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Video Information: 29.09.23, IIT-Madras (Online), Greater Noida
Context:
~ Why do students commit suicide?
~ What harm are pupils suffering from having unrealistic goals?
~ Who is to blame for these suicides?
~ What does true success entail?
~ Why is parental qualification required to raise the kids?
~ Why is inner education crucial for children?
~ Which psychological needs are the most basic?
Music Credits: Milind Date
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Video Information: 29.09.23, IIT-Madras (Online), Greater Noida
Context:
~ Why do students commit suicide?
~ What harm are pupils suffering from having unrealistic goals?
~ Who is to blame for these suicides?
~ What does true success entail?
~ Why is parental qualification required to raise the kids?
~ Why is inner education crucial for children?
~ Which psychological needs are the most basic?
Music Credits: Milind Date
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00:00Hello Acharya ji, I wanted to ask about the recent suicides, multiple suicides which happened
00:09in top institutes of the country, which included our institute as well.
00:14So I wanted to know what is the reason behind these suicides which are occurring in the
00:18country and is it due to societal pressure or academic pressure?
00:24You see, a kid is a very dependent being, very dependent so the kid is heavily exploited.
00:39You tell the kid that your life is worthless if you do not attain such and such goals.
00:50And then you keep the goals so unrealistic and make the competition so severe by telling
01:02the same thing to every kid that practically only 1% can attain the goals they have been
01:13conditioned to attain.
01:15What will happen to the remaining 99%?
01:23One of the most fundamental needs of the mind is to know itself, who am I and why do I exist?
01:33Parents and educators never bother to address this question, let alone answer it satisfactorily.
01:44They let this indirectly, unconsciously supply you with a ready-made and junk answer.
01:52They say you exist to achieve, achieve what?
01:55Stuff that we tell you to achieve.
01:59Who told you that working for some MNC and earning fat dollars is the purpose of life?
02:08Left to yourself, would you have ever come to this conclusion?
02:11Please tell me, any of you?
02:14In fact, left to yourself, most of you would have never bothered to appear for the JEE.
02:23But you have been told that such and such things are non-negotiable.
02:26You need to have these and everybody is telling you the same thing.
02:34And even that would have been alright.
02:37Had you been helped to awaken your own capacity to inquire and know, if that capacity is awakened,
02:52then it does not matter what the entire world is telling you.
02:58Then you can keep everybody's opinion aside and say, I know on my own.
03:03I do not need to believe because I know.
03:10But the constant bombardment of propaganda is accompanied by an equivalent dehumanization
03:22of consciousness.
03:26Your consciousness is turned mechanical and animal, dehumanized.
03:32So these two things happen in tandem.
03:34One, you are told what things are all about.
03:38Secondly, you are actively discouraged from knowing on your own.
03:46If you know on your own, then you become some kind of a renegade, unacceptable, an uncontrollable
03:55rebel or something who needs to be straightened.
04:03So now the fellow comes and he has been given impossible targets to achieve.
04:14And he has been told if he does not achieve those targets, then life is meaningless.
04:22Some of them buckle, very sadly.
04:28All links in any chain do not carry the same strength.
04:32There are weak links, right?
04:35If you put undue pressure on the ends of the chain, some link will break.
04:42The fault does not belong to the link.
04:45You must question those who put the pressure.
04:58Great talent, great talent and what is that talent being told to do?
05:03That talent is being told, you know, you go somewhere and write code, random code.
05:12And if that random code is for one of the top companies, then you are successful.
05:18What success is there in this?
05:22Somebody is being told you go and work in a bank and you just do data all your day.
05:28What success is there in this?
05:30Had you not been being paid those big dollars, would you ever choose this kind of work?
05:36Please tell me.
05:42What success is there in all this?
05:45Somebody is selling shoes after doing computer science B.Tech from IIT Madras.
05:50What success is there in this?
05:53It's just that the company is a footwear giant, MNC footwear giant.
06:06And then you take pride.
06:08You don't take pride.
06:09Your parents take pride.
06:11Your parents take pride and the entire society takes pride.
06:16And then a few girls can come to you or their parents rather.
06:25The fellow is earning so, you know, how about a match?
06:32From all the directions, the message that is coming to you is there is this particular
06:38definition of success.
06:41And if you cannot measure up to it, then life is not worth living.
06:50Some of our friends, unfortunately, take it very literally.
06:55They say if life is not worth living, why should we anyway continue living at all?
07:00You could say they are more logical than the rest of us.
07:07Everybody has to be fixed.
07:13Everybody who has been continuously teaching you that life exists just for the sake of
07:18material gratification is the culprit.
07:22Catch him.
07:25Justice needs to be done.
07:27Otherwise, this kind of trend will continue.
07:29It's not just about your campus.
07:31It's happening everywhere.
07:38Pressure by itself might not be necessarily a bad thing.
07:41But pressure for such nonsense?
07:46One fellow gave up his life because his elder brother was a super achiever.
07:52The elder brother was actually from an IIT.
07:54This fellow did not manage into an IIT.
07:56He was at some other place and there too he was not getting the desired kind of job offers.
08:05He quit.
08:07On one hand, I commiserate with the parents.
08:10On the other hand, one needs to have a straight word with them.
08:19What exactly are you feeding your kids on?
08:24Do most parents even deserve to be called parents?
08:29For any small project, you require at least some qualification.
08:36But for the project of raising a kid, you require zero qualification.
08:41All you need is, you know, one night of physical encounter.
08:48And then you say, I am a father and she is a mother and the two of us are qualified to
08:52raise the kid.
08:53How exactly are you qualified to raise the kid?
09:02This is nothing but symptomatic of a society where inner education is considered dispensable.
09:11Where we say that if you teach the student in history, geography, maths, science and
09:19the languages, that is sufficient.
09:22The student does not need to be given education in life, education of the self.
09:28That is not necessary.
09:30If that is not necessary, this will be the outcome and sadly this outcome might keep
09:37getting repeated.
09:41And that inner education, mind you, cannot come just naturally from the family or somewhere.
09:50Just as you require experts, professors to teach you maths and physics, similarly you
09:56require experts to deliver life education.
10:02If that is not there, then the mind will remain very cluttered, very confused and ultimately
10:10sometimes suicidal.
10:15What a wastage!
10:20And what makes the wastage worse is that the lives of those, even those who survive are
10:29rendered waste.
10:31We talked about the fellow who is working in a footwear MNC, post is electrical engineering.
10:40Why should that not be considered an equal wastage of life or the fellow who decides
10:48to sell fizzy drinks?
10:52If you look at the IIMs, for example, they attract a lot of crowd from the IITs and what
10:59do these ITNs do passing out from the IIMs?
11:04Somebody is selling fizzy drinks, somebody is selling home loans, that's an equal wastage.
11:17But we don't want to talk of that.
11:19We talk of that as gainful employment.
11:21In fact, we gloat over that.
11:24We say this is heroic.
11:28My journey has attained a three crore package and that sometimes comes to the newspapers
11:36as well.
11:43That should indeed come to the newspapers as a thing of tragedy, not as a matter of
11:50celebration.