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00:00Hello, what's up everyone? Welcome to another episode of Motive Trending.
00:04Today is special because we have a guest.
00:06Our guest.
00:08It's my co-host for this show.
00:10We have Emilia Henderson in the studio.
00:12Hi guys. I've never sat in this chair before.
00:14Not yet?
00:16It's good that you're sitting there.
00:17So how are you feeling after this breakup?
00:19I'm feeling okay, Sean, to be honest.
00:21Everything is okay.
00:23I think everything happens for a reason.
00:25So, I mean, I've...
00:27It's a good thing.
00:28I mean, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be, right?
00:30What does love mean to you?
00:32The definition of your love.
00:34But you know what?
00:35I'm not an expert in this topic.
00:38Maybe we should refer to an expert.
00:42Who is this expert you're talking about?
00:44I have a friend who can help me answer these questions.
00:48That nonsense you're talking about.
00:49I do, I do.
00:51You think you're the only one who can surprise me with questions about my personal life?
00:53You brought a friend to the interview?
00:55Wait, I need to check first. Is my friend ready?
00:57Wait, I need to check first. Do you want to see who my friend is?
01:00Do we have a budget for drumrolls?
01:03Guys.
01:04Hang on, let me grab her first.
01:16Babe, hi!
01:17Sean, this is the plot twist.
01:19Hello!
01:20Hi!
01:21Hello!
01:22Hi, how are you?
01:23Congratulations.
01:24Thank you.
01:26Go sit over there, Sean.
01:27This Motive Trending is about you.
01:30Thank you so much for coming and helping us with the surprise.
01:33Why?
01:34I'm very happy.
01:37You didn't know?
01:38What are you doing here, baby?
01:39I was in his car.
01:41I told him that I have a shoot nearby.
01:43I waited in the car for a while, then I grabbed him.
01:45Then I texted him.
01:46Oh, I'm in Grab now.
01:47Oh, really?
01:48So, this is your shoot actually?
01:49Yes.
01:51This is the real Motive Trending.
01:53Are you guys surprised?
01:54Yes.
01:55Obviously, I'm not surprised.
01:56Because we planned this with you.
01:57But, Sean.
01:58How do you feel?
01:59You said you have a friend?
02:00Yes.
02:01Why would you bring a friend to this interview?
02:04Because I actually did interviews about you.
02:06Yes, that's the thing, dude.
02:08So, yes.
02:09I'm just lost for words right now.
02:11So, I cannot talk.
02:12Okay, let's do this.
02:14Babe, can I say something?
02:16The members are surprised.
02:17The members are surprised.
02:18But, firstly.
02:19From the four of us.
02:20We want to congratulate you.
02:22Thank you.
02:23For your marriage the other day.
02:24Which went viral.
02:25Everybody loves it.
02:26It was so cute.
02:33And I can say.
02:34Honestly, one of the most beautiful weddings.
02:36Amy has ever seen in my entire life.
02:38I was crying.
02:39Guys, the whole night.
02:40It was terrible.
02:41I felt like I went there.
02:42I was like crying.
02:43I sat next to him.
02:44We were all crying.
02:45The whole table was crying.
02:46It was all Bae, actually.
02:48The vision that you see.
02:50The vibe that you see in the wedding.
02:52It's all her, man.
02:54But, Sean, you helped out.
02:56You gave your input.
02:57What you like.
02:58And I think he helped to back me up.
03:00With certain decisions.
03:01That maybe are not super traditional.
03:03And not the usual way to do a wedding.
03:05But, yes.
03:06You supported me.
03:07There are a lot of people out there.
03:08Who have a lot of questions.
03:09About your marriage.
03:10But, before that.
03:11I do want to ask Bae a couple of questions.
03:12Okay.
03:13So, firstly.
03:14Can you tell us a bit about your background?
03:15My name is Bae.
03:16I come from a graphic design background, actually.
03:19So, I studied graphic design in uni.
03:21I was like, okay.
03:22Actually, I quite like doing content.
03:23And all this while.
03:24You do content for fun sometimes.
03:26And you grow from there.
03:27But, during the pandemic.
03:28I was like, maybe I can do this seriously.
03:30Because, I do enjoy it.
03:31So, started from there.
03:33And then, I think during the pandemic.
03:34I was quite lucky.
03:35That I still got freelance jobs.
03:37For modelling.
03:38Still got content jobs.
03:39So, from there.
03:40Slowly, just kind of grew.
03:42Grew.
03:43Yeah.
03:44So, seeing Sean's career.
03:45I'm much shyer compared to Sean.
03:47I'm a bit introverted.
03:49I'm a bit more shy.
03:50So, I think in terms of.
03:51Pretend to be someone else.
03:53I feel a bit difficult.
03:54Yeah.
03:55I understand.
03:56For those of you at home.
03:57Who are just starting to get to know Bae.
03:59You got to get on the Bae train.
04:01Okay, I'll tell you.
04:02Because, I got to know Bae.
04:03Before I met Sean.
04:05I know you first.
04:06Did you know that?
04:07Before, I knew Sean.
04:08I knew you first.
04:09And then, I ended up working with Sean so much.
04:10But, I met Bae.
04:11A really long time ago.
04:12We did musical theatre together.
04:13Dancing to Broadway, right?
04:14Exactly.
04:15When I was.
04:16I can't remember.
04:17We were both so young.
04:18I was 11, I think.
04:19So, I must have been like.
04:20Probably 14, 15.
04:21Something like that.
04:22And, she's always been.
04:23The most talented.
04:24Most beautiful girl.
04:25She lights up every room.
04:26That she walks into.
04:27And so, when I first got to know.
04:28That you guys were together.
04:29I was honestly so happy.
04:30Because, I feel like.
04:31It's such a.
04:32It's so perfect.
04:33Okay, but.
04:34She said.
04:35While I knew you guys independently.
04:36I didn't know how you guys met.
04:37How could.
04:38Like, what.
04:39What's going on?
04:40What's going on?
04:41Somebody explain.
04:42What's the story?
04:43I guess, I just decided.
04:44To take a chance.
04:45You took a chance?
04:46Yeah, that's the story.
04:47Wait, where did you meet her?
04:48Like, how did you know.
04:49Bei?
04:50In the first place?
04:51We started off.
04:52As YouTube friends.
04:53YouTube friends?
04:54Is that even a thing?
04:55I don't know.
04:56Okay, so.
04:57Before all this.
04:58That you see.
04:59Showing on TV.
05:00Whatever.
05:01Like, I started off.
05:02Making YouTube videos first.
05:03Where I do like.
05:04Silly videos here and there.
05:05Just trying to be a YouTuber.
05:06Right?
05:07Doing something.
05:08And.
05:09At that time.
05:10I had a YouTube channel as well.
05:12And so.
05:13I think.
05:14At that time.
05:15There were not that many people.
05:16On YouTube from Malaysia.
05:17And.
05:18It was a very small circle.
05:19So, we subscribe to each other.
05:20And.
05:21Not like we talk.
05:22Or whatever.
05:23Like, just for years.
05:24For years.
05:25We just follow each other online.
05:26Subscribe to each other.
05:27And then.
05:28So, I actually found her on YouTube first.
05:29And it took me like.
05:30Almost a year.
05:31To find her Instagram though.
05:32Because normally.
05:33If you find someone's YouTube.
05:34You'll obviously find their Instagram.
05:35And then you like.
05:36You stalk their profile, right?
05:37Right, right, right.
05:38Like, what they are.
05:39What they do.
05:41Because you didn't put it on your YouTube.
05:43No.
05:44Oh, okay.
05:45I understand.
05:49It's very hard.
06:00Oh, yeah?
06:04So, she showed me the phone.
06:05And then I saw.
06:06I was like.
06:07So, this is her profile.
06:08Then I was like.
06:10It's interesting.
06:11Because her name.
06:12It's not B-A-Y.
06:13D-O-U-C-E-T right now.
06:14Her name was.
06:15B-A-Y.
06:16D-O-U-C-E-T.
06:17Oh, right.
06:18That B-A-Y concept.
06:19How did you find it?
06:22So, I finally found it.
06:23So, yeah.
06:28So, that's how it happened, right?
06:29Yeah, yeah.
06:30That's the beginning of everything.
06:31I just decided to take a.
06:32Take a leap of faith.
06:33And like.
06:34Just DM her.
06:35And see what's up.
06:36Because.
06:37I don't know.
06:38We can't expect anything.
06:39To be honest.
06:40I didn't expect somebody like her.
06:42To like.
06:43Like someone like me.
06:44In that sense.
06:45Because.
06:48I don't know, man.
06:49I'm just like this.
06:50Normal like guy.
06:51Chinese guy.
06:52Whatever.
06:53I'm just normal too.
06:54Dude, you're going to make me cry.
06:55Okay, babe.
06:56I have something to tell you.
06:57I'm crying.
06:58No.
06:59Since I told.
07:00Since I told the audience.
07:01How I first met you.
07:02Now, tell me.
07:03How I first met Sean.
07:04Okay.
07:05So, we.
07:06I met you first.
07:07But after that.
07:08I had this job.
07:09Called.
07:10Keluarga Puntimo.
07:11And it was the most.
07:12Insane story.
07:13Because they said.
07:14You're going to be like.
07:15One of two siblings.
07:16And you have a twin.
07:17In the story.
07:18I was like.
07:19I have a twin?
07:20And then I get to set.
07:21On the first day.
07:22I'm like.
07:23This is my twin?
07:24Until now.
07:25I can't breathe.
07:26But that was the first time.
07:27I worked with Sean.
07:28I ended up working with him.
07:29I think like.
07:30Five or six times again.
07:31After that.
07:32And throughout the course of that.
07:33I think we developed.
07:34Like a really good.
07:35Friendship.
07:36And until now.
07:37His entire life.
07:38Glow.
07:39As much as he does.
07:40When he's talking about you, babe.
07:42And as a friend.
07:43It's such a beautiful thing to see.
07:44Because.
07:45He's a secret.
07:46Not only the audience.
07:47Who doesn't know you're getting married.
07:48Actually.
07:49We who are close to Sean.
07:50Like his closest colleagues.
07:51Don't know.
07:52He didn't tell, babe.
08:05Throughout the course of your relationship.
08:06When did you guys realise.
08:07Like okay.
08:08This is the time.
08:09That you're going to take the next step.
08:11Into becoming.
08:13Officially.
08:14And getting married.
08:15Yeah.
08:16I don't know.
08:17The perception of netizens.
08:18How.
08:19When they get to know.
08:20I'm getting married and everything.
08:22So.
08:23A lot.
08:24Wait for me.
08:25To be ready.
08:26To take.
08:27Take this step.
08:28But wait for me too.
08:29Because for me.
08:30I'm a little bit younger.
08:31And.
08:32When we first started dating.
08:33At that time.
08:34I was still in uni.
08:35And I just started working.
08:36Yes.
08:37So.
08:38By the time I graduated.
08:39He already had a career.
08:40Already had.
08:41You know.
08:42Your career is growing.
08:43But for me.
08:44I haven't started yet.
08:45So.
08:46For me.
08:47I want to wait.
08:48Till I kind of felt like.
08:49I have my own jobs.
08:50And I make my own money.
08:51And I feel comfortable.
08:52Yeah.
08:53Standing on my own two feet.
08:54It was.
08:55I think it gave me the opportunity.
08:56To explore my own career.
08:57Without this pressure of like.
08:58Oh.
08:59That's the boyfriend.
09:00I'm Sean.
09:01You know.
09:02Like.
09:03Nobody has to bring that up.
09:04And I can just kind of.
09:05Grow my career.
09:06In a way that is.
09:07More organic.
09:08In a sense.
09:09For yourself.
09:10Yeah.
09:11But it's not just about career guys.
09:12Like.
09:13Take it from me.
09:14Like.
09:15When you do things in the public eye.
09:16Also.
09:17You're opening yourself.
09:18And your relationship.
09:19Which is nobody's business.
09:20But yours.
09:21How long have you guys been together?
09:22I think eight years now.
09:23Yeah.
09:24Christmas this year.
09:25Will be eight.
09:26Eight.
09:27Yeah.
09:28I didn't know for that long lah.
09:29By Christmas this year.
09:30Yeah.
09:31Christmas this year.
09:32Will be eight years.
09:33Oh yeah.
09:34Actually.
09:35Yeah.
09:36Yeah.
09:37From day one?
09:38He's been lying from day one.
09:39Dude.
09:40I wasn't lying from day one.
09:41I knew about like four years ago.
09:42What do you mean eight years?
09:43Look.
09:44No one asked anything.
09:45So I just didn't say anything.
09:46Like.
09:47I thought we were friends.
09:48What is his personality.
09:49Like.
09:50Behind the scenes.
09:51When he's with you.
09:52Give us some.
09:53Some intel.
09:54I think there are.
09:55Parts yang sama.
09:56And parts yang tak sama.
09:57Obviously.
09:58In real life.
09:59Tak adalah hype sangat.
10:00All the time.
10:01Yeah.
10:03I think a lot of people.
10:04Bila.
10:05I mean.
10:06Watching him from TV.
10:07And stuff like that.
10:08Maybe you feel like.
10:09Oh.
10:10Always crazy.
10:11And always hyped.
10:12And always that.
10:13But in real life.
10:14We have a lot of.
10:15Very chill conversations.
10:16Also.
10:17Chill.
10:18Real.
10:19Raw.
10:20Random.
10:21Ada je yang.
10:22Yang sama.
10:23With how he is here lah.
10:24Yeah.
10:25Sometimes I'm at home.
10:26Like babe.
10:27Can you.
10:28Be quiet je.
10:29Shh.
10:30Sometimes I feel like.
10:31I need like.
10:32Lower energy.
10:33And a bit like.
10:34More chill.
10:35So it's nice to have someone.
10:36Like him around.
10:37Yang.
10:38Make you excited to wake up.
10:39Every morning.
10:40You know like.
10:41Make you feel like.
10:42There's.
10:43Passion about life.
10:44Yeah.
10:45And a bit more.
10:46I think you're a lot more fun.
10:47Than I am.
10:48Naturally.
10:49So.
10:50You help me have more fun.
10:51That's good.
10:52Like I'm grumpy.
10:53Till about like.
10:543pm.
10:55You know what I mean.
10:56Me too.
10:57I'm not there yet.
10:58Me too.
10:59I wake up in the morning.
11:00I'm up.
11:01I'm up.
11:02I'm up.
11:03I'm up.
11:04I'm up.
11:05I'm up.
11:06I'm up.
11:07I'm up.
11:08I'm up.
11:09I'm up.
11:10I'm up.
11:11I'm up.
11:12I'm up.
11:13I'm up.
11:14I'm up.
11:15I'm up.
11:16What are some of your favourite things about her.
11:17That.
11:18Made you know.
11:19That she was definitely 100% the one.
11:20The first thing in my mind was like.
11:21Very pure.
11:22Very.
11:23Innocent.
11:24But not innocent in a naive way.
11:25But it's just the innocence of.
11:26Of her you know.
11:27The purity that she.
11:28She has that I see.
11:29try to be and try to deliver
11:31because I believe in this life
11:33in my own religion
11:35what I believe like obviously as a Christian
11:37we want to be more Christ-like
11:39as we can. To me, the closest
11:41example that I can find in real life
11:43was her
11:45If I get her in my life
11:47I feel that
11:49she will help me not just
11:51in this worldly life
11:53but she will help me
11:55to build myself
11:57my own character that I hope God
11:59sees that is
12:01that's what I want
12:03in that sense
12:05So she has to be a teacher
12:07of discipline
12:09This is a question that I think like maybe we found it online
12:11but like what kind of love language
12:13exists between you guys like is he
12:15the kind of like let me get you flowers
12:17or is it more like oh your tires
12:19punctured then let me fix that for you
12:21like what's the
12:23He's a very acts of service kind of person
12:25I think from the start in our relationship
12:27we were like okay let's do all the tests
12:29we're very different
12:31and so I think the one thing about our relationship
12:33is even after 8 years
12:35we're still learning about each other
12:37because there's so much to learn. It's not one of those
12:39relationships that's like
12:41oh you just get me from day one you just get me
12:43no it's been a lot of work put in to
12:45understand each other
12:47so I have to train myself to like okay let me do
12:49do a little bit of something for him today
12:51but for me it's like words
12:53of affirmation and I think for Sean
12:55it doesn't come so naturally in the beginning
12:59so it's a lot of practice
13:01also
13:03my love language is acts of service
13:05if someone does something for me I feel
13:07appreciated and I feel loved
13:09his is words of affirmation
13:11so he needs someone to
13:13encourage him
13:15or quality time
13:17which honestly when he shoots dramas
13:19there's no quality time at all
13:21but he still loves me
13:23so it's like that
13:25the tough part is naturally I'm not
13:27a person that
13:29it's hard for me to express what I feel
13:31because if she needs
13:33words of encouragement, she needs words of affirmation
13:35and that's her love language. I have to learn
13:37to
13:39let loose a little bit and open up
13:41a little bit because I love this person
13:43and this is how he feels love and I have
13:45to do something for him instead
13:47that kind of stuff
13:49so he's a powerful host but
13:51when it comes to giving words, he fails
13:53interesting, his progress improves
13:57just kidding
14:01what is one of the sweetest things he's ever done?
14:03sweetest? I don't know
14:05I can't think of the sweetest right now but
14:07in terms of the one that I feel
14:09grateful for until today
14:11is that like 2 years ago, Sean
14:13bought a smart tag for me for Christmas
14:15and I've always
14:17wanted a smart tag
14:19but I don't want to buy it
14:21for myself
14:23and he surprised me with a smart tag for Christmas
14:25every time I go to Tachenggo, I'm like thanks babe
14:27that's actually really cute
14:29I'm a practical
14:31gifter
14:33I give gifts
14:35that you can use
14:37that you need in your life
14:39and smart tag is one of those
14:41I think it's like, it's cute
14:43it's a little thing
14:45but you can use it everyday
14:47so it's okay
14:49when you're in love, you need to buy expensive things
14:51like a ring, a diamond
14:53just buy it with your heart
14:55this is like practical things
14:57means he listens when I complain
14:59next is to buy her
15:01the NFC card
15:03the NFC Tachenggo one
15:05so that she can reload on the phone
15:07you're just exposing me that I don't update anything
15:11if you want a top up Tachenggo one
15:13I go to the convenience store
15:15I just use my phone
15:17it's easy here
15:19I'm like an auntie
15:21I need someone to teach me
15:23if you want a top up
15:25it's easy here
15:39how did he propose?
15:41you want to tell?
15:45maybe if I had left it up to him
15:47it would have been a big thing
15:49I told Sean
15:51I want something simple
15:53because we've been together for so many years
15:55I just wanted to be on a casual night
15:57where we're hanging out
16:01and that's what you did
16:03basically, right?
16:05but it was not like
16:07there's a lot
16:09let me go through
16:11the whole thing
16:13basically, it happened on a random day
16:15that we both
16:17had work
16:19and then after I finished work
16:21you came to pick me up
16:23I was supposed to pick her up
16:25then we went to eat dinner
16:27then after we ate dinner, he was like
16:29I forgot something at home, I have to go get it
16:31he did some acting
16:33so I was like, let's go
16:35we went back to his house
16:37he was like, you can wait downstairs
16:39I'll go get it
16:41he texted me
16:43can you help me get it
16:45because it's heavy
16:47I went upstairs
16:49he had decorated his whole room with candles
16:51and all that kind of thing
16:53he had a powerpoint presentation
16:55prepared
16:57shocked, but he had a powerpoint presentation
16:59reasons, you should marry me
17:01no, it was
17:03it was like
17:05are you compatible?
17:07how compatible are we to get married?
17:09it went through like
17:11it was like a game
17:13the powerpoint presentation was set up like a game
17:15then you click next
17:17the first question was
17:19can you accept that I'm neat and tidy
17:21the joke is that
17:23in our relationship, I'm the messier one
17:25really?
17:27Sean was very neat
17:29he was like, I have to put it back
17:31I'm the messier one
17:33so he was like, can you accept that I'm neat and tidy
17:35so he made one of those charts
17:37it's giving Y2K
17:39it's giving those teenage 17 magazine
17:41which one are we going to work out or not
17:43the game is good
17:45so I was like, okay, yes, I can accept
17:47we went through all the questions
17:49and I got 100%, so I won
17:51and then at the end, he had the TikTok filter
17:53you know the TikTok filter that has the young you
17:55and then the old me
17:57so he had a TikTok filter of him using the filter
17:59and he was like, will you grow old with me
18:05it's like the Sean-est thing I've ever heard
18:07actually the Sean-est thing
18:09you've ever heard is coming
18:11after that he got down
18:13one knee and he was like
18:15will you marry me?
18:17and then he opened the box and there was no ring in the box
18:19Sean!
18:21and then he was like
18:23obviously my face would have been like
18:25what's going on
18:27and then he was like
18:29where's the ring?
18:31and then he was like looking
18:33and I started panicking
18:35I was like, who are you giving that to?
18:37where is it?
18:39and after that he went
18:41oh, it's here
18:47I was like, don't know how to react
18:49apart from laugh, obviously I said yes
18:51that is like the Sean-est thing
18:53I've ever heard
18:55I just threw in a little magic show
18:57that's so cute
18:59so Sean, designer
19:01of your proposal story, what was the tea?
19:03if you ask me to make it
19:05I've made a flash mob
19:07I've made a balloon
19:09a flying ship, pull it
19:11will you marry me, driving and all
19:13I did that but because the request
19:15was not simple, I was like okay
19:17so I had to prepare everything
19:19before dinner
19:21I set the lighting to be pretty
19:23I made the presentation
19:25rehearsed 2-3 times
19:27I don't know, I felt like
19:29I was doing a big live show
19:31so it was a success
19:33because I felt
19:35there was a point during dinner
19:37I was stuck in my character
19:39after we finished eating
19:41then I was like
19:43can we just go back for a while
19:45because I need to do something
19:47I need to take something from my house
19:49I forgot, this shouldn't happen
19:51I should have taken that
19:53and I felt like I was explaining
19:55myself a bit too much at that point
19:57what is so important in your house
19:59that you need to take?
20:01our house is far
20:03we don't live near each other
20:05so I was like let's go back to the house
20:07she waited downstairs and I went upstairs
20:09that time I was in a hurry, I went into the room
20:11everything was there
20:13I checked the presentation
20:15everything was complete
20:17like a last minute project
20:19I told her
20:21don't come from the front, come from the back
20:23because my room
20:25they have a difference
20:27because if she comes from the front
20:29to my room
20:31she sees everything already
20:33the angle is not pretty
20:35the presentation is not right
20:37the angle is not pretty
20:39the set is like this
20:41it's like our set
20:43it's not pretty
20:45did you film it?
20:47I didn't say the best part of the proposal story
20:49is actually when I opened the door
20:51I went in, there was a sticker
20:53the T mark
20:55for where you're supposed to stand
20:57and I thought it was so cute because
20:59we both work in the industry
21:01so when I see that, I know exactly what I'm supposed to do
21:03I'm supposed to stand there
21:05he gave you a T
21:07I gave her a T mark
21:09make sure you stand here
21:11because the angle is set for here
21:13if you go in
21:15I'm sorry
21:17there's no cameraman to pan
21:19to be honest, I think because it's the both of you
21:21that's actually so cute
21:23because it's you guys
21:25I thought it was my favourite part
21:39guys, a lot of netizens
21:41praised your wedding
21:43it was like watching the prince and the princess
21:45of the story get married at the end
21:47it was beautiful
21:49how was the preparation?
21:51where did these ideas come from?
21:53obviously when we started really planning
21:55I didn't know that I have to make all these decisions
21:57and there was so much to do
21:59but I think the
22:01present ourselves as a couple for the first time
22:03so we wanted it to be fun for our guests
22:05we wanted our guests to get to know us
22:07we wanted our guests to have fun and eat a lot
22:09and we wanted it to feel very personal
22:11so
22:13taking all these things from Pinterest
22:15and trying to put it together
22:17I think our decorator helped a lot also
22:19at least with helping the vision come to life
22:21so that was nice
22:23I feel like I've read
22:25what do you call this theme
22:27for this wedding
22:29or what do you call this style of wedding
22:31and I think at the end of the day
22:33we were just really true to ourselves
22:35this is my vibe, honestly
22:37this is the stuff that I like
22:39especially 10 years down when I look back on these pictures
22:41I know that I stuck to my own decisions
22:43and what I wanted
22:45and it's so in line with who you are
23:01another thing that I thought was also really genius
23:03is one of the really lovely girls
23:05that was like, oh Amelia, you've been selected
23:07and I was like, I'm the chosen one
23:09she's like, here's the digital camera
23:11and I'm like, wow!
23:13and so you guys gave your friends
23:15disposable camera
23:17and some of our guests were in charge of
23:19taking pictures as well
23:21which is so smart
23:23and I looked at the camera and also your names were on it
23:25she designed that sticker
23:27you designed that sticker yourself?
23:29I think 3 days before the wedding
23:31I was panicking
23:33and then I was looking at all these
23:35disposable cameras that I have bought to give out
23:37and I was like, they could be cuter
23:39and so I designed the whole thing
23:41I went to the usual printer that I go to near my house
23:43to get stuff done, I was like, can you print sticker?
23:45please print for me, and then he printed it
23:47and I was like, nice, I paid RM15
23:49I went home, I cut all them out
23:51you did that yourself?
23:53and then Sean was like, are you okay?
23:55I was not
23:57I was stressed
23:59but just so you know, your effort
24:01was really appreciated
24:03we just chill, we just enjoy
24:05whatever happens
24:07but we really wanted our guests to feel happy
24:09and feel comfortable
24:11like they were having fun throughout the night
24:13digitally, I've seen this cake
24:15across every single FYP
24:17all the social media
24:19it was delicious
24:21I'm going to say
24:23it was a really good cake
24:25but it was a beautiful cake, also huge
24:27but it was a beautiful cake, also huge
24:29but also practical, like where did this cake come from?
24:31and
24:33whose idea was it to get the biggest cake I've ever seen in my life?
24:35it's her idea, she wants a big
24:37she wanted a big cake
24:39so everyone can eat it
24:41everyone can enjoy the cake
24:43because usually a wedding cake
24:45is layered
24:47obviously, I've seen this on pinterest
24:49I've seen this online, overseas, people make
24:51really long cakes, or really big cakes
24:53and the moment I saw
24:55the first picture, I was like
24:57this is my cake, because I don't really like eating cake
24:59to be honest
25:01I don't really like eating cake
25:03but when I saw this cake, I was like
25:05it's dry, but most cakes are dry
25:07and we're glad that everyone loves it as much as we loved it
25:09because I honestly
25:11I don't even think I saw the cake that night
25:13did you like to try the cake?
25:15I know we did, but you black out a little
25:17when you're doing, you just cut and then you move on to the next thing
25:19so it was only like the next day
25:21when we're looking online, I was like
25:23this cake was so nice
25:25it was a really nice cake, did you guys get to try it?
25:27yes, we got to take a whole tupperware box home
25:29and then so, after we got home from the wedding
25:31it was like 1am, we were sitting on the floor
25:33like, watching stories, reading comments
25:35eating cake
25:37that's so cute
25:39post mortem about the wedding
25:41you guys were the host of your own wedding
25:43kind of
25:45like you voice recorded
25:47we pre-recorded a bunch of voice overs
25:49when, how, how did you guys
25:51time it, like know what to say
25:53this was Sean's idea, I think Sean wanted
25:55to have fun, and then we decided
25:57like who else should host it
25:59but us, I guess
26:01that is a power move, can you imagine
26:03just like, because you were a host
26:05and you're both creative, like hosting your own
26:07wedding, we were like
26:09we can put the Oscars music in first
26:11yeah, yeah, yeah
26:13the Oscars music
26:15the orchestra, all that
26:17that's when the VO came in
26:19selamat datang tuan-tuan dan puan-puan
26:21blah blah blah, all this kind of stuff
26:23so we did those VO
26:25we recorded it
26:27that's because Sean felt like we wanted people
26:29to relax, and I want to
26:31inject a bit of me in it, so I do my own
26:33VO introductions
26:35and to introduce the dishes
26:37that will come, we use our
26:39like
26:41parents' speech
26:43mother-in-law's speech, my best
26:45man's speech, link
26:47host to link to the next segment
26:49and I think when we host it
26:51you set the tone for the night
26:53so your guests feel a bit casual
26:55we can joke around and play around
26:57actually we want to say thank you to you guys
26:59for allowing us to be a part of this journey
27:01and allowing everyone on that night too
27:03you made it such an inclusive experience, it felt like
27:05I think everyone there felt like
27:07we're like stakeholders in this
27:09relationship now, because we've learned so much about you
27:11and really come on this journey with you guys
27:13thanks guys for sharing and inspiring
27:15thank you! For those of you who want to watch the full
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