
01:52:14That's their
01:52:15entire reason
01:52:16for being
01:52:17is to
01:52:18coin
01:52:19bullshit
01:52:20intentionalities
01:52:21so that
01:52:22they don't
01:52:23have to deal
01:52:24with the
01:52:25empiricism
01:52:26of what
01:52:27they did.
01:52:28I don't
01:52:29care.
01:52:30You know
01:52:31I'm constantly
01:52:32having this fight
01:52:33with people in
01:52:34the business
01:52:35world right.
01:52:36I don't care
01:52:37about your
01:52:38intentions I
01:52:39care about the
01:52:40results I care
01:52:41about the
01:52:42facts.
01:52:43As a
01:52:44business owner
01:52:45you have
01:52:46actual
01:52:47fucking math
01:52:48called income
01:52:49and expenses.
01:52:50Intentionality
01:52:51I mean
01:52:52would would
01:52:53if you
01:52:54worked for
01:52:55me would
01:52:56you be
01:52:57happy to
01:52:58be paid
01:52:59for
01:53:00what you
01:53:01did.
01:53:02Look at
01:53:03how far
01:53:04that gets
01:53:05you.
01:53:06You have
01:53:07actual math
01:53:08called income
01:53:09and expenses
01:53:10and then
01:53:11people say
01:53:12well my
01:53:13intention was
01:53:14and my
01:53:15goal was
01:53:16and it's
01:53:17like I
01:53:18can't pay
01:53:19like you
01:53:20wouldn't
01:53:21accept my
01:53:22intentionality
01:53:23to pay
01:53:24your
01:53:25fucking
01:53:26salary
01:53:27so why
01:53:28wouldn't
01:53:29you
01:53:30accept my
01:53:31intentionality
01:53:32I get
01:53:33that but
01:53:34we're not
01:53:35toddlers
01:53:36we're adults
01:53:37and in
01:53:38particular if
01:53:39we're
01:53:40males.
01:53:41So
01:53:42alright I
01:53:43think people
01:53:44are not
01:53:45agreeing with
01:53:46me on the
01:53:47quality of
01:53:48this speech
01:53:49because I'm
01:53:50not getting
01:53:51more tips
01:53:52but that's
01:53:53alright I
01:53:54will look to
01:53:55the future
01:53:56sometimes to
01:53:57see if
01:53:58I can
01:53:59get
01:54:00more
01:54:01tips
01:54:02out of
01:54:03this
01:54:04speech
01:54:05but
01:54:06I
01:54:07don't
01:54:08think
01:54:09I can
01:54:10get
01:54:11more
01:54:12tips
01:54:13out of
01:54:14this
01:54:15speech
01:54:16but
01:54:17I
01:54:18don't
01:54:19think
01:54:20I can
01:54:21get
01:54:22more
01:54:23tips
01:54:24out of
01:54:25this
01:54:56speech
01:54:57but
01:54:58I
01:54:59don't
01:55:00think
01:55:01I can
01:55:02get
01:55:03more
01:55:04tips
01:55:05out of
01:55:06this
01:55:07speech
01:55:08but
01:55:09I
01:55:10don't
01:55:11think
01:55:12I can
01:55:13get
01:55:14more
01:55:15tips
01:55:16out of
01:55:17this
01:55:18speech
01:55:19but
01:55:20I
01:55:21don't
01:55:22think
01:55:23I can
01:55:24get